Latest / The Steve Harvey Morning Show / Reality Television Producer Carlos King talks Real Housewives of Atlanta, Oprah, Love & Marriage: Huntsville
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- 1:28Speaker 1: guest is an industry decision maker. His name is Carlos King.
- 1:31Speaker 1: One of my favorite people and we've never met. He's
- 1:34Speaker 1: an executive producer and found of Kingdom Rain, Kingdom Rain
- 1:38Speaker 1: Rain Rain, Kingdom Rain Entertainment. He's also known as the
- 1:42Speaker 1: King of Reality TV. Carlos is one of the most
- 1:45Speaker 1: sought after executive producers and reality TV. With over ten
- 1:48Speaker 1: years under his production belt, King, as Carlos King, has
- 1:52Speaker 1: quickly created a niche for himself and the docu soap arena.
- 1:55Speaker 1: He has produced high profile programs such as eight seasons
- 1:58Speaker 1: of The Real Housewives of It To, which we all
- 2:01Speaker 1: know is a niche in itself, season twenty five Oprah.
- 2:04Speaker 1: Behind the scenes, his production company, Kingdom Rain Entertainment has
- 2:09Speaker 1: created such shows A Style in Hollywood for Netflix, Love
- 2:12Speaker 1: and Marriage, hunt Field, one of my favorite shows on
- 2:14Speaker 1: on Hollywood Divas which on TV one, just to name
- 2:18Speaker 1: a few. He recently this is not read about him,
- 2:20Speaker 1: but you know, my boy, you know I ready variety
- 2:22Speaker 1: of magazine. You know he first looked deal with you
- 2:25Speaker 1: know when you get a variety, you know they're talking
- 2:27Speaker 1: about don't talk about money variety. No broke people appear
- 2:31Speaker 1: variety and listen's in the back sex, he was on
- 2:33Speaker 1: the front Sex. He's on the front page where it
- 2:35Speaker 1: Well developed original unscripted series for their own network. I
- 2:39Speaker 1: always tell people, how do you build your dreams? Well,
- 2:41Speaker 1: let's find out how. Please welcome to Money Making Conversation.
- 2:44Speaker 1: A return visit for the time of the brilliant one,
- 2:47Speaker 1: Mr Collins King, how are you doing to call us?
- 2:49Speaker 1: I'm well, thank you so much for that greatness abduction. Well,
- 2:53Speaker 1: first of all, call us you know, um, watching your
- 2:56Speaker 1: work is is uh is my introduction to the world
- 3:00Speaker 1: because of the fact that we get for the first
- 3:02Speaker 1: time we see it. Now we can talk and find
- 3:04Speaker 1: out how does that mind work? Putting any other these
- 3:07Speaker 1: projects because you're dealing with people's lives and it's really impactful.
- 3:12Speaker 1: In some ways. These are unscripted, and so you have
- 3:16Speaker 1: to kind of like set the scene like I think, uh,
- 3:20Speaker 1: Larry David or HBO kind of has an unscripted show
- 3:23Speaker 1: where people walk in the kind of set up the scene.
- 3:25Speaker 1: But it's from a comedy perspective, so you know that direction,
- 3:29Speaker 1: so you could be throwing some curves when you're developing
- 3:32Speaker 1: these shows. So talk about the process to my viewers
- 3:35Speaker 1: and listeners in the world of reality. Yeah, well again,
- 3:40Speaker 1: thanks for having me. And no, it is true when
- 3:43Speaker 1: you're dealing with real people and you're producing a reality show,
- 3:49Speaker 1: it's very challenging because you really are following the reality
- 3:54Speaker 1: of their life and off the time. That means the good,
- 3:57Speaker 1: the bad, and the ugly. And that's the reason why
- 4:00Speaker 1: my shows are so relatable is because we don't orchestrate
- 4:04Speaker 1: anything out of dramas sake. We do such a fantastic
- 4:08Speaker 1: job at the company to where we truly immerse ourselves
- 4:13Speaker 1: into the lives of our talent. And because it's such
- 4:18Speaker 1: bravery and courage for anybody to say, I want to
- 4:24Speaker 1: let cameras inside my household and into my life. That's
- 4:28Speaker 1: the privilege I don't take for granted. So because we
- 4:31Speaker 1: have to constantly make sure that the mental health of
- 4:36Speaker 1: these people are stable enough to really handle the conversation
- 4:41Speaker 1: they're having on camera and then deal with the after
- 4:43Speaker 1: effects of it when social media involved themselves. So it
- 4:47Speaker 1: is very challenging to produce. When you're doing a scripted show,
- 4:51Speaker 1: you have an actor, they're playing character. They get paid
- 4:55Speaker 1: to to to say what you wrote, and they get
- 4:58Speaker 1: paid to do the action that you directed. So it's
- 5:03Speaker 1: much easier in that sense, where in my case, I
- 5:06Speaker 1: have to follow real people who have real issues and
- 5:09Speaker 1: real story and become I'm so sensitive to them. I
- 5:14Speaker 1: make sure that we all work together to put on
- 5:16Speaker 1: a good shot. Well, one of the bigger storylines was
- 5:18Speaker 1: out of the love and marriage hunt Field. Like I said,
- 5:21Speaker 1: when you're talking about your scripted and you're talking about
- 5:24Speaker 1: this is not part of you know, you know because
- 5:26Speaker 1: all these when the when the story Because I just
- 5:29Speaker 1: recently interviewed that Kimmy and Maury Scott fantastic couple, first
- 5:32Speaker 1: time I interviewed them, and and they were just saying
- 5:35Speaker 1: they were all friends. And that's how you know, Melody
- 5:38Speaker 1: came to them with this great idea about the show,
- 5:41Speaker 1: and Martell and they all got together and they shot
- 5:44Speaker 1: about three pilots with you before it was finally picked up.
- 5:47Speaker 1: And along the way, this success, you know, this unexpected
- 5:50Speaker 1: drama comes out. It was just reality. Your reality shows.
- 5:55Speaker 1: Guess what, you can't change what happens because it's real
- 5:58Speaker 1: and that was the relationship breakup of Melody and Martel
- 6:02Speaker 1: from a crisis management How do you look at that
- 6:06Speaker 1: and how did you kind of like hold it together
- 6:10Speaker 1: respectfully and not try to explore it. Great question because
- 6:15Speaker 1: there's a fine line within that. And the main thing
- 6:19Speaker 1: that I did that a lot of other reality reality
- 6:23Speaker 1: producers don't do is I ask permission. First. I said, hey,
- 6:32Speaker 1: because you're telling me this is what you're going through,
- 6:35Speaker 1: are you comfortable sharing that on camera? Because my job
- 6:40Speaker 1: is to follow the reel. And what would be so
- 6:42Speaker 1: unfortunate is if the entire town knows about this infidelity
- 6:48Speaker 1: and you're on TV pretending you're in a great marriage,
- 6:53Speaker 1: you are going to lose in the end because when
- 6:55Speaker 1: people watch reality TV, they want to see authenticity. So
- 7:00Speaker 1: the permission that I asked Melody and Martell was, if
- 7:05Speaker 1: you trust me to handle this story with tender love
- 7:11Speaker 1: and care, I promise you would come out of this
- 7:14Speaker 1: never fully exploited, and at the end of the day,
- 7:17Speaker 1: you courtesy of being transparent, You're going to affect a
- 7:22Speaker 1: lot of black households who are dealing with this issue,
- 7:25Speaker 1: and they will look to you as to what to
- 7:28Speaker 1: do right and what to do wrong, and all of
- 7:30Speaker 1: a sudden, you're going to become the voice of this
- 7:32Speaker 1: topic and the voice of this topic because you know Melody,
- 7:36Speaker 1: you know she's come out of this as a uh
- 7:40Speaker 1: mom entrepreneur, you know, powerful, strong, Uh look fantastic and uh.
- 7:47Speaker 1: And sometimes when I look at the show, I look
- 7:49Speaker 1: at Martel confused, this is my this is me talking
- 7:52Speaker 1: um angry, don't know the direction he wants to go
- 7:55Speaker 1: with his life. And so you, as a producer, you
- 7:59Speaker 1: see these things happening, do you give advice or do
- 8:03Speaker 1: you just let it play off and say, this is
- 8:05Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. Are you comfortable what we're gonna do?
- 8:07Speaker 1: Or do you ever offer advice to the individuals who
- 8:10Speaker 1: are playing out these real life characters? Carlos, Yeah, I
- 8:14Speaker 1: do live in a boat. So primarily I followed the
- 8:17Speaker 1: reality of what they're going through because because what I
- 8:21Speaker 1: like for my audience to see again is the authenticity
- 8:25Speaker 1: of someone dealing with pain and joy. Right, So when Martell,
- 8:30Speaker 1: when you watch the show and you see Martell struggling
- 8:33Speaker 1: with light after divorce. Yes, I think a lot of
- 8:37Speaker 1: black men, specifically black men, and they may have stepped
- 8:43Speaker 1: outside of their marriage and their wives leave them. They
- 8:47Speaker 1: struggle with the realization that my infidelity ruined this, this
- 8:54Speaker 1: relationship that I adored and and and who am I
- 8:58Speaker 1: outside of being married to this woman who we were
- 9:01Speaker 1: a partner in all of this. And I think you're
- 9:05Speaker 1: seeing some regret or Martel's behalf. And as a black
- 9:09Speaker 1: man producing the show, I cannot sit back watch this
- 9:14Speaker 1: man go through this pain and not offer some sort
- 9:18Speaker 1: of advice to help from heal. So I definitely have
- 9:23Speaker 1: had numerous conversations with Marquel, most recently two weeks ago,
- 9:32Speaker 1: because I love them all and I want to make
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- 11:32Speaker 1: you know the thing about it is that you said
- 11:34Speaker 1: it earlier about social media, because that's one of the
- 11:37Speaker 1: biggest churches and benefits of modern day success, you know.
- 11:42Speaker 1: But the reality TV it can be even worse because,
- 11:45Speaker 1: unlike a script, you're just playing a carec that's my
- 11:47Speaker 1: carrec they told me to write that, you know, where
- 11:49Speaker 1: realities show. How does social media work for you? And
- 11:53Speaker 1: how do you tell a talent because they are talents,
- 11:57Speaker 1: you know, whether they playing themselves or not, they are
- 12:00Speaker 1: our talent. How do you recommend to talent that's playing
- 12:03Speaker 1: out a life that they can go to the grocery
- 12:06Speaker 1: store and she really is Mortel, you know, he, she
- 12:08Speaker 1: really is Kimmy, he really is more reaches, she really
- 12:11Speaker 1: is a teacher, teacher. All these people are going to
- 12:14Speaker 1: the grocery store being themselves. So social media can be
- 12:17Speaker 1: very painful in the world of social media. Do you
- 12:20Speaker 1: encourage them to do social media or that's that's their
- 12:23Speaker 1: own thing. You walk away. They grown people, They deal
- 12:26Speaker 1: with it what they have to deal with it. I
- 12:30Speaker 1: discouraged them for reading the comments on social social media. Yeah,
- 12:34Speaker 1: I think you have to use social media what it's for,
- 12:38Speaker 1: and that's engagement, and that is promoting whatever vehicle you
- 12:44Speaker 1: have to to get the word out. And once he posts,
- 12:48Speaker 1: you leave right. You don't stay on the red because
- 12:53Speaker 1: the number one to say I can make is read
- 13:01Speaker 1: comments of what other people are saying about them. Because
- 13:06Speaker 1: what I've learned through social media, and I love social media,
- 13:09Speaker 1: but I learned this, the meanest comments get the most reaction.
- 13:14Speaker 1: So it's a game that people on social media are
- 13:18Speaker 1: playing in terms of how can I trump this comment
- 13:23Speaker 1: so that mind can get the most traction. In order
- 13:26Speaker 1: to do that, you have to get meaner and nastier,
- 13:30Speaker 1: and that can really affect so much mental health. So
- 13:33Speaker 1: I tell my reality stars, do not read the comment
- 13:38Speaker 1: because it will ruin your day. Yes, that will remain
- 13:42Speaker 1: me ruin your life if you just keep reading that
- 13:44Speaker 1: feed on a daily basis. But they don't started somewhere
- 13:46Speaker 1: else for you, not on we just talked about the
- 13:49Speaker 1: current success. When did you realize how did you get
- 13:52Speaker 1: into the game. You know, we've had this conversation before.
- 13:54Speaker 1: We have new listeners and new views, but I want
- 13:57Speaker 1: to talk because I want everybody wants to do what
- 13:59Speaker 1: you do. Calls okay, but again, you have a gift
- 14:02Speaker 1: and I tell people, you know, I was a sitcom
- 14:05Speaker 1: writer and believe there were more talented sitcom writers than me,
- 14:08Speaker 1: and I could tell there was a difference between just
- 14:10Speaker 1: like there's a difference between the Michael Jordan's and a
- 14:12Speaker 1: player who was drafted in the first round. Their talents,
- 14:15Speaker 1: and you have that special gift, that that certain I
- 14:19Speaker 1: what makes you so special? And I'm not saying that
- 14:22Speaker 1: in a negative way, but obviously you see things different.
- 14:25Speaker 1: Call os, why and how did that? How was it
- 14:29Speaker 1: introduced to you when you first got into reality television.
- 14:34Speaker 1: Because I was a kid who was sort of a
- 14:37Speaker 1: nerd going up to Detroit. I would watch endless hours
- 14:46Speaker 1: of television, which included everything from the Oprah Winfrey Show
- 14:51Speaker 1: to the local news two. I'm a kid watching the
- 14:55Speaker 1: datelin NBC like I was a student, uh, people, I
- 15:00Speaker 1: was a student of character. I was a student of knowledge,
- 15:04Speaker 1: and because of that, I thought I would become a
- 15:08Speaker 1: psychologist because I just love to get in the minds
- 15:11Speaker 1: of people and and really understand their behavior. So, because
- 15:15Speaker 1: I had all of that education growing up, when I
- 15:19Speaker 1: decided to major and journalism in college and minor psychology,
- 15:26Speaker 1: I took both um gifts that I had a journalism
- 15:30Speaker 1: and psychology and applied it to what I do today.
- 15:33Speaker 1: So when I got an internship at BT, I just
- 15:37Speaker 1: started to really climb the ladder and I got a
- 15:40Speaker 1: job there, and I got offered to do a reality
- 15:43Speaker 1: show because my friends and the business knew that I
- 15:46Speaker 1: loved reality TV. And the first reality show I was offered,
- 15:51Speaker 1: funny enough, was The Real Housewife of Atlanta. It was
- 15:55Speaker 1: a brand new show in two thousand and eight, and
- 15:58Speaker 1: it was my first pray into reality. So when you
- 16:01Speaker 1: talk about a gift, I think it's the gift of
- 16:04Speaker 1: the fact that I studied people, so I know people,
- 16:10Speaker 1: I know behavior, and I know a star within five
- 16:16Speaker 1: seconds of talking to that awesome. But also, let's let's
- 16:19Speaker 1: talk about reality coming into it, because there was a
- 16:22Speaker 1: lot of negative about being that reality game. You know,
- 16:25Speaker 1: it wasn't real, it was it was cheesy, it was offensive.
- 16:29Speaker 1: A lot of the h a lot of the shows
- 16:31Speaker 1: are really aggressive, also show black women in a very
- 16:34Speaker 1: negative light. So how did you, being a guy who's
- 16:38Speaker 1: a fan of reality TV, how did you say? Did
- 16:41Speaker 1: you have a vision call us when you came on
- 16:43Speaker 1: board and say I'm not gonna do that type of
- 16:45Speaker 1: reality TV? This is why I want to approach you.
- 16:47Speaker 1: Talk about that whole approach of organizing, that thought process
- 16:50Speaker 1: of you coming into the reality game. Okay cool, I'm
- 16:54Speaker 1: with you. Okay cool. So when I got my star
- 17:00Speaker 1: in reality TV again, my first show was The Royal
- 17:03Speaker 1: Housewife in Atlanta, and obviously that was a very entertaining
- 17:07Speaker 1: show that had a lot of arguments and big fights
- 17:09Speaker 1: and things like that. Because that show wasn't produced by
- 17:14Speaker 1: a company that I started, I was a worker b
- 17:18Speaker 1: who followed the guidelines of how to produce that particular show.
- 17:24Speaker 1: And the moment I became the executive producer of that show,
- 17:28Speaker 1: a ship happened in my thought of let's make it
- 17:31Speaker 1: less about these cat fights and more about what's happening
- 17:34Speaker 1: inside the households of these people. So that the season
- 17:38Speaker 1: that I became the executive producer is the highest rated
- 17:42Speaker 1: season of that show to date. The moment that happened
- 17:48Speaker 1: is when I decided to start my company, Kingdom Rank Entertainment,
- 17:52Speaker 1: because I did have a consciousness of saying I know
- 17:56Speaker 1: a lot of Black people who wanted the reality TV
- 17:59Speaker 1: but they think they have to sell their soul and
- 18:02Speaker 1: have a physical altercation to make that happen. And I
- 18:06Speaker 1: wanted to be the alternative to that. So when you
- 18:10Speaker 1: watch Love and Marriage Huntsville, for example, you see these
- 18:14Speaker 1: beautiful black people who are successful. That's only showing you
- 18:19Speaker 1: what really is happening in their lives, in their households.
- 18:23Speaker 1: And that show has become the number one show on
- 18:26Speaker 1: the network and there has not been a physical altercation
- 18:31Speaker 1: on that show. So that proves of people. When you
- 18:35Speaker 1: build something that is true to you, people will come
- 18:39Speaker 1: where it was. It was one that came close well,
- 18:42Speaker 1: I believe when the where the Martel was on the
- 18:45Speaker 1: patio with with Melody and he told her why she
- 18:51Speaker 1: why he cheated on her because she blah blah blah blah,
- 18:55Speaker 1: and she threw some many come on, call U the collum.
- 19:00Speaker 1: I had to shot out that scared y'all, call that
- 19:03Speaker 1: scared y'all? No, you are accurate. So was what what
- 19:08Speaker 1: was very tally about that bump man colors? You don't
- 19:15Speaker 1: tell no black woman come another woman does better. That's
- 19:21Speaker 1: where I got from it, and I think a lot
- 19:24Speaker 1: of men watch that show and said, I'm gonna keep
- 19:26Speaker 1: my mouth shut, dude to call us. When he said that,
- 19:29Speaker 1: I was like, are you kidding me? Dude? Are you
- 19:32Speaker 1: really kidding me? In front of friends, Cameras are rolling,
- 19:38Speaker 1: and you're gonna see this to Melodie and she's not
- 19:42Speaker 1: going to react on this show. I saw that bad
- 19:44Speaker 1: when if I IF I you know, you know when
- 19:46Speaker 1: growing up calls you your your your parents are popping
- 19:49Speaker 1: in the back of the head. They should have popped
- 19:51Speaker 1: so one of you should have came out of the audience.
- 19:53Speaker 1: You should came out front the care and say, I'm
- 19:55Speaker 1: gonna tell them about do something that your parents did
- 19:58Speaker 1: to you when you was a kid. I'm a popular
- 19:59Speaker 1: in the back, your big dumb head. I laughed so,
- 20:03Speaker 1: but I also felt so bad because I went, dude,
- 20:06Speaker 1: you know that was that was uncalled for. But that
- 20:09Speaker 1: that's the closest you've come on that show. Because she
- 20:12Speaker 1: threw something. I swear to you she threw it for real,
- 20:15Speaker 1: She threw it in for real. She she has good aim.
- 20:19Speaker 1: I'll say that, Well, the beauty of you callers is that,
- 20:23Speaker 1: you know, Oprah Winfred you said early in your conversation
- 20:27Speaker 1: that you watched The Growing Up. And I'm gonna just
- 20:30Speaker 1: share an example of me. Sometimes when you get in
- 20:32Speaker 1: the position, you meet stars or you and you kind
- 20:35Speaker 1: of like pull back a little bit. You feel like
- 20:38Speaker 1: in the rain though I don't really belong here, this
- 20:40Speaker 1: really happening to me. And then you realize, hey, this stop, stop,
- 20:45Speaker 1: stop all that ignorance. It is happening to you because
- 20:48Speaker 1: your work has put you there. Just happen to you,
- 20:50Speaker 1: because the respect has put you there. It's happening to
- 20:52Speaker 1: you because you're supposed to be there. When did all
- 20:55Speaker 1: that coming to you? Because because I know you, we
- 20:58Speaker 1: share similar qualities, so we've of for a humble you know.
- 21:01Speaker 1: I come from a nerdy background, you know, and and uh,
- 21:05Speaker 1: some people I tell people I was shot, and look,
- 21:06Speaker 1: you never shot where It's just I was, you know,
- 21:09Speaker 1: Yes I was, Yes, I was, you know, And so
- 21:11Speaker 1: I just had to fight through it and then realized
- 21:14Speaker 1: that my opinion mattered in my opinion matters, then you
- 21:17Speaker 1: have to tell people what your opinion is and that's
- 21:19Speaker 1: who you are. So when you elevate yourself to do
- 21:22Speaker 1: this behind the scenes for Oprah, what were your thought
- 21:26Speaker 1: process and where did you come to coming to to
- 21:29Speaker 1: introspective about yourself as a talent and where you're at
- 21:33Speaker 1: in that point of your career. You know what was
- 21:37Speaker 1: so interesting is I'm a man of faith, and I
- 21:39Speaker 1: believe in prayer, and I believe and and and just
- 21:43Speaker 1: you know, believing in God and praying to Him. So
- 21:46Speaker 1: to be a kid watching Oprah with erea show and
- 21:49Speaker 1: then decade later having the opportunity to I tell people
- 21:54Speaker 1: all the time, I got paid to follow her around, Right,
- 21:58Speaker 1: that's that's that's a good job. I So the moment
- 22:04Speaker 1: I was around her to me gave me the the
- 22:09Speaker 1: confirmation that God was saying to me, I want you
- 22:15Speaker 1: to see what's possible and and and I want you
- 22:19Speaker 1: to shadow a woman you look up to, a black
- 22:23Speaker 1: billionaire because I am seeding the steps in terms of
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- 22:33Speaker 1: a way of saying, I now know what I have
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- 22:41Speaker 1: the permission that I needed from my internal self to
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- 24:21Speaker 1: grows in the forest trees? Sure no? What else grows
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- 24:39Speaker 1: The forest is closer than you think. Find a forest
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- 24:58Speaker 1: of wonder, and our family runs grow too, because when
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- 25:21Speaker 1: the interesting thing when I when I listened to you talk,
- 25:23Speaker 1: and if we are if everything is a journey and
- 25:25Speaker 1: you know that call us, you know, because we all dream,
- 25:28Speaker 1: we all hope, we prayed, and but it's the work
- 25:31Speaker 1: ethic and then it's what you've been given. Because each
- 25:33Speaker 1: network has a different budget. A lot of people you
- 25:36Speaker 1: would love to think you work with the same budget
- 25:38Speaker 1: on TV, wanna Netflix or on a b et they
- 25:41Speaker 1: all have different budget, but you have you still have
- 25:43Speaker 1: to deliver a first class project. So how do you
- 25:46Speaker 1: work with the budgets on that the that are given
- 25:49Speaker 1: to you? And then how do you assess? How do
- 25:52Speaker 1: your staff and you know, do you call in favors?
- 25:55Speaker 1: Sometimes you don't take care of your on this and
- 25:57Speaker 1: come come take care of me on this? How that work?
- 26:00Speaker 1: Because billing your brain is about relationships. I know that
- 26:03Speaker 1: for a fact, and relationships have helped me when I
- 26:06Speaker 1: when when I've transitioned in my career. Relationship about helping you.
- 26:09Speaker 1: But now you're the guy who who you you're the
- 26:11Speaker 1: hip maker. Now you're the hip maker, so people expect
- 26:14Speaker 1: you to get when they come to you, to get paid,
- 26:16Speaker 1: So those little requests they actually won't. Hey man, I remember,
- 26:20Speaker 1: remember me when I took care of you? So how
- 26:22Speaker 1: does that work with you? Because now you have a
- 26:24Speaker 1: first looked deal with own and that qualifies you as Ah,
- 26:27Speaker 1: that's the ultimate man when somebody say, look, we're just
- 26:29Speaker 1: gonna give you a deal to create shows, and that's
- 26:33Speaker 1: the blessing of your journey. So talk about that when
- 26:36Speaker 1: you when it was approached to you, and what were
- 26:38Speaker 1: the first thoughts that ran through your mind when Owned
- 26:40Speaker 1: said here's the first look, first look deal for you
- 26:43Speaker 1: and your company, Kingdom Rain Entertainment. It was It was
- 26:48Speaker 1: magical because my company became what we called the business,
- 26:54Speaker 1: a full service production company, which means that the buck
- 26:58Speaker 1: stops here. Yes we know, we don't have a co
- 27:01Speaker 1: production with another like everything begins and ends with Kingdom
- 27:05Speaker 1: Rank Entertainment. So to have that within the first year
- 27:10Speaker 1: of launching the company is nothing but God's favor on
- 27:15Speaker 1: my life. So I needed that in order to show
- 27:19Speaker 1: the marketplace right that I am the little engine that could.
- 27:24Speaker 1: This black man who owns his own company has the
- 27:29Speaker 1: has the respect of Oprah Winfrey of saying, I want
- 27:33Speaker 1: you to create shows for my network. So when you
- 27:37Speaker 1: talk about budgets with other networks, yeah, you have to definitely,
- 27:43Speaker 1: you know Rob Peter to you know, give Paul and
- 27:46Speaker 1: all those things because you know, you have to use
- 27:50Speaker 1: what's given to you and that can be challenging. And yes,
- 27:53Speaker 1: you have the call in favors from people who you
- 27:55Speaker 1: kind of grew up within the business. Like you said,
- 27:57Speaker 1: relationships are key, so I have Yah. Well, the beauty
- 28:02Speaker 1: of you, my friend, is this. You know, you You're
- 28:05Speaker 1: You're master the world. I can't do you know, And
- 28:08Speaker 1: and that's a good thing because like I said, you know,
- 28:11Speaker 1: it means you're you're creating a brand. And all the
- 28:14Speaker 1: years of working with different projects, which one challenge you
- 28:17Speaker 1: the most. I'm talking about not a negative challenge, but
- 28:19Speaker 1: production wise and creatively And you went, Wow, that was
- 28:23Speaker 1: a lot of work, man, But I'm glad I got
- 28:25Speaker 1: it done. Which project of all the projects you've done
- 28:27Speaker 1: that really pushed you creatively and really test your personality
- 28:32Speaker 1: and your sanity. I think I said that right. I
- 28:37Speaker 1: think I got it really right. So you can say
- 28:39Speaker 1: a good response, okay. Uh. I had to show a
- 28:46Speaker 1: BT called BT Persons the Encore last week. We how
- 28:50Speaker 1: It Sees the Finality absolutely, and that was the most
- 28:53Speaker 1: challenging show to date of my career because I had
- 28:57Speaker 1: to it was a house reality t show and we
- 29:01Speaker 1: had thirty days to shoot a show twenty four seven
- 29:05Speaker 1: for thirty days of these former girl group members living
- 29:10Speaker 1: in a house together to form a supergroup, and you're
- 29:14Speaker 1: dealing with personalities and music and again it's around the
- 29:20Speaker 1: clock for thirty days. And that pushed me to a
- 29:23Speaker 1: place that I didn't know existed in terms of my
- 29:27Speaker 1: brain having the capacity to handle this. And and it
- 29:32Speaker 1: was such a good gift to to have um because
- 29:36Speaker 1: it allowed me to want to push things further in
- 29:40Speaker 1: the shows I'm producing. Well, it's interesting thing about it,
- 29:43Speaker 1: because you were dealing with some level of frustration with talent,
- 29:47Speaker 1: you know, who felt that they should be bigger or
- 29:50Speaker 1: felt that they were wrong. And they see this and
- 29:52Speaker 1: some of them say yes to doing things, but they
- 29:54Speaker 1: don't want to do the work. You know. You know,
- 29:57Speaker 1: if that's the point that frustrate you, why are you here?
- 29:59Speaker 1: Then well, you know, why are you wasting my time?
- 30:02Speaker 1: I'm not gonna curry, but why are you wasting my time?
- 30:04Speaker 1: That's the part that makes you mad. Okay, you knew
- 30:06Speaker 1: what you were signing up for. Now you now you
- 30:08Speaker 1: gotta add to Okay, But the thing that really came
- 30:12Speaker 1: into players is COVID. You have to produce all these
- 30:15Speaker 1: shows under these conditions of testing and multiple testing. And
- 30:19Speaker 1: the beauty of seeing what Tyler Perry did. He he
- 30:23Speaker 1: kind of like wrote the template by compile and put
- 30:26Speaker 1: a hotel on it, you know, and then imprison your
- 30:29Speaker 1: cast for two weeks and then send them off working
- 30:32Speaker 1: Twitter four hour day and set them all wrap twentter
- 30:34Speaker 1: four episodes. And so with that being the case, how
- 30:38Speaker 1: did it affect your production and how and what did
- 30:40Speaker 1: you what did you gain from it as a producer
- 30:42Speaker 1: call us listen, safety is first thing. You're dealing with
- 30:46Speaker 1: a global pandemic, So yes, we have to be multiple testing,
- 30:49Speaker 1: you know. Thankfully everyone was negative and we were able
- 30:53Speaker 1: to make sure that our cast and crew was saved
- 30:56Speaker 1: for all the productions we have going on the Kingdom
- 30:58Speaker 1: rank Entertainment for that was the greatest thing about it
- 31:01Speaker 1: as well. But no, it allowed everybody to know that
- 31:07Speaker 1: there is a necessity for unscripted in this business because
- 31:12Speaker 1: my counterparts and scripted didn't I have the right to
- 31:17Speaker 1: to do this because it was such an expensive feed,
- 31:21Speaker 1: So un scripted we did. Now with that been saying,
- 31:24Speaker 1: my friend m a hit show when you do this.
- 31:28Speaker 1: This is my only favor. I asked, man. You know
- 31:30Speaker 1: whenever you do these things are rap shows or the
- 31:32Speaker 1: end of the season show. Just consider your boy is
- 31:35Speaker 1: one of your hosts. I come on in, man, you
- 31:37Speaker 1: you got you got the first look there. Just considered
- 31:39Speaker 1: the man in the suit. Well you know you watch
- 31:42Speaker 1: your shows called I come in and hosted. Man, I
- 31:45Speaker 1: know everybody in the cast, they know me and we'll
- 31:47Speaker 1: do our think. But man, love you by the day.
- 31:49Speaker 1: Oh thank you. But I just want to tell you,
- 31:51Speaker 1: but I respect you. Man. One day we will be
- 31:54Speaker 1: but the beauty of what you do. Man, I so
- 31:56Speaker 1: respect and I and it's just the quality of work
- 31:59Speaker 1: and seeing you make this transition because at one time
- 32:02Speaker 1: reality was a bad thing. It was a bad thing,
- 32:04Speaker 1: was a very negative thing. And you've turned it with
- 32:07Speaker 1: your skill, with your eye and forced other people to
- 32:11Speaker 1: follow your lead. Thank you, Thank you call us for
- 32:13Speaker 1: doing that. Thank you so much. So I appreciate that.
- 32:16Speaker 1: I appreciate. If you want to hear or see any
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