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Family Grudges, Ms. Pace Interview, Adult Breakups, Russell Willson and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know, y'all back
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  Speaker 1: at all, suit back to back down, giving them move
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  Speaker 1: like the milking buck bus things and its cubs, y'all
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  Speaker 1: me through good it. Steve listening to movie together for Stulease, Mommy,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join by joined me to be doing me. Honey.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn, you gotta turn to turn, got to
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  Speaker 1: turn them out to turn the water the water go.
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your back that Uh huh, I shore
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  Speaker 1: will a good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Man, oh man, oh man, God
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  Speaker 1: being good to me. Man. I can't explain it all really,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I want, I want to remind everybody or
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  Speaker 1: something that I need reminding of myself all the time.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm I'm dealing with a couple of things now
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  Speaker 1: and I had to remind myself. Uh you know what
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  Speaker 1: I have to remember to constantly remind myself to stay
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  Speaker 1: in constant communication with God. Constant communication with God. You
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  Speaker 1: know sometimes you know, I have a tendency and maybe
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  Speaker 1: we do. All these people I don't know, but I
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  Speaker 1: know for me, that when it's going okay, I slack
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  Speaker 1: up in sometimes having conversations with him because I'm not
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  Speaker 1: coming to him on the daily with something that's pressing
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  Speaker 1: or something, and I find myself slacking up in the communication.
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  Speaker 1: The danger I have learned in that is this, um
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  Speaker 1: I think you know, I mean, we've all heard old
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  Speaker 1: people say, you know, you got to stay prayed up,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and prayed up. It's the operative word that
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  Speaker 1: means stacks stacked, prayers up. You know, prayed up means
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  Speaker 1: you know you you got some stored up. You just
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  Speaker 1: got an abundance of them where you don't. You're putting
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  Speaker 1: it in actually not as a request all the time,
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  Speaker 1: but sometimes just as a matter thank you, a gratitude.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes it's just, uh, you know, just just just prayers
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  Speaker 1: to get stored up, is basically what I'm saying. Because
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  Speaker 1: what happens is is when you're not in constant communication
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  Speaker 1: with God, when you're not constantly praying doing those good times,
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  Speaker 1: that allows for the enemy to slip in and do
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  Speaker 1: the little things that can be upset it. It don't
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  Speaker 1: have to be nothing big. See, the enemy comes in
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  Speaker 1: with the little things that become upsetting to us some
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  Speaker 1: little things and then the next thing you know it,
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  Speaker 1: you get several little things in a role. Now you
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  Speaker 1: got an issue you dealing with. You find yourself at
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  Speaker 1: odds with your spouse about little bitty little stuff. You
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  Speaker 1: ever noticed that, or your girl or your man, you
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  Speaker 1: find yourself at odds with them about little bitty stuff.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I have to remind myself when it's going
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  Speaker 1: like that, Man, Have I really been praying though? Have
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  Speaker 1: I really been in constant communication with God? Because you
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  Speaker 1: know that that helps God against that little bitty stuff
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  Speaker 1: coming in. Sometimes it's big stuff, sometimes it's major stuff.
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  Speaker 1: But I've noticed, man, that when I get on them
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  Speaker 1: more of a smooth plane in life, I have a
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  Speaker 1: tendency to slack up in that department. And that ain't
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  Speaker 1: the time to slack up. I'm really learning that I
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  Speaker 1: have to stay in constant communication with God because it
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  Speaker 1: enables me to ward off those little things that are
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  Speaker 1: you know, coming up that can get in the way.
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  Speaker 1: And so I just wanted to make you aware of
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  Speaker 1: that as I'm learning it myself, that staying prayed up
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  Speaker 1: is important. That you try to stop prayers, you know,
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  Speaker 1: you try to you know, have some prayers in the bank,
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  Speaker 1: so to speak, and just constant communication with him, because
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  Speaker 1: it'll just safeguard you against a lot of stuff back
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  Speaker 1: doing you. You know, I've had that happened so many times,
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  Speaker 1: and so you know, I just wanted to make sure
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  Speaker 1: you understood that because on your journey, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: many obstacles. I've said this a hundred times on the show.
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  Speaker 1: The road to success is always under construction. I say
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  Speaker 1: that all the time, and it's to let you understand
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  Speaker 1: that it's not going to be easy, but we can
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  Speaker 1: make it more difficult than it has to be. You know,
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  Speaker 1: when you go out strike out on the journey. You know, Uh,
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  Speaker 1: let's say I got in my car. Let's say I'm
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  Speaker 1: in New York and I get in my car and
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  Speaker 1: I say I'm going to LA. I know, if I
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  Speaker 1: drive west and continue to drive west, eventually I should
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  Speaker 1: get to California, or I may wind up in Portland
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  Speaker 1: or Seattle or something like that. But if I drive west,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna eventually get to the West Coast. Now, wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: it be smarter though? If I mapped out the route
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  Speaker 1: which saved me a bunch of driving, I don't need
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  Speaker 1: and figuring that I don't have to calculate when you
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  Speaker 1: know the way to go. You know, if you know
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  Speaker 1: you want to cut cross on the twenty, or you
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  Speaker 1: want to cut cross on the seventy, or you want
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  Speaker 1: to cut a cross on the ten, you know you
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  Speaker 1: got to devise a route. Now, if I want to
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  Speaker 1: go visit some people I know, then I know I
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  Speaker 1: got to I need to go down. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: might go through on how I'll come down on the eighty,
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  Speaker 1: then get on seventy one and take that all the
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  Speaker 1: way down to the Tin and then ride across. Or
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  Speaker 1: I might take it to the twenty, cut through Texas
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  Speaker 1: and then and then let it link back up on
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  Speaker 1: the Tin. I know a lot of different ways, but
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  Speaker 1: guess what the best way is to map it out.
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  Speaker 1: You can go anywhere, but if you go with a map,
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  Speaker 1: it's more precise. You save yourself a lot of time.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what prayer has taught me that when identify
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  Speaker 1: continuously pray that I stay in the in the I
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  Speaker 1: stay in a prepared mode. I have more idea of
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  Speaker 1: where I'm going. I'm more secure with my route. If
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  Speaker 1: you just take off driving heading west, yeah, you'll eventually
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  Speaker 1: get to the west coast. So if you out east,
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  Speaker 1: but guess what, though, had you mapped it out, had
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  Speaker 1: you made constant references to your map, you can see
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  Speaker 1: when you're veering off, you may stop, come out and
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  Speaker 1: not be paying attention. Next thing, you know, you're on
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  Speaker 1: a route and you go on another way. You're going
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  Speaker 1: north when you could easily still be going west. You've
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  Speaker 1: got to constantly be aware of that. And I'm just
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  Speaker 1: pointing that out to you because I know that on
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  Speaker 1: your journey a lot of times you get sidetracked. And
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  Speaker 1: part of the ways we get sidetracked is we lose
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  Speaker 1: out on that very the very beneficial resource of prayer.
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  Speaker 1: We lose out we our connection with God get strained.
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  Speaker 1: It thins out. The thicker you can keep the cord
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  Speaker 1: connected to God, the more stable and the more balanced
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  Speaker 1: the journey. If you fin out your communication with God
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  Speaker 1: and instead of having a big thick cable, now you're
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  Speaker 1: dealing with a thread. You know, a cable is stronger
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  Speaker 1: than thread, and so it just decreases your opportunity. And
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  Speaker 1: so you know, I wanted to just make you aware
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  Speaker 1: of that, and you know, to ever be encouraging to
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  Speaker 1: say to everybody out there and just keep your head up.
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  Speaker 1: It is going to be dark days for you. There
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  Speaker 1: are going to be situations where it's going to be
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  Speaker 1: daunting and hard to face. But man o, man o,
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  Speaker 1: man everybody has to face these challenges. Everybody get dark sometimes.
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  Speaker 1: You know, look, if you didn't lose, if you didn't lose,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't even appreciate winning because if it all went
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  Speaker 1: your way all the time. Do you know how complacent
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  Speaker 1: and content and how easy life would be if it
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  Speaker 1: just went your way all the time. So when it
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  Speaker 1: kept going your way, you wouldn't even appreciate it because
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  Speaker 1: guess what, it's been going this way the whole time.
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  Speaker 1: So what life does is it has its checks and balances.
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  Speaker 1: These hard times are coming, and you need the hard
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  Speaker 1: times to appreciate the good times. You need the clouds
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  Speaker 1: and you need the rain to appreciate the sun and
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  Speaker 1: the flowers. It's just when it comes to prayer, though,
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  Speaker 1: just stay prayed up, stay constant with it, because the
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  Speaker 1: challenges of life are coming, whether you prayed up or not,
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  Speaker 1: they're coming. Understand that you could pray every day all day.
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  Speaker 1: When you get through praying every day all day, something
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen to you. That's gonna be challenging. Now, I
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  Speaker 1: would rather have been in communication with God on a
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  Speaker 1: regular than wait till every time something pop off, to
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  Speaker 1: have to go to and reintroduce myself. Okay, but over
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  Speaker 1: at little around the board with it today. But that's
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  Speaker 1: how it came to me. So that is I ain't
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  Speaker 1: mad at it. Y'all have great day. We're gonna have
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  Speaker 1: good one to day. Let's go. You're listening to show. Well, Uh, folks,
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  Speaker 1: gather yourselves. Get your mama them, ain't he granny's, uncle's granddaddys.
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  Speaker 1: Tell them Steve Harvey Morning Shows off. You know all
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  Speaker 1: the millennials in here too, get them kids that you
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  Speaker 1: can in to school. Turn the radio off. It's time
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  Speaker 1: nuts getting ignorant ladies and gentlemen. Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: The next two voices, I will announce you are not
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  Speaker 1: ignorant people though, ladies, gentlemen, Shrley's trump. But we love
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  Speaker 1: ignorance though. We love it. Good morning, Steve School call
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  Speaker 1: it Pharrell. Yes, we live for it. Yeah, and well,
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  Speaker 1: now here we go, folks. Stupid and stupid and stupidest stupid.
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  Speaker 1: Number one you kids. Look at the radio and look
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  Speaker 1: at it. See us, see that stupid. Uh we're in
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  Speaker 1: the building. Yeah, we are the number one Martin show.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, is he sexy because we're so confused? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what let's change it. I'm gonna be stupid up
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  Speaker 1: and I got to give you stupid ass sexy time
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  Speaker 1: you asked for stupid. That's what the will is today. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's very confused, like, we don't know if you say
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  Speaker 1: that that not. They had to get the grammar. So,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, Tommy, what's happening? What's going on? I'm good,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good. Took my mama fishing yesterday for a birthday. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, happy birthday mommy, Tommy, mommy, good thing? Did
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  Speaker 1: you catch any fish? We call fish? No boats turning over,
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  Speaker 1: no close calls, all that one. Oh, because last time
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  Speaker 1: it was it will sound a little bit more exciting.
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  Speaker 1: About to breakdown. I mean he's trying to be sexy
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  Speaker 1: for like, I don't carefully, it's too early, Tommy, we
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  Speaker 1: need stupid. What do you all want me to do? Where?
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  Speaker 1: Where is stupid? Tommy? Hold up? Can I tell him something?
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  Speaker 1: Notice gonna break his heart? Come on, you're not sexy
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  Speaker 1: in the least bit, man, a little bit. You're feeling
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  Speaker 1: at all? Feel what? Feel what? Feel? You don't feel it?
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  Speaker 1: Don't you don't know how to do what you say?
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  Speaker 1: Like he owned a lot it? Please you please let
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  Speaker 1: him We want stupid. Let him know, Shirley, I'm about
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  Speaker 1: to bombit. Usually you know I love you, but come on,
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  Speaker 1: we need stupid. What you need? Give the people what
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  Speaker 1: the people wanted? All right? Coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: after the hour, do you hold a grudge towards your family?
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  Speaker 1: Anyone in your family? Thanks? All right, we'll get into
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  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Guys.
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  Speaker 1: Before we went to breat guy asked this question, do
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  Speaker 1: you hold a grudge toward any family member? So we
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  Speaker 1: got this idea, I guess from Game of Thrones, because
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  Speaker 1: you know, in Game of Thrones there are a lot
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  Speaker 1: of good guys and bad guys and mostly sort of
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  Speaker 1: in between the two. For the most part. You know,
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  Speaker 1: parties are fighting their father's wars. That's what they're doing. Actually, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: really they also have an enemy simply because they were
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  Speaker 1: born with a certain name. Okay, So so I'm asking
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  Speaker 1: how true does this hold for us in reality. So
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  Speaker 1: have have you guys written off relatives or your entire
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  Speaker 1: family because of what a person did? Because you're holding
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  Speaker 1: a grudge? Junior me? Yeah, oh grudge? Now I love
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  Speaker 1: my sister. There's nothing wrong here. Thank Yeah? Yeah, old
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  Speaker 1: grudge holding one right now? What happened? Yeah? I love you, Dad,
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  Speaker 1: I really do. But your friends probably gonna call you
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  Speaker 1: in a minute. They're talking about you. Yeah, don't get
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  Speaker 1: yourself in I'm grown sure. Okay, Well I'm thinking with
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  Speaker 1: mom pine called my time and money going into this,
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  Speaker 1: I should be able to say what I want to
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  Speaker 1: say if I'm helping a family, melple im right? A wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Can you say? You know what I'm saying? So that's
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  Speaker 1: what it is. Yes, I took my daddy truck back. Dad, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: bet your ass walking night? Did she gonna lie on me?
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  Speaker 1: Said she gonna lie on me? Yeah, since my daddy
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  Speaker 1: truck back. Yeah, so get daddy. Bet your fall ranging now,
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  Speaker 1: So if next thing you say gonna be the truth? Yeah, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I changed the bank account bad. Yes, yeah, we each grudge.
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  Speaker 1: He gets water though stuff. No, I ain't paying the
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  Speaker 1: rent that is so Hey, I feel better? How about
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  Speaker 1: y'all holding this by three months. So glad Carl to
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  Speaker 1: put this in the show. What if they what if
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  Speaker 1: they hear you? Do you think I give a damn
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  Speaker 1: not for real radio? Thank you to be heard? You
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  Speaker 1: know what this is? So rejuvenature. I didn't even know. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I've been bombed. Therapeutic. Man, you're having therapy. Man, let
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  Speaker 1: it out. I do the time. Yeah, all these lives now,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't come see my daddy. You know you a
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  Speaker 1: damn lie. But I've been there. But I'm here now though.
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  Speaker 1: What happened? Y'all know what's going on? Show? Don't act?
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  Speaker 1: Don't act? I think I just didn't think you'd say it?
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  Speaker 1: Like why I wouldn't. I couldn't wait for Car to
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  Speaker 1: put this in the show. I've been waiting on this
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  Speaker 1: break how many months? Three? Say it? Yes? Yes, you
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  Speaker 1: didn't tell me you was taking this money? No, I
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  Speaker 1: don't say that the gona you know they gonna do
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  Speaker 1: you think I give once again? Call me? You ain't
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  Speaker 1: been calling by time. I've been trying to talk. Anybody
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  Speaker 1: wanted to talk. Let him call you like you called
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  Speaker 1: me calling me good, calling it good? Yeah, calling this good? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm good. I don't know. Well, I can
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  Speaker 1: take my shirt off. I free. Can you give me
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  Speaker 1: some Ohio players to be free? I won't have to
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  Speaker 1: listen to you on that day, I'll be able to
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  Speaker 1: make up my own mind. Your shie did everything I
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  Speaker 1: mentioned names sho shoot damn, he said one day child,
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  Speaker 1: Yeah shoot, shoot, she's just sitting she Come on, really,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be all right after why shoes? Yes, shoot,
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  Speaker 1: And one day I'll be able to make up my
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  Speaker 1: old mihilway and forth right now, yes, now, the Lord
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  Speaker 1: and gave me the strength. Naha, come on, Lord, it's
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  Speaker 1: like given care. It's like a new bird man it was.
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  Speaker 1: Have you been baptized? Yeah? I want to be friend.
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  Speaker 1: See this food and got care? I want to be friend.
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  Speaker 1: I can't go home. I'm going Tommy a few names.
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  Speaker 1: I'm to Heaven, to your house in Houston. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: into her hers. I want I want to be free.
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  Speaker 1: What what do you think is gonna happen to hear about?
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  Speaker 1: Don't give a damn they can play it back. I
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  Speaker 1: want to be man. He was waiting just like Junior.
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  Speaker 1: I guess he's waiting for his moment. This ignorance show
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  Speaker 1: right here. Getting mad. If you want child mad, I
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  Speaker 1: guarantee you there. Man, how bit they is shirty and
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  Speaker 1: I admit every word I say it on I'll be
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  Speaker 1: to walk away from your old life. I'm on a twitter.
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  Speaker 1: Grand Why are you smiling so much? Because I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to be all right after. It's too much information to
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  Speaker 1: free tattooed on your song to day your FI word
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  Speaker 1: he understanding? Man, keep going shoot they do that's his
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  Speaker 1: favorite part. Oh yeah, oh jam thank you you man,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, sir. No, we'll be right back. You're listening.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. Guys in
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  Speaker 1: entertainment use Nipsey Hustle's family is set for life and
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  Speaker 1: R Kelly maybe going to jail again, but right now
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  Speaker 1: the nephews in the building, we'd run that prank back. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: what you got for us today? New? Yeah's something I'll
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  Speaker 1: Kelly might say. Can't you bring me some paper? That
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  Speaker 1: one snuck up on this Timmy cat? You bring me
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  Speaker 1: out paper? Ring cat? Hello, Hello, I'm trying to Charles.
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  Speaker 1: I'm looking forward, Charles. Yeah, this Charlotte, this Una, this Chilotte.
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  Speaker 1: How can I help you? Hey, listen, um, I'm you boy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm on my speaking with I'm sorry this scotty man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm um house sitting for reader, y'all okay, okay, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She told me she was going outtown. What can I
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  Speaker 1: do for your brother? I thought, y'all down on the way, man, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean the house both our house. Yeah, I think
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  Speaker 1: let's see. Yeah we full houses down. Okay, Now you
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  Speaker 1: love me number man, love me? Y'all know me? And
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  Speaker 1: then she loved Miss Darks. No, I try to call
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  Speaker 1: Miss Darks but then nobody answer the phone. Yeah, she no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in church around this time, real says she was
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  Speaker 1: gonna be gone for a minute. So you say you
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  Speaker 1: down there right right? Right? Then she told me if
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  Speaker 1: I got into murgency anything that I could reach out
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  Speaker 1: to y'all and call y'all right, right right, okay? Are
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  Speaker 1: you are you busy right now? Man? Well? Actually, I'm
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  Speaker 1: in the middle of cooking my wife some dinner and
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  Speaker 1: got some meat on the grill. But other than that,
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  Speaker 1: you know, okay, I mean you you you are you
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  Speaker 1: able to help me out with something right quick? Or
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  Speaker 1: you got you got time for that? Well, like I said,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in the middle of cooking. If there's something I
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  Speaker 1: can help you with. I you know, I don't mind
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  Speaker 1: coming down there and uh showing you or doing whatever
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  Speaker 1: it is that we need to do. Okay, Charlotte, When
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  Speaker 1: you have to have any paper, man, any paper? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think I got some newspaper. What you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no, no news. But let
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  Speaker 1: me some paper. You have some paper? What notebook paper? No? See, man, Charlie,
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: Like I said, my name is Scotty. Man. I know
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  Speaker 1: you don't know, Man, I didn't got myself a little
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: situation here down here, read the house man, and I didn't. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm in a situation. I actually I'm in the bathroom man,
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  Speaker 1: and it ain't no paper in here. Dog. So you're
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: saying you want me to bring you some toilet paper,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you're on mind, I'm sitting here. My
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  Speaker 1: legs ain't got none. My can feel my whole little body.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Man from buck down, I can't feel nothing in my feet, everything.
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: And went to sleep on the hold up by this
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: dude down here and read the house saying he wanted
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: me to bring his paper because he didn't got numb
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: sitting on the tuk. Man. Look at here, bro, I'm
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: in the middle of cooking. I wish I could help you,
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: but you know, I mean, I can't tell you. Hey,
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: but about four hours of doc can you should run
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: down here right quickly. I'm at the back door over
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: I to say, Man, I understand all that you saying,
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: but like I said, I'm in the middle of cooking
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: for my wife. We're having a little special occasion because
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: our kids and stuff gone, and I can't to leave
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: her like that just to come bring you know, papers. Now,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: what I can't tell you to do is if Rieda
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: got one of them tiles or something. Man, I'm not
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: using nobody town like. That's disrespectful. Man, Okay, hey, but
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  Speaker 1: lower your voice. Man. You called them me to help you,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: and you acting like I caused you to not have
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: no guysake the bath. All I'm asking for just they're
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: gonna take no more for two three minute run down
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  Speaker 1: here right quick and bringing the paper man, and then
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: you get on back to your dune. Well what you
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: was sounding like? What you need to do? Bro? You
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: said you had emergence. I thought the house or the
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: dogs had got out of you had locked yourself out
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: the house. But I'm not gonna come down and bring
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: you know paper, because that don't sound like emergencees. That's
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: not like some personal And furthermore, you're in the bathroom
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: just jump cut your colone getting the shot on wipe.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: So I'm not Finn the dog. That's like I said,
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: I'm numb right now, man, I need some help. And
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: so you want me to come down, then bring you
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: some toilet papers and pick your number. You can't get
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: up out there. If I want to help you, then
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: that's why I'm trying to tell you I'm in an emergency. Man. Okay,
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: Well that, like I said, Man, that don't sound like
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: an emergent. Seem like a little quick fix to get
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: your drawings and in white your drawns told them way
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: go get you some moth. I mean, I'm not saying
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: to walk full houses down there to bring you some
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: tilet papers your legs now, I'm high. How are you
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: gonna get up and open the gate? The backdoor is open.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: All you gotta do is come in here and reaching
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: him and pass me a roll of paper. Man, that's
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: all I'm asking you to do, Miss Charlotte. I understand that,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: but I'm not going to come down and bring you
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: the paper. I'm not going to bring you bring me
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: some paper down here? Man? Do you know? Man? Say? Man,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: who the hell you? Thank you? Hidling that you need me?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I don't need you? Well, won't you to do something? Man?
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: You see I'm sitting in a situation. The reader left
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: y'all number that y'alla helped me while I'm down in
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: your house watching man just cheers crazy baby man? What
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: why't you You're gonna call me asking me to bring
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: you some news paper. I told you that I was
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: in the middle of fixing me and my wife from dinner.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: You come calling me talking about some paper. Man. I
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: don't want to hear no shout, and I ain't coming
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: down there to bring you know paper. Man. Hello, childe,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: you're gonna bring this paper? Man? Man, Look like I
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: told you before, I as going to bring you know
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: paper down there. We don't wait no on this street
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: like hold on, man, I can't just you can't just
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: leave me here and I'm numb like this, but not
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: to come bring no brown man, no toilet paper because
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: here responsible when he going into the restroom, that sounded
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: like a personal problem. You you too wrong for that.
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: This is st You're wasted though, this is an emergency. Man. Man,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: that don't sound in the emergency. That sounds like a
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: personal problem that you got going on. I'm on, I
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: want to get off of here, man, you know me
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: off with you. I don't give them about you being man,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: not a fact. Soon as you get your out of there,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: you so mad you come on down here. I'm coming
• 27:52
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  Speaker 1: for not helping me while I'm gonna sit your weight,
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  Speaker 1: look with bring your I got one more thing I
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  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just
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• 28:27
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• 28:43
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• 28:46
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• 28:49
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• 28:52
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  Speaker 1: hour Entertainment News. Right after this, you're listening to Steve
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at twenty after the hour. Steve
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Harvey is trending. That is you, sir. You are trending
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  Speaker 1: with your viral video interview with miss h Durana's pace.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Remember her? Oh yeah, oh yeah. We'll talk about it
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: at about twenty after the hour, Steve. Uh. Everybody's buzzing
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: about that. But first, in today's entertainment news, Art Kelly
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  Speaker 1: maybe jailed again and soon after missing child support payments
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  Speaker 1: that have already landed him in jail once before. Now
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: this is according to tm z R, Kelly has missed
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  Speaker 1: his last two months of child support payments to his
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: x Drea Kelly. He's required to pay twenty thousand, eight
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: hundred and thirty three dollars a month to his ex.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: As you know, Robert was jailed in early March after
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: racking up over one hundred and sixty thousand dollars. This
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: after he was arrested on sexual abuse charges. Robert was
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: released after he cleared that debt. Someone covered his tab,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: we know. After getting out, Robert went back to court.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Robert went back to court and asked the judge to
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  Speaker 1: lower the twenty k amount, claiming he could no longer
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  Speaker 1: afford it. The judge said he would hear arguments, but
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: that won't happen until May eighth. In the meantime, Robert
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: ows twenty k plus a month, and it's clear the
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: judge means business. Well, he could go back then. Yeah,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: he's already missed two. Yeah. Yeah, there's always trouble. It's
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: sad man to see somebody who had so much. Man,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: the guys talented beyond measure. Yeah. Man, something something's wrong somewhere. Yeah,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: something's wrong somewhere a partner. Yeah you know. Yeah, you
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: can't you know what I mean, you can't play that all? No, no, no, no,
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: doesn't look good at all. Yep. He said he believed
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: he could fly. He should have been left. Yeah. Long,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: you can sing it at church Sunday huh yeah wow um.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, Nipsey Hustle's family wants to make
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: it clear there is no reason to worry about the
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: financial well being of his children after multiple crowdfunding pages
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: and fundraising attempts by former NFL player Reggie Bush and
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: other celebrities. Um Sources close to the family said that
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Nipsey made sure his two children would not have to
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: rely on anyone for money. Nipsey put away money and
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: trust funds for his family using the money he earned
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: from his music, clothing store, and his other business endeavors.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: So they're straight, yeah, yeah, yeah, well, you know he
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: was a Yeah, that's what he stood for, to be
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: very smart with that, yeah, empowering himself and others, you know,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: with knowledge in money business, you know, owning businesses, all
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: of that. Yeah. So yeah, that's what a lot of
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: what he'll be known for, you know, besides his community
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  Speaker 1: work and his music, you know that sort of thing.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of people have said, you know, he helped me,
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: he did this for me. Yeah, it wasn't for Nipsey.
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  Speaker 1: He's the one that taught me to do this, you know. Yeah,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: seems like he knew the business part of the music
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: business too. Yeah yeah, yeah, because he had already made
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: money before he even got with the label, right by
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: selling his mixtape. So yeah, yeah, So anyway, thank god
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: he took care of his children. Thank God, yeah children,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Imani and Cross yeah Cross Cross Yeah. I like that
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: name Cross. Next name. All right, Steve, it is time
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  Speaker 1: for today's headline. Well, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne Triump, well,
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: thank you very much everybody, and good morning. This is
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: and Triplet's the news. Okay. The spires of both a
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: World Trade Center and the Empire State Building in New
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: York we're lit in the colors of the French flag
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: last night and to show a solidarity with the people
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: of France in the wake of Monday's massive fire at
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: the Cathedral of Notre Dame. The brelets left the eight
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: hundred and fifty year old structure disfigured but still standing,
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: with both the roof and spire destroyed. French President Makom
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: is vowing to rebuild a legendary structure in five years.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Some people say that's a little ambitious. Other people say, well,
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: it really can be done. President Trump participated in a
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: private swearing in ceremony yesterday of the new head of
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: the Environmental Protection Agency. The Senate confirmed Andrew Wheeler to
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: be the agency's fifteenth administrator at the end of February,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: were replace his former administrator, Scott Pruitt, who resigned last
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: summer while facing more than a dozen ethics probes. Much
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: of Andrew Wheeler's Washington work Senate on reducing the Environmental
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Agency's oversight. He was also a registered lobbyist for a
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: lot of fossil fuel companies, like coal companies, so environmental
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: groups supposed his nomination anyway. Bernie Sanders and Kamala Harris
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  Speaker 1: have raised more money for their presidential campaign so far
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: than any of the other sixteen Democratic candidates. Vermont Senator
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders says he's raised eighteen million so far, California
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  Speaker 1: Senator Kamala Harris has accumulated twelve mill Former Texas consent
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  Speaker 1: bay To o'rourk, though has a little over nine million,
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  Speaker 1: about seven mill in until On the other hand, though
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: Donald Trump has a war chest so far of thirty
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: million dollars. Distinguished historian author David Brian Davis has died
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: at age ninety two. Davis was a white history professor
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: at Yale. He wrote about the importance of slavery in
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: the development of Europe, the US, and the industrial Revolution,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: while other White's historians tweat a slavery as some minor
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: piece of American history. David Brian Davis, who proved that
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: black enslavement was actually central to the expansion of Europe,
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: the development of the modern world, and especially the economic
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: profits that led to the Industrial Revolution. And that's contrary
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: to the myth that only immigrants built America. He said,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: American slavery was the key institution that contributed to the
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: rise of the West to global prominence. In twenty thirteen,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Davis was given the National Humanities Metal by President Obama.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: Well she may not like it, but singer Share as
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: being embraced by the nation's conservatives. After questioning whether the
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: state she lives in, California can handle any more immigrants.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: On Sunday, Share tweeted quote, I understand helping struggly immigrants,
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: but my city isn't taken care of its own. What
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: about the fifty thousand plus citizens who live on the streets,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: people who live below the poverty line, who are hungry.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: But if my state can take care of its own
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: and many of veterans, how can it take care of more.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Reaction Conservative actor James Wood says Share was awakened to reality. Finally,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Today's national Remember what I told you too? Forget Now
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: back to this Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Steven show.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: In today's trending story, Steve Harvey, you are trending, You,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, are trending and trending. What are you doing that? Well? Yesterday,
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: Tommy your uncle on his talk show always Something is Special. Guest.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Her name was miss Durannis Pace. She had a very
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: emotional story and such a wonderful spirit with some powerful,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: powerful TV. It had your uncle crying. Take a listen.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I didn't know if I'm gonna be alive. God now
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: kept me alive to see you, sir, And I'm just
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: glad to be here. I can go to heaven. Now
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: I should go to heaven. I don't take much for me.
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  Speaker 1: Hard he and he did you have it? Yeah, hard
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  Speaker 1: set Bo, you have me a little sa I saw
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  Speaker 1: it yesterday. It was very powerful, but you were there.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: You was kind of right there by. The interview is
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: she wanted the Pace sister, Steve? Yeah, wow, that he
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: bought on because her video it wasn't viable of her
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: singing yeah gospel song. It was totally unexpected. We got
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: to talking about so many different things. Man. I don't
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: know how they edited it down and haven't seen it.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Somebody sent me a clip, a really short clip, and
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: it was just emotional for me because we were talking.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's probably the first time I've
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: said it out loud, I know, on TV about having
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: the responsibility of taking my mother off life support, which
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: was really a rough thing for me to do. Man.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I'n't done a lot of crazy stuff in my day.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I hadn't done some hard stuff, but this one was tough,
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: and now we got to talking about that, and then
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: we started talking about, you know, just heaven and stuff,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: and it was such a real raw conversation because it
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  Speaker 1: was so unrehearsed and unplaying whe no produced segment where
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: no You asked ad SDN. She gonna say that it
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: was none of that, and it truly was a spiritual
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: moment for me because this woman was saying some stuff
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: to me. I don't know how much of the interview
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: went on TV, but she said some stuff to me,
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: man that was really really deep and touching to me,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: and I knew I could and it's sort of crazy, man,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: I could feel my mother's spirit. Oh wow, talking to me. Yeah,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: because you were really emotional, Steve. Yeah, because I know
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: how my mother talked to me, and this woman was
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: talking to me like my mama. Wow. All right, Well,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: coming up next, Steve at thirty four after the hour,
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: tell us more about this interview with mister Ranna's Pace.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Today's trending story is Steve Harvey's viral video and his emotional,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: powerful interview with mister Ranna's Pace. Steve, mister Rannis was
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: so inspiring and you really brought everyone to tears. Take
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: a listen to this. You know, my mama raised me too.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: Oh she says, Steve, God gonna get you a big
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: house on the heel. One day, he said, but you
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: can't get on the heeling. Don't tell anybody else how
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: to get up, Dan, that was the hardest thing I
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  Speaker 1: ever did you know that? Tell her doctor take my
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: mom off life support. Oh my god. I suffered with
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: that for a long time. You know. So I was
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: raised where she in heaven? Now? You know? Yes, yes,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: she watches me, yes sees yes, sir. I just hope
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: she's seeing today, Yes, sir, watching this moment right here? Yes, sir,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: I really only it is not straightened up, start doing right,
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: because I just want to see her. Yes, sir, Yes
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: you don't see her. Amen. Wow Wow, Wow, this was
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: on yesterday. I mean it got taped a couple of
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: weeks ago. I think it was sort of crazy, man.
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  Speaker 1: I was somebody sent it to me on Steve Harvey film.
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  Speaker 1: And you know, it's sort of crazy man. You know,
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  Speaker 1: you try not tell, you know, it's it's almost like
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  Speaker 1: I don't care what you do. It's an amazing thing, man,
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: that I've really had to come to terms with the
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: purpose of haters, because you know, I was when I
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: had a Victoria Oldstein on the show the other week
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: and she said something that I had never quite heard
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: put that way. She said that the devil is not
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: interested in you. He's just interested in making sure you
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: don't get to your destiny. That the devil's real interest
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: is not you because he don't care nothing about you.
• 42:45
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  Speaker 1: what I've learned about the trolls and the haters that
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  Speaker 1: is to throw you off course. Yeah man, it's to
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  Speaker 1: keep you out of your destiny. And it's sort of crazy, man,
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: because you look at some of the comments. I was,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: I just read some comments that this girl had sent
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: me from Steve Harvey's film. Everything was so positive. It's
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: like crazy, like I'm not really messed up about this anything.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: And you know, because I really come to the term
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: of understanding. And this one woman in the middle of
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: all of this positivity, you know, people remember her name
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: mother and remembering how hard it is for them to
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: difficult and do you know everybody on this show, you know,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know what the acception to Tommy. But
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Tommy lost his dad, so I mean we all have
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: felt proud of lost yeah, you know. And so you know,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: even in the middle of that, when the people are
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: just grappling with that, uh, this woman said, I don't
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: really care for Steve Harvey. It's cool, I'm paying no,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: but I'm showing you that, I'm showing I'm showing y'all
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: the point that Satan is not interested in you. He's
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: interested in you keeping you from your destiny and if
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: you're not careful, these little comments that you hear can
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: can help you miss the real valid point of what
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: the whole mission of the interview was supposed to do.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: And so man, you have to be careful in themselves.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Just reading along in this, woman go I don't really
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  Speaker 1: care for Steve Harvey because of the stuff his ex
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: wife has said about him. And I just went, Wow,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: that's amazing that you would miss. Okay, but let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you that if I was anything she said I was.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: God can't change people, right, man, you don't get allowed
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: to get it right. Third chances that's what? Yeah, all right, Steve, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: pace a car on this episode. Yeah, that's a blessing,
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: right there? Are you? And Jesus don't done any for
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: y'all to some may All right, thank you guys. Nephew
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: you're up next with a prying phone call. Right after this.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening morning show coming up at the top of
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: letter for today subject a huge problem in our relationship.
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: Wait till you hear this, But right now the nephew
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: is here with today's prying phone call. What you got,
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: neph We got a problem in this relationship that I'm
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: about to run Shirley. Oh yeah, yeah, that's a major
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: problem and it happens a lot in some relationships, especially
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: before marriage. The ring, Oh, the ring, like the movie
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: The Rain, the horrible movie. That's how he said of
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: the rings, the Rain. I was looking for that ring. Yeah,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: where is all right? Here? The rain rain running cat dog.
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: Let's go Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Denise. Please. Yes,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: this is she. Hi, Denis. My name is Gavin. I'm
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: actually the head jeweler here Diamonds. No, how you doing.
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: I'm good. You brought your ring in? What was it
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: last week? I actually wasn't here, but you gave it
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: to one of my salespersons. And yes you wanted to
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: get it resized as well as get it a praise correct, Yes, yes, yes,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: and you don't have to tell him that, praise him
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen, I actually do
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: the resize of the ring. And first of all, let
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: me be the person say, um, congratulations, when when is
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: your wedding? Thank you? I'm getting married and stuff coming there. Well,
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: congratulations to thank you. Listen. I don't know how to
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: tell you this now, as far as yours a less concerned.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: I've looked at your ring over and over and this
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars. Excuse me,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I've been I've been in this business for over twenty years.
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm confused on what you just said.
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: And I understand that. What I'm trying to explain to
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: you is that I've been in this business for over
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: twenty years. I've seen so many different pieces of jewelry
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: and this is something that you that you buy late
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: night on an infomercial for nineteen ninety nine. This is
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: a Cubic Declonian stones and the gold is not real
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: at all. It's like, wait, wait, you lost me. You
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: lost me as much money as my fans make and
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: as much money as my father is putting down on
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: his winding or has put down. And you're gonna understand
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: everything you're saying. But Denise, honestly, what I need to
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: do is hold on. Wait wait. I need you to
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: hold on because we need to convictims. Wait. Wait man.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: First of all, I can't wait wait wait, wait, wait, wait,
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: hold hold on? Do you wait wait? Wait? What are
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: you trying to what you're trying to do, sir, I
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: need I need you to repeat because what you just
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: said to me, okay, I little of personal stuff. Man,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: you oh you hit it. It's personal now, So I
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: need you to hold on. Okay, oh she called her man. Okay,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: thank thank hello, Victim. I can listen to this jeweler
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: that's on the front. I want you to hit it
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: that he just told me. Hold what's what's the problem?
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: What you mean, what's the problem. He gonna tell you
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: what the problem is. Gonna hit on, sir, gonna hit on? Who? Hello, Yeah,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: who's this all right? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: And actually your wife, I mean where your fiance rather,
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: she brought her ring in to actually be resized. Yeah,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: and we we also did an appraisal on the ring
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: for her. And actually the ring is estimated to be only,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: in the words of around fifty dollars. Fifty dollars dollars
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: if that's what the man said, dollars, sir, Obviously there's
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: some sort of mistakes, sir. Now what you got to
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: say about that fifty dollars? That's that's got to be
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: some kind of mistakes. But what'd you say your name was, sir,
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: My name is Gavin. I work here at Diamonds. I'm
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: the head jeweler here. I've been here for twenty years.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: And there's there's no way that that ring is worth
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars. I know what I paid for it, so
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: obviously there's some sort of mistakes it. There's not a mistake.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: I've been dealing with jury, I've seen it. I can't
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: pretty much look at a ring, but I actually went
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: into detail on this one, as I do all of them,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: and so I promise you this is probably maybe between
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: forty and fifty dollars before his workers. No, absolutely not.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: That's that's impossible. How is that impossible? He's a jeweler.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: You heard him say, he's been doing it for twenty
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: he's the highest impossible. I don't understand that all the
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: money that my day is putting down on this wedding
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: and you don't pay fifty You bought a cheap ring, sir, No, no, no,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: I did not buy a team. This is this is
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: this is O basically some kind of mistake. You didn't
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: got it? You shot right, you show got that right.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: So what you got to say for yourself? Fifty? Don
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: this you can't. I believe that that's right, that this
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: is obviously some kind of mistairs. Oh, it is a mistake.
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: I'm mistake and thinking I'm gonna get married to the
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: man of my dream. I do have the engagement ring
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: that was purchased and bought for your wife. No, I
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: don't think you I don't think you do. I don't
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: think you have my ring, because if you have my ring,
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't be telling me this is worse fifty dollars.
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: I have the ring that your wife, your fiance brought
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: in his wife. Yet hold on, hold on. The man
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: is trying to explain. I'm trying to get to the body.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Thank you, So you have I don't think he has
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: the right ring. I have the right ring. And what
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know, sir, is that this is something
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: you buy on an infomercial in the two ocock the morning. Dude,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: you know I ain't bottled damn ring on infomercial. I
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: bought the ring from a reputable establishment. I have the receipt,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: I have the certificate. So obviously the mistake is on
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: your and where you are the mistakes now here? Sir.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: You bought a piece of jump he's been doing it
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: all these years. How hell he gonna make a mistake?
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: Whe you come off telling me I bought a piece
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: of jump. I know what I bought. If there's any
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: mistakes that's been made, it's on your end, world, It's
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: not on my end. Yeah. Hold don't words of all,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: don't way you want things that my dad has had
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: too much money for this wedding, But your doll gonna
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: pay fifty dollars on dollars wing you wait till I
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: tell him this? Chill? Hold on. First of all, I
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: don't appreciate you. I want to tell you this. This
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: is a typical case of you trying to put it
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: off on us because you bought a piece of run
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: for fifty bucks, the money that you don't make, and
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I get fifty dollars worth of a ring, then he's
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: hold on, let me talk to this. Where you going
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: get talk and gets I never heard of it. So
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: your wife knows exactly where she's the one that brought
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: the ring. I tell you what, I'm gonna come down
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: there to see the ring that you're talking about. If
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: it's not the ring that I gave my girl, I'm
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: gonna take seventy six hundred dollars out of your because
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: that's so. Now you want to jump on me because
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: you bought your wife a pieces. Come on, you want
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: to put it on me? You you don't tell me
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: what the I don't know what the I spin on
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: the ring and you I don't kind of trying to pull.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: First of all, I don't appreciate you coming to my
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: household trying to mess my and you want to come
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: at me with this one. I know the ring's gotta
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: be real. If I were you, mister niece, I would
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: not marry somebody that's gonna be I'm coming there. I'm
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: looking for your puppet, and you know what. You don't
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: get the ring in a right man, you're gonna go
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: in it. Can I say one more thing to both
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: of you? Are better? I tell you what if they did?
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: I want to hear me, and you're gonna have some
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: more problems. This is nephew telling me from the Steve
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: Harvin Morning Show, y'all just got pranked. But the niece's
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: sister that that's why she ain't got no man to
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: be Wow. That's man, Wow, that's how cool? Time is
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: you about to start me? Wow? I think I'm sorry, Baby,
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I ring. I gotta ask y'all something.
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the low but
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: Steve hard Ring Baby is always about the ring. The
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: ring is important, Yes, ring is import It is importent. Man,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: where do you come up with this? That dude, he's
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: the man you got left side of the brain, back coner,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: right there, left side of the brain, back corner. All
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: that your easiness is right up in the front walking
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: about back somewhere like you gotta get it here? Thank you,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: left side of the brain. I can tell you it's
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: right there. How much was your ring when you bought
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: thirteen hund Yeah? Right, y' on tell it done? Well,
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I'll tell it if you say
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: how much one you bought? Jack, I'm about now. Well,
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: I was witch you and you coherse me on it. Man. Man,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: that's great. Wow, well, I wish we had time to
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: hear more about that story. Wow, thank you, nephew. Coming
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: up next, it is the Strawberry letter subject a huge
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: problem in our relationship. We'll get into it right after this.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,
• 54:45
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• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could we're
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: going to read this one today and hold on time.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: We gotta put your hair and air strong. WHOA see
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: you're a little off today, nephew. Subjects A huge problem,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: A huge problem in our relationship. Here's Stephen Shirley. My
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: boyfriend and I have been together for five years and
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: we've been faced with many obstacles. But the main one
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: started over two years ago when I cheated on him
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: and admitted it. I swore to never do it again,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: and we moved on. I really thought all that all
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: was forgiven, but my boyfriend still has major trust issues
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: with me. And here's why. He has a high sex
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: drive and so do I, but I refuse to give
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: in whenever he wants to have sex, which is every
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: day or every other day. He knows exactly why I
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: won't do it as much as he'd like to. It's
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: because he is too darn huge. Yes, he's enormous, and
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: I love it, but not every day. I just can't
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: do it. He told me that I'm just using that
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: as an excuse, but he knows better because when he
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: first when we first met, he told me that his
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: ex girlfriend broke up with him because of his huge issue.
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: This huge issue. He told me that he scared away
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: so many females when they saw it for the first time.
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: I want him to trust me, but I feel bad
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: depriving him, depriving him of something we both enjoy. We've
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: tried counseling, but the female therapist was more intrigued with
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: him than she wasn't actually helping us. I am tired
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: of telling him, yeah, get a new therapist right away,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: right I am tired of telling him that he's more
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: than enough man for me and I have no desire
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: to cheat on him. How can I make a grown
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: man feel secure? Leaving him is not an option? Please help? Wow,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: so many women would love to be in your shoes.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: I actually think a woman wrote in just last week
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: or so about her man having the exact opposite problem.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: But I'm not here to tell you to count your
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: blessings because your issue is very real to you, and
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: you're right. Sex should be enjoyable for both of you
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: most of the time, if not all of the time,
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: and if Sizes is making you, you know, not want
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: to do it whenever he wants to, then it is
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: a problem. And it's a good thing. You guys went
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: to a therapist, but obviously she was the wrong one
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: because you said she was more interested in him than
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: helping you. There are other people out there that can
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: help you. But so he keeps pestering you to do
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: it because he thinks you're cheating on him. Is that
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: what I'm to get from this letter? Because you cheated
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: on him before and that has made him insecure? Is
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: that what you're saying? You ask, how can you make
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: a grown man feel secure? Well, I mean, you know,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: being there, loving him, being supportive and all those things.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: I'm sure that's several ways to do that. But the
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: insecurity is within himself. I mean, you know, it's not
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: just you. His ex girlfriend broke up with him. He
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: scared a lot of females away when they saw him
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: for the first time, So it's not just you. Don't
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: put that on yourself. Don't take that all on yourself,
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: because it's not that and that's not your issue. Really,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: your issue is size matters, and that's what you guys
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: really need to deal with, Uh, Steve, I go through
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: this a lot. Yeah, Uh, you know I got quiet
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: on this letter, very quiet because I had to listen carefully.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: But this ain't about me. They always you know, you know,
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you think to start is letter is?
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: That's why I had it, But I had to read
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: in between the lines carevilly. It wasn't me, Oh, a
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: huge problem. When did you realize it? Well? You know,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: it was boyfriend and girlfriend all this health. You know,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: I swore, h, here's a problem. Though she cheated on
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: him and admitted it. Uh, that ain't ever good to
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: admit you cheated to anybody, man or woman. Don't admit
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: it that they don't know. They don't know. Don't walk
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: in the house, have a confession. It was just bother
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: in me. Let it bother you here. Hell's way worse
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: things can bother. Let that bother you, but don't walk
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: in the house. Tell it man or him. All right,
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: let's move. And I really thought always forgiving. But my
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: boyfriend had come fro trust issues with me. And here's why. See,
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: he got a high sex driving, So do I, but
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: I refuse to give in whenever he wants to have sex,
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: which is every day or every other day. He knows
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: it's actually why I don't want to do it as much.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: It's called he's too damn He Yes, he's enormous and
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: I love it, but not every day. I just can't.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: Then he told her you using that as excuse, But
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: he told her that his as girlfriend broke over here
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: because he was too much. So now we must talk
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: about this and get it out the way. Please, what
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: is it, Steve? We must talk about the types of
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: injuries bought a happening in this relationship, because that is
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: the major focal point where I ain't nobody trying to
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: get to seem like button me. Sherley won't dapple in
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: this area cause Sherley's very careful. I, on the other hand,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: I am unders standing this woman's problem because this woman
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: is saying he's enormous, he too damn huge. These are
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: sis that happens. These are sexual injuries, things that happen
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: sexually but can be described in other ways. Thank you
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: for that. Let us start. The wall paper has come
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: off the walls. See listen carefully. These are sexual injuries.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: The wall paper doesn't come off the wall. He in there,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: read decorate. This part is read decorating and whoa paper
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: then come off the wall? You better go. Boy. When
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: I come back, I would describe to you a series
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: of sexual injuries that's happenings in this relationship. All right,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: Coming up Steve Harvey's part two of his response to
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: this strawberry letter. Today's subject a huge problem in our relationship.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: We'll do that at twenty three after the hour. Right
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:02:35
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  Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter subject to huge problem in
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  Speaker 1: much though. Now you know, so I've determined that what
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show warnings you should have listened to
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  Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Break up like a grown up.
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  Speaker 1: We'll be back with more right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to show. Well, guys, a breakup can be horrible when
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  Speaker 1: you're the one getting dumped. I mean, we've all been there,
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  Speaker 1: isn't always easy. That's not always easy, right, Yeah, because
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  Speaker 1: know that you care about. Uh, you know, you can
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  Speaker 1: the right thing. But ghosting isn't cool like texting someone
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  Speaker 1: to break up. Okay, so here's some some decent ways
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  Speaker 1: it's only going to be okay, now, listen to this.
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  Speaker 1: that makes sense to me. Break up? But let's keep going.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, come on, think about the show.
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  Speaker 1: Let me say that we break up on a Thursday.
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  Speaker 1: be kind, very kind, but be strict. Okay. Break ups
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  Speaker 1: you like it. You like it when I'm direct, I am?
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  Speaker 1: sit down, dinner and discussion, or one last night, last
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  Speaker 1: How valuable? I don't set your price, I said in
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  Speaker 1: mynd I know how valuable I am. Okay, I like that. Junior.
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  Speaker 1: You have to allow these guys to You've got to
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  Speaker 1: see more than one side, because that's actually how they think.
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  Speaker 1: are some decent ways to break up. This is according
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  Speaker 1: to Cosmopolitan magazine. The last one is focus on the
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  Speaker 1: future when it's over. When it's over, it's time to
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  Speaker 1: think about all the things you can do now, all
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  Speaker 1: the things you can have and uh, you know, and
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  Speaker 1: all the things you could be as a single person.
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  Speaker 1: That's Cosmo what Jet Magazine. Okay, sure they read that
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  Speaker 1: one more time. The last one, Steve, is focused on
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  Speaker 1: the future. When it's over, It's time to think about
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  Speaker 1: all the things you can now do, that you can
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  Speaker 1: have and that you can be as a single person.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've been thinking about that longfulls over yeah,
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  Speaker 1: point right right. All right, guys, we'll be back with
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  Speaker 1: We'll be back. You're listening to the Steven Show. Charles
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  Speaker 1: hey can do it every time. Charles Cardon, Hello, bro
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  Speaker 1: on a hole, all right, said Junior. We're gonna go
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  Speaker 1: from the NBA to the NFL. Now, So what's up
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  Speaker 1: with Sierra's husband? Uh? Wow, come go ahead. R RO
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  Speaker 1: sixty five million guaranteed one hundred and forty million four
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  Speaker 1: years when sixty five million dollars signing bonus. Yeah, that's it,
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  Speaker 1: guaranteed money, Carl Love. Yes, we're so happy for Sierra
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  Speaker 1: man when it was we didn't work out, didn't work out, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: it would happen, would happen. Yeah, she held out for
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  Speaker 1: the big bucks. Yes, but they really do love each other. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're rooting for them. Yes, Love. I met him at
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  Speaker 1: the NFL. Really really nice couple. Yeah, and beautiful and
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  Speaker 1: their children are beautiful and I love them. Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: future Junior. Donna change his name every time a future Westbrook. No,
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  Speaker 1: Wilson will. I don't think you're gonna do that. But
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  Speaker 1: he has called him dad right now. This is a
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  Speaker 1: second major contract though, first of all for eighty million,
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  Speaker 1: then you backdoor with a hunting forty. Do you feel
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  Speaker 1: like he should be the highest paid player? I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I see absolutely no reason why he shouldn't. But you
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  Speaker 1: have to remember one key thing about negotiating, it's not
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  Speaker 1: what you're worth, it's what you can negotiate. So that's
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  Speaker 1: what they settled for. What did he ask for? He
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  Speaker 1: is out there crazy, but at one point in time,
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure the request was made to be the
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  Speaker 1: highest paid player. That's how you get to that point.
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay. His agent said to somebody, he's looking to
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  Speaker 1: be the highest paid plan. If you guys want to
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 1: hang on to him, I think that's where we need
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  Speaker 1: to be. Yeah, now let me ask a question. What
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  Speaker 1: does it mean? So guaranteed he's getting sixty five? All
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 1: he said? So what does pickin a day? Oh okay,
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  Speaker 1: But as long as he's playing, he gets the rest
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  Speaker 1: of it. Oh okay. A football wants you to get
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 1: hurt and you get out and you're not playing or
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: they or they cut you. Oh okay. All right, Well
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  Speaker 1: I suffered with that for a long time. You know.
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  Speaker 1: we'll be back with the last break of the day
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  Speaker 1: here we are last break of the day on this
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  Speaker 1: Wednesday hump day. You have some closing remarks for us. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you do. You know. Um, I want to talk to
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  Speaker 1: everybody today in in another form of encouragement, to talk
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  Speaker 1: to you about being uncomfortable and um it's it's something
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  Speaker 1: that's a little unnerving to almost everybody. I mean, most
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  Speaker 1: people like being comfortable. Nobody really really wants to be uncomfortable,
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  Speaker 1: but I want to share something with you. Okay, let
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  Speaker 1: me start this way for you, because I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: find a way to put it together. You know, when
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  Speaker 1: when you get out your comfort zone, the reason you
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  Speaker 1: don't like it is because you feel out of control.
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  Speaker 1: You know, your comfort zone offers you a level of security.
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  Speaker 1: When you're in your comfort zone, you feel as though, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: it's safe right here, I can function, I can handle
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  Speaker 1: it because I'm in my comfort zone. If you step
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  Speaker 1: out of your comfort zone, you begin to feel a
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 1: little bit out of control, your little unnerved, Your routines
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  Speaker 1: are not running smoothly. You You feel better when you're
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  Speaker 1: in your comfort zone. Because the average person I've discovered
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  Speaker 1: likes predictability. The average person I've discovered likes routine. Now,
• 1:35:09
  Speaker 1: if you don't like predictability and you don't like routine,
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: then you're one of the rare individuals. Most people do.
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  Speaker 1: Weigh all better when they're when they're when they're in
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  Speaker 1: a routine, when they when they know what's coming and
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 1: what's what's happening. Well, God, what God does for you
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  Speaker 1: is he really does want you to step outside of
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 1: your comfort zone, because your comfort outside of your comfort
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: zone is where a lot of blessings lay. You know.
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: I heard Will Smith say one time, the best things
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: in life on the other side of fear. Well, it's
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  Speaker 1: also true that the best things in life that you
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  Speaker 1: can attain are outside of your comfort zone. And so
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  Speaker 1: I want you to understand something about when you get
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  Speaker 1: forced out of a comfort zone, you get laid off,
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 1: somebody break up with you, you get told something negative
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  Speaker 1: gonna happen, We're closing the plan, We're canceling you. Uh,
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  Speaker 1: You're you're not gonna be able to come through. I
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  Speaker 1: cancel a meeting. I know you was counting on her,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm not dealing with that today. When you are
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 1: shaking out of your comfort zone, out of your comfortable routines,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to understand what God is actually doing
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  Speaker 1: for you. God is actually providing for you in that moment,
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  Speaker 1: some growth opportunities. I found this to be true over
• 1:36:38
  Speaker 1: and over. So you are when you when you step
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  Speaker 1: outside of your comfort zone or you're kicked outside your
• 1:36:44
  Speaker 1: comfort zone. Either way, you get outside your comfort zone
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  Speaker 1: and there's a growth opportunity there for you. So instead
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  Speaker 1: of you know, complaining about the loss of your comfort
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  Speaker 1: instead of bemoaning the fact that all me, Oh my,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I'm about to be uncomfortable. I got laid off,
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  Speaker 1: I lost my job. They canceled this, They did this
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  Speaker 1: to me, They canceled me. Now was counting on. Instead
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  Speaker 1: of acting that way, I want you accept the challenge
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  Speaker 1: of something new that's about to happen in your life.
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  Speaker 1: Start accepting that because that's the only way change occurs.
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  Speaker 1: Growth the curs. Excuse me, that's the only way growth occurs.
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  Speaker 1: Growth the curs only when change is made. Nothing grows
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 1: by staying the same. Every growth moment comes along with change.
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  Speaker 1: So embrace your change. When you get kicked out your
• 1:37:46
  Speaker 1: comfort zone, whether you step out or get kicked out,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to look for the challenge or something new.
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  Speaker 1: Because one thing about God, he don't close a door
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  Speaker 1: without opening another one. I heard it saying read somewhere
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  Speaker 1: that it says God takes you from glory to glory.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're in a glorious situation and then all
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 1: of a sudden, a tragedy besets you, or setback, befalls you,
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  Speaker 1: or something happens to knock you off the course of
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  Speaker 1: the path, quit tripping man, because when that door closes,
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 1: God leads us from glory to glory. He takes us
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 1: from one great position to another great position. But you
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  Speaker 1: gotta deal with the transition period. You've got to get
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  Speaker 1: okay with being uncomfortable, because the best things in life
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  Speaker 1: for you are when you're uncomfortable. You're gonna have to
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  Speaker 1: get all right with that. See. I've learned in my
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  Speaker 1: life to be comfortable being uncomfortable. I've made it a
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 1: habit of just being okay being uncomfortable. I know my
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 1: work schedule is crazy to most people. Can I tell
• 1:38:59
  Speaker 1: y'all something? It's crazy to me too sometimes, And I
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  Speaker 1: wonder why I take all this, But I understand something though.
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  Speaker 1: I got to get outside my comfort zone. If I
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  Speaker 1: want some things in life that are just out on
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  Speaker 1: the other side of it, and everything I want right
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  Speaker 1: now in my life happens to be on the outside
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  Speaker 1: of my comfort zone because what I got now at all,
• 1:39:21
  Speaker 1: it's in here. I just happen to want some other things.
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  Speaker 1: It's nothing wrong with that. So I'm willing to step
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 1: outside my comfortable comfort zone. I'm actually willing to be
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 1: comfortable being uncomfortable. That can produce a heck of a life.
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  Speaker 1: So when you get pushed out your comfort zone, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: don't panic. Don't sweat it. Sometimes God is taking you
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 1: from glory to glory, but there's a transition period. There's
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 1: a period where you just gotta just go Wait. There's
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 1: a period here that I'm going through. But God must
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  Speaker 1: have something else for me, because God don't close a
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  Speaker 1: door without opening another. That's it. Y'all have agreement, Thank you, sir.
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