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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to my show Money Making Conversation master Class. I'm
- 0:03Speaker 1: your host with Sean McDonald. I recognized that we all
- 0:06Speaker 1: have different definitions of success. For you and may be
- 0:09Speaker 1: the size of your paycheck. Mine is inspiring people to
- 0:12Speaker 1: develop their plan to reach their dreams. It's time to
- 0:14Speaker 1: stop reading other people's success stories and start writing your own.
- 0:18Speaker 1: You can only exceed expectations by believing in yourself. People
- 0:22Speaker 1: always talk about their purpose or gifts. If you have
- 0:24Speaker 1: a gift, lead with your gifts and don't let your friends, family,
- 0:27Speaker 1: or co workers stop you from planning or living your dreams.
- 0:31Speaker 1: My guests is Tanya Lewis Lee in Indie Wire featured
- 0:35Speaker 1: Tania on their twenty twenty two Rising Female Filmmakers to Watch.
- 0:40Speaker 1: She's a producer, film director, writer, entrepreneur, and women's health advocate,
- 0:44Speaker 1: delivery meaningful content that resonates with marginalized communities for over
- 0:49Speaker 1: twenty years on the heels of our influential children's book.
- 0:52Speaker 1: The US Department of Health partner with Tanya as the
- 0:55Speaker 1: spokesperson for their A Healthy Baby Begins with You Infant
- 0:59Speaker 1: Mortality Award. In this campaign from two thousand seven to
- 1:04Speaker 1: Tanya is on the Show Today discussed her new doctumentary
- 1:07Speaker 1: following the deaths of two young women due to childbirth complications,
- 1:11Speaker 1: to breathe families, galvanized activists, birth workers, and physicians to
- 1:16Speaker 1: recom with one of the most pressing American crisis today,
- 1:20Speaker 1: the US maternal health crisis. Lee co directed co produced
- 1:24Speaker 1: After Shock, which after Shock Excuse me, which examines the
- 1:27Speaker 1: U S fraternity mortality crisis. It currently is Aaron on Hulu.
- 1:32Speaker 1: Please welcome to Money Making Conversation Masterclass. The wonderful Tanya
- 1:36Speaker 1: Lewis Lee. How you doing. I'm good, ra Sean, thank
- 1:39Speaker 1: you so much for that wonderful introduction, and I'm happy
- 1:42Speaker 1: to be here in conversation with you about the film.
- 1:44Speaker 1: We know. I want the reason I hopefully I did
- 1:47Speaker 1: you justice in your intro, because to do a documentary
- 1:51Speaker 1: like this, there has to be some history, has to
- 1:53Speaker 1: be a person who just didn't have a good idea,
- 1:56Speaker 1: came across a good story and and and may this
- 2:00Speaker 1: amazing documentary and by at least giving this background, and
- 2:04Speaker 1: it'll let them know that a lot of emotion, a
- 2:07Speaker 1: lot of history, a lot of experience went into creating Aftershock.
- 2:11Speaker 1: Talk tell us about how you got involved with this project. Yeah. Then,
- 2:15Speaker 1: like I said, I really did appreciate your introduction because
- 2:18Speaker 1: you know, it was because of my children's book, Please Baby,
- 2:21Speaker 1: Please UH that the U s Department of Healthing Human
- 2:25Speaker 1: Services reached out to me and asked me to be
- 2:27Speaker 1: a spokesperson where they're infant mortality awareness raising campaign, A
- 2:31Speaker 1: Healthy Baby Begins with You. And it was through that
- 2:34Speaker 1: campaign that I was able to travel the country and
- 2:38Speaker 1: learn first of all about in mortality. I didn't realize
- 2:41Speaker 1: the US at the time when I first started had
- 2:43Speaker 1: an issue within the mortality the United States. I didn't
- 2:46Speaker 1: realize that black babies, like black mothers, are dying at
- 2:49Speaker 1: three to four times the rate of white babies in
- 2:52Speaker 1: this country. UM, and I didn't know about about so
- 2:56Speaker 1: I didn't know about the disparity so UM. Through my travel,
- 3:00Speaker 1: I had the opportunity to meet and talk with lots
- 3:03Speaker 1: of women UM and inevitably a woman would tell me
- 3:07Speaker 1: a story about a friend of sister, cousin, somebody who
- 3:10Speaker 1: had passed away from childbirth complications. So it had been
- 3:13Speaker 1: something that I had been thinking about for a while
- 3:15Speaker 1: because I was hearing it firsthand from the community. UH.
- 3:19Speaker 1: And then back in two thousand seventeen, two thousand eighteen
- 3:23Speaker 1: of the New York Times Republica started reporting on the
- 3:27Speaker 1: issue of maternal mortality here in this country, and it
- 3:30Speaker 1: seemed like that then was the time to really go
- 3:33Speaker 1: out there and and make this film to raise the
- 3:36Speaker 1: awareness so that we can do things to bring the
- 3:39Speaker 1: make for better outcomes. Well, let's let's talk about that,
- 3:41Speaker 1: making the fan, producing it, getting the concept in place,
- 3:44Speaker 1: because this is a personal project from a standpoint, is
- 3:47Speaker 1: about African Americans. It's about them being at the high
- 3:52Speaker 1: end of the mortality rate. It's also some history. It
- 3:55Speaker 1: tells you. This is a documentary and informs it educates you,
- 3:59Speaker 1: especially in in how would you when you presented this
- 4:02Speaker 1: project and start producing it. Were there any pushback or
- 4:06Speaker 1: people didn't understand exactly the message you was trying to
- 4:09Speaker 1: deliver with aftershock? Um. You know, it's interesting. I do
- 4:13Speaker 1: think that when we first started working on the film, UM,
- 4:18Speaker 1: not so much pushed back, but I think that people
- 4:21Speaker 1: did were like, what is this really about? How are
- 4:23Speaker 1: you really going to tell the story because it is
- 4:26Speaker 1: such a huge systemic issue. Um. And I think initially
- 4:30Speaker 1: some people thought it, well, it's about black women's help.
- 4:33Speaker 1: So it shouldn't cost so much. Your budgets too high,
- 4:36Speaker 1: bring it down. And we really felt like the story
- 4:40Speaker 1: needed to be told in a way through people's lived experience. Uh,
- 4:45Speaker 1: not as a survey film just people talking to camera,
- 4:48Speaker 1: although we do have a couple of experts, and we
- 4:50Speaker 1: felt that the film deserved to be told the right way,
- 4:54Speaker 1: and so it would cost what it would cost to
- 4:56Speaker 1: make it, and we stuck to stuck to our guns
- 4:59Speaker 1: and made the film that we wanted to make. Well,
- 5:02Speaker 1: you know, what people don't take in perspective is that
- 5:04Speaker 1: when you're dealing with emotions, they can't be action. Okay,
- 5:08Speaker 1: it has to be captured. It has to be it
- 5:10Speaker 1: has to be authentic, it has to be there for
- 5:13Speaker 1: the moment. So sometimes hours, sometime days put into perspective
- 5:18Speaker 1: to gather those moments because this is an emotionally charged
- 5:21Speaker 1: documentary because it involves death. And and that's which leads
- 5:26Speaker 1: to the title after shock, you know, because of the
- 5:29Speaker 1: fact that, um, you know you always hear this, uh
- 5:32Speaker 1: when children die before their parents. They said, no, no
- 5:35Speaker 1: parent wants to bury their child. The goal is for
- 5:38Speaker 1: the child to outlive the parents. And this situation is
- 5:41Speaker 1: about relationships. How did you encounter the individuals that you
- 5:45Speaker 1: are featuring in your documentary. Yeah, it was really something else.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Shamani gives and passed away in October nine and in December,
- 5:58Speaker 1: her mother and her partner other Shawnnie Gibson and her
- 6:01Speaker 1: partner Amari Maynard, decided to have an event that they
- 6:05Speaker 1: called Aftershock, which was essentially a celebration of Shamani's life,
- 6:10Speaker 1: but at the same time they wanted to have a
- 6:12Speaker 1: conversation with the community, so um they put out an
- 6:15Speaker 1: invitation on social media that we saw. We reached out
- 6:19Speaker 1: to Shawnny and to Amari and asked if we could film,
- 6:23Speaker 1: and you know, it was really wonderful that they allowed
- 6:26Speaker 1: us to come in and film because they wanted the
- 6:29Speaker 1: word to get out about not just what happened to Shamani,
- 6:33Speaker 1: but about the birthing outcomes in the black community. And
- 6:38Speaker 1: uh Amari with someone who is someone who when he
- 6:42Speaker 1: hears of a father who has been left behind because
- 6:45Speaker 1: his partner has passed away from childbirth complications, he reaches
- 6:48Speaker 1: out to them and says, hey, brother, I got you.
- 6:51Speaker 1: I'm here to support you. And he did that for
- 6:54Speaker 1: Bruce McIntyre when Amber Rose Isaac passed away in April,
- 7:00Speaker 1: and he reached out to him just to offer support,
- 7:03Speaker 1: told him about the film. And then and then Bruce,
- 7:06Speaker 1: you know, joined with us, and so uh and for
- 7:09Speaker 1: the same reason because a week after Amber passed away,
- 7:13Speaker 1: Bruce had a press conference because he wanted to be
- 7:16Speaker 1: in conversation with community. He wanted to demand accountability for
- 7:20Speaker 1: Amber's death, but he also wanted to have the conversation.
- 7:23Speaker 1: And so we were very fortunate that we were able
- 7:26Speaker 1: to catch up with shawnny Omari and Bruce so that
- 7:31Speaker 1: we could tell the story because they wanted to tell
- 7:33Speaker 1: the story. Yeah, just talking to my audience. You know,
- 7:36Speaker 1: I love talking to talented people like uh Tonia lewis Lee.
- 7:40Speaker 1: You know, she said, we've reached out to them and
- 7:42Speaker 1: now they allowed us to come in. You better have
- 7:44Speaker 1: a name you can google. You better have a reputation,
- 7:47Speaker 1: you better have a brand, you have our awareness that
- 7:50Speaker 1: you just don't call somebody at a very dark emotional
- 7:54Speaker 1: moment in life and said, we want to come in
- 7:55Speaker 1: and videotape without a reputation that they know you have,
- 7:59Speaker 1: you have their that you have their their their their
- 8:01Speaker 1: good will at heart. This is the two I said
- 8:04Speaker 1: to the top rising filmmaker to watch by Indy Wire.
- 8:08Speaker 1: And that reputation that you've developed over the year, it's
- 8:11Speaker 1: part of your brand. Allows you to get in the
- 8:14Speaker 1: door and use your name to be able to not
- 8:17Speaker 1: only push back on the money, which I was really
- 8:22Speaker 1: taken it back. We said, well, this black man, man,
- 8:24Speaker 1: why is it so high? You know? And then we
- 8:26Speaker 1: get that. We get that a lot because I've been
- 8:28Speaker 1: in the television business for a long time. When I
- 8:31Speaker 1: was Steve Harvey was over to w B and the
- 8:33Speaker 1: w B sitcoms with cheaper produced even though it was
- 8:36Speaker 1: on the same platform as a white sitcom. So the
- 8:39Speaker 1: dollar wealth gap they talked about in the world is
- 8:42Speaker 1: also entertainment too, by the way, if y'all don't know that,
- 8:45Speaker 1: and so you have to deal with those issues and
- 8:47Speaker 1: you're able to overcome it. Is it the relationships? Is
- 8:50Speaker 1: it being able to have the resume that you have
- 8:53Speaker 1: the experience to be able to counter the conversation that
- 8:56Speaker 1: allows you to be successful in this really polarized in
- 8:59Speaker 1: the tame at business that we call you know, supposed
- 9:02Speaker 1: to be equidly equal. Yeah, I think that it is true.
- 9:07Speaker 1: I mean having having a reputation, having a you know,
- 9:11Speaker 1: a track record if you will, uh, certainly does help.
- 9:15Speaker 1: And stacking the deck as you go, right. Um, Don
- 9:19Speaker 1: Porter is also an amazing documentary filmmaker who's an executive
- 9:23Speaker 1: producer on our film After Shock. Uh. And so having
- 9:27Speaker 1: her there, Um, you know, you're right. Shawnny, Omary and
- 9:31Speaker 1: Bruce were very aware of myself and my work and
- 9:35Speaker 1: so and they trusted me. You know, we Shawnie and
- 9:37Speaker 1: Omari from Brooklyn. Uh, you know, we are Brooklyn people.
- 9:41Speaker 1: They know my husband is, you know, represent the Republic
- 9:45Speaker 1: of Brooklyn all the time. So there is that comfort.
- 9:48Speaker 1: And I'll tell you I felt a real responsibility uh
- 9:52Speaker 1: to make sure that we honored Shamani and Amber and
- 9:58Speaker 1: represented the family in a way that is authentic and
- 10:03Speaker 1: true to the spirit of who they are. We'll be
- 10:05Speaker 1: right back with more Money Making Conversations Masterclass with Rushan McDonald.
- 10:12Speaker 1: Now let's return to Money Making Conversations Masterclass with Rashan McDonald.
- 10:18Speaker 1: It's really interesting when I got an opportunity, when the
- 10:20Speaker 1: interview came to me, came across my dastins riche you
- 10:22Speaker 1: got an interview, you got an interviewer, and I go, Okay,
- 10:25Speaker 1: what's what's she doing? What's you're talking about? And then
- 10:26Speaker 1: when they when they when they sent me the log
- 10:28Speaker 1: line on the doctor bunary. I have six sisters, okay
- 10:32Speaker 1: and uh, and so I come from a family, big family,
- 10:36Speaker 1: nine kids. Both my parents are staying at home with
- 10:38Speaker 1: us for Inner City and so uh, I'm very much
- 10:43Speaker 1: aware of a sudden loss of life. So I know that.
- 10:47Speaker 1: You know, sometimes you have to be honest with your
- 10:49Speaker 1: audience and let them know that this is not just
- 10:52Speaker 1: a story to me, it's a personal journey. The emotional laws,
- 10:56Speaker 1: the suttiness, the shock, the anger, the confort that you
- 11:01Speaker 1: don't care about, you know, because the conference can't change
- 11:06Speaker 1: what has happened, um the future that you were planning
- 11:10Speaker 1: that's cut off, you know, the plans that it's just
- 11:14Speaker 1: so many emotions unless you've personally been there. And I
- 11:18Speaker 1: was personally engaged with the two men who are are
- 11:22Speaker 1: prominently featured in your documentary. Because I was shocked and
- 11:27Speaker 1: still shocked. I still think, I still reminisce I still
- 11:30Speaker 1: do to what else? And so all these things you
- 11:32Speaker 1: have to take into perspective doing this. You have to
- 11:36Speaker 1: be a level of sensitivity that this is beyond just
- 11:40Speaker 1: recording a story. This is a journey that they guess
- 11:44Speaker 1: what we will never forget. I would never turn my
- 11:48Speaker 1: back onto what else. I would never forget those moments
- 11:51Speaker 1: of moments. But it's something that you, through through brilliant
- 11:55Speaker 1: hands and experience, have allowed me to take that journey
- 11:59Speaker 1: again in and I thought I would never do that
- 12:01Speaker 1: again telling you, well, well, I do hope that in
- 12:05Speaker 1: watching their journey Amori Maynard and Bruce McIntyre, that there
- 12:11Speaker 1: is comfort in that because you are not alone. And
- 12:14Speaker 1: I think that there are a lot of men. And
- 12:16Speaker 1: one of the things that I think is really exciting
- 12:19Speaker 1: to come out of the film because of Bruce and
- 12:21Speaker 1: Amory is that black men and men in general are
- 12:25Speaker 1: talking about paternal mental health, right. I think you know,
- 12:29Speaker 1: often when a woman has a child, we think of
- 12:31Speaker 1: maternal health is just just being about a woman, But
- 12:35Speaker 1: it is about a man too, because it still takes
- 12:37Speaker 1: two to make a baby, and men um go through
- 12:41Speaker 1: the process as well. And then when there's a loss,
- 12:44Speaker 1: they're the ones left behind, as as in our case,
- 12:48Speaker 1: to raise the children on their own. Uh and and
- 12:51Speaker 1: they need support and and they have learned that Bruce
- 12:55Speaker 1: and Amory how to support one another, how to support
- 12:58Speaker 1: other fathers, and to really engage in this conversation of
- 13:02Speaker 1: what does it mean to be a man to to
- 13:05Speaker 1: have lost in this way? And um, I think it's
- 13:09Speaker 1: a really great opportunity for us to have that conversation,
- 13:13Speaker 1: get men talking more, being more vulnerable with their feelings
- 13:17Speaker 1: with each other so that they too can heal. And
- 13:20Speaker 1: it's important. And like I said, um, when when I
- 13:23Speaker 1: look at what you're doing and what you're presenting, and
- 13:25Speaker 1: you know we're talking to Tanya Lewis Lee. A documentary
- 13:28Speaker 1: which is airing currently on huluis called Aftershock. What idea
- 13:32Speaker 1: realizes that you always hear that term it's a miracle
- 13:36Speaker 1: to have a healthy baby. When something like this happens
- 13:39Speaker 1: to you, you realize that it's absolutely the truth. It
- 13:44Speaker 1: is a miracle to go through the birth process. I'm
- 13:47Speaker 1: talking about their mom. It's a miracle for the baby
- 13:50Speaker 1: to come healthy, out healthy. You know, every day after
- 13:53Speaker 1: that baby is born, you you're touching them, you making
- 13:56Speaker 1: sure they're breathing you, you you, It's just it's just
- 13:59Speaker 1: a journey. Need making sure they sit up right, to
- 14:01Speaker 1: make sure they when they lean to the left, lean
- 14:03Speaker 1: to the left. All those journeys and all those stories
- 14:06Speaker 1: are being told in your documentary because it's over a seris.
- 14:10Speaker 1: It's not just a six month period of years as
- 14:13Speaker 1: you see the growth and has shown in footage when
- 14:16Speaker 1: you're putting the piece in all this together, what is
- 14:19Speaker 1: your thought process, Tanya and Tana and making sure that
- 14:23Speaker 1: we understand the journey, the pain, and potential results of
- 14:30Speaker 1: what you're trying to accomplish with this documentary. Yeah, it
- 14:33Speaker 1: was really important for us to tell the story of
- 14:36Speaker 1: the US paternal mortality crisis through the people who have lost.
- 14:41Speaker 1: At the same time, we wanted to balance that with
- 14:45Speaker 1: solutions because this is not something that we can't fix.
- 14:50Speaker 1: We did not want the film to be just sad
- 14:53Speaker 1: and tell you a problem and then leave you with
- 14:55Speaker 1: like now what um and so we really and we
- 14:58Speaker 1: also wanted to give you contact X of how we
- 15:00Speaker 1: got here. So we talk a little bit about history.
- 15:04Speaker 1: We UM. We balance out with experts who explain to
- 15:08Speaker 1: us how we got here, what, what are the problems?
- 15:12Speaker 1: And um, how do we fix it? I also have
- 15:15Speaker 1: to say that shawnny Amari and Bruce are activists. So
- 15:19Speaker 1: they did, they did lose their family member, but they
- 15:22Speaker 1: also became very activated and they are inspirational and that
- 15:27Speaker 1: they turn their pain into power, as a Maria says
- 15:30Speaker 1: in the film, and are really trying to make it better,
- 15:32Speaker 1: not just for their family, but for for all of
- 15:35Speaker 1: us so that we can have better outcomes. So it
- 15:37Speaker 1: was really important with the film to balance sort of
- 15:40Speaker 1: the the the hard truth with what can be positive,
- 15:46Speaker 1: the positive potential outcomes that we can have, and a
- 15:49Speaker 1: showcase that there are a lot of people on the
- 15:51Speaker 1: ground doing this work. There are reproductive rights, reproductive justice rights,
- 15:58Speaker 1: reproductive rights people out there doing the work, is doing
- 16:03Speaker 1: the work every day, getting very little shine, very little
- 16:07Speaker 1: money for the for the fact of all of us.
- 16:10Speaker 1: You know what would would would angers me and it's
- 16:12Speaker 1: a positive. Well I say positive is that you know,
- 16:16Speaker 1: their loss, forced to become an expert, forced to become
- 16:19Speaker 1: an expert, and that's not right. And that's what shined
- 16:23Speaker 1: the most out of this documentary is that the whole
- 16:26Speaker 1: documentary is about is not right. It should not be happening.
- 16:30Speaker 1: And these two men, in this entire family of experts
- 16:33Speaker 1: and galvanized too for a greater cause are here because
- 16:38Speaker 1: people the system failed them. The system failed them and
- 16:42Speaker 1: so many ways it failed them. And some of it's
- 16:45Speaker 1: tied to because any lead project, they're gonna lead projects,
- 16:49Speaker 1: gonna educate you, by the way, and then they they
- 16:51Speaker 1: went into the educational book and I've gained knowledge. When
- 16:54Speaker 1: you realize that, you know, c sections make money. They
- 16:59Speaker 1: do the hospital. They that's the big payer. We're gonna
- 17:04Speaker 1: do a C section. It's gonna make us some money.
- 17:06Speaker 1: And then but I really really got into a portion
- 17:08Speaker 1: of the documentary we will talk about midwives, and that
- 17:13Speaker 1: really you know, I actually played that back. You know,
- 17:15Speaker 1: I went, this is really because you know, I don't
- 17:18Speaker 1: think I know it all. But when I see if
- 17:21Speaker 1: my minor's sociology black history, uh was my was my
- 17:25Speaker 1: minor in college, got my little straight age. And when
- 17:27Speaker 1: I get information that delves into this area, I go,
- 17:31Speaker 1: you got to be kidding me. But when you hear
- 17:34Speaker 1: the truth, how stunned were you or were you aware
- 17:37Speaker 1: when you started doing this research and reading about the midwives? Yeah,
- 17:41Speaker 1: the midwives situation is when you really think about it,
- 17:45Speaker 1: it is so crazy. The United States the only developed
- 17:49Speaker 1: nation that does not have midwives integrated into women's health.
- 17:54Speaker 1: And and that is based on a racist premise because
- 17:58Speaker 1: black midwives were were those that that took care of
- 18:03Speaker 1: everyone giving birth back in the day, not just black women,
- 18:06Speaker 1: but white women too. But when modern medicine came in,
- 18:10Speaker 1: they took the economy of birthing out of the hands
- 18:15Speaker 1: of black women, put it into the hands of doctors,
- 18:18Speaker 1: white doctors, and and and trying to push us all
- 18:21Speaker 1: to go into hospitals so that they could have the economy,
- 18:24Speaker 1: and then launched a campaign against midwives, telling us that
- 18:28Speaker 1: they're dirty, their witches, they're dangerous. That still exists today. Uh,
- 18:32Speaker 1: and it is, it is. It is not good for us,
- 18:35Speaker 1: it's it's killing us. And so I was. I was
- 18:38Speaker 1: actually really surprised by that and really grateful to Helena Grant,
- 18:42Speaker 1: who is the midwife in the film, who is an
- 18:44Speaker 1: amazing historian, azing amazing Helena Grant. We could have had
- 18:51Speaker 1: an entire film with just a camera on Helena telling
- 18:54Speaker 1: us so much. There was so much we couldn't put
- 18:56Speaker 1: into the film that she educated us on. We'll be
- 18:59Speaker 1: right back with more money making Conversations Masterclass with Rushan McDonald.
- 19:05Speaker 1: Now let's return to money Making Conversations Masterclass with Rushan McDonald.
- 19:11Speaker 1: You know, we always talk about, you know, this critical
- 19:14Speaker 1: theory that runs around and people don't want to give
- 19:18Speaker 1: you the facts about life in history. And this is
- 19:21Speaker 1: one of those great moments when I hear about people
- 19:24Speaker 1: trying to deny actual history. This is something that happened,
- 19:28Speaker 1: is something that's because it happened, That means it's happening today.
- 19:31Speaker 1: That means that people have been outlawed and participating who
- 19:35Speaker 1: cared about the process instead of being hired to do
- 19:38Speaker 1: the process, which is a big difference. And you guys
- 19:40Speaker 1: make that distinction in Aftershock talk about that. Yeah, I mean, look,
- 19:45Speaker 1: I think that again with midwives, they were there, they
- 19:50Speaker 1: are still there. I mean, the idea is to educate
- 19:52Speaker 1: you about your body. Right, A midwife is there from
- 19:56Speaker 1: before you get pregnant to while you're pregnant postpartum. A
- 19:59Speaker 1: lot most of these deaths happened postpartum, and midwives are
- 20:03Speaker 1: there to watch you, educate your about your body and
- 20:07Speaker 1: really empower you so that your body can do what
- 20:11Speaker 1: you needed to do um. The thing about uh uh
- 20:16Speaker 1: guide to cologists and obstetrictions is that they're they're really surgeons,
- 20:22Speaker 1: and so they're really looking for a problem. You know,
- 20:25Speaker 1: they're and they're ready to operate. And again I just
- 20:28Speaker 1: want to say C sections are really important. Thank god
- 20:31Speaker 1: we have them, because they are necessary in the right situation.
- 20:35Speaker 1: But what has happened in this country, as you mentioned,
- 20:38Speaker 1: is that it's become about money. It's to come about
- 20:41Speaker 1: the economics. So we find ourselves sort of rushed and
- 20:44Speaker 1: pushed into unnecessary c sections, which are major surgery, which
- 20:49Speaker 1: will cause which can cause problems later down the line.
- 20:52Speaker 1: Um Tanya Lewis Lee m My wife had a beautiful daughter, okay,
- 20:58Speaker 1: And when the opportunity presented itself, they said, Mr McDonald,
- 21:02Speaker 1: would you like to be in the room where your
- 21:04Speaker 1: wife delivers? I said no, I said, I wait outside.
- 21:08Speaker 1: Please let me know when that beautiful child is born.
- 21:11Speaker 1: And I come in with all the drama, all the trauma,
- 21:13Speaker 1: all that is gone, ladies, said Jessifer. And after shot,
- 21:18Speaker 1: I was shocked because I got to see you the
- 21:20Speaker 1: actual delivery of a child. Now I say that, I
- 21:25Speaker 1: don't know if I should say thank you for allowing
- 21:27Speaker 1: me to see that, because I wasn't traumatized like I
- 21:29Speaker 1: thought I would be. But the fact that you were
- 21:32Speaker 1: able to I wouldn't say the word convince a couple
- 21:36Speaker 1: to allow that to be filmed, but it will talk
- 21:39Speaker 1: about that whole process that because that was amazing. Yeah. Again, again,
- 21:43Speaker 1: we were so lucky to find an amazing couple. We
- 21:48Speaker 1: didn't have to convince them at um. You know, Felicia
- 21:52Speaker 1: and Paul Ellis they you know, Felicia was pregnant and Tulsa, Oklahoma, Um,
- 21:58Speaker 1: there was a duela service there. The Tulsa Birth Equity
- 22:02Speaker 1: Initiative reached out to her and said we can we
- 22:04Speaker 1: can get you a dula if you'd like, and and
- 22:07Speaker 1: she said yes, And that's how we met Felicia. Felicia
- 22:12Speaker 1: wanted to share her experience because, as she says in
- 22:16Speaker 1: the film, being a black woman, uh, pregnant black woman
- 22:20Speaker 1: is like being a black man at a traffic stop.
- 22:22Speaker 1: You have to pay attention to every step of the way.
- 22:25Speaker 1: So she was really willing to allow us to go
- 22:27Speaker 1: on the journey with her. And again, as she says
- 22:30Speaker 1: in the film, she's thinking she's just gonna have give
- 22:32Speaker 1: birth a regular way, you know, with a doctor and
- 22:35Speaker 1: at a hospital. But then towards the end of her pregnancy.
- 22:39Speaker 1: She's like, wait a minute, maybe there's another way, and
- 22:42Speaker 1: allowed us to go with her and find the birthing
- 22:44Speaker 1: center and the midwives that would attend with her at
- 22:48Speaker 1: her birth, and her husband attended with her. I'm glad
- 22:52Speaker 1: we got you to see the traumatizing. Now if we
- 22:59Speaker 1: ever were like ship, now we have you. You took
- 23:01Speaker 1: it ball down the road. I thought I wouldn't go
- 23:03Speaker 1: to see again every way in my life. But I
- 23:05Speaker 1: want to thank you. I want to thank you. I
- 23:08Speaker 1: want to thank you because of who you are, because
- 23:11Speaker 1: you people trusted you. You're telling a very powerful story,
- 23:15Speaker 1: very needed story after Shock, which is currently airing on Hulu.
- 23:19Speaker 1: It examines the U as a maternal mortality crisis, and
- 23:23Speaker 1: always when you hear the word crisis, somehow it just
- 23:25Speaker 1: falls heavily on the black and brown community. And we
- 23:28Speaker 1: talked about that and it must be talked and it
- 23:31Speaker 1: will continue to be talked. And I just I know
- 23:33Speaker 1: we're about to wrap up. I would tell you something
- 23:35Speaker 1: about me personally, For somehow, my life has been interesting.
- 23:38Speaker 1: When I was a senior in high school, way back
- 23:40Speaker 1: in the eighteen seventy six, I was I did a
- 23:43Speaker 1: report my senior class report was about morphine babies, babies
- 23:48Speaker 1: who were born addicted to drugs. So I've always had
- 23:52Speaker 1: this journey, this this knowledge to make it right within
- 23:57Speaker 1: the black community and to know and then then to
- 23:59Speaker 1: go from seventy six to see your documentary in two
- 24:04Speaker 1: all think I said as wow, Wow, that's a blessing.
- 24:07Speaker 1: That's a blessing to know that I met a person
- 24:10Speaker 1: who has the same values I have. I didn't continue
- 24:13Speaker 1: down that lane, but you brought me back, and you
- 24:15Speaker 1: brought me back with a slap upside of the head, said, boy,
- 24:18Speaker 1: get back in that saddle. When you will, you will,
- 24:19Speaker 1: you would hit it down the right track. I will
- 24:21Speaker 1: promote this for you. I would tell people about it
- 24:24Speaker 1: as much as I can possibly tell about social media
- 24:26Speaker 1: and my newsletters and everything. Fantastic project. Congratulations to Hulu
- 24:31Speaker 1: for allowing you to have this documentary over I know
- 24:34Speaker 1: a lot of over there on ex collection. They're great people.
- 24:37Speaker 1: And again, thank you for coming to on Money Making
- 24:39Speaker 1: Conversation masterclass. Thank you so much for the conversation with
- 24:42Speaker 1: Sean about a pleasure. Thank you and if you want
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