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Biggest Regrets, Trump Tweets, Sand and Soul, Best Sport and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harley
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show today. I want to just share
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  Speaker 1: something with you along your way to wherever it is
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  Speaker 1: you're trying to get to. You know, everybody has a
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  Speaker 1: different definition for success, and I'm not. I'm not here
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  Speaker 1: to tell you what joy should be. I mean, please
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  Speaker 1: pursue whatever you think success He is aim as high
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  Speaker 1: as you can though, that's for sure. My father used
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  Speaker 1: to say all the time. I'm sure you all have
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  Speaker 1: heard it in different variations, but he used to always say,
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  Speaker 1: aim for the moon. Just in case you miss, you'll
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  Speaker 1: still be amongst the stars. Just say that to me
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  Speaker 1: all the time. So that always was in me to
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  Speaker 1: aim high. Now he wasn't saying aim with the intent
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  Speaker 1: to miss. He was just saying aim In case you miss,
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  Speaker 1: you're still amongst the stars. If you aim for the moon.
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  Speaker 1: But if you just aim for that first flow wind
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  Speaker 1: and you miss it, you know, usually run into some
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  Speaker 1: type of wall and nothing happens. You slither down. You know.
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  Speaker 1: In my book, act like a lady, think like a man.
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  Speaker 1: I told her people that men love three ways. They profess,
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  Speaker 1: they provide, they protect, and that's the core essence of
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  Speaker 1: a man's love. Well, there's some other peas in life too.
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  Speaker 1: The number one thing you have to understand about trying
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  Speaker 1: to be successful, and I guess I call this the
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  Speaker 1: four peas. I may come up with five along the way.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just talking as is given to me.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna summer start by saying, as these are
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  Speaker 1: the four peas of success that you have to get
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  Speaker 1: ready for. Number one, it's pressure. A lot of it
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  Speaker 1: is applied by the circumstance of what you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: go for and what you're trying to do, but a
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  Speaker 1: lot of it also is self imposed pressure. It's what
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  Speaker 1: you put on yourself to make it. It's a sense
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  Speaker 1: of urgency, it's a sense of necessity. But pressure is
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  Speaker 1: the first thing I want you to be ready for.
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  Speaker 1: And pressure comes in a lot of different forms, but
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  Speaker 1: it's going to be pressured. As an old saying that
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  Speaker 1: pressure buster pipe. See, that's why most people turn around,
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  Speaker 1: because of the pressure of trying to be successful. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to get it in your mind that it
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  Speaker 1: is going to be a pressure rized situation on your
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  Speaker 1: rise to the top. Pressure, but understand that that it
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  Speaker 1: is what it is, is not going to change. That's it.
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  Speaker 1: Prepare yourself, get ready for there to be pressure. The
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  Speaker 1: second thing I want you to understand is when you
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  Speaker 1: receive this pressure, you have to persist. You got to
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  Speaker 1: stay at it. You got to develop a dog getness
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  Speaker 1: has a There's a song that says, why must I
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  Speaker 1: feel like that? Why must I chase the cat? Nothing
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  Speaker 1: but the dog in me? That's a funny line in
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  Speaker 1: that song, because really I was thinking about it one day.
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  Speaker 1: I was humming it and and it, and it occurred
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  Speaker 1: to me, said, why must I feel like that? Why
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  Speaker 1: must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog get me?
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  Speaker 1: And you know, now you could take it into literal
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  Speaker 1: sense that the cat chases the dog because it's innately
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  Speaker 1: is in his spirit. That cats and dogs are a
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  Speaker 1: lot of time enemies. Now people have pets in him,
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  Speaker 1: proving that if you show love on both sides, they
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  Speaker 1: can exist. And that happens too, but naturally innately, when
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  Speaker 1: your cat goes by a dog and your dog don't
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  Speaker 1: recognize him, that some barking going on. I'm talking about
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  Speaker 1: just walking through the neighborhood or something. So, but the
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  Speaker 1: reason that this dog's so persistent towards this cat is
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  Speaker 1: just cause it's in him. It's innately in him. And
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you, just using that as an analogy,
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  Speaker 1: is that you got to be you got to be
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  Speaker 1: persistent in that. You got to develop some dog in
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  Speaker 1: you now because pressure takes some fighting back. See if
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  Speaker 1: you don't fight back against pressure, pressure buster pipes, So
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  Speaker 1: what you think it will do to you? Pressure crack walls,
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  Speaker 1: pressure calls, explosions. So if you don't fight back to
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  Speaker 1: hold it in, you understand pressure does most people in
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  Speaker 1: the simple thing called pressure, the weight of what it
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  Speaker 1: feels like to want to be successful every single day,
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  Speaker 1: over and over and over and over and over. It's
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  Speaker 1: just too much pressure. People crack. You got to persist.
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  Speaker 1: You have to persist. You can the thought of giving
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  Speaker 1: up can come, but you got to get it out.
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  Speaker 1: You got to persist. The next thing I want you
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  Speaker 1: to think about is another something that I've been thinking
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  Speaker 1: about for years and learn for years. It's called perseverance.
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  Speaker 1: To persist means to insist. Its keyword in insist and
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  Speaker 1: persistence insists you must. You must insist that this is
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  Speaker 1: going to happen. Now, the persist I'm assuming means it's
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  Speaker 1: a proaction. It's some type of proaction that you go towards.
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  Speaker 1: Is it to make it? You know, persist, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: be persisted. You gotta be constantly at it, insisting that
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  Speaker 1: it happens. You gotta be constantly at it. But the
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  Speaker 1: next thing I want you to remember is perseverance. Perseverance
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  Speaker 1: is important. Perseverance means that when you've done your best,
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  Speaker 1: when you've persisted, when you're fighting back against the pressure.
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  Speaker 1: Perseverance simply means I'm going to hang in here when
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  Speaker 1: if a crack come into pipe, I'm gonna hang in there.
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  Speaker 1: If the pipe bust, I'm gonna keep going if I
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  Speaker 1: gotta put duct, take mud, whatever I got to put
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  Speaker 1: on this thing. Man, I'm gonna use perseverance. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to stay with it no matter what. So we're looking
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  Speaker 1: at the three things again. You got to understand that
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna be pressure that you're gonna have to persist.
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  Speaker 1: Keyword and persistence insist. You have to insist that no
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  Speaker 1: matter what the pressure is, I'm gonna stay with it.
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  Speaker 1: But then perseverance. If it goes wrong, man, you got
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  Speaker 1: to get in there and keep fighting. But then Lord
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  Speaker 1: Him Mercy. Nothing helps you handle the three peas better
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  Speaker 1: than the fourth pea. You got to pray. You got
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  Speaker 1: to use prayer. You gotta talk to God. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: use faith. You gotta have some conferences with him late
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  Speaker 1: at night, early in the morning, in the middle of
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  Speaker 1: the afternoon, when you own the train, when you're driving.
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  Speaker 1: You got to talk to God. Man, you gotta get
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  Speaker 1: yourself some help along the way. Nothing is bigger than prayer.
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  Speaker 1: There is nothing bigger than prayer. Prayer will help you
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  Speaker 1: overcome the pressure. Prayer will help you stay persistent, and
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  Speaker 1: Lord Him Mercy, prayer will help you persevere. Them as
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  Speaker 1: the faux pas that just came to me today. God
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  Speaker 1: gave that to me. I'm passing it on. Ladies and gentlemen.
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  Speaker 1: biggest regrets. What are our biggest regrets? Oh my god? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I think about that and uh, we'll be back right
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  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening. Well, you know, some people regret
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  Speaker 1: getting married. A lot of people say that. Some people
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  Speaker 1: regret divorce. Some people regret leaving a job. I said,
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  Speaker 1: some people. Okay, we're not using any names here. Some
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  Speaker 1: people will regret leaving a job, or cheating, uh, not
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  Speaker 1: saving enough money, not going to college. It goes on
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  Speaker 1: and on and on. You know, I regret you regret it.
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  Speaker 1: You don't regrets it. What they're doing it. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you don't put conditions on the cheating. Glad you cleared
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  Speaker 1: that up, married man. But when you get away, way
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  Speaker 1: do it again. It seems only saying wow. He's not
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  Speaker 1: saying you're wrong, but he'd be saying that. He's saying yes, right,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Well, Tom Joyner, we all know Tom Joyner.
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  Speaker 1: Tom Joyner was on a panel at the National Association
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  Speaker 1: of Black Journalist conference moderated by Roland Martin, and Tom
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  Speaker 1: said one of his biggest regrets Steve was not working
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  Speaker 1: with you. Take a listen. I've got a couple of regrets.
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  Speaker 1: We had the opportunity to put Steve under the umbrella, yep,
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  Speaker 1: and egos got in the way, and we weren't that
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  Speaker 1: far apart on money. It was all egos and and Steve. Um.
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  Speaker 1: We we're gonna, We're gonna. Steve was gonna come under
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  Speaker 1: the reach umbrella and we were gonna do a twin tower,
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  Speaker 1: uh kind of strategy where it would be me and
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  Speaker 1: me in the mornings and Steve in the afternoons. Egos
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  Speaker 1: got in a way that deal didn't happen. Uh Noah didn't. Wow, man,
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  Speaker 1: that was humbling parents that's a wow. That's a true statement.
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  Speaker 1: Though that's exactly what happened. It was. It was egos
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  Speaker 1: got in a way, and and I don't think it
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  Speaker 1: was on Tom's Paul, I really don't. I think it
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  Speaker 1: was on uh partnerships fault, you know, because I think
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  Speaker 1: Tom and I had talked about it and it was
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  Speaker 1: an idea that Tom bought to me, and uh, I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was a good idea, and as we got
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  Speaker 1: to talking about it, like he said, I think egos
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  Speaker 1: got in the way. I don't. I don't think it
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  Speaker 1: was Tom at all, because it was Tom's original idea
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  Speaker 1: and uh, I think we were really talking about farming
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  Speaker 1: a powerhouse, and I think egoes did get in the way.
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  Speaker 1: I think people started talking about, you know, we don't
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  Speaker 1: need him and you know he'll never Oh yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: remember somebody from that side said in a roundabout way,
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  Speaker 1: and it got to me, who who who on that side?
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  Speaker 1: You don't know? Let me know who says something. It
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  Speaker 1: wasn't Tom. It wasn't Tom, because I think this was
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  Speaker 1: original idea. I think, I really do think Tom had
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  Speaker 1: came up with the original idea and we were talking
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  Speaker 1: about it. But I think what happened was somebody on
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  Speaker 1: that side kind of got worried out that you know,
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  Speaker 1: we don't need him and let him go. There's nowhere
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  Speaker 1: him to go in mornings anyway, so we ain't got
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  Speaker 1: to put up with this and we ain't got to
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  Speaker 1: pay that, you know. And like Tom said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the money wasn't that far apart. You know, he's trying
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  Speaker 1: to work it out, but you know, it takes some
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  Speaker 1: more negotiating. But just some people up top started talking
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  Speaker 1: and it kind of got back and you know, then
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  Speaker 1: egos go, well, you know, he can't do this in
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  Speaker 1: the mornings, and then uh wow, s yes I can.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, I'll say this because I've heard of
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  Speaker 1: Tom talking about retiring. But Tom Joiner man on the reel,
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  Speaker 1: one of the great radio men, oh yeah, in African
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  Speaker 1: American radio. A matter of fact, in all of radio,
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  Speaker 1: Tom Joiner was doing it before any of us got started.
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  Speaker 1: Oh he did it. At he did it, and awaited
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  Speaker 1: none of us would ever even dream or boys and
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  Speaker 1: afternoons himself from down I mean Chicago flying. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: mean he was a bad boy. So you know that
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  Speaker 1: a lot of props have to go to him being
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  Speaker 1: the giant that he became in radio, and it's one
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  Speaker 1: of the reasons I got into radio. Be honest, I'm
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  Speaker 1: glad to hear you say that. Yeah, I'm glad to real. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and we never knew this story. Actually, we never knew
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  Speaker 1: the story, so to hear that. But stee, if you
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  Speaker 1: have any regrets, I mean, Tom talked about regrets, and
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  Speaker 1: I guess because he's retiring, you know, any and it
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  Speaker 1: doesn't have to be with that particular deal or that partnership.
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  Speaker 1: Just what are some of your biggest regrets? Do we
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  Speaker 1: have time? Yeah? That was like how much time do
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  Speaker 1: we have? Yeah? Yeah, man, let me think, let me,
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  Speaker 1: let me, let me think for real. But then, you know,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes people say they don't have any regrets because if
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  Speaker 1: they do, then they wouldn't be the person they are today.
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  Speaker 1: So there are two schools of thoughts on the regret.
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  Speaker 1: You'd have done something you regret, though, come on, oh absolutely, man,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, look, I understand that you know that that
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  Speaker 1: statement does hold true, that if you hadn't have done
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  Speaker 1: everything you did in the order that you did it,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't be who you are today. And I definitely
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  Speaker 1: adhere to that. But I'm telling you tho, Man, I
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  Speaker 1: have regrets. Man, I regret. One of the first regrets
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  Speaker 1: I had was the disappointment that I provided my mother
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  Speaker 1: and father. Man, I really really disappointed them. Man, A
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  Speaker 1: couple of times in life. It was just so disheartening. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I lost five thousand dollars of my father's one time,
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  Speaker 1: and Man, all that ripped his heart out, in my
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  Speaker 1: heart out. And I saw how heard he was when
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  Speaker 1: I lost his five thousand dollars. It was all he had,
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  Speaker 1: and he gave it to me on the loan to
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  Speaker 1: buy a carpet cleaning machine, and I lost it because
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't make the bill, and so he got tired
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  Speaker 1: of the bank calling, so he relinquished his CD. I
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  Speaker 1: lost five thousand dollars my father. That's one of my
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  Speaker 1: great regrets. And I spent the rest of my life
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  Speaker 1: trying to make it up to him. I paid him
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  Speaker 1: a lot more than five thousand back. I bet you did.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll hold it right there. I think
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  Speaker 1: everyone has a regret. We'll find out what Tommy's regret is,
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  Speaker 1: what Junior's regret is, Carla's and mine. We'll talk about
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  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening all right. Before we
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  Speaker 1: went on break, Steve, we were talking about the fact
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  Speaker 1: that Tom Joyner, one of our colleagues and friend, had
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  Speaker 1: said that one of his biggest regrets was not going
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  Speaker 1: into a deal with you at one time. He said
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  Speaker 1: that it was almost done. Money wasn't even the problem,
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  Speaker 1: but egos got in the way. And he didn't even
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  Speaker 1: mean your ego or his ego. He just meant some
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  Speaker 1: egos got in the way. And then we went on
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  Speaker 1: from there to ask you what was one of your
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  Speaker 1: biggest regrets, and boy, you told us yeah, Oh, a
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  Speaker 1: heart wrenching story about I disappointed my father and my mother. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I was one of my great hurts. I think. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, man, I've had a bunch of things I
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  Speaker 1: wished I had not done. You know. I wish, man,
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  Speaker 1: I had paid attention to my mother sooner about a
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  Speaker 1: relationship with God. I really do, man, I could have
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  Speaker 1: saved myself so much pain. Oh my goodness, man, have
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  Speaker 1: I done a number on myself by not adhering to that.
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  Speaker 1: But then we get right back to the fact that
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  Speaker 1: had I not gone through what I went through, I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to have the testimony that I have today.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, it's it's tough when you got to
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  Speaker 1: deal with regrets. Oh yeah, yeah, it really it's it's heavy,
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  Speaker 1: it really is, and you'll end up beating yourself up
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  Speaker 1: over something that you really can't change. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But I mean, like you said, you spent the rest
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  Speaker 1: of your life trying to make it, make it up
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  Speaker 1: to him, and and your intentions were great, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure you did, and I'm sure he forgave you, but
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  Speaker 1: you never forgave yourself. No, yeah, and oh he forgot
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: all about it? Yeah, Or that boy shild so much
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: money to this house. I remember my mama sitting my
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: daddy out to LA when I was on me and
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: the boys, because I was sending money to the house.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: My mom said, Slick, go out there and see what
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: that boy and got itself into because they ain't no
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: where in the will you telling jokes and making this
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: kind of money and us all this money every week.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: And my daddy flew out there, she said, he said, son,
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: that talked to me. What you didn't got yourself into
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: is you're hustling or you're doing something like that. You
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: and in the streets with what you're doing so no.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I took him to the show and everything. Then I
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: showed him my paychecks though he said, you can't say
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: you want to stay on. I don't get the blank.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: What you got to be bulled? No, I can't say it.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: You make that a week? Yes? So what? I look
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: at him, Why didn't more money? I'm making a yell?
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: They pay you this a week? Yes? So that was it? Man?
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: What about y'all? You know what, Steve? My biggest regret regret,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: if I'm honest, because I didn't finish college. If I
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: didn't go my whole four years. That my biggest regret.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: And I always wanted to do that before my mom.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: My mom passed away and I started going back to
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: school and I still, you know, haven't finished. But that
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: was my biggest regret that I didn't finish my yeah,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: my four year degree. That was That's my biggest biggest regret.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, I still have time to do it, but
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: that is my biggest regret. It is. I mean, I
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: wanted to be in radio so badly, I really did,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: and I got the opportunity to be in radio while
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: I was in school. So I dropped out and took
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: a radio job and from there, it just you know,
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: exploded and that still dear good, that's what happened, you know,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: but still, you know, you talk about regrets, that's my
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: big That is my biggest regret in life. That really
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: is surely I floked out of school. I ain't thought
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: about it. Three shirts made people feel better, yeah, right,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: But you know I was her firstborn. I wanted to
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: make her proud and every and I think I eventually
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I did that. But that, you know, that's my one regret.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: That is my biggest regret. What about you? I think
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: my biggest regret is my mother when you know, just
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: growing up, you know, I was raised by my mom.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: She encouraged me to try to have a better relationship
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: with my father, but I was very very angry and
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: my dad for a long time, you know what I mean,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: and just thought my dad was trifling or you know
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: what we go through, you know, the issues that I
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: had with my father, and then when my father passed away.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: You know, my mom passed away first, but when my
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: father passed away, I kind of you know, when I
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: went to his funeral and I spoke and it was like, dang,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: I wish I had done you know, got to know
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: my dad a little bit better. And it wasn't that
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: long ago to Carla that your dear dad passed away. Yeah,
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: he passed away. My mom passed away in two thous
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: and four, and my dad passed away ten years later,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: twenty fourteen. Yeah, wow, wow, yeah, this is but I
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: have a closer But you know what, but you know
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: what came from that. Though, I have a very very
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: close relationship now closer. I've always was close to my aunt,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: my dad's sister. She lives in La. Yeah. Yeah, my aunt,
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: so we are that's my girl now so close and
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: she's teaching me so much about my dad's family. And
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: guess what, guys, my dad set me up when he died.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I'm talking checks were coming in from my dad and
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: I had no look at God, look at God. Yeah. Yeah,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: so that's my regret, that the anger and trying, you know,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: just to get to know my dad. But my mother
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: always try to encourage that. Then I mentioned I was
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: always in gifted and talented classes through school too, so
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: there was no excuse for me not to send me
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: that I did. I mention that, I mention that, you know,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: they accidentally put me in special ed class for three weeks.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: They had got some paperwork mixed up. I was down now,
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: raising my hand every time to teach your ass something.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I knew everything. Pop quiz is a test, A group
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: leader reading, group leader. Man, I'm the smartest boy. My
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: teacher went down in the office said, I think we
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: made a mistake. This boy does not appear to be
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: a special ed. They came to my room and told
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: me to come down and go the room fall six.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: I went, what what is we going down the fall?
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: I'm getting all age? You don't even want understanding folk
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: plus folk. Oh you liked it down there, you got it?
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: Got it at something else? What's your biggest My biggest regret?
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: I think it is my grandmother not here to see
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: me today because she didn't believe Oh she didn't believe you. No, No,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to show that I'm not making a mistake.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I know there's something different about me. Huh. And this
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: is what I'm born to do. And I wish first
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: comedian because I meant when I came in the house,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: but I first thoughted. She said, how much we make
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: this week, mister comedian? Thirty five dollars hold a dough
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: and I wanted to see me today. Yeah, yeah, Julian, Yeah,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: can I tell you something she sees you. That's the
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: good thing she sees man. All Right, we come back.
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: We're gonna hear from the food. We have to. We
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: have to all right, biggest regrets when we come back
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to all right, uh wow,
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: this morning turned interesting to an interesting turn. We're talking
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: about our biggest regrets in the morning show. Um, everyone
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: has something they regret, they wish they had done different
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: or better, not at all. And we've all been pouring
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: out our hearts basically about what our biggest regrets are.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: And we've heard from everyone, and so now I just
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: tell everyone, you know, hold on because it's time for
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: the nephew and we want to find out. Nephew, what's
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: your biggest regret? My biggest regret. Yes, I'm gonna have
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: a regret for him. What is it? I think his
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: biggest Come on, come on, Betty, I think one of
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: him his biggest blass was not being as tall. I'm
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: pretty sure he can look back on his life all
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: this shot that little feeding small hands, you know, little
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: last Gi Joe clothes he's been wearing Joe control over
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: that scene. I know. That's how I know that's one
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: of his biggest regrets because he wished he could have
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: controlled that out there for a timing, because I know
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: where he's fitting to go. I said, okay, yeah, light low,
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: take this off my dog. You know, don't don't want
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: him down. They're hurting too bad, you know, because of Man,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: I listen. But you know, it's a it's it's it's
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: a it's a thing man, when you are when you
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: talk about regrets, and because like we all know, you
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: can't redo any of it now. And if it had
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: not happened in the exact order that it did, none
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: of us would be who we are. True. And it
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: is these regrets that that tire us to a humbleness,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: that tire us to a hunger, that tire us to
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: a memory that causes us to be better for it,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: All of these regrets that we've expressed, the memory of
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: these regrets has caused us to change and become better people. Yeah,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: all of us. And that's why people some people say
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: they have no regrets, No, because you gotta get it
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: in that it all had to happen, man, Yeah, yeah,
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: you know you you you. You had to leave school.
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: You you had to not give your father a chance.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: You had to your grandmother had to not see you
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: make it for you to really get that. Tommy dealing
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: with his father, the loss of his father. But his
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: father made him who he is a day. Yes, without
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: without tommy father, he ain't to do what he is today.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: All the mass whip presumed checks and balances. Yeah, them
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: tough fans, moments many pick forcast. You know, I think
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I thank God for all these ass whippers, every las
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: one of the walls I thought I unfairly got. Yeah. Yeah,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: guess what that teaches you to understand that life ain't
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: always not always some time he jeff fucking man. But
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: get up and get on with it all right. See,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: we're in a good place, but we got to move on,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: keep the show moving. Time from Missan ladies and gentlemen,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Miss Ann Tripp, thank you very much, everybody. Good morning.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Yes we do have our regrets, but they do make
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: us better. This is a trip with the news. President
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: Trump has called off plans plan talks with the Taliban,
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: and some Middle East observers say there might be another
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: wave of violence because of it. In Afghanistan, at least
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: as a result, but Trump said he had to cancel.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Jim David would have been a good place. But I
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: don't want to meet under circumstances where they go around
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: to try and make themselves a little bit more important
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: by killing a soldier by actually also a great NATO
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: soldier in addition to our soldier, and also a total
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: of twelve people. I don't want that. It might also
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: been inconvenient because it was supposed to take place this
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: week in September eleventh around that time, so that might
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: have also not had a good look to it. The
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Talban was supposed to be finalizing a deal with the
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: US to close eighteen years of fighting. No word now
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: when or if it talks of resume. Fifty state attorneys
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: general have launched an investigation to Google to see if
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: Google's been acting like a monopoly, in other words, too
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: good at squashing its opponents. Thousands of Bahamians are now
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: on US soil after being evacuated from the devastation left
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: by Hurricane Dorium. Meanwhile, Behaming UN officials say there is
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: no clean drinking water or electricity, and only one functioning
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: ambulance on Grand Bahama Island. Us AID administrator Mark Green
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: says it's tremendous suffering and devastations. There are parts of
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: Abaco and the Bahamas that own show a great deal
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: of damage, and then there are clusters and communities that
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: were devastated, almost as though nuclear bombs were dropped on them.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Green says that USAID has sent about three million dollars
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: to the islands to help provide clean water, sanitation, and
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: emergency shelters and communities in South Florida trying to help. Also,
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Dorian took a slap at Canada on Sunday, heading out
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: to sea, where it's expected to fizzle out today. A
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: federal judge in California has reinstated his nationwide injunction against
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: new Trump administration policy that denies asylum to migrants who
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: arrive at our southern border after traveling through a third country.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Trump officials want to deny asylum to people from Central
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: America and elsewhere who passed through other countries, in other words,
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: without asking for protection in those countries before coming to
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: the United States. Americans civil the Americans CIVILIPTI Junior ACLU
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: is praising the judge's injunction. Is praising that he's stopping that.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: The US Coast Guard began pulling trapped crew members out
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: of a Chicago ship that capsize off Georgia Coast on
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Sunday in court fire. As of yesterday, twenty people have
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: been rescued from that sinking vessel in Chicago. This is
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: a sad one, now horrible one. Jury selection, though, does
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: begin this week in the murder trial for two of
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: the three men charged with the deliberate murder of a
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: nine year old boy, the nine year old son of
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: a purported gang member in twenty fifteen and attacked that
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: prosecutors say was meant to send a message to the
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: father they killed. They say his nine year old child.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: The killing of Tayshawn Lee shocked and disgusted the community
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: in Chicago. Authorities say the fourth grader was actually lured
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: away from a playground and into an alley that he
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: was shot and killed. Again. Jury selection begins this week
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: in that case. Former strongman south Zunbabwe strongman mcgabe Robert
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: mcgabey is being He's going to be funeralized this week
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: on Sunday. Actually he died in Singapore. His body due
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: back in Zimbabwe tomorrow today National Trial. It look day,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: So you vote, okay, and now back to the Steve
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening too well. President Trump took
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: to Twitter to bash Justice for All for not giving
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: him and the Republicans credit for passing the First Step Act.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: When all of the people pushing so hard for criminal
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: justice reform were unable to come even close to getting
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: it done, they came to me as a group and
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: asked for my help, he wrote, after bragging about getting
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: it done and saying that President Barack Obama couldn't come close.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: Then he started in on John Legend. Guys like boring
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: music musician John Legend and his filthy mouth wife are
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: talking now about how great it is. But I didn't
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: see them around when we needed help getting it passed.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? So this is from the President
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: of the United States, Then I hate to tell you this.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Then your last six buildings, yeah, well they mostly with
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: But I'm gonna just tell you the truth. Now, John
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: Legend has made money man, and he's a great, very
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: successful Yeah. But the activists, yes, but you're right, and
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: that's the issue. But but the fact that the President
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: of the United States has time and how do you
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: say something negative about his wife, Come on, low, can
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: you go? But you know Chrissy Tigan, now she's not
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: gonna let that stand. She will clap back. She clapped
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: back at the president. She tweeted, Lol what a blank
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: blank b word tagged everyone but me and honor mister President.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: She went in, Yeah she did, since she wanted nasty mouth.
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: Here it is. Yeah now this is according to TMZ,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Trump blocked Chrissy Tigan on Twitter back in twenty seventeen.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: The Federal Appeals Court has since rule Trump can't block
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: people from his official Twitter account, but it's unclear if
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: he is unblocked Chrissy. John Legend posted a message to
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Melanie A. Trump to base, come get her man and
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: give him the attention to praise. He's so desperately craving
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: woe right now because see what you don't do is
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: you can't come for a cash wife now. Now. But
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: you know, man, this president, did you hear this stuff?
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: He don't want the Bohemian refugees that are trying to
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: come to America because they're all drug dealers and gang members.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: Everybody that's a color is a drug dealer and a
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: gang banger. Yeah, question mark, like like they're escaping the
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: brutality of a dictator in the Bahamas. No, sir, they
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: have no where to go. Land was decimated and now
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: he don't want to receive them because they are drug
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: dealers and gang bangers and way to get your base.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Ryle too, that's the way to get your base riled up.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: That's exactly what is full. Coming up at thirty four
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: after the hour, Junior is here with his Trump predictions. Okay,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: we can't wait for that, right, I've been thanking you're
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: listening to all right, So Steve, people are still shaking
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: their head about Trump's claim that Hurricane Dorian was going
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: to hit Alabama, and they're also saying that Commerce secretary
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: the Commerce Secretary threatened to fire people if they contradicted
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: Trump's hurricane claim. Well, with all of that being said,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: Junior is here with more Trump predictions. Let's see him. Well,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: you know, Trump took the sharpie and extended the cause
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: and saying it's go hit Alabama. Now, if you wanted
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: to do that, you're gonna tell us all that were crazy.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: We see what Dorian's going, But you want to say
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: that there's some most ignorant statements you'll make, like, for one,
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: what Netflix is going to make up with Monique that's
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: not gonna have He's say it, He's say. Here another
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: prediction he will probably make. There will be an old
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: school sampness party at the White Hot. Can't been a
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: black person that since you've been there. He got another prediction.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: New Year's Day will now start on September twenty eight.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: If you think we'll be okay, he got another. He'll
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: probably make black people will stop talking in movies. Black
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: people us at the movie then he thought were really
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: gonna stop. He got another. All black churches will cut
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: their services down to thirty five minutes and no longer
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: that ain't for the half wrong mister president. Yeah, he asked,
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: you probably predict this ugly men and will no longer
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: approach fine women. That has never happened. They're coming. Oh
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: you believe, what the hell are we gonna do after club?
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: He'll probably another prediction. Now Mike Tyson and Jedeth Brown
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: will all stop smoking weed. And it's probably what he
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: really want to say. Trump will that man he has
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: a man crushed for Barackobamba. Yes to say it, Yeah,
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: don't say every day it really is jealous of the
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: love that Barack Obama had. Yes, true, Why he just
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: don't say it? Go ahead and say it. Here go one.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: The Eastern Body will now take over Christmas for Santa Claus.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Just lying. But he predicted this. Chick fil A will
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: not be up and on Sunday, the hell that for
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: whatever happened. Oh, he probably gonna confess. He probably gonna
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: predict this too. He'll confess OJ did it? Who? Yeah? Yeah, Well,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: you know he ain't gonna ever say that. He'll never
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: say that. Mega Pastors will now fly commercial aliss Yeah,
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: where you're gonna get on Delta. Apple will come out
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: with an iPhone that costs one hundred dollars. Yeah, comes
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: to me that it does. Yeah, no, No, And since
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: he's so egotistical, seventy will be the new twenty. Well,
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: he's in his seventies. That's not true. Already be a
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Nick mcnige will do a Buddet movie. I ain't head,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna get on the same screen, ain't no where
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: in the world. I just been thinking just by something
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: he might predict. Uh, he just might predict I don't know. Okay,
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: he'll go one. Spirit Airlines will now give you more
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: leg room and fresh peanut. Ain't no work, ain't the
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: where the word there, gonna do it and he's gonna
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: last one, last one. I got what DJ Kellett will
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: produce a song without saying we're the best, and another
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: one and another one. Hell it ain't gonna have get
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: this something he may predict if he think the dory
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: go hit Alabama like it when you think president like yeah,
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: I just be thanking Wow. I just don't prove that
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: he was telling the truth getting yeah, getting folks, Yeah,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: you just lie, You just lie. All right, thank you,
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Junior for that. Coming up next, Nephew in the building
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: with the prank phone call right after this, you're listening
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today, the subject I can't help it.
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: I'm a hater, right, I can't honest? Yeah? All right?
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Uh but right now, Nephew in the building with today's
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: frank phone call. What you got for us? Nap, I
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: got to Facebook? Bandy oh? Facebook bandikay? Alright, kad do
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: let's go Facebook bad lovell. I'm trying to reach Maurice. Yeah,
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: that's Marie. How you doing, man? My name is Dorsey.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach out to you. You. You're on
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: Facebook quite a bit. I'm I am I right. I mean,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: I'm on the computer a lot, man, That's what I do. Okay, Uh,
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: my wife's some reason, Manum. It seems that you've been
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: having a lot of back and forth on Facebook with
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: my wife Denise, and I'm trying to figure out you know, uh,
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: you know, at first it was kind of cute or whatever.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm seeing your name on the wall all
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: the time. You keep I end and my wife back
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: and forth, and I'm like, you mean, I am an
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: instant message, That's what I mean. You know what I'm
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: talking about. So my thing is what what is all
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: this here with um? With Denise? You know, he's a
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: little what you said your name was my name Dorsey? Okay,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Dorsey checked this out. Man. I got over fourteen hundred
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: plus friends on Facebook. I don't know who your wife's is, Okay,
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't recall. I am in tho Denise
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: right now, and hey, I don't know who she is. Man.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: I think you got me. Let me, let me let
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: me let me bring it to you. What so we
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: can refresh your memory because you're constantly asking her about
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: how things used to be. I remember when we did this,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Remember when we did that. You know, it's a whole
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: lot of remember this and not and and you asking her,
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: you know, about hooking up whenever she got time. Okay, See,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: I don't even know that. Man. I don't even do that.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: I don't do that. Man, I got too much to lose.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: I don't do nothing like that. Man. You know I could.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: I can't. I can't have over thirty out of fourteen
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: hundred friends. Man, I can't have over thirty Denises on that. Man. Okay, well,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Man. Are you telling all the
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: deniss that you want to hook up with them? Are
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: you telling all the Denisians remember this? Remember that. I
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: ain't telling nobody nothing. Man. Look, I try to live
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: my life as peaceful as possible. Man, I'm not on that. Okay.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: So I you know, Darius, whatever your name is, man,
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: name is Dorsey. And let's explain something to you. Man.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: I didn't seen pictures brother of high school, pictures of
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: you and a group on the on the site, so
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: I know exactly what you look like. Okay, you say
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: me and who? I didn't seen a group of you
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: all and went to high school together, and evidently you
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: know you wanted these guys. So I'm gonna figure out
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: exactly which one bar so what I was tagged on
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: a photo or something like that, what however you want
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: to call. I don't know much about the damn All
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know is that I got a problem
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: with you, Maurice hitting my wife trying to see about
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: can't she get out what you? Can't she do this?
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: Can't she do it? Look, Darius, Darius, you need to Darcy. Man,
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: it's don't give a what your name is. Man. First
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: of all, I'm gonna toilet, and you calling me early
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: in the morning when I already got Look, I'm peaceful, man,
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: I don't even cust no mo man, you got me
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: out of my out of my zone. Man. Look, I
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: don't know who your wife is. I don't be on
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Facebook like that. It stayed up in the corner while
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: I'm on the computer doing others, so it looks like
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I'm born here. You understanding My wife is Deny. You're
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: talking to Darcy. You understand me? Now, let me tell
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: you something. If I see y'all on the wall, if
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: I see you, I end and my wife. It's gonna
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: be my races. You don't even know where I live, dude.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: Oh so I don't know who I will find that
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: if I found your number. Don't think I won't fire you.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: Fot you find you? Right? You? Right? You do? Got
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: my number? How the hell did you get my number?
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: Don't worry about that. You're gonna be saying that when
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: I get on your front doorstep. Hell you find my
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: eye dress? Yeah, you come to my door and see
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: what's gonna happen? Man? And when I leave you? Why
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: the hell did you whop my? That's what you're gonna be?
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: I got you. Come on, Hello, I'm gonna say this
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: one more time, and I'm gonna say it clear my race.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: If I see your name on my computer dealing with
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: my wife Denise again, I'm coming to your house and
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: I'm whooping your Okay, Look, look garious, I'm an artist.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: You listen, man, it's Botsey Man, Dorsey, I'm I apologize, Dorsey. Look, man,
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: I feel for you, you know, I you know it
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: seems like your wife is on the computer a lot
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: of hayes. She I am in people whatever, But I'm
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: the wrong cat to talk to. Man. You need to
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: talk to your wife. Man. You know y'all need to
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: settle that. Man. Maybe y'all need to go to church, man,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: talk to the past or something. But I'm the wrong cat. Man.
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna tell you something. Man. You can't
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: tell me what you feel for me. You understand. Let
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: me tell you something I feel for you. If I
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: see your on my white computer one more time, if
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I see a baby picture, a high school picture, a
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: high school sweetheart pictures, I don't give a if you
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: play football ran track. If I see any picture anything
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: dealing with your name, my reaess on my white computer,
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: I'm kicking y'all. Wow, wow, wow, you know, women, I
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: don't give up who you is, dare is whoever? I
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: can't even remember what your name is. Man, do not
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: call my house moo mo. I don't know who your
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: wife is, and you know what my high dresses. Trill. Man,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: you come on down here to Kada, Georgia. You come, son,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: I'm saying to you and get you to talk. I
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: told you where I live at, so you bring to
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: my door and you see what happened. I got one
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: more thing I want to say to you. Hello, you
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: ain't guys take up to me? Man, Yes, I do
• 50:10
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• 50:12
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• 50:14
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• 50:18
  Speaker 1: what you got to say? This is neph you Tommy
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked
• 50:25
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• 50:34
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• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Your boy Chris got me the prank phone? Call you dog?
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Who called Chris? Man? Oh? Believe it? Man? So real? Man, Man,
• 50:50
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• 50:56
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• 51:08
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  Speaker 1: North Carolina went down there this past Saturday. He did
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  Speaker 1: September twenty first, the Nephew coming to Greensboro, North Carolina,
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• 52:17
  Speaker 1: they're gonna tell you exactly that the nephew was a fool.
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  Speaker 1: I'm coming to Greensboro. That's the twenty twenty first of September,
• 52:24
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• 52:28
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• 52:31
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• 52:35
  Speaker 1: a han over there for what's going on with you?
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Are you sure? Okay? All right? Well, thank you, nephew.
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: Up next it is the Strawberry Letter, subject I can't
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: help it. I'm a hater. We'll get it right after this.
• 52:53
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• 52:57
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• 53:01
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• 53:21
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• 53:23
  Speaker 1: It is subject to I can't help it. I'm a hater.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: H Dear Stephen Shirley, Harry time I say that she
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: left Charlett, Dear Stephen Shirley. I love myself very much,
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: and I love most of my family, but I developed
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: this deep, dark hatred for my sister. You see, my
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: sister has the life I prayed for. I turned to
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: God and asked God to bless me with the husband
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: with all the qualities her husband has. God gave this
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: wonderful man to my sister, and my sister has never
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: prayed for anything. She did not even want to be
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. When she met her husband. He is
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: a good man and they are talking about starting a
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: family soon. She prayed for it nothing. She's not very
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: religious and she sends all the time, but God still
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: gave her the life I prayed for. Because of that,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: I developed this deep jealousy for her, and it just
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: turned to hate. It's hard for me to be in
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: the same room with my sister and her husband. They
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: made a joke recently about me being single and in
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: my mid thirties, so it caused me to hate her
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: even more. I have a lot of friends that are
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: in relationships and married, but I don't feel this way
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: about them. I have a little jealousy towards them, but
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: it's not as bad. I've dated a few guys here
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: and there, but they aren't looking for a serious relationship,
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: and after I sleep with them, there is usually no
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: more communication after that. I'm not picky at all, but
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: I haven't gotten anywhere in my prayers for a good man.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: My sister has received all of my blessings with her
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: sinful I'm losing my faith now because God ignores me.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: I am still single with no real possibilities of finding love.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Please tell me how I can get back on track
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: with my faith and stop hating my sister for having
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: the ideal life that's mine. Wow. All right, Well, first
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: of all, you lied to us, okay, in the very
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: first line you lied to us in this letter, it says,
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: dear Stephen Shirley, I love myself very much. No you don't. No,
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: you don't. And this letter is full of receipts that
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: prove you don't love or respect yourself at all. For instance,
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: self respect, you say you're not picky at all, You're
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: not looking guys, aren't looking for a serious relationship. And
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: after you sleep with them, so sounds like you're just
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: sleeping with guys, they don't communicate after all, And that's
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: okay with you. You couldn't love yourself and let yourself
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: be treated this way, Okay, So contradictions all in this letter.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: This letter is not about your sister. You got to
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: understand that this letter is about you. You're a relationship
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: with God, You're a trust of God. You're judgmental. You're
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: not supposed to be judgmental. You know that you're hateful.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: You don't understand. You don't understand. What's for you is
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: for you. Okay, God loves us all the same. It's
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: what's for you is for you, don't you know? You're
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: supposed to be happy for your sister that she's happy
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: with her husband, she's happy in her marriage. And your
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: friends that are marriage you're hating on them too. You're
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: supposed to be happy for them, not saying they got
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: all my blessings. Those are their blessings. Okay, they're not
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: your blessings. You are a miserable person. You're a miserable person.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: You hate yourself, and you hate everyone else around you.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: You're looking at their lives and wondering why you don't
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: have that. Maybe that's why, because you're too busy paying
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: attention to what they got going on and not paying
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: attention to what you have going on. This girl, get
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: it together. That's your sister. You're not supposed to be
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: hating on her like that, or anyone else for that matter.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: Learn how to love yourself first, and then you can
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: love other people. It won't be so hard. Steve. Wow,
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: this letter right here, this crazy. It's got so much
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: crazy stuff in it. It just starts crazy. Shirley, you
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: said something about she lied in the letter, she doesn't
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: love herself very much. I agree with you, but let me,
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: let me, let me take a different look at this.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: I love myself very much right there, And then you said,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: and I love most of my family, but right what
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hold up, you remember how your mama
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: told you once? You say, but it negates everything you
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: said prior to that for it. I love myself very much,
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: and I love most of my family, but I've developed
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: this deep, dark hatred for my system. This whole statement
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: is filled with contradiction. I love myself very much, I
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: love most of my family. I've developed a deep dog
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: hatred for my sister. Wow. Okay, you see, you trip it.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: You see my sister has the life I prayed for. No,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: she don't. No. Okay, if your sister has the life
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: you prayed for, do you understand how this works? Right here?
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: You hated your sister so much that the life you
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: prayed for God gave it to her. Because you're so
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: dog gonna hateful. Why would he give it to you?
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: What your heart feel? With all this hate you, God,
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be able to treat it right. I
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: turned to God and ask God to bless me with
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: her husband, with all the qualities her husband had. God
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: gave this wonderful man to my sister. This man didn't
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: won't you? The man didn't won't you. You just say
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: it in your letter. When you sleep with men after
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: you sleep with him is no communication. Not only don't
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: this man won't you, but none of the men you
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: slept with won't you? Girl? Girl, I got so much
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: to pick out of this letter. I know, all right.
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: We'll hold it right there, Steve, hold it right there.
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: I know this letter is upsetting. It is because she's crazy.
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: We'll let part two of Steve's response coming up at
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's subject, I can't help it.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: I'm a hater. We'll be back right after this. You're
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: listening to, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. Subject I can't help it. I'm a hater.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: It's hard to recap. Here's a woman whose sister has
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: the life she wants. And now she hate her sister,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: and she mad at God. She said, your sister has
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: the life I prayed for. I turned to God, ask
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: God to bless me with her husband, with all the
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: qualities her husband has. God gave this wonderful man to
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: my sister. My sister has never prayed for anything. How
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: you know? How do you know? Your sister ain't prayed
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: for nothing. She did not even want to be in
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: a relationship when she met her husband. That's usually how
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: it happens. Love just walks up to you. She wasn't
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: out there looking for nothing, she wasn't hunting. She got found.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: He's a good man, and they talking about starting a family.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: That's what people do when they get married and they
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: in love with each other. She prayed for nothing. How
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: do you know that? She's not very religious? How do
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: you know that? And she sinds all the time, and
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: everybody do everybody do what you? You? You're tripping. She
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: prayed for nothing. She's not very religious and she sins
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: all the time. You just described everybody else, including your
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: damn self. But God still gave her the life. I
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: prayed fault. God ain't finna give you nothing. Because you're
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: too hate fault. Because of that, I developed this deep
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: jealousy for her. Oh, you hateful and you're jealous for her,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: and it just turned to hate. Let me ask you something.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: When you type this letter, did you read it? Did
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: you did you read this? Twe to God. This letter
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: is so damn crazy. There's not a breath in this letter.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: There's not a line where you breathe. Because of that,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: I developed this deep jealousy for her to turn into hate.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: It's hard for me. Listen, every letter is filled with hate.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard for being the same room with my sister
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  Speaker 1: and her husband. They made a joke recently, Oh some lefty,
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  Speaker 1: Here comes some levity, y'all. They made a joke recently
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  Speaker 1: it caused me to hate her even more. Hate for
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  Speaker 1: Here we go. You're ready for some more. I've dated
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  Speaker 1: you so you so hate for you? Your your sex
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  Speaker 1: ain't even good? You have hate for sex? Have hey,
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  Speaker 1: take it, take it, get it to love me? Loving me?
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  Speaker 1: I've dated a few guys serious relationship. I sleep with them.
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  Speaker 1: But I haven't gotten anywhere in my prayers for a
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  Speaker 1: good man. Okay, excuse me, Where in your prayers for
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  Speaker 1: and sleep with men that you ain't even picky or
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  Speaker 1: particular about and have sex with them which ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: be good sex? Because you you have angry sex. You're evil,
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  Speaker 1: you have hateful I don't want no more. My sister
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  Speaker 1: has received all my blessings. No she didn't. Your sister
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  Speaker 1: got the blessings that God was gonna give her. What
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  Speaker 1: God has for her is not for you. God ain't
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  Speaker 1: gave nothing to her that He intended to give to you.
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  Speaker 1: He not giving you nothing because you hateful. My sister
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  Speaker 1: received all my blessings with her sinful self. Wow, I
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  Speaker 1: am losing my faith now because God ignores me. You
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  Speaker 1: don't have no faith. You ain't losing it. It's gone.
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  Speaker 1: God ain't in you at all. You've taken, You removed
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  Speaker 1: the space for God to exist in you with hatred.
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  Speaker 1: I'm still single with no real possibilities of finding love.
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  Speaker 1: And because of that statement right there, you never will.
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  Speaker 1: You keep putting negative everybody out in the universe and
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  Speaker 1: Please tell me how I can get back on track
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• 1:05:36
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  Speaker 1: to the Steven Show, all right? Uh. An anti LGBT
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  Speaker 1: group is boycotting Whole Foods. We all know Whole Foods,
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  Speaker 1: Drag Queen Story Hour took place at a public library
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  Speaker 1: After the initial complaints, the storytelling session was allegedly removed
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  Speaker 1: Now drag Queen story Hours guys have taken place at
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  Speaker 1: They say disturbing events involved men dressed up as women
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  Speaker 1: this is their claim. They say. Some drag queens have
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  Speaker 1: they're Queen story. They want people in Atlanta to boycott
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  Speaker 1: Griffin has roast Caitlyn Jenner at the Alec Baldwin Comedy Central. Roast. Um,
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  Speaker 1: here making fun of Caitlin, but honestly, I want to
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  Speaker 1: We all know, the NFL is the most popular sport football.
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  Speaker 1: NBA players have a good gig, but playing basketball still
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  Speaker 1: best player in any sport, what would that be? Steve
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  Speaker 1: got to be basketball? Give a damn what that survey said,
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  Speaker 1: you'd run around running around? What you want to do? What?
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  Speaker 1: morning show. Well, President Trump took to Twitter to bash
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  Speaker 1: and more. I try to share things that I learned
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  Speaker 1: of stories of regular people that God are used as
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  Speaker 1: an example, people who showed extraordinary exhibitions of faith and hope.
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  Speaker 1: And so I just try to share with the people
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  Speaker 1: stuff that I learned along the way. One of the
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  Speaker 1: things I was learning, man, was I had to really
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  Speaker 1: learn to accept each day just as it came to me.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what I want to share with you today.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta, people, we gotta start accepting the day as
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  Speaker 1: it comes to you. Do not waste your time and
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  Speaker 1: energy wishing for a different set of circumstances, because it's
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  Speaker 1: not going to happen. Do you know how much time
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  Speaker 1: and energy you burn wishing things weren't the way they were.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know how much time and energy you wished
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  Speaker 1: hoping something was different? And there's no way it can
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  Speaker 1: be different. We're spending too much time with that. You
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  Speaker 1: got to accept the things in the day that you
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  Speaker 1: can't do anything about, and and remember you and remember
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  Speaker 1: something man, that instead of that, start trusting in the
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  Speaker 1: process that God has a special design and a special
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  Speaker 1: purpose for you even with this difficulties. Man, you got
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  Speaker 1: to trust in the process. His plan for you is
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  Speaker 1: different from my plan. It's different from your mother's plan.
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  Speaker 1: It's different from all your friends plans. But don't so
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  Speaker 1: don't spend that much time and energy like so many
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  Speaker 1: of us do, like I've done. I can't count the
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  Speaker 1: times I did it, man, wishing certain circumstances weren't the circumstances,
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  Speaker 1: but they Oh it is what it is. Now what
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna do about it? This could be an opportunity
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  Speaker 1: for you to get closer to God. Sometimes trials and
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  Speaker 1: tribulations and things come out way because God just wants
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  Speaker 1: us to be closer to it. You know how people
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  Speaker 1: getting aggravated all the time. People kill me when they
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  Speaker 1: say this. He went to prison, he found the Lord.
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  Speaker 1: He had to wait till he went to prison and
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  Speaker 1: found the Lord. Okay, okay, but he found him. No. See,
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  Speaker 1: everybody ain't got to go to prison to find him.
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  Speaker 1: You know how I found him. I found him living
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  Speaker 1: in a car. You know how house I found him.
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  Speaker 1: I found him when he took everything from me twice.
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  Speaker 1: You know how I found him. I found him out
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  Speaker 1: to two divorces man, when when it just looked like
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna rise no more. And guess what, I
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  Speaker 1: keep finding him over and over and over again. I
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  Speaker 1: keep finding how great he really is. Every time a
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  Speaker 1: hardship come in my life, I find out a little
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  Speaker 1: bit more about it. I find out just how powerful,
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  Speaker 1: how forgiving, how loving, how merciful, how graceful he really is.
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  Speaker 1: Every time something happened, when they write me off and
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  Speaker 1: he lift me up again. I keep finding out about
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  Speaker 1: him every day I wake up how good he really is,
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  Speaker 1: So don't worry about the brother. They go to prison
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  Speaker 1: and find it. And now he want to tell me
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  Speaker 1: about the Lord. He's been sitting in a cell. Well
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  Speaker 1: maybe that's what it took. Maybe that's what it took.
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  Speaker 1: But the same thing it took for him to find
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  Speaker 1: the Lord, something gonna happen to you to make you
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  Speaker 1: find him too. And sometimes, like I said, you need
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  Speaker 1: them trials and them tribulations to get you in a
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  Speaker 1: better place. These trials and tribulations ain't to break you in,
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  Speaker 1: to destroy you. It's to strengthen you. You need. All
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  Speaker 1: of this is to draw you closer. You think about it,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't even go to God if you didn't need him.
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  Speaker 1: Must be talking to myself. I know I wouldn't have
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  Speaker 1: if everything went right for me my whole life. You
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  Speaker 1: think I'll be talking to God all the time now
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  Speaker 1: because I got everything, But I need him know, and
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  Speaker 1: it pushed me to him, and I'm glad it did.
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  Speaker 1: So remember stop tripping about your circumstances. Man, get yourself
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  Speaker 1: in contact with your creator. God loves you, want some
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  Speaker 1: relationship with you. Sometimes these trials and tribulations is to
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  Speaker 1: get that relationship. Okay, those are my closing remarks. I
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  Speaker 1: hope I ain't step on nobody's told y'all have a
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