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TB Stay Black, Lizzo High Road, JRAP In Steve's VM, Liar Liar Letter and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all suck down giving them just like the
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  Speaker 1: million buck things in the stuffings and not through good
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  Speaker 1: to mother for Please, I don't join jo. You got
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  Speaker 1: turning you go. You gotta turn to turn out, turn
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  Speaker 1: you got to turn out the turn, turn water to
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  Speaker 1: the water. Go. Come come on your thing. Uh huh,
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  Speaker 1: I sure will. I come on, and everybody you are
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  Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one
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  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey, Oh yeah, man, got a radio show.
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  Speaker 1: Do you understand that? I'm telling you? God been big
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  Speaker 1: in my life. God, God is a gentleman, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I want to I want to point that out to you.
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  Speaker 1: God is an absolute gentleman. He will not come in
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  Speaker 1: unless he's invited. He don't just barge into your life.
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  Speaker 1: He gives us the power of choice. You know. If
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  Speaker 1: you say you got it, I don't need you, He
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  Speaker 1: let you have it. If you say I need you,
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  Speaker 1: come see about me. He right there. It's just a
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  Speaker 1: real simple thing. Man. So always say to people this,
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  Speaker 1: if you've gotten yourself into something, and please know I
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  Speaker 1: have I man see that. That's why I'm so adamant
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  Speaker 1: about it because I've gotten myself in some circumstances and
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  Speaker 1: positions in my life. But I've been I've had some
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  Speaker 1: low moments, man, I've had some moments where I did
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  Speaker 1: not know what to do. I didn't know what was next,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know how to go about it. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have no more ideas. I was stuck. I thought a
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  Speaker 1: couple of times, well, might not make it past this one.
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  Speaker 1: But then if I don't make it past it, what's
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen? And then I held on to this little
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  Speaker 1: thing that my mother kept talking to me about. She said,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes when you ain't got nothing else in you, just hope,
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  Speaker 1: she said, just hope it'll be all right, you know.
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  Speaker 1: And what I've learned in my life is that hope.
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  Speaker 1: It's the beginning of faith. Hope. It's just is there
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  Speaker 1: a possibility out there for me? I sure hope something happened?
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  Speaker 1: See hope, Hope it's okay, man, Because like I said,
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  Speaker 1: for me, the way I've lived my life, hope was
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of faith. It was just the idea. It's
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  Speaker 1: just the thought that something could change from me, that
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  Speaker 1: something could be a little bit different from me, that
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  Speaker 1: maybe man, just maybe for some reason, I could be saved.
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  Speaker 1: I could be rescued. Things could turn around, it could
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  Speaker 1: head any other direction. Maybe I could quit messing up.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe somebody will forgive me. Maybe somebody will just say
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  Speaker 1: all right. I don't know, but I can't count the
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  Speaker 1: times I've been in that position. But then once I
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  Speaker 1: hope a little bit, and then I remember. Also my mother,
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  Speaker 1: because she was a Sunday school teacher, she taught me
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  Speaker 1: the most valuable lesson I've ever learned earned in my life.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing has been greater in my life than my faith.
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  Speaker 1: She taught me to pray. Mamma used to say, when
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  Speaker 1: you get real dog for your son, prad changes things.
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  Speaker 1: She said, when you seem like you lost and you
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  Speaker 1: can't finding your way, stop and pray, she said, because
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  Speaker 1: prayd changes things. You know, when you get a point
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  Speaker 1: in your life when you've done all you can do
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  Speaker 1: and you can't do no more and you just don't
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  Speaker 1: know what to do next, she says, stop, so pray
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  Speaker 1: and combine that prayer with that hope that you got,
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  Speaker 1: she said, because that hope is the beginning of faith.
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  Speaker 1: She said. If you pray just hoping, she's saying that
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  Speaker 1: God come through for you. That will give you confidence
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  Speaker 1: that he can do it again. And then after a while,
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  Speaker 1: you quit hoping, She's saying, you start believing. She saying,
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  Speaker 1: that's when you're on to something. If you can turn
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  Speaker 1: that hope into belief, that hope into faith's that that's
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  Speaker 1: the ability to believe in something that you can't see.
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  Speaker 1: But the key though the faith is you're believing in
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  Speaker 1: something that you can't see see hoping a little bit
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  Speaker 1: different from me now, I'm pretty sure, like I say,
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  Speaker 1: oftentimes to tell a lot of people who can explain
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  Speaker 1: this thing a lot better than I can to you hope.
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  Speaker 1: It's just kind of I don't know how to I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how to say it. But I'm just telling
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  Speaker 1: you hope. You're just hoping it work out right. You
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  Speaker 1: just have a thought in your mind that you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: whoever you are, or whoever you are, whatever you are,
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  Speaker 1: to me, God, I show hope something change. Hope helps. Man.
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  Speaker 1: If you ain't strong enough to have faith, have hope, hope,
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  Speaker 1: and then if you pray with some hope and God
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  Speaker 1: answers your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence.
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  Speaker 1: And after a while that confidence becomes faith. Now they're
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  Speaker 1: just hoping, but I'm believing. I'm believing in something that
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  Speaker 1: I cannot see. Faith has been the key to my
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  Speaker 1: entire existence, even when I didn't have any It was faith,
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  Speaker 1: as I look back on it, that has gotten me here,
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  Speaker 1: and not just faith, but my faith. See, you will
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  Speaker 1: only get to where you're going in your life based
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  Speaker 1: on your faith. See. A lot of people get the
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  Speaker 1: word faith confused, like what's your faith? And then they
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  Speaker 1: started going down this whole list of all these different
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  Speaker 1: religions out here. But really an essence, man, when I
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  Speaker 1: talk to people about faith, I'm talking to you about
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  Speaker 1: your your belief. How much do you believe in the unseen? See?
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  Speaker 1: Faith is the core of all that is happening to
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  Speaker 1: me today. It is the faith that I have in
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  Speaker 1: my relationship with God that enables me to just oftentimes,
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  Speaker 1: if I stay on the right course and believe a
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  Speaker 1: certain way and act a certain way, his blessings just poor.
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  Speaker 1: They just come. And it comes in a lot of
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  Speaker 1: little ways too. I've started to notice. See it ain't
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  Speaker 1: just a lot of people think blessings is money and
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  Speaker 1: now man, that ain't it. It's coverage. It's every time
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  Speaker 1: my plane lands safe. It's every time they predict bad
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  Speaker 1: weather and I get up in the sky and it
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  Speaker 1: don't be no bad weather. You know, this is this
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  Speaker 1: is favor. These are blessings that get poured out to me.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody call me and offer me something, not money, but
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity. See, blessings come a lot of ways. But
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  Speaker 1: once you tie into God, once you tie in and
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  Speaker 1: you start doing the best you can do, and you
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  Speaker 1: start asking for Him to make you a better person,
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  Speaker 1: to help shape and mold you into the kind of
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  Speaker 1: man or person that he wants you to be. You
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  Speaker 1: be amazed what God can do with you. Man, if
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  Speaker 1: you just invite me in and allow him to be
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  Speaker 1: a part of your life. I mean, what you got
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  Speaker 1: to lose out there? Come on? Why why would you
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  Speaker 1: not change? Why would you not allow God to be
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  Speaker 1: a part of your life? God got some big plans
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  Speaker 1: for you. If he didn't, you wouldn't keep waking up.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to ladies and gentlemen, prepare yourself for the
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  Speaker 1: awakening of a new day. We are here. God blessed us,
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  Speaker 1: Lord her mercy, and we all to be grateful. I
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  Speaker 1: know I am thank you God for a new day
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  Speaker 1: and a new opportunity. It's a new chance to get
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  Speaker 1: it right, one step closer to the goal. Oh man,
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  Speaker 1: feel good about that. Ladies and gentlemen, this is about
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  Speaker 1: to go down today. I don't know, I don't I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what to tell you, but it's about to
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  Speaker 1: go down. Only Steve arpen Martin show, Charley Strawberry calling
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  Speaker 1: for real Mouth of the South, Junior, and ain't nobody
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  Speaker 1: left but me? We might as well gonna get the started.
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  Speaker 1: Junior's on your mind? Man, all right, let me ask
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  Speaker 1: this U. Let me ask you something. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: do a lot of business with a lot of people.
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  Speaker 1: What makes a good business partner? Like? How what makes
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  Speaker 1: it a good business partner? Yeah? I had that a
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  Speaker 1: lot of bad ones. I'll tell you that he did.
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  Speaker 1: Or I've had my share very very bad ones. Um
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  Speaker 1: I think of you know, I mean, of course, what
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  Speaker 1: makes a good partner is, first of all, you want
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  Speaker 1: to find someone who is like minded, who has the
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  Speaker 1: same goals and ambitions as you, that you can merge
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  Speaker 1: into the same vision and goal. But right next to
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  Speaker 1: that and equally is important even if they don't have
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  Speaker 1: the exact same vision and goal. You gotta find somebody
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  Speaker 1: that's honest and trustworthy that that right there will come
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  Speaker 1: and get you more than anything. See, I could I
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  Speaker 1: can deal really with a person that don't share all
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  Speaker 1: my visions, because who is that gonna be? Right? You know,
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  Speaker 1: you don't find somebody that's gonna share all your visions.
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  Speaker 1: I mean it would be ideal because ultimately we all
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  Speaker 1: start out on venturous for ourselves. That's how we all start.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, of course, you know you want to make
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  Speaker 1: a better life for yourself, better life for your family.
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  Speaker 1: Then you meet somebody you're talking about partnering with, well,
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  Speaker 1: you know you still want to take care of you
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  Speaker 1: and yours right so that you have to understand that
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  Speaker 1: part and everybody will make their decisions based on you
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  Speaker 1: and yours. So hopefully that you and yours decision making
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  Speaker 1: benefits both sides. That can come a time where will
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  Speaker 1: it will not and the partner that you thought you
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  Speaker 1: have will become disloyal and then and then you have
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  Speaker 1: a problem, brother, And then you haven't because there hasn't
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  Speaker 1: come a day of awakening when you realize that this
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  Speaker 1: partner right here is no longer loyal to you, and
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  Speaker 1: one of them taught me a very famous slogan that
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  Speaker 1: I use now, Loyalty has an expiration date, which means you,
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  Speaker 1: as a loyal person, sometimes are loyal to people far
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  Speaker 1: longer than they are loyal to you. They're loyal to
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  Speaker 1: you has been stopped. That's a hard one to understand,
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  Speaker 1: and so your loyalty to them shouldn't continue. So loyalty,
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  Speaker 1: trustworthiness and like mindedness are the two things for great
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  Speaker 1: business partner. Man Steve Harbrun show man, all right, all right,
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  Speaker 1: there we go. Got a junior. Yeah, all right, coming
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  Speaker 1: up in thirty two minutes after the hour. We'll run
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  Speaker 1: that frank back right after this. You're listening to show
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  Speaker 1: It is time now to start your morning off with
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  Speaker 1: Junior and for the nephew to run that frank back.
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  Speaker 1: What you got for is this morning, Junior. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: gonna waste no time. My bones a week, oh my, oh,
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  Speaker 1: come on back. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to uh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to speak to Ron. Run hey, Ron, how are
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  Speaker 1: you doing? It's folly man, How are you brother? I'm
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  Speaker 1: doing folly Hey, Hey, I wanted to congratulate you man
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  Speaker 1: on the on the baby. Man. I wasn't able to
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  Speaker 1: make it to the baby shower, man, but I want
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  Speaker 1: to congratulate you on the baby, man and and all
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  Speaker 1: of that. Man. Much success to you, man, you and
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  Speaker 1: the wife. Thank you, thank you, you appreciate that. Folly. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: well you're fully man. I didn't get to. You know,
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  Speaker 1: my my wife denieda She came to the to the
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  Speaker 1: to the baby shower, man, so you know, she was
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  Speaker 1: telling me how how how nice was how successful it was. Man.
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  Speaker 1: So I just you want, you know, I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: give you big ups. I heard the baby came and everything,
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  Speaker 1: and I wanted to just do a little girl, a
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  Speaker 1: little girl. Y'all had a little girl. Yeah, yeah, all right,
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  Speaker 1: we'll congratulations man. Congratulations Ron. I wanted to definitely call
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  Speaker 1: and congratulate man and um baby real quick? What um?
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  Speaker 1: What baby shower? Was your wife that because we had
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  Speaker 1: at two we had one from my side of the
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  Speaker 1: family and then one from my wife's side, because you know,
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  Speaker 1: they lived different places and stuff. Man, So which one
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  Speaker 1: do you think she was at? Um? Probably on your
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  Speaker 1: wife's side, you know. Okay, okay, she knows my wife.
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  Speaker 1: Well now I see see de Nader is actually friends
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  Speaker 1: with uh with Kendra. Now you know Kendra, right? Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know kinds are Yeah, yeah, that's good thing. She
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  Speaker 1: was she was with Kendra, okay, yeah she comes. They
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  Speaker 1: played cards, you know, Okay, okay, yeah she she was
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  Speaker 1: with Kendra. Man, and um, she was just telling me
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  Speaker 1: how successful man, how nice it was, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: laid out baby shower. I wasn't able to make it. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I've been a little under the weather, bro, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and uh, you know, with with God's help, man, I'll
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  Speaker 1: be able to get back on my feet. You know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's all right? Hey man, I just
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  Speaker 1: you know, congratulations again, man. You know, a beautiful baby girl.
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  Speaker 1: I man, that's a beautiful thing. Yeah, thank you, thank you. Um,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, bro to her. I just I can't foldy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember you and trying to place you,
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  Speaker 1: and I just can't do it. We met, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no, no, my bad man. I'm sorry, job nah
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  Speaker 1: me and you we haven't we haven't met at all. Um.
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  Speaker 1: Like I said, you know, my wife knows Kendrill and
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  Speaker 1: they hang out and uh, I guess she's She's dabbled
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  Speaker 1: a couple of times and been around. You know, your
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  Speaker 1: wife is uh, your wife is Maryland, right, Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: no wife, Okay, Yeah, I guess she's been been in
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  Speaker 1: the presence of Maryland. Man. So you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I kind of got your number from uh, from my wife,
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  Speaker 1: man um, and she got it from Kendrell. So I
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  Speaker 1: kind of wanted to holl at you, you know, which
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  Speaker 1: you weren't hed of me, actually, man, Like I said, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I've been I've been down for a minute, you know,
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  Speaker 1: and U I uh actually you know, came from doctor
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  Speaker 1: yesterday and and my my bones, man, they my bones
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  Speaker 1: are deteriorating. You know, that's kind of what I'm what
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  Speaker 1: I've been going through, man um. And if I don't
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  Speaker 1: uh get the proper medication that I need man the week,
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  Speaker 1: you know it within the next three months here do it,
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  Speaker 1: it could get pretty bad. You know what I'm saying. Well, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that, bro Um. It's you know,
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  Speaker 1: all I can do is man. And you know, well, Man,
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  Speaker 1: I the doctor told me that, bron the doctor told
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  Speaker 1: me Man that you know, if I get the right medication, man,
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  Speaker 1: that you know, I could get back up to seventy
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  Speaker 1: healthy again. You know what I'm saying. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just a rare type of thing that I need
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  Speaker 1: to try and get and I think that you might
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  Speaker 1: be I think you can help me be strong. Man,
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: be strong, just man, sit down, man strong. It's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be all right. But I think it's gonna be all right.
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  Speaker 1: God is with you. I pray for you. I do
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  Speaker 1: all I can. You know, I don't know well actually actually,
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  Speaker 1: uh the doctor told me, man that for six months,
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  Speaker 1: if I drunk breast milk, it will it would it
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  Speaker 1: would put enough calseum and stuff back into my bones
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  Speaker 1: that would get me back up to seventy to eighty
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  Speaker 1: five percent healthy breast. Yeah, I ain't got no breasts.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's not it's not you Ron you you
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  Speaker 1: don't you know, but you know your your wife does. Thought. Whoa,
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  Speaker 1: you're talking about my wife's breast. Man. I'm not not directly, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying that chickens, you know. I mean, if
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  Speaker 1: I had her breast milk for like six months straight, man,
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  Speaker 1: I could get back hold again. Man. Oh, come, you'll
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  Speaker 1: talk about a man's wife or her breast now. I gotta,
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  Speaker 1: I just gotta. I'm just just all, I'm my breast milk. Man. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just asking y'all to share it. For six were
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  Speaker 1: kid getting the breast milk with you? Man, you got
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  Speaker 1: the wrong one, man, the wrong one and you think
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  Speaker 1: your name was but they is wrong? Man, this wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I'm wrong. No, we're just talking about six months of
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  Speaker 1: breasts milk. Man, six months your wife's prest milk. We
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  Speaker 1: was talking about just no best mom and I understand
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  Speaker 1: I press milk man, I understand that. Man. But we're
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  Speaker 1: talking about you saving a life. Man, a life I
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  Speaker 1: ain't the one. Okay, let me ask you this. One
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  Speaker 1: of y'all would have had twins. Man, y'all would have
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  Speaker 1: been prest seeding two babies. Just look at it as
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  Speaker 1: if we're twins. The man, I'm getting them up this
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  Speaker 1: phone because I don't know who you are. You need
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  Speaker 1: to chill, man, you need to go get on your knees,
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  Speaker 1: train that your bones get healed or whatever. You got
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  Speaker 1: the wrong number. Man, Listen. Man, all I'm saying is
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  Speaker 1: I got one more thing I want to say, and
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  Speaker 1: then I'll have to get on man. I just want
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  Speaker 1: to get off the phone called Kendra and find out
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  Speaker 1: wh give you my number, because that's how you got
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  Speaker 1: Can I say one more saying? Man? Go ahead, go ahead?
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  Speaker 1: Can I say it? Hey? Man, this is nephew Tommy
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  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kendra and your wife
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  Speaker 1: Maryland got me to prank phone call you. Y'all are good? Man?
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  Speaker 1: Whoa man? My wife? Man? Man? Did I get you? Man? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all got it? Man? Y'all having me ay? And I
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  Speaker 1: got them too? They don't started something? Hey, one more thing.
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  Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio station in the land? Man? Man?
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  Speaker 1: It is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man. Wow? Man,
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  Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Junior. There you have it in
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  Speaker 1: for the nephew coming up next to his asked the
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  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. But right now it
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  Speaker 1: is time for ask the CLO. Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: who's been knocking it out of the park lately. It
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: is time for ask the CLO. Kaden Ocean Spring says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a recent college graduate and I want to follow
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  Speaker 1: my boyfriend to another city and get a job there.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: I will be living with him temporarily, and that's freaking
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  Speaker 1: my parents out. We dated all through college and basically
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: lived together then, So why is it a big problem now?
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Why are my parents so old fashioned? I mean, I
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: don't understand why y'all keep calling doing the right thing
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  Speaker 1: old fashioned. They're concerned that you're gonna allow your boyfriend
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: to get the milk without buying the cow. When you
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: move in together, it's very, very different. See now, what
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: you're saying to your boyfriend when you move in is
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: you can have me and all of this that comes
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: with it, and then one day I hope you married me.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: But there what's gonna be the rush because you're at
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: the house already, you're doing all the wifely duties. I
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: just you know, it's not that parents are old fashioned,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: is that they care that they know the outcome of
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  Speaker 1: a lot of situations that you've never even seen before.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about that? So, young people, do
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  Speaker 1: yourself a favor. Quit telling old people that they old fashioned,
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: because old fashioned works in a whole lot of circumstances.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Just because y'all found a new way to mess it up,
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: don't mean that the old way it ain't gonna Because
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, the new way is not
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  Speaker 1: really working that well. If you look at divorce rates
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: and all of that, it's not working that well, especially
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: for women. So I think a lot of it's concerned
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  Speaker 1: on your parents' party. It's not being old fashioned. Yeah,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: city cy, that's right. You're gonna move to another city
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  Speaker 1: and live with a boy that won't even ask you
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  Speaker 1: to marry him. Y'all all that tight jam and can't
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: live without each other, then go on and get married.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: Your parents would be a little bit more understanding if
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: he was willing to make a commitment. And then, of
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: course you're not gonna make the commitment because he got
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: to get his money right, And that's what he told you.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: When we get it together, we'll get married. And you've
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: accepted that. Yeah, mothers tell their daughters don't follow boyfriends
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: to follow. Huh m, that's right, followed that? All right,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: here we go. Sharon in Baltimore says, I had a favor.
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  Speaker 1: Excuse me. You know, ladies, y'a all so good at
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: following it. Men start getting good at following advice. M
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: you know she's so good at following men, Just start
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: getting good at following advice. Listen, it won't hurt to listen. Yes,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: all right, sure, all right. Sharon and Baltimore had an affair.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: She said, I had an affair with my next door
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  Speaker 1: neighbor three years ago, and he's held it against me
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  Speaker 1: for three years. I'm dating this great new guy, and
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I'm scared to invite him over. How do I stop
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: my married neighbor from harassing me? Should I tell his wife?
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: M Oh wow, this is a harassment that you could
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  Speaker 1: stop very easily. Okay, well, listen to me. Call me
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: one more time, and I'm gonna call your wife. Yeah.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: And what you should do? I think you should move.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Unless you're a homeowner, I think you should move. You
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: made a mistake. You slept with this woman's husband. He
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: lives next door now, unless you are Unless you're a homeowner.
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  Speaker 1: I'd move because you I think you need a fresh start.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Pulling up next to hearing this all the time. Yeah yeah,
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: all right, all right. Moving on to Tequila and Arlington,
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  Speaker 1: Tequila writes, I'm dating a man that is brutally honest,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: and he told me that he had better sexual partners
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: than me. I told him I've had bigger sexual partners
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: than him. We argued all night and he can dish
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  Speaker 1: it out, but he can't take it. Is our relationship dune.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you ain't doing it right. And
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: he's small, so yeah, yeah, why are we here and
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: y'all set up all night about that way better sexual
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: partner I had bigger than you? That shutt it b Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I can get better. You can't get bigger. What who
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: y'are with? How you saying I can get better? You
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: can't get bigger. That's at it down right there? All right,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: all right, Tequila and Arlington, thank you. Moving on this
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: our last one, Steve Nisi and Saint Pete says, my
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  Speaker 1: two aunts stayed with me over the weekend, and my
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  Speaker 1: husband could breakfast daily and he put some meat on
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  Speaker 1: the grill for them on Sunday. One of my aunt's
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  Speaker 1: comments that he is henpecked and it didn't sit well
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  Speaker 1: with him. He was disrespectful to her, and I'm so embarrassed.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: How do I smooth things over? No? See, your aunt
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: got to get out your house, and your aunt need
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: to quit talking to your husband. He was disrespect call
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: you don't disrespect him in his house. He shouldn't have
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: trying to be kindy y'all fixing the purpose and some
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: food all grill. He hen pecked you old bitter loss healthy.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I bet that's what they say, you old bitter, lost, healthful,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: trying to help your old antique ass enjoy your little
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  Speaker 1: ragged ass in life. And then you're sitting up being
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: and tell mart, I'm hearing pet? And what so? How
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  Speaker 1: does the wife smooth all this over? And they're no
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: smoothing it over? It's checking your arm. You gotta side
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: with your husband, right. And then in y'all's house, she
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: ain't got no business saying nothing to this man. He
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: hearing pet because he cooking breakfast, because you ain't never
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: had a man fix you no damn breakfast. I'm service
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: you now, he hid pet? Why don't you being nice
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: or being hospitable? You know, she don't know what nice
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: and hospitable is because she ain't never seen it. Now
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: he hearing pet because he hadn't here fixing breakfast and stuff.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Don't know man, fix no woman, no breakfast. Wow, right there, stupid.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: That's why y'all's had time to be over there, because
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: it ain't Both of them is free and nothing going
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: on in their lives. Yeah, you got to aunten to
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: tell you how your relationship are to being I promise
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: you she ain't got one coming on. They're messing things up,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: all right, Thank you, Ciello. Coming up at the top
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: our favorite social media vegan superstar, Tabitha Brown's new cooking show,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: It's Compliplated, gets pulled from her primetime slot and move
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: back to a weekday afternoon slot on the Food Network.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: We all know that Tabitha has found success as an actress,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: as a vegan food influencer, best selling author, and of
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: course a fashion designer. Well, take a listen. It's Tabitha
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: talked about those who are critical lover Hello, the yellow
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: right real quick. I know I've said this so many
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: times before, but for whatever reason, people just don't seem
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: to believe me. Okay, there is not a company, there
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: is not a network, There is not a person, place,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: or thing that it's going to change who I am.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: If you don't like tab as this tab, if you
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: don't like the tab who gives God glory? If you
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: don't like the vegan tab, if you don't like the
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: cooking tab, the mama tab, if you don't like my personality,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: if you don't like everything that makes tab tab, don't
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: work with me because I'm not going to change. I'm
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: not going to shift a little bit for your audience.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to talk a little bit different for
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: your comfort. I'm not going to change this person I am.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: This is who God created me to be. And if
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: it ain't enough for you, then you're not for me.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: And if I bring it to your attention that wait,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: I don't like how this feels. Um, I feel like
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: you're trying to change me or erase my personality or
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: my culture, and you get upset by that instead of
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: hearing me from my heart. Um, I also don't want
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: to be in business with you. Does that make sense.
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: It ain't personal for you, but it's personal for me,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: and it's business. Everybody clear, Well, this relationship will be
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: coming to an end shortly. Yeah, yeah, it's very confident woman.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: But I do understand exactly where she's coming from because
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: I've been faced with that same meeting with them before
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: and so and in radio I remember and radio yeah,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: change change me. I know you need to wait, you
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: need to articulate your words are. First of all, I
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about. Don not not.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what he was
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: talking to me about. It fault because I clearly didn't
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: even boy man in two thousand they brought me in.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: That's when they brought me. We got to bring in
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: a radio person to handle him. Wait, Steve, this is
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: what Steve. You're not giving time checks enough what You're
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: not telling them what time it is? You got time
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: for that. I'm talking, I'm doing radio. I'm why they
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: doing Then I ain't the clock. You gotta do that,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: and then you got to do station ID checks when
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: you come in. Welcome back. It's ten forty five right
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: here to one hundred point three to beat Wait a minute, well,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: you have to tell people where they are if they
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: can hear me, what station is their own? I ain't
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: even what do you want me to keep saying that phone?
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: If we own this station. If you ain't a one
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: hundred point three, you can't hear me say a one
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: hundred point three? So how did you stay true to yourself? Though?
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: That's the thing that's Tabitha? You know she still has
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: a show in streaming and all that. I just stayed.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: I stayed look at me, look at me. You keep producing. See.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: But here's a problem though, when you start having a
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: measure of success and you go into these meetings, everybody
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: in the meeting wants to put their hand on that
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: measure of success so they can feel a part of it.
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: So they start saying stuff to you so they can
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: say they were in the room and they reminded you
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: of this, or they got you to do that. But
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: you can't fall for that because he once I give
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: you the success you're looking for in terms of rating,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: what is you in here talking about for? Can you
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: say this a little more clear? No? They like you
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: where I said it just did back there, So now
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: why is you in here talking to me about talking
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: about clear why but for what though? But I love
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: how she's standing her ground. She's going to be who
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: she is. She's very confident, you know, and she knows
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: who she is and she's comfortable in herself, and she
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: has an audience based on that. Yeah, you're trying to
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: make use somebody else. She gonna lose her bass, yes,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: set target. Yeah, I never lost my bass, right. I
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: belonged to black people higher time. I never tried to
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: do nothing for they wasn't with me. I sound like
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: somebody else. And Steve Chang, why are you talking like that? No?
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Hell no, it's how I talk. And when you send
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: people in there to change me, when over, I promise
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: you they'll be changed. And then they came to you
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: just by you being yourself. And that's remember that dude,
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: they hide out there. He gonna come in here and
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: tell me white dude. Now, these are the top black
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: songs of all time? What no earth winning fire? Now?
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: He had no earth winning follow hire top Black songs
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: of all time, didn't have no press on there to
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: Michael Jackson song You Almost Died, No Luther music. No,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: they were beat it in black and white. Yeah, it's
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: not in the top three hundred. Luther no luthor. Yeah,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: all right, we gotta roll out of Seve. Think you
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: made your point. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Every Spears gets backlash over the Lizzo comments he made
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: us Aries versus Mike Epps. We'll talk about all of
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening, all right. So Lizzo
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: said Sunday night at the VMA's that she doesn't clap
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: back at her haters, she just wins. Lizza was probably yeah, yeah,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: you know, you gotta yeah, give her props for that.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: Lizzo was probably addressing comedian Ari Spears, who recently said
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: some disparaging remarks about her. During an interview, Ari said
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: that Lizzo had a body of the poop poo emoji,
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: but has plenty but has a pretty face. Of course,
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: Aries received some major backlash for body shaming Lizzo, and
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: he responded to that backlash with a video on the
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Graham saying he knew it was coming and he did
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: not apologize for those comment. Comedian Mike Epps commented on
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: the story via the Shade Room. Uh. Mike Epp said,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: he looks dirty and sick, and he's not been on
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: TV since Matt TV, and now Aries has responded to
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: like Epp saying, yeah, but people don't walk out of
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: my shows. Might want to turn down the volume on
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: those shiny suits jewelry and step your funny up. Oh wow,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: not the comedian, all right, Steve Um. First of all,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: I like Lizzo, Yeah, on the show for the first time.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: She's a fan of the show. I didn't know too
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: much about her, but I was very much aware of
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: who she was. But I don't know too much about her. Um,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I don't you know when Arie made the statement, I
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: don't know where he thought this was gonna go, but
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: I could assure you it didn't go the way he
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: thought it was gonna go. And then to say I
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: stand by the statements, you apologize, That's not the most
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: intelligent way to do about it. Couldn't have just say hey,
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: I did a joking, bad taste. Mike Epps came to
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: her aid by making the statement he made. Um, and
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: now he's talking about people walking out of Mike elp shows. Um,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: all of us have had bad nights, every single one
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: of us. I've had bad boy. Absolutely, I'm talking about
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: bad nights as a famous person, including Ari. I've I've
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: I've been on. I performed with him a few times before.
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: A good guy like Ari, but he's had bad nights.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I think Mike ELPs is dressing real pimp like and
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: I love it. Do it. It might as will be me,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I ain't mad at.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know why you think a shot at the
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: shiny suits. H It's called pimp gilt, not for the
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: faint of heart. So there you have it. I really
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: love Mike. That's not a battle that ariy Spears can win.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Now leave Litze alone. We love not with her or Mike.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: That's not a battle he can win. All right, thank you.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Steve coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour.
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: We'll check Steve's voicemail right after this. You're listening to show.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is now time to check Steve's voicemail.
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: If you want to leave a voicemail for Steve, callum
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. This person is Lenna
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: as a lift driver as a response to Junior's latest poem,
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Hello Steve's ladies, all of y'all, this is Lenn the
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: lift driver. I thought i'd give y'all a call. Now, First,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: let me say I respect all your staff and Junior's youthful.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Now even tell you is always good for last. This morning,
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: I was moved by the please of Jay Rat and
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: felt his humble request denies was a budget craft as
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: the oldest even you dar see riding a bike the
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: good show. But Tommy, now he's digging, is unwilling to
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: multi task as we all know, and doing his job.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: His junior humble, a bit scrawny and lighting the egg. Now,
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: if he don't deserve a raise, how about at least
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: a damn meal from chick from leg he h the
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: lift driver she is. We're not lending the middle of Hey,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: you heard, did the lift driver for you? We don't
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: want you calling here no long trying to do the
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: poems that you do. This show has three comedians and
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: all of us are doing well. And for you to
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: come on here and try to suggest we don't need nothing.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: You trying to tell to keep all your ragged ass
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: poems to your damn sell don't call here no more.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: There's other radio shows called somebody else. All right, Moving
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: on to um. Remember we recently talked about the State
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: of Missouri putting corporal punishment and padding back in schools.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: This is a caller about that. All right, this is Britney.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: I am from one Row, Louisiana. UM. I was calling
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: because I just wanted to say I allow, I checked
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: the box to get my kids, my kids full permission
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: to cattle down. Because I feel that a lot of
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: times some of these kids have a awesome impression of
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: adults can't recommend them, and so I when when the
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: kids grow up adult, it's going to repommend them. And
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: so I just feel like if they're causing that school
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: enough trouble that they have to get paddled, then they
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: deserve it. And that's my thoughtful that by that's cool.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: You want somebody in your baby, go ahead. It's too
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: many racists at school for me, Now what you mean
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: too many races? It's too many racists. There's too many teachers.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: That's race racist racist. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, see, it's
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: just too many. It's too much integration in schools. Now,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: you know, when it was segregated, I probably go along
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: with it. That's what I was. I was at the
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: segregated school. There's too much integration. Now you're gonna be
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: pulling black kids up there. Frankly, people ain't been to
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: handle that. Right now, this is down the dark hole.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: It's the before the horse. You put your prayer back
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: into schools first, see how that work out for you.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: Allow corporal punishment in school. That will make no damn sense.
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: That don't make no damn sense. Ain't no prayer in school,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: But you can beat my baby ass in school, man
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: shoe system, y'all trying to create it out of my
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: daddy a little bit of gloria whooping my ass he
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: had never given you nobody, Wait what your Yeah, my
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: dad lived a glory or whooping my ass, and if
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  Speaker 1: he had an audience, it works best for him, not
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: a little ass. That's my job. I thought most parents
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: didn't like what spanking their kids. It hurt. My mom
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: used to say, it hurts me more than it hurt shoe.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: That's I'd be like, how you that? That's a lot
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: of junior. My dad had seen music when he was
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: my ass. I knew it was about to happen. Pump pump,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: if you have me and the boy all right, all right,
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: coming up next, it is today's prank phone call. We're
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: Junior in for the nephew. Right after this, you're listening
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: to show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: today and the subject is did I make it all up?
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: We'll find out what that means. And just a few
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: but right now, Junior is in for the nephew and
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: today's prank phone call Junior, what you got today? You know,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: just just a ninth day I've been in for the nephew.
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  Speaker 1: Uh count you know, Okay, I'm just nine day straight.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you got going on. But I'm
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: not gonna keep sitting in here for the nephew. Whynot
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  Speaker 1: for you? No, I'm no, I'm no. He ain't gonna
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: do that for me. You know what, I'm gonna do
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: my dates today now? Talking about his show on you
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  Speaker 1: know Ready to Love. I'll tell you what's ready? Was ready?
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  Speaker 1: It's Thursday Exceptember first. I'm gonna be in Huntsville, Alabama.
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  Speaker 1: That's ready. That's ready right now, get your ticket stand
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  Speaker 1: up live coming you know what else? October seventh and eighth,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in Virginia Beach. That's ready. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: the things like I do because here here I'm keep
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  Speaker 1: doing all his show promote his Ready to Love. Oh
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, but watching Friday, you you're torn,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: you be hating, but you love him through. Yeah, I'm
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: gonna hate at the same time his show too. Just
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: remember the first this Thursday, Huntsville, Alabama. Then October seven
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  Speaker 1: to eight, that's gonna be Virginia Beach. October twentieth, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna be in Richmond. All of that's happening now, all
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  Speaker 1: that's ready, then watch Ready to Love on this rack. Alright,
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  Speaker 1: all right, Junior, thank you. Tell y'all heavy right, let's
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  Speaker 1: get you this brank Yeah, brank. Today is tell gays,
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Tell gators. Come on, captain man, I'll speak to t
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  Speaker 1: Rock speaking. It is this t Rock. Yeah ahead, what's up?
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: Hey man? Let me ask you something. All last year
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: y'all was telgating here in the parking lot at the apartments.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: Or y'all doing that again this year? Yeah? Always, that's
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: what we do. Hey man, Hey listen man, I just
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: moved here about a year ago. Let me tell you something.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: All that noisy y'all be making down there. Mann't need
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: to get y'all some money the game. Man, hold on,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: hold on, man, hold on, hold on, hold on. First
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: of all, you walk. My thing is, hey, we we
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: would do out of here. Man, we all get together, brother,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: go to work now at the end if we want to,
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: we want to get together and throw a little barbecue whatever.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: That's what we do. Let me call with that. Dude,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: are you anyway? Come? Y'all making too much? I don't
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: want you for you. I live, I live, hedn't have
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: been an apartment too. Man, Y'ALLNA can't even gonna tell
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: you what I tell you. We should want to talk
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: all that noise about what we're doing out here. Man,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: I think you bring your bucket down here and say
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: it to my place for you. Man, don't don't worry
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: about who I am but one man first. Man, I'm
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: trying to have a good day, and I'm gonna hear
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: some like this. Come on, man, who are supposed to
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: be man? I'm te rock down, I come down. If
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: we do what we do, we all get together, we
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: try to have a good time with it. You want
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: to come with this? I miss my day. He knows
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: we gonna do. Call man. Man, you know y'all all
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: that noise, man disturbing people water in there? No, man,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I say, look here, I'm play at the end of
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: the week, man, brother, get together, put the money together, man,
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: and we get together and we try to have a
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: good time. If you want to come down to Jars, man,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: you more than welcome. I'm trying to tell you more
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: than welcome. Brother, come down to drive a play man. Man.
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  Speaker 1: Please don't try to miss him a day of dot
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: Please don't, man, Please, Man, don't try y'all missing Monday
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: up with all that day I'm knowing. Man, Come man, look,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: this is who we do. You want to join, you
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: to join, you ain't gonna join. Shut the hell up, hey, man,
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: let me do what you're gonna do. But let let
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: us do what we do. This is we do on
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: the weekend. This is how we out. We leave our
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: fifth We're gonna try to do something, get together and
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: have a good time. And you want to try to
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: miss that up? Make all that man? Man, all understanding
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: is man, if y'all tell game, why don't y'all carll
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: y'all down to the stadium. Man in white Place, We
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: can't go down there. Man. We don't want to go
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: down there. We want to get together where we are right.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: This is what we do, man, this is who we do.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody ever complain now, one time, now, one till
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: you first fun ever complain. We've been doing this three
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: years and the first time we ever had to complain.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: You know, you don't drid your mother dying off of
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: white white white? Why y'all don'ta buy y'all some tickets
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: to the damn game? Man? What w y'all go go
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: to the game? Why the game went to be in
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: my parking lot? Well until like this, we can't afford
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: a ticket, man, So we do. We should get together.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: We do what we can. We put our money together,
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: we get together, and that's what we do again. Like
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: I said early, man, you more the world comes down,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: you want to bring his old monkey? Oh yeah, go man,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: gone with that, doc, gone with that man. Man, Let
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: me let me, let me let me tell you this
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: right here. Man, if y'all fire up that pit on Sunday,
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I'm coming down there and turning that yall. What over
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: you got, y'all? What on? I'm turning y'all, y'all fighting
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: pit up. And I promise you I'm gonna turning the
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: damn barbecue pitto, And I promise you'd be standing at
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: the top of the church. You will be staring at
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: the top of the church, and that she won't had
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: me to pick the floor. You're gonna hit the floor.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: And man, you're gonna hit the don't don't find and
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: pit up Sunday you hit me. Do not fight it.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: I can't. It's gonna be no fact. I'm looking for
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: the pit now. I'm looking for him. That it's gonna
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: be out there. It's gonna be out there. Curl your
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: monkey fire that they told you that you're disturbing people,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: and you're disturbing me more than anything, you know. And
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: y'alla all last year, y'all tell Dudy right here in
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: the damn apartments. Man, that's crazy. You know what. I
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: would apologize you, but let me say like this here. Man,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: you don't y'all, I don't tell you you come down
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: and get a place to come down and join them.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: You know, we're just getting together and trying to make
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: it a family down here. Just what you want to
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: bring me? Man, you don't come out top. I'm on
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: another level. Now I'm on that other level. I'm know
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: I want on the other level. Midway through the season
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: last hi went all that day. I'm nor its man. Man,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Man, look let me tell you something.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: Mom Me hit the show or somebody to come back
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: and disturbing what we do. What we do, it's gonna
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: go down. I'm gonna tell you like that. We ain't
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: trying to have no wish on the no proud. We
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: donna get down like that. Len trying to have a
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: good time. That's all we do. We're we're doing this
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: for three years. We got the kids out here playing.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: We got the big screen out where everybody to watch
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: the game. You know, I extended my some law about
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: to come out half play with it. But you're gonna
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: talk about coming knocking my metal as long as I work.
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: I promise you, if mat Me touch the ground, you're
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: gonna touch the ground. Come on, man, don't go there
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: with that. Man. He don't do that. Okay, look at him. Man,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, y'all s BARBQ pit. So
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: when I smell a little charcoal, I promise you I'm
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: turning it. So y'all ain't doing this this year. Man,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: y'all ain't doing it this year? Are you? Man? I'm
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: you little doc the bunch? You present yourself to me? Man?
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: What you do that? You know what? I man? You
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: can meet me up at the leasing office. I'm at
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: the leasing I wanna start walking whiting at the LEAs
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  Speaker 1: off right a flock. I see who the hell I'm
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: talking to this man? Listen, Okay, Well, you need to
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: see who's gonna turn this pit over. Y'all ain't gonna ye, man.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: I want to see that. I want to see that happen,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: because soon as soon as you touched my pit, the
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  Speaker 1: that mean hits the flow. You don't hit the flow
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: quicker than the meat will. I'm trying to have a
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: good talent on black. You're trying to get together. Man.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: Everybody comes and drinking bill. Nobody's saying nothing, but I
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: don't want to say getting your muscle's gonna come out
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: this Okay, I'll tell you what. Bring you to the
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  Speaker 1: leasing office, and I polish you. I'm up in ahead
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: because i'm in ahead. You need you need to bring
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: somebody with you. That's what you need to do. Okay.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: I'm I think I'm a brain with me. I got
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: two pimp a brain with me. It's gonna be me
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: myself and and I bet you this here. You won't
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: putting no meet on that crib comes Sunday, Okay, I
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: won't putting all right on that crib. Now you re me,
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: y'all you're gonna need me. The leasing office is on.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: I'm a beat. Okay, okay, But dude, you know who
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: you do? You know who you're playing with? No, I don't.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: And I about Tomas when I find you. You don't
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  Speaker 1: know who you're playing with? Let me let me let
• 52:19
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  Speaker 1: says hot out here anyway. We don't care. We're gonna
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: we can take it. Man, y'all, y'all gave a Sunday man,
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: that's what we do. Everybody pitching in and we all
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: get govern man it's a it's a family thing. Man,
• 53:05
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  Speaker 1: We really are coming up next. It is a strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 1: The subject is did I make it all up? Did
• 53:27
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• 53:29
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• 53:36
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  Speaker 1: for the Strawberry letter with my good friend Shirley Strawbeary,
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: thank you my good friend juniors. Subject Did I make
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: it all up? Dear Stephen Shirley. My boyfriend and I
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: are in our early thirties and we've been together for
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: two years. We've been on again, off again for the
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: past year of our relationship because he gets upset over
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: the smallest things. I assumed he was cheating on me
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: when we'd argue and not speak to each other. On
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: our last breakup, we were apart for a month, so
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: I took it upon myself to be the bigger person
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: and try to fix things with him. He had been
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: living with his cousin in a townhouse about five miles
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: from my house. I went by the house and they
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: had moved. I called my boyfriend and his phone was
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: no longer in service. I got mad all over again,
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: and I thought he'd taken the games too far this time.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: A few weeks passed and I really missed him, so
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: I rode by his mother's house and I didn't see
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: his car, so I kept going. I noticed that he
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: had untagged himself in two group pictures I posted of
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: us on my Instagram page. My profile is private because
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: he doesn't want our love life on social media. He
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: hates taking pictures and always dodges my phone whenever I'm
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: taking selfies or when I try to take pictures with him,
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: And now I know why. When he went missing, my
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: intuition finally kicked in and I found his ex's Facebook page.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: She lives in another city, and so does he, with
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: her and their newborn son. They got married two years ago,
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: according to Facebook. That's right around the time I met him.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: I ran to my mother for comfort, but she was
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: no help. She said that he gave me signs all
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: along that he's married. But I made up a fairytale
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: relationship in my head. But he said he loved me
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: all the time and we had unprotected intercourse. He was
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: mine and I was his. How could I possibly make
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: it all up? What do I do now? Well? I mean,
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: you know, what do you do now? I mean you
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: move on with your life And as hard as that sounds,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: that's what you have to do. Two words. It's over.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: It's over. He's married with a newborn. There's nothing else
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: to discuss. Don't be mad at him, because, like your
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: mom said, he gave you signs all along, but you
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: were so disillusioned, so caught up, you made up a
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: fairytale relationship in your head. You ignored all the red flags.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: We talk about this all the time on this show.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: There are red flags. You cannot ignore them, but you did.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: They were there from the from the very beginning. You
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: just made the choice to ignore them. You said, finally
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: your intuition kicked in and you finally paid attention to
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: you know, and you got what he was saying. But
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: your mom gave you what you needed in that moment.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: You need it tough love. So you gotta stop calling him,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: stop writing by his mom's house, his old town house.
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: You got to stop looking for him on Facebook and stuff.
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: You gotta let this stuff go. You gotta let him go.
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: You don't need to talk to him. You don't need
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: to find out what happened. You don't need to get
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: any closure. He already gave you that closure when he
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: went back to his wife and with his child, So
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: you need to block him. Anything other than that after
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: what he did is just desperation on your part. And
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: trust me, you'll get over this. You will many have
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: and you will too, Steve, you know this letter is different.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: Did I make it all up? Well? You know what
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: I chose to do with this letter, Shirley, was I
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: decided to talk about what she didn't mention. Okay, because
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: this letter is full of what she didn't mention. My
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: boyfriend and I in our early thirties, and we've been
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: together for two years. We've been on and off again
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: for the past year of our relationship. I've told women
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: how many times, Shirley, that men don't do we don't
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: do off. No, we own with somebody. If we off
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: and own with you, it's cause we off with you
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: because we own somewhere else a schedule. So you've been
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: on again, off again for the past year in your
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: relationship because he gets upset over the smallest things. That's
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: just his out. You ain't look at right. Well, he
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: got to go home and he what you say? That
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: fault in the back of his mind. My wife, don't
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: talk like that. You just let me come and go
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: as I please. I gotta get home. My wife checking
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: on me. You see what I'm saying. It's what she's
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: not saying. I assumed that he was cheating on me
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: when we'd argue and not speak to each other. You
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: assumed he was cheating on you. Oh, shain't cool. What
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: you're not saying is you didn't assume he was cheating
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: with you on our last breakup. We were apart for
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: a month. Yeah, he had to go get it together now.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: So I take it abon myself to be a bigger
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: person to try to fix it with him. We've been living.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: He had been living with his cousin in a town
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: house about five miles from my house. I went by
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: the house and they had moved. He never lived at
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: He was using his cousin's house. Girl. When I come back,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you the rest of it. Sheldon
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: already tell you what you needed to do. I'm just
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: gonna help you get the facts. All right, Steve, We'll
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: have part two of your response coming up at twenty
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject did
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  Speaker 1: I Make it All Up? We'll be back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject did I make
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  Speaker 1: it all up? Oh? Yeah, your mother told you this,
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  Speaker 1: but you don't listen. Relationship you're having with a boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: for two years has been on again, off again for
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  Speaker 1: the past year. That's I've told women, we don't do off,
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  Speaker 1: we just do own. If we'll offer you to cast,
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  Speaker 1: we're own somewhere else. Our last breakup, they broke up
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  Speaker 1: for a month, so she took it on herself to
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  Speaker 1: be a bigger person to try to fix things with him.
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  Speaker 1: He had been living with his cousin in the town
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  Speaker 1: house about five miles from my house. No, he wasn't.
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  Speaker 1: He was going over there for the hook up. There
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  Speaker 1: was the hook up pan in his cousin's house. He
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  Speaker 1: wasn't living there. So when you went by, they had moved,
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  Speaker 1: the cousin moved. He back at the house with his wife. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I called my boyfriend and his phone was no longer
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  Speaker 1: in service. He didn't got he didn't had to get
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  Speaker 1: rid of ever dance. I got married all over again
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  Speaker 1: and thought he'd taking the games too far this time
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  Speaker 1: once again, thirty old boyfriend and y'all taking the games
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  Speaker 1: too far this time. So you was in a gamesmanship,
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  Speaker 1: not a relationship. A gamesmanship not a relationship. A few
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  Speaker 1: weeks past, and I really missed him. So I rode
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  Speaker 1: by his mama's house and I didn't see his car,
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  Speaker 1: so I kept going. I noticed he had untagged himself
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  Speaker 1: in two group pictures I had posted of us on Instagram. Yeah. See,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't get rid of the phone. He had to untagged.
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  Speaker 1: He got busted by his wife. My profile is private
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  Speaker 1: because he don't want our love life on social media
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  Speaker 1: because his wife will find out. Girl. He hates taking
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  Speaker 1: pictures and always dodges my phone when I remember I'm
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  Speaker 1: taking selfish or when I try to take pictures with him.
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  Speaker 1: He can't be in no picture. He ain't even famous,
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  Speaker 1: and he doing that right. And now I know why Dan.
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  Speaker 1: The light bulb went off in Dummy's head when he
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  Speaker 1: went missing. My intuition finally kicked in. It finally kicked in.
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  Speaker 1: Nor didn't Lady, it been kicking in you, jess ignored.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't try to make something of that. You've been in
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  Speaker 1: the own again all of gain relationship for the past year.
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  Speaker 1: He gets upset over the smallest things. Here's your other intuition.
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  Speaker 1: I assumed he was cheating on me when we'd dog
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  Speaker 1: and not speak to each other. All that was intuition.
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  Speaker 1: I called my boyfriend's phone and he was no longer
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  Speaker 1: in service. I got mad all over again. That was intuition.
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  Speaker 1: I thought he'd taking the games too far this time.
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  Speaker 1: That was intuition. Then he had untagged himself in two
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  Speaker 1: group pictures I posted on my Instagram. That was intuition.
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  Speaker 1: Your profile is private because he doesn't want our love
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  Speaker 1: on social media. That was intuition. He takes pictures and
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  Speaker 1: dodges my phone whenever I'm taking selfish where I try
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  Speaker 1: to take rid of That was intuition. Then she say,
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  Speaker 1: and now I know why when he went missing, my
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  Speaker 1: intuition kicked in and I found his Facebook page. She
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  Speaker 1: lives in another city and soldiers. He with her and
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  Speaker 1: their newborn son. They got married two years ago, according
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  Speaker 1: to Facebook. That's right around the time I met him.
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  Speaker 1: I ran to my mother for comfort, but she was
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  Speaker 1: no help. She said he gave me all the signs
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  Speaker 1: all along that he was married. But I made up
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  Speaker 1: a fairy ary relationship in my head. But he said
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  Speaker 1: he loved me all the time, and we had unprotected
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  Speaker 1: in the course. He was mine and I was his.
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  Speaker 1: How could I possibly make it all up? You just did?
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  Speaker 1: You just read this letter to us, and you said
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  Speaker 1: he was mine and I was his. How could I
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  Speaker 1: possibly make this up? You tell us your intuition kicked
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  Speaker 1: in from the very beginning. You ignored it until later
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  Speaker 1: on in the life before you went to his exits
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  Speaker 1: Facebook page and found out he lived in another city
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  Speaker 1: with him and his newborn. Uh, what do I do now? What? Shure?
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  Speaker 1: He told you? What do you do now? You got
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  Speaker 1: to move on? Yeah? Yeah, you have nothing. You got
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  Speaker 1: to move on. He's married, he got a family, he
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  Speaker 1: lived out of town. You ain't got no phone number
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  Speaker 1: on him. You've been untagged. You can't take no pictures
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  Speaker 1: with him. He don't want to take pictures with you.
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  Speaker 1: He's married. What do I do now? You move on?
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing else for you to do. I'm sorry. This
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  Speaker 1: is the way it works. Stop writing by his mom's house,
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  Speaker 1: that's for sure, because mama don't give it to you.
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  Speaker 1: Just help you. Your mama didn't care, right, His mama
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  Speaker 1: could give lessons now interested in her new grand baby. Right?
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  Speaker 1: None of the mama's a senior kid. Your old mama
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  Speaker 1: didn't kid. No, she told you you made it up.
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  Speaker 1: It was in your head, a fantasy relation. So stop
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  Speaker 1: making up stuff without facts. So what you had unprotected
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  Speaker 1: in it? He headed with that other girl too, and
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  Speaker 1: she got a baby. Brenda got a baby. Nick, Your
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  Speaker 1: Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're listening to
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Time now for Junior and Sports
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  Speaker 1: Talk Junior. What you got all right? All right? Came
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  Speaker 1: to an end up, Man Little League World Series. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if you've been watching that off, Man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: watching as much as I can. Man, Curious lost man
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  Speaker 1: to Hawaii. Man, I would rule the Curious. Look, them
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  Speaker 1: little dudes had me happy. Man. The little boys could
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  Speaker 1: play boys, bam. But let me tell you that Hawaiian team,
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  Speaker 1: that white team, Man, they ain't Joe. They thirteen to three.
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  Speaker 1: They lost, Curious I lost to Hawaiian thirteen to three. Man,
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  Speaker 1: But you know, it's just it's just good to see
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  Speaker 1: them little chats out there, Man from Curious Ound. They
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  Speaker 1: had a great tournament. They had a great tournament this year.
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  Speaker 1: They was not playing talking about them little dudes get
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  Speaker 1: a hit and then curious curiousles in Jerry's small place.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah man, they lost. Man also and other sports dudes.
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  Speaker 1: Man's just shout out to Rory McElroy. Man. He becomes
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  Speaker 1: the first person to win the Finnish Cup title three times.
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  Speaker 1: Wow and unk. The paycheck that go with that is
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  Speaker 1: eighteen million. Ye'all watched it came pulling for Roy too. Yeah, yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: And that's great because no one in our marketing place listens.
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  Speaker 1: Took off. So I was shocked that you did golf story.
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  Speaker 1: But thank you for me. But for the other millions
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  Speaker 1: of people they could give less. Yeah. They don't even
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  Speaker 1: know who Roy Michael Roy is. They don't know from Scotland, Shirley.
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  Speaker 1: They have you know who Roy Michael Roy is? No
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  Speaker 1: no idea college you know. No, no thanks, Junior. I
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  Speaker 1: don't even know why I tell you. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: why you about this damn story up Cup. They don't know.
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  Speaker 1: They don't have no clue. But because it was eighteen
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  Speaker 1: million playing golf, just they don't, Junior, They don't know
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  Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Okay, Well I'm just saying, would
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  Speaker 1: you swing a club for eighteen millions? What I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: I'm down here swinging it for free. A great story, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: swing golf club for eighteen years. Ask damage person what
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  Speaker 1: theyre I'm trying to figure out what they won't do
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  Speaker 1: for a teen That's all I was just asking. Eighteen me.
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  Speaker 1: He don't speaking free, but man, that's a pretty good paycheck. Also, man,
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  Speaker 1: we gotta say our prayers are with Brian Robinson. Man,
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  Speaker 1: he's running back for the Washington Commanders. He was shot
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  Speaker 1: multiple times in attempted robbery. All um, I mean, he's
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  Speaker 1: just a young guy. He's playing for the Washings Commanders
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  Speaker 1: and all his all of the shooting is none of
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  Speaker 1: his life threatening. So we just want to send all
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  Speaker 1: of the shootings and none of us like, yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: not it's not life threatening. I mean he just was
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  Speaker 1: shot some good times, that's all. So we are praying
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  Speaker 1: for his family injuries. He's an injury, so we're praying
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  Speaker 1: for his family. Man. That's our sports talk right there today.
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  Speaker 1: Eighteen me swing that club. Man, get out here, all right,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour,
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  Speaker 1: Steve a lie that you're going to be proud of
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  Speaker 1: we found this. We'll talk about it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening, well, Steve. We found this letter recently. It
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  Speaker 1: was posted on Baller Alert. I think you'll be proud
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  Speaker 1: of this letter. I think you'll be proud of this lie.
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  Speaker 1: This man wrote this letter to his girlfriend. It's titled
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  Speaker 1: to Bay from prison after Valentine's Day? Okay, well, uh,
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  Speaker 1: dear Bay, Sorry I missed Valentine's Day and for the
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  Speaker 1: no call and no show, I got locked up on
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  Speaker 1: my day. On my way to your house. To surprise you,
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  Speaker 1: I use my only phone call to call my lawyer.
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  Speaker 1: I will see you Sunday when they release me. Can
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  Speaker 1: you pick me up at Newark Airport? That's where the
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  Speaker 1: police dropped me off at because one of them live
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  Speaker 1: in Newark and was giving me a ride. If you
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  Speaker 1: see some pictures on Facebook, those are old pictures of
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  Speaker 1: me in Jamaica before we got together. I love you,
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  Speaker 1: your Bay, your boot man. Did that make you dog?
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  Speaker 1: I'm in prison, yeah, but I get out Sunday. Rocket
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  Speaker 1: Boy Balatie's death Boy. On his way to her house,
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  Speaker 1: I used the one call to call my lawyer, my dad.
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  Speaker 1: Can you pick me up at the New York Airport,
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  Speaker 1: though policeman gonna give me a ride there and see
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  Speaker 1: any pictures of me on faith. But that was last year.
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  Speaker 1: That ain't that ain't where I was. This lie nothing
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  Speaker 1: the work, but is damn though the fact that you
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  Speaker 1: had the gumption to tell ye, boy, come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: say what not tell me what happened? Do you do
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  Speaker 1: on the way to her house? I got imprisoned. He
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  Speaker 1: in jail, he in prison. See. One of the comments
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  Speaker 1: was that is the most creative lie I have ever seen, now,
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  Speaker 1: one of them. When you go to prisoner, you've been sentenced,
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  Speaker 1: then you go to jail and await sentencing a way
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  Speaker 1: to try. Yeah, but you just went to prison dog.
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  Speaker 1: So that that right there is you know, he'd been
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  Speaker 1: in jail, just sending for me, one more time, doing it,
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  Speaker 1: one more town for me. Hey. So you know what, man,
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  Speaker 1: I was baby baby, not the sign blowing crazy. It's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I remember when I was, when I when I was
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be seeing you on Valentine's Day. Yes, I
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  Speaker 1: was waiting for you. So I'm driving and all of
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  Speaker 1: a sudden, sound effects is that? And it scared me
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  Speaker 1: so bad I slammed on my brakes right, so the
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  Speaker 1: car ran up in the back to me. The police
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  Speaker 1: car ran up into the back of them, and and
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  Speaker 1: it messed my head up me and I hit my
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  Speaker 1: head a little bit, you know, because you know, I
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no air bags because I disabled them because
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I was reading on sixty minutes how
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  Speaker 1: they hurt a lot of people, so I went on disable.
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  Speaker 1: Now I hit my head on that standing wheel. It
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  Speaker 1: kind of made me black out. And they got out
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  Speaker 1: the car and they thought I was drunk because I
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  Speaker 1: was woozy from me standing wheel because I disabled the bag.
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  Speaker 1: So they arrested me, and then they come to find
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  Speaker 1: out they had all these charge just because I had
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  Speaker 1: these warrants. The next thing, you know, they had one
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  Speaker 1: phone call, so I they had a phone book then there,
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  Speaker 1: and so I looked up my lawyer and I called
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  Speaker 1: him and that was my only phone call. I couldn't
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  Speaker 1: call you because they kept my cell phone. And you'll know,
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  Speaker 1: being the cell phone, I ain't never memorize it, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I just hit the support person in my life, babe bag,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, and then the next thing, you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: I was just locked up. I couldn't have the number, man,
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  Speaker 1: So I'm getting out Sunday a point pick me up.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be some pictures you see on Facebook, but
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  Speaker 1: that's last year. At the same time before I met
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  Speaker 1: you had all right, we'll have more of the Sea
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up in twenty minutes after the
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  Speaker 1: hour right after this you're listening show. All right, this
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  Speaker 1: story is crazy. Uh it was a lie of hoax,
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  Speaker 1: a prank gone bad. Did you guys see the viral
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  Speaker 1: picture of a man who went to McDonald's. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know how you missed this when it appeared he had
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  Speaker 1: a case of monkey pox. It really did go viral.
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  Speaker 1: You guys saw that picture right right, yeah, because it
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: really looked crazy. Yeah, yeah, that one. Uh huh. Well,
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  Speaker 1: this guy won on social media to announced it was
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  Speaker 1: all a prank to promote his music. You got monkey pock.
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  Speaker 1: You went all out, dude. The guy his name is Dwayne.
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  Speaker 1: He admits that his marketing scheme didn't go too well
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  Speaker 1: and people were really mad at him for going to
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  Speaker 1: McDonald's with monkey pox. Even posted the video of the
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  Speaker 1: whole process of someone painting the fake fake pox on him,
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  Speaker 1: and he even took some of the props off to
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  Speaker 1: prove it was all a prank. I just think you know,
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  Speaker 1: doing way too much? Right, that was way too much.
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  Speaker 1: That's what your music really really must Yeah album that
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  Speaker 1: boy album? Man, I gotta do something to get somebody
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  Speaker 1: want to hear this. I'm no one. I'm tell him
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  Speaker 1: I got market pops an album. Why would you do that?
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  Speaker 1: His mama don't have his album? Craby, This ain't good.
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  Speaker 1: You want to redo this without the monkeybox? Okay? Coming
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  Speaker 1: up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play
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  Speaker 1: around it. Would you rather right after this you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to the Steve Morning Show time now for would you
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  Speaker 1: rather would you rather have new picks, your nude picks
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  Speaker 1: be leaked to everyone at work? Or would you rather
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: those nude pictures be leaked to everyone at your family gathering,
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  Speaker 1: your family reunion or whatever at work or family gathering.
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  Speaker 1: IM gonna let y'all see it. Yeah, yeah, that way
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  Speaker 1: you know they gonna know one. Yeah you go, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: don't don't, all right? Would you rather break out into
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: laughter at a funeral or would you rather break out
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  Speaker 1: into laughter at a wedding? Which one funeral? You bust
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: stop laughing. Oh, you should have seen the people here talking.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, because my cousin, you know, he
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: was his funeral, but my cousin his partner his bed
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  Speaker 1: friends said, you know, I know he ain't hear no more,
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: but he ain't heaven right now, body rocking? Who says
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: that at the funeral? Now, I've been in some funerals
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: since I've been in Holly, laughing, Holly. This lady went
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  Speaker 1: up to the cask and was standing there talking to
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  Speaker 1: the body and then leaned down to lay her head
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  Speaker 1: on the chest, and the lid fell on her. You
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  Speaker 1: have seen her ass thinking she was siting to go
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  Speaker 1: with him. You've seen her big ass getting her but
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  Speaker 1: she damned and told the lid off the other weight
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  Speaker 1: I was at the funeral, she told her satin out
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  Speaker 1: the top of the snatched so hard, she told her
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  Speaker 1: satin at the top of the funeral. The family was
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  Speaker 1: sitting over there. I'm mortified. I'm on the other side.
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  Speaker 1: I can't breathe. Well, that would laugh, Yeah, I was
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  Speaker 1: it now, wheezing her head on you. You know, she
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  Speaker 1: tried to lay her head on his chest, like I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna miss you, and she snatched it lead open with
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  Speaker 1: a elbow and taul and satting off the top. I
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  Speaker 1: was sitting over there on the side. Who okay, all right,
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  Speaker 1: that's today's version of grieving that hard alright? Coming up
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  Speaker 1: in forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day, and of course we'll have some
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right
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  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Here we are
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: our last break of the day before we get to
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  Speaker 1: Steves closing on this Tuesday. This is um Labor Day
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  Speaker 1: week right, girl, Yeah? Countdown the Labor Day weekend coming up. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this is man. This this year we say it all
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  Speaker 1: the time. This year is moving. Christmas is tomorrow. It
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: really is, it really is. We got wight Holidays, folks
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  Speaker 1: that get here. I know, I know what now we
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: have three yeah what Thanksgiving? It depends on who you are.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: You got Labor Day, yeah, Halloween yeah yeah, and then
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  Speaker 1: you got to season you got you know, holiday season
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: you got yeah, Christmas oh yeah, Nicle yeahs and Christmas yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know. I was thinking one day, have you ever
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: wondered about this is my closing remarks. So I'm just
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  Speaker 1: went through Have you ever wondered about why y'all life
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  Speaker 1: hands so many stumbling blocks and pitfalls and troubles? You know,
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  Speaker 1: I was talking to myself the healthy day, well not really,
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  Speaker 1: I was really talking to God and it was kind
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  Speaker 1: of and it was funny because I read something I
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  Speaker 1: was just asking God about, you know, why I was
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  Speaker 1: taking so long for something to happen. And then I
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  Speaker 1: got reflective of it, and I started thinking about, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: what what is it about my life that's been so
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  Speaker 1: so troubling? Why so many troubles? And I've oftentimes at
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  Speaker 1: the times I wanted to ask God back then when
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  Speaker 1: it was happening to me, why am I going through
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  Speaker 1: this so long? I got it. I don't need this
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  Speaker 1: lesson no more? You know this living in this car?
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  Speaker 1: What I got it? Come on, man, let's make something happen. Happen.
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  Speaker 1: Why did these relationships be so disappointing? I got it.
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  Speaker 1: Make something happen. When I look back all on it.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what he told me. He sent this
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  Speaker 1: to me from from a friend of mine, and the
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  Speaker 1: saying said, I asked God why he took me through
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  Speaker 1: so many troubled waters? And God's response was because your
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  Speaker 1: enemies can't swim, and boy, lever tell you something. It
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  Speaker 1: was like I was really having a conversation with God
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  Speaker 1: about everything that had happened to me, and I just
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  Speaker 1: couldn't and the why of it I was struggling with.
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  Speaker 1: And then a friend sent it to me. I'm talking
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  Speaker 1: about within minutes and the slogan said, I kept asking
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  Speaker 1: God why he keeps taking me through these troubled waters,
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  Speaker 1: and God's response was, because your enemies can't swim. He
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  Speaker 1: took me out into deep He took me out there
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  Speaker 1: where the waves was crashing or and even though I
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  Speaker 1: didn't want to be out there, he was with me
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  Speaker 1: the whole time. And why he was with me the
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  Speaker 1: whole time, my enemies couldn't get to me no more.
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  Speaker 1: I was out of reach because I was out there
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  Speaker 1: in the trouble zone trouble zone. But I was tucked
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  Speaker 1: under the wings of my heavenly Father. And that's why
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  Speaker 1: sometimes you have troubles because you put down He put
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  Speaker 1: you out there sometimes in a condition, in a set
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  Speaker 1: of circumstances where very few people can can can deal with,
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  Speaker 1: can relate. I often wonder why they weight on my shoulders.
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  Speaker 1: It's so heavy, and I have to come to terms
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  Speaker 1: because I'm built for this. I have to understand why,
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  Speaker 1: why me, Oh Lord, why does it feel so crushed
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  Speaker 1: for me? I'm talking to those of you that have
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  Speaker 1: am wondering this sometimes, Oh me, Oh wonder why it's me?
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  Speaker 1: Oh Lord? Because you it. You're the one that has
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  Speaker 1: the stripth that he can demonstrate his power through. He's
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  Speaker 1: using you to show other people what he can do.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about that? Did you ever think, man,
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  Speaker 1: that he needed to show you on the ground. So
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  Speaker 1: when he picked you up and had you walking again,
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  Speaker 1: that was people who saw that who didn't think you'd
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  Speaker 1: ever get up again. Don't you understand that there are
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  Speaker 1: people in your life who just knew you wasn't gonna
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  Speaker 1: get up again, and God used you to show them.
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  Speaker 1: I'm God Almighty, I'm the powerful. I can do the unthinkable.
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  Speaker 1: I can make things happen when it seems happenless. That's
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  Speaker 1: that God, Man. And so sometimes when you're going through it,
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  Speaker 1: understand something. It's because he chose you for it, that
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  Speaker 1: he put the test in front of you, because he
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  Speaker 1: knows you have the ability to pass it. And that
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  Speaker 1: right there, Man explains a lot of my life. That
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  Speaker 1: right there can explain a lot of your life. It's
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  Speaker 1: tagged you it because you were chosen for this life.
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  Speaker 1: You can do it. Why are you the only one
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  Speaker 1: in your family ever went to college? Why are you
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  Speaker 1: the only one in the family had this then went
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  Speaker 1: down this path of the road. I used to be
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  Speaker 1: tripping all the time. Lord, I'm tired of swinging this machette.
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  Speaker 1: He said, Well, what you you want to go to
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  Speaker 1: where everybody else can win? Or you want to keep
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  Speaker 1: this machette in your hand and cut this path? I
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  Speaker 1: got you on, get your swinging and shut up. So
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  Speaker 1: I shut up and I'm swinging nice pad. Appreciate you. Lord.
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  Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks that they hope you got
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  Speaker 1: something from it. If not, yeah, I see you tomorrow. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: talk to God today, y'all. He'd love to hear from you.
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