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What Barack Is Cooking, Public Backside Inhalation, Kier's Hope Town Hall, Pimpin's NFL Picks and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suck down, giving them like
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  Speaker 1: the million things in the stubbs not good. Steve to
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  Speaker 1: the mother, Please, I don't join jo. You gotta turn
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  Speaker 1: be hurting you are you gotta turn to turn them out?
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  Speaker 1: Turn you haven't got the turnout? Then turn the water
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  Speaker 1: to the water got Come come on your bad uh huh?
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  Speaker 1: I show well a good morning everybody. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice. Come on digny now, one and only Steve Harvey,
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  Speaker 1: I got a radio show. Real grateful for that. You
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  Speaker 1: know it's funny, man. I remember when I first started
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  Speaker 1: out in radio, A lot of my peers laughed at me.
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  Speaker 1: Some of it was being mean spirited, some of it
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  Speaker 1: was just you know, marking me. I'm used to stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that. But I had as a special guest on
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  Speaker 1: my show, Joel Oldstein, and you know something, man, he
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  Speaker 1: said something that was I can't remember the scripture. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know exactly how I where. Like. We were having
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  Speaker 1: a long conversation, but the gist of it was, don't
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  Speaker 1: be upset with where you are now, and don't be
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  Speaker 1: upset with the small things in your life. Be grateful
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  Speaker 1: for the small things and a small position that you
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  Speaker 1: have right now, because you don't know where that's going.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know what that's gonna be one day. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know what that's gonna lead to. And that was
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  Speaker 1: very warming to hear him say that. But it also
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  Speaker 1: reminded me of when I started in radio, how small
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  Speaker 1: it was. It reminded me of when I started in
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  Speaker 1: stand up making twenty five dollars a show. It reminds
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  Speaker 1: me of not having a home at a period in
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  Speaker 1: my life and what God has allowed me to live
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  Speaker 1: in now. So don't be distraught over your position now,
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  Speaker 1: and don't be ungrateful or unappreciative for the things you
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  Speaker 1: have now because you don't know what that's going to
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  Speaker 1: grow into. And that's really the gist of that I
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  Speaker 1: got from what he was saying. I just wanted to
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  Speaker 1: share that with you, that where you are now it's
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  Speaker 1: so temporary because now, like I've said before, now is
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  Speaker 1: a fleeting moment. Right after you fits saying now, that
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  Speaker 1: moment that you claimed as now, that's gone. So the
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  Speaker 1: where you are now is a very fleeting process. Now
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  Speaker 1: you can change where you are now, and you can
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  Speaker 1: change how you feel about where you're at now, and
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  Speaker 1: you can change about where you're going by simply changing
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  Speaker 1: your mind. It is no difference. I'm telling you, folks,
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  Speaker 1: the thing that I've learned about successful people is not
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  Speaker 1: so much what they do. It's not what they have.
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  Speaker 1: The biggest thing I've learned about successful people is how
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  Speaker 1: they think. That's the thing that's different. It's how they think.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you that you can change the way
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  Speaker 1: you think on any subject and start becoming successful towards that.
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  Speaker 1: Starting now, you have to understand that. Man, the biggest
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  Speaker 1: difference I've noticed between successful people and non successful people
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  Speaker 1: is how they think. I was reading what is God
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  Speaker 1: said that he was taught all wrong about money. He
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  Speaker 1: said that his father was very negative about money. He
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  Speaker 1: all throughout his life he heard his father say, you know,
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  Speaker 1: people who got money have walked on somebody to get it,
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  Speaker 1: or cheated somebody to get it. People who have money,
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  Speaker 1: money is the root of all evil. Money is money
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  Speaker 1: is this And people who got money, you know, don't
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  Speaker 1: deserve it. They've done something wrong to get it. YadA, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: So he said, he grew up the whole time thinking
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  Speaker 1: that having money when something was wrong with that, he
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  Speaker 1: discovered that it wasn't. Look. You can choose to be
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  Speaker 1: successful anywhere you want to. I've chosen several ways to
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  Speaker 1: be successful. I want to be a very, very successful father.
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  Speaker 1: I think that's one of the things that's paramount in
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  Speaker 1: my life that I really am working hard right now
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  Speaker 1: to become a successful father. Not a successful father in
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  Speaker 1: terms of money, but a successful father in terms of
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  Speaker 1: offering the amount of love and guidance and leadership and
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  Speaker 1: the example that my children need to look at. That's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm really really working hard at now. I want
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  Speaker 1: to be successful as a father, but also I want
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  Speaker 1: to be successful as a husband. You know. I want
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  Speaker 1: Marjorie to always know that she can count on me,
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  Speaker 1: to not have to wonder about me a look for me.
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  Speaker 1: You know. I want her to feel secure in the
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  Speaker 1: fact that I really have gotten it right, that I
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  Speaker 1: really am focused on being a good husband to her
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  Speaker 1: because it means so much to me, you know. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm working hard on a lot of levels. I'm working hard.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying very strong to be a successful motivator of people.
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  Speaker 1: I want to be a sharer of information to people
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  Speaker 1: that will uplift others and give others the same things
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  Speaker 1: that I've learned through the trials and tribulations of my life.
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  Speaker 1: But at the same time share that information and use
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  Speaker 1: the power this microphone to uplift people, you know, not
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  Speaker 1: to destroy. My show is not about guess what's so
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  Speaker 1: and so said? Guess what's so and so did. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like mean spirited things about people, you know. I
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  Speaker 1: joke with people calling this that's another thing. But I
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  Speaker 1: don't like destroying people with the power to microphone. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm working very hard on being successful in a lot
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  Speaker 1: of areas of my life now. Also I do care
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  Speaker 1: about being financially successful too, because my father. One of
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  Speaker 1: the gifts he gave me was very simple gift. He
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  Speaker 1: told me a long time ago. He said, son, the
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  Speaker 1: best thing you can do for poor people is not
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  Speaker 1: be one of them. And that stuck with me. And
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  Speaker 1: this was a hard working man who was a coal
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  Speaker 1: miner who worked construction his entire life. My father didn't
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  Speaker 1: have an easy life man. My father didn't sit behind
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  Speaker 1: a microphone. My father didn't come to work and people
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  Speaker 1: cheered for him. My father wasn't famous. My father was
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  Speaker 1: just a go get it dude. That he instilled that
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  Speaker 1: in me and I've taken that and applied it to
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  Speaker 1: my craft and I thank God for him for that.
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  Speaker 1: But I do try to be financially successful so that
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  Speaker 1: I can do some things with it to help some
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  Speaker 1: other people. Now, am I opposed to having nice things? No?
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  Speaker 1: Do I apologize for having nice things? No? And why
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  Speaker 1: should I? I work? I work? You know, I'm done.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not on the radio asking to give me money,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so I can go buy a car. I'm working.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't feel how you want to feel. And
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  Speaker 1: other people do feel that way about it. But if
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  Speaker 1: success in terms of finance it's what you're lacking, you
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  Speaker 1: can go about the business of doing that. I'm writing
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  Speaker 1: a book and that whole book is about teaching people
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  Speaker 1: how to become successful. And man, I'm breaking it down
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  Speaker 1: in a way where everybody can get it, man, because
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  Speaker 1: I want the college student to get it, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I want the working mom to get it, the single
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  Speaker 1: mom to get it. The hard working father has been
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  Speaker 1: trying to hold his family together can get it. The
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  Speaker 1: father that ain't ever got it together and feel that
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  Speaker 1: because of that reason, he can't be the father he
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  Speaker 1: needs to be. I'm writing something, man, to put it
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  Speaker 1: into words, to let you know that God is a
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  Speaker 1: forgiving God, and that God is a merciful God, and
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  Speaker 1: that God can get you out of any situation you
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  Speaker 1: find yourself in. You just can't beat yourself up every
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  Speaker 1: time you make a mistake. I make mistakes all the time, man,
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  Speaker 1: I just got to remind myself to get up. I
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  Speaker 1: ask God for forgiveness, I call on his mercy and
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  Speaker 1: it's grace and I get up and I go again.
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  Speaker 1: But it's coming, man. And if finance success is what
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  Speaker 1: you want, you got to change your mind. You got
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  Speaker 1: to start thinking about how to produce it. The first
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  Speaker 1: thing you do is you gotta ask. You gotta ask
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  Speaker 1: to have a life and have a life more abundantly.
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  Speaker 1: That's a scripture that He comes to you to give
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  Speaker 1: you life and to give you life more abundantly. That's
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  Speaker 1: a scripture that ain't a joke, that ain't a theory.
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  Speaker 1: That's a fact, and the fact that if you don't
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  Speaker 1: have a life of abundance, you can get that by asking.
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  Speaker 1: Then it starts by believing, and how to don't even
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  Speaker 1: worry about that. He takes care of at himself. He'll
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  Speaker 1: send the stuff your way. But you got to be
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  Speaker 1: willing to put some effort in this thing now, and
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  Speaker 1: you can do it. Okay. I know I was a
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  Speaker 1: little around the place today, but that's what it was.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, let's go get it. You're listening morning,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Let me have it your attention, Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Martin, show us owner. Just like the morning, we're here.
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  Speaker 1: As long as God give us grace and mercy. Here
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  Speaker 1: we go again. Shirley Strawberry, Carl Correl, Mouth, other South
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  Speaker 1: Junior and me. Yeah, Union, what's on your mind today? Man?
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  Speaker 1: You know, well, let's let's just talk about it up.
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  Speaker 1: The plan is the plan, It is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Your goals are your goals. But the minute adversity show up,
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  Speaker 1: we spend two three years because we had one thing
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  Speaker 1: go wrong. Uh, talk to that. How how you fix
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  Speaker 1: that attitude? How you getting people to understand like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be perfect at all. Well, I'm you know,
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  Speaker 1: I know people who get stuck on me failure. But
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  Speaker 1: I want to share something that you are when you
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  Speaker 1: fail at something. I've said this a million times. It's
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  Speaker 1: a part of the process. But let me tell you
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  Speaker 1: what failure is. Failure is an event. Failure is not
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  Speaker 1: a person. It's an event. You've got to learn how
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  Speaker 1: to move past and through the events because events will
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  Speaker 1: always be happening. Circus is coming to time. New Year's Eve,
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  Speaker 1: fourth of July. It's events. There's a parade downtown, Macy's Day.
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  Speaker 1: Parade as always an event. We're doing firework, there's a picnic,
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  Speaker 1: class reunion. It's an event. But when is a circus? Thought?
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  Speaker 1: Because I like it. Failure is an event. It's not
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  Speaker 1: a person. Stop letting these events find who you are.
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  Speaker 1: You know more failure than you the fourth that you lie,
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  Speaker 1: You know, more failure than you are. New Year's Eve.
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  Speaker 1: They are events, and once the event is over, it's over.
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  Speaker 1: New Year's Eve ain't coming no more for another three
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  Speaker 1: hundred and sixty five days. It's an event. Failure will
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  Speaker 1: happen again. You just don't know, Quinn. It's an untimely event.
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  Speaker 1: It's usually an unplanned event, an unexpected event, an unwelcomed event.
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  Speaker 1: But all it is is an event. You are not
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  Speaker 1: an event. You are a person. I refuse to allow
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  Speaker 1: an event to describe who I am. I am strong,
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  Speaker 1: I am powerful. I'm a child of God. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: man of faith, I am discipline, I'm hard working. So
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  Speaker 1: when I fail at something, that event happens, I get
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  Speaker 1: on back to being who I really am. Stop letting
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  Speaker 1: the event define you. Failure ain't nothing but an event,
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  Speaker 1: that's all it is. Smooth on. Yeah, keep having four
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  Speaker 1: for July, and we're not gonna entertain this foolishness with you.
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  Speaker 1: Shelly about this day. You brought it up. Well, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't ask you to stay on it. I can't help it,
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  Speaker 1: all right, all right, look, coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna we're gonna run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back with Junior in for the nephew right after
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  Speaker 1: this you're listening show, all right, it is time now
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  Speaker 1: to run that prank back with Junior in for the nephew. Junior,
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  Speaker 1: which you got this morning something that most of us
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  Speaker 1: have had problem, none of us at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: but the nephew definitely had very confusing. Don't worry, Aboudy
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  Speaker 1: gets called problem at the valet. I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: you can get one, but you can get one problem
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  Speaker 1: at the valet. Come on, Cat, Hello, Hey, I'm going
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  Speaker 1: Hey Tommy, how's it going? Hey? Man, what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: You're doing all right? I'm doing good, doing good. What's up? Hey? Listen?
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  Speaker 1: I need you to do something for me. But you
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  Speaker 1: need your your your car, he tells us. No no,
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  Speaker 1: no, no no, no no no not just listen. If I
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  Speaker 1: got something I want you to do for me. I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing a plank phone call, and I want you to
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  Speaker 1: call this guy and tell him you're the valet downstairs,
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  Speaker 1: ask him for his ticket number, and tell him, hey,
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  Speaker 1: we got a little bit of an issue. But my
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  Speaker 1: my manager is gonna call you back. Uh. He's sure.
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  Speaker 1: You want me to do it? You're the ballet guy,
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  Speaker 1: that's all you gotta do? All right? What does the
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  Speaker 1: Mexican guy gotta be at the valet guy and you
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  Speaker 1: get to be the manager? What's up with that? I'm
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  Speaker 1: putting click over with Nick the car. All I want
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  Speaker 1: you to do is just telling you near the ballet guy.
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  Speaker 1: Will you do that for me? All right? Man? I
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  Speaker 1: got you? All right? All right? All right, hay on,
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  Speaker 1: just hang on Hello. Hello is this mister Franklin? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: Can I ask us calling? Oh? Yes, um, I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: Orlando with ballet. Did you start electus with us about
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  Speaker 1: thirty minutes ago? Yeah? I did. What's what's going on?
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  Speaker 1: What's just about? I'm just gonna need your ticket number
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  Speaker 1: real quick. There's a small issue. And once you get
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  Speaker 1: the ticket number, I could have a manager just call
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  Speaker 1: you back five three four six. But why do you
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  Speaker 1: Why do you need my ticket number? Is there something
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  Speaker 1: wrong with my car? Does something happened? Um, my manager
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  Speaker 1: will call you back and he'll give you all the details. Okay, So,
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  Speaker 1: so something did happen to my car? Um? Once I
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  Speaker 1: give him my manager your ticket number, he'll call you
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  Speaker 1: back shortly and he'll tell you everything. Okay, Well, can
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  Speaker 1: you have him give me a call as soon as
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  Speaker 1: possible because I would like to know what happened to
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  Speaker 1: my car if something happened. This is I don't I
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  Speaker 1: don't really understand what's going on here. I'm sorry. I
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  Speaker 1: have to go, but you can't tell me anything else
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  Speaker 1: before you leave. I mean, there's no details that you
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  Speaker 1: can give me about anything with my car. Like I
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  Speaker 1: my manager won't handle it. I have to get going
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  Speaker 1: perfect Orlando. That's perfect, right, I got it from here, bro.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate let's call him back. Hello. Hello, is this uh?
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  Speaker 1: Is this mister Franklin? Yeah, this is he can ask
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  Speaker 1: his calling. This is clough Man. I'm the manager here
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  Speaker 1: down at the valet. Oh great, thank you. I've been
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  Speaker 1: waiting to hear it from you. Oh my god. Thirty
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  Speaker 1: minutes ago you you pulled in with a telling me
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  Speaker 1: a silver light? Great lexus, Yeah, that's that's Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: my car. What what's going on with my car here? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: And what's your number? Is it five three four six? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's that's my number. I mean, I already went through
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  Speaker 1: this with the other guy. Can you just tell me
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  Speaker 1: what the hell is going on with my car? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Are you able to come downstairs right now? No? I can't.
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  Speaker 1: I valet over there, I'm at a I'm at a
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  Speaker 1: lunch with a client somewhere else. I'm not there right now.
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  Speaker 1: Why do I need to come down right now? But
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  Speaker 1: he just what is happening? Okay? So here's the deal. Sorry,
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  Speaker 1: we have a we have a one of the valet
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  Speaker 1: workers here has gotten mad and he left. He quit
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  Speaker 1: the job, and he's he's gone, he's left the premise.
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  Speaker 1: The problem we're having right now is we don't see
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  Speaker 1: your car, you know, and then you don't see what
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  Speaker 1: do you what? I'm sorry? What? Well, I'm okay, okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: oh wow, all right, So my car is gone? Car
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  Speaker 1: is gone? Is that what you tell me right now?
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  Speaker 1: Somebody company and took my car? Well, well, Ham, we're
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  Speaker 1: looking on every flour and we're trying to figure out
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  Speaker 1: if it's got part somewhere else. But he's gone and
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  Speaker 1: we're we're that's why we call to get your number
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  Speaker 1: on card somewhere else. Man, What the do you mean
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  Speaker 1: to I have a car or not that my card
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  Speaker 1: just stolen? Hony forts? Do you have how long to
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  Speaker 1: take I just bought that car. That is a brand
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  Speaker 1: new car, and now it's just are you kidding me?
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  Speaker 1: Right now? Well hold on, hold on, I understand, I understand.
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  Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. Is there a way? Um?
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  Speaker 1: Is there a way? Maybe you can come by tomorrow
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  Speaker 1: and we can try to work come now and just
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  Speaker 1: see it. You know, No, there is no way I'm
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  Speaker 1: coming by tomorrow for a car that's listening today. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, we need to get the police involved in this.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know, mister Frank. Right now, mister Frank,
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  Speaker 1: we don't want to get the police involved in this.
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  Speaker 1: We Who is we? Because I dam I'm sure I
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  Speaker 1: want to get the police involved. So who is I'm
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  Speaker 1: just saying weird? I listen, I don't want to lose
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  Speaker 1: my job because we lost the car. If you just
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  Speaker 1: give me some time to find the car, That's all
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  Speaker 1: I want you to do is give me sometime. Let
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  Speaker 1: me go by this guy's house where he lives and
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  Speaker 1: see if the car is there. You should already be
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  Speaker 1: in a car driving YO. Ask to this man's house
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  Speaker 1: talking to me right now. Hey, the fact that you're
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  Speaker 1: not there, it's malpractice. I'm calling the police. I'm suing
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  Speaker 1: the building on it. I'm suing the managers. I'm suing
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  Speaker 1: THEO made the valet box. I'm sure everybody affiliated with YO,
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  Speaker 1: mistiness you under send me right now. I'm kiddy, mister pranking.
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  Speaker 1: Why are you? Why are you? Why are you upset
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  Speaker 1: with me? I didn't do that now, I didn't take
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  Speaker 1: the card. Why are you responsible for this? Parkt butt?
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  Speaker 1: Are you a manager? What is your occuproblem? Sir? Why
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  Speaker 1: are you people to manage? I'm the manager here. An
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  Speaker 1: Orlando called you earlier okay, and we're trying to find
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  Speaker 1: out where the car is. We all really feel like
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  Speaker 1: if you don't even want the police involved, man, you're
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: not trying to fudge trying to come Yeah right now,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I'm mad at Orlando, I'm mad at you, I'm mad
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  Speaker 1: at your company. I'm ast the man who put the
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: damn asshot down in the parking lot. I'm mad at
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  Speaker 1: everybody right now. Okay, clip, okay, okay, okay, we'll come down. Okay,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: but let me ask you this here? Are you are you?
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: Are you mad at um? Are you man at your wife?
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: What is man at my wife? And White? Didn't steal
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  Speaker 1: my damn car Ain't your wife name Carrie? How the
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: hell you know my wife's name? You know how I
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: know your wife's name because your wife got me to
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: call you. This is nephew Timmy from Steve Harvey More. Damn, Frankly,
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  Speaker 1: you just gotta plague baby mother. Damn, oh boy, we're
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  Speaker 1: going to the marriage conflance. This this is y'all. Have
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  Speaker 1: you have she heard the boy? She said he just
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: bought this car, he loves this, started sitting in it
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: when he ain't going nowhere. Wow, I can't believe it.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: It's always it's always the closest people. It's all you
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: don't tell you what I tell you? Who is not
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: getting to ride in this car for a long time?
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: He man? I mean is what is the baddest that
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about? The baddest radio show in the land.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby, How how you
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  Speaker 1: have problems at Valois Alexis at that brand new Yeah,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: don't be some problems at the ridiculous play too much? Man?
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Stupid with it? All right, Junior, thank you. Coming up next,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: it is asked the cello, the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: right here in the building, ready for your love questions.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. In entertainment news,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: President Obama and Are Forever First Lady Michelle unveil their
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: White House portraits and we'll talk about that. Of course,
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: this year's Super Bowl halftime performers won two Emmy Awards,
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: and Fat Joe is hosting the b ET Awards. What
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: but right now it is time to ask the CLO,
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, ready for you McKenzie and
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Tampa says, I'm turning thirty and three months and I
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: hope that my boyfriend of six years proposes to me.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: My closest girlfriends are already married, and that makes me
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: think I'm wasting my time with this guy. Is it
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: okay to give my man an ultimatum in this situation? Absolutely?
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, what are we doing? You have every right
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: to know where your future is headed. You have every
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: right to have a plan on a say so in it.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know why y'all women and keep giving these
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: men the power to decide what you gonna do with
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: your life when he's steady to do with you. Please
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: say that again? Why do you keep giving these men
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: the decision making power over what you should do with
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: your life? You have us say so in this matter
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: of fact, you have the major say so. But you
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: steady doing what he want to do, and you steady
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: ain't getting what you want six years you've been his girlfriend.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: M Look what are we doing? Yeah, now you're gonna
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: get the same excuse. I'm trying to get my money
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: right and all that said, we can get it right together. Yes, Yes,
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: I think it's fair too. A lot of times, Steve,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: don't you they think the man will leave them if
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: they if they assert themselves like that, Well he's staying
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: and ain't giving you what you want, or he can
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: leave and not give you what you want. Which one
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: you want to do? Okay? I chance to meet somebody
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: to give you what you want? Okay? All right? That
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: was great advice. All right, you got that, Mackenzie and Tampa.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Junk is another man's treasure. Treasure, Yes, all right, yes,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: thank you, cello. Tanya and fort Worth says over the
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Christmas holidays, I slept with my sister's ex husband a
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: few times. My husband had just left me. Uh like,
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: that's just nothing right. My husband had just left me
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: and I was vulnerable. I told my sister about it,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: and she forgave me. He and I want to be together,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: but I don't know how to tell her that part.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Should I follow my heart and tell her or find
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: someone else to love? WHOA, Tanya, I don't know what
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: you should do what. I'm not dating your ex husband
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: and I want to marry you. Yeah, she forgave tell
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: her the way that y'all slept together. Go and find
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: a way to tell her. I don't care what you do.
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Why don't you care though? Why? Because I don't like
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: mess situation? Yeah? Yeah? And then people want me to
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: figure that out, for I ain't been to figure out nothing.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: How does feel to you? Yeah, your sister, this is
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: your sister. She forgave you already one time. Come on now, well,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: she says she was vulnerable, everybody vulnerable. How does she
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: feel if her sister started dating her ex husband? Let's
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: flip it, all right, Clo, you said you don't care,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: all right? Kelvin and Memphis says, I didn't use my
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: real name. But here's what I need to know. My
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: girlfriend and I break up a lot because she's a
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: very controlling person. If she doesn't get her way, she
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: trips out and dumps me. Should I continue to let
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: her lead in our relationship? What? Huh? Calvin with the
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: wrong name? What should I continue to let her lead
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: in the relationship? You stupid? I think the question is
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: should you continue to follow? Uh? Huh? Um? Just you?
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: You call me whatever you want to call But I'm
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: not ain't ain't nobody leading me? No? We can go together,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: right and I'm not gonna get led partnership? Uh huh?
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Why do you call him Calvin with the wrong name
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: because he said, I'm not using my real name. Yeah,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: he didn't use his real name. Oh, just wrong dog.
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  Speaker 1: She do, won't you? Uh? If she doesn't get her way,
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: she trips and quits him every time. Wow, she don't,
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  Speaker 1: won't you? Yeah? Uh? Yeah? Yeah? All right, all right?
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: Last one? Still, last one, Andrea in Seattle says. Andrea says,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: I've heard that you really learn a person after you
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: travel with them. My man and I went on our
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: first vacation and he trashed the hotel room. He stole towels,
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: was rude to the lady that cleaned our room daily.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Now it's just just vacation behavior or not. Wait a minute,
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I don't understand what rude is rude? Yeah, nasty is nasty,
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  Speaker 1: and wrong is wrong? What difference do it make where
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: you committed? Yeah to hear that, Andrea in Seattle. When
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  Speaker 1: is bad behavior rewarding? I don't understand that. So you
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: think this just gonna stay on vacation. You don't see
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: this coming. He is who he is stealing from the hotel.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: What you just left the Bahamas, Steve, you we gotta go. Still,
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  Speaker 1: you never stole little here y'all stole all is sot
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  Speaker 1: in the lotion. So when I left the room, when
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  Speaker 1: let me play something. When I left the room, you
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  Speaker 1: know somebody was in there. Dog. I took every town
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I used to, I used get a little small shot,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: used to I used to nothing. Now when I was
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: homeless and would get a room. What you house? All
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: this I was years ago, not now clear. I don't
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: want nothing, ever, Marge, you got everything nice at our house.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: You ain't got to take nothing. I don't want nothing.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: But when I was homeless, look at him who got you?
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: What do you know? At motail six out on the road,
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  Speaker 1: what they started doing was when you check in, if
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: you want the towel, the washcloth and the soap, you
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: had to give me your drivers life. Oh wow. Then
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: when you bring them back the towel, soap, I mean,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: the towel, and the dish I mean and the washcloth,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: you got your id back. That's what they did out
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: on the road. When you bring them back, you take
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  Speaker 1: them back to the front desk. You had to go
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: to the front desk, get your tie, moteel, Tombo, deadly
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  Speaker 1: light on. Didn't you tell us one time that you
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: were responsible for them nailing the pictures to the wall
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  Speaker 1: and the TV. Yeah, all that, all that Mount TV's
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: putting on Mount Yeah, I was responsible for all that.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: That's all the pictures you see nailed to the wall.
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  Speaker 1: I created that. The TV's on them swivels, that's mounted.
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  Speaker 1: I created that. The reason you have pay for you
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  Speaker 1: pay before you pumped the gas station, I was driving
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: awful thanks full of game. I'm the reason for Thank you, CLO.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Great advice this morning. Coming up at the top of
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you. Right
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: after this you're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show. Well,
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: you know, we're still on cloud nine from seeing our
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: former President Barack Obama and our former First Lady Michelle
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Obama back in the White House for the unveiling of
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: their official portraits. The portraits of both President Obama and
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: are beautiful. Forever First Lady Michelle Obama, we'll be placed
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: in the halls of the White House, alongside portraits of
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  Speaker 1: all the other presidents. Love it. The unveiling was held
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: in the East Room, and it felt like a big
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: family reunion at the White House. President Obama even seemed
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: giddy as he addressed the audience and told a cute joke.
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  Speaker 1: He comment commended the artist for doing such a great
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  Speaker 1: job on Michelle's portrait. Take a listen. It was important
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: to find the right people to paint them. I want
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: to thank Sharon Sprung for capturing everything I love about Michelle,
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  Speaker 1: her grace, her intelligence, and the fact that she's fine.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Let's say, chis her portrait is stunning. I love that.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Would say, Yeah, he sounded good, didn't He brought back
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: great memories. Missus Obama thanked her husband for such spicy remarks.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Quote as the audience continued laughing. So, um, now when
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: you go to the White House, if you get a
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: chance to visit the White House, um, you'll see those
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: stunning portraits on the wall next to all the other
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: ones there. Yeah, because of a nice break. Hater didn't
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  Speaker 1: want Yeah, Trump didn't want Yeah, he didn't he want
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  Speaker 1: to have a ceremony there. Absolutely. Yeah, he's such an idiot.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Was hope he gets in some damn trouble. He is
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: in trouble that he just gets out of it or
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: they nobody does anything about it. He's in trouble. At
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: this year's Super Bowl, hip hop and R and b
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: Royalty took center stage for the entire halftime show. We
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: all saw it for the first time in history of
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: the Big Game. Snoop Dog, Doctor Dre, Mary, Jay, Kendrick,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Lamar fifty cent a. Eminem's halftime show was loved by everyone,
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: and to prove it, each one of them has won
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: two Emmy Awards, one for Outstanding Variety Special Live and
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: for Outstanding Production Design. This is the first time a
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Super Bowl halftime show has one UH and Outstanding Production zign.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: The Emmy Awards airs this Monday night on NBC with
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Keenan Thompson. You know him well, Steve, because he does
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: such great impressions of you on Saturday Night Live. Yeah, well,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: everybody else loves You're probably gonna be at the Emmys.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: That's what you'll probably. Keenan Thompson will be hosting the Emmys.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Another awards show, news be Et announced that Fat Joe
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: will host this year's be Et Hip Hop Awards, and
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Fat Joe went on record saying this will be the
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: biggest awards show in history. Okay, we loved when Fat Joe.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Fat Joe was guest hosting The Wendy Williams Show with
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Remy mad during Wendy's absence. So he's probably going to
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: be a great host. And Steve, You and Cedric the
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Entertainer hosted the very first be ET Awards um back
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: in two thousand and one in Las Vegas. Now, how
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: was that? You know, does that bring back memories? Would
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: you ever host to be ET Awards again? Well? Probably not.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not as valid in that culture. No, I'm really not.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: You know, I know that for a fact, there's too
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: many people that's in that culture that that could be
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: more valid than me in that position. You know, you
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: think so, yeah, you am sad together. I mean, you know,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: that would be a throwback, but I don't think they'd
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: asked it that. I think, you know, they move on.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: You know, hip hop dominates the BET Award, and you know,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: I don't that we're not involved in that that way.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: I don't think they're seeing us that point. Okay, Well,
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: the b ET Award airs, Uh, they air on October fourth,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: So there the Hip Hop Awards with that show. Huh,
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: that's would be good. Uh huh, it's gonna be good.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: I'm we're gonna watch it for sure. Yeah, yeah, I
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: think he will. He's got that personality, that big, big personality.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Well he said, it's gonna be the biggest awards show
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: in history, Bigger than the Oscars, bigger than the Grammys. Everything. Okay,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: I can top the Oars. Okay, nothing unless you go
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: slap the as. Yeah, and you never know because they're live,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: you never know what might happen. That's the thing, that's
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: the thing. But um, but yeah, I don't know, Steve,
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: though I know that hip hop dominates these awards, but
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: I would love to see you and said host again
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: because you know, the partnership was just it was just
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: magic and we don't see that kind of magic anymore,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: you know, like that between two comedians, like oh, it
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: was greatness, greatness, I mean really I thought it was
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: came off at that court and Spider Man in the
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  Speaker 1: Hood Man, just in Man, Spider Man in the Hood. Dog,
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  Speaker 1: it's solved at crime me Hey dog, Hey dog, wasn't
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: trying to to I'm not shot. I mean, did you
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: even think about it? You and Stead spent time in
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: the Bahamas, Did you guys ever think about doing something
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: else together? And I had such a great time with
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: my dude. Man, we really realize how much we missed
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: each other. Man. That's just my dude. Man. Yeah, yeah,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: said we do, we do, we do all right? Well,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we're gonna
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: talk about September as sickle cell Awareness month, Um, Junior.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: What we definitely want you to chime in on this
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: when we'll talk about it when we come back right
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  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show this month. September is
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: sickle cell Disease Awareness month, and sickle cell disease is
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: an inherited red blood cell disorder. Healthy red blood cells
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  Speaker 1: around and they move through blood vessels, small blood vessels
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: to carry oxygen to all parts of the body. And
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: someone who has sickle cell disease, the hemoglobin is abnormal,
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  Speaker 1: which causes the red blood cells to become hard and
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  Speaker 1: c shaped. Eighty six percent of African Americans have the
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: disease or carry thee eighty six percent of African American
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  Speaker 1: steed have sickle cell disease or carry the sickle cell trait. Junior.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Of course, ye are are you serious? Yeah? Yeah, eighty
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  Speaker 1: six Yeah, and you know it or if they don't
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying that you could have a trade. Uncle, y'all
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  Speaker 1: get tested. I have the trade. Junior calling sea right there.
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  Speaker 1: Caller got the trade. Huh, I knew I had it.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: I had the trade. Yeah, I'm not going down there.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave mine alone. Mentioned it. He don't know.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: He there, I'm not. I'm not gonna shake him. Tell
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: my head. Well, other tests. You gotta go get your
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: prostate exams and all that, but this is here, test
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  Speaker 1: right here. It's not the end of the world, all right. Yeah,
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: I know it's me and Junior talking about this. If
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: you really even go down to the hospital. When he
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: had his last crisis, it was you and he didn't call.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: But he crisis. I don't and as you can tell,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: I don't have the trade, nor do I want to
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: know you has. There's a new medicine now, yeah, that
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  Speaker 1: Is that correct, Junior? Yes, sir, I'm I'm gonna dug Yeah. Man,
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  Speaker 1: It's it's a price the episode something Come on TV.
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  Speaker 1: Would you let Junior talk? Okay, I'm trying to help
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  Speaker 1: Junior talk, but You're not gonna sit and tell him
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  Speaker 1: he was an episode like he was watching. Be quiet, Monica.
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  Speaker 1: to Junior for a second. Steve, you're planning a town
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  Speaker 1: Tell us about it quickly, please, Yes, it's a town
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Jr. Coming up at thirty four
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're switching gears here because comedian
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: Arie Spears has spoken out. Now he says his child
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: sexual abuse lawsuit is an extortion attempt. We'll get into
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, it's previously reported here on the show.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Comedian's airy Spears and Tiffany Hattish were named in a
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: recent lawsuit which alleges child sexual abuse in connection with
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: a Funny or Die skit from twenty thirteen and twenty fourteen.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Tiffany spoke about spoke out earlier this week about it
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: by posting a message on Instagram, and now Airy Spears
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: has commented on the lawsuit. He did it during the
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: latest episode of his Spears and Steinberg podcast. He says,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: the lawsuit is extortion. Take a listen, and this is
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: this is an extortion case. This is a shakedown. And
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: believe me, it's bothering me not to talk about the skit.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: I would love to address it head on. Tony Montan
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: and Scarface balcony scene shooting a thousand Colombians. Uh, but
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I can't, and it's painting me to do so because
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I'm a fighter, I'm not a runner and my characters
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: being assassinated. As much as I want to expose that,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: I won't say her name either. And I will say
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: this if you you could even dig up the history yourself.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: But this person has a history of these false accusations. Wow,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: well listen. I hope for their sake, Tiffany and ay
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: spears that that that's true. I could imagine it being
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: a shakedown. The problem is something was put on film,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: and something was put on film with kids. That's a
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: true statement. Yeah, the skit is there so and the
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: title of the skit the Mind of a Pedophile right there.
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: It just don't bold whale for comedy. I think it's
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: a lesson sometimes, you know, there's lessons in other people's
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: lives too. You don't have to experience everything yourself. Sometimes
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: knowing what not to do is equally as valuable as
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: knowing what to do. I mean, no body in the
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: right mind should have thought a skit call the Mind
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: of a Pedophile's gonna work and then to take and
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: film something, whether some kids and the mama knew about it,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: I probably is some shakedown going home. But you can't
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: give them a pin to stickulate. You can't provide the shake. Yeah. Yeah,
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: that's because Tiffany said, I wish I never had participated
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: in the skin Yeah, she said it wasn't funny. So
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: you know he was in bad judgment. But they can't
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: talk about it. I know the lawyers to shut him down,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: and I hope this pans out well for them. I
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: hate to see their careers just go away. And something
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: happened to what they said twenty fourteen, twenty thirteen and fourteen. Yeah,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I wish him the best for everybody evolved. But yeah,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: I mean that's all you can do until you know,
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: the facts come out and we see But yeah, this
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: is a tough one and we'll we'll keep you posted.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: I mean we're following it. You know, we're following it,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: the story and everything. Yeah, that's I mean, it's really something.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: And she had she said what she had to say earlier.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: So Eric Spears has his pod cast and he was
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: able to address what he could address on his podcast.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: So he came, you know, damn he need to be
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: real quiet, right, Yeah, I mean yeah, the title alone, Yeah,
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: mind of a pedophile. Yeah, who was in the room
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: thought this was a good idea? Did nobody say nothing like, Hey,
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna do what. I'm gonna be a
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: part of what. Yeah, I'm not gonna do that. You
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: always need around you, come on, come on, hey, hey man,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: are you serious. Yeah, it's a bunch of yes people
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: around you. Because then stuff like this happens. You don't
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: need nobody say okay, mind of a pedophile. Okay, let
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: me go set the camera. Why that's funny? Yeah, everything
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: is not a joke. No, don't let me look at
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: the blue mic. No, not at all. All right, Uh,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: we're moving on. Coming up next, is there phone call
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: for it today with Junior and for the nephew. We'll
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: find about find all about what that's about right after this.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: You're listening. Coming up in about four minutes after the hour.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: he wants to and I do too. M Okay, we'll
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: figure out what that means. He wants to and I
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: do too. Okay, we'll get into that a little later,
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: but right now, it is time for the prank phone
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: call with Junior right here working hard over time. Oh agin,
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: for the nephew, what you got, Junior. I'm gonna tell
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: you this. These people are needed and I agree with
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: the nephew on this woman, because this is this is
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: how ignority. This is. These people are needed and they
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: have a role in our community and we need to
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: we should respect that and we should all sign up
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: for this now. Now this is gonna be it's gonna
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: be different now because the nephew is doing this. But
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you Prostate Checklist, they have a role in
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: our society. Okay, we need them. Okay, gotta get Okay,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: you gotta give that. So here it is cat, come
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: on Prostate Checks PSC. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: a H. Roger Roger. My name is Greg. I'm a PFC.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: I got you on my schedule. I'm supposed to come
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: by your house tomorrow morning about seven fifteen. I just
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: want to give you a call and give your heads
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: up and let you know we will be there about
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: seven fifteen. From my understanding, you go to work here,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: oh you say you who? I'm a PFC, Sir, I'll
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: be there. I'll be there tomorrow. I got you on
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: my schedule for Monday morning, and I'll be there at
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: least about seven fifteen. From my understanding, you go to
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: work at seven thirty and uh, my procedure is only
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: gonna take a couple of minutes. But I wanted to
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: give a friendly call and let you know that I
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: will be by there tomorrow morning. What's a PSC, PFC,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: what's just a PC PSC, sir, PSC, I will be
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: there tomorrow. I've been in business probably for the last
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I guess about thirteen fourteen years. Now, what is PSC specialists?
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: What you do? Oh you're not I'm sorry you're not familiar.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: How you got me on schedule? Why ain't you trying
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: up from that time? Oh? I got you on my
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: list here. I don't know who puts you on here,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: but you've it's been paid for and everything for me
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: to come by and and do my job. And like
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: I said, only taking a couple of minutes and I'll
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: have you on your way. How do you get my number?
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: Say again, how did you get my phone number? So
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: everything I have I got, I got twenty stops tomorrow
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: and I got you scheduled as uh as my as
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: my first stop tomorrow morning. I don't know I got
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: your phone number. I do have your address. Are you
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: at drive? Yeah, that's my head dress, But I don't
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: on my schedule for nobody to come to my house
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: in the morning. I gotta go to work in the morning.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm I gonna be you right right, my understanding, Well,
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: you form my understanding. You pull out about seven thirty,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get their tenth fifth thing. Like I said,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: you know the procedure only takes about two three minutes
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: and one about it around my information? You know when
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I leave home and everything. Who is this? Like I said,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: my name is Greg, I'm a I'm a PFC and
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: I'll be there. Okay, you said that, I read it.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: You'll see me tomorrow. I'm sorry. I just want to
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: give you a friendly call here on Sunday and let
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: you know that i'll be there. I'll be there about
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: seven fifteen and we'll get you taken care of and
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: then I'll let you get on the way to work.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: You still ain't telling me what I was supposed to.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: What you're supposed to be doing, sir. A PSC is PSC.
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: I'm a prostate checker and what I'll be doing is
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: coming in and checking your pros state tomorrow. Oh hell, now,
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: you ain't coming here check my prid state. I get
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: my pride state checked. But my doctor, who was you
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: talking about? Come to check my pro state now at
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: my house? You ain't come and check. And you know what,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: I get this all the time. I get a lot
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: of people that are in denial, a lot of men
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: that that claim that they state is fine. I heard
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: my pride state check this at the beginning of this year. Man,
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: you don't need to come to my checking my prod state. Sir.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: A lot of people, a lot of men are in
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: denial saying that they got it checked and they got
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: it a lot of times we find out they haven't.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: And and there has to be a reason. If I
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: got you on my list and it's paid, somebody is
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: paid one hundred and twenty five dollars for me to
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: come out there and check it, Well, you should be
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: happy you paid hun twenty five dollars. Just a less
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: job you have to do then, because you know I
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: come and check my post state, Sir, I'm gonna check
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: it now. I'm gonna be boy there tomorrow and I'm
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: seven pen. I'm putting my rubber glove on with a
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: little bit of jail on it, and I am gonna
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: check your proper state and then I'll let you get
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: on the work. Well, I'll tell you what. That rubber
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: glove ain't gonna know where near me home. But I
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: tell you what. You may over my eyes if you
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: want to. It ain't gonna be pretty and it ain't
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: gonna be nice with you in your rubber glove, sir,
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: stick rubber glove when I'm done with you. Don't be
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: coming about my hot time a boy checking my prop state? Sir, sir,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: do you realize that this is the leading calls to
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: black men? Do you realize? Ain't I understand that all
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: they ain't black men? Three out of five black men
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: are lost every years, So you ought to be very
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: grateful that someone is sending me by there to check
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: it and make sure you're okay. I'm grateful that I
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: can pay for a doctor that I go to every
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: every once a year. Man. You don't wanna have to
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: come to my hot time a boy sticking on rubber
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: glove of me man's phone with you, sir. So I'm
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: not gonna sit here and go back and forth with you.
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: My job is to give you a friendly call and
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: let you know that I'm coming. All right, that's not
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: tomorrow morning, Listen, I don't want to hear anymore. Tomorrow morning.
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: I'm there at seven fifteen, and you're gonna get your
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: prostate check whether you like it or not, whether you
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: buy it, don't buy here, then I shall be here
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: you buy her back. Thank you bad enough to come
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: over here and check my prostay you bang it. I'm
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: gonna make it so you just be ready at seven
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: fifteen that you're gonna get your prostate checking. Let you
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: go on the work case. Cool, You come on over
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: if you want. You You know my address and all
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: my wa time I go to work and everything. You
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: you buy your back, don't over if you want to.
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I don't care if I gotta come over there, sir
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: and hold you down and check your prostate. I'm coming
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: to check your prostate at seven fifteen tomorrow morning, or
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you where you bring your mas John over him?
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: Do you think you know who I am, what I
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: need over here? You come on over here, and you
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. You come over, then you're
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: gonna be checking something else beside me. You're gonna be
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: checking you on. You bring your I don't know if
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: you want to Shif I don't get your boy, hill,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: donna be coming to my house to day by you.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: You tell somebody's talking about I need it prime stint
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: check or something. Somebody on the phone, somebody I need
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: a prid stay or something. You bring your Yeah, I'll
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: tell you whether I'll be here when you get here.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: You burying You will be tomorrow fifteen in the morning.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: You won't walk you over here. You might be whirled
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: away from this you bring if you want to, I'm
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: gonna have my glove on the morrow, and I'm gonna
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: be checking your prod state. Got tell you you're been
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: in the morning. If you want to tell about checking
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: the pride stay, You're gonna be checking your own pride
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: stay because I'm telling you what I got something for you.
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: You come from hell, you bury your bad You think
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: you're bad enough to come over here and check some
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: I'm over Hell. You come on with it. I got
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: one more wing I need to say till you. Are
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: you listening? But what there you got to say to me? Now?
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: You told me it's no, It was just you got
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: to tell me. Now, are you listening to me? Just
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: by going over here, You're gonna be here. I'm gonna
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: be over there. But I got one more thing I
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: want to say. Are you listening what you got to
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: say to me? Man? That's his nephew taught me from
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harbit Morning Show. You just got pranked by
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: your homeboard? Who who? Who? You say? You ask again?
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: Hey man, this is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Man, your homeboy got me to prank phone
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: call you, Chris Jump Harvey and tim me. Man, you
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: are Roger boy. Y'all about to make me go out.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: I don't want to Who the hell gonna come out?
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: Somebody how to do a pot check on regular basis
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: like that? But yeah, yeah, so got me man, I'm
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: gonna get him back. Boy. I can't believe you do
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: me like that. I'm gonna go with the check his
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: pride state. I don't even think you get here checked
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: on the regular. I want to have somebody to come
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: check mind. Hey man, I got one more thing to
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: ask you, man, what is what is the baddest I'm
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: talking about the bad radio show in the land, Steve Harvy,
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: Mourning show Man. Steve Harvy Morning Show is making the
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: community healthier. That's what we do, checking pros state. We're
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: pulling up checking prostates. That's who we going. September is
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: prostate Cancer Awareness. It is so yeah, thank you. Yeah,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: he's right on time with it. Yeah, now we get there.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: Quit having your clothes on. Put your gown on as
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: we get in and get out. It's gotta be a
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: working seven thirty or leave working seven thirty it's not
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: that long. It's not gonna take that long. We're just
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: you holding us up. We do fifty five a day.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: Were you holding us up? Just come on, just come
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: in here and get your prostate checks so we can
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: leave lives, saving lives. You'll be a man about your job.
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: You're gonna get there if you just had your clothes off,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: had your gown on, we in and out. Wow, BSc
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: state check the deputy man, y'all state check. Come on,
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: saving lives. Yes we do, yes, we do. All right,
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Thank you, junior. In for the nephew. Coming up next,
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, the subject he wants to and I do too. Okay,
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that right after this. You're listening to
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, parenting, sex,
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: dot com and we will certainly try to help you
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: out do what we can to help you. Yeah, ladies
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: and Gentlemen's time for the Strawberry Letter. Well, my good friends,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry, Thank you, Junior. Subject he wants too and
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: I do too. Just Stephen Shirley, I've been in an
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: open relationship with a great man for almost three years.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: He's been considerate of the way we chose to structure
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: our relationship until a few months ago. To me, no
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: one can be truly faithful, so I chose to be
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: open with my boyfriend. If we're attempted to have sex
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: with other people, we're always honest with each other. Until
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: recently when I caught him out with another woman and
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: she said he was her boyfriend. I know the girl
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: because she works with him, and he always called her
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: out for acting too black or trying to date black men. Yes,
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: she is white. He admitted that he's been hooking up
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: with her. I asked him to bring her over to
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: the house if that's the case, but he won't share
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: her with me, which made me think he likes her.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I told him, if this is how things are going
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: to be, he can move out and I'll just move
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: on with my life. He swore that he'd stopped messing
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: with her. I was still skeptical, so I started seeing
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: a guy I met at the gym. I had never
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: done anything behind my man's back, so it was new
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: and exciting. The sex with this guy was amazing, and
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: he started wanting to see me more and more. So
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: I was making up a lie after lie to sneak
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: out and be with him. I finally told the guy
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: that I was in an open relationship and I couldn't
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: totally commit to him. Then I admitted to my boyfriend
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: that I was sneaking around. He said he was still
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: seeing the white girl, and I was so hurt. He
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: told me that I had to leave my side piece alone.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: I told him, if he can have two, then I
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: want to too. He told me that I can't do
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: what he does, and he threatened to break up with me.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: I really love my boyfriend, but I don't feel valued.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: Am I stupid for being in this open lifestyle? Yes? Yes, yes,
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: and yes you're stupid for all of this. I mean,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: you're stupid for believing that he stopped seeing the white
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: girl and you were hurt. Why you know what a
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: relationship you're in? Are you are? You're stupid for letting
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: him control the way you live your life. Okay, I
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: know it's a double standard in the world. I got that,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: but it's not okay for him to cheat and then
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: try to control who you see outside of your relationship.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: Isn't at the very point of an open relationship seeing
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: and sleeping with who you want to and doing what
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: you want. Otherwise it's not an open relationship, right. I
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: think your whole relationship is stupid, quite honestly, and there's
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: no future in it for you. You live with the
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: cheater who's trying to justify his cheating by saying you
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: guys are in an open relationship, but in reality, he's
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: the only one open. He he doesn't want you to
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: be open. So look, get out of this mess, please,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: and yes, this is all stupid. Steve. Wow, you know
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: what amazes me when people write a letter to us
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: feel with wrong and then wants something right to happen
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: out of it. I don't even see how you think
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: all this. I'm gonna read this letter and I've circled
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: unbelievable statements. Okay, let me see. I wish I had
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: a sound effect ding. I need a bell. I think
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: we have a bell. He wants to and I do too.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: To see her when I say bail, can you hit
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: it instantly? Okay? Here we go? All right? You know
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: it always amazes me that we get these letters that
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: come in feel with so much wrong and unbelievable remarks,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: comments and statements, and they want us to make some
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  Speaker 1: good out of it and some rightness out of right.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm gonna read this letter. I'm gonna ask for
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: Bill every time I'm about to say something unbelievable. Dis
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: Sherley and Steve Bell. I've been in an open relationship
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  Speaker 1: with a great man for almost three years. Did you
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: hear that? I've been in an open relationship with a
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: great man for three years? Bill? He's been considerate of
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: the way we choose to structure our relationship until a
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  Speaker 1: few months ago. Bell to me, no one can be
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  Speaker 1: truly faithful. Oh my god, So all marriages are due.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: So I choose to be open with my boyfriend. And
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: if we attempted to have sex with other people, Bill,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: we just always be honest with each other at tempted
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  Speaker 1: to have sex with other people. The goals to faithfulness
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: out the wind. Okay, hang on, Steve, right there, right,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: there's a good place to stop, Okay, because we gotta
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: take a break. At twenty three minutes to half to
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: the hour, we'll come back and we'll have part two
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: of Steve's response too. He wants to and I do too.
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: That is the subject. We'll be right back after this.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject he wants to and I do too.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: You know, like I said earlier, you're right, Shirley and
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: I with these ridiculous statements, these crazy all this wrong
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: going on, and at the end of it, you want
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: something good to come out of it and want us
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: to solve a ragged ass problems. Well we're not gonna
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: do it today. But what we're all gonna do is
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: show you how raggedy this thing is. I'm gonna ring
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: a bell every time I'm about to read something unbelievable. Ready,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: here we go, Just Stephen Shelley Bell. I've been in
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: an open relationship with a great man for almost three years. Okay, Bell,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: He's been considerate of the way we choose to structure
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: our relationship. I bet he has. Until a few months ago.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: Bill to me, no one can be truly faithful, So
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: I choose to be open with my boyfriend Bell. If
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: we're tempted to have sex with other people, we always
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: be honest with each other. Unto recently, I caught him
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: out with another woman, and she said he was her boyfriend.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: I know the girl because he worked with him and
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: he always called out for being too black and trying
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: to date black men. Yes, she is white, Bill. He
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: admitted that he's been hooking up with her. Wait a minute,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: didn't you just say, y'all in a relationship, y'all in
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: an open relationship. Where is the surprise when he admitted
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: to hooking up with her? Right? I asked, I don't
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: know whether beil. I asked him to bring her over
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  Speaker 1: to the house if that's the case, but he won't
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: share her with me. What which made me think he
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: likes her? I told him, if this is how things,
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be, bail, he can move out and I
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: just move on with my life. I ain't know y'all
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: standing together, he swore, Bill, he swattered, he stopped messing
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: with her. I was still skeptical. Oh, so you think
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, he don't lie. He a cheeped
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: y'all in an old relationship. But lying is out the question? What?
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, he ain't posed to lie. Hen spread
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: itself all around town. He just can't lie. He swore
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: that he stopped messing with her. I'm still skeptical, Bill.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: So I started seeing the guy I met in my jail.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: I've never done anything behind my man's back, so this
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: was you ain't excitement. The sex with the guy was amaze,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: and he started wanting to see more and more. Bill,
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: So I started making up lie after lie to sneak
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: out with him. You was just a Paul that ol
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: Man would lie. But yall can sleep around, screw anybody
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: you want to screw, and then when you lie about
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: it not That's what I finally told the guy that
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: I was in the open relationship and couldn't totally commit
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: to him. Bell. Then I admitted to my boyfriend that
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: I was sneaking around Bell. He said he was still
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: seeing the white girl. Bell. He told me I had
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: to leave my side piece alone. Bell. I told him,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: if he can have two, then I want to too. Bell.
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: He told me I can't do what he does, and
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: he threatened to break up with me. Wait a minute,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: break up? What? Yeah, Bill? I really love my boyfriend.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, whatever, there's no love in this. Ain't
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: love reading. I know, Bill, but I don't feel valued.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Oh, you won't value Now you're passing
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: yourself around like potato chips, but you won't. You LAIDs
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: can't just eat one. But now you want to be
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: valued your man? No, you're passing your tail out all
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: around town. Now you won't value? Are you kidding me? Bill?
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: Am I stupid for being in this open lifestyle? No?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: I just thank you? Stupid? Period? What? But what was
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: this letter about? How do you come to me and Shirley?
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: And God? Am I stupid for being in this open lifestyle?
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: How is working out for you? Yeah? But Steve, one
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: more thing. Stop writing us if you're gonna do wrong
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: and then at the end want me and Shirley to
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: make it right. So what was you gonna ask me?
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you when when he when he
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: told her he was still seeing the white girl and
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: she was so hurt? Yeah, what did you hurt? Fault?
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: What ain't you got the man at the jail? Ye?
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: Am I stupid? Yes? Write us? No more? All right?
• 1:05:50
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• 1:05:54
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• 1:05:57
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• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: Sports Talk right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: All right, it's time now for junior and sports talk.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: What you got Junior? All first of the year. Pippa's
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: some ladies. Just go with your feeling, Pimper, just go
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: with your feeling. What's up, Sirley? What's going on? Anybody
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: got on something? Chocolate? Hey, Pimper, what's happening? It's your
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: Mouth of the South show is a sexy nickname? All right?
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: Now here we go, Pippers, Saints, Falcons, Pimper sat versus
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: the Falcons? Who the who? Who the Falcons? Quotaback now? Oh? Um, Mariota, Yeah,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Jamison down then, uh it's Jamison. I'm gonna go with
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: the Saints. All right, Saints, that's cool. We go with
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: that forty Lainas, forty nine Ers Bears. Oh, the forty
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: nine Ers. Man, they're gonna be They're gonna run that
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: boy George all over the field. All right. Steelers Beagles, Oh,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: I hate both of them, but I hate the Steelers,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Moat come on, Cincinnanty, Yeah, Eagles last, Oh man, I
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: love Detroit, y'all know that. But Jayleen hurt thing to put.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: They got a roster, then fill it Man Egos, Yes there, Patriots, Dolphins, Dolphins,
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: I hate the Patriots, Okay, thing in me. Ravens, Okay, Ravens, Jets, Ravens.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: It is Jaguars and the Washington Commanders. Oh listen this.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: Anybody could win this one right here. You got hurt
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: damn cornerback. Jaguars might shock them, get a win. Jaguins,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: Pip Brown, dude, Browns and Panthers cleaning. I don't even
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: know who our quarterback is, but Baker Mayfield is starting
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: for the camp. Yes, we're gonna shack his ass, Folks.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: Coach Coason, Texas, oh Man, Baltimore, come on, Indianapolis coach Giants, Titans,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: oh Man, that's gonna be a hunt when right there.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: But then, dude, the Titans, who they got there, Henry
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: and all this hire and Giants ain't got no mindy
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: and they got Shakron bunking all this hire. Titans got you,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: all right, Packers Vikings on the Packers, baby, Yes, the Chiefs, Cardinals,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: chief Okay, Raiders, charges, Raiders gonna shock him this year. Bucks, cowboys,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: you know the bus Okay, all right, all right, we
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: gotta go. Thank you, pimp, and thank you Junior coming
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. We'll have more
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: listening to the show, all right? This is such a
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: wild story. If I had not seen the video for myself,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: I would not believe it. Have you guys seen the
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: video of this black man in a store following two
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: female customers down an aisle and when they stopped, he
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: bent down to sniff it one of the ladies. But yeah,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: he was sniffing their butts. Yeah he didn't. He didn't
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: do it once, he did it two times. The store
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: surveillance video shows a man wearing sneakers, sweatpants, a hoodie,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: and there's a close up of his face on surveillance footage.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: At one point, the man slightly jogged to keep up
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: with the women so he could get a whip and
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: a sniff. Uh. But is this crazy? I mean, what
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: are we missing here? Uh? Is this a crime? Is
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: it illegal to sniff someone else's? But if it's not,
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: it should be. I mean, we're not dogs. Well, I
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: don't know if it's a crime or nothing, but it's
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: showing off lines right up for asshote. You know, I
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: bet not kick you sniffing nobody. I know. A matter
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: of fact, I bet not kick you sniffing a stranger.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: I'll stop. Yeah, yeah, that's crazy. Yeah I saw the video.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: I didn't see I never saw the actual sniff. I
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: saw on current to the camera, and I saw him
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: being over. But I'm you know, it's people with all
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: types of fetishes. You know, we're we're in a sick
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: world today, but we need to get we need to
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: change some of these laws. Yeah, should be the first,
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: should be first on the list. It should be this craziness.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: Let me let me tell you something. I mean, really, ship,
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: I love a woman, I'm went, but I'm not been
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: over to sniff up handle in a relationship, let alone
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: a strange. I'm well, well, okay, here we go here. Well,
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: you might not stiff act like, don't act like you
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: ain't been round. Act like you ain't been around that
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: snooping round boy. You might not have been sniffing, but
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: you show been around there snooper. Don't act like you
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: have been snoopers. We talked about the video, but when
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: we're talking about show personal life, talking about you ain't
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: never boy, show that snooping. You might not have been sniffing.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: But you just show been snooping. You're gonna go down
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: there because it be so pretty sometimes, Yeah, you go
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: down there, won't All right? Now you say, yeah, yeah, well,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: well I ain't lying though, Hello hello, because you have
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: wandered in your life. What is he doing back there? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: but that was as I'm talking about, somebody just haul
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: off and just bite you. But Steve, that's in the
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: confines of your of your home bedroom. Yeah. Oh nah,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: we're admitting it. Okay, here we go. This man is
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: in public. Yeah, that's wrong. This is but Junior talking
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: about here in the relationship, and he ain't never You
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: just said, I said, you just a lie in public.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that in public. Laid your
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: face on it? Okay, Steve, we get it, all right.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: You don't have to drug. You ain't never had your
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: man just lay his face on your butt before. Hey, yeah,
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: you hail the girl. You're talking about the girls. They're
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: just not gonna be to him. Stop. I'm not in
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: this story. We're not in this story. Uh, let's move on.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: Cheek on her cheek. You ain't never boy boy. Back
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: to the guy in the store. He did he didn't
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: do it once, he did it two times. What I mean,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: what kind of fetishes that he looked trifling? Yeah, he
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: looked yeah yeah. Yeah. Now that is a form to
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: me of sexual assault. Yes, it is absolutely illegal. Yeah,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: it's not. It's a form of it. That's that's what
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: dogs do. They sniff each other's butts. What what are
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: you doing? Man? All right, we're moving on, coming up
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour. Thank what, We're moving on, girl,
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: We'll we'll have more of the Steam Bar Morning Show
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after right after this. You're
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: listening to the string Show, all right, Carla. It's Friday,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: our favorite day of the week, and a lot of
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: people just say fry. Yeah. You know, we always talk
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: about Seagram's escapes. You know, it's our go to flavored
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: malt beverage, and we always keep a variety pack handy
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: for the weekends. We have to do this, right, I know,
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: that's right, that's right, Shirley. I am going to have
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: my favorite Calypso colada this weekend. Baby, add a shot
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: of rum and blended into a refreshing frozen cocktail. It's
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of similar to the classic pina colada,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: so it gives me the island bogs. Y'ama, oh yamon yea.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: Seagram's Escapes are so flavorful, They're so colorful and beautiful.
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: You know. My drink is the Seagram's Escape Strawberry Daciri,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: and I always add fresh crushed strawberries because I just
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: love just a pretty beautiful cocktail. I just love that.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: I'm a pretty glass, right. Seagram's Escapes has over fifteen
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: fruity flavors to choose from, so check this out, Steve
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: Harvey Nation. You can try them all and pick up
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: your favorite. I'll be sipping and watching. Let me tell
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: you this. You know, my husband is going to have
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: the Saints game on on every TV in our house
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: that weekend, so That's what I'll probably be doing. Okay,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: watch nothing else. What about you, Shirley? All Right, I'm
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: gonna watch my old black and white movies. I love them,
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: I love them, I love them, and I'll be on
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: my sofa sipping happiness. With Seagram's Escape. We can create
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: just good vibes, you know, no matter what we're doing,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: So sip happiness. Okay, do like us and just sip happiness.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour. We'll play
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: around it. Would you rather right after this? You're listening
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: now for would you rather? Would you rather be cross
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: side and rich or would you rather make average income
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: and just be handsome? Hey? Hey, all day? Well I'm
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: average income now and handsome a certain day. Oh certain,
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: you got both of them wrong. You're above everything, and
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: you and I will be cross side and original. I
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: never see nobody. I always talk at an angle. That's
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: what I got back? Was I have that right? All right?
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather be a comedian on a
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: cruise ship or would you rather be a male exotic
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: dancer in Vegas? Some pain on that cruise that cruise ship.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: So I was thinking about, man, you can't go oh okay,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: all right, well so Vegas it is, come on, yeah,
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: making the rain ladies, and now coming to the stage.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about the most unattractive chipping Dale Dance Show.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: Your love. What would your name to be? Stephen Juan? Bring,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: bring you guys out, Bring yourself out, Steve, you do
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: me u who my name's coming out as exacted dancing Vega.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: Lady is a gentleman. Put your hands together, he comes, lady,
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 1: all it? Did it? God? Oh man? What is your name?
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: Bring yourself out, Steve. Ladies and gentlemen, no ladies, put
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: your hands together. Evil knevil. I'm gonna come out on
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: the stage. I'm gonna come out. Slide now, I'm gonna
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: have a baby all I'm gonna come out and slide
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: on my ass down the stage, slide right out on
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: your table, the laying that legs open, throng full money.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: You're all I do is stunts, all right, Helmet on
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: the cream, Knevil, you gotta helmet out. You got hail
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 1: that Carol before. That's today's version of would you rather
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: thank you? Guys? Coming up our last break of the day,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: end of the week, and we'll have some closing remarks
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show all right, guys, here we are
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: our last break of the day, our last break of
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: the week on this Friday, and Steve, before we get
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: to your closing um, we want to send condolences once
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: again to the family of David Arnold. M case you
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: don't know who David Arnold is. He was a stand
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: up comedian. He was currently touring in his Pace Yourself
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: comedy tour. He and our girl Kim Whitley have toured
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: together recently and he said, She said and Battle of
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: the sexist comedy tours. David passed away on Wednesday. He
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: was fifty four years old. A lot of comedians knew him.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: You knew him, Steve Jim, Yeah, man, I knew him.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: You know, I didn't know him personally. Um, you know,
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: we had no ties. But man, this dude was funny
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: and I always like watched his clips and stuff like that.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: I saw his last comedy special. Incredibly funny. Man. He
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  Speaker 1: was just getting his dues. M. Really sad man. He
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  Speaker 1: is a great father, a lot of material about being
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  Speaker 1: a dad, a husband, and it's just really sad man.
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  Speaker 1: You never know, man, it's that's young. Fifty four is
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  Speaker 1: young man. Yeah, and you know it kind of makes
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  Speaker 1: us all realize how blessed and fortunate we are to
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  Speaker 1: still be here. I was listening to Guy Tory's reflection
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  Speaker 1: of all his brother who he knew quite well. So
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  Speaker 1: for me, I didn't know him well at all, but
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  Speaker 1: that that comedian fraternity is a small one and it's
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  Speaker 1: a hard one too, because it's really really hard to
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  Speaker 1: be a comedian. That's a really, really tough profession. But
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  Speaker 1: did this this wife lost, his children lost. That's a
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  Speaker 1: tough one, man, that's really tough. Condolences go out. Did
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  Speaker 1: you know him Junior? Yeah, Man, I would work with
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  Speaker 1: him a couple of times. Man. He's a great writer, man,
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  Speaker 1: incredible writer. He wrote for a lot of shows on Nickelodeon. Man,
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  Speaker 1: he was he just a conversation about how he felt
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  Speaker 1: about comedy. Was just all passion, love of brother. Man.
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  Speaker 1: He was very very funny. Man that if you didn't
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  Speaker 1: get a chance watch that Netflix special. It ain't falt,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't for the week. It's just pure genius comedy.
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  Speaker 1: Wise man. So we condolence to his family absolutely. Man.
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  Speaker 1: So sad, very sad. Yeah, heartbreaking, heartbreaking Yeah yeah, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: life all right, Steve. I know that's a hard transition,
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  Speaker 1: but well, I mean, you know, it's it's a part
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  Speaker 1: of life. You know, we were talking earlier about changing
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  Speaker 1: directions and this has nothing to do with David Arnold,
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  Speaker 1: So I don't want anybody to try to think I'm
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  Speaker 1: tying the two together. I was choosing to speak on
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  Speaker 1: the subject of changing directions. You know, sometimes as human
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  Speaker 1: beings having the power of choice. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: you've done this before, but have you ever made the
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  Speaker 1: wrong choice? I'm not saying you have, but I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: if you're listening to me, you've probably made a bad
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  Speaker 1: choice before. I mean, we've been making bad choices since
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  Speaker 1: we were born. I mean, who ain't. But when you
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  Speaker 1: make a bad choice, sometimes it's better to admit that
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  Speaker 1: you've made a bad choice and just I'm no longer
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  Speaker 1: gonna go down this path. It's okay. Stop looking at
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  Speaker 1: how much time you've been on the path, how much
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  Speaker 1: you've invested in the path, what people think about you
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  Speaker 1: on the path. If you're on a bad path, man,
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  Speaker 1: you're just on a bad path. It's okay to change
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  Speaker 1: your mind. It's all right, It's okay. Look, man, some
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  Speaker 1: people stay in situations far too long. I know I have.
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  Speaker 1: I've stayed in a bad situation far too long, and
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  Speaker 1: it's when I knew good and well this was not
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  Speaker 1: working for me, and I stayed anyway. Now, I have
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  Speaker 1: no one to blame but myself for that. The other
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  Speaker 1: person didn't make me stay. It wasn't the other person's
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  Speaker 1: fault that I made the choice. It was me. I
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  Speaker 1: made a decision. Well, when you make these decisions, folks,
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  Speaker 1: it's okay to change your mind. Now. My father used
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  Speaker 1: to say all the time, don't get stuck on stupid boy.
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  Speaker 1: Once you determine it's stupid, you can stop. Don't get
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  Speaker 1: stuck on that because it's a mistake you've rade. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: makes them. It's okay to go in another direction. And
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  Speaker 1: it's okay. Look, man, I'm all about being right or die.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm I'm gonna be right or die with somebody
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  Speaker 1: that's right to die with me if you ain't right,
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  Speaker 1: or die with me. How you want me to be
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  Speaker 1: right or die with you? You want me to be
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  Speaker 1: loyal to you, but you're loyal to me is gone.
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  Speaker 1: So I just say to people all the time, don't
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  Speaker 1: be afraid to change your mind. Don't be afraid to
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  Speaker 1: get off the bad path. It's okay. There's no law
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  Speaker 1: that says you have to ride it out. Now. If
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: you said some vows, okay, I got that. You probably
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  Speaker 1: have a different obligation. But at one point in time
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  Speaker 1: you gotta remember too that the other person said so too. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you're not gonna keep yours, you please need to
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  Speaker 1: stop looking overhead me because I'm gonna make the same
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 1: decision you make. It. It's just the way it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's called life. Ask God for forgiveness and get on
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  Speaker 1: about your business. But don't stay on the bad path.
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  Speaker 1: And you know it's leading you to know, ask God mercy. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: that's it, y'all. Talk to God to day, y'all. He'd
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