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Relationship Questions, Right or Wrong, When To Shut Up, Doomed Wedding and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: giving them like amzing bus things and it's not doing
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  Speaker 1: me through good it. Steve Hart to mother for ste
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  Speaker 1: don't joy y. You gotta use that turn. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: turn to turn them out, turning, got to turn them
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  Speaker 1: out to turn turn the water the water. Ya come,
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  Speaker 1: come on your back, h I sure will. A good
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  Speaker 1: morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on dig
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  Speaker 1: me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, back in business too? Man, Man, how good
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  Speaker 1: is God? I mean, really, if you think about it
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  Speaker 1: in spite of all that's going down in your life,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, it could be worse. But secondly, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: you have to remember. And I've just had to have
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  Speaker 1: this conversation with myself this morning. That's how I'm fresh
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  Speaker 1: on this one right here. When a challenge faces you,
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  Speaker 1: are you going through a difficult moment, or you didn't
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  Speaker 1: hit a bump in the road in the middle of that,
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  Speaker 1: If you could manage to be grateful, it would take
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  Speaker 1: you a long way. Gratitude is a powerful resource. If
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  Speaker 1: you can be grateful in the middle of it. Gratitude
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  Speaker 1: is a powerful resource when it's dim for you, And
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  Speaker 1: it got a little bumpy on the road, and he
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  Speaker 1: ran into some obstacles, and you didn't ran up into
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  Speaker 1: some detooled signs, and your journey ain't smooth as it
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  Speaker 1: was last week or last year. You gotta be grateful
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  Speaker 1: for the things that are going right and that have
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  Speaker 1: gone right, and for the thing that's wrong right now
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  Speaker 1: to get right? Man? Can I share that with you? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Is that a tough one to learn? It is for me.
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  Speaker 1: It has been one of my toughest challenges is to
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  Speaker 1: learn how to be grateful because it's a powerful resource,
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  Speaker 1: but how to be grateful in moments of despair when
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  Speaker 1: it ain't going right. See here's a mistake I would make.
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  Speaker 1: See when something go wrong, I want to focus on
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  Speaker 1: the wrong so much in an attempt to fix it.
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  Speaker 1: But even then the focus ain't always in to fix it.
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  Speaker 1: The focus becomes, Man, this is bad. Man, I can't
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  Speaker 1: believe this is happening. Why just keep going down? That
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  Speaker 1: doesn't fix anything? You know, mealing over it, going over
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  Speaker 1: what's wrong, explaining it, sharing it with your friends. You know,
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  Speaker 1: making it sound worse than it is, tell the story
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  Speaker 1: for pity from other people. All of that, right there,
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  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with the fix. Sometimes you're just
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  Speaker 1: mulling over it. You're just making it worse. You're just
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  Speaker 1: making it a bigger problem. You're manifesting it into your atmosphere,
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  Speaker 1: You're putting it out there in your spirit. Now, all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, it consumes your day. Next thing, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you're having a bad day. If you're having a bad day,
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  Speaker 1: it's because you've been having some bad thoughts. So what
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  Speaker 1: I've had to learn how to do, and what I'm
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  Speaker 1: working on this morning is I'm working on this situation
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  Speaker 1: that's been cropped up. I was going kind of smooth
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  Speaker 1: here for a minute, and now I didn't got real
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  Speaker 1: bumpy in the road, you know, and all this here.
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  Speaker 1: So what I'm thinking about now, though, is even though
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  Speaker 1: I've hit a bump in the road, and even though
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  Speaker 1: out and ran into a detour, and even though I've
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  Speaker 1: hit this love, I'm going down into a valley, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't up on the peak. Can I not still be
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  Speaker 1: grateful for all the things that God has given me,
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  Speaker 1: for all the things He's done for me, for all
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  Speaker 1: the things he's brought me through, and realizing that even
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  Speaker 1: this that's happening to me again is going to pass too.
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  Speaker 1: He gonna get me through that attitude. Come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: God is a good god Man. It's a lot to
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  Speaker 1: be grateful for. So while I'm tripping on this bumping
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  Speaker 1: the road out and here, what I gotta remember is
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  Speaker 1: all the things He's done for me. And like I say,
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  Speaker 1: my saying is joy and depression cannot reside in the
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  Speaker 1: same place. So instead of being down about this new
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  Speaker 1: bumping the road, if I'm constantly filling my mind with
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  Speaker 1: the thoughts of how good He's been to me, of
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  Speaker 1: what all he's done for me, of all the things
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  Speaker 1: he's brought me through, of all the blessings he's presented
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  Speaker 1: me with. When I go down that list, I really
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  Speaker 1: don't have a lot of time to mull over the situation. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Do I have to fix this bump in the road?
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  Speaker 1: Of course I do. Are There's some things I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to have to do the straighten it out, of course
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  Speaker 1: it is. But Steve just going to get the business
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  Speaker 1: of doing it and straighten it out. What you mulling
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  Speaker 1: over and wearing about it for you know, old people.
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  Speaker 1: I heard old people say something I was growing up
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  Speaker 1: in the church. They say, if you're gonna pray about it,
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  Speaker 1: don't worry about it. But if you're gonna worry about it,
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  Speaker 1: don't pray about it. That's an amazing thing. And prayer
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  Speaker 1: just happens to be my weapon of choice. Now, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't always been that way. I want you to understand
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  Speaker 1: that my first weapon of choice was you do it
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  Speaker 1: to me, I do it to you. You call me out,
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  Speaker 1: I call you out, you say something bad about me.
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  Speaker 1: I've tried to find you and say something bad about you.
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  Speaker 1: That was my weapon in the past. How did that
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  Speaker 1: work out for you, Steve? Not so good? Because you
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  Speaker 1: know what, I spend a lot of time fighting back,
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  Speaker 1: kicking back, swinging back, when I could have spent all
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  Speaker 1: that time climbing. See, all you're trying to do at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the day, folks, is have a better
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  Speaker 1: life than the one you got. All you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: do is to improve your position in life. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's not my business to make sure you don't get
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  Speaker 1: where you're going. Ain't got no time for that. It's
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  Speaker 1: not my job to assure that you ain't as high
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  Speaker 1: as me. I ain't got no time for that. Your
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  Speaker 1: real mission and purpose is to have the best life
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  Speaker 1: that you can have, to ascend to the highest plateau
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  Speaker 1: that you can get to, to make your family as
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  Speaker 1: comfortable as you can, to provide as much as you
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  Speaker 1: can for your family. But legally, see, those of us
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  Speaker 1: are sitting up here trying to come up with sideways.
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  Speaker 1: You can ask a couple million men sitting in prison
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  Speaker 1: today how they wish they hadn't have done that, and
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  Speaker 1: they'll tell you, Oh, man, I wish I never had
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  Speaker 1: did it. I knew not to go down there. Something
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  Speaker 1: told me not to go down there. Man. If I
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  Speaker 1: could change things, I would. But they're sitting somewhere doing
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  Speaker 1: some time that had they made another decision, they wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: have to do. Now that don't make them throw away people,
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  Speaker 1: na man, because everybody makes mistakes, and God is in
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  Speaker 1: the forgiving business. And some of us have done some
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  Speaker 1: things that really broke the law, and a whole lot
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  Speaker 1: of other things and deserve to do some time. But
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  Speaker 1: through the grace of God, we didn't. But now we
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  Speaker 1: set up here and we passed judgment on people who
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  Speaker 1: got to do something man, I don't care. I don't
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  Speaker 1: care what you've done. God can't forgive anything, but our position,
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  Speaker 1: our motivation in life is to try to have the
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  Speaker 1: best life we can have and provide for those around
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  Speaker 1: us and make it comfortable. If that's your ambition, you
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  Speaker 1: don't have time to worry about or concern yourself with
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  Speaker 1: another person. And I wasted time doing that, and that's
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  Speaker 1: not the way to get it done. It's simply mine
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  Speaker 1: to your business taking care of you and getting yourself
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  Speaker 1: right and tight. It's twenty four so that's a full
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  Speaker 1: time job. So what I had to learn was and
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  Speaker 1: what I've the reason I've chosen prayer as as my
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  Speaker 1: weapon of choice now is that now prayer helps me
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  Speaker 1: that I don't have to fight back. Now, if I
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  Speaker 1: get cornered, I'm gonna fight you. I ain't even gonna
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  Speaker 1: lie to you. And now I'm still working on some
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  Speaker 1: things that trigger me. You know, you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and and and and so I'm I'm slowly getting better
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  Speaker 1: at that. But I've learned that my weapon of choice
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  Speaker 1: is prayer now, So when it happens ugly for me,
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  Speaker 1: I pray about it. When it gets tight and dismal,
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  Speaker 1: for me. I pray about it. And the thing about prayer, man,
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  Speaker 1: is prayer changes things. Yes, it does. Now read about
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  Speaker 1: it and try it. That's the deal. Okay, come on
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  Speaker 1: prayer as of wonderful weapons. You're listening to show. Ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, man, have your attention please. Uh it's Monday morning,
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  Speaker 1: it's the beginning of a new week. But it's the
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  Speaker 1: same damn thing up in here, reeving to turn up
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  Speaker 1: this volume, create this ignorance and be botted bout it,
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  Speaker 1: dog gone it, Shirley Strong. We let Steve, we let Oh,
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  Speaker 1: that's so that at one time we let Steve Man.
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  Speaker 1: We didn't live fun. That was fun. It's young people
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  Speaker 1: listening to this show going, uh, we live back, and
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  Speaker 1: they probably ain't even saying that. No ball, they say,
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  Speaker 1: still saying we live. I'm scared to use modern day slang.
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  Speaker 1: I'm still going I'm still doing you know, what's happening
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  Speaker 1: with a playoff that way? I know, I know it's
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  Speaker 1: out of style and all my talk is out of style.
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  Speaker 1: We let bla for rel what's happening? We bought that life?
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  Speaker 1: What's going on? Junior? You got one? I just gonna
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  Speaker 1: say more than one, Tommy, you got one lit light lit?
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  Speaker 1: I'm living my bathlight man. Yeah, now, dude, this one
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  Speaker 1: still work turn up? Yeah, that was still work on
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  Speaker 1: what it is? That? Good? Was good? Everybody cool? Man?
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  Speaker 1: My man? Slapping five? You did that that you may
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  Speaker 1: as well throw it right on in their Still I
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  Speaker 1: still say right on. I still say amen. When I'm
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  Speaker 1: talk to my older brother, it's it's like talking to
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  Speaker 1: Marvin Gay. Serious, man, I'm talking to them, Hey, what's up? Drunk?
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  Speaker 1: What's handing with you? Up? Man? Give me some of
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  Speaker 1: that skin? Man, some skin, don't that's five on the
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  Speaker 1: black hand? Keeping like that. It's all right, man, right on.
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  Speaker 1: What's been going on with your players? You still doing it?
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  Speaker 1: Ain't you? You know, people ain't easy. But somebody kind
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  Speaker 1: of doing it might be me. Yeah, what's up? What's up? Tommy?
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  Speaker 1: One of my little girls? What are friends of the
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  Speaker 1: house saying? Miss Timmy? You lit? I said, baby? I
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  Speaker 1: said baby, I don't, I don't. I don't smoke. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. Say what that couldn't
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  Speaker 1: be a drop either way. I wasn't there. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what lit meant. Yeah, especially in front
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  Speaker 1: of your kids. No, but you gotta stay fresh and hill, Timmy,
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  Speaker 1: you we got younger kids too, you know. Hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you what I did one day in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: I came out my office with my shirt open, and
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  Speaker 1: my kids friends was in the house. When you say, Dad,
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  Speaker 1: your shirt is open, I said, I live here. Tell
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  Speaker 1: all your little flat stomach ass from to turn around
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  Speaker 1: quick looking over here. But it's so funny, Steve, You're
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  Speaker 1: right because we're at an age now where everything we
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  Speaker 1: do embarrasses our kids. There's nothing that we can do
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  Speaker 1: that where our kids think we're cool. Nothing. All right, listen,
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  Speaker 1: coming up at thirty two after the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop right after this. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: we let turn up. You're listening to show, all right.
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  Speaker 1: I want to ask the guys something. What is something
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  Speaker 1: you wish you weren't too old to do anymore? Like,
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  Speaker 1: for instance, Carla, you jumped in a bouncy castle with
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  Speaker 1: kids at a festival. You did that? Yeah? Uh oh wait,
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  Speaker 1: too much and too old to be doing that. I
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  Speaker 1: was exhausted. Jay do a flip flip? I tried knocking
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  Speaker 1: all the kid yes, yeah, yeah, all of that way
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  Speaker 1: too old for so okay, Steve, we'll start with you.
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  Speaker 1: What what what are you too old to do? But
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  Speaker 1: really wish you weren't too old to do anymore? Some
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  Speaker 1: of them. I wish I could just stand here and
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  Speaker 1: pee on myself, wish being a baby and infect man,
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  Speaker 1: and then somebody changed me. You know they got people
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  Speaker 1: that do that, Steve, They got professional Oh yeah, no,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want that. No modo. But you don't want
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  Speaker 1: to care. Oh but they be cussing when they do anything.
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, yeah, that's that's a difference. Steve's not sick
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  Speaker 1: or anything. That's what he want to do. No, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. Matter of fact, I don't really
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  Speaker 1: want that to happen. Yeah, okay, you want to do
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  Speaker 1: all you want to do? A Yeah, well for real,
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  Speaker 1: what would you really? Let you roll a skateboard like
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  Speaker 1: you're Why can't you do that because your knees? Well, no,
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  Speaker 1: I can't fall. Nobody follow them, none of us on fall? Now, man,
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  Speaker 1: you fall, it's actually yeah it is jay day. When
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  Speaker 1: you fall, you could bounce up. You can jump right up.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, different. Yeah, And there's some noises that go
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  Speaker 1: with that fall. What about you like right now, if
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  Speaker 1: you fall, you don't bounce up, you lay steel your
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  Speaker 1: body got and just start seeing what works. Yeah, take
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  Speaker 1: your time, start checking up. Do we have a goal
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  Speaker 1: for legs? Jack? Can I see that's the bigger one?
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  Speaker 1: Can I think? How long I've been laying down? There?
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  Speaker 1: Your question A good question right there? What about you?
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  Speaker 1: J's something you might be too old to do now
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  Speaker 1: that you wish you were. Steve took mind. But I
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  Speaker 1: really wish I could like to ride. I can't. I
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  Speaker 1: cannot ride a bike now. I'm scared. I'm a fall.
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  Speaker 1: Like Steve said, I would like to ride. Oh you can.
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  Speaker 1: I'm somebody gonna hit me with a card. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: I just see it. I see bad stuff. When somebody
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  Speaker 1: with a car that has his point of view for
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  Speaker 1: his life, something major got to happen to him. We
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  Speaker 1: mean just a regular bike, not a motorcycle. Jay, I
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  Speaker 1: was you could go on a bike trail back in
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  Speaker 1: the day. I really could roll escape, really really good.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't do it now, No way. You can't hit
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  Speaker 1: the knees. The knees don't want to break anything. Fall
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  Speaker 1: back fault. Yeah, and you're trying to stop the fault.
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  Speaker 1: You could break something, and it's way slower nowadays. If
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  Speaker 1: I get on some skate, it's really slow. Did you
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  Speaker 1: get your You think you're going around the rink at
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  Speaker 1: a You are not moving? You know you're not moving
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  Speaker 1: at all. It's baby STI in the gap behind you said, dude, dude, way,
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  Speaker 1: that's the way I feel like youposed to be on
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  Speaker 1: the inside, sir. Yeah, what are you supposed to be
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  Speaker 1: on the inside? What about your nephew threesome? I can't
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  Speaker 1: even I wish I could steal? Dude? What you for that?
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  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. I can't really perform. What what
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  Speaker 1: do you say, Jake? Not Team Timmy day? Now? What
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  Speaker 1: did you say? I said, I thought you was gonna
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  Speaker 1: say run, but you didn't. Oh pop team Yeah, tom
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  Speaker 1: that I was about to do it, but you did.
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  Speaker 1: President and CEO of Team Tommy said that, Oh we
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  Speaker 1: got a meeting on him. Okay, so ro skating and
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  Speaker 1: shirt just I can't. I can't do it no more.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I could. Wow, I never could it, Tommy. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you had bad experience. How many times did you deal
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  Speaker 1: with that? Steve? It was just one time that one time,
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  Speaker 1: or he did try no more after this one time?
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  Speaker 1: And I knew right away this is not for me,
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  Speaker 1: did you my damn confusion? It is. It's a lot
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  Speaker 1: of fun, confusion fun. Kiss you for ten seconds, kiss
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  Speaker 1: you for ten seconds, rub you three times, rub you
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  Speaker 1: three times, pat you five times, pat you five times.
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  Speaker 1: So you thought it had to be even he trying
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  Speaker 1: to distribute you. Ain't got to do that in your ass.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't keep tracking the damn play you was staring
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  Speaker 1: your what in your eyes? Staring your ass for thirty seconds.
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  Speaker 1: Then stan you same damn you was look much better
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  Speaker 1: than mine. Miles like, ladies, I'm here, okay, lady, ladies,
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  Speaker 1: it's a threesome. They crossed bag like you wasn't there, ladies, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: get something neat and I'll be back up. Maybe y'all
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  Speaker 1: be done? Hello, But Steve, how did yours end? I
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  Speaker 1: can't remember how yours ended? Was everybody satisfied on when
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  Speaker 1: you left? Y'all? He'll know what ended was? One girl said,
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  Speaker 1: I really don't think you're into me. I was so
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  Speaker 1: happy she got up, man. Then I went to work. Yeah, right,
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  Speaker 1: track one man, Let's go uns now, Yeah, all right.
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  Speaker 1: Never you tell me he's run that prank back. He's
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  Speaker 1: coming up right after this. You're listening right now, It's
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: time for the nephew to run that prank back. Let's
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: run it back to all you all you praise dance.
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  Speaker 1: As I said, this goes out to all of your
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  Speaker 1: all upset some people on this one. Yeah? Did that
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  Speaker 1: run go out on the radio? Yes? Yes, yes? Do
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  Speaker 1: you guys do what I like? Praise dance? That ain't
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  Speaker 1: for me? Ray, we'll talk about the minute praise dance
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  Speaker 1: for y'all. Hello, this is the day that the Lord
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  Speaker 1: is made. Let us rejoice and be glad in And
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  Speaker 1: how you doing? I'm looking for uh Stania. This is
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Sitana Stania. This is brother Fuller from the church. How
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  Speaker 1: are you? Oh, I'm with brother. How are you? I'm good?
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  Speaker 1: I'm good. Um. We wanted to give you a call
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  Speaker 1: about the about the praise dance and that's at the church.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I wanted to really show you how
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  Speaker 1: much uh you're doing a great job over there with
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  Speaker 1: the praise dances and you you definitely do a great
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  Speaker 1: job on uh on on on every third Sunday that
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  Speaker 1: you guys actually perform everybody seemed to really like it. Well,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. What can I do for you today?
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: There is a bit of a situation with um. You know,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: it's been brought to our attention. We actually had a
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  Speaker 1: small gathering, a little meeting about it and wanted to
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  Speaker 1: I've been elected to act to give you a fall
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  Speaker 1: and who was this a keeper? I'm sorry? Who are again?
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  Speaker 1: Brother full of uh huh? And and and who had
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  Speaker 1: a meeting uh some of the brothers at the church
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  Speaker 1: and uh paths to actually sat in for a moment
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  Speaker 1: on it. And I was actually elected to actually just
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  Speaker 1: give you a call that nothing that I don't think
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: we can't get uh rectified and you know, move on
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: slothly as we normally do. But I just think it's
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: we wanted to reach out to you and kind of
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: make you aware of it. If it's if you don't mind, okay, um?
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: And what things are those? Well? Since a Tania has
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: any of the praise dancers before they became praise dancers?
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Was was was was any of them strippers? I beg
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: your partner, was any of the praise dancers that at
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: the church that you have on the praise team right
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: now with any of them strippers in the past. I'm sorry, sir,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I don't I don't really know who you are, um,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: and I don't really saying this line of question. Like
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: I said, I'm brother Fuller. I don't think we've met.
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  Speaker 1: But uh, like I said, I've been electing to give
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: you a call. It's saying what happened is this past
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: week when you all actually danced, it seemed like a
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: couple of the girls was actually gyrating during the praise routine.
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Hey what jat raiding? Brother Fuller. I don't know who
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: you are, and I don't know what you saw. None
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  Speaker 1: of my girls with gy rating. They would dancing for
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: the Lord. And I think if you look through your
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: lord's eye perhaps you would see them better in staid,
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: maybe you were looking through the gyrating. Aye, Look, some
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: of these girls a cold A couple of the girl
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: we can point them out. A couple of them now, uh,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: strip girl tendencies of it then, because some of them
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: has been strip girls tendency? You know what, sir? I
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: think we need to complete this call. Perhaps I need
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: to call Bishop and speak to him myself, because you know,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you do all days, but I
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: have a real job, and I'm sitting here holding a
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: conversation in my office about jar rating strippers in the church.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: Are you keep me bam? Listen, listen. Now here's a
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: couple other things that they're talking about. Some of the
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: girls feet a real ass you when you are a
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: performing and they want to see it, Maybe you can,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you can. I don't know. Maybe I don't know if
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: y'all need to grip or whatever that y'all don't. Y'all
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: don't put lotion on. We're not sure what that is.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: As well as the totally alpiler. Everybody asks three four,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: five different designs and everything. Is it? Any way, y'all
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: can be in unison with you're totally apolers. But the
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: most important thing ill to Ji Raden doing the dance routine.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know what your feet look like. I don't
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: need you calling me talking to me about my girls
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: their feet, their nail pilers. Perhaps your man should be
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: on Jesus instead of on them. How about God man?
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: From my mind, I have time, I don't have time, mama,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: and to be on Jesus when somebody shaking them. But
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: at the church, now that's the problem, I know a look,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I'm at work now. I'm trying to keep a work tone.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: You're gonna make me curse up here and let me
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I will deal
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: with pastor. If he has something to say with me,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: he can say it to me personally. But I'm done
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: with this conversation. Are you gonna deal with the jy rating?
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Is what we want to know? Maybe you know what?
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: It just hit me. Maybe you're one of the ones
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: that's doing the gy rate. Look, let me tell you something.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: My girls ain't doing no damn jar rating, and neither
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: am I. Now I am done with this conversation. Do
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: you understand? But listen, I'm done. Are you're done with
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: the ratings? We want to stop so we can we
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: can't praise the Lord. If the boot is it shake?
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: You know what? I gotta go to work now again.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know what your issue is. It sounds to
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: me like you have an issue which I reading booties
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: and I heard so much gy reading booties in one
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: conversation in my entire life. Now my mind is set
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: on Jesus. I don't know what your mind is set on.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: What's to tell you? Before you was a praise, then
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: a ministry over the ministry? Did you ll use to strip?
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Hu didn't do no stripping? Now that did you? Why
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: I do any stripping? What did you? I'm gonna do
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: any stripping? Whatever you heard what I said? How do
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: you like to somebody call? You would ask you if
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: your mom wa get some stript and how do you
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: like that? Oh? I'm saying you know what I want
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: to know? When is the next rehearsal? Then the way
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: I can come and pick out who it is that's
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: doing this. Jill, you don't have You don't have any
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: vistes at my rehearsal. I don't want to see you
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: at my rehearsal. I don't want to. I don't want
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: to see any part for you in my rearse if
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I see you near one of my girls. That's why
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I'm coming after you myself. Do you understand me? I
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: need to find out who's doing that job? Damn thing?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: You need to say? Your body yawn high and I'm
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: glad y'all ain't this? And when the when the when
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: the plate is being played? Because I ain't not telling her?
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: You act with them? One is coming through it? You
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: know what that's it. That's it. You call me disrespecting me.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: I'm at w I can't even have this more. You
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: know what, don't call me no more, don't look at
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: my girls no more. Man come to the church and
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: see what I got for it. I don't want to know.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Is you're gonna stop the job? Rating is doing that,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: and that's what I'm doing. Who they you're talking to
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: like that? You're supposed to be a mine of your say, yeah,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: have died listening to tell you? Now I'm getting ready
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: to get when I got one more thing to say
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: to you? Fold your league. Now you ain't got a
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: damn thing to say to me. I said I was telling,
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: and I said, I got one more thing to say?
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: Is you listen? You know what? Men, get off my phone.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it anyway. This is nephew Timmy from
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire praise and ministry congregation,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: all your girls got me the frank phone called you.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm a shooty. Oh I think I'm ursing on
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: the radio. Oh wait, why you know it was all
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: over five of Now I got some explaining this show.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Lord ha Mercy, you did good, though, you did really
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: you in there. Oh wait, I talked to Bishop. You
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: might want. Oh, I think I'm gonna have a show.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I got one thing to ask you. Tell you what
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: it is the baddest radio show in the land, nobody
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: else but the Steve Harvey Morning the Show. Huh you know.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I mean when you're listening to the again, you don't
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: think to get some people up there. Don't need to
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: be up there. Absolutely, that's not for me to say.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just judging church a praise dance limit. What do
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: you agree with? Time in which I seldom do, but
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: we have got to limit the time that praise dancers
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: can be up down. It's never moved me. It has
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: never made me want to join. It ain't never made
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: me want to do better. It always has made me
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: want to go home. Really, I want this service overWe
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I want y'all stop all that waving. Can tell you
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: the real thing. It ain't like synchronized women women own key.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: I don't like watching people ain't all at the same time.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Right up to this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: All right, the Chief Love Officer, the CLO is in
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: the building and Steve, it's a big decision, you know,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: to enter into a long term relationship, and before you
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: take that step, make sure you are on solid ground.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Would you agree with that, Steve? Well, yeah, okay, all right.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: The commitment doesn't need to come with a ring, but
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: you should present your boot with certain questions and it
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: helps you both to know what you're getting into. So, Steve,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: what about these questions? I'm going to read the questions
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: off to give me your opinions on these questions. All right,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: you can ask your your your significant other this what
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: are you willing to sacrifice for this relationship? Good question,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: not necessarily because that's an open ended question because if
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: you ask a guide what are you willing to sacrifice
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: for this relationship? What? What? What's the answer you would
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: expect other than everything? You know? And nobody means that. Yeah,
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: you know, everything is everything, and so I don't know that.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: That's a great question, this question. Yeah, let's give us
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: one that we can that we should ask what are
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: you willing to for this relationship? Because you know, you're
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: almost like you know, because how can you how can
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: you answer that correctly? Okay? So just cross that out altogether.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: So okay, So instead of saying, what would you be
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: willing to sacrifice? You know, I think a better question is,
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: what does this relationship mean to you? Like that? You know,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: okay sacrifice? On top of that, you would say, and
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: on your on your list of priorities, where is this
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: relationship for you? You know? I think that's a better
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: way to phrase, Yeah, that's all, or what would just
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: do you know? You know, you can throw that in it.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying what would just exactly lie? Okay, do
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: you have the original product? Do you have another? Here's
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: another question, Steve, do you have anything that's no negotiable?
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: I'm assuming you're talking they're talking about deal breakers here. Well, okay,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: now this is for what tell me what this is
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: for again, Shelly? Okay, these are you know, it's a
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: big decision to enter into a long term relationship. So
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: when you're you've decided that you're going to be in
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: a relationship, you know, you and this person, you want
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: to make sure you're on solid ground. So these are
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: some of the questions that that's, you know, maybe we
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: should ask. We're trying to figure out what should you
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: asking forward to find out you're moving forward into a
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: long term relationship. I think these are This question right
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: here is not a bad question, but it should actually
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: happen later on. See why invest a lot of time
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: in the relationship to find out about the deal breakers?
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: So should you already know the answer to this if
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: you've been in the relationship, if you're considering a long
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: term relationship with somebody, you probably should have had this
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: conversation beforehand about what's the deal breakers? Because what you
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: don't want an old guy? He loves me, I love him.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Oh God, we're going to spend the rest of our
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: lives together. I don't like women who have babies. Well,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: my baby back that sleep. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Hey,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: that ain't the time to get that, you know what
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, okay, I like these. Okay, this is
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: if you have decided to be in a long term
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: relationship with somebody. Here's another another question. What are your
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: financial goals? That's not before you get into that's in
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: the relationship somewhere? Can I tell women a women a
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: slick way when you meet a guy. Yeah, you know,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: when you talk about your financial goals, that's you got
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: to be in the relationship. Pretty good to ask that. Yeah,
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: here's a question I created for women, especially women in
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: our age bracket and thirty thirty something and up. This
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: is not a twenty year old question. You can ask, okay,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: but in the thirties. If you're a lady and you're
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: dating in the thirties forties, up, here's a question you
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: ask if you want to know how much a man makes.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Here's the question I created for that. Without asking you,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: how much do you make? Ask a man what he
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: does in his downtime? Say it again, Ask a man
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: what he does in his downtime, so like his hobbies
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: and stuff. Yeah, what he does in his downtime. That
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: will tell you a lot about his financial Still if
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: he says, play video games or catch up on my
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: reality shows or yeah, okay, that ain't what you want
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: sing out. You know. I play golf, I collect wine,
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: I read a lot all these things about money. I travel,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: I go, I jump on a plane and go places.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: I like seeing different parts of the world. You know,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: I all and mc coin collected your things like that
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: that require some type of investment. I collect, I collect
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: vintage cause you gotta have extra money. Do all this
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: kind of stuff. Okay, so instead of asking a man
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: first night, you know, what do you do? How much
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: you make just asking what he's doing the downtime? If
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: he's a good and grown man, his downtime will be spent.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: I create things that didn't happen. Yeah yeah yeah. Or
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: you know I pay for assaults on myself. Yeah yeah
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: yeah yeah. If you could pay a nice amount of
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: for the assault, you got a lot of money. I
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: high African meuny to do different things. You know you
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: could do that. Yeah, you got some money. Has nothing
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: to do with relationship questions. I just want you guys
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: to know that. All right, here's the last question. They
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: stoopid both. This is the last question. If you're thinking
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: about entering into a long term relationship with someone or
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: a serious relationship with someone, what do you think? What
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: do you think of this question? Do you have a
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: history of mental illness in your family? You should have
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: been the name. How you gotta do is go over
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: the house to the holiday and then you're do Steve.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: You got to ask nobody have you been over the
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: house and seen anything that came out as Craig? Has
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: anybody come bust out some double doors? And you were,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, all right, we'll be back with more of
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening to
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Steven Show. All right, Steve, we need you again. It's
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: time for right or wrong with your nephew and junior.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: So you need to be the judge, ladies and gentlemen.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: This is right or wrong. This is where decisions get made.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: Debatable issues come to the forefront. And I'm a decision
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: as to who's right or wrong. Tommy, it's always the
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: one who wants to know whether he's right or wrong. Now,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: so far it has been a ninety that he has
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: been wrong. Well, I think ten percent of the time
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: I have agreed with him, but the ninety percent of
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: the time, So go ahead turn check this out. So
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: and actually, for u s split second, he agreed with
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: me last night. I said, Amber is a little girl
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: that got lost a long time ago and death when
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: amber Ler came from He agreed with me on that.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I did not agree with you on that you did.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: What did you say? I said, they named it that
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: just because let people know that people miss That's all
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I said. I say nothing about this being no Amber alert.
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: What made you even think of that? Christ ball. I'll
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: let you know. It was a little girl named Amber,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: and that's what that's where Amber alert came from. Then
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I told you, I said, Foster is a little boy
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: who didn't have his mind his daddy, and that's where
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Foster Home came from. Oh no, right there, But Foster
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: and Amber don't know each other. Do you know what? Well,
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: he's correct on Amber, Yeah, give him that. I might
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: right about Foster though Amber is actually a color. Amber
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: is also a young young girl's name right, my name
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: is his name Amber? Right? So that led you to say, what, Now,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Foster was a little boy who didn't have no mama,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: no daddy, and they were trying to find a home
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: for him. I can't right, that's where Foster Home comes from. Well,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: I thought that was a serial foster flake, right, the
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: wrong worster what we were saying that for? I have
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: Foster place quickly, not love me. It's a Foster flea.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I know that, you know, since we're just gonna be
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: ignorant there. I thought it was a sil foster flat
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: we called it though. That's how he said it. Foster
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: means to develop y ring about to nur falter, to
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: nurture a situation. Foster is a definition. It's not a
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: little boy. There's people named Foster, most of them don't
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: end up in cal was the lead singer of the
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: Silvers One. He wasn't lead saying the singers. Now he
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: played Dr Mean in u King of Scott. That was
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: Forest cart you see where he gets from. And then
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: Forrest Griffin was fighting in the UFC. Let the Stepar
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: and Barner has some epic. You're listening morning show. All right,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: it's time for comedy Roulette Jay now quickly. It's very simple.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: You guys test our ability to be comedians. Give us
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: five subjects. Anything you want. Let the wheels stop. We
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: put it out on Roulett wheel. Wherever you stop. We
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: do a couple of minutes on. That's how good we are,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: all right, that's how good we are. All right, all right,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: we'll see about that. We have five topics for you,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: all right. Number one the movies. You got this one,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: No Steed. Number two being dumped, all right, that's on
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: the wheel. Number three, bad wedding's been there, I got
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: that one. Number four, bad grades. Number five when to
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: shut up cats beend the wheel? Bad grades week I
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: like movies. Steve whoa, okay, okay, that's a good one.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: When to shut up? When to shut up? I'll tell
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: you when you shut up. The minute you look in
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: your redume mirror and you see that blue light, it
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: is time. And I don't want time for you to
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: shut up. You make an announcement of everybody in the
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: damn card to shut the hell all right. We don't
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: let that. There's gonna be one person talking, all right,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: and the sober is one if they gotta lean from
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: the back and talk. The rest have been told to
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: shut the hell up. In that same lane, yes, the
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: same lang in the neighborhood, when you see somebody running
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: from the low, when the low look at us, we
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: don't know nothing. I had one fring on points he
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: went that way? What did you telling them? Down already?
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: Know up? Now you're sitting the laws the same way
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: down with you could have pointed the other way that way?
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: He seeing us? Who you think he looking fun? You
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: didn't see Nash, shut the hell up? Got it? Well,
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna going another route. Let me just do too quickly,
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: fellas you know, it's time to shut up. When you're
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: feeling guilty and you want to confess that I don't
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: know what this moment you have pardon, We're not going
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: in there to do that. Yeah. Something. When my first marriage,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: I went out one night, me and my pardner. You know,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: you know, I just told told me I was going
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: out right, I'm over with the house. A couple of
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: days later, my partner reged I went to club with
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: This is what he said. Hey, man, tell your wife
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: about to club we went. You're looking at like what
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: I just just something? Just go what are you talking about?
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: Wrong with you? Hell? My wife the club went to you.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Never shut up. I never supposed I'll tell you another
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: time to shut up. And it's a trick too when
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: your mama say, say something else. But then did you
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: hear me? What were I'm supposed to do? Yeah, I'm
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: gonna answer y'all just supposed to be quiet. I'm just
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: gonna take my chids on shutting. He play something else?
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Something else? You got one? You got one time to
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: go ahead. When you on the phone with a woman
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: and you hear the hell are you talking to? Man?
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Shut your mind? Hang up up. I'm not doing you
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: as far as my mama. When my mama say, I
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: guess I'm landing shut up, shut up, got shut up?
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: All right? All right, you guys did it again. It's
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: always all right. We'll be back with the frank phone
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: call from the nephew right after this. You're listening, coming
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today subject when
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: role playing goes to wait till you guys hear this letter.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: All right, but right now it is a nephew in
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: the building with today's frank phone call. What you got
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: neat roommate Betty? Okay, a roommate Betty running, cad running Batty. Hello,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: must be to Devin, Yeah to see okay. Hey man,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: this is Chris a live above you. I ain't ever
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: met you before, but you you you have. You've been
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: calling the leasing office about complaining on me about I'm
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: making too much noise away. Yeah, man, I'm my bad, bro.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: I was trying to catch you, man. I could never.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: I could never catch you at home. Man. It's just
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: like you know, bro, I work at nice I work
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: at night. Yeah. Yeah, you're saying. I say I work
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: in a day, but I can't sleeping night brocking. I'm
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on your apartment. I'm saying,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be in your business. I'm not
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: trying to be in your business. Player. I just can't
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: get a sleeping night, man, because it'd be a lot
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: of noise, a lot of noise, a lot of talking.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: And what you do is your business. Bro. I'm just saying, pleased, man,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: But you ain't have to go to the leasing office. Man,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: all you had to do. You know what's hall at me?
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: You ain't the you know they got me written up,
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: like you know, one more complaint on me, they're gonna
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: put me out of something. Well, yeah, die. Like I said,
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: though I was trying to get I was trying to
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: find you. You know what I'm saying. But we I
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: guess we miss each other because you you work at night.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: I work in the day. So you know when you're going,
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: I'm coming, and when I'm coming, you going. I'm saying,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Brian trying starting. I'm just trying to, you know, go
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: to work and pay my pay my bills. Man, it's time.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I'll be at work at night. Man. You know what
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm trying to get my hustle on, like
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: you're trying to get yours on doing lalla hala hala
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: hala on. Okay, okay, let's make it my sense. Bro,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: if you are working night, somebody in your somebody in
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: your apartment, howking loud in them keeping me up square bidding? Okay,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: you've got a roommate us long, No, No, I ain't
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: got no roommate, man, Benny, somebody in the talking loud
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: holding a conversation. It's like two people in the talking
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: loud every night. That's Bro's Benny man Beatty be talking. Okay,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: you say you ain't got a roommates? Now, who who
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: is Benny? Who is Benny? Benny is my bird? My parents?
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: Does Betty be talking? It's like, man, stop doing me
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: dive listen mine why why wait a minute, you're trying
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: to tell me um bird that was bearing. Man, I
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: don't have pity ten years that's my bird. Fires don't
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: even live that long. So so now I'm sucking night.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: I'm at the work because because a bird, that's what
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: you want. That's what you called me to tell me.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Don't call you to tell you. You ain't gonna be
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: putting these complaints on me, man, But I'm I'm gone
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: and that's been in talking, man, I bit it in yo, Penny,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hey, look, I'm telling you now do
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: something with the bird then, or that's gonna be some
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: consequestions and repercussions. I'm talking about some fried chicken round it,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: and man, Penny is like a family member to me.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Birds too, can sam the chicken on the car flake box,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: can tuck your chicken bride. Hey, man, you don't tell
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: me nothing better about my bird? Okay, brother, you know what,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: Maybe me and you need to square off from front
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: of each other because you don't you don't disrespect betty man?
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: All right, all right? An taking something? All right? All right?
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: I bet that be on my table when I get home.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: If it's a bird, then I bet that beyall my
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: try the table, man, a man, They ain't gonna sit
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: in disrespect me and try to tell me what you're
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: gonna do to my bird. But you ain't gonna do
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: nothing stupid to better tell you what I tell you? What? See,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: you can date you at home right now? What you
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: got to work tonight? I bet you get it. I'll
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: bet that tomorrow I bet you we'll be fingering liking
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: good tomorrow man, ain't. Man, Hold on a minute, man,
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, though, what you played do and start
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: talking about what you're gonna do to my bird? Not
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: and told you you file for going to the listening
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: office calling me y'all and now you're on the phone.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to work this out with you, and now
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: you ain't trying to work right now. First stop you
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: you called me and tell me that it's a bird
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: holding a conversation with itself. I'm I'm a stupid right now.
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm a stupid even continue this conversation excuse with me?
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: I fly to night? Are you serious? Man? Man you
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: do some areas or something like? Man, listen, bro listen,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, this is a bird or recording whatever
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: if you gotta do, stop to waiting. Its an bird, man,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be solid softed if this is a bird.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: I'm really it's a bird. It's spinning, man, it's spinning you.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: All you got to do is come to me and
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: we could have had a little like me. Hola, hola, hola. Okay, okay, okay,
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have it like me. And then, first off,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: leasing office wouldn't give me a name. What's your name
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: my name Chris. Okay, Chris, I'm different. There we go,
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: there we go. Listen, doal I ain't for the past
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: three months, you know what I'm saying. I ain't really
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: been getting no sleep because of this bird. You say
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: it's a bird. I don't believe that. But a bird
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: like a bird. Come on, dog, that's birds for two years.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: We'll take to work with you is I don't care.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: Figure something out, but whatever going on up there with
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: you and your bird needs to come to an immediate
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: house or it's gonna be something. Hey man, hey man,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: what you can't do is threatened me by what's going
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: on in my house. Home man, look kill you ain't
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: been it's being in minny whatever the nine meals. You
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: need to do something with that. It's gonna be some reader.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: It shows like why am I going back and forth
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: with you about this? You keep telling me something about
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: a virus. It's a bird. What's the problem with it?
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: What's the problem? I understanding that people have pet birds?
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: Say man, I don't give them if you have a
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: pet bird, But really, this how all night long? How
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: do you? How do you? How do you live with this? Then?
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: Come Y'll never shut up, I'll tell you what. I'll
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: tell you what Benny told me to tell you, though,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: God'll tell you what Benny told Wait wait wait wait
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait waite. Chris
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: White White Brother, I don't want to hear what no
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: bird told you to tell me? Can I tell you
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: what Benny told me to tell you? What? What? What?
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: The Benny told me to tell you? This? That? This
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: took God pranked by your boys, Sean these things? Did
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: I get your? Man? Got me? You got it man,
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: that guy, I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna get it.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna have to wait to this dude,
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: get armed out and talk to him. I don't talk
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: to much shot about some posing bird. I don't know
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: what's or staff man. I may even do go. I'll
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: be up our night and I'm saying I'm missing, I'm
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: missing my sleep, I'm missing now. I'm saying I'm missing
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: y'all in the morning because I'm broadly hitting the flues.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: But I got one more thing to ask you. What
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: is what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest
• 50:37
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• 50:41
  Speaker 1: the shot we never something. You know. Your roommate does
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: not have to be a human dude. You know that
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: though there's some people with the other kind of roommates,
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: there's people with ostriches in the house. I got a pair.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: That's my roommate, Benny, Benny, All right, we gotta get
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: out of here. Thank you, nephew. Coming up next, it
• 51:04
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• 51:08
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  Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, all right,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: subject when role playing goes too far. Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: I am in my early twenties and I'm dating a
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: guy that I've known since high school. He was my
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: high school crush and I always dreamed of being his girl.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: He had a longtime girlfriend and they broke up last year,
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: so I may the first move to see if he
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: was interested. He was, and we've been dating for five
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: months now. He is a good boyfriend and the sex
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: was as good as I thought it would be. Everything
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: about him was pretty normal until recently when I noticed
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: he had a couple of furry animal costumes in his closet.
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: We were lying in his bed talking and I noticed them,
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: so I jokingly asked if they were some old Halloween costumes.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: He said no and jumped out of bed to show
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: the costumes to me. He said that the dog costume
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: was his favorite and he loves to wear it during sex.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Then he asked me if he could try it out
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: on me. I was so turned off when he put
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: the dog costume on, but I didn't want to let
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: him know right then. I went along with it, and
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: it was by far the weirdest thing I have ever done,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: and I was just glad that he did not start
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: barking hot during while you were doing it. Afterwards, it
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: was very awkward, so I just turned over and went
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: to sleep. That was a few nights ago, and we
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: have not discussed this incident at all. I do like him,
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: but this has shattered the dreamy image I've had of
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: him for all these years. I'm not into this kind
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: of weird, kinky thing, and I'm afraid he might want
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: me to wear the costumes, wear costume to bed too.
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: I want to ask him if he plans to keep
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: putting on costumes for sex, or or if it was
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: just a one time thing to see if I'd like it,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: or should I just leave him now and find a
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: man that's not crazy? Please help. I told you we've
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: never had a letter like this, Okay, I gotta tell you, guys,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: this is kind of a thing. This is kind of
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: a thing, the whole furry costume thing. You know, the
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: thing where where in certain circles in they're called furries
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: and furry circles they have like first, Yeah, it's not
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: I didn't say it was a black thing. I didn't
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: say that. They have furry conventions, they have furry parties,
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: all of this kind of stuff. You've been to some
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: of these parts. No, I'm not into this. Yeah, I've
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: heard about things like this. I just have I don't
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: know on YouTube. You heard about it on YouTube. I've
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: heard about this sure, and you'll just at no, no, no,
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: you type that in, Yeah, you got it in because
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: I've heard about him before. Yeah. Well, yeah, we'll send it.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you see it right now. It's called fury,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: they're called furries. But I just can't help to laugh
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: at it. Help but laugh at this because the visual
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: of him barking and a dog costume is just funny.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, it's just funny. I'm not a furry. I
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: don't think anyone on the show is a furry. But
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: it seems strange, but I don't know. Otherwise, pretty harmless, right,
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: That's all he does is put on the has during
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know. It is weird, but I mean, he's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: not harming you or any in any way, or harming himself. Uh.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: He just he just seems to be a guy who
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: enjoys furry costumes. I'm not judging at all. I don't
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: know this. It's crazy to me, but that's all he did.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: You guys haven't talked about it. You do have to
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: talk about this at some point, and maybe he'll open
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: up to you. I don't know, but if you don't
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: like it, it's okay not to like it. If you're
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: not comfortable, you have to let him know that too.
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: You'd rather not, you know, do do this. You guys
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: have only been together for five months, so I mean,
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: you know, hey, if you don't like it, if you
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: don't like it, tell him and move on. If you're
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: not interested in this, it was he was okay up
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: until this point. And if it's a thing with you,
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: it's a thing, it's okay to let him know that
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: you don't like it. This hill. Let somebody send me
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: some pictures of fairies. I got that. Yeah, I'm not
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: let me google this first. Girls in her early twenties.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: This is I needn't introduced this into your sex life
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: when you're in your late FARTI or something. You don't
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: start this in your twenties. I mean where we're going up. First,
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: we got dog costumes inn where we're gonna in. We're
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: gonna end up with a dog in the room at
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: the wire, a real damn dog. Because this type of
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: stuff has to graduate. You know. It's like drugs. If
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: you take enough astra over and over and over, you're
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: gonna need more than two to get rid of your headache,
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: you gonna need more than eight out the wire. So
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: if you start with these costumes, where we going with
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: this now? As we're really gonna be outside killing deal,
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: wrapping up in real deerskin? Where we're going high school? Sweetheart?
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: She had a crush on this man. He was dating
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: this girl. They broke up. She wanted to see if
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: he was interested. They was. He's a good boyfriend. The
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: sex was as good as I thought it was. It
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: reminds me of a song. Why must I feel like that?
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: Why must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: in me? This is a story about the dog, famous dog,
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: rhythmic dog, Tommy Dog. Anyway, when you notice a couple
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: of fair animal costumes in his clothes, now see this
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: ain't no one time stop because he got more than
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: one suit hanging in there. He got a few, and
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: there ain't costumes. There is out fits. You jokingly asked
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: if there was some old Halloween costume. Hell now, the
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: ain't Halloween. Jumped out of bed, show you the costume,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: said the dog costumes and favor he loved a wad
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: doing sex. You should have got your ass about the
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: bed right there. Put your damn clothes home and took
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: your ass. All right, listen, We'll have part two of
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hour.
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening, all right, Let's recap today's
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: Strubb recap. Crazy Fool lay in the twenties and messed around,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: had sexual this boy. Everything was pretty normal too. Recently,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: I noticed he has a couple of fairy animal costumes
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: in the closet we end up in here laying in
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: bed one night talking laughing, and I noticed, and I
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: jokingly said, today, was you know the mold Halloween costume?
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: He said, hell no, jumped out of bed and showed
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: him to me. He said that the dog costume was
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: his favorite and he loves it wearing doing sex. Then
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: he asked me if he could try it out on me.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: I was so turned off when he put that dog
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: costume on, but I didn't want to let him know
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: right then, so I went along with it. So you
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: had something with the dog outfit on. I went along
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: with it and was by far the weirdest thing I've
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: ever done, and I was glad that he did not
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: start barking while we was doing it. Afterwards, It was
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: very awkward, so I turned over and went to sleep.
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: That was a few nights ago, and we ain't disgusted
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: at all. I do like him, but this is shattered
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: the dreamy energe I had in him for all these years.
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: You didn't know what he was. Girl, he got way more.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: There a dog suiting there, a monkey suiting there. Yeah,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: he gonna come out there. He gonna be caeesared from
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: planet at the age tomorrow next week. Then he gonna
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: be king Coom. Yeah, they ain't gonna come out then.
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: You really are gonna like when he when he come
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: out there with the big ass shoes on, he goofy. Yeah,
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: you're not understanding he got he got feathery too. He
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: gonna be Donald Dug one day. I don't know what
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: to say to this side. This letter to me is ridiculous.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: I think it's crazy. I don't have no suggestions. If
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: you go to a party, how do you know who
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: under that? You just it's not good. You ain't supposed
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: to be attracted a person attracted the fur right. But
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: you know what, I just think if she should use
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: her voice. If you're not into this and that's not
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: the guy for you, just you know, get out into
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: stuff for you. Right. He liked to wear suits. I see,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: I'm a neck it man myself. I've done some of
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: my greatest moments have been naked. Nothing, Ben, I don't
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: even want to sock on go that's too much. I
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: stick my toe down there on the on the inside
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: of my ankle to what that little creasy is why
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: I can get that other damn soccer. I can't be
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: in there. I don't want nothing in the where I
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: need my toes, right, yea, no, because I need my toes.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: My toes grabbed the sheet, I get a little bit more,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: pushed one of my toes out. But it's dark and
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: here long and somebody coming here with this suito mark,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: what happened? Now? Well, someone are gonna get the ad
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: because I don't know who he is, and I don't
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: know who ire him. And I just said I do
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: my work naked. Now I see this first suit in him,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: I'll probably run out that damn window because I'm gonna
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: thank you something. Trying to eat out here now bigfoot
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: in hill. Yeah, I can't do no, it's hard. I
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: don't even like this letter. And shure he's like leave him. Yeah,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: if you're not into it, just yeah, you don't have
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: to stay around, stick around. Yeah, you don't have to
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: do that. Use your voice. Yeah. And if you don't
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: like the suits, he gonna go find somebody who do.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: Even if y'all get together. Yeah, And it's a show
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: on Vice lamb about the people to get get this.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: Got fetishes like that, and fetishes is real. Ain't you're
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: spitting fur out three foot later? Ain't you steady spitting
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: all that out here? But it is a show guys
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: on Viceland called furries fandom, not fetish. Yeah, surely you
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: saw that. Yeah, it ain't nobody from the Washington they doing.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: I knew I had seen it somewhere. I didn't. I
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: haven't seen the show, but I knew I saw something
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: about furry doing a whole thing. But I don't know.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: I'm on Viceland, TV Land and no other day, I
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: don't give waters. They dress like jaguars and shark. I
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: wouldn't even wear a movie you was telling me about
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: the other day, Shirley, which one what's the name of
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: that movie? With a man slept with everybody that it's
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: serious that I don't get it may be serious, but
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: I don't see how it happened. Well, he slept with
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: a little girl. It's called mother and the father. Ye,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: it's called abducted in plain sight, and uh it's a
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: true story. And he was get your ass to This
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: guy was a master of manipulator. I'm just telling you
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: how he did it to that family. It's no way,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: not really, I don't understand. Back to the okay, yeah, yeah, letter,
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: nobody's stating this little boy with this damn monkey suit
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: on the dog suit, dog suit, monkey suit, cheetah suit.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: What do you want? You can't come in the bedroom
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: with a damn football suit on't for me? Let long
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: damn monkey suit. Yeah, yeah, she doesn't like it. Yeah.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: The other costume in there was your simity Sam that
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: they just fury. Yeah, he got all that must so
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: it's called yeah furries. Can't you're talking about boys? Man,
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: tit tried to push upon me. You getting ug to
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: play this man? Say, man, who are you seeing now?
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: Can't say none of it's done. Got a little road
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: run in my life. This was a different kind at
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: the party last night. Yeah, who just get it's funny?
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: All right? Listen, you can email us your Instagram as
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: You're listening all right, So Steve, we had a question
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: for the clo. Actually, it's from a twenty three year
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: old woman. Her name is Linthia from Chicago. She's a virgin.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: She said she's had the absolute worst experiences with dating.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: When the topic of sex comes up, the guys usually run.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: Her most recent experience was with a guy that she
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: had been dating for three months. They had the sex talk,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: but he didn't pressure her about it, so she didn't
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: tell him that she was a virgin until the very
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: last minute when they were about to do the deed.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: She says, I told him it was my first time,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: and he laughed hysterically at me, and he didn't believe
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: me because I was acting so dominant the whole time.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: He told me that he didn't want a girl that
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: didn't know what she was doing. She says, I was
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: ashamed and I left his house and he hasn't called
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: me since. I don't want to be a virgin anymore.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: But why is it so hard to find a good
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: guy to help me out? Well, you know, it's the
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: same problem that every woman has in finding a great guy.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: That's the number one thing with most women who don't
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: have anybody, it's finding a great guy. You'll have a
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: guy that'll that'll be the right guy for you, that'll
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: be patient with you, take his time with you, be understanding,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: and want you all they want. You just haven't met
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: the guy yet. And if you keep having the same experiences,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: it could possibly be with the way you're breaking the
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: news and how you're explaining the news, maybe your approach
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: to expressing yourself is a little bit off. Because a
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: dude that kicks you out because I want somebody know
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: what he's doing. He just wants somebody. That's freaking that's
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: all it was. And Steve the fact that she just
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to be a virgin anymore, I mean right,
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: I mean she's aggressive. Yeah, you know you're not. You
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: don't want to be a virgin anymore. That's your decision.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: I can't not the one to tell you to hang
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: on to your married because if you've made that your
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: mind up, why why would I tell you anything else?
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: You know, but you haven't found mister Wright, you're twenty
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: three years old, You're still very young. Please take the
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: pressure off yourself, because you got the rest of your
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: life not to be a virgin. You ain't out of time, No, Tommy,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: anything you want to say? Oh no, no, no, no, sir, no,
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: sirly why how are you answer for me? Sir? Yeah, sure,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: it's the best thing to do at this moment. Trust me.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: I'm sir, I'm smart. Stop and I know the question. Tommy.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: I don't think Shirley's gonna let you interject here. You
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: don't realize how smart I am. That's exactly right, Eddy
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: is right there, Okay, exactly right. All right. We'll be
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: back at the top of the hour with more of
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: Steven Show. All right, Here we go with something funny.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: This is a story about marriage though um signs a
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: marriage is doomed. According this is according now Jay to
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: wedding photographers. Okay, there's no doubt wedding photographers have seen it,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: all right, We all hired wedding photographers. Was that the police? Yeah,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: you guys can't call the police. Sirens and stuff, all right. Anyway,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: wedding photographers have seen it all and since they spend
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: a lot of time getting to know a couple before
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: a big day. Many can see the signs of a
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: doomed relationship even before the IDEs, even before they're even
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: said okay. Wedding photographers have shared the red flags that
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: tell them a couple maybe headed for divorce. Red flags
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: include here we go, a partner who's completely uninterested in
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: taking the pictures in the first place, could be already married.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: A couple who doesn't spend any time together at a reception.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: All right, that's another sigh. That's another relay when her family,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: he's with his family. You know how it goes. Yeah,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: here's another one. And couples who aren't on the same
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: page over money. That definitely a red flag. Any relation
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: that was James first, that first man. All right, here's
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: another issue. If a couple has between a twenty and
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: twenty five percent rejection rate plus in fighting amongst the
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: wedding party. Wow, yeah, but other people said that he's
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: not good for you and she's not good for you.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: Of your friends that you shouldn't beat up with that. Yeah,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: And a couple couple who makes, you know, like little tiny,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: little bitty subtle digs at each other throughout the wedding.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: Not that when we had stuff like that you're an
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: expert at you get a fixed don't get that as
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: I don't think you're gonna be to get in that
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: dress to be which what think you, daddy? Bet so
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: Jay and seems here of course we want you to
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: chime in. It's your I mean when you get through. Yeah, okay,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: well I'm just about through. But I do have a
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: question to ask you. Did you guys have any doubts?
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: Did you see any red flags? Yeah? Before you got married?
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: The best sign ever ever. And I didn't listen. My
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: daughter said to me. She said to me, Daddy, you
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: ain't got to go through with us. We can just
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: have a party and lead. I have the reception, but
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: not win. Another friend of Matt, Stephanie, said, this was
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: my honey times match you've been married? Which one? Yeah? Yeah,
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: about thirty for Stephanie says that Stephanie's coming to my witch.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: Stephanie said, and I repeat, now, dog, I catch the
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: next one like it's a movie a flight. Yeah, I'll
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: catch the next one. No, No, I have a short
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: list of things that I have discovered that can happen
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: during the wedding day or reading up to that. We'll
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: let you know the same thing to work. Come on
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: from the wedding photographer perspective. Okay, if at no point
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: do they want to whole hands for pictures, here's another
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: sign at the wedding. If it ain't but one person
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: on top of the cake, the kind of make a
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: cake like that? Yeah, just a bride or just the
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: groove what I'm saying, don't you know? You gotta put
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: me up? And here's the biggest way you could tell this.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: This this weird and ain't gonna last. If at the
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: reception ain't no gifts on the table, that's a people
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: and just said I'm not wasting my money. Somebody says,
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: so what day is that? Again? Really getting Marie? Coming
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. That vacation glow. It
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: is not just being on vacation that makes you happy,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: that joyful feeling, you know, the one I'm talking about.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: It starts a week before you leave. You know when
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: you say you're in vacation mode. That's what we're talking about.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: Seventy percent of people in a new survey said they
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: got into vacation mode Carla several days before they leave.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: Can we not relate to that? Or what? No? Right?
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: Ten percent said their vacation glow lasts up into a
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: month after getting back from their trip. Fifty four percent
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: said they felt lost if they didn't have a vacation
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: to look forward to, and seventy percent said they need
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: to book a vacation now more than ever. Amen to that. Okay, now, Carla,
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: does your vacation glows start? When? Does it start week
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: before you leave it, you know? Or is it that
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: week of stress with you packing and trying to get
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: everything done at work before you leave? How long into
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: your vacation does it take you to finally relax the
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: whole thing, the count packing, turn in, the memo saying
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: I'm leaving all of it, the above, the above, the countdown,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: what I'm all vacation, leaving all all of that on
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: the way airport. Social media posted, don't hay baca bayc bayca,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: and it takes so long for us to get to vacation,
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: but vacation is over like that? Yeah, all right, all right,
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: if you're going on vacation, happy vaka everybody coming up.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, right after this, you're listening. All right, Steve,
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: we need you again. It's time for right or wrong
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: with your nephew and junior or so you need to
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: be the judge. Ladies and gentlemen. This is right or wrong.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: This is where decisions getting made. Debatable issues come to
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: the forefront, and I make a decision as to who's
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: right or wrong. Tommy is always the one who wants
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: to know whether he's right or wrong. Now, so far
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: it has been a ninety to him to stay fast
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: that he has been wrong. Well, I think ten percent
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: of time I have agreed with him, but the ninety
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: percent of time, so go ahead tur check this out.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: Me and him. Actually, for a split second he agreed
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: with me last night. I said, Amber is a little
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: girl that got lost a long time ago, and death
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: one Amber alert came from. He agreed with me on that.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: I did not agree with you on that you did.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: What did you say? I said, they named it that
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: just because let people know that people miss That's all
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: I said. I say nothing about this being no Amber alert?
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: What made you even think of that? First of all,
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: I let you know it was a little girl named
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: Amber and that's what That's where Amber alert came from.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: Then I told you, I said, Foster is a little
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: boy who didn't have his mama or his daddy, and
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: that's where foster home came from. Oh no, right there,
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: But Foster and Amber don't know each other. Do you
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: know what? Well he's correct on am Amber, Yeah, give
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: him that. I might write about Foster though, No, Amber
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: is actually a color. Amber is also a young young
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: girl's name right, My name name Amber? Right? So that
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: led you to say, what now, Foster, it was a
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: little boy who didn't have no mama, no daddy, and
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: they were trying to find a home for them. That
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: can't be right, and that's where a foster home coming. Well,
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: I thought that was a seal foster flake, right, the
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: wrong worse. We were saying that for years. I had
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: a calling foster flack. I love me a foster flake.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: I know that, you know, since we're just gonna be ignorant,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: I thought it was a seal foster flake when we
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: called it. Though, that's how you said, foster me to
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: develop y ring about to nurture, to falter, to nurture
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: a situation. Foster is a definition. It's not a little boy.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: There's people named Foster. Most of them don't end up
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: in care the lead singer of the Sibe, he wasn't
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: the lead saying the singers. Now he played Dr Mean
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: in King of Scottland. Now Forest, let me see where
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: he gets from. And then Forrest Riffin was fighting in
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: the UFC. Stefan and Bonner had some epic back. You're
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: listening all right, Steve. Here we are last break of
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: the day on this Monday. It's been a good day.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: We've had some fun today. Thank you, and now it's
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: time for you to take us home, get back to
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: work with some closing remarks. You know what, um again.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: I like to use things that are happening to me
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: in my life to encourage people that might be going
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: through some of the same things in theirs. It's just
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: a couple of piece of encouragements I got this week.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: So many people have reached out to me man given
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: me love. It's far ways anything else that's going on
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: in my life. I'm actually surrounded by a lot of
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: love and prayers, and I'm actually actually really not even
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  Speaker 1: privy to a lot of the swirl that goes around me.
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  Speaker 1: Like I was saying, the other day. God's peace keeps
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  Speaker 1: me in the center of the hurricane. And I do
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  Speaker 1: understand that there's a swirl going on out there, but
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  Speaker 1: it's none of my business. I can't stop the swirld,
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  Speaker 1: but I cannot participate in the swirld. And by not
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  Speaker 1: participating in it nor acknowledging it, it has it has
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  Speaker 1: no room with me. If you stay the center of
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  Speaker 1: the hurricane and the swirl is going around you, if
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna stay, if you don't step out into the swirld,
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  Speaker 1: you stay in the center. It's peaceful in the eye
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  Speaker 1: of hurricane. The problem is when you get caught up
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  Speaker 1: in this world. A couple of people will sent me something.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to share a couple of them with you.
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  Speaker 1: You talk about people in your life that you need
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  Speaker 1: to kind of get rid of. Somebody sent this to me,
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  Speaker 1: says sometimes people have to be escorted out of the
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  Speaker 1: VIP section in your life and you just have to
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  Speaker 1: put them in regular seats. Sometimes people have to be
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  Speaker 1: escorted out the VIP section of your life and you
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  Speaker 1: just have to put them in some regular seats. Sometimes
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  Speaker 1: we place too much importance on people, period, and we
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  Speaker 1: give so much people so much importance that they now
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  Speaker 1: have a say, so, they have authority, They got ruled.
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  Speaker 1: They get comfortable all of a sudden day in a
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  Speaker 1: position and they don't even really mean. There's no good
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  Speaker 1: So now here they are they in your life? You
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  Speaker 1: then gave them permission to sit in the VIP section,
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  Speaker 1: But you know sometimes you need to escort them out.
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  Speaker 1: You say, you know what you know? Longer welcome in
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  Speaker 1: the VRP section. You could take a seat right over here.
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  Speaker 1: Those are only seats that's available. I got the view
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  Speaker 1: ain't that good from over here, But those are the
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  Speaker 1: only seats that's available in my arena. As a matter
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  Speaker 1: of fact, security, could you escort them out? Please? See
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  Speaker 1: what I don't do is but I can't stop some people.
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  Speaker 1: I just I let people sit up in the stands
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  Speaker 1: and say what they want to say, because they're not
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  Speaker 1: on my stage in my life. You're not on the
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  Speaker 1: same stage I'm on. So why do I allow your
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  Speaker 1: insults from in back of the room that I can't
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  Speaker 1: hardly nobody here but you and your little fourteen followers.
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  Speaker 1: So I've learned that that the credit belongs to the
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  Speaker 1: man who is actually in the arena, whose face is
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  Speaker 1: marred with dust, blood, sweat, and tears. Not to those
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  Speaker 1: cold and timid souls in the stands who know neither
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  Speaker 1: victory nor defeat. I live like that, all right. Next
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  Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna share with you, I'm gonna share with
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  Speaker 1: you something about somebody told me about trusting in God.
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  Speaker 1: And this is what they sent me. And this is
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  Speaker 1: really nice, and it says I asked for strength, and
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  Speaker 1: God gave me difficulties to make me strong. I asked
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  Speaker 1: for wisdom and God gave me problems to solve. I
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  Speaker 1: asked for prosperity and God gave me brain and braun
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  Speaker 1: to work. I asked for courage and God gave me
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  Speaker 1: danger to overcome. I asked for love, and God gave
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  Speaker 1: me troubled people to help. I asked for favors and
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  Speaker 1: God gave me opportunities. I've received nothing I wanted. I
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  Speaker 1: received everything I need it trust in God. Do you
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  Speaker 1: know how rich those words were to me today, that
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  Speaker 1: someone sent to me, Because what that says to me was, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta trust the process, man, I don't care how
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  Speaker 1: it looks. What you're asking for. God is working on
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  Speaker 1: your behalf. Now. It might not look that good to
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  Speaker 1: some people. It might not even look that good to you.
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  Speaker 1: I would imagine those on the outside looking in just
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  Speaker 1: look kind of crazy. But you have no idea the
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  Speaker 1: what God is working. So when you ask God for strength,
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  Speaker 1: and then God give you a bunch of difficulties, guess
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  Speaker 1: what to make you stronger? So you ask God for wisdom,
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  Speaker 1: and God give you problems to solve. You're asking for prosperity.
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  Speaker 1: God give you a brain and some braun to go
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  Speaker 1: to work. I asked for courage and God gave me
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  Speaker 1: danger to overcome. I ask for love, and God turn
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  Speaker 1: around and gave me troubled people to hell what it is.
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  Speaker 1: I asked for favors, and God turn around, give me opportunities.
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  Speaker 1: I've received nothing I wanted, but I received everything I needed.
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  Speaker 1: You got to trust in God, man, You got to
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  Speaker 1: trust in the process. Y'all. We are all in the
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  Speaker 1: middle of the process. We're being processed. God ain't through
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  Speaker 1: with none of us. God ain't through with you yet.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know if God was through with you that
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't wake up in the morning. But as long
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  Speaker 1: as you're waking up, to put a smile on your face,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: because I mean he ain't through with us. Man, God
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: is processing us. We all in the process. You got
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: to trust the process that God knows what he's doing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm over here grinning because of that. Cool because guess what,
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  Speaker 1: I know he working on my Yeah, you know why,
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  Speaker 1: because he processed me. You know why he processing me
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: because he ain't through with me yet, ain't through with
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  Speaker 1: you either. Those are my clothes were remarks. Y'all have
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