Latest / REZ CHURCH Podcast / When Life Becomes a Courtroom - John 8:1-11
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- 0:23Good morning, everyone. Hey, you're loud.
- 0:27I like it. Well, my name is Nate.
- 0:30I am one of the teaching pastors here at RES, and I also serve as
- 0:34the creative director. And happy Father's Day to the
- 0:37dads out there. I'm a, yeah, been a dad for
- 0:42almost five years. And this morning I was given a
- 0:46beautiful Father's Day gift. My son got into our bed last
- 0:50night and he, you know, to, to snuggle, you know, But it was
- 0:5411:00 PM. So I was gifted with a barrage
- 1:00of tiny kicks to my lower back for the duration of the evening.
- 1:06And so the first, first service I started, I forgot to say my
- 1:09name. I was just so tired.
- 1:10I'm like, what's up? I'm Nate or something.
- 1:12And so happy Father's Day. I'm full of energy now and I'm
- 1:16ready to go. And we just finished up a series
- 1:19called Sound Mind, and I really enjoyed that.
- 1:21Did you guys like that? Mental health?
- 1:24It was really cool, really good. I'm hoping to do it again, but
- 1:26we're starting a new series today.
- 1:28We're jumping back in the book of John, and our sermon series
- 1:31is called. But now I see.
- 1:33And I want to kick this off with a fun story about Nate when he
- 1:37was about 1819 years old and I had gotten involved in a youth
- 1:42group, specifically young adults.
- 1:44You know, when you graduate from youth group, they're like, well,
- 1:46I guess you're a leader now because, you know, you're too
- 1:49old, but they want you to stay. I don't know.
- 1:50So I became a leader and we did this thing called a drama tour
- 1:56and it was basically a bunch of us youngsters.
- 1:59We would get in a caravan and go up and down the West Coast and
- 2:02we would go to churches and high schools.
- 2:05And sometimes we just like set up out in public.
- 2:08And we would do these presentations, which were a
- 2:11combination of we did worship music and there was some some
- 2:14preaching and we did something called human videos.
- 2:17Do you guys know what human videos are?
- 2:20Literally no one has heard us. You know what?
- 2:22I figured it out. I come from Assemblies of God
- 2:25background, which is more like charismatic, and I think that's
- 2:27why you guys don't know what this is.
- 2:29Let me explain it to you. It's really cool, trust me.
- 2:32It's basically you pick a song, like a Christian song and all of
- 2:37us act out. All of us humans act out the
- 2:40song and create a human video. It's really cool.
- 2:45So we did a bunch of human videos, and one of those human
- 2:49videos was a court. It was based on a song called
- 2:52The Courtroom. This is going to be a big fat no
- 2:54as well by an artist known as Carmen.
- 2:57Do you guys know who? Oh, this is a Carmen audience.
- 3:04That handsome devil right there, that's Carmen.
- 3:08So if you don't know who Carmen is, it's this person.
- 3:10And he did like kind of, it was like kids music, right?
- 3:13It was like kids music, but it was like cool.
- 3:15At least our parents thought so. And he would do these really
- 3:20elaborate, actually really well done music videos.
- 3:24You're nodding your head. You've been changed by Carmen.
- 3:28And so his song was called the courtroom.
- 3:31Now, the courtroom was, you know, it's a courtroom and you
- 3:34need to cast the part of God, the judge or the person who has
- 3:37brought forth in the courtroom, the Sinner and the part of the
- 3:42prosecution lawyer, which was Satan.
- 3:47So when it was time to cast that, no joke, you guys already
- 3:51know where this is going. The pastor, youth pastor was
- 3:54like, all right, who should be Satan?
- 3:57And no joke, all of them turned around to me sitting back in the
- 4:0222nd row wearing all black, you know, like, and they're like,
- 4:11Nate should be Satan. Nate would be the perfect Satan
- 4:18to their defense. I did have I used to wear
- 4:20eyeliner. I had black fingernail Polish,
- 4:23all the things I had blue hair at that time.
- 4:26And so it's very, you know, Satan like I guess so it's Satan
- 4:31wears evidently. So I I got the part and I
- 4:33graciously accepted, yes, I'll be Satan.
- 4:36And I wore a red blazer and I took it.
- 4:39I'm a method actor. So I took it very seriously.
- 4:41And one of the performances was in the Bay Area.
- 4:45It was at a high school and it was in the gym full of high
- 4:49schoolers and gym floors. If you've ever been on one,
- 4:52sometimes they can be a little slick.
- 4:55And there's a part in my amazing performance where I would jump
- 4:58up onto a folding table with all like the papers, you know, like
- 5:02the evidence and then throw them and then like jump off the table
- 5:05and be like whatever. And so I'm, I'm getting ready to
- 5:09do this signature move and I jump up on the table and as I go
- 5:13to jump, the table slips and it flips up on its side.
- 5:19And at the same time I go and I go up on my bat like a Creed
- 5:25music video. I'm like, it's taking me higher
- 5:29and I'm like parallel to the ground.
- 5:32And I just literally fall right on the edge of the table on my
- 5:36back, dude. And that's the sound they made.
- 5:42And that's this other sound they made.
- 5:45So I fall down and and I get and I'm the song's just going, you
- 5:50know, people are still. So I get up and I'm like, you're
- 5:55going to hell. Still kind of walk it off.
- 5:59Make sure you know, I'm not paralyzed, OK?
- 6:02Feels good. And no joke, I still have a like
- 6:05a knot in my lower back to this day from that.
- 6:09It's pretty crazy. And ironically, during that
- 6:11human video about the courtroom, that gym had become a courtroom
- 6:17because I was being judged so hard in that moment, I was so
- 6:22embarrassed just being out on display.
- 6:24Has anyone felt like that before?
- 6:25Like everyone knows your business and you're just out
- 6:28there and you're like, OK, it's me.
- 6:32Well, that's exactly where the woman in today's story finds
- 6:35herself. She is dragged into the centre
- 6:38of a crowd, She's exposed and she's being judged.
- 6:43But the difference is, although she didn't know it at the time,
- 6:45she had a defender. And so do you.
- 6:48And in our text today, the religious leaders, they dragged
- 6:51this woman caught in the act of adultery into a very public
- 6:54courtroom, throw her before Jesus.
- 6:57And what happens next is an absolute scandal.
- 7:00So if you have your Bible or you got a phone, we're going to be
- 7:03in John chapter 8, verses one through 11, John eight, one
- 7:07through 11. Let's read that together.
- 7:11But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives early in the morning.
- 7:14He came again to the temple. All the people came to him and
- 7:17he sat down and taught them. The scribes and the Pharisees
- 7:20brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, and placing
- 7:22her in the midst, they said to him, Teacher, this woman has
- 7:26been caught in the act of adultery.
- 7:28Now in the law, Moses commanded us to stone such women.
- 7:32So what do you say? This they said to test him, that
- 7:35they might have some charge to bring against Him.
- 7:39But Jesus bent down, and he wrote with his finger on the
- 7:41ground. And as they continued to ask
- 7:44him, he stood up and said to them, Let him who is without sin
- 7:47among you be the first to throw a stone at her.
- 7:50And once again he bent down, and he wrote on the ground.
- 7:54But when they heard it, they went away 1 by 1, beginning with
- 7:57the older ones. And Jesus was left alone with
- 8:00the woman staying before him. And Jesus stood up and said to
- 8:03our woman, Where are they? Has no one condemned you?
- 8:06She said no one, Lord, and Jesus said neither do I condemn you.
- 8:10Go. And from now on, sin no more.
- 8:15So what do we do when our life becomes a courtroom?
- 8:19Well, sometimes in that courtroom, you're the woman
- 8:22caught in adultery. You're the person caught in sin.
- 8:24You're exposed. What do you do?
- 8:29You trust your defender. You have a defender and he is a
- 8:33defender you can trust. But other times you're one of
- 8:36the Pharisees and you have the rock and you're ready to go and
- 8:39you you're ready to judge this person.
- 8:40What can you do in this opportunity?
- 8:42What can you do in this situation?
- 8:43Well, in these situations, you have the opportunity to become a
- 8:47defence attorney for someone else.
- 8:50And in both of these instances, both, both of these people need
- 8:54to go before the judge. Now, the story starts off in
- 8:59verse one with Jesus teaching. And if you combine the Greek
- 9:02word for teacher and the Aramaic rabbi, Jesus is referred to as a
- 9:06teacher approximately 59 times in the New Testament.
- 9:10And although we talk a lot about his miracles, Jesus is primarily
- 9:14known as a teacher. I mean, do you ever wonder why
- 9:17we get up here and do this? Like when you get up early and
- 9:20you get the free coffee and you sit there and then some guy
- 9:23talks about Carmen and he's like, yeah.
- 9:25And he's. Do you ever wonder why we
- 9:27actually do that? I mean, simple explanation is
- 9:31because that's what Jesus did, he taught.
- 9:34I mean, all these things we do are the props, the sometimes we
- 9:37bring a backpack or a quilt. One time I brought a a pot with
- 9:40macaroni, if you remember that. But why do we do all that?
- 9:43It's just all an attempt to get you to walk away with more
- 9:48knowledge, more experience, and more spiritual maturity in the
- 9:51teachings of Jesus. And the older I get, the more I
- 9:55realize that spiritual maturity happens mostly in the mundane,
- 10:00not the miracles maturity. It happens every day.
- 10:05It's in the consistent things, the consistent time in prayer,
- 10:08the consistent time in the teachings of Jesus.
- 10:11And that's where the Pharisees and scribes found him this day.
- 10:15And he was doing what he did the most, He was teaching.
- 10:19Verse 3 picks it up and it says the scribes and Pharisees
- 10:21brought a woman who had been caught in adultery, placing her
- 10:24in the midst. They said to him, Teacher, this
- 10:26woman has been caught in the act of adultery.
- 10:28Now in the law, Moses commanded us to stone such women.
- 10:31So what do you say? And this they said to test him,
- 10:34that they might have some charge to bring against him.
- 10:36So First off, if you're newer to church and you don't know what a
- 10:41scribe or a Pharisee is really quick.
- 10:43The scribes, we're the legal experts.
- 10:46They were scholars in the law of Moses.
- 10:48So they were most likely lawyers.
- 10:51The Pharisees, they were the religious, they were the cold,
- 10:54they were the rigid, but they were deeply committed to
- 10:57upholding God's commands. And now they've drugged this
- 11:01woman out in front of the crowd, the crowd that Jesus was
- 11:04teaching. She was probably not completely
- 11:07dressed because it says that they caught her in the act.
- 11:10So she's ashamed and they throw her down before Jesus and court
- 11:14was now in session. Before we go any further, I do
- 11:17have a few questions about this scenario.
- 11:20Like, if you actually think about this, one of my questions
- 11:23is how did you guys catch her? How did you know where she would
- 11:31be? Typically, these things are done
- 11:36in secrecy, so how did you know where she would be?
- 11:42I mean, were you guys all there? That's weird.
- 11:48That's fishy. I have another question.
- 11:52It's a big question. Where's the dude?
- 11:58Yeah, right. Who cares?
- 12:00Where's the dude? The law says.
- 12:05Well, the Pharisees say, hey, it's it's we need to stone such
- 12:07women. But what the law actually says
- 12:09is you're supposed to stone the man and the woman.
- 12:14Two people. So where's the man?
- 12:18These things usually take two people.
- 12:21OK, biology or whatever. So what is the simplest
- 12:26explanation here? You ever heard the term Occam's
- 12:30Razor before? Yeah, it's cool.
- 12:34I like to use Occam's Razor a lot in situations.
- 12:36But basically, if you don't know, Occam's Razor is a
- 12:38principle often attributed to 14th century Friar William of
- 12:41Occam that says if you have two competing ideas to explain the
- 12:46same phenomenon, you should prefer the simpler 1.
- 12:50The simplest explanation is often the correct 1.
- 12:53So what is Nate's razor? Well, I think, and don't add
- 12:58this to your Bible, which is just what I think.
- 13:01I think they set her up with one of the Pharisees.
- 13:06That's what I think. That's why they didn't bring the
- 13:12man because he was one of them. And that's how they knew where
- 13:16to find her because he was one of them.
- 13:19And I would not be surprised if they compromised their moral
- 13:22code just to trap Jesus. And Jesus threatened, if you
- 13:26think about it, he threatened their religious system, which
- 13:29ultimately means he threatened their power.
- 13:31People don't like that. Perhaps in this situation, in
- 13:36their minds, the means would justify the end.
- 13:39And it really reveals their ulterior motive because if they
- 13:42actually wanted justice, like they said, they would have
- 13:46brought both of them. But they did it.
- 13:49It just brought the woman. They did this simply to use her
- 13:56as bait in a trap set for Jesus. So what's the trap?
- 14:05Jesus is sort of stuck between a rock and a hard place here.
- 14:11Did you? Yeah.
- 14:14Sorry. It's a dad joke.
- 14:15It's Father's Day, I'm going to do all the dad jokes.
- 14:21Jesus was in a tough position here.
- 14:22If he said, all right, guys, let's rock, let's stone her, it
- 14:26would do three things. Number 1, he would contradict
- 14:28his own teachings about mercy, forgiveness, and compassion.
- 14:32OK #2 he would appear harsh and unloving to the people who saw
- 14:37him as merciful. If he was like, let's stone
- 14:39this, this lady and #3 he would also run afoul of Roman law
- 14:43because Roman, the Romans had restricted Jewish authority from
- 14:47carrying out capital punishment. OK, now if he says, well, hold
- 14:50up, let's just show some grace here.
- 14:53Let's how about we don't stone her?
- 14:56That would have done a few things.
- 14:57Number 1, he would now appear to contradict or dismiss the law of
- 15:01Moses, which clearly commanded death for adultery #2 the
- 15:05Pharisees could accuse him of being a false teacher who
- 15:08undermines God's law. They love that.
- 15:10And #3 they could claim he was leading people away from
- 15:14obedience to scripture. So what the heck does Jesus do?
- 15:20What he doesn't do is he doesn't engage in their catch 22
- 15:23situation and he doesn't get caught up in their religious
- 15:26rhetoric. He simply takes action.
- 15:30See, the Pharisees made a huge mistake here.
- 15:32They expected Jesus to be her prosecutor, but he was actually
- 15:37her defender. And if you find yourself maybe
- 15:43today, maybe in your life currently, you are the person
- 15:47caught in sin, I want to tell you that you can trust your
- 15:52defender. You have a defender.
- 15:54He's a defender you can trust. Let me show you why.
- 15:57He goes on to say that Jesus bent down and wrote with his
- 15:59finger on the ground and as they continued to ask him, he stood
- 16:02up and said to them, let him who is without sin among you be the
- 16:05first to throw a stone at her and then once more he bent down
- 16:08and he wrote on the ground. You can trust Jesus as your
- 16:12defender because he gets his hands dirty.
- 16:16When my car, the beautiful silver Corolla is there's
- 16:21something wrong with it never happens, by the way.
- 16:23But if something were to happen wrong with it and I went to a
- 16:26mechanic or I asked the guy, Hey, do you know anything about
- 16:29cars? Can you help me?
- 16:29He's like, sure, I could help you.
- 16:30I'm great with cars and he's got beautiful, clean, dainty hands.
- 16:36No, that's like me, like I don't know.
- 16:40But if I go to the guy and say, Hey, my car needs fixed, do you
- 16:42know anything about cars? He's like, of course I do.
- 16:44And his hands are disgusting. And he's got the kind of, you
- 16:47know, like the dirt that just it doesn't you can't get it out.
- 16:50It's just there forever and you're and his hands are all
- 16:52rough. That's the guy I want working on
- 16:55my car because I know that guy gets his hands dirty.
- 16:59He means what he says. That's why you can trust Jesus.
- 17:03He doesn't condemn her. He goes right into action and
- 17:07comes to her defense. Have you, have you ever
- 17:09experienced that in your life where I mean, you messed up
- 17:12really bad, you got yourself into some trouble and you went
- 17:15to a person and they could probably say, hey, you're an
- 17:20idiot man, and they could condemn you and they can do all
- 17:23that stuff. But they didn't, and they lead
- 17:26with love. Have you ever experienced that
- 17:27in your life? I have.
- 17:30When I was in my early 20s, I had a decently paying job and I
- 17:35was single, which means I was really dumb with my money and I
- 17:41had no savings. And I I had, I had a lot of
- 17:43money, but not in the bank. I just had a lot of cool stuff
- 17:47in my apartment and my roommate one time wrote me a bad check.
- 17:53So when I, I went and, you know, cashed the check and went on
- 17:55with my life and I got like these notifications that I was
- 17:58severely overdrawn. And because of that, there was a
- 18:02overdraft fee. And because of the overdraft
- 18:05fee, there was a another fee, you know, and then because of
- 18:11that, there's a three fee effect that comes in when you have
- 18:14three fees. They had another fee.
- 18:16And so I had all these fees, said the word fee a lot there.
- 18:19But the point is I had like negative like $1000 or
- 18:22something. It was crazy.
- 18:24And So what do I do? So I called my dad and it's
- 18:30like, dad, I got myself some trouble, wasn't super smart with
- 18:32my money. And now I'm like in the hole,
- 18:35what do I do? And he could have been like,
- 18:37Nate, you're an idiot. I taught you better than that.
- 18:40But he didn't. He's like, well, we both were at
- 18:44the same bank. He's like, you know what?
- 18:47I know a guy. Oh, OK.
- 18:50Do you ever you know a guy who like knows a guy?
- 18:56I love those guys. They know guys.
- 18:59Like my dad was AI know a guy guy.
- 19:02Everywhere we went, we could be in a different city hours away
- 19:06from we lived, and there'd be a guy at the bus station like, is
- 19:08that Bill Parrish? What's up?
- 19:10And we're at Disneyland one time and some random person is like
- 19:15Bill Parish, what's up? And he's like, and I was like,
- 19:19how do you know that guy's like, oh, he's a guy.
- 19:21We I know a guy I don't know. And so he knew a guy at the bank
- 19:28and he went to the bank and then he called me the next day and
- 19:30said, all right, Nate took care of it.
- 19:32You're good. What does that mean?
- 19:35And he's like, I went and talked to my friend at the bank, told
- 19:38him your situation and said, Hey, can you help my son out?
- 19:41You know, he's kind of dumb and you help them out.
- 19:44And they said, yeah, sure, we'll reverse all the fees and put
- 19:47them back at 0. Awesome.
- 19:52This is why you can trust Jesus as your defender, because he
- 19:55doesn't defend you from a distance.
- 19:59My dad went to the bank. You know, he didn't just call
- 20:01them. He got in the car.
- 20:03He drove down there. He walked in, He sat across from
- 20:05his friend. He put his reputation on the
- 20:08line for me. And that's exactly, exactly what
- 20:10Jesus does for you. He doesn't defend from heaven's
- 20:14throne. He came down, he put on human
- 20:17flesh and he got his hands dirty with our mess.
- 20:22So in this story, he, you know, they're, they're bringing all
- 20:24these accusations. You know, it's funny because he
- 20:26doesn't even address their accusations.
- 20:28I just imagined them talking, you know, they're just yapping
- 20:30at Jesus and he doesn't even address our accusation.
- 20:33He just gets to doodling, OK, and just starts, just starts
- 20:42writing. Now, we don't know what he
- 20:45wrote. No one knows what he wrote.
- 20:47Doesn't say. Of course I got to have a theory
- 20:49here. I have a theory.
- 20:50OK, Nate's racer, I think, I think it was something like
- 20:54this. He starts writing and then you
- 20:56have the two Pharisees. You have Pharisee Carl and
- 20:58Pharisee Steve or whatever. Sorry, Pastor Steve is not
- 21:01personal, but so Carl's like, what are you going to do?
- 21:06Jesus, You're going to stone her.
- 21:07We're not going to stone her. What are you going to do with is
- 21:09he writing in the what is he doing?
- 21:14What's he writing there? Steve, can you see it?
- 21:17It says Cynthia. What the heck is Cynthia?
- 21:24And, and Steve's like starting to sweat.
- 21:31Don't you know a girl named Cynthia?
- 21:35I mean, she's not your wife, but she like, and then Carl's like,
- 21:42you know what, turns out I'm late for like a Pharisee thing.
- 21:45So you guys decide you're going to Stoner or whatever and just,
- 21:52I think Jesus started writing the commandments that they had
- 21:55broken in the dirt. Now we don't know.
- 22:01It's actually not important what he wrote.
- 22:04What's important is who wrote it?
- 22:08The text says that he wrote with his finger.
- 22:11Now Jesus was God in human flesh.
- 22:15That makes this finger the finger of God.
- 22:18Why is this significant? Well, in Exodus 31 there's a
- 22:22story about Moses getting the 10 commandments right.
- 22:25The 10 commandments are the stone tablets.
- 22:27The the laws were written on the stone tablets with the finger of
- 22:33God. So the same hands that wrote the
- 22:37law on the stone tablets are now riding in the dirt, showing
- 22:42mercy to lawbreakers just like us.
- 22:47And Jesus did this a lot in his earthly ministry.
- 22:49He, he got his hands dirty a lot.
- 22:52We read about him washing the disciples feet.
- 22:55That's not just like, oh, take your shoes and socks off and
- 22:57I'll wash your feet. This is like gross.
- 23:00They all wore, you know, flip flops or whatever.
- 23:03They're walking everywhere, dirt, you know, think of all the
- 23:07other gross stuff that they're walking in and Jesus washes
- 23:12their feet. Should be the other way around
- 23:15because the servant is the one that washes the feet.
- 23:18But Jesus is a king who comes and serves us and he gets his
- 23:22hands dirty. He washes their feet.
- 23:25He also worked as a Carpenter. So you know the guy I was
- 23:27talking about with like the rough hands that knows what he's
- 23:29doing, That was also Jesus. So Jesus is not unfamiliar with
- 23:33hard work in the plight of the blue collar worker.
- 23:37He also healed through touch. He healed the leper with his
- 23:42hands. Now, I don't know if you know
- 23:44about leprosy, but it's not something that you want to put
- 23:46your hands on, OK? It was actually considered
- 23:51unclean and if you touched them, you were defiled.
- 23:56But Jesus touched him anyways. There's also a story where
- 24:02there's a blind man and he's asking for healing, so Jesus
- 24:05heals him. And he could have just been
- 24:06like, you're not blind and he's healed what he does and says.
- 24:11He gets dirt, spits in it, makes mud and puts it on the dude's
- 24:17eyes. And it's like, go wash that off
- 24:18and you'll be able to see kind of weird, kind of weird.
- 24:23But it's just another example of Jesus getting his hands dirty.
- 24:28He doesn't defend us from a distance.
- 24:31He gets in our mess. Now, whatever Jesus actually
- 24:35wrote, whether it was Cynthia or whatever, one by one they they
- 24:39all start. I'm sorry if there's anyone
- 24:41named Cynthia in here. I, it was like the only name
- 24:44that popped into my brain right now.
- 24:46I didn't use a name for services.
- 24:48Like I don't want to be offensive, but I'm sorry.
- 24:51One by one they start leaving, starting with the oldest.
- 24:54I think the oldest left first because they've just lived
- 24:57longer and they've done more bad stuff.
- 25:00So they end up all walking away. It says in verse 9.
- 25:04But when they heard it, they went away 1 by 1 beginning with
- 25:07the older ones. And Jesus was left alone with
- 25:09the woman standing before him. And Jesus stood up and said to
- 25:12her woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?
- 25:15She said no one Lord. And Jesus said neither do I
- 25:19neither do I condemn you. Go.
- 25:20And from now on sin no more. Some of you currently right now
- 25:27sitting in this room, you're the woman caught.
- 25:30You're the man caught. Just being direct.
- 25:34Stop hiding. Stop hiding.
- 25:40Practically speaking, I'm talking.
- 25:43You need to tell someone. You need to talk to someone.
- 25:46Ask God to show you a person in your mind you need to talk to.
- 25:49Maybe you already know that person.
- 25:50I'm giving you permission right now to text in church.
- 25:52I'm not even going to get you in trouble and text that person,
- 25:56say, hey, I really messed up, can we talk?
- 25:59Can you get coffee? If you want to talk to me, I'll
- 26:01be at Smitten tomorrow at 7:00 AM.
- 26:03OK? If you know me, you know where
- 26:06to find me. OK?
- 26:08Talk to someone. You don't need to hide.
- 26:13You can enter that courtroom of confession because your defender
- 26:16is already there. Go before the judge.
- 26:22Talk to someone and go before the judge.
- 26:25God pray, ask for forgiveness. You can do that because Jesus
- 26:30made a way. You don't need to hide.
- 26:33He already paid the price for your forgiveness.
- 26:39Sin has a way of compounding interest when you leave it
- 26:43unchecked, when you don't show up for your court date, as it
- 26:48were, you start getting those fees right.
- 26:51There's a time when me and Rachel, we were had just been
- 26:55married not very long and we were super poor and we would
- 26:58take these trips to the Bay Area and the carpool lane in the Bay
- 27:02Area is 3 or more people here. It's two right the heck.
- 27:07So I got in there to to to do it and there's like, oh, it says 3
- 27:11and I got out and it would took like the cop was like waiting
- 27:14and he like pulled me over. You know, you were in the car
- 27:17and I know, dude, I'm not from here.
- 27:18And so he gave me the ticket, but it wasn't like the real
- 27:21ticket. He was they were going to mail
- 27:23me the real ticket. So months went by and I sort of
- 27:26forgot and I was like, I guess he just let me go.
- 27:29I guess I just charmed him. So am I say he let me go?
- 27:33How nice of him. Instead though, I got another
- 27:36letter in the mail and I was like, this is official looking
- 27:41and it said that I owed like, I want to say I don't remember.
- 27:45I want to say it was like between 700 and $1000 or
- 27:48something crazy like that because evidently I had missed a
- 27:52court date. What?
- 27:56And so I thought, legitimately thought it was a scam, like this
- 28:00is a scam. It's not real because that cop
- 28:03wouldn't do that to me. So I called the number and said,
- 28:05hey, hey, I'm just calling about the scam.
- 28:07Yeah, you guys got me. Ha ha, ha, ha.
- 28:11It's not real, right? She's like, oh, it's real.
- 28:14It's very real, Mr. Parrish, Like, well, what happened?
- 28:17Like, well, we sent you a ticket.
- 28:18We sent it to your address. I was like, that's not my
- 28:20address and I live there. She's like, oh, yeah, sorry.
- 28:25Any who you missed the court date.
- 28:26So now you owe this much money or you're going to be in
- 28:30trouble. And so I we had like, we didn't
- 28:33have this much money, you know, we had like this much money.
- 28:37So I had to do something really difficult.
- 28:39My dad had passed away maybe a year before that and he left me
- 28:41a bunch of jewellery and this didn't occur to me until last
- 28:46night but so I was going to wear his ring today.
- 28:48This is all I have left but I'm not a ring guy.
- 28:53I'm not sure how I feel about it.
- 28:54What do you guys think? Going to punch someone in the
- 28:58face with it? It's stuck so it doesn't matter,
- 29:01but I wanted to wear this ring. And then it occurred to me as
- 29:04like my dad, even even from beyond is still saving my butt
- 29:11because I took his jewelry and I and I, I had to sell his jewelry
- 29:14in the pawn guy. The pawn store guy was like, why
- 29:16is this dude crying? What the heck?
- 29:18And so but I kept this and a few other little things.
- 29:23But the point is, and I missed my court date.
- 29:26But the longer you stay in sin, it just compounds interest.
- 29:31So if you have a court date and let's just say today's your
- 29:34court date, we're going to call it today your court date, go
- 29:38before the judge. Don't let that sin.
- 29:41Emulate because it has ripple. Effects It affects more than
- 29:44just you. The longer you stay and sin the.
- 29:48Bigger the consequence now. Some of you might be thinking.
- 29:52In this story. Well, that's awesome.
- 29:54This whole story is very convenient, right?
- 29:57The woman caught in adultery and she she broke the law, Nate.
- 30:01Yeah, she did. She she was doing it.
- 30:03She was sinning. She she did break the law.
- 30:05OK, But she just gets to walk away.
- 30:11Where's the justice? And that's.
- 30:13Honestly, a fair. Question.
- 30:15That's a fair question. But here's what I learned.
- 30:20Is that Jesus didn't eliminate consequences.
- 30:25He eliminated condemnation. There's a difference.
- 30:29Sin has real effects. Your choices, positive or
- 30:35negative, are going to have effects.
- 30:38But she didn't have. To face the ultimate
- 30:40consequence, which was separation from God.
- 30:45That's what Jesus took on himself.
- 30:48And I really appreciate that. I really appreciate that The
- 30:50grace Jesus gives to us is not cheap.
- 30:54It's not a throwaway thing. He paid a big price for that.
- 30:58He paid his life for that. And now as a Christian.
- 31:03Myself, I've been a Christian for a while.
- 31:05Maybe you're in here. You've been a Christian for a
- 31:06while. It's, it's, it's a little easier
- 31:08for us seasoned Saints to become Pharisees, you know, because the
- 31:13longer you're like, well, I start to, you know, I don't sin
- 31:15that much anymore. And I do this.
- 31:16And, and then you see someone else who's like really messed
- 31:19up, like, oh, stone them, you know, let's stone them.
- 31:26Believe it or not, that's that's pretty easy to do.
- 31:30But if you if you, it happens when you forget the grace you
- 31:33were given. Because that grace you were
- 31:36given? Gives you the opportunity to
- 31:40become a defence attorney for someone else now if you're
- 31:43finding. Yourself.
- 31:44And in the position of the Pharisee, maybe you're not the
- 31:46woman caught, but you're the Pharisee.
- 31:48You have an opportunity because of this grace to become a
- 31:50defence attorney for someone else.
- 31:53So what? Does that look like well?
- 31:55Simply put, if you look at the order of Jesus's confrontation
- 32:00in this story, it's significant. Jesus leads with compassion, and
- 32:07then he. Leaves.
- 32:08Us with with truth he leads with compassion and leaves us with
- 32:12truth in that order and that's important and that's intentional
- 32:18when I. Was getting into.
- 32:20Church again in in my early 20s and there was a friend of mine
- 32:24who is a youth pastor and, you know, I'm like this tattooed guy
- 32:27where I play guitar and it's kind of a mess and he's like,
- 32:29well, how about you join the worship team and you know, we
- 32:32can, we can help you, OK And join the worship.
- 32:35I had no business being in this worship team, you know, And I
- 32:39remember there was a night where I had this, I was in this really
- 32:42unhealthy relationship and I knew it was wrong, but I just
- 32:46couldn't like get out of. It or didn't want to get.
- 32:49I wasn't. I wasn't brave.
- 32:52Enough. To get out of it, right.
- 32:54And so after practice one night, I felt like I just got to talk
- 32:58to Kenny about this. His name's Kenny.
- 33:00What's up, Kenny? Thanks, buddy.
- 33:03So yeah, he's like, how's it going, Nate?
- 33:04I'm like, it's good, except for super bad.
- 33:08This is going on. And he's like, oh, and I
- 33:10remember this visually because it, it stuck out to me, but
- 33:13it's, it makes sense now as I'm sitting in my car and Kenny,
- 33:16like, kneels down like, so we're like level.
- 33:20I was like, whoa. I was like Jesus, I was like,
- 33:24what happened, you know, And I just started talking to him and
- 33:29he was very loving and very compassionate.
- 33:31He didn't judge me. He wasn't like you did that
- 33:35under my. Leadership.
- 33:38Stone. Him.
- 33:42Let's Stone, Nate. He didn't do that.
- 33:45He's like, tell me. About it.
- 33:47And as I'm talking, you know, I'm, I'm more comfortable
- 33:49because I'm like this guy. I could trust him, right?
- 33:51He's getting his hands dirty with me.
- 33:53I can trust this guy and I spill my guts.
- 33:55And then after that, you know, he just, he looks for, he waits
- 33:59for the opportunity and he's like, well, sounds like you need
- 34:02to end this relationship, mate. I'm like, yeah, totally.
- 34:05He's like, well, how are we going to do it?
- 34:07And so he's like helping me through it.
- 34:09Perfect example of a person who leads with compassion and leaves
- 34:15us with truth. And that's what Jesus did.
- 34:17And that's what you could do instead of being a Pharisee,
- 34:20That's what I could do. I tend to be more of probably
- 34:22more of a Pharisee in this situation.
- 34:24That's what we can do. We can become a defence attorney
- 34:27for someone else. So when someone confides in you
- 34:30with their sin, you ask, how can I help?
- 34:33How can I get my hands dirty in this situation?
- 34:35And then where can I speak truth?
- 34:38Because at some point we will all be one of these two people
- 34:43sometimes. We're both and.
- 34:44That's really complicated, but you will find yourself in one of
- 34:47these two places at some point in your life.
- 34:50And here's the thing, both the adulterer and the Pharisee find
- 34:54forgiveness in the same place. Because don't you know, don't
- 34:59let this slip here. The Pharisee's in the wrong too.
- 35:03Those guys were in the wrong just like she was.
- 35:06They both find forgiveness in the same place.
- 35:09Before the judge, you got to go. Before the judge now.
- 35:13I've started this message off with a really cool story about
- 35:17me being in a human video. Now you guys all know what human
- 35:20videos are. You're welcome.
- 35:22And years later, I actually got to meet Carmen.
- 35:26I think you have a fabulous picture I can show you.
- 35:28Boom. Now look at the joy on my.
- 35:32Face, it's just I. Mean that is a.
- 35:36Sincere smile. Beautiful.
- 35:39So that was 20/17/2018 ish. And the radio station, my buddy
- 35:45Matt Pelischek, he gave me tickets.
- 35:49He's like, hey, do you and your wife you want 2 tickets to see
- 35:51Carmen? I was like, yes.
- 35:55And we saw Carmen. I was just.
- 35:57Like sitting there like yeah, do do the one about the courtroom
- 36:01or whatever. And afterwards we got to meet
- 36:03Carmen. And it's funny because you know
- 36:07Danny that plays bass up here. You know Danny, he all know.
- 36:10Give it up for Danny. So I didn't know Danny at the.
- 36:15Time but he was doing security right and he was the one that
- 36:19was like guarding Carmen and so when I got into the front of the
- 36:23line he goes hey Carmen, that guy plays in Cutlass and I'm not
- 36:26joking. Carmen goes what?
- 36:28I love Cutlass. And so.
- 36:37We we talked for like right, a long time, actually got in
- 36:40trouble because they're like, what are you guys doing?
- 36:43We were just like talking about music and like comparing tattoos
- 36:46and he he had just gotten tattoos, you know, so he's like,
- 36:48I don't show people, but check it out, you know, and it was so
- 36:52dude, it was so cool. And so just kind of casually, I
- 36:56bring up like, man, thank you for doing what you did.
- 37:00Like he, you know, he was doing his thing in the in the 80s and
- 37:03he was filling stadiums and doing all that.
- 37:05And I was like, thank you for doing that.
- 37:06Because, you know, without guys like you, you know, Cutlass
- 37:09wouldn't, we wouldn't be where we're at.
- 37:11And he like starts crying. I know he starts crying.
- 37:15I was like. And.
- 37:19It was the most beautiful thing. And he's like, no one's ever
- 37:21said that to me. I was like, well, people are
- 37:23stupid, Carmen. And we should stone them.
- 37:31I was like, well, let me. Be the first.
- 37:33As a dude that plays in Cutlass, thank you for paving the way,
- 37:38dude. And it was like this beautiful
- 37:39thing. And then the someone came over
- 37:42and they're like, what are you guys doing?
- 37:43The line is like 1000 years long and you're talking and, and
- 37:46Carmen's like chill. This is my friend Nate.
- 37:48And it was great. And he and sadly he passed away
- 37:52a few years after that. And so I was super stoked.
- 37:58Yeah. Just going to look at this for a
- 38:01while. It was really cool.
- 38:05And when I was putting this message together, that courtroom
- 38:09song that he did popped into my head.
- 38:11I don't know why. I mean, it makes sense now, but
- 38:14that's what popped into my head as I was preparing the sermon.
- 38:16So I went back. I was like, I should probably
- 38:18listen to the song. And I haven't listened to it in
- 38:20like 20 years. And it is a, it's a pretty
- 38:23cheesy song, I'm not going to lie, you know, but I, I read the
- 38:29lyrics to this song and wow, they're like, it's like a very
- 38:33powerful presentation of the gospel in like a creative way,
- 38:38you know, this courtroom scenario.
- 38:39So I'm going to actually read you some of these lyrics.
- 38:42I'm not going to like sing it or do it like Carmen.
- 38:44I mean, I'll do it a little bit, but not really.
- 38:47But basically this summarize the first part of the song is you're
- 38:49in the courtroom of heaven, OK? And you walk in and God the
- 38:53judges before you, and Satan gets up, jumps up on a table,
- 38:58doesn't fall, and he does his whole thing.
- 39:01He lays out his whole case. He talks about all the sins
- 39:03you've done, all the things you've done.
- 39:05And God's like, Yep, Yep, Yep, OK, Yep.
- 39:07And this is where the song picks up.
- 39:10It says now if it's true. You are standing there in the
- 39:13courtroom of eternity with God to your front and Satan Nate,
- 39:17the prosecutor to your left. There's one remaining remaining
- 39:21eternal truth, one that's crucial to remember, one you
- 39:25should never, ever, ever forget. Then on the other side of the
- 39:29courtroom, Dun, Dun, I said, on the other side of the courtroom,
- 39:36Dun Dun, you ain't hearing me tonight.
- 39:38I said on the other side of the courtroom, yes, is the one and
- 39:43only Son of God revealed in time and space, and he's your defense
- 39:47attorney who has never lost a case.
- 39:52It's not Buddha, Muhammad or Krishna.
- 39:54Or any others who succumbed to death.
- 39:55Ladies and gentlemen, on the other side of the courtroom is
- 39:58Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Then Jesus jumps up and says
- 40:04Now. Wait a minute, Judge, I got
- 40:05something to say. May I remind you that on a cross
- 40:082000 years ago, I washed his sins away.
- 40:11I was crucified. I died.
- 40:12They put me in a tomb. About the midnight hour, the
- 40:14power of God hit me and I walked out of that grave alive and well
- 40:18with resurrection power. Then the devil says it's in the
- 40:21book, it's written in the book, check the book.
- 40:24God said, OK, He takes the book out, lays it open.
- 40:28He says, now we'll see what this book has to say.
- 40:31Turns to the first page, the second, the third.
- 40:36By the 4th, the devil seems shook.
- 40:39God closes it and says the blood of Jesus must have worked
- 40:42because there's nothing in this book.
- 40:49And the devil says, wait a minute.
- 40:50Check that book again. All his sins are written.
- 40:52They're all right there. God says, devil, Maybe you're
- 40:55mistaken altogether. Maybe it's this other book down
- 40:57here and the devil cries. No, not that book, not that one.
- 41:01I actually remember doing that. So God said, devil, why are you
- 41:06so uptight? God sets the book down.
- 41:08The dust flies the cover. It says the Lamb's book of life
- 41:12that goes on and says your name in that book.
- 41:14If you've been forgiven and your name is written, then raise your
- 41:17hands, praise the Lord and the song ends with this court is
- 41:21adjourned. It's pretty cool, man.
- 41:24I expect to get like emotional reading that, but it's pretty
- 41:26cool. Good old Carmen.
- 41:32But maybe you're here today and you know, you actually don't
- 41:35know where you're standing is in the courtroom of heaven before
- 41:39God. I want to.
- 41:41Tell you that no matter what, you've.
- 41:42Done. No matter what you're doing, you
- 41:45can be forgiven because you have a defender.
- 41:49Your defender is Jesus, and although he lived a sinless
- 41:52life, he took your sins away, was crucified on the cross,
- 41:57paying the debt we owed for God, paying the debt we owed to God
- 42:00for breaking his laws. He rose again.
- 42:03Three days. Later, for all justification,
- 42:06you have a defender he gets his hands dirty in.
- 42:10Fact. He gets his hands bloody.
- 42:14For us, if you're here today and you don't know Jesus as your
- 42:19Lord and Savior, you need forgiveness of your sins and you
- 42:23want to follow Jesus today I'm going to lead us in a prayer.
- 42:26So if you do me a favour, would everyone bow your heads, close
- 42:28your eyes? I'm.
- 42:32Going to say this prayer. And you can repeat after me out
- 42:35loud if you want. You can repeat quietly to
- 42:37yourself. But if this is you, I want you
- 42:39to repeat this prayer after me, Jesus.
- 42:42I know I am a Sinner who? Cannot save myself.
- 42:45I want you to save me and adopt me into your family.
- 42:48Forgive me of my sins. I surrender everything to you.
- 42:53I receive your promise of forgiveness, adoption, and
- 42:57eternal life. Jesus will you today.
- 43:01Be my Lord. If you said that prayer.
- 43:05With no one else looking around just for me, would you do me a
- 43:08favor and raise your hands just so I could see it?
- 43:11Thank you. Amen.
- 43:16OK, guys can look up if you. Just committed your life to
- 43:20Jesus. For the very first time, welcome
- 43:22to the family of God. Just a moment, we're going to
- 43:29continue on. We're.
- 43:29Actually going to take communion, we're going to sing
- 43:31another song together, and we're going to have prayer up front.
- 43:34As always, there will be people up here that want to pray with
- 43:36you. So if you need prayer, please,
- 43:37please, please come up. And if you did raise your hand
- 43:40or said that prayer, please go to the back.
- 43:43We have these tables that say I raised my hand.
- 43:45We want to meet you, pray with you, give you a gift, whatever,
- 43:48whatever you need. We want to be there for you and
- 43:51help you on your next steps in your journey.
- 43:54But hey man, I want to say man, happy Father's Day to all the
- 43:57dads out there. And if your dad is here, send
- 44:01him a text, call him, give him a hug and give him a steak because
- 44:05we like. That.
- 44:07Hey man, love you guys.