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FULL SHOW: Still Remembering Thanksgiving, Strawberry Letter: Is He My Man Or Hers? - 12.02.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what's time. Y'all don't know y'all all at all.
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  Speaker 3: So given them.
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  Speaker 4: Back a million bus buss things and.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to.
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  Speaker 3: Show to.
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  Speaker 1: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you do.
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  Speaker 5: Love.
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  Speaker 6: Turn you gotta turn.
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  Speaker 7: I can't.
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  Speaker 8: I got to turn the mouth, turn my probably got
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  Speaker 8: to turn mouth turn, turn the water the money up.
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  Speaker 6: Looking me, come.
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  Speaker 3: Come on you that.
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  Speaker 2: I shall. Well, good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 2: come on digging now. One and only Steve Harley got
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  Speaker 2: a radio show today. I want to just share something
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  Speaker 2: with you along your way to wherever it is you're
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  Speaker 2: trying to get to. You know, everybody has a different
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  Speaker 2: definition for success, and I'm not here to tell you
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  Speaker 2: what yours should be. I mean, please pursue whatever you
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  Speaker 2: think success is. Aim as high as you can though,
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  Speaker 2: that's for sure. My father used to say all the time.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure you all have heard it in different variations,
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  Speaker 2: but he used to always say, aim for the moon.
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  Speaker 2: Just in case you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars.
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  Speaker 2: Just say that to me all the time. So that
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  Speaker 2: always was in me to aim high. Now he will
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  Speaker 2: saying aim with the intent to miss. He was just
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  Speaker 2: saying aim in case you miss, you'll steal me amongst
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  Speaker 2: the stars if you aim for the moon. But if
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  Speaker 2: you just aim for that first flow window and you
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  Speaker 2: miss it, you know, usually run into some type of
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  Speaker 2: wall and nothing happens. You slither down, you know. In
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  Speaker 2: my book, act like a lady, think like a man.
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  Speaker 2: I told her people that me in love three ways.
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  Speaker 2: They profess, they provide, they protect, and that's the core
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  Speaker 2: essence of a man's love. Well, there's some other p's
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  Speaker 2: in life too. The number one thing you have to
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  Speaker 2: understand about trying to be successful, and I guess I'll
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  Speaker 2: call this the four p's. I may come up with
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  Speaker 2: five along the way. I don't know. I'm just talking
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  Speaker 2: as it's given to me. So I'm gonna summer start
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  Speaker 2: by saying that these are the four PE's of success
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  Speaker 2: that you have to get ready for. One is pressure.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of it is applied by the circumstance of
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  Speaker 2: what you're trying to go for and what you're trying
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  Speaker 2: to do. But a lot of it also is self
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  Speaker 2: imposed pressure. It's what you put on yourself to make it.
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  Speaker 2: It's a sense of urgency, it's a sense of necessity,
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  Speaker 2: but pressure is the first thing I want you to
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  Speaker 2: be ready for. And pressure comes in a lot of
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  Speaker 2: different forms, but it's going to be pressured. As an
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  Speaker 2: old saying that pressure bust pipe. See, that's why most
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  Speaker 2: people turn around because of the pressure of trying to
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  Speaker 2: be successful. I want you to get it in your
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  Speaker 2: mind that it is going to be a pressure riz
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  Speaker 2: situation on your rise to the top. Pressure, but understand
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  Speaker 2: that that is what it is, is not going to change.
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  Speaker 2: That's it. Prepare yourself, get ready for there to be pressure.
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  Speaker 2: The second thing I want you to understand is when
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  Speaker 2: you receive this pressure, you have to persist. You got
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  Speaker 2: to stay at it. You got to develop a dog illness.
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  Speaker 2: Hez A. There's a song how it says, why must
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  Speaker 2: I feel like that? Why must I chase the cat?
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  Speaker 2: Nothing but the dog in me? That's a funny line
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  Speaker 2: in that song, because really I was thinking about it
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  Speaker 2: one day. I was humming it and and it occurred
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  Speaker 2: to me, said, why must I feel like that? Why
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  Speaker 2: must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog in me?
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  Speaker 2: And you know, now you could take it in the
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  Speaker 2: literal sense that a cat chases the dog, because it's
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  Speaker 2: innately it's in his spirit that cats and dogs are
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  Speaker 2: a lot of time enemies. Now people have pets in
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  Speaker 2: him proven that if you show love on both sides,
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  Speaker 2: they can exist. And that happens too but naturally innately,
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  Speaker 2: when your cat goes by a dog and your dog
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  Speaker 2: don't recognize him, there's some barking going on. I'm talking
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  Speaker 2: about just walking through the neighborhood or something. So, but
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  Speaker 2: the reason that this dog is so persistent towards this
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  Speaker 2: cat is just cause it's in him. It's innately in him.
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  Speaker 2: And what I'm saying to you, just using that as
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  Speaker 2: an analogy, is that you got to be you got
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  Speaker 2: to be persistent in that. You got to develop some
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  Speaker 2: dog in you now because pressure takes some fighting back.
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  Speaker 2: See if you don't fight back against pressure, pressure buster pipe,
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  Speaker 2: So what you think it'll do to you? Pressure crack walls,
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  Speaker 2: pressure calls explosions. So if you don't fight back to
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  Speaker 2: hold it in, you understand pressure does most people in
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  Speaker 2: the simple thing called pressure, the weight of what it
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  Speaker 2: feels like to want to be successful every single day,
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  Speaker 2: over and over and over and over and over. It's
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  Speaker 2: just too much pressure. People crack. You got to persist
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  Speaker 2: you have to persist. You can the thought of giving
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  Speaker 2: up can come, but you got to get it out.
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  Speaker 2: You got to persist. The next thing I want you
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  Speaker 2: to think about is another something that I've been thinking
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  Speaker 2: about for years and learned for years. It's called perseverance.
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  Speaker 2: To persist means to insist, a keyword in incest, and
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  Speaker 2: persistence insists you must. You must insist that this is
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  Speaker 2: going to happen. Now, the persist I'm assuming means it's
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  Speaker 2: a proaction. It's some type of proaction that you go
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  Speaker 2: towards it to make it. You know, persist, You gotta
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  Speaker 2: be persistent. You gotta be constantly at it, insisting that
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  Speaker 2: it happens. You gotta be constantly at it. But the
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  Speaker 2: next thing I want you to remember is perseverance. Perseverance
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  Speaker 2: is important. Perseverance means that when you've done your best,
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  Speaker 2: when you've persisted, when you're fighting back against the pressure.
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  Speaker 2: Perseverance simply means I'm going to hang in here. If
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  Speaker 2: a crack come into pipe, I'm gonna hang in there.
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  Speaker 2: If the pipe bust, I'm gonna keep going. If I
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  Speaker 2: gotta put duct, take mud, whatever I got to put
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  Speaker 2: on this thing. Man I'm gonna use perseverance. I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to stay with it no matter what. So we're looking
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  Speaker 2: at the three things again. You got to understand that
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  Speaker 2: it's gonna be pressure that you're gonna have to persist.
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  Speaker 2: Keyword in persistence incense. You have to insist that no
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  Speaker 2: matter what the pressure is, I'm gonna stay with it.
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  Speaker 2: But then perseverance. If it goes wrong, Man, you got
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  Speaker 2: to get in there and keep fighting. But then, Lord
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  Speaker 2: have mercy. Nothing helps you handle the three p's better
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  Speaker 2: than the fourth P. You got to pray. You got
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  Speaker 2: to use prayer. You gotta talk to God. You gotta
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  Speaker 2: use faith. You gotta have some conferences with him late
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  Speaker 2: at night, early in the morning, in the middle of
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  Speaker 2: the afternoon, when you're on the train, when you're driving.
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  Speaker 2: You got to talk to God. Man, you got to
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  Speaker 2: get yourself some help along the way. Nothing is bigger
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  Speaker 2: than prayer. There is nothing bigger than prayer. Prayer will
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  Speaker 2: help you overcome the pressure. Prayer will help you stay persistent,
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  Speaker 2: and Lord have mercy. Prayer will help you persevere. Then,
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  Speaker 2: mister faux Peas, God gave that to me, I'm passing
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  Speaker 2: it on.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention. God
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  Speaker 2: Almighty has done it again. Another great day, another opportunity,
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  Speaker 2: another chance. Man, oh man, oh man, how many can
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  Speaker 2: you get like this without realizing how great this actually is?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, really, man, at one point in time you
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  Speaker 1: got to go whoo.
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  Speaker 4: Whoo.
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  Speaker 2: He is off the chain with it. He is man
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  Speaker 2: every day. Ain't even really no words because when I
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  Speaker 2: try to describe it, if it feels incomplete to me,
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  Speaker 2: because I know I'm short. Awesome is not big enough,
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  Speaker 2: exponentiously all that, it don't super catsual, fragilistic, It don't fit.
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  Speaker 2: I can't think of nothing. Man, God is good. Welcome
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  Speaker 2: to the Seve Harvard Morning Show. Shirty Strawberry calling for
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  Speaker 2: real Mississippi Monica and Junior Nephew. Time is off today.
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  Speaker 2: So Junior, y'all, what's on your mind today?
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  Speaker 3: Man?
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask you one question. Have you ever had
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  Speaker 4: to put your hands on your family member before?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? And they put their hands on me too, Yes,
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  Speaker 2: on many occasions, many.
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  Speaker 1: Not many, Junior? What happened?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 4: Because you know everybody know I work for Uncle Steve.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody know that.
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  Speaker 4: But if I'm choking my uncle out on Thanksgiving?
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  Speaker 3: What what am I?
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  Speaker 7: You know?
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  Speaker 2: Jr.
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  Speaker 1: Junior?
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  Speaker 2: You're missing. You just can't go from our work for
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  Speaker 2: uncle Steve. So I'm choking my uncle on Thanksgiving. You
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  Speaker 2: don't understand. What where the rest of the story. I
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  Speaker 2: just found out in my family.
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  Speaker 1: I'm important.
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  Speaker 2: My grandmother just passed.
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  Speaker 1: I had to move up.
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  Speaker 5: Now.
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  Speaker 4: I told my uncle not to touch me. He put
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  Speaker 4: his hands on Now. I told him that he the
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  Speaker 4: crackhead in the family. That's what it is, he the crackhead.
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  Speaker 2: Oh oh, well, let me say this.
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  Speaker 4: That crackhead touched me, Steve.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it happened, yes on Thanksgiving?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, yes, sir.
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  Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you an important question. Does he
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  Speaker 2: even remember you choking him? No, sir, he don't remember,
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  Speaker 2: Thank you very much. That's the one good thing about
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  Speaker 2: being a crackhead. Your memory is shot. Don't let it
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  Speaker 2: bother you.
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  Speaker 4: If I do these things with Harvey, I'm a break.
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna drag your name into it. The co host
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  Speaker 4: of Steve Hard Morning, Where how I'm in this hill?
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  Speaker 2: What you finished? Drag name for you?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 7: No?
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  Speaker 2: What you fighting and choking people that thanksgiving lead me out.
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  Speaker 2: Why why I'm in.
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  Speaker 4: This hill because you famous?
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  Speaker 5: You have to be in here for what.
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  Speaker 8: What?
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  Speaker 7: Hey?
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  Speaker 2: Dog I had thanksgiving him mine. I ain't nobody get choked.
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  Speaker 2: Wasn't no fighting, we playing huo. It was just nice.
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  Speaker 1: First thing.
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  Speaker 4: He's sill.
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  Speaker 1: He said this, Mister Harvey.
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  Speaker 4: He said in his room, he said, I can't believe
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  Speaker 4: Junior from Morning Show choke me.
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  Speaker 2: But just just tell him to stop saying, Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 2: Morning Show, just say, Junior on some talk show was
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  Speaker 2: choking me on sometimes?
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  Speaker 1: Is in what you got for us? Junior.
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  Speaker 4: Listen.
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  Speaker 2: It's called give the Drama song.
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  Speaker 3: This is yeah, okay, Hello, I'm trying to me rach
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  Speaker 3: uh ritchie he Hey, Richie, how you doing? You the
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  Speaker 3: drummer for the.
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  Speaker 2: For the band.
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  Speaker 3: It's saying, it's saying, how quick at your subject? And
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  Speaker 3: you all show the guy that you're the manager of
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  Speaker 3: the band?
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  Speaker 5: T right?
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  Speaker 3: Correct?
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  Speaker 2: Correct?
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  Speaker 6: Correct?
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  Speaker 3: What's up? Okay? All right, all right, we want to
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  Speaker 3: book you guys for I think it's gonna be in February.
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  Speaker 3: All right, yeah, yeah, I mean my name is Carter.
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  Speaker 3: They told you I's gonna be calling I think so. Yeah. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: let's tell you what. We're gonna go through a little
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  Speaker 3: check minus list here. Make sure we're on the same page,
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  Speaker 3: and we got everything's gonna be good that night. But
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  Speaker 3: I hear you guys, you got I take something. You
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  Speaker 3: guys come highly recommended. You know that, don't you. I
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  Speaker 3: appreciate that, we know that we were the best out there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's all good. It sounds all good, sounds perfect. All right,
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  Speaker 3: Now let's talk about money, because that's always the most
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  Speaker 3: crucial thing to talk about. Now, you guys, sounds good. Uh,
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  Speaker 3: you guys are supposed to be What about what thirty
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  Speaker 3: five hundred? From what I understand? Correct?
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 3: How many? How many hours do I get you to
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  Speaker 3: thirty five hundred?
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  Speaker 6: So?
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  Speaker 3: What time is starting that we're gonna start that. We're
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  Speaker 3: gonna start seven, probably seven thirty, you know, get that,
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  Speaker 3: get that things jumping off about seven thirty. I think
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  Speaker 3: that's gonna be good. Yeah, we can play till like
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  Speaker 3: I guess, put out o'clock seven thirty ten. Correct. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you something. They not gonna get going
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  Speaker 3: good till about ten. So I'm gonna say I'm gonna
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  Speaker 3: say this to you right now. You think you guys
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  Speaker 3: could probably go to midnight maybe twelve thirty if I
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  Speaker 3: if I make that thing a nice five thousand dollars,
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  Speaker 3: sounds good to me. You could definitely work with that.
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  Speaker 3: You can work with that. Yeah, Yeah, well we'll accommodate.
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  Speaker 2: It's gonna be an awesome party.
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  Speaker 9: We're gonna we're.
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  Speaker 3: Gonna bringefitt Okay, all right, we got that out of way.
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  Speaker 3: I'll tell you what I think. The main thing that
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  Speaker 3: we haven't gone over is we haven't gone over the songs.
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  Speaker 3: And that's what's that's what's gonna be important for this showdown.
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  Speaker 3: Now you can you got a pen and a pant,
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  Speaker 3: you can write this down. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I write
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  Speaker 3: it down? All right? Down? Give me a second, dog
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  Speaker 3: go ahead? All right?
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  Speaker 2: Did you got that?
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  Speaker 3: All right? Yeah? Yeah? I got all right? Somebody, I
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  Speaker 3: just want to be clear you guys when you go,
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: when you guys go do gigs, you do have people
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  Speaker 3: that want certain uh songs right or wrong? Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: Usually Yeah, if you got a request, definitely let us
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  Speaker 6: know you could commodate.
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  Speaker 3: All right, all right, well here we go. Uh, I
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  Speaker 3: want you right just there. I got I got something
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  Speaker 3: that we gotta make sure this is gonna be doing
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  Speaker 3: the high of the party. Here we go. Okay, Friends
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  Speaker 3: in Low Places by Garth Brooks. Right, Canna singing whiskey.
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  Speaker 3: That's Chris Saflet you know that. Okay, my time to
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  Speaker 3: part that's Bason. All things hold off for a second.
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  Speaker 3: Is that country music? That's country music? Well, that's that's
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  Speaker 3: that's that's that's everything. We gonna do everything. We gonna
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  Speaker 3: do that. That's gonna be Yeah, bro, I gotta tell
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  Speaker 3: you right now, man, R and B. That's our specialty.
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  Speaker 3: Did you not know that? You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: We replaced R and B.
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  Speaker 3: He did not know that. All I know is you
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  Speaker 3: guys come highly recommend They tell me you guys can
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  Speaker 3: singing anything in the world. All I'm know is I
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  Speaker 3: won't get a gun country I want some gun country
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  Speaker 3: music going on round. I know that. But you know
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  Speaker 3: our specialty is an R and B.
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  Speaker 6: That's our specialty.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 10: It's it's not like we're trained monkeys where we could
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  Speaker 10: just learn something new last mint like that.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Let's let's get let's get one.
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  Speaker 3: Let's get one thing. Understand you're the person that's said monkey,
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  Speaker 3: I ain't sick, but I'm just no. And you know
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  Speaker 3: that we're an R and B band. That's our big thing.
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  Speaker 3: That's what we promote ourselves as. Let me ask you something, Richie,
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  Speaker 3: something you do you not want to make the five
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  Speaker 3: towns and knowledge that you and I have already negotiations.
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  Speaker 3: I don't like being disrespected, though, you know what I'm saying,
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  Speaker 3: and no disrespecting you. You're just we're an R and
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  Speaker 3: B band.
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  Speaker 6: We don't see the country. You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: How do you know here, Richie? You got something this country?
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  Speaker 3: I have no problem with country music.
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  Speaker 1: It's just that we have a full horn section, which
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  Speaker 1: doesn't really work with country music.
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  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: We play R and D.
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  Speaker 6: It's not our genre.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I got I got what year used to doing.
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  Speaker 3: But if I don't hear uh, let me see your gunner.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my cole swim. They didn't didn't that. It ain't
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  Speaker 3: gonna work for me. I gotta get that. I gotta
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  Speaker 3: get slow burned by Tim Heats. I gotta get all
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  Speaker 3: my rooty friends who coming over by. I ain't Williams.
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  Speaker 5: I mean that, yo.
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  Speaker 3: You know what waity wait wait wait wait. Karns over
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  Speaker 3: at the Many is telling me that you guys can
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  Speaker 3: sing anything in the world. Now, I know you ain't
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  Speaker 3: telling me that. Kevin's line, I mean he's maybe he
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  Speaker 3: should have told you explicitly what we do and what
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  Speaker 3: we play. You know what I'm saying, I've never met
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: even matter in my life. Not playing problem playing Guardbrooks,
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: Chris Stapleton, Jason Now they ain't Brooks and Downs, Blake Shelton,
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Cole Swing Dale, Lady, Ay, you gonna sit here and
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: tell me you can't play none of these songs. I
• 20:08
  Speaker 3: want you to get on the stage and sing these
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: songs that we won't go. We ain't got time to
• 20:13
  Speaker 3: find another group. Everybody. I don't know. I don't get
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: about your stupid party.
• 20:17
  Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: You came to us to play music, and then we
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: told you what we do right now. You know, right now,
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like we had a stand
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: off at the I'm okay, Corail, all right, all right,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: let me let me talk to.
• 20:34
  Speaker 6: My band, all right, because this is going this is
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: going unnecessary too far.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. Maybe we can make it work,
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: all right. Let me let me ask you. Is Dray
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: the bass player? Yeah? Correct? Okay? Can I tell you
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: something about Dray? What about him? Drey got me to
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: prank phone call you. This is nephew Tommy from the
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby, you just got pranked by
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: your boy, the bad dre. Okay, I gotta aswer you something.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: Mess what is the baddest and I mean the baddest
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: radio show in the land. Steve Harvey Morning Show, Digo Charlotte,
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: give drums?
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, Junior, thank you.
• 21:25
  Speaker 9: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our
• 21:28
  Speaker 9: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
• 21:33
  Speaker 9: let's go. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 21:40
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  Speaker 9: of the hour. And entertainment news, Candy Burr's ex husband
• 22:15
  Speaker 9: Todd Tucker soon to be ex husband Todd Tucker requests
• 22:18
  Speaker 9: primary custody of the kids. Fifty Cent speaks on why
• 22:22
  Speaker 9: he is producing Ditty's documentary, and Yeah today, there are
• 22:28
  Speaker 9: some serious winter storm weather alerts for the Northeast and
• 22:32
  Speaker 9: the Midwest. We'll talk about these stories at the top
• 22:35
  Speaker 9: of the hour, but right now it is time to
• 22:38
  Speaker 9: ask the colo. This is from Da Vinci in Queen's
• 22:42
  Speaker 9: Da Vinci says, my wife and I took a road
• 22:44
  Speaker 9: trip to her cousin's house for dinner Thursday. She had
• 22:47
  Speaker 9: put Bailey's in her coffee, and when we got to
• 22:50
  Speaker 9: her cousin's house, she was drunk and loud. I had
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: no idea that she spiked her coffee, so I was mad.
• 22:57
  Speaker 9: Did I overreact since it was a festive occasion, or
• 23:00
  Speaker 9: do I have the right to be upset?
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Well, so she was driving, then you have a right
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: to be upset because that's danger in people's lives on
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: her roads. Of course. Now I've had Bailey's before. Do
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: you know how much of that you got to drink
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: to get drunk?
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: A lot.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I'm presuming since she said.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: That, I think, but she just spiked her coffee. She
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: probably has a really low tolerance for alcohol. Yeah, Look,
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: I would just be a little bit more forgiving people
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: who drink. Judgment is usually off, so I wouldn't be
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: too worried about that. Is she mad at him?
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: No, he's mad at her.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Yeay, man, just let that go. It's gonna be some
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: other stuff. Well while you're still mad about that though, yeah, Julie, Yeah,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: I know you mad. Yeah, I know you struggling with that,
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: but still mad is not good for anybody. You can
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: unfold your arms. This is the Colo segment. I'll get
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: to you in a minute. Go ahead, Shirley, I.
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: Love that, all right.
• 24:15
  Speaker 9: This is from moving on to a lease in Sarasota
• 24:18
  Speaker 9: at least, writes this morning, my husband was in the
• 24:21
  Speaker 9: kitchen on the phone when I walked in.
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: He hung up.
• 24:25
  Speaker 9: I told him to hand me his phone, and he
• 24:27
  Speaker 9: went off. He said that he's not my child, and
• 24:29
  Speaker 9: he walked out of the house. Why did he get
• 24:32
  Speaker 9: so upset over that?
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Well, you asked for his phone. You're checking it now.
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: Two things could happen. That could be a number on
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: now he didn't want you to see, or he just
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: wanted to He just don't want to be checked like
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: he's a child. And then he walked out the house
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: to delete the number. You got to you got it,
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: you know, yeah, give me the phone, you know you
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: walked then he hung up. Maybe he was through with
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: the conversation. It could be that, but if you check
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: him about it immediately, he is gonna be upset. Ain't
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: gonna use that as the reason. You got to be
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: slicker with it. You gotta not say nothing. Then don't
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: say nothing, then get his phone. No, no, you jumping.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Well he did hang up as soon as she walked in.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: I hang up a lot of time. It could be
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: just coincident, yeah, all like I said, Or he could
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: have hung up because he didn't want you to hear
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: the conversation. Now, why wouldn't he give me the phone.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: It's because he is not your child. Give me your phone.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: Come on, now, you gotta be a little bit smarter
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: about this, ladies, give me your phone now, not see.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. When you make when you
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: do stuff like that to your husband, now, your husband
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: starts preparing for those moments. If you're gon't do that,
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: you're gonna have to be a little bit slickled with it.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: So what you give me your phone? Honey? Honey? May
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: I see your phone?
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, no.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: It ain't how you say it, it's the fact that
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: you're saying it.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, baby, baby, let me have your phone whatever on
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: his phone. M h you can't see it.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: M okay, sounds like he was up to no good.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, sadly, but you know she do with the accusational tone.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Whatever he was wrong too, all right? Moving on to Milan.
• 26:41
  Speaker 9: In Greenwood, Milan, that writes, I called my husband three times,
• 26:45
  Speaker 9: back to back, and he didn't answer. I was looking
• 26:48
  Speaker 9: at him in the driveway, sitting in his car, ignoring me.
• 26:52
  Speaker 9: He said he was just chilling. I was worried about him,
• 26:55
  Speaker 9: and he didn't care. Why would he ignore me like that?
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many times every man has
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: done that. Every single man looked at that phone and
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: with uh uh. He was in the driveway. He wasn't
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: even on his phone. He just having a moment of peace. Now,
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: why your man can't have this moment a piece? He
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: wasn't talking on the phone, and you saw him sitting
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: there just trying to pull hisself together. Now, why would
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: he ignore me because he was having a moment of peace.
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: I have done it, Tommy has done it. If Tash
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: has done.
• 27:40
  Speaker 9: It, huh what would you do if it were her
• 27:45
  Speaker 9: sitting in the driveway, would you, as a concerned husband
• 27:48
  Speaker 9: call her yeah.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: I will call her. But if she don't pick up
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: and I look outside and she in the driveway, I'm
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: going back in that finish watching the game. Okay, cool,
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: we can both have a moment. But very few times
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: will a man knowingly destroy a woman's peace knowing that
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: could come around and eventually destroy his. Very few men
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: that have a brain on their head will do that. So, ladies,
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: if you see your man just chilling you calling me here,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: he's just trying to pull it together. He's just trying
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: to pull it together.
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: He wasn't on the phone, none of that. Just trying
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: to have a moment. Man, Glad you ain't my wife.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: This is from Charles and Philly.
• 28:36
  Speaker 9: Last one, Steve Charles writes, I got a text from
• 28:39
  Speaker 9: my wife's mother and she said she needed to speak
• 28:42
  Speaker 9: to me. We haven't spoken in months, and I was
• 28:44
  Speaker 9: not in the mood to start a text fight with her.
• 28:47
  Speaker 9: My wife knows her mom is devilish, so why does
• 28:50
  Speaker 9: she insist that I talk to her?
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: No?
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: See, what you do, dog is delete the text and
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: say you never got it and put that thing on
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: your phone that doesn't allow people to see that you
• 29:05
  Speaker 2: re read the message.
• 29:09
  Speaker 8: Yeah, but if the text says delivered on her end,
• 29:13
  Speaker 8: then she knows he got it.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: What doesn't matter and God.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: Is two different things. You know, No, no, you could
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: deliver the package. I didn't get it though text messages no, no, no, no.
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: Hell no.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: And she own if it's say delivered, yeah, but mine
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: don't say God got it? Now where you where it
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: got delivered to? That's between you and the phone. Come okay,
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: I ain't seen no text and hear my phone all
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: people to destroy your peace. That's gonna be my closing remark.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: All right, okay, all right, all right. So it sounds
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: like he and the mother in law have some issues
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: here and the wife is ignoring it. Yeah, what does
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: that mean? Ambolish? Yeah, what's going on?
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: She know her mama stard miss yeah, day for it,
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: So he ignored it?
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, thank you Colo.
• 30:24
  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, we will
• 30:26
  Speaker 9: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're
• 30:30
  Speaker 9: listening the Hardy Morning Show. US Weekly reports a Candy
• 30:39
  Speaker 9: Burris and her soon to be ex Todd Tucker reunited
• 30:42
  Speaker 9: for Thanksgiving, although Todd was noticeably absent from a family
• 30:46
  Speaker 9: photo Candy shared on social media. The image featured Todd's
• 30:50
  Speaker 9: eldest daughter from a previous relationship with Candy, expressing that
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: she will always be considered family. Meanwhile, there claims that
• 30:58
  Speaker 9: Todd has petitioned for a price marry custody of their
• 31:01
  Speaker 9: two children, aged nine and six, as they currently reside
• 31:05
  Speaker 9: with him in Georgia while Candy works out of state.
• 31:08
  Speaker 9: Thout acknowledge signing a prenuptial agreement in twenty fourteen, but
• 31:12
  Speaker 9: imply that he was coersed into doing so without legal representation.
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Oh so.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: That's your response.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Now listen to me. Without legal concert that's your prop.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: You signed a prenup. That's that's gonna be. I knew that.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: I knew that was coming up. Yeah, and and A
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: and B. You're not getting the kids. You can prompt them,
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: you do. You know what you have to do for
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: them to take a child from the mother. Bruh. Yeah,
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: that's a tough one right there.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: Bro.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: And I like Todd man, I like Candy.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: So yeah, but bruh, you I was rooting for them.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: I made to say them break up.
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: I hate that.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, hey man, just do just do, just become wonderful
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: cold parents. They seem like really smart people. Just be
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: great co parents, you know, get it done. You not,
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: that's it, bro, Just gone do that man, Man, I'm
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: gone take care of your kids.
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, glad to see that. Yeah, it really is.
• 32:20
  Speaker 9: In other entertainment news, during a recent interview with Robin
• 32:23
  Speaker 9: Roberts on Good Morning America, fifty Cent discussed his long
• 32:27
  Speaker 9: beaf with Ditty and why he is producing the Netflix
• 32:30
  Speaker 9: documentary Sean Combs The Reckoning. Fifty said that if he
• 32:35
  Speaker 9: didn't say anything, you would interpret it as hip hop
• 32:39
  Speaker 9: is fine with his behavior. The series will focus on
• 32:42
  Speaker 9: Ditty being a superstar, his sexual assault lawsuits and criminal trial,
• 32:46
  Speaker 9: and never before unseen footage never before unseen footage of
• 32:51
  Speaker 9: days leading up to the trial. Take a listen to
• 32:54
  Speaker 9: Robert Roberts asking fifty about the beef and director Alexandria
• 32:59
  Speaker 9: stapled response.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: How do you respond to people who say that that
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: it's more about the sustain that you have for Sean
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Combs than it is for giving the victims a platform.
• 33:09
  Speaker 11: What they consider a pre existing being right for twenty years?
• 33:13
  Speaker 11: Is me being uncomfortable with him suggesting that he takes
• 33:19
  Speaker 11: me shopping? Or is that I looked at it like
• 33:21
  Speaker 11: it was like it was like a tester, like, maybe
• 33:24
  Speaker 11: you'll come play with me type of thing, right, and
• 33:28
  Speaker 11: it's not personal.
• 33:29
  Speaker 12: I think it's important to also let people know that
• 33:34
  Speaker 12: the show is not completely the perspectives of people that
• 33:37
  Speaker 12: did not like Shawn. We weren't trying to just get
• 33:39
  Speaker 12: the highlights, the salacious details. You know that the real
• 33:42
  Speaker 12: goal was to storytell and if you not, everyone needed
• 33:46
  Speaker 12: to have an allegation to be a part of this project.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: As to the question, though I did not understand his personal, yeah,
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: it is. It's very personal, mad. I didn't get an
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: answer from him.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: I just if you, if you're a man, you tell
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: me you asked me, come on, let me take your shopping.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: That's personal.
• 34:10
  Speaker 9: Yeah, And he's mad about that, and so he's this
• 34:13
  Speaker 9: is how he's Canami as he should be. Yeah, all right,
• 34:17
  Speaker 9: we all know, of course that did. He is serving
• 34:20
  Speaker 9: a fifty month prison sentence for violating the Man Act.
• 34:23
  Speaker 9: And finally, in trending National weather news, more snow untapped
• 34:27
  Speaker 9: for the Midwest and the Northeast. The third winter storm
• 34:31
  Speaker 9: in the last seven days will blanket parts of the
• 34:33
  Speaker 9: Midwest and northeast, Chicago and the Upper Midwest will be
• 34:37
  Speaker 9: blanketed by snow.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: This is that.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: Today's winter storm.
• 34:41
  Speaker 9: Weather alerts have been posted in parts of the northeast
• 34:44
  Speaker 9: from Pennsylvania to Maine. Winter weather will stay west of
• 34:49
  Speaker 9: the I ninety five quarter and rain will fall east
• 34:52
  Speaker 9: of it. Parts of Virginia and west northern western North
• 34:56
  Speaker 9: Carolina are looking at possible ice accumulation.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: Please be safe, Please be warm out there. Wow, winter
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: is here. Did y'all see all that snow in Chicago?
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: That was crazy? Buffalo? Did you see the Buffalo Stadium?
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: This is crazy, crazy winter weather.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: It's winter. Yeah, Cleveland. Let they're they up in that,
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: But you know they used to it. They know, Chicago
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: used to it, Buffalo used to it. It's December. Yeah,
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: what do y'all want to happen? See, y'all been spoiled
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: in Houston, Florida. It's winter.
• 35:36
  Speaker 7: This is what he do.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: It's snow. It's snow and people fight at Thanksgiving chokeouts.
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for you have see you have
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: people have cookouts. Junior andm have chokeouts.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: You got to do with the weather.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: What do you nothing? Just wanted to give him a platform.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: I appreciate you what is.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Going on, Junior with your family.
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: No, I'm about to be soon because I'm on the
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: Morning show because I choked somebody out that's older than me.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: I have told you, I'd have told you for the
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: last time. Stop saying morning show and lawsuit at the
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: same time. This your rob No, No, you choked your
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: crack head uncle and thathing is gonna stay at And
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: you're not going to drag the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: into this. We're not gonna allow.
• 36:29
  Speaker 8: With Everybody has fights on Thanksgiving. We did well, not
• 36:36
  Speaker 8: physical fights, but you know we didn't disagreement. Nobody had
• 36:42
  Speaker 8: a disagreement.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: Well, we had a disagreement because I kept skipping, uh.
• 36:49
  Speaker 4: My son and.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: Oh y'all playing no.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that created a problem. Yeah, well, you're gonna pay
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: for it. You're gonna pay for this.
• 36:57
  Speaker 4: You're gonna pay.
• 36:58
  Speaker 9: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, pay what
• 37:01
  Speaker 9: you mean I'm fin to pay for one for the
• 37:03
  Speaker 9: pay for this.
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about your partner's parents.
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: Are you gonna mess around? And you ain't gonna be
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: on the morning shelf or.
• 37:11
  Speaker 10: Their family during the holiday season right after this?
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: So no, you're listening to Steve Hardy Morning Show.
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• 37:55
  Speaker 9: Okay, we all know Meg the Stallion and NBA superstar
• 37:59
  Speaker 9: Dallas Maverick player Clay Thompson are dating. Megan cooked a
• 38:04
  Speaker 9: Thanksgiving dinner for her new man. This was my favorite
• 38:07
  Speaker 9: post over the holidays for her new man and his
• 38:10
  Speaker 9: family and Clay's dad, Michael Thomas Thompson said, quote Meg
• 38:15
  Speaker 9: the Chef's Thanksgiving dinner was unbelievable, the best I've ever eaten.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: End quote. I love that.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: I love that.
• 38:23
  Speaker 9: So today's question is how important is it to win
• 38:27
  Speaker 9: over your partner's family or her parents or their family.
• 38:33
  Speaker 9: And speaking of Megan, she won her case yesterday and
• 38:35
  Speaker 9: Miami against a female blogger for seventy five thousand dollars.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: Well, this question, do you say, pose the question again?
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: The last part of the question.
• 38:44
  Speaker 9: How important is it for you to win over your parents,
• 38:49
  Speaker 9: your partner's parents, or their family?
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: How important is that?
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, like Steve Harvey Morning Show. In the
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: case of Kia, Junior spates, we don't really have a
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: clear answer for that because he can't win over the
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: people in his family. He has nothing to do with
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: his wife, family, wonderful family, his family. He ain't won
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: them over yet. Junior choked out his uncle at the
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: thing because of Rwanda. He started crying after who names
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: that baby? Ronica?
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: Her mom?
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: What's Ronica's mama name?
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: But Susan?
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: Oh, but I want, I want everybody in my family.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: Stated that mister Harvey is gonna pay for this lawsuit.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: Mister Harvey, Hey crazy, why do you keep saying that
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: mister Harvey is gonna pay for a lawsuit? Law suit?
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: I have real lawyers, though, you're gonna mess around, Junior.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna shut your whole family down. Y'all won't have
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: no more thanksgivings.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: Keep me off the show because this is about you.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna kick you off the show. I'm gonna
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: send decease and desist for y'all to not have no
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: more thanksgivings. It's what y'all fit to get. It's castle
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: because you don't know how to act over there.
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: Clearly you're choking And hey, man.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Did you ever go over Tommy's house?
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: I was choking people.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: That's what you didn't go, Junior.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Do you know that this goes over the air. You
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: can't win a lawsuit when you keep saying I was
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: choking people? Lawsuit?
• 40:53
  Speaker 9: Did anyone take any film, Junior or anything? They didn't
• 40:56
  Speaker 9: film it today?
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody got a phone share. Yeah, but did they
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: film it though?
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, kids did, But old crackheads can't work well.
• 41:05
  Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty four minutes after, Louisiana State Penitentiary
• 41:10
  Speaker 9: Angola held its first father and father and daughter dance.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: the Harvey Morning Show.
• 41:24
  Speaker 9: According to CBS News, Louisiana State Penitentiary Angola has more
• 41:29
  Speaker 9: than sixty three hundred prisoners.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: An organization called God behind Bars.
• 41:34
  Speaker 9: Which hosts other reunification events and religious services in prisons nationwide,
• 41:40
  Speaker 9: hosted the very first father and daughter dance at the prison.
• 41:45
  Speaker 9: The prison picked up picked about thirty inmates to participate
• 41:49
  Speaker 9: due to good behavior and other deciding factors. A dance
• 41:52
  Speaker 9: space was set up in the prison's Bible college, and
• 41:55
  Speaker 9: the fathers wore tuxedos and cried as their daughters ran
• 41:59
  Speaker 9: up to the For some prisoners, some of these prisoners
• 42:02
  Speaker 9: they haven't seen their daughters in month or some even years.
• 42:06
  Speaker 9: This was a night where they wouldn't be seen as
• 42:09
  Speaker 9: an inmate, but just rather as dad. Some prisoners said
• 42:12
  Speaker 9: they wanted to apologize for all the years they missed,
• 42:15
  Speaker 9: and the other inmates called the dance the most important
• 42:17
  Speaker 9: prison visit of their lives.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: Wow, see that those are important programs. I found quite
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: a few of those online and stuff like that. I
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: think they're fabulous.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: It gives the fathers a level of dignity and a
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: chance to look like a father in the eyes of
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: the daughter. It's such an important relationship between a father
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: and a daughter. It's just as important as the father
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: son relationship because that's where they learn what a man's
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: love is supposed to be like. So I think it's
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: a fabulous program. I think they need to do more
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: hats off to Angola, which is one of the toughest,
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: the toughest institutions reputation wise in the country. Never been there,
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: but Lord have mercy and some of the way that
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: they treat the inmates the inmates is simply inhumane. I
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: will say that about Angola and a lot of other
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: prisons too. But when you see a program like this,
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: this offers a lot of hope. I'm involved in a
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: prison program that I started at the prison in Atlanta.
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: The Federal Prison in Atlanta is started by the Coffee
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: Bean Foundation, where I donated a sum of money to
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: provide fathers with twenty five hundred dollars scholarships to give
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: to their children for things that children need on the outside.
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: And the way they do it is they have to
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: apply for the scholarship and like you know, like one
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: of their children may need to go to dance class.
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: So one girl wanted to go on this field trip
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: to DC and her mother didn't have the money. Well,
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: we found out about it and he wins twenty five
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: hundred dollars scholarship and he's able to send the money
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: in his name to his child for his child to
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: participate in these activities and it's starting to really really
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: catch on. And I'm gonna after this first year here,
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a couple other prisons across the country
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: with these guys. And I spoke at the prison this year.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: I can't think of the name of it as the
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: Federal prison in Atlanta. I can't think of the name.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: But it's very moving time for men. I had a
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: great time visiting with the inmates and the guards, and
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: you know, shout out to all the inmates out there, man'
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: that's just trying to do the right thing.
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: A lot of good people make mistakes in this world,
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: and there was some great men behind them. Bars I met.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: It was some great officers in that who cared about
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: the men. You know, it's some good officers, some bad ones,
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: just like everywhere else. But for the most part down
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: there was they had a decent relationship.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: So important.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: Hey, man, you can't throw men away and women away
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: because they locked up. A lot of good people make mistakes,
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: and then there's some innocent people back there too. Now, yeah,
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: a lot, and it's a whole lot of it. Look,
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: the Jim Crow Law down in Angola said that a
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: person could get convicted without twelve full jury members. So
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: it's called a Jim Crow law down in Louisiana. They
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: got it overturned just recently, where you have to be
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: convicted by twelve any other part of the world, if
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: ten people say you're guilty and too say you don't,
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: that's a mistrial. In Louisiana, you go to prison. Well,
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: they tried to get it retroactive to go back after
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: they passed the new law, and Louisiana High Supreme Court
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: turned it down. So these men who were convicted by
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: not fool jeurys still had to stay in prison. That's
• 46:06
  Speaker 2: happening at Angolo and that ain't right man.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're gonna move on and have more
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 46:15
  Speaker 9: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 46:23
  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, about four
• 46:26
  Speaker 9: minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today and the
• 46:29
  Speaker 9: subject is is he my man or hers? Okay, we'll
• 46:35
  Speaker 9: get into that, find out what that's all about. And
• 46:37
  Speaker 9: just a few because right now Junior is in for
• 46:40
  Speaker 9: the nephew with today's prank phone call.
• 46:43
  Speaker 3: What you got for us?
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Junior?
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: I have nothing. I just even talk to my uncle Steve.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: Wait, what what what are you talking about? It's prank time?
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: What do you mean you have?
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: Now? I'm taking everybody time today. I'm anna convicted feeling
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: and Uncle Steve ain't trying to help him.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: Oh my good feeling?
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: Yeah? Man?
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: What are the charges?
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: JUDI choking people?
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: You're gonna say it again?
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: Huh see see see what they said Junior from Sarah
• 47:19
  Speaker 4: water Show. We filing charges now, you, Steve, I'm junior.
• 47:24
  Speaker 4: You have to pay for this if you care about
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: me right now? I need to know it right now,
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: Miss Arden?
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: What do you if I care about you?
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: What are you about?
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: It's your people and this here that you what?
• 47:39
  Speaker 6: What?
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, Miss Harden? Okay, have you ever done what
• 47:43
  Speaker 2: I've done before? Choke somebody?
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we can't talk about this if you.
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: He's ah, well, I can tell you right now. I
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: can recall one almost sure.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: We have asked you.
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: That statue of limitation ain't quite pasted or not so
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: I could probably you don't know, okay, but do you care?
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: You don't mean to either? Why you talking about it?
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 48:18
  Speaker 4: Do you care about me?
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: Don't listen to me, junior, Junior, I'm exhausted. It's hot.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: When you are stupid criminal. See that's how you get.
• 48:32
  Speaker 2: You can't be a stupid criminal. You can't commit a
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: crime and then admit to it repeatedly on a radio show.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Thank you that.
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: You don't see that.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: No, no, I don't see did you say no?
• 48:54
  Speaker 6: No?
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: No no?
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: Because see I was choking people.
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: Another admission? Do you watch Order? Do you watch first
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: forty eight? Do you watch any of these crimes? Obviously
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: not date line.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what. You might not watch it,
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: but you're gonna be on it though it's just a
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: short few.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Can you introduce the prank?
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: Please?
• 49:20
  Speaker 8: No, let Steve do Okay, okay, Neighborhood Watch, Junior, go ahead,
• 49:27
  Speaker 8: you can do it if you don't free prank Thanksgiving.
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: Soon we come back, though, I'm still gonna talk on
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: Steve about this all day neighborhood Watch.
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: That's the prank.
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: He yeah, yeah, because anybody I'm gonna go to jail.
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: You we see this Neighborhood Watch.
• 49:42
  Speaker 6: Come on, cant hello. I'm trying to reach Johnny.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah it's Johnny.
• 49:48
  Speaker 6: Okay, you the one that be doing the neighborhood watch.
• 49:50
  Speaker 6: You'll be walking your dog doing the neighborhood watches?
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: Is that you?
• 49:54
  Speaker 6: This is this Johnny? Who is this man? This is preach?
• 49:58
  Speaker 6: Answer my question? Are you Johnny?
• 50:01
  Speaker 3: Pull your road?
• 50:02
  Speaker 5: On your road? I'm Johnny and I do the neighborhood
• 50:06
  Speaker 5: watch Who was a TJ?
• 50:08
  Speaker 6: I'm old man.
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: Don't climb my phone yell at me charging me up?
• 50:13
  Speaker 6: Hey man, only a blue streets over from you. Okay,
• 50:16
  Speaker 6: And you're supposed to be the neighborhood watchman, but that
• 50:19
  Speaker 6: ain't what you're doing now. I didn't cat you looking
• 50:21
  Speaker 6: in the window at my wife. When I came outside,
• 50:24
  Speaker 6: you was halfway down the street. You're on your dog
• 50:27
  Speaker 6: for doing You ain't watching the neighborhood and you looking
• 50:31
  Speaker 6: trying to see them in the window.
• 50:32
  Speaker 5: That's what you're doing, piking some Please, I don't look.
• 50:36
  Speaker 5: I'm do my job, man, I do my neighbors.
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: I do my job.
• 50:40
  Speaker 5: I do the neighborhood watch. I make sure people ain't
• 50:42
  Speaker 5: breaking nobody houses.
• 50:44
  Speaker 9: I got a way.
• 50:44
  Speaker 5: What the hell I want to look at somebody else's
• 50:46
  Speaker 5: like I got a piece of that home. I don't
• 50:49
  Speaker 5: want to look.
• 50:50
  Speaker 6: Then you need to stay out long with looking through
• 50:53
  Speaker 6: people window. Man, you're supposed to be watching the neighborhood,
• 50:56
  Speaker 6: not watching my wife.
• 50:58
  Speaker 5: When you say you live again, because I live two streets.
• 51:01
  Speaker 6: You know what, I'll tell you what though, I'll tell
• 51:03
  Speaker 6: you what Johnny.
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: People Tom. I'm gonna show you what a people Tom is.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 51:09
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna show you what.
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 51:10
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna start looking at your window, looking at your wife.
• 51:14
  Speaker 6: See why he was learning another peep, mister Johnny.
• 51:18
  Speaker 5: But but putting your over here, I want you to look.
• 51:21
  Speaker 5: I wrote you to look at my window.
• 51:25
  Speaker 6: Who the hell is this?
• 51:26
  Speaker 5: I ain't got time for this. Man. I got a job,
• 51:28
  Speaker 5: I got a mortgage, I got kids. I ain't got
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: time for this man. Don't look at a job, man,
• 51:33
  Speaker 5: don't don't find a job.
• 51:34
  Speaker 6: I got a job. I got a job for when
• 51:37
  Speaker 6: I'm at work.
• 51:37
  Speaker 5: You got a job, Yeah, you got a job. Crying
• 51:39
  Speaker 5: I talk about somebody looking at your Why ain't nobody
• 51:42
  Speaker 5: look at your wife?
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 51:43
  Speaker 6: Got a job. But when I'm at Mold, I'm wondering
• 51:46
  Speaker 6: if Joe is back at the home looking through the
• 51:48
  Speaker 6: window at my wife.
• 51:50
  Speaker 5: Please talk to my house.
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: Please, I'm coming later than look through the window.
• 51:56
  Speaker 5: Fine, and mem what the hell are you talking about
• 51:58
  Speaker 5: calling me telling my people? And it just wh get nobody?
• 52:02
  Speaker 5: That's what you're doing that that's no white. You probably
• 52:04
  Speaker 5: ain't got no white. You probably married to the something.
• 52:07
  Speaker 5: What you talking about, man, talking about our people?
• 52:10
  Speaker 6: That your wife you prob god, I a wife and
• 52:12
  Speaker 6: you was the wonder watching the neighborhood. But that ain't
• 52:17
  Speaker 6: what I'm doing.
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: And I got that. Come over here now, suse you
• 52:21
  Speaker 5: around the neighborhood. You three streets whatever, how many streets whatever?
• 52:24
  Speaker 5: You are for me? Come right now. I stand outside
• 52:27
  Speaker 5: with my dog pushing on.
• 52:29
  Speaker 6: Your I won't you come by one later that night
• 52:33
  Speaker 6: when he has at that shower the same way you
• 52:36
  Speaker 6: was looking through my one.
• 52:38
  Speaker 5: Please just come by, don't wait, just come by now.
• 52:42
  Speaker 5: Please her with I don't know about right now, I'm
• 52:45
  Speaker 5: paying somebody with me. You ain't what, brother, I'm getting
• 52:48
  Speaker 5: ready to flow down so I could get ready and
• 52:51
  Speaker 5: tell of my business.
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: I'm getting ready to go and work again in the day. Man,
• 52:55
  Speaker 5: What the hell you talking about? Bro? I got two jobs.
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: I got my job that wasn't during the day and
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: at night, and in between I do the neighborhood watch.
• 53:05
  Speaker 5: I'm doing your service. I'm helping your lady. Do you
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: step up your watching people looking to see if they's
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: looking at your Why don't you get you a second
• 53:15
  Speaker 5: job or something?
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 53:16
  Speaker 5: Why don't you google? Won't you look at mustard dot
• 53:18
  Speaker 5: com or something? What the hell is wrong with you
• 53:21
  Speaker 5: calling me talking about I'm people.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: At your wife?
• 53:24
  Speaker 5: May don't you ever call me when?
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: No?
• 53:26
  Speaker 5: The hole? Is this anyway?
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 53:29
  Speaker 5: Who the hell is this? Because I got some fun?
• 53:31
  Speaker 6: Who was going to tell you who it is? This
• 53:34
  Speaker 6: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
• 53:37
  Speaker 6: just got pranked by your wife, Trisha.
• 53:48
  Speaker 5: Man and ain't want baby. They ain't right, baby, Baby,
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: that ain't right. Man. You got me man because I
• 53:58
  Speaker 5: say it ain't nobody to go.
• 53:59
  Speaker 6: Get me on? No prank man, I don't bompling man
• 54:04
  Speaker 6: creak Joe. Wife told me you do the neighborhood. Watch
• 54:07
  Speaker 6: oh man, she said you do the neighborhood. You walk,
• 54:09
  Speaker 6: you know, because what you gotta Rod Waller, Yeah to.
• 54:12
  Speaker 5: Me, that's why you neighgas.
• 54:14
  Speaker 6: I want to be safe, may just case something happening.
• 54:16
  Speaker 6: I just stick my rock fellow neighbor.
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: And you got me bad, Yes, you you got me bad.
• 54:23
  Speaker 6: Man, you're good.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: I'm good man.
• 54:26
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna get her oover. Alright. Let me ask this though,
• 54:30
  Speaker 6: what is the baddest and I'm talking about the baddest
• 54:33
  Speaker 6: radio show in.
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: The land made the Steve Harvey Show.
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: There yo show, Neighborhood Watch. But see, wasn't nobody watching
• 54:46
  Speaker 4: me in the neighborhood when I was choking people? And
• 54:49
  Speaker 4: missus Harvey, they finisue us.
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: Listen to me, Listen to me. The reason nobody saw
• 54:56
  Speaker 2: you in the neighborhood watch because you wasn't doing nothing.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: Think saddah, that was nothing to see. Okay, now, if
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: you say it one more time, what's gonna happen, I'm
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: gonna take my hands off of you, and I'm gonna
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: let happen. What's gonna happen?
• 55:13
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: It was about seven thirty. I take my hands off
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: some back at about seven thirty, I mister Harp, Miss Harp,
• 55:21
  Speaker 4: do you love me? Do you love me?
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Apparently yes?
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: Not right now?
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: I don't told you yes earlier when you add.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: Almost Struggle Street with you right now us hard? I
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: don't really all.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Right, thank you, Junior.
• 55:36
  Speaker 9: Coming up next, it is my strawberry letter for today,
• 55:39
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  Speaker 9: for my parents because my boyfriend's ex girlfriend doesn't does
• 57:31
  Speaker 9: payroll and accounting for my dad's cleaners. She's well known
• 57:35
  Speaker 9: in town, so no one can believe that my boyfriend
• 57:37
  Speaker 9: dumped her. I told him that living with her and
• 57:41
  Speaker 9: dating me would be a problem, but he did not
• 57:43
  Speaker 9: move out. My dad called me last month and said
• 57:46
  Speaker 9: that he and my mom are embarrassed by what I'm doing.
• 57:49
  Speaker 9: I calmly told them that my boyfriend is not married
• 57:52
  Speaker 9: to the girl, so he's allowed.
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: To do as he pleases, and he chooses to date me.
• 57:57
  Speaker 9: My dad left me alone for a while, and then
• 57:59
  Speaker 9: my mom called me and said she saw the girl
• 58:02
  Speaker 9: and my boyfriend at an outlet mall together. I asked
• 58:05
  Speaker 9: him about it, and he said they were picking out
• 58:07
  Speaker 9: sneakers for her nephew, and she asked for his help.
• 58:11
  Speaker 9: I told him about this thing called online shopping that
• 58:16
  Speaker 9: they could have done without going out in public together.
• 58:19
  Speaker 9: He laughed and reassured me that I had nothing to
• 58:22
  Speaker 9: worry about. I am being harshly judged by my parents,
• 58:26
  Speaker 9: but I'm continuing to fight for my relationship. I guess
• 58:30
  Speaker 9: I'll see what happens at the end of the year
• 58:32
  Speaker 9: when he's supposed to move out. My intuition is telling
• 58:36
  Speaker 9: me that to call his ex to see if my
• 58:39
  Speaker 9: boyfriend has told her how he.
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: Feels about me. Well, if he's playing me, What if
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: he's playing me? Like my parents said, do you think
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: that he'll break up with me if I call his ex?
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: What should I do? Okay, First, let's clear this up. Okay,
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: you have no relationship with this guy. Okay, and you
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: should end this sham of a relationship and ship immediately.
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: That's what you should do.
• 59:02
  Speaker 9: You should have never gotten involved in this. He was
• 59:06
  Speaker 9: living with someone and he made promises to you. No,
• 59:09
  Speaker 9: wait till all that's over, then you guys can start dating.
• 59:13
  Speaker 9: But now, no, he lives with someone that this is
• 59:16
  Speaker 9: a no win situation for you. You've given him permission
• 59:21
  Speaker 9: basically to have her, to keep her and be with you.
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: When you're around.
• 59:28
  Speaker 9: If he's preparing to be with you, then no other
• 59:30
  Speaker 9: woman should be involved in the mix.
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: Do you understand that they live together?
• 59:36
  Speaker 10: So?
• 59:36
  Speaker 9: Yes, No matter what he's telling you, he is still
• 59:40
  Speaker 9: sleeping with her. So I say, listen to your parents.
• 59:44
  Speaker 9: He is playing you.
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: Steve, I almost.
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: Don't say it.
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: I almost can't believe anything in this letter. It's that unbelievable.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: It doesn't make any sense. Everything you said has red
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: flags stuck in it. Thirty four years old and single,
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: after bad breakup, I rebounded with a guy from my past. Ding,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 2: let's stick a red flag in that, because guess what
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: you said, I rebounded with a guy from my past. So,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: I guess you're just gonna throw away the fact that
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: you had to break up with him for whatever the reason.
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: He still lives in town we grew up in, so
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: we reconnected when I was home visiting my parents for
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: Labor Day, Ding another red flag weekend fleeing we're making
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: grew up in so when I was home visiting the
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: Labor day, we're making the long distance thing work because
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: right now he's living with his ex girlfriend until their
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: least expires had the end of December. Ding ding ding
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: ding ding ding ding ding ding ding Ding, Lady, many
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: flags you need? You said, we're making the long distance
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: thing work.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 3: What what?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: What is it that you're making work? All it is
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: is a long distance thing because right now he's living
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: with his ex girlfriend until their least expires at the
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: end of December. You ready, this causes a problem for
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: my parents because my boyfriend's ex girlfriend does payroll in
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: accounting for my dad's cleaners. Bing Big bing Bean. Another
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: red flag. When you say this causes a problem for
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: your parents, See that means there's some involvement with them
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: in your long distance thing. That you're making work with
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: a man that lives with his ex girlfriend until they
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: least run out in December, and now the ex girlfriend
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: does payroll and accounting for your daddy's cleaners. She's well
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: known in town, so no one can believe that my
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: boyfriend dumped her. Ding Here we go. So what you're
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: telling me is that this girl has a wonderful relationship
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: and everybody knows her as an upstanding and fine young woman.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: I told him that him living with her and dating
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: me would be a problem. You think you, but he
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: did not move out, ding another red flag. Baby, You
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: living with this woman gonna be a problem for me? Cool,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: it's gonna be a problem for you because I'm staying here.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: When we come back, I'll tell you the rest of
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 2: this unbelievable letter that's red flags.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 9: Yeah, we'll have part two of your response coming up
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 9: to Stavid twenty three minutes after the our Today Strawberry letter.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 9: Subject is he my man or hers? We'll get back
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 9: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 9: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts,
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 9: but you know, it's even harder getting the right gift.
• 1:03:26
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  Speaker 9: They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone
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  Speaker 9: new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You can
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 9: give a couple away and get yourself one two, or
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 9: you can keep them all to yourself. No one has
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 9: to know. Stop by your local Verizon. All right, Steve,
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 9: come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject ease,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 9: he my man or hers.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: This letter, as I'll repeat, is full of red flags.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: It's thirty four year old woman who says she's single
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: after a bad breakup, she rebounded with her ex red flag.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: They still live in the town that they grew up here,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: so she went back to visit her parents on Labor
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: Day and they connected. We can't flee another red flag.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: We're making this long distance thing work. Really what thing?
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: Because right now this is the funniest line. Right now,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: he's living with his ex girlfriend that today least expires
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: at the end of December. Girl, listen to me, red flag,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: red flag, and it's on fire. You got a red
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: flag and it's on fire. This causes a problem for
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: my parents because my boyfriend's ex girlfriend does payroll and
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: accounting for my dad. Oh lord, you're fit to mess
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 2: up your dad in money. Then another redge play. She's
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: well known in town, so no one can believe that
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: my boyfriend dumped her. Well, nobody can't believe it because
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: they still live there, and nobody can't believe it because
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: she's supposedly I guess, well liked in this well thought
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: of young lady. I told him that him living with
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: her and dating me would be a problem. Yeah, but
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: he did not move out for that because it's a
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: problem for you. You told him it would be a problem,
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: he said, cool, get over it. My dad called me
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: last month and said that he and my mama embarrassed
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: by what I'm doing. That's because everybody she well, they
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: know I ain't saying everybody no. But see the fact
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 2: that he told you that nobody in town can believe
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: he dumped her. It's because they still live together and
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: don't nobody she don't even know. She don't. So now
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: your daddy say he's embarrassed by what you're doing because
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: it appears to your father like you a home record.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: I calmly told them that my boyfriend is not married
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: to the girl, so he's allowed to do as he pleases,
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: and he chooses to date me, beautiful, that's what you said.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: You gave him permission to do whatever it is he
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: wants to do because he's not married, so he's keeping
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: his girlfriend. They're still sleeping together, and he's dating you.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: Your dad is trying to say, girl, grow up. My
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: dad left me alone for a while, and then your
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 2: mom called and said she saw the girl and my
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: boyfriend at the outlet mall together. I ain't been to
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: the outlet mall. None of my exes, none of them.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: Ain't nobody seeing me as seals with or nothing. Nothing.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: I asked him about it, and he said they were
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: picking out sneakers for her nephew, and she asked for
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: his help. What I told him about this thing called
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: online shopping. They could have done that without going out
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 2: in public together. He laughed and reassured me I had
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 2: nothing to worry about. Another red flag and guess what
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: you believed it? Am I being harshly judged by my parents.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: I am being harshly judged by my parents, but I'm
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: continuing to fight for my relationship. Shirley said, it best
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: you don't have a relationship. You have a long distance thing.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 2: The least may be up in December, but they not
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 2: moving out. I guess I'll see what happens at the
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: end of the year when he's supposed to move out.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 2: Listen to me, he not moving out. He gonna stay
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: there because him and this girl ain't breaking up. When
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: you would came back to him on the rebound, what
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: did you think he was doing when he told you
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: he lived with somebody, and then said, but it's my
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: ex girlfriend. I'm just staying that to the dinner. That
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: ain't sound crazy to you? That ain't that? Ain't that
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: ain't give you a moment of pause. You didn't you
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 2: didn't feel some kind of way, So y'all just decided
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 2: to go and make this long distance thing work. My
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: intuition is telling me to call his ex to see
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: if my boyfriend has told her how he feels about me.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: What if he's playing me? Like my parents said? Do
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: you think that he will break up with me if
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 2: I call his ex? Y'all y'all not together? Yeah, faith,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: y'all not together? See sweetheart, let me show show you.
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 2: So ain't nobody seeing you and him at the outlet?
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: Mam hat him? Huh? What should I do? You should
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: stop seeing this boy because he's still with his girlfriend.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: Now you can be to do the vindictive thing and
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: call the girl and say, hey, I'm sleeping with your man.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: But if you did that to me, I'm gonna accuse
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: you of being delusional And yeah I saw your on
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: Labor Day weekend, but we ain't got nothing going on.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: Then I'm gonna wash you out my phone take all
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: the contacts out and then you gonna be boom. So
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: I don't I don't know what to tell you, but
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: ain't no need to wrecking the rest of his home
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: because because you got played, he is playing you.
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: I fail for it.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: Now just get over and just stop doing rebound stuff.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 9: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter as Steve HARVFM
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 9: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 9: on the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up at forty six
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 9: minutes after the hour. It is Junior and Sports Talk.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 9: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 9: but you know it's even harder getting the right gift.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 9: But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 9: They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 9: with a new line on my plan and a brand
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 9: new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You can
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 9: give a couple away and get yourself one two, or
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 9: you could keep them all to yourself.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: No one has to know.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 9: Stop by your local Verizon. It is time now for
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 9: Junior and Sports Talk.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: Which you got Junior?
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 4: Well sure, they've used on vacation for Thanksgiving. But let's
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 4: find out if UNK would have picked these games and
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 4: back here we go. The Packers meet the Lions twenty four.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: Ain't nowhere in the world i'd have picked that. Ain't
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 2: no faith, all right?
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 4: The Cowboys beat the Chiefs thirty one.
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: And twenty eight.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: Ain't no way out of.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: The cowboy uncle.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 4: The Bengals beat the Ravens thirty two to fourteen.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: Ain't no way I have picked that.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: Here we go up.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 4: The Bears beat the Eagles twenty four to fifteen.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: There is no way I would have picked that.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 5: Uh.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 4: The forty nine Ers beat the Browns twenty six to eight.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 7: What was that?
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: Dang?
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 2: I mean right now?
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 4: Okay, here we go up. The Jaguars beat the Titans
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 4: twenty five to three.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 2: I'd have picked that one.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 4: Okay. The Texans beat the Colts twenty to sixteen.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: I'd have picked that one.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: Really, yeah, really, you'd have picked us?
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, you know, good Hairwell, I wouldn't have picture.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 5: Too much.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: Here we go up.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 4: The Dolphins beat the Saints twenty one to seventeen.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's an easy pick. Yeah yeah, Who about
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: Tash about it. Who I love Tash? He loved the Saints.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: What they got to do with it? We got each other.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: I got Tash and he got the Saints.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 6: Yeah, all right.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 4: The Jets beat the Falcons twenty seventy twenty.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to pick that.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay. The Panthers beat the Rams thirty one to
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 4: twenty eight.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to pick the Panthers. Panthers rolling, man,
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: I've been picking the Panthers a lot later.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: Yay, sly Okay.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 4: Now the Buccaneers beat the Cardinals twenty to seventeen.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I got to pick that, okay, Okay.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 4: The Seahawks, the Seahawks beat the Vikings twenty six to zebra.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I ought to pick that. I don'tkay nothing about
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: the Vikings.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: Unk the Chargers beat the Raiders thirty one to fourteen.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, your Raiders don't have a real good team.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: Brown beat the raid.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: What.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: The Bills beat the Steelers twenty six to seven. Yeah,
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 4: I'd have picked that, okay, and then Unk the Broncos
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 4: beat the Commanders twenty seven to twenty six. He's picked
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 4: that one.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: Uh yeah, I would have picked that, but that would
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: have hurt me though.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 4: Okay, here's what I want to ask you about. Why
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 4: you didn't pick the Texans to beat the CAUs why
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 4: you just wouldn't pick us up?
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: Cause I don't. I don't care if you and tell
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: me there you here really ain't got nothing to do
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: with the Texas man, I just don't care. Give smug
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: attitude talking about 'all going to playoffs and all that. Okay,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 2: super Bowl, you ain't going to know where close to
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: the super Bowl.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys, thank you you. And you're coming up.
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 9: At the top of the hour, A man on social
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 9: media needs some advice, Dave. He says, how many Christmas
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 9: parties are enough? We'll talk about it right after this.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 9: this is from Trent on Steve Harvey FM. Trent says,
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 9: now that Thanksgiving is over, it's on to Christmas. Thanksgiving
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 9: was busy enough, but I had no clue about the
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 9: number of Christmas parties my wife had committed to committed
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 9: us to. When she laid out the list, there were
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 9: nine of them. And that doesn't include the work party
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 9: that I will have to go to.
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: This is way too much.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 9: Nine parties I need to get my wife to cut
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 9: this list down significantly before I approach her with this conversation.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 9: Morning crew, Please tell me how many Christmas parties are enough?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know what. You don't have to do,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: but you don't have to get up. You got to
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: get a positive COVID test?
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: What what?
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, when we'll get out of the Christmas plot, you're
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: gonna have to get a positive COVID test though.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: You gotta get sick.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you just can't.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: There's no way you could just have a regular conversation
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: with his wife.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: Oh, you have it, But she committed to this.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: He's at least gotta go to the office party with her.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 2: Well, he's going to the two office parties.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Gotta do that. Yeah, okay, not to excessive, it's very much.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 2: My wife would have never done that because she don't
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: want to do that nine Christmas.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: Or if you commit to the nine, you just know
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: your husband going to too.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't think of nine people I like, I
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: don't like you?
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: Well, how many is on the show? You love everyone?
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 2: I'm not coming to y'all Christmas party? No, Junior. Ain't
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: nobody coming to your house on Junior Because you're over
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: there choking people. So no, we're not coming to your
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 2: house there arguing about who daddy? Oh then and who mama?
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: And then and then and then and then Otensary over
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: there crying and all like that. Ain't nobody.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: But back to you, Steve. You're gonna give us a
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: Christmas party? You used to do that.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 4: What's happened?
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: Well, bonuses all of that.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, things ain't what they used.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: To be, you know, inflation, prices, taking crime, you.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: Know, trumpet off them tails, cut in on that Christmas part. Yeah,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 2: sit over here, shutting all them terms on everybody. We
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: can't from bonuses.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah we've had yeah yeah, oh yeah, so.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 2: We ain't had a bonus? Is Junior been here?
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 5: Not one?
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: Didn't have a whole another family? People not liking you? Yeah,
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: Junior salary cut into the bonus structure?
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: What oh is that? How it happened?
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, Junior si y'all bonuses was I had
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 2: to pay him out a summer and then when I
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: had to start paying Junior, that was the bonus structure.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, bye, nice knowing you, Junior. Nice working with
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: you by groceries. Get out of here, Junior, no eggs,
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: no baked gas.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 9: All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 9: is from Angel on Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 3: F M.
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  Speaker 9: Angel says, my my, my mom has always struggled with relationships.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 9: She and my dad split when I was a teenager,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 9: and from my perspective, he was.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: A great guy. She should have tried harder to hold
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: on to.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 9: Since then, she's had one bad relationship after another until
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 9: usually because she pushes away the.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: Good ones and clings to men who treat her poorly.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 9: Now she's finally with a genuinely nice guy, and I'm
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 9: terrified she's going to mess this up too. From the outside,
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 9: it seems so obvious how she sabotages her own happiness,
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 9: but she can't see it. I want to protect her
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 9: and help her keep something healthy for once, but I
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 9: have no idea how to get her to recognize her
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 9: own patterns and avoid her hurting.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: Well, it's her, Yeah, it's her. It may not even
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: be the guys. It could just be her. Yeah, that's
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: yas mint she Oh, you can't help it.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, okay, look at the all right, we'll have more
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You know, guys, we all a good pedicure, but you
• 1:19:02
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  Speaker 9: It's when people stick their bare feet into the water
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  Speaker 9: and the fish swarm around their toes and gently eat
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  Speaker 9: water with live fish. However, the process has uh huh,
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  Speaker 9: there's no way.
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  Speaker 1: There's no freaking way.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, it'll be so many fish on that slope. Yeah,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 2: just kicking fish out the lot.
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  Speaker 9: However, the process has come under legal scrutiny, even being
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 9: outlawed in some US states. The problem isn't necessarily the fish,
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  Speaker 9: it's the environment there in it's often hard to tell
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• 1:19:55
  Speaker 9: kind of bacteria the fish could be carrying. Doctors say,
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  Speaker 9: a good foot scrub exfoliates just as well and it's
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 9: a lot safer.
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: So there's no way you would try this, right, A fish.
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  Speaker 2: Pepper, what a joke I got? I ain't gonna make
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: it on the air, holl.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: I can't do this when you send to yourself, we
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: know it's bad. Yeah, there's no way.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 2: That's a hall one man. New fish nibbling on your.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: Heart, Yeah, they say gently nibbling.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 2: But just you know, I have coy fish and I
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 2: can feed them by hand.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 2: Coyfish are used to me. They come and eat out
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 2: your hand. But even that's a little bit. You know,
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 2: they don't have teeth.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll have no fish pedicures for us, not
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: around it?
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 9: Would you rather coming up right after this? You're listening
• 1:20:42
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  Speaker 1: Guys? Would you rather wash your favorite.
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  Speaker 1: You're not watching jockey strap.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm not watching nobody anybody? Okay?
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  Speaker 5: All right?
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: Would you rather walk or drive in the snow?
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: I mean I could do both? The first time I
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: ever drove a car the snow? Really, y'all? Thirteen? Wow,
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: fear Liddy, It's no all the time you drive snow?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I guess we'll google you.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: Keep driving snow? But ice that that black ice?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Uh? Would you rather you can.
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  Speaker 9: Listen only to one song until Christmas? Or would you
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 9: rather This Christmas by Donny Hathaway or Silent Night by
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 9: The Temptation.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: No, that's the only one you could listen to Hathaway Man. Yeah,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: that's that's the tone I need my mind and in
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: my mind, those are my two favorite songs.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 9: Would you rather play Santa or would you rather pay
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 9: play the Grench at the office holiday party, which we're
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 9: still trying to see we're gonna.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: Have, well, Junior gonna have to beat the Grinch this year.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: I gotta be the Grin because you're choking people. You
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: don't know how to keep your hands to yourself.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: All right, So so the Grinch and well that means
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: you'll be Santa, then, Steve.
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 3: Sannah.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 1: When are we gonna have the Christmas party? Did you
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: set the date?
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: Jons, No, you're not. You can't have the Christmas I
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 2: told you. Junior salary cut into all of that. That's
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 2: why I stopped. Y'all didn't y'all didn't see that. It's
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: not a coincidence since Junior been here, that hasn't been
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: any Christmas parties or all bonuses Junior is the bonus.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: You here yourself.
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 8: You're not throwing your Christmas party because you have an employee.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: I'm an employee. The money that I spend on Junior
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: is you don't make a lot of money if you
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 2: spend up money. Yeah, you split up Junior your money
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: by fault. That's y'all's bonuses. And that was the Christmas party.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 2: All this is on Junior.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 4: Can we can we not talk about that?
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 3: Now?
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 2: You can ask Junior. Ah, you know he like to help.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: Party, But Junior, are you gonna throw us at Christmas party?
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 2: At your fault.
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 1: We're not having one.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 4: Hell no, I can't do.
• 1:24:24
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  Speaker 2: I was talking a little bit about I kind of
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  Speaker 2: thought about some things today, but you know what I
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 2: wanted to give all my final thoughts to today. It's
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 2: about your personal piece. Uh, Discovering your personal piece is valuable.
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  Speaker 2: You know, we were doing a story that a lady
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 2: had called in and she saw her she called her
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 2: husband three times on her his phone, and she looked
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 2: outside and he was just sitting in his car. But
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 2: he wasn't picking up the phone. He was just sitting
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 2: there and she called him three times, and it aggravated
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 2: the woman that he would ignore her call when she
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 2: was just calling to see if he was okay. And
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 2: I was just saying in my response to the caller
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 2: that you know, your husband was just gathering himself. He
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 2: was just having a peaceful moment. He just you don't
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 2: know what. Sometimes somebody's dealing with her going through and
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 2: they just need to collect themselves. Well, she had an
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 2: attitude about it and was that upset with her husband
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: for ignoring the call, and I just kind of understood it.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 2: I've been there before. But I got to tell you,
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: some ladies, every last one of your men have done that.
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 2: I got news for you. You've done that. Every woman
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: has done that. Just looked at the phone and went,
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: uh uh, not today. And you know what, you have
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 2: every right to do that because, folks, I'm telling you
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 2: you have got to start protecting your peace. And everybody
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 2: not gonna understand it, because when the disruptor of the
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: peace wants something, needs something, they gonna make their call
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 2: and they don't care what it disturbs. Well, sometimes you
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 2: have to stop it. You know, you ever been on
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: a merry go round? Remember when you were a kid
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: and you skit on the merry go round And it
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 2: was fun for a while, but then after a while
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: you go, I gotta get off the merry go round.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: It's too much. It's too much spinning. I'm dizzy. Life
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 2: can do the same thing to you. Sometimes life just
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 2: get to life and and you need a minute. I've
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 2: done it. I can't tell you how many times. Man,
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: he's sitting somewhere having a peace for a moment and
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 2: my phone ring. I look at that call the idea,
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 2: and I know exactly who it is. But no, no, no, no, no, no, man,
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 2: You're not not my piece that I'm having right now.
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 2: I had an employee you called me the other day,
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: and I just didn't have the time because I already
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 2: know this little needy, little employee I got. This guy
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 2: is just and so then here come the text. I
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 2: really need to speak to you. It's really it's important.
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: I really need to speak to you. It's an emergency. No, no, man,
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 2: call your parents, Call your parents. Don't don't call your boss.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 2: Call your parents. You got parents, I know them. Call
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 2: your parents because I have to protect my peace.
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 4: Folks.
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 2: It's nothing wrong with protecting your peace, because if you
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 2: let people disrupt your peace any time and every time
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 2: they want to, you're not gonna have any You just
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 2: not gonna have it. Every mother deserves a piece. Every
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 2: time your child wants something, it's not an emergency. Every
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 2: time your husband wants something, it's not ain't your job, husbands,
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 2: every time your wife wants something, it's just some of
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 2: the stuff. Man. You just need a minute. You just
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 2: need a minute, and you know creator read. Hey, look,
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry I was busy or what you need, but
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 2: have your peace for a moment. I tell you something
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 2: else I do people is not related to me, my
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 2: kids and my wife. When I get that call, hey man,
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 2: I really need to talk to you. It's important. I
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 2: wait seventy two hours. I wait seventy two hours cause
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 2: let me tell you something. Man, These emergencies that people
• 1:29:58
  Speaker 2: haven't call them back. Hey man, and I call them
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 2: back in seventy two hours. Hey man, you good. I'm sorry.
• 1:30:07
  Speaker 2: I was traveling. I just saw your text.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 7: You good.
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 5: Huh.
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 2: They done forgot because they ain'tn emergency in the world
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 2: that lasts seventy two hours. Listen to me, There is
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 2: not any emergency in the world that lasts seventy two hours,
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 2: not in a single person's life. Now for country at war,
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 2: yeah we got problem. But in your personal life, no, sir,
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 2: No sir, no sir, because you're gonna solve that, and
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 2: you're gonna solve it without me. And then I'm gonna
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 2: call you as a concern friend and ask you what's
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 2: going on. But I will make sure that your emergency
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 2: has passed.
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 7: Now.
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 2: If you my kids, my wife, I gotta jump on it.
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 2: I gotta do my job. But I know way too
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 2: many people where I need to try to be the
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 2: answer for everybody, and so do you. You are usually
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 2: the one that they call anyway, and they call you
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 2: first because they know you got sense and you're doing
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 2: better than them, and they know you got some money.
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 2: So here they come. Well, if you didn't know me,
• 1:31:12
  Speaker 2: what would you do. Let's try that. That's why I
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 2: wait seventy two hours, because you know what it is, y'all,
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 2: and you must feel this way too. I get tired
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 2: of being everybody's option A. Sometimes I choose to be
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 2: my own option a and it does not include you. Today.
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 2: Thank you for not disturbing my peace. But I thank
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 2: you more for me for recognizing that I don't have
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 2: to allow you to disturb my peace either. Those are
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 2: my clothes and remarks today, Junior, have a good one man,
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: stop choking people. Hey, listen, y'all talk to God today.
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 2: He would absolutely love to hear from.
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