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FL Mask Mandate, Airline Attacks, Gas Prices, Green Bean Casserole and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things and at good Steve to the mother,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join Jo. You gotta turn hur you go,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you got
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out. Then turn the water the water
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  Speaker 1: got me? Come come on your thad, I share will
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  Speaker 1: a good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, Come
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  Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 1: a radio show. Yeah, I'll do. Man, God is good.
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  Speaker 1: Hey today, I just want to get right to it
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  Speaker 1: because this has really been pressing me. I woke up
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  Speaker 1: and this was on my mind, and I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: share it with you because I know this for a fact.
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  Speaker 1: See I've lived this for a fact, and you know
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  Speaker 1: the majority of things I talk about in the morning
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  Speaker 1: before we get started with the regular show. It's something
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  Speaker 1: that I've experienced. I can only tell you what I know.
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  Speaker 1: And so I really really understood why God has had
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  Speaker 1: my life go the way that is gone, because if
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  Speaker 1: I didn't have all these tests in my life, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't have all these tests that I passed, all these
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  Speaker 1: tests that I faced old. If I didn't have all
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  Speaker 1: of those, the good and the bad, What could I
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  Speaker 1: share with you in the morning? What could I tell
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  Speaker 1: you about hanging? What could I tell you about failing
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  Speaker 1: and then winning? What could I tell you about hanging
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  Speaker 1: in now when all hope was gone? How could I
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  Speaker 1: share that with you? Unless I've had those moments myself.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what happens to you. I don't care
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  Speaker 1: what you're going through. Don't you dare dare give up?
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  Speaker 1: Under no circumstances. Don't you dare dare ever give up?
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  Speaker 1: It is the biggest trick that the enemy has is
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  Speaker 1: making us think we ain't gonna make it, to water
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  Speaker 1: down the illusion that there is a possibility that you
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  Speaker 1: might still have a chance to get over. The biggest
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  Speaker 1: trick he uses is when you make a mistake and
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  Speaker 1: you fall. He gets you to start to thinking it's final,
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  Speaker 1: that there is no resurrection, there is no redemption, there
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  Speaker 1: is no recovery. He just makes you think it's final.
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  Speaker 1: He is the master deceiver. Don't you dare dare ever
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  Speaker 1: give up? I don't care what besets you, befalls you,
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  Speaker 1: trips you up, What circumstantial situations may arise, don't you dare,
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  Speaker 1: dare ever give up? Because listen to me, these are
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  Speaker 1: tests that you are going through. And these tests, whether
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  Speaker 1: you pass the test or appears that you failed the test,
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  Speaker 1: the test accomplishes the mission if you're smart about it.
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  Speaker 1: If you pass the test, Let's say you're going through
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  Speaker 1: a situation and you get over and it goes the
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  Speaker 1: way you want it to do, then what you've learned
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  Speaker 1: is if you hang in there, there's a light at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the tunnel. Okay, mission accomplished. If you
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  Speaker 1: fail the test and it doesn't go the way you
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  Speaker 1: want it and it goes the opposite, and it turns
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  Speaker 1: out into a negative result, and in response you were
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  Speaker 1: looking for is a no. That's not final. That doesn't
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  Speaker 1: mean it's over. That doesn't mean it's time to turn back.
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  Speaker 1: It simply means that now you have learned a valuable experience,
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  Speaker 1: you have learned a valuable lesson. You now know what
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  Speaker 1: not to do. You are now because you know what
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  Speaker 1: not to do, another step closer to getting it right.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. It has to happen this way. You
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  Speaker 1: have to have the rain in your life to get
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  Speaker 1: the flowers in your life. You got to have the
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  Speaker 1: darkness in your life to appreciate the sunshine in your life.
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  Speaker 1: You got to have woes and worries to appreciate the joys.
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  Speaker 1: It is merely a test. So when you get through failing,
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  Speaker 1: and you get through stumbling, and you get through messing
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  Speaker 1: it up, all that's getting you one step closer to
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  Speaker 1: getting it right. Oh, my relationship ended. I'll never be
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  Speaker 1: able to find another person like that. Not only will
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  Speaker 1: you not be able will not only will you be
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  Speaker 1: able to find a person like that, You can find
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  Speaker 1: a person that far better than that if you don't
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  Speaker 1: give up. But see, sometimes you got to go through
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  Speaker 1: the bad ones to get to the good ones. Don't you? Dare?
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  Speaker 1: Dare ever give up? I don't care what happens to
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  Speaker 1: you if you lose a love one. And Lord knows,
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  Speaker 1: I've lost some people I've loved dearly, with every inch
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  Speaker 1: in me. I've lost my mother, my father, my brother,
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  Speaker 1: and my best friend. I don't know. I know people
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  Speaker 1: who have lost their children. Goodness, man, I can't even
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  Speaker 1: imagine that, but they kept on going. What you're giving
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  Speaker 1: up for? Oh, I got you miss them, and I
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  Speaker 1: got you grieving, But I got news for you. Don't
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  Speaker 1: you let the devil make you think it's over for
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  Speaker 1: you because somebody else ain't still here. It was their time. Now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to lessen to blow for you, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you up on your feet so
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  Speaker 1: you can stop all this old woe is me because
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  Speaker 1: the things is happening to you. You're not the first
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  Speaker 1: person that's happened to Come on, now, let's get a grip.
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  Speaker 1: Let's wrap your mind around this thing. You have got
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  Speaker 1: to move forward, if it's just in memory of those people.
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  Speaker 1: I was on one of the commercial breaks the other
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  Speaker 1: day and somebody asked me something, and I forgot the question,
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  Speaker 1: but my answer was, I've always wanted my mother and
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  Speaker 1: father to be proud of me, and in that absence
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  Speaker 1: and their demise, I'm hoping, just somehow, man that they
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  Speaker 1: watching me, that they see their boy, that I'm down here,
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  Speaker 1: that I'm doing better, that I'm making something about myself,
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  Speaker 1: that I'm loving my wife, that I'm taking care of
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  Speaker 1: my kids. She want my old man to see that
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  Speaker 1: about me, you know, I want my mother to see
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to give my life together over here, you know,
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  Speaker 1: saying I'm trying to be a better person. My mom
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  Speaker 1: was a Sunday school teacher for forty years. She'd been
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  Speaker 1: praying for me for long time. I just hope, man,
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  Speaker 1: and that's all I'm doing. It's just hoping that they
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  Speaker 1: see me so they ain't be proud of me. See you,
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  Speaker 1: you you, you you. You got to understand that when
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  Speaker 1: you make these mistakes, that when you fall and stumble
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  Speaker 1: and you get it all so wrong, it ain't over
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  Speaker 1: for you. Don't you dare dare dare ever? Give up?
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  Speaker 1: Don't stop thinking, man, because it ain't happening just the
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  Speaker 1: way you wanted to that. It ain't meant to be devil.
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  Speaker 1: He got so many tricks to deceive you. You know
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  Speaker 1: why you're being tested right now, because there is no
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  Speaker 1: testimony without the test. You got to go through something.
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  Speaker 1: It's all good man telling you. I just wanted to
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  Speaker 1: share that with you. Don't you give up out there.
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what's happening. Don't don't, don't don't get deceived.
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  Speaker 1: The victory's coming, but you ain't gonna get it if
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  Speaker 1: you quit. Hang on, y'all, you're listening to show ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and
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  Speaker 1: continuing for the rest of the year to allow a
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  Speaker 1: dear friend of mine, the legendary incredible Roscoe Wallace, who
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  Speaker 1: is involved in the music industry of a three trillion
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  Speaker 1: dollar lawsuit over publishing rights, songwrites and just all rights.
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  Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace has written He's claiming all hits ever made
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  Speaker 1: in the music industry, and here he is to present
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  Speaker 1: his case with another song. DANZ did the way we
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  Speaker 1: do it, baby, matter of fact, I won't got ready
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  Speaker 1: to do that run that. This is how we do it. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: this is how we do it. Ain't no other way.
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  Speaker 1: This is how we do it, doing it just like this, heel.
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  Speaker 1: This is how we do it. Oh all, this is
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  Speaker 1: how we do it. This is how we do When
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  Speaker 1: I I did not the mood is right, hey, dropping
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  Speaker 1: into that little montale on him. You know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: just another hit I wrote. I want all my accolades
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  Speaker 1: for you know what. They've been doing this on everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't got a quote on it. Uh see y'all in cope.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much Steve for having me. This is
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  Speaker 1: how we do it. I look at that far I
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  Speaker 1: wrote that I said, that's the part gonna catch Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's like right there, that's the part they're gonna like
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  Speaker 1: right there. I'll tell y'all. Dr Wright me up going on, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: what do stop to let me ask you something? Uh.
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  Speaker 1: Some people came to him, They said, lett, uncle Steve
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  Speaker 1: hit this man because the kids in school problem they
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  Speaker 1: think Steve could probably solve. And this is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Come on day. Homework is basically school at home. You're
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  Speaker 1: doing homework at home when you really post to do
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  Speaker 1: stuff at school. Ain't school to place to learn. Home
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  Speaker 1: is to come from school. Chill, get on your tab.
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  Speaker 1: But you don't get what you want to do. But
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  Speaker 1: the teachers want to take like thirty minutes of your time,
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  Speaker 1: an hour your time, just give you homework. They do
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  Speaker 1: this to bothering you. I don't know why they do that,
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  Speaker 1: but that's teachers. All our kids, all our kids. Put
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  Speaker 1: your hands up, hope for everybody see this video. No
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  Speaker 1: more homework, No more homework now we are come on.
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  Speaker 1: You have a point. Yeah he has a point. But boy,
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  Speaker 1: I've been saying this is sixty four damn about you
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  Speaker 1: and you can chant your ass no mo Howard, Well
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  Speaker 1: your ass is gonna get homework. Everybody listening to head homework.
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  Speaker 1: We're not been to councel homeworkers, Yola, last don't want
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  Speaker 1: to do it. You think we wanted to do it,
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  Speaker 1: taking up thirty minutes an hour your time? Hell yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's car homework. It ain't school work. You did your
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  Speaker 1: school working schoolwork. They're sending your home so that I
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  Speaker 1: could play your time. You need to talk to somebody
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  Speaker 1: else about this car. You know I'm gonna talk me.
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  Speaker 1: No damn homework. The lasses got home work, home work.
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  Speaker 1: I tell you what. Don't do it if you stupid
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  Speaker 1: ass a beer school family coming up for thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour of the nephew and run that
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  Speaker 1: frank back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time for the nephew, and run that frank back.
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  Speaker 1: Nephew in the building. What you got for us? Now?
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  Speaker 1: I got girls Scout cooking? Well, can you like Sherlett
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  Speaker 1: girls Scout cook Steve Girls, Scout Junior boy girl Scout cooking?
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's go girl scouting. Hello? Hello, who's this? Hey? Um?
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  Speaker 1: How are you doing? Man? My name is Glenn Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm working. I work in building too. You work for Nudia? Right? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: What what's fun? So we probably met a couple of times.
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  Speaker 1: Uh do you have a girl? You have a girlfriend? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: Why what's up? Did you guys? You guys live together
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  Speaker 1: or what? What? What is this your business? Like? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: What's what's what's the deal? What's what's why are you
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  Speaker 1: asking about my girl? Well? Let me ask you this here.
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  Speaker 1: What's what's what's going on with you and at the job? Uh?
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  Speaker 1: What what do you what do you mean what's going
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  Speaker 1: on with like? Like I mean you you know you know, right,
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  Speaker 1: I mean so what like what what's what's the deal? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: Who are you? Like? Who the who? The are you? Like? What?
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  Speaker 1: What's what's the what is this for? Like? Why are you? Like?
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know you? Right it? Just calmed down, bro,
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  Speaker 1: Just calmed down. Like I say, my name is being
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  Speaker 1: I work at Gila too, you know, And I know
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you now. I know you. I know
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  Speaker 1: what you're doing, Okay, I know what y'are doing at
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  Speaker 1: the job. I already know, and a couple other people
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  Speaker 1: know what's going on. And I know you got a girl.
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  Speaker 1: I know you got a girl. At home. I know
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  Speaker 1: that what so so what what? What? What the what?
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  Speaker 1: What is this about? Like why why do you call
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  Speaker 1: my pholt trying to harass me about the book? Like
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  Speaker 1: who are you? Like? What? What? What is your problem? Like? Hey, man, hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: came down. I man, I finished. I ain't trying to
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  Speaker 1: tell you a little secret or nothing like that. I
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  Speaker 1: ain't trying to do that, all right, But but but
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real with you, okay, all right, Like
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  Speaker 1: I said, you know, I got one of your names.
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  Speaker 1: I got your number from one of co workers. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I got your number. I say, I want to I
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  Speaker 1: want to give the call and you talk to him
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  Speaker 1: about something. That's how I got your number. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: who gave you ten? We'll get to that lady. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we'll get to that lady. But let me but let
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  Speaker 1: me say this though. I know what's going on with
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  Speaker 1: you and to the job, all right, and I ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna say nothing about it. You know, that's just our
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  Speaker 1: little secret or whatever. But I do have something that
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  Speaker 1: I want you to do. Though, what do you want? Dude?
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  Speaker 1: But what do you want? You call me? Bugging me
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  Speaker 1: about and all this book? Like what do you want.
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  Speaker 1: What do you want? Well, here it is, man. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say nothing about what you got going on,
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  Speaker 1: all right, that ain't that ain't even I don't even
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  Speaker 1: care about that. But here here's what I do want
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  Speaker 1: you to do. I do need some help from you,
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  Speaker 1: all right. Listen. My little girl is selling Girl Scout
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  Speaker 1: cookies and I want you to buy fifty boxes of them,
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  Speaker 1: all right with be a cash out because she got
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  Speaker 1: to have them soul by tomorrow morning. Are you kidding me? Bro?
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  Speaker 1: You okay, so you're on some black man's books and
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  Speaker 1: listen to who the gave you my number? Because you
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  Speaker 1: want to call me ask me to box them some
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  Speaker 1: cookies and you should just bet a man and ask
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  Speaker 1: me about it. Like, don't be calling my phone trying
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  Speaker 1: to give me that book. Like come on, man, like
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got no time for this. Like I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: you to do is buy today. I'm cookies. Man, That's it.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying I do
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  Speaker 1: want you to buy cookie. I need you to buy
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  Speaker 1: fifty box little Girl Scout cookies. Can you do that? No? No, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no No No,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna call and try to manipulate me and
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  Speaker 1: defying like you're you're talking? Are you trying to make
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  Speaker 1: me fight? So? I ain't you nothing for you disrespecting me,
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  Speaker 1: calling my phone, trying to act like you like, just
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  Speaker 1: trying to manipulate. I ain't down with that, bro, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't done. You don't want to buy my cookies though?
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  Speaker 1: So do you want me to call you your girl
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  Speaker 1: and see ship on my cookies? So you gotta say
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  Speaker 1: the away for my thro man like, don't don't come
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  Speaker 1: near her. Okay, you don't call her, you don't come
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  Speaker 1: near her. Don't come near me. You just get get
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  Speaker 1: them out of here. I'm about to start nine, figure
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  Speaker 1: out who you are, and come right after you, man like,
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  Speaker 1: because I ain't playing, bro, I ain't. I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: you what I'm I an't argue with you. I an't
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  Speaker 1: argue with you, but I'll get off the phone right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'll get off right now, and I'm gonna you girl.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna call your girl and see if you do
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  Speaker 1: you want to buy some cookies. No, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't call nobody. You just get you get I
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  Speaker 1: try to God I'm gonna find out who you are.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna find out who gave you that number. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna call you up like yo, you gonna call me
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  Speaker 1: trying to right me? Okay, amen? Hey, hey, you know what?
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  Speaker 1: Angrew cool? We're still talking about it, all right, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna get the right. Don't like you so so so
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  Speaker 1: I'll get off the phone like you want me to. Ay,
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  Speaker 1: I'll do that, but let me let me ask you
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  Speaker 1: this though. Let me ask you this though. You sure
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  Speaker 1: you want me to call you? Sure you want me
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  Speaker 1: to do that? And right? Ain't it not her name?
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  Speaker 1: Then you something? Individuals? All right? Look how much of
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  Speaker 1: these cookies? How much you want? A man? Tommy told
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  Speaker 1: me you would buy the cookies. Tommy. Yeah, Tommy told
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  Speaker 1: me you would buy the cookies. Tommy. Hey, man, check
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  Speaker 1: it out. This is Nephew time me from the Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Your co worker got me to play
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  Speaker 1: phone call. Yeah, my god, I'm gonna kill him. Damn.
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  Speaker 1: I was so so oh god, who listen, So listen, Adrian.
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  Speaker 1: We have beat. We have beat all the names, so
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  Speaker 1: nobody knows the things at all. Okay, you're good, bro,
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  Speaker 1: You're good man, and I you got me. Oh god,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna go. I'm gonna take a nap man.
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  Speaker 1: I just used up all my Yeah, I'm done. Oh God, Like, hey,
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: where you go? I am going out? You up? Man?
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe you got me on this little tell
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  Speaker 1: me this one more thing. What's the badest and I
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvard Morning show Man, which is why he got played
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  Speaker 1: every morning? Kill me bro. Well that's it. Nothing else
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  Speaker 1: to really discuss. Um. Hey, I'll be in Dayton, Ohio
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  Speaker 1: this weekend at the Dayton, Ohio Conventionals Center. You can
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  Speaker 1: catch me there. Okay if you till me and friends.
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  Speaker 1: Tickets your on sale right now. We're not gonna talk
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  Speaker 1: about the prank. We're gonna move right along people, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: there where five seconds dat Ohio. You're our cup? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Jeff Bezos
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  Speaker 1: predicts that we could all be living and working on
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: another planet in the future, wow, and just visiting Earth.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: And then Superstar Tina Turner is suing an impersonator for
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  Speaker 1: impersonating her too well, she's too good at being Tina.
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  Speaker 1: Right now. We'll talk about those things at the top
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  Speaker 1: of the hour, But right now it is time to
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  Speaker 1: check in with the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Ready
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  Speaker 1: for your love questions. This one is from from unnamed
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  Speaker 1: in Georgia. Unnamed rites. I'm thirty three years old and married.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I worked nights, so I have to spend as much
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: time as I can with my wife. I also have
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: to make sure my girlfriend is happy too. My girlfriend
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: works part time and she's used to me taking her
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  Speaker 1: to lunch most days and having a little dessert at
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: her house. My wife just started working from home three
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: days a week, and she expects me to eat at
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  Speaker 1: home and please after lunch. This is irritating my girlfriend.
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  Speaker 1: How do I keep both of these women happy without
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  Speaker 1: wearing myself out? Help me out out, yo, yo, answer
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  Speaker 1: it won't out, yo. Lunch break ain't even a break dog,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got ain't got no answer for your dog
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  Speaker 1: except the real solution. You ain't gonna want to hire
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: you guys to get rid of that girlfriend. That is
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: not what he asked. That is, he did not ask
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: you that you're supposed to get What was the question? Yeah,
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: how did you go? Ahead? Repeat from him? And first
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: of all, that's an impossibility. There's no way. There's no way,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: and he said the key word without wearing yourself out.
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  Speaker 1: There is no way that can be done. He's only
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  Speaker 1: thirty three. Oh he got We got the work. You
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  Speaker 1: can't do this every day, sometimes twice a day, two
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: different people. You gotta be kidding me a lot, or
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: you don't even understand this, can only lask for a
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  Speaker 1: little while, probably not helping him. You've got to get
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: rid of the girlfriend. Is not the help he asked.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: There is no other help. Boy, Can I invite you
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: your ignorant self? There's nothing else to give this boy.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: But what he ain't the situation that he not gonna
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  Speaker 1: have wife. He keep on. He didn't ask to give
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: up somebody. He asked how to how to make it happen?
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: How to make it work? It cannot happen. What he's
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: asking for is an impossibility. This is a time management
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: question to me. Yeah, I mean, you know, some people
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: want to know how how can I have two calls?
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: You answer the question how you have two? You want
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: to know how? He had his next question. Shirley, moving
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: on Sani and Charleston says, I have a hair salon
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: and I'm very strict with my no children policy. My
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: sister's best friend constantly brings her four year old daughter
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: to her appointment, so I refused her service. Last Thursday.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: We got into a verbal altercation, and then she went
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: on social media and posted a picture of her matted weed,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: saying I did her hair. This could affect my business
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: because she's an IG influencer. So thousands of people saw
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: the picture. How can I get her to stop harassing
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: me without it getting physical? Nah, Yes, it's gonna turn cisical.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: It's gonna turn We can't hear. I said, we got
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: to find a fiscal way to do this. Okay, So
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: it is going to get physical. You're saying, no, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: said something else. Shall It's not what I meant to
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: say in my heart of heart, but post something else?
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: You know, don't don't get into this social war. The
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: thing about social media is it goes away if you
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: don't respond and just leave it alone. It's not true.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Your people that come to your shop, that are your
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: dear customers, they know it's not true. So just going
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: about your business, ignore it. It will go away. The
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: patrols and the bottom feed is to people that's gonna
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: troll you. They're not coming to your salon. No way.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: She can't hurt your bus, says. People kill me thinking
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: they're gonna destroy something they didn't create. Don't give her
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: the power. Ignore her. She'll go away. By Steve, she
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: really will. It goes away, man, Steve, that's good. That's Andrea.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: And Philly says. I'm thirty nine years old and I've
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: been with my man for nine years. He'd cheat it,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: and I stayed because I have nowhere to go. A
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: year ago, I got a man on the side, and
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: my man didn't suspect a thing until he's snuck and
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: turned my ringer on. One day while I was sleep,
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: my side dude called and the ringer was up loud.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: I have the song walk as my side Dude's ring tne.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: My man tried to answer the phone. But he missed
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: the call. I'm not sure if he read my text
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: or not. So I'm walking on eggshells around him. What
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: should I do? Get out? You're in an unhappy relationship
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: that's unhealthy for you, and you already you got a
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: man on the side. Wan't you to take him off
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: the side? But see? Instead of but see, the problem
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: is you have no where to go. See, you're not
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: solving the where to go problem. You need to figure
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: out where you can go and be in peace. Not
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: who you can go to and get a piece, but
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: where you can go to and be in peace. See,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: your problem is you picked the wrong piece. Instead of
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: seeking piece, you went and got another piece. And thus
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: now you've compounded your problem because now you still have
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: nowhere to go because the piece you wouldn't. God may
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: not have room for you at his house because you
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: may be just a side piece. Oh, were dealing with pieces? Now?
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: See all this is pieces? See did we did? We
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: just dealing with pieces now? And when you seek the
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: wrong peace, when you try to find peace in a piece,
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: that will be no peace. Oh man, did I just
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: have a Kanye I'm a damn genius, And watch your
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: hand Kanye moment that Kanye had every time Kanye say
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: something that the thought came to me changed the whole subject. Yeah,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: go ahead, says I've got a big family. I love
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: them dearly, but I don't want them to visit me
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: for the holidays every year. It's a big hassle to
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: prepare for them, and none of them want to help
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: out with groceries or buying liquor. My wife is white,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: and she's not used to the bickering and cursing at
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: each other when we're all supposed to be grateful. My
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: family will never change, and I'm tired of how they
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: act too. What gives do I please my wife or
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: please my ken? I would go with the white. I'm
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: there with the wife. You got a wife, which, yeah,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: not chuck. Hear what you can do? You got it?
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: You got it. You gotta stop this man because you're
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: not happy with it either. But now what you should
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: do is not chucking. It's gonna throw you go over
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: her family's house for the holidays. Now it's gonna be
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: different the wife. Yeah, go over the wife's house. Now,
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: let me tell you a couple of things you gotta
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: watch out for. You're not fitting, getting no dressing. Yeah,
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: it's is fitnings some stuff in you getting no sweepe
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: taking pie. You're asking me, plunking pack going over there.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Let me just try to hang in there, enjoy yourself.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Probably go ahead and black peep back over next holiday.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. On the
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: evening of November seventeenth, nineteen eleven. On the evening of
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: November seventeenth, nineteen eleven, Omega Side five was founded inside
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: the Science Building at Howard University in Washington, d C.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: From the initials of the Greek phrase meaning friendship is
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: essential to the soul. Side five manhood, scholarship, persever turn
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: it down song. Oh he gonna hurt himself. He got
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: hurt him. Let me see you hop one time the company.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: You're good. In his chair, he can step in his chair,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: he can he can chair step, he cold catch step yeah,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: or anything you want to say, what in the world
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: is it or about that song? Pat does my soul
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  Speaker 1: the way it does it. I want to say Happy
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  Speaker 1: Founders Day to all the brothers of Almighty Omega Side five,
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  Speaker 1: the greatest fraternity ever formed. Our fraternity is built on
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: things that other fraternities are not built on, and the
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: number one thing is friendship. All other fraternities are built
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: on brotherhood. Ours its friendship. I just love Cooper Coleman's
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: four brothers, the founders of Omega side five, make no
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: mistake about it. That is none other like Omeaga. You
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: can ask all the rest of them, because they do
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  Speaker 1: know the truth that when Omega came into existence, that
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: stopped it all that will be no more after this
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: more you know it. Can ask him. You canna ask anybody, really,
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  Speaker 1: dog all respect to all of the brothers in the
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: pan Hellenic Council, the Sigmas, the Alphas, and the Knops,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: much respect to all of them. All of them have
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  Speaker 1: great in them, and the all of them have greatness
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: in them. But y'all know, y'all know, y'all know, if
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: you go down the list of great men in our history,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: Lord he Mercy, a lot of nups, a lot of
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: kids damns, a lot of nups. But I'll tell you what.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: You go down the list and start naming names, it
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: ain't close though, it's not close, not even I think
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: it's pretty closes. I think it's I tell you what
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: we can do. Cut the music off because I'm I'm
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna do in disrespectful. If you play the song,
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: you can just go name for name and we can start.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't have to go tick te you know,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: because it ain't gonna work out. There are are some
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: great noopes out there there. There are a lot of
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: great me right right there, right there, me and me
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: there you gonna pick keep running? Oh, said is a
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: great one. You know, we got we got some moment
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: we can get up there now careful sad the number
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: star stacking, I got you and said, and Johnny Cochring you, Oh,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Johnny Cocker was greatness, man, pure greatness. Smold. You know.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I don't really know a whole lot of famous cappers myself.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: I just don't. Not saying there aren't. I just don't
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: know them. But I know a whole lot of famous
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: cue though whole life. Well, we're moving on. One of
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: the world's richest men, Happy Founders say against Steve one
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: of the world's and Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos, stated that
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: the Earth would soon turn into like a natural resort.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: On Sunday, during a speech at the Ignatious Forum in Washington,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Bezos stated that humans would have their default homes on
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: other planets and over a million people could be working
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: on another planet soon. Okay, don't nobody can about that.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Let me just say this on Founders, stay on behalf
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: of Jason Jeff Bens. If Jeff Bezos gives me a
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: billion dollars, I'm walking his ass right into this frame.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: He's a cute Jeff. No he's not at all. No
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: he's not. No, he's not. But if you give me
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: a billion dollars, I'm walking him in. I don't give it.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: Them who don't like it. What does he need to
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: be a cue? He don't even have to be. No, Damn,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: I don't really don't even care. Beginning that billion dollars,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk in there. As in the dope he's saying,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: babies could be born in space. It will be their
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: first show. Surely that's what surely listen to me though
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: nobody in this listening artists care nothing about that. We
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: black folk, we're trying to just get it right down
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: here on Earth. I'd be damn if you're gonna pass
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: up in space and let us try to figure that out.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: We just want some space down here where we can
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: live in peace, have our own without getting shot, playing
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: with no COVID. I'm now that's ignorant. We could just
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: be visiting Earth like you visit Yellowstone Park or you know,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. Well, I'm well, I'm gonna be down
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: here running things. Leave if y'all come back. Now you're here,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: all right, We'll be back with more of a Steve
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening the Stave
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Florida Governor Ron de Santis is doing
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: everything he can everything he can do to push back
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: against COVID vaccine mandates for public and private employers. On Monday,
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: he'll oversee a special legislative session called Keep Florida Free.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: It's aimed to block such mandates. Four bills will be
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: on the table that will up penalties for business, local governments,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: and other entities that are requiring employees to get vaccinated
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: and force students to wear mass in school. Last week,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: while announcing his twenty twenty two reelection plans, DeSantis said,
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, we want people to
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: be able to make informed decisions for themselves. But we've
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: got to stop bossing people around. We've got to stop
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: the coercion. We've got to stop trying to browbeat people.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: Fans of Dessanta's claim he's striking a blow for freedom
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: and others think he's putting people in unnecessary danger or
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: the residents need to make sure he's not re elected
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: in twenty twenty two. I can't stand anymore. I can't
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: stand the stupidity of people that people have put into office.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: This is the person that you trust with your welfare.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: This is the person that you put in chargees you
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: thought would be best to make decisions on your behalf.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? And I could assure you all
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: the Republicans that did vote for this guy did not
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: think he would be up there doing this type of stuff.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: You cannot be a Republican and feel this way. I
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: just don't believe all Republicans feel this way. That can't
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: be the case. This is just ignorance man to know
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: the facts and ignore them because some political party then
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: got together and say this is one we're gonna let's
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: keep America free. You didn't say that, see y'all kill
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: me with just keep America freeman, y'all, and enslaved and
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: captured and took and imprisoned more people than anybody on
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: planet Earth. And you got the nerve the scream about
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: your freedoms. This is the most hypocritical country, man, we
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: live in. Oh, it has some great moments in it. Oh,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: it's some great opportunities here. Okay, it's the land of
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: the whatever. Yeah, yeah, you can turn yourself into something.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: But let's not overlook the flaws while you're talking about
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: what it is. Because of what is at is just
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: as big and just as glaring to me. And if
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: you on this side of the fish, you would understand
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: what we were talking about. So you can stop all
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: that old land of the free. Free for who. You
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: don't even want us to vote right? Free for a
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: woman can't decide to do with her body. Help me
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: understand that you could decide to wear a mask and
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: get a vaccination, but you can't decide to have a baby.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: What make up your mind? Man? You can make up
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: your mind going out there and buy gun and going
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: out here and shoot somebody with it because you got
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: drivers life or your month bought. Stop me let me
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: the mama drove twenty twenty two elections. Remember that coming
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after attacks against airline employees
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: are becoming an epidemic. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Check this
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: story out. Southwest Airlines employee was hospitalized over the weekend
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: after getting punched in the head by an unruly passenger.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Authorities say the passenger had boarded her flight at Dallas
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: love Field Airport and got into a verbal argument with
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: an operations agent. She was asked to exit the plane,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: and then things got physical. She allegedly punched another operations
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: agent in the head and was arrested for an aggravated assault.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: The employee was taken to the hospital in stable condition.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: And the problem is that these attacks have become an epidemic.
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: According to the f A, there have been over five
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: thousand unruly passenger incidents this year this year, So listen,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: what they need to do is start passing down some man,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: some some mandatory laws because they got to put a
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: stop to this right here, man, because this don't make
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: no sense. Yeah, they need to protect the flight attendance
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: people doing their job. Man, it ain't it ain't it
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: ain't get it ain't happening on my flight though. If
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: I'm the steward, It's not happening on Thoma's flight. I'm
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: telling you right now. I'm promise you right now, this
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: is Tommy. Uh. You're on flight seven thirty two. We're
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: going from Atlanta to DC. I'm gonna tell y'all right now,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: it ain't no bathroom today. All right, everybody sit their
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: ass down. Okay, put your put all yourself up underneath
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: your chair. I'm not gonna walk up down this. I'll
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: try to make sure you got everything tucked up under there. Okay,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: that's how it's going down. I'm letting you know. If
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: you stand up, I think you're coming towards me. I'm
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: fit to fight you ass. That's how it's happened. If
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: you're in first class, we ain't got no food I'm putting.
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: I'm putting a bunch of drinks in the middle of
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: the float, sorted out. Get what you want, Okay. Five thousand,
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: one hundred and fourteen unruly passenger incidents this year. This
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: sounds like an opportunity for a business. See see damn
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: these mans coming down. I'm coming out the overhead being
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: see bags going up in the bed. I'm in the
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: ben and my team is in the bed. Start acting
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: up and see if we don't come out these beans.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Ben boys, that's business Ben boys dot com here we
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: could be boys see something. Yeah, press up, but watch
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: Oh now, this is uh hell relish. Captain Harvey UH
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: coming to you line. Welcome you on board or Southwest
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: we're heading in the Passo Texas. Just a friendly reminder
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: to let you now that we've had a number of
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: incidents owned up Southwest Airlines over the past year, unruly passengers,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: and I just want you to know that Uh on
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: this flight right here, we're whoop an ass. As soon
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: as we hear or any rumming in the background, we're
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: gonna put this some bitch on auto pallette and we're
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: coming back there. We're gonna start clocking and docking asses.
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  Speaker 1: unsmooth right quick, I've got a also on the plane,
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  Speaker 1: and we have a seven unmarked people that have no
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  Speaker 1: business on this plane. The friends of mine and day
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  Speaker 1: out over now. Thank you appreciate that. Yeah, yeah, you
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• 43:38
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  Speaker 1: you can't fly there. You go bring it to reality.
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  Speaker 1: They're waiting on the fight on the bus. New meat,
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: all right, coming up next. It is the nephew with
• 44:13
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• 44:16
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• 44:21
  Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: I'm the wife, not the mistress. I don't get it
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: twisted up in here. I'll get into that in just
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: a bit. The nephew is here for today's Frank phone call.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: All of that. But you got husband, not the husband
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: that don't work. Yeah, but you got well this, we
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: know we're gonna we were talking relationships. Let's get on
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  Speaker 1: into it. This right here is called relationship departure. Relationship departure.
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  Speaker 1: Taken it right? Cat dog g if you would, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what the lines this seels, but cat dog
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  Speaker 1: g if you would glove. Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I
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  Speaker 1: was um. I was calling to tell you baby. Look
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I just I just can't do it. Huh oh Hello Bryan, Brian, Hey,
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: this is Greg. I know I know you was just
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: talking to voun, but this is this is Greg talking
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: to this Brian Greg Greg Who. Yeah, this is Brian Greg.
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  Speaker 1: I was just talking to my wife. Did you put
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: it back on the phone. Uh No, I'm not gonna
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to do that. Why can't
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: you do that? Man? Hey, let me explain something to you. Uh,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: all right, there's some things, you know, long conversations about this.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Oh well, how you know my wife on the first
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: name basis like that? Man? How you who are you?
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Like I said, man, my name is Greg Uhr. At
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: the airport? Okay, well airport? Where the airport? And why
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: we're at the airport with my wife? Sport? Hey? Let me, Hey,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: all of this is complicated. Okay, it's really yeah it is. Yeah,
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: make it simple for me. Okay, So what I want
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: to explain to you? What? Let me explain to you mann.
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: We've had a lot of long conversations about this. It's
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: something that you when when was this? Why? Why are
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: you at the airport with my wife's with me? And
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: why is leaving with me? Okay? What we're leaving? And
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: what you mean leaving leaving me? Oh? Hell no, put
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: it on the phone. And I don't even want to
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: talk to you, man, Put her on the phone. Put
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: her on the phone, man, and look, you need to
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: put it on the phone right now. Leaving. I don't
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: believe that. Now I want to hear her say that.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: Do you want to talk to me. Oh here you're saying, hey, hey,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: let me talk to my wife man, because you you
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: feed baby baby? Yeah, yeah, yeah, what's up? What's this
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: dude talking about? To tell you this for a while
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: so you think everything, but it hasn't been okay, Why
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: are you telling me this phone? Why can't you just
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: come home and tell me? Why can't you just tell
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: me this to my face? Hey? Hey, hey, bro, come
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: on man, why are you my wife? Hey? Hey hey bro,
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: I know this is painful. Man. Now you don't know,
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: you don't know nothing, but I noticed. Okay, the ladies
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: just put my wife on the Oh did you if
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: you got any ounce of a man and you just
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: put my wife's back on the phone. Okay, all right, bro,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: let me let me let me say, let me you
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: can I say something to you man? That's sitement what
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: it was. It was my wife on. You ain't got
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: to tell me. I'm gonna put her on in the second.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: But let me say this to you man, same man
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: and wrap it up because I need to talk to
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: my wife. I just want you to know this, Brian.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: This let me. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: Harby More that show got me to prank phone call you?
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: What's your hold on? So? So okay, if you point
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: to me, what's up with the airport and stuff in
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: the back? Then where y'all at the airport? No? Bro,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: your wife is here at the studio. Man ain't not happening. Man,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: your wife hold on. I'm gonna let you talk. You're
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: all right? First of all? Are you all right? Man? Oh? Man?
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: It was about to be a murder sing man. Look
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: at now? Who's a big Finally you could have been
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: a little bit more. You and y'all? Who your brother?
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: You think? Y'all? The only one can playing people is
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: that you and your brother be branking all the time. Man, Man,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: it's life stuff though, girl, you ain't happy birthday? Baby?
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: Oh you got a birthday coming up? Happy birthday, Brian?
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: This yeah, man, looking great? Gifts great? Yea. Man, Let
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: me talk to my wife. Man, I got ain't got
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: no dude. Wife hold on? Please? But what woman? You
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: got me all right? Don't don't you ain't gotta go
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: this far? Right's supposed to be funny. I did, little man,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: but you kind of start tearing up. But I'm glad
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: to know you fight for me like that. Fight. It
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: was gonna be some fights. It wasn't, oh girl, just
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: a bring your black home. Don't even stop at rent like,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, don't even know how wood. I don't even know, man,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I don't even have I don't even know how I
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: handled it. You have awhere, but this dude, hold on,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: I got it. Hey, run this what I'm talking to
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: my wife and in this dude, I got this baby,
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: you're going over there? Up what my dog? Let me
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: tell you something. Every dollar I got I'm coming for
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be spent on finding what airline? This is?
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Where the ticket going to? Lamb y'all land. I'm gonna
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: have a p I at that airport, following y'all as
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: soon as before you land, I promise you. Dog, Let
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: me ask a boy at the airport with a picture
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: of her, follow her to whatever room a airport you
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: got to and I'm right behind it. I'm oh, let me,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: let me let me at least say it felt bad
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: to do this good at that trifling? Do I know? You? Dirty?
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: And Brian crying? Yeah? Everything right? Right he was, But
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: Brian got over. I'm glad it was a prank. Okay together, happy,
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: he wanted to feel. How about yourself? Though? I feel
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: wonderful because you know what, Brian loves her so much
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: more now, so much more. See what I did for
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: that relationship? Now watch watch, watch me walk into something?
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: What what is Brian ready to do? Now? He ready
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: to love you? See what I'm saying? Make it plain?
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: He ready to love? Ready to put your ass in
• 51:52
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to leave that out. I saw your
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  Speaker 1: nephew on the road, right, your nephew on the road,
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  Speaker 1: trying to get it, trying to grind and get it
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  Speaker 1: and do something real. FRD nephew, thank you. Coming up
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  Speaker 1: next it is the Strawberry Letter, the subject I'm the wife,
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: not the mistress. Okay, we'll get into that. Okay, we'll
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: get into it. Right. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:38
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  Speaker 1: Eve Strawberry Letta, all right, thank your nephew's subject. I'm
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: the wife, not the mistress. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: forty seven year old wife and my husband and I
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: have been married for four years. During the entire four years,
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: all of the arguments that we have had that we
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: have are over his ex wife, the mother of his
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: only son. She lives two hours away, and at times
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: he will drive to see his son and this woman
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: will not let him visit with the child, depending on
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: her mood. When she is in a mood, it affects him,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: so that affects me. I've had numerous conversations with him
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: about why she still affects him in that way, and
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: I've told him it means he still cares about her.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: He always says he's irritated because it's a waste of
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: his time. He slipped up and mentioned one day that
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: she had company when he was there, and it messed
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: up his whole visit. To note there was a man
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: in the house he bought. I put that in the
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: back of my mind because I think that's what really
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: irks him. He's a great dad, but his son is fifteen,
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: so he's not really into his dad like that anymore.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: He prefers to be with his friends on weekends, but
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: this woman and my husband insists on making him visit
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: the woman family. The woman's family lives ten minutes from us,
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: so my husband spends time over there when the woman
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: and his son are in town. She will not drop
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: the boy off over here, and all I can think
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: is that he still enjoys hanging around her family and
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: spending time with her, and that is why we argue.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: He has no rebuttal. When I accuse him of putting
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: her first, all he says is that I would understand
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: if I had a child, And then that starts another argument.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: I want to be the number one. I want to
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: be number one, but it's difficult with his ex wife
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: ever present in my marriage. There can only be one
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: missus Dowdry from here on out. Do I have to
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: wait until this boy is eighteen and have his own
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: life to be a privateority in my husband's life? Okay,
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: this letter is interesting and kind of confusing. I don't
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: think at all it's about priority. I think this letter
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: is about you thinking your husband still cares and has
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: feelings for his ex wife. I mean, I think that's
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: what's causing the problems. I do agree with you that
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: his son at fifteen wants to hang out with his
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: friends and not his dad. I mean, most teenagers want
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: to do that. But I completely disagree with you that
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: your husband's anger is because he still cares for his
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: ex anyone, anyone would be irritated if they drove two
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: hours and still couldn't see their child. Let me ask
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: you this though. There are a bunch of unanswered questions
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: that I have. Do you have a relationship at all
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: with the son? It certainly doesn't sound like it. You
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: know you're his stepmother, right. Why don't you go with
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: your husband when he goes to visit his son? I mean,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: does he not want you to go? Or are you
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: not welcome over there? What is the issue? Why doesn't
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: the husband bring the son to your home? And why
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: doesn't the ex wife drop him off over there? A
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: lot of unanswered questions here. I think they've been left
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: out of this letter. It makes me think were you're
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: the mistress before? Is that why all of this is
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: going on? I don't know, food for thought. On my end,
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: I can also see your husband being irked by another
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: man sitting up in the house that he bought. It
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: still doesn't mean he has feelings for his ex. It
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: could simply mean to him, why doesn't this man get
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: them a house if they're heading in that direction. I
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: think he would prefer a better example of a man
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: around his son and nothing more than that, because that's
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: what parents do. They make it happen. So I think
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: you need to support this black dad, your husband, in
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: his effort to spend quality time with his son, and
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: be happy that he wants to do that. I just
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: think you need to please stop all this arguing and
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: just do your part to make this a real family
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: unit here. I think that's what's missing. Steve. Well, lady,
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: you've got so many things miskewed in this letter. You've
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: just I think your interpretation of a lot of stuff
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: is off. Now you're forty seven year old wife and
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: your husband and I have been married for four years,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: So you got married at forty three according to this letter,
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: and I'm listening you don't have any children, so you
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: already are not going to understand a lot of what's
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: going on him during the four years. All the arguments
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: that we have are over his ex wife, the mother
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: of his only son. She lives two hours away, and
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: at times he would drive to see his son and
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: this woman would not let him visit with the child. Wow,
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: And that's depending on her mood. When she is in
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: a mood, it affects him so that it affects me.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: I've had numa conversations about him or why she still
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: affects him that way, and I've told him it means
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: he still cares about her. What how did you pull
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: that out of that? What are you talking about? That's
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: not what that means at all. The man drives two hours,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: can't see his son, and you think and then guess
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: what you do? It affects him, so that affects me.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: This letter is filled with how you're affected. You ignore
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: the fact that this man is trying to have relationship
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: with his son to drove two hours, and then this
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: helfer who is using the child as a pond, which
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: they oftentimes do, and now he's irritated because he can't
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: see his son. Now you still care about her? Why
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: did you get that from? How? And it affects him?
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: So now it affects me. It's always about you. He says,
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: he's irritated because it's a waste of time. That don't
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: sound like a fact. That's true. He slipped up and
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: mentioned one day that he had company. He didn't slip up.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: He told you you don't slip This ain't a slip off.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: He told you one day. I'll tell you when to
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: come back. You get response coming up at twenty three
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: minutes after the our subject of today's Strawberry letter, I'm
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: the wife, not the mistress. M all right, we'll get
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters. Subject I'm the wife, not the mistress. Okay,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: so you're forty seven years old, you've been married for
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: four years, you have no children, and during the four years,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: all who you have an argument over is about his
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: ex wife, the mother of his only son. She lives
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: two hours away. He drives there, and sometimes a woman
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: uses the child as a pun and won't let him
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: see he's irritated. Yo. Takeaway from that whole thing is
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: the reason when it affects him, it affects you. And
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: the reason he's affected by that's because he still cares
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: about her. What are you kidding me? But then when
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: he tells you he's really irritated because it's a waste
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: of his time, which is true, you get that wrong.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: And then here's another thing. You say he slipped up
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: one time and mentioned one day that she had company
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: when he was there, and it messed up his whole
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: visit to know that that was a man in the
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: house he bought. He didn't slip off. That's not a
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: slip up story. I went to see my son and
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: ticked me off that there's another dude in here in
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: the house. I bought. Men feel that way. I'm telling
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: you right now every man I know would feel that way,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: including me. I'm sending up here and pavement is how
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: his fool's got his feet up over here in the
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: house I didn't bought. I'm paying for a court and
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: gay to her. I gotta take care of my son now.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: This dude over here, cook it, man, please, I know
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  Speaker 1: getting here well? He man as he should be. I
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  Speaker 1: put that in the back of my mind because I
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  Speaker 1: think that's what really irks him. Yeah, it really does
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: irk him. It ain't had nothing to do, but he
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  Speaker 1: care about her. He's a great dad. But his son
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  Speaker 1: is fifteen, so he's not really into his dad like
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: that anymore. He prefers to be with his friends on
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: the weekend. Are you crazy? Are you crazy? Lady? So
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: now you're trying to sweep under the rug the father
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: son relationship because he's a teenager and his assessment is
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: he really ain't into his dad like that no more.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: He really is into his dad. Fifteen year old boys,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: they might take him for granted, but they be into
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: their dad because if that dad ain't there, we out
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: a whole nother problem. But you're so selfish, you can't
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: see this. You's a selfish lady, man. But this woman
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: and my husband insist on making him visit. He has
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: to visit my husband and this woman insist that he visited.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about. You have to spend time
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  Speaker 1: with your children. You have to invest in your son.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: He fifteen, he's at an impressionable age. What are you
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: talking about? This woman and my husband insists on making
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  Speaker 1: him visit he got to he asked for the visitation rights. Man,
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: you ain't got no kids. You're tripping. You're tripping, you
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: really are. And then this woman's family lives ten minutes
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  Speaker 1: from us, so my husband spend times over there when
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: a woman and his son are in town. She will
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: not drop the boy off over here, don't you see?
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: So now if he want to see your son, he
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: gotta go over there. She will not drop the boy
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: off over here. She's using this boy as a pond.
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: She's making him jump through all the hoops. All I
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: can think that he steals enjoys hanging around her family
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: and spending time with her. And that's why how you
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: get that the woman won't drop the boy off. He
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: got to go over that. He must enjoy spending time
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: with the family. He don't want to go over there,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: but it's his only chance to see in the sun.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: But you so damned selfish and self sin it you
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: keep making this about you. You're gonna mess up a
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: relationship that's well needed. And this boy gonna be lost
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: without his dad. And then when I tell him that
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  Speaker 1: he has no rebuttal, when I accuse him of putting
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: her first, because what Roberto, is it, because why can
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: you rebuttle to something that's not the cause. He's dumbfounded.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: He really can't believe how ignorant you are. That's really
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: what the damn I'm married? Is she serious? He doesn't
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: have a rebuttal for that. All he says is that
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: I would understand if I had a child, and then
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: that starts another argument that ain't his faultry hand child?
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: Y'all got married at forty. I want to be the
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  Speaker 1: number one, but it's difficult with his ex wife ever
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  Speaker 1: present in my marriage because she's using the child as
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  Speaker 1: a pawn. Don't you get it? Don't be stupid. The
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: woman knows she's creating dissension in your house, and she
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: uses the son to create the dissension. She knows exactly
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: what she's doing because she's cunning. So now she's making
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: his life as miserable as she can. But you don't
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: see that though, since you know everything. Don't you know
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: how women can be? Don't you? I bet every woman
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: listening to this knows how they can be. Do I
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: have to wait until the boys eighteen and has his
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: own life to be a priority in my own husband's life,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: You're a priority in his life. But his son is
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: a priority too, And when he turns eighteen, I got
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: more news for you. Children don't go away at eighteen.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: This ain't false to care. When his son turns eighteen,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: he gonna still need his dad. My son still need me.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: I wish they'd go away somewhere, but they don't. They don't,
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: they don't, and they stick around and they need us.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: And that's what parents do. And you need to realize
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: that you're a part of a man that is a parent.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: So you should start acting more like a parent instead
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: of a spoil self senate wife. You're gonna make him
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: regret knowing you, lady, keep on. Yeah, that's probably why
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: you ain't been married before. All right, Steve, thank you.
• 1:06:43
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  Speaker 1: prices are at an all time high. Rising energy costs gasoline, coal,
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  Speaker 1: and natural gas are a major driver of high inflation.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Experts say. Ongoing supply chain issues and labor shortages are
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  Speaker 1: driving the higher gas prices. Drivers are paying one hundred
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: one dollar and fifty cent more per gallon than a
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  Speaker 1: year ago. And that's according to Doug Schoop, a spokesperson
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  Speaker 1: a typical midsize sedan with a fourteen gallon size fuel
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  Speaker 1: tank will pay twenty one dollars more to fill up
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  Speaker 1: that tank today than last year. On Sunday, Senator Chuck
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  Speaker 1: Schumer called on President Biden to tap into the nation's
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  Speaker 1: Strategic Petroleum Reserve to provide temporary relief at the pump,
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  Speaker 1: especially ahead of holiday travel. California continues to top the
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  Speaker 1: nation's most expensive markets at four dollars and sixty two
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  Speaker 1: cents a gallon. That's a lot of expenses. Steve, does
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  Speaker 1: this affect you at all? I mean, I know, what
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: would you say, Nephew, Hey, I don't know. He ain't
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: pump no gas. Just what affects me? What? Yes, it
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: affects me? Okay? When hi, because now gas is more expensive?
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  Speaker 1: And how does it affect you? Well, Tommy, I don't
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: know if you know this or not, but they don't
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  Speaker 1: give me free gas. You gotta pay for it. I
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: have to pay for gas too, So yes, it affects me.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: But you didn't ask me if I feel it. You
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: ask me if it affects me, Well, do you feel it?
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: Affecting and feeling we mean the same thing. Okay, okay,
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: well listen to this. Listen to this right here, and
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: I want to say this to everybody listening. How much
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: is gas or gallery right now? Well? No, you can't
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: hear the story how much? No, No, listen to me
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: and I'll give you some I'll give you some numbers.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: In LA. It's four dollars and sixty two cents a gallon. Okay,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: now okay, now right there, right there, that's high. If
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: gas go to six dollars and fifty cents a gallon, Tommy,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: is your ass not gonna buy the gas? I got
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: to get the guards. I rest on fill up case
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: close wells you no, no, no point, as it may
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: affect me, but I got it. It's gas. Okay, if
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: it goes up? Are you still gonna fly? Pray? What
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: did I have to do with cass? Because you got
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: the kr gas? I know that gas high? If if
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: if the car gas went up, I know the plane gass.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: See right, there. That's why are you talking about something
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: that our listening audiences and has no interest in. This
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: is bad radio. I got to start a camp about people. Morning.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: We're going to talk about Thanksgiving dinner sides right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the show. So we know that the
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: turkey is the basis of the Thanksgiving meal. But for us,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: we love those sides, don't we. The sides are the
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  Speaker 1: real stars. Nutrition is from the Good Housekeeping Institute have
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: ranked the most popular sides from healthiest to least healthy.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: Pay attention to this, Steve, please all right. Brussels sprouts
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: number one, number one, never been on our ever, right ever,
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: number one, most popular, healthiest, healthiest side on Thanksgiving that
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: among us has head Brussels sprouts. I know him, all right, Okay,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: Brussels sprouts are a good source of vitamins, AC and
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: K and day. Okay. Butternut squash that's number never wait,
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, butter nuts squash it. Green bean
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  Speaker 1: casserole that's number three. This is the healthiest. Okay. If
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: you put your green beans in the castle role in
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: my house, you sent it. That's a sin. Okay. Now,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: this is kind of half right and half wrong. Sweet
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: potato casserole, that's number four. We just like the sweet
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: What do what do castle? Role means? What white temple? Well,
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: white and white porcelain dish? Nice cast role? Don't they
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  Speaker 1: put like nuts on top of it like we do?
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: Sweet potatoes? Okay, okay, we're it's coming, it's getting home.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: It's getting close now, um mashed potatoes. We don't really
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: never really, we don't know. We got the dress. Here
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  Speaker 1: we go, here we go. This is us right here,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: number six, dinner rolls, dinner rolls, Yes, dress number seven,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: cranberry sauce. Who houses this called absolute must? Julie? I know,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: I know, but why is it number seven? Stop wearing
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: about the number? Boy? They're coming, But there's ocean spraying. Now,
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: there's ocean spray. Go here? Yeah, all right? Dressing five
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  Speaker 1: eight eight eight. Because it has a lot of calories,
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: it's high end sodium to sleep. That's why it's number one.
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  Speaker 1: Number nine. This is embarrassing, Mac and cheese? Is it
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: number nine? I'm leaving at this point? So they're just
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: doing the black people lass. I mean, we used everything, everything,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: because I'm not eating a Brussels frout who I've never
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: heard of that, I have a question. I need you
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: all advice. When Shirley finished, okay, all right, all right,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: let me do number ten one more gravy. You got
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: to be playing gray ten people because it's made from
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: grease drippings and the neck and giblets and all that,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: so it's not very healthy. All right, Okay, this is
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: according to a Good Housekeeping Okay, call what's your question? Okay,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: so y'all know. I don't know if y'all know this,
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  Speaker 1: but my sister in law is white, and so the
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  Speaker 1: green being cast roll huh my my husband's little brothers
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: Mari to a worker, to Harker and he he was
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: he was in San Diego or something. He was that
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: hold on, Hold on, car save your question for the
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: next break. The whole where he met the white girl.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: Are you going to get the backstory? Yeah? I bet
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be scream being cast role in there? Yeah,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: So how do I tell her? I don't hold girl?
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: All right, We'll come back with Carlos Thanksgiving family question.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show. Before we went to break,
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: Carla had a question about Thanksgiving and sides. It looks
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: like this is a black and white issue. Blackness and
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: white sides. Yeah, you know the culture of the cultural
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: differences and where we prefer with our sides for Thanksgiving
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  Speaker 1: black white Thanksgiving. My sister in law, it's white. How
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: do I tell her about the green being castleroll that
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: I will, really and it's a tradition. But Steve needed
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: to know a black backstory about your not a black story,
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: a backstory about your Why do you need to know
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: all of this? This is about listen to me this,
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  Speaker 1: sweet Becky, let me tell you what we're doing. No,
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be at the house. Listen to me.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: To really make people feel warm and welcome. I think
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: we should fix items as more inclusives. And black people
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  Speaker 1: don't like thing they mosa mosa do whatever talk brother, family,
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: don't like green beans up under stuff you reach in
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: the part. They should be in a pot by their
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: self where we could see if we getting potatoes within
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: turket baking with it. What we can't do is scoop
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: it up and see a whole lot of stuff on
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: the play carrias and onions and love, pearl and juice
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: and all this here. We just want green beans. So
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: you can't do this right here and we really don't
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: care for punking path. If you stop and maybe your
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: dressing about the comfort inside of it, not on top,
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: you know, in a pant. We'll do a round of
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  Speaker 1: would you rather? At thirty three minutes after. Right after
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: this you're listening too, it's time for a round of
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: would you rather? Here we go, would you rather be
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: placed in a home when you become old or elderly?
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather live with your children in a
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: tiny house. I'm gonna go to the home and spread. Yeah,
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna gonna give me my check because I'm gonna
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have it right now. I'm gonna be down
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have a couple of women down at
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: this home. Everything. What I'm not gonna do with up
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: in this little tiny ass house. That's not going to happen.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: I'm not living in the tiny house. Now. Put me
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: in the home with this money, and watch when you
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: come to the home, Watch how much of it don't
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: I'm rocking at the home. I'm what. I'm at the
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: home base, but I'm pim pimp at the home. You
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: hear me, I'll rock you on your rocker. I'm at
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: the Friday Night dance every Friday on my walker. Yeah,
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be at the home. You're kicking it. I'm
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: kicking kicking it, all right. Would you rather run across
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: the four or five in LA and all that in La?
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather go shopping Atlantics Mall in Atlanta
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  Speaker 1: on Saturday? Full five? Saturday? Give it to me again?
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: She all right? Would you rather run across the four
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: or five in LA and all that traffic? Okay? Or
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: would you rather go shopping Atlantics Mall in Atlanta on
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: a Saturday. I'm gonna shop it in I'm saying, yeah,
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: I'm not running across that damn fall five, y'all. I'm
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: going across that four five. I'm not running across that
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: full five. Give me that shopping bag. I don't give it.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: I run through Linux. But what you can shoot at somebody,
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: you can't do a damn thing with them cars coming
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: fast and you can get shot on the full five?
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: All that can have more full five? Hell no, give
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: me the bag. Let me go on here and talk
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: to you du with the hell shoes. Don't work through
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: some things, learn some culture stuff in here. I'm just
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: going to here a deal with what's happen in at
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: Linux on the sage say, man, how you how you
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: rocking them? Heell there thing okay? I mean your feet,
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: Yanta be hurt. I'm gonna come out there with some
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: bits or something. All these fake as bergen bag they
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: be canning all this. I'll take pictures. I'm coming out
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: there with a bit. I'm not running across that damn
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: four five. Next question, share, I'm running across the fall five.
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: You must I don't give a damn lista talk to me. Dang.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: All right, let's get back to food real quickly. Would
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: you rather have everything you eat mother than white gravy
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: for a whole week? Or would you rather for it
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: to be covered in hot sauce, white gravy on everything
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: you need for hot everything possible. I don't love a
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: damn how much you go with this hot sauce, that
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: white gravy. You finn, Yeah, I do that? Call us
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: if we do that, naw, everything that ain't no life
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: change from me. I'll tell you what we're not gonna
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: do is just damn quite grave. All right, we'll be back.
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: We'll back with our last break of the day. At
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after some closing remarks from the one
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey right after this you're listening to
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: show all right, guys, here we are our last break
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: of the day on this Wednesday hump day, yes day, man,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: Man the Thanksgiving dinner side. I'm just sord I'm sorry
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: about all this. Here's a lot of stuff. You know what,
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: though it countered away from that, well, okay, away from that,
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 1: because you know, look, it's time for closing marks. So
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: let me try to put something together right because I could,
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: I could run it down about these menu, but we
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 1: got time for that. You know what my closing remarks.
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: He is today and a lot of people can relate
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: to what I'm about to say. I'm so grateful that
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: I have a relationship with God, because, man, it just
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: show helps me out. Man, It helps me get centered,
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: It helps me live in with peace of mind. It
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: gives me a level of comfort that I would not
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 1: have if I didn't have this relationship with him. I'm
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: just so grateful for that, man, because in this world
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: we live in, there's so much stimuli in all of
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: our lives. You know, you wake up in the morning
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: and you grab your cell phone. You want to check
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: your messages, your emails, anything came through. You want to
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: check your Facebook page, see if anybody called, and you
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: check your ig see what's going on, check your DMS
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: and all this here. What I've learned is the best
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: way for me to start my day is to start
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: my day with prayer and meditation. That's the best way
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: to start my day. And you know, when I missed that,
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  Speaker 1: I really noticed something. If I miss it in the morning,
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  Speaker 1: But when I take the time to sit up and
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  Speaker 1: just say thank you, when I can wiggle my toes
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  Speaker 1: or blink my eyes or take a deep breath, or
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  Speaker 1: or realize that today is another opportunity and no matter
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  Speaker 1: what happened, He's given me this other chance, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And and then I got a brand new eighty four thousand,
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  Speaker 1: six hundred seconds today to deal with. I just say
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  Speaker 1: thank you. I just say thank you for all the
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  Speaker 1: things I can think of, my health, my family, my strength,
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  Speaker 1: my my my understanding, my wisdom, my will, the things
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  Speaker 1: he's done for me, the things he's given me, the
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  Speaker 1: things he's about to do for me. By the time
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  Speaker 1: I spend that time saying thank you for all those things,
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  Speaker 1: right there, man, it's starts my day off the right way,
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  Speaker 1: because you know what, when you focus on your blessings
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  Speaker 1: and not on your burdens, it changes your perspective. Y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Now listen, Do I know you have some troubles? I
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  Speaker 1: bet you do. Do you have some things you gotta
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  Speaker 1: contend with? Oh? Yes you do. Are you facing some
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  Speaker 1: things that you might not be sure of and it's
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  Speaker 1: creating a little anxiety? Oh yes it is. But it's
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  Speaker 1: that relationship that I have with God that allows me
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  Speaker 1: to know that I'm able to cope with it all.
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  Speaker 1: And I've said this a hundred times on the show,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say it again because if you think
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  Speaker 1: of all your bad days, if you think of all
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  Speaker 1: the days you thought you wasn't gonna make it, that
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  Speaker 1: you didn't have answers, do you think of all the
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  Speaker 1: times you've had horrible days? I just want to remind
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  Speaker 1: you in each one of those days that your track
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  Speaker 1: record for surviving those types of days is one that's
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  Speaker 1: valuable information, man. And with that information right there, it
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  Speaker 1: always lets me know that I will survive whatever else
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  Speaker 1: happens to me. It's that relationship that I had with God,
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  Speaker 1: man that settles me down. That keeps me focused. That
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  Speaker 1: allows me to stay on track even when I get
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  Speaker 1: off track. And do I get off track? Yes? I do?
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  Speaker 1: Why because I'm human? Yes, it's some days, man, when
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  Speaker 1: I wake up and I don't say thank you. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: some days I wake up and I just get started.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I woke up later. Maybe I just jumped up
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  Speaker 1: and I heard something that went out stairs and I
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  Speaker 1: just got to move it around, and I didn't say
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  Speaker 1: thank you. Y'all had them days? I had them days
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  Speaker 1: when I want to tell somebody off. Y'all? Do I
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  Speaker 1: had them days when somebody that got on my nerves
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  Speaker 1: and I decide that I'm going straighten them out myself. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I do. I have all them days, just like you.
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  Speaker 1: But when I take a moment to pause and I
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  Speaker 1: get a chance to sit with myself and go, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: is it worth it? Every time? Is not? Yeah? Man, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: you can say this, or you can go do that,
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: or you can tell them off, but really do you care?
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm under attack right now, somebody's trying to attack me,
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  Speaker 1: and you know what, I don't even care. I've got
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  Speaker 1: the warning signal that the attack is coming. I don't
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: even care. I don't even care. Do what you want
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: to do, what you're gonna do. I'm tired of people
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  Speaker 1: thinking they got some control over me because they have
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: the ability to say this online. Say what you want
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: to say. You know what's gonna happen. I'm gonna keep
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 1: rising because you have nothing to do with my rise.
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  Speaker 1: You are not my God, you're not the architect of
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: my story. You're not my savior. You're nothing to me,
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  Speaker 1: and I will not give you one moment of power
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  Speaker 1: over me. So write what you want to write, and
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: say what you want to say. When you get through,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna rise. And this message is to my cousin.
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  Speaker 1: I got a big cousin who loves me. Man always
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 1: tries to protect me. Text me the other day, say uncle, Ma,
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  Speaker 1: I get tired of color. I get tired when I
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: hear people talking about you. Let them talk, man. When
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  Speaker 1: they get through talking, I'm still here. They don't even
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: know me. Man, don't even let that affect you. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care no more. I truly don't care no more.
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  Speaker 1: Say what you want to say, do what you want
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  Speaker 1: to do. God is my savior. God is my strength.
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  Speaker 1: God is my rock, And you can't do nothing about
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  Speaker 1: that those are my closing remarks today, and I know
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  Speaker 1: what I just said. A whole lot of people feel
• 1:26:45
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