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- 0:22Samara Tobar: name?
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- 0:41Samara Tobar: thing
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- 0:47Samara Tobar: Eighth
- 0:47Samara Tobar: grade,
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- 0:48Samara Tobar: grade
- 0:49Samara Tobar: into
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- 0:51Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 0:53Samara Tobar: a
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- 0:54Samara Tobar: She's
- 0:54Samara Tobar: so
- 0:54Samara Tobar: mixed
- 0:54Samara Tobar: up.
- 0:54Samara Tobar: She
- 0:54Samara Tobar: don't
- 0:55Samara Tobar: know
- 0:55Samara Tobar: what
- 0:55Samara Tobar: she
- 0:55Samara Tobar: is.
- 0:56Tony Tidbit: We'll
- 0:56Tony Tidbit: discuss
- 0:56Tony Tidbit: race
- 0:57Tony Tidbit: and
- 0:57Tony Tidbit: how
- 0:57Tony Tidbit: it
- 0:57Tony Tidbit: plays
- 0:57Tony Tidbit: a
- 0:57Tony Tidbit: factor
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- 0:59Tony Tidbit: we
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- 1:01Tony Tidbit: 'cause
- 1:02Tony Tidbit: we
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- 1:04BEP Narrator: A
- 1:04BEP Narrator: Black
- 1:05BEP Narrator: Executive
- 1:06BEP Narrator: Perspective.
- 1:07Tony Tidbit: We
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- 1:08Tony Tidbit: coming
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- 1:14Tony Tidbit: Executive
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- 1:17Tony Tidbit: discuss
- 1:17Tony Tidbit: all
- 1:17Tony Tidbit: matters
- 1:18Tony Tidbit: regarding
- 1:18Tony Tidbit: race.
- 1:19Tony Tidbit: Culture
- 1:20Tony Tidbit: and
- 1:20Tony Tidbit: those
- 1:20Tony Tidbit: uncomfortable
- 1:21Tony Tidbit: topics
- 1:22Tony Tidbit: people
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- 1:24Tony Tidbit: your
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- 1:25Tony Tidbit: Tony
- 1:25Tony Tidbit: Tidbit,
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- 1:26Tony Tidbit: very
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- 1:58Tony Tidbit: Afro-Latina
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- 2:36Tony Tidbit: girl
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- 2:36Tony Tidbit: Samada.
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- 2:45Tony Tidbit: cultures.
- 2:46Tony Tidbit: As
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- 2:47Tony Tidbit: Afro-Latina
- 2:47Tony Tidbit: woman,
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- 3:21Tony Tidbit: My
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- 3:23Samara Tobar: Thank
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- 3:24Samara Tobar: Thank
- 3:24Samara Tobar: you
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- 3:25Samara Tobar: happy
- 3:26Samara Tobar: to
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- 3:26Samara Tobar: here.
- 3:27Tony Tidbit: Oh,
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- 3:27Tony Tidbit: glad
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- 3:45Tony Tidbit: me
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- 3:45Tony Tidbit: little
- 3:45Tony Tidbit: bit
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- 3:46Tony Tidbit: currently
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- 3:47Tony Tidbit: little
- 3:47Tony Tidbit: bit
- 3:48Tony Tidbit: about
- 3:48Tony Tidbit: your
- 3:48Tony Tidbit: family.
- 3:49Samara Tobar: So
- 3:50Samara Tobar: I
- 3:50Samara Tobar: live
- 3:50Samara Tobar: in
- 3:50Samara Tobar: Grand
- 3:51Samara Tobar: Rapids,
- 3:51Samara Tobar: Michigan.
- 3:52Samara Tobar: Um,
- 3:52Samara Tobar: I,
- 3:53Samara Tobar: uh,
- 3:53Samara Tobar: was
- 3:53Samara Tobar: born
- 3:54Samara Tobar: and
- 3:54Samara Tobar: half
- 3:54Samara Tobar: raised
- 3:55Samara Tobar: here.
- 3:55Samara Tobar: Um,
- 3:56Samara Tobar: and
- 3:56Samara Tobar: I
- 3:57Samara Tobar: have
- 3:57Samara Tobar: two
- 3:58Samara Tobar: beautiful
- 3:58Samara Tobar: daughters.
- 3:59Samara Tobar: Uh,
- 3:59Samara Tobar: one
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- 4:00Samara Tobar: an
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- 4:00Samara Tobar: one
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- 4:01Samara Tobar: new
- 4:01Samara Tobar: teenager,
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- 4:02Samara Tobar: then
- 4:02Samara Tobar: I
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- 4:03Samara Tobar: two
- 4:03Samara Tobar: beautiful
- 4:03Samara Tobar: grand
- 4:04Samara Tobar: babies,
- 4:04Samara Tobar: age
- 4:05Samara Tobar: four
- 4:05Samara Tobar: and
- 4:05Samara Tobar: two,
- 4:06Samara Tobar: and
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- 4:07Samara Tobar: my
- 4:07Samara Tobar: world.
- 4:07Samara Tobar: So
- 4:08Samara Tobar: I'm
- 4:08Samara Tobar: busy
- 4:08Samara Tobar: over
- 4:08Samara Tobar: here
- 4:09Samara Tobar: between
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- 4:10Samara Tobar: that
- 4:10Samara Tobar: career
- 4:11Samara Tobar: and
- 4:12Samara Tobar: trying
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- 4:12Samara Tobar: a
- 4:12Samara Tobar: personal
- 4:13Samara Tobar: life.
- 4:13Samara Tobar: It's
- 4:13Samara Tobar: a
- 4:13Samara Tobar: lot.
- 4:14Tony Tidbit: Well,
- 4:15Tony Tidbit: that
- 4:15Tony Tidbit: is
- 4:15Tony Tidbit: a
- 4:15Tony Tidbit: lot.
- 4:16Tony Tidbit: And,
- 4:16Tony Tidbit: and
- 4:16Tony Tidbit: congratulations.
- 4:18Tony Tidbit: And
- 4:18Tony Tidbit: then
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- 4:18Tony Tidbit: did
- 4:18Tony Tidbit: you,
- 4:18Tony Tidbit: quick
- 4:19Tony Tidbit: question,
- 4:19Tony Tidbit: you
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- 4:20Tony Tidbit: you
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- 4:21Tony Tidbit: how
- 4:21Tony Tidbit: busy
- 4:21Tony Tidbit: you
- 4:21Tony Tidbit: are
- 4:22Tony Tidbit: and
- 4:22Tony Tidbit: stuff
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- 4:22Tony Tidbit: you
- 4:22Tony Tidbit: got
- 4:23Tony Tidbit: going
- 4:23Tony Tidbit: on
- 4:23Tony Tidbit: and
- 4:23Tony Tidbit: the
- 4:23Tony Tidbit: family
- 4:24Tony Tidbit: work
- 4:25Tony Tidbit: ministry.
- 4:26Tony Tidbit: Why
- 4:26Tony Tidbit: did
- 4:26Tony Tidbit: you
- 4:26Tony Tidbit: wanna
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- 4:27Tony Tidbit: the
- 4:27Tony Tidbit: Black
- 4:27Tony Tidbit: Executive
- 4:27Tony Tidbit: Perspective
- 4:28Tony Tidbit: podcast?
- 4:28Tony Tidbit: Talk
- 4:28Tony Tidbit: about
- 4:29Tony Tidbit: this
- 4:29Tony Tidbit: topic.
- 4:31Samara Tobar: Well,
- 4:31Samara Tobar: it's
- 4:31Samara Tobar: no
- 4:31Samara Tobar: secret
- 4:32Samara Tobar: that
- 4:32Samara Tobar: I'm
- 4:32Samara Tobar: a
- 4:32Samara Tobar: huge
- 4:32Samara Tobar: fan
- 4:33Samara Tobar: of
- 4:33Samara Tobar: this
- 4:33Samara Tobar: podcast,
- 4:35Samara Tobar: and
- 4:35Samara Tobar: I'm
- 4:35Samara Tobar: super
- 4:36Samara Tobar: proud
- 4:36Samara Tobar: of
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- 4:36Samara Tobar: work
- 4:36Samara Tobar: that
- 4:37Samara Tobar: you
- 4:38Samara Tobar: are
- 4:38Samara Tobar: doing,
- 4:38Samara Tobar: um,
- 4:39Samara Tobar: as
- 4:39Samara Tobar: well
- 4:39Samara Tobar: as,
- 4:40Samara Tobar: uh,
- 4:40Samara Tobar: your
- 4:40Samara Tobar: colleagues.
- 4:41Samara Tobar: Um,
- 4:41Samara Tobar: but
- 4:41Samara Tobar: also
- 4:42Samara Tobar: I
- 4:42Samara Tobar: think
- 4:42Samara Tobar: that
- 4:43Samara Tobar: it's
- 4:43Samara Tobar: time
- 4:44Samara Tobar: to
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- 4:45Samara Tobar: a
- 4:45Samara Tobar: light
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- 4:48Samara Tobar: Topic
- 4:48Samara Tobar: that
- 4:48Samara Tobar: can
- 4:49Samara Tobar: kind
- 4:49Samara Tobar: of
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- 4:49Samara Tobar: a
- 4:49Samara Tobar: heavy
- 4:50Samara Tobar: stigma,
- 4:50Samara Tobar: especially
- 4:51Samara Tobar: in
- 4:51Samara Tobar: corporate
- 4:51Samara Tobar: spaces.
- 4:53Samara Tobar: And
- 4:53Samara Tobar: I
- 4:54Samara Tobar: feel
- 4:54Samara Tobar: like
- 4:55Samara Tobar: my
- 4:55Samara Tobar: experience
- 4:56Samara Tobar: is
- 4:56Samara Tobar: not
- 4:56Samara Tobar: for
- 4:57Samara Tobar: nothing.
- 4:57Samara Tobar: And
- 4:57Samara Tobar: I
- 4:57Samara Tobar: wanna
- 4:58Samara Tobar: make
- 4:58Samara Tobar: sure
- 4:58Samara Tobar: that
- 4:58Samara Tobar: if
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- 4:59Samara Tobar: can
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- 4:59Samara Tobar: a
- 4:59Samara Tobar: voice
- 5:00Samara Tobar: that
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- 5:01Samara Tobar: an
- 5:01Samara Tobar: advocate,
- 5:02Samara Tobar: um,
- 5:02Samara Tobar: to
- 5:02Samara Tobar: bring
- 5:02Samara Tobar: awareness,
- 5:03Samara Tobar: to
- 5:03Samara Tobar: bring
- 5:03Samara Tobar: education,
- 5:04Samara Tobar: um,
- 5:05Samara Tobar: then
- 5:05Samara Tobar: I
- 5:05Samara Tobar: wanna
- 5:06Samara Tobar: do
- 5:06Samara Tobar: that.
- 5:06Samara Tobar: I
- 5:06Samara Tobar: wanna
- 5:06Samara Tobar: do
- 5:06Samara Tobar: my
- 5:06Samara Tobar: part.
- 5:08Tony Tidbit: Well,
- 5:08Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 5:08Tony Tidbit: glad
- 5:09Tony Tidbit: you're
- 5:09Tony Tidbit: here,
- 5:09Tony Tidbit: and
- 5:09Tony Tidbit: just
- 5:10Tony Tidbit: to
- 5:10Tony Tidbit: be
- 5:10Tony Tidbit: transparent
- 5:11Tony Tidbit: with
- 5:11Tony Tidbit: the
- 5:11Tony Tidbit: audience,
- 5:12Tony Tidbit: Samara
- 5:12Tony Tidbit: is
- 5:13Tony Tidbit: my
- 5:13Tony Tidbit: daughter.
- 5:14Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 5:15Tony Tidbit: and
- 5:15Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 5:15Tony Tidbit: so
- 5:15Tony Tidbit: proud
- 5:16Tony Tidbit: of
- 5:16Tony Tidbit: her
- 5:16Tony Tidbit: and
- 5:17Tony Tidbit: she's
- 5:17Tony Tidbit: gonna
- 5:17Tony Tidbit: come
- 5:17Tony Tidbit: on
- 5:18Tony Tidbit: and
- 5:18Tony Tidbit: talk
- 5:18Tony Tidbit: about
- 5:18Tony Tidbit: things.
- 5:19Tony Tidbit: Uh,
- 5:20Tony Tidbit: some
- 5:20Tony Tidbit: of
- 5:20Tony Tidbit: them
- 5:20Tony Tidbit: I
- 5:20Tony Tidbit: know,
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- 5:21Tony Tidbit: of
- 5:21Tony Tidbit: 'em
- 5:21Tony Tidbit: I
- 5:21Tony Tidbit: don't
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- 5:22Tony Tidbit: not
- 5:22Tony Tidbit: very
- 5:23Tony Tidbit: educated
- 5:24Tony Tidbit: on.
- 5:24Tony Tidbit: So
- 5:24Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 5:25Tony Tidbit: excited
- 5:25Tony Tidbit: that
- 5:25Tony Tidbit: she's
- 5:26Tony Tidbit: willing
- 5:26Tony Tidbit: to
- 5:26Tony Tidbit: come
- 5:26Tony Tidbit: on
- 5:26Tony Tidbit: and
- 5:26Tony Tidbit: share.
- 5:27Tony Tidbit: So
- 5:28Tony Tidbit: you
- 5:28Tony Tidbit: ready
- 5:28Tony Tidbit: to,
- 5:29Tony Tidbit: you
- 5:29Tony Tidbit: ready
- 5:29Tony Tidbit: to
- 5:29Tony Tidbit: talk
- 5:30Tony Tidbit: about
- 5:30Tony Tidbit: it?
- 5:30Tony Tidbit: Let's
- 5:31Tony Tidbit: go.
- 5:32Tony Tidbit: All
- 5:32Tony Tidbit: right.
- 5:32Tony Tidbit: Let's
- 5:32Tony Tidbit: talk
- 5:33Tony Tidbit: about
- 5:33Tony Tidbit: it.
- 5:33Tony Tidbit: So
- 5:34Tony Tidbit: you
- 5:34Tony Tidbit: remember
- 5:34Tony Tidbit: the,
- 5:35Tony Tidbit: um.
- 5:36Tony Tidbit: It's
- 5:37Tony Tidbit: a
- 5:37Tony Tidbit: song.
- 5:37Tony Tidbit: I
- 5:37Tony Tidbit: forget
- 5:37Tony Tidbit: who
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- 5:38Tony Tidbit: group
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- 5:39Tony Tidbit: and
- 5:39Tony Tidbit: it
- 5:39Tony Tidbit: goes,
- 5:39Tony Tidbit: who's
- 5:40Tony Tidbit: that
- 5:40Tony Tidbit: girl
- 5:42Tony Tidbit: Who,
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: do
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: you
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: remember
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: the
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: song,
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: who
- 5:43Tony Tidbit: that
- 5:44Tony Tidbit: is?
- 5:44Samara Tobar: Well,
- 5:45Samara Tobar: I,
- 5:45Samara Tobar: I
- 5:45Samara Tobar: don't,
- 5:46Samara Tobar: I
- 5:46Samara Tobar: think
- 5:46Samara Tobar: we're
- 5:46Samara Tobar: talking
- 5:47Samara Tobar: about
- 5:47Samara Tobar: two
- 5:47Samara Tobar: different
- 5:47Samara Tobar: ones.
- 5:47Samara Tobar: 'cause
- 5:48Samara Tobar: my
- 5:48Samara Tobar: generation
- 5:49Samara Tobar: had
- 5:49Samara Tobar: Eve
- 5:49Samara Tobar: talking
- 5:50Samara Tobar: about
- 5:50Samara Tobar: Who's
- 5:50Samara Tobar: that
- 5:50Samara Tobar: girl.
- 5:50Samara Tobar: But
- 5:51Samara Tobar: I
- 5:51Samara Tobar: know
- 5:51Samara Tobar: that
- 5:51Samara Tobar: there
- 5:51Samara Tobar: was
- 5:51Samara Tobar: one
- 5:52Tony Tidbit: that
- 5:52Tony Tidbit: before
- 5:52Tony Tidbit: that.
- 5:53Tony Tidbit: That's
- 5:53Tony Tidbit: the
- 5:53Tony Tidbit: one
- 5:53Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 5:54Tony Tidbit: talking
- 5:54Tony Tidbit: about
- 5:54Tony Tidbit: Eve.
- 5:55Tony Tidbit: Oh,
- 5:55Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 5:55Tony Tidbit: saying,
- 5:55Tony Tidbit: who's
- 5:55Tony Tidbit: that
- 5:56Tony Tidbit: girl?
- 5:57Samara Tobar: Absolutely.
- 5:58Samara Tobar: La
- 5:58Samara Tobar: la
- 5:58Samara Tobar: Remember
- 5:58Samara Tobar: that?
- 5:59Samara Tobar: La
- 5:59Samara Tobar: la
- 5:59Samara Tobar: la.
- 5:59Samara Tobar: Yep.
- 5:59Samara Tobar: Exactly.
- 6:00Tony Tidbit: That's
- 6:00Tony Tidbit: the
- 6:00Tony Tidbit: one
- 6:01Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 6:01Tony Tidbit: talking
- 6:01Tony Tidbit: about,
- 6:01Tony Tidbit: right?
- 6:02Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 6:02Tony Tidbit: So
- 6:02Tony Tidbit: when
- 6:02Tony Tidbit: you,
- 6:03Tony Tidbit: let's,
- 6:03Tony Tidbit: let's
- 6:03Tony Tidbit: just
- 6:04Tony Tidbit: paint
- 6:04Tony Tidbit: a
- 6:04Tony Tidbit: picture
- 6:04Tony Tidbit: here.
- 6:04Tony Tidbit: When
- 6:05Tony Tidbit: you
- 6:05Tony Tidbit: hear
- 6:05Tony Tidbit: who's
- 6:06Tony Tidbit: that
- 6:06Tony Tidbit: girl,
- 6:07Tony Tidbit: which
- 6:07Tony Tidbit: part
- 6:08Tony Tidbit: of
- 6:08Tony Tidbit: your
- 6:08Tony Tidbit: identity
- 6:09Tony Tidbit: rises
- 6:10Tony Tidbit: to
- 6:10Tony Tidbit: the
- 6:10Tony Tidbit: surface
- 6:11Tony Tidbit: first?
- 6:13Samara Tobar: That's
- 6:14Samara Tobar: the,
- 6:14Samara Tobar: the
- 6:14Samara Tobar: very
- 6:15Samara Tobar: unique
- 6:15Samara Tobar: thing
- 6:16Samara Tobar: about
- 6:16Samara Tobar: me.
- 6:17Samara Tobar: Um,
- 6:18Samara Tobar: they
- 6:18Samara Tobar: all
- 6:19Samara Tobar: rise.
- 6:19Samara Tobar: And
- 6:21Samara Tobar: like
- 6:21Samara Tobar: when
- 6:21Samara Tobar: you
- 6:21Samara Tobar: say
- 6:21Tony Tidbit: they
- 6:21Tony Tidbit: all
- 6:21Tony Tidbit: rise,
- 6:22Tony Tidbit: like
- 6:22Tony Tidbit: what
- 6:22Tony Tidbit: do
- 6:22Tony Tidbit: you
- 6:22Tony Tidbit: mean?
- 6:23Samara Tobar: Like,
- 6:23Samara Tobar: it's
- 6:24Samara Tobar: not,
- 6:24Samara Tobar: um,
- 6:25Samara Tobar: it's
- 6:25Samara Tobar: not
- 6:25Samara Tobar: my
- 6:26Samara Tobar: black
- 6:26Samara Tobar: side
- 6:27Samara Tobar: that
- 6:27Samara Tobar: rises
- 6:27Samara Tobar: first.
- 6:28Samara Tobar: It's
- 6:28Samara Tobar: not
- 6:28Samara Tobar: the
- 6:28Samara Tobar: Mexican,
- 6:29Samara Tobar: it's
- 6:29Samara Tobar: not
- 6:29Samara Tobar: the
- 6:29Samara Tobar: Puerto
- 6:29Samara Tobar: Rican.
- 6:30Samara Tobar: It's
- 6:30Samara Tobar: like
- 6:30Samara Tobar: they
- 6:31Samara Tobar: are
- 6:31Samara Tobar: all
- 6:32Samara Tobar: intertwined.
- 6:33Samara Tobar: They
- 6:33Samara Tobar: all
- 6:34Samara Tobar: come
- 6:34Samara Tobar: to
- 6:34Samara Tobar: the
- 6:34Samara Tobar: front.
- 6:35Samara Tobar: So
- 6:36Samara Tobar: I,
- 6:37Samara Tobar: I
- 6:37Samara Tobar: think
- 6:37Samara Tobar: that
- 6:37Samara Tobar: with
- 6:38Samara Tobar: wholeness
- 6:38Samara Tobar: and
- 6:39Samara Tobar: the,
- 6:39Samara Tobar: the
- 6:40Samara Tobar: journey
- 6:40Samara Tobar: that
- 6:40Samara Tobar: I've
- 6:40Samara Tobar: walked,
- 6:41Samara Tobar: um,
- 6:42Samara Tobar: there's
- 6:42Samara Tobar: something
- 6:43Samara Tobar: in
- 6:43Samara Tobar: me
- 6:43Samara Tobar: that
- 6:43Samara Tobar: doesn't,
- 6:44Samara Tobar: I
- 6:44Samara Tobar: don't
- 6:44Samara Tobar: do
- 6:44Samara Tobar: okay
- 6:45Samara Tobar: with
- 6:45Samara Tobar: people
- 6:45Samara Tobar: identifying
- 6:46Samara Tobar: me
- 6:46Samara Tobar: just
- 6:46Samara Tobar: as,
- 6:47Samara Tobar: oh,
- 6:47Samara Tobar: she's
- 6:48Samara Tobar: a
- 6:48Samara Tobar: Puerto
- 6:48Samara Tobar: Rican
- 6:48Samara Tobar: woman,
- 6:49Samara Tobar: or,
- 6:49Samara Tobar: oh,
- 6:49Samara Tobar: she's
- 6:50Samara Tobar: a
- 6:50Samara Tobar: black
- 6:50Samara Tobar: woman.
- 6:51Samara Tobar: I'm
- 6:51Samara Tobar: like,
- 6:52Samara Tobar: gently
- 6:53Samara Tobar: correct
- 6:53Samara Tobar: them.
- 6:53Samara Tobar: Nope.
- 6:54Samara Tobar: I'm
- 6:54Samara Tobar: actually
- 6:55Samara Tobar: all
- 6:55Samara Tobar: encompassing.
- 6:56Samara Tobar: I'm
- 6:56Samara Tobar: all
- 6:56Samara Tobar: of
- 6:56Samara Tobar: them
- 6:57Samara Tobar: at
- 6:58Samara Tobar: all
- 6:58Samara Tobar: times.
- 6:59Tony Tidbit: So
- 6:59Tony Tidbit: let's
- 6:59Tony Tidbit: back
- 7:00Tony Tidbit: up
- 7:00Tony Tidbit: then.
- 7:00Tony Tidbit: Let's
- 7:01Tony Tidbit: talk
- 7:01Tony Tidbit: about,
- 7:02Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:02Tony Tidbit: know,
- 7:03Tony Tidbit: because
- 7:03Tony Tidbit: one
- 7:03Tony Tidbit: of
- 7:03Tony Tidbit: the
- 7:04Tony Tidbit: things
- 7:04Tony Tidbit: a
- 7:04Tony Tidbit: lot
- 7:04Tony Tidbit: of
- 7:04Tony Tidbit: people
- 7:05Tony Tidbit: struggle
- 7:05Tony Tidbit: with.
- 7:06Tony Tidbit: Is,
- 7:07Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:08Tony Tidbit: know,
- 7:08Tony Tidbit: people
- 7:08Tony Tidbit: try
- 7:08Tony Tidbit: to
- 7:08Tony Tidbit: put
- 7:09Tony Tidbit: people
- 7:09Tony Tidbit: in
- 7:09Tony Tidbit: boxes.
- 7:10Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 7:11Tony Tidbit: And
- 7:11Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:11Tony Tidbit: just
- 7:11Tony Tidbit: got
- 7:12Tony Tidbit: this
- 7:12Tony Tidbit: saying
- 7:12Tony Tidbit: it,
- 7:12Tony Tidbit: you,
- 7:13Tony Tidbit: are
- 7:13Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:13Tony Tidbit: a
- 7:13Tony Tidbit: Mexican?
- 7:14Tony Tidbit: Are
- 7:14Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:14Tony Tidbit: Puerto
- 7:14Tony Tidbit: Rican?
- 7:15Tony Tidbit: Are
- 7:15Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:15Tony Tidbit: black?
- 7:16Tony Tidbit: Are
- 7:17Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:17Tony Tidbit: white?
- 7:17Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 7:18Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:18Tony Tidbit: know,
- 7:18Tony Tidbit: all
- 7:19Tony Tidbit: these
- 7:19Tony Tidbit: things.
- 7:19Tony Tidbit: And
- 7:19Tony Tidbit: you,
- 7:20Tony Tidbit: and
- 7:20Tony Tidbit: you,
- 7:21Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:21Tony Tidbit: know,
- 7:21Tony Tidbit: and
- 7:21Tony Tidbit: it's
- 7:21Tony Tidbit: a
- 7:21Tony Tidbit: lot
- 7:22Tony Tidbit: of
- 7:22Tony Tidbit: pressure.
- 7:23Tony Tidbit: And,
- 7:24Tony Tidbit: and
- 7:24Tony Tidbit: then
- 7:24Tony Tidbit: more
- 7:24Tony Tidbit: importantly,
- 7:25Tony Tidbit: um,
- 7:26Tony Tidbit: knowing
- 7:26Tony Tidbit: that
- 7:26Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:26Tony Tidbit: don't
- 7:27Tony Tidbit: check
- 7:27Tony Tidbit: all
- 7:27Tony Tidbit: those
- 7:27Tony Tidbit: bo
- 7:28Tony Tidbit: you,
- 7:28Tony Tidbit: you
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- 7:28Tony Tidbit: all,
- 7:29Tony Tidbit: but
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- 7:30Tony Tidbit: are
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- 7:31Tony Tidbit: a
- 7:31Tony Tidbit: holistic
- 7:31Tony Tidbit: standpoint,
- 7:32Tony Tidbit: it
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- 7:33Tony Tidbit: it
- 7:33Tony Tidbit: tough
- 7:33Tony Tidbit: to
- 7:33Tony Tidbit: even
- 7:34Tony Tidbit: explain
- 7:34Tony Tidbit: to
- 7:34Tony Tidbit: somebody,
- 7:35Tony Tidbit: right?
- 7:35Tony Tidbit: Just
- 7:36Tony Tidbit: the
- 7:36Tony Tidbit: pressure
- 7:37Tony Tidbit: of
- 7:37Tony Tidbit: the
- 7:37Tony Tidbit: anxiety.
- 7:38Tony Tidbit: I
- 7:38Tony Tidbit: gotta
- 7:38Tony Tidbit: tell
- 7:38Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:38Tony Tidbit: everything,
- 7:39Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:39Tony Tidbit: know.
- 7:40Tony Tidbit: So,
- 7:40Tony Tidbit: let's
- 7:40Tony Tidbit: back
- 7:40Tony Tidbit: up
- 7:41Tony Tidbit: a
- 7:41Tony Tidbit: little
- 7:41Tony Tidbit: bit.
- 7:41Tony Tidbit: Talk
- 7:42Tony Tidbit: about
- 7:42Tony Tidbit: growing
- 7:42Tony Tidbit: up
- 7:44Tony Tidbit: and
- 7:44Tony Tidbit: understanding
- 7:45Tony Tidbit: that
- 7:46Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:47Tony Tidbit: bring
- 7:47Tony Tidbit: all
- 7:47Tony Tidbit: these
- 7:47Tony Tidbit: different
- 7:49Tony Tidbit: ethnicities
- 7:50Tony Tidbit: together,
- 7:51Tony Tidbit: and
- 7:51Tony Tidbit: how
- 7:52Tony Tidbit: was
- 7:52Tony Tidbit: it
- 7:52Tony Tidbit: growing
- 7:53Tony Tidbit: up,
- 7:53Tony Tidbit: going
- 7:54Tony Tidbit: to
- 7:54Tony Tidbit: school,
- 7:55Tony Tidbit: what
- 7:55Tony Tidbit: did
- 7:55Tony Tidbit: you
- 7:55Tony Tidbit: recognize
- 7:56Tony Tidbit: about
- 7:56Tony Tidbit: yourself
- 7:57Tony Tidbit: being
- 7:57Tony Tidbit: different?
- 7:58Tony Tidbit: Let's
- 7:58Tony Tidbit: talk
- 7:58Tony Tidbit: a
- 7:58Tony Tidbit: little
- 7:58Tony Tidbit: bit
- 7:59Tony Tidbit: about
- 7:59Tony Tidbit: that.
- 8:00Samara Tobar: Yeah.
- 8:01Samara Tobar: So
- 8:01Samara Tobar: growing
- 8:02Samara Tobar: up,
- 8:02Samara Tobar: um.
- 8:03Samara Tobar: It
- 8:04Samara Tobar: was
- 8:04Samara Tobar: interesting
- 8:05Samara Tobar: because
- 8:05Samara Tobar: I
- 8:05Samara Tobar: ha
- 8:05Samara Tobar: I
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- 8:07Samara Tobar: in
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- 8:08Samara Tobar: two
- 8:08Samara Tobar: households,
- 8:09Samara Tobar: um,
- 8:09Samara Tobar: back
- 8:09Samara Tobar: and
- 8:09Samara Tobar: forth.
- 8:10Samara Tobar: But,
- 8:11Samara Tobar: um,
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- 12:11Samara Tobar: know,
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- 12:11Samara Tobar: it's
- 12:11Samara Tobar: time
- 12:11Samara Tobar: to
- 12:11Samara Tobar: go
- 12:12Samara Tobar: back
- 12:12Samara Tobar: in
- 12:13Samara Tobar: those
- 12:13Samara Tobar: days,
- 12:13Samara Tobar: you
- 12:13Samara Tobar: know,
- 12:13Samara Tobar: there,
- 12:14Samara Tobar: there
- 12:14Samara Tobar: wasn't
- 12:14Samara Tobar: too
- 12:14Samara Tobar: much
- 12:15Samara Tobar: of,
- 12:15Samara Tobar: um,
- 12:16Samara Tobar: you
- 12:16Samara Tobar: wouldn't
- 12:16Samara Tobar: hear
- 12:17Samara Tobar: too
- 12:17Samara Tobar: much
- 12:17Samara Tobar: of
- 12:17Samara Tobar: a
- 12:17Samara Tobar: protest
- 12:18Samara Tobar: from
- 12:18Samara Tobar: me
- 12:18Samara Tobar: because
- 12:19Samara Tobar: back
- 12:19Samara Tobar: in
- 12:19Samara Tobar: those
- 12:20Samara Tobar: days,
- 12:20Samara Tobar: you
- 12:20Samara Tobar: know,
- 12:20Samara Tobar: the
- 12:20Samara Tobar: children,
- 12:21Samara Tobar: they
- 12:21Samara Tobar: did
- 12:21Samara Tobar: what
- 12:21Samara Tobar: the
- 12:21Samara Tobar: parents
- 12:22Samara Tobar: asked
- 12:22Samara Tobar: of
- 12:23Samara Tobar: them,
- 12:23Samara Tobar: and
- 12:23Samara Tobar: we
- 12:23Samara Tobar: didn't
- 12:24Samara Tobar: have
- 12:24Samara Tobar: too
- 12:24Samara Tobar: much
- 12:24Samara Tobar: of
- 12:24Samara Tobar: a
- 12:24Samara Tobar: say
- 12:25Samara Tobar: so
- 12:25Samara Tobar: or
- 12:26Samara Tobar: too
- 12:26Samara Tobar: much
- 12:26Samara Tobar: of
- 12:26Samara Tobar: an
- 12:26Samara Tobar: opinion.
- 12:28Samara Tobar: Like
- 12:28Samara Tobar: my
- 12:28Samara Tobar: children
- 12:29Samara Tobar: do
- 12:29Samara Tobar: today.
- 12:29Tony Tidbit: Yeah,
- 12:30Tony Tidbit: yeah.
- 12:30Tony Tidbit: That's
- 12:30Tony Tidbit: true.
- 12:30Tony Tidbit: No,
- 12:31Tony Tidbit: because
- 12:31Tony Tidbit: we
- 12:31Tony Tidbit: didn't,
- 12:31Tony Tidbit: we
- 12:31Tony Tidbit: didn't,
- 12:32Tony Tidbit: we
- 12:32Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 12:32Tony Tidbit: allow
- 12:33Tony Tidbit: that.
- 12:33Tony Tidbit: Right,
- 12:33Tony Tidbit: right.
- 12:34Tony Tidbit: But
- 12:34Tony Tidbit: all
- 12:34Tony Tidbit: that
- 12:34Tony Tidbit: being
- 12:34Tony Tidbit: said,
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: that
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: mean
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: that
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: it's
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: a
- 12:35Tony Tidbit: hundred
- 12:36Tony Tidbit: percent
- 12:36Tony Tidbit: right.
- 12:37Tony Tidbit: Even
- 12:37Tony Tidbit: in
- 12:37Tony Tidbit: that
- 12:38Tony Tidbit: situation.
- 12:39Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 12:40Tony Tidbit: Did
- 12:40Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:40Tony Tidbit: feel
- 12:41Tony Tidbit: confused?
- 12:42Tony Tidbit: Did
- 12:42Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:42Tony Tidbit: feel
- 12:43Tony Tidbit: like
- 12:44Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:44Tony Tidbit: wasn't
- 12:45Tony Tidbit: worthy?
- 12:45Tony Tidbit: Did
- 12:45Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:46Tony Tidbit: feel
- 12:47Tony Tidbit: that
- 12:47Tony Tidbit: something's
- 12:48Tony Tidbit: missing?
- 12:49Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 12:49Tony Tidbit: yeah.
- 12:49Tony Tidbit: You
- 12:49Tony Tidbit: only
- 12:50Tony Tidbit: had
- 12:50Tony Tidbit: a
- 12:50Tony Tidbit: couple
- 12:50Tony Tidbit: friends,
- 12:51Tony Tidbit: but
- 12:51Tony Tidbit: was
- 12:51Tony Tidbit: that
- 12:52Tony Tidbit: because
- 12:52Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:52Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 12:53Tony Tidbit: think
- 12:53Tony Tidbit: other
- 12:53Tony Tidbit: people
- 12:53Tony Tidbit: liked
- 12:54Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:54Tony Tidbit: or
- 12:54Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:55Tony Tidbit: were
- 12:55Tony Tidbit: still,
- 12:55Tony Tidbit: because,
- 12:55Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:55Tony Tidbit: know,
- 12:55Tony Tidbit: one
- 12:56Tony Tidbit: of
- 12:56Tony Tidbit: the
- 12:56Tony Tidbit: things
- 12:56Tony Tidbit: is,
- 12:56Tony Tidbit: I
- 12:56Tony Tidbit: remember,
- 12:57Tony Tidbit: you
- 12:58Tony Tidbit: know,
- 12:58Tony Tidbit: when
- 12:58Tony Tidbit: I
- 12:59Tony Tidbit: was
- 12:59Tony Tidbit: growing
- 12:59Tony Tidbit: up
- 12:59Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:00Tony Tidbit: you
- 13:00Tony Tidbit: know
- 13:01Tony Tidbit: this
- 13:01Tony Tidbit: Uncle
- 13:01Tony Tidbit: Troy
- 13:02Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:02Tony Tidbit: Auntie
- 13:03Tony Tidbit: Dee
- 13:03Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:03Tony Tidbit: Auntie
- 13:04Tony Tidbit: Karles
- 13:04Tony Tidbit: they
- 13:04Tony Tidbit: looked
- 13:04Tony Tidbit: totally
- 13:05Tony Tidbit: different
- 13:05Tony Tidbit: than
- 13:05Tony Tidbit: me.
- 13:06Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 13:06Tony Tidbit: They're
- 13:07Tony Tidbit: lighter,
- 13:07Tony Tidbit: they're
- 13:07Tony Tidbit: fairer
- 13:07Tony Tidbit: skinned.
- 13:08Tony Tidbit: I'm,
- 13:09Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:09Tony Tidbit: was
- 13:09Tony Tidbit: the
- 13:09Tony Tidbit: dark
- 13:10Tony Tidbit: skinned
- 13:10Tony Tidbit: one.
- 13:10Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:10Tony Tidbit: even,
- 13:11Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:11Tony Tidbit: was
- 13:11Tony Tidbit: the
- 13:11Tony Tidbit: older
- 13:11Tony Tidbit: one.
- 13:12Tony Tidbit: And
- 13:12Tony Tidbit: so
- 13:13Tony Tidbit: when
- 13:13Tony Tidbit: you,
- 13:13Tony Tidbit: when
- 13:13Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:13Tony Tidbit: was
- 13:14Tony Tidbit: living
- 13:14Tony Tidbit: in,
- 13:15Tony Tidbit: at
- 13:15Tony Tidbit: home
- 13:16Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:16Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:16Tony Tidbit: see
- 13:16Tony Tidbit: my
- 13:16Tony Tidbit: brothers
- 13:16Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:17Tony Tidbit: sisters,
- 13:17Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:17Tony Tidbit: they're
- 13:18Tony Tidbit: my
- 13:18Tony Tidbit: brothers
- 13:18Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:18Tony Tidbit: sisters,
- 13:18Tony Tidbit: but
- 13:18Tony Tidbit: they
- 13:19Tony Tidbit: don't
- 13:19Tony Tidbit: look
- 13:19Tony Tidbit: like
- 13:19Tony Tidbit: me.
- 13:20Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 13:21Tony Tidbit: All
- 13:21Tony Tidbit: of
- 13:21Tony Tidbit: a
- 13:21Tony Tidbit: sudden
- 13:22Tony Tidbit: that
- 13:22Tony Tidbit: just,
- 13:22Tony Tidbit: it
- 13:23Tony Tidbit: just
- 13:23Tony Tidbit: bothered
- 13:23Tony Tidbit: me.
- 13:24Tony Tidbit: Because
- 13:24Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:24Tony Tidbit: was
- 13:25Tony Tidbit: looking
- 13:25Tony Tidbit: for
- 13:25Tony Tidbit: somebody
- 13:26Tony Tidbit: to
- 13:26Tony Tidbit: look
- 13:26Tony Tidbit: like
- 13:27Tony Tidbit: me.
- 13:27Tony Tidbit: My
- 13:27Tony Tidbit: mother
- 13:28Tony Tidbit: looked
- 13:28Tony Tidbit: like
- 13:29Tony Tidbit: me.
- 13:29Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 13:30Tony Tidbit: But
- 13:30Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:30Tony Tidbit: didn't,
- 13:31Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:31Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 13:31Tony Tidbit: see
- 13:32Tony Tidbit: me,
- 13:32Tony Tidbit: my
- 13:32Tony Tidbit: father,
- 13:33Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:33Tony Tidbit: didn't,
- 13:34Tony Tidbit: so
- 13:34Tony Tidbit: that
- 13:35Tony Tidbit: thing
- 13:35Tony Tidbit: bothered.
- 13:35Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:36Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 13:36Tony Tidbit: say
- 13:36Tony Tidbit: nothing
- 13:37Tony Tidbit: to
- 13:37Tony Tidbit: nobody,
- 13:38Tony Tidbit: but
- 13:39Tony Tidbit: it
- 13:39Tony Tidbit: really
- 13:39Tony Tidbit: internally
- 13:40Tony Tidbit: bothered
- 13:40Tony Tidbit: me
- 13:41Tony Tidbit: because
- 13:42Tony Tidbit: it's
- 13:42Tony Tidbit: like,
- 13:43Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:43Tony Tidbit: don't
- 13:43Tony Tidbit: fit
- 13:44Tony Tidbit: in
- 13:44Tony Tidbit: here.
- 13:45Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 13:46Tony Tidbit: Because,
- 13:46Tony Tidbit: you
- 13:47Tony Tidbit: know,
- 13:47Tony Tidbit: a
- 13:47Tony Tidbit: lot
- 13:47Tony Tidbit: of
- 13:47Tony Tidbit: colorism
- 13:48Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:48Tony Tidbit: stuff
- 13:48Tony Tidbit: was
- 13:49Tony Tidbit: going
- 13:49Tony Tidbit: on
- 13:49Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:49Tony Tidbit: still
- 13:49Tony Tidbit: goes
- 13:50Tony Tidbit: on.
- 13:50Tony Tidbit: And
- 13:51Tony Tidbit: so
- 13:51Tony Tidbit: being
- 13:51Tony Tidbit: dark
- 13:51Tony Tidbit: skinned,
- 13:52Tony Tidbit: you
- 13:52Tony Tidbit: know,
- 13:53Tony Tidbit: and
- 13:53Tony Tidbit: at
- 13:53Tony Tidbit: least
- 13:53Tony Tidbit: I
- 13:54Tony Tidbit: thought
- 13:54Tony Tidbit: was,
- 13:55Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 13:55Tony Tidbit: a
- 13:55Tony Tidbit: negative,
- 13:56Tony Tidbit: um,
- 13:57Tony Tidbit: right.
- 13:57Tony Tidbit: And
- 13:57Tony Tidbit: then
- 13:57Tony Tidbit: kids
- 13:57Tony Tidbit: would
- 13:58Tony Tidbit: tease
- 13:58Tony Tidbit: me
- 13:58Tony Tidbit: at
- 13:59Tony Tidbit: school
- 14:00Tony Tidbit: and
- 14:00Tony Tidbit: call
- 14:00Tony Tidbit: me,
- 14:00Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:00Tony Tidbit: know,
- 14:01Tony Tidbit: black,
- 14:01Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 14:02Tony Tidbit: whatever,
- 14:03Tony Tidbit: tar.
- 14:03Tony Tidbit: And
- 14:04Tony Tidbit: these
- 14:04Tony Tidbit: wasn't
- 14:04Tony Tidbit: white
- 14:04Tony Tidbit: kids,
- 14:05Tony Tidbit: to
- 14:05Tony Tidbit: be
- 14:05Tony Tidbit: fair?
- 14:06Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 14:06Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 14:06Tony Tidbit: These
- 14:06Tony Tidbit: were
- 14:07Tony Tidbit: black
- 14:07Tony Tidbit: kids.
- 14:08Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 14:09Tony Tidbit: And
- 14:09Tony Tidbit: so
- 14:09Tony Tidbit: if
- 14:09Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:09Tony Tidbit: were
- 14:09Tony Tidbit: lighter
- 14:10Tony Tidbit: skinned,
- 14:10Tony Tidbit: everybody
- 14:11Tony Tidbit: loved
- 14:11Tony Tidbit: you,
- 14:11Tony Tidbit: okay?
- 14:12Tony Tidbit: But
- 14:12Tony Tidbit: if
- 14:12Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:12Tony Tidbit: were
- 14:13Tony Tidbit: dark
- 14:13Tony Tidbit: skinned,
- 14:14Tony Tidbit: then
- 14:14Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:14Tony Tidbit: were
- 14:14Tony Tidbit: the
- 14:14Tony Tidbit: bottom
- 14:15Tony Tidbit: of
- 14:15Tony Tidbit: the
- 14:15Tony Tidbit: bottom.
- 14:16Tony Tidbit: And
- 14:16Tony Tidbit: so
- 14:17Tony Tidbit: growing
- 14:17Tony Tidbit: up
- 14:17Tony Tidbit: that
- 14:18Tony Tidbit: way.
- 14:19Tony Tidbit: Then
- 14:19Tony Tidbit: seeing
- 14:19Tony Tidbit: my
- 14:19Tony Tidbit: brothers
- 14:20Tony Tidbit: and
- 14:20Tony Tidbit: sisters
- 14:20Tony Tidbit: who
- 14:20Tony Tidbit: were
- 14:20Tony Tidbit: lighter
- 14:21Tony Tidbit: skinned,
- 14:21Tony Tidbit: it
- 14:22Tony Tidbit: made
- 14:22Tony Tidbit: me
- 14:22Tony Tidbit: feel
- 14:23Tony Tidbit: like
- 14:23Tony Tidbit: I
- 14:23Tony Tidbit: said
- 14:23Tony Tidbit: inferior.
- 14:24Tony Tidbit: And
- 14:25Tony Tidbit: it
- 14:25Tony Tidbit: bothered
- 14:25Tony Tidbit: me.
- 14:26Tony Tidbit: I
- 14:26Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 14:26Tony Tidbit: even
- 14:26Tony Tidbit: wanna
- 14:26Tony Tidbit: wear
- 14:27Tony Tidbit: white
- 14:27Tony Tidbit: shirts
- 14:28Tony Tidbit: or
- 14:28Tony Tidbit: any
- 14:29Tony Tidbit: light
- 14:29Tony Tidbit: colors
- 14:30Tony Tidbit: because
- 14:31Tony Tidbit: I
- 14:31Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 14:31Tony Tidbit: want,
- 14:32Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:32Tony Tidbit: know,
- 14:33Tony Tidbit: I
- 14:33Tony Tidbit: thought
- 14:33Tony Tidbit: it
- 14:33Tony Tidbit: would
- 14:33Tony Tidbit: accentuate
- 14:34Tony Tidbit: my
- 14:34Tony Tidbit: dark
- 14:35Tony Tidbit: skin.
- 14:36Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 14:36Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 14:36Tony Tidbit: So
- 14:37Tony Tidbit: talk
- 14:37Tony Tidbit: about,
- 14:37Tony Tidbit: was
- 14:37Tony Tidbit: there,
- 14:38Tony Tidbit: did
- 14:38Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:38Tony Tidbit: have
- 14:39Tony Tidbit: any
- 14:39Tony Tidbit: of
- 14:39Tony Tidbit: that?
- 14:39Tony Tidbit: And
- 14:39Tony Tidbit: if
- 14:39Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:40Tony Tidbit: didn't,
- 14:40Tony Tidbit: that's
- 14:40Tony Tidbit: fine,
- 14:41Tony Tidbit: but
- 14:41Tony Tidbit: was
- 14:41Tony Tidbit: there,
- 14:42Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 14:42Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:42Tony Tidbit: know,
- 14:42Tony Tidbit: times
- 14:43Tony Tidbit: where
- 14:43Tony Tidbit: you
- 14:43Tony Tidbit: felt
- 14:44Tony Tidbit: like
- 14:44Tony Tidbit: misaligned
- 14:45Tony Tidbit: or
- 14:46Tony Tidbit: not
- 14:46Tony Tidbit: connected,
- 14:47Tony Tidbit: or
- 14:47Tony Tidbit: confused
- 14:49Tony Tidbit: or
- 14:49Tony Tidbit: shamed?
- 14:50Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 14:51Tony Tidbit: let
- 14:51Tony Tidbit: me
- 14:51Tony Tidbit: hear
- 14:51Tony Tidbit: it.
- 14:52Samara Tobar: Absolutely.
- 14:54Samara Tobar: Um,
- 14:55Samara Tobar: dating
- 14:55Samara Tobar: back
- 14:55Samara Tobar: to
- 14:56Samara Tobar: as
- 14:56Samara Tobar: far
- 14:56Samara Tobar: as
- 14:56Samara Tobar: like
- 14:56Samara Tobar: sixth
- 14:57Samara Tobar: and
- 14:57Samara Tobar: seventh
- 14:57Samara Tobar: grade
- 14:58Samara Tobar: in,
- 14:59Samara Tobar: uh,
- 14:59Samara Tobar: Middletown,
- 15:00Samara Tobar: I
- 15:01Samara Tobar: remember
- 15:01Samara Tobar: I
- 15:01Samara Tobar: was
- 15:01Samara Tobar: in,
- 15:02Samara Tobar: uh,
- 15:03Samara Tobar: middle
- 15:03Samara Tobar: school
- 15:03Samara Tobar: there
- 15:04Samara Tobar: and
- 15:05Samara Tobar: there
- 15:05Samara Tobar: are
- 15:05Samara Tobar: these
- 15:05Samara Tobar: groups,
- 15:06Samara Tobar: uh,
- 15:06Samara Tobar: it
- 15:06Samara Tobar: was
- 15:06Samara Tobar: a
- 15:06Samara Tobar: group
- 15:07Samara Tobar: of,
- 15:07Samara Tobar: actually
- 15:08Samara Tobar: we
- 15:08Samara Tobar: had
- 15:08Samara Tobar: a
- 15:08Samara Tobar: large
- 15:08Samara Tobar: black
- 15:09Samara Tobar: population
- 15:09Samara Tobar: at
- 15:09Samara Tobar: that
- 15:10Samara Tobar: school.
- 15:10Samara Tobar: It
- 15:10Samara Tobar: was,
- 15:10Samara Tobar: uh,
- 15:12Samara Tobar: I
- 15:12Samara Tobar: think
- 15:12Samara Tobar: Woodrow
- 15:12Samara Tobar: Wilson
- 15:13Samara Tobar: let's
- 15:13Samara Tobar: say.
- 15:13Samara Tobar: And
- 15:14Samara Tobar: then,
- 15:14Samara Tobar: um,
- 15:14Samara Tobar: the
- 15:15Samara Tobar: guys
- 15:15Samara Tobar: would
- 15:16Samara Tobar: probably.
- 15:17Samara Tobar: Looking
- 15:17Samara Tobar: back
- 15:17Samara Tobar: now,
- 15:18Samara Tobar: they
- 15:18Samara Tobar: probably
- 15:18Samara Tobar: had
- 15:18Samara Tobar: a
- 15:18Samara Tobar: crush
- 15:18Samara Tobar: on
- 15:19Samara Tobar: me,
- 15:19Samara Tobar: but
- 15:19Samara Tobar: they
- 15:19Samara Tobar: teased
- 15:20Samara Tobar: me
- 15:20Samara Tobar: to
- 15:20Samara Tobar: no
- 15:20Samara Tobar: end.
- 15:21Samara Tobar: And
- 15:21Samara Tobar: I
- 15:21Samara Tobar: was
- 15:21Samara Tobar: so
- 15:21Samara Tobar: frustrated.
- 15:23Samara Tobar: You
- 15:23Samara Tobar: know,
- 15:23Samara Tobar: they
- 15:23Samara Tobar: would
- 15:24Samara Tobar: say
- 15:24Samara Tobar: things
- 15:24Samara Tobar: like,
- 15:24Samara Tobar: you
- 15:25Samara Tobar: ain't
- 15:25Samara Tobar: white,
- 15:26Samara Tobar: or
- 15:26Samara Tobar: Excuse
- 15:26Samara Tobar: me,
- 15:26Samara Tobar: you
- 15:27Samara Tobar: ain't
- 15:27Samara Tobar: black.
- 15:27Samara Tobar: You
- 15:27Samara Tobar: can't
- 15:28Samara Tobar: be
- 15:28Samara Tobar: black.
- 15:28Samara Tobar: And
- 15:28Samara Tobar: then
- 15:29Samara Tobar: me,
- 15:29Samara Tobar: I'm
- 15:29Samara Tobar: like,
- 15:30Samara Tobar: but
- 15:31Samara Tobar: I
- 15:31Samara Tobar: am
- 15:31Samara Tobar: and
- 15:31Samara Tobar: I'm
- 15:32Samara Tobar: naive.
- 15:32Samara Tobar: I'm
- 15:32Samara Tobar: trying
- 15:33Samara Tobar: to
- 15:33Samara Tobar: prove
- 15:33Samara Tobar: like
- 15:33Samara Tobar: my
- 15:33Samara Tobar: mom's
- 15:34Samara Tobar: black,
- 15:34Samara Tobar: you
- 15:34Samara Tobar: can
- 15:34Samara Tobar: see
- 15:35Samara Tobar: her
- 15:35Samara Tobar: when
- 15:35Samara Tobar: she
- 15:35Samara Tobar: picks
- 15:35Samara Tobar: me
- 15:35Samara Tobar: up
- 15:36Samara Tobar: today.
- 15:36Samara Tobar: What's
- 15:36Samara Tobar: your
- 15:37Samara Tobar: mom's
- 15:37Samara Tobar: name?
- 15:38Samara Tobar: Stephanie,
- 15:39Samara Tobar: her
- 15:39Samara Tobar: name.
- 15:40Samara Tobar: That's
- 15:40Samara Tobar: a
- 15:40Samara Tobar: white
- 15:40Samara Tobar: name.
- 15:40Samara Tobar: Her.
- 15:41Samara Tobar: You
- 15:41Samara Tobar: know,
- 15:41Samara Tobar: your
- 15:41Samara Tobar: mom
- 15:41Samara Tobar: ain't
- 15:42Samara Tobar: black.
- 15:42Samara Tobar: I'm
- 15:42Samara Tobar: like,
- 15:43Samara Tobar: oh
- 15:43Samara Tobar: my
- 15:43Samara Tobar: God.
- 15:43Samara Tobar: So
- 15:43Samara Tobar: it's
- 15:43Samara Tobar: like
- 15:44Samara Tobar: having
- 15:44Samara Tobar: to
- 15:44Samara Tobar: prove
- 15:45Samara Tobar: to
- 15:45Samara Tobar: them,
- 15:45Samara Tobar: you
- 15:45Samara Tobar: know,
- 15:46Samara Tobar: that
- 15:46Samara Tobar: I
- 15:46Samara Tobar: am
- 15:47Samara Tobar: in
- 15:47Samara Tobar: fact
- 15:47Samara Tobar: black
- 15:48Samara Tobar: and
- 15:48Samara Tobar: then
- 15:48Samara Tobar: like
- 15:50Samara Tobar: getting
- 15:50Samara Tobar: braids,
- 15:51Samara Tobar: oh,
- 15:51Samara Tobar: look
- 15:51Samara Tobar: at
- 15:51Samara Tobar: the
- 15:51Samara Tobar: white
- 15:52Samara Tobar: girl
- 15:52Samara Tobar: with
- 15:52Samara Tobar: braids.
- 15:53Samara Tobar: You
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- 16:07Samara Tobar: like,
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- 18:01Samara Tobar: brat.
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- 20:17Samara Tobar: and
- 20:18Samara Tobar: um,
- 20:18Samara Tobar: with
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- 20:21Samara Tobar: actually
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- 20:21Samara Tobar: in
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- 20:22Samara Tobar: service
- 20:22Samara Tobar: and
- 20:23Samara Tobar: serving
- 20:23Samara Tobar: people
- 20:24Samara Tobar: and
- 20:24Samara Tobar: supporting
- 20:24Samara Tobar: people.
- 20:25Samara Tobar: Um.
- 20:27Samara Tobar: I
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- 20:28Samara Tobar: that
- 20:28Samara Tobar: going
- 20:29Samara Tobar: into
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- 20:29Samara Tobar: but
- 20:30Samara Tobar: for
- 20:31Samara Tobar: human
- 20:31Samara Tobar: resources
- 20:32Samara Tobar: was
- 20:33Samara Tobar: my
- 20:33Samara Tobar: niche
- 20:34Samara Tobar: because
- 20:35Samara Tobar: I
- 20:35Samara Tobar: could
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- 20:36Samara Tobar: people
- 20:36Samara Tobar: a
- 20:36Samara Tobar: different
- 20:36Samara Tobar: experience.
- 20:37Samara Tobar: I
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- 20:38Samara Tobar: gently
- 20:38Samara Tobar: disarm
- 20:39Samara Tobar: people
- 20:39Samara Tobar: to
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- 20:45Samara Tobar: simple
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- 20:48Samara Tobar: direct
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- 20:54Samara Tobar: you
- 20:54Samara Tobar: know,
- 20:55Samara Tobar: affecting
- 20:55Samara Tobar: them
- 20:56Samara Tobar: in
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- 20:57Samara Tobar: job.
- 20:58Samara Tobar: Um,
- 20:58Samara Tobar: I
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- 20:59Samara Tobar: that
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- 21:20Samara Tobar: So
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- 21:21Samara Tobar: was
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- 21:24Samara Tobar: my
- 21:24Samara Tobar: walk
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- 21:25Samara Tobar: life.
- 21:26Samara Tobar: Spans
- 21:27Samara Tobar: so
- 21:27Samara Tobar: many
- 21:27Samara Tobar: different,
- 21:28Samara Tobar: um,
- 21:29Samara Tobar: experiences.
- 21:30Samara Tobar: Um,
- 21:31Samara Tobar: you
- 21:32Samara Tobar: know,
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- 21:33Samara Tobar: been
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- 21:36Samara Tobar: you
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- 21:42Samara Tobar: plenty.
- 21:42Samara Tobar: Right?
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- 21:44Samara Tobar: I
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- 21:44Samara Tobar: both,
- 21:45Samara Tobar: um,
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- 21:46Samara Tobar: and
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- 21:50Samara Tobar: that
- 21:50Samara Tobar: experience,
- 21:50Samara Tobar: it
- 21:51Samara Tobar: helps
- 21:51Samara Tobar: me
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- 21:51Samara Tobar: how
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- 21:53Samara Tobar: up
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- 21:56Tony Tidbit: When
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- 21:58Tony Tidbit: the
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- 22:01Samara Tobar: close
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- 22:30Tony Tidbit: Just
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- 22:38Tony Tidbit: Remember
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- 22:42Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
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- 22:48Tony Tidbit: Never
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- 23:23Samara Tobar: parents
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- 23:26Samara Tobar: um,
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- 23:29Samara Tobar: They
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- 23:30Samara Tobar: you
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- 23:33Samara Tobar: My
- 23:34Samara Tobar: grandfather
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- 23:43Samara Tobar: very
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- 23:46Samara Tobar: was
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- 23:52Samara Tobar: with
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- 23:53Samara Tobar: experiences
- 23:54Samara Tobar: where
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- 23:55Samara Tobar: had
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- 23:56Samara Tobar: that
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- 23:57Samara Tobar: chest
- 23:57Samara Tobar: and
- 23:57Samara Tobar: just
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- 23:58Samara Tobar: going,
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- 23:58Samara Tobar: head
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- 23:59Samara Tobar: going.
- 24:00Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 24:04Samara Tobar: um.
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- 24:11Samara Tobar: That's
- 24:11Samara Tobar: my
- 24:11Samara Tobar: legacy.
- 24:13Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 24:16Samara Tobar: it's
- 24:16Samara Tobar: so
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- 24:19Samara Tobar: generations,
- 24:20Samara Tobar: right?
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- 24:50Samara Tobar: are
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- 24:52Samara Tobar: information
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- 24:58Samara Tobar: generations.
- 24:59Samara Tobar: Um,
- 25:00Samara Tobar: but
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- 25:01Samara Tobar: really
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- 25:03Samara Tobar: The
- 25:04Samara Tobar: capacity
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- 25:05Samara Tobar: hey.
- 25:06Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 25:09Samara Tobar: pattern
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- 25:20Samara Tobar: my
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- 25:23Samara Tobar: I
- 25:23Samara Tobar: can't
- 25:24Samara Tobar: like,
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- 25:25Samara Tobar: things
- 25:25Samara Tobar: anymore
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- 25:26Samara Tobar: I'm
- 25:26Samara Tobar: gonna
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- 25:27Samara Tobar: 'em
- 25:27Samara Tobar: out.
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- 25:29Samara Tobar: nerves
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- 25:39Samara Tobar: me
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- 25:40Samara Tobar: like,
- 25:40Samara Tobar: what,
- 25:41Samara Tobar: what's
- 25:41Samara Tobar: my
- 25:41Samara Tobar: purpose
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- 25:43Samara Tobar: me
- 25:43Samara Tobar: here
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- 25:43Samara Tobar: reason.
- 25:44Samara Tobar: It's
- 25:45Samara Tobar: like,
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- 25:46Samara Tobar: like
- 25:46Samara Tobar: a
- 25:46Samara Tobar: ton
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- 25:47Samara Tobar: I
- 25:47Samara Tobar: would
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- 25:48Samara Tobar: within
- 25:48Samara Tobar: the
- 25:48Samara Tobar: last
- 25:49Samara Tobar: two
- 25:49Samara Tobar: weeks.
- 25:50Samara Tobar: This
- 25:50Samara Tobar: intergenerational
- 25:51Samara Tobar: redeemer
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- 25:53Samara Tobar: thing,
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- 25:56Samara Tobar: who
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- 25:57Samara Tobar: be.
- 25:58Tony Tidbit: So
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- 25:59Tony Tidbit: some
- 25:59Tony Tidbit: examples,
- 26:00Tony Tidbit: right?
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- 26:01Tony Tidbit: some,
- 26:01Tony Tidbit: give
- 26:02Tony Tidbit: us
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- 26:06Tony Tidbit: parents
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- 26:13Tony Tidbit: ability.
- 26:14Tony Tidbit: Um,
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- 26:20Samara Tobar: Okay.
- 26:20Samara Tobar: Um,
- 26:21Samara Tobar: so
- 26:24Samara Tobar: for
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- 26:25Samara Tobar: um,
- 26:25Samara Tobar: my
- 26:26Samara Tobar: dad,
- 26:26Samara Tobar: my
- 26:26Samara Tobar: bio
- 26:27Samara Tobar: dad
- 26:27Samara Tobar: is
- 26:28Samara Tobar: a
- 26:28Samara Tobar: Marine.
- 26:29Samara Tobar: He
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- 26:29Samara Tobar: Marine.
- 26:30Samara Tobar: He
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- 26:30Samara Tobar: right?
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- 26:37Samara Tobar: the
- 26:37Samara Tobar: service.
- 26:38Samara Tobar: I
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- 26:40Samara Tobar: um,
- 26:41Samara Tobar: things
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- 26:44Samara Tobar: But
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- 26:46Samara Tobar: type
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- 26:48Samara Tobar: or,
- 26:49Samara Tobar: um,
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- 26:50Samara Tobar: way
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- 26:50Samara Tobar: processes
- 26:51Samara Tobar: things,
- 26:51Samara Tobar: I
- 26:51Samara Tobar: will
- 26:52Samara Tobar: never
- 26:52Samara Tobar: know
- 26:52Samara Tobar: in
- 26:52Samara Tobar: detail,
- 26:53Samara Tobar: in
- 26:53Samara Tobar: depth,
- 26:54Samara Tobar: right?
- 26:54Samara Tobar: Mm-hmm.
- 26:54Samara Tobar: So
- 26:54Samara Tobar: I
- 26:55Samara Tobar: can
- 26:55Samara Tobar: only
- 26:55Samara Tobar: imagine.
- 26:56Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 26:59Samara Tobar: how
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- 27:01Samara Tobar: me.
- 27:01Samara Tobar: Mm-hmm.
- 27:02Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 27:02Samara Tobar: how
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- 27:03Samara Tobar: with
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- 27:06Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 27:07Samara Tobar: with
- 27:07Samara Tobar: my
- 27:08Samara Tobar: mother.
- 27:08Samara Tobar: There
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- 27:10Samara Tobar: very,
- 27:11Samara Tobar: um,
- 27:12Samara Tobar: deep,
- 27:14Samara Tobar: deeply
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- 27:17Samara Tobar: childhood,
- 27:18Samara Tobar: um,
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- 27:21Samara Tobar: when,
- 27:21Samara Tobar: you
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- 27:22Samara Tobar: me,
- 27:23Samara Tobar: um,
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- 27:25Samara Tobar: aware
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- 27:25Samara Tobar: but
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- 27:27Samara Tobar: lot
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- 27:28Samara Tobar: I
- 27:28Samara Tobar: don't
- 27:28Samara Tobar: know
- 27:28Samara Tobar: about
- 27:29Samara Tobar: fully.
- 27:29Samara Tobar: Um,
- 27:30Samara Tobar: I
- 27:30Samara Tobar: can
- 27:30Samara Tobar: only
- 27:30Samara Tobar: imagine.
- 27:31Samara Tobar: But
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- 27:32Samara Tobar: all
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- 27:32Samara Tobar: patterns
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- 27:34Samara Tobar: And
- 27:34Samara Tobar: I'm
- 27:34Samara Tobar: not
- 27:35Samara Tobar: a
- 27:35Samara Tobar: mental
- 27:35Samara Tobar: health
- 27:35Samara Tobar: professional.
- 27:36Samara Tobar: Um,
- 27:37Samara Tobar: but
- 27:37Samara Tobar: I
- 27:37Samara Tobar: have.
- 27:38Samara Tobar: Accessed,
- 27:40Samara Tobar: you
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- 27:40Samara Tobar: those,
- 27:40Samara Tobar: uh,
- 27:41Samara Tobar: modalities
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- 27:43Samara Tobar: for
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- 27:44Samara Tobar: a
- 27:44Samara Tobar: decade.
- 27:45Samara Tobar: And
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- 27:45Samara Tobar: very
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- 27:48Samara Tobar: um,
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- 27:54Samara Tobar: And
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- 27:58Samara Tobar: I
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- 27:59Samara Tobar: a
- 28:00Samara Tobar: rich,
- 28:01Samara Tobar: colorful
- 28:02Samara Tobar: history
- 28:03Samara Tobar: and
- 28:03Samara Tobar: upbringing.
- 28:04Samara Tobar: And
- 28:04Samara Tobar: all
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- 28:05Samara Tobar: saw
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- 28:05Samara Tobar: this
- 28:06Samara Tobar: magical
- 28:07Samara Tobar: woman
- 28:07Samara Tobar: who
- 28:08Samara Tobar: was
- 28:08Samara Tobar: beautiful,
- 28:09Samara Tobar: who
- 28:09Samara Tobar: took
- 28:09Samara Tobar: a
- 28:10Samara Tobar: lot
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- 28:10Samara Tobar: pride
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- 28:11Samara Tobar: how
- 28:11Samara Tobar: she
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- 28:11Samara Tobar: her
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- 28:12Samara Tobar: a
- 28:12Samara Tobar: lot
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- 28:13Samara Tobar: pride
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- 28:13Samara Tobar: her
- 28:13Samara Tobar: appearance.
- 28:15Samara Tobar: Um,
- 28:16Samara Tobar: but
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- 28:18Samara Tobar: woman
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- 28:20Samara Tobar: reared
- 28:20Samara Tobar: children
- 28:21Samara Tobar: herself
- 28:21Samara Tobar: and
- 28:22Samara Tobar: who
- 28:22Samara Tobar: has
- 28:22Samara Tobar: grandchildren
- 28:22Samara Tobar: herself,
- 28:23Samara Tobar: I
- 28:23Samara Tobar: can
- 28:24Samara Tobar: look
- 28:24Samara Tobar: back
- 28:24Samara Tobar: at
- 28:24Samara Tobar: Nana
- 28:25Samara Tobar: at
- 28:25Samara Tobar: different
- 28:26Samara Tobar: seasons
- 28:26Samara Tobar: of
- 28:26Samara Tobar: our
- 28:27Samara Tobar: lives
- 28:27Samara Tobar: together
- 28:28Samara Tobar: and
- 28:30Samara Tobar: just
- 28:30Samara Tobar: have
- 28:31Samara Tobar: so
- 28:31Samara Tobar: much
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- 28:32Samara Tobar: empathy
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- 28:35Samara Tobar: she
- 28:35Samara Tobar: was
- 28:35Samara Tobar: carrying.
- 28:36Samara Tobar: I
- 28:36Samara Tobar: know
- 28:36Samara Tobar: it
- 28:36Samara Tobar: was
- 28:37Samara Tobar: so.
- 28:37Samara Tobar: Right,
- 28:38Samara Tobar: right.
- 28:38Samara Tobar: But
- 28:38Samara Tobar: I
- 28:38Samara Tobar: don't
- 28:39Samara Tobar: know
- 28:39Samara Tobar: exactly
- 28:39Samara Tobar: what
- 28:39Samara Tobar: it
- 28:39Samara Tobar: was.
- 28:40Samara Tobar: Right.
- 28:41Samara Tobar: But
- 28:41Samara Tobar: now
- 28:42Samara Tobar: here
- 28:43Samara Tobar: I
- 28:43Samara Tobar: stand
- 28:44Samara Tobar: with
- 28:44Samara Tobar: having
- 28:44Samara Tobar: those
- 28:45Samara Tobar: lived
- 28:45Samara Tobar: experiences,
- 28:46Samara Tobar: you
- 28:46Samara Tobar: know,
- 28:46Samara Tobar: with,
- 28:47Samara Tobar: you
- 28:47Samara Tobar: know,
- 28:47Samara Tobar: my
- 28:47Samara Tobar: nana,
- 28:48Samara Tobar: who's
- 28:48Samara Tobar: not
- 28:48Samara Tobar: here
- 28:48Samara Tobar: anymore
- 28:49Samara Tobar: with
- 28:50Samara Tobar: my
- 28:50Samara Tobar: granny,
- 28:50Samara Tobar: who's
- 28:50Samara Tobar: no
- 28:50Samara Tobar: longer
- 28:51Samara Tobar: here,
- 28:51Samara Tobar: my
- 28:52Samara Tobar: alo,
- 28:52Samara Tobar: who's
- 28:52Samara Tobar: no
- 28:53Samara Tobar: longer
- 28:53Samara Tobar: here
- 28:53Samara Tobar: with
- 28:53Samara Tobar: us.
- 28:54Samara Tobar: Um,
- 28:55Samara Tobar: but
- 28:55Samara Tobar: just
- 28:55Samara Tobar: having
- 28:56Samara Tobar: some
- 28:56Samara Tobar: of
- 28:56Samara Tobar: their
- 28:56Samara Tobar: story
- 28:57Samara Tobar: and
- 28:58Samara Tobar: knowing
- 28:58Samara Tobar: that
- 28:59Samara Tobar: I
- 28:59Samara Tobar: was
- 29:00Samara Tobar: their
- 29:00Samara Tobar: first
- 29:00Samara Tobar: grandchild,
- 29:02Samara Tobar: the
- 29:02Samara Tobar: oldest
- 29:02Samara Tobar: one,
- 29:03Samara Tobar: right?
- 29:03Samara Tobar: Knowing
- 29:03Samara Tobar: how
- 29:04Samara Tobar: much
- 29:04Samara Tobar: love
- 29:04Samara Tobar: that
- 29:04Samara Tobar: they
- 29:05Samara Tobar: poured
- 29:05Samara Tobar: into
- 29:05Samara Tobar: me
- 29:06Samara Tobar: and
- 29:07Samara Tobar: how
- 29:07Samara Tobar: they
- 29:07Samara Tobar: all
- 29:08Samara Tobar: raised
- 29:08Samara Tobar: me
- 29:09Samara Tobar: and
- 29:09Samara Tobar: put
- 29:09Samara Tobar: their
- 29:09Samara Tobar: mark
- 29:10Samara Tobar: on
- 29:10Samara Tobar: me
- 29:10Samara Tobar: with
- 29:10Samara Tobar: their
- 29:10Samara Tobar: bare
- 29:10Samara Tobar: hands.
- 29:11Samara Tobar: I
- 29:11Samara Tobar: feel
- 29:12Samara Tobar: like
- 29:12Samara Tobar: it
- 29:12Samara Tobar: is
- 29:13Samara Tobar: a
- 29:13Samara Tobar: part
- 29:13Samara Tobar: of
- 29:13Samara Tobar: my
- 29:13Samara Tobar: life's
- 29:14Samara Tobar: work
- 29:15Samara Tobar: to
- 29:16Samara Tobar: make
- 29:16Samara Tobar: sure
- 29:16Samara Tobar: that
- 29:18Samara Tobar: the
- 29:18Samara Tobar: legacy
- 29:19Samara Tobar: that
- 29:19Samara Tobar: they
- 29:19Samara Tobar: left,
- 29:20Samara Tobar: that
- 29:20Samara Tobar: we
- 29:20Samara Tobar: are
- 29:21Samara Tobar: solid,
- 29:22Samara Tobar: that
- 29:22Samara Tobar: we're
- 29:23Samara Tobar: good,
- 29:23Samara Tobar: and
- 29:23Samara Tobar: that
- 29:23Samara Tobar: the
- 29:24Samara Tobar: legacy
- 29:24Samara Tobar: that's
- 29:24Samara Tobar: coming
- 29:24Samara Tobar: behind
- 29:25Samara Tobar: us
- 29:26Samara Tobar: is
- 29:26Samara Tobar: even
- 29:26Samara Tobar: better
- 29:27Samara Tobar: than
- 29:28Samara Tobar: we
- 29:28Samara Tobar: are.
- 29:29Samara Tobar: So
- 29:31Samara Tobar: just
- 29:31Samara Tobar: amongst
- 29:32Samara Tobar: my
- 29:32Samara Tobar: cousins,
- 29:32Samara Tobar: my
- 29:33Samara Tobar: cousins
- 29:33Samara Tobar: on
- 29:33Samara Tobar: the
- 29:34Samara Tobar: Franklin
- 29:34Samara Tobar: side,
- 29:34Samara Tobar: who
- 29:34Samara Tobar: are
- 29:34Samara Tobar: like
- 29:35Samara Tobar: my
- 29:35Samara Tobar: siblings,
- 29:36Samara Tobar: um,
- 29:36Samara Tobar: because
- 29:36Samara Tobar: of
- 29:37Samara Tobar: how
- 29:37Samara Tobar: we
- 29:37Samara Tobar: all
- 29:37Samara Tobar: grew
- 29:37Samara Tobar: up
- 29:37Samara Tobar: together.
- 29:38Samara Tobar: Um,
- 29:39Samara Tobar: I'm
- 29:39Samara Tobar: proud
- 29:40Samara Tobar: to
- 29:40Samara Tobar: say
- 29:40Samara Tobar: that
- 29:42Samara Tobar: man,
- 29:43Samara Tobar: we
- 29:43Samara Tobar: are
- 29:43Samara Tobar: a
- 29:43Samara Tobar: reflection
- 29:44Samara Tobar: of
- 29:44Samara Tobar: you
- 29:44Samara Tobar: guys,
- 29:45Samara Tobar: but
- 29:45Samara Tobar: like
- 29:46Samara Tobar: the
- 29:46Samara Tobar: 2.0
- 29:46Samara Tobar: version,
- 29:48Samara Tobar: um,
- 29:48Samara Tobar: everybody
- 29:48Samara Tobar: is,
- 29:49Samara Tobar: you
- 29:49Samara Tobar: know,
- 29:50Samara Tobar: accessed
- 29:51Samara Tobar: therapy
- 29:51Samara Tobar: at
- 29:51Samara Tobar: one
- 29:52Samara Tobar: time
- 29:52Samara Tobar: or
- 29:52Samara Tobar: another.
- 29:52Samara Tobar: Like
- 29:53Samara Tobar: we,
- 29:53Samara Tobar: we
- 29:54Samara Tobar: recognize
- 29:55Samara Tobar: like
- 29:55Samara Tobar: we
- 29:56Samara Tobar: need,
- 29:56Samara Tobar: we
- 29:57Samara Tobar: need
- 29:57Samara Tobar: to
- 29:57Samara Tobar: be
- 29:57Samara Tobar: better,
- 29:57Samara Tobar: we
- 29:57Samara Tobar: need
- 29:58Samara Tobar: help,
- 29:58Samara Tobar: we
- 29:58Samara Tobar: wanna
- 29:58Samara Tobar: do
- 29:58Samara Tobar: better.
- 29:59Samara Tobar: Our
- 29:59Samara Tobar: parents,
- 30:00Samara Tobar: one
- 30:01Samara Tobar: thing
- 30:01Samara Tobar: that
- 30:01Samara Tobar: you
- 30:01Samara Tobar: guys
- 30:02Samara Tobar: had
- 30:02Samara Tobar: solid
- 30:03Samara Tobar: and
- 30:03Samara Tobar: down
- 30:03Samara Tobar: was
- 30:04Samara Tobar: the
- 30:04Samara Tobar: love.
- 30:05Samara Tobar: You
- 30:05Samara Tobar: guys
- 30:06Samara Tobar: poured
- 30:06Samara Tobar: so
- 30:06Samara Tobar: much
- 30:07Samara Tobar: love
- 30:07Samara Tobar: into
- 30:07Samara Tobar: us
- 30:08Samara Tobar: and
- 30:09Samara Tobar: discipline
- 30:09Samara Tobar: and
- 30:09Samara Tobar: correction
- 30:10Samara Tobar: is
- 30:10Samara Tobar: love.
- 30:10Samara Tobar: We
- 30:11Samara Tobar: all
- 30:11Samara Tobar: know
- 30:11Samara Tobar: that.
- 30:12Samara Tobar: Um,
- 30:12Samara Tobar: but
- 30:12Samara Tobar: I'm
- 30:12Samara Tobar: talking
- 30:13Samara Tobar: about
- 30:13Samara Tobar: memories
- 30:14Samara Tobar: upon
- 30:14Samara Tobar: memories
- 30:15Samara Tobar: of
- 30:15Samara Tobar: laughter
- 30:16Samara Tobar: and
- 30:17Samara Tobar: playing
- 30:17Samara Tobar: games
- 30:18Samara Tobar: and
- 30:18Samara Tobar: traveling
- 30:19Samara Tobar: and,
- 30:19Samara Tobar: you
- 30:20Samara Tobar: know,
- 30:20Samara Tobar: y'all
- 30:20Samara Tobar: made
- 30:20Samara Tobar: it
- 30:20Samara Tobar: happen
- 30:21Samara Tobar: for
- 30:21Samara Tobar: us.
- 30:21Samara Tobar: So
- 30:22Samara Tobar: I
- 30:22Samara Tobar: just
- 30:22Samara Tobar: wanted
- 30:22Samara Tobar: to
- 30:22Samara Tobar: salute
- 30:23Samara Tobar: you
- 30:23Samara Tobar: guys
- 30:23Samara Tobar: and
- 30:23Samara Tobar: honor
- 30:24Samara Tobar: you
- 30:24Samara Tobar: guys
- 30:24Samara Tobar: for
- 30:24Samara Tobar: that.
- 30:25Samara Tobar: I
- 30:26Samara Tobar: wanna,
- 30:26Samara Tobar: we
- 30:26Samara Tobar: wanna
- 30:26Samara Tobar: take
- 30:26Samara Tobar: it
- 30:27Samara Tobar: further.
- 30:27Tony Tidbit: Yeah.
- 30:28Tony Tidbit: And,
- 30:28Tony Tidbit: and
- 30:28Tony Tidbit: so
- 30:29Tony Tidbit: thank
- 30:29Tony Tidbit: you.
- 30:29Tony Tidbit: And
- 30:30Tony Tidbit: thank
- 30:30Tony Tidbit: you
- 30:30Tony Tidbit: for
- 30:30Tony Tidbit: sharing
- 30:31Tony Tidbit: too.
- 30:31Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 30:32Tony Tidbit: And
- 30:32Tony Tidbit: here's
- 30:32Tony Tidbit: the
- 30:32Tony Tidbit: thing,
- 30:33Tony Tidbit: you
- 30:33Tony Tidbit: know,
- 30:34Tony Tidbit: um,
- 30:35Tony Tidbit: you
- 30:35Tony Tidbit: know,
- 30:35Tony Tidbit: one
- 30:35Tony Tidbit: of
- 30:36Tony Tidbit: the
- 30:36Tony Tidbit: things
- 30:36Tony Tidbit: that's
- 30:36Tony Tidbit: always
- 30:37Tony Tidbit: tough,
- 30:38Tony Tidbit: and
- 30:38Tony Tidbit: especially,
- 30:39Tony Tidbit: you
- 30:40Tony Tidbit: know,
- 30:41Tony Tidbit: and
- 30:41Tony Tidbit: I
- 30:41Tony Tidbit: just
- 30:41Tony Tidbit: wanna
- 30:42Tony Tidbit: say
- 30:42Tony Tidbit: in
- 30:42Tony Tidbit: the
- 30:42Tony Tidbit: black
- 30:42Tony Tidbit: community,
- 30:43Tony Tidbit: 'cause
- 30:43Tony Tidbit: this
- 30:43Tony Tidbit: can
- 30:43Tony Tidbit: happen
- 30:44Tony Tidbit: in
- 30:44Tony Tidbit: the
- 30:44Tony Tidbit: white
- 30:44Tony Tidbit: community,
- 30:45Tony Tidbit: it
- 30:45Tony Tidbit: can
- 30:45Tony Tidbit: happen
- 30:45Tony Tidbit: in
- 30:45Tony Tidbit: any
- 30:45Tony Tidbit: community,
- 30:47Tony Tidbit: right?
- 30:47Tony Tidbit: It
- 30:47Tony Tidbit: is
- 30:47Tony Tidbit: those
- 30:47Tony Tidbit: generational
- 30:48Tony Tidbit: curses
- 30:49Tony Tidbit: where,
- 30:51Tony Tidbit: you
- 30:51Tony Tidbit: know,
- 30:51Tony Tidbit: the
- 30:51Tony Tidbit: parent,
- 30:52Tony Tidbit: you
- 30:53Tony Tidbit: know,
- 30:53Tony Tidbit: had
- 30:54Tony Tidbit: children
- 30:55Tony Tidbit: and
- 30:55Tony Tidbit: they
- 30:56Tony Tidbit: were
- 30:56Tony Tidbit: limited
- 30:57Tony Tidbit: in,
- 30:57Tony Tidbit: in
- 30:57Tony Tidbit: all
- 30:58Tony Tidbit: different
- 30:58Tony Tidbit: type
- 30:58Tony Tidbit: of
- 30:58Tony Tidbit: facets.
- 31:00Tony Tidbit: How
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- 31:00Tony Tidbit: be
- 31:00Tony Tidbit: a
- 31:00Tony Tidbit: parent,
- 31:01Tony Tidbit: you
- 31:01Tony Tidbit: know,
- 31:02Tony Tidbit: educational
- 31:03Tony Tidbit: issues,
- 31:04Tony Tidbit: um,
- 31:04Tony Tidbit: um,
- 31:05Tony Tidbit: um,
- 31:05Tony Tidbit: career.
- 31:07Tony Tidbit: Um,
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- 31:08Tony Tidbit: and
- 31:08Tony Tidbit: then
- 31:08Tony Tidbit: more
- 31:08Tony Tidbit: importantly,
- 31:09Tony Tidbit: how
- 31:10Tony Tidbit: to
- 31:10Tony Tidbit: be
- 31:10Tony Tidbit: an
- 31:10Tony Tidbit: example
- 31:12Tony Tidbit: for
- 31:12Tony Tidbit: their
- 31:12Tony Tidbit: kid.
- 31:13Tony Tidbit: For
- 31:13Tony Tidbit: their
- 31:13Tony Tidbit: kids.
- 31:13Tony Tidbit: Because
- 31:13Tony Tidbit: to
- 31:14Tony Tidbit: your
- 31:14Tony Tidbit: point,
- 31:15Tony Tidbit: it's
- 31:15Tony Tidbit: really
- 31:15Tony Tidbit: about
- 31:16Tony Tidbit: making
- 31:16Tony Tidbit: sure
- 31:16Tony Tidbit: that
- 31:16Tony Tidbit: your,
- 31:17Tony Tidbit: your,
- 31:18Tony Tidbit: your
- 31:18Tony Tidbit: kids
- 31:18Tony Tidbit: become
- 31:19Tony Tidbit: better
- 31:19Tony Tidbit: than
- 31:20Tony Tidbit: you,
- 31:20Tony Tidbit: right?
- 31:21Tony Tidbit: And
- 31:21Tony Tidbit: sometimes
- 31:22Tony Tidbit: what
- 31:22Tony Tidbit: happens
- 31:23Tony Tidbit: is.
- 31:24Tony Tidbit: People
- 31:25Tony Tidbit: want
- 31:25Tony Tidbit: that,
- 31:25Tony Tidbit: but
- 31:26Tony Tidbit: they
- 31:26Tony Tidbit: don't,
- 31:26Tony Tidbit: they
- 31:27Tony Tidbit: don't
- 31:27Tony Tidbit: take,
- 31:28Tony Tidbit: they
- 31:28Tony Tidbit: don't
- 31:28Tony Tidbit: do
- 31:29Tony Tidbit: all
- 31:29Tony Tidbit: the
- 31:29Tony Tidbit: right
- 31:29Tony Tidbit: things
- 31:30Tony Tidbit: to
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- 31:30Tony Tidbit: that.
- 31:31Tony Tidbit: And
- 31:32Tony Tidbit: to
- 31:32Tony Tidbit: your
- 31:32Tony Tidbit: point,
- 31:34Tony Tidbit: because
- 31:34Tony Tidbit: they're
- 31:34Tony Tidbit: carrying
- 31:35Tony Tidbit: their
- 31:35Tony Tidbit: own
- 31:36Tony Tidbit: baggage,
- 31:37Tony Tidbit: they
- 31:37Tony Tidbit: have
- 31:38Tony Tidbit: traumatic
- 31:38Tony Tidbit: things
- 31:39Tony Tidbit: that
- 31:39Tony Tidbit: ha
- 31:39Tony Tidbit: happen
- 31:39Tony Tidbit: to
- 31:40Tony Tidbit: them.
- 31:41Tony Tidbit: And
- 31:41Tony Tidbit: so
- 31:41Tony Tidbit: they
- 31:41Tony Tidbit: never
- 31:42Tony Tidbit: dealt
- 31:42Tony Tidbit: with
- 31:42Tony Tidbit: it.
- 31:43Tony Tidbit: And
- 31:43Tony Tidbit: then,
- 31:43Tony Tidbit: so
- 31:44Tony Tidbit: at
- 31:44Tony Tidbit: the
- 31:44Tony Tidbit: end
- 31:44Tony Tidbit: of
- 31:44Tony Tidbit: the
- 31:44Tony Tidbit: day,
- 31:45Tony Tidbit: you
- 31:45Tony Tidbit: know,
- 31:46Tony Tidbit: then
- 31:47Tony Tidbit: you
- 31:47Tony Tidbit: have
- 31:47Tony Tidbit: a
- 31:47Tony Tidbit: cycle
- 31:48Tony Tidbit: of
- 31:48Tony Tidbit: generations
- 31:49Tony Tidbit: repeating
- 31:50Tony Tidbit: itself
- 31:51Tony Tidbit: because
- 31:53Tony Tidbit: you
- 31:53Tony Tidbit: know,
- 31:53Tony Tidbit: what
- 31:53Tony Tidbit: is
- 31:53Tony Tidbit: the
- 31:53Tony Tidbit: next
- 31:54Tony Tidbit: generation
- 31:54Tony Tidbit: gonna
- 31:54Tony Tidbit: do?
- 31:54Tony Tidbit: They're
- 31:55Tony Tidbit: gonna
- 31:55Tony Tidbit: do
- 31:55Tony Tidbit: exactly
- 31:55Tony Tidbit: what
- 31:55Tony Tidbit: their
- 31:55Tony Tidbit: parents
- 31:56Tony Tidbit: did
- 31:56Tony Tidbit: and
- 31:57Tony Tidbit: 'cause
- 31:57Tony Tidbit: they
- 31:57Tony Tidbit: think
- 31:57Tony Tidbit: that's
- 31:57Tony Tidbit: the
- 31:57Tony Tidbit: way
- 31:58Tony Tidbit: to
- 31:58Tony Tidbit: do
- 31:58Tony Tidbit: stuff.
- 31:58Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 31:58Tony Tidbit: And
- 31:59Tony Tidbit: then
- 31:59Tony Tidbit: the
- 31:59Tony Tidbit: next
- 31:59Tony Tidbit: generation.
- 32:00Tony Tidbit: And
- 32:00Tony Tidbit: the
- 32:00Tony Tidbit: next
- 32:00Tony Tidbit: generation.
- 32:01Tony Tidbit: And
- 32:01Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:01Tony Tidbit: just
- 32:01Tony Tidbit: kind
- 32:01Tony Tidbit: of
- 32:01Tony Tidbit: spoke
- 32:02Tony Tidbit: about
- 32:02Tony Tidbit: it
- 32:02Tony Tidbit: when
- 32:02Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:02Tony Tidbit: talked
- 32:03Tony Tidbit: about
- 32:03Tony Tidbit: therapy.
- 32:03Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 32:04Tony Tidbit: You
- 32:04Tony Tidbit: know,
- 32:05Tony Tidbit: we
- 32:06Tony Tidbit: are
- 32:06Tony Tidbit: growing
- 32:06Tony Tidbit: up,
- 32:06Tony Tidbit: if
- 32:06Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:06Tony Tidbit: went
- 32:07Tony Tidbit: and
- 32:07Tony Tidbit: got
- 32:07Tony Tidbit: therapy,
- 32:08Tony Tidbit: I
- 32:08Tony Tidbit: mean,
- 32:09Tony Tidbit: it
- 32:09Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 32:09Tony Tidbit: happen.
- 32:10Tony Tidbit: People
- 32:10Tony Tidbit: wouldn't
- 32:10Tony Tidbit: even
- 32:10Tony Tidbit: think
- 32:10Tony Tidbit: that.
- 32:11Tony Tidbit: Right?
- 32:11Tony Tidbit: Yeah.
- 32:11Tony Tidbit: It
- 32:12Tony Tidbit: took
- 32:12Tony Tidbit: me
- 32:12Tony Tidbit: a
- 32:12Tony Tidbit: while
- 32:12Tony Tidbit: to
- 32:12Tony Tidbit: finally
- 32:13Tony Tidbit: go
- 32:13Tony Tidbit: and,
- 32:13Tony Tidbit: and,
- 32:14Tony Tidbit: and,
- 32:14Tony Tidbit: and,
- 32:14Tony Tidbit: and,
- 32:15Tony Tidbit: and
- 32:15Tony Tidbit: have
- 32:15Tony Tidbit: therapy.
- 32:16Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 32:16Tony Tidbit: Because
- 32:16Tony Tidbit: it
- 32:16Tony Tidbit: was
- 32:16Tony Tidbit: a,
- 32:17Tony Tidbit: a,
- 32:17Tony Tidbit: um,
- 32:18Tony Tidbit: um,
- 32:19Tony Tidbit: a
- 32:19Tony Tidbit: mental,
- 32:20Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:20Tony Tidbit: know,
- 32:20Tony Tidbit: taboo.
- 32:22Tony Tidbit: About
- 32:22Tony Tidbit: it,
- 32:23Tony Tidbit: right?
- 32:23Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 32:23Tony Tidbit: And
- 32:24Tony Tidbit: so
- 32:24Tony Tidbit: things
- 32:25Tony Tidbit: are
- 32:25Tony Tidbit: different,
- 32:25Tony Tidbit: but
- 32:26Tony Tidbit: one
- 32:26Tony Tidbit: of
- 32:26Tony Tidbit: the
- 32:26Tony Tidbit: things
- 32:27Tony Tidbit: I,
- 32:27Tony Tidbit: I
- 32:27Tony Tidbit: always,
- 32:28Tony Tidbit: I
- 32:28Tony Tidbit: always,
- 32:29Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:29Tony Tidbit: know,
- 32:29Tony Tidbit: for
- 32:29Tony Tidbit: me
- 32:30Tony Tidbit: it
- 32:30Tony Tidbit: was
- 32:30Tony Tidbit: trying
- 32:30Tony Tidbit: to
- 32:31Tony Tidbit: break
- 32:31Tony Tidbit: that
- 32:31Tony Tidbit: generational
- 32:32Tony Tidbit: curse,
- 32:33Tony Tidbit: right?
- 32:34Tony Tidbit: Because
- 32:34Tony Tidbit: I
- 32:34Tony Tidbit: wanted
- 32:35Tony Tidbit: my,
- 32:35Tony Tidbit: I
- 32:35Tony Tidbit: know
- 32:36Tony Tidbit: Ana
- 32:36Tony Tidbit: wanted
- 32:37Tony Tidbit: me
- 32:37Tony Tidbit: to
- 32:37Tony Tidbit: be
- 32:37Tony Tidbit: better,
- 32:38Tony Tidbit: and
- 32:39Tony Tidbit: I,
- 32:39Tony Tidbit: I
- 32:40Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 32:40Tony Tidbit: want
- 32:40Tony Tidbit: fall
- 32:41Tony Tidbit: into
- 32:41Tony Tidbit: the
- 32:41Tony Tidbit: same
- 32:41Tony Tidbit: traps,
- 32:43Tony Tidbit: okay?
- 32:44Tony Tidbit: Because
- 32:44Tony Tidbit: then
- 32:45Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:45Tony Tidbit: know,
- 32:45Tony Tidbit: your
- 32:46Tony Tidbit: nieces.
- 32:47Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 32:48Tony Tidbit: you
- 32:48Tony Tidbit: know,
- 32:48Tony Tidbit: McKayla,
- 32:49Tony Tidbit: excuse
- 32:49Tony Tidbit: me,
- 32:49Tony Tidbit: McKayla
- 32:49Tony Tidbit: Madison.
- 32:50Tony Tidbit: We
- 32:51Tony Tidbit: wanted
- 32:51Tony Tidbit: to
- 32:51Tony Tidbit: set
- 32:51Tony Tidbit: them
- 32:52Tony Tidbit: up
- 32:52Tony Tidbit: so
- 32:52Tony Tidbit: then
- 32:52Tony Tidbit: that
- 32:53Tony Tidbit: they
- 32:53Tony Tidbit: can
- 32:53Tony Tidbit: then
- 32:53Tony Tidbit: be
- 32:54Tony Tidbit: able
- 32:54Tony Tidbit: to
- 32:54Tony Tidbit: prosper
- 32:55Tony Tidbit: and
- 32:55Tony Tidbit: then
- 32:56Tony Tidbit: break
- 32:56Tony Tidbit: those,
- 32:56Tony Tidbit: that
- 32:57Tony Tidbit: those
- 32:57Tony Tidbit: cycles,
- 32:59Tony Tidbit: alright?
- 32:59Tony Tidbit: And
- 32:59Tony Tidbit: that
- 32:59Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 32:59Tony Tidbit: mean
- 33:00Tony Tidbit: that
- 33:00Tony Tidbit: they're
- 33:00Tony Tidbit: perfect.
- 33:01Tony Tidbit: They
- 33:01Tony Tidbit: have
- 33:01Tony Tidbit: their
- 33:01Tony Tidbit: own
- 33:02Tony Tidbit: issues.
- 33:02Tony Tidbit: Everybody's
- 33:02Tony Tidbit: got
- 33:03Tony Tidbit: issues,
- 33:04Tony Tidbit: okay?
- 33:04Tony Tidbit: Everybody,
- 33:05Tony Tidbit: so
- 33:05Tony Tidbit: it
- 33:06Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 33:06Tony Tidbit: matter
- 33:06Tony Tidbit: about
- 33:07Tony Tidbit: that.
- 33:07Tony Tidbit: But
- 33:08Tony Tidbit: it
- 33:08Tony Tidbit: is
- 33:08Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:08Tony Tidbit: your
- 33:08Tony Tidbit: point
- 33:09Tony Tidbit: about
- 33:09Tony Tidbit: understanding
- 33:10Tony Tidbit: that
- 33:10Tony Tidbit: there's
- 33:11Tony Tidbit: ways
- 33:11Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:11Tony Tidbit: get
- 33:11Tony Tidbit: help
- 33:12Tony Tidbit: and
- 33:12Tony Tidbit: it's
- 33:12Tony Tidbit: okay
- 33:13Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:13Tony Tidbit: get
- 33:13Tony Tidbit: help
- 33:14Tony Tidbit: And,
- 33:15Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:15Tony Tidbit: know,
- 33:15Tony Tidbit: love
- 33:16Tony Tidbit: does
- 33:16Tony Tidbit: conquer
- 33:16Tony Tidbit: all.
- 33:17Tony Tidbit: So
- 33:17Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:17Tony Tidbit: are
- 33:17Tony Tidbit: a
- 33:17Tony Tidbit: hundred
- 33:17Tony Tidbit: percent
- 33:18Tony Tidbit: about
- 33:18Tony Tidbit: right
- 33:18Tony Tidbit: that,
- 33:19Tony Tidbit: but
- 33:19Tony Tidbit: the
- 33:19Tony Tidbit: thing
- 33:19Tony Tidbit: about,
- 33:20Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 33:20Tony Tidbit: love
- 33:21Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 33:21Tony Tidbit: teach
- 33:22Tony Tidbit: all,
- 33:23Tony Tidbit: okay?
- 33:23Tony Tidbit: Love
- 33:24Tony Tidbit: can.
- 33:24Tony Tidbit: That's
- 33:24Tony Tidbit: good.
- 33:24Tony Tidbit: Love
- 33:25Tony Tidbit: can.
- 33:25Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 33:26Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:26Tony Tidbit: remember
- 33:27Tony Tidbit: love,
- 33:27Tony Tidbit: love
- 33:27Tony Tidbit: make
- 33:28Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:28Tony Tidbit: feel
- 33:28Tony Tidbit: good
- 33:28Tony Tidbit: and
- 33:28Tony Tidbit: love
- 33:29Tony Tidbit: knowing
- 33:29Tony Tidbit: that
- 33:29Tony Tidbit: somebody's
- 33:30Tony Tidbit: got
- 33:30Tony Tidbit: your
- 33:30Tony Tidbit: back
- 33:30Tony Tidbit: regardless
- 33:31Tony Tidbit: unconditionally.
- 33:32Tony Tidbit: But
- 33:32Tony Tidbit: it
- 33:32Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 33:33Tony Tidbit: teach
- 33:33Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:33Tony Tidbit: how
- 33:34Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:34Tony Tidbit: be
- 33:34Tony Tidbit: a
- 33:34Tony Tidbit: man
- 33:35Tony Tidbit: or
- 33:35Tony Tidbit: a
- 33:35Tony Tidbit: woman
- 33:35Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 33:36Tony Tidbit: teach
- 33:36Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:36Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:36Tony Tidbit: do
- 33:36Tony Tidbit: the
- 33:37Tony Tidbit: right
- 33:37Tony Tidbit: thing,
- 33:37Tony Tidbit: no
- 33:37Tony Tidbit: matter
- 33:38Tony Tidbit: what.
- 33:38Tony Tidbit: It
- 33:38Tony Tidbit: doesn't
- 33:39Tony Tidbit: teach
- 33:39Tony Tidbit: you.
- 33:40Tony Tidbit: All
- 33:40Tony Tidbit: the
- 33:40Tony Tidbit: things
- 33:41Tony Tidbit: that
- 33:41Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:41Tony Tidbit: need
- 33:42Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:42Tony Tidbit: do
- 33:43Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:43Tony Tidbit: take
- 33:43Tony Tidbit: it
- 33:43Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:43Tony Tidbit: the
- 33:43Tony Tidbit: next
- 33:44Tony Tidbit: level
- 33:44Tony Tidbit: and
- 33:45Tony Tidbit: build
- 33:45Tony Tidbit: your
- 33:45Tony Tidbit: own
- 33:45Tony Tidbit: family
- 33:46Tony Tidbit: and
- 33:47Tony Tidbit: make
- 33:47Tony Tidbit: sure
- 33:47Tony Tidbit: that
- 33:47Tony Tidbit: they're
- 33:47Tony Tidbit: squared
- 33:48Tony Tidbit: away
- 33:49Tony Tidbit: and,
- 33:49Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:49Tony Tidbit: know,
- 33:50Tony Tidbit: bring
- 33:50Tony Tidbit: your
- 33:50Tony Tidbit: kids
- 33:50Tony Tidbit: up
- 33:51Tony Tidbit: in
- 33:51Tony Tidbit: a
- 33:51Tony Tidbit: way
- 33:51Tony Tidbit: where
- 33:52Tony Tidbit: they're
- 33:52Tony Tidbit: going
- 33:52Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:53Tony Tidbit: shine
- 33:53Tony Tidbit: and
- 33:53Tony Tidbit: put
- 33:53Tony Tidbit: them
- 33:54Tony Tidbit: in
- 33:54Tony Tidbit: the,
- 33:54Tony Tidbit: set
- 33:55Tony Tidbit: them
- 33:55Tony Tidbit: up
- 33:55Tony Tidbit: where
- 33:55Tony Tidbit: they're,
- 33:56Tony Tidbit: you
- 33:56Tony Tidbit: know,
- 33:56Tony Tidbit: using
- 33:57Tony Tidbit: the
- 33:57Tony Tidbit: talents
- 33:57Tony Tidbit: that
- 33:58Tony Tidbit: God
- 33:58Tony Tidbit: gave
- 33:58Tony Tidbit: them
- 33:59Tony Tidbit: to
- 33:59Tony Tidbit: be
- 33:59Tony Tidbit: able
- 34:00Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:00Tony Tidbit: thrive
- 34:00Tony Tidbit: versus
- 34:01Tony Tidbit: just
- 34:01Tony Tidbit: go
- 34:01Tony Tidbit: outside
- 34:01Tony Tidbit: and
- 34:01Tony Tidbit: play.
- 34:03Samara Tobar: Right.
- 34:07Samara Tobar: Ani,
- 34:07Samara Tobar: my
- 34:07Samara Tobar: 14-year-old
- 34:08Samara Tobar: is
- 34:08Samara Tobar: like,
- 34:09Samara Tobar: go
- 34:09Samara Tobar: where
- 34:09Samara Tobar: and
- 34:09Samara Tobar: do
- 34:09Samara Tobar: what.
- 34:11Tony Tidbit: Right?
- 34:12Tony Tidbit: And,
- 34:12Tony Tidbit: and,
- 34:12Tony Tidbit: and
- 34:13Tony Tidbit: so
- 34:13Tony Tidbit: it
- 34:13Tony Tidbit: is,
- 34:14Tony Tidbit: it
- 34:14Tony Tidbit: takes
- 34:14Tony Tidbit: more
- 34:15Tony Tidbit: than
- 34:15Tony Tidbit: that.
- 34:15Tony Tidbit: And
- 34:15Tony Tidbit: so
- 34:15Tony Tidbit: unless
- 34:16Tony Tidbit: you
- 34:16Tony Tidbit: break
- 34:16Tony Tidbit: that
- 34:16Tony Tidbit: cycle,
- 34:18Tony Tidbit: you
- 34:18Tony Tidbit: know,
- 34:19Tony Tidbit: people
- 34:19Tony Tidbit: tend
- 34:20Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:20Tony Tidbit: continue
- 34:20Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:21Tony Tidbit: do
- 34:21Tony Tidbit: that.
- 34:21Tony Tidbit: That
- 34:21Tony Tidbit: generation
- 34:22Tony Tidbit: continues
- 34:22Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:23Tony Tidbit: do
- 34:23Tony Tidbit: that,
- 34:23Tony Tidbit: and
- 34:24Tony Tidbit: then
- 34:28Tony Tidbit: that
- 34:28Tony Tidbit: generation
- 34:29Tony Tidbit: tends
- 34:29Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:29Tony Tidbit: do
- 34:29Tony Tidbit: that,
- 34:30Tony Tidbit: and
- 34:30Tony Tidbit: that's
- 34:30Tony Tidbit: where
- 34:31Tony Tidbit: you
- 34:31Tony Tidbit: don't
- 34:32Tony Tidbit: get
- 34:32Tony Tidbit: the
- 34:32Tony Tidbit: growth
- 34:34Tony Tidbit: that
- 34:34Tony Tidbit: you
- 34:34Tony Tidbit: need.
- 34:35Tony Tidbit: And
- 34:35Tony Tidbit: a
- 34:35Tony Tidbit: lot
- 34:35Tony Tidbit: of
- 34:36Tony Tidbit: that.
- 34:36Tony Tidbit: That's
- 34:37Tony Tidbit: why
- 34:37Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 34:37Tony Tidbit: excited
- 34:37Tony Tidbit: that
- 34:38Tony Tidbit: you
- 34:38Tony Tidbit: came
- 34:38Tony Tidbit: on
- 34:38Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:38Tony Tidbit: share
- 34:40Tony Tidbit: is
- 34:40Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:40Tony Tidbit: really
- 34:41Tony Tidbit: acknowledge
- 34:42Tony Tidbit: it
- 34:43Tony Tidbit: personally.
- 34:45Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 34:46Tony Tidbit: That's
- 34:46Tony Tidbit: the
- 34:46Tony Tidbit: key.
- 34:47Tony Tidbit: Acknowledge.
- 34:48Tony Tidbit: You
- 34:49Tony Tidbit: know,
- 34:49Tony Tidbit: when
- 34:49Tony Tidbit: I
- 34:49Tony Tidbit: went
- 34:49Tony Tidbit: to
- 34:49Tony Tidbit: see
- 34:50Tony Tidbit: a
- 34:50Tony Tidbit: therapist,
- 34:51Tony Tidbit: ada,
- 34:51Tony Tidbit: you
- 34:52Tony Tidbit: know,
- 34:52Tony Tidbit: and
- 34:53Tony Tidbit: I
- 34:53Tony Tidbit: had,
- 34:54Tony Tidbit: I
- 34:54Tony Tidbit: was
- 34:54Tony Tidbit: doing
- 34:55Tony Tidbit: things
- 34:56Tony Tidbit: that
- 34:57Tony Tidbit: I
- 34:57Tony Tidbit: wasn't
- 34:57Tony Tidbit: even
- 34:57Tony Tidbit: aware
- 34:58Tony Tidbit: of.
- 34:59Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 35:00Tony Tidbit: Didn't
- 35:00Tony Tidbit: even
- 35:00Tony Tidbit: know
- 35:01Tony Tidbit: that
- 35:01Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:01Tony Tidbit: created
- 35:02Tony Tidbit: habits
- 35:03Tony Tidbit: because
- 35:03Tony Tidbit: of
- 35:03Tony Tidbit: the
- 35:04Tony Tidbit: fears
- 35:04Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:04Tony Tidbit: had
- 35:05Tony Tidbit: about
- 35:05Tony Tidbit: certain
- 35:05Tony Tidbit: things.
- 35:06Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 35:07Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 35:08Tony Tidbit: But
- 35:08Tony Tidbit: then
- 35:08Tony Tidbit: once
- 35:08Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:09Tony Tidbit: went
- 35:09Tony Tidbit: to
- 35:09Tony Tidbit: therapy
- 35:10Tony Tidbit: and
- 35:10Tony Tidbit: I,
- 35:11Tony Tidbit: then
- 35:11Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:11Tony Tidbit: explained
- 35:12Tony Tidbit: what
- 35:12Tony Tidbit: happened
- 35:13Tony Tidbit: when
- 35:13Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:13Tony Tidbit: was
- 35:13Tony Tidbit: a
- 35:13Tony Tidbit: kid,
- 35:14Tony Tidbit: then
- 35:15Tony Tidbit: it
- 35:15Tony Tidbit: all
- 35:15Tony Tidbit: made
- 35:15Tony Tidbit: sense.
- 35:17Tony Tidbit: Then
- 35:17Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:17Tony Tidbit: was
- 35:17Tony Tidbit: like,
- 35:18Tony Tidbit: wow,
- 35:19Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:19Tony Tidbit: didn't
- 35:19Tony Tidbit: even
- 35:19Tony Tidbit: know
- 35:20Tony Tidbit: that.
- 35:20Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 35:21Tony Tidbit: Yeah.
- 35:21Tony Tidbit: So
- 35:22Tony Tidbit: what
- 35:22Tony Tidbit: you're
- 35:22Tony Tidbit: saying
- 35:22Tony Tidbit: is
- 35:23Tony Tidbit: a
- 35:23Tony Tidbit: hundred
- 35:23Tony Tidbit: percent.
- 35:24Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 35:25Tony Tidbit: and
- 35:25Tony Tidbit: being
- 35:26Tony Tidbit: that
- 35:26Tony Tidbit: redeemer.
- 35:27Tony Tidbit: Of
- 35:27Tony Tidbit: trying
- 35:28Tony Tidbit: to
- 35:28Tony Tidbit: not
- 35:28Tony Tidbit: just
- 35:28Tony Tidbit: understand,
- 35:29Tony Tidbit: but
- 35:29Tony Tidbit: try
- 35:29Tony Tidbit: to
- 35:29Tony Tidbit: set
- 35:30Tony Tidbit: up
- 35:30Tony Tidbit: the
- 35:30Tony Tidbit: next
- 35:31Tony Tidbit: generation
- 35:32Tony Tidbit: is
- 35:32Tony Tidbit: really
- 35:32Tony Tidbit: the
- 35:32Tony Tidbit: key.
- 35:33Tony Tidbit: Now
- 35:33Tony Tidbit: let
- 35:34Tony Tidbit: me
- 35:34Tony Tidbit: throw
- 35:34Tony Tidbit: this,
- 35:34Tony Tidbit: let's
- 35:34Tony Tidbit: pivot
- 35:35Tony Tidbit: 'cause
- 35:35Tony Tidbit: I
- 35:35Tony Tidbit: wanna
- 35:36Tony Tidbit: ask
- 35:36Tony Tidbit: you
- 35:36Tony Tidbit: about,
- 35:38Tony Tidbit: you
- 35:39Tony Tidbit: know,
- 35:39Tony Tidbit: something
- 35:40Tony Tidbit: that
- 35:40Tony Tidbit: a
- 35:40Tony Tidbit: lot
- 35:40Tony Tidbit: of,
- 35:41Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 35:41Tony Tidbit: African
- 35:42Tony Tidbit: Americans,
- 35:42Tony Tidbit: Hispanic
- 35:43Tony Tidbit: people
- 35:43Tony Tidbit: of
- 35:43Tony Tidbit: color
- 35:44Tony Tidbit: have
- 35:44Tony Tidbit: to
- 35:44Tony Tidbit: do
- 35:45Tony Tidbit: with,
- 35:45Tony Tidbit: in
- 35:45Tony Tidbit: corporate
- 35:45Tony Tidbit: America
- 35:46Tony Tidbit: it's
- 35:47Tony Tidbit: called
- 35:47Tony Tidbit: code
- 35:47Tony Tidbit: switching.
- 35:48Tony Tidbit: Talk
- 35:48Tony Tidbit: about
- 35:49Tony Tidbit: gimme
- 35:49Tony Tidbit: your
- 35:49Tony Tidbit: experience,
- 35:51Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 35:51Tony Tidbit: of
- 35:51Tony Tidbit: code
- 35:52Tony Tidbit: switching
- 35:53Tony Tidbit: in
- 35:53Tony Tidbit: your
- 35:53Tony Tidbit: own
- 35:53Tony Tidbit: professional
- 35:54Tony Tidbit: endeavors.
- 35:57Samara Tobar: So
- 35:58Samara Tobar: I
- 35:58Samara Tobar: can
- 35:58Samara Tobar: remember
- 35:59Samara Tobar: maybe
- 36:00Samara Tobar: about
- 36:00Samara Tobar: 10
- 36:00Samara Tobar: years
- 36:01Samara Tobar: ago,
- 36:02Samara Tobar: um,
- 36:03Samara Tobar: knowing,
- 36:04Samara Tobar: having
- 36:04Samara Tobar: like
- 36:04Samara Tobar: a,
- 36:04Samara Tobar: a
- 36:05Samara Tobar: vision
- 36:05Samara Tobar: forward
- 36:06Samara Tobar: what
- 36:06Samara Tobar: I
- 36:06Samara Tobar: wanted
- 36:06Samara Tobar: to
- 36:06Samara Tobar: do
- 36:06Samara Tobar: with
- 36:07Samara Tobar: my
- 36:07Samara Tobar: career.
- 36:08Samara Tobar: Um,
- 36:10Samara Tobar: the
- 36:11Samara Tobar: executives
- 36:11Samara Tobar: always
- 36:12Samara Tobar: are
- 36:12Samara Tobar: drawn
- 36:13Samara Tobar: to
- 36:13Samara Tobar: me.
- 36:14Samara Tobar: Um,
- 36:14Samara Tobar: but
- 36:14Samara Tobar: then
- 36:15Samara Tobar: my
- 36:15Samara Tobar: friends
- 36:16Samara Tobar: in,
- 36:17Samara Tobar: in
- 36:17Samara Tobar: the
- 36:17Samara Tobar: workplace
- 36:17Samara Tobar: would
- 36:18Samara Tobar: be
- 36:18Samara Tobar: like,
- 36:18Samara Tobar: don't
- 36:19Samara Tobar: draw
- 36:19Samara Tobar: too
- 36:19Samara Tobar: much
- 36:19Samara Tobar: attention,
- 36:20Samara Tobar: you
- 36:20Samara Tobar: know,
- 36:20Samara Tobar: to
- 36:20Samara Tobar: us
- 36:21Samara Tobar: over
- 36:21Samara Tobar: here.
- 36:21Samara Tobar: Just
- 36:22Samara Tobar: like,
- 36:22Samara Tobar: let
- 36:22Samara Tobar: them
- 36:22Samara Tobar: come
- 36:22Samara Tobar: in,
- 36:22Samara Tobar: let
- 36:23Samara Tobar: them
- 36:23Samara Tobar: come
- 36:23Samara Tobar: out.
- 36:24Samara Tobar: But
- 36:24Samara Tobar: because
- 36:25Samara Tobar: I
- 36:25Samara Tobar: knew
- 36:25Samara Tobar: where
- 36:25Samara Tobar: I
- 36:25Samara Tobar: wanted
- 36:26Samara Tobar: to
- 36:26Samara Tobar: go.
- 36:26Samara Tobar: I
- 36:27Samara Tobar: would
- 36:27Samara Tobar: make
- 36:28Samara Tobar: conversations
- 36:28Samara Tobar: with
- 36:29Samara Tobar: them
- 36:29Samara Tobar: and
- 36:29Samara Tobar: I
- 36:29Samara Tobar: would
- 36:30Samara Tobar: ask
- 36:30Samara Tobar: them
- 36:31Samara Tobar: questions,
- 36:31Samara Tobar: and
- 36:31Samara Tobar: then
- 36:32Samara Tobar: I
- 36:32Samara Tobar: would
- 36:32Samara Tobar: get
- 36:32Samara Tobar: like
- 36:32Samara Tobar: invitations
- 36:33Samara Tobar: to
- 36:34Samara Tobar: things
- 36:35Samara Tobar: that
- 36:35Samara Tobar: they
- 36:35Samara Tobar: are
- 36:35Samara Tobar: inviting
- 36:36Samara Tobar: their
- 36:37Samara Tobar: other,
- 36:38Samara Tobar: you
- 36:38Samara Tobar: know,
- 36:38Samara Tobar: C-suite
- 36:40Samara Tobar: partners
- 36:40Samara Tobar: and
- 36:41Samara Tobar: colleagues
- 36:41Samara Tobar: to,
- 36:42Samara Tobar: um,
- 36:42Samara Tobar: and
- 36:43Samara Tobar: it
- 36:43Samara Tobar: may
- 36:43Samara Tobar: have
- 36:43Samara Tobar: been
- 36:44Samara Tobar: considered,
- 36:44Samara Tobar: uh,
- 36:45Samara Tobar: brown-nosing,
- 36:46Samara Tobar: but
- 36:46Samara Tobar: there's
- 36:47Samara Tobar: one
- 36:47Samara Tobar: thing
- 36:47Samara Tobar: about
- 36:48Samara Tobar: the
- 36:48Samara Tobar: whole
- 36:48Samara Tobar: code
- 36:49Samara Tobar: switching
- 36:49Samara Tobar: thing.
- 36:50Samara Tobar: Um,
- 36:51Samara Tobar: I
- 36:51Samara Tobar: know
- 36:52Samara Tobar: how
- 36:53Samara Tobar: to
- 36:53Samara Tobar: conduct
- 36:53Samara Tobar: myself,
- 36:55Samara Tobar: um,
- 36:55Samara Tobar: according
- 36:56Samara Tobar: to
- 36:56Samara Tobar: whatever
- 36:57Samara Tobar: room
- 36:57Samara Tobar: I'm
- 36:57Samara Tobar: in,
- 36:58Samara Tobar: but
- 36:59Samara Tobar: I
- 37:00Samara Tobar: have
- 37:00Samara Tobar: learned
- 37:00Samara Tobar: that
- 37:01Samara Tobar: I
- 37:01Samara Tobar: don't
- 37:01Samara Tobar: necessarily
- 37:02Samara Tobar: have
- 37:02Samara Tobar: to
- 37:03Samara Tobar: change,
- 37:04Samara Tobar: um,
- 37:04Samara Tobar: who
- 37:05Samara Tobar: Sam
- 37:05Samara Tobar: is.
- 37:06Samara Tobar: You
- 37:06Samara Tobar: wanna
- 37:07Samara Tobar: know
- 37:07Samara Tobar: why?
- 37:08Samara Tobar: Because
- 37:08Samara Tobar: a
- 37:08Samara Tobar: lot
- 37:09Samara Tobar: of
- 37:09Samara Tobar: those
- 37:09Samara Tobar: C-Suite
- 37:09Samara Tobar: people
- 37:10Samara Tobar: are
- 37:11Samara Tobar: talking
- 37:12Samara Tobar: and
- 37:13Samara Tobar: acting
- 37:14Samara Tobar: just
- 37:14Samara Tobar: like
- 37:15Samara Tobar: normal
- 37:15Samara Tobar: human
- 37:15Samara Tobar: beings.
- 37:16Samara Tobar: They're
- 37:16Samara Tobar: not
- 37:16Samara Tobar: all,
- 37:17Samara Tobar: they're,
- 37:17Samara Tobar: they're
- 37:18Samara Tobar: human
- 37:18Samara Tobar: beings.
- 37:18Samara Tobar: They're
- 37:19Samara Tobar: not
- 37:19Samara Tobar: that
- 37:19Samara Tobar: stuff.
- 37:19Samara Tobar: They're,
- 37:19Samara Tobar: when
- 37:20Samara Tobar: you
- 37:20Samara Tobar: get
- 37:20Samara Tobar: in
- 37:20Samara Tobar: those
- 37:20Samara Tobar: not
- 37:20Samara Tobar: star,
- 37:21Samara Tobar: you
- 37:21Tony Tidbit: know
- 37:21Tony Tidbit: what
- 37:21Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 37:21Tony Tidbit: saying?
- 37:21Tony Tidbit: They're
- 37:21Tony Tidbit: not,
- 37:22Tony Tidbit: they're
- 37:22Tony Tidbit: not
- 37:22Tony Tidbit: Batman
- 37:23Tony Tidbit: or,
- 37:24Tony Tidbit: or
- 37:24Tony Tidbit: Wonder
- 37:24Tony Tidbit: Woman,
- 37:24Tony Tidbit: right?
- 37:25Tony Tidbit: They're
- 37:25Tony Tidbit: regular
- 37:26Tony Tidbit: people.
- 37:27Samara Tobar: Yep.
- 37:27Samara Tobar: Yep.
- 37:28Samara Tobar: And
- 37:28Samara Tobar: they
- 37:28Samara Tobar: have
- 37:29Samara Tobar: one
- 37:29Samara Tobar: too
- 37:29Samara Tobar: many
- 37:29Samara Tobar: drinks
- 37:29Samara Tobar: at
- 37:30Samara Tobar: the
- 37:30Samara Tobar: corporate
- 37:30Samara Tobar: functions
- 37:30Samara Tobar: too.
- 37:31Samara Tobar: So,
- 37:31Samara Tobar: I
- 37:31Samara Tobar: mean,
- 37:31Samara Tobar: we're
- 37:31Samara Tobar: all,
- 37:32Samara Tobar: we're
- 37:32Samara Tobar: all
- 37:32Samara Tobar: in
- 37:32Samara Tobar: the
- 37:32Samara Tobar: same
- 37:32Samara Tobar: boat.
- 37:33Samara Tobar: So
- 37:33Samara Tobar: once
- 37:34Samara Tobar: you,
- 37:34Samara Tobar: you
- 37:34Samara Tobar: know,
- 37:34Samara Tobar: demystify
- 37:36Samara Tobar: them
- 37:36Samara Tobar: and
- 37:37Samara Tobar: strip
- 37:37Samara Tobar: 'em
- 37:37Samara Tobar: down
- 37:38Samara Tobar: to
- 37:38Samara Tobar: like,
- 37:38Samara Tobar: okay,
- 37:38Samara Tobar: we're
- 37:38Samara Tobar: all
- 37:38Samara Tobar: humans.
- 37:39Samara Tobar: I
- 37:39Samara Tobar: respect
- 37:40Samara Tobar: you
- 37:40Samara Tobar: because
- 37:40Samara Tobar: of
- 37:40Samara Tobar: your
- 37:40Samara Tobar: position
- 37:41Samara Tobar: and
- 37:41Samara Tobar: your
- 37:41Samara Tobar: role.
- 37:42Samara Tobar: Um,
- 37:42Samara Tobar: but
- 37:44Samara Tobar: I
- 37:44Samara Tobar: think
- 37:44Samara Tobar: that
- 37:45Samara Tobar: that
- 37:45Samara Tobar: gives
- 37:46Samara Tobar: you,
- 37:47Samara Tobar: uh,
- 37:47Samara Tobar: op
- 37:48Samara Tobar: an
- 37:48Samara Tobar: opportunity
- 37:48Samara Tobar: to
- 37:48Samara Tobar: access
- 37:50Samara Tobar: them,
- 37:50Samara Tobar: whether
- 37:51Samara Tobar: it's
- 37:51Samara Tobar: their
- 37:52Samara Tobar: experiences,
- 37:52Samara Tobar: their
- 37:53Samara Tobar: wisdom,
- 37:53Samara Tobar: their
- 37:53Samara Tobar: advice,
- 37:54Samara Tobar: their
- 37:54Samara Tobar: counsel,
- 37:55Samara Tobar: their
- 37:55Samara Tobar: mentoring,
- 37:56Samara Tobar: you
- 37:56Samara Tobar: know
- 37:56Samara Tobar: what
- 37:56Samara Tobar: I
- 37:56Samara Tobar: mean,
- 37:57Samara Tobar: um,
- 37:57Samara Tobar: from
- 37:57Samara Tobar: a
- 37:57Samara Tobar: different
- 37:58Samara Tobar: lens.
- 37:59Samara Tobar: And
- 37:59Samara Tobar: once
- 37:59Samara Tobar: they
- 38:00Samara Tobar: see
- 38:00Samara Tobar: that
- 38:00Samara Tobar: you
- 38:01Samara Tobar: aren't
- 38:01Samara Tobar: acting
- 38:02Samara Tobar: strange
- 38:03Samara Tobar: around
- 38:03Samara Tobar: them,
- 38:04Samara Tobar: you
- 38:04Samara Tobar: know,
- 38:04Samara Tobar: they're,
- 38:05Samara Tobar: they're
- 38:05Samara Tobar: more,
- 38:05Samara Tobar: um,
- 38:06Samara Tobar: apt
- 38:06Samara Tobar: to
- 38:07Samara Tobar: open
- 38:07Samara Tobar: up
- 38:07Samara Tobar: to
- 38:07Samara Tobar: you.
- 38:07Samara Tobar: Now,
- 38:08Samara Tobar: I
- 38:08Samara Tobar: understand
- 38:08Samara Tobar: that
- 38:09Samara Tobar: that
- 38:09Samara Tobar: is
- 38:09Samara Tobar: not
- 38:09Samara Tobar: the
- 38:09Samara Tobar: experience
- 38:10Samara Tobar: that
- 38:11Samara Tobar: a
- 38:11Samara Tobar: lot
- 38:11Samara Tobar: of
- 38:11Samara Tobar: my
- 38:11Samara Tobar: brothers
- 38:12Samara Tobar: and
- 38:12Samara Tobar: sisters
- 38:12Samara Tobar: have
- 38:13Samara Tobar: had,
- 38:13Samara Tobar: you
- 38:13Samara Tobar: know,
- 38:14Samara Tobar: in
- 38:14Samara Tobar: corporate
- 38:14Samara Tobar: America.
- 38:15Samara Tobar: Um,
- 38:16Samara Tobar: but
- 38:16Samara Tobar: that's
- 38:17Samara Tobar: just
- 38:17Samara Tobar: my
- 38:17Samara Tobar: approach.
- 38:18Samara Tobar: I'm
- 38:19Samara Tobar: very,
- 38:19Samara Tobar: I
- 38:20Samara Tobar: build
- 38:20Samara Tobar: rapport
- 38:20Samara Tobar: very
- 38:21Samara Tobar: quickly
- 38:22Samara Tobar: and
- 38:22Samara Tobar: people
- 38:22Samara Tobar: are
- 38:22Samara Tobar: drawn
- 38:23Samara Tobar: to
- 38:23Samara Tobar: me.
- 38:23Samara Tobar: Um.
- 38:25Samara Tobar: I
- 38:25Samara Tobar: prob
- 38:25Samara Tobar: I
- 38:25Samara Tobar: probably
- 38:25Samara Tobar: get
- 38:26Samara Tobar: that
- 38:26Samara Tobar: from
- 38:26Samara Tobar: you
- 38:26Samara Tobar: because,
- 38:27Samara Tobar: you
- 38:27Samara Tobar: know,
- 38:27Samara Tobar: you
- 38:27Samara Tobar: could
- 38:27Samara Tobar: walk
- 38:28Samara Tobar: into
- 38:28Samara Tobar: a
- 38:28Samara Tobar: room
- 38:28Samara Tobar: and
- 38:29Samara Tobar: say
- 38:29Samara Tobar: a
- 38:29Samara Tobar: couple
- 38:29Samara Tobar: words
- 38:30Samara Tobar: to
- 38:30Samara Tobar: somebody,
- 38:30Samara Tobar: and
- 38:30Samara Tobar: then
- 38:31Samara Tobar: by
- 38:31Samara Tobar: the
- 38:31Samara Tobar: time
- 38:31Samara Tobar: you
- 38:31Samara Tobar: look
- 38:31Samara Tobar: up
- 38:31Samara Tobar: again,
- 38:32Samara Tobar: you
- 38:32Samara Tobar: got
- 38:32Samara Tobar: eight
- 38:32Samara Tobar: people
- 38:33Samara Tobar: surrounding
- 38:33Samara Tobar: you.
- 38:36Samara Tobar: So
- 38:36Samara Tobar: it's
- 38:36Samara Tobar: the
- 38:36Samara Tobar: charisma,
- 38:37Samara Tobar: it's
- 38:37Samara Tobar: the
- 38:37Samara Tobar: drip.
- 38:38Tony Tidbit: So,
- 38:39Tony Tidbit: but
- 38:39Tony Tidbit: based
- 38:39Tony Tidbit: on
- 38:40Tony Tidbit: that,
- 38:40Tony Tidbit: what
- 38:41Tony Tidbit: do,
- 38:41Tony Tidbit: what
- 38:41Tony Tidbit: would
- 38:41Tony Tidbit: your
- 38:42Tony Tidbit: message
- 38:42Tony Tidbit: be
- 38:42Tony Tidbit: to
- 38:42Tony Tidbit: younger
- 38:43Tony Tidbit: professionals
- 38:43Tony Tidbit: of
- 38:44Tony Tidbit: color,
- 38:45Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 38:45Tony Tidbit: who
- 38:46Tony Tidbit: feel,
- 38:46Tony Tidbit: you
- 38:46Tony Tidbit: know,
- 38:47Tony Tidbit: pressure
- 38:47Tony Tidbit: to
- 38:48Tony Tidbit: assimilate?
- 38:51Samara Tobar: I
- 38:51Samara Tobar: would
- 38:51Samara Tobar: say
- 38:52Samara Tobar: keep
- 38:52Samara Tobar: your
- 38:52Samara Tobar: eyes
- 38:53Samara Tobar: open
- 38:53Samara Tobar: because
- 38:54Samara Tobar: you're
- 38:54Samara Tobar: not
- 38:54Samara Tobar: crazy.
- 38:55Samara Tobar: You
- 38:55Samara Tobar: see
- 38:55Samara Tobar: what
- 38:55Samara Tobar: you
- 38:56Samara Tobar: see
- 38:56Samara Tobar: and
- 38:56Samara Tobar: you
- 38:56Samara Tobar: feel
- 38:56Samara Tobar: what
- 38:57Samara Tobar: you
- 38:57Samara Tobar: feel.
- 38:58Samara Tobar: But
- 38:59Samara Tobar: in
- 38:59Samara Tobar: that
- 39:01Samara Tobar: I
- 39:01Samara Tobar: would
- 39:02Samara Tobar: not
- 39:03Samara Tobar: over
- 39:04Samara Tobar: adjust
- 39:05Samara Tobar: or
- 39:05Samara Tobar: over
- 39:06Samara Tobar: correct.
- 39:07Samara Tobar: I
- 39:07Samara Tobar: would
- 39:08Samara Tobar: go
- 39:09Samara Tobar: in
- 39:09Samara Tobar: there
- 39:09Samara Tobar: and
- 39:09Samara Tobar: be
- 39:09Samara Tobar: as
- 39:10Samara Tobar: authentic
- 39:10Samara Tobar: as
- 39:11Samara Tobar: you
- 39:11Samara Tobar: can,
- 39:12Samara Tobar: make
- 39:12Samara Tobar: relationships
- 39:13Samara Tobar: and
- 39:13Samara Tobar: make
- 39:14Samara Tobar: your
- 39:14Samara Tobar: allies
- 39:14Samara Tobar: where
- 39:15Samara Tobar: you
- 39:15Samara Tobar: need
- 39:15Samara Tobar: to
- 39:15Samara Tobar: make
- 39:15Samara Tobar: them.
- 39:16Samara Tobar: Um,
- 39:17Samara Tobar: if
- 39:17Samara Tobar: you're
- 39:17Samara Tobar: a
- 39:17Samara Tobar: person
- 39:18Samara Tobar: that's.
- 39:19Samara Tobar: An
- 39:19Samara Tobar: introvert.
- 39:20Samara Tobar: I'm
- 39:20Samara Tobar: not
- 39:21Samara Tobar: saying
- 39:21Samara Tobar: become
- 39:21Samara Tobar: an
- 39:21Samara Tobar: extrovert,
- 39:22Samara Tobar: but
- 39:23Samara Tobar: stretch
- 39:23Samara Tobar: yourself
- 39:23Samara Tobar: sometime.
- 39:24Samara Tobar: Stretch
- 39:25Samara Tobar: yourself.
- 39:25Samara Tobar: Come
- 39:25Samara Tobar: outta
- 39:25Samara Tobar: your
- 39:25Samara Tobar: comfort
- 39:26Samara Tobar: zone.
- 39:26Samara Tobar: Go
- 39:27Samara Tobar: to
- 39:27Samara Tobar: a
- 39:27Samara Tobar: networking
- 39:27Samara Tobar: event,
- 39:28Samara Tobar: especially
- 39:28Samara Tobar: if
- 39:29Samara Tobar: you
- 39:29Samara Tobar: wanna
- 39:29Samara Tobar: position,
- 39:29Samara Tobar: position
- 39:30Samara Tobar: yourself
- 39:30Samara Tobar: for
- 39:31Samara Tobar: promotion
- 39:32Samara Tobar: and,
- 39:33Samara Tobar: um,
- 39:35Samara Tobar: document,
- 39:37Samara Tobar: document,
- 39:38Samara Tobar: document.
- 39:39Samara Tobar: One
- 39:39Samara Tobar: of
- 39:39Samara Tobar: the
- 39:39Samara Tobar: things
- 39:40Samara Tobar: that
- 39:40Samara Tobar: I
- 39:41Samara Tobar: am
- 39:41Samara Tobar: known
- 39:41Samara Tobar: for
- 39:42Samara Tobar: is,
- 39:42Samara Tobar: um,
- 39:43Samara Tobar: my
- 39:44Samara Tobar: assertiveness,
- 39:45Samara Tobar: because
- 39:46Samara Tobar: if
- 39:46Samara Tobar: there
- 39:46Samara Tobar: is
- 39:46Samara Tobar: something
- 39:47Samara Tobar: that's
- 39:48Samara Tobar: not
- 39:48Samara Tobar: right,
- 39:49Samara Tobar: that's
- 39:49Samara Tobar: going
- 39:50Samara Tobar: on,
- 39:50Samara Tobar: I
- 39:50Samara Tobar: am
- 39:51Samara Tobar: going
- 39:51Samara Tobar: to
- 39:51Samara Tobar: say
- 39:51Samara Tobar: something
- 39:51Samara Tobar: about
- 39:52Samara Tobar: it.
- 39:52Samara Tobar: And
- 39:53Samara Tobar: my
- 39:53Samara Tobar: style
- 39:54Samara Tobar: is
- 39:56Samara Tobar: not
- 39:57Samara Tobar: like,
- 39:58Samara Tobar: you
- 39:58Samara Tobar: know,
- 39:58Samara Tobar: how
- 39:58Samara Tobar: we
- 39:59Samara Tobar: grew
- 39:59Samara Tobar: up
- 39:59Samara Tobar: in
- 39:59Samara Tobar: Hartford.
- 40:00Samara Tobar: Of
- 40:00Samara Tobar: course,
- 40:01Samara Tobar: I,
- 40:01Samara Tobar: I've,
- 40:01Samara Tobar: I'm
- 40:01Samara Tobar: polished.
- 40:03Samara Tobar: Um,
- 40:04Samara Tobar: but
- 40:04Samara Tobar: I
- 40:04Samara Tobar: think
- 40:05Samara Tobar: that's
- 40:05Samara Tobar: one
- 40:05Samara Tobar: of
- 40:05Samara Tobar: the
- 40:05Samara Tobar: reasons
- 40:06Samara Tobar: why
- 40:06Samara Tobar: I'm
- 40:06Samara Tobar: so.
- 40:07Samara Tobar: Respected
- 40:08Samara Tobar: by
- 40:08Samara Tobar: my
- 40:09Samara Tobar: executive
- 40:10Samara Tobar: counterparts
- 40:10Samara Tobar: is
- 40:11Samara Tobar: because,
- 40:12Samara Tobar: um,
- 40:12Samara Tobar: they
- 40:12Samara Tobar: know
- 40:12Samara Tobar: that
- 40:12Samara Tobar: I'm
- 40:13Samara Tobar: going
- 40:13Samara Tobar: to
- 40:13Samara Tobar: come
- 40:13Samara Tobar: respectfully.
- 40:14Samara Tobar: They
- 40:14Samara Tobar: know
- 40:14Samara Tobar: that
- 40:15Samara Tobar: I'm
- 40:15Samara Tobar: going
- 40:15Samara Tobar: to
- 40:15Samara Tobar: come
- 40:15Samara Tobar: factually
- 40:16Samara Tobar: and
- 40:16Samara Tobar: not
- 40:17Samara Tobar: based
- 40:17Samara Tobar: off
- 40:17Samara Tobar: of
- 40:17Samara Tobar: emotion
- 40:18Samara Tobar: or
- 40:18Samara Tobar: how
- 40:18Samara Tobar: I
- 40:18Samara Tobar: feel,
- 40:19Samara Tobar: um,
- 40:20Samara Tobar: but
- 40:20Samara Tobar: you're
- 40:20Samara Tobar: gonna
- 40:20Samara Tobar: be
- 40:20Samara Tobar: able
- 40:21Samara Tobar: to
- 40:21Samara Tobar: see
- 40:21Samara Tobar: a
- 40:21Samara Tobar: pattern
- 40:22Samara Tobar: or
- 40:22Samara Tobar: a
- 40:22Samara Tobar: trend,
- 40:22Samara Tobar: and
- 40:23Samara Tobar: then
- 40:23Samara Tobar: I'm
- 40:23Samara Tobar: gonna
- 40:24Samara Tobar: ask
- 40:24Samara Tobar: for
- 40:25Samara Tobar: there
- 40:25Samara Tobar: to
- 40:25Samara Tobar: be
- 40:25Samara Tobar: a
- 40:26Samara Tobar: change
- 40:26Samara Tobar: in
- 40:27Samara Tobar: behavior.
- 40:28Samara Tobar: And
- 40:28Samara Tobar: I,
- 40:28Samara Tobar: I
- 40:28Samara Tobar: say
- 40:29Samara Tobar: like
- 40:29Samara Tobar: that,
- 40:29Samara Tobar: there's
- 40:29Samara Tobar: nothing
- 40:30Samara Tobar: wrong
- 40:30Samara Tobar: with
- 40:30Samara Tobar: that
- 40:30Samara Tobar: if
- 40:30Samara Tobar: you're
- 40:31Samara Tobar: not
- 40:31Samara Tobar: gonna
- 40:31Samara Tobar: advocate
- 40:31Samara Tobar: for
- 40:31Samara Tobar: yourself.
- 40:32Samara Tobar: I'm
- 40:32Samara Tobar: telling
- 40:32Samara Tobar: you,
- 40:33Samara Tobar: there's
- 40:33Samara Tobar: nobody
- 40:33Samara Tobar: else
- 40:34Samara Tobar: in
- 40:34Samara Tobar: the
- 40:34Samara Tobar: workplace
- 40:34Samara Tobar: that
- 40:34Samara Tobar: way.
- 40:34Samara Tobar: Nobody,
- 40:35Tony Tidbit: you
- 40:35Tony Tidbit: can
- 40:35Tony Tidbit: forget
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: about
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: it.
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: You
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: can
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: forget
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: about
- 40:36Tony Tidbit: it.
- 40:37Tony Tidbit: You
- 40:37Tony Tidbit: gotta
- 40:37Tony Tidbit: build
- 40:37Tony Tidbit: your
- 40:37Tony Tidbit: own
- 40:38Tony Tidbit: brand.
- 40:39Tony Tidbit: Totally
- 40:39Tony Tidbit: agree
- 40:40Tony Tidbit: with
- 40:40Tony Tidbit: that.
- 40:40Tony Tidbit: You
- 40:40Tony Tidbit: mind
- 40:40Tony Tidbit: if
- 40:41Tony Tidbit: I
- 40:41Tony Tidbit: tell
- 40:41Tony Tidbit: a
- 40:41Tony Tidbit: quick
- 40:41Tony Tidbit: story
- 40:42Tony Tidbit: on
- 40:42Tony Tidbit: this?
- 40:43Tony Tidbit: Oh,
- 40:43Tony Tidbit: go
- 40:43Tony Tidbit: ahead.
- 40:44Tony Tidbit: So
- 40:44Tony Tidbit: years
- 40:45Tony Tidbit: ago,
- 40:47Tony Tidbit: this
- 40:47Tony Tidbit: was,
- 40:48Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 40:48Tony Tidbit: 20
- 40:48Tony Tidbit: something
- 40:49Tony Tidbit: years
- 40:49Tony Tidbit: ago,
- 40:50Tony Tidbit: I
- 40:50Tony Tidbit: worked
- 40:50Tony Tidbit: at
- 40:50Tony Tidbit: this
- 40:50Tony Tidbit: company
- 40:52Tony Tidbit: and,
- 40:53Tony Tidbit: um,
- 40:55Tony Tidbit: in
- 40:55Tony Tidbit: the
- 40:55Tony Tidbit: city.
- 40:56Tony Tidbit: And
- 40:56Tony Tidbit: my
- 40:57Tony Tidbit: boss,
- 40:58Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 40:59Tony Tidbit: was
- 40:59Tony Tidbit: a
- 40:59Tony Tidbit: very
- 40:59Tony Tidbit: buttoned
- 41:00Tony Tidbit: up
- 41:01Tony Tidbit: dude.
- 41:02Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 41:02Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:03Tony Tidbit: was
- 41:03Tony Tidbit: an
- 41:03Tony Tidbit: account
- 41:03Tony Tidbit: executive,
- 41:04Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:04Tony Tidbit: was
- 41:04Tony Tidbit: a
- 41:04Tony Tidbit: sales
- 41:04Tony Tidbit: person.
- 41:05Tony Tidbit: He
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- 41:05Tony Tidbit: our
- 41:06Tony Tidbit: vp.
- 41:07Tony Tidbit: And,
- 41:08Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 41:08Tony Tidbit: you
- 41:08Tony Tidbit: know,
- 41:08Tony Tidbit: he
- 41:08Tony Tidbit: liked
- 41:09Tony Tidbit: me
- 41:09Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:09Tony Tidbit: stuff.
- 41:10Tony Tidbit: The
- 41:10Tony Tidbit: thing
- 41:11Tony Tidbit: was,
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- 41:12Tony Tidbit: I
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- 41:13Tony Tidbit: on
- 41:13Tony Tidbit: meetings
- 41:13Tony Tidbit: together
- 41:15Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:15Tony Tidbit: eventually
- 41:16Tony Tidbit: he
- 41:16Tony Tidbit: wanted
- 41:16Tony Tidbit: me
- 41:16Tony Tidbit: to
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- 41:17Tony Tidbit: him.
- 41:18Tony Tidbit: He
- 41:18Tony Tidbit: wanted
- 41:18Tony Tidbit: me
- 41:19Tony Tidbit: to,
- 41:19Tony Tidbit: to
- 41:20Tony Tidbit: talk
- 41:20Tony Tidbit: like
- 41:20Tony Tidbit: him,
- 41:21Tony Tidbit: you
- 41:21Tony Tidbit: know,
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- 41:23Tony Tidbit: those
- 41:23Tony Tidbit: type
- 41:23Tony Tidbit: things.
- 41:23Tony Tidbit: And
- 41:24Tony Tidbit: to
- 41:24Tony Tidbit: be
- 41:24Tony Tidbit: fair,
- 41:25Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:25Tony Tidbit: tried.
- 41:26Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 41:27Tony Tidbit: I
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- 41:28Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:28Tony Tidbit: went
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- 41:28Tony Tidbit: Pittsburgh
- 41:30Tony Tidbit: client
- 41:30Tony Tidbit: meeting,
- 41:31Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:31Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:31Tony Tidbit: had
- 41:32Tony Tidbit: a,
- 41:32Tony Tidbit: a
- 41:32Tony Tidbit: couple
- 41:32Tony Tidbit: slides
- 41:33Tony Tidbit: to
- 41:33Tony Tidbit: present.
- 41:33Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:33Tony Tidbit: remember
- 41:34Tony Tidbit: staying
- 41:34Tony Tidbit: up
- 41:34Tony Tidbit: all
- 41:34Tony Tidbit: night
- 41:34Tony Tidbit: long,
- 41:35Tony Tidbit: four
- 41:35Tony Tidbit: o'clock
- 41:36Tony Tidbit: in
- 41:36Tony Tidbit: the
- 41:36Tony Tidbit: morning,
- 41:36Tony Tidbit: making
- 41:37Tony Tidbit: sure
- 41:37Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:37Tony Tidbit: get
- 41:37Tony Tidbit: the,
- 41:37Tony Tidbit: you
- 41:38Tony Tidbit: know,
- 41:38Tony Tidbit: my
- 41:38Tony Tidbit: part
- 41:38Tony Tidbit: of
- 41:38Tony Tidbit: the
- 41:38Tony Tidbit: presentation
- 41:39Tony Tidbit: down.
- 41:40Tony Tidbit: Didn't
- 41:40Tony Tidbit: get
- 41:40Tony Tidbit: no
- 41:40Tony Tidbit: sleep.
- 41:41Tony Tidbit: That's
- 41:41Tony Tidbit: how,
- 41:42Tony Tidbit: and,
- 41:42Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:42Tony Tidbit: so
- 41:42Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:42Tony Tidbit: can
- 41:43Tony Tidbit: always,
- 41:43Tony Tidbit: uh,
- 41:44Tony Tidbit: relate
- 41:44Tony Tidbit: to
- 41:44Tony Tidbit: young
- 41:45Tony Tidbit: professionals
- 41:45Tony Tidbit: when
- 41:45Tony Tidbit: you're
- 41:46Tony Tidbit: trying
- 41:46Tony Tidbit: to
- 41:46Tony Tidbit: build
- 41:46Tony Tidbit: your
- 41:46Tony Tidbit: career,
- 41:48Tony Tidbit: you
- 41:48Tony Tidbit: know?
- 41:48Tony Tidbit: So
- 41:49Tony Tidbit: it
- 41:49Tony Tidbit: was
- 41:49Tony Tidbit: insane,
- 41:49Tony Tidbit: right?
- 41:50Tony Tidbit: And
- 41:51Tony Tidbit: then
- 41:51Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:52Tony Tidbit: remember
- 41:52Tony Tidbit: him
- 41:52Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:53Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:53Tony Tidbit: going
- 41:53Tony Tidbit: on
- 41:53Tony Tidbit: another
- 41:53Tony Tidbit: meeting,
- 41:55Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:55Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:55Tony Tidbit: was
- 41:55Tony Tidbit: presenting
- 41:56Tony Tidbit: and
- 41:56Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:56Tony Tidbit: was
- 41:57Tony Tidbit: fumbling
- 41:57Tony Tidbit: because
- 41:58Tony Tidbit: I
- 41:58Tony Tidbit: was
- 41:58Tony Tidbit: trying
- 41:58Tony Tidbit: to
- 41:58Tony Tidbit: be
- 41:58Tony Tidbit: him.
- 42:00Tony Tidbit: And
- 42:00Tony Tidbit: then
- 42:00Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:00Tony Tidbit: remember
- 42:01Tony Tidbit: after
- 42:01Tony Tidbit: that
- 42:01Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:01Tony Tidbit: was
- 42:01Tony Tidbit: like,
- 42:02Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 42:02Tony Tidbit: done
- 42:02Tony Tidbit: with
- 42:03Tony Tidbit: this.
- 42:04Tony Tidbit: Think
- 42:04Tony Tidbit: about,
- 42:05Tony Tidbit: he
- 42:05Tony Tidbit: was,
- 42:05Tony Tidbit: um,
- 42:06Tony Tidbit: you
- 42:06Tony Tidbit: ever
- 42:06Tony Tidbit: see
- 42:06Tony Tidbit: the
- 42:06Tony Tidbit: movie
- 42:06Tony Tidbit: Trading
- 42:07Tony Tidbit: Places?
- 42:08Samara Tobar: Mm-hmm.
- 42:08Tony Tidbit: He
- 42:09Tony Tidbit: was
- 42:09Tony Tidbit: Winthrop.
- 42:10Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 42:11Tony Tidbit: And
- 42:12Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:12Tony Tidbit: was
- 42:12Tony Tidbit: Eddie
- 42:12Tony Tidbit: Murphy.
- 42:13Samara Tobar: Right.
- 42:13Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 42:15Tony Tidbit: And
- 42:15Tony Tidbit: then
- 42:15Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:15Tony Tidbit: came
- 42:15Tony Tidbit: to
- 42:15Tony Tidbit: a
- 42:16Tony Tidbit: point,
- 42:16Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:16Tony Tidbit: was
- 42:16Tony Tidbit: like,
- 42:16Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:16Tony Tidbit: can't
- 42:17Tony Tidbit: do
- 42:17Tony Tidbit: this.
- 42:17Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:17Tony Tidbit: have
- 42:18Tony Tidbit: to
- 42:18Tony Tidbit: just
- 42:18Tony Tidbit: be
- 42:18Tony Tidbit: me.
- 42:20Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 42:20Tony Tidbit: gonna
- 42:20Tony Tidbit: be
- 42:20Tony Tidbit: buttoned
- 42:20Tony Tidbit: up,
- 42:21Tony Tidbit: but
- 42:21Tony Tidbit: I'm
- 42:22Tony Tidbit: going
- 42:22Tony Tidbit: to
- 42:22Tony Tidbit: be
- 42:22Tony Tidbit: me.
- 42:23Tony Tidbit: I'm,
- 42:23Tony Tidbit: I'm,
- 42:24Tony Tidbit: I'm,
- 42:24Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:25Tony Tidbit: am
- 42:25Tony Tidbit: unique.
- 42:26Tony Tidbit: This
- 42:26Tony Tidbit: is
- 42:26Tony Tidbit: who
- 42:27Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:27Tony Tidbit: am,
- 42:27Tony Tidbit: blah,
- 42:28Tony Tidbit: blah,
- 42:28Tony Tidbit: blah,
- 42:28Tony Tidbit: blah,
- 42:28Tony Tidbit: blah.
- 42:28Tony Tidbit: Guess
- 42:29Tony Tidbit: what?
- 42:30Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:30Tony Tidbit: got
- 42:30Tony Tidbit: promoted.
- 42:32Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 42:33Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:33Tony Tidbit: became
- 42:33Tony Tidbit: the,
- 42:34Tony Tidbit: the,
- 42:34Tony Tidbit: the,
- 42:34Tony Tidbit: the
- 42:34Tony Tidbit: national
- 42:35Tony Tidbit: sales
- 42:35Tony Tidbit: manager
- 42:36Tony Tidbit: because
- 42:36Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:36Tony Tidbit: was
- 42:37Tony Tidbit: me.
- 42:38Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 42:38Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 42:39Tony Tidbit: And
- 42:39Tony Tidbit: that's
- 42:39Tony Tidbit: the
- 42:40Tony Tidbit: one
- 42:40Tony Tidbit: thing
- 42:40Tony Tidbit: that
- 42:40Tony Tidbit: I
- 42:40Tony Tidbit: always
- 42:41Tony Tidbit: will
- 42:41Tony Tidbit: tell
- 42:42Tony Tidbit: people
- 42:43Tony Tidbit: is
- 42:43Tony Tidbit: that
- 42:44Tony Tidbit: the
- 42:44Tony Tidbit: reason
- 42:44Tony Tidbit: they
- 42:44Tony Tidbit: hired
- 42:45Tony Tidbit: you
- 42:46Tony Tidbit: is
- 42:46Tony Tidbit: because
- 42:46Tony Tidbit: of
- 42:46Tony Tidbit: you.
- 42:48Tony Tidbit: Right.
- 42:48Tony Tidbit: Okay.
- 42:49Tony Tidbit: And
- 42:49Tony Tidbit: you
- 42:49Tony Tidbit: should
- 42:49Tony Tidbit: always
- 42:50Tony Tidbit: be
- 42:50Tony Tidbit: you.
- 42:51Tony Tidbit: And
- 42:51Tony Tidbit: don't
- 42:51Tony Tidbit: try
- 42:51Tony Tidbit: to
- 42:51Tony Tidbit: be
- 42:52Tony Tidbit: anybody
- 42:52Tony Tidbit: else.
- 42:52Tony Tidbit: Now,
- 42:53Tony Tidbit: do
- 42:53Tony Tidbit: you,
- 42:54Tony Tidbit: is
- 42:54Tony Tidbit: there
- 42:54Tony Tidbit: skills
- 42:54Tony Tidbit: or
- 42:55Tony Tidbit: certain
- 42:55Tony Tidbit: things
- 42:55Tony Tidbit: you
- 42:55Tony Tidbit: need
- 42:55Tony Tidbit: to
- 42:55Tony Tidbit: work
- 42:56Tony Tidbit: on?
- 42:57Tony Tidbit: Um,
- 42:58Tony Tidbit: um,
- 42:58Tony Tidbit: to,
- 42:59Tony Tidbit: to
- 42:59Tony Tidbit: better
- 42:59Tony Tidbit: yourself.
- 43:00Tony Tidbit: Absolutely.
- 43:01Tony Tidbit: Right?
- 43:01Tony Tidbit: But
- 43:01Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:02Tony Tidbit: gotta
- 43:02Tony Tidbit: be,
- 43:02Tony Tidbit: you,
- 43:03Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:03Tony Tidbit: gotta
- 43:03Tony Tidbit: deliver.
- 43:03Tony Tidbit: You,
- 43:04Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:04Tony Tidbit: gotta
- 43:04Tony Tidbit: speak
- 43:04Tony Tidbit: you,
- 43:05Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:05Tony Tidbit: gotta
- 43:05Tony Tidbit: stand
- 43:06Tony Tidbit: you,
- 43:06Tony Tidbit: all
- 43:06Tony Tidbit: those
- 43:07Tony Tidbit: things
- 43:07Tony Tidbit: because
- 43:08Tony Tidbit: your
- 43:08Tony Tidbit: uniqueness
- 43:09Tony Tidbit: makes
- 43:10Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:10Tony Tidbit: special.
- 43:11Tony Tidbit: Okay?
- 43:12Tony Tidbit: So
- 43:12Tony Tidbit: I
- 43:12Tony Tidbit: just
- 43:13Tony Tidbit: wanted
- 43:13Tony Tidbit: to
- 43:13Tony Tidbit: piggyback
- 43:13Tony Tidbit: because
- 43:14Tony Tidbit: I,
- 43:14Tony Tidbit: that's
- 43:14Tony Tidbit: a
- 43:14Tony Tidbit: real
- 43:15Tony Tidbit: life
- 43:15Tony Tidbit: experience
- 43:16Tony Tidbit: that
- 43:16Tony Tidbit: I
- 43:16Tony Tidbit: had,
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: okay?
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: And
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: that
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: was
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: a
- 43:17Tony Tidbit: lesson
- 43:18Tony Tidbit: that
- 43:18Tony Tidbit: I
- 43:18Tony Tidbit: had
- 43:18Tony Tidbit: to
- 43:18Tony Tidbit: learn,
- 43:19Tony Tidbit: and
- 43:19Tony Tidbit: I
- 43:19Tony Tidbit: learned
- 43:19Tony Tidbit: that
- 43:19Tony Tidbit: lesson.
- 43:20Tony Tidbit: Now
- 43:21Tony Tidbit: talking
- 43:21Tony Tidbit: about
- 43:21Tony Tidbit: real
- 43:22Tony Tidbit: life
- 43:22Tony Tidbit: experiences,
- 43:24Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:24Tony Tidbit: know,
- 43:24Tony Tidbit: you've
- 43:24Tony Tidbit: been
- 43:24Tony Tidbit: diagnosed
- 43:25Tony Tidbit: with
- 43:26Tony Tidbit: ADHD,
- 43:27Tony Tidbit: okay?
- 43:28Tony Tidbit: Mm-hmm.
- 43:28Tony Tidbit: So
- 43:28Tony Tidbit: talk
- 43:29Tony Tidbit: a
- 43:29Tony Tidbit: little
- 43:29Tony Tidbit: bit
- 43:29Tony Tidbit: about
- 43:29Tony Tidbit: that.
- 43:30Tony Tidbit: When
- 43:30Tony Tidbit: did
- 43:30Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:30Tony Tidbit: get
- 43:30Tony Tidbit: diagnosed
- 43:31Tony Tidbit: and
- 43:32Tony Tidbit: how
- 43:32Tony Tidbit: is
- 43:32Tony Tidbit: it
- 43:33Tony Tidbit: based
- 43:33Tony Tidbit: on
- 43:33Tony Tidbit: all
- 43:33Tony Tidbit: the
- 43:34Tony Tidbit: things
- 43:34Tony Tidbit: that
- 43:34Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:34Tony Tidbit: deal
- 43:34Tony Tidbit: with
- 43:35Tony Tidbit: from
- 43:35Tony Tidbit: work
- 43:35Tony Tidbit: your
- 43:35Tony Tidbit: ministry,
- 43:36Tony Tidbit: how
- 43:37Tony Tidbit: has
- 43:37Tony Tidbit: it
- 43:37Tony Tidbit: affect
- 43:37Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:38Tony Tidbit: and
- 43:38Tony Tidbit: how
- 43:38Tony Tidbit: have
- 43:39Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:39Tony Tidbit: come
- 43:39Tony Tidbit: to,
- 43:40Tony Tidbit: to,
- 43:40Tony Tidbit: to
- 43:40Tony Tidbit: understand
- 43:41Tony Tidbit: what
- 43:41Tony Tidbit: this
- 43:41Tony Tidbit: diagnosis
- 43:42Tony Tidbit: means
- 43:43Tony Tidbit: for
- 43:43Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:43Tony Tidbit: and
- 43:43Tony Tidbit: how
- 43:43Tony Tidbit: you
- 43:43Tony Tidbit: can
- 43:44Tony Tidbit: show
- 43:44Tony Tidbit: up
- 43:44Tony Tidbit: on
- 43:45Tony Tidbit: a
- 43:45Tony Tidbit: daily
- 43:45Tony Tidbit: basis?
- 43:46Samara Tobar: For
- 43:46Samara Tobar: sure.
- 43:47Samara Tobar: So,
- 43:48Samara Tobar: um,
- 43:48Samara Tobar: I.
- 43:49Samara Tobar: You
- 43:49Samara Tobar: know,
- 43:49Samara Tobar: I
- 43:50Samara Tobar: have
- 43:50Samara Tobar: always
- 43:51Samara Tobar: had
- 43:51Samara Tobar: to
- 43:51Samara Tobar: work
- 43:52Samara Tobar: harder
- 43:52Samara Tobar: to,
- 43:53Samara Tobar: to
- 43:53Samara Tobar: zoom
- 43:53Samara Tobar: in
- 43:54Samara Tobar: and,
- 43:54Samara Tobar: and
- 43:54Samara Tobar: focus
- 43:55Samara Tobar: and
- 43:55Samara Tobar: be
- 43:55Samara Tobar: present.
- 43:56Samara Tobar: Um,
- 43:56Samara Tobar: when
- 43:57Samara Tobar: I
- 43:57Samara Tobar: was
- 43:57Samara Tobar: growing
- 43:57Samara Tobar: up,
- 43:57Samara Tobar: no,
- 43:58Samara Tobar: I
- 43:58Samara Tobar: was
- 43:58Samara Tobar: a
- 43:58Samara Tobar: daydreamer
- 43:59Samara Tobar: and,
- 44:00Samara Tobar: um,
- 44:00Samara Tobar: I
- 44:01Samara Tobar: was
- 44:01Samara Tobar: a
- 44:01Samara Tobar: talker
- 44:02Samara Tobar: and
- 44:02Samara Tobar: I
- 44:02Samara Tobar: was
- 44:02Samara Tobar: frequently
- 44:03Samara Tobar: getting
- 44:04Samara Tobar: phone
- 44:04Samara Tobar: calls
- 44:04Samara Tobar: home
- 44:04Samara Tobar: from
- 44:04Samara Tobar: my
- 44:05Samara Tobar: teachers
- 44:05Samara Tobar: saying
- 44:06Samara Tobar: we
- 44:06Samara Tobar: had
- 44:06Samara Tobar: to
- 44:06Samara Tobar: move
- 44:07Samara Tobar: her
- 44:07Samara Tobar: in
- 44:07Samara Tobar: the
- 44:07Samara Tobar: seating
- 44:07Samara Tobar: chart
- 44:07Samara Tobar: again.
- 44:08Samara Tobar: She's
- 44:08Samara Tobar: now
- 44:08Samara Tobar: at
- 44:08Samara Tobar: the
- 44:09Samara Tobar: front
- 44:09Samara Tobar: of
- 44:09Samara Tobar: the
- 44:09Samara Tobar: room
- 44:09Samara Tobar: by
- 44:09Samara Tobar: my
- 44:09Samara Tobar: desk.
- 44:10Samara Tobar: Um,
- 44:11Samara Tobar: and
- 44:11Samara Tobar: I
- 44:12Samara Tobar: just
- 44:12Samara Tobar: never,
- 44:13Samara Tobar: I
- 44:13Samara Tobar: don't
- 44:13Samara Tobar: know,
- 44:14Samara Tobar: I
- 44:14Samara Tobar: just
- 44:14Samara Tobar: thought
- 44:14Samara Tobar: I
- 44:14Samara Tobar: was
- 44:14Samara Tobar: just
- 44:15Samara Tobar: different.
- 44:15Samara Tobar: Right.
- 44:16Samara Tobar: It,
- 44:16Samara Tobar: I,
- 44:16Samara Tobar: I'm,
- 44:16Samara Tobar: I
- 44:16Samara Tobar: wasn't
- 44:17Samara Tobar: as
- 44:17Samara Tobar: motivated
- 44:17Samara Tobar: as
- 44:18Samara Tobar: other
- 44:18Samara Tobar: people.
- 44:19Samara Tobar: Um.
- 44:20Samara Tobar: When
- 44:20Samara Tobar: I
- 44:20Samara Tobar: applied
- 44:20Samara Tobar: myself,
- 44:21Samara Tobar: you
- 44:21Samara Tobar: know,
- 44:22Samara Tobar: super
- 44:22Samara Tobar: smart.
- 44:23Samara Tobar: Um,
- 44:24Samara Tobar: but
- 44:24Samara Tobar: something
- 44:25Samara Tobar: I
- 44:25Samara Tobar: think
- 44:26Samara Tobar: in
- 44:26Samara Tobar: the
- 44:26Samara Tobar: last
- 44:27Samara Tobar: two-ish
- 44:28Samara Tobar: years
- 44:29Samara Tobar: just
- 44:30Samara Tobar: wasn't
- 44:30Samara Tobar: clicking.
- 44:31Samara Tobar: And
- 44:31Samara Tobar: I
- 44:31Samara Tobar: mean,
- 44:32Samara Tobar: I
- 44:32Samara Tobar: don't
- 44:33Samara Tobar: have
- 44:33Samara Tobar: the,
- 44:34Samara Tobar: um,
- 44:35Samara Tobar: I
- 44:35Samara Tobar: guess
- 44:35Samara Tobar: the
- 44:35Samara Tobar: traditional
- 44:36Samara Tobar: story
- 44:36Samara Tobar: where
- 44:36Samara Tobar: I
- 44:37Samara Tobar: went
- 44:37Samara Tobar: straight
- 44:37Samara Tobar: to
- 44:37Samara Tobar: college
- 44:38Samara Tobar: outta
- 44:38Samara Tobar: high
- 44:38Samara Tobar: school
- 44:39Samara Tobar: and
- 44:39Samara Tobar: got
- 44:39Samara Tobar: my
- 44:39Samara Tobar: four
- 44:39Samara Tobar: year
- 44:39Samara Tobar: degree
- 44:40Samara Tobar: and
- 44:40Samara Tobar: all
- 44:40Samara Tobar: of
- 44:40Samara Tobar: that
- 44:40Samara Tobar: stuff.
- 44:41Samara Tobar: Um,
- 44:41Samara Tobar: so
- 44:41Samara Tobar: I
- 44:41Samara Tobar: worked
- 44:42Samara Tobar: my
- 44:42Samara Tobar: way
- 44:42Samara Tobar: up
- 44:43Samara Tobar: the
- 44:43Samara Tobar: ladder,
- 44:44Samara Tobar: um,
- 44:44Samara Tobar: in
- 44:44Samara Tobar: corporate
- 44:44Samara Tobar: America.
- 44:45Samara Tobar: And
- 44:46Samara Tobar: it's
- 44:46Samara Tobar: by
- 44:46Samara Tobar: God's
- 44:47Samara Tobar: grace
- 44:47Samara Tobar: that
- 44:47Samara Tobar: I
- 44:47Samara Tobar: am
- 44:47Samara Tobar: where
- 44:47Samara Tobar: I
- 44:48Samara Tobar: am
- 44:48Samara Tobar: today.
- 44:48Samara Tobar: I
- 44:48Samara Tobar: am
- 44:48Samara Tobar: very
- 44:48Samara Tobar: grateful,
- 44:49Samara Tobar: love
- 44:49Samara Tobar: my
- 44:50Samara Tobar: job.
- 44:50Samara Tobar: Um,
- 44:51Samara Tobar: am
- 44:51Samara Tobar: getting
- 44:51Samara Tobar: my
- 44:52Samara Tobar: bachelor's
- 44:52Samara Tobar: degree
- 44:52Samara Tobar: currently,
- 44:53Samara Tobar: but,
- 44:54Samara Tobar: um,
- 44:55Samara Tobar: I
- 44:55Samara Tobar: have
- 44:55Samara Tobar: a
- 44:55Samara Tobar: high
- 44:55Samara Tobar: profile
- 44:56Samara Tobar: job.
- 44:57Samara Tobar: And
- 44:58Samara Tobar: when
- 44:58Samara Tobar: it
- 44:58Samara Tobar: comes
- 44:58Samara Tobar: to
- 44:59Samara Tobar: deadlines,
- 44:59Samara Tobar: I
- 44:59Samara Tobar: never
- 45:00Samara Tobar: would
- 45:00Samara Tobar: miss
- 45:00Samara Tobar: a
- 45:00Samara Tobar: deadline,
- 45:01Samara Tobar: but
- 45:01Samara Tobar: procrastination
- 45:02Samara Tobar: was
- 45:02Samara Tobar: a
- 45:02Samara Tobar: thing,
- 45:03Samara Tobar: you
- 45:03Samara Tobar: know,
- 45:03Samara Tobar: I
- 45:03Samara Tobar: would
- 45:03Samara Tobar: wait
- 45:03Samara Tobar: until
- 45:04Samara Tobar: the
- 45:04Samara Tobar: last
- 45:04Samara Tobar: minute
- 45:04Samara Tobar: and
- 45:04Samara Tobar: even
- 45:05Samara Tobar: the
- 45:05Samara Tobar: simplest
- 45:06Samara Tobar: task
- 45:06Samara Tobar: that
- 45:07Samara Tobar: I
- 45:07Samara Tobar: know
- 45:07Samara Tobar: would
- 45:07Samara Tobar: take
- 45:07Samara Tobar: me
- 45:08Samara Tobar: like
- 45:08Samara Tobar: less
- 45:08Samara Tobar: than
- 45:08Samara Tobar: five
- 45:08Samara Tobar: minutes.
- 45:09Samara Tobar: It,
- 45:09Samara Tobar: they
- 45:09Samara Tobar: just
- 45:10Samara Tobar: seemed
- 45:10Samara Tobar: huge.
- 45:11Samara Tobar: And
- 45:12Samara Tobar: so,
- 45:12Samara Tobar: um.
- 45:13Samara Tobar: I
- 45:14Samara Tobar: just
- 45:14Samara Tobar: was
- 45:15Samara Tobar: outta
- 45:15Samara Tobar: curiosity
- 45:16Samara Tobar: Googled,
- 45:16Samara Tobar: you
- 45:16Samara Tobar: know,
- 45:17Samara Tobar: what
- 45:17Samara Tobar: does
- 45:17Samara Tobar: ADHD
- 45:17Samara Tobar: look
- 45:18Samara Tobar: like
- 45:18Samara Tobar: in
- 45:18Samara Tobar: an
- 45:18Samara Tobar: adult
- 45:18Samara Tobar: woman?
- 45:19Samara Tobar: And
- 45:21Samara Tobar: I
- 45:21Samara Tobar: could
- 45:21Samara Tobar: literally
- 45:21Samara Tobar: check
- 45:22Samara Tobar: off
- 45:22Samara Tobar: like
- 45:22Samara Tobar: every
- 45:23Samara Tobar: single
- 45:23Samara Tobar: box.
- 45:24Samara Tobar: And
- 45:24Samara Tobar: so,
- 45:24Samara Tobar: um,
- 45:26Samara Tobar: I
- 45:26Samara Tobar: made
- 45:26Samara Tobar: an
- 45:26Samara Tobar: appointment,
- 45:27Samara Tobar: got
- 45:28Samara Tobar: a
- 45:28Samara Tobar: referral,
- 45:29Samara Tobar: went
- 45:29Samara Tobar: to
- 45:29Samara Tobar: the,
- 45:30Samara Tobar: uh,
- 45:30Samara Tobar: the
- 45:30Samara Tobar: appointment
- 45:31Samara Tobar: with
- 45:31Samara Tobar: the,
- 45:32Samara Tobar: the
- 45:32Samara Tobar: psychiatrist.
- 45:33Samara Tobar: The
- 45:33Samara Tobar: psychiatrist,
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- 45:34Samara Tobar: psychologist.
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- 45:36Samara Tobar: specialist
- 45:37Samara Tobar: that
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- 45:38Samara Tobar: me
- 45:38Samara Tobar: the
- 45:38Samara Tobar: evaluations,
- 45:39Samara Tobar: went
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- 45:40Samara Tobar: evaluation
- 45:41Samara Tobar: process,
- 45:42Samara Tobar: was
- 45:42Samara Tobar: diagnosed
- 45:43Samara Tobar: at
- 45:43Samara Tobar: age
- 45:44Samara Tobar: 42
- 45:45Samara Tobar: with
- 45:45Samara Tobar: ADHD.
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- 45:49Samara Tobar: everything
- 45:50Samara Tobar: in
- 45:50Samara Tobar: the
- 45:50Samara Tobar: world
- 45:50Samara Tobar: made
- 45:51Samara Tobar: sense.
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- 45:52Samara Tobar: like,
- 45:52Samara Tobar: I,
- 45:53Samara Tobar: I
- 45:53Samara Tobar: could
- 45:53Samara Tobar: look
- 45:53Samara Tobar: at,
- 45:54Samara Tobar: at
- 45:54Samara Tobar: my
- 45:54Samara Tobar: life
- 45:54Samara Tobar: and
- 45:54Samara Tobar: be
- 45:55Samara Tobar: like,
- 45:55Samara Tobar: that's
- 45:56Samara Tobar: why,
- 45:57Samara Tobar: you
- 45:57Samara Tobar: know,
- 45:57Samara Tobar: I
- 45:57Samara Tobar: struggled
- 45:58Samara Tobar: so
- 45:58Samara Tobar: much
- 45:58Samara Tobar: with
- 45:58Samara Tobar: this.
- 45:59Samara Tobar: Or
- 45:59Samara Tobar: that's
- 45:59Samara Tobar: why,
- 46:00Samara Tobar: you
- 46:00Samara Tobar: know,
- 46:01Samara Tobar: I
- 46:01Samara Tobar: can
- 46:01Samara Tobar: start
- 46:02Samara Tobar: cleaning
- 46:02Samara Tobar: in
- 46:02Samara Tobar: a
- 46:02Samara Tobar: bedroom
- 46:03Samara Tobar: and
- 46:04Samara Tobar: end
- 46:04Samara Tobar: up
- 46:04Samara Tobar: in
- 46:04Samara Tobar: the
- 46:04Samara Tobar: basement
- 46:05Samara Tobar: going
- 46:05Samara Tobar: through
- 46:05Samara Tobar: old
- 46:06Samara Tobar: pictures
- 46:06Samara Tobar: and
- 46:06Samara Tobar: boxes.
- 46:07Samara Tobar: You
- 46:07Samara Tobar: know
- 46:07Samara Tobar: what
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- 46:07Samara Tobar: mean?
- 46:08Samara Tobar: Just
- 46:08Samara Tobar: random
- 46:08Samara Tobar: things.
- 46:09Samara Tobar: Um,
- 46:10Samara Tobar: and.
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- 46:12Samara Tobar: excited.
- 46:12Samara Tobar: I
- 46:13Samara Tobar: know,
- 46:13Samara Tobar: like
- 46:13Samara Tobar: it
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- 46:14Samara Tobar: you
- 46:14Samara Tobar: know,
- 46:14Samara Tobar: like
- 46:15Samara Tobar: someone
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- 46:15Samara Tobar: about
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- 46:18Samara Tobar: puzzle
- 46:18Samara Tobar: pieces
- 46:18Samara Tobar: together
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- 46:19Samara Tobar: there
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- 46:20Samara Tobar: a
- 46:20Samara Tobar: solution.
- 46:21Samara Tobar: Um,
- 46:21Samara Tobar: and
- 46:22Samara Tobar: so
- 46:22Samara Tobar: I
- 46:22Samara Tobar: started,
- 46:23Samara Tobar: uh,
- 46:23Samara Tobar: medication
- 46:25Samara Tobar: and
- 46:25Samara Tobar: my
- 46:26Samara Tobar: first
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- 46:28Samara Tobar: I
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- 46:31Samara Tobar: two
- 46:31Samara Tobar: weeks
- 46:32Samara Tobar: worth
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- 46:32Samara Tobar: work
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- 46:33Samara Tobar: like
- 46:34Samara Tobar: two
- 46:34Samara Tobar: days.
- 46:36Samara Tobar: And
- 46:37Samara Tobar: so,
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- 46:39Samara Tobar: me,
- 46:40Samara Tobar: you
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- 46:41Samara Tobar: my
- 46:41Samara Tobar: youngest
- 46:42Samara Tobar: child
- 46:42Samara Tobar: who
- 46:42Samara Tobar: is
- 46:43Samara Tobar: also
- 46:43Samara Tobar: neurodivergent,
- 46:45Samara Tobar: um,
- 46:46Samara Tobar: you
- 46:46Samara Tobar: know,
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- 46:46Samara Tobar: a
- 46:46Samara Tobar: sense
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- 46:47Samara Tobar: connection
- 46:48Samara Tobar: there
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- 46:51Samara Tobar: she
- 46:51Samara Tobar: goes
- 46:51Samara Tobar: through.
- 46:52Samara Tobar: Um,
- 46:53Samara Tobar: and
- 46:53Samara Tobar: I'm
- 46:53Samara Tobar: able
- 46:54Samara Tobar: to
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- 46:55Samara Tobar: her
- 46:55Samara Tobar: with
- 46:55Samara Tobar: the
- 46:55Samara Tobar: executive
- 46:56Samara Tobar: functioning
- 46:56Samara Tobar: part
- 46:57Samara Tobar: of
- 46:57Samara Tobar: things
- 46:58Samara Tobar: as
- 46:58Samara Tobar: I
- 46:58Samara Tobar: learn,
- 46:58Samara Tobar: I
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- 46:59Samara Tobar: her.
- 47:00Samara Tobar: Right.
- 47:00Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 47:00Samara Tobar: so
- 47:00Samara Tobar: that's
- 47:01Samara Tobar: been
- 47:01Samara Tobar: helpful.
- 47:02Tony Tidbit: You
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- 49:38Samara Tobar: the
- 49:38Samara Tobar: wife,
- 49:38Samara Tobar: Samara,
- 49:39Samara Tobar: the
- 49:40Samara Tobar: community,
- 49:41Samara Tobar: you
- 49:41Samara Tobar: know,
- 49:41Samara Tobar: servant
- 49:42Samara Tobar: community
- 49:43Samara Tobar: leader.
- 49:43Samara Tobar: You
- 49:43Samara Tobar: had
- 49:44Samara Tobar: corporate
- 49:45Samara Tobar: Samara.
- 49:46Samara Tobar: They
- 49:46Samara Tobar: were
- 49:46Samara Tobar: all,
- 49:47Samara Tobar: you
- 49:47Samara Tobar: know,
- 49:47Samara Tobar: these
- 49:48Samara Tobar: people.
- 49:49Samara Tobar: But
- 49:49Samara Tobar: I
- 49:49Samara Tobar: was
- 49:49Samara Tobar: really
- 49:52Samara Tobar: asking
- 49:52Samara Tobar: God
- 49:52Samara Tobar: in
- 49:52Samara Tobar: those
- 49:53Samara Tobar: times,
- 49:53Samara Tobar: like
- 49:54Samara Tobar: I
- 49:54Samara Tobar: feel
- 49:54Samara Tobar: very
- 49:55Samara Tobar: like
- 49:55Samara Tobar: spread
- 49:55Samara Tobar: thin.
- 49:56Samara Tobar: How
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- 49:57Samara Tobar: I.
- 49:58Samara Tobar: Do
- 49:58Samara Tobar: be
- 49:59Samara Tobar: great,
- 49:59Samara Tobar: you
- 50:00Samara Tobar: know,
- 50:00Samara Tobar: in
- 50:00Samara Tobar: what
- 50:00Samara Tobar: I
- 50:00Samara Tobar: love
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- 50:01Samara Tobar: which
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- 50:01Samara Tobar: my
- 50:02Samara Tobar: career.
- 50:03Samara Tobar: But
- 50:03Samara Tobar: then
- 50:03Samara Tobar: how
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- 50:03Samara Tobar: I
- 50:03Samara Tobar: also
- 50:04Samara Tobar: like
- 50:04Samara Tobar: bring
- 50:05Samara Tobar: myself
- 50:05Samara Tobar: back
- 50:06Samara Tobar: in?
- 50:06Samara Tobar: So
- 50:07Samara Tobar: I'm
- 50:07Samara Tobar: whole,
- 50:07Samara Tobar: a
- 50:07Samara Tobar: whole
- 50:07Samara Tobar: person.
- 50:08Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 50:09Samara Tobar: so
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- 50:10Samara Tobar: your
- 50:10Samara Tobar: question,
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- 50:12Samara Tobar: an
- 50:12Samara Tobar: easy
- 50:13Samara Tobar: journey
- 50:14Samara Tobar: at
- 50:14Samara Tobar: all.
- 50:14Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 50:16Samara Tobar: had
- 50:16Samara Tobar: to
- 50:18Samara Tobar: fall
- 50:18Samara Tobar: apart
- 50:19Samara Tobar: and
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- 50:20Samara Tobar: um,
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- 50:21Samara Tobar: I
- 50:21Samara Tobar: was
- 50:21Samara Tobar: able
- 50:22Samara Tobar: to
- 50:22Samara Tobar: actually
- 50:23Samara Tobar: come
- 50:23Samara Tobar: back
- 50:23Samara Tobar: together.
- 50:24Samara Tobar: And
- 50:24Samara Tobar: what
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- 50:26Samara Tobar: you
- 50:28Samara Tobar: stuff
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- 50:29Samara Tobar: suppress
- 50:29Samara Tobar: for
- 50:29Samara Tobar: so
- 50:30Samara Tobar: long
- 50:31Samara Tobar: and
- 50:31Samara Tobar: you
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- 50:32Samara Tobar: actually
- 50:33Samara Tobar: deal
- 50:34Samara Tobar: with
- 50:34Samara Tobar: whatever
- 50:34Samara Tobar: emotion
- 50:35Samara Tobar: is,
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- 50:36Samara Tobar: in,
- 50:37Samara Tobar: at
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- 50:38Samara Tobar: or
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- 50:38Samara Tobar: your
- 50:39Samara Tobar: face,
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- 50:40Samara Tobar: more
- 50:40Samara Tobar: you
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- 50:41Samara Tobar: it,
- 50:42Samara Tobar: um,
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- 50:43Samara Tobar: gonna,
- 50:43Samara Tobar: it's
- 50:43Samara Tobar: gonna
- 50:44Samara Tobar: come
- 50:44Samara Tobar: up
- 50:44Samara Tobar: again.
- 50:45Samara Tobar: And
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- 50:45Samara Tobar: you
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- 50:45Samara Tobar: how
- 50:46Samara Tobar: to
- 50:46Samara Tobar: deal
- 50:46Samara Tobar: with
- 50:46Samara Tobar: it
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- 50:47Samara Tobar: it,
- 50:47Samara Tobar: um,
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- 50:49Samara Tobar: can
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- 50:49Samara Tobar: up
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- 50:49Samara Tobar: a
- 50:49Samara Tobar: lot
- 50:49Samara Tobar: of
- 50:49Samara Tobar: different
- 50:50Samara Tobar: ways
- 50:50Samara Tobar: and
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- 50:51Samara Tobar: be
- 50:51Samara Tobar: 1000%
- 50:52Samara Tobar: transparent
- 50:53Samara Tobar: with
- 50:53Samara Tobar: you,
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- 50:54Samara Tobar: me
- 50:54Samara Tobar: it
- 50:55Samara Tobar: manifested
- 50:55Samara Tobar: in,
- 50:56Samara Tobar: um.
- 50:57Samara Tobar: Suicidal
- 50:58Samara Tobar: thoughts.
- 50:59Samara Tobar: Now
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- 51:00Samara Tobar: that,
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- 51:02Samara Tobar: had
- 51:02Samara Tobar: any
- 51:02Samara Tobar: desire
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- 51:05Samara Tobar: you
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- 51:05Samara Tobar: I
- 51:05Samara Tobar: mean?
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- 51:06Samara Tobar: feeling
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- 51:08Samara Tobar: be
- 51:08Samara Tobar: here
- 51:08Samara Tobar: anymore
- 51:08Samara Tobar: because
- 51:09Samara Tobar: the
- 51:09Samara Tobar: weight
- 51:09Samara Tobar: just
- 51:09Samara Tobar: seemed
- 51:10Samara Tobar: so
- 51:10Samara Tobar: heavy.
- 51:11Samara Tobar: And
- 51:11Samara Tobar: so
- 51:12Samara Tobar: I
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- 51:13Samara Tobar: day,
- 51:13Samara Tobar: um,
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- 51:14Samara Tobar: this
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- 51:14Samara Tobar: when
- 51:14Samara Tobar: everything
- 51:15Samara Tobar: changed
- 51:15Samara Tobar: for
- 51:15Samara Tobar: me.
- 51:16Samara Tobar: I
- 51:16Samara Tobar: had
- 51:16Samara Tobar: three
- 51:17Samara Tobar: days
- 51:18Samara Tobar: of
- 51:18Samara Tobar: utter
- 51:19Samara Tobar: darkness
- 51:20Samara Tobar: where
- 51:20Samara Tobar: I
- 51:20Samara Tobar: was,
- 51:22Samara Tobar: you
- 51:22Samara Tobar: know,
- 51:22Samara Tobar: just,
- 51:23Samara Tobar: I
- 51:23Samara Tobar: couldn't
- 51:24Samara Tobar: say
- 51:24Samara Tobar: much.
- 51:25Samara Tobar: I
- 51:25Samara Tobar: was
- 51:26Samara Tobar: in
- 51:26Samara Tobar: tears
- 51:26Samara Tobar: the
- 51:26Samara Tobar: entire
- 51:27Samara Tobar: time.
- 51:27Samara Tobar: I
- 51:27Samara Tobar: could
- 51:27Samara Tobar: not
- 51:28Samara Tobar: sleep.
- 51:28Samara Tobar: I
- 51:28Samara Tobar: had
- 51:28Samara Tobar: not
- 51:28Samara Tobar: slept
- 51:29Samara Tobar: well
- 51:29Samara Tobar: for
- 51:29Samara Tobar: like
- 51:29Samara Tobar: a
- 51:29Samara Tobar: month
- 51:30Samara Tobar: and
- 51:30Samara Tobar: a
- 51:30Samara Tobar: half.
- 51:31Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 51:32Samara Tobar: that
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- 51:33Samara Tobar: triggered
- 51:33Samara Tobar: this
- 51:33Samara Tobar: whole
- 51:34Samara Tobar: downward
- 51:34Samara Tobar: spiral,
- 51:35Samara Tobar: which
- 51:35Samara Tobar: was,
- 51:36Samara Tobar: um,
- 51:36Samara Tobar: a
- 51:36Samara Tobar: breakup.
- 51:37Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 51:38Samara Tobar: so
- 51:39Samara Tobar: I
- 51:39Samara Tobar: asked
- 51:39Samara Tobar: my
- 51:39Samara Tobar: oldest
- 51:39Samara Tobar: daughter,
- 51:40Samara Tobar: I
- 51:40Samara Tobar: said,
- 51:40Samara Tobar: Hey,
- 51:41Samara Tobar: I'm
- 51:41Samara Tobar: not
- 51:41Samara Tobar: feeling
- 51:41Samara Tobar: like
- 51:42Samara Tobar: myself.
- 51:42Samara Tobar: These
- 51:43Samara Tobar: are
- 51:43Samara Tobar: the
- 51:43Samara Tobar: feelings
- 51:44Samara Tobar: that
- 51:44Samara Tobar: I'm
- 51:44Samara Tobar: experiencing.
- 51:46Samara Tobar: And
- 51:46Samara Tobar: I
- 51:46Samara Tobar: know
- 51:46Samara Tobar: that.
- 51:48Samara Tobar: I
- 51:48Samara Tobar: don't
- 51:48Samara Tobar: wanna
- 51:48Samara Tobar: do
- 51:48Samara Tobar: anything
- 51:49Samara Tobar: and
- 51:49Samara Tobar: so
- 51:49Samara Tobar: I'm
- 51:50Samara Tobar: asking
- 51:50Samara Tobar: you
- 51:50Samara Tobar: for
- 51:50Samara Tobar: help.
- 51:51Samara Tobar: And
- 51:51Samara Tobar: so
- 51:52Samara Tobar: she
- 51:52Samara Tobar: took
- 51:52Samara Tobar: me,
- 51:53Samara Tobar: um,
- 51:54Samara Tobar: to
- 51:54Samara Tobar: our
- 51:54Samara Tobar: local,
- 51:55Samara Tobar: um,
- 51:56Samara Tobar: mental
- 51:56Samara Tobar: health
- 51:56Samara Tobar: hospital,
- 51:58Samara Tobar: um,
- 51:58Samara Tobar: and
- 51:59Samara Tobar: I
- 51:59Samara Tobar: did
- 52:00Samara Tobar: intake
- 52:00Samara Tobar: there
- 52:01Samara Tobar: and
- 52:01Samara Tobar: I
- 52:01Samara Tobar: ended
- 52:01Samara Tobar: up
- 52:01Samara Tobar: staying
- 52:02Samara Tobar: there
- 52:02Samara Tobar: for
- 52:03Samara Tobar: five
- 52:03Samara Tobar: days.
- 52:04Samara Tobar: And
- 52:06Samara Tobar: in
- 52:06Samara Tobar: there
- 52:06Samara Tobar: I
- 52:07Samara Tobar: whew.
- 52:08Samara Tobar: That
- 52:09Samara Tobar: whole
- 52:09Samara Tobar: experience
- 52:09Samara Tobar: changed
- 52:10Samara Tobar: my
- 52:10Samara Tobar: life.
- 52:11Samara Tobar: I
- 52:11Samara Tobar: was
- 52:12Samara Tobar: advised
- 52:13Samara Tobar: by
- 52:13Samara Tobar: family
- 52:13Samara Tobar: members
- 52:14Samara Tobar: not
- 52:14Samara Tobar: to
- 52:14Samara Tobar: go.
- 52:15Samara Tobar: I
- 52:15Samara Tobar: was,
- 52:16Samara Tobar: you
- 52:16Samara Tobar: know,
- 52:17Samara Tobar: advised.
- 52:18Samara Tobar: Just,
- 52:18Samara Tobar: you
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- 52:18Samara Tobar: let,
- 52:18Samara Tobar: let's
- 52:19Samara Tobar: just
- 52:19Samara Tobar: give
- 52:19Samara Tobar: you
- 52:19Samara Tobar: a
- 52:19Samara Tobar: whole
- 52:19Samara Tobar: bunch
- 52:19Samara Tobar: of
- 52:20Samara Tobar: sleeping
- 52:20Samara Tobar: pills.
- 52:20Samara Tobar: You
- 52:20Samara Tobar: need
- 52:21Samara Tobar: sleep.
- 52:21Samara Tobar: Let's,
- 52:22Samara Tobar: 'cause
- 52:22Samara Tobar: there
- 52:22Samara Tobar: was
- 52:22Samara Tobar: such
- 52:23Samara Tobar: a
- 52:23Samara Tobar: stigma
- 52:24Samara Tobar: on.
- 52:25Samara Tobar: We
- 52:25Samara Tobar: can't
- 52:25Samara Tobar: let
- 52:25Samara Tobar: Samara
- 52:26Samara Tobar: go
- 52:26Samara Tobar: to
- 52:26Samara Tobar: the
- 52:26Samara Tobar: hospital,
- 52:27Samara Tobar: right?
- 52:27Samara Tobar: 'cause
- 52:27Samara Tobar: that's
- 52:27Samara Tobar: gonna
- 52:28Samara Tobar: make
- 52:28Samara Tobar: her
- 52:28Samara Tobar: look
- 52:28Samara Tobar: bad,
- 52:29Samara Tobar: right?
- 52:29Samara Tobar: That's
- 52:29Samara Tobar: gonna,
- 52:30Samara Tobar: people
- 52:30Samara Tobar: are
- 52:30Samara Tobar: gonna,
- 52:31Samara Tobar: you
- 52:31Samara Tobar: know,
- 52:31Samara Tobar: her
- 52:31Samara Tobar: reputation
- 52:32Samara Tobar: is
- 52:32Samara Tobar: gonna
- 52:32Samara Tobar: be
- 52:33Samara Tobar: tampered
- 52:33Samara Tobar: with.
- 52:34Samara Tobar: But
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- 52:34Samara Tobar: didn't
- 52:34Samara Tobar: care.
- 52:35Samara Tobar: I
- 52:35Samara Tobar: just
- 52:35Samara Tobar: wanted
- 52:36Samara Tobar: to
- 52:36Samara Tobar: live,
- 52:36Samara Tobar: you
- 52:37Samara Tobar: know,
- 52:37Samara Tobar: I
- 52:37Samara Tobar: want,
- 52:37Samara Tobar: I
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- 52:38Samara Tobar: get
- 52:39Samara Tobar: out
- 52:39Samara Tobar: of
- 52:39Samara Tobar: that
- 52:39Samara Tobar: cloud
- 52:40Samara Tobar: of
- 52:40Samara Tobar: darkness.
- 52:41Samara Tobar: And
- 52:41Samara Tobar: so
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- 52:42Samara Tobar: said,
- 52:42Samara Tobar: you
- 52:42Samara Tobar: know,
- 52:43Samara Tobar: my
- 52:43Samara Tobar: daughter
- 52:44Samara Tobar: stuck
- 52:44Samara Tobar: with
- 52:44Samara Tobar: me,
- 52:45Samara Tobar: um,
- 52:45Samara Tobar: through
- 52:45Samara Tobar: the
- 52:45Samara Tobar: intake
- 52:46Samara Tobar: process.
- 52:46Samara Tobar: She
- 52:47Samara Tobar: gave
- 52:47Samara Tobar: me
- 52:47Samara Tobar: a
- 52:47Samara Tobar: hug,
- 52:48Samara Tobar: was
- 52:48Samara Tobar: like,
- 52:48Samara Tobar: don't
- 52:48Samara Tobar: worry
- 52:49Samara Tobar: about
- 52:49Samara Tobar: anything
- 52:49Samara Tobar: at
- 52:49Samara Tobar: home
- 52:50Samara Tobar: between
- 52:51Samara Tobar: her
- 52:51Samara Tobar: and
- 52:51Samara Tobar: my
- 52:52Samara Tobar: mom.
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- 52:54Samara Tobar: for
- 52:55Samara Tobar: me
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- 52:57Samara Tobar: tearful
- 52:58Samara Tobar: goodbye,
- 52:59Samara Tobar: but
- 52:59Samara Tobar: she
- 52:59Samara Tobar: said,
- 52:59Samara Tobar: I
- 52:59Samara Tobar: am
- 53:00Samara Tobar: so
- 53:00Samara Tobar: proud
- 53:01Samara Tobar: of
- 53:01Samara Tobar: you,
- 53:01Samara Tobar: mom.
- 53:01Samara Tobar: I'm
- 53:01Samara Tobar: so
- 53:01Samara Tobar: proud
- 53:02Samara Tobar: of
- 53:02Samara Tobar: you
- 53:02Samara Tobar: for
- 53:02Samara Tobar: doing
- 53:02Samara Tobar: this.
- 53:03Samara Tobar: And
- 53:03Samara Tobar: I,
- 53:04Samara Tobar: I,
- 53:04Samara Tobar: everything
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- 53:05Samara Tobar: had
- 53:05Samara Tobar: available
- 53:06Samara Tobar: for
- 53:06Samara Tobar: me
- 53:06Samara Tobar: in
- 53:07Samara Tobar: those
- 53:07Samara Tobar: walls,
- 53:08Samara Tobar: I
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- 53:08Samara Tobar: it
- 53:08Samara Tobar: my,
- 53:08Samara Tobar: my
- 53:09Samara Tobar: stint
- 53:09Samara Tobar: at
- 53:09Samara Tobar: Shady
- 53:09Samara Tobar: Pines.
- 53:10Samara Tobar: I
- 53:10Samara Tobar: took
- 53:11Samara Tobar: advantage
- 53:11Samara Tobar: of
- 53:11Samara Tobar: it.
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- 53:13Samara Tobar: every
- 53:13Samara Tobar: group
- 53:13Samara Tobar: session,
- 53:14Samara Tobar: every
- 53:14Samara Tobar: journal
- 53:15Samara Tobar: prompt,
- 53:16Samara Tobar: every
- 53:16Samara Tobar: one-on-one,
- 53:17Samara Tobar: um,
- 53:18Samara Tobar: after
- 53:18Samara Tobar: I
- 53:18Samara Tobar: slept
- 53:19Samara Tobar: for
- 53:19Samara Tobar: a
- 53:19Samara Tobar: day
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- 53:19Samara Tobar: a
- 53:19Samara Tobar: half.
- 53:20Samara Tobar: But,
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- 53:22Samara Tobar: you
- 53:22Samara Tobar: know,
- 53:23Samara Tobar: front
- 53:23Samara Tobar: and
- 53:23Samara Tobar: center
- 53:23Samara Tobar: in
- 53:23Samara Tobar: every,
- 53:24Samara Tobar: everything
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- 53:25Samara Tobar: available
- 53:25Samara Tobar: for
- 53:26Samara Tobar: us
- 53:26Samara Tobar: to
- 53:26Samara Tobar: take
- 53:26Samara Tobar: it
- 53:26Samara Tobar: advantage
- 53:27Samara Tobar: of.
- 53:27Samara Tobar: And
- 53:28Samara Tobar: the,
- 53:28Samara Tobar: the
- 53:28Samara Tobar: most
- 53:29Samara Tobar: important
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- 53:30Samara Tobar: I
- 53:30Samara Tobar: learned
- 53:30Samara Tobar: that
- 53:30Samara Tobar: I
- 53:30Samara Tobar: had
- 53:31Samara Tobar: not
- 53:31Samara Tobar: ever
- 53:31Samara Tobar: learned
- 53:31Samara Tobar: before
- 53:32Samara Tobar: in
- 53:32Samara Tobar: my
- 53:32Samara Tobar: life
- 53:33Samara Tobar: was
- 53:34Samara Tobar: radical
- 53:34Samara Tobar: acceptance.
- 53:36Samara Tobar: And
- 53:37Samara Tobar: I
- 53:37Samara Tobar: had
- 53:37Samara Tobar: never
- 53:38Samara Tobar: learned
- 53:38Samara Tobar: to
- 53:38Samara Tobar: radically
- 53:38Samara Tobar: accept
- 53:39Samara Tobar: anything
- 53:39Samara Tobar: I
- 53:40Samara Tobar: thought.
- 53:40Samara Tobar: 'cause
- 53:40Samara Tobar: I
- 53:40Samara Tobar: was
- 53:40Samara Tobar: cute.
- 53:41Samara Tobar: I
- 53:41Samara Tobar: can
- 53:41Samara Tobar: manipulate
- 53:42Samara Tobar: and
- 53:42Samara Tobar: control
- 53:43Samara Tobar: my
- 53:43Samara Tobar: way
- 53:43Samara Tobar: into
- 53:43Samara Tobar: getting,
- 53:44Samara Tobar: you
- 53:44Samara Tobar: know,
- 53:44Samara Tobar: what
- 53:44Samara Tobar: I
- 53:44Samara Tobar: wanted,
- 53:45Samara Tobar: the
- 53:45Samara Tobar: outcome
- 53:45Samara Tobar: that
- 53:45Samara Tobar: I
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- 53:47Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 57:57Samara Tobar: Um,
- 57:58Samara Tobar: I
- 57:58Samara Tobar: feel
- 57:58Samara Tobar: like
- 57:59Samara Tobar: I
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- 58:01Samara Tobar: I
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- 58:02Samara Tobar: this
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- 58:03Samara Tobar: sound
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- 58:04Samara Tobar: authority.
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- 58:17Samara Tobar: day
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- 58:25Samara Tobar: whole
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- 58:32Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 58:38Samara Tobar: And,
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- 58:41Samara Tobar: they
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- 58:42Samara Tobar: me.
- 58:43Samara Tobar: Um,
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- 58:45Samara Tobar: favorite
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- 58:45Samara Tobar: lady
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- 58:47Samara Tobar: um,
- 58:48Samara Tobar: you
- 58:48Samara Tobar: know,
- 58:49Samara Tobar: it
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- 58:53Samara Tobar: my
- 58:53Samara Tobar: counsel.
- 58:55Tony Tidbit: Let
- 58:55Tony Tidbit: me
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- 58:55Tony Tidbit: you
- 58:56Tony Tidbit: this.
- 58:56Tony Tidbit: That's
- 58:56Tony Tidbit: awesome.
- 58:57Tony Tidbit: The
- 58:57Tony Tidbit: favorite
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- 58:59Tony Tidbit: message
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- 59:02Tony Tidbit: right
- 59:02Tony Tidbit: now
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- 59:18Samara Tobar: I
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- 59:36Samara Tobar: leading.
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- 1:01:55Samara Tobar: That's
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- 1:02:14Tony Tidbit: Right
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