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Friday The 13th, "The Gooch" for Dogs, Cussing Christians, Signs of Good Sex and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I
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  Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got radio still, Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got radio show. Sometimes when I chuckle like that reminds
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  Speaker 1: me of my oldest brother to pass the where he
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  Speaker 1: used to laugh like that. It's kind of funny how
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  Speaker 1: jeans get passed down through the line. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: why I told y'all that, just want to share with
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  Speaker 1: you that's all. As always, always kind of ask God
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  Speaker 1: to help me, you know, um, and and and and
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  Speaker 1: I had I had gotten off track a little bit
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  Speaker 1: because one of the principles of success I want to
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  Speaker 1: share with you all today is a law of attraction.
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  Speaker 1: That is a very very serious principle. It cannot be
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  Speaker 1: ignored the law of attraction. And I'm not going to
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  Speaker 1: be able to explain it to you as well as
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  Speaker 1: the book Secrets can or as well as some people.
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  Speaker 1: I can only articulate it to you the way that
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  Speaker 1: I see it, And the law of attraction is very,
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  Speaker 1: very real. The law of attraction is a principle of success.
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  Speaker 1: It is something that everyone has to adhere to. Now,
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  Speaker 1: whether you know the law of attraction or not, it
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  Speaker 1: does not make it not exist for you. This is
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  Speaker 1: the case where ignorance is not the excuse. The fact
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  Speaker 1: that no one told it to you. There is no
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  Speaker 1: pass for this one. The fact that you never heard
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  Speaker 1: it before it does not allow you to do it
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  Speaker 1: any other way. So let me see if I can
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  Speaker 1: put it to you best I can. The law of attraction,
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  Speaker 1: the law of attraction, to put it real simple, is
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  Speaker 1: the thing that you focus on, the thing that you
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  Speaker 1: taught talk about, the thing that you think of, is
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  Speaker 1: the thing that you draw to you. It's what you
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  Speaker 1: attract to you. That's basically the law of attraction. The
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  Speaker 1: thing that you talk about, the thing that you think about,
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  Speaker 1: the thing that you focus on, whatever it is that
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  Speaker 1: is what you attract. The law of attraction does not
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  Speaker 1: differentiate from positive and negative. It only does what it does.
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  Speaker 1: What I am saying is this in the law of attraction.
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  Speaker 1: No matter what you think of, no matter what occupies
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  Speaker 1: your time, no matter what you say, or no matter
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  Speaker 1: what the focus is, positive or negative, the law of
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  Speaker 1: attraction knows neither one. It just attracts it. So let's
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  Speaker 1: use some examples here. I can just the best example
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  Speaker 1: always uses me. That way. I ain't got to figure
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  Speaker 1: out nothing. I can just tell you my side of it.
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  Speaker 1: I was in a lot of debt one time in
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  Speaker 1: my life, as before any of you knew me, so
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  Speaker 1: you can understand. In case you're not thinking, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you to think that this conversation is
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  Speaker 1: about your income level, cause it's not. It doesn't matter
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  Speaker 1: what the income level you are. The law of attraction
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  Speaker 1: works in all aspects money, family, relationships, job, career, love.
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  Speaker 1: It just works that way. Okay, here's the deal. I
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  Speaker 1: kept saying, man, this debt is killing me. I got
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  Speaker 1: to get out. That's what I thought was a good goal,
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  Speaker 1: to get out of debt. But what I kept saying was,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I kept talking about debt, and you know
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  Speaker 1: what it kept doing. It kept attracting debt to me.
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  Speaker 1: So guess what so I get out, that's all? Is
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  Speaker 1: that crazy? That is an amazing law to understand. What
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  Speaker 1: turned it around for me was I started claiming a
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  Speaker 1: life of abundance. God, I am seeking a life of abundance.
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  Speaker 1: I want to have more than enough. I want to
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  Speaker 1: be able to help other people. I just want to
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  Speaker 1: have a law of attraction so that I be able
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  Speaker 1: to provide my family the lifestyle that I want to
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  Speaker 1: provide them. I want heavily, Father, to be able to
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  Speaker 1: be an example of your goodness and your grace in
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  Speaker 1: my life. That is what I started saying. And guess what,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I started attractive. I'm going to have a
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  Speaker 1: great relationship with my children. I'm going to be the
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  Speaker 1: father that I always wanted to be. I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: be a good father. I'm going to be a good husband.
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  Speaker 1: I am going to do the right things. I am
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  Speaker 1: going to be the type of example that my sons
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  Speaker 1: can look no further and go I can be like
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  Speaker 1: my dad. I want to be able to be a place,
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  Speaker 1: a beacon of light and hope for my daughters to
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  Speaker 1: come to. That's what I started saying. That's what I
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  Speaker 1: started attracting to my life. The law of attraction does
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  Speaker 1: not care if you want it to be positive or negative.
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  Speaker 1: The law of attraction just attracts whatever it is you
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  Speaker 1: focus on, what you think about the words that come
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  Speaker 1: out your mouth. You cannot overlook this principle of success
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  Speaker 1: and expect to make it because of the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you've never heard of the law of attraction, because of
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you don't know how it really operates.
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  Speaker 1: It does not make it not exist in your day.
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  Speaker 1: You can start today attracting the right things to your
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  Speaker 1: life by changing what you say, what you think, what
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  Speaker 1: you focus on, change the focus, change the thought, change
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  Speaker 1: the words that come out your mouth, and guess what
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  Speaker 1: you change what you attract to yourself. You have got
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  Speaker 1: to ask yourself, why is it? Man? Man, let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something. Somebody said the Bishop Jake's one time.
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  Speaker 1: They said, man, everything you touch turns to gold. He said, no,
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  Speaker 1: I just don't touch everything. Man, This is crazy. Come on, man,
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  Speaker 1: he has a focus. He has a focus. See, he
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  Speaker 1: ain't just everywhere. Bring me any idea, Let me try that. No, no, no, man,
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  Speaker 1: he has a focus. He has a law of attraction
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  Speaker 1: that's working where he's attracting things to his life. That
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  Speaker 1: that's positive that he can't ask not to say, Bishop
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  Speaker 1: James don't have problems because we talk often and man,
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  Speaker 1: he have them. Oh, please understand. And he's not trying
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  Speaker 1: to attract the problems. But what he will attract is
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  Speaker 1: the proper solution for the problem. And ain't that all
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  Speaker 1: you need? Sometimes? God did not say that it would
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  Speaker 1: be easy. He just said he would be with you.
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  Speaker 1: And if God is with you, who can be against you?
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  Speaker 1: God will make your enemies your footstool. God is powerful man,
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  Speaker 1: His word is true. He do what he say he
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. Now, all we got to do is do
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  Speaker 1: some of what we say. We ain't gonna do everything,
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  Speaker 1: just do some of what we say. Okay, here's a deal.
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  Speaker 1: God is going to do everything he say he gonna
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  Speaker 1: you and I just got to do some of the
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  Speaker 1: stuff we say we're gonna do because He already know
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  Speaker 1: we ain't gonna do all of it. He clear on that,
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  Speaker 1: He clear on that. All right, thank you you're listening,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. It is about to begin to Steve
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  Speaker 1: and talk, it really search me up to a fire alarm, child? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: sit down. The way you squeet and tea knocks me
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  Speaker 1: to my knees, come out smoking, baby. The way you
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  Speaker 1: swear and curb it redirects my nerves and I'm so excited. Child?
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  Speaker 1: That's that lounge singer that never made it because he
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  Speaker 1: wasn't quite on the notes. But you couldn't tell him that. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: your favorite ro Roscoe Waller, Yeah, what's up? Hard singing?
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  Speaker 1: Hay Steve, what's up crew, Ain't nothing, Junior. I'll just
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  Speaker 1: be seeing you in concert doing that whole thing though.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I want. I was bad. I saw Teddy laugh,
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  Speaker 1: I saw how Player live. Y'all missed concerts. That was
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  Speaker 1: real concerts. And the dudes actually sound just like the
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  Speaker 1: remix hits scarned time, just random scarned time, like when
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  Speaker 1: he just blurts him out of nowhere. You're all bad,
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  Speaker 1: This one is from Jess in Hollywood, Florida. Steven says,
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  Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I are in our mid twenties and
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  Speaker 1: sometimes he is not able to perform unless he watches
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  Speaker 1: poor and first last night we were being intimate and
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  Speaker 1: he was really into it. Then he called me his
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  Speaker 1: ex girlfriend's name. I didn't say anything because I didn't
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  Speaker 1: want him to stop. It was his best performance so far.
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  Speaker 1: Apparently thinking about his ex girlfriend kept him in the mood.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think he secretly still wants his ex or
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  Speaker 1: is this just something that happens from time to time. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I got a couple of ideas here from you. You
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  Speaker 1: said that he only gets excited unless he's watching pawn
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  Speaker 1: in your twenties. That's dangerous. That's dangerous because I don't
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  Speaker 1: even I very rarely hear that from a guy that young.
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  Speaker 1: Very rarely do I hear that. So that's kind of
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  Speaker 1: That's kind of odd right there, him calling and he
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  Speaker 1: only gets ex cited. Now, you having your best performance
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  Speaker 1: and all of a sudden he calls his ex girlfriend's name.
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  Speaker 1: Now the question you need to find out is his
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  Speaker 1: ex girlfriend a porn star has possibility written all over it.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe she wanted them movies that getting real excited. Other
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  Speaker 1: than that, I don't know how long you all have
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  Speaker 1: been dating, And I don't know how long you can
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  Speaker 1: continue to accept being called the other girl's name that ain't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how long that's allowable, but I think
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  Speaker 1: you should have bought it to his attention so that
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  Speaker 1: he is aware of it and he can start working
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  Speaker 1: on it if it's serious. But I don't think y'all's
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  Speaker 1: relationship is gonna go nowhere, because if you got to
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  Speaker 1: have porno to turn you on at in your twenties,
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  Speaker 1: you're rest of your sex years. A shot man, damn dog,
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  Speaker 1: because in my twenties I needed nothing. I just knocked
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  Speaker 1: a cool air if just ready, just walking around, ready,
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  Speaker 1: and the wind blow either one of these that right there, hot,
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  Speaker 1: just right here, hot, don't know? I okay. This is
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  Speaker 1: from its from Tony in New Jersey. I have a
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  Speaker 1: problem with my lady friend. I'm a bodybuilder, and I
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  Speaker 1: get a lot of women trying to holler at me
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  Speaker 1: at my d in my DMS, and they send lots
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  Speaker 1: of nude pictures. I'll show my lady the pis and
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  Speaker 1: we laugh at them together. I found out the other
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  Speaker 1: day that my lady also gets nude pictures of men
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  Speaker 1: and her DMS. She clicked on a message by a mistake,
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  Speaker 1: and I saw the picture of a naked man. She
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  Speaker 1: has never mentioned this to me, she said she hates
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  Speaker 1: the picts and she immediately deletes them. But why does
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  Speaker 1: she keep it from me? Should I be concerned? Well?
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  Speaker 1: You know what, dog? See hold up now, when you
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  Speaker 1: showing naked pictures y'all laughing? You know, so now all
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  Speaker 1: of a sudden, this ain't funny to you no more?
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  Speaker 1: See dog, you got to be careful what you introduce.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what your ass is showing your girl
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  Speaker 1: neked pictures of other women fault. I really don't know, man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm confused about that. Normally that you're you're inviting a
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  Speaker 1: hailstorm into your house when you do that, So I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what that was. But then she gets me
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  Speaker 1: and sending her naked pictures too, But she ain't mentioned
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  Speaker 1: it to you because guess why, because she knows. Look
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  Speaker 1: at you then wrote a letter. See you see a
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  Speaker 1: picture you're asking wrote a letter? Y'all watching together? You
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  Speaker 1: just keep king yeah, see Pardner, So she already know
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  Speaker 1: it's a problem. And the bodybuilder come on, man, come
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  Speaker 1: on all right, see yeah, it's it's it's it's it's
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  Speaker 1: not a problem that she might be messing around. But
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  Speaker 1: maybe she just didn't feel like dealing with this because
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  Speaker 1: you don't wrote a letter into a national radio show.
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  Speaker 1: You show her pictures. Y'all just laugh. Anonymous in Tennessee writes,
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  Speaker 1: I've been married for five years and my mother lives
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  Speaker 1: with us. I'm a diabetic and I've been sick a
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  Speaker 1: lot lately, so my mother has assumed the role as
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  Speaker 1: my full time nurse and caregiver. This drives my wife crazy.
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  Speaker 1: My mother told my wife that she's been taking care
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  Speaker 1: of me all my life and it's not up for debate.
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  Speaker 1: My wife isn't having it, and their constant arguing stresses
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  Speaker 1: me out. My wife works long hours, and my mom
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  Speaker 1: is here when my wife can't be, so in a way,
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  Speaker 1: my mom is right, I'm stuck in the middle. Please help, No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: your mom isn't right. No, she's not. Your wife is
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  Speaker 1: the queen of the castle that can There's only one
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  Speaker 1: queen in the castle. It might be some damsels, it
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  Speaker 1: might be some some some other people at work, but
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  Speaker 1: it's one queen, and your wife is being rooted out
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  Speaker 1: by your mother, who's obviously taking some liberties with you
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  Speaker 1: that your wife would like to be able to do
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  Speaker 1: now the fact that you're sick, Brod can't do nothing
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  Speaker 1: about that. Feel for you. Uh, you know, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you're supposed to say to somebody would diabetes.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. You don't seeing cond Okay, well, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you say to people got diabetes.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what to say, not condolences or I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what to say to him about the sickness.
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  Speaker 1: But your mother is not. She may have been taken
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  Speaker 1: care of you your whole life, but this your wife. Dog,
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  Speaker 1: See you said viles to your wife. Now, if your
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  Speaker 1: mother's there because you can't provide for yourself, I don't
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it is, but she lives with y'all,
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  Speaker 1: and it's creating a problem. She didn't marry you to
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  Speaker 1: live with your mama. Now. I don't know how sick
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  Speaker 1: you are, dog, but if your mother just over there
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  Speaker 1: because she won't just keep eye on you and check
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  Speaker 1: on you, then you gotta change your living arrangements. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you incapacitated in some way, then your wife gonna
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  Speaker 1: had to work with your mama a little bit better.
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  Speaker 1: But your mama gonna had to back up and let
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  Speaker 1: your wife be the queen at the castle. Your wife's
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  Speaker 1: wife and dog. Now, you don't sleep with your mama,
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  Speaker 1: so you're gonna mess around here that in a minute. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're going there and sleep with your mammy. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: fe here that all right? Coming up next and have
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  Speaker 1: you in the building. Would run that brank back right
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  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, Junior is in with today's prank
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  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Junior? This is
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  Speaker 1: called church Talida Church Caleada. Let's find out what do
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  Speaker 1: you come? Let's go cat Hello, Hello, I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: reach sister Alison. Alison. Uh, Alison, she's not here, man,
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  Speaker 1: she had worked as you speaking. Hey. This is this
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  Speaker 1: is brother Luster, brother Lust. How are you doing today?
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  Speaker 1: All right, Lester, brother Lester right from the church. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: okay over at uh right right right right? Your husband
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  Speaker 1: right with Jared. I'm sure. Yeah. This is Gerald, Yeah, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 1: I met you a couple of times. Gerald. We ain't
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  Speaker 1: seen you in a minute though. Man, I've been working
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  Speaker 1: on Sunday and I said it. I was gonna try
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  Speaker 1: to make it, but I told her, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: want to get involved. You know this year is gonna
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  Speaker 1: be a better year. I'm gonna get involved. Man. We'll
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  Speaker 1: come all down. Man. We love to hell you, that's
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  Speaker 1: for sure. Man. Can I get you a number where
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  Speaker 1: she can call me back? Well? Okay, yeah, sure? Is
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  Speaker 1: this about, you know, lesson or something? What's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Actually the single ministry? Man, I'm over the single ministry
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  Speaker 1: and we're raising some money. So we're actually putting together
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  Speaker 1: a calendar, and we wanted her to give us a
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  Speaker 1: call abody. Okay, so let me let me get let
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  Speaker 1: me give you my number real quick. Womenute, Okay, you
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  Speaker 1: said a calendar. So the church is doing the calendar.
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  Speaker 1: But is it like the couples like we come in
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  Speaker 1: like how it always be like the couples come in
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  Speaker 1: and be like this is mister missus? I mean a
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  Speaker 1: calendar down? No, no, no, what we're doing to see
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  Speaker 1: a lot of the guys got together. What we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do is a mount swimsuit calendar and we're gonna we
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  Speaker 1: kind of put that together. Man. So let me give
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  Speaker 1: you my number, man, because I want to call all
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  Speaker 1: the guys were saying, if she get on the calendar,
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  Speaker 1: he'll probably get solid. You know. Wait a minute, Wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute, wold wold war war. Let's slow down, Slow down,
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  Speaker 1: brother Lester, let's slow down. Okay. A calendar, A swimsuit
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  Speaker 1: calendar for the single ministry at the church. What it is, Gerald,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna be the first church to who have ever
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  Speaker 1: done a swimsuit calendar. You see what I'm saying. No,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. You
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: call it for us my wife to be in it.
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  Speaker 1: You sure you got the right number because we're there,
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: I mean because your wife is Alison, right, Yes, my
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: wife is Allison. First of all, I didn't what's this
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: man about? All the guys y'all got together, y'all voted
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: about Okay, I'm trying to take this slow man. Oh God,
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: hold my tongue right now, because I'm sorry, I don't
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: understand where you're going with this. Man. Listen, we're gonna
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: get sister Gieddre. She's gonna be Miss March. June is
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: like pretty much in the middle of the year. We
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: want your wife to be the big center fold. Please
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: please tell me you're not tilling my house this morning
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: talking about my wife to be in a Canada. I
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: swim through calendar. But dead on top of that, y'all
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: all got together and y'all voted that y'all want my
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: wife to be in a swim through Canada fad church. Okay,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: well wait a minute, Gerald, I'm looking at us on
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: the positive side. Man. What this is is see, like
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I said, we're raising money for the Singles Ministry and
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: the single Ministry getting ready to go on a big trip.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: But the Fingers Ministry she's made made. I don't want
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: the people that's gonna take of the ministry. Why are
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: you calling and talk about my wife? Bid is something
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: like this? You hold up that, Oh Jesus, yell, hey, man,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: you you should feel honored man that your wife was
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: a man. While y'all looking at my wife like that. Man,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: we're coming in there and we try to get hip
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: and we're trying to do it. Y'all looking at my
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: wife time, y'all want my wife to be in a
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: swim through contest? Name do you understand what that is? Man?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Ain't number some panties made? So y'all good that my
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: wife time, My y'all want my wife to be here
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: a panties? See what you gotta understand? Gerald? This right here,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: man is for the single ministry. We got a big
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: trip coming up, so we're raising money. What are y'all doing? Man?
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: It's not something you do at the church. Man. You
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: have car watches? Man without man, I'll really we watched cars. Man,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: y'all talking about Canada? Man? What are you doing with it? Man?
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: What type of church is this? Fift turn and two? Man?
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: See gerald the difference heals on this whole thing. Man,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: don't be upset about it? What it is that? Man?
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: We didn't found something that ain't no other church done before?
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying. The reason ain't no other
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: church done is because this is wrong? Man? What committee
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: got to get on something like this? Man? What is
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: wrong with you? Hey? Do you gotta understand? Listen? We
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: got sister Gieddrid, We got sister Vicky. Okay, Uh, what
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I mean? You say the thing that sign out on
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: that you got these women in the church, then that
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: they're gonna put on swim suits. Well, what I'm saying,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: we got them on our list. We got them on
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: our list to come saying. May ain't nobody getting with man?
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Man? Hey? Man, listen, do
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: to help us get started. Do you have a picture
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: or sister Alison and a swimsuit? Look, man, I ain't
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: give it, you know, picture to my wife and no swimsuit. Man, No,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: this is just something we're trying to do for the ministry. Dude.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: You know what are you at the church? Did you
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: work at the church for a time? Part time? I'm
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: at the church. Okay, are you there there? No, I'm
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: not there right now, but I'm gonna be there for
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Crowhurs and later on this evening. Okay, what time do choid?
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: Rehearsal start left? Seven o'clock? But why you What's what
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: I want you to do is for me before you
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: go to rehearsal. Can you just be right in the
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: front right quick. I just want to we need to
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: meet personally right quick, less to me and you. So
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come to the rehearsal and then let's talk
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: about this face to face because this over the phone
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: and all that, this is not worth it right now
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: and I need to meet the person that's called in
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: my howl talking about my wife doing all this idiotic type.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: So let's meet baking the front. Brotherfore you go to sing,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I've got something for you. To sing a doubt. So
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: meet me in the front man, please before we can
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: go in, Lester, because we ain't gonna talk about this
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: no more over the phone. Let's talk about this in person. Okay, further,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: I mean you gotta calm down. Man, I don't even
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: understand why you already like you know what. Yeah, I'm
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: gonna come down, Lester. Seven. So it started at seven.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Let's do six fifty five, Lester. I think this is
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: gonna work for us. This is gonna help your keller
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: to get out the way that you really really needed
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: to get out. Man, I got something for you that's
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: gonna help. Just calls. Please be outside at six fifty five.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: Please don't go on. I'm gonna be outside. Can you
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: bring a picture with you? Oh yeah, I got a
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: picture for you. I got a nice picture for you.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Me and Tommy will be outside
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: waiting on you when you get there. You're who Me
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: and nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We're
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: gonna be right outside in front of the church. Oh man, man,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: who did this name? Hey man, your brother Jason told
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: me the prank phone call you man, god man, you
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: know you know what you said. Tell him, I said,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: if that food came to church more often, he would
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: know that this is a prank phone call. Oh man,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I'm glad it is. Man. Can't you just imagine if
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: how to draw up to that church acting the food
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: ain't Man, I got I gotta ask you this, hire man.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: show in the land, man, the Steve Harmy Morning Show Man?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Come home, mister Alison. You know what when when Tommy
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: goes from Timmy comes back, I'm gonna ask him, just
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: let the prank go. Don't tell people that it's a prank.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: Just let them just go and yeah, just let it
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: just ride out, you know, and have him yeah never forever. Yeah,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: just hang up and then they just have them all
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: flustered and everything. What is that gonna do? Jay, Oh,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: and go down in the church and act like a food.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: That's what it's gonna do. Yeah, That's that's what's go
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: And then we feel that that's what we feel. Oh yeah,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: all right, Junior, let's go what you got, Okay, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: S all right, thank you, coming up more of the
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the show. Well, guys, a breakup can be horrible when
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: you're the one getting dumped. I mean, we've all been there,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: we know how it feels. But being the breaker upper
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: isn't always easy. That's not always easy, right knowing you Yeah,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: because you're the one that's going to hurt someone else
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: you know that you care about. You can make second
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: guess yourself and wonder if you're really doing the right thing.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: But ghosting isn't cool. Like texting someone to break up Okay,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: So here's some some decent ways to break up. According
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: to Cosmopolitan magazine, we want you to be clear if
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: you're the breaker upper. People only end relationships when they're
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: partner doesn't match their outlook, their values, their needs and
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: desires anymore. Otherwise you're still good. Right, Well, that's a
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: big list, don't Shirley, outlook values. You're still good. You
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: don't outlook all that, the big ones. Yeah, if you don't,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: if they don't match that, then you got to break
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: up with them. But if they do, then you're good.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Stay clear, but just be clear. Yeah, well but you
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: know it's you can They're saying you good. But a
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: person can have all the qualities and you just not like.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, I see what you're I think that can happen.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: You just don't like you, like what I like, eat
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: what I eat, I want to go where I want
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: to go. But if I don't like you about him,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: why are you with them in the first place? Shirley,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: You you the one came up with the adult break
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: off all right, fall out of love in your mind?
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: In your mind first? Okay, Now listen to this. It's
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: only going to be harder to end things if you
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: keep thinking about the happy times. So you got to
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: stop that, all right, When you're trying to build up
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: the strength to break up with someone, focus on the
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: top five negative moments of your relationship. This is all
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: according to Cosmo Talitan, Cosmopolitan Magazine, Cosmopolitan Magazine. This is
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: this is according to them. So, yeah, what do you think.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Let's let's hear your point. I'm here to help you.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: You know, I break up with you, but keep doing
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: it with you. You know what I mean, because you're
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: gonna need That's why you're going through this. You know
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's not healthy. That's time. No, that
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: ain't time. I'm helping you get through what we're going through.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: That's unhealthy to No, it's not. It's unhealthy without Steve
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: jumping here anytime, CLO, chief Love officer. Now, so you
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: need you need It's two million, three men on this show.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: You need to see his side. But in your what's
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: your thought? I'm Williams. You're with whom break you? Yeah? Yeah,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: that makes sense to me? Break up, But let's keep going.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, come on, think about the shirt.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Let me say we break up on a Thursday. This
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: is our first Friday apart, right, we'll be supposed to do.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: We've been doing it on Friday. Let's get back and
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: you're going this makes absolute great sense. I don't know
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: what the people that caughtropolitan talking about, but me and
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Tommy and Steve agreed. We've been doing it on Fridays.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: Why stop now, Steve, you guys think really, I don't
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: want you to think. If yeah, but you still coming
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: through I want to talk, then okay, let's just talk
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: about it and bed naked. Yeah, if that's where we act,
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: let me see if I've made a mistake. That's what
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: would you talking about? You? That's the question. Let's see
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: if I've made a mistake. No, he's saying while we're
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: laying down. Yeah, let's see if I've made a mistake. Right, Yeah,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: So Steve, it's time for today's headlines, Ladies and gentlemen.
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Miss Ann Tripp, thank you very much, and good morning everyone.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: As the Biden administrations order to pull out of American
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: troops in Afghanistan continues, reports are that the Taliban, aided
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: by members of al Qaeda and other terrorist groups, has
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: been rapidly taking over city after city, with people now
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: packing into the capital city of Kabble, living in parks
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: and whatever they can to get away from the violence
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: and in some cases forced marriages. However, Pentagon spokes when
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: John Kirby says that the US is not forgetting its friends.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: So the President sending in three infantry bullet battalions. Those
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: three infantry battalions will comprise approximate at least three thousand personnel,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: and they will be in addition to those troops that
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: are already in Cobble. The other evacuees are diplomats and
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: others working at the American embassy, as well as interpreters
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: who work with the US military trying to get everybody
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: out whom they know the Taliban will target for assassination.
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: American troops, by the way, are expected to leave the
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: country by the end of the month. However, the State
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: Department says the US will continue to maintain what they're
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: calling a core diplomatic presence in Cobble, that's again the
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: capital city. One of President Biden's campaign promises has to
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: do with lowering prescription prices, so he says that's what
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: he's focused on now. I think it's safe to say
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: that all of us, whatever our background, our age where
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: we live can agree that prescription drug prices are outrageously
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: expensive in America. So mister Biden says he wants to
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: make changes to Medicare, including allowing Medicare to directly negotiate
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: drug prices. Now that thing has to be fit by
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: the Congress. That situation can only be remedied that way.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: But the President as already ordered the Food and Drug
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Administration to approve less expensive generic drugs faster, and he's
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: also asked the agency to work with states and tribes
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: to improve to import to a cheaper drugs from Canada.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: According to the US censuspire of the results of last
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: year's tally show that the country has become more racially
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: and ethnically diverse since Its officials say that the ever
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: growing numbers of people living in America identify axe with
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: more than one racial group, with the multiracial population accounting
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: for most of the overall changes seen in each racial category.
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: So agency officials say the numbers are over four months late, though,
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: because of COVID nineteen and because of interference by the
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: Trump administration that put pressure on states by imposing early
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: deadlines to get them to finish up and use the
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: data to redraw voting districts and finally looks like your
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: basic eyehop has really hopping. That's because customers at eye
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Hoops can now order beer, wine, champagne, and mimosas with
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  Speaker 1: their pancakes at three locations in San Diego, New Mexico.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: They're also unveiling a beverage member called Bubbles, Wines and
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: Bruise in the chains. Eateries in New York, Rhode Island,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Maryland know how to start out. So I guess it's
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: really happened at I hopen it's a party, y'all. Now
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: So Carlin and Steve have dogs. So the Tommy Junior
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: doesn't have a dog? Dog? Yeah? Um but Jay, where
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: where are you with this? Do you have any dogs with?
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: These dogs need to be at home or in the
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: yard and not that's just me. I know people, I
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: know they're emotional dogs. I can let these dogs srvous dogs.
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: But first of all, you work in a place, it
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: ends up being too many damn dogs. That's what happened
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: one dog. But then it's like dogs every damn well,
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: you know that's what happened. You know you're okay the
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: National Dog Day night. Now everybody got it. You got
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: dogs bringing dogs, so dogs every damn well. So we
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: need to nip this in the butt. Keep your damn
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: dog home. Keep your dog home. Don't bring your dog
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: to work. I mean I go on to you, like
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: you leave, I'm gonna go to the office and you're
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: not in there at the dog sitting in there, and
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I got I'm like, I'm coming to talk
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: to you. The damn dogs and then where is the dog?
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Don't know where the hell. I'm just just me. I'm
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: gonna just you don't hate dogs. I would never tell it, doll,
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: I would never do that. I would never tease a dog.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: It just just it's too many and damn dogs. That
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: is a funny visual though. You go in and talk
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: to your boss. I love to do. I love this
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: is my favorite thing to do. What I love to
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: go down to the where they sell dogs at a
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: dog scho Are you doing you want to be adopted?
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: They go home with me? Will guess what you ain't going?
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: That's your favorite thing? Hey, that scudentle's I know, I know,
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: I know, I guess what you ain't going Jay? How
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: is that right on any level? Though? I can't drag
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: it up over there? You're I'm gonna bring fancy Yeah,
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: if you could you have a dog, Jay, and walk
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: the dog, you know, and and all of that. You
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: wouldn't do that. You didn't have to take it to work,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: but just take care of it. Dogs are part of
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: the family, Jay, not this family. All right. I guess
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: we know where Jay stands on dogs. All right, more
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: it is time for comedy roulette. Let's go, Jay Anthony
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: Brown give us three subjects. Put I'm on a wheel,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: spind the wheel where the wheel stopped? Because I'm a comedian,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: junior comedian, times a comedian. Steve's a comedian. We can
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: make it funny. Watch this, do it? Do it. Here's
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: today's category, guys. Number one things Christians say when they
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: can't cuss. Okay. Number two songs you like that no
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: one else likes? Oh wow. Number three excuses people give
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: for why they don't want to go to sleep. Got it?
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Like all three spun the wheel? Oh which one? No? No, no,
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: I thought it was the song. It is things Christians
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: say when they can't cuss. I started, I started, I
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: started right here. Uh, lay hands on him, Jesus, just
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: lay hands on him. Okay, that's it, that's it, all right,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I got it. I got what got started. I mean it.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not playing, okay, okay, okay, all right. Uh who
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: the fuck do you think you talking to? Boy? You
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: scared me? Who's up? Who the fuck do you think
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: you talking to? WHOA? I got right up on it, Yeah,
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I got right up on. I thought this was another
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: radio show, the satellite. Come on still, sit down somewhere,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: you little black pastor. I like. I like this category.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: Christians can't cus Shut up, a little son of a
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: rich sit down something down pen He's Christians say when
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: you when they can't cuss. Look at me, look at me.
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: You're freaking right. I said it. I meant what I said,
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: the freaking right I said, playing with me. Nervous things
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Christians say when they know they can't cuss. H Mother Ferguson,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Let me tell you something,
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  Speaker 1: mother Ferguson. You keep on here, keep going, mama, fergus,
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: you keep talking to me, you're gonna get the white
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: sheets slapped out, white chet. That's keep on talking, fellow.
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: What you need to do it shut your piehole right shut? Okay,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: shut your piehole. Yeah. Hey, hey, these people say, these
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: Chris say when they can't cut. Let me tell you something.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: Jesus turned over table too, Let's relieve that. Okay. Let
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: me tell all you ninjas something ever last one of
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: you ninja's out here. Hear me when I say it.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but why he's so loud his delivery ahead? Yeah, okay,
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: come on, see if you got to close this one out.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Things Christians say when they can't cuss? How close can
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: I get? Don't you get that right up on the wall?
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Right up? Man? Get the knock up and see who's
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: at that door. I really thought we are right right
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: up right to it. Baby baby, that's number three. A
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: you nail right there, just number three. Yeah, that's well,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: that was a cluster fluff. One coming three more Shenanigan's
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: nephew in the building with today's pranking. Right after this,
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show coming up at the top of
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after today's strawberry letter.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: But up next, nephew, Tommy right here with today's frank
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: phone call. What you got, nef and I got that
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: hp P p P Husband Protection program? Whoa husband protection program?
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go. Kno, Hi, Morgan, my name is Josh.
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  Speaker 1: I'm with HPP giving you a call. You are married
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: to uh mister Sean to micrrect Ye, you're I'm with HPP.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: We actually pick your husband up from his job today.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call. Are you picking
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: up for one? Okay? You're you're his wife, Morgan? Right, Okay.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: I actually just wanted to make sure that he's okay
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: and we're worried about his work. Hey, what happened? Well,
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  Speaker 1: nothing's happened as of right now. We've had a conversation
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: with him and we've checked him out. He's definitely okay.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: But why why are you picking him up? Though? I
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: don't I don't understand what? All right, let's just just
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: come down hang on a second. I got a couple
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: of questions for you. Your husband he is about what
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: five nine correct? Right? And you would agree that Sean
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: ways about one hundred and seventy five pounds. Is that
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: sound about right? But yes, okay, here's another question. Now
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: exactly Morgan hot tall? Are you? I'm five nine as well? Okay,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: And if you don't mind, I know it's a little
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: different type of question, but if you don't mind, how
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: much do you weigh? I'm like two hundred? Wait a minute?
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: What is it? What is it? What is how much
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: our way have to do with it? I don't what
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: is wrong with him? And where is why? Where is
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: he right now? We actually have him, We have him
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: in our custody. Him where we have him in our
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: custody right now here in our headquarters at HPP. So
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: what heck? What is what is then? HPP? Man? HPP
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: is Husband Protection Program? Has been protection? I've never I've
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: never heard of such a thing. Why why is he
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: in here? Well? The problem we have and we've been
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: getting some actual complaints and whatnot, and not necessarily from him,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: but that you've been bullying your husband. Okay, you know what.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: I'm at my job and I'm gonna need to hold
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: on one second so I can go in here. What
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  Speaker 1: what what did you say? Have you and uh Sean
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: had any arguments at all lately? How we had we're married.
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: Have we had arguments? Of course, he had arguments. What
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: what does that have to do with anything? Have you
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: guys had any altercation? Any altercation? Yes? What kind of altercations?
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Have you been bullying your husband in a physical way?
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: How I've been bullying him? Bullying him? You've been have
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: you been happened to bullying him? For somebody to turn
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: in and give us? Who? Who you need to? Let
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: me talk to him. I can't put him on this
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: is what I'm talking about. When that is what you're
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: talking about. You pulled me at my job, put off
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: an HPP crap and somebody turning somebody in for some arguments.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: We're married. Who are you freaking know who's married and
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: does not argue? I understand you, man, but it is
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: my job to protect husbands that are getting bullied by
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: and wise this is o're talking with your name? Let
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: me speak to him. I'm not at liberty and let
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: you speak to him right now. To you, what you're
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: not gonna do is bullying me as well? And why
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: am I trying to bully you? I want to know
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: what coming? Oh? And why do you call me at
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: my job with some crap about him being at some
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: headquarters for HPP. I app isn't a hum of AHPP.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: And my husband is not need protecting from anybody sucking
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: that make it is husband protection program. You've been bullying
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: your husband, You've been using bad language with y'all. I'm
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: I want to talk to him, my husband. When he
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: said I do, he said, I do. Set whatever she
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: said to me whenever she's talking about hi Irish, he
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: said this, and next he gets and if he has
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: the problems with arguing with me, sitty to start his
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: cry and he won't be in an argument and you
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: tell him that you see, this is what we're talking about.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: This is why he's been picked up today and brought
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: into our custody so that he would be definitely protected
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: from you. You know what if he gets a profession
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: and easing your company, ask you can keep him me
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: high back. Well, here's what we're gonna do. Somebody's gonna
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: be picking you up, bringing you in so we can
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: have a conversation, bringing me now there, what what do
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: you think this is? We're bringing you in so we
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: can have a conversation with you. Let me explain something
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: to you, ma'am. We will be bringing you in having
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: a conversation what you bring sh You're gonna be coming
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: in and you're gonna do a company where we can
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: any anybody wants or you physically or mentally abusing your husband.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: You know what, You don't have to kick me up,
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: tell me where you I will come to you want
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: to pick me up, I will, I will come down there.
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I will hear you in him at the same time
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: you as we're coming about, weren't I'm going to ask
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: you a serious question. It sounds like a consequence of
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: he doesn't listen to you. Conseq I mean, I mean,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: what are you doing? Are you treating your husband like
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: a child? What are you doing to him? Actually like
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: the parts, don't get treated like the cat. If he
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: has the problem with how I see him, you talk
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: to him behind He asked, Let me ask you something,
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: miss Morgan. What do you do for a lever in
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: head of security at this building and about to cross
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: security on me because I'm loud in this room. Because
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: you're a head of security, so you don't know all
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: about putting people in choke calls and how to apprehend
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: the person. Don't is my job? Yes? I did? So
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: are you doing that at home? What I'm not gonna
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: tell you again. I don't harm that man in any way,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: no ways, have I ever what I ever? Nor has
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: he need? He needs to get him behind in his
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: car and got to work. We have builds to things.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: Don't ask high for this crap. I got one more
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: thing I need to say to you or you're listening,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: you have nothing to say to me, But then you
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: want to put my husband on It's t to Let
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: me talk to him about this short shut, sit down,
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: sit down show. Get him hitting him the phone, Let
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: me talk. I need to understand what had shot I
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: got it. Let me finish the talk conversation with Okay, No,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: you don't need to sinish. Let me finish on his
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: putting him on the phone. Hello, I have one more
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: thing to ask you. Are you listening? Are you listening?
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: Go ahead? This is nephew taught me from the Steve
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: Harby Morning Show. You just got breaked by your husband, Sean, Hello,
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: you've what are you? Where are you at right now? Man?
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: I was worried about the people at your job. Where
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: you at? I'm back here in this closet, swearing like
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: a freaking pig in heat dripping makeup everywhere. I cannot
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: believe this. Oh god man, Okay, baby, I gotta ask you,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: show in the land, the Steve Morning Show. You too much,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: you know, y'all gotta give it to me now, Okay,
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: let me ask you something. Don't even ask me because
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: I love it. You just ask and I appreciate that, Jake,
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: you know I need that kind of love and support.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: Let me ask y'all something, though. Who is it with
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: it that you would Who is it that you think
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: I can't prank? Give me that put me to a challenge?
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: Who do you think I can't prank Trumpama? Obama and Trump?
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Neither one? Michael Jory's wolf what I'm just challenging, Oprah,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I got challenges for you. I'm not gonna I'm not okay, okay,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: I'm not. First of all, I'm not gonna prank. Mis
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: Open's saying you can. What is you asking us the
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: question for? If you don't like none of I answers.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: I like Jordan, I could do Jordan, I could do Flavor,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: can't Kyler Pierre? No, that's okay? Why why are you.
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: Why are you doing people that you know might help me?
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? I mean you say you
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: tell me who who you can't pranking? If I wanted
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: to name who you could prank, it'd be easy. Can't practical,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: can't bet you can't prank? Will packer? Will pretty well? Yeah,
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: speak to quill you need all right? Thank you of you.
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it's the Strawberry Letter for today. We'll
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to Steve
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. It is time for today's Strawberry Letter.
• 52:52
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• 53:06
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• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Subjects Torn between my daddy and my man. Here's Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 1: I am a thirty two year old single mom of
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: a sixteen year old and I still live at home
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  Speaker 1: with my eighty four year old father. I have never
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: moved out because I never wanted my daughter to suffer
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: through any hardships or go without having the things she
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: wants and needs. My dad takes good care of us,
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: so that helps me save money. Here's a problem. I've
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: been dating a man for four years and we have
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: a great relationship, but he is pressuring me to move
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: in with him with my daughter. Financially, I am not
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: ready to start splitting the expenses with him because I
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: have a few small bills to pay off first. My
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: boyfriend keeps telling me that it's not a problem because
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: he will take care of all the bills. I'm not
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: married to him, and I need to be sure or
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: if I can take care of myself and my daughter
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: if things don't work out with this man. There's also
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: a bigger issue that we need to work out through
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: before I move in with him. He has told me
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: that if we move in together, my dad will not
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: be able to come over to our place to visit.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: He stated that my dad has always been rude to
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: him and makes him feel uncomfortable, and he will not
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: tolerate it in his own home. He also said my
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: dad will not be welcome at our family gatherings and outings.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: Now my dad, now, my dad has not been the
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: kindest person to my boyfriend and my family, but he
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: is still my dad. I don't think I should be
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: considering moving in with my boyfriend if this is something
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: that we won't compromise on. It seems that he may
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: be a little too controlling, especially if he will be
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: paying all of the bills. What do you think I
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: should do? Stay or go? Stay? I think you should
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: stay with your dad or get your own place if
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: you can't afford it. I mean, why would you you
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: want to go somewhere with someone who feels this way
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: about your eighty four year old dad. You're not married
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: to this man. You didn't mention that he proposed to
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: you or anything. You're not engaged to him, and he
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: could be very much controlling. You've been with him for
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: four years now, you say, and he's promising that he'll
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: take care of your small bills, your few small bills
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: if you move in with him. I'm just thinking, in
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: four years, why why hasn't he helped you already? I mean,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: that could be one of the reasons your dad doesn't
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: like him. I just say, you're a mother. You have
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: a sixteen year old daughter. You have to be an
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: example for her. I don't think you would once you're
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: your sixteen year old. I mean, your daughter you know
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: when she becomes of age. Of course, in a situation
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: like this, I don't think there's any benefit for you
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: right now to move in with this guy. I mean,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: you're thirty two years old, so you have to move
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: out one day soon, hopefully and be on your own.
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: But you should certainly want it to be with the
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: right guy, with the right situation, and that would be
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: someone who would at least try to work it out
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: with your dad. I mean, not shut him out in
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: a vengeful way like this guy's doing. I don't think
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: he should turn he should be turning his back on
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: your dad. That is your dad, after all. I think
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: you should stay where you are for now. You've been
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: saving money, save money to move out on your own. Steve,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: this is a no goal for me. You're thirty two
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: years old, you got sixteen year old daughter you live with,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: you're eighty four year old father. This man and came along.
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: You've been dating for four years now. If y'all gonna
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: move in, why don't y'all get married? He just wants
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: you to move in, right, I didn't see marriage on here.
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: And then you stay with your father because you didn't
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: want your daughter to suffer your father takes mer care
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: you in four years. I agree with Shirley. This dude
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: ain't helped you in four years with the little bills.
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, but if you're listening as a man,
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: you're talking a man. I ain't gotta help her with
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: help bills. Well you don't have to, But can I
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: tell you something technically we're supposed to. I don't know
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: where this got lost in the good old days, but
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: it's obviously lost because you all get together now and
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: want to keep everything separate. You join together with a
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: person to become one. If you don't want to become one,
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: quit joining with these damn people. Now, this dude don't
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: here wants you to pull up ranks. Then in here
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: he comes when it funker ass. Now, your daddy didn't
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: put it in all the hard work, you and your daughter. Now,
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: when y'all get together, your damn daddy can't come over here.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Shelly hit it on the head because let me explain
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: something to you. Eighty four, No, eighty four year old man.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: He knows some stuff. He got a feeling about your
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: boyfriend first of all four years of coming through that
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: he don't like to do because he eighty four, and
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: he know how he should be active and he ain't
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: seeing that. So now he don't like him, and he
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna turn his daughter and his little princess over
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: to these dude. That's what he don't like it now,
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: Your boyfriend, No, he don't like him, and he feel
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable with him not liking him. Now he don't want
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: him over at the house because he said he made
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: him feel uncomfortable when he comes. You know, why make
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: hi feel uncomfortable because he's shady and old dudes know it,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: and they ain't going to play that game with you
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: in the house. He said your dad would not be
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: welcome at our family gatherings and out it. Hey, man,
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: your daddy eighty four. This dude can't pull his man
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: who had pants up a little bit tighter for however
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: long your daddy got left and at least just be
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: cordier to the man. He might not be the greatest
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: to him, but to you and that girl, he'd been
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: y'alls everything. And if he can't honor and respect the
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: fact that this man then lived eighty four years and
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: then took care of you when obviously you had the
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: baby at sixteen he ain't put you out. He embraced you. Now, man,
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: this is not to do, and he just want to
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: move you in. You're scared to go. And the reason
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: you're scared to go because you don't feel secure with him.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: Oh that's right, man, it's this strawberry letter going this move.
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: You know why I goes j here insecure? You know,
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: I've been doing this Strawberry letter for years, Michelle, and
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: we just been doing it. Her response, my response, and
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden I noticed all my damn response.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: I gotta stop and address something. Hold on and bit
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: of black Bound. That part two of Steve's a response
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three after the hours Freshman, you're
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: listening show? All right, Steve, come on, Let's recap today's
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: strawberry letter. Thirty two year old woman got a sixteen
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: year old baby, been living at home with an eighty
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: four year old father because she didn't want to move out,
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: because she want her daughter to suffer her dad take
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: good care of him problems she got. She'd been ain't
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: this man for four years. She say, they got a
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: great relationship, but he's pressuring me to move in with
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: him with my daughter. Now the ladies say she ain't
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: ready to do that financially because she ain't ready to
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: start splitting expenses with him, because she got a few
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: small bills to pay off. And my boyfriend keep telling her,
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: Dad ain't no problem. See what's gonna make it the
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  Speaker 1: difference for you? Now, you could have been helping this
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  Speaker 1: girl with her financial problem, but you didn't. Now you're
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: gonna come move in and I'm gonna help you. He
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  Speaker 1: hadn't told you that he don't want that you're eighty
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: four year old daddy to come nowhere near his house.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: He ain't welcome because he made him feel uncomfortable. You
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: know why, they're eighty four year old man making feel
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable because eighty four, no, And he hadn't read this dude,
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: and he don't like the way head. He ain't got
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: enough sense to honor the fact that this is your
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: eighty four year old daddy. And how much ever longer
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: he got, at least let y'all have y'all time together.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: But that don't suit what he wants. So his standing, trifling,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: non compromising self cinner, he won't all and go his way. Well,
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: that's not how it works. You even said your dad
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: ain't been the kindest person to your boyfriend because your daddy. No, Now,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I should be considering moving in with
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: my boyfriend and this is something he won't compromise all
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't. So now you can't have relationship with your
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  Speaker 1: daddy who has always had his arms open to you
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: and your daughter to have relationship. And this dude wants
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: you to sever that relationship. Who wants that to happen? Man?
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: What decent man? So you gotta ask yourself a couple
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: questions about your boyfriend. Why won't he do anything to
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: make me happy? You've been dating for for you? Why
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: don't he marry you? Why don't he help you with
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: your bills? Now? What is it about him that your
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: daddy know that he don't like about it? Now? Why
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: is it he don't want your daddy over to the
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: house no more? And don't want your daddy coming to
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: no family gatherings? This is eighty four year old man
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: that's been holding the family down his entire adult male life.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: Now here, this dude, come, this is not a good
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: relationship to get into. If I were you, I would
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: say no. And if he can't at least treat your
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: father DC. Even if your father is a little rude,
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: he old, So it's okay. Yeah, yeah, i'mna tell you
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: right now, you're lucky. Wasn't my daddy slick Harving. Let
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: me explain something to you. My father man, he didn't
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: something about see old dupers at their house. They don't play,
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: They don't change nothing at their house. Tommy, your daddy
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: was the same way. This is his house. My daddy
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: was the same way. This his house. Come in here
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: fixing nothing for you. If he don't like you, you're
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: gonna find out about it if you come in his house.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: I had a friend of mine that my daddy didn't like.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: He couldn't come past the kitchen. What do you mean,
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: Jeffrey Overhill, jeff stay that by that dough. Jeffrey couldn't
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  Speaker 1: make it in. No, Jeffrey could not come in my
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  Speaker 1: house because you know we're a little small house. You
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: come through the back door. When you open the door
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: to refrigerator, you could touch refrigerator when you open the
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: door to the left and behind it. I mean you
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: could touch the stove to the left, and refrigerator was
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: behind the dough. When Jeffrey come in he come in
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  Speaker 1: the kitchen, he could shut the door, couldn't bring his
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  Speaker 1: ass out that kitchen because he ain't like Jeffrey. He's
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: still oh yes, my dad had or somebody like that.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't like one of my pockets. He always get
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  Speaker 1: my pocket to two spoon and say, click these spoons together,
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  Speaker 1: my pet. And you know, my friend be like, what, mister,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: what I'm doing this on? I didn't know where you
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: had my damn hole. Keeps the spoon click, keep them
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: keep clicking them damn spoon right there, bet night, I
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: better hear them spoon, they're time. I'm walking here. Old
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: school is just funny, isn't it. Jeffrey Gil stayed by
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  Speaker 1: the damn dog. I'm talking about maybe if four friends
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  Speaker 1: come over, Jeffrey come in and he knew, you know,
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  Speaker 1: my friend laughed at eight. Gil stayed there, stay there,
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  Speaker 1: mister Harvey. I'm right here. Hey, mister Harvey, how miss Harvey,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: you stay your ad by that dude. Now we're being
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: there for ten minutes. They'd be waiting on me anything.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: He could not come past that dope, man, don't walk
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: past it. Fitderd. That was this mark like Jeffrey's parents
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: did they know his parents. Nah, Jeffrey Jeffrey lived one
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  Speaker 1: hundred and fourteen. My dad ain't talking nobody over over there.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we don't go far. Hey man, my daddy
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: was clear. We won twelve street people, we want twelve streets.
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  Speaker 1: We don't go over there one fourteen. I don't know
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: what they're doing around. Ride your bike over there. You
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: can go over there. But there ain't me, nobody, Mama,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: dad over there. I don't know them. People don't know
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: what they're doing over there. That's funny. It's the truth.
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  Speaker 1: They had us. We don't go around now. We're one
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  Speaker 1: hundred twelfth street. People were on the twelve street people.
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  Speaker 1: I know there. I know how they keep their yard.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: I know how the garbage can look. I know when
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: they put the trash out on the curve. I know
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: these people. Yeah, I don't like where the garbage can't
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: look over there, all being at all up and there.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: The hell of a reason not to like the families
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: the way your damn garbage can't they got dance on.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: They can't. They ain't got no ain't got no lead
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: where they live. All right, listen, guys, we you can email,
• 1:06:00
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• 1:06:12
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• 1:06:19
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• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: have no clue, I mean clue less to what the
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: person is talking about. Okay, So so guy sure to
• 1:06:31
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• 1:06:40
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• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: you know, like I actually get into conversation. I wanted
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: to start with you st Yes, I get into coation
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: like bringing up a subject or you know, I ain't
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: got nothing now, I don't know nothing about it. Engineering
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: making a bridge, oh man. You know, me and my
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: father man used to work construction. You know, I used
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: to work on bridge. We had the cracks in the bridge,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: so I knew all about the structural design over bridge,
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: what called the fractor spaces in it. I just didn't
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: left that. Yeah, did you or your father go to
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: engineering school, I mean engineering and bridge a construction company
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: or oh no, no, no, no, Now we work for
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: this Frank Buddy, Frank Buddy contract. Have you ever driven
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: over in bridge? Yeah, I've been a lot of free
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: That's how we knew how they cracked. You know, structural
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: engineering position is what we would take hold was the
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: uprooted problem that diverted the situation into a cracking. First,
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: he sounds good. I can't know what he's talking about.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: There was like a board game, like the go ahead,
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: go an call. I was gonna ask him though, surely, so,
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  Speaker 1: how would you what would you recommend to update a bridge? Well,
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: I think update is very bridge. Golden Bride Bridge has
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: been needing updates and repairing. You have been several earthquakes
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: as we reaking the foundation. But I think what we're
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 1: gonna have to do is we're gonna have to do
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  Speaker 1: a section at a time. I think we're gonna to
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: break that bridge in half. So we had just one
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: way traffic on one way, and then once you get
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: the one one lane blocked off and then you can
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: do the restructure work on the other side, and then
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: you reinforce it up under with welding beings and that
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: are joining back together. That way, they'll fix that whole thing.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: You mentioned earthquakes. Um, I was wondering. You know, we're
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: out here in La. What you know that a lot
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: of seismatologists have been on the news lately saying there's
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: a possibility that there could be an earthquake coming up soon?
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: You agree with that? Four point seven? A four point seven?
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: What are you basing that on? Yeah, because lads was
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: four point six you predict? Are you a seismatologist? Find
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  Speaker 1: any chance? So you have? You know anybody that is? No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a quaker, Holly, Yeah, so far, so good. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, we'll be back with more of the Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: guys are here. They're gonna break down. You know you've
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: had good sex when dot dot dot, I'm gonna do
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: a couple and then I know the guy's gonna jump in.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: I know the time a lot of people have been
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: getting used to one another, and I just don't like
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: time it rested. Damn them so that they've been thrown
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: down some good love it. You know you have had
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: some good sex when you wake up with one soft
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: phone like, damn, what the hell happened? Where's my son?
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: There's another one. You know you've had some good ass
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: loving when both of y'all wake up between the two mattresses, like, yeah,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: the mattresses on top. I got two more, I got
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: two mores, the one you know, just for the men,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: just for the men. You have had some good a
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: loving when you wake up you look in the mirror
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: and you got on her eyelash like, damn, this was
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: good boy good. Yeah, I got woman. I got woman.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: You're right. You know you have had some good loving,
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: good ass love when you wake up and both of
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: y'all is at the bottom of the bed, like, how
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: the hell what is it? I know you got one.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: Anybody got one, job and bring it, bring it, bringing
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: you good. You know you had some good loving when
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: you knocked all her medical medication off the Nightstan, it's
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: all the pills is everywhere. We don't know which one
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: to take. I love it. I love it when you
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: got you know, you know when you have some good
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: loving and you just look at her and sake your mama,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: what what generational love? It bing? You know you know
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: you didn't have some good loving when you wake up
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: the next morning and call into work and you your
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: job ain't been open, sister thirteen. I ain't gonna make
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: it a day, all right. You know, no, you have
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: had some good loving when you wake up and there's
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: a hot blue gun in your hand and it's still on,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: like what day hell. You know you had some good
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: sex when you kick over a candle in the middle
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: of sex and y'all turn into firefighter. Alright, alright, alright.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: You know you had some good love it when you
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: in the middle love it and look Hoo in the
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: eyes and say, you know what, I'm gonna buy you
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: some money. I God, I'm gonna buy you some money.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: I ain't me. You know you didn't have some good
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: loving when both of y'all jump up and start washing
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: your hands and it ain't got nothing to do with corona.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: I got one more. I got one more, and then
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: you close that one more. You know you have had
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: some good loving when you wake up and there's a
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: happy face on your ass. You load it up, Steve,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: loaded out, man. We know you didn't have some good
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: loving when the family is down there having breakfast doing
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: quarantine and you and your wife looking at the kids
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: and go, what y'all looking at us for? We're looking
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: at off grown folks. All right, coming up next over
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: here that the dope right after this you're listening to show.
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  Speaker 1: You know what, Carla, I'm so happy that Jennifer Hudson
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: was our special guest. I just love her and she's
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: getting her just due now because she was our special
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: guest yesterday, as I mentioned, But she's getting her just
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: due starring in the Respect movie, you know, singing her
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: heart out, bringing to life. Yeah, I put some respect
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  Speaker 1: on the movie. Her name, the queen of soul everything.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so excited to see this movie. I know you are. Girl.
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  Speaker 1: Can't wait. I can't wait till we get off work.
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  Speaker 1: I Am got it going to see Respect. I'm just
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: so excited. You know we, like you said yesterday, Jennifer
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  Speaker 1: Hudson was our special guest. We had girl talk. Yes,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: it's fun. Yeah, we had girl talk respect, but with
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: Jennifer Hudson, yes, today and um, it was just awesome
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  Speaker 1: for her to tell us what we can expect from
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: the movie. We've talked to her about, you know, the
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: young generation, schooling them on what they can get out
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: of the movie, the history and the knowledge, because you
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: know what, with these young kids, they're on TikTok all
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: the time, and they hear these older songs. Like my daughter,
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: she'll tell me about a song and my husband and
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: I'll be like, you're in a song is old? Now
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: we try to school though. So that's just one angle
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: that she talked about. So again, ye, who's in the
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: movie Marlon Wayans, Mary J. Blige. Forrest Whittaker plays her father,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: Reverend Field Marylin Marlon Wayans taking a dramatic turn in
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: this movie. So Respect is out today. Make sure you
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: go check it out and give show Jennifer Hudson and
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: the Queen of Souls some love. We'll be back with
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Sod and Steve have dogs. So
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: the stamm doesn't have a dog dog? Na um, but Jay,
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: where where are you with this? With these dogs need
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: to be at home or any yard and not that's
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: just me. I know people, I know they're emotional dogs.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: I can let these dogs nervous dogs. But first of all,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: you work in a place it ends up being too
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: many damn dogs. That's what happened one dog. But then
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: it's like dogs every damn well, you know that's what happened.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: You know, you're okay. The National Dog Day night. Now
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: everybody got it. You got dogs bringing dogs, so dogs
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: every damn wet. So we need to nip this in
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: the butt. Keep your damn dog home. Keep your dog home.
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: Don't bring your dog to work. I mean I go
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: on to you, like you leave, I'm gonna go to
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: the office and you're not in there. The dogs sitting
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: in there, and I like, I'm coming to talk to
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: you the damn dog and then where is the dog?
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: Don't know where the head. I'm just it's just me.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: I'm just I don't hate dogs. I would never I
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: can't tell doll I would. I would never do that.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't never tease a dog. It just just talk.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: It's too many and damn dogs. That is a funny
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: visual though. You go in and talk to your boss.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: I love to do. I love this is my favorite
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: thing to do. What I love to go down to
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: the where to sell dogs? At are you doing? You
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: want to be adopted to? They can go who with me? What?
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: Guess what? You ain't going? That's your favorite thing? Hate that?
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: Scoot it? What's do you like say? I know, I
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: no no, no, guess what you ain't going day? How
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: is that right? On any level? Though? Can you crack
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: it up over there? You're I'm gonna brain fancy. Yeah,
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: if you could you have a dog, Jay and walk
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: the dog, you know, and feed it and all of that,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't do that. You didn't have to take it
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: to work, but just take care of it. Dogs are
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: part of the family, Jay, Yeah, not just family, all right.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: I guess we know where Jay stands on dogs. All right.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: Hang on, we're coming up the last break of the
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: day and some closing remarks from Steve Harvey that's coming
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: up at forty nine. After you're listening to show Steve,
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: it's time now for your closing remarks. They've been so
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: on point. Hey, for my closing remarks, A dato to
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: keep encouraging people, uplifting people, and enlightening you all to
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 1: some of the things I've had to learn on my journey.
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: And I'm not claiming to know more than anybody else.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: I'm just talking to people from a standpoint of just
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: trying to be an encouraging person from my own standpoint,
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: my own viewpoint. You don't have to agree with anything
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: I say. You have to write to your own opinion,
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: your own line of thinking. So this is not a
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: forced thing. This is just, you know, words of encouragement
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: at the end of the show. So when you start
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: in your day and you're thinking about your road to
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: success and happiness. I've had a lot of challenges along
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: the way that I've had to learn how to overcome,
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 1: and I've had to find different methods and learn from
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: more successful people than myself how to get it done.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: One of the major things that I learned, and this
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: is very difficult for me to do because of the
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  Speaker 1: most useless emotion in the human spirit, which is guilt.
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  Speaker 1: Guilt serves no one, but because of guilt, I found
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  Speaker 1: it hard to implement this that I'm about to share
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  Speaker 1: with you. You've heard the old saying birds of a
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  Speaker 1: feather flock together. You've heard association brings on participation. What
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  Speaker 1: that simply means is, if you have a goal in mind,
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  Speaker 1: an aspiration somewhere you're trying to get to, to get
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  Speaker 1: there better, quicker, faster, more peacefully, you have to surround
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  Speaker 1: yourself with like minded people. Now, this is hard to do,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm going to tell you why it's hard to do.
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  Speaker 1: For me because I was held to a certain amount
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  Speaker 1: of accountability by people who just didn't want to see
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  Speaker 1: me leave them. So as I began to change my life,
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  Speaker 1: change my direction, leave Cleveland, move up, try to come up,
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  Speaker 1: do more, try to become more. Try not to be
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  Speaker 1: the person that I used to be. They have words
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  Speaker 1: to hold you to them, like, man, you gotta keep
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  Speaker 1: it real. Man, hey, man, don't forget where you come from. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Not forgetting where you come from is important, but they're
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  Speaker 1: saying it from the fact of what they really mean
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  Speaker 1: is keep it real. Don't forget where you come from.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of those people simply mean, don't leave us.
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  Speaker 1: And it's not your obligation to take everybody with you.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to understand that. Don't get hell to the
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  Speaker 1: emotion of guilt and keep associating with people who don't
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  Speaker 1: mean you well. Now, look that goes to something my
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  Speaker 1: father told me a long time ago. He says, son,
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  Speaker 1: everybody come what you can't go with you. Some people
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  Speaker 1: are in your life for certain periods of time, and
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  Speaker 1: that's just it. You have to move on from them.
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  Speaker 1: Some of your friends you just grew apart from some
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  Speaker 1: of your associates you just can't keep associating with them
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  Speaker 1: all the time. Some of your people, you can meet
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  Speaker 1: him at the gym and play ball, but you can't
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  Speaker 1: do nothing else with them. That's okay. Stop thinking that
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  Speaker 1: because a person labels you their friend, that you now
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  Speaker 1: owe them a ride. You don't stop thinking like, I
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  Speaker 1: hurt myself so many years hanging on to people suffering
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  Speaker 1: from guilty. What's gonna happen today? Family? What's gonna happen today?
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  Speaker 1: Ability to get another job? And I've had people used
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  Speaker 1: me for years and for years and for years. I've
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  Speaker 1: finally gotten to the point where I'm done with it.
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  Speaker 1: I finally gotten to the point I started learning it
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  Speaker 1: a while back. But at sixty one, I'm telling you,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so through with that. I'm so through with feeling
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  Speaker 1: obligated to people who ain't really obligated to me. And
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  Speaker 1: don't y'all all have them people in your circle right now? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you so obligated to them, but are they really obligated
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  Speaker 1: to you? You always looking out for their best interests,
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  Speaker 1: but do they ever look out for your best interests?
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  Speaker 1: Association brings on participation. If you hang with a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of people that cuss all the time. Eventually you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: be cussing. If you hang with a lot of people
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  Speaker 1: who do drugs all the time, every time they get
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  Speaker 1: together and you just gotta be with them, eventually you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna be into drugs. It's just a part of it.
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  Speaker 1: Association brings on participation. If you're somewhere and people playing
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  Speaker 1: ping pong every day, you don't think you're gonna pick
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  Speaker 1: up the powder one day, at least give it a shot.
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  Speaker 1: It's how this works, man. So you owe it to
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  Speaker 1: yourself to prune the treat. You owe it to yourself
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  Speaker 1: to take inventory. You owe it to yourself to surround
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  Speaker 1: yourself with like minded people, to find people who are
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  Speaker 1: going the same direction you're going, who want the same
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  Speaker 1: same things you want. It's nothing wrong with that. And
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you something else too. It'll shown make your
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  Speaker 1: life a little bit smoother. Now, that's not gonna make
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  Speaker 1: it easier, but it will make it smoother. Wouldn't it
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  Speaker 1: be good to have somebody to talk to that wasn't
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  Speaker 1: always telling you why it won't work? Y'all can't stand
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  Speaker 1: to have an idea and take it to somebody in
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  Speaker 1: the first word, out their mouth is why it won't work.
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  Speaker 1: So then when they come up with how it will work,
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  Speaker 1: all of a sudden, now it's they idea. Man, how
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  Speaker 1: many times I've been around people like that. Birds of
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  Speaker 1: a feather flock together. If you hang with people who
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  Speaker 1: don't do nothing, eventually you're gonna think it's okay not
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  Speaker 1: to do nothing too. Take inventory, prune the tree, separate yourself,
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  Speaker 1: and remember it ain't your job to give nobody a
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  Speaker 1: free ride. It is not your job. They will slow
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  Speaker 1: your progress down. All right, Those are my clothes remarks.
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