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The Relationship Episode Everyone Needs to Hear: Why We Explain Instead of Understand

When someone you love tells you, “Something you did hurt me,” what happens inside of you next? Do you become curious about what it was like to be on the receiving end of you, or does your brain immediately start building the case for why you did what you did, what you meant, what they misunderstood, and what they did first? That difference may quietly shape almost everything that happens in a relationship. In what may be one of the most important episodes of The Virtual Couch for anyone who is in a relationship, has been in one, or hopes to be in one someday, Tony explores the difference…

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