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Kim K Sex Tape, President Pacquiao, Cleveland Browns, Physical Friends and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harley got a radio show. Okay, here we go today, folks.
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  Speaker 1: This is a good one because today I want to
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  Speaker 1: share with you something that affects every living soul, and
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  Speaker 1: that one thing is your attitude. This affects everyone. It
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  Speaker 1: is your attitude. You know. I don't know if anyone's
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  Speaker 1: ever told you, but I mean many of you who
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  Speaker 1: listen know this. But there are a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: who don't understand a positive attitude can bring about a change.
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  Speaker 1: A positive attitude can bring about a change. Well, now
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  Speaker 1: here we go with the nay says, well, Steve, what
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  Speaker 1: you mean if I'm just positive? Being changed. My MoMA gone.
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  Speaker 1: What me being positive got to do with that? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: now listen to me carefully. A positive attitude can bring
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  Speaker 1: about change. Well, okay, Steve, I hear you saying that,
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  Speaker 1: But they didn't fired me. So now what does my
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  Speaker 1: having a positive attitude have to do with the fact
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  Speaker 1: that they fired me? Well, one more time, A positive
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  Speaker 1: attitude can bring about change. Or Steve, I set up
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  Speaker 1: in here and gave eight nine, twelve years of my
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  Speaker 1: life to this man and he just he cheated on
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  Speaker 1: me and walked out. Now what does me being positive
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  Speaker 1: have to do with him cheating on me? How that's
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  Speaker 1: gonna change that? Okay, here we go again. A positive
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  Speaker 1: attitude can bring about change. Now listen to the whole thing. Now,
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  Speaker 1: the positive attitude and the change that can happen starts
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  Speaker 1: this is to start. It starts within you. See, life
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  Speaker 1: is teen percent of what happens is what you do
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  Speaker 1: about what happens. Okay, you gave twelve years of your
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  Speaker 1: life to this man. He cheated and left you hold
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  Speaker 1: in the bag, the kids and everything. Now what does
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  Speaker 1: being positive have to do with changing that? Or they
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  Speaker 1: came in and they fired you. You lost your job
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  Speaker 1: that you was a stellar performer at. But now, how
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  Speaker 1: does you having a positive attitude? How does that change
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  Speaker 1: things for you? So far? You can use any example.
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  Speaker 1: Here's what happens when you have a positive attitude. What
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  Speaker 1: it produces within you is a positive approach to life.
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  Speaker 1: And when you have a positive attitude and a positive
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  Speaker 1: approach to life, it causes you to be optimistic, to
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  Speaker 1: have a positive out look, to expect things to eventually
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  Speaker 1: turn around, and and and and turn into a positive
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  Speaker 1: That's very important because as the law of attraction comes
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  Speaker 1: into play, if you think positive thoughts, you attract positive things.
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  Speaker 1: If you think evil thoughts, you attract evil to you.
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  Speaker 1: You know, if you want for nothing, then nothing comes
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  Speaker 1: your way. If you want for a positive attitude, if
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  Speaker 1: you want for positive results, if you want for a
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  Speaker 1: great outcome, that's what you attract to you. The change
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  Speaker 1: will begin within you. So let's take the man that
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  Speaker 1: walked out your life and left you hold in the bag.
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  Speaker 1: Here's a positive attitude. Okay, two things have happened as
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  Speaker 1: positive here. Number one, you've ridd it yourself of someone
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  Speaker 1: who is obviously going to be, if not already been,
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  Speaker 1: toxic in your life. Cause you many restless nights, a
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  Speaker 1: lot of uncomfortable feelings, an uneasiness, not sure insecure purity.
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  Speaker 1: You've been going through it with this person, whoever they are.
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  Speaker 1: Number One, that person has been released from your life.
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  Speaker 1: Number Two, it allows you now to have the someone
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  Speaker 1: who will treat you just the way you want to
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  Speaker 1: be treated. That's the positive outlook, that's the optimistic way.
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  Speaker 1: That's when you're a positive person. You see the positive
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  Speaker 1: in things that happen to you, instead of burying yourself
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  Speaker 1: under the hor's wrong with it, a old woe is
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  Speaker 1: me now? Concept? See a positive attitude. When they came
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  Speaker 1: in there and they fired you and let you go,
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  Speaker 1: could this not have been just the opening you needed
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  Speaker 1: to finally start on a new career path that you've
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  Speaker 1: been talking about doing anyway? Could it possibly be a
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  Speaker 1: brand new chance for you to get the dream job
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  Speaker 1: or dream career of your choice. Could it not possibly
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  Speaker 1: be the perfect opportunity now for you to finally finally
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  Speaker 1: do something about that gift, about that talent that God
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  Speaker 1: gave you, that thing that you love to do. Could
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  Speaker 1: it not be the perfect time for you to pursue that?
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  Speaker 1: But if you don't have a positive attitude. Then you
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  Speaker 1: lay there. Oh they finn to come getting my house.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what I'm gonna do now? All this unemployment ain't enough.
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  Speaker 1: Oh Lord, when this unemployment run out, what am I
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  Speaker 1: gonna do? Then I won't have nothing? And you old
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  Speaker 1: woe is me until you become old, woe is me.
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  Speaker 1: But if you take it from the positive approach, some
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  Speaker 1: amazing things can happen in your life. I will tell
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  Speaker 1: you on a personal note, that's some of the most
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  Speaker 1: some of the best changes, some of the biggest moments
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  Speaker 1: in my life came after a loss. So I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to go down on the list, but boy, I
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  Speaker 1: could tell you. Let me let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: When they didn't want me on the radio anymore in La,
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  Speaker 1: when they didn't when they when it was sicking the
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  Speaker 1: way I did radio out there, and they wanted me gone.
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  Speaker 1: And on May twenty, two thousand and five, when my when? When? When?
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  Speaker 1: When my deal was done? With the beat out in La. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: look what happened though, y'all was gone in May. But
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  Speaker 1: in September nineteenth I started to Steve Harvey Radio Network
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  Speaker 1: with four cities. You see, But I didn't go old
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  Speaker 1: woe was me. I said, oh okay, God must have
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  Speaker 1: something else from it then, because if he didn't remove
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  Speaker 1: me from this, that must be something else. Same thing
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  Speaker 1: can happened when you lose and you and you and
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  Speaker 1: you break up in a relationship. Same thing can happen
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  Speaker 1: to you. You never know the one God God for
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  Speaker 1: you that here you go, here you go again. Now
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  Speaker 1: you get put into a situation with somebody, treat you
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  Speaker 1: just the way you want to be treated, provide you
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  Speaker 1: the whole lot of aspects of your life you knew
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  Speaker 1: nothing about prior to that. But you gotta stay positive.
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  Speaker 1: If you stay positive, that positive attitude, that optimistic outlook,
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  Speaker 1: that that that always thinking God got me no matter
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  Speaker 1: what happened to me, some amazing things that's going can
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  Speaker 1: will happen in your life. It's a fact. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know how it works that way. I just know that's
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  Speaker 1: what it is. Positive attitude is everything, y'all. So get
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  Speaker 1: off the old woe is mean negativity train because it
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna take you nowhere but down and get get
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  Speaker 1: your outlook up. If you change your attitude, you change
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  Speaker 1: your altitude. Altitude is determined by your attitude, how high
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  Speaker 1: you go, how big you become, how far you go.
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  Speaker 1: It all depends on how you think. It all depends
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  Speaker 1: on what type of attitude you got. It ain't no,
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  Speaker 1: ain't no very very successful, super negative people. It just
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  Speaker 1: doesn't coincide that way. If you see that something happened
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  Speaker 1: to them along the way, and don't weary. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna wear ayboud it because you ain't gonna see them
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  Speaker 1: long because you can't stay up there like that. It's
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  Speaker 1: just too hard. All right, that's the conversation you're listening.
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  Speaker 1: one and I am the only one that was made
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  Speaker 1: one and only. Now if you want to put yourself
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  Speaker 1: man by him and I accept that gladly. And they
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  Speaker 1: claim to being v one and only. Steve Hardy, there
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  Speaker 1: no doubt about it. You are too. See, all of
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  Speaker 1: us are the one and only? Over six eight billions
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  Speaker 1: or how many people on earth right now? Oh what's
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  Speaker 1: the number is it? And how many people? You think?
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  Speaker 1: Then die? Who that's just getting it up? Says at
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  Speaker 1: the beginning. Yeah, they probably billions to billions. Yeah, at
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  Speaker 1: all the billions of people to tell you how special
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  Speaker 1: you are. Do you realize that none of us, This
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  Speaker 1: is how cold God is, none of us have the
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  Speaker 1: exact same finger Pretty, that's why you should never compare yourself.
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  Speaker 1: That's what man. I'm deeply made and I am the one,
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  Speaker 1: it's the wife of the one and only she knows what. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I am the wife. Oh, yes you are, girl, You're
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  Speaker 1: bout right. Steven says. It's about seven five billion people
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  Speaker 1: in the world, and no you count them, and the
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  Speaker 1: ones has died and nobody's had the same fingerprint. There
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  Speaker 1: ain't like nobody else. I've been new that so here
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  Speaker 1: asked the CLLO. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: the CLO, Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.
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  Speaker 1: This one is from Jewel in making Georgia Jewel writes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in my mid fifties and I'm dating a guy
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  Speaker 1: that is my age. He's a hard working professional man,
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  Speaker 1: but I have a big issue with his grooming. We've
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  Speaker 1: been together one month and on a few occasions I've
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  Speaker 1: seen him bite his nails and spit them across the room.
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  Speaker 1: I asked if he needed a nail clipper, and he
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  Speaker 1: told me he has one that he only uses for
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  Speaker 1: his toenails. Well, that couldn't be true, because his toenails
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  Speaker 1: along as heck, dating after divorce is so hard, and
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  Speaker 1: I compare men to my well groomed ex am I
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  Speaker 1: being overly critical. Well let's look at this, your whale groom,
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  Speaker 1: ec Dan, won't you no more? See, you have to
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  Speaker 1: realize who's ever fault. The divorce was at one point
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  Speaker 1: in time, everybody got signed the paper. So there's a
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  Speaker 1: particular moment when neither either one of you won't each other.
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  Speaker 1: So now you keep comparing yourself to somebody that don't
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  Speaker 1: won't you. Now here's the problem with Dayton. Everybody's going
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  Speaker 1: to be different than somebody else. Everybody. He has a
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  Speaker 1: habit of biting his nails, and his toe nails is long.
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  Speaker 1: We've got to do something like that, thought, something Nah,
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  Speaker 1: you can work on that. He ain't had nobody working
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  Speaker 1: on it. Just say, hey, look, it really disgusted me
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  Speaker 1: when you bite your nails and spit across the rule,
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  Speaker 1: And it really disgusted me that you got claws on
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  Speaker 1: your feet. Now, I'm gonna help you because obviously no
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  Speaker 1: one else has taken the time to love you that way,
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  Speaker 1: and because you're a professional and make a lot of
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  Speaker 1: money and you're doing real well in life. Anybody said nothing,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna help you. Can I help you? Most
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  Speaker 1: men will accept the help you. But but but first
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  Speaker 1: of all, compliment him on what he is before you
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  Speaker 1: take him down with what he got the voice knees. Girl,
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  Speaker 1: I love you. You are special. You're something thing else
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  Speaker 1: you really do ooh you make money? Something your hand something? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you go to get that pedicure. Yeah, two things I
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  Speaker 1: would I would wonder if you would just consider for me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: getting your nails across the room, because I don't want
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  Speaker 1: nobody talking about my man. Because he got a habit
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  Speaker 1: of chewing his nails and spending across the room. It's amazing.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be hard for him to stop. You can't
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  Speaker 1: because you can't get your foot in your mouth. No
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  Speaker 1: more to him. Last time you had your foot in
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  Speaker 1: your mouth, you was a baby. Time he was all right.
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  Speaker 1: Moving on. Wanda in Jacksonville, says, my coworker and I
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  Speaker 1: used to be real cool. So she was invited to
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  Speaker 1: an NFL game with her new boyfriend. I let her
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  Speaker 1: borrow one of my designer purses. She brought it back
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  Speaker 1: to me at work and it was full of trash
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  Speaker 1: and change, and there was a sticky film all on it.
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  Speaker 1: She said. She got tipsy and spilled a cup of
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  Speaker 1: bourbon on the purse and inside of it. I asked
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  Speaker 1: her to get my purse professionally clean so the leather
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  Speaker 1: won't be ruined. She refused to and left it on
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  Speaker 1: my desk. How can I force her to clean my purse?
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, you can't force her to clean
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  Speaker 1: your purse. But two things it's gonna happen. These are
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  Speaker 1: the two things that should happen after this. Number one,
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  Speaker 1: I never loaned my stuff out to No, damn, how
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  Speaker 1: much you like it that. That's number one. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: loaning you nothing else. And then number two were not
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  Speaker 1: friends no more because friends don't treat friends that way.
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  Speaker 1: So theven the two things you out of number one.
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  Speaker 1: You learned a lesson. Don't ever loan your stuff. I'll
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  Speaker 1: let you use a design a bag. What is that normal?
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  Speaker 1: Is that? What women do they do that? I mean
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I mean no, I give
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  Speaker 1: mine away like I've given my find the backs of
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  Speaker 1: Way to family members, friends. You can't have it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just saying, y'all always say I had a little rich
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  Speaker 1: as moments were coming from this here, give it away,
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  Speaker 1: design the bags. Ain't nobody want to say nothing about that.
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  Speaker 1: That's not I'm not on the same level as you.
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  Speaker 1: We talk about whatever level you want. Rachel, let me
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  Speaker 1: interject in him. Don't let me do it in a jet.
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  Speaker 1: In a jet, what do you want to say? Him?
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  Speaker 1: And God is like tight, ain't a boy at getting
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  Speaker 1: indicate her time? Oh God, gonna be into that state.
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  Speaker 1: Want trouble though, you don't want to trouble. Not at
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  Speaker 1: the gate. All right, So clean your own leather bag, ma'am.
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  Speaker 1: That's what he's saying. All right, putting your own other brag.
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  Speaker 1: Don't ever loan your stuff out again and lose her.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, Georsha and Philly says in twenty nineteen, I
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  Speaker 1: married a great man and he moved in with me.
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  Speaker 1: He sold his house, and he promised to use the
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  Speaker 1: money for our honeymoon. The pandemic shut down our plans
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  Speaker 1: for a year, but I feel like it's safe to
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  Speaker 1: travel now. My husband said he'd rather save the money
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  Speaker 1: for a rainy day. I told him, either we are
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  Speaker 1: booking a trip, or he needs to put the money
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  Speaker 1: in our joint savings account. He said it was his money,
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  Speaker 1: not ours. He's living in my house, so I told
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  Speaker 1: him that everything is ours to share. Is this a
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  Speaker 1: sign that he's not all in? Well, it's not a
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  Speaker 1: sign that he's not all in. It's a sign that
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  Speaker 1: you all didn't discuss an important thing about marriage, which
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  Speaker 1: is finance and how you all should make moves like this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming that you are how old are they? And say,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm assuming to be up in age? Because if
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  Speaker 1: he owns a house and you own a house, that
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  Speaker 1: means y'all took the time out to invest in yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Down the line, does it mean that he's not all in? No,
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  Speaker 1: it just simply means he doesn't understand what marriage is
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  Speaker 1: all about. He promised he would use the money for
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  Speaker 1: their honey, but then the pandemic shunned that down and
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  Speaker 1: now he wants to save it for a rainy day,
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  Speaker 1: which makes sense, but the statement of it ain't show
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  Speaker 1: money is my money because at the time it was
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  Speaker 1: his house before he met you. So he's having a
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  Speaker 1: her house. Yeah, but now does he know that that's
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  Speaker 1: your house or does he understand that it's our house,
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  Speaker 1: Because if he thinks it's our house, then he must
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  Speaker 1: know that that's our money. You're gonna have to sit
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  Speaker 1: down and have a conversation with him. Yeah, our pastor
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  Speaker 1: could help him understand it better. Maybe y'all should go
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  Speaker 1: to past it. Yeah, it's a dispute. Thank you, Clo
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  Speaker 1: coming up next to nephew and run that brank back
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  Speaker 1: talk about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah, we're gonna get
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  Speaker 1: into it. You heard me. We're gonna get into it. Yeah, right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about that as well, all of these stories
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  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. But right now you
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  Speaker 1: What you got for his nap? Can I have your kidney?
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  Speaker 1: Come on to loan me a kidney till I get
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  Speaker 1: on my feet. Let's go kid Hello, Hello, I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: This is Diacon Patterson called him from the church. How
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  Speaker 1: you doing today, Uh, Deacon Patterson, Yeah, just doing frind
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  Speaker 1: and yourself, sir, I'm doing good, doing good. You know
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: the churches behind you on what you're going through. When
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: we were praying for you, man, we know all about
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: the You know you're going in the surgeon on Friday
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: to get your get your prancers removed. So I wanted
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: to give you a call, man, have a word of
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: prayer and let you know that we all are pulling
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: for you, and we know that the man upstairs are
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: gonna pull you through this successful where God blessing keep you,
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: h that, Deacon, God blessing keep you because I tell
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: you I'm going through something here, me and my wife.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: We've been talking about it, and we've been praying on it,
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: and it she was a wonderful thing to know that
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  Speaker 1: your church is with you and y'all thinking about me
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: in prayer. I I've really had to take this to
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: the Lord. This is a serious thing with me. And
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: I ain't never had an operation before in my life,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: and I know I needed my wife and made it clear,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: the doctor made it clear. I believe I'm ready to
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: go forward. Deacon it was that Deacon Patterson. That's right,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: Deacon Pson. I haven't. I haven't been. I've been in
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: the church probably about prob about eight months now. You
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: pretty much been out most of the time. Yes, I
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: have been out of you. Yeah. Yeah, so I've seen
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: you a couple of times. But I wanted to call
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: and and and and put a word in for you
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: and let him and you know, let you know that
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: we're all praying for you to church. He's the Lord.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Can't you get back and and we know out for Friday.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: It's gonna definitely be a great success. Yes, and we're
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: gonna give the victory to who the victory. Yes, he's
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: the victory. He Let Let me let me have a
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: word of prayer with your brother Conlin. You don't mind
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: just about your head from him. Father good, we as
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: right now. We asked right now that you touch brother
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Connley as he goes in on Friday, please put your
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: hands on him. We asked Father that you hold on
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: to the doctor that's getting ready to go and look
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: to put the sertory on. Yes. We asked that you
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: make sure that the doctor it's got a strong eye
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: on that monding walk with him. We asked that that
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: that he got a steady hand and when it got
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: the scalpel in his hand, we asked that you're all
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: own to him please as it goes into a surgeon,
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: because we know comes side them an the victory gonna
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: beloan the brother Conley and the Lord, thank you Lord,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: we know all of this. But we we we asked
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: that you take that pincres and you remove it out successfuly,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: closing back up like it will never been into it
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: in before. Walk with Miki. That's what we're asking, we
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: ask your Lord at the same time, ye that they're
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: removing this pincres. As Lord, we asked that your reach
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: around his backside and we asked that you touch his kidney.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Lord touch his kidney and make it hold, make it
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: a hundred and ten percent. We want you to make
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: that that kidney like it's been the best kidneys. Deacon.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: That's deacon, Deacon whoop pack Deacon passion. Yes, you know
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: you're saying that you do, sir, They're just nothing wrong
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: with my kidney, Deacon. I'm doing I'm doing saying the
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: Lord is Lord has been needed. Well, he gonna work
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: on my pincres. That's what the doctor's operating on. The
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: don't tap me forward and that's what they're playing and remove.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: So read. My kidding is fine. They did what they
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: called when they'm in my eyes and everything else is fine.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: They ain't working on nothing but my pancres right right right.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Let let me say I'm glad you brought that up
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: with this this this on. We want to call you
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: what I want to ask you, and I know we
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: we you know we've never met. What I was gonna
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: ask you was yeah, and I know this is. I
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: hate to come at you in the final hour and
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: you're getting ready to go out certain and all that,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: but if you don't mind it when they go in
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: on Friday morning and remove that pincers, out. Do you
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: think that that that that they could go in and
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: get one of your kidneys because I need one? Hold
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: hold on? Just meant begging up what you say? What
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: you say? See see see what else? I've been going
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: through myself with a little ailment. And and I'm wondering
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: if if if I need a kidden and I'm wondering
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: if you can give me one of yours when they
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: go in and get your pincers. They're going already to
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: have you open. Did you say you want to him
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: to take one of my kidneys? Yeah, and give it
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: to me because I need one? You need a kidney? Yeah?
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: What what was I mean? You already gonna be landing
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the open? Wait a minute, mister, you need a kidney?
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I need help with my packers. You gonna call me
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: with some black that man, This ain't no work in
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: the Lord. Now you say you're a deacon like I said,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: Dickon Patterson my name. But see what I'm asking you?
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: What you are me? Man? Brother Connelly? What harm is
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: it if you already open and land on t Oh?
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: You ain't heard a dang I saying? Have you? I said?
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: I'll be man, You're crazy. It's hell. Now, what I'm
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: gonna have to do. I'm gonna need to call the
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: pastor because here's something going on here. You say you
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: knew you managed to mister man, you too new to
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: know who you're talking to. What what? What I'm saying
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: is you have two kids too, like you said. You
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: say they did the m R. I don't give up
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: what I said they did. Man, I got two kidneys.
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: You got to one of yours. Bad. That's your problem. Mister.
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I'm trying to get well,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: and you holding with this. You say you're a new
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: decas you show ills, and you won't be at the
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: church long. I'll tell you that because if I ever
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: get gold to yours, we got some resting to do.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: What is it gonna hurt for you to give me
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: one of them kittens and both them? If both them
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: kidness is good, It ain't gonna hit him. Thinks you
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: ain't getting my kidney? Man, ain't gonna hit what's wrong
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: with you? Say? Man? All I'm saying is, if you're
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: gonna be olden laying on the table, what is it
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: gonna hurt? Old Man? You're gonna kill them? I'm open
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: laying on the table. What count of a tell you
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: in charge of? Mister? Let me tell you something. Obviously,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: I need to meet you for I get to the
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: hospital and maybe I can hit kittting to yours and
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: I can tell you that we out you're gonna feeling
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: about that. It's too many games going on in the
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: church to day I'll be you're gonna call and talk
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: to me out of one of my kitteness. Man, I'm
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: trying to live just like you, trying to let the
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Lord take care of me, because what you're talking about
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: it ain't got a thing to do with Jesus. You
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: can kiss my and get off my phone, that's what
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: you can do. Can I say one more thing to you?
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: What is you listening to me? Man? I don't listen
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: to you, and you ain't talking about nothing that's got
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with what's going on with me. Mister,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: you're running the game. If I could get to y'all
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: put landing your But can I just say one more
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: thing and then I'm gonna let you go? Is you
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: listening for what? That's this? Nephew Towny from the Steve
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got thranked by your daughter.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Oh Lord have that girl. Lord have mercy. Lord have
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: much Jesus you all right, please forgive me God him Mercy. Whoa, y'all,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to Lord him Mercy. My heart is
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: power petting hill. Lord him, Mercy. Jesus brother, Commy, I
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: gotta ask you one more thing, man, What is the
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: land to the Steve Harby more Shoot right now, I'm tut.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: That's my daddy's favorite, right there? Can I have your
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: kidney paby boy West Palm this week. Man's going down
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Friday and Saturday, the Nephews in town at the improv
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: West Palm Beach two shows Friday, two shows Saturday, and
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: Stupid is coming. So I'm ready, I hope y'all ready,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna do this thing together. Put you put
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: your mask only come get it. I got it fake
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: all right? Thank you, nephew. Coming up at the top
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: of the hour Entertainment news right after this, you're listening
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Comedian Chris Rock has COVID and
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: he's urging people to get the vaccine. Chris tweeted, trust me,
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: you don't want this get vaccinated. Rock reportedly has been vaccinated.
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: In May. He told Jimmy Fallon, you know, I skipped
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: the line. I didn't care. I used my celebrity, Jimmy.
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: I was like, step aside Betty White, step aside old people.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: I did POUTI tang let me in front of the line. Right, wow,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Well he got the vaccination. And he's saying, so many
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: people are getting COVID that got the vaccinate. Fact that
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: they're saying if they didn't get vaccinate, right right, right,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: But a lot of people, like I know a lot
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: of people have got the vaccination that contracted it. And
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I asymptomatic. Yes, yeah, I can attest to my in
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: laws who are in the eighties got COVID after vaccinated,
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: and neither one of them went to the hospital. And
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: to this day, my father in law say, I ain't
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: had COVID. Quit quit telling me that, you know, because
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: he didn't feel sick, because he didn't feel nothing. So
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: he wants you to quit telling him he had COVID.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: He tests positive twice. Yeah, but I ain't got it though.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: That's what he hung on too, and that was it,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: and that's the way which your symptoms won't be as severe,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: So get the vaccination, get it. Yeah, that's why I
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: want to be, not get sick. They say you've got something,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: but you don't feel sick? Ye right, all right? And
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: other entertainment news if what whack one hundred says it's
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: true there's another sex tape out there featuring Kim Kardashian
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: and ray J. Whack one hundred is on CASEIA wondering
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: who that is. I know we all are. That's ray
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: Ja's former manager, and according to him, the one he has,
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: which hasn't been seen before, is longer and more graphic
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: than the first tape. Okay, ray J has already responded.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: He says he is not pleased. He says, this ain't cool.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I've been staying off the radar, just staying focused and
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: being humbled and thankful for all the blessings I'm receiving.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: He says, How can I show off growth and maturity
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: if this kind of stuff keeps happening. I'm a father now,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: and my job, yeah, is to be a great parent
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: and put them first. This is not the message I
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: want to send out. Shaking my head, you know many,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: great thing? Great thing? I mean, you know what really man.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I mean, ray J Wright on spot on message to said, manag,
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: you need to go sit here, nobody ass down somewhere
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: and lead a girl alone. Man, Damn, you've been done enough.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: You know, people always I got more dirt, I got
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: moment your raggedy ass life. Yeah, and her lawyer is
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: saying it's false. Is not true. His name is Marty Singer.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: He said this in a statement on her behalf that
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: it is unfortunate that people make these statements and try
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: to get their fifteen minutes of fame. Ain't that the truth?
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: That's it. I get so sick of people man trying
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: to bring down another person. Yeah, blowing out my candle
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna make yours brighter. Man, go sit you go
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: back to whereever you were. Did nobody know your ass
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: befolded story? You're not fit to be the dude cause
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: of this story. You're not and whack. But um, I
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: like what ray J said, I really do you know?
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Ray J was on point. Yeah, that's how you grow up. Yeah,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: you know, daughters, and that's right, that's right, that's right,
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: very mature statement. I like that a lot. Yeah, but
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: I mean I did see one I ain't know. I mean,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: why wouldn't I want to see too? I mean, I
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: never can I tell you something? Man, I never saw
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: the tape. I guess I'm different like that. I don't.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: I don't have no design to watch somebody else having
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: sex for what? Really, no, Doc, I'm not in here.
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: Do you hear, your nephew, I hear. Really we do.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: We're so different? Say that again? Say that again, Tommy,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: we what we're so different? Mean Jesus, I mean, why
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: why would I want to see two? I saw Fast
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: and Furious one through ninety I saw all this. Are
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: you built for sequels? I said, Tommy, tom I said,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: I don't care to watch two other people having sex.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: That's never been much tried it though, Boy, to me,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: this is how I know what I don't like you.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: This is how I know what I don't like. I
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: think for you. Oh, it ain't like I ain't seen
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: two people having I walked in rooms on it. I walked.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: I was in college. I was in the closet one time.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: You know, I'm done, dog, I'm college. Dog, Hey man,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: they had porn on night at Kent State. Oh no, dog, dog,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: listen to me, dog, this was the seventies, Tommy in
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: the dormitory, they had porn on night. They would show
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: porno films in the in the in the auxiliary room.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: After college. This was the seventies. You don't understand the
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: seven got parents look at college like we missed that.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Why do y'all need porn on night?
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Y'all got the internet? You gotta understand. That was major
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: at Kent State. Look many and was on a PROJECTI
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: we got a real what most CDs coming up at
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Boxing legend Manny Paccio is
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: gearing up for another fight, this time to be president
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: of the Philippines. The Filipino Boxing Icon accepted his party's
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: nomination to be their presidential candidate at a boxing political
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: convention on September nineteenth. Paccio, who is forty two, is
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: currently a Philippine senator, so he has political experience and
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: it is being rumored that he was being rumored to
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: retire after losing about to uh Your Dennis Yugas. In August,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: Paccio released a statement saying I'm a fighter and I
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: will always be a fighter inside and outside of the ring.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Paccio said at Sunday's party event. All my life, I
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: have him backed down from any fight. Nothing if is
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: it impossible, if it's ordained by God? Don't you love that?
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, he's the next president of
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: the Philippines. I've been there before, telling you right now
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: what Listen to me. This is the order of the Philippines.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: It is the President slash King, it is Manny Paki how,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: it's Miss Universe, and it's Steve Harvey's not You're fourth,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: that's the I'm fourth in the Philippine Listen to me.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: I can't go nowhere overseas and anybody from the Philippines
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: see me discounts seats in the front anything. Wow. Oh,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you man that when I went out there
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: and gay that crown back to that girl right there,
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: because you don't understand, it's the president, is Manny packw Dennis,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Miss Universe. That's the pecking order in the Philippines of
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: importance then you and then Steve Harvey asked him, well,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: Junior was over there with you, right, Junior you saw.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: J oh my god, I'm talking about he got all
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: caravans taking him around a caravans well number four. Yeah,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: that's really cool, Steve. Yeah. So you're saying, without a
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: doubt he'll be the next president of the philip is
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: no doubt. There's no one more popular than this man
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: in the Philippines, nobody. And he's a good guy. Yeah,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: it's no way he can get beat. Well, he said
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: nothing is impossible if it's ordained by God. He said
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: that the only person could run against him in the
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: Philippines is Donald Trump. And then he'll say that the
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: election was read the big lie, a loser that wow. Okay, yeah, absolutely.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: I like how he's you know, been able to go
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: to be in the ring and then now he's in politics.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: Hen he gonna win, make a difference. Yeah, leadership. Yeah,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: all right. Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hours,
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: stay woke, Steve Harvey, Nation, we'll talk about voting registration
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: and what's going on in Texas. Right after this, you're
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: listening to show here's some possible good news trending out
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: of Texas. Former Democratic Senator Beto O'Rourke may run for governor.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: The Democratic Party believes that Beto can can beat Republican
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Governor Greg Abbott. Beto served three terms in the US
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: House from an El Paso district before resigning to run
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: for Senate back in twenty eighteen, and he lost that
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: race Raly very narrowly to Ted Cruz. Beto is expected
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: to make the announcement later on this year. We also
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: hear actor in Texas native Matthew McConaughey may run for governor.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Too many Texas voters are upset with Abbott telling women
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: what to do with their bodies. Oh my god, with
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: his anti abortion bill, his prohibition against mass mandates and
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: restricting voting laws against minorities. The Texas governor's races next
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: year twenty twenty two. But we want to prepare you now,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Get ready now for this election next year. The national
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: voter registration week of action September twenty September twenty seventh
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: through October third. So let's get your friends do this.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: Texas almost flipped it last time. Yeah, Texas can do this,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: and the multual Conservatives are deeply afraid of losing Texas.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: But this guy Abbott, this anti mask campaign, this anti abortion,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: it's just crazy that we are allowing men to dictate
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: to women what they should do with their body. I
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: do not understand this man. And some of the statements
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: that they make about abortion are utterly ridiculous. Yeah, this
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: horrible Greg Abbot is horrible, and voters in Texas, like
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: you said, Steve, we got to wake up. I mean,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Harris County, which is Houston, was blue the county, you know,
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: and so they both turned five Harris. So we got
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: to get the rest of the state on board. This man,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: Greg Abbot and his leadership has failed. It failed miserably.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you something else too. We have
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: to be really conscious of this party because their reador
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: rick is too faisty. They talk about morality, but they
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: turn right around and do the most immoral things you've
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: ever seen. Oh you don't give a damn about people
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: of color, but you want to call yourself a Christian.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Oh you don't give a damn about voting right acts,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: but you're gonna call yourself a Christian man, Miss me.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: With this semester right here, y'all got all these policies
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: to say this is the party we are. But I'm
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: telling you, man, you're not a party of the people,
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: and you're even less now, Oh they're the party of
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: a few, but they include everybody with this, with these
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: moral principles that they say they're saying on but they
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: don't mean nothing, because let me tell you something, it's
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: equally the same amount, if not more Republicans get abortions
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: than Democrats. See, they m showed me the stat that
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: says democrats or liberals get more abortions than conservatives. They
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: kids is having babies too. You don't know nothing about.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: Oh you think them little kids ain't coming home talking
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: about they pregnant and their parents are doing something about it?
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? A party? Absolutely? Yeah, it's ridiculous.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: And then the lies, the lies, don't forget all the lines,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: the big lie, the big one they won and they
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: really didn't win, and just lying about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 43:45
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• 44:15
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• 44:20
  Speaker 1: next year, let's do it all right? Coming up next,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: it is the nephew with today's prank phone call. Right
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. Right about four
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today and the
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: subject is I don't like company and he knows it.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here with today's prank
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: phone call. We'll get you the letter in just a bit.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: What you got for us? Next? A four three relationship?
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: Four three relationship? Yea curious find out. Let's go. It'll
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: be something stuff. Come on, let's go four three relationship. Hello. Hello,
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach my reaes. Yeah him, Hey, my reason.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: My name. My name is Devin Man. How are you
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: doing this evening? Brother? Oh man, I'm kind of sleeping
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: man working nice bro? What's going on? Who to this game?
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: This is Devin Man. I talked to your wife Kesha
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: the other day. That's that's your wife, right, Yeah, that's
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: my wife. Yeah, I talked to you wif she in
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: right now? No? She not worked, bro Okay, okay, I apologize.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I ain't me to wake you up. You work at
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: night or something. Yeah, I'm a crane opera at night, bro, North,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: people don't call me. That's three o'clock. What's this? What
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: is it? What is a big collect or something? No?
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: No, no no, no, no, no, no no. I talked to
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: your wife, man. She's interested in um this thing we
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: got man called the four three relationship. She told me
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: she wanted me called back and talked to her husband
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: about it, and she gave me the number to hit
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: you up at the house, man and let you know
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: all about the four to three relationship because she's really
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: interested in it. For three relationship. You say you talked
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: to my wife about it? Yeah, I talked to Keisha
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: a couple of days ago. She gave me the number.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: She said, called him back. He'll be at home at
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: this time. You can hit him up and see if
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: he likes she said. But she definitely likes it, man,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: And she wanted to see if you would be interested
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: in the four to three relationship too. You know, I
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: want to get your approval on it. Before we went
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: in it further. But your wife was very excited about it, man.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: She was wanted to get started as soon as possible.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: And I wanted to see about contacting you and making
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: sure that you agreed and approved on everything. But she
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: definitely wanted to get your blessing and get your approval
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: on it. Yeah. I try to do anything to make
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: her happy, though, but I got to get some some
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: information about this. What is said again for three four three? No? No,
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: it's a four to three. A four to three relationship,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: is what it is. Okay, Well, if it makes her happy,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm willing to listen. Okay, Well listen, man,
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: we're probably gonna get started right away, probably Monday. We'll
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: get started on Monday. You'll go through Monday through Thursday,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: and then uh and then a couple you know, Friday
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: through Sunday, man, and we'll go ahead and get this
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: thing start. I think after a month you'll pretty much
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: catch on everything. You know, there's something's gonna be shipped
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: to the house. Uh, you say, pick up. She shouldn't
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: have mentioned any of this to you. No, man, she's
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: nothing that's to me. Okay, all right, Well, what this is? Man?
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: A four three relationship, Maurice, is this? You know, you
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: spend four days with Keisha and she comes over to
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: my place and she spend the other three days with me.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: That's what a four three relationship. So see this kind
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: of frees you up, man on anything you might want
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: to do on those other three days. Man, when she
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: might be tying you down. You know, So four them days,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: you know you would herve but the other three days
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: you kind of have some free time to yourself. But
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: she'll be over in my place on the other three days.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: That's what that's what Basically a four three relationship is
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: part of me? Say whatnot? I say part of me?
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: You say she will spend four days with me, three
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: days with you. That's that's it, sir, That's the four
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: three relationship right there. Maurice. You know you're you're really
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: gonna like this man, Like I say, she was excited
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: about it. Hold are you serious? Uh? Yeah, I'm dead serious, man,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: Like I said, Keisha was excited about man. Hold hola name.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: I know, wife ain't discuss you about relationship. Spinnish fol
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: days with me? Three days? Was he? Man? So you're
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: talking about my wife? No? Yeah, I know it's about meal.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: Hold up, what name again? My name's Devin, Devin, say bro,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: I don't play James man. I don't know how I
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: got my number. What's I mean, Maurice, what's wrong? I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: mean a lot of couples are doing? What's wrong? That's
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: my wife back you're talking to. You ain't talking to
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: no plot? What's about you're talking to? Okay? Well, listen, man,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: A lot of couples are doing the four three man,
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: give what other couples is doing the hard But my
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: wife and me ain't interested in no phol three relationship.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: I can't be. I can't believe you off for this? Man?
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: Are you saving? You're calling me talking about all three relationships?
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: And you know I told you I won't at night?
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: Why I didn't know you worked that night? Man, like
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: I said, see when I came over last week, man,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: hold hold hold on, hold on, old you came over
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: well last week. I know you ain't said a set
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: without thank you for the thing? You bet not? I
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: said you bet not? I said, go ahead, go ahead
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: saying it, go ahead, go ahead, player, you've been talking.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: Don't stop now, go ahead, my reee. Hold on just
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: getting you know I'm a player. I'm up. Don't said
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: go ahead? I damn all, I'm saying. I came by
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: there last week many by, Well, I came by your house.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: You come by my house? Okay? Are you at eighteen four?
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: Brill get boy? Been here for the last two years?
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: Oh so you been here? About your health? Okay? Dog?
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: Because because she said, okay, she said, I had to call.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: You should write because this first man first of all,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: you know walk he's gonna take you haven't been in
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: my house. I can't play. Okay, go ahead, go ahead,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead. Okay, If y're not interested in
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: the four to three man, then I won't. I won't
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: be wasting them one more tie? You really? Are you
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: wait time? Calling me? What my little wife don't tell
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: you about she want to go through? She never told
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: me nothing about plea you got the wrong homeball and
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: nothing wrong my relationship? Okay, okay, So why would she
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: tell me she interested in the fourty three man? Give
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: up what she told you? I know. I take care
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: of my dead room, all right. Three? I wish she
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: willie is three days. I wish she would anyway. I
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: know you how you know it? I don't know you
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: for many I don't mind taking off one tonight to
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: sell what going on my house with my cleaning night,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: working off night. Now I'm gonna ask you again, how
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: do you know us? Man? I know y'all through Tommy Man.
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: Who is Tommy? Tommy Who Tommy Man, Maurice, nephew Tommy.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy Man from the Steve of been
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: More the show dog. Your wife Keisha got me to
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: break phone call you man. You're talking about the steam
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: hardy show yo. Man, if you tell the little ball
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: ahead the steam Man, I know y'all ain't with me, man,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: I know with me today, Mantu said, next you tell
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: him now? Why you watch Steve need to be over
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: him slept. That's your battle ahead. But you ain't got
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: nothing nessuper Man. You know I got to go to
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: work to see you. Got to go to where you
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: work at night. Man. All right, all right, my red,
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you go back and sleep. Man, But
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: one more thing, dog tell me this man, what is
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: the what's the baddest that, I mean, the bad that's
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: been cute to you? Ain't I wish I was there?
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: I was you you hey, man, what's the baddest radio
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: show in the land, Man Steve Marty Show, three Baby
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: Free relationship. Took a minute for him to catch you
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: on what it was, but once he understood time you
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: said when I came by the whole hold man, when
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: you came about where Sai keep back, I say what
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: I think you say said, I swear to God say,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: I promise you. I know you ain't walk my fat
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: ass up behind this here right now. I know this
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: is not why I'm up. Broke it down. That thing
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: gives you time for three you three up. You got
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: time for yourself, time for yourself. Man, do some things
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: that you've been wanting to do, you know, But I
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: still keep you up on th you know. Keep That's it,
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: that's it. That's what stupid. That's what stupid looked like
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: right there. That's true, that's what. That's brilliantly stupid. And
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: I know those two don't go together. Brilliantly stupid. That's
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: what it looks like. People see, that's stupid right there.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: When you say you know they don't go together, but
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: you put them together, that's stupid. No, it's brilliantly stupid,
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: geniusly stupid like that, you know, you don't. Okay, hey, listen,
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Brilliance and Stupid will be at the improv in WestBam.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: It's brilliant. I'm brilliant and I'm stupid. Get at all
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: these combinations are prey Okay, we got to go. Thank you,
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: Netew coming up at the top of the hour. I
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: don't like the company and he knows it. That is
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: the subject of the Strawberry Letter. We'll get into it
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show Time. Now,
• 53:59
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• 54:02
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• 54:17
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• 54:21
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• 54:23
  Speaker 1: I don't like company and he knows it. Dear Stephen Shirley,
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: I've been married for seven years to a man that
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: is wonderful in every way except one. He doesn't respect
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: my time or my privacy. I knew him for many
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: years prior to dating him, and we would meet his
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: friends for dinner and drinks when he was in between relationships.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: He went from relationship to relationship before we started dating
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: because he is the type of man that does not
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: ever want to be alone. He would always say he
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: was out of my league. But he grew on me
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: over time and asked me he wanted to if we
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: could start dating. Since then, he hasn't wanted me out
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: of his sight. It was cute at first, but then
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: he got his family all in the mix. They are
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: very clingy and there's a lot of them. Before we
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: got married, I had to go to cookouts, birthdays, weddings
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: and church with them. I don't see my own family
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: as much as I see his. My husband doesn't understand
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: that I need to have people around me all of
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: the time. My husband under My husband doesn't understand that
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: I don't need to have people all around me all
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: the time. He's a professional chef and partner in a
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: new restaurant, so he works long hours. I look forward
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: to the peace and quiet of our home when he's working,
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: but he seems to think he's depriving me of quality
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: time and I'm bored or lonely. They'll have his sisters
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: or his mom stop by unannounced and they sit and
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: chat for hours. I've had to literally put on my
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: pajamas like I'm going to bed so they'll leave. Recently,
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: his youngest brother asked to stay with us for the
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: semester since we live close to the college. My husband
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: told him he's welcome to stay without asking me first.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: He knows I do not want to be bothered ninety
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: eight percent of the time, So why does he keep
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: trying to push his family off on me. I definitely
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: don't hate him, but I would love to set boundaries.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: How do I get my husband to understand? All right, Well,
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: I think it's a little late for that, because you've
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: been letting this happen for seven years now, and it
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: started before you guys were married. You said you went
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: to birthday celebrations, barbecues, weddings, all of that, all sorts
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: of family gatherings. How are they supposed to know you
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: don't like company. You're always around them. Your husband is
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: the one inviting them, though he's very sociable. Isn't he
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: very sociable? Doesn't he know that it's crazy for them
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: to drop by unannounced, but they think you're home because
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: and they know your home because your husband tells them.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: So you can't and hide in the room or anything
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: and act like you're not there. Your husband already told
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: him you're up in there. So instead of sitting around
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: being mad, being stressed out, you gotta let your husband
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: know that you enjoy your solitude. You got to be
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: serious about this. Tell him you like having your me time.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: You know things have changed, you know you work and
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: all of that, and you gotta be serious with him.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: It is very disrespectful for him to invite his brother
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: to live with you without asking you. Come on, now,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: he can't do that. You got to sit him down
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: and have a serious conversation with him. He's obviously very
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: protective of you that I guess that's why he wants
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: people around you all the time. But I'm sure you
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: can make him understand. So again, I think you got
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: to tell him in no uncertain terms. Steve, Well, you
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: know I always take the letters from the top all
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: the way down. Surely has a different approach. Shirley said
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: that it's too late in this letter, and the reason
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: she said it was because you knew all of this
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: before you married him. But you married him anyway. But
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: if that said, it's not too late and I have
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: some solutions. You've been married seven years as a very
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: wonderful man in everywhere except one. He doesn't respect your
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: time or privacy. I would like to tell you something.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know that he's disrespecting your time in privacy.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: He just doesn't flat out know it. I knew him
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: for many years prior to dating him, and we would
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: meet its friends for dinner and drinks when he was
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: in between relationships. He went from relationship to relationship before
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: y'all started dating, because he's the type of man that
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: don't ever like to be alone. And let me point
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: this out. You knew that he would always say that
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: he was out of my league, but he grew on
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: me over time. Now, for those of you listening to
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: what he says, when he says he out of her league,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: that means she was out of his league. That's what
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: that really means. That she was a little bit too
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: much polished and second greatness for you know, for him,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: that's what that really means. But over time, he grew
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: on me, and I asked him if he wanted to
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: start dating. Well, since then, he hasn't wanted me out
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: of his sight. It was cute at first, but he
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: got his family in the mix. They're very cleaning, clinging.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of them. Say, it's kind of like roaches.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: You know. We get a big family and there's a
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: lot of them, and they clinging at roaches. That's what
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: that's like. And the reason I don't mean it in
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: a negative sense, but that's just the roaches. Let's look
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: at the and you'll see why. You can understand roaches
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: is a always a lot of them. If you see one,
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: you better get the spraying. Because he ain't ever buy
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: myself another quality about roaches. They are well, they are well,
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: I'm just letting him know. And they cling it. They're
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  Speaker 1: on the walls, they're on the back of the refrigerator,
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: they're on the floor and the base cabino under the saint.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: You've married into a family of roaches. And when we
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: come back, I will offer you some type of solution,
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  Speaker 1: right all right? Coming up Steve's response his part two
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour, the subject is
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: I don't like company, and he knows it. We'll get
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  Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Morning Show
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  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: the subject I don't like company and he knows it well.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: Been married for seven years to this wonderful man, and
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  Speaker 1: everywhere except you say he don't respect your privacy. But
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: I don't think he realizes what he's doing. Man, And
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  Speaker 1: I point this to you in the letter. You knew
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  Speaker 1: him for years before, and he was always in and
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  Speaker 1: out of relationships. And because he's the type of man
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  Speaker 1: that never wants to be alone, he told you he
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: knew that you was out of his league. But then
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: you asked him if he wanted to start dating because
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: you ain't hand nobody, And then he said yes, And
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: then y'all got together, and he didn't want you out
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  Speaker 1: of his sight. And at first it was cute, but
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: now it didn't got on your damn names. So nine,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't got his family all up in the mix,
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  Speaker 1: which means that they're very clinging. There's a lot of them.
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  Speaker 1: I equated this before the break, that you have now
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  Speaker 1: married into a family roaches, because roaches, and the reason
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  Speaker 1: I mean there's not even like you bugs, but I
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  Speaker 1: mean just they is always more than one of them.
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  Speaker 1: They everywhere, and they all over the damn place. And
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  Speaker 1: before you got married, you had to go to cookouts, birthdays,
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  Speaker 1: weddings in church with him. You know, I don't see
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  Speaker 1: my whole family as much as I see here. Yeah,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: but your man in the heads though. And remember this
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: is the Roach family, last name roaches, Earl Roaches, Walter Roaches,
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  Speaker 1: Charlie Roaches, Gerald, Dan, Sheila Roaches, Keisha Roaches. It's just
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  Speaker 1: a lot of them. And so anyway, my husband doesn't
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  Speaker 1: understand that I don't need to have people around me
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  Speaker 1: all the time. See, he's a professional chef and a
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: party in the new restaurant, Now that's a lot of hours.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: So he works a lot, and and you look forward
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  Speaker 1: to the peace and quiet in our home when he's working.
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  Speaker 1: But he thinks he's depriving you of quality time. And
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: you bored and lonely, so here seeing his sisters or
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: his mother to stop by on announced and they sit
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  Speaker 1: and chat for hours. This got to stop. And a
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  Speaker 1: couple of ways you need to do this. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: you need to stop answering the damn dough. Yeah you can.
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  Speaker 1: I used to do it all the time. Bill collectors
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  Speaker 1: and witnesses they knew when you came to my house,
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  Speaker 1: it's fit to be a little it's gonna be a
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  Speaker 1: little tricky. Great men, I had a screen door on
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: my house when I first got married, and the door
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: would be open, and the screen door would be locked
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  Speaker 1: if you came up there on a Saturday morning, rang
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  Speaker 1: that doughbell. We wasn't hard. I walked out the kitchen
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  Speaker 1: and look right after screen though. They look right at me,
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  Speaker 1: and I turned around and gonna sit back down because
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  Speaker 1: I'm not fen to hear this. I'm not fit to
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  Speaker 1: buy one. You could asking me do I wan't one.
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  Speaker 1: You can get off my poach. I'm all it. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm already not going down to the church. I'm chauffing
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  Speaker 1: and not go down to the hall. Y'all can get
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  Speaker 1: off my poach. Okay, you're gonna have to stop answering
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  Speaker 1: your damn dough. I don't care if your car is
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  Speaker 1: in the driveway. Yeah you didn't hit, you were sleeping.
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  Speaker 1: I don't give a damn they're looking to when they
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  Speaker 1: see you looking at TV. Keep eating your popcorn. When
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  Speaker 1: they knock on the window, don't turn you know it's them. Man,
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: Why not better to be rude than them than to
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  Speaker 1: have them sitting up that chatting five hours and rude
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  Speaker 1: to you. You ton't putting you to literally had to
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  Speaker 1: put on your pajamas like you're going to bed, so
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  Speaker 1: they'll lead. They still don't leave, So why not save
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  Speaker 1: yourself the trouble of going through all that while they
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  Speaker 1: knocking on the door looking in the one to go
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  Speaker 1: in your room and get your pajamas and come back
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  Speaker 1: and put Yo Pa Jamma's on in the living room
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  Speaker 1: and then turn the TV off and go getting the bed.
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  Speaker 1: They got to go home, all this in front of
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  Speaker 1: their face. His youngest brother asked to stay with us
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  Speaker 1: for the semester since we live close to the college.
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  Speaker 1: Bars and told him he welcome to stay without asking me.
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  Speaker 1: He knows I don't want to be bothered ninety eight
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: percent of the time, So why does he keep trying
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  Speaker 1: to push his family out on me. He don't know
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  Speaker 1: how to say no, and he don't like being alone.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: So now you his wife, and he thinking you cool
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  Speaker 1: with it. The little boy can't stay here because it's
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  Speaker 1: close to the college. It's better get up on that bus,
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: o berth. They got all types of stuff out now, Oh,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: berth Bus dormitory. They got a lot of things out
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: that night that you can get cool. You can get
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  Speaker 1: real close to the college. You getting that damn done.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: Your ask could be right there. But we're gonna try
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  Speaker 1: all that because you not standing in here, and you
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: need to tell him you want to walk around your
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: house like you want to, and this little boy his
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: brother's gonna inhibit that. And you should never feel uncomfortable
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: in your own house. So why does he keep trying
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: to push his family off on me? Because he thank
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: you lonely and you don't like being at the house,
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  Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to prove him that you enjoy
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: the loneliness and just to help him understand better since
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: he don't like being alone. If you don't stop pushing
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: your family on me and don't allow me some meat time,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get me some meat time because you already
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: know I'm out your league. And you know this sounds
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: like a threat or damn threat. I definitely don't hate them,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: but I would love to set boundaries. How can I
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: get my husband to understand? Just like I said, you
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: start by making their ass knock to they drop. Okay,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: we gotta run Steve. Post your comments on today's Strawberry
• 1:07:01
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• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: to forty six minutes after sports Stalk with Junior. Right
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  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, Junior is here with sports stock. What
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: you got Junior? All right? First of all, let me
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: just say congratulations again off to Steve and Cleveland Browns
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: for being in the Houston, Texas offer congratulations on a welcome.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: Well man, they want already they didn't want. Well, what
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: they're trying to do, Tommy is trying to soften the blow.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: What I may say, Yeah, front, you need to learn
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: that tech say what can't you say? We love? What
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  Speaker 1: else can you say? I didn't say nothing, Nah, we
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: just just got in front of it. But also in
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: other sports news, man ways, Cam's gonna play that man?
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: You know? Do you know it's only week two and five?
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: Starting quarterbacks out already? I know somebody he could play
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: somewhere definitely. Okay, let's go down list Carson Witz for
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  Speaker 1: the coach he out ain't probably two to four weeks.
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  Speaker 1: You can really use Cam Newton. They can use Cam
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: Tyrod Taylor. The Texas Nord knows we can use Cam
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: right now? Lord, did you see our backed up quarterback
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: The first play he the first play he did on Sunday,
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  Speaker 1: he tried to ham to a running back that wasn't there.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't know we got did We should send
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  Speaker 1: him one? We really could use him. I can't even
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  Speaker 1: say this board name down in mind, but two a
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  Speaker 1: tiger lot bore to two out. That's all. He out
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  Speaker 1: with Blues reb he had about two to four weeks.
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  Speaker 1: They could use Cam. And did Dalton for Chicago he out.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: They're not gonna use him because Justin Fields brought them
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 1: back in to get the victory on Sunday. He's out
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: with a knee injury. And Ryan Vinzpatrick Fitzpatrick from Washington
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: football team, he is out. He has a help. He's
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: probably about six to eight weeks. And his old coach
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: they could really use them because his old coach is
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: Ron Rivera when he was at the Carol out of Panthers.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: They should bring him in. Yeah, So we need Cam
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: to land somewhere. Best fit though, I probably think would
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: be Miami. I think, yeah, I think he could really
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: his and his dress code goes well with Miami. He
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: can be wild like that, you know, with the kind
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: of the hats and they all all the all the
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: colors and everything colors. Yeah, he fitting in rped that. Yeah,
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: Miami will be a good fit for him, man. And
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: so you also, you know they're gonna probably start talks
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: back up to get the Shawn wantson. Miami might be
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: going back after de Shawn wantson. And this is what
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: we want for they have a masseuse form. I mean
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: in the contract. Hey, they won't save yourself, yourself all
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: that trouble. Let's just get it in the contract, I know, man,
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: Sean Man, look, man, we just want to say we
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: have it in court. Man, That's all I'm saying. But
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: they walked six. Hate that he made the mistake, you know.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: I hate that he made the mistake. Yeah, you know.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: And it's for it's for they're saying sexual assault. Um,
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: it's it's a lot that that can be wrapped into that. Yeah,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: you know, And I just I wish it never had happened, man, true,
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: all right, see we're happening. Thank you, Junior, Thank you Junior.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Is your
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: partner your best friend? We'll talk about it right after this.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Here's a question for you, guys.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: Is your partner your best friend? Were your friends before
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: you became romantic? Oh? Yeah? You know. It seems despite
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: the popularity of dating apps, most relationships start the old
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: fashioned way. That's right. Most of them do with people
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: who are friends first. In fact, researchers have found that
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: sixty six sixty six percent of people were platonic friends
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: with their partner before starting a romantic relationship. So, Steve,
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: I gotta go to you. Do you believe there are
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: benefits to being friends with someone before you date them?
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, it is. It's not necessary, but it but
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: it it is, But it's not necessary. And a lot
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: of relationships start the other way first, they get physical
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: before they're good friends. Yeah, and um, I'm right now,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: I'm married to my best friend because I ain't got none.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: You ain't got I ain't got no real friends. No,
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: you know I ain't. I ain't. I don't really have
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: no dudes I share everything with. I just don't. I've
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: grown out of that space. I want to ask you
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: this because it's always puzzled me. What about people who
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: are friends? They're really really good friends. We have a
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: lot of strawberry letters about this. They're really good friends,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: and then they try to be romantic and it doesn't
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: work out and the friendship gets all weird after that. Look, look, look, look, look,
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: I said a hundred times. I'm not gonna stop saying it.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: If a man is attracted to you, it's hard for
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: him to stay your friend, right, you say that all
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: the time. I don't know how, I don't and I
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: don't know why we keep debating this thing. If a
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: man is attracted to you, it's gonna be really hard
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: for him to stay your friend. It's really hard. So
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: let's just notice. If you know that you're attractive to
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: this guy and y'all just friends, it's just until he
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: see a crack in the door. A physical friend, and
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: he's gonna be physical friend. What a physical friend like
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: a friend with benefits? What are you talking about? We're
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: gonna be physical, but we're gonna be friends, you know
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's a friend. That's a kind of relationship.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: That's a friends with benefit, that's a sexual relationship. Call
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: it what you want to call it's a sexual relationship
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: and eventually feelings on one one of the parts is
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: gonna get involved, usually the woman, Usually the woman exactly. Yeah,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm in love. Man ain't nobody sign up
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: for love. It's supposed to be just nice physical friends,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: says the host. Are Ready to Love from Julia from
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: Radio Tommy and TV Tommy, I got you, I got you.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: You ain't all the way crazy taught me. Far from it.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: So Steve, it is still your contention that men and
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 1: women it's hard for them to be friends without being physical.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: That is that what you're saying If the man is
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: attracted to you, I've never seen what? How? What just
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: just show? That's that? So then the question is what
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: we just brought up surely with the with the second
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: to be friends? Can you first and then date? And
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: you're saying that if you are friends and that man
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: is attracted to the woman, because said who We're trying
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: to say, if you're gonna be friends first and then
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: you're gonna date, how does that work? If you say
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: men and women can't be friends if a man is
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: attracted to you. Eventually, when there's a crack in the door,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: he's going to annoy. If he can put his foot
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: in the door and be more than friends, right, than
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: these relationships that turn start out that way can turn
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: out and blossom into wonderful and beautiful relationship, your ship.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: It can happen then sometimes and that's a great way
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: for it to start because you started as friends. It's
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: a great thing to happen. Now here's a sad part.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: Ain't attracted to you. Okay, we gotta go, Steve, hold on,
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: we gotta go. All right, We'll be back with more
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. All right,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: we're back, Steve. Let's try to clear this up once
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: and for all if we can, because there's so much
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: debate about this. Can men and women be friends? And
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: once they cross that physical line, can they still be friends?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: Because sometimes that gets weird. So so let's let's try
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: to clear this up because it is a debate, ongoing
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: debate between men and women all the time. You say,
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: what man did you? And this way I'd be teller.
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  Speaker 1: Men and women can be friends only if the man
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: does not find the woman attractive. Or is not attracted
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: to her for whatever the reason. If a man finds
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: you attractive and is attracted to you and is your friend,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: I want you to understand that the moment there is
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: a crack in the door, a chink in the armor,
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: and he see a way he can fit in and
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: be more than your friend, or you'll do that. Absolutely,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: he will unequivocally. Now, can you start a friendship that
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: way and it blossom into a relationship? Yes? And you
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: know why the blossom into a relationship because he's been
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: attracted to you the whole time period. Now here's the
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: sad part that you don't want to hear. If the
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: man is not attracted to you or find you unattractive,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: you can be his friend. Okay, all right, we'll be
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: debating this for centuries to come. All Right, more of
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: minutes after right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time now for
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: ask the CLO chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: This one is from Jewel in Macon, Georgia. Jewel writes,
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: I'm in my mid fifties and I'm dating a guy
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: that is my age. He's a hard working professional man,
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: but I have a big issue with his grooming. We've
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: been together one month, and on a few occasions I've
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: seen him bite his nails and spit them across the room.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: I asked if he needed a nail clipper, and he
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: told me he has one that he only uses for
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: his toenails. Well, that couldn't be true, because his toenails
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: are long as heck. Dating after divorce is so hard,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: and I compare men to my well groomed ex am,
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: I being overly critical. Well let's look at this well
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: groom ink didn't won't you no more? See, you have
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: to realize who's ever fault. The divorce was at one
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: point in time, everybody got signed the paper. So there's
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: a particular moment. Who are neither either one of you
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: won't each other? So now you keep comparing yourself to
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: somebody that don't won't you. Now here's the problem with Dayton.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: Everybody's gonna be different than somebody else. Everybody. He has
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: a habit of biting his nails, and his toenails is long.
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  Speaker 1: We gotta do something. Nah, you can work on that
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  Speaker 1: he ain't had nobody working on it. Just say, hey, look,
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  Speaker 1: it really disgusted me when you bite your nails and
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  Speaker 1: spit across the rule, and it really discussed me that
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  Speaker 1: you got claws on your feet. Now, I'm will help
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  Speaker 1: you because obviously no one else has taken the time
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  Speaker 1: to love you that way, and because you're a professional
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  Speaker 1: and and make a lot of money and you're doing
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  Speaker 1: real wale in life. Anybody saying nothing but I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: help you? Can I help you? Most men will accept
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  Speaker 1: the help you cut me with them. But but but
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  Speaker 1: first of all, compliment him on what he is before
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  Speaker 1: you take him down with what he got. Nice knees.
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  Speaker 1: That's girl. I love you. You are special. You're something
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  Speaker 1: else you really do ooh you make money? Something something
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  Speaker 1: your hand something. Yeah, yeah, I got two things I
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  Speaker 1: would want. I would wonder if you would just consider
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  Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, your nails, because I don't want nobody
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  Speaker 1: talking about my man. Because he got a habit of
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  Speaker 1: chewing his nails and spinning across the room. Amazing, it's
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  Speaker 1: gonna be hard for him to stop. You can't because
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  Speaker 1: you can't get your foot in your mouth. No more
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  Speaker 1: to him last time you had your foot in your mouth,
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  Speaker 1: you was a baby's time. He was all right, coming up.
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  Speaker 1: It is our last break of the day. And also
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  Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll have some
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right
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  Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show all right, here we
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  Speaker 1: are our last break of the day on this Tuesday.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a good day, um and Steve, this is
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  Speaker 1: World Gratitude Day, World Gratitude. That's amazing. It is that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I've never heard who did they just stought this? Well, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't heard the world. I've never
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  Speaker 1: heard the World Gratitude Day. And I've been alive a
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  Speaker 1: lot of days. But you know, man, that's a good thing,
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  Speaker 1: you know what. But it's also a reminder, and you
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  Speaker 1: know what because I think one of the most under
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  Speaker 1: promoted principles of success, because you know, look, you go
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  Speaker 1: to a lot of success seminars and things like that,
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  Speaker 1: and you go to a lot of places. You know,
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  Speaker 1: people spend money to learn how to get into real
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  Speaker 1: estate with no money down. People find ways to buy
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  Speaker 1: these different training programs to better yourselves or increase your lifestyle.
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  Speaker 1: People do all types of things. I mean, and I
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  Speaker 1: ain't mad at you. I don't blame you at all,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, I got into Amway because they said,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you could become a millionaire basically selling soap.
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  Speaker 1: But it was a bit more to that when I
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  Speaker 1: got into it. But I learned more about the principles
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  Speaker 1: of success from Amway that I did from anything else.
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  Speaker 1: And am Wi should contact me one day because I
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  Speaker 1: would be a great speaker at Amway because I just
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  Speaker 1: involved in it for almost three four years. Just a
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  Speaker 1: suggestion putting that out into the universe. That's how it
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  Speaker 1: happens for me, though I put it out there and
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  Speaker 1: in all of my trains and all of my learning
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  Speaker 1: about success. Like I said, one of the most underpromoted
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  Speaker 1: principles of success is the principle of gratitude. See gratitude man,
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  Speaker 1: It's it's a way of putting into the universe. And
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  Speaker 1: I'll start by saying that, or if you're spiritual enough,
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  Speaker 1: it's a way of saying to your heavenly father, thank
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  Speaker 1: you for these many blessings that I often take for granted.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the simple act of waking up every morning,
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  Speaker 1: do you understand that you do not have the ability
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  Speaker 1: to wake yourself up in the morning. I'm sorry you don't.
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  Speaker 1: You can set your alarm clock, but a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people don't answer to Bill when your alarm goes off.
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  Speaker 1: God shakes you, wakes you up in a life allows
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  Speaker 1: you to hear the alarm. To say thank you for
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  Speaker 1: that alone is a very simple thing to do. But
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  Speaker 1: how many times do we forget? How many times do
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  Speaker 1: we forget that? How often do we forget that breathing
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  Speaker 1: is not a given? You can ask people who have asthma.
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  Speaker 1: They will tell you in a heartbeat the significance and
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  Speaker 1: the importance of breathing, man, because they, from time to
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  Speaker 1: time can lose get shortness of breath. And it's a
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  Speaker 1: frightening thing. Man. I've had two children with asthma. I
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  Speaker 1: used to suffer from bron kill asthma. It's it's it's
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  Speaker 1: it's a crippling thing. So those people are grateful for
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  Speaker 1: things as simple as breathing. People take walking for granted,
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  Speaker 1: But talk to somebody who came or whish they could.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, when you are thankful, when you
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  Speaker 1: offer up your gratitude to God, what he does is
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  Speaker 1: it causes him to go ahead and allow you to
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  Speaker 1: have more things to be grateful for. I am telling you, man,
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  Speaker 1: it is the lack of gratitude that stops most people
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  Speaker 1: from getting to the next level. I'll give you an example.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say you have a job that you really don't
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  Speaker 1: care for. Let's just use this as an example, and
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  Speaker 1: you have to get up and you have to go
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  Speaker 1: to that job every day. Now, and what you're doing
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  Speaker 1: is you complain about the job. Man, I can't stand working.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sick of this job. Jobs get on my nerve.
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  Speaker 1: This job makes me sick. Well, now, guess what. Let
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  Speaker 1: me ask you a simple question. Why would God give
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  Speaker 1: you another job that you might complain about two So
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  Speaker 1: guess what. Let's just leave you where you are and
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  Speaker 1: just let you just be right here, because if I
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  Speaker 1: give you another job, you ain't gonna be grateful for
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  Speaker 1: that one either. But listen, even though you don't like
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  Speaker 1: the job, you don't have a good enough sense to
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  Speaker 1: be grateful that you're working. You don't think it would
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  Speaker 1: be a smart move to say, hey, God, listen, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not where I want to be, but I should appreciate
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  Speaker 1: where I am. Thank you for this opportunity to pay
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  Speaker 1: my rent, to make my house notes, to pay my bills.
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  Speaker 1: I'm grateful for that now, Heavenly Father. I wish I
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  Speaker 1: had a job I like. I would love for you
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  Speaker 1: to send a job that I love my way, but
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  Speaker 1: I am also grateful for the fact that I'm working.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you you'll get a new job, but if
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  Speaker 1: you never thank him for the one you have, and
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  Speaker 1: you show a lack of gratitude for what that job,
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: you may not like the job. Let's just think about
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  Speaker 1: what it does. Though. It does keep a roof over
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  Speaker 1: your head, it does keep you moving, it does keep
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  Speaker 1: the basics covered, and you're eating every day, but you're
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  Speaker 1: not grateful for that because you're so busy complaining about
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  Speaker 1: it that you never thank him for it, and you,
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  Speaker 1: in turn prohibit more blessings from coming your way. I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling y'all this is how it works. If a person
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  Speaker 1: came by your house to borrow a cup of sugar
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  Speaker 1: every day and took the sugar and never said thank you,
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  Speaker 1: how many days could he come back to your house
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  Speaker 1: and ask you for sugar without you saying, holder, man,
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  Speaker 1: you come by here every day, get a cup of sugar.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna say thank you nowtime. I'll tell you what.
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  Speaker 1: Don't come with this your last couple of sugar. Now,
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  Speaker 1: that's what people do to you. Suppose God did that
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  Speaker 1: to you. Do you imagine the trouble you will be
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  Speaker 1: so on what they are calling National Gratitude Day. Don't
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  Speaker 1: wait on the government to give you National Gratitude Day.
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  Speaker 1: You better wake up with it every day. Thank God
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  Speaker 1: for everything he's done for you. Now that don't stop
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  Speaker 1: you from asking him for more, but at least it
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  Speaker 1: sends the message to him that you're grateful for what
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  Speaker 1: he's done for you, and that will cause him to
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  Speaker 1: do more things for you to be grateful for. It's
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  Speaker 1: a simple principle that's oftentimes overlooked. Stop overlooking gratitude, be grateful,
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  Speaker 1: and watch God open up the windows of heaven to
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  Speaker 1: pour out a blessing that you won't have room enough
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  Speaker 1: to receive. Steve Harve isn't living witness to that, y'all?
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