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BIG Goals For The New Year, Crying In A Job Interview Could Help, Kwanzaa Party Tips, and more! - 12.26.24 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all don't know y'all at all at all, So don't
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  Speaker 2: given them all black the busy.
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  Speaker 3: Listening to.
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  Speaker 4: Show.
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  Speaker 5: Tont joy.
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  Speaker 3: Joy you know you love you.
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  Speaker 5: Gotta turn.
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  Speaker 2: I got to turn the mouth turn You probably got
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  Speaker 2: to turn the mouth turn out, turn.
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  Speaker 5: The water of the mony up looking.
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  Speaker 6: Come come on, you think that, Uh huh, I sure
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  Speaker 6: will a good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 6: Come on now, digny if you will, one and only
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  Speaker 6: Steve Harvey got a radio show, you know, one of
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  Speaker 6: the things about being successful. And I was sharing this
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  Speaker 6: just the other day with a young man and he
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  Speaker 6: asked me. He said, hey, man, I just don't see
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  Speaker 6: how you get up that early in the morning. I
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  Speaker 6: just don't see how, man, it would kill me to
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  Speaker 6: get up this early in the morning. Well, I sat
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  Speaker 6: down and I'm listening to it because it's just a
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  Speaker 6: thousand times I've heard it, you know, And my life is,
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  Speaker 6: you know, not too different from a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Of people's lives.
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  Speaker 6: There's a lot of people out there that rise early.
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  Speaker 6: And I just sit there, man, because I mean, first
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  Speaker 6: of all, I'm grateful to be able to have a job.
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  Speaker 6: I'm so grateful to be able to do one and
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  Speaker 6: several that I happen to enjoy doing. I mean, you
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  Speaker 6: know it's work and it's difficult at times, but I mean,
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  Speaker 6: you know I wanted this.
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  Speaker 1: You know you got it. You know you can't ask
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  Speaker 1: God for nothing any give it to you then be
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  Speaker 1: mad that you got it. Don't make no sense.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 6: The problem with asking God for stuff is a lot
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  Speaker 6: of times we ask it for stuff we don't really
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  Speaker 6: know what all it encompasses, what all it really is.
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  Speaker 6: And I ask for this now along the way, I've
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  Speaker 6: gotten far more than.
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  Speaker 1: I asked for. I want you to do.
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  Speaker 6: Understand that, and you know that's His grace at work
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  Speaker 6: in my life. But I get up early and I
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  Speaker 6: go to work because I do understand something that it
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  Speaker 6: is not walking up to you. Nobody walks up to
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  Speaker 6: people normally and just hand them checks all the time,
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  Speaker 6: and enough checks to sustain your life, and not only
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  Speaker 6: sustain it, but to have a life that where you
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  Speaker 6: could enjoy and do some of the things you want
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  Speaker 6: to do. I don't know the person that walks out
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  Speaker 6: hands out that money just to be doing it and
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  Speaker 6: then with a lifestyle though, where you can you know,
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  Speaker 6: give your kids a Christmas, you know, take your family
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  Speaker 6: on vacation, you know, a year. Once a year. I
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  Speaker 6: don't know nobody passing out to kind of money. So
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  Speaker 6: I get up early in the morning and I get
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  Speaker 6: at it. I was taught to get up early in
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  Speaker 6: the morning by my father because my father says, ain't
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  Speaker 6: nothing gonna come to you while you laying now. And
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  Speaker 6: you know what, It's just true, man, It's just a
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  Speaker 6: little common sense. Little old people smart man, they've been
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  Speaker 6: around a long time. You don't get old. You know,
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  Speaker 6: some old foods out there, but you know you don't
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  Speaker 6: have to deal with them. But old people are pretty smart, man.
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  Speaker 6: They've learned a lot along the way. And waking up
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  Speaker 6: early and getting at it is one of them things.
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  Speaker 6: And I ask everybody man to think about this scenario
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  Speaker 6: of your life. If a day has twenty four hours
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  Speaker 6: in it, and let's just say you choose to sleep
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  Speaker 6: eight of those hours because they tell you you need
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  Speaker 6: eight hours sleep, So you sleep eight hours, that's a
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  Speaker 6: third of your life asleep already, just a third of
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  Speaker 6: your life is spent asleep. If you gonna do eight
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  Speaker 6: hours a day. Now, let's say you have a job
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  Speaker 6: that you work eight hours, and it is not the
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  Speaker 6: job of your dreams. It's not your dream career, your
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  Speaker 6: dream profession. It's just the one you took, like all
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  Speaker 6: of us, to get it started. And then, like all
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  Speaker 6: of us, some of us end up having the state
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  Speaker 6: add because we've created these bills because we checked and checked.
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  Speaker 6: So we can't leave it because we'll lose what we've
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  Speaker 6: worked for. So let's just say you got a job
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  Speaker 6: that you go to work to for eight hours. That's
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  Speaker 6: another third of your life. That's two thirds of your life.
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  Speaker 6: Feel how you want to feel about your two thirds? Well,
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  Speaker 6: I like sleep. Okay, cool, there's a scripture about that too.
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  Speaker 6: But now you spent two thirds of your life one
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  Speaker 6: on a job you don't care for if you're not
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  Speaker 6: happy there, or one that just pays the bills, and
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  Speaker 6: it's not your dream job or career. Another third of
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  Speaker 6: your life is sleep. Oh now, let's hold on. Let's
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  Speaker 6: talk about the one hour of preparation that it may
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  Speaker 6: take to get to the job. That's seventeen hours. Let's
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  Speaker 6: say your drive time. Let's say getting to your job
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  Speaker 6: for the average person is anywhere between thirty to an hour.
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  Speaker 6: That's an average of what it takes to average person.
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  Speaker 6: Now some people are there hustling way harder than that.
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  Speaker 6: But let's just say your average is an hour getting
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  Speaker 6: to work. You add another hour to that going to work.
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  Speaker 6: You've now spent eighteen hours out of the twenty four
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  Speaker 6: doing something that's either non productive, you're not happy with,
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  Speaker 6: you're not pleased about. It is not your dream job,
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  Speaker 6: it's not your dream profession. And rest of the time
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  Speaker 6: you sleep. Eighteen hours. Now you got to come from
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  Speaker 6: the job, so let's just say it's another hour to
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  Speaker 6: get back home. That's nineteen hours. Nineteen hours out of
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  Speaker 6: a twenty four hour day. You now have five hours
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  Speaker 6: left in your day. Oh, you watch TV two hours
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  Speaker 6: a day. Okay, excuse me. Let's put now you put
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  Speaker 6: two hours of TV on that you've just spent twenty one.
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  Speaker 1: You now have three hours in the day to.
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  Speaker 6: Do something super productive for the development of yourself and
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  Speaker 6: the future of your family and your future as a
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  Speaker 6: person and what you can provide for your family. Uh Oh,
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  Speaker 6: I need to chill. I need to smoke one. Uh Oh,
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  Speaker 6: I needed some time at happy. I seem like all
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  Speaker 6: I do is dry to work and go to work.
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna go out with the fellas drink one. Okay,
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  Speaker 6: Let's say you spend two hours at Happy I do
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  Speaker 6: nobody go to a Happy Hours just for a hour.
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  Speaker 6: Let's say you spend two hours at Happy I'll all
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  Speaker 6: smokeing all some video games and let's do that. Is
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  Speaker 6: there two hours of smoking, chilling video games. That's twenty
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  Speaker 6: three hours of your day gone. Don't you see how
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  Speaker 6: your day slips away from you? So why would you
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  Speaker 6: get up early? You get up early to get a jump.
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  Speaker 6: You get up early to produce, to plan, to become productive.
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  Speaker 6: You get up early in the morning to care about
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  Speaker 6: every single minute of your day. You wake up early
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  Speaker 6: in the morning because you have a plan, a mission,
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  Speaker 6: You have something you want to accomplish. The earlier you
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  Speaker 6: get up, the more time you have just for you
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  Speaker 6: to devote to your plan. You map it out, you
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  Speaker 6: make them, send some emails, whatever it is you need
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  Speaker 6: to do to get your dream under way. Then you
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  Speaker 6: go get ready. Then you get in your car and
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  Speaker 6: go to work. Then you go to your job, but
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  Speaker 6: on your job, instead of sitting at your lunch break
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  Speaker 6: messing around with a bunch of people laughing and talking
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  Speaker 6: about nothing, playing dominoes. Why don't you take that hour
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  Speaker 6: to do some more research, to send out some more emails,
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  Speaker 6: to put some feelings out there, to see what can
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  Speaker 6: get you in the place that you want to be.
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  Speaker 6: Then when you get off, instead of driving straight home,
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  Speaker 6: why don't you go somewhere in a meeting, you take
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  Speaker 6: in a session with some people in a positive mental state,
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  Speaker 6: group of people that get together. Network for business, not
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  Speaker 6: drink at happy hour. I said, network for business. So
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  Speaker 6: after you've done that eight that you don't really care
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  Speaker 6: for on a job, you spend some more time pursuing,
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  Speaker 6: looking into researching, working towards, sending out some more applications,
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  Speaker 6: putting in some more time to build your new app
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  Speaker 6: discussing some more networking ideas. Okay, that's your happy hour.
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  Speaker 6: Then when you go home, instead of chilling drinking one,
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  Speaker 6: having a cold one, smoking one, playing a video game,
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  Speaker 6: why don't you take that two hours and devote that
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  Speaker 6: to that business idea You got to that family that
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  Speaker 6: you talk about, you really won't spend some time with
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  Speaker 6: your children, put something into them. Do something, man, with
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  Speaker 6: all these precious hours that God gives all of us
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  Speaker 6: in the course of a day, take advantage of.
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  Speaker 1: Every minute of that.
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  Speaker 6: No human being has more than twenty four hours a day,
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  Speaker 6: including myself.
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  Speaker 1: But if you care about every single minute.
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  Speaker 6: Of that day, you'll be amazed at how much you
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  Speaker 6: could get accomplished in a twenty four hour day. But
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  Speaker 6: you can't get none of that happening because you sleep,
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  Speaker 6: and you chilling and you smoking. Okay, what has that
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  Speaker 6: done for you, your family or your future? Care about
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  Speaker 6: every minute of your day.
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  Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Moore Show.
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  Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, Boys and girls, let me have your
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  Speaker 8: divided attention. This is my very wide opening for the morning.
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  Speaker 8: Want you to have a great time. Come on and
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  Speaker 8: join in with us. Put your hand and hold somebody's
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  Speaker 8: back and say hey, I love you. It's allow them
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  Speaker 8: to say I love you, and together we can have
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  Speaker 8: love in this world and this world will have more love.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, but that ain't working right now, so welcome to
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  Speaker 6: the Steady Show. See where you get that from. I
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  Speaker 6: don't know, just came to me, thought I'd do it.
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  Speaker 6: Ain't no need of doing the same thing. It's a
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  Speaker 6: new day, new chance, new opportunity, man, let's make the
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  Speaker 6: best of it.
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  Speaker 1: God is good. Yeah. Years.
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  Speaker 6: Man, gratitude affects your altitude all the time, but it's
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  Speaker 6: brought on by your attitude.
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  Speaker 1: You got to get it together, baby. That's the world
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  Speaker 1: we live in today.
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  Speaker 6: Charlton Strawberry calling for real Mouth of the South, junior
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  Speaker 6: boy and my man myself.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, happened to me.
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  Speaker 3: I like that.
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  Speaker 9: See like you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes they ain't got no cheerleader. Cheer for yourself. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: clap it up for you. So sometimes you gotta clap
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  Speaker 1: it up for yourself.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: Like Snoop Dogg said, I don't want to thank you.
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  Speaker 7: I want to thank me last, but not least.
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  Speaker 9: I want to thank me.
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  Speaker 7: Believe in yourself, love yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, So tell you what's on your mind today.
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  Speaker 7: I just said, are you feeling pretty good today?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, Yeah, sound good that.
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  Speaker 6: I feel good every day, you know, whatever it is,
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  Speaker 6: whatever it is, you know, some days have some few
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  Speaker 6: more challenges in it than others.
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  Speaker 1: And but I survived all of.
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  Speaker 6: Them so far. This too shall pass, that's for sure. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: And I'm expecting great things that happen in my life. Man,
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  Speaker 6: Gratitude check Yesterday, I really did hand it through a
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  Speaker 6: gratitude check because what I found out was as humans,
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  Speaker 6: and I find myself guilty of this offer. In my
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  Speaker 6: quest to do better and be better, in my quest
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  Speaker 6: to accomplish the next level and reach for more goals
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  Speaker 6: and get higher and higher, I sometimes forget to have
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  Speaker 6: the right level of gratitude for where I am. And
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  Speaker 6: if you pursue the quest wholeheartedly with everything that's in you,
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  Speaker 6: and it's constantly grind, grind, go, go, go, go go,
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  Speaker 6: you will humanly forget to say thank you and be
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  Speaker 6: grateful for where you are. And now you've negated your
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  Speaker 6: opportunity Steve Harvey for further advancement. Because God, in his
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  Speaker 6: infinite wisdom and supreme judgment, he's thinking, well, if he
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  Speaker 6: ain't grateful for this, ain't no needing me over burdening
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  Speaker 6: him with more? Or if you're complaining about your present condition,
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  Speaker 6: could God be also saying, maybe I don't need to
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  Speaker 6: put no more on them because this is causing so
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  Speaker 6: much stress and problems. You know, Biggie said, more money,
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  Speaker 6: more problems. But if you focus so much on the problems,
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  Speaker 6: then maybe God won't give you more because he already
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  Speaker 6: know you already complaining about this, right.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, all right, something exactly what I was going to
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  Speaker 7: ask you about that word out.
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  Speaker 5: Look at God.
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  Speaker 1: I'll do all right.
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  Speaker 7: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, we
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  Speaker 7: got the nephew coming up to run that prank back.
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  Speaker 7: Right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is your boy nephew. Tell me.
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  Speaker 7: All right, and it's time now to start your morning
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  Speaker 7: off with the nephew and run that prank back. What
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  Speaker 7: you got for his nest?
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  Speaker 1: I left my medicine in your house. Let's go.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, wants say to Claires. Yeah, is he? It
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  Speaker 3: was this Claire uh, hey, money is Sherman. Dog Your
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  Speaker 3: house was the one that got broke into last week, right.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, man, just waiting on the police to get back
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  Speaker 11: with me, Tim if they found these people or not.
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  Speaker 3: Man, hold on now, hold on? What's your name again?
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  Speaker 3: Of Sherman?
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  Speaker 11: Sureman, Urm Sherman Thurman. How you hear about this?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? No, you know, I stay a couple of streets,
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  Speaker 3: so everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard that.
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  Speaker 11: Y'all got boking on, yeah, man, everybody being kind of
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  Speaker 11: real good around here.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 3: It don't make no sense.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 3: You go out here and work hard for stuff and
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  Speaker 3: then you know, people just do your like this.
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  Speaker 8: Man.
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  Speaker 3: It just I'm just glad it wasn't nobody hurt. Man.
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  Speaker 3: My wife and my son they alive and that's you know,
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  Speaker 3: that's the best thing.
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  Speaker 4: Man.
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  Speaker 11: So, you know, trying not to cousin something like this happened.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I understand, man, you stay a couple of
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  Speaker 3: streets over you say yeah, yeah, yeah, hey, hey, let
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  Speaker 3: me let me let me say this to you. Man.
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  Speaker 3: I want to say, first of all, I hate what happened,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Yeah, man? And uh I
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  Speaker 3: do man, you know and I'm glad you're your family
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  Speaker 3: and so yeah, I say the man, Well, hey man,
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  Speaker 3: can I just can I just say this here?
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  Speaker 4: Man?
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  Speaker 1: Uh?
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  Speaker 3: And I don't really know how to say it, but.
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  Speaker 7: I was.
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  Speaker 3: I was with the two dudes that had broken there.
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  Speaker 3: I was with them when they did that. Okay, you
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  Speaker 3: did you just say you was with them that in
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  Speaker 3: my house? Oh?
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  Speaker 11: So you broke in my house?
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  Speaker 3: Saying no, saying see, that's why I'm just to see
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  Speaker 3: them cleans. That's what I'm I'm calling you trying to
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  Speaker 3: tell you. I was trying to talk them out of it.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Well, what the happened?
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  Speaker 11: Because they did this, I couldn't talk them out of it.
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  Speaker 3: But you know I was who I was in there
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  Speaker 3: taking nothing. That's what I'm saying. Okay, okay, okay, well
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  Speaker 3: who was in there? Tation dead? But I can't I
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  Speaker 3: can't be doing I can't do that. I can't see
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  Speaker 3: I ain't trying to get in the middle of that. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 3: you can't do that. You just call my phone.
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  Speaker 11: Oh, you can tell me who broke in here?
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  Speaker 3: You was one of the who I was. Wasn't with
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  Speaker 3: you that that ain't that. That ain't even the reason
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  Speaker 3: why I called. Man. I don't give a damn what
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  Speaker 3: the reason you called me? You called me, I broke up?
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  Speaker 3: Who who was with you? Who was with you? Man?
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  Speaker 3: I'm matter of fact, what street you stay on? Let
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  Speaker 3: me say this to you, man, This reason why I called.
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  Speaker 3: And when we was in there and then they started
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  Speaker 3: screaming and hollering at eachil and then saying we got
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  Speaker 3: to hear him get out. You know, like I say,
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  Speaker 3: I was in there trying to talk them out of that.
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  Speaker 11: I don't give it if you tried to talk them
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  Speaker 11: into it. You walk into my broken my house, you
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  Speaker 11: got I'm my dance.
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  Speaker 3: It to call me? Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen.
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  Speaker 3: Listen to me, man. I'm listening to you for me.
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  Speaker 3: While I was in there, man, and and you know
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  Speaker 3: they was we was getting out of there in a hurry.
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  Speaker 3: I actually left my uh my pills fell out my pocket,
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  Speaker 3: my bottle of pills and my medicine and I don't
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  Speaker 3: I don't got no more refills on it, man, and
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  Speaker 3: I need my medicine. That's why I'm calling you to
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  Speaker 3: see if you don't man me coming back over there
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  Speaker 3: to get my peece. They don't give us about your medicine.
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  Speaker 3: Who gives us? I tell you what I tell you.
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  Speaker 3: I can ask me about some medicine. I was just
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: caught up in a bad situation.
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: Man.
• 17:55
  Speaker 11: I swear to God, if I see you over, I
• 17:57
  Speaker 11: swear to God, I'm gonna beat your ass. No, I'm
• 18:00
  Speaker 11: gonna eat your You better be glad my sure I
• 18:03
  Speaker 11: wouldn't in my house.
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: Man. Listen, man, I'm not trying to get have no
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: problems with nobody. I just need my medicine. Man, your medicine.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: You got problems with me, but I don't have no
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: more riot fields on that medicine. I need my medicine.
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: I'll get said, tell you what I tell you. What come,
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Come get your medicine. You know exactly where I said.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to get the front door open. You
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: ain't got the break in this time. Come get your medicine.
• 18:28
  Speaker 11: I said, what a god.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: Gonna need more than just that some medicine.
• 18:31
  Speaker 11: I'm gonna put some on your I said, why are
• 18:34
  Speaker 11: you down?
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: And I don't know me man, And I'm the one
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: that was in there trying to talk them out of it.
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: She was with them, because that's the point. I don't
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: that's much bring them to tell them to help you.
• 18:44
  Speaker 3: Come get your medicine. All I want to do is
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: get my medicine and be through with this. That's all
• 18:49
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to say to you. I ain't trying to
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: start no trouble with you. Start no no trouble. You're
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: gonna catch the lucky I'm house. You know what. I
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: tell you what I all this, You know, I'll tell
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: you what.
• 19:03
  Speaker 11: Come get the medicine. Come come, come, get the medicine
• 19:06
  Speaker 11: right now. I'm in what street you stay on.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: I'll bring it to you.
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: I'm not finna go back and forth arguing with you. Man,
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: I'm finna come over there and get my medicine. And man,
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: you're gonna be throwing each other. You ain't got to
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: go back and for a I tell you what. Come
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: on over here, get your some medicine right now. Miskinven
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: I you're gonna need some more medicine. They gonna come
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: break in my from houses. You both into my I
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: take care of my wife and my kids in this house.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: I understand that. And I will not be back in
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: your arm after I get my milicine. I'm gonna cause
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: you hollering at nog I tell you what you no, no, no, no,
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: you ain't gonna be back in my house. After you
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: get this medicine. You're gonna have a.
• 19:48
  Speaker 11: Permanent new residence. I swear to God, you're gonna be
• 19:51
  Speaker 11: living in the cemetery.
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: I got one more friend, I'm not before I get
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: over there and the man say that on your way
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: over here, I'm going. I'm on my way now. I
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: want my fan. I need to sing it. Wan't say
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: it this that's my tally from the Steve Hobby Morning Shows.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: You just got pranked by your sister. Bring hello? Who
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: is this? Hey man? Hey class, This nephew telling me
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: man from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. Your sister brig
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: got me to prank you.
• 20:28
  Speaker 11: Man boy you you oh you need say too so much.
• 20:33
  Speaker 11: I don't believe this, she said. Man, they broke in
• 20:37
  Speaker 11: my brother house. He needed spirit ship, he said, come
• 20:40
  Speaker 11: on calling me get it.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: You know what.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: You damned to? Ask you a well with band? Oh man?
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: What are y'all wrong for?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: This is?
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Oh man? Hey man, man, ask you something? What is
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: what is the baddest radio show in the Land. It
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Listen, bro a and
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: if that boke in my house is listening, you come
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: back over here. If you left your medicine, come on,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: come back and get it.
• 21:10
  Speaker 11: I'm at home right now.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: If they listening, then come on back over the mouth. Yeah,
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: right right now. Bring y'all boy, y'all roll for that. Nephew,
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: tell me, I don't know nobody better than me.
• 21:22
  Speaker 7: All right, Thank you, ne for you. Coming up next,
• 21:24
  Speaker 7: it is Asked the Colo with our Chief Love Officer,
• 21:27
  Speaker 7: Steve Harvey.
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• 22:00
  Speaker 7: Well, it's time for Steve's favorite segment. It's called Ask
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: the colo. Now, Steve, you ready?
• 22:05
  Speaker 9: Are you ready?
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Stay ready?
• 22:08
  Speaker 7: All right, here we go. This one is from tab
• 22:10
  Speaker 7: in DC. Tab says, I'm forty nine and I'm dating
• 22:13
  Speaker 7: a man that's seventy four. Okay, he looks like he's
• 22:17
  Speaker 7: my age, and he's very athletic and energetic. We have
• 22:20
  Speaker 7: a big problem in the bedroom, and it's not what
• 22:23
  Speaker 7: you think. His problem is that he doesn't know when
• 22:26
  Speaker 7: to stop. The sex can go on for an hour
• 22:30
  Speaker 7: and I have to work, run errands and do other stuff,
• 22:32
  Speaker 7: so he needs to wrap it up sooner. He admitted
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: that he's on medication and a side effect is increased
• 22:39
  Speaker 7: sexual desire. He's called me a lightweight and said I'll
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: left to find someone else that is up to the challenge.
• 22:45
  Speaker 7: I hate it when he says stuff like that. Do
• 22:47
  Speaker 7: you think he's just joking.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Well, let's go over a couple of minutes.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: For that.
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: First of all, the seventy four and last too long.
• 22:58
  Speaker 6: In medication, he's lost feeling in certain areas, So the
• 23:03
  Speaker 6: last and long is don't worry. He done lost a
• 23:06
  Speaker 6: lot of fear, he knows, so don't worry about that.
• 23:08
  Speaker 6: That all that hours and all that. Yeah, you know,
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: you know you need to pick up pay you a lightweight.
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: I need to give somebody else. And the other thing
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: you said was you forty nine and he's seventy four
• 23:18
  Speaker 6: and he look your age.
• 23:19
  Speaker 7: Now hold up, you're not going for he's athletic and energetic.
• 23:24
  Speaker 6: She says, he's seventy four and he look your age. Ah,
• 23:30
  Speaker 6: what he's seventy four and you look his age?
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I think about that. See, I'll just say that, well
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: I looks at all of it.
• 23:42
  Speaker 6: When you asked me something, we'll here problems because he
• 23:45
  Speaker 6: might not be all that athletic and energetic. Just your
• 23:48
  Speaker 6: ass is older than forty nine physically, and maybe that's
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: what the problem is. Maybe you thinking he more than
• 23:57
  Speaker 6: he really is because you ain't what you say you are.
• 24:00
  Speaker 6: Let the church say, man, let's sometimes the answer is
• 24:05
  Speaker 6: in your own damn question.
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: I believe her.
• 24:10
  Speaker 6: Maybe she ain't athletics. She ought to get athletics. She
• 24:12
  Speaker 6: would be more like forty nine, most forty nine. Your
• 24:15
  Speaker 6: women still got it.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: So she ain't.
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: Well he's seventy four. Well you got medication that increases
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: his that's viagra, that's what that is.
• 24:29
  Speaker 7: It increases your s What else?
• 24:31
  Speaker 6: What are it taking once again. If you have something else, sir,
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: please write in this show. This became another second man
• 24:40
  Speaker 6: because yesterday some dude took a shot.
• 24:43
  Speaker 7: Yeah, a strawberry letter, Yes, a.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: Shot, and he wasn't going through that pain no more. Okay,
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: all right.
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: This one's from We're moving on. This one's from Delisa
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: in Chicago. She says, I'm a single female in my
• 24:57
  Speaker 7: late twenties and I'm a bartender. I met a new
• 24:59
  Speaker 7: guy in the bar. He was handsome and friendly and
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: always tipped.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 25:03
  Speaker 7: He asked me on a date and we really hit
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: it off. He lives in an upscale building with a doorman,
• 25:09
  Speaker 7: and he drives a very nice car. I asked him
• 25:12
  Speaker 7: where he works, and he says he's a kept man
• 25:14
  Speaker 7: and his sugar mama lives in the suburbs. She's unhappily
• 25:17
  Speaker 7: married and very rich. He said he sees her only
• 25:21
  Speaker 7: twice a month and gets paid well. He asked me
• 25:24
  Speaker 7: if I had a problem with it, and I'm trying
• 25:26
  Speaker 7: to have an open mind, is this a deal breaker?
• 25:29
  Speaker 6: Well, he not finn to be yours. You know, you
• 25:32
  Speaker 6: can date him if you want to, you and your
• 25:34
  Speaker 6: late twin you can date him.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: If you want to.
• 25:35
  Speaker 6: He told you he's a kept man. He not finna
• 25:38
  Speaker 6: be yours, and he not finn to be unkept. So
• 25:44
  Speaker 6: now you're not gonna get him. Let me explain some
• 25:47
  Speaker 6: t when a man open up and tell you that
• 25:51
  Speaker 6: it's for one reason and one reason only, to.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: See if you were willing to go along with it.
• 25:57
  Speaker 6: He ain't got nothing invested in you, he ain't in
• 25:59
  Speaker 6: love with you, so now he just want to see
• 26:02
  Speaker 6: if you want to go along with it. You part
• 26:03
  Speaker 6: of the other part of the game. I can have
• 26:07
  Speaker 6: a woman that being a kept man, and I can
• 26:10
  Speaker 6: and I can get with this little young fine thing.
• 26:13
  Speaker 6: And you're finna be the young fine thing. And if
• 26:15
  Speaker 6: you go along with it, that's it. Is it a
• 26:17
  Speaker 6: deal breaker? Do you want to share your man? He
• 26:20
  Speaker 6: ain't your man anyway, but do you want to share
• 26:22
  Speaker 6: him with somebody else?
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're not finna get a husband out of this here, jiggerlows,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: All right, get lonely too, All right, here we go.
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: You're gonna love this name. Steve bertel burtail bertel in
• 26:44
  Speaker 7: burtell says, I'm a married man and I've been having
• 26:47
  Speaker 7: sex with my pastor's wife for about three weeks wet
• 26:53
  Speaker 7: a date before either of us got married. She's got
• 26:56
  Speaker 7: the best skills of any woman I've ever been with.
• 27:00
  Speaker 7: I made up all kinds of lies about the pastors,
• 27:03
  Speaker 7: so my wife wouldn't want to join the church, but
• 27:06
  Speaker 7: she did anyway, and she dragged me to the church
• 27:09
  Speaker 7: with her. I knew it would only be a matter
• 27:13
  Speaker 7: of time before the first lady got under my skin
• 27:17
  Speaker 7: because we can't resist each other. I lovely wife, but
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: the pastor's wife and I have so much chemistry. How
• 27:24
  Speaker 7: can I get her out of my system?
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: You can't? So you can't. You gotta stop seeing her?
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: But you can't? What see you see?
• 27:38
  Speaker 7: No?
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: See?
• 27:38
  Speaker 6: His question is, ladies, listen to the question, how can
• 27:41
  Speaker 6: I get her out of my system?
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: Uh?
• 27:44
  Speaker 6: Huh?
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: He'd asked you nothing about know how could I stop
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: seeing her?
• 27:47
  Speaker 6: Couse?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: The answer is simple, don't go over there no more.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:50
  Speaker 6: See Now he trying to make it like it's more
• 27:52
  Speaker 6: complicated than that. It's not, dog, it's not well, you
• 27:58
  Speaker 6: quit you like?
• 28:00
  Speaker 7: What what is he gonna tell his wife about the church?
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: Tell his wife church about why they're leaving the church?
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 28:09
  Speaker 6: No, his wife gonna find out no, he gotta quit
• 28:12
  Speaker 6: going over to see her. His wife gonna find out.
• 28:15
  Speaker 6: Let me tell you something about you need to go
• 28:16
  Speaker 6: to hell if you are screwing another woman and that
• 28:23
  Speaker 6: woman comes around your wife gonna know it.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you keep keep putting it in the face
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: if you want to partner.
• 28:31
  Speaker 7: All right, thank you, Cellos, Steve Harbin Martin show Man.
• 28:35
  Speaker 7: Would you rather on a cold winter day enjoy a
• 28:39
  Speaker 7: bowl of hot chili or a bowl of gumbo?
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Junior?
• 28:43
  Speaker 6: Better eat that hot chili as soon as it gets
• 28:45
  Speaker 6: cold for the hospital chili's chili or something.
• 28:51
  Speaker 9: I want the gumbo to gumbo hot?
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, why your ass steal any cold climbs? You need
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: to take your.
• 28:57
  Speaker 9: Told you this is not about sick.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: Man, it is if it get cold enough.
• 29:05
  Speaker 6: This is how I do right here, I've learned more
• 29:07
  Speaker 6: about sick of selling menia than I have never known
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: in my life.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Hanging my little home at Junior right now, though you
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: got the best phone call. Still, don't nobody call better
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: than you do?
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: Though?
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: Hello?
• 29:18
  Speaker 7: Hey all right now?
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, this is how it goes. Hey,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: Junior was having it. You're doing it. You're doing well?
• 29:32
  Speaker 6: Him in hold up dog hanging that dog click, because
• 29:37
  Speaker 6: I don't want to be the one on the phone
• 29:38
  Speaker 6: that he last talked to because all in the criminal investigation,
• 29:43
  Speaker 6: you know, they're looking at his phone. No see they
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: looking at his phone log and they looking at her
• 29:48
  Speaker 6: the last phone call.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Now I'm down to the police station. What did he say?
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: You crazy?
• 29:58
  Speaker 6: Twenty eight hours when they they always want to talk
• 30:03
  Speaker 6: to the last person that talked to him.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: I seen that on for.
• 30:07
  Speaker 7: Hours, murder investigator, you had a crisis.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not finna be the last one.
• 30:17
  Speaker 7: Up right up, all right, it's time for something funny,
• 30:23
  Speaker 7: Steve H. We want you to try and help people
• 30:26
  Speaker 7: get their next job simply by crying. Okay, I'm going
• 30:30
  Speaker 7: to tell you what this is all about. It says
• 30:32
  Speaker 7: breaking out some tears may help you land your next job.
• 30:36
  Speaker 7: During a job interview, you definitely want them to remember you,
• 30:39
  Speaker 7: and it turns out a few tears just might do
• 30:42
  Speaker 7: the trick. While you may think that crying during the
• 30:45
  Speaker 7: interview process would blow your chances of getting a job,
• 30:49
  Speaker 7: there are some people who say it actually works. Wonders.
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: So okay, well let's go there. Okay, we're in a
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: job interview you and call interviewing me. And so let's
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: go and let's start the interview. Let's start the interview you.
• 31:10
  Speaker 7: Well, good morning, mister Harvey. How are you today?
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: How was you Harvey?
• 31:13
  Speaker 6: Missus Strawberry, mister Miles, thank you for having me such
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: an opportunity.
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: All right, So, mister Harvey, let's get start. I wanted
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: to ask you what exactly what makes you qualify for
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: this job? Well, having had several jobs before that gave
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: me the experience of exact thing that you folks are
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: looking for. It's pretty much made me qualified. And you know,
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: everybody that I've ever worked with have always said I
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: was really just overqualified.
• 31:43
  Speaker 7: Here, let me ask you something on mister Harvey. Why
• 31:49
  Speaker 7: did you leave your last job?
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: Oh god, it's so difficult that you bought this up?
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: Yeah, oh god, I was.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: I was up there for sixteen years, and really, I
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: don't they just came in and they just closed it.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I mean they just shut the shut the doors. I
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: was in the parking lot when it had happened. I
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: was standing there in Shane, I got Jane.
• 32:42
  Speaker 7: Put the Jane over the door, crying, mister Harvey, No, no.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Not, I'm not going. It was just Jane the Doorko interview. Happy,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: let me jump in here.
• 32:56
  Speaker 4: Okay, just before they were all I wanted to ask you,
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: mister Harvey. You know, a job like this, you're going
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: to be working with a lot of people. You're going
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: to be doing a lot of interacting. H you know,
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: how do you do you have the skills set to
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: actually interact with other people?
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 33:17
  Speaker 6: Excuse me, Yeah, I'm interacted with quich for having a damn.
• 33:23
  Speaker 6: It doesn't take much, we see. Yeah, I interact with
• 33:29
  Speaker 6: people from time to time. You know, it's just talking
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: about it sort of gets me.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm fine, I'm fine with other people.
• 33:38
  Speaker 7: Well, mister Harvey, this is a sales position we're looking
• 33:44
  Speaker 7: to hire you for, and we just want to make
• 33:46
  Speaker 7: sure that you're the right person. As Thomas mentioned earlier,
• 33:50
  Speaker 7: you have the right qualifications for this position. You have
• 33:54
  Speaker 7: to interact with people, you have to sell our product,
• 33:58
  Speaker 7: and you know, people by you first before they even
• 34:03
  Speaker 7: buy the product. So I just want to make sure
• 34:05
  Speaker 7: that that you know. This little crying thing I hear,
• 34:11
  Speaker 7: it's it's not really.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Just I don't cry. I got a question for you.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I don't just cry. You know all the time, sounds
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: like you do. I'm out of work. I'm crying because
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: I'm out of work.
• 34:29
  Speaker 7: Yeah, there's no crying at work.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: I don't want.
• 34:32
  Speaker 9: I don't not hear yet.
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: How do you harm me?
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: I can stop you cry. Two of you want? What
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: are your strengths?
• 34:51
  Speaker 7: Let's talk about something positive in.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: I can absolutely together. That's one of my structures. I
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: promise you I care if you just hired me.
• 35:06
  Speaker 9: There's a journey job holds the DC.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: It is like instant.
• 35:09
  Speaker 6: If not one of them, just say you're hired, Hockey
• 35:14
  Speaker 6: begin to show you just sitting here in the eighteenth interview.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: This is the third level. This is supposed to be it.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: I was told by your supervisor then it would would.
• 35:28
  Speaker 9: Even be inured.
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Here I am, and we're still talking.
• 35:33
  Speaker 9: You got no job?
• 35:37
  Speaker 7: Well, this is that's why it's called a process, mister Harvey.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: A process.
• 35:42
  Speaker 7: Yeah, follow the interview process.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Suffer Jesus Jesus.
• 35:56
  Speaker 9: Hire So he'll stop.
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: Please, Well, let's let's evaluate. Miss Shirley Strawberry Carlor. Do
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: you think we have the right person for the job.
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  Speaker 4: How about we let this person sell themselves in thirty.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: Seconds to us. Okay, yeah sounds good.
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: Yes, it's hard be Could you sell yourself for thirty
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: seconds to us?
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Please? Okay, you need a moment, you want to go out.
• 36:19
  Speaker 7: Just let me know in thirty seconds, okay, and you
• 36:23
  Speaker 7: can start now and now.
• 36:26
  Speaker 6: And I believe that I'm extremely qualified, but this position
• 36:29
  Speaker 6: due to the fact that I'm probably the most experienced
• 36:32
  Speaker 6: candidate that you'll meet from time to time. I've also
• 36:36
  Speaker 6: discovered that I have several traits that this company's lacking,
• 36:39
  Speaker 6: and I can be a most fulfilling factor in developing
• 36:43
  Speaker 6: the app to loot direction of your firm and your company.
• 36:48
  Speaker 6: I will be but in asset, and that is why
• 36:51
  Speaker 6: I think I should have the job.
• 36:53
  Speaker 7: Okay, all right, right, no tears.
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  Speaker 9: Okay.
• 36:59
  Speaker 7: If you're asked me, I would say he's hired.
• 37:06
  Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show at the
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• 37:43
  Speaker 7: All right, guys, it is time for another round of
• 37:46
  Speaker 7: would you rather? Okay, okay, would you rather since it's wintertime,
• 37:52
  Speaker 7: would you rather do it in thirty two degree weather?
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Or would you do it?
• 37:57
  Speaker 7: Rather do it in one hundred degree weather?
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: We don't rather do it? That would rather be?
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: Just do it? Give me, junior, what was that?
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: I would rather do it? Okay?
• 38:06
  Speaker 7: What is it?
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with that. That hunted that heat? So okay,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: he's trying to say, so if it's twenty in that
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: thirty two, it's a little a lot more effort required.
• 38:20
  Speaker 6: Yeah, that cold, boy, eh, you got men got a
• 38:25
  Speaker 6: special problem in that cold?
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: Do something? Yeah, yeah, that probably ain't gonna have.
• 38:40
  Speaker 6: I'm tall, right, so I'm telling you right now it's
• 38:44
  Speaker 6: certain things you can't even cool air. I can't hit
• 38:47
  Speaker 6: certain parts of you. Gotta be like a turtle in
• 38:50
  Speaker 6: a shell.
• 38:58
  Speaker 5: Going onund here, it's cold, all right, So.
• 39:03
  Speaker 7: One hundred one hundred degrees that's super hot.
• 39:05
  Speaker 12: That's all right. Sorry, we deal with that. We can
• 39:08
  Speaker 12: just none rolling hot? Yeah, just rest Yeah, cut that
• 39:15
  Speaker 12: ceiling fan off.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you something, Shelly, Why you think it
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: ain't that many eskimos? How many eskimos? Is it out
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: hard to find the ass every nine?
• 39:26
  Speaker 7: Then?
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: How many eskimos? About eleven hondred ain't nothing home black,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: ain't no black eskimo?
• 39:38
  Speaker 6: All right? Movie we had eleven thousand lived in Garden
• 39:42
  Speaker 6: Valley projects.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 39:47
  Speaker 7: Keeping with that same kind of theme, would you rather
• 39:50
  Speaker 7: cuddle in the morning or would you rather cuddle at night?
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: Huh?
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: I know, I know how men are with the cuddling situation.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Cutting, Get off me.
• 40:09
  Speaker 5: Your degree?
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Why do we have a keen size dead? If we're
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: not gonna use this, get on your.
• 40:18
  Speaker 7: Sad Junior. Han't heard from you on this one.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not cutting what now?
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: What? What?
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: We just got through touching?
• 40:32
  Speaker 9: Touch the mope?
• 40:34
  Speaker 6: What you and you have to cut off some time
• 40:36
  Speaker 6: because it's a requiredments.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I try to. I try to make her hot.
• 40:47
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 40:49
  Speaker 7: Good morning. This is Shirley Strawberry and Tims. The season
• 40:53
  Speaker 7: for happiness and love and giving and family. Happy Holidays
• 40:58
  Speaker 7: from the Steve Harvey Moore Ring shot all right, Steve,
• 41:04
  Speaker 7: go ahead.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Well, now.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: What you're about to hear.
• 41:12
  Speaker 6: It's pure comedic genius, but I must lay a disclaimer.
• 41:20
  Speaker 6: This is going to be a little edgy. It's gonna
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: ruffle a couple of feathers. So I'm just letting you
• 41:32
  Speaker 6: know this. This is j Anthony Brown. He asked me
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: do it, and I kind of got an idea. I
• 41:41
  Speaker 6: don't know exactly what it is, but I'm in support
• 41:46
  Speaker 6: of comedy. Yeah, but I'm saying we're doing this with
• 41:50
  Speaker 6: a disclaimer that no one can call us and say
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: nothing about it. I don't know exactly what he's gonna do,
• 41:57
  Speaker 6: but he could ruffle some feathers, ladies and gentlemen.
• 42:01
  Speaker 9: J Anthony Brown, All right, what I'm what I'm about
• 42:04
  Speaker 9: to do right now?
• 42:06
  Speaker 13: Every year, a lot of people, good people you know,
• 42:10
  Speaker 13: meaning good have quanza parties.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Now, yes, I don't think it's a lot of people.
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: You can go ahead. You must be trying to build
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: this Junke up in trying to build it up.
• 42:25
  Speaker 13: It's not a lot of quan How about people have
• 42:29
  Speaker 13: a quanza party and don't a lot of people come?
• 42:32
  Speaker 9: And they wonder why people don't come.
• 42:36
  Speaker 7: What I have is.
• 42:37
  Speaker 13: Suggestions to get more people to your Quanza party.
• 42:42
  Speaker 9: Number one, offer a free dog. Get there. Anybody who
• 42:47
  Speaker 9: will show up.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: One size fit all.
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  Speaker 9: You learn it.
• 43:00
  Speaker 13: Everybody that shows that Kwanza party, you get a free
• 43:06
  Speaker 13: bean pile. If you don't like mean, give a sweet potato.
• 43:09
  Speaker 13: If everybody don't like me, I like, I love this
• 43:15
  Speaker 13: one is really good. This is really really good.
• 43:18
  Speaker 9: If you have a Kwanza party, Steve, you can demonstrate
• 43:22
  Speaker 9: what I mean by this.
• 43:23
  Speaker 13: Do not have more than two velosifying brothers or sisters
• 43:28
  Speaker 13: at your party.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: You don't want more than two in there. You don't
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: want to, you know, brothers.
• 43:34
  Speaker 6: Let me say this about this time, this period that
• 43:38
  Speaker 6: we partake of in this a questrious moment, a history
• 43:43
  Speaker 6: of fouling or the gratuatrichness and the barbariousness of what.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: These holidays are too. That's why we celebrate quonsa.
• 43:55
  Speaker 14: But I dare say, though, brother, you don't want if
• 44:00
  Speaker 14: we hold that titulate the situation, knowing that it is
• 44:05
  Speaker 14: far regarically not a capability of scientific split. Let let
• 44:11
  Speaker 14: me interject some sensibility into this conversation.
• 44:15
  Speaker 9: Okay, you don't want a whole bunch of them.
• 44:18
  Speaker 13: At your party. Okay it hands up the move number five.
• 44:23
  Speaker 13: Ease up, this is very important.
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: Ease up, you know what.
• 44:28
  Speaker 9: Ease up me right up on the incense and sage.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: Okay, because the black of my nose is burning.
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: How my shoes there?
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Like I got a headache? Notious too much?
• 44:56
  Speaker 7: My greens tastes like saves.
• 45:03
  Speaker 9: Number two?
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: You want number seven?
• 45:06
  Speaker 13: You want to play something other than the Lion King, Anne,
• 45:09
  Speaker 13: This is vandpoint. The African drummers don't have to play
• 45:13
  Speaker 13: all night long, Okay, they don't.
• 45:18
  Speaker 9: Shirley Dinner and last but not.
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: Last.
• 45:25
  Speaker 9: Don't tell nobody it's a quiz about it.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: Just tell them.
• 45:28
  Speaker 9: Okay, I have.
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: To tell him something you can.
• 45:33
  Speaker 5: I'm having a bottle.
• 45:36
  Speaker 7: I'm having a party, all right. Listen coming up like
• 45:45
  Speaker 7: j for the nephew went today. Frank phone call that's
• 45:49
  Speaker 7: coming up.
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: Right after this cornpress spell like.
• 45:55
  Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up
• 45:59
  Speaker 7: at the top of the hour. Write about four minutes after.
• 46:01
  Speaker 7: It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject it's time
• 46:05
  Speaker 7: for a change. But right now the nephew is here
• 46:09
  Speaker 7: with today's prank phone call. What you got for it, neph.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: It is time for a prank call.
• 46:18
  Speaker 15: All right, all minds clear, heads, bowed eyes, clothes. You
• 46:24
  Speaker 15: prayed for a job, That's what you did. You prayed
• 46:30
  Speaker 15: for a job, cat dog.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: If you would hello, I'm trying to reach a Carolyn,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: Please hi, Carolyn. Listen. My name is Lawrence. Lawrence.
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: I actually go to the same church you do. I
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: saw you last Sunday where you stood up in the
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: church and I heard that you were talking about you're
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: going through some bad times or your job supposedly got
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: rid of the department that you're in, and you now
• 46:59
  Speaker 4: seek a new type of work.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Am I right?
• 47:02
  Speaker 4: Yes, just just work period, because you're looking for a
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: new occupation. And you I was there when you asked
• 47:07
  Speaker 4: everybody to pray for you. Have you Have you found
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: anything yet?
• 47:12
  Speaker 16: I haven't. I've been praying up. We prayed again today.
• 47:15
  Speaker 16: I asked for the church's prayers again today. And I
• 47:19
  Speaker 16: know everything's gonna work out, because you know he said
• 47:21
  Speaker 16: you take one step, you're gonna take too.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: That's right, And I know it's going to happen.
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Well, listen, I think I may be able to be
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: of some help to you.
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: I actually own my own company, and I'm thinking that
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: you could be the perfect person for a position that
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: I have available. Uh now, what what type of work
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: would you doing in the past. Give me some of
• 47:39
  Speaker 4: your job qualifications.
• 47:41
  Speaker 16: I'm an executive secretary, administrative assistant, anything like that.
• 47:45
  Speaker 3: Where is the meed? Uh?
• 47:47
  Speaker 16: Even take the arm star shorthand I want to do
• 47:49
  Speaker 16: it all. If you just said what you need and
• 47:51
  Speaker 16: I can do church out your executives to come through
• 47:53
  Speaker 16: the office, anything that's needed, travel expenses, That's what I do.
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: Okay, good at too?
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: What type of hours are you used.
• 48:02
  Speaker 16: To working nine to five from I'll come in at hey,
• 48:06
  Speaker 16: I'll if I'm be coming at eight, I'm coming even
• 48:08
  Speaker 16: earlier if you used to coming earlier.
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: Are you opposed to working at night?
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: No, I don't know.
• 48:12
  Speaker 16: I'm working at night. I mean, it just it just depends,
• 48:15
  Speaker 16: you know, right not Urgus can't be choosing. I ask
• 48:18
  Speaker 16: and it's being given to me. Okay, well, what kind
• 48:21
  Speaker 16: of looking.
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: At I have a I have an offer for you
• 48:24
  Speaker 4: that it would be Thursday, Friday and Saturday night.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: You will only be working three days a week for me.
• 48:29
  Speaker 16: Okay, No, I'm just you know, I was looking for
• 48:32
  Speaker 16: separate female hours a female days, any like full time.
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: I will family well today, right right right, I understand,
• 48:39
  Speaker 4: But listen, I think the actual amount will suffice for that. Now,
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: I'm going to offer you seven hundred and fifty dollars
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: per night for three nights a week. That's that's two
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: thousand and fifty dollars for for for those three days
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: for one week.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: Sure line, seven hundred and fifty dollars.
• 49:00
  Speaker 16: A night, and you're making around two.
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: You're making a week, man, And if you do the
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: math on that, that that adds up to about nine
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: thousand dollars.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Four months.
• 49:14
  Speaker 3: For you to be true.
• 49:15
  Speaker 16: But now I put it in his hands. I turned
• 49:18
  Speaker 16: it over that we started. I did it, and you
• 49:20
  Speaker 16: turned on seven hundred fifty dollars a night. Okay, I
• 49:24
  Speaker 16: mean what I'm doing books, you know, because I did
• 49:27
  Speaker 16: the accountant too.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: Well, let me say this now.
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: The reason why I say it's at night is because
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: I own a nightclub and and you would be working
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: at the night club for me. So you will put
• 49:37
  Speaker 4: in about four or five hours every night and for
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: three nights a week like I stayed at Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
• 49:44
  Speaker 4: And and of course I'll pay you seven hundred and fifty.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: Matter of fact, I'll actually pay you your first two
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: weeks in advance.
• 49:52
  Speaker 3: And I need that.
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: I'm sure you you know you've you've lost your balance.
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: You need to get back on your feet and everything.
• 49:57
  Speaker 16: Yes, yes, yes, okay, so exactly really that you know
• 50:03
  Speaker 16: I'll be doing it because I'm sure, Like I said,
• 50:04
  Speaker 16: I can do office work. I'm good. That's not counting.
• 50:07
  Speaker 16: You tell me a quick front door. I can keep
• 50:10
  Speaker 16: your books going right.
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: Well, no, not necessarily. I don't need you to work
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: the front door. I'm actually going to have you in
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: the club working. Okay, So I mean, how are you
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: how's your physical condition? Are you able to get around?
• 50:24
  Speaker 4: And you don't get tired quick?
• 50:25
  Speaker 13: Do you?
• 50:26
  Speaker 7: No?
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Are you in good physical shape?
• 50:27
  Speaker 16: Yes, I'm gonna really good shave, don't get got quick
• 50:31
  Speaker 16: at all. You need to do something like do you
• 50:32
  Speaker 16: able to bad tenders or something and work to the
• 50:34
  Speaker 16: bad and make sure the money and nobody stealing money
• 50:37
  Speaker 16: from you or something.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're not at the bar either.
• 50:40
  Speaker 4: See because what I'm gonna do now, have you ever
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: done anything like, you know, anything close to dance or
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: anything like that?
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: Have you done that in the past.
• 50:47
  Speaker 16: I do a little ballet when I was younger. Uh
• 50:50
  Speaker 16: drest I mean, and he had goat every once in
• 50:55
  Speaker 16: a while. You know, you do a litle dancing here
• 50:57
  Speaker 16: and there.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: Okay, don't it's the problem moving around.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: Okay, well, that's good to see. What what I wanted
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: you to do is I want you to do a
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: little bit of dancing in the club something.
• 51:07
  Speaker 16: You have something like ballroom dancing or something, and I
• 51:10
  Speaker 16: don't know how to do the bathroom dance, so I
• 51:12
  Speaker 16: can't work with nobody.
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: On that stuff like that.
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: No, I'm not asking you to do any uh ballroom
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: dance and anything like that. What I need you to do,
• 51:19
  Speaker 4: I want you to dance on the pole.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: On the pole. See, I have a strip club. I
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: want you to dance on the pole.
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: The res dancing a par well.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: Actually I own the Silk Stocking, which is a strip club.
• 51:36
  Speaker 16: I love a ship stocker.
• 51:39
  Speaker 11: Do you mind?
• 51:45
  Speaker 16: I am brank my part and body. You can put
• 51:48
  Speaker 16: that listen.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: ROOMA But don't you want to make this money?
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: I got seven hundred and fifty dollars a night for you.
• 51:58
  Speaker 16: I don't something I'll tell you right now. You're in
• 52:01
  Speaker 16: a parad you can purch that par shoves a band.
• 52:05
  Speaker 16: You have no business calling me a dot. No bars
• 52:08
  Speaker 16: on my partner, Ian, nobody the church.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you a job. Baby. They told
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: me that you was in need of a job.
• 52:14
  Speaker 9: So I'm just trying to mean that.
• 52:15
  Speaker 16: I'm not mean that kind of jam. I'm not meaning
• 52:17
  Speaker 16: my grounds. I'm taking out my bear.
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: I'm runs some brought wind bear or bars on my bear.
• 52:21
  Speaker 16: Paris want you.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, what if I bumped up to a thousand dollars?
• 52:25
  Speaker 16: I two three five thousand dollars. I'm taking my drowns
• 52:28
  Speaker 16: out the.
• 52:30
  Speaker 9: I want that poet.
• 52:32
  Speaker 16: You know you ain't gonna see my.
• 52:35
  Speaker 3: Check in church and let me pray.
• 52:37
  Speaker 16: I said, you need to be calling me talking about
• 52:39
  Speaker 16: your guys.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: When I say you at church next Sunday.
• 52:44
  Speaker 16: Church, I said, don't you come back to me? I
• 52:46
  Speaker 16: said nothing to me because if that's r.
• 52:47
  Speaker 4: But I'm gonna come and ask you and win dale.
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: Will you get your butt on the pole man?
• 52:54
  Speaker 6: Come?
• 52:54
  Speaker 16: I went bad, I'm a whip you.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: Well, let me say this to you. Are you listening
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: to me?
• 53:00
  Speaker 16: I don't listen to you. I'm hanging up.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: I will wait just a.
• 53:04
  Speaker 4: Minute, Carolyn, I want to say this. This is his nephew,
• 53:07
  Speaker 4: Timmy from the studio off in morning show. You just
• 53:10
  Speaker 4: got prank my, your cousin Ravenam.
• 53:23
  Speaker 16: I need some money you talked about.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Give it? Tell me give it? You got her right,
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: That's all I want to know that I get it.
• 53:44
  Speaker 6: I don't care if you jumping up to three five
• 53:46
  Speaker 6: thousand thousand, well call him.
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: Screaming at hard to get on the pole.
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I don't know no ballroom damn.
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: But I can learn.
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I did a little.
• 54:00
  Speaker 3: You like.
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: A little bitter little drill. I was a drill. Major.
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: I'm going to drill too.
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: You know that.
• 54:15
  Speaker 9: Don't pay seven hundred fifty dollars.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: Majorrection know I type eighty some words I do shorthanded,
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: eighty some words of a minute. Who do that?
• 54:29
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: I can take it?
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: Oh man, you could type eighty eight words a minute. Man,
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: I took typeing in school. I'm typed thirty four words.
• 54:36
  Speaker 9: A minute, full of mistakes angle tag more than that,
• 54:41
  Speaker 9: but they be spelled.
• 54:42
  Speaker 6: Bro, every dog I'm talking about man, And you remember
• 54:45
  Speaker 6: the slogan you had to type to touch all the
• 54:47
  Speaker 6: cues over the yellow some moon.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: The brown fox jumped over the lazy dog's back. Yeah.
• 54:56
  Speaker 6: Wow, the quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dogs back.
• 55:01
  Speaker 6: That made you touch all the keys thirty forwards A minute.
• 55:09
  Speaker 9: For me k L Thank you guys.
• 55:13
  Speaker 7: All right, coming up next Strawberry Letters subject it's time
• 55:16
  Speaker 7: for a change. We'll get into it right after this.
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: Hey, this is your boy nephew, Tommy.
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  Speaker 4: Entering a new year is the perfect time to prioritize
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  Speaker 4: Yours could be Buckle up and hold on tight. We
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  Speaker 7: Subject It's time for a change. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm
• 56:23
  Speaker 7: a board certified registered nurse, and I was raised in
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  Speaker 7: public housing by my aunt because my mother had me
• 56:29
  Speaker 7: when she was sixteen. After I graduated from high school,
• 56:32
  Speaker 7: I found out my aunt was sleeping with my boyfriend,
• 56:36
  Speaker 7: so I beat her up and spent time in juvenile detention.
• 56:39
  Speaker 7: From that point on, I was told that I wouldn't
• 56:41
  Speaker 7: amount to anything. I beat the odds and I got
• 56:44
  Speaker 7: a nursing degree. I'm thirty years old and I just
• 56:47
  Speaker 7: bought my first house not far from where I grew up.
• 56:51
  Speaker 7: All of my female friends from high school are still
• 56:53
  Speaker 7: fighting over the same men and working two and three
• 56:56
  Speaker 7: jobs to pay the bills. We still have house parties
• 56:59
  Speaker 7: and go on the vacations, but I usually pay most
• 57:02
  Speaker 7: of the expenses when we plan anything. I have been
• 57:06
  Speaker 7: dating the same guy for ten years, and I'm really
• 57:09
  Speaker 7: proud of the man he's become I've been patient with
• 57:13
  Speaker 7: him while he completes his degree, but I don't think
• 57:15
  Speaker 7: he's taking classes right now. When I evaluate where I
• 57:19
  Speaker 7: am and who I associate with, I get sad. At work,
• 57:23
  Speaker 7: I'm a different person. I get to talk to the
• 57:26
  Speaker 7: other shift nurses and doctors, and it's a different world
• 57:29
  Speaker 7: than what I live. And when I go home, my
• 57:33
  Speaker 7: boyfriend loves to say I'm different and I talk proper.
• 57:37
  Speaker 7: When I'm at work, I am aware that I'm two
• 57:39
  Speaker 7: different people, and I enjoy the progressive side of life
• 57:42
  Speaker 7: more so than the one I grew up in. The
• 57:46
  Speaker 7: more I hang with my girls on the weekend and
• 57:48
  Speaker 7: we drink till three am, the more I know that
• 57:51
  Speaker 7: I'm growing them. I'm ready to walk away from everything
• 57:55
  Speaker 7: that's familiar in my life. But I can't do this anymore.
• 58:00
  Speaker 7: Am I being a sellout if I pull away from
• 58:02
  Speaker 7: my friends? Am I supposed to keep waiting for my
• 58:05
  Speaker 7: boyfriend to get himself all the way together? Is there
• 58:07
  Speaker 7: a way to distance myself respectfully?
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  Speaker 10: Wow?
• 58:11
  Speaker 7: If anyone needs a change in their life, I would
• 58:13
  Speaker 7: say it would be you. And those of us who
• 58:16
  Speaker 7: have lived and have some experience at life. We will
• 58:19
  Speaker 7: definitely tell you that the one constant in life is
• 58:22
  Speaker 7: change and we can't avoid it because it's going to
• 58:25
  Speaker 7: happen whether we want it to or not. And guess
• 58:29
  Speaker 7: what what you're feeling and what you're going through right now,
• 58:31
  Speaker 7: that's a good thing. You distance yourself by trying new things,
• 58:35
  Speaker 7: different things, and staying busy. That's how you do it respectfully.
• 58:39
  Speaker 3: And you can say no.
• 58:40
  Speaker 7: It's okay to say no if you don't want to
• 58:43
  Speaker 7: do stuff with them like hanging out and drinking till
• 58:45
  Speaker 7: three a m. You know that's not what you do anymore.
• 58:48
  Speaker 7: Change means growth, and you already said that you are
• 58:52
  Speaker 7: out growing them. You feel it, you see it, and
• 58:55
  Speaker 7: that's okay. Trust me. You will not be the first
• 58:58
  Speaker 7: one to get a new circle of friends, and it's
• 59:01
  Speaker 7: nothing wrong with that. You should accept and embrace it
• 59:03
  Speaker 7: where it's taking you. This is your path, now, your journey.
• 59:06
  Speaker 7: You're on your journey. You're not a sellout, and don't
• 59:09
  Speaker 7: let them try to make you think you're a sellout
• 59:11
  Speaker 7: because you want to move up and move on and
• 59:14
  Speaker 7: move differently. They just don't want you to outshine them,
• 59:18
  Speaker 7: all right, that's where that hate would be coming from.
• 59:21
  Speaker 7: You're thirty. Now, what is your man doing besides putting
• 59:24
  Speaker 7: you down? Talking about you talk proper and you're different.
• 59:27
  Speaker 7: Now you said he's not even in school taking classes,
• 59:30
  Speaker 7: so you have no idea when or if he's going
• 59:33
  Speaker 7: to finish. I say, stop wasting your time. Go ahead
• 59:37
  Speaker 7: and live your life. Please, don't waste any more of
• 59:41
  Speaker 7: your time with your hating friends. You have to pay
• 59:44
  Speaker 7: for everything with them anyway. What is that about that
• 59:48
  Speaker 7: says to me that they're users letting you pay for everything?
• 59:51
  Speaker 7: That's not right? So if they don't appreciate the change
• 59:54
  Speaker 7: in you, that doesn't ignite like something in them to
• 59:57
  Speaker 7: be better, I think there are plenty other people out
• 59:59
  Speaker 7: there that will. I just say, go on, live your life,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 7: be great.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 6: Steve, all right, the subject is this time for a chain.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 6: Let me say this about Shirley's response. Every single word
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 6: Shirley Strawberry just said was one thousand percent through period.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: There's no.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 6: Getting around what she told you. Nothing like this, but
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 6: sometimes you have to hear it a different way. Now,
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 6: what Shirley did was she told you exactly right. I
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 6: hope you hear that because she told you almost in
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 6: a way where your new better and more improved side
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 6: could understand and take it in.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: So, since Shirley has so eloquently.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 6: Done that for the new, improved, new you, I'm gonna
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 6: talk to you as to oh you, so you can
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 6: get both sides. You can pick which one you not.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 6: I want you to understand. I'm gonna say the exact same.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 6: Ain't thank Shirley just said. But we're gonna take the
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 6: other route. Let's break the letter down.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: Here we go.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 6: I'm a board certified registered nurse. I was raised in
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 6: public housing by my aunt because my mother had me.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: When she was sixteen.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 6: After I graduated from high school, I found out my
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 6: mon was sleeping with my boyfriend, so I beat her
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 6: up and I had to spend time in juvenile detention.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, great, let's break this down.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 6: Your mama had you ally, you moved here with your aunt.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 6: Your aunt was you know, tricky. You found out she
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 6: slept with your boyfriend. You whooped your aunt ass.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Yep, this is what happened. That sums it up.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 6: Now you jumped on her real good because you got
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 6: charges pressed and now you done went down to juvie.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 6: Now you were told that you would never amount to anything,
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 6: and then you beat the odds you got out. You
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 6: rows above your circumstances. You did exactly that. You have
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 6: a nursing degree, thirty years old, and you just bought
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 6: your first house not far from where I grew up.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: That was the mistake. Huh. You bought your first house
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: not far from where you grew up.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 6: That was your first mistake, because now it has kept
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 6: you too close to your past. And I hate to
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 6: tell y' all this, but the antig in the hood,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 6: you got to keep it real. The real answer should be,
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 6: you got to keep it moving.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 7: I'll bang on a state with why. Yeah, hang on,
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 7: we'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 7: twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject it's time
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 7: for a change. We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: Hey, this is your boy nephew.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 4: Tell me. Entering a new year is the perfect time
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 4: to prioritize your safety. Meet the Burner left lethal launcher
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  Speaker 4: their tracks without deadly force. Bernard is legaling off fifty states.
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  Speaker 7: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 7: The subject it's time for a change.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 6: Young girl who's thirty year old woman is writing this
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 6: letter had a very similar pass to a lot of people.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 6: Her mother was young when she had a that's not
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 6: a problem or sin. Are you raised by your aunt?
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 6: And then you found out when you graduate from.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: High school you' aren't was sleeping with your born friend.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: So you beat that ad.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 6: You had spend some time down in Julie, and from
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 6: that point on you was told you wasn't amount to anything.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: And then you did what so many of us have done.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: You beat the odds. You got a nursing degree, You're
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: thirty years old, you just bought your first house. Here's
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: a problem. Not far from Ala.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 6: I grew up right around them, very same people that
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 6: said you would never amount to anything. All your female
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 6: friends from high school are still fighting over the same
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 6: inn and working two at.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: Three jobs to pay the bills.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 6: All my female friends from high school are still fighting
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 6: over the same men and working two three jobs.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: Pay the bills. I'm gonna save my next statement.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 6: We still have house parties, go on vacations, but I
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 6: usually pay most of the expenses when we plan anything.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: Shirley said it this way. You need a new group
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: of friends.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 6: Why is your ass trying to hang on to something
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 6: that is not providing a benefit to you. You know why,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 6: because you are suffering from what so many people use
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 6: as an emotion that has turned out to be the
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 6: most useless emotion in the world, and it is called guilt.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 6: Stop suffering from guilt because it's a useless emotion. It
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 6: serves nobody any purpose except the person who's applying the guilt,
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 6: and the guilt is being applied by your friends since
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 6: they can't afford to do nothing you can.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: You got to pay for it. You need some new
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: damn friends. Here we go, but I usually pay for
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: most of dispensive.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 6: I have been dating the same guy for ten years,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 6: and I'm really proud of the man he's become. I've
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 6: been patient with him while he completes his agreement. I
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 6: don't think he's taking classes right now. And when I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 6: elevate where I am and who I associate with, I
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 6: get sad. You are now sad with where you've gotten yourself,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 6: because where you've gotten remains to stay too close to
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 6: where you're from. Once again, the antig in the hood
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 6: of you got to keep it real, the antig is
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 6: really you got to keep it moving so you have time.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 6: Try to stay true to your roots. When your roots
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 6: is sick, your roots are poisoned. Your root is gonna
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 6: hinder and thraught the development of your growth as a
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 6: plant because you're trying to stay true to your roots. Well,
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 6: your roots ain't moving, They ain't any good salt, they
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 6: ain't being fertilized or nothing. Now you got the same
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 6: guy for ten years. You proud of the man he's become,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 6: but you don't think he in classes right, You don't
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 6: even know what he's doing. So now your association, if
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 6: you continue to associate, you remember the saying association brings
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 6: on participation. If you keep hanging with them, guess what
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 6: you keep doing what them is doing? So now you're
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: throwing house parties and.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: You drink it. What what's the benefit.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 6: At work? I'm a different person. I get to talk
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 6: to the other shift nurses. Oh, you get to talk
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 6: with people who are like minded. Oh okay, you could
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 6: talk to other shift nurses and doctors. And it's a
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 6: different world than when I live in. When I go home,
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 6: that's because you brought your home in the wrong place.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 6: You now, you ain't got to keep it real, You
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 6: got to keep it moving. And this is not an
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 6: anti hood statement, because all the great things in my
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 6: life is from the hood. I couldn't stay there and
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 6: elevate at the same time. So Number one, you need
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 6: to think about that. My boyfriend loves to say I'm
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 6: different than I talk proper when I'm at work. I'm
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 6: aware that I'm two different people, and I enjoy the progressive.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: Side of my life more than one. I grew up here.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 6: It's because you this time for you to grow up
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 6: and to move on. Some people are in your life
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 6: for a season. There are a lot of people in
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 6: your life that are seasonal people. Everybody come with you
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 6: can't go with you. You've got to stop trying to
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 6: hang on to your past when it's thwarting your future.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 6: You can't keep hanging out with what you used to
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 6: be when God has something clearly he wants you to be.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: But you have the power of choice.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 6: So hanging on to what you used to be is
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 6: prohibiting you from fully reaching the potential.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 9: Of what you could be.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 6: I'm not ready to walk away from everything that's familiar
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 6: in my life. Then cool, stay down, thwart your growth,
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 6: continue not to grow, go to house parties, drank to
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 6: three o'clock in the morning. They the man that ain't
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 6: moving forward. That's tripping on you because you different and
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 6: you enjoy the difference. But you ain't ready to walk
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 6: away from everything that's familiar with you. If you stay
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 6: in your comfort zone, that's where you're gonna fail.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 7: That's true. Say that again.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 6: If you stay in your comfort zone, that's where you
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 6: will fail. Success is not in your comfort zone. It's
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 6: on the other side. And if you want to be successful,
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 6: you got to get out your comfort zone and prepare
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 6: yourself to get uncomfortable.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: Am I being a sellout? If I pull out from
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: my friend? Hell?
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 6: Now, you ain't being a sellout. It's called moved out. Yeah,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 6: you ain't nonna sell out. You moved out. Am I
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 6: supposed to keep waiting for my boyfriend get himself all
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 6: the way together? Is that way to distance myself respectfully. No,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 6: the way you just yourself respectfully is that you you
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 6: stop hanging with them. Stop, lady, you know them nothing.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 6: They're going to say. Keep it real to you. They
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 6: gonna say you a sellout.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 10: All.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 6: You can stay there and regret it the rest of
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 6: your life, or you can go and move on and
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 6: see what God has for you.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: You ain't finna be less black ws.
• 1:09:32
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• 1:09:40
  Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: Hey, this is boyd Nephew.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: Tell me. Entering a new year is the perfect time
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 4: to prioritize your safety. Meet the Burner left lethal launcher,
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• 1:09:56
  Speaker 4: foot reins, giving you the ability to stop threats in
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 4: their tracks without deadly forced Bernard is legaling off fifty stations,
• 1:10:03
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• 1:10:06
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• 1:10:16
  Speaker 7: Well, uh, Jay is here. We're so happy when you're
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 7: here with us. Jay, that means you're healthy and good.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 7: Uh and and Jay, I don't know where you find
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 7: the time, but apparently you've written another book book. What
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 7: is this your age?
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: That?
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: I mean.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 5: Love that love?
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 9: I love it. But this is this is my newest book.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 9: This is my newest book. The name of the book
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 9: is is very catchy. You'll catch on this.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 13: Sometimes ken folks ain't well for damn or you can
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 13: use the S word. That's the title of.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 7: One more Time.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 13: Sometimes ken folks ain't worth for damn or you can
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 13: use the s work. So that's that's the title of
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 13: the book. And there's several chapters in there that everybody
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 13: who has kin folks can relate to.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 9: In this my new book calls sometimes kin folks say,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 9: what damn it?
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 13: You can use the for a chapter one, just because
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 13: you got a big house, they think they can show.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 9: Up and stay for free.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: That's chapter one, Oh man.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 13: That that that chapter two, I kind of get into
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 13: some personal stuff that they think your house is storage.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 13: Let me put something in your garage for a couple
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 13: of days. I mean it's been in the eight months now,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 13: it ain't moved. You know, it's the old good. I
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 13: don't even know what it is myself. I ain't live
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 13: it up.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 9: I don't know that.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 13: Chapter three, Okay, this is if you have a big house. Ah,
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 13: ken folks get confused in my new book. Sometimes can
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 13: folking with for damn? And you can use the S word.
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  Speaker 13: They think they think you're the daddy.
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  Speaker 9: What they don't.
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  Speaker 13: Understand is you're the granddaddy, not the daddy'd Yeah, some
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  Speaker 13: of those problems personal.
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  Speaker 9: This is personal. Some of those problems you need to
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  Speaker 9: go to the daddy, not the granddaddy. You need to
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  Speaker 9: go right to the daddy.
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  Speaker 13: Okay, Oh listen, chapter if you my book, My new
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  Speaker 13: book calls sometimes ken folks are with for damn or
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  Speaker 13: you can use the S word.
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  Speaker 9: You think you're a bad guy if you don't babysit.
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  Speaker 9: I don't babysit. Okay.
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  Speaker 5: I smoke things.
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  Speaker 9: I do things that around kids.
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  Speaker 13: And and when you come back, he's gonna have a
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  Speaker 13: whole different attitude if you leave him here.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, Henna, he gonna be little, he's gonna be hungry,
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  Speaker 9: he's gonna be sleeping.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna come pick up a little.
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  Speaker 5: You're gonna do what you do in my new book.
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  Speaker 9: In my new book.
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  Speaker 13: Sometimes can't puggle with a dam or you can use
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  Speaker 13: the S word. They think you are finance coming in.
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  Speaker 13: That's my book. That's several chapters in the NFBL soon.
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  Speaker 13: Sometimes can't pull it with dam, but you can use
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  Speaker 13: the S word. Check it out on a new book.
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  Speaker 7: Yet that's gonna be a best seller.
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  Speaker 2: It's no.
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  Speaker 7: He love. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 7: Go small with your goals. Seventy five percent of people
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  Speaker 7: make at least one resolution a year, but a new
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  Speaker 7: survey found that respondents would rather kick off their goals
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  Speaker 7: gradually than jump in head first. Almost half of those
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  Speaker 7: surveyed also said they'd rather concentrate on long term goals,
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  Speaker 7: with twenty seven percent saying they wanted to focus on
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 7: short term ones. So, Steve, you're a motivational speaker. You
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  Speaker 7: motivate people all the time. What do you think should
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 7: people continue you to make big resolutions at the first
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  Speaker 7: of the year or should they go small with their goals?
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  Speaker 6: I disagree with that one thousand percent. I don't understand.
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  Speaker 6: There's no winning in small. There's no winning in small.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, look, what they're trying to say is but
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  Speaker 6: everything they're saying is preparing you for failure. It's assuming
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  Speaker 6: that ain't no need of you thinking big because you
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  Speaker 6: ain't gonna get big. Now that, right, there is a
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  Speaker 6: negative connotation to me. You know, remember this, aim for
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 6: the moon. In case you miss, you'll still be amongst
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  Speaker 6: the stars. But if you aiming for the fire hydrant,
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  Speaker 6: then you miss, you down in the damn dirt. See
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  Speaker 6: that's the problem with people passing out advice to people.
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  Speaker 6: I'm just against small thinking because it costs you no
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  Speaker 6: more to think big than it does to think small.
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  Speaker 6: If you say Volkswagon and Rose Royce, it don't take
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  Speaker 6: no more energy, right, it's Votswagon is Rose Royce. Man, y'all,
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  Speaker 6: don't let people convince you to take the small approach,
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  Speaker 6: because then all you can ever get is small results.
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  Speaker 6: I'm just not a proponent that. Now, what they're trying
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  Speaker 6: to say is, don't disappoint yourself. You go to it
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  Speaker 6: and you don't get it.
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  Speaker 7: Expectation, it's just so high.
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  Speaker 1: Back to me, I just don't like you manage your expectations.
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  Speaker 10: See.
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  Speaker 1: Now, look, either you don't be a person of faith
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  Speaker 1: or you ain't.
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  Speaker 10: Give people advice though, how to think big and how
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  Speaker 10: to not be not to hold themselves back with that
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  Speaker 10: type of thinking if you've never okay, here'll set that
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  Speaker 10: kind of goal for yourself.
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  Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: Well, here's here's a deal. Here's something I learned, and
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  Speaker 1: I taught this to myself.
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  Speaker 6: It is impossible to think an impossible thought. That's not possible.
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  Speaker 6: It is possible to think an impossible thought. Well, okay,
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  Speaker 6: then how did you think it?
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  Speaker 1: Though?
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  Speaker 6: If it's impossible, how did you think it? And that's
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  Speaker 6: what you've got to incorporate into your thinking. Man, it
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  Speaker 6: is impossible to think about you tell somebody, man, I
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  Speaker 6: had this crazy idea. Man, I don't see how. I
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  Speaker 6: know you don't see how, but I'm telling you I
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  Speaker 6: saw it. And that's how. Imagination is given to you.
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  Speaker 6: And what we don't realize as people is that our
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  Speaker 6: imagination is given to us by God. God places what
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  Speaker 6: he has for you in your imagination. Albert Einstein once said,
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  Speaker 6: imagination is everything. It's the preview to life's coming attractions.
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  Speaker 6: That's just a fact. So what God does is he
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  Speaker 6: places the life he has for you in your imagination.
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  Speaker 6: The problem we have is we tell our imagination to
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  Speaker 6: the wrong people. Because if you want to kill a
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 6: big dream, tell it to a small minded person. And
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  Speaker 6: all of us have done that. God has shown us
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  Speaker 6: something incredible in our imagination. We took it to our
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  Speaker 6: friends and loved ones and they shot it down. I
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  Speaker 6: don't see how you gonna do that. Well, I know
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  Speaker 6: you don't see it because God didn't show it to you.
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  Speaker 6: He showed it to me. And I'm gonna trust on
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  Speaker 6: that fact. Right there. If I thought small, there's no
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  Speaker 6: way I get here today. All you got to do
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  Speaker 6: is start thinking big. Does a book I recommend to
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  Speaker 6: everybody by David Schwartz David Schultz, The Magic of Thinking Big.
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  Speaker 6: Go buy that book. It's all written off. All self
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  Speaker 6: help books have written off concepts of the Bible. Anyway,
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  Speaker 6: a man is as he thinks. If you think you're small,
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  Speaker 6: you're fit to be small.
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  Speaker 7: I love it, all right, Thank you, you are a
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  Speaker 7: motivational speaker.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: This is Shirley Strawberry and Tims the season for happiness
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  Speaker 7: and love and giving and family, Happy Holidays from the
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  Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Shows. All right, so do you guys
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  Speaker 7: love spicy food.
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  Speaker 1: I like, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I don't like hot.
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  Speaker 7: I don't like hot hot hot.
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  Speaker 1: I like that, and there's a difference.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah. According to a survey by Frank's Red
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  Speaker 7: Hot Sauce, people who like things hot see themselves as
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 7: hot and more attractive than others.
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  Speaker 1: Is that true? See, I see myself as spicy. I
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  Speaker 1: don't see that. I think I'm spicy. I don't know hot.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think. I think I'm very spicy.
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  Speaker 10: I don't like my food where I can't enjoy it.
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  Speaker 10: You know, if it's too hot hot, you know it's spicy.
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  Speaker 10: Now I'm married to a man from New Orleans, so
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 10: everything has to be spicy.
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  Speaker 1: I mean spicy ice cream, I mean everything.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you.
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  Speaker 7: Never know when the water is now, I'd be like,
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  Speaker 7: everything has to be spicy.
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  Speaker 3: I'm me.
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  Speaker 7: Does he think he's hot?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, well he just sees us.
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  Speaker 7: He just proved our point.
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  Speaker 5: Then the point of the story.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 3: He just proved it.
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  Speaker 7: The survey also showed that the hot people see themselves
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 7: as adventurous, creative, and confident too. So does that describe
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 7: Tosh absolutely junior hot or spicy?
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm spicy I'm spicy, you know. I can't
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I like spicy foods, you know, but because you
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 6: gotta have flavor into spicy.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that best thing. I like that hot with my
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  Speaker 1: mop on. Fine, give me some water. I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 7: But you're supposed to drink milk, they say, not even whatever.
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  Speaker 7: All right, thank you you, and you're coming up more
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  Speaker 7: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three minutes after.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 7: We'll play around him. Would you rather? Right after this?
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  Speaker 7: for another round of would you rather? Okay, okay, would
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  Speaker 7: you rather? Since it's wintertime, would you rather do it
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  Speaker 7: in thirty two degree weather?
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  Speaker 1: Or would you do it?
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 7: Rather do it in one hundred degree weather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather do it?
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  Speaker 2: Just do it?
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  Speaker 7: Excuse me, junior?
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  Speaker 6: What was that?
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather do it? Okay?
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  Speaker 3: What is.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with that? That hunt that heat? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: he's trying to say, so if it's.
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  Speaker 6: A lot more effort required, Yeah, get that cold, boy,
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  Speaker 6: you got men got a special problem in that cold. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: that probably ain't gonna happen. Certain I'm telling you right now.
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  Speaker 6: It's certain things. You can't even cool air can't hit
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  Speaker 6: certain partsies. You be like a turtle in a shell.
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  Speaker 5: Around going on here.
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  Speaker 7: It's cold, all right, So one hundred but one hundred
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  Speaker 7: degrees that's super hot.
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  Speaker 1: That's all right. That's sorry, we deal with that. Were
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  Speaker 1: just none wronging hot? Yeah? Just rest and cut that
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  Speaker 1: center fan off.
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  Speaker 6: Let me ask you something, why you think it ain't
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 6: that many eskimos?
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: How many eskimos? Is it out hard to find a
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: ass every nine?
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  Speaker 15: Then?
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: How many eskimos? Lem? Honey, nothing home black and no
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: black eskimo?
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 1: Movie, we had eleven thousand lived in Garden Valley projects.
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  Speaker 7: All right, keeping with that same kind of theme, would
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  Speaker 7: you rather cuddle in the morning or would you rather
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 7: cuddle at night? I know, I know how men are
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 7: with the cuddling situation.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: Cuddling to get off me. I'm not.
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  Speaker 5: Under a degree.
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  Speaker 1: Why do we have a king size bed if we're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna use the spread? Get on your.
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  Speaker 7: My side, Junior. Haven't heard from you on this one.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not cutting it?
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  Speaker 3: What now? What? What?
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  Speaker 5: We just got through?
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: Touching? Touch the more?
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 1: June? You have to cut off some time because it's
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: a required.
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  Speaker 10: He has to.
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  Speaker 3: Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to. I try to make her hot.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 7: We'll be back to close out the show at forty
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 7: nine minutes after the hour, and we'll get some closing
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 7: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: Lots people, this is Kirk Franklin.
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  Speaker 7: Hey, this is Shaka Kahan.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: What's going on?
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  Speaker 9: This is your boy Kevin Hart.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 10: Hey, this is Chloe Kardashian.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: This is your boy, Sandy Entertainer.
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  Speaker 7: This is your line to Adams.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning, This is your man, Steve Harvey. Have a
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 6: happy end, a safe holiday. From The Steve Harvey Morning Show.