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FULL SHOW: Stressed Cities, Strawberry Letter: Under The Covers Only - 7.9.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all at all
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  Speaker 2: at all, So.
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  Speaker 3: Don't given them back a million bush?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, listening to.
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  Speaker 3: Show, I don't joy? Well, yeah, Joy, you gotta use that.
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  Speaker 1: You turn, you gotta turn to turn the mouth turn.
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  Speaker 3: I probably got to turn the mouth out of the money.
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  Speaker 4: Look, come.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, you think that, Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on,
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  Speaker 2: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a
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  Speaker 2: radio show. Okay. I want to share something with you
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  Speaker 2: that I had to come to the realization one time,
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  Speaker 2: and even in the reinvention of myself right now, I've
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  Speaker 2: had to come to that and I want to share
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  Speaker 2: it with you today. Give it to you. I want
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  Speaker 2: to tell you about something that a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: do in their life and I want you to be
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  Speaker 2: aware of it. Here it is, don't get stuck on yourself.
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  Speaker 2: You could be wrong.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 2: I said, don't get stuck on yourself. You could be wrong.
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  Speaker 6: You know.
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  Speaker 2: The reason I'm saying this is because people have a
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  Speaker 2: tendency to once they make a decision about something, or
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  Speaker 2: once they decide to go a certain path. They go
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  Speaker 2: against all everything, anything anybody says, anything anybody might do,
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  Speaker 2: any other ruling they may come across. They shun advice,
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  Speaker 2: They don't listen to counsel. They just I made the decision.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it anyway. Don't get stuck on yourself.
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  Speaker 2: You could be wrong, you know. Now here's a sure
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  Speaker 2: fire way to tell if you're wrong. If you don't
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  Speaker 2: see any movement in the direction you've chosen, if you
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  Speaker 2: don't see anything going right in that decision, If you
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  Speaker 2: feel as though you're in a rut, if the wall
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  Speaker 2: you're climbing seems so insurmountable that you ain't even moving
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  Speaker 2: an inch, and every time you turn around you keep
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  Speaker 2: getting knocked by down, knocked back down. Don't get stuck
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  Speaker 2: on yourself. You know you could be wrong, you know. See,
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  Speaker 2: that's why it's important for people to always be open
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  Speaker 2: to the reinvention of yourself. You know, you cannot be
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  Speaker 2: afraid to reinvent yourself. In other words, you can't be
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  Speaker 2: afraid to change. Change is necessary when it comes to growth.
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  Speaker 2: There is no growth without change. The more you know,
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  Speaker 2: the older you look, that is no growth without change.
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  Speaker 2: If you're heading in a direction. It ain't nothing going
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  Speaker 2: right in your life? Could it be the wrong If
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  Speaker 2: you're climbing and you're making no headway, could it be
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  Speaker 2: the wrong direction? Could you have possibly made the wrong choice.
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  Speaker 2: Don't get stuck on yourself cause you done made the
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  Speaker 2: wrong It's okay to forgive yourself. It's okay to let
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  Speaker 2: yourself off the hook. It's even smarter sometimes to admit
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  Speaker 2: that you were wrong. You ever met somebody ain't ever wrong?
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  Speaker 2: Have you ever met somebody you talk to? They ain't
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  Speaker 2: ever wrong about nothing? Man, They just it's they way
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  Speaker 2: or the highway. It's this is my way, this is
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  Speaker 2: the I know people like that, stuck on them power
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  Speaker 2: trips and all like that. You know what I had
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  Speaker 2: to learn how to do. I had to learn how
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  Speaker 2: to let them go on them power trips. But listen
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  Speaker 2: to this. Though you're not taking me on that trip.
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  Speaker 2: Though you going on that trip by yourself, I'm going
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  Speaker 2: in the right direction. I decided to stop the way. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: listen to this person. This person, I decided to stop
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  Speaker 2: doing business the way I was doing business. I decided
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  Speaker 2: to stop to allow business being done around me the
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  Speaker 2: way business was being done around me. You know, the
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  Speaker 2: best decision I made was to allow for God to
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  Speaker 2: have some say so and to offer me his direction.
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  Speaker 2: I have found him to be a better driver than
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  Speaker 2: anyone else I know. I have found him to know
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  Speaker 2: more about the man he made than anybody else who's
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  Speaker 2: merely associating with me. I have found it to be
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  Speaker 2: a fact that my maker knows more about the vehicle
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  Speaker 2: he created than does anybody else. If your Chevy break,
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  Speaker 2: don't you take it to Chevy. You don't take your
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  Speaker 2: Forward when it breaks down to a Toyota dealership. They
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  Speaker 2: not gonna know everything that the Ford dealership would know
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  Speaker 2: about the vehicle. You know why, because they're not the
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  Speaker 2: maker of it it. So, now, why are you letting?
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  Speaker 2: You're letting your life being led, controlled and guided by
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  Speaker 2: somebody other than your maker. I'm just asking you to
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  Speaker 2: let's all take a common sense look at this. So,
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  Speaker 2: if going to your maker is the best way, the
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  Speaker 2: best decision I made in my business was take over
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  Speaker 2: my brand myself and to allow the maker of this brand.
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  Speaker 2: See without God, I'm none of this. I'm none of this.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to clearly understand I ain't none of
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  Speaker 2: this without him. I wish I could have the guts
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  Speaker 2: to reach back there and pat myself on the back
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  Speaker 2: for what I've accomplished in my life. I wish I
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  Speaker 2: had the guts. I wish the nerve of me because
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  Speaker 2: I know for a fact that there is no way
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  Speaker 2: that I could have manufactured the life that I have.
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  Speaker 2: I could not even have thought of it. It's no
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  Speaker 2: way I could have told you that this was the
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  Speaker 2: route I was gonna take, and this is the outcome
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  Speaker 2: because of it. I had no idea, no clue. The
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  Speaker 2: one thing I had, though, was an unshakable faith in God.
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  Speaker 2: I had an un and I just kept believing in him.
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  Speaker 2: I kept believing that he had something more for me.
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  Speaker 2: And then when I touched base with him and asked
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  Speaker 2: him to show me what it is what he had
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  Speaker 2: for me, Tada, the magic show began. Because you know
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  Speaker 2: what he did. He took all my natural abilities that
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  Speaker 2: he had given to me, This gift that he gave me,
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  Speaker 2: that he poured into me at birth, that same gift
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  Speaker 2: that he poured into you at birth. The moment you
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  Speaker 2: go to him and let him show you that gift,
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  Speaker 2: and then guess what. Once he takes what he naturally
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  Speaker 2: put in you and put his super his superpowers on
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  Speaker 2: top of that. Then you have some supernatural things going
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  Speaker 2: on in your life and you may not be feeling me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm cool with that, but I done have some supernatural
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  Speaker 2: things happen to me. Every day I wake up some
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  Speaker 2: supernatural the man, the rewards of my life, the awards
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  Speaker 2: of my life, the accomplishments, the how I'm working, the
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  Speaker 2: how I manage it. All, all that ain't nothing but God.
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  Speaker 2: That ain't nothing but God. You can't even explain this
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  Speaker 2: schedule to people. Sometimes when people ask me, Steve, how
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  Speaker 2: do you do it? I go, well, this is when
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  Speaker 2: I manage my time. Then at the end of when
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  Speaker 2: I get through, I say, hey, man, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I need to tell y'all for real, it's God. I
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  Speaker 2: don't really know, but I'm letting him manage me. So
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  Speaker 2: he handling it. He ain't gonna put no more on
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  Speaker 2: me than I can bear. Listen to me, y'all, don't
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  Speaker 2: be afraid to reinvent yourself and remember this. Don't get
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  Speaker 2: stuck on yourself because you could be wrong. You know,
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  Speaker 2: you absolutely could be wrong. If you don't tie this
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  Speaker 2: to your gift, you will be struggling the rest of
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  Speaker 2: your life.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, everybody from around the world.
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  Speaker 2: You are listening right now to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man,
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  Speaker 2: ain't nothing like it.
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  Speaker 6: Now.
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  Speaker 2: Look, there are other morning shows out there, and you
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  Speaker 2: free to do what you want to do. But the
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  Speaker 2: fact that you chose to ride with us this morning, well,
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  Speaker 2: we appreciate it that We're gonna try to do our
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  Speaker 2: best to first of all, have gratitude to remind you
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  Speaker 2: of your spiritual element in this life. You've got to
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  Speaker 2: have God. Man, Please, y'all. I ain't beating you over
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  Speaker 2: the head with it. Okay, well I am. I'm beating
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  Speaker 2: you over the head with it. You need the Lord. Man.
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  Speaker 2: Mess this thing up. Man, you too close to the gate.
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  Speaker 2: Come on now, there ain't nothing wrong with having a
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  Speaker 2: relationship with God. Don't nobody fool you. God is necessary, man,
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  Speaker 2: do you feel me? I mean, He is necessary. You're
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  Speaker 2: gonna run up into some way. It can't be nobody
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  Speaker 2: but God. Now what you're gonna do? Then, well, what
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  Speaker 2: have you done? Well, let me tell you what you did.
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  Speaker 2: He probably carried you through it anyway, because he's full
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  Speaker 2: of grace and mercy and he's forgiving God, and he
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  Speaker 2: knows sometimes you're stupid and you're gonna do some old
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  Speaker 2: ignorant mess and then you gonna then when he brings
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  Speaker 2: you through it, and now you're gonna sit up and
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  Speaker 2: talking about who I'm made it through that? You ain't
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  Speaker 2: made it through nothing. He carried you over them hot coals.
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  Speaker 2: He came and got you out of that rushing water.
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  Speaker 2: That was that's grace. Okay, Well, just about to turn
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  Speaker 2: into something else. Hope y'all feel hot this morning. You
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  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Welcome to the riot, y'all. Shirley
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  Speaker 2: Strawberry calling for real Mississippi Monica. First day I've ever
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  Speaker 2: seen Monica drag in to work after the production and
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  Speaker 2: all that, first time ever. We'll find out what's going
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  Speaker 2: on with that. Well, I ain't got to find out
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  Speaker 2: what's going on with him. Junior to come back kid,
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  Speaker 2: all right now? The legend that he is, nephew, Tommy junr.
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  Speaker 2: It's going on with your little pimp, Oh man, I'm
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  Speaker 2: good man.
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  Speaker 7: Let me ask you this, uncle, what is your warning
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  Speaker 7: routine when you get up with God, what do you
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  Speaker 7: be saying to him in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's if I start with gratitude. That's first, you know.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I got I got a list now that
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  Speaker 2: things I be wanting. But and sometimes if I'm not careful,
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  Speaker 2: I rush to that list. But I stopped myself quickly
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  Speaker 2: and remember all that He's done for me, and show
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  Speaker 2: gratitude for the things he's done. The more you're grateful for,
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  Speaker 2: the more He will give you to be grateful for.
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  Speaker 2: And then I've learned how to pray differently as I've
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  Speaker 2: gotten a little bit older. You know, I always Now
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  Speaker 2: I just started incorporating the prayers for others. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: just my immediate family, but other people that I know
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  Speaker 2: that may be going through some stuff. I make sure
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  Speaker 2: I pray for them too. Now, yeah, huh that question.
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  Speaker 2: And I've started openly letting go of a lot of
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  Speaker 2: stuff that I've been holding on to, you know, that
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  Speaker 2: wasn't doing me no good. And I think that part
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  Speaker 2: has made me feel a lot better. It it has
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  Speaker 2: something to do with your health and everything. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: carry in the sickness. That's my morning ritual. And then
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  Speaker 2: I come in here, see what's wrong with you, and
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  Speaker 2: then I take it from now.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, all right, great questions jus.
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  Speaker 2: To the end. I've just got to wrap it up
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  Speaker 2: some kind of way.
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  Speaker 5: We'll run that prank back with a nephew right after this.
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  Speaker 5: You're listening hard morning show. It's summertime, and I leave.
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  Speaker 5: It's here to keep you on the go, whether it's planes, trains,
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  Speaker 5: or automobiles. Leaves got your back with up to twelve
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  Speaker 5: hours of back pain relief. With just one dose, you'll
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  Speaker 5: get to your destination. So back your sunscreen, your shades,
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  Speaker 5: and you're a leave. No matter where your final stop.
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  Speaker 5: A leaf will keep you moving from sun up to sundown.
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  Speaker 5: A leave's got your back this summer peel A leave
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  Speaker 5: use as directed for minor aches and pains.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now to run that prank back with
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  Speaker 1: the nephew. What you got for his nephew?
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  Speaker 2: I got butt Man, Shirley butt Man?
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  Speaker 1: Why did I ask? Why did I ask?
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  Speaker 2: This is butt Man.
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  Speaker 6: Let's jump up on this Uh, let's jump on this
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  Speaker 6: copy machine and get us a nice come man.
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  Speaker 1: That's how we said.
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  Speaker 8: Dog.
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  Speaker 6: If you would, let's go butt man. If you want
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  Speaker 6: to see it for real, it's the butt Man. Hello, Hey,
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  Speaker 6: I'm trying to read Vaughan. Please, Von, This is Darius.
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  Speaker 6: Darius Woo human Resources.
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  Speaker 2: How are you?
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  Speaker 4: I'm doing fine? Can I help you? Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: Listen, we have an incident that has taken place at
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  Speaker 6: the job you actually.
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  Speaker 1: What floor are you on?
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  Speaker 2: Von?
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  Speaker 1: I'm all for twelve floor twelve?
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  Speaker 2: All right? So do you use the copy machine that
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  Speaker 2: often on that floor?
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  Speaker 4: Not all the time, but I do use it every
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  Speaker 4: once in a while.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, every once in a while. So here's what's going on.
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  Speaker 6: There's gonna be some actions being taken place here pretty soon,
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  Speaker 6: some legal actions, and we're just clearing everybody. You know,
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  Speaker 6: this is just a proper procedure that we're having to
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  Speaker 6: go through. So let me just kind of enlighten you
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  Speaker 6: on what's taking place. Someone on the twelfth floor has
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  Speaker 6: copied their butt on a piece of paper in the
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  Speaker 6: copy machine. So someone actually sat up on the xerox
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  Speaker 6: machine and copied their butt. Why someone would do that,
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  Speaker 6: I have no earthly idea. But what's happening now is
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  Speaker 6: everyone on your floor is going to have to come
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  Speaker 6: in and show their butt. So we're scheduling this now.
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  Speaker 6: I'm thinking Friday at eleven a m would.
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  Speaker 4: That be so y'all, y'all talk to y'all talking about
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  Speaker 4: y'all want me to come up there and show show my,
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  Speaker 4: show my because somebody, I'm a grown man. Okay, I'm
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  Speaker 4: a grown man. I ain't do that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, you know what. I believe you.
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  Speaker 6: I believe you wholeheartedly, Von, But just to clear your name,
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  Speaker 6: we have to, I hate to say it, clear your
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  Speaker 6: butt as well. So we want to make sure we're
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  Speaker 6: gonna find out whose butt this is on a piece
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  Speaker 6: of paper, that did this.
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  Speaker 4: We're gonna find out, you're gonna find you're gonna find
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  Speaker 4: out who's You're gonna find out whose cheeks those are,
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  Speaker 4: and you're gonna find out real quickly. In our mind,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not doing that, man, I'm not gonna come in.
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  Speaker 4: You said Friday.
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  Speaker 6: You're doing this on Friday, Friday at eleven, not coming
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  Speaker 6: at my day off.
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  Speaker 4: I'm pulling my pants down. Let some strangers looking really
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  Speaker 4: look at my look at my cheeks talking about somebody
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  Speaker 4: copy I'm not.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to.
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  Speaker 6: I don't want this to take a turn, Von, because
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  Speaker 6: right now, this is if you're not If you're saying
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  Speaker 6: you're not coming in, then other actions will be taking
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  Speaker 6: place if you don't come in and follow the precedure
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  Speaker 6: that everybody's saying.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody else that I'm calling they have to come in.
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  Speaker 4: How many how many people work on that floor?
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  Speaker 2: There's at least eighty plus people on that floor.
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  Speaker 4: You're talking about trying to have eighty plus people come
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  Speaker 4: in drive all wain work. So some strangers and we
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  Speaker 4: don't even know can look at our look at our cheeks,
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  Speaker 4: and I'm not gonna do that. I don't know who
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  Speaker 4: did it, but I know they ain't me.
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  Speaker 6: Well, somebody, somebody's xeroxs their butt on the twelfth floor,
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  Speaker 6: and we're gonna get to okay, but we're gonna get
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  Speaker 6: to the bottom of who did it and what you're
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  Speaker 6: what you're not gonna do?
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  Speaker 2: Von Is tell me you're not coming in. What you're
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  Speaker 2: not gonna do? Do you like your job here with
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  Speaker 2: this company? Oh?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, what you're not gonna do exactly like you're gonna
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  Speaker 4: fire me because I'm not gonna show y'all my sweet
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  Speaker 4: goodies just because you just because you're from HR you
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  Speaker 4: got me food. If you actually expect me to think
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  Speaker 4: that everybody that works from this floor is over here, like,
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  Speaker 4: oh yeah, sure, I'll go with some strangers. Look at mine,
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  Speaker 4: Look at my crack. You must be playing, no, sir,
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  Speaker 4: not with me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, let me let me let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 2: Do you have a coworker named Andre?
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  Speaker 4: Andre?
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  Speaker 6: Yes, okay, Andre says he knows you. Now, I'm just
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  Speaker 6: gonna put it out here. Andre is stating that it
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  Speaker 6: could have possibly been you.
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  Speaker 4: Really, Andre got the nerve to say it could have
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  Speaker 4: been me? Smith, Andre? Why is he trying to single
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  Speaker 4: me out? Like I even use that copier, not around
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  Speaker 4: there playing games. I'm a grown man. He must be
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  Speaker 4: out of his mind thinking he gonna say I did it.
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  Speaker 2: All I know is he stated that you were a possibility.
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  Speaker 2: That's what That's what he stated.
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  Speaker 4: He said I was a possibility.
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  Speaker 1: That that's dumb.
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  Speaker 4: He ain't have fool in the reason to think I
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  Speaker 4: don't even use that copier, man, I use that thing
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  Speaker 4: like once every two to three weeks, everybody on that floor.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, So out of once every two or three weeks,
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  Speaker 6: is there a possibility maybe you propped your butt up there.
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  Speaker 2: And copied it?
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  Speaker 4: Not at all, y'all, don't ain't even told me when
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  Speaker 4: this happened. I probably wasn't even working when the booted.
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  Speaker 4: Then you must be out your mind. You can waste
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  Speaker 4: everybody else the time trying to bring everyone in to
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  Speaker 4: get a free strip show, but you're not gonna do
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  Speaker 4: that to me. This has to be unethical and illegal
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  Speaker 4: on so many levels. You're trying to come in and
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  Speaker 4: say everybody on the entire floor has to come show that.
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  Speaker 4: Geez man, you must be kidding me. What's your name?
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  Speaker 4: The whole time You're trying to call me saying this
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  Speaker 4: is HR what's your name? Because when I I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Darius, I'm Darius out of human Resources. I told you
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  Speaker 2: that when I first.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know Leslie?
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  Speaker 4: Leslie? I know that better not even saying my.
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  Speaker 1: Name, but so you do know Leslie?
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: Yes? I know Leslie. She works it with me. So
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  Speaker 4: you're trying to tell me that Leslie said.
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  Speaker 2: Do you want to know what Leslie said?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: I would like to know what Leslie says, so when
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  Speaker 4: I cuss her out, I get it right.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, Leslie told me to tell you that this is
• 20:24
  Speaker 6: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey More on the show.
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  Speaker 6: And you just got pranked by your coworker Leslie and Andre.
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  Speaker 2: Oh Man, Leslie and Andre got me to prank phone
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  Speaker 4: Man, dude, I was man, I was pissed. Your uncle
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  Speaker 2: All right, boy, tell me this man, what is baddest
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  Speaker 2: and I mean the baddest radio show in.
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  Speaker 4: The lane, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Somebody is damningly
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  Speaker 5: All right, coming up, we'll ask the COLO or Chief
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  Speaker 5: Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 5: the top of the hour and entertainment news on trending headlines.
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  Speaker 5: Racial tension and public outrage is growing regarding the death
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: of eighteen year old Nolan Wells. Plus this relationship between
• 22:24
  Speaker 5: President Trump and Nicki Minaj and their love for each other,
• 22:28
  Speaker 5: It's just seems like it's getting stranger, weirder, more cringey.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, yea so weird.
• 22:37
  Speaker 5: And sixty year old Scottie Pippin Is have gone public
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: with his rumored twenty three year old girlfriend.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about these stories at the top of the hour.
• 22:47
  Speaker 5: Scotty got it, Scotty, oh, Scottie. Right now, it's time
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  Speaker 5: to ask the CLO, our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 2: Scotty dance clo. Yes, all right, Well, this.
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: Is from Louis and Baton Rouge. Lewis writes, I'm a
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  Speaker 5: single dad and I drove my son on his first date.
• 23:12
  Speaker 5: The girl's mom rode with us since they're only fifteen
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: years old, while the kids were at the movies. Me
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: and the mama had sex in the car. It just happened.
• 23:23
  Speaker 5: The kids are dating, and the mama wants me. How
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  Speaker 5: do I tell her that that won't ever happen?
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: Well, you didn't think to tell her that before y'all
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: have sex in the car, that it won't ever happen.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Because they looked like it did to me. I'm just
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: for those of us that'sitn't on the radio this morning.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: It looked like it did already. How do I tell
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: her that will never happen? How did it happen?
• 23:49
  Speaker 6: Man?
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: Look? Man, just happened again again? Y'all listen to me.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: This year, I've told y'all stop calling in him with
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: these abnormal situations, trying to make them sound normal. And
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: you want some type of uh you know, advice to
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: fell with wisdom and and and and something that we
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: can't wisely get you out of an ignorant situation.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: One more time for the people in.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: We cannot wisely get you out of an ignorant situation.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: We were just we out of them.
• 24:38
  Speaker 6: Once you get nicked and put your back up against that,
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: it ain't really much we can help them.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: That's what you wanted to add to Steve the.
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  Speaker 1: Gloria and d T l A.
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  Speaker 5: Right after we went running, my boyfriend wanted to cool
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: down in the shower. I took a cool shower while
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: he let the cool water run over his body. He
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: didn't use any soap and argue that it wasn't necessary.
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: Is this what real athletes do? Or is he just nasty?
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Well, listen to me if you can convince yourself that
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: one of the largest largest hygiene markets known to man
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: is soap, soap, powder, soap, detergent, hands soap, face soap,
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: body wash, balls, liquid pumps, all that. It is a
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  Speaker 2: billions of dollar industry. Why do you think everybody else
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: want some soap and you don't. Now it's just her
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: husband or her boyfriend.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: No, just just her boyfriend. They were running and you
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: know you get sweaty when you run.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know.
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  Speaker 6: You can't.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: And you know you don't know nobody that likes soap.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: M his girlfriend.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's a lady. It's a lot of men
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: that like soap. You can find one of them, means.
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: And.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: He's nasty. That's what she's asking.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: He done told you soap ain't necessary?
• 26:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Yes, he didn't use any self think, he argued,
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: He didn't just tell her, argued.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: So you don't think that it's some most stupid stuff
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  Speaker 2: running around in here.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this is over, lady.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: You need to try somebody else.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: Let this go all right, Thank you Clo.
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: Moving on to Kenyata in Fairfax, can you writes I
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: told my wife about my friend that is having money problems.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: I should have known better.
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  Speaker 5: My wife reached out and asked the man's wife if
• 27:08
  Speaker 5: she needed anything. Now his wife is ashamed, and my
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: friend is mad at me. How do I handle my wife?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: Well? He told his wife that a friend of his
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: is having money from money problem. Uh huh the wife
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: called her. Yep, not a not a ladyship they need.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: And a friend is mad at the friend that confided.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: In him is mad at him at Kenyata, Yeah.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: Mad at ken YadA or him his.
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: Friend is mad at him ken YadA.
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: The husband, Oh, Kenyata is a man.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Kenyada is the one who wrote the letter broke
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: the question. Yeah ken YadA, don't get stuck on the name.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, man.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I had a couple of kenyatas.
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  Speaker 2: Well for me.
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: The question ken YadA told his wife that his friend
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: was having money problems, so ken Yada's wife reached out
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: to the YadA.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: Yes all cause of ken YadA.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well he said something to his wife and his
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: wife took it from there.
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna have a difficulty answering this question because.
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: Because what.
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very that's throwing me off in the summer.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: But you know what, Listen, I think it's a cool name.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: But I'm a little throw it off with that. What
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: I really forgot what this was about. But it seemed
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: like your wife was trying to be helpful by calling her.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: But I think what happened though, was the lady that
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: called her had the wrong term. I'm a little throw
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: it off with that. What I really forgot what this
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: was about, but it seemed like your wife was trying
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: to be helpful by calling her. But I think what
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: happened though, was the lady that called her had the
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  Speaker 2: wrong tone.
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  Speaker 5: Girl.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: You're okay, girl? You okay? No I heard what you meaning? Okay? Well, dell,
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: but uh, no way, no way, hold up. Look at hey,
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  Speaker 2: hey girl? You all right? Huh are you all right?
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: I'm pro much wrong.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: Well, well, the spepe called Kenyata. Kenyata said, heck, thepe
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: told kyat that that you were struggling to find out
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  Speaker 2: talking about But but hold on, by Beta, don't don't.
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  Speaker 5: You?
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: You ain't got to speak on way?
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  Speaker 6: What what?
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  Speaker 5: What?
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  Speaker 10: What?
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  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: You call me and telling me not to be on Setkikito,
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: you don't.
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  Speaker 6: Want call me?
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: Well by Peta, what you want me to do?
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Well?
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: But they said, you don't want everybody know what I
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: want work? Can y'all to say at that shot?
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Now, well, I'm glad you worked it out for yourself.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: But we keep out of going out. But bet Taye,
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: what did you call?
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Just right after this ignorance? You're listening to Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:38
  Speaker 5: Well, there is real racial racial tension surrounding the death
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: of eighteen year old student athlete Nolan Wells after a
• 30:45
  Speaker 5: fourth of July boat trip in Horn Island, Mississippi. Nolan's
• 30:49
  Speaker 5: friends on the trip were all white, and now many
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: people believe that there was some foul play involved. Civil
• 30:55
  Speaker 5: rights attorney Benjamin Crump has been retained by the Wells family,
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: and he released a statement that read, in part quote,
• 31:02
  Speaker 5: his family deserves answers, they deserve the truth. We will
• 31:06
  Speaker 5: call an investigators to pursue this case with the urgency
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: and transparency the family deserves.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: There's also listen to me, all of the boys that
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: went on the trip have lawyered up. That's what the roman. Yeah,
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: that's what is Yeah, so I'm sort of wait a minute, man,
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: how y'all don't y'all, don't all y'all, don't nobody know nothing?
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: That's crazy flat right there.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the only black kid on the yeah vote.
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: There's also a video circulating online that shows people arguing
• 31:41
  Speaker 5: on the beach, which means a potential list of witnesses.
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: So that could be a good thing if somebody saw something.
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: And of course our deepest condolences to the family of
• 31:52
  Speaker 5: Nolan Wells. Hopefully they'll, you know, find out what happened
• 31:55
  Speaker 5: to the story. It won't bring Nolan back, but at
• 31:57
  Speaker 5: least they'll get some closure the family Wells family.
• 32:01
  Speaker 10: Somebody saw something. When you see that video on social media.
• 32:04
  Speaker 10: If that video is true, true evidence, it was a
• 32:08
  Speaker 10: lot of people, a lot of young people in that
• 32:11
  Speaker 10: water round those boats, and you can hear an argument
• 32:15
  Speaker 10: going on. Somebody saw something or they know something, so
• 32:19
  Speaker 10: they need to cooperate.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, this was senseless. Yeah, it really really was. Wow.
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: All right, we'll keep you posted, of course, as information
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: comes in. We're gonna switch gears here now talk about
• 32:34
  Speaker 5: entertainment news sort of. President Trump singled out Nicki Minaj
• 32:39
  Speaker 5: during a White House luncheon Monday, Did you guys see this?
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: Calling her a quote fantastic person and inviting her to
• 32:46
  Speaker 5: stand up. Attendees applauded her. Nicki Minaj later shared a
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: picture from the Oval Office standing next to the resolute
• 32:55
  Speaker 5: desk where Trump was sitting, grinning wide, captioning it White
• 33:00
  Speaker 5: House Barbie with her favorite president of all time.
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: Girl, you know what?
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: You know what troubles mean with these blacks for Trump
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: and Latinos for Trump? What are you for Trump for?
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: Just tell me what he's done for black people, for
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: Latino people. Just tell me what he's done. I'm having
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: hard time finding whites for Trump really, if you want
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: to know the truth about it, I don't even understand
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: whites for Trump's But if you're black and Latino, have
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: you have you been paying attention to the news? Do
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: you know these do you know what? Do you know
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: who isis aimed at? Do you know what the whole
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: border thing was about. Do you understand what this birthright
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: citizenship fight was all about. You're trying to get rid
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: of you. You're trying to get rid of you, and
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: if not you, people who look like you, and people
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: you're related to, and black people, blacks for Trump. You
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: you so stupid. The Civil Rights, Voting Rights Acts rescinded DEI, rescinded,
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: Affirmative Action, rescinded, teaching the history black history in school,
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: rescinded that their redistricting trying to get rid of black
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: people who have representation for you. All of that's in place,
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: all of that's happening right now, and you are Black
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: for Trump. You're so stupid.
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: Are you shoved so far up your lack of history?
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: Or you just want to act like if I don't,
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: If I act like I'm want of them, they'll be accepted. No,
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: you won't, not not from the magabase. You won't, not
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: not from that Maga cult. You'll never be accepted. You
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: can put your cowboy hat on, you put your Trump
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: flag on, you can do all that. They don't like you.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Go to their neighborhood and see how many of y'all
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: over there. I tell you what I tell you you
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: think you so cool with Magnantil go buy a house
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: over there? What he did? Well, that's about citizenship with her, though,
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: is that what this was about?
• 35:07
  Speaker 5: What I mean, it's initially we thought, yeah, initially, but
• 35:13
  Speaker 5: it's kind of gone before I mean, you know beyond.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: Yea of all time.
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, all right, uh yeah, she she's just you know,
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: this is just her supporting Trump. Finally, in uh entertainment
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: News six times, NBA champ Scottie Pippin recently went public
• 35:36
  Speaker 5: with his rumored new girlfriend, who's reportedly twenty three years old. Okay,
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: great for Scottie Scotti is what sixty sixty years old?
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: Boy? Yeah?
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Did you say my man when she said the story?
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah you heard the man he did?
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's just that And that wasn't my man? Like yeah,
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: that was my man? Kindamn for you know, like if
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: he was a personal friend of mine, like you know, Okay,
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: let's say me and Marjorie had a friend at sixty Yeah,
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: and we didn't know he was with his his former
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: girlfriend who was full grown like him. We all go
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: to dinner, but he show up and she twenty three.
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: Now I'm at that dinner, I'm looking over side. Got
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: it here now Now I know she fine, Oh oh,
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: no doubt about it. But this little girl right here,
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: this conversation, at this dinner.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: Table, what do you guys want to talk about?
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: We ain't talking about because she ain't never seen him
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: play before.
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: Well, well it's funny you should say that, Tommy, because
• 36:46
  Speaker 5: the Chicago Bulls won their first championship in nineteen ninety
• 36:49
  Speaker 5: one and his girlfriend was born in two thousand and three.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but her mama due though, girl, you boll Scottie.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Keep pivot over here, love Jesus, and she might not
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: be from Chicago.
• 37:09
  Speaker 5: When it's after the hour, we'll.
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  Speaker 1: Tell you why the Oval for dinner.
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: We'll tell you which city in America is the most stressed.
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  Speaker 5: Well, guys, wallet Hub has released its annual Raking ranking
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  Speaker 5: of the most and least stressed cities in the US.
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  Speaker 5: The study compares one hundred and eighty two cities using
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: thirty nine different measures across four different categories. The categories
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: are work stress, financial stress, family stress, and health and
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: safety stress. Researchers looked at everything from unemployment and housing
• 38:40
  Speaker 5: affordability to divorce rates, crime, and average sleep. And for
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: the second year in a row, who do you think
• 38:47
  Speaker 5: got the number one title? Is most stressed city? Give
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: me a guest.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: Most stressed New York Nope? Atlanta, What nope, La Nope.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: Nope, drum roll print please Detroit.
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: Detroit.
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: Detroit in the second year in the row.
• 39:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah, not back to back title Yeah, and you guys
• 39:17
  Speaker 5: didn't even name any of the cities Okay. That was
• 39:19
  Speaker 5: followed by Detroit, was followed by Baltimore, then then Cleveland
• 39:26
  Speaker 5: number three.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Then we'll fix that.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: We're gonna be up there next year.
• 39:34
  Speaker 5: Then Memphis, and also on that list was Philly and Jackson, Mississippi.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know how that ain't number one Mississippi.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: It's on the list, but it's Detroit is definitely number one.
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: Now I've been to Detroit. Detroit was my favorite city
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: to perform in.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you always say that, Yeah, all Detroit.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Detroit was yeah, and Atlanta was next door. Atlanta
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: was a great city for me to.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 40:12
  Speaker 5: The least stressed city any ideas any guesses Friscal close close, close.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: You, Montana.
• 40:25
  Speaker 5: The least stressed city in the country is Fremont, California. Yeah, Fremont, California,
• 40:35
  Speaker 5: followed by South Burlington, Vermont, Vermont.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: Oh no, that's Bernie Sanders Territory.
• 40:47
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: I tell you what, I tell you what you would.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you another place where they live like they
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: ain't got no problem. Marthas Vineyards. Uh, yeah, they swear
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: by that place. I went up there. I can't.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: It's all monday.
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: You know, your house has to have shut his own coming.
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  Speaker 5: Up at thirty four minutes after the hour newlywed marriage Advice.
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  Speaker 5: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
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  Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show. We all know that Taylor Swift and
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: Travis Kelce tie the knot on July third at Madison
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: Square Garden. Well, comedian and actor Adam Sandler officiated at
• 41:34
  Speaker 5: their wedding, and Steve, both you and Tommy have officiated
• 41:38
  Speaker 5: weddings on TV. And not to mention, there are four
• 41:40
  Speaker 5: married people on this show. So, guys, what kind of
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: marriage advice do you have for newlyweds out there? Course,
• 41:48
  Speaker 5: to George, according to now just continue. According to marriage
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  Speaker 5: dot Com, newlyweds should set realistic expectations.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: They should learn how to adjust to living together.
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  Speaker 5: They should communicate openly, have mutual respect for one another,
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  Speaker 5: and focus only on your marriage. Okay, anything you guys
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  Speaker 5: want to add anything? Steve Well, Tommy, uh, you see
• 42:20
  Speaker 5: why I went to Steve right.
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  Speaker 2: Everything married?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, of the newlyweds four years September, but trust me,
• 42:35
  Speaker 5: I mean four.
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  Speaker 2: Advice.
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  Speaker 7: Be quiet, don't say nothing.
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  Speaker 1: No, it says communicate openly. You don't don't do.
• 42:46
  Speaker 7: That because every time I say something.
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: It's the wrong thing, well, then then you should find
• 42:54
  Speaker 5: out what would be the right thing.
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  Speaker 7: Surely, every time I say something somebody need a room,
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  Speaker 7: she walk off.
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: I won't see.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: White talk ye walk Oh, you don't get to finish.
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  Speaker 7: You're talking as I feel, so as I say, I
• 43:12
  Speaker 7: feel she going.
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  Speaker 1: Well, you guys have made it almost four years. Ask
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: mister Harvey.
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  Speaker 2: Don't ask you.
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: I asked him.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Steve well his I'm just gonna tell you this right here. Yes,
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: if you're not willing or if you're not gonna lie,
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  Speaker 2: you're not going to make it. Talk to me.
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  Speaker 6: Here, man.
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  Speaker 2: That's the truth. I just see this open communication at
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent honesty. Y'all listen to me.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: Mutual respect, because you you.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: Gotta have mutual respect, and one of the ways you
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: respect the person is not to tell him everything. Listen
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: to me that, y'all. Y'all act like this is like
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: like black and white ying yang. Y'all act like it's
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: either this or that. No, that's not what this is.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: We are humans and we are all subject to flaw
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: And in your flawed moments, I'm not talking about even cheating,
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about just in your flawed moments, those quiet
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: thoughts of yours, let me have them to yourself. Don't
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: open your mouth trying to be all open and honest.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: Shut up. Ye say it to yourself three times and
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: if it still sound right, go ahead and say it.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: But you probably stupid.
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  Speaker 5: M Okay, So Tommy said, don't do it at all. Okay,
• 44:52
  Speaker 5: Junior said, be quiet, just be quiet. Don't you're saying lie.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: You have got to laugh.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: So that's what you're telling newly.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: We now now listen to me. You want to be
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: you want to be you want to be sincere with
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: your partner, and you want to be lawyer. Here's what
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: you have to do. You have to be loyal to
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: your partner. Okay, listen to me. Don't have any extra
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: marital affairs. Do not sleep with another person outside of your.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: Marriage to lie. Yeah, but don't do that.
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  Speaker 11: But if you do, nah, is not the time to
• 45:45
  Speaker 11: be honest.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: He's too late.
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: Then you kick me out the car on that.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: If you mistake, which I hope you don't. If it
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: crosses your mind, shut it down.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but I don't share it.
• 46:10
  Speaker 5: Okay, all right, listen, we gotta go because the nephew's
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: coming up. With today's prank phone call. Right after this,
• 46:18
  Speaker 5: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
• 46:25
  Speaker 5: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: after it is my strawberry letter for today, and the
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  Speaker 5: subject is under the covers only, Under the covers only.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get into that find out what that's all.
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  Speaker 5: About under those covers and just a few but right now,
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  Speaker 5: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
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  Speaker 1: Nephew, what you got?
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  Speaker 6: We're gonna take it down to the church, Shirley, what
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  Speaker 6: is the what if you had to work at the church?
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  Speaker 6: Which job would you want if you had to work
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  Speaker 6: at the church? Which one?
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  Speaker 2: Talking lot? Ministry, talking.
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  Speaker 1: Choir, choir crier.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, all right, ju your stuff the way? Call it usher,
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm talking about. A rusher?
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  Speaker 4: Rude?
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: How you gonna be a usher? They mean? Yeah, you
• 47:16
  Speaker 2: gotta mean godly people got to be at the door
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: trying to say I'm not godly?
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  Speaker 5: What you.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm in the parking lot ministry for a reason though,
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: I'm watching these cars and I can cuss outside, so
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: I'm out here. You ain't standing sure of the ice
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: tea up in here?
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  Speaker 6: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Get on. Now, get your breaking break down off the fence.
• 47:44
  Speaker 6: I know what you're up to. Yeah, was in the
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  Speaker 6: parking lot. Shirley's in the choir, and Cola is the
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  Speaker 6: usher at the door. No gloves.
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  Speaker 10: No, I got a glove because I have to have
• 47:57
  Speaker 10: that white glove to hold my finger up.
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  Speaker 2: Do you do you have on the white stockings? Yes,
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: white pantyhosel you put on some white stockings and the
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: white glove, You're gonna look like a mine.
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  Speaker 1: You got one more thing to say, one more thing.
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  Speaker 1: Break you have your legs, don't.
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  Speaker 2: She put the white shut up, white shoes.
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  Speaker 5: Shut up.
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  Speaker 1: That's not sure. That's somebody else at the church, right.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know that glove with the white usher with
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: the white stocks.
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  Speaker 1: White gloves.
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  Speaker 2: They don't, they don't really surely you said white stockings.
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  Speaker 3: No, I didn't.
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  Speaker 2: You did?
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  Speaker 1: They didn't you know?
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  Speaker 9: They didn't wear that.
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  Speaker 1: At my church.
• 48:50
  Speaker 6: I tried to dress collar the jackie had on the
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  Speaker 6: white stock and one day I had to cut out
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  Speaker 6: of them same things.
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  Speaker 2: Too tight a lot. It's all right. This is right
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  Speaker 2: here is the church usher, the church usher. You picked
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  Speaker 2: the right one. Called thank you.
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  Speaker 4: Let's go catch Hello.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, I'm trying to reach your sister.
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  Speaker 8: How you doing, uh good, good evening to.
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  Speaker 2: You, ma'am.
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  Speaker 6: I don't mean to be giving you a call this
• 49:14
  Speaker 6: late in the evening, but I I am the new
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  Speaker 6: youth minister.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't. My name is Sean Williams over at Missionary
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Baptist Church.
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  Speaker 8: Which minus what new Youth Minnesota.
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  Speaker 2: He's no longer with the church anymore.
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  Speaker 5: Man.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I'm not at liberty to speak up on that.
• 49:34
  Speaker 6: But but what I was doing is getting around and
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: making sure I met everyone because I haven't met everyone
• 49:40
  Speaker 6: yet and I wanted to reach out to.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: Everyone at the church.
• 49:45
  Speaker 6: But listen, let me, let me get down to some
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: more business, because I've I've spoken with the pastor.
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: Uh SPA.
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  Speaker 8: Bishop, yes, ma'am.
• 49:57
  Speaker 6: But this bishop, okay, I spoke put him on yesterday
• 50:01
  Speaker 6: and we have narrowed some things down of a few
• 50:05
  Speaker 6: changes we're going to be making at the church. And
• 50:07
  Speaker 6: what we want to do is one of the major
• 50:10
  Speaker 6: subjects that have come up, sister, is that we're wanting you,
• 50:15
  Speaker 6: if at all possible, and the deacons we're in on
• 50:17
  Speaker 6: this meeting as well, but wanting you to change your
• 50:21
  Speaker 6: attitude when people are coming in and you're seating them.
• 50:24
  Speaker 6: From my understanding, it's gotten to the point where they think.
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  Speaker 8: You're wait wait wait, wait, wait, wait, wait a minute,
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  Speaker 8: I had.
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  Speaker 4: A meeting on me.
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  Speaker 2: Well it wasn't a meeting.
• 50:33
  Speaker 8: Listen here, I've been ushering on that usher board for
• 50:37
  Speaker 8: forty seven years. I am the sor usher on that unherboard,
• 50:42
  Speaker 8: and I've been trying to be nuts about it. But
• 50:44
  Speaker 8: I don't understand how y'all don't have a meeting without me.
• 50:49
  Speaker 8: But now you won't call here and tell me that
• 50:52
  Speaker 8: you having a meeting on me about me being nice,
• 50:56
  Speaker 8: always nice.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: Well, ma'am, that doesn't seem to be.
• 50:59
  Speaker 6: The problem that sounds you twenty seven ma'am, and.
• 51:04
  Speaker 8: You gonna some boy to call me? You know this
• 51:07
  Speaker 8: don't make no typ Okay, what is this one?
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: What is it?
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: Well?
• 51:11
  Speaker 6: What that's actually my call, ma'am, is that maybe we
• 51:14
  Speaker 6: figured if I would call and speak with you about
• 51:16
  Speaker 6: the matter, that maybe we can get to some type
• 51:19
  Speaker 6: of uh rectifying this situation to.
• 51:22
  Speaker 2: Where we can.
• 51:22
  Speaker 8: We're gonna rectify here. I'm gonna rectify you calling me
• 51:26
  Speaker 8: this time of night, tell my some meet. This don't
• 51:30
  Speaker 8: make no time. And I don't appresionate you calling me
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  Speaker 8: in the time of night. Away, Bishop, I need to
• 51:36
  Speaker 8: speak the bishop. You Bishop, I've been at this church
• 51:41
  Speaker 8: for seven years. I've been say, oh, my life, this
• 51:44
  Speaker 8: don't make no type of sense. You calling me here
• 51:46
  Speaker 8: with this mess now, is 'all gonna make me cuss.
• 51:49
  Speaker 8: I'm trying to be a question but y'all not gonna
• 51:52
  Speaker 8: lost me be a Christian. She's just gonna just gonna
• 51:54
  Speaker 8: agitate me with this mess telling me about something be nice.
• 51:58
  Speaker 6: Well, Ma'm that that son that having problems when you're
• 52:01
  Speaker 6: seeding the people, and that's all that we're trying to
• 52:03
  Speaker 6: get work.
• 52:04
  Speaker 8: People don't want to sit down. They want to go
• 52:06
  Speaker 8: over here, they want to go over there. They want
• 52:08
  Speaker 8: to have the children running to and fro. It's like
• 52:10
  Speaker 8: a bunch of beamons a while he's just bucking around
• 52:13
  Speaker 8: in the trench like they ain't got no sense. And
• 52:15
  Speaker 8: I'm not gonna have it in my section.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: My section is gonna be strife, and I understand it.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: Let you know what, sister, I think, if we did this,
• 52:24
  Speaker 2: if you would do me a favor and hold your.
• 52:25
  Speaker 6: Phone, and if you would just bow your head right
• 52:28
  Speaker 6: now for me, maybe we can come to to get to.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: Get the man up.
• 52:33
  Speaker 8: What am I buying my head for? I ain't not
• 52:38
  Speaker 8: if we can flows is clean, it's hospital corpet it.
• 52:40
  Speaker 8: Don't make no traversents for me about what did I
• 52:42
  Speaker 8: buy my head?
• 52:43
  Speaker 6: If you could, maybe, if you could close your eyes, sister, sister,
• 52:47
  Speaker 6: I want I.
• 52:48
  Speaker 8: Said, you called me and woke me up out of
• 52:50
  Speaker 8: my fleet with this mess.
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: Come on, come meet.
• 52:52
  Speaker 8: And I am very annoyed at this and I don't
• 52:55
  Speaker 8: appreciate it. And I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna.
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: Speak to this now.
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: Father.
• 52:58
  Speaker 12: We asked that you look down up on We asked
• 53:01
  Speaker 12: that you look down upon her right now, right now,
• 53:05
  Speaker 12: asking that you put a smile on her face on
• 53:08
  Speaker 12: Sunday morning, asking that you put some joy in her
• 53:11
  Speaker 12: heart on Sunday morning, asking that you draw all the
• 53:14
  Speaker 12: pain that she in anguish that she might be going
• 53:17
  Speaker 12: through whatever demon there is inside, We asked that you
• 53:21
  Speaker 12: draw that demon out.
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: We asked that you poured that demon away from sister
• 53:26
  Speaker 2: right now. Any your name, we asked all of these
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: blessings to.
• 53:30
  Speaker 8: Come because I don't appreciate this boy. I don't even
• 53:33
  Speaker 8: know who you is.
• 53:34
  Speaker 4: All my you my number.
• 53:36
  Speaker 6: Pastor gave me the number and asked me to call
• 53:38
  Speaker 6: I am like I said, I'm Sean Williams.
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: We haven't met yet and I am the new you.
• 53:43
  Speaker 8: Know he don't he don't act that way. And it's
• 53:44
  Speaker 8: Bishop for the third time. I've told your boy Bishop respectful.
• 53:49
  Speaker 8: The folks see, that's what missing.
• 53:51
  Speaker 2: Let me let me let me say this right. Here's sister,
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: and maybe this will shed some light on things a
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: little bit.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: Clear up.
• 54:00
  Speaker 8: You go ahead.
• 54:01
  Speaker 6: This is nephew Thimmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 54:04
  Speaker 6: You just got pranked by sister who is also a
• 54:09
  Speaker 6: usher at the church mission there a bauptists.
• 54:16
  Speaker 8: This is a messing, but we already that. Yes, yep,
• 54:19
  Speaker 8: this don't make no sense, Lord him, but this is embarrassing.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is.
• 54:26
  Speaker 8: Show.
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: Yes, ma'am. That's that's that's that's my uncle.
• 54:29
  Speaker 8: This is just a joke though, manimming yes, oh lord,
• 54:34
  Speaker 8: how you doing timing?
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: How you doing? Sister?
• 54:40
  Speaker 8: This is I am?
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: I am in Do you listen to the show every.
• 54:47
  Speaker 8: I never would have my lf on. Oh lord, oh
• 54:51
  Speaker 8: my god, got me on this radio.
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: Sisterm did this here to you?
• 54:59
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 54:59
  Speaker 8: How y'all call me.
• 55:01
  Speaker 4: Back and we get we do that, we do.
• 55:06
  Speaker 8: We would do a blank on a bill and a
• 55:09
  Speaker 8: couple of bills. You shove a little, they got all business.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: What is the baddest radio show in the land.
• 55:21
  Speaker 8: The Steve harm and Morning Show. And look Thomas and
• 55:25
  Speaker 8: hold the mother. Look Cheirleman, look German. She is so cute.
• 55:30
  Speaker 8: I love us, Lord, this is so y'all. I'm so sorry.
• 55:34
  Speaker 8: Please forgive me.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: That today, Shirley, thank you, all right, thank you, nephew.
• 55:42
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 5: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject under the covers only.
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  Speaker 5: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a fifty two year old married
• 56:57
  Speaker 5: woman and my husband and I moved into his mother
• 57:00
  Speaker 5: house because she needs around the clock care.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: I work from home, so it works out.
• 57:06
  Speaker 5: She has an older home with a subpower air conditioner,
• 57:09
  Speaker 5: so I have fans all over the house. There's only
• 57:12
  Speaker 5: one TV in the house, in the din, and my
• 57:15
  Speaker 5: husband wants to keep it that way, but it makes
• 57:17
  Speaker 5: the house really quiet, so we can't have private conversations
• 57:22
  Speaker 5: without his mom in our business. She might be old
• 57:25
  Speaker 5: and walks on a walks with a walker, but her
• 57:28
  Speaker 5: hearing is great. It's always too quiet in the house.
• 57:31
  Speaker 5: For my husband and I to enjoy intimacy, so lately,
• 57:34
  Speaker 5: my husband only wants to do it under the covers.
• 57:38
  Speaker 5: We started doing that after his mom let us know
• 57:41
  Speaker 5: that she heard us. See, my husband loves to playfully
• 57:44
  Speaker 5: tap my butt when we're having a lone time. He
• 57:48
  Speaker 5: did it a few times the other night, and his
• 57:51
  Speaker 5: mom heard it at breakfast the next day. She asked
• 57:54
  Speaker 5: me if he was hitting me. My husband was trying
• 57:57
  Speaker 5: not to laugh as he explained that he was not
• 58:01
  Speaker 5: hurting me. I was irritated af because his mom has
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: been married twice, so she knew exactly what was going
• 58:07
  Speaker 5: on in our bedroom. The house is too hot to
• 58:10
  Speaker 5: be undercovers while we're intimate. I told my husband it's
• 58:14
  Speaker 5: no big deal if his mom hears us, but he
• 58:16
  Speaker 5: thinks it's disrespectful. Is it disrespectful for a married couple
• 58:20
  Speaker 5: to have privacy for intimate moments? Are we supposed to
• 58:24
  Speaker 5: keep covering up every night so she won't hear us?
• 58:29
  Speaker 5: This is really not a problem I expect from grown people.
• 58:34
  Speaker 5: And why aren't you speaking up for yourself when you
• 58:37
  Speaker 5: live with other people? Married couples doing what married couples do,
• 58:41
  Speaker 5: even if they're trying to be quiet might be heard
• 58:44
  Speaker 5: during intimacy. It's just a fact. It has nothing to
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: do with his mom, but I'm sure you prefer it.
• 58:50
  Speaker 5: If she didn't hear you, guys, it could be embarrassing.
• 58:53
  Speaker 5: I get that, and disrespectful, but embarrassing for sure. This
• 59:00
  Speaker 5: is nothing a fifty two year old woman who's probably
• 59:03
  Speaker 5: already having hot flashes should have to deal with anyway.
• 59:06
  Speaker 5: So I'm trying to figure out why you haven't already
• 59:09
  Speaker 5: bought at least a portable air conditioner for your room,
• 59:13
  Speaker 5: or a TV or something. If it's a money thing.
• 59:16
  Speaker 5: I understand that both you and your husband work right,
• 59:20
  Speaker 5: because it seems like with the sacrifice you've made, you
• 59:23
  Speaker 5: should be able to have some of the comforts of
• 59:26
  Speaker 5: a normal home. You guys could at least save up
• 59:29
  Speaker 5: for a few conveniences. I know it's his mom's house,
• 59:32
  Speaker 5: but you can't say or ask anything because you should
• 59:37
  Speaker 5: say something. His mom sure is asking you, guys a
• 59:40
  Speaker 5: lot of questions. You said, she's all up in your business.
• 59:44
  Speaker 5: So to me, moving forward, I just think you should
• 59:46
  Speaker 5: let some of those fans go get some cool air
• 59:49
  Speaker 5: running through that house asap.
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: Steve, I'm surprised by that answer. This is a fifty
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: two year old married woman and my husband and moved
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: into his mind other's house because she needs around the
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: clock care. I work from home, so it works out.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: Now right there, this is her house. Her house can
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: come with her rules. Everybody know that if you go
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: to your mama's house, you already know, which is probably
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: why you moved that. There's some requirements in that house
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: that you can't live up too more. It could be
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: the curfew that they enacted. It could be the rules
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: about having company. It could be anything, but something prompted
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: the initial move out. Now y'all old, now fifty two,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: y'all to move back home to help her because she
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: need round the clock care and you work from home,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 2: so you say it works out. She got an old
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: house with a subparwer air condition, so you got fans
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: all over the house. This is the fifty to year
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: old lady talking. Ain't but one TV in the house
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: that's in the in and my husband wants to keep
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: it that way. Why why you just want one TV
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: in the house. Ain't y'all in another room? So all
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: y'all got to sit around this TV and watch the
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: same thing. Now his mama all that I don't want
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: to see me. I'm not I don't want to watch
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: TV Lane, so I ain't never watched TV Land. I'm
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: not fit to watch TV lany. I don't give it
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: what Perry Mason doing. I'm not fin to watch that.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: What I'm not fit to watch murder, she wrote, I'm
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: not fit to watch that. I ain't finna watch a
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: dig Van Dyke show. I'm not watching that old star.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: No not doing it. I'm not sitting up in here
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 2: watching Mary Tyler more.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 3: No hurt me.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: I want my own TV. But it makes the house
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: really quiet because it's only one TV, and you can't
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: have a private conversation because it's mama and your busy.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: She might be old and walk with the walker, but
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: he here and is fine. We can't it and enjoy
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: our intimacy. So lately it's too quiet in the house
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: and y'all can't enjoy into me. So you now your
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: husband only want to do it under the cover. And
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: because we did that after her mama heard y'all your
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: husband likes to playfully tap my butt when we have
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: in a long time, and he did it a few
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: times the other night and his mama heard it. Yeah,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: you know that ain't what that is. You know good
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: and well that he likes to playfully tap the main taps.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now, tapping does nothing that
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: looks if you don't feel like the juiciness of it,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: if you don't feel the full complexity of it. Child,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: you got to hear that this right here, this ain't
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: nobody doing that. He could do that with you this
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: little fingers see like, don't get this a mute hand
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: against my face. Okay, that ain't what we.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: Go for a second, right, cut.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: Your hand and come down across it.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: Coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour, we'll
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: get into part two of Steve's response to this strawberry letter.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 5: The subject is under the covers only right after this.
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  Speaker 5: come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 5: is under the covers.
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  Speaker 2: Only we got a problem because there's a couple who's
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: in the fifties to mood in with. Demand's mama in
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: her house cause she need round the clock care. Uh,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 2: and it's the older house and it ain't got no
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: good ad conditioning it. So the woman who works from home,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: who says this works out because she works from home,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: so she's there all the day take care for the mother.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 2: But being good kids and stuff like that, and all
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 2: of this here so uh, you know, the guy hot
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 2: in there. They can't putting up. She don't put fans
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: all over the house. And they only got one TV
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: in the den, and her husband want to keep it
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: that way. But that makes the house so quiet because
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 2: now the mama can hear everything, and you know it's
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: her house and and and you know they they having
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: trouble having intimacy because his mother can hear because the
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: other morning they was having breakfast and she said she
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: heard us because your husband likes to playfully tap you
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 2: while you're having a long time. Tap. That ain't what
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: that is. You can't hear no tap on the other
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: side of the dome. This is a tap. I'm gonna
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: say this is. I'm gonna put my hand up against
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 2: my face. This is a tap. And I want you
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: all to listen to this and see if you got
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: a room in your house with the door shut that
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: could hit this. You can't hear it. That ain't what
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: he did. He cupped his hand, licked it. She said,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: what they happened? He licked his hand, he cupped it.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: Then it came down across her child. Sounded like that
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: right there, I'm up. It sounded like what it's not
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: like you. Ah, you bought like a rump roast at
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: the grocery store or something and smacked the pack of
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 2: meat at the grocery store. That's what that sounded like.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: That go through dose. Well, she heard it, and she
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: bought it up. So now he wants to and uh.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: Then she gonna ask him, was he hitting you? And
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: you said no, he wasn't hitting me, and you mad
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 2: because she know exactly what was going on because she
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: been married twice, and I know she know what's going on.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: That probably see she didne had a lot of activity
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: if she been married twice, you know what this is.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: That might have something to do with her disability too.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: A lot of times people take that too far and
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: you can hurt yourself. You can hurt yourself in the bedroom.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: It can cause a disability. That's what happens to a
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: lot of people. A lot of people like Yes, that's
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: why a lot of black people at home, well, you know,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: without no benefits because you didn't hurt yourself at work,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: what you got hurt at the house being intimate. See
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: that what happened with y'all. A lot of people and
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 2: black people, you know, they can't admit that. You know,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: back went out. You know how your back went out.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: You picked her up like you did when y'all got
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: married and carried her cold. That carried her over the
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: threshold where you tried that thirty years later. She don't
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 2: wait the same. Your back ain't the same.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 10: Now.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: You don't hurt yourself. Now you didn't do it at work,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: So now you can't get no conversation her. His mama
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: probably disable and his needs around the clock care CAUs
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: of some activity she had. I been inactive from it before.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 2: I've done something. I knocked myself out in the bedroom
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: one time, mess around and misjudge the distance. I jumped
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: off the doknob. I put my foot on the doughknob
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: and I was doing my doknob dive and I misjudged
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: and it hit my head on the corner that night.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: Staying from what knocked my out, I'm talking about Pow
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: Pow dog in the wild, saw stars and everything. I
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: was out for a little while, you know what I mean.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: And that right there that could have that could have
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: been a permanent brain injury. See that right there, if
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: donob dive. That hurts me because I misjudged it. I
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: didn't know it had a name. Yeah yeah, I had
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: all myself all the bedroom activity. That's why his mama
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: is at the house now and got the kneed round
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: the clock care because she done had accident. Old black
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: people have bedroom accidents that don't happen at work. And
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: now we can't get no benefits from it. Now we
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: just at the house, Pope. That's why people got to
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 2: move in. That's why we have our grandmama's laying up
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: in the living room in a big hospital bed because
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: we know we can't get no benefits because we got
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 2: hurt at the house. Now, I don't know how to
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 2: help you in your letter. I don't know what to
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: tell you about this air conditioning, this Lincoln, and your
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 2: husband wants to do it under the covers now because
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: all that noise y'all been making, he thinks is disrespectful
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: to his mother. Your question is is it disrespectful for
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: a married couple to have private or for interimt moment?
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: It is disrespectful off you and somebody else's house. And
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: there ain't no boy want his mother to hear him.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: We've been hiding and sneaking around from our mama a
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: whole life, is I finsh be? Okay? That are we
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: supposed to keep covering up every night so she won't
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: hear us? Yes, you just to really have to. But
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: then the number one room you in her house. And
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: if you don't like the rules in her house, get out,
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: But you can't leave because she there. Oh, you need
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: to put some insulation in your house. Pack some pillows
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: up against these dough cracks, you know, put your mattress
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: up against the dope. You know stuff you could do.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: Go in the bathroom. How big is the bathroom? You
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: need need some more insulation? All right?
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: Post your comments on today.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: You got to be careful in these bedrooms, folks, do
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: not hurt yourself.
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• 1:09:49
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• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: I was doing my mattress flip trick and I flipped
• 1:09:55
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  Speaker 2: What you got junior, Hey John, I've got a little
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  Speaker 2: sports for you, man, I got some sports for you
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 2: because we was talking from the Strawberry Letter about injuries
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: that you can have in the sport of love. Love making.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: It's a sport and you can get a lot of
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 2: injuries doing that. And I was telling y'all how one
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 2: of my main injuries I got was when I did
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: the doughknob dive. I did the doughknob dive and I
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: overdove and I kick my head on the corner that
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: night's day and knocked myself out. I don't know how
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: long I was. I think there's a lot, like two days, yeah,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: two days. And then I got hurt one time during
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: the Dunkey Kong and that I didn't know what happened
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 2: because I got hurt doing the dunk.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: What do you do when you're doing the dunky?
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: That's when I go away from the bed and then
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: I put my back up against the wall and I
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 2: run as hard as I can and dive on the bed.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: It's called the donkey Kong. But when I dove, my
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: foot slipped on the rug and that rug shot out
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: under me. My chest went across that footboard and knocked
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 2: all that ad.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 4: Out of me.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: I broke two ribs that night, trying to do.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 3: Are you done?
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 7: Many tricks do you have in a bedroom? You have
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 7: any more?
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 2: You do?
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 6: What more?
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: I got hurt. One time I was doing the uh.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: I was doing the baby faces called the baby face?
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: I called it the whipper pil. I was doing the
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: whipper pie.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 4: You know.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: I grab a sheet out the linen closet and I
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: wet it a little bit, just a little bit, And
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: when you spankle with the end of the uh, with
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: the end of the sheet, I called that the whipper pill.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 2: But I had uh, I had done it. One time
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: I popped too hard and I missed uh her back
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 2: and it came back and put I put my eye out,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: put my popped myself in the eye with a wet sheet,
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 2: do it trying to do the whipper peel? That that hurt? Yeah,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: that almost put my eye. I couldn't see good for
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: about three weeks after that. So I was just saying
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: it's a lot of sports activity.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 7: Yeah, explain this mattress flip that you be doing. What's
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 7: the mattress flip?
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: What is the mattress flip? That's cold. That's like when
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 2: I put you on one side of the mattress and
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: then I grabbed the other end and I flipped real
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: fast on top of me. I flipped real fast. Wall,
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: you be on top of me, but I flipped it
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 2: and I threw her into the wall and she was mad,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: and then we had to stop all this. I got hurt.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: I heard her, Yeah she should have been and then
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: I got I had to go to Dinnis one time
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: because I was doing the lumberjack and yeah, it had
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: got so good to me. I was trying to see
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: how much wood I could gnaw off the head and
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 2: I picked messed around and knock to teth thank you,
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: and I get Steve, I don't know.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 5: Coming up at the top of the hour, man on
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 5: Social Sports, he said, my girlfriend doesn't respect my privacy.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 5: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is from Myron and
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 5: Steve HARVEYFM. Myron says, how do I handle a girlfriend?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 5: Who won't respect your privacy in her social media activity.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 5: A couple of days ago, I had to have surgical procedure.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 5: It wasn't a huge deal, but I wanted to keep
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 5: it to myself and not make a big deal about it.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 5: I told her this, and she agreed and understood, or
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 5: so I thought. When I got out of recovery and
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 5: was taken to my hospital room, I was shocked to
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 5: find my voicemail full and my social media going crazy.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 5: My girlfriend decided to post a ton of selfies in
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 5: the waiting area and gave more than enough information to
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 5: let the kado completely out of the bag. Now, instead
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 5: of recovering peacefully, I've had to turn off my phone
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 5: to keep it from ringing constantly and have had visitor
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 5: after visitors stopping by. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 5: that people care, But the plan was to recover peacefully.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 5: My girl disrespected me. So how can I tell her
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 5: without hurting her feeling? That's his question, Myron.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: She posted all them selfies in the so she just
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: did a tyres on you. She is in the waiting
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: room crying. See you go too far. You get on
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: the line and you go three feet over it. You
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: know your nerves.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: He's reeling someone in.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't get tired of trying to pay by
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: the ruse and stay over there on the line.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 3: Ain't no say.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 2: All the fun I ever had in my life, all
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: the real fun I've ever had in my life the
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: other side of headline, there's some else on the other
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 2: side of the line. It ain't right. Oh, you got
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: to pay, but it's something something about the other side.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna help Myron?
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: Oh, what's what's wrong with myne Oh?
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: My don't read your old thing.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: About the surgery.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: Yes, he's in the hospital. He doesn't want his business
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: on social media.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 2: Well it's just too late now, dog is too late.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: It's too late.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: So he wants to know her.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: He did want her lad to know that people.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: Care care about him. Yeah, and that is a good thing.
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 2: Myron. You're Myron old too. Anybody they baby not Myron
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  Speaker 2: in forty years, Non do I don't. You don't either.
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  Speaker 2: You are always trying to help these people in the
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 2: even young Myron juniors. If you know that's what you
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: never see.
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  Speaker 4: You ain't.
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  Speaker 2: But you could do that if you're a junior. But
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: anybody just picked that name out the.
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  Speaker 7: That's not the first choice.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, book with the name Amran Marcellus.
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  Speaker 5: You know, you know, how can he tell her she
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 5: disrespected him without hurting her feelings?
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  Speaker 1: That you ain't gonna be able to do that.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 2: Myra Patrician already posted it.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: My friend and Patricia, so he just would.
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  Speaker 2: First listen don when she told Donna, and you should
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 2: have knew then, be cause Donna called Brenda. Brenda called
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: Gladys and Gladys and when Gladys told her that was it. Boy,
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: you was all over And you know old people, old
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: people come by the hospital. That's when they we're gonna
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 2: go back, and that's what's happening.
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  Speaker 5: That.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you ain't got FaceTime, young people don't come
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: to see you. I don't really I don't really think
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: there's nothing you could do, myrid. It's over with. The
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 2: damage is done. And then you do appreciate that people
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 2: cared about you. And you know she hooked on social
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 2: media and you didn't know that your surgery was gonna
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 2: be content, dog, you content. Now what you didn't want
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 2: nobody to know is to know what was wrong. You
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: think he was getting done, probably getting something done the
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: real old like probably having gout surgery US.
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  Speaker 1: I really hate you. Right now, Maura, this ignorant show
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: comeing up right after this. You're listening to the Steve
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. I can't believe we missed this. What
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: did you know, Carla that this past Tuesday was Tell
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: the Truth Day?
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  Speaker 2: We missed.
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  Speaker 1: We missed it.
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  Speaker 3: I can't believe we missed that.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we missed it. Yeah, we all tell
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: I know the guys didn't.
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  Speaker 10: I don't.
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  Speaker 5: I know the guys don't care. But you know we
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 5: all tell, you know, little white lies from time to time.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 5: But Steve, well you know it's just a it's not
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 5: a black lie.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 2: Did you just say we all lie?
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 5: I mean yeah, we love If I'm honest, we do.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 5: I never said I didn't lie. I never said that.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 2: I just sound like, well, no, no, no, no no.
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  Speaker 10: So what's the last lie you told? I just referred
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 10: tell me the truth day was Tuesday? Today is Thursday.
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 10: What was the last lie you told? Stayed Tuesday thirty?
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 2: All the day? I lied? Today? This morning?
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: You mean before we got to work or to us
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: to show you lie to Junior?
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 2: What life did you tell Junior?
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 2: No, I think I think I like show concern or something.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: Did you feel that he was sincere Jr.
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 3: I believed him?
• 1:20:31
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  Speaker 5: would you rather? Would you rather switch partners while making
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  Speaker 5: out with a friend and their partner or with complete strangers?
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  Speaker 1: What they got swingers? Would you rather?
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 4: Don't know?
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  Speaker 2: Right? Hold on, hold on, hold on, you're gonna switch.
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you my girl, your mind. So you
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 2: picked the strangers. I'm not no, no, see, I'm we're
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: not finished. Switch. I can't be at a relationship and
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: we switch. Okay, that's I'm not even you, my girl, No, no, you.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you the something what.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 2: And then okay, okay, look, because my question for swingers
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: is this. If you and your girl are swings, and
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 2: y'all go somewhere and you and your girl go over
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: there and get swung and then get swarm. Oh yeah,
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: she come over there and they swing on her. When
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 2: she comes back, you want her? Wow? Right there. That's
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: the question. That's the that's the question. That's man. That's crazy.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 4: Man.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 7: I don't I ain't see no fine swingers.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah, junior, I have though. Yeah. Oh yes, sir, I
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 2: met a long time ago. I met a girl, my boy,
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 2: and you almost told me she was a swing. What
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 2: you want to do? Did a swing all you want?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: But can we just let me see? Let me see
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: how hard you swing?
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: Wow, so you were involved with a swinger.
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 2: You were just hurt and she told me she swung?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: All right? Well, I said, prove it and.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: Money where your mouth is. All right? Would you rather
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: wide we're moving on now.
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 5: Would you rather do a four hour road trip with
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 5: your spouse and no music? Or would you rather do
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 5: it with no snacks?
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: No, no music, No, no snacks.
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 1: I'm a drive four hours road trip, no buck's.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 2: The only way I could stay up is if I
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: hear that crunch. I got to hear that crunching in
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 2: my head to stay up for four hours if I'm
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: driving road Uh yeah, yeah, I can ride with them
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 2: mar without music. Hey man, well you know you got
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 2: money now. You ain't gonta do post stuff no more.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 2: But immer sausage folk without came. Y'all got to have
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: it from the South.
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 5: Thanks, you're rather coming up in forty nine minutes after
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  Speaker 5: our last break of the day. Thank you so much
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 5: for joining us. We appreciate you, we love you, we
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 5: care about you. Junior, you have a question for Saved
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 5: before we get out of here.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 2: I sure do, unk.
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 7: I'm curious to know, Uh, how do you handle the response?
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: How many people do you take care of?
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 7: Un and the responsibility that you take on, how many
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 7: people do you really take care of?
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: You know something, man, that's interesting because I've been having
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 2: just and this is a serious business too the past
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 2: few weeks. I've been grappling with that and for a
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 2: lot of people out there who have been chosen by
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 2: God to play the role that you have in the
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 2: lives of so many people. There are a lot of
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: chosen people out there. That a lot of people out
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 2: there that the first one to go to college and
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: their family, first one to climb the corporate ladder, first
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: one to open up a business, first one to have
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 2: a savings, first, one to consider retirement, first one in
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 2: your family to know anything about investments. It's just a
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 2: lot of people out there who have been the chosen one.
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 2: Everybody on this show is a chosen one. I happen
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: to be a chosen one. Now with that comes an
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 2: immense amount of responsibility. And in this responsibility there comes
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 2: a lot of burden. Now, the burden we're not meant
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: to carry. We're supposed to turn it over to God.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 2: But that's a hard lesson to learn. And you don't
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 2: know that in the beginning. And we carry a lot
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: of because of the number of people will we're responsible for.
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 2: And what I want you to be careful of is
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 2: something that I was not conscious and careful of in
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: being responsible for people, in being the one to go
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 2: to person in your family, in your circle of friends
• 1:27:21
  Speaker 2: when they need money. Here they come, they want to borrow,
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 2: they need this, and it could be small amounts, it
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 2: could be big amounts. The amount is relative to wherever
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 2: you are financially. But they just keep coming and you
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 2: want to help them because you're a good person, you know,
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 2: And then you know if you don't help them, you
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: know they gonna sink and blah blah blah. So you
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 2: get manipulated a lot, You made to feel guilty a lot,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 2: and then you know, people are just they are just people, man.
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 2: And what I did over the years was I took
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: account of all the people I was taken care of,
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: and I started building up a resentment towards some of them.
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 2: And you gotta be careful of this, folks. I built
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 2: up a resentment sometimes, and it started affecting me, and
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 2: it made me feel resentful a lot of times because
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: I give what I think I give so freely and
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 2: yet get nothing in return. Have you ever felt that way,
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 2: that you just give and give and give, and you
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 2: don't seem like nobody ever gives to you, there's no
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 2: return factor. Well, I was feeling that, and it was
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 2: making me feel some kind of way, And for years
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: I carried that until recently I figured it out. Because
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 2: you know, there's a scripture in the Bible. I have
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 2: no idea where it is. It says something to the
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 2: fact about being it is better to be the lender
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 2: than the borrower. There's something in there about that. And
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: I found myself to be the lender and not the borrower.
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 2: But I began to be resentful about being the lender. Well,
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: Steve Harvey, would you rather be the borrower, the person
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 2: that needs all the time, or would you rather be
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 2: the person that has it to give all the time?
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 2: See it's a weird little line that you got to
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 2: play in that and a lot of times I was
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 2: just being resentful. So recently, man, I released a whole
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 2: weight off of my shoulder. I'm talking about, Man, I
• 1:29:44
  Speaker 2: feel like a new person almost when I started realizing
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 2: that I fulfill the promise and the duty and the
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 2: obligation that I have as a man. And you don't
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 2: have to be a man to feel this way. I'm
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: just saying for me, just what I felt as a
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 2: man because I did what I set out to do.
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 2: When it comes to my children, I gave my children
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 2: a better life than the one I had, But you
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 2: can't be resentful of it because I didn't want them
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 2: to have to go through what I went through because
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 2: I had no cushion, I had no safety net. I
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 2: couldn't go to my parents when I got in trouble because.
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 1: They was poor.
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 2: But I changed that and I became the person. I
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 2: gave my children a life that I didn't have. But
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 2: I can't be mad because they got that life now
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 2: because I gave that life to them. You do for
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 2: people because you wish somebody had done it for you,
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 2: but now you have the ability to do it for
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 2: somebody else, y'all you just feeling your mission. And so
• 1:30:49
  Speaker 2: what I started doing was I became instead of resentful,
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 2: I became proud of myself. Come on, dog, you did it.
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 2: Somebody told me and said, man, if you could do
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 2: any thing you wanted to do, what would you do.
• 1:31:01
  Speaker 2: I said, I'd golf and fish. He said, why don't
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 2: you just go do that?
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 5: Man?
• 1:31:05
  Speaker 2: You don't put your time. Man, I can't just go
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 2: do what I want to do. I have a responsibility.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 2: I have a responsibility to this radio show. I got
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 2: responsibility to that game show. I got responsibilities man. That
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 2: that that and a lot of people count on me
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 2: to do those two things because they livelihood is tied
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 2: to that. But instead of being resentful for that, I
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 2: became proud of it. Man, take pride in the things
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 2: that you're able to do, instead of being resentful for
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 2: all the stuff you have to do. Does that make sense?
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 2: That show helped me out, man. I show hope that
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 2: help you.
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 11: Man.
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 2: I'm proud that my kids ain't had the same life
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 2: I got. I can't get mad at them because they
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 2: ain't have to struggle like me. Hey man, that's what
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 2: you set out to do you did it?
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  Speaker 6: Ty I?
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 2: Congratulation, Mission accomplished. Have a great day today, y'od.
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