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FULL SHOW: Off-Limits Thanksgiving Topics, Strawberry Letter: My Success Is Intimidating - 11.20.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 1: At all at all.
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  Speaker 3: So don't given a black million bus boozy.
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  Speaker 1: Listening to me to show.
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  Speaker 3: I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you got to do that.
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  Speaker 1: Got to turn the mouth, turn the probably, got to
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  Speaker 1: turn the mouth, turn out, turn.
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  Speaker 2: The water the money up looking.
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  Speaker 5: Come come on, you'll think that, I sure will. Good
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  Speaker 5: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on,
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  Speaker 5: dig me now one and only uh huh. Steve Harby
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  Speaker 5: Man got a radio show.
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  Speaker 2: M here I do.
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  Speaker 5: Man. God been so good to me over the years,
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  Speaker 5: in spite of all the mistakes I've made, in spite
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  Speaker 5: of all the dirt I've done to myself. I'm talking
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  Speaker 5: about went in knowing I was wrong. His grace and
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  Speaker 5: mercy has forgiven me for all of my sins. God
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  Speaker 5: can forgive you of all of your sins. Everything you've done,
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  Speaker 5: God can forgive you. He can wipe your slate clean. Now,
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  Speaker 5: might you might have some you know, things you got
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  Speaker 5: to deal with because of some of your actions. Understand that,
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  Speaker 5: But you can wipe your slates. You can wipe your
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  Speaker 5: slate clean with God and start again. You can repent.
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  Speaker 5: God has mercy and grace. You could be forgiven by God.
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  Speaker 5: Now people, AD's another story. Some people may never forgive
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  Speaker 5: you for you've heard them, or or maybe they accusing
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  Speaker 5: you of doing something else. But you know they may
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  Speaker 5: never forgive you. But God, God is in the redemption
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  Speaker 5: business man. God will forgive you for every sin you've
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  Speaker 5: ever committed. But you gotta want forgiveness now and then
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  Speaker 5: you got to come correct because what you can't do
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  Speaker 5: is you can't shoot him the crap. Now, you can
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  Speaker 5: say that conversation with him. You know, whatever you told
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  Speaker 5: your lawyer, whatever you told the victims, whatever you told,
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  Speaker 5: whatever the story is you got going, if it ain't
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  Speaker 5: the truth, you can say that with God, because please know,
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  Speaker 5: he know, and he know your heart. He know if
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  Speaker 5: you're trying to manipulate somebody just for the system, if
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  Speaker 5: you're trying to say this just so you can get out,
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  Speaker 5: He know all of that. So if you're planning on
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  Speaker 5: shucking him and driving him, save your earth before you
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  Speaker 5: wind up digging yourself in a deeper hole. Just let
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  Speaker 5: me give you that piece of advice. Because he ain't
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  Speaker 5: nothing to play with. He's too great to be played with.
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  Speaker 5: And so with that in mind, I want to share
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  Speaker 5: some positive stuff with you this morning.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 2: I want to say this. I want to remind you
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  Speaker 2: not to let your circumstance and your situations dictate your
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  Speaker 2: future or your results. I'm gonna say this again. This
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  Speaker 2: is important information. Man.
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  Speaker 5: Don't let your circumstance and situations dictate your future or
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  Speaker 5: your results. Do you know that in order to get
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  Speaker 5: a different future or some different results, you control that
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  Speaker 5: entire situation.
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  Speaker 2: It is you. It is your thoughts that control the
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  Speaker 2: entire situation.
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  Speaker 5: It is how you look at the situation that will
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  Speaker 5: determine how the situation is for you. See, the same
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  Speaker 5: situation can be told different for two different people, because
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  Speaker 5: you can say you look at the examples of history, just.
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  Speaker 2: Just look look in your neighborhood. How can There was.
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  Speaker 5: A book that a guy wrote one time who had
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  Speaker 5: the name. He had a name, and he did some
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  Speaker 5: research and he found a god that grew up at
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  Speaker 5: the same age in the same neighborhood as him, with
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  Speaker 5: the exact same name. He went on to become a
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  Speaker 5: corporate ceo. The other man was an inmate, and they
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  Speaker 5: had the same name. Grew up in the same neighborhood.
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  Speaker 5: They were both brothers, you know not, I'm just saying
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  Speaker 5: brothers men. And they grew and they went two different
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  Speaker 5: Because how can two different two people the same situation
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  Speaker 5: and the results turn out so different. It is because
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  Speaker 5: of the thought process of one was completely different from
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  Speaker 5: the thought process of the other.
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  Speaker 2: You control it.
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  Speaker 5: You don't have to let your circumstances and your situations
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  Speaker 5: dictate your future or your results. Here's the way it works.
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  Speaker 5: This is so you can understand this. Your mind is
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  Speaker 5: the controlling factor of your thoughts. Your thoughts are the
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  Speaker 5: controlling factor of your outcome. The Bible says a man
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  Speaker 5: is as he thinketh. Please don't short play this scripture here,
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  Speaker 5: because this one is the real deal. This is the
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  Speaker 5: basis of every self improvement book you'll ever read. It's
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  Speaker 5: already written in the Bible. The Bible has all the
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  Speaker 5: information you need. But in case you need a little
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  Speaker 5: bit of clarity in some simple modern day language, then
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  Speaker 5: they have self improvement books.
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  Speaker 2: They are all based on Biblical scripture. A man is
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  Speaker 2: as he thinketh.
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  Speaker 5: That's why Norman Vincent Peelee wrote the book The Power
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  Speaker 5: of Positive Thinking. That's why a book came out called
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  Speaker 5: The Magic of Thinking Big. That's why a book came
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  Speaker 5: out called Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon heell all
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  Speaker 5: of you. All these titles that I've read that have
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  Speaker 5: mattered in my life the most, These three major books
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  Speaker 5: that I've read, they all say one thing. Think, thinking thoughts,
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  Speaker 5: because that's what controls the outcome. Your brain works one
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  Speaker 5: of two ways. It works positive or negative. It works good,
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  Speaker 5: which is under the column of positive, or to work evil,
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  Speaker 5: which is under the column of negative. It will have faith,
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  Speaker 5: which is under the column of positive, or you will
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  Speaker 5: operate in fear, which is in the column of negative.
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  Speaker 2: That is the only way your mind works.
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  Speaker 5: Your mind is a factory that's comprised of workers. Those
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  Speaker 5: workers are controlled by two foremans, forming positive and forming negative.
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  Speaker 5: But guess what the CEO of the company, the headman,
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  Speaker 5: the boss is you. You come to work in the
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  Speaker 5: morning and you say, man, today is a great day.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to take steps towards brightening my future. I'm
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  Speaker 5: going to take another step into making that dream come
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  Speaker 5: true that I've been thinking about. I'm gonna take another
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  Speaker 5: step forward in the development and the changing of my life.
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  Speaker 5: In a positive, good direction. If you come to work
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  Speaker 5: and say that every day as the CEO the boss,
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  Speaker 5: the foremans can only obey you, so that what you
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  Speaker 5: just said was a series of positive statements, then forming
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  Speaker 5: positive steps to the forefront. He said, I got your
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  Speaker 5: boss right away. He turns around, He blows the whistle
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  Speaker 5: sh He alerts all the workers in the factory. Today
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  Speaker 5: is a good day. Today we will take steps towards
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  Speaker 5: our future. Today we are putting ourselves on track to
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  Speaker 5: get a little bit closer to making our dreams come true.
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  Speaker 5: Today we will be assembling all the things we need
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  Speaker 5: to make our dreams come true.
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  Speaker 2: In our life, life better in the right direction. Everybody break.
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  Speaker 5: The workers in the factory turn around and manufacture thoughts
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  Speaker 5: to justify the orders given by the boss, which is you.
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  Speaker 5: You are the CEO of your corporation. If you don't
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  Speaker 5: own nothing else, you own everything that's going on between
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  Speaker 5: your two ears. You are the CEO of that corporation.
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  Speaker 5: If that corporation is a good one, it's because you
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  Speaker 5: set it up that way. If your corporation is a
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  Speaker 5: bad one, it's because you set it up that day.
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  Speaker 5: If you try and if you pushing towards your dreams,
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  Speaker 5: and you see the possibility of things happening in your
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  Speaker 5: life is because you, as the CEO, set it up
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  Speaker 5: that way. If you ain't got nothing popping, if you
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  Speaker 5: just want to be a criminal taking stuff from people,
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  Speaker 5: throwing your life out the window, you're gonna be an inmate.
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  Speaker 5: You're gonna be sitting there there, and you're gonna be
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  Speaker 5: mad at everybody. You't got nobody be mad at. But
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  Speaker 5: you you understand what I'm telling you this morning?
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen, Another blessing, another let's just call it
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  Speaker 5: what it is. Another miracle has occurred. Another miracle has occurred.
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  Speaker 5: You are partaking in a miracle. Well, see what miracle
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  Speaker 5: you talking about? The miraculousness of a new day, the
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  Speaker 5: simple amazement that God has done it again and again
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  Speaker 5: and again so often that you consider it common.
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  Speaker 2: It's nothing but a miracle. Who else do you know?
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  Speaker 5: Let me let me just clear it. Who do you
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  Speaker 5: know make the sun come up? Give me a name,
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  Speaker 5: what organization group? Give me what committee gets the sun
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  Speaker 5: up every day?
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  Speaker 7: Being?
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  Speaker 5: Let me tell you who it is, God Lord, God
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  Speaker 5: Almighty the only one that can do it. That is miraculous.
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  Speaker 5: You's a bad man, boy if you can do that
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  Speaker 5: every day. So let's give thanks, Anna and credit where
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  Speaker 5: it belonged. Y'all, this ain't about you. Steve Hart, Marty Show,
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  Speaker 5: Sheldon Strawberry calling for real Mississippi, Monica Junior and the
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  Speaker 5: legend of Nephew Tommy Junr.
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  Speaker 8: Hey Man, Can I just say this, uncle man?
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  Speaker 9: Last night, I had the privilege of hosting the event
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  Speaker 9: last night for your foundation, for the Steve Martin Hardy Foundations.
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  Speaker 2: Can I just say say thank you for that? Sir.
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  Speaker 8: You doing a lot, brother, You're really doing a lot. Brother.
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  Speaker 8: You really into changing lives. You really believe in that, brother,
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  Speaker 8: you believe in it.
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  Speaker 9: When I saw them kids talk about what that foundation
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  Speaker 9: mean to them on it wasn't I was up there crying.
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  Speaker 8: I'm older than them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm crying.
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  Speaker 2: The kids is man.
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  Speaker 8: When that boy said I'm gonna be somebody's husband one
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  Speaker 8: day and he.
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  Speaker 1: Thirteen, Wow, yeah, wow, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Is that what your teaching?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We go into that two things.
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  Speaker 5: How to be a man, a real man, the principles
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  Speaker 5: of manhood, and number two, how to make your dreams
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  Speaker 5: come true.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's what the whole program is about.
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  Speaker 5: If you can get a young boy and a girl
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  Speaker 5: locked in on them two things, you've accomplished something. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: because you're gonna be somebody's husband one day. So what
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  Speaker 5: why don't you start preparing yourself for the day when
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  Speaker 5: you gotta When you gotta put that crown on Junior,
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  Speaker 5: you a husband, Tommy, you a husband.
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  Speaker 2: When you put that crown on, man, that crown heavy,
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  Speaker 2: man can wear it.
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  Speaker 5: And here the thing about the crown, Man, you don't
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  Speaker 5: get taken off. You get to set it down on
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  Speaker 5: the nice stand.
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  Speaker 2: You don't.
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  Speaker 5: That's that's why you That's why you got to toss
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  Speaker 5: and turn at night, because you don't get to take
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  Speaker 5: it off. You got to sleep in that crown sometime,
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  Speaker 5: that crown cut. So yeah, man, we get into it
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  Speaker 5: with them boys. I just good man, I'm stop standing.
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  Speaker 5: I'm proud of the good God is good man, God God.
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  Speaker 5: Your career is what you're paid for. Your calling is
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  Speaker 5: what you're made for.
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  Speaker 1: Right man, When you.
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  Speaker 2: Host the last night, did you we hat you what
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  Speaker 2: you heard on?
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  Speaker 1: Why is that we gotta go?
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  Speaker 10: We gotta go coming up at thirty two minutes after
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  Speaker 10: the hour, we'll hear from the nephew as he runs
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  Speaker 10: that prank back. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey
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  Speaker 10: Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to find the
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  Speaker 10: right gifts, but you know it's even harder getting the
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  Speaker 10: your local Verizon. It is time now for the nephew
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  Speaker 10: to run that prank back. WI you got for us
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  Speaker 10: neph today. You want to run it back, run it back?
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  Speaker 7: I will run it back. This is Auntie Deborah K.
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  Speaker 7: Auntie Deborah K. You know you Auntie got had that's
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  Speaker 7: a good aunt tie name. What's what's what's some aunties
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  Speaker 7: y'all got? It's got their good name? Auntie Deborah K.
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  Speaker 1: Dying dying. I used to have one.
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  Speaker 2: Beatrice by who's on a damn aunt sash Man aunt
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  Speaker 2: Ruby I had real aunts. Yeah, good people. You sound
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  Speaker 2: like she could cook.
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  Speaker 1: Loretta and Loretto.
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  Speaker 7: All right, this right here is Auntie Deborah k let's
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  Speaker 7: go cat dog give you would.
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  Speaker 2: Speak? Let me tell you some of you. My name
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  Speaker 2: is Wayne.
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  Speaker 7: You did my auntie's hair yesterday. And now I don't
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  Speaker 7: know what you did. I don't know what kind of
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  Speaker 7: glue you'd used with weaves or whatever. But my auntie
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  Speaker 7: hadn't fell out in church today.
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  Speaker 5: I don't.
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  Speaker 11: I don't even use because I don't even know why
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  Speaker 11: you're coming at me on the side him anyway about
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  Speaker 11: your auntie, my.
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  Speaker 2: Aunt My auntie is Deborah, and I have felt like.
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  Speaker 11: Juice glue up and so that since nineteen ninety two.
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  Speaker 2: You come coming that means.
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  Speaker 7: Some glue on glue po pull you think you tripping
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  Speaker 7: with Look, let me tell you.
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  Speaker 2: Look, let me say this to you all.
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  Speaker 11: I'm saying you gotta say. You gotta say it because
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  Speaker 11: I'm serious about my heart. You coming at me with
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  Speaker 11: some glue. It's not for some glob be that nothing
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  Speaker 11: on the side of your age.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's what happened.
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  Speaker 7: And I have fell off in service, and all the
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  Speaker 7: church members and sitting there laughing now.
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  Speaker 11: But she shouldn't have been. Maybe she's trying to get
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  Speaker 11: the devil out of them because she ain't no business
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  Speaker 11: shouting hard anyway. But I don't switch double glove.
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  Speaker 7: You ain't in the city and talk about my ain't it?
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  Speaker 7: And Jesus, don't you talk about how she shouted.
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  Speaker 11: I don't even know that.
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  Speaker 6: Glue.
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  Speaker 2: They call her miss del Brook.
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  Speaker 11: I don't know no Miss del Brook.
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  Speaker 7: She just got her hair done from you yesterday. How
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  Speaker 7: you gonna sit here and act like you ain't cutting yesterday?
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  Speaker 11: God, you're just saying blue count. Come tell him be
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  Speaker 11: a real woman and common me. Tell me mistake made?
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  Speaker 11: Because I don't have no and I ain't use no good.
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell everybody in Atlanta jeorgan not to come
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  Speaker 7: to your house.
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  Speaker 11: Wait, wait a minute? Wait what minute? You wait one minute?
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  Speaker 11: That's my livelihood? Why I don't need you?
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  Speaker 6: What is this you?
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  Speaker 2: My name is Wayne?
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  Speaker 7: Why?
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  Speaker 11: Look here, Waite?
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  Speaker 2: I know you know Wayne, but you you.
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  Speaker 11: I got her brother named Big Jay, and he bringing
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  Speaker 11: bring out Bringwayne.
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  Speaker 2: Look, look, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 7: I don't want no problem, but I will throw these
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  Speaker 7: hands if I got you what they ain't.
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  Speaker 11: Gonna throw them. Look here, look here, I ain't got
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  Speaker 11: time to tell you. Ain't it whatever? Ain't some mistake
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  Speaker 11: and whatn't it?
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  Speaker 7: Now?
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  Speaker 11: Look, you don't got me out here on good Sunday.
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  Speaker 11: I just came from church. It's hot as hell, and
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  Speaker 11: you're telling me about blue. You ain't got no joy
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  Speaker 11: got you today?
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  Speaker 7: Do?
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  Speaker 11: I't got nothing to do.
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  Speaker 7: I got to find out why my ain't and half
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  Speaker 7: falling out in church?
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  Speaker 6: And ain't me so.
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  Speaker 11: Called somebody else in that land? Because I'm I am
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  Speaker 11: the hated two.
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  Speaker 2: Well you ain't you?
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  Speaker 7: You must not be in right now? You got people
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  Speaker 7: hair falling out in church and glue fallowing all off
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  Speaker 7: on the pews.
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  Speaker 11: Ain't y'all ain't the podlely glue her? Honest? And that's
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  Speaker 11: only why it fell like I'm gonna tell you what now,
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  Speaker 11: I'm the horhest silence in that laughter. So I don't
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  Speaker 11: know who know, deblty. Ain't nobody if I ain't say
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  Speaker 11: I ain't doing half? I don't some half? You go
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  Speaker 11: in and everybody in Atlanta Dad say the same thing.
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  Speaker 7: Look, all I'm saying is you to mess up my
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  Speaker 7: ain't and hair. I wanna get it rectified. I need
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  Speaker 7: you first of all to call and apologize to her.
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  Speaker 2: I apologize.
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  Speaker 11: I'm gonna roast show you and drinking on some Jesus
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  Speaker 11: juice with y'all ain't and that's why you wasn't Michael
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  Speaker 11: Jackson and y'all ain't a devil seats to you or
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  Speaker 11: whatever her name is.
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  Speaker 7: Look, let me tell you first of all, you go,
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  Speaker 7: you'll go respect my ain't.
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  Speaker 11: Okay, whatever you say her name is.
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  Speaker 7: If I put up, I want you to redo my
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  Speaker 7: ain't and half for free and give her her money
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  Speaker 7: back from the first time she paid you.
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  Speaker 11: I don't know who this old. I don't know who
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  Speaker 11: this I don't know who you are. I'm Wayne, you
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  Speaker 11: coming way, ain't look you Wayne.
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna go ahead.
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  Speaker 11: I'm gonna hang up in your face.
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  Speaker 3: Now hold up.
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  Speaker 2: I'm Jeffer nephew. Wayne. Nah, I ain't fIF two years old.
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  Speaker 7: Now, if you ain't gonna respect your elders, how you
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  Speaker 7: expect to be blessed?
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  Speaker 2: You say you just went to church this month.
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  Speaker 11: See that's the problem. You calling me on Sunday with
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  Speaker 11: some got me cutting like this. Now I gotta go.
• 19:32
  Speaker 6: I'm with my past.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: I got one more thing I need to say to
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: you before I get off the phone.
• 19:38
  Speaker 11: What you got to say because you wasted one minutes.
• 19:41
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• 19:45
  Speaker 2: You just got brank from your girlfriend.
• 19:51
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• 19:57
  Speaker 4: Get me.
• 20:01
  Speaker 7: Your girl told me, she said, trust me going off the.
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  Speaker 2: Third twelve second.
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  Speaker 11: Know what it is if you tell me.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Hey, baby, let man, you don't do no, you don't
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: do no glue.
• 20:24
  Speaker 7: No, I don't know glue.
• 20:25
  Speaker 11: I don't I don't tell you no glue.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: It's too.
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  Speaker 7: All right baby, ain't nobody, ain't nobody half fell out
• 20:35
  Speaker 7: of church and that you still they say you the
• 20:37
  Speaker 7: bomb down there. So I just wanted to call and
• 20:39
  Speaker 7: make sure I prank my girl. She the one, all
• 20:48
  Speaker 7: right baby, answer one thing from it? What is the
• 20:50
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  Speaker 2: And ladies and gentlemen, you have it.
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  Speaker 7: There you go, all right, be back in another hour,
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  Speaker 7: same stupid don't turn the channel.
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  Speaker 2: Ti'm it gonna be right here.
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  Speaker 10: Just Yesessey promise, I'm not in the guarantee not change
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  Speaker 10: my stripes.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do it. Look where it's got me.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: That was a question.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: That's good, all right, all right, thank you NEV.
• 21:28
  Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO or Chief
• 21:31
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• 21:34
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• 21:41
  Speaker 4: Christmas is a time for joy, and joy is most
• 21:43
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  Speaker 10: Org coming up at the top of the hour. In
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  Speaker 10: Entertainment news and trending headline news, President Trump insults yet
• 22:18
  Speaker 10: another female reporter. This time around he called her piggy
• 22:23
  Speaker 10: while they were a board Air Force one.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: Geez yeah.
• 22:29
  Speaker 10: Legendary singer performer Smokey Robinson is facing new sexual battery
• 22:34
  Speaker 10: charges and accusations, I should say, And the halftime show
• 22:39
  Speaker 10: entertainment has been announced for the Thanksgiving Day NFL games.
• 22:42
  Speaker 10: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
• 22:45
  Speaker 10: of the hour, but right now it is time to ask,
• 22:48
  Speaker 10: please do the clo.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: You don't care about the Super Bowl. I don't know
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: that was a thing. Yeah, I think you're trying to
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: make it a thing now?
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: What halftime at it? Thanksgiving? Thanksgiving? Dame man, I don't
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: I care about that? When you go get another plate?
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 23:13
  Speaker 10: Ready, Colo, Yes, all right? Angel and Philly Wrights. I
• 23:17
  Speaker 10: danced for six years and I met my husband in
• 23:19
  Speaker 10: the strip club. We've been married for twenty two years.
• 23:23
  Speaker 10: Our daughter turned twenty one and decided she wants to dance.
• 23:27
  Speaker 10: I think because it's glorified in movies, and she knows
• 23:30
  Speaker 10: that I fell in love with her daddy when I
• 23:32
  Speaker 10: was a dancer.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: How do I discourage her from doing what I did?
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: Wow?
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Well, why don't you?
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: Why don't you show her the dark side of that business?
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: Because it is a dark side to that business. You know,
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: it's a dark side to that business. And she would
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: be I mean, I ain't never been a stripper, Bud, Yeah,
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: you know it don't look it just don't look like no.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Times I went it's not for me now enjoying myself, yes,
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: but it's.
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: Not for me.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: One more time, did you enjoy yourself?
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Yes, but it's not it ain't for me here.
• 24:17
  Speaker 5: Because you know, it's sort of crazy, man, because I
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: be feeling sorry for the people, the women, because you
• 24:25
  Speaker 5: know why you got yourself out here like this for
• 24:27
  Speaker 5: some money? You ain't You ain't got no dreams, no visions.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: And you see it.
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: Most women that come off the pole don't come off
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: the pole with a husband.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well she's angel and Philly did so.
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: Well.
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: Most people don't come off the cold with a husband.
• 24:47
  Speaker 5: Just tell her the dark side, yeah, yeah.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: And they make a lot of money, don't They don't that.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: Your body is abused.
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: It ain't that much. You see all that money on
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: the floor, ain't yours, y'all? Yeah, this is a side.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is. They see the money.
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: There's some pipping going on as some strip clubs. There's
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: some prostitution going on at some strip clubs. It's a
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: lot of drug abuse going on at the strip club.
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: It's all's in him, not a bed of roses, you know, no, man,
• 25:21
  Speaker 5: it's some dark side.
• 25:22
  Speaker 10: So teller, all right, Moving on to Denise in Kansas City,
• 25:27
  Speaker 10: Denise writes, early in our relationship, my new guy told
• 25:30
  Speaker 10: me that his deceased wife loved orchids. So yesterday, when
• 25:34
  Speaker 10: he sent a big orchid to my job, I told
• 25:37
  Speaker 10: him to pick another flower next time.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I heard his feelings. Why would he think I wanted
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: an orchid?
• 25:45
  Speaker 5: Well, he he just since it was a favorite, favorite flyer.
• 25:51
  Speaker 5: He thought maybe some women like orchids.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: Women love orchids.
• 25:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, beautiful, But you know, well he tell her about
• 26:00
  Speaker 7: the ocus from the past, that that's the stupid part.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: The man, I know what you're gonna say.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I already know what all honesty about, what is?
• 26:15
  Speaker 10: What is?
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: We're here fall You're not gonna have nothing with all
• 26:20
  Speaker 5: this stop?
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, get her Rod, Stop pulling your heart out out?
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: What do you hear you like?
• 26:31
  Speaker 11: Yeah?
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: Some people do like honesty, though, Steve, some people.
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: That everybody like honesty till they hear.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: What did you hear yourself? You said, stop pouring your
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: heart out?
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: Did you?
• 26:46
  Speaker 11: Well?
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Hey, open communication is overrated.
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: God, you gotta waiting man stuff to yourself?
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: What what you just want to surface relationship? Nothing deep?
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: No, you could tell some deep stuff how you felt
• 27:06
  Speaker 5: when you lost your mama. Now you got to go
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: into that how you feel about children, the things you
• 27:13
  Speaker 5: love about her? You you go all that is good?
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: Everything quick? Talking about what your dead wife liked.
• 27:24
  Speaker 7: Now, what other plants could he buy? He could bought
• 27:26
  Speaker 7: some dandelions? What I mean he could nobody won't no dandelion?
• 27:35
  Speaker 7: Orcand had he not told what your orchid?
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're the probably like.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: That plant if you hadn't a told the story.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's shut up quick bringing up.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: Stop that talking about your dead wife.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, moving on.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know you are hurt, and I don't want
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: to hear about it.
• 28:05
  Speaker 10: Moving on to Maurice and Albany, Maurice writes, I was
• 28:10
  Speaker 10: out with my cousin and a woman came over and
• 28:13
  Speaker 10: bought me a drink. She said I was fine, and
• 28:16
  Speaker 10: I look like I'm a good lover. I'm married. But
• 28:19
  Speaker 10: I played along until she asked me to have sex
• 28:22
  Speaker 10: that same night. It scared me, so I stopped talking
• 28:26
  Speaker 10: to her. Why are some women willing to degrade themselves
• 28:29
  Speaker 10: like this?
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Hey, bro, bro, you need to stop.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: What's he lying about?
• 28:37
  Speaker 6: Bro?
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: I played along until she wanted to have six that night.
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: That's where he drew the line, and he gonna write
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: a letter in why do women degrade they self?
• 28:51
  Speaker 10: Like that?
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: She just told you she thought you was.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Fine, fine, because you're fine, baby, And that he looked
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: like he was a good lover. She said that too.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Can you tell that by looking at someone really? Perhaps
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: what they do?
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you one thing. I thought it at
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: least ninety eight.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Is there one thing that you look for ever.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Moment I've ever dated or walked up to? That's what
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: I was thinking.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: If not, I'll just make the most of it.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: If she ain't gonna look good laying now?
• 29:38
  Speaker 10: But is there one thing that you you know, one
• 29:41
  Speaker 10: thing that makes you tell be able to tell if
• 29:45
  Speaker 10: somebody is a good lover?
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Because how do you know by just looking at them?
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: I can't. I can't let that out.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Or your formula.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: You can looking at me a tale? I know you can.
• 30:03
  Speaker 6: What is this? What was that?
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: Laugh?
• 30:06
  Speaker 7: What is that.
• 30:09
  Speaker 9: Hard?
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: You can't look at me too, Tommy. I'll tell you
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: one thing.
• 30:17
  Speaker 7: You know?
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: When I look at you, I know right off? You stupid?
• 30:21
  Speaker 8: Coming on?
• 30:23
  Speaker 7: Well?
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Some entertains for you? What's not laughing?
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: This show is funny? You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:37
  Speaker 10: Musical Icon that Smokey Robinson has yet another person accusing
• 30:42
  Speaker 10: him of sexual battery slash assault. This time it's a man, though,
• 30:47
  Speaker 10: who is accusing Smoky of trying to put his hand
• 30:50
  Speaker 10: on his private parts. According to Tamz, the accuser cleaned
• 30:54
  Speaker 10: and detailed Smoky's cars back in twenty thirteen. During this
• 30:57
  Speaker 10: alleged incident, Smokey walked outside and just his underwear and
• 31:01
  Speaker 10: made sexual gestures towards the man, and then grabbed his
• 31:04
  Speaker 10: hand and tried to force him to touch his private area.
• 31:08
  Speaker 10: The man said he was fired after the incident. The
• 31:10
  Speaker 10: accuser is now the sixth person to file against Smoky.
• 31:15
  Speaker 10: According to Yahoo dot com, Smokey's lawyer released a statement
• 31:18
  Speaker 10: that read, in part quote, the new complainants are part
• 31:22
  Speaker 10: of the same group conspiring against the Robinsons. He said
• 31:25
  Speaker 10: that they're laying out these allegations for publicity.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: That's what he said.
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: The lawyer, Yeah, huh, yeah, So that's about I've known
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: Smoky for years, you know not.
• 31:36
  Speaker 5: Here's what I will say if any of this turns
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: out to be false. This is just me saying, let's
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: say that nobody validates it. And it goes away. No proof,
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: lack of proof, no evidence.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: We hope it's false, right, absolutely?
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: What happened to them people right there?
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: See that's what I want to know, because see, when
• 31:58
  Speaker 5: you go at a person and I'm not claiming guilt
• 32:02
  Speaker 5: or innocence here, y'all, so don't don't understand that. But
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: if you go after person to shake him down for
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: some money and the shakedown don't work, something need to
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: happen to.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: You for false allegation, yeah, because you.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Know, you just can't go cuting in him now. Now,
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: this man's reputation is suffering.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's on he was on tour and everything. Yeah,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: all right.
• 32:28
  Speaker 5: I can't see smoking coming outside in his drawers. Why
• 32:32
  Speaker 5: you get why you're washing his car?
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I can't see it, and I don't want to see it.
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: It don't look like you get a lot of sun,
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: you know, old pale dude coming outside drawl.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: Past ain't tight?
• 32:54
  Speaker 7: You know what.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: Elastic about?
• 33:06
  Speaker 8: You?
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Remember the fruit of loons.
• 33:07
  Speaker 5: We used to wear the hat them for a long time,
• 33:09
  Speaker 5: and the thighs ain't tight no more. Remember Remember remember
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: when you wash them and then the thighs don't be
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: tight no more.
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: That's a hard underwear right there.
• 33:20
  Speaker 10: So did you make up your mind this morning? You're
• 33:22
  Speaker 10: just gonna be ignorant today. Just come to work and
• 33:25
  Speaker 10: just well, you know, Tommy inspired me. You know you said,
• 33:28
  Speaker 10: you know, you can look at me and tell he
• 33:33
  Speaker 10: started it. In other news, have you guys seen this
• 33:39
  Speaker 10: viral clip of President Trump pointing at a female reporter.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: They were on the Air Force one and he told
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: her quiet, piggy. Did you see that? My diets?
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: Piggy, Hey, listen to me. On any job you have
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: in this thank you.
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: Any job if a person is talking in a meeting
• 33:59
  Speaker 5: and you turn around and you call the woman piggy,
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: I don't care what job in America, You're not gonna
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: have that job. Yeah.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: In fact that we don't hold him accountable for nothing.
• 34:12
  Speaker 7: He does.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Speaks volumes for the morality of this country.
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: The fact that he is president speaks volumes to the
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: morality of this country. You have overlooked the sexual assault charges,
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: the thirty four convictions, you've overlooked all the lies, you've
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: overlooked everything he did that was wrong and still voted
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: him in. That speaks to the morality of this country.
• 34:42
  Speaker 10: Wow, her name is Catherine Lucy, and she's with Bloomberg.
• 34:46
  Speaker 10: According to multiple medial media outlets, watch this.
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: Right here, watching surely talking right, surely get through talking and.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Cut her off.
• 34:58
  Speaker 10: Actually he didn't even let like I just did you yeah,
• 35:01
  Speaker 10: uh huh he cut her off. She asked the president
• 35:04
  Speaker 10: a question about the Jeffrey Epstein files. She said, quote,
• 35:07
  Speaker 10: if there's nothing incriminating, incriminating in the files, sir, why not?
• 35:12
  Speaker 10: Quiet piggy, quiet, quiet, piggy, That's what he said, and
• 35:16
  Speaker 10: he pointed his finger at her. People on social media
• 35:20
  Speaker 10: are upset, posting comments like this is the president of
• 35:23
  Speaker 10: the United States. One user wrote, imagine if another president
• 35:27
  Speaker 10: had said that, of course, yeah, boy, you're right.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: If any man.
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: At the post office, fan x, government building, at traffic controller, lawyer, any.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: Any company, any job, says.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: That to an employee another.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Coworker, Yeah, a woman can't say it.
• 35:58
  Speaker 10: Shut up, piggy, yeah quite quiet, yeah, quiet quiet piggy. Wow, gosh, women,
• 36:11
  Speaker 10: He may as well has said that, I mean, seriously,
• 36:15
  Speaker 10: calling this woman a pig.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 36:19
  Speaker 10: And this is coming from the president, the nation's highest office.
• 36:23
  Speaker 10: Where's the respect.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: I'm not well, no, I'm.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been hearing this forever.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not surprised. I'm very disappointed.
• 36:40
  Speaker 7: Then when they get through opening them files, do not
• 36:42
  Speaker 7: be surprised that ain't nothing in there.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah. They that ran this through the car wash.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Clean, sanitized.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 37:00
  Speaker 10: Yeah, you know it's not going to be anything in there, incriminating,
• 37:05
  Speaker 10: nothing gone, Yeah, nothing, Yeah, all right. Coming up at
• 37:08
  Speaker 10: twenty minutes after the hour, there's more outrage over the
• 37:12
  Speaker 10: viral video of a Chicago mother and her young son
• 37:14
  Speaker 10: brutally attacked while walking home from school.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Right after this, we'll talk about it. You're listening Steve
• 37:21
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• 38:00
  Speaker 10: From our home station v one O three in Chicago,
• 38:03
  Speaker 10: Chicagoans and people around the country are outraged about a
• 38:07
  Speaker 10: viral video showing a group of young kids attacking a
• 38:11
  Speaker 10: mother and her nine year old son while she was
• 38:14
  Speaker 10: walking him home from school. These kids surrounded the mom,
• 38:17
  Speaker 10: surrounded the sun, ridiculed them, bullied them, beat them, and
• 38:21
  Speaker 10: stumped them. The victims were taken to the hospital in
• 38:24
  Speaker 10: serious condition. Now take a listen to Illinois State Senator
• 38:28
  Speaker 10: Willie Preston, who recently spoke at a community rally right
• 38:32
  Speaker 10: outside the school.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: The video is a symptom of something that's been going
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: on for a long time. We haven't held these kids accountable.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: We haven't held parents accountable for the violent actors that
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: they children.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: They are doing it, that they aware of.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, this is a problem. That video, that what
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: we saw.
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: Can I see the video because I haven't seen it.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but this I know, we don't want to
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: see it. But how old the sun was? Nine? The
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: sun was nine years old?
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: Were talking elementary to junior high.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: Right and there, I mean bullying and yeah, it's been
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: going on for years.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Said, yes, that boy's been getting bullied for years.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: And I think the people in the community, you know,
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: in the area, they are calling for the Chicago Public
• 39:21
  Speaker 4: school system and the leadership to do a better job
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: of protecting, you know, the kids, their safety and they're
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: well being and prioritizing that.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, you know, bullying.
• 39:32
  Speaker 5: You're right, carl it because bullying is a major issue
• 39:35
  Speaker 5: at school, always being oh yeah, I.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: Was bullied at school.
• 39:40
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 39:40
  Speaker 5: Now it's cyberspace creates a whole nother level to it
• 39:45
  Speaker 5: because they can communicate, organize, meet you to follow this.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: Probably, I don't know what happened.
• 39:53
  Speaker 5: Seems like the mother went up to the school for
• 39:55
  Speaker 5: some reason and was walking the boy home.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: Or something that I don't know, walking home and and.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: And and here that oh you're gonna go get your mind.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: They followed them. They followed them. You see it on
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: the video. They followed them while walking on a boy
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: and his mind and his mom. Yeah, yeah, yes, it's unbelievable.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: It is unbelievable.
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: You have to hold these kids responsible with the actions parents.
• 40:29
  Speaker 5: This is parenting, Yes, this is parenting, allowing your kids.
• 40:35
  Speaker 5: This is the laws we have allowing your kids.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: This is the freedoms we got.
• 40:41
  Speaker 5: We gotta shut this down, and we got to do
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: a better job of policing ourselves in our community.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Yes, because this was ours, this is our community for
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: no reason. Is disappointing. Yeah, it really really is.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: A lot of it weighs on the parents. To me,
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: this is walking home. All right.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: We're going to switch gears.
• 41:05
  Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, We're
• 41:08
  Speaker 10: going to ask you, guys, what are some off limit
• 41:10
  Speaker 10: limit topics and conversations coming up at next week's Thanksgiving dinner.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it. Like I said, right after this
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:26
  Speaker 10: Well, Thanksgiving as next Thursday, guys, and we all know
• 41:29
  Speaker 10: how family gatherings and you know the conversations can get
• 41:33
  Speaker 10: a big awkward sometimes. So Steve, Tommy and Junior, here's
• 41:37
  Speaker 10: some questions that people don't want to be asked this
• 41:40
  Speaker 10: holiday season. And then maybe you can help, you know too,
• 41:44
  Speaker 10: with other questions. So when are you going to lose
• 41:48
  Speaker 10: some weight? That's one of the questions they do not
• 41:51
  Speaker 10: want to be asked, right.
• 41:56
  Speaker 8: Asking me.
• 41:59
  Speaker 7: What did you vote for?
• 42:01
  Speaker 5: Hanging out your use right right with some foil hanging
• 42:06
  Speaker 5: out your person?
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, who did you vote for? We're not talking politic, Huh,
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: you can't.
• 42:12
  Speaker 10: That's the fight right there, fight starter, Okay, uh, when
• 42:16
  Speaker 10: do you think you're going to go back to work?
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: When do you think you're talking to.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: I will get it started.
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: When do you think you're going back to work?
• 42:26
  Speaker 10: Okay, here's one they don't want to be asked, are
• 42:28
  Speaker 10: you pregnant again?
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: That's every year.
• 42:33
  Speaker 9: I keep telling you that that girl keep coming here
• 42:38
  Speaker 9: every year pregnant. She ain't to get the table, she's
• 42:40
  Speaker 9: always away from the tape. She always somebody pass every year.
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: Here's another one.
• 42:49
  Speaker 10: How come I have to pay for everything and you
• 42:51
  Speaker 10: all don't help mama with any of the bills.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: That's a fight starter? Yeah, uh huh.
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: But Johnny with the number of the responses though, what
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: were somebody said?
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: If somebody said what I.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: Thought, they were gonna let me finish it n do
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: their own.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well you can stop now.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, you already got your list.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: I know it's some subject you can't bring up. Is
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: that the same white girl you had here last year?
• 43:30
  Speaker 8: Who gonna tell him that's not his daddy? Who gonna
• 43:32
  Speaker 8: tell her.
• 43:42
  Speaker 11: What?
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: Steve? That's what I was going to said. Have you
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: figured out which one was your daddy?
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Okay, y'all all on the same page.
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: So You're just gonna keep on making addressing. You don't
• 44:00
  Speaker 5: won't give nobody else a chance. You still messing around
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: with past his wife.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: That's at the dinner word on the street.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: When you'll getting married.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: That's on the list, right, would you say, Junior?
• 44:29
  Speaker 8: So how long you're gonna stay with cl.
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: That's his initial cl So you just gonna bring somebody
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: different every year, and you got to just keep on it.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Just a lot of friends, a lot of friends.
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: They told me you just got out of jail. How
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: long would have been about a week.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Now that was coming.
• 45:03
  Speaker 9: That's that's one. But over here we'll be asking is
• 45:06
  Speaker 9: he out? Is the markets out yet?
• 45:12
  Speaker 6: One?
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: That a stars? So that the higgle war right here.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: She looks so much like your last girlfriend.
• 45:22
  Speaker 6: That that's a.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: She looks so much like you.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Oh you're gonna flip the table.
• 45:33
  Speaker 8: So how long you gonna keep doing drugs?
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: Your what.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Dang everything?
• 45:40
  Speaker 8: They're gonna bring that up.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: Hollo, So he higo one from your grandmama. So do
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: you have panties.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Like that commando you came to dinner?
• 45:56
  Speaker 7: Do you have?
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: I ain't from got last year? They whooped you about
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: them dominoes. You remember that they Yeah.
• 46:05
  Speaker 8: Man, it's gonna be my rings is missing.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Happy Things.
• 46:14
  Speaker 10: Coming up next, and is a nephew with today's prank
• 46:17
  Speaker 10: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 46:20
  Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 46:28
  Speaker 10: right about four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today,
• 46:31
  Speaker 10: and the subject is my success is intimidating. My success
• 46:36
  Speaker 10: is intimidating. We'll get into that find out what it's
• 46:38
  Speaker 10: all about in just a few because right now the
• 46:41
  Speaker 10: nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: What you got for us, nepht I got it.
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: This is not intimidating at all. I don't mind saying it.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: I've said it a bunch of times. I need you
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: to wash me to what?
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Yes, what's that?
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: I need you to wash me? You wash? That's all?
• 47:02
  Speaker 7: What is that?
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna look that up. Somebody looked that up. W
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: h wash wash me? I need you to wash me.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: You can't bathe yourself. You need to somebody.
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, wash you can ask you can always.
• 47:26
  Speaker 7: Okay, we've been co working a long time, We've been friends,
• 47:29
  Speaker 7: all of you. If I get in situay, y'all can't
• 47:31
  Speaker 7: wash me. We'll take kind of friends of y'all.
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: No, no, I got to be washed. I'll know that.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I wish you could say it that wash wash wash.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: Did you sing it? Did you just sing it?
• 47:55
  Speaker 7: It came out better though, didn'h Yeah?
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: Key, There's some kids riding school with their mom and
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: the don go man, what is what is he trying to?
• 48:06
  Speaker 6: Just?
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: Wash? Man?
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: What did he trying to keep me?
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: He's saying wash baby while he say that, mama.
• 48:14
  Speaker 7: And.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: Can you wash me?
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: This?
• 48:18
  Speaker 7: Go all out to just go out to William This.
• 48:22
  Speaker 7: I'll go out to quash Needle. Just go out to
• 48:24
  Speaker 7: all the will your families. Wash, let's going.
• 48:29
  Speaker 12: It's a great day. Nursery. This is Felicia.
• 48:32
  Speaker 6: I'm trying to get somebody come down here to five
• 48:34
  Speaker 6: on one.
• 48:36
  Speaker 12: I'm sorry, five one.
• 48:38
  Speaker 6: I need somebody to come down here to five on
• 48:40
  Speaker 6: one and and clean me up.
• 48:43
  Speaker 12: Sir, I think you might have the wrong number.
• 48:48
  Speaker 6: The nurse. I need the nurse to come out here
• 48:51
  Speaker 6: to five on one and clean me up.
• 48:53
  Speaker 12: So this is the nursery, not the nurse. I think
• 48:55
  Speaker 12: you might have down the wrong number.
• 48:57
  Speaker 6: No, I need to talk to the uh where nuts cithy.
• 49:02
  Speaker 6: That's who's the only clean me up? I need to
• 49:05
  Speaker 6: come down here and clean me up, sir.
• 49:07
  Speaker 12: I really do think you have the wrong number. Where
• 49:10
  Speaker 12: are you calling from?
• 49:13
  Speaker 6: Who is this here?
• 49:14
  Speaker 12: This is Felicia. I'm the director here at the nursery.
• 49:18
  Speaker 6: That's what I say. I need the nurse to come
• 49:20
  Speaker 6: down here and clean me up. I'm this bad playing
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: and all this stuff to clean me up because I've
• 49:27
  Speaker 6: been sitting here a long time now. Ain't nobody to
• 49:29
  Speaker 6: come well, sir?
• 49:31
  Speaker 12: I think you dial the wrong number. If you tell
• 49:33
  Speaker 12: me where you are, I can try to help you.
• 49:36
  Speaker 6: But I ain't down the wrong number. I need somebody
• 49:38
  Speaker 6: to come down here and clean me up. This ain't right.
• 49:42
  Speaker 6: Y'all supposed to be able. Y'all supposed to get here
• 49:46
  Speaker 6: every a something I supposed to come to check on.
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: Ain't nobody come check on me yet?
• 49:49
  Speaker 12: Okay, well, I apologize, but you have the wrong number.
• 49:53
  Speaker 12: Try hanging up and then dialing.
• 49:55
  Speaker 6: Is just a nurse station, sir.
• 49:57
  Speaker 12: This is a nursery. We take care of children here.
• 50:00
  Speaker 12: This is not the nurse station.
• 50:03
  Speaker 6: I'm not no child, I said, it's just the nurse station.
• 50:08
  Speaker 12: I'm sorry you're not listening to me. This is not
• 50:11
  Speaker 12: the nurse station. This is a nursery. We have children here,
• 50:15
  Speaker 12: We take care of children. So I think you're down
• 50:17
  Speaker 12: the wrong number.
• 50:18
  Speaker 6: No, they said that that they're supposed to come clean
• 50:22
  Speaker 6: up every hour they spot to come check on. Now
• 50:24
  Speaker 6: I been, I've been on my near three hours. Didn't
• 50:26
  Speaker 6: nobody come check on me? Hat another? I need somebody
• 50:29
  Speaker 6: to come clean me out? And the uh, there's a
• 50:32
  Speaker 6: bad plan in full and they just they they just
• 50:37
  Speaker 6: don't come check on us like they pull to check
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: on them. They checkolder.
• 50:41
  Speaker 12: I'm really sorry that they have not come to check
• 50:44
  Speaker 12: on you in your your bed hands.
• 50:46
  Speaker 6: So Roy, would they learning sit here like they do?
• 50:48
  Speaker 12: Okay, so just listen to what I'm saying. This is
• 50:52
  Speaker 12: a nursery, we take care of small children. This is
• 50:56
  Speaker 12: not the nurses station.
• 50:57
  Speaker 6: So I'm my brown kid, got small children as my grandkids.
• 51:02
  Speaker 6: I got bout forty two grandkids.
• 51:04
  Speaker 12: Forty two that comes in on Sunday.
• 51:07
  Speaker 6: But soon did they leave the people at the nurse
• 51:10
  Speaker 6: stands and that they ain't treating the bag and leave
• 51:12
  Speaker 6: me here like this here two or three hours. I'm
• 51:14
  Speaker 6: about to come check on Can you come down here
• 51:16
  Speaker 6: and check.
• 51:17
  Speaker 12: This bad bad, sir. I can't do that. I need
• 51:19
  Speaker 12: to get back to the kids here that if we
• 51:22
  Speaker 12: take care of at sea, my kids.
• 51:25
  Speaker 6: No, my kids don't come tell they come on Sunday.
• 51:28
  Speaker 6: They come every Sunday after church and they come.
• 51:30
  Speaker 12: See me, do they Okay? Okay, Well I'm glad your
• 51:33
  Speaker 12: kids come see you. And I'm going to get off
• 51:36
  Speaker 12: the phone now, but I hang up. You just now
• 51:39
  Speaker 12: down the number.
• 51:40
  Speaker 6: Right when you get off, you're gonna come down here
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: and come sick and clean me up.
• 51:44
  Speaker 12: I'm not going to do that, but I'm going to
• 51:46
  Speaker 12: let you call back.
• 51:47
  Speaker 6: And why you don't come clean me up? Why gonna
• 51:50
  Speaker 6: do that? Fathers do it?
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: Sir.
• 51:53
  Speaker 12: I'm not a nurse. I'm a teacher.
• 51:56
  Speaker 6: When when when when?
• 51:57
  Speaker 5: When?
• 51:57
  Speaker 6: When? When? When I was coming through through papas to
• 52:00
  Speaker 6: do the job. You do what the joby whatever your
• 52:04
  Speaker 6: job or that's what you do. I want forty two
• 52:07
  Speaker 6: years straight and I did my job.
• 52:09
  Speaker 12: Okay, I'm a teacher.
• 52:11
  Speaker 6: That's why come on down here and do what you're
• 52:13
  Speaker 6: supposed to do.
• 52:14
  Speaker 12: Because I don't clean their you know.
• 52:17
  Speaker 6: Why I go on, y'all, young folks, don't do your
• 52:19
  Speaker 6: job that you're gonna make me mad. You don't get
• 52:22
  Speaker 6: your get your dot here.
• 52:24
  Speaker 12: Uh, I'm going to ask that you not talk to
• 52:28
  Speaker 12: me like that.
• 52:29
  Speaker 6: You get your down here, come clean this bad pen
• 52:32
  Speaker 6: and clean me up. I ain't supposed to be sitting
• 52:34
  Speaker 6: here like this all the time. What's your name.
• 52:36
  Speaker 12: Again, It's Felicia, and I have nice, really really nice
• 52:41
  Speaker 12: to get down here right now. Please do not speak
• 52:45
  Speaker 12: to me like that. I'm trying to.
• 52:48
  Speaker 7: Right.
• 52:50
  Speaker 12: You gonna calm down and quit talking to me like that.
• 52:53
  Speaker 12: I'm trying to help you now. That's just rude speaking
• 52:55
  Speaker 12: to me like that that this is a nurser reach.
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: Noise.
• 53:07
  Speaker 12: But you're not gonna talk to me like that. That's
• 53:09
  Speaker 12: just rude and disrespectful. Don't speak to me like that.
• 53:12
  Speaker 12: You talk it, I will kick yo in the wheelchair.
• 53:16
  Speaker 12: This seems to be the only language you understand is
• 53:18
  Speaker 12: me talking to you crazy. Since you talking to me
• 53:21
  Speaker 12: crazy is not coming down there. You stay in that space.
• 53:27
  Speaker 12: How about bet.
• 53:29
  Speaker 4: You heard me?
• 53:30
  Speaker 12: I said, you stay in that stank. I'm not cleaning though.
• 53:33
  Speaker 12: I've been trying to tell you for the past five minutes,
• 53:35
  Speaker 12: but you won't shut up long enough to listen. I
• 53:40
  Speaker 12: am not coming down there to clean your Why not,
• 53:45
  Speaker 12: I've been trying to tell you that is not my job.
• 53:48
  Speaker 12: You dial the wrong number. I'm talking to you. Who
• 53:52
  Speaker 12: are you talking to like that? We'll bring it on
• 53:55
  Speaker 12: there if you think you can get in your wheelchair
• 53:57
  Speaker 12: and make it down here to the nursery, to what
• 53:59
  Speaker 12: my and come the hell owns?
• 54:02
  Speaker 6: Listen, well you would take a message from it and
• 54:05
  Speaker 6: give it to somebody.
• 54:06
  Speaker 12: What what's your what's your? Missag?
• 54:08
  Speaker 6: Write this down and e e.
• 54:14
  Speaker 12: Uh huh what else? H uh huh uh huh.
• 54:18
  Speaker 6: DoD willy what? Okay? You not? You got that part?
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 54:24
  Speaker 12: I got that for okay?
• 54:26
  Speaker 6: Gee? Oh h m m whah?
• 54:33
  Speaker 11: What is that?
• 54:34
  Speaker 4: What do it spell?
• 54:35
  Speaker 12: I don't know what is it?
• 54:36
  Speaker 6: Let's spell it out.
• 54:38
  Speaker 12: I'm not feeling as you.
• 54:39
  Speaker 6: Tell me what it is? What don't I say?
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: Don't know?
• 54:43
  Speaker 12: Nephew taught me down.
• 54:48
  Speaker 6: Nephew tell me there's his nephew Tommy from the Steve
• 54:51
  Speaker 6: Bolly Morning Show. Baby, you just got bragged by your
• 54:54
  Speaker 6: sister Rittnita. Oh my god, why you were sitting up
• 55:03
  Speaker 6: there like what in the world?
• 55:05
  Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, you got me, you got me?
• 55:10
  Speaker 6: Oh, I got you, I got you, I got one
• 55:12
  Speaker 6: question for you though, what is what is the baddest
• 55:15
  Speaker 6: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.
• 55:18
  Speaker 12: It is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: You got me good? Well?
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: Well, well, what's.
• 55:29
  Speaker 7: Then?
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: I get washed?
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: Still? No pay too much?
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Thanking nephew.
• 55:37
  Speaker 10: Coming up next to this Strawberry letter, the subject my
• 55:39
  Speaker 10: success is intimidating. We'll get into that right after this.
• 55:45
  Speaker 10: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts.
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  Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.
• 56:25
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  Speaker 1: We could be.
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• 56:44
  Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buggle up and hold on tight.
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here. It is strawberry letter.
• 56:49
  Speaker 10: Thank you, nephew. Subject, my success is intimidating. Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 56:55
  Speaker 10: I'm thirty seven and never been married. I was in
• 56:58
  Speaker 10: a four year relationship and when I got promoted, my
• 57:01
  Speaker 10: boyfriend left the relationship. We met on an online dating
• 57:05
  Speaker 10: site for professionals, and we were compatible on so many levels.
• 57:10
  Speaker 10: He is an administrator at his job and I was
• 57:12
  Speaker 10: a team leader. When we started dating, I wanted love
• 57:15
  Speaker 10: and he provided that. But he also added a lot
• 57:18
  Speaker 10: of competition to our relationship. When I get dressed in
• 57:22
  Speaker 10: the morning to head out to work, he'd say I
• 57:24
  Speaker 10: looked powerful instead of beautiful, and he would tell me
• 57:27
  Speaker 10: to boss up if I complained about stress at work.
• 57:30
  Speaker 10: He treated me like he was my mentor and I
• 57:33
  Speaker 10: was beneath him professionally, but I actually made more money
• 57:37
  Speaker 10: than him. Then I got a promotion and a company car,
• 57:41
  Speaker 10: and he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be
• 57:44
  Speaker 10: making annually. He insinuated that I was too close to
• 57:47
  Speaker 10: my boss and that's why I got a promotion. We
• 57:51
  Speaker 10: argued for days, and then he moved out. Since we
• 57:54
  Speaker 10: broke up, I've had a few dates, but I haven't
• 57:57
  Speaker 10: found a man that matches me intellectually or financially. One
• 58:01
  Speaker 10: guy told me that my success is very intimidating. I
• 58:05
  Speaker 10: wish men could see my sweet and nurturing side, but
• 58:08
  Speaker 10: as soon as I tell them what I do for
• 58:11
  Speaker 10: a living, they decide that I don't have time for
• 58:14
  Speaker 10: a relationship. I have thought about telling guys that I
• 58:17
  Speaker 10: have an entry level job, just to see if they
• 58:20
  Speaker 10: would ask me out again. There are so many sides
• 58:23
  Speaker 10: of me, and I would hate to have to diminish
• 58:26
  Speaker 10: all that I am to satisfy a man. My ex
• 58:29
  Speaker 10: married and art teacher go figure. So are women expected
• 58:34
  Speaker 10: to bet our eyelashes and act needy to get a husband.
• 58:39
  Speaker 10: That's true for insecure, controlling men. If you want that
• 58:43
  Speaker 10: for your husband, they do try to compete with you
• 58:47
  Speaker 10: and knock you down a few pegs. But you shouldn't
• 58:50
  Speaker 10: have to dim your light or make yourself smaller.
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: For any man.
• 58:53
  Speaker 10: A real man would want you to be all that
• 58:55
  Speaker 10: you can be and would support you every step of
• 58:58
  Speaker 10: the way.
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: He would celebrate.
• 59:00
  Speaker 10: Relationships are supposed to be partnerships that lead to marriage
• 59:05
  Speaker 10: or whatever, and unfortunately a lot of women do dumb
• 59:08
  Speaker 10: themselves down to get a man. My advice to you
• 59:11
  Speaker 10: is simply to be yourself. Don't change who you are,
• 59:15
  Speaker 10: shine brightly, wait for the right man to come along
• 59:17
  Speaker 10: and to accept you for who you are a strong,
• 59:21
  Speaker 10: confident woman.
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: I mean, the people at your job see it. Why
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: can't he? Why can't you your ex see it? Steve?
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: Real men are not intimidated by women, period.
• 59:32
  Speaker 5: Uh huh.
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: Real men are not intimidated by women. Period.
• 59:38
  Speaker 5: Now, if you're dating an underdeveloped man, that was your pick,
• 59:44
  Speaker 5: you picked him.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: So listen.
• 59:47
  Speaker 2: I understand the narrative that women have created.
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: And this is more or less about an open discussion
• 59:53
  Speaker 5: between me and the ladies on the show, because this
• 59:56
  Speaker 5: letter is how many times have we heard this that
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 5: women live under the guys, or the illusion or delusion
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 5: that men are intimidated by your success.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: Now I offer this to you.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 5: Sometimes men are not intimidated, but ashamed. Sometimes men are
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 5: not where they want to be and are a bit
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: embarrassed by it. When they find out that you are,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 5: and because it becomes a bit of shame and embarrassment.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: But there are so many women that have taken this
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: and turned.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 5: It into I intimidate them. And I guess that was
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 5: a fair thing for you all to say, because it
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 5: sounds empowering. But I want to just offer you an
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 5: alternative line of thinking. And if you had this alternative
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 5: line of thinking, it can help you cope with it. Now, Steve,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 5: why women always got the dummy down? And figure this out?
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 7: You do?
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 5: Wan who wrote the letter in say you want somebody?
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 5: I ain't never wrote a letter in and said I
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: wanted nobody. So now if you want somebody, there's a
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 5: game to this. There's some gamesmanship. It's gamesmanship that men
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 5: have to play to get you, and you know it.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 5: And it's things that you require and you know it.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 5: So when something gets required of you some type of gamesmanship,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 5: you ain't got to get mad at Uncle Steve because
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 5: he telling you the game. I'm just trying to help
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 5: you with the game.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 7: Now.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 5: I could use this letter, which I think I'll do,
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 5: but I wanted to say that first so we could
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: get on the same page. I really want women to
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 5: understand this. Y'all met online for professionals, and we were
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 5: compatible on so many levels. He's an administrator. I was
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: a team leader. I wanted love and all this here.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: When I got dressed in the morning, they had to work,
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 5: He'd say I look powerful instead of beautiful. He would
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: tell me the boss up if I complained about stress
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: at the work. He treated me like my mentor, and
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: I was beneath him professionally. You the one went on
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: this dating site for professionals. That's where you went. You
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: looked for people with similar mind sets. You want a
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 5: professional man, but what you oftentimes forget is a lot
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 5: of men bring their jobs home.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: So that God, that's a professional at work. He tried.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: He acted like here a professional at the house too.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: Boss up, you look powerful today.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: Goodbye?
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 10: All right, we'll have part two of your response coming up.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 10: Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry letter,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 10: subject my success is intimidating. We'll get back into it
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 10: right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:03:22
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  Speaker 10: today's strawberry letter. The subject is my success is in timid.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 5: Okay, I've told you the way that I want you
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: all sometimes to consider this, and I appreciate it. I
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: understand why you say it's intimidating, because intimidating is a
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 5: more empowering term.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: I give it to you. And you've earned what you've earned,
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: and you deserve to be where you are, and congratulations.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: But a real man is not intimidated by your success. Now,
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: some men are ashamed of where they are, so there's
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: a bit of shame when they meet a woman who
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: has it together and a bit of what do you
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: call it, disappointment in themselves. But if you want to
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: call it intimidation for the sake of the letter, okay,
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: so you're intimidating. I'm just off in your way. So now,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: but I want to show you something in this letter
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: that I just noticed you. So you were in a
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: four year relationship then and when you got promoted, your
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: boyfriend left the relationship. Now you met on an online
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: dating site for professionals right here.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 5: If you went seeking this type of man, well you
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 5: got it. We would compare on so many levels. He's
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 5: an administrator at his job. I was a team leader.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 5: When we started dating. I wanted love and he provided that.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: But he also added a lot of competition to our relationship. Okay,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 5: you're in the professional zone. Now, that's what y'all do
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 5: in corporate America. When I got dressed in the morning
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: to head out the work, he said I look powerful
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: instead of I look beautiful. He would tell me to
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 5: boss up if I complained about stress at work. See,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 5: you meet these professional men, so you think, and they
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 5: bring their job home because he thinks that's what you like.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: And now that's what he trying to be. Now here,
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: go to park right here.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 5: He treated me like he was my mentor and I
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 5: was beneath him professionally. Whoa wait a minute, now hold up,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 5: Now you either want a man in charge. You want
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 5: a man that was shureley you can crown. You want
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 5: a man that's a what you want because when he
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: acts like he you mintor mentor, and then you say
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 5: I was beneath him professionally, But I actually made more
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 5: money than him. Okay, See, you got to make up
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 5: your mind now. Oh, because you make more money than him,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 5: he can't tell you nothing. He can't act like he
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 5: mentor you. He do know the male side of things
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 5: that he can offer to you and that you may
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 5: not have from female perspective.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: Okay, but actually mailed more money him.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 5: Then I got a promotion and a company car, and
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 5: he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be making annually.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 5: He insinuated that I was too close to my boss
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 5: and that's why I got a promotion. Oh now he
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 5: gonna make you think you slip your way to the tongue.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 5: I understand your ankle. Like I said, systems. You got
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 5: your education, you did the credentials, you put your time in.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 5: You deserve to be who you gonna be. We arguing
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 5: for days, and then he moved out. Couldn't take it
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 5: no more because I think he got ashamed of where
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 5: you were getting too, and he wasn't because now he
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 5: mentoring you getting promotions, company cars, making most salary.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 2: All this help.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 5: Now, since we broke up, you had a few dates,
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 5: and I ain't found a man that matches me intellectually
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 5: or financially. One guy told me that my success was
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 5: very intimidating. I told you, real men, not intimidate that
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 5: this little boy you'd have met with all these little
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 5: hang ups in his own little life. That's what he
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 5: gonna tell you. I wish men could see my sweet
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 5: and nurture inside. But as soon as I tell him
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 5: what I do for a living, they decided that I
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 5: don't have time for the liasship. I've thought about telling
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 5: guys that have an entry level jug just to see
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 5: if they would ask me how to care.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: All right, go ahead, try to.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 5: There are so many sides of me. I would hate
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 5: to have to diminish all that I am to satisfy
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 5: a man. So let me ask you a question. When
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 5: you say you don't want to diminish all that I
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 5: am just to satisfy man, So are you leading with
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 5: all this in the conversation? Have you made this a
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 5: level of importance to you because you don't want you.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 5: You can't find a man that intellectually matches you or
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 5: financially that seems to be a package deal with you.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 5: So now, are you looking for a good man or
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 5: are you looking for a certain type of man? And
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 5: it's okay, you got every right to want what you want,
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 5: but in here can be part of the problem because
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 5: if you're not just looking for a good man, if
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 5: you're looking for a good man with a certain type
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 5: of job making a certain amount of money, then get
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 5: in line, because everybody looking for him. So I'm not
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 5: gonna be able to help you because you've created all
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: of the stereotypes that keep you right where you need
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 5: to be. You're intimidating to men. You make more money
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 5: than him.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: How he met her?
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 12: In me?
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know what to tell you. My ex
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 5: married an art teacher. Go figure, Well, yeah, yeah he
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 5: got he married an art teacher. Go figure, what's see you?
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 7: You?
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: You you throwing me a little bit? What's the matter
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 2: with the art teacher?
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 5: Oh, she ain't a professional, she ain't a team leader,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 5: or she don't make the money you may Oh, all right, so.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: Now you ain't happy what men make all other women.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 10: From Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey f them on Instagram.
• 1:09:56
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• 1:09:58
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  Speaker 1: Oh stop that.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: you got, Junior?
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 9: You can't make everybody happy, don't matter or what Shirley,
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 9: Look what theyre doing to your boy?
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 8: Jalen hurts in Philadelphia.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 9: Some of the Eagle players, they are upset at the
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 9: way Jalen Hurts is playing. They don't like his approach
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 9: to the game this season. You know, whatever he does,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 9: it ain't good enough. They won't you know, they got
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 9: some problems with him at quarterback.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: Well, they eighting too, World champions.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 8: Yeah, they don't want to name themselves.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 9: They just said some of the Eagles players don't like
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 9: the way he's playing the position this year.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: He won't throw the ball in the tight windows.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 9: He don't, they said, he won't throw the ball in
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 9: the tight window.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 2: You don't play quarterback. Ask them do they know how
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: to play quarterback?
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 8: Do you want to be the Saints.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 12: And eight?
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: You don't like eight and two?
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 2: You want to be you want to go?
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he said the Saints to.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 8: The Raiders twenty eight, the Browns to you want to
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 8: go play with?
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you a question. What is the
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: Texans five and five? We five five? We're five, five
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: and five? What that get wild card?
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: It's still in the game.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: Five five ain't getting no wild card. We're still in
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: the game. We still I'm telling you we're still in
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: the game.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 8: You still five, Lord, We're going twelve and five.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: We want to that's all. If you win out, if
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: you win all the rest of the game.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 7: We went up.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 2: We were in the rest of these seven games we
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: were in. Okay, let's say how that goes well? We
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: played tonight, junr. So you know that.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey man, don't don't bring it up right now?
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 8: Times Why you want to bring that up?
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: We were talking about we're doing sports. Who y'all playing Buffalo?
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: Play Buffalo?
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 8: Why I didn't want to bring it up?
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 2: Buffalo, y'all gonna y'all gonna actually go to the game?
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: I got tickets?
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: Then why why can't they go to the game? See?
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 9: All I'm saying is why are they riding him so hard?
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 9: It's this don't make no sense. He's eight and two.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 8: You can't be happy with aight and too. There's nothing
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 8: wrong and two.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: If you don't want.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 2: That, here's a wide receiver and we know number where
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: number living.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 7: A J.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: Brown We got it saying saying a J All right, junior,
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: thank you go Texans. Coming up at the top of.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 10: A woman on social media needs some advice, Steve, She says,
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 10: am I wrong for disinviting my cousin to Thanksgiving dinner.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 10: from Lucretia on Steve Harvey FM. Lucretia says, I'm hosting
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 10: Thanksgiving this year, and I've disinvited my cousin because he's
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 10: currently facing charges for armed robbery. Nothing has been proven yet,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 10: but it's still a case anyway. His mother, my Auntie,
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 10: is furious and keeps saying, quote, I'm ruining the holiday,
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 10: acting like I'm overreacting instead of acknowledging that her son's
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 10: bad choices put everyone in this position. Am I wrong
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 10: for keeping my cousin out of my home even if
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 10: it upsets the rest of my family?
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 2: Yes, you are wrong for that. Really, it's just all Robbie.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: You did not say that armed it's the key word.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 13: Yes, he had house, he went in there, took something
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 13: widget gun that right now and what ain't they charges?
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 10: He's currently facing charges for armed robbery. Nothing has been
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 10: proven yet.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: It is silly case, proven guilty. What that guy do
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: with him? Eating?
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: She does not want him in her house kind of year?
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 7: Next?
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 7: Get it.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: I don't know, m He's gonna up.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: Here to get one of the security things in your house.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: I get on and I wanting them now. Yeah did it?
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: Hard to see, but I did it.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: What are you gonna do?
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 7: What?
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 8: Junr rob a plate?
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: Hey don't. We wouldn't have had nobody at our house.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 9: If you just went on charges, charges and records.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: I think the part about him being just designed.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 2: Steve, Steve, Steve, put that plate down and get out
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: of here.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: Uh huh.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: So you're saying he deserves the chance to come and
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: be with the family. Yeah, just family.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: What y'all turning your back on him fault even if
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 2: he wronged.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 10: Because he faces charges for armed robbery and it's the
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 10: case and she doesn't want that in her house.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 2: Don't turn your back, keep behind on it. Don't turn
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: your back, turn your back on your.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: What about your purse?
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 5: We all.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: Keep it close, leave it in the car.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: He might take the car.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 5: Oh this is a terrible Yeah, he was just in
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  Speaker 5: there for theft, you know, petty theft. Yeah, it's the
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  Speaker 5: gun crackhead. Yes, you got to keep him out.
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  Speaker 1: But arm robbery, Oh no, yes, too much. Steve is
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  Speaker 1: saying it's.
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  Speaker 10: Not Steve saying, that's not what saying yeah, you're saying
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  Speaker 10: it's okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh I thought you changed mid No, are you're
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  Speaker 1: still you're you're still going with.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he should be able to come to the house.
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  Speaker 2: He's on charges for arm Robbie.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, it's a it's an ongoing case. It's an open case. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So invited him. You'll have some turkey and dressing and
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  Speaker 1: mac and cheek.
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  Speaker 2: Right, you know it could be his last one.
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  Speaker 8: Be uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 5: You'll let him in your high but thanksgiving on death
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  Speaker 5: roading that you have a last meal.
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  Speaker 2: This ain't.
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  Speaker 1: So how he can't come from logic here? Don't you think.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 2: It'll be everybody gonna be uncomfortable?
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, And that's what she's going in the circle.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not bowing my head and closing my eyes. If
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  Speaker 8: Demarcaus is in the certain.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: Why DeMarcus get up?
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: He got all rough?
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm not doing it.
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  Speaker 8: Everybody closed the head by the head.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: Not with democracy.
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  Speaker 1: You come over.
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  Speaker 2: Look, we're gonna hey, you come over, but my daddy
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 2: gonna pat him down at the door. Fine, I can
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 2: do that.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: From you. Got some rules again. Happy, Thanks.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 10: Hey, listen, guys, have you ever felt like you had
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  Speaker 10: a close relationship with a celebrity or of friendship with
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 10: a celebrity even though you've never met them, Then the
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 10: friendship you actually have is parasocial, which happens to be
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 10: Cambridge Dictionary's word of the year. Parasocial describes those one
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  Speaker 10: sided relationships some people form with celebrities where you feel super.
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  Speaker 1: Connected to them while they don't have a clue who
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  Speaker 1: you are.
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  Speaker 10: The word received a surge of attention on Internet surge
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  Speaker 10: browsers after Taylor Swift and Travis Kelcey announced their engagement,
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  Speaker 10: and fans felt a deep connection to the couple. So
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  Speaker 10: here's a question for you, guys, who do you feel
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 10: like you have a parasocial relationship with?
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  Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship with me. What did you talk about?
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: You're in a full, full fledged relations.
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  Speaker 8: This is really happening in my mind, it is, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Friend, Yes, this is different from fantasy. They ain't say
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 5: who you're fantasized about in your mind?
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, to me, it's Jay Z and Beyonce. I'm
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: friends with him.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: You're friends with him? Who are you friends with?
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Denzel and Paul Etta. We're having things get together?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: What about you, Steve?
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  Speaker 6: You are?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I'm really really close to the Obamas.
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  Speaker 1: For rocking Michelle in your head.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: He called me, you know all time, be man, what.
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  Speaker 1: Time for a round? Would you rather?
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  Speaker 2: Guys?
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  Speaker 10: Would you rather be shipwrecked on a desert island? Or
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 10: would you rather be stuck in space for a year
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  Speaker 10: by yourself?
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  Speaker 1: Which one?
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  Speaker 12: I'm on?
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  Speaker 1: I'm on that island I'm sighting you're gill again, sending.
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 5: Up smoke signals, drawing in the sand, eating banana. I'ma
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 5: be out there fishing. I'm gonna catch some fish. I'm
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 5: gonna eat.
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 10: Tommy might be all right, though, wear a whole year
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  Speaker 10: by yourself and spearlessness, all of that.
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  Speaker 2: I'm me a nice planet to kick it on.
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  Speaker 5: You ain't got a chance, and nobody there driving by
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 5: seeing you up there, at least on this island.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 7: So bad?
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right?
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 1: Would you rather sleep for a whole year or not
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: sleep at all for a whole year? Which one?
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm doing the second one? You are ready to be?
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 12: Yeah?
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: Sleep? You ain't sleep? You cold? I can't sleep no hole.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, no, I'm stay up and it'll be hard
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 5: to talk to though.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 10: You are to talk to now, you need some rest,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 10: all right? Would you rather have terribly chapped lips?
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Or scratch a constant it she knows?
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I suggest that for you?
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: What from the scratch you took a month minute to
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: get that out.
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: I suggest that for you.
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 8: In the world the lips severe check, yep, go it?
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 2: You know stee all.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: Right every time?
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: Would you rather have stick for your lips? Look like
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: the sidewalk.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: Why are you talking like this, my mama?
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 5: Oh, get some chapstick bacon grease on your lips and
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 5: look they look like the sidewalk.
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 1: Dang concrete.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 10: Would you rather have to eat every meal with thirty
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 10: people or eat every meal alone for the next six months?
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 2: Say what? Eat?
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 7: What?
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 10: Would you rather have to eat every meal with thirty
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 10: people or eat every meal alone for the next six months?
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 2: By by myself?
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 8: Talk by myself?
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Because we don't know who was on the thirty people?
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: Why am I eating with them? People?
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: You're gonna have that many over your house for Thanksgiving?
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: But I know him and and they leave it that day.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: We didn't say thirty strangers.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: We said thirty three.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 7: Uh huh, I'm not gonna eat with them, saying them
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 7: thirty now, be ready for them to go in for
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 7: a while.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 10: That far tom, Why are you having them over if
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 10: you're gonna kick them out.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: So they can tell him how good he make a turkey?
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: That's all this is.
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's what it is for you sure can't fry
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: a turkey?
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 6: God?
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 1: That's today's round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 10: Coming up at forty nine minutes after it is our
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  Speaker 5: My closing remarks is just basically thank you to everybody
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 5: who has supported the Steven Margie Harvey Foundation, who was
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 5: at the event last night, Benjamin Krunk for speaking, all
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 5: the female speakers, everybody that came, Kim performing a special
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  Speaker 5: shout out to Junior for hosting.
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  Speaker 2: I got some great reviews on Junior's hosting the event.
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  Speaker 5: And I got a lot of calls and stuff about
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  Speaker 5: the event and how effective the young people are who
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 5: stood up to speak. And you know, for me, that's
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  Speaker 5: what it's really all about. You can feel how you
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  Speaker 5: want to feel about me. But if somebody can stand
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  Speaker 5: up and say that my work, our work changed their life,
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  Speaker 5: that our work gave them a mission, that our work
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  Speaker 5: helped give them the keys to success, that I will
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 5: work propelled them to a level of greatness, that's really
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  Speaker 5: all I care about. You know, some funny thing about
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  Speaker 5: the internet, because it's not a lot about the gala
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  Speaker 5: that was on the internet. When I do my program
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  Speaker 5: this week, when Marjorie, I mean this year, when Marjorie
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  Speaker 5: does her Girls Rule the World and I do the
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  Speaker 5: Boys Mentoring Camp, it's not gonna flood the internet. That
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  Speaker 5: that be, not a whole lot of blogs picking it
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  Speaker 5: up talking about it. It's not gonna happen. Now, let
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 5: me go out here and make a mistake. Let me
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  Speaker 5: go out here and do something that's gossipy. Have a
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  Speaker 5: picture of me walking in or out of a strip club.
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  Speaker 5: Oh man, that'll make every blog I'll here be on CNN.
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  Speaker 5: Because that's all we care about. It's something that we
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 5: can sensationalize and then get on there and make comments
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  Speaker 5: about But if a person, and I'm not just talking
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 5: about myself, if a person.
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  Speaker 2: Is doing something good, how come we don't ever Why
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: we don't blow that up? Why don't we do that?
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  Speaker 2: And yesterday was a rough day for me because I
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 2: lost a friend yesterday.
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  Speaker 5: I had only known this guy, this guy for about
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  Speaker 5: four years, and I met him down in Barsville, Georgia,
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  Speaker 5: and he worked on the technical crew. But as he
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  Speaker 5: was doing some internet work for me on my ranch,
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  Speaker 5: I found out that he fished. It's kind of late
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  Speaker 5: for me to give him his flowers because he passed.
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  Speaker 5: But he was thirty some years old man with two
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  Speaker 5: little boys eight and ten, and a beautiful wife, and
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 5: he had some type of a rare blood cancer and
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 5: it had gotten all in his bones. And you know,
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  Speaker 5: I tried to help in ways. You know, I don't
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  Speaker 5: want to get into that, but I did what I
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  Speaker 5: thought was the right thing to do. And his wife
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 5: text me and said he passed. And it ain't gonna
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 5: be a lot of social media about this dude. But
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 5: let me tell you something about the dude. He was
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 5: a young white guy in his thirties from Barnsville, Georgia,
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  Speaker 5: who met a group of all black men. Some of
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  Speaker 5: my friends are seventy years old today in the late
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  Speaker 5: sixties and seventies and have never fished a day in
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 5: day life. And because he and I had a fishing
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 5: relationship after I learned that he could fish, but he
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 5: was doing some technical work around my ranch, I asked
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 5: him what he come when my partners came to help
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  Speaker 5: him learn how to fish? Every year he was there,
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 5: wouldn't miss it, man, and he looked forward to it,
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 5: and he loved them dudes. A young white dude was
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 5: teaching a bunch of old black men how to fish.
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  Speaker 5: Because it's fifteen of us. I couldn't teach everybody. He
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  Speaker 5: was just helping and he passed. Ain't nobody gonna write
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 5: about that. That he was a Scout leader. His name
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 5: was Scott, Scott Gallagher from bar Georgia. He was a
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 5: Scout leader. He had two little boys. This little dude's
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  Speaker 5: This boy could fish so good. I just love the
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  Speaker 5: guy he passed. But he was just a great human
• 1:30:13
  Speaker 5: being man, just a great human being. But they don't
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 5: right about that. But thet cancer and he died. I'm
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  Speaker 5: just taking my time just to say, hey, man, I
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  Speaker 5: miss you.
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  Speaker 2: I love you.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 5: Sorry I couldn't do more. But back to what I
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  Speaker 5: was also saying, we don't glorify people for the good
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 5: they do. We castraight people for the wrongs they do.
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 5: Oh man, we can't wait to eat you up for
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 5: making your mistake. But when you're out here helping people
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 5: and moving the way you out there moving, and you
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 5: out there doing stuff for somebody that ain't even in
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 5: your family, when you out there celebrating people, and nobody
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  Speaker 5: got nothing to say about that.
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  Speaker 2: So I just wanted to stop for a moment today
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  Speaker 2: and say thank you for everybody.
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  Speaker 5: Now we're talking about me now, for everybody that's ever
• 1:31:13
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  Speaker 5: to anybody that's ever cared. Man, thank you, thank you,
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  Speaker 5: thank you. Because here's what I've always said. Your career
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 5: is what you paid for, but your calling is what
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• 1:31:38
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