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Outspoken Charles, Simone Biles, Sheryl Underwood, Carla's Reality Update and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stubbing good it sting together. Please,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn you, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: turn to turn them out. Turn you got to turn
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  Speaker 1: them out. Then turn the water the water go. Come
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  Speaker 1: come on your baby, huh. I show well a good
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  Speaker 1: morning everybody. You'all listening to the voice, Come on dig
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  Speaker 1: me now one it only Steve Harvey got a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Here we go today. I think I have something for
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people today, at least I hope I do.
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  Speaker 1: And this is about on your journey, And this is
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  Speaker 1: about something that happens to us all. I mean, what
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  Speaker 1: happens to all of us from time to time when
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  Speaker 1: we get discouraged, What happens to all of us when
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  Speaker 1: we feel like quitting, What happens to all of us
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  Speaker 1: when we have that turn back moment, What happens to
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  Speaker 1: all of us when it don't seem like it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: pan out. Because I want you to understand something that everyone,
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  Speaker 1: every single living soul, has those thoughts about something at
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  Speaker 1: some point point in their life. I mean, you know, look,
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  Speaker 1: I've oftentimes been discouraged about things not happening as fast
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  Speaker 1: as I like them. All things don't pan out the
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  Speaker 1: way I would like for them to have panned out.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, there's so many ways to get discouraged. But
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  Speaker 1: but what my encouragement to you is when discouragement comes
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  Speaker 1: is understand this. It is a part of the growth process.
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  Speaker 1: It is a test. It is a test of your faith.
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  Speaker 1: How bad you want it, do you really believe? That's
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  Speaker 1: all faith is. It's simply and I've said this how
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  Speaker 1: many times. Faith is to belief in things that you
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  Speaker 1: cannot see. So when discouragement comes, setbacks comes, it is
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  Speaker 1: a test of your faith. At least it's been that
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  Speaker 1: way for me. Now other people can explain it another way.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not other people. I can only give it to
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  Speaker 1: you the way it has come to me and throughout
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  Speaker 1: my life, and man on man on man. Discouragement sometimes
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  Speaker 1: it's tough to deal with because it seems at times
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  Speaker 1: when you are discouraged that is so absolute that this
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  Speaker 1: means the end, and if you allow it to set in,
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  Speaker 1: it can be just that the end of you. When Milly, Milly,
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  Speaker 1: it was a test, That's all it is. But the
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  Speaker 1: majority of people that I know who are not successful
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  Speaker 1: or who have told me the story of how they
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  Speaker 1: gave up, it was because at a moment of discouragement
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  Speaker 1: that they allowed it to set in and it became
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  Speaker 1: so engulfing that it became the reason why you shouldn't finish.
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  Speaker 1: And then they started justifying it with hither one that
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  Speaker 1: I hate to hear. Well, if if it's God's will,
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  Speaker 1: excuse me. If it's God's will that you fail. If
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  Speaker 1: it's God's will that you're not successful. If it's God's
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  Speaker 1: will that you lay down and give up, it's God's
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  Speaker 1: will that you allow yourself to amount to to not
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  Speaker 1: reach your potential. That's God's will. That's not the God
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  Speaker 1: I know. That's not the God I served. That's not
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  Speaker 1: the God I've read about. That's not the God I
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  Speaker 1: believe in. I'm sorry. I just my mother always taught
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  Speaker 1: me something that he didn't bring me this far to
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  Speaker 1: leave me. I just don't believe that, not for a second.
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  Speaker 1: Now have I convinced myself or some things, yep, have
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  Speaker 1: I allowed the devil to come into the picture and
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  Speaker 1: paint a different one from it. Yep, yep, I've done
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  Speaker 1: all of that. But you can't blame that on God. Now,
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  Speaker 1: come on, So when discouragement comes, try to look at
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  Speaker 1: it if you can, as a test of your faith,
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  Speaker 1: and you merely have to pass the test. It could
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  Speaker 1: be for a day, a half a day, a few hours,
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  Speaker 1: a week, a few weeks, it don't matter. Don't nobody
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  Speaker 1: know how long the test period is. Your job is
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  Speaker 1: to keep the faith and keep moving. Keep the faith
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  Speaker 1: and keep moving, keep working, keep believing, keep hope alive.
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  Speaker 1: That's your job. If you do that, that's how you
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  Speaker 1: pass the test. It could be over tomorrow, it could
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  Speaker 1: be over in two weeks, it could be over in
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  Speaker 1: a month. You don't know. But all you got to
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  Speaker 1: do is wake up and keep the faith and fight
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  Speaker 1: the discouraging feeling. And how do you do that? Steve?
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  Speaker 1: Now here we go. This is the part I know
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  Speaker 1: about for show because how many times I've had to
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  Speaker 1: fight off discouragement in order to get to where God
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  Speaker 1: wanted me to be. What do you do when you
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  Speaker 1: become discouraged? Well, I think of the outcome. When I
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  Speaker 1: get discouraged about a task, I think about the outcome. Man,
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  Speaker 1: what would it be like if I were to complete
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  Speaker 1: the task? What would it be like? Man? What would
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  Speaker 1: the outcome be for me if I hung on in there?
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  Speaker 1: If I didn't give up, if I if I imagine,
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  Speaker 1: I imagine if I don't quit. I imagine if I
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  Speaker 1: don't give up, What would it be like? Man, Suppose
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  Speaker 1: everything I'm hoping for comes true. But if I don't
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  Speaker 1: quit and give up, that might just be the case.
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  Speaker 1: I start talking to myself like that, I think, think
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  Speaker 1: of what the upside is? What's the upside to stay
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  Speaker 1: in with it? You see, all this is the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just giving you different ways to look at it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying the exact same thing over and over. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find the switch that connects in
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  Speaker 1: your mind where you can say, Okay, man, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: hang in there. Because if you think of the outcome
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  Speaker 1: and the outcome is appealing to you, if you imagine
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  Speaker 1: what it would be like if you don't give up
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  Speaker 1: or you don't quit, you if you think only of
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  Speaker 1: what the upside is to stay in with it, And
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  Speaker 1: then I go, where can this lead to? If I
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  Speaker 1: stay with it? Man, and the outcome comes true? What
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  Speaker 1: else could that lead me to? Because I mean, there's
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  Speaker 1: always more to it. So where else could this lead
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  Speaker 1: me to? What are the possibilities? Man? What are the
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  Speaker 1: limitless possibilities? What could God possibly have in store for me?
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  Speaker 1: If I just hang in there? If I pass this
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  Speaker 1: test of faith? If I just passed this test, Now,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be the only one. But you gotta
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  Speaker 1: get past this one. No, then you're gonna hit a
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  Speaker 1: smooth plane. Then it's gonna be another one. It's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be another one. Life ain't none but a series of tests. Man. Man,
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  Speaker 1: when you're thinking about giving up, when you're discourage, think
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  Speaker 1: of the outcome. Imagine what it would be like if
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  Speaker 1: you don't quit, if you don't give up, what's the
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  Speaker 1: upside to stay in with it? Where can this all
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  Speaker 1: lead to? What? What can this get you too? If
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  Speaker 1: you do this and you get to where you think
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  Speaker 1: you want to be, Oh my god, what's after that?
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  Speaker 1: What are the limitless and endless possibilities of holding on
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  Speaker 1: to your faith? What could really be out there for me? Man?
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  Speaker 1: If I just passed this test, you gotta talk yourself
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  Speaker 1: into hanging in there. You're listening tow ladies, and gentlemen
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  Speaker 1: today it's gonna be a little bit different, and that
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  Speaker 1: we have half or the cast missing. Shirley's out on
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  Speaker 1: vacation birthday. Here is out on vacation, and Jay is
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  Speaker 1: out as always. They know, damn vacation. His whole job
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  Speaker 1: is a vacation, Ladies and gentlemen. Without further ado, the
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  Speaker 1: me goals quavold all set and take one or take
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  Speaker 1: all for and first take what is all set? Take
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  Speaker 1: off here? Cold dude, I like take off. I like
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  Speaker 1: quay voter, I like all. I like all of them,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. But we is the other me goals,
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  Speaker 1: cause it's three over us trace that me goes Colin
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  Speaker 1: for I want to be Cardi Beato. What's up? Good morning,
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  Speaker 1: hey Steve, what's up? Nephew? Okay, tholmost smiles. We can't
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  Speaker 1: get cut your mic on? Oh hell day Amy Offset
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  Speaker 1: In a comedy world, that's me, that's me, that's me. Yeah, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's Thursday. How are you feeling Steve this morning? You
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  Speaker 1: know I'm good. I wake up good. You know I
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  Speaker 1: come to work good. I'm grateful, glad I'm here. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You suck a lot of people are my friend has
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  Speaker 1: been moved to a regular room. Here we go. He's
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  Speaker 1: out of our CEU. He's in the regular room in
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  Speaker 1: the hospital, so that's probably good. Can we talk to him,
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  Speaker 1: big dog? Yeah, yeah, you ain't gonna want too though, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I mean it ain't the same though, Okay, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you know he's not that strong yet. Well, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I guess you know. Yeah, I'd like
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  Speaker 1: to talk to him, dog. You know, just hear his story. Man,
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, you you ain't gonna like it. I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to tell you now, you ain't gonna like the story? What? What? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: After you get out of the hospital, I'm gonna I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna see if he'll come on the radio show to
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  Speaker 1: talk about it. Okay, and you know, see if we
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  Speaker 1: can get some more people get these vaccinations. Man's staying
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  Speaker 1: a serious man. Yeah, And this is a friend of
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  Speaker 1: yours who had COVID and did not get the vaccination,
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  Speaker 1: and he's in the hospital. Right, that's right, that's right.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, man, And it's tough, man. That thing is
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  Speaker 1: tough because you don't know how it's gonna hit you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's tough, man. It's serious and weird. And you don't
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  Speaker 1: even go ahead call it. I was just saying, we're
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  Speaker 1: going backwards, and yeah, we're going backwards. And let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something. You don't have to have pre existing conditions. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what if you haven't been eating right
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  Speaker 1: and you ain't been working out, is it you know
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  Speaker 1: it's got something for you. Yeah? Hell yeah, so that's
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  Speaker 1: another thing. Sorry. Yeah, Well, prayer healing for your friends.
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  Speaker 1: When we come back at thirty two after the hours, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna kick off. Ask the CLO right after this.
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  Speaker 1: Why they don't never asked me nothing? You're listening to Okay,
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  Speaker 1: time now Steve for ask the CLO. That is you,
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  Speaker 1: my brother. This one is from Harper in Nashville. Harper says,
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  Speaker 1: my wife and Harper that's right his dad at Harpor
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  Speaker 1: her go ahead. My wife and I are fifty seven
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  Speaker 1: years old, but she's not a young fifty seven year
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  Speaker 1: old like me. I'm not the most physically fit person
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  Speaker 1: by I enjoy talking and taking a walk in the
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  Speaker 1: neighborhood or walking to get some coffee in the mornings.
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  Speaker 1: But my wife is lazy, a complainer that wants to
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  Speaker 1: drive everywhere and sit around the house all day. She's
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  Speaker 1: in great health and she's still slim and trim like
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  Speaker 1: I like it. But I'm concerned about growing old gracefully
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  Speaker 1: with her because she's aging faster than I am. How
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  Speaker 1: do I start this conversation with her, Well, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: tell her real suthing. You're the love of my life.
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  Speaker 1: You're my soul maid. I love you, and I want
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  Speaker 1: us to grow old together, soul. I want us to
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  Speaker 1: start doing some things together that might keep us here longer.
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  Speaker 1: I think we should get on her eating regiment together.
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  Speaker 1: I think we should go on walks together. Though. I
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  Speaker 1: think we should do a lot to do some more
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  Speaker 1: activities together so we can grow old and you know,
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  Speaker 1: and and and and stay fit. You know, let's go
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  Speaker 1: down here and get into some yoga, you know, let's
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  Speaker 1: get into a pilates class. You know, let's go take all,
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  Speaker 1: you know, stuff like that. But you've got to make
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  Speaker 1: it a wee project and not a her project. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's pointing at saying, oh no, sir, no, sir, don't
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  Speaker 1: do that. So when she when he say all that, dog,
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  Speaker 1: you don't think she comes she come back and say
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  Speaker 1: so you're trying to say I'm big. That's what you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to say. You know, that's exactly body trying to say.
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  Speaker 1: But she ain't big, and he said that in the letter.
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  Speaker 1: But no, I'm just worried. I just want us to
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  Speaker 1: have the best quality life that we can have healthy. Yes, yes, keywords.
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  Speaker 1: That's some good words. You're telling them what to do,
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  Speaker 1: all right, clo, here we go Tamara in New New Work,
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  Speaker 1: New Jersey. She says, I'm a forty four year old singer,
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  Speaker 1: mother of a twenty year old son. Growing up, he
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  Speaker 1: had his own phone line, his own car for his
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  Speaker 1: sixteenth birthday, his own credit card, and he said his
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  Speaker 1: own curfew. Because he's always been a straight a student
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  Speaker 1: and very mature. When he turned twenty and got a
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  Speaker 1: new girlfriend, all of that change. Now he's talking about
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  Speaker 1: taking a break from college and I can tell he's
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  Speaker 1: smoking weed. I think this new girl who's four years
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  Speaker 1: older than him that he is, is the cause of this.
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  Speaker 1: Is he too old now for me to intervene? God? Well,
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  Speaker 1: it's never too old to intervene. Okay, But your boy
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  Speaker 1: got a problem. Yeah, you know he didn't got he
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  Speaker 1: didn't got something put on him? Is that what it is? That,
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  Speaker 1: and look, it's not about intervening, but you got to
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  Speaker 1: bring up the subject. And you know you still I
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  Speaker 1: don't care how old they get. You still on the parent, right,
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  Speaker 1: and you being forty four, you do no more than
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  Speaker 1: he does at twenty. So you're gonna have to reach
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  Speaker 1: the subject and at least put it out. There Fore,
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  Speaker 1: you can't do nothing at that age where they can
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  Speaker 1: make decisions and go the other way of everything and
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  Speaker 1: counter to what you've taught them. That's just part of that.
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  Speaker 1: Tommy and I have kids at that age, so we
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  Speaker 1: already know. So you know, good luck. But he's not
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  Speaker 1: too old for you to bring up the subject. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So she keep on bringing it up and keep talking. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, here we go. See. Hello. This is from
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  Speaker 1: Little D in Mobile, Alabama. I am a twenty seven
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  Speaker 1: year old man and I have three kids by the
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  Speaker 1: same female. She's twenty five, and every time she gets pregnant,
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  Speaker 1: we break up and she doesn't talk to me during
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  Speaker 1: her entire pregnancy. I want to marry this woman, but
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  Speaker 1: she said that she's done with me. Since I've been
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  Speaker 1: dragging my feet, I didn't want to marry her as
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  Speaker 1: long as I was on probation, still on probation and broke.
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  Speaker 1: I know we're doing this thing a bit backwards, but
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  Speaker 1: I want to show her that I can be a
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  Speaker 1: good man and father to our family. How can I
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  Speaker 1: get my girl back for good this time? Well, let
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  Speaker 1: me explain something, little d Yeah, I know you ain't
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  Speaker 1: had time to tell a whole thing, but she break
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  Speaker 1: up with you every time you get pregnant because of
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  Speaker 1: a reason. A woman just don't get pregnant and then
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  Speaker 1: break up with the dude that got her pregnant for
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  Speaker 1: no reason. Also keeps happening now that you're not telling
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  Speaker 1: in the letter for her to break up with you
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  Speaker 1: every time she gets pregnant. And now your letter is
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  Speaker 1: a good letter, young man. But your question is how
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  Speaker 1: how do I get her back permanently? Well, first of all,
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  Speaker 1: you have to convince her of the things that you
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  Speaker 1: keep doing on a regularity that you're not gonna do
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  Speaker 1: it anymore. And the best way to show a woman
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  Speaker 1: that you're gonna be a good man and a good
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  Speaker 1: husband is to start being a good man and a
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  Speaker 1: good father. You already got three babies. It's easy to
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  Speaker 1: prove that you can be a good father. That's easy.
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  Speaker 1: Just get to be in it. But something you're doing
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  Speaker 1: is not in this letter, and it's something is causing
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  Speaker 1: her to have some reservations. Only you can answer that
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  Speaker 1: question a little d. But then you can get her
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  Speaker 1: back if you start being what you say you are
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  Speaker 1: instead of just saying what you're about to be. You
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Action action? Yeah, man, you can
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  Speaker 1: fix all that proven stuff by doing it, and then
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  Speaker 1: maybe one day you'll be big DP because right now quiet,
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  Speaker 1: we got one more quickly. Yogi in Detroit, my sister
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  Speaker 1: in law my husband get on my last nerve. Whenever
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  Speaker 1: they are together. My husband is fine and when he's
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  Speaker 1: not with her, but the moment she steps in, he
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  Speaker 1: starts talking proper and acting like a new fool. They
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  Speaker 1: grew up in a totally different part of the town
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  Speaker 1: than I did, and my sister in law has always
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  Speaker 1: looked down on me because of it. I have a PhD.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm smarter than both of them combined, but they
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  Speaker 1: believe social status is everything. How do I get my
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  Speaker 1: husband to stop being a boogie? Butthead around her? Oh
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  Speaker 1: ten seconds? Say it in ten seconds? Yeah, Well, since
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  Speaker 1: they ain't gonna change their mind about your hands keeping
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  Speaker 1: it real. Yeah, let me go and show you how
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  Speaker 1: who I am. That's what you gonna call me? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: if you. Timmy's run that brankback right after this, you're
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  Speaker 1: Miss Anne is standing by with National News and in
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  Speaker 1: Entertainment News R Kelly. His lawyers have responded to the
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  Speaker 1: latest allegations, plus an other entertainment news actors, Ashton, Kutcher,
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  Speaker 1: Tommy and his wife Mina coolness. They aren't big on bathing.
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  Speaker 1: This is not a print, you know, because you could
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  Speaker 1: be punk like that, you know, because one of the
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  Speaker 1: best in the game. You know, that's just what Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, he is. He's what I look up
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  Speaker 1: to when it comes to print. Okay. I hope to
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  Speaker 1: one day be the black Ashton, because that's a bad
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  Speaker 1: boy right there. It's it's your own show and all that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't a race thing. It's just it's just an
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  Speaker 1: ignorant thing. You just to be that ignorant. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: know you felt that way about him, Okay, all right,
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  Speaker 1: well we'll talk about you ain't other doors. I ain't know.
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  Speaker 1: I know now, I know now all pranksters across the country.
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  Speaker 1: It's one love and across the world. We look up
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  Speaker 1: to him because he has the best ignorant. Yeah, he's
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  Speaker 1: a bad boy. Well him and his wife. They aren't
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  Speaker 1: big on bathing. So we'll talk about that, all of
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  Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour. But right now, wait,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: it's on you. It's on you. Time to run that
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: prankback what you got, nephew, This right here is called
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: your bobbecue. Ain't right? No, no, no, Carller, you don't
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: understand how see it? Bobecue is the people your bobeque
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: ain't right. Let's go cat. Hello, Hello, trying to reach Gerald. Yeah,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: this Jill who's calling? Man? Hey Gerald? This this is
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Calvin Man. You um you little a couple of blocks
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: over for me. Man, I've been, I've been. I just
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: want to reach out to you. One of the neighbor's
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: gaming your number. Man, I don't want to know him.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't want to subscriptions and nothing. Brother,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I might also cut you off right now. Oh, wasn't
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: no subscript since you calling my some subscription and something. No, no, no, no,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I'm a neighbor, ma, man, I'm I'm just a couple
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: of blocks over from you. No, I got your number
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: from one of the neighbors. I was. I was calling
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: to let you know I've been smelling you. I've been
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: smelling your barbecue. Man, That's what I was calling about.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, man, you you've been grilling every day.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Seemed like over there, I've been smelling the smoke in
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: the Are you you you over there putting it down? Huh?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I mean I think thank you for the compliment. But um, yeah,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: I mean now you said, I mean I had nothing
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: else to do but cook, you know in these times,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: I mean I might as well. Well, I'm good at
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: you know who who gave you my number? Though? Uh
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: it's a down on your street? Last name Edwards. I
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: can't remember to do first now I called him Edwards.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I think he lives on your street. I'm not sure.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: So you you cooking smooth? Man? I could. I burned
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: a little bit at you know. That's and that's why
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I called, like, like, you know, from one barbecue brother
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: to nothing. I was just reaching out. I said, man,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: it's burning over there, so you're putting it in? Man?
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: What what are you been cooking? Since? Since? Since we've
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: been locked down. I mean, you know, I kind of been,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: you know, experimenting a little. I've been doing some uh
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: you know, doing some some different woods, uh, cherry, you know.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I kind of mix it in a little bit of hickory,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you know what, kind of depends on what I'm cooking,
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: whether it's some fish just you know, chicken, I mix
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: it up every now and then. Sometimes I have legally
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: been experimented with this mesquite Yeah, I mean the sleeve
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: that just fall off the boat every day about after
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: four or three. Yeah, that's that's what I've been smelling
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: smoke because you'll smoke. You'll smoke coming to my yard,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm I'm I'm two blocks oh when you'll
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: smoke carrying a good distance man. But yeah, but that's
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: all rights, all right. But but I've been soaking my
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: chips and all that stuff. I mean, you know, I've
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: been just trying some new techniques. You know, nothing crazy,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: let me go crazy. No, it ain't got me going crazy,
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: to be completely honest with you, It's kind of got
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: me up. You and you'll meet up so damn bad
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: dog that I'm sitting this, smelling this, and I'm trying
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: to figure out what are you doing? You know you
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: you soaking this? You using cherry? Hey man, if you
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: ain't putting no no pecan or no oaking there, it's
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: now you're You're a dude on the grill that don't
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: know what you're doing. And that's my wh ain't gotta
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: cuts at me because don you you you from a
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: real barbecue. Man, You don't know what the you're doing,
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: And that's that's the whole I am. I've been in
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: competitions talking about a real barbecue, ain't. I mean I didn't.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Ain't no way you've been in no damn competition for
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: no barbecue dog, not with the I'm smelling. Man. Look,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I talked to you because I'm bored, and you're just
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: gonna start cutting at me and talking about my how
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: you know what it is? You haven't even I can.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I can smell it. I can smell a wood in
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: the air, and no and know what's right or what's wrong?
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Smell good? And did you just come out of nowhere cutting?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, I knew we're all going crazy right now,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: but hey man, hey man, listen, hear what I'm gonna
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this. You ain't gonna cut that. Okay, cool, cool,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna cut no more. Cool, But let me
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: say this, don't put nothing else on that. Don't put
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: nothing else on that grill. I swear teeth for at
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: least some more. I don't want to smell your smoke.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: No modg you gonna tell me what the two? You
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: don't even know me like that. You just gonna have
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: to smell it. I'm just saying, I'm two blocks old
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: and I'm tired of smelling your smoke. I'm tired of
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: smelling it. You don't know what you're doing. Don't put
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: nothing else on that pit for at least another money.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. If I put
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: some rotten and tomatoes on there and I want to smoke,
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: you're gonna smell it. How about that? Man? Okay, man, no, no, no, no, no,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I'm bored out of my mind. You called me talking
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: because because you got the smoking add to smell like
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: you don't know what you're doing. I do know what
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I'm doing. Have you tasted it? I don't want to
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: taste it. I don't want my set off the bone.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I've been experimented. Okay, Okay, I did put some apple sauce.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: See that right there? What the kids that you did?
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: What with some apple sauce? Hey man, don't put you
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: else on that grit. Okay, I'm gonna sending you some
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: YouTube videos you can learn how to bobecue because you're
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: gonna quit the neighborhood up, dog, don't tell me what
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: to do. They don't sit right with me. I ain't
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: got no job right now, you're telling me what to do.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: I ain't got your house. And you're just gonna tell
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: me what to do if your food is tight? While
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: are you wasting it on the bottoms? Brother? Just quick, no, no,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out how to stop your ass
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: from cooking. Man, I'm doing what no cooking out on
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: the grill, and everybody got the smells and that we
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: know ain't being cook right. I'm a barbecue man. I
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: know what I'm doing. You don't. It bothers me. So
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: that's why I got your number. You got a sauce
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: with what competition you want? I don't have to be
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: in no competitions. Everybody come to get my barbecue? Who
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: that the bombs? No? I ain't no okay, hey man,
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: hey man, listen let's finish this this way. If you
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: put something else on the grill, I'm gonna come around
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: the whoop your ass. You ain't got how about that?
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Just so my damn, it's called me with this bull.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Hey man, Hey, this this nephew tim Me from the
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: Steve Harbin Morning Show. Your cousins can started this. Your cousin,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: your cousin, trait guy got me to frank you man,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: that mother came over here gotta play yesterday. They were
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: ready the corner, snicking with my eyes just for nothing. Now,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now. He no, he ain't
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: allowed over here at all. He ain't allowed over here,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: hate all, no more. We didn't socially distance his ass
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: hashtagging in the front and the back. Hey man, you
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: gotta tell me this right here, right here, right now, Gerald,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: show in the land. Come on, brother, the Steve Harvey
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Morning Show man with this nine shit talking about my
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: foolish suffice. Oh my god, oh my god. You know what.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: I don't even want to say it, but dog go
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: to it. I think I am the greatest that has
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: ever done it. I am the prank phone call key,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I can't hi the that you are coming up entertainment
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: and national news. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, guys,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: So you know, we've been watching Olympics and someone Biles
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: has been getting so much support from so many people, celebrities, athletes,
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: everybody has been supporting her decision to pull out of
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: the Olympics, the individual games, the team we know. She
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: pulled out the USA gymnastics team, the female team. They
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: won the silver medal, and she talked about her mental health.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: She's just in a different place, she said, she says,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: dealing with some things and she didn't want to hurt
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: herself hurt the team. Well check this out, guys. The
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Texas Deputy Attorney General, his name is Aaron Rates. He
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: has sparked outrage on social media. He tweeted that Simone
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Biles was a national embarrassment after her withdrawal from the
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Tokyo Olympics. Ye got to do with the Olympics. How
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: dare him tweet something like that? You know, he's trying
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: to say that she's selfish, and he compared her to
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: other gymnasts in the early nineties. Her name was Kern
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Carrie Strug and she competed. I think she had an
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: ankle injury and she competed, and so he's trying to
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: compare Simone Biles to carry Strug. Carrie tweeted that she
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: supported Simone Biles and that she was not, you know,
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: on board with what this Texas Attorney Journal tweeted, Well,
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: you know, I mean, first of all, the young lady
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: in the nineties had an ankle injury. Simone doesn't have
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: an ankle injury. She has an injury that's going on
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: internally that we know nothing about. Secondly, this Deputy Attorney
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: General with his missque Lass position, has other things he
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: should be concerned about, like voting rights. But I bet
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: if you concerned about Simone Bows, you don't give a
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: damn about voting ranks. And I can ensure you're voting
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: against voting rights for other people. So that puts you
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: in the category of racist to me. So, now that
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: we've got that part of it out the way, you
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: are talking about a young girl, basically, let's just be real.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Who do flips? Right? What she don't want to? Shan
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: won't play no more right, she won't go home. She tired.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: It is. She don't want the pressure, no mold. Whatever's
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: going on with her, it's really none of our business.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: She pulled out of the Olympics after all that preparation
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: for her to pull out. Don't you think something could
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: possibly be wrong? And so you know, I mean, but
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: really we're talking about the Olympics. What y'all talking about?
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: You don't look man, When Clay Thomas got injured for
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: the Golden State Warriors in the middle of it, Clay Thompson,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: he went out Jamal Mary with the Denver Nuggets, he
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: got injured, he went out. The Brooklyn Nets didn't get
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: to play in the finals because they had injuries. The
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: girl has an injury that we're unable to see. But
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: still something is wrong. It's an injury that takes people's out.
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: The tennis player, what's her name, she pulled out because
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: she had an injury that you can't see, y'all stupid,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: she flept. You want a gold met take your monck
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: ass over there and win one, mister Attorney General. Yeah,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: you don't even do nothing, and you passing judgment on
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: people who them. She's one of the greatest gymnasts of
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: all times. She'll won't do it no more. You go
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: over there and get go over there and get a
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: damn medal yourself, Yes, sir, Time for today headlines Steve,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: let's go man, ladies and gentlemen, miss and triumph. Yeah,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: we're gonna get to that one. Good morning, everybody, here
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: we go. President Biden is to announce later today that
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: all Americans should start masking up again, even vaccinated people,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: and that, of course is because of that of the
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: variant that's going on to coronavirus, which is very very
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: very very contagious. No real surprise though. Republican House Leader
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: Kevin McCarthy's critical of the CDC's new mask requirement that
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: even vaccinated people should wear masks indoors. McCarthy calls the
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: reinstitution of restrictions quote a decision not based on science.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: How Speaker Nancy Pelosi A reportedly called McCarthy a moron.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: When asked about it again by the press, she put
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: it like this. To say that wearing a mask is
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: not based on science, I think is not wise and
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: that was my comment. Certainly, the Republican Party has been
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: delinquent and embracing the science that people need to be vaccinated,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: and she says, you know, if everything is evident, Oh,
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: we talk about Republicans again. Texas Deputy Attorney generally just
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: heard of a little bit about that from Stephen. The folks.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Aaron Rights has sparked outrage on social media for tweeting
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: that uber athlete Simone Biles is a quote national embarrassment
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: unquote because she's announced her withdrawal from this week's Tokyo Olympics.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: No word on whether she'll participate in next week's Individual Apparatus,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: a competition just one day after withdrawing from the team
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: division because of mental stress of Biles, who was a
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Houston native, and says she is pulling out of the
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: games for at least for this week. She says her
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: body's but her mind is not, and the Texas AG
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: calls her a selfish, childish, national embarrassment. Wealth folks on
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: social media coming down hard on this guy, demanding that
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: he apologize, and so are her teammates. They support her,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: they support the young athlete. Olympic spokesman Mark Adams says
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: there'll be everyone behind her. There is in the village,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: on top of all the psychologists and so on that
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: we have there there is also a helpline in seventy
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: languages which will keep going after the games, and that
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Deputy Age has since removed his little nasty tweet. According
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: to a published report, the architect of the Florida condo
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: that collapsed last month, killing ninety eight people, was reportedly
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: suspended for gross incompetency years earlier because of the structural
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: failures associated with another work of his. William Friedman designed
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: the cha Champlaining Towers South, and the Florida Board of
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Architecture found this guy, Freedman, who died in two thousand
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: and eight, guilty of gross incompetence. It's important to mention
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: that the officials haven't really determine the exact cause of
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: the collapse or whether Freeman's design paid roll. But I
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: just you need to know that today's visited a neighbor day.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Good morning. I'll bring you some cupcakes. Now back to
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steven Show.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: All right, check this out, guys. Charles Barkley says the
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: only people who don't have the COVID nineteen vaccines are
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: just well buttholes. But he said a hole, said Carl.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: He said a hole. Char said, people that don't get
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: the vaccine, asshole, thank you, thank you. That's it was
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: my honor. Well check this out. While appearing on see
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: c NBC I should say, Charles Barkley said, I'm vaccinated,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: and everybody should be vaccinated period. The only people who
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: are not vaccinated are just a holes. So Charles went
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: on to say he personally thinks that the sports leagues
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: should force players to get vaccinated, and he said, can
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: you imagine if one of these guys that are not vaccinated,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: if they were, you know, they want these players or
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: their kids, or their wives, or their girlfriends or their
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: parents get sick and die over some unnecessary conspiracy bull blank,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: that's sir. Charles said, I don't understand somebody else on
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: the team, and you got all these people around you,
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: I don't understand them not getting vaccinated. That makes no sense.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: You know, you playing day in and day out, you
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: know that this virus is deadly, and you don't want
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: to You don't want to protect yourself and anybody around you.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: That don't make no sense to me. It not only
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: don't make no sense if you playing basketball on the
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: team sport, it don't make no sense if you're part
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: of a family right to see. Yeah, your loved ones. Yeah,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: it's it's it's more non athletes than it is athletes
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: that's walking around not vaccinated. And I started to on
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: this show not to push the vaccination because I was
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: getting so many friends of mine gonna, hey, man, Steve,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: and ain't right for you to push that you don't
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: know what's in it, sending people off to slaughter. Well,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: now that several very very close people in my life
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: have contracted COVID, and a very very close person in
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: my life it's in the hospital right now suffering been
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: in I SEU five days with COVID. They just moved
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: him to a regular room. I was able to talk
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: to him. He said, Man, I wish I got that vaccine. Wow.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Now there's a report out somebody told me as I
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: haven't seen it, but somebody said that most people who
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: are in the hospital now who have contracted COVID, who
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: do not have the vaccine, every last one of them
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: has said I wish I had taken the vaccine now,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: because see, once you get hospitalized, those symptoms and got serious,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: very serious. This is a serious, deadly diseased. My in
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: laws who are in their eighties got vaccinated. The nurse
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: that goes to their house gave them COVID. They didn't
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: even have to go to the hospital now pre existing condition,
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: and the doctor clearly stated if they had not got
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: this vaccine two weeks ago when we celebrated their sixty,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: if we're in the anniversary, might not be having it.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: you're listening to show as we get older, you guys,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: the family dynamic tends to turn with you know, kids
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: suddenly feeling the need to look after and take care
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: of their parents regardless of the relationship that they have
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: with them. Well, this one mom doesn't think that that's
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: the case. She's gone viral sharing her opinion on TikTok
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: and she recently posted a video where she expressed her
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: belief that kids don't oh parents anything and it quickly
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: went viral. She got like five million views where she's
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: saying that she's grateful for what her mom has done
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: for her, but she's just saying that children don't owe
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: their parents are certain kind of relationship, they don't owe
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: them anything depending on what the parent did for them
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: or if the parent didn't respect them or they didn't
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: have this relationship. So I don't know, what do you
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: guys think? Do you think your kids owe you something
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: for raising them? Or Steve, you're really good at this.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: What kind of advice can you give to parents out there?
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I think we kind of talked about parenting the other
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: day during closing remarks. What do you think? I mean? Look,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: parenting can be a thankless job at times. Yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't it be great if it was? Or not? But
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: if it was a thankful job, I'm grateful for my parents,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: the life and the love and the discipline and the
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: lessons they taught me. Yes, I'm grateful to my parents.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: I am forever grateful, and I felt indebted to them
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: because what they gave me got me to where I
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  Speaker 1: am today. My mother gave me faith, and my daddy
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: gave me work, ethic and the principles of manhood. Them
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: two things are the cornerstone of who I am today.
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  Speaker 1: So now I feel an obligation to them now, just
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  Speaker 1: like Tommy, me, every man that I know that's worth
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  Speaker 1: They salt when they get their hands on their money.
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  Speaker 1: They won't do something for their mom. They won't do
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  Speaker 1: something for their daddy. Anybody I know, every man that
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  Speaker 1: I know is worth is salt. So I don't know
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  Speaker 1: where you know, this is a new generation, this generation
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  Speaker 1: the kids is different. Man. And you know, I got
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: you feel like you don't owe but where's your sense
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  Speaker 1: of gratitude for what was done to you? Because everybody
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: don't get great parents, and if you get a pair
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: of great parents, you blessed. You're very fortunate. And I
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  Speaker 1: think too, this is a cultural thing. Because this woman
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: was on TikTok and I looked her up. She is white,
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  Speaker 1: and I think that for us, we talk about as
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  Speaker 1: African Americans, the responsibility and the gratitude that we have
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: for our parents. How we no, it's not a burden,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: but it's just what we do. You know, how do
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  Speaker 1: you understand what I'm trying to say as a as
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: a culture thing and what we do with that with
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: our parenting and take care parents. Look, we come up
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: in a way where I felt like I owed my parents,
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean, that's it. Yes, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: I respected them and honored them. I honored my mother
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  Speaker 1: and father. Now you may feel like you don't owe
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  Speaker 1: your parents nothing like they do, and what they're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to do. But I think when you're the recipient of
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: a great parent, I think you're blessed, and I think
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: that should be some level of importance. And I think
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: if they took care of you when you needed it,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I think you should take care of them when they
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  Speaker 1: need it. That's your go hand in hand because your
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: mom and daddy could have walked off from your monkey ass,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: but if they stayed there, then help guide you through
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  Speaker 1: some tough times. You can't do the same thing for
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: them when they get old. I just I just think
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: we've lost our sense of respect and responsibility a lot
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: of times. And you know, the woman, she can say
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: what she wanted to say. She got every right and
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: she got every right to feel that way. But I disagree.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: I would think that, after all I've been and done
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: for my children, that if I got old and needed something,
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: they would be there for me. And I'm banking at
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: least three of them to do that. What about the
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: other four? You're not quite sure you wrote for that? See, yeah, yeah,
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: parenting is like you said, it's a thankless job sometimes.
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  Speaker 1: But I love my parents, love my mama, all right.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, the nephew is here. We're gonna switch gears.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: You got today's prank phone call right after this you're
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after Shirley is off today. But
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: check this out. She left us with a strawberry letter
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: and the subject is my first dating mistake. But right,
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: don't we all? Yes, yes, don't we all? Never this? Right?
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  Speaker 1: Here is Sarah? Is it seg You know it's not segregated?
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: What will you braking somebody about segregation? I don't know,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: but Sah, it's Sarah Grant, mother of segregated mother. I
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: can't but but it's it's okay, Sarah got or segregated
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  Speaker 1: night you either did this? What hull you did it
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: without hub? I don't know, Sarah Grant are segregated? Okay,
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: Sarah Gant, Okay, Sarah Grant mother. I don't know why
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  Speaker 1: they made don't we're so close together that I wouldn't they?
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: Who let me ask you something? Who is over words?
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: And where here's we never were here about them? But
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: we never see welt? Where is welt? Why is a
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: stupid step? Well? Its weftstu? Bye, Sarah Grant mother? Here
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: we go come. Okay, huh yeah, Roger, can I see
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: to Roger? Hey this Calvin Man? How you doing? I
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: go to the same church y'all go too, Okay. I
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: got your number from one of the guys at the church. Man.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: They told me that if I wanted to talk to y'all,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I could reach out to you or whatever. How you
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: doing today? I'm good, man, I'm good. I can help
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: your your wife, man, does she I'm not trying to
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: be disrespectful anything, but she seems to be real fit?
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: Does she? Does she work out all the time? Yeah?
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: She go to January once in a while. Bro? Yeah?
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Who who is this? Bro? Like I said, I name
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Calvin Man. We go to the same church. Listen, me
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: and my wife been trying for a long time. Many
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: actually have some kids. And to be honest with you,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: Roger Man, it just ain't happening. Dog. I mean we've
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: been trying and trying. But what I'm trying to do
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: now just find another type of way to make this happen. Now.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: You say your wife is in good condition, right, my
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: wife kid isn't good condition. Brother. What does she got
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: to do with you and your wife trying to have
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: a baby? She You know, y'all already got kids, don't you.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Y'all got like from what the brothers the church told me,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: y'all got three kids right there? We got three. I
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: got two boys in the girl. Okay, here's what I'm
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: trying to do, man, I was hoping that I could
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: find somebody, a female that would be a good seagant
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: mother or what you know. What I'm saying is like
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: because my wife, I mean, you know, we want to
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: have kids, man, we want to have hold on, brother,
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: you just said you you're looking for a seragant mother.
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  Speaker 1: And the brother the church told you to call me. Well, no, no, no,
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: anybody tell me to actually call you. I asked them
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: about you and your wife. You know, I asked them
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: for your phone number so I can actually call you myself. Man,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, So you've been you've been I and
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: my wife? No? No, no, no, no, no, I ain't been.
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: So you're looking at it wrong. Listen. What I was
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: saying is that your wife just seems like a healthy,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: healthy person. I want to be able to have a
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: healthy child. Man, I really do, man, that me and
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: my wife. We listen, you called me about my wife
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: and you want her to be a Seragant mother for
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: your wife. I don't even while me on the phone. Brother,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: here's the real deal, man, me and my wife we
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: can't have kids. We tried and tried and tried, and
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: you know, biologically, we've just been going through it and
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: going through it man. And I was just you know,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I've seen your wife. She healthy. I see y'all at
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: church all the time. And I was just like, reach
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: it out, man, maybe somebody wouldn't mind being the Saragan
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: mother for for me and my wife so we can
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: have a child. I'll figured Sarragan mother, I mean, dog,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: hold on the brother, you calling me to see if
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: my wife can be a Saragon mother see your child?
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: And I know it's crazy. It's crazy, and and I
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: think you your mind. Brother, out of all the members
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: in the church, you're calling me to get my wife
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: to have your baby. Dog. I know it sounds crazy, man,
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I do, but I ignorant, brother, I'm tying you sound ignorant. Man.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: There's so many place to go at doctor baby. I
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: can take you down to the county court, I can
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: show you kids need a doctor right next. But you
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: can go to Africa like like like all the rest
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: of them. People can gonna find your baby. You're gonna
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: call me and my wife. It's twenty thousand members in
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: this church. You know how stupid you say? Brother? No brother, brother,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: a man, listen, man, I'm not trying to come across
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: like that. Man, how are you trying to come across
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: the brother? You didn't done it? Just hear me out, man,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: I don't want you to go ahead, brother, go ahead, man, Okay,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: we're looking for a Sarah grand mother. We look, we've
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: seen your your wife, and we thought she'd be a
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: great Sarah good mother. And I know it sounds crazy
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: for me to pick you out of all the people
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: that go to the church. I understand that, man, I do.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: But listen, we would love for your wife to be
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: the seagant mother. And we're willing to pay for this. Man,
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: But listen to them if you don't mind. We don't
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: want to do this with no test tubes and all
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: that way. They mixed my seed with her with with
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: with her egg. We want to do this naturally. War war,
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: war war, you just said. Man, you gotta understand a
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: real man want to do I want to do it realistically.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying that, brother, Holder,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: are you telling me that you want to have sex
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: with my wife? But I mean, I mean you know
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: you don't want to lose all my Christianity right now? Brother?
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: You want to have a baby the real way, though,
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I don't give a damn
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: having this fake way. You tell me you want to
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: lay down in a ball my wife, but dum, you
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: already got three kids. Think about the people that can't
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: have doctor baby. Man, take your daring. Ain't gonna doctor
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: damn baby because you didn't go sit down, psychiatric problem.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: I don't want to have your baby. Do you know
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: what you sound like? Don't crazy? I know it sounds crazy, man,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: I do How do how do you get my number? Man?
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: To mean you get my number? I got your number
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: for one of the brothers at the church. Now listen,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna just be real with you like a man.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: I wanted to come at you first and talk to
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: you like a man and see you know if you
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: was cool with the proposition. But look, come Sunday, I'm
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: gonna go to your wife and just talked on what
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go I'm just gonna talk to your
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: wife and say you lost your mind. I told you
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: to answer no, Nay said me gonna go around me.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: Which I I'm gonna do is talk to my wife.
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: You call my wife. You right now, if you called
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: my wife, I'm gonna tell you what's really gonna happen.
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: You call my wife and wife next Sunday. I'm never
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: gonna didn't go through this, mon I'm talking to her
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: next Sunday. Next Sunday, I'm ana whoop you. You ain't
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: gonna do nothing to me. I'm anna whop your men
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: and my wife who desid for time too? You ain't.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna stand in the middle of this. I'm
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: the middle of this. Man, You talk to my Wife's
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: next thing you want too? I got one more thing
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: I want to say to you. Man, Is you listening
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: to me? Say? What the you gotta say? You can
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: get off my phone. This is nephew tim Me from
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just got pranked by
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: your homeboy? What this is? Who this is this? Listen?
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: Who is this man? This nephew tim Me, man from
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: the Steve Hobby Morning Show. Your home boy got me
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: to Frank phone call you. Man. I'm over here. Man,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: my head is spinning. Got me. I'm ready to fight. Brother. Hey,
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: I got one more thing that dog man, what is
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: the plan man to Steve Harvey Morning show Man, y'all
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: got me this morning man? Got me Man, Tommy, you
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: yeah too much. You were calcarn and Roger. But when
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: you talked him, you wanted to add a baby naturally,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: not Sarah. That was it. You're gonna if you if
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have a baby, I think you should have
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: it naturally. You know, you know, you your wife, y'all.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: You know, y'all gonna do some issues. But I think
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: you ought to be able to be that. They ought
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: to be able to let you man up on making
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: your baby. I just think so. I just think you
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: should the wrong with fat treatments and there's nothing wrong
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: with doing it. But this right here, that's right here. Yeah,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with this right here. I
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: think we should do it naturally. You know, you know
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: what I mean. Let you know, let me get in
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: here and make that baby, you know, let me put
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: some effit in Let me put some you know, some love,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: and I can't put no love. And if you don't
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: let me, let me put my back in it and
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: really know, so when my child come out and be like, yeah,
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: yeah I made him, not just like you know she
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: did it all by herself, I want to. I mean,
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, you are really I'm really concerned. It's really
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: as I don't I don't understand. I don't understand the problem.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: I really don't understand the problem. Up next, Today's Strawberry Letter.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you
• 53:47
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• 53:52
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• 53:56
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• 54:00
  Speaker 1: let's get it. Buckle up, hold on tight. We got
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter, subject
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: my first major dating mistake with brothers, dear uncle Steve
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: and Aunt Shirley. I am a young female that graduated
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: from high school two years ago. Yeah, and I am
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: in a sticky situation. You see, after graduation, I met
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: a guy on an online app and we texted back
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: and forth and decided to spend some time together. We
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: ended up going on dates and messing around a lot.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: He is a really great person, but he was not
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: the one for me, so we ended our fling. We
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: stayed in touch for a while through text messages, but
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: that was about it. Last November, I met a new
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: guy and he and I are in a committed relationship,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: so things were great until we went to a New
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: Year's Eve party and the guy from my past was
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: at the party. As if it were not awkward enough
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: seeing him, I found out that this guy and my
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: boyfriend are brothers. We allowed my boyfriend to introduce us,
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: and neither one of us gave away our big secret.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: I may be overthinking this, but I do not want
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: this guy to drive a wedge in my relationship by
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: telling his brother about all of the wild stuff we
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: used to do. It's been very awkward whenever all three
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: of us are around each other. I think I should
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: come clean and mentioned to my new guy that I
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: used to mess with his brother. Do you think that
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: he knows already and likes me so much that he's
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: not saying anything. I don't want my past to ruin
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: our future. I really value your advice, so please help me. Well,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: so far he hasn't told his brother, right, So what
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: makes you think he's gonna tell him at all? I mean,
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: I do think you're overthinking this a bit. If you're
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: truly in a committed relationship, like you say, it might
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: not matter to him. He hasn't mentioned it to you.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: You haven't said that in the letter that he's mentioned
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: it at all. So I think you're a young lady.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: I think you need to know and you'll learn in
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: life that stuff is going to happen. Steph happens in
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: life that you have absolutely no control over. And I
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: think that's just what happened here. You met his brother first.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: You guys were both very young. You've matured now, you've
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: moved on as people do. You said in your letter
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: he was not the one for you, so you guys
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: ended it so to you. I just say, stop feeling guilty,
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Stop feeling some kind of way when you're with your
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: new man. All of that. I mean, life goes on.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: Let this go live your life. Stop worrying about the past.
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: If it comes up, you can say that was a
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: long time ago. It's over. You know it's just over.
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: Sorry I didn't say anything, but it's over. It didn't
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: mean anything to me. We're together now, Steve, Well that
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: came from your aunt Shirley. Yes, that's real, nice, hopeful,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: optimistic response. Lets you feel better about yourself and all
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: that now. Because you are a young female, I want
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: to try to do the same thing for you, but
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: you enough stick situation. This guy that you ended up
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: going on the date messing around with a lot, really
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: great person, but he was not the one for me,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: so we ended it. But you stayed in touch for
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: a while through text message. Well we all know what
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: was on new text message, what they was doing. You
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: know they were sexty, they were on show mission maber
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: that time you and all that time. Last November, I
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: met a new guy. He and I ain't a committed relationships.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: Things great to the New Year's Eve party. The guy
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: from your past at the party. Awkward enough you find
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: out this guy and your boyfriend our brothers. We allowed
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: my boyfriend to introduce us, and neither one of us
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: gave away our big secret. I'll be overthinking. I might
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: be overthinking this, but I do not want this guy
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: to drive awadge in my relationship by telling his brother, well,
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: now let me tell you something. The first brother that
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: you slept with, he ain't doing nothing wrong. You said
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: it was. He was this great guy. He just wasn't
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: the one for you, so you ended your fleeing. Now,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: you don't want this guy to drive away in my
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: relationship by telling his brother about and hit a crazy
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: part about all the wild stuff we used to do.
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: See that asked where we how wild was it? Exactly
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  Speaker 1: what was you doing? It's been awkward whenever three of
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  Speaker 1: us around each other. I think I should come clean
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: and mentioned to my new guy that I used to
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: mess with his brother. Do you think that he knows
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  Speaker 1: already and likes me so much that he's not saying anything?
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: You can take that out your mind. That ain't how
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: men work. Do you think he knows already and likes
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  Speaker 1: me so much that he not saying anything? What? Hey
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: don't know? Your boyfriend don't know nothing about this. I
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: don't want my pass ruin my future. I really value advice,
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  Speaker 1: so please help me. Here's two things you got going
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: for you. Number One, your boyfriend's brother may not want
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: to hurt his brother by saying something. If he thinks
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: his brother's happy, so maybe he won't say nothing. On
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: the other hand, he may not want to hurt his
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: brother by not telling him, because if it come out,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: he's gonna be looking up beside his brother's head. The
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: best thing for you to do is shut your damn mouth. Now,
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: this is taking a page from the men's playbook. Why
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: would you bring up an issue that ain't an issue?
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: Why would you tell the truth when saying nothing at
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: all sounds much better. I'm gonna repeat that. Why would
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: you tell the truth when saying nothing at all sounds
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: so much better? Shut your damn don't say nothing. Hear
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: your boyfriend act like you ain't never seen that other day,
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  Speaker 1: And then if it come out, just say I didn't
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: know until I saw him at the New Year's Eve
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  Speaker 1: party and I was too embarrassed. I felt horrible. That's
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: all you can do. And then throw yourself at the
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: mercy of the court. When we come back, Jay and
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: I will do reenact me. All right. We'll have part
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: two suns and Jay's gonna step in as well when
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: we come back at twenty three after the hour. Right
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to all right, Steve, let's recap
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letters subject my first major dating mistake with brothers.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: This girl met a guy online, dated him, had an affair.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: It was pretty hot, did a lot of while stuff.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 1: Found out they wasn't for each other. They broke up.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: They stayed in til they text each other for a
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: little while. She meets another great guy. Everything going fine.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: They go to the New Year's Eve party and the
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: guy she used to date was there. Come to find out,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: the two dudes is brothers. Now she messed up her
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: Boyfrid introduced him as his new woman and his brother.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: They both kept their secret a secret. They didn't say
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: nothing to each other. Maybe the brother don't want to
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: hurt his brother and ain't gonna ever hurt him by
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: telling him. Maybe it could be y'all secret, but we
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: don't know. Then again, he may have to tell his brother,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: because man, I can't let you go on not knowing this,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: because if it ever come out, I can't let you
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  Speaker 1: know that I knew this. Your only play that I
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: think is if it comes out. I didn't know y'all
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  Speaker 1: his brothers until I met y'all at New Year's Eve,
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  Speaker 1: and I was humiliated and batrassed I didn't know what
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  Speaker 1: to do, and I've been shaking in my boots until
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: this came to life because I didn't want to lose you.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: You're the best thing ever happened to me. He gonna
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: leave you, but that you want to Try to say
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: that though, Try to get that in and cry while
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: you see. But his asses go. If his brother tell him,
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be messed up. Man. So here we are
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: at this moment. I am gonna play the boyfriend who's
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: having some suspicions because y'all act a little strange around
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: each other. Jay is gonna be the girl trying at
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: all costs to keep me off this subject. No problem, Hey, baby,
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: can't talk to you about something yet about you know,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: every time I see you and my brother around each other, y'all,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: y'all that kind of strange. What strange strange? You know,
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: y'all y'all seeing like you know, y'all, y'all don't really
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: be friendly with each other, you know, be kind of distance. Brother,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: know your brother cool with me? I like your brother.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: Ain't know you had a brother, y'all know, y'all know
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: you don't know I had one boy. I introduce you
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: at the New Year's Eve party, and I remember back
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: looking at the party, seemed like y'all was just sort
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: of like, so you look, you look real sick. No,
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: not at all. Wasn't shot. No, not me, No, yeah no, baby,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: I'm taking that well baby, because you threw up. Oh well,
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: I was just look sick. You know, I had the
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: bean dip. It was just like setting on my stomach,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: but ginger on top of that. And I can't take
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: being different. Baby. You didn't need that. You didn't. You
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: didn't need that to ask first, got to introduce you
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: to my brother. As soon as you looked at him,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: you started trying to hold it in and threw up
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: and you threw that was that beanp The bean dip
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: had been one no being dip baby, because they didn't
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: bring the bean dip out right there. You ain't got
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: the yeah your brother up the hold on, hold on,
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Have you ever met
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: my brother before? I ain't ever seen your brother? Hi, baby, brother, baby,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: you're in a whole another octave right now? What's that
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: what you're crying for? I just asked you have you
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: met my brother before? I'm saying I got to tell
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: you ain't your brother, and you know I gotta upset stomping,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: keep asking me? So you keep talking about this episode something,
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: this being deal. Damn it's September. Now what did you
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: keep talking about this? Bean? Dip you head? Not for what?
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: You crying phone? Just answer the question. Have you ever
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: met my brother before? Baby just came, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: Just calm down. Don't worry about that. Look, I probably
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: ain't nothing, you know. I was just asking you know,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: I look crime all this hill, it ain't nothing. Just
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: to get out said something. Baby, Come on now, I'm
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: just a little up. I know, I know, I know,
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: I know, I know you had to be deal. Look
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: excuse me. Okay, hold on, I want to im I'll
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: tell you what. Don't worry about it. I'm gonna ask
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: my brother righten up on right now? Yeah, yeah, you're
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: here on the way over here because we gonna go out. Yeah,
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: ain't coming on. I'm just gonna ask him because I
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: don't want to set you. Oh he gonna you ask me?
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: Ask him? No, I ain't gonna asking nothing for you. No.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: This my brother, Me and my brother we talked. Hello, Hello, Hello,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: oh from so bad. Hold on, I've been sitting there.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I kept saying to myself, Well, when did that bean
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: I get to do? I? Oh oh have for with brother. Listen,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: we gotta wrap this up. Guys, email us your Instagram
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• 1:06:48
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• 1:06:53
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• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: top of the hour. I will have my reality update.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: But Steve right now, put your hands together. Whole twenty dollars, Steve,
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: how you know? That's exactly when they called me living
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: whole twenty dollars like I all the but I need
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: y'all help. Carlifarrel, that's going to listen. So you know,
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: last time men and Junior had a fight, we broke up.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: It's over. Well, okay, I got turned out by the youngness. Uh,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: Carlin Farrell, you know anybody named Junior? You know? Yeah? Yeah,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: he turned me out with the youngness. Then he got goes.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: I haven't talked to Junior. Where is it have y'all seen.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: Have y'all talks up? Because I haven't got it not
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: see about the cuss. Steve Harbit swept for lord about
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: the cuss. You said it right? He on vacation. He
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: ain't asked me to go. No, I'm trying to the cuss.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: What what if y'all broke up? Then it's over. Then
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: he just went on vacation. He's been playing in a vacation.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: When we was together and he playing a vacation. There
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: is Steve ding ding ding ding ding. That's why you're
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: the host of the biggest game showing the world, because
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: right because up there, that's what I think. So, now
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: that junior doesn't drop kick me to the curb, I
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: will start dating my age range. If you over the
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: age of fifth, that last your girl. Now, if you're
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: in your seventies, that made me a young tender running Tommy.
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: So how lift? But wait a minute, I need some requirements.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: I need some requirements. Well, first, I can't date no
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: more juniors. I gotta date cleophassists. If your name is
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: on anything his story, if your name got phone last
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: names put together, you know, like Franklin Jefferson Woodrow's Franklin,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: Jefferson Woodrow. That's up my alley right now, that's what
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: if you get excited, Steve Hobby that we're going over
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: to mister Alberts to get you a soup for church.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: Shut up and we go and after church, we're going
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: to the Hole in the wall. That's who I'm dating
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: right now. That girl, that's right, that's right, that's the okay, Steve,
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: that's right, Steve, give me some tips that day in
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: my age. Right if you're driving au on the quarter,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: diving in the back subroottop, they're gonna see you with
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: the gates of League and you got the eight tract
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: tape of it in your car. Right now, I'm dating you.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: If your name Theodore, Yah, Teddy, but they call you
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: Teddy Pete. They got your name and they call you
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: Teddy to be Yeah, if you ever met little Milton, Yeah,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: little blue bird, that's right. If your name is Milton,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: I'm dating you, right, we gotta go, crazy woman, I
• 1:10:01
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• 1:10:11
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• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: She is here, call a faroll with what reality update?
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, nephew, thank you. I miss my
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: girl saying wait wait, wait, wait, wait, let me do,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: let me do okay, coming in hot, I thank you, nephew.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: Let's get crackhead. Let's talk about Real housewives or Potomac
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: and then we're gonna talk about love and marriage hunts
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: me okay, wait wait wait my Potomac. No, I don't
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: really know. Geographically, I don't know, but so I'm in
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: I'm in DC shooting ready to love the next season.
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: Right there you go. So's it Potomac Hill? Is that?
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Where is that? Where it is? Yes? DC? Is it
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: by my apartment? I don't know where the Potoma where
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: is it? I don't know if the Potomac River is
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: by your apartment. I don't know. I just ask it.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: What I look outside, I don't really see no water.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: So I mean, where is the one? You gotta look
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: for it. You gotta look for a crazy man. Let's go, Robin.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: And she has been I don't know, she's been kind
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: of depressed on the show. She's been sleeping in late
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: and her fiance, who is her ex husband the father
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: of her children, they are getting remarried. One he is,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: you know, he's encouraging Robin. Come on, you gotta do better.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: You gotta get up. You gotta take care of the kids.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: And she said, you to the pandemic, homeschooling, the routine, cooking, cleaning.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: She's been kind of depressing, sleeping in late. So a
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: man is telling her, come on, mama, I need you.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: You gotta do a little bit better. So we'll see
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: what's happening with Robin. I'm sure a lot of women
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: can relate to what Robin was going through. It was tough.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: It was tough. So she just laying around and how
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: you're laying around, ain't doing fan around. Yeah, but it's
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: I think it's a mental thing. You know, we've been
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: talking about mental health and self care and all that,
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: so I think it's a lot of that that's going
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: on with Robin. I mean, she's cooking anything, and she
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: cleaning up. When she lar she doing anything to help
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: the household. She said, not seeing that for you. You
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: gotta you gotta be fair. Now, she she's she has
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: her issues and she's gonna talk about that. When a
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: man lay around and how he lays and he just
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: lays run out. Sorry, sorry, right trifling, So it's okay,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: house she ain't got it is, yes, it is? She
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: cooking or everybody all they just getting food delivering? How
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: they doing this? Chick fil A, A lot of Chick
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: fil A, A lot of chick But those things, those
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: are such the nicest people. Yes, yes, my pleasure, Chick
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: fil A. Let me move on real quick. Wendy, she
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: got her boobs and her booty done plastic surgery, so
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: I said, okay, then Wendy giving it to the people
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: at the same time. Did she get it done at
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: the same time? I think she did. She kind of
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: played around when she revealed what she had done, and
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: Robin was like, girl, you know you had your booty done.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: You do not have a button color. How much is
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: a booty though? What do a booty call? I don't know,
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: because mine, I'm good, so I didn't have to look
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: that up. I didn't answer that. Already enough already, and
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: you and Shirley, you and Serles straight, we're good, right good?
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: And Mississippi Monica straight now one of y'all top the top. Okay,
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: let's move on, let's move on, let's move on, all right,
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: So you know what, Wendy though she has issued with
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: Miya the new cast made on the show. The new
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: cast member a Karen's friend. I don't know. She keeps
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: coming for her. She does not like her. Mia is beautiful.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: She says she's had a lot of placid surgery. She
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: is younger than her husband is about a thirty year difference.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: She's had everything done, including her private part area priastic surgery.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: Mia has had all of that done. So we're like,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: all right there, girl, So we gotta see what's going
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: on with that. What's going on with Jazelle and Karen?
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: They absolutely hate each other. So we will be watching
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac and Quile before we run out
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: of time. Nephew. The new season on the own Network
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: of Love and Marriage Huntsville. Martell and Melody, they are back.
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: Marceu and Titha, they are back. There's a new couple
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: on the show, Tiffany and her husband Lewis. So they
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: are teasing what's coming up. The season is back, but
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: you've got a chance to kick it with him this season.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: Who I got reality update? I got all the tea baby,
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: just getting this information from Carlo's reality update always coming
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: in hot. So we will be watching Love and Marriage
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: Huntsville on the own network looking for the nephew. So
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour, make sure you come back.
• 1:14:44
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• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: you're listening, so listen. You guys know the actors Ashton
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: Kutcher and his wife Mila Coolness, Well, listen to this.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: They aren't big on bathing. Did you say no, Steve,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: you didn't know who they were, did you? I mean,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: I know who he is. I don't know her. You
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: know when you see it, she's she's an actress, that's
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: his wife. So they just as well listen. You heard
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: about this right, Tommy. They were on a podcast and
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: they just got real about their beauty routines. And the
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: couple revealed that they only wash souls and holes every day,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: so yeah, they don't take baths that often. They only
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: watched souls and holes every day, and the same goals
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: for bathing their kids. They said that there's no point
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: in bathing the kids all the time unless you literally
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: see dirt on them, and that's what they said what
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: they did with their newborn. And when he was with
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: Demi Moore, he didn't do that. He took a whole baith.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: He was this behind Oh damn bail. Then he wasn't
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: having this. Yes, she wasn't having that. What is just
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: half ass half and you bathe and you're doing this?
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: Don't make no sense? Are we getting pumped? Are we
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: getting pumped? No? No, this is everywhere. I saw the
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: story trending and I'm like, they only wash souls and holes.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: That's a little too much information the right, Steven feet right,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: so they're doing those holes, your holes, and then there's
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: of course there's that one, then there's that. Yeah, we
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: gotta go more of the Steve Harb. Yeah, you're listening
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: to show, all right, check this out, guys. Charles Berkeley
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: says the only people who don't have the COVID nineteen
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: vaccines are just well buttholes. But he said a hole,
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: said Carl, he said a hole, Le said, people that
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  Speaker 1: don't get the vaccines asshole. Thank you, thank you. That's
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  Speaker 1: a little it was my honor. Well I check this out.
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  Speaker 1: While appearing on seeing CNBC, I should say, Charles Barkley
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  Speaker 1: said I'm vaccinated, and everybody should be vaccinated period. The
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  Speaker 1: only people who are not vaccinated are just a holes.
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  Speaker 1: Sir Charles went on to say he personally thinks that
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  Speaker 1: the sports leagues should force players to get vaccinated, and
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  Speaker 1: he said, can you imagine if one of these guys
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  Speaker 1: that are not vaccinated, if they were, you know, they
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  Speaker 1: want these players or their kids, or their wives, or
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  Speaker 1: their girlfriends or their parents get sick and die over
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  Speaker 1: some unnecessary conspiracy bull blank. That's Sir Charles said, I
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  Speaker 1: don't understand somebody else on the team, and you got
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  Speaker 1: all these people around you, I don't understand them not
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  Speaker 1: getting vaccinated. That makes no sense. You know, are you
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  Speaker 1: playing day in and day out, you know that this
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  Speaker 1: virus is deadly, and you don't want to You don't
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  Speaker 1: want to protect yourself and everybody around you. That don't
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  Speaker 1: make no sense to me. It not only don't make
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  Speaker 1: no sense if you playing basketball on the team sport,
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  Speaker 1: it don't make no sense if you're part of a family.
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  Speaker 1: Right to see, it's it's it's more non athletes than
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  Speaker 1: it is athletes that's walking around not vaccinated. And I
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  Speaker 1: started to on this show not to push the vaccination
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  Speaker 1: because I was getting so many friends of mine gonna
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  Speaker 1: hay Man, Steve, and ain't right for you to push
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  Speaker 1: that you don't know what's in it, sending people off
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  Speaker 1: to slaughter. Well, now that several very very close people
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  Speaker 1: in my life have contracted COVID, and a very very
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  Speaker 1: close person in my life it's in the hospital right
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  Speaker 1: now suffering been in I SEU five days with COVID.
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  Speaker 1: They just moved him to a regular room. I was
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  Speaker 1: able to talk to him. He said, Man, I wish
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  Speaker 1: I got that vaccine. Wow. Now there's a report out.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody told me as I haven't seen it, but somebody
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  Speaker 1: said that most people who are in the hospital now
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  Speaker 1: who have contracted COVID, who do not have the vaccine,
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  Speaker 1: every last one of them has said I wish I
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  Speaker 1: had taken the vaccine now, because he once you get hospitalized,
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  Speaker 1: those symptoms then got serious, very serious. It's a serious,
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  Speaker 1: deadly diseased. My in laws, who are in their eighties,
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  Speaker 1: got vaccinated. The nurse that goes to their house gave
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  Speaker 1: them COVID. They didn't even have to go to the
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  Speaker 1: hospital now pre existing condition, and the doctor clearly stated
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  Speaker 1: if they had not got this vaccine two weeks ago
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  Speaker 1: when we celebrated their sixtieth were in the anniversary, we
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  Speaker 1: might not be happy. Coming up, it will be our
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  Speaker 1: last break of the day and Steve Harvey will have
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  Speaker 1: his closing remarks, and that's coming up at nine after
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  Speaker 1: the hour. You're listening to, Okay, Steve closing remarks, the
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  Speaker 1: last break of the day, you know, Man, I was
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  Speaker 1: thinking about this, and I'd gotten into a conversation with
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  Speaker 1: a few young people yesterday at work and we were
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  Speaker 1: talking about becoming successful. And they asked me, They said,
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  Speaker 1: mister h what do you think is one of the
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  Speaker 1: key components to being successful? And I wanted to try
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  Speaker 1: to share with them in a different way than I
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  Speaker 1: normally do, because you know, people think I'm repetitive, but
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  Speaker 1: you the principles of a success are not going to change.
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  Speaker 1: You can find more clever ways to say it, but
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  Speaker 1: they're the same principles. And I told them, I said,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta get good at suffering and then with what?
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  Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, if you want to be successful,
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  Speaker 1: you're going to have to get really good it's suffering.
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  Speaker 1: They said, please explain that, because don't nobody want to suffer?
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  Speaker 1: I said, that's true. Nobody wants to suffer. But in
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  Speaker 1: order to be successful, you got to get comfortable being uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 1: And they were young, and they were just really honestly
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  Speaker 1: asking me, but why are you saying that? I said,
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  Speaker 1: because everything you want in life, everything you consider success,
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  Speaker 1: it's on the other side of some discomfort. You've got
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  Speaker 1: to break through the wall of discomfort in order to
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  Speaker 1: get to whatever it is you want. I don't care
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  Speaker 1: what it is. If you want to win the strong
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  Speaker 1: man contest, you got to get uncomfortable. If you want
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  Speaker 1: to win a gold medal in the Olympics, you got
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  Speaker 1: to get uncomfortable. Boat. If you want a college degree,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get uncomfortable. You want to climb
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  Speaker 1: the corporate ladder, you gotta get uncomfortable. You want the
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  Speaker 1: top position down at your job, you got to get uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 1: You want to make the track team, the basketball team,
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  Speaker 1: the baseball team, you gotta get uncomfortable. You want to
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  Speaker 1: one day get the world record in the high jump,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta get uncomfortable. You want to break you same
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  Speaker 1: boats record, you gotta get uncomfortable. I don't care who
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  Speaker 1: you are or what you do, but if you have
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  Speaker 1: any aspiration of being successful, you gonna have to get uncomfortable.
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  Speaker 1: Because let me tell you something. If you stay in
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  Speaker 1: your comfort zone, that's exactly where you will failed. Stay there,
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  Speaker 1: Stay in your comfort zone, and watch what happened to
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  Speaker 1: you that you're gonna fail in that thing right there,
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  Speaker 1: because there is no success in comfort. Getting successful and
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  Speaker 1: having something in life and wanting more in life is
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  Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. That's why I told him early on, I said,
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  Speaker 1: you got to get good at suffering. So I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell you something about Steve Harvey. You can say whatever
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  Speaker 1: you want to say about me, but I'm good at suffering.
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  Speaker 1: And you got to say, well, that's a stupid thing
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  Speaker 1: to get good at. Okay, call it stupid if you
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  Speaker 1: want to, But I got good at it. And what
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  Speaker 1: makes me be able to sustain and fight through all
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  Speaker 1: the things that have happened to me because of God's
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  Speaker 1: grace and his mercy and his strengthening me. But the
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  Speaker 1: strength he gave me, he gave me an ability to suffer. Well, Oh,
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  Speaker 1: Steve harn know how to suffer. I have set within
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  Speaker 1: this thing with nothing but me and God so many times,
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  Speaker 1: so many days, so many weeks, so many years. It
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  Speaker 1: wasn't nobody but me and him. I've learned how to suffer.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't get into learning how to deal with
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  Speaker 1: suffering and discomfort, you're not going to be successful. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sorry to tell you that I wish there were another way.
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  Speaker 1: But everything that you want in life is on the
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  Speaker 1: other side of some discomfortable, something discomforting. You got to
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  Speaker 1: break through the wall of discomfort. You got to break
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  Speaker 1: through the circle of convenience. You've got to break through
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  Speaker 1: the moments of suffering to get to what you want
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: in life. You want to keep your relationship together, you
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  Speaker 1: got to get in there and get uncomfortable. You got
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  Speaker 1: to start talking about the things that y'all don't really
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  Speaker 1: want to talk about. You got to open up the
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: can of worms that you wish would keep lead on it.
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  Speaker 1: That's if you want your relationship to last. Because I
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  Speaker 1: don't care what relationship you're in, you're gonna hit the
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  Speaker 1: point where you're gonna have to talk about some uncomfortable things.
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  Speaker 1: You want to save your money for a new house,
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  Speaker 1: you got to get uncomfortable. Why I got to get
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  Speaker 1: uncomfortable save money for a new house because you can't
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: go spend like you want to. Now, you got to
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  Speaker 1: put some money away. And if you want to put
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  Speaker 1: some money ways me and you got have to cut
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  Speaker 1: back on something that ain't comfortable, that's uncomfortable. And I'm
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  Speaker 1: just talking to you about small things. Oh but don't
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  Speaker 1: mess around and want nothing big in life. Don't sit
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  Speaker 1: up here and decide you really want to be successful.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say you consider success being a millionaire. Let's just
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  Speaker 1: say that's not the definition of success. But let's just
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: say you want to be a millionaire. Can I tell
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: you something. You got to get ready to suffer because
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: they're not printing that money out there and then mailing
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  Speaker 1: it to people's houses. You got to go and do
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  Speaker 1: some serious things to acquire a million dollars, and then
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  Speaker 1: you got to do some even more serious things to
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  Speaker 1: hold onto it. And then you got to get even
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: more serious if you want to acquire some more. So y'all,
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  Speaker 1: here's what I'm telling you, and please don't take it
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  Speaker 1: the wrong way. But if you have any aspirations or
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  Speaker 1: becoming more than what you are right now, you got
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  Speaker 1: to get out your comfort zone and you got to
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  Speaker 1: get comfortable being uncomfortable flat period. That's all to it.
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  Speaker 1: And when you get uncomfortable, Before you get uncomfortable, you
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  Speaker 1: need some God, don't wait till you're uncomfortable to call it.
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  Speaker 1: Start that relationship. Now those are my clothes and remarks.
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