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Ms. Pat Interview, Steve's Me Time Story, Beyonce Called Out, NBA Bill Russell and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in it to Starr good it listening
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  Speaker 1: to other Please, I don't join Jo. You gotta use
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  Speaker 1: turn them out. Turn, you got to turn them out,
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  Speaker 1: turning water the water go. Come come on your thing,
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  Speaker 1: sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Yeah, man, boy, God has been
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  Speaker 1: good to me. Man, I can't really count at all.
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  Speaker 1: You can't either, you know, it's all in perspective. You
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  Speaker 1: really can't count all that God has done for you
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  Speaker 1: if you look at every little thing. It's unbelievable the
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  Speaker 1: things He's done for us. How many times you know,
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  Speaker 1: we got through something without even talking to him about it.
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  Speaker 1: He just he just blessed us with it. How many
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  Speaker 1: you know? It's just it's so much that the fact
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  Speaker 1: that you wake up in the morning, the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you still have a place to stay, the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you know may be struggling out here, but guess what,
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  Speaker 1: you still going to work you. You know, you live
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  Speaker 1: in check the check, but but you're making it all.
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  Speaker 1: You got all the plates spinning. You know, it's hard.
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  Speaker 1: You got a lot of plates spinning, but you keep
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  Speaker 1: him up there somewhere every now and near one break,
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  Speaker 1: but he put two more back up there to look
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  Speaker 1: a little bit better. And you got to get the
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  Speaker 1: spending them so it all works. And then you got
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people who just can't seem to mentally
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  Speaker 1: put it together as to you know, why their life
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  Speaker 1: isn't in a position that they wanted to be. We
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  Speaker 1: talked about this oftentimes, but I want to try another
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  Speaker 1: angle with you to day. You know, maybe it's you.
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  Speaker 1: Have you ever thought about that? Maybe it's you. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's no external force that's at fault, like you keep
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  Speaker 1: making the excuse to be You know, so many people
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  Speaker 1: I hear, well, if this hadn't have done this, if
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  Speaker 1: he hadn't have done that, if she hadn't have done that,
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  Speaker 1: I would have been further along. I wasted all my time,
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  Speaker 1: my years with this man, and he did this, and
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  Speaker 1: I could have been here, and I could have been there,
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  Speaker 1: and this woman she did this to me. If she
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  Speaker 1: hadn't have done that, I could have been here, and
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  Speaker 1: I could have been there. Maybe it's you. Maybe it's
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  Speaker 1: not really that external force that you keep making it
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  Speaker 1: out to be. See, I've done this to myself before.
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  Speaker 1: Once again, I'm talking to you about something I know about.
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  Speaker 1: I've done this to myself before. I've had the reason
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't where I wanted to be. I had it
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  Speaker 1: figured out as some external force. I had worked it
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  Speaker 1: out in my mind. Clearly it wasn't me. Because if
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  Speaker 1: so and so, or if this hadn't happened, and if
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  Speaker 1: they hadn't have done this, I would have been further
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  Speaker 1: along up the road. That's what I was saying. But
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  Speaker 1: woldo hold on, man or learned a valuable lesson. Man. See,
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  Speaker 1: if you don't ever let it go, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 1: hard for you to go. If you don't ever let
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  Speaker 1: it go, it's gonna be hard for you to go.
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  Speaker 1: I was listening to Bishop td Jake's one day, and
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  Speaker 1: I heard him say, you can't drive your car if
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna keep looking in the rearview mirror. You go
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  Speaker 1: outside and try that, Try to drive your car, but
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  Speaker 1: keep your eye in the rearview mirror. All you looking
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  Speaker 1: at is where you're being. All you looking at in
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  Speaker 1: that rearview mirrors where you're passed or should have passed,
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  Speaker 1: something you should have moved on from. All you're doing
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  Speaker 1: is looking in that rearview mirror at what happened back there.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't stop looking in the rearview mirror, you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna crash your car over and over and over again.
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  Speaker 1: All you got to slow it down so bad in
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  Speaker 1: order for you to keep looking in that rearview mirror.
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  Speaker 1: If you don't learn to let it go, it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be hard for you to go forward because you keep
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  Speaker 1: reviewing the past. The past is the past, and I
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  Speaker 1: know it's hard. Man. I watched a show and this
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  Speaker 1: lady said, well, I just can't ever forgive them for that,
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  Speaker 1: or guess what, guess what God may have already forgiven
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  Speaker 1: that person. That person may be extremely remorseful, could have
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  Speaker 1: gone to God and God and forgiveness for it years ago.
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  Speaker 1: But you you sit here and you keep hanging on
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  Speaker 1: to the back. I can't ever forgive that. M Then
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  Speaker 1: I heard Bishop Jakes come on the show one time
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  Speaker 1: and say something that really really struck home. You keep
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  Speaker 1: drinking the poison waiting on your enemy to die. He
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  Speaker 1: said that. I just shook my head and went, wow,
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  Speaker 1: you drinking the poison. Waiting on your enemy to die.
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  Speaker 1: Revenge is poison to you, you know, if hatred is
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  Speaker 1: poison to you. Unforgivingness, when you won't forgive a person,
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  Speaker 1: that person could be going on with their life, made
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  Speaker 1: the right with God. Don't know how you're feeling. They're
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  Speaker 1: skipping through life. Now. You make adjustments every time you
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  Speaker 1: see them, and it takes energy. Man, it takes so
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  Speaker 1: much energy to hate. It takes so much energy not
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  Speaker 1: to forgive too. Now they come in the room. You
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  Speaker 1: got to avoid them. Stay over here, Oh here they come.
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  Speaker 1: Now you got to make a situation over here. They
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  Speaker 1: come into the house. It's family reunion. Oh here they come.
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  Speaker 1: And where they're gonna be in the basement. I'm going
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  Speaker 1: to be on the third floor. I want to go
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  Speaker 1: outead and get some barbecue. She out there at the barbecue, staying,
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  Speaker 1: Oh lord, I don't want a barbecue. I just eat
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  Speaker 1: to take the salad. People man take themselves all out
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  Speaker 1: of position, trying to make adjustments, when if you it
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  Speaker 1: would simplify your life, if you would let just let
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  Speaker 1: it go. Maybe you ain't where you need to be
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  Speaker 1: because of them external forces altogether. Maybe you're not where
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  Speaker 1: you need to be cause of you, because you won't
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  Speaker 1: let it go, you won't move forward. Look at this, ladies.
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  Speaker 1: Let's say you've been in a situation with a man
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  Speaker 1: for years. It didn't work out. For whatever the reason,
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  Speaker 1: it just didn't work out. I got, I got what
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  Speaker 1: you said he did. I got what he did. I
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  Speaker 1: got he I honor that. YadA, YadA YadA. When you
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  Speaker 1: get through. Did not God get you through it? Did
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  Speaker 1: not he allow you to survive it. I got you,
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  Speaker 1: got some cuts on you, I got you been a
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  Speaker 1: little bit bruised. But did he not get you through it? So,
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  Speaker 1: now that he's freed you from it, now he didn't
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  Speaker 1: went on. He got a whole other family over that somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: He now he trying to make it right because maybe
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  Speaker 1: he learned the mistake he made and now he trying
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  Speaker 1: to be a better man. He just trying to get
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  Speaker 1: it right now. But you're sitting there holding onto it.
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  Speaker 1: You're drinking the poison, waiting on your enemy to die.
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  Speaker 1: So now instead of you enjoying the blessing of finally
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  Speaker 1: being free from a situation that was not healthy for you.
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  Speaker 1: You create an even more unhealthy situation in your mind
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  Speaker 1: by hating, by having revengeful thoughts, by hoping he fall
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  Speaker 1: on his face. Maybe you're even doing something to the
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  Speaker 1: other situation to make sure they struggle. Oh man, you're
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  Speaker 1: drinking the poison, waiting on your enemy to die. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: you ain't where you ought to be in life, not
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  Speaker 1: because of your external forces, but maybe it's you. If
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  Speaker 1: you don't let it go, it's gonna be hard for
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  Speaker 1: you to go. You can't keep driving your car looking
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  Speaker 1: in the rear view mirror. Come on, man, Forgiveness is
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  Speaker 1: not for the other person. Forgiveness is for You're show
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  Speaker 1: has been one of the great accomplishments and joys of
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  Speaker 1: my life to be who I am. I thank God
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  Speaker 1: for with all this oppressive moments, heartbeat, heart breaks and disappointments.
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  Speaker 1: I have survived them all. It's made me stronger, and
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  Speaker 1: Lord have mercy. I would have never made it without soul.
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  Speaker 1: I thank the Lord for soul. Soul is the essence
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  Speaker 1: of who I am. Whenever it get dark, for me
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  Speaker 1: out of prayer, I rely on soul. Soul, cooking, soul, food, soul, saying, soul,
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  Speaker 1: it any different up to be where you had today?
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  Speaker 1: Do you ever have feel like you had to do
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  Speaker 1: it different? Oh? Do I wish I could have done
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  Speaker 1: a different year? Yeah? Oh yeah? Oh oh, well, I
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  Speaker 1: can tell you the stuff I wish I could have skip. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Some of those valuable lessons were just a little bit
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  Speaker 1: too damn value. So lessons was a little too well learned.
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  Speaker 1: Some of them things I went through I thought was
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  Speaker 1: stretched out a bit. Yeah, I was looking at God
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  Speaker 1: going ahead. Hey, Hey, Hey, I know you tested me,
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  Speaker 1: but what is this about? I said, I got it
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  Speaker 1: clearly he felt differently. So do I wish some things
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  Speaker 1: were happened differently, Yes, But then when I look at
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  Speaker 1: the totality of what I am and who I am,
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't be this without all those moments. So I
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  Speaker 1: needed those moments. And that's why when you ask God
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  Speaker 1: for something, he never tells you what it's gonna cost
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  Speaker 1: to attain it. He never shows you the whole path
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  Speaker 1: of what it required, because if he did, we would
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  Speaker 1: all say, that's okay, I want something else. Because if
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  Speaker 1: you knew to get the way you are to day,
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  Speaker 1: that you was gonna have to take the route you
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  Speaker 1: who boy, if he'd if he'd ha told you you
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  Speaker 1: was gonna meet her on him, if he'd ha told
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  Speaker 1: you that decision you made was gonna call this ripple effect.
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  Speaker 1: That's why you never tell He never shows you the path.
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  Speaker 1: He just allows you to dream and have the vision.
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  Speaker 1: Neff cher, I got them be buzz you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, let's go cat. Hello, Hello, trying to
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  Speaker 1: speak to Chanie. Shee's on here right now because I
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  Speaker 1: take a message. Uh, do you know when she's coming back? Nah?
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  Speaker 1: Is this a business calls them? Na? No, this personal.
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  Speaker 1: I need to talk to her immediately. No, you need
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  Speaker 1: to talk to me. It's this a man? Who is this?
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  Speaker 1: This is? This is Brandon? Who? Who? Who are you?
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  Speaker 1: I'm earnest man. But why do you know Schnie? I
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  Speaker 1: got a bit of a situation here man. Uh, And
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  Speaker 1: it's basically a financial situation that I'm owed some money
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  Speaker 1: from her, So I kind of need to talk to
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  Speaker 1: her about about getting this money. Uh. Is totally disrupted
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  Speaker 1: my whole apartment and I need to actually see about
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  Speaker 1: talking to her about getting this whole problem taking care
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  Speaker 1: of what what's the what's the situation? What's what's the
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  Speaker 1: what's going on? I mean, I'm basically right now, I'm
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  Speaker 1: twenty five hundred dollars in the rears due to due
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  Speaker 1: to Chanie and and I, you know, I need to
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  Speaker 1: see if she's gonna be able to pay me for
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  Speaker 1: this situation or what, you know, owe you money? She
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  Speaker 1: owes me twenty five hundred dollars, twenty five hundred dollars
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  Speaker 1: for what. I don't even know who you are, first
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  Speaker 1: of all, So what's up with the twenty five hundred dollars?
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  Speaker 1: A man? First of all, my name is Brandon, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and I've been I know, I've been knowing Rani's probably
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  Speaker 1: for the last three or four months now, okay, So
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  Speaker 1: here you want to know it all in a nutshell?
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  Speaker 1: Is it's like this, Sharni's been coming through okay for
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  Speaker 1: the last three or four months, been coming over here
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  Speaker 1: to my spot, to my apartment, hanging out. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: now finding out within the last two weeks. It's I
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  Speaker 1: had to get rid of my couch. I had to
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  Speaker 1: get rid of my mattresses because mattress because it's been stress.
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  Speaker 1: Do it. Wait a minute, so you're trying to tell
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  Speaker 1: me she was in your bed? Yeah, she's been in
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  Speaker 1: my bed, dude, she's been in your bed? Are you crazy?
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  Speaker 1: You know where problem is? Twenty dollars you told my
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  Speaker 1: girl was in your bed. Now we're not even gonna
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  Speaker 1: get into that. You understand what I'm saying, But that's
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  Speaker 1: twenty five hundred. You can forget about it. No, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: a print of all. You're calling here, you calling here,
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  Speaker 1: you calling here, and here the dude answer the phone,
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  Speaker 1: and you still got to to ask for her. And
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna tell me about some twenty five hundred dollars
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  Speaker 1: about some mattress. Dude, I'm my my mattresses man on
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  Speaker 1: a thousand bucks full of bad bucks. I had to
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  Speaker 1: throw that away man, about to worry about No damn
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  Speaker 1: mattress dude. You talking about my girl. We've been together
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  Speaker 1: for four years. I'm about to pop the question on her,
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  Speaker 1: and you want to sit there talking about she'd been
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  Speaker 1: hanging with you or take it with you for the
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  Speaker 1: last four months. It's about to be over in a
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  Speaker 1: miny now. If you want to marriage Sinise cool, I
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  Speaker 1: don't care nothing about don't even worry about that now.
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  Speaker 1: But jell talking about some dead mattress man. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: a problem. Dude. Ain't wonder if I'm no damn mattress.
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  Speaker 1: I don't wonder if I ain't got no mattress right
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  Speaker 1: now my house? You calling mine, Dude, I do not
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  Speaker 1: call on mattress right now, nor do I have a couch.
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  Speaker 1: Do you understand? No, I'm can about the mattress cows, Dude,
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  Speaker 1: I don't care nothing about that. Your name you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: name Brandon, I'm Brandon, yes here Brandon. Okay, don't worry
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  Speaker 1: about it right because you're gonna find need real food.
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  Speaker 1: Don't let me find you before you find me, or
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  Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying, don't you do? Dud? Dude, No,
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  Speaker 1: you have you can have them good bugs and that
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  Speaker 1: mattress or whatever. Answering these fall I tell. But what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying is you talk about some bit buz and
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  Speaker 1: the bent bugs over here? Okay, So what should you
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  Speaker 1: see the problem over here in my place? I don't
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  Speaker 1: can't out about to see him bring nothing over there?
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  Speaker 1: First of all, but I ain't even even a problem
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  Speaker 1: right now. You need you've been over here, man, I
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  Speaker 1: had nobody else over here. The one about who you
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  Speaker 1: hand over there? But you're gonna call You're talking about
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  Speaker 1: no money. You ain't getting nothing from here. Okay, first
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  Speaker 1: of all, due check this out. I don't have a
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  Speaker 1: problem with you. Okay, Me and you cool? You cool? Problem,
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  Speaker 1: We already got out a problem. You're calling me talking
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  Speaker 1: about super sleeper one my brother. Hey, dog, duge, the one.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it again. Me and you cool dog,
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  Speaker 1: we cool. We're not cool. We're not cool, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: at w I don't handle Snise myself. I'm I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: handing you later. What you're doing, what you're talking about you,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna handle me. I'm might hand on you later.
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  Speaker 1: You want a mattress right hey? Hey, do dude want
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  Speaker 1: the mastress? Right head? And marriage Shenise, I ain't got
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  Speaker 1: nothing to do with that. My wife about my money
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  Speaker 1: back man, for the proper of mine that she has ruined. Man,
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  Speaker 1: don't worry about that. I'm gonna get you a mattress.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry about that. It's gonna be a casket wrapped
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  Speaker 1: around that. So they doe. Dude, why are you sitting
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  Speaker 1: here creating the trauma with me when me, me and
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  Speaker 1: you we ain't even the problem. The problem is, Shanie.
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  Speaker 1: The problem is you picked up your phone and you
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  Speaker 1: call here. That's the problem you will do because you
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no couch, you ain't got no mattress. Now
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do that. Bec you understand what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I see. I can't talk to you
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  Speaker 1: when do shanis get home? Man, don't worry if I
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  Speaker 1: when Shanie get home. What you need to worry I
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  Speaker 1: about was when I find you. Okay, So so when
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  Speaker 1: I when you're gonna have my money, then when you
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  Speaker 1: find me because I need my money day, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: have you your mattress too. Please understand you're gonna be
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  Speaker 1: resting real way, okay, okay, So so let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you this here. Man, Shani's bringing bad bugs over to
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  Speaker 1: my house. Leave them all in my mattress, leave them
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  Speaker 1: all over my couch. Where I gotta throw my stuff away?
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: Where I'm wrong a man? Where I'm wrong? I'm gonna
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: ask you straight up, did you know she had a man? Say?
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  Speaker 1: What you know she had a man? I mean kind
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  Speaker 1: of kind of sort of, but not really though you
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  Speaker 1: know it's kind of saught the man. Even you know
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  Speaker 1: she got a man? Know she don't got a man.
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  Speaker 1: You knew she had a man, right, and you still win?
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  Speaker 1: D Right, I ain't got nothing to do with y'all. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm dealing with these bad bucks. You understand I'm saying. Dude,
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  Speaker 1: do you understand you messing up a full year relationship?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm a time I put in with this woman.
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  Speaker 1: Four years. We're about to get we's about to get married,
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  Speaker 1: and you calling here with this. What are y'all supposed
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  Speaker 1: to get married? Don't worry about what we're supposed to
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  Speaker 1: get married, man, you messed that all up. What I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to explain you is, dude, you calling here on
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: some big bug, which I know she ain't got nothing
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  Speaker 1: to do with. But the fact that you told me
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  Speaker 1: that she was over your house and your bad that's over.
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  Speaker 1: It's over now, you understand what I'm saying. Now, Well,
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  Speaker 1: she get home. I'm gonna deal with that. You understand
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's gonna get done with. I'm walking
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  Speaker 1: up out of here. But when I leave here, please
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  Speaker 1: believe my next stops to come. Fine. Your first of all,
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  Speaker 1: how did you get the number to this apartment? That's
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: what I want to know. They do. She gave me
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  Speaker 1: both numbers, the cell phone number in the house and
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  Speaker 1: number on me. You know, if it's an emergency, call
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  Speaker 1: the house. Okay, and this is an emergency. Yeah, that's
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: an emergency. I got learn another emergency number, learning nine
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  Speaker 1: If you come out on you handle it or you
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  Speaker 1: tell you. Hey, man, do you think Tommy will pay
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: for the bad bugs? Who is Tommy? I'm just saying,
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: do you think Tommy will pay for the bad but who?
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  Speaker 1: It's Tommy? Tommy dog nephew Tommy From the Steve Harvey
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• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is asked to cel with the
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  Speaker 1: your love questions. Right after this you're listening to coming
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. In Trending Entertainment News,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: Beyonce is at the center of attention yet again, and
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: this time R and B singer Tank claps back at
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: a bishop who criticized her song Church Girl. Now we'll
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: talk about that and other entertainment news. A deputy shockingly
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: testified during the Vanessa Bryant trial against the City of
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Los Angeles that said he doesn't regret taking pictures of
• 21:31
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• 21:35
  Speaker 1: all of these stories at the top of the hour,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: but right now it is time to ask the CLO
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in Build Yeah, friend in
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: Jersey writes, my ex makes co parenting hard because he's
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: dating the woman that he cheated on me with. Our
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: fourteen year old daughter is upset because the woman is
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: moving in with her dad and she doesn't want to
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  Speaker 1: go see him anymore. How do I explain to her
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  Speaker 1: that it's fine when it's not fine and I'm very
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: upset with him. Well, you know, she's fourteen. It's hard
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  Speaker 1: to make her feel something that she doesn't feel because
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  Speaker 1: she's she knows. See. First of all, you all shared
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  Speaker 1: too much information with the child, because the child should
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  Speaker 1: not know that her father cheated with this woman. But
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: this is what happens when you when you allowed your
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  Speaker 1: kids to overhear and participate in conversations about grown folk business.
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  Speaker 1: So not a young girl. She got some information that
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: she don't really have the band with the handle, So
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: now you really want to help her, But then you
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: support her feelings too. You see what I'm saying. Because
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: you you allied your children against the father. You do
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  Speaker 1: understand that, right, So now I can't help you. He cheated, Shirley, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it's nothing the man did is right. Right,
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  Speaker 1: the fact that the young girl at fourteen has that
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  Speaker 1: information and who gave her the information the mother. I
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  Speaker 1: promise you that daddy didn't go over there and say, look,
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  Speaker 1: this is the chick that I cheated on your mama with.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Now she has the girl on her side. Now you
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: gotta deal with that. Well, he still cheated, that's my point.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Moving on, this is up. He cheated. I got that,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: But she has a problem with the daughter now because
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: she shared the information with the daughter. The daughter she
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: did not even know who this woman is. She should
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: just say that, but shelly, no, the author daughter should think,
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  Speaker 1: is this is the lady that my dad is moving
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  Speaker 1: on with. But she now knows this is the lady
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  Speaker 1: my daddy's moving on with, who cheated on my mother.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: That's what asked the clo said the lady her mom
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: and dad aren't together anymore, and she's mad about it,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: this other woman. And because she don't like the other woman,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: because that's the woman that cheated on her, because her
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: mama told her dad. It don't matter, Joanne and Tampa says,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: I'm a nurse and I work work over nights and
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: when I get home in the morning, I'm ready for sex.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: He says he's not a morning person, but he used
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: to be. I don't like that he switched up and
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I need to know what's up with him. We haven't
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  Speaker 1: had sex and close to a month. Is it common
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: for men to not want morning sex? It's you this
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: man's It's uncomm for a man not to want sex
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  Speaker 1: for a month. I don't care what time of the
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  Speaker 1: day it is. It don't matter. Mm hmm. I've been
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  Speaker 1: at the barbecue wanting ask your location quick by the grill.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just talking about I don't understand he don't want
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  Speaker 1: it in the morning, Well, when do you want it?
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out when you don't want it, right,
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  Speaker 1: that's her point. Yeah, I'm trying to figure out when
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  Speaker 1: it is you don't want it. So it may have
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  Speaker 1: something to do with you, ma'am, Like what like maybe
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  Speaker 1: the technique or something. You know, he used to be
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  Speaker 1: a morning person. Maybe it's the technique. Maybe it's the approach.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's the threat, you know, threat, What do you mean?
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: It can be that way sometime. So you just gonna
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  Speaker 1: go to work without tightening me up. Okay, Sorry, I
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  Speaker 1: just wanted to go to one. Yeah. I don't see
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  Speaker 1: how this is her fault, but anyway, I didn't say
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  Speaker 1: it was her fault. Shirley, Wait a minute, hold up,
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  Speaker 1: this segment is called the clo I know this ain't
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  Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter. Your opinion up? What you quit? A
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  Speaker 1: quick checking my answer? You know what you're gonna do?
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  Speaker 1: You know what you're fitting to do? Is you fitting
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  Speaker 1: to participate in the show as a Christian? And you're
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: gonna be a better Christian on this show. I'm just
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: saying how I didn't say it was her fault. I'm
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: trying to get into it could be her approach. It's
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: just something to think about. I can't fix him because hey,
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  Speaker 1: or he ain't listening. But she wrote the letter. I'm
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: trying to help her. I'll not keep doing this with you,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: looking on to Daniel and Charlotte. You I had to
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: move out of Tania, okay. Tanya says, I went to
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  Speaker 1: brunch this weekend with my crew and I slipped in fell,
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  Speaker 1: spraining my ankle. My husband picked me up and was
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: irritated because I didn't have on any panties. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: want penny lines in my dress, so I didn't wear
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  Speaker 1: any How can he be more concerned about my panties
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: instead of my sprained ankle. There ain't never been a
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: problem of mine. I care if you have withdrawals or not.
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  Speaker 1: I'll clap for you. Give my baby back standing old, Babho,
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  Speaker 1: she walked out of you. Where was they aout any pennies?
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  Speaker 1: Old went to brunch? Give my baby by standing old
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  Speaker 1: she walked out of you without any pennies. Ow, we're
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  Speaker 1: moving on, Missy and Michigan says, I'm dating a forty
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  Speaker 1: five year old man that uses a lot of body
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  Speaker 1: sprays and cologne's. I don't like hugging on him because
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  Speaker 1: I smell like him. All day. Where are men supposed
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: to wear cologne on their body? Where are men supposed
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: to wear cologne on their body? How do I convince
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: him to allow just to apply just a little bit
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: of it? Well, he needs coaching at this point. He
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: needs coaching. You know. He watches the acts commercials and
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: he spreading it on him like a teenager, thinking it's
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: gonna have women more attracted to him. He's basically on.
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  Speaker 1: His smelling name is acute as a woman. So he
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: putting it on to he can smell it, and he
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: got too much on. You can sit him down and say, hey, baby,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: you need to pull back on the cologne. Let me
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: show you how to put it on now he said,
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: I can't smell it. Well, it's for other people to
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: smell stupid. I mean, have you spread entertainment news? Thank
• 29:17
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• 29:25
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• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Beyonce is at the center of attention again. Yeah yeah,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: well we all know. Uh, I don't know. Have you
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: seen pastor? His name is Bishop pat Trick Wooten. He's
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: condemning her song, church Girl. Take a listen, Beyonce, just
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: release sacrilege. The only thing I can account for some
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  Speaker 1: of this stuff is somebody has sold their soul to
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  Speaker 1: the devil. Now, all I can said to you this,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: when you say your soul to the devil, you get
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: the short end of the stick. Because you would You're
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: not gonna live but so long. And when you leave
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: here where you're going, you're going to be that fever.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: So it's not it's not it's not a good deal.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: I don't care what it gives you. But this piece
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: of shrash, yes, sir, that's release. And she named it
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: church girl? Would she? Oh? Like his voice? Though? I
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: can I say something. Yes, I've seen him as a
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  Speaker 1: pastor before. Really really good guy, really really great pastor.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: I've noticed a trend coming from the pool pit a
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  Speaker 1: lot lately, whether our pastors who are using all celebrities
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: as examples. Now and it's a growing trend and it's
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: disturbing to me because what is your messaging. And I've
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: listened to the lyrics to the song. I pulled them
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: all up and read them. Pastors, it's a miss. I
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: think it's a misassessment of what it is. I don't
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: think Beyonce sold her soul to the devil at all. No,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: not at all, not Beyonce. I think what happened is
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: he doesn't like the fact that she called the church girl.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: All the people in the church are sinners, all of them. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Shed To wrote her song about this church girl that's
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: out there at the club, dropping it like us Hot
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  Speaker 1: and Steven. It's on top of a Clark's Sister song
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: Center of Thy Will by the Clark's Sisters and Twinkie.
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  Speaker 1: Clark thanked Beyonce for listening to her music and she
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: said it hoped that it blesses her soul. Here you
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: will it will. And then Tank, you know who also
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: grew up in church. R and B singer Tank clapped
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: back at the bishop saying, who are you, pastor to
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: question the salvation of Beyonce? He said, who gives you
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: the authority and that right to question what she believes
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: in her heart because of a song on top of
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: a Clark's Sisters record. So see. And and that's another
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: thing too that's disturbing when pastors used these examples. Geno Jennings.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: Pastor Geno Jennings is like the top of the list guy.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know him personally, don't know anything about him.
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  Speaker 1: It's just every time I catch a clip of him,
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: he's dogging some celebrity, some famous person. I don't know
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: if it's for eyeballs or anything. But to this pastor
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: that jumped on Beyonce, if if these lyrics have you
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: upset and you're called in this sacrilege, you must have
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: missed the other menas and other artists. I I don't
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: know if you ain't been listening over the past twenty years,
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: but they got some stuff out here. Boy, church girl
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: ain't nothing. I'm gonna tell you right now. Church girl
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: ain't nothing. Wow. And let's let's be clear about this though. Uh,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: just so we set the record strate that deacon in
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: the background ain't got nothing on your deacon. Okay, I'm
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: just letting you know he ain't. He ain't got nothing
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: on deaf jam motime. I heard that deacon in the background.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: He's amens and all that he ain't got nothing on
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  Speaker 1: to talk about. Beyond says, come on here now, new record.
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  Speaker 1: That's right, church good. I want to say I am
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  Speaker 1: in total support or sister beyond. Yeah, I know her
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  Speaker 1: mama and her daddy personally fine folks. Brain to beat
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  Speaker 1: in and won't you agree with me? Deacon? I agree
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: whole heart? See or church girl, it's just lyrics. Let
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: me see here. I had it a moment ago. I
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: lost it. Oh, I lost it, But what can you
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: find it? I'm trying now. I'm warning everybody. As soon
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: as I get in this party, I'm gonna let go
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: or this body, I'm gonna love on me. Nobody can
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: judge me but me. I was born free. Finally, or
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: the chorus comes in and saying, drop it like a thought,
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: drop it like a thought. I saw no pop in,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: lock thought it popping. Locker thought it you bad? Or
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: were saying no dropping? Locker thought it dropping? Locker thought
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: it you bad? Church girl acting loose? Bad girls? Actor?
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  Speaker 1: Snota I said, snotting Proppert Locker thought because I'm a
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  Speaker 1: hearted I want to say, if you're a church girl,
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  Speaker 1: come in. You got it like that? Keep it like that?
• 35:53
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• 35:59
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  Speaker 1: you yeah, I don't know, how did you pick Tammy Roman?
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  Speaker 1: Was that a decision of the network. Did you come
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: up with it? Because because it seems like such a
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: perfect fit for the show. You know, the the co
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: creator when I when I got with him and we
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: wrote the pilot behind Fox Back and gave it to
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: him and he just pulled out. He said, I know
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: who the daddy is and I know who the suos.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: And I looked at Tammy Roman on her Bunney cronnies
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: and I was like, this girl crazy. I don't want her.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: I had no idea. She was a reality star, unchilled,
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: she did shit and I was like, no, reality stars
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: can't act, and he's like, she can act, and let
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: me tell you something. I did not want her. I
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: told this story a hundred times when I tell you
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: she came in and tucked that role. She tucked that role,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: and it's history. We got were like Luci and Elsa, Yeah,
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: you are good, very good together. When you're doing the show,
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: miss pat, what do you want people? What do you
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: want to take away to be? I mean, you know,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I don't have to be nothing, no viviting or anything.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: But when the person watches your show, what what do
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: you want them to to have or take away when
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: they watch it? You know, it's My show is a
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: lot about healing. It's every episode is something that I
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: went through. Like this season was all healing. It was
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: like chime molestation. It was about role versus way abortion
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: that I had back when I was young. It's about family,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: So I want them to take away no matter what
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: you've been through in your life, you can laugh about it.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: When you can laugh about it, you got control of it.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: That's why I put my life out there on display.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: I'm not the only person I've been molested. I did
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: a whole whole episode on molestation black hair, how my
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: mama told me bid nappy head and I was ugly.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: The trauma a little black girl started early. I never
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: called my daughter hair because my mom always told me
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: my hair was nappy. So I took my daughter to
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: the beauty part and immediately primed her half because of
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: what I was talking. So I want people to take
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: away healing. It's okay to put your darkest things out
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: there and talk about it. Wow. Very nice. Yeah, what
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: a little cursing now we talk see this? Try I
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: don't see see. I've never seen this in a sitcom before,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: especially Beet. I know I wasn't gonna see it on Fox,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: and Fox was a little more daring than everybody else
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: over the years, but never to that extent. I would
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: love to do a project like that itself. Um, what
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: you want to cuss on family to you, what are
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: you trying to call me? Steve? I got some? My deal,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: just call me that got some. You know that's my
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: vocabulary custom right now. My husband hate to hear me
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: say to Pete words, he says, I'm making this custom. Hey, hey,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: if we got two season two coming up, Miss Pat?
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: What can we expect on season two? Oh? Like I said,
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: black hair from a less station, to my family getting
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: wrong everything, that's what true to me. That by me
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: living in this all white neighborhood and all the trauma
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: that I went through. It's a it's a heavy it's
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: a heavy season, but it's a funny season. It's a
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: funny I guarantee you that. And if you don't believe me,
• 43:54
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• 43:57
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  Speaker 1: is funny and above all else, her ass is ignorant
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: and that I appreciate more than anything. I appreciate that
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: y'all give it up for the Miss Pat. Miss Pratt,
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: You're listening show coming up at the top of the hour.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: today and the subject is get this guy's he's never
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: ever pleased ever No U. We'll find out what that's
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: all about in just a minute, but right now the
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What you
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: got for us? Now? I don't know yet. I'm trying
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: to go through my archives here, Sharlene and something. Uh
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: that old school roller decks, aren't you? Yeah? Yeah, that's
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: that's all my stuff written day to day. Ain't nothing online, nothing, junior, Right,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: this is all filed. This is like library. Yeah, these
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: pranks are a file. You know what I'm saying. This
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: is when you when you go to the what's that
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: thing you used to go to in the library in
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: the Oh my god, what is that call? Yeah? Called catalog? Yeah,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: pull it up and it's a screen. That first time
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: we was really looking at a screen right there. That's
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: that right there. But anyway, it's those kind of our caives. Okay, yes, okay,
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: it's those kind of our caves. But anyway, this is
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: right here is church parking lot, Church parking lot. I'm
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: looking at the right here in the files Church parking lot. Okay,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: it's written in pencil with a number two pencils church boxes.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: They were represents from Trump. Understand he got a plank
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: in here? What is he doing with a prank in now?
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Church parking lot? Let's go cat down. H yeah, Brendan, Hey,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach you. How you doing, uh, Brita.
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I don't want to make sure I got the right person.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: You're the person that uh you work at the at
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: the first of all, I go to uh, my name,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: my name, Calvin Brother, Calvin Brother. I go to Saint
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: Missionary Baptist Church where you yeah, so yeah, so everything,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: everything's fine. Well, I got a little issue and I'm
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: trying to get to the bottom of it. Now. You
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: work in the full service. Start, you work in the
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: parking lot one and you tell people where the park
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: and stuff right right right? Were you looking for some employment?
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: You want to you want to join us? Nah? Nah? Nah?
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: To see the issue I got, Man, I've been dealing
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: with this probably about the last two months. Nine. Okay,
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: hold on, I'm trying to take So the problem is
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: when I come to the church. Last couple of months, man,
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: I've been I've been coming like my my my my
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: regular card and broke down on me. So I had
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: I got an old van that I've been about that. Yeah, yeah,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: you know, I got an old van and I've been
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: using to get around in so Nah, for the last
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: two months, I've been riding in it when I come
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: to the church. You know you and I find out
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: who you were. But you keep sending me to the
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: back of the parking lot. And then but you know
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I noticed now nah, bro no on the reel, so
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: you're sending me to the back, and I'm noticing when
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: I see cars as like two thousand and ten, two
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: thousand and fifteen cars. We'll listen. We don't have new
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: uh set place where we're putt car. You know, I
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: just I just direct the traffic. Brother, Okay, So so
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: you're trying to tell me for the last two months
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: you just direct traffic, but you got but you directed
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: me to the back every time. But a car behind
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: me or car in front of me, he'll be going
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: to the front. NA. Where you getting this information from me?
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: I just I didn't seen you man or send people
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: to the front to park. I haven't seen you do no. No,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I just I just put you know, the bigger vehicles
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: in the in the back. And uh certain you know
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: it's really no sketter. If if you come in, I
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: just I just direct you to the right the left.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: It's really nothing to it. Really, so you're not trying
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: to say so. So my my band being a raggedy
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: ain't the reason why I'm being No bro, no bro, no, no, no,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: I no, that's not what we're about. Na, Okay, I'm
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: sorry you feel that way. I mean, so, I guess
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: this Sunday. Let me me. I'm gonna tell you about
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: this Sunday. Make no, no, let me tell you right
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: now when my van pull up there Sunday. I'm gonna
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: tell you right now, if I get sent to the back,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna be gonna no,
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem if I get sent to
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: the back. Now, you don't have to cust to. Just
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: just calm down. It's it's not it's not that serious. No,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: it is that serious, because see what's I don't know.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: I know I got a ragged ass band. I know that.
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: I know that, but I see that's the reason why
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: I'm getting sent to the back. And I know it
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: because the car I had before y'all were sending me
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: up front, so already. No, I'm just saying. I'm telling
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now, it's
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: gonna be a problem if I get sent to the back. Brother.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: You just singled me out. And no, no, you know
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: I didn't single you out. You You are the person
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: that has been sending me to the back, dude, No, No,
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: I haven't. Hey, man, why are you keep Why why
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: are you sending why? Why are you accusing me? I
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: ain't got because I hadn't seen it. No you are.
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: You're calling me. You're calling me out of the blue,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: and you're accused me of something that I'm not doing. No, no,
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: you just sent my ragged ass vand to the back.
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: You didn't done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: you have done it, heaven, Yes you know I haven't. Yes,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: you haven't. You send all the pretty cards up front,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: that's what you're doing. But I tell you what comes
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: suddenly gonna be a problem. Now you're threatening me. I
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: mean now, now, listen, we can meet up at it.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: We can meet up at it before any cards get there.
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: How about that I don't care how you want to
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: do it. Brendan, you actually do know how you want
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: to do it, So bring it then. Okay, I'm letting
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: you know my card. Yeah, my van gonna be front
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: comes give give ban. It's me and you. How about
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: that you want you want? You want to talk tough
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: tony stuff? Oh oh okay, so you are. You're sweating
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: all up now you're all right, so so good down
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: like you already did. So I guess I'm matching you. Okay, well,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: no problem, I'm listen brother, Brother, listen, You're not gonna
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: call my phone and threaten me and tell me what
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: you what you think I did when I didn't do it.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: I've told you, man, you've been sending me to the
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: damn back man as we passed what you thought. Okay,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: what it is? No, it's what I know. It's what
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I know, Brendan, it's what I know. Okay, you didn't
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: you didn't see it with you at right now? Okay,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: well you know you know where you got working. You
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: know what. I'll tell you what you now come Sunday.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: That's your dam brand No no, no, no, no, no,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: nobo what you're doing right now what you mean when
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: I'm doing right now. I'm at work right now. Oh
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: oh so you at work calling me about some bulls
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: parking spot? Oh okay, oh look at the custom Christian.
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: Now look at you. No, look at the custom you no, no, no,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: matter of fact you Okay, if you want to do something,
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: let's do it now, parking lot. I don't, I don't care.
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: We'll be at okay. Okay. That's one thing you're not
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: gonna do is disrespect me. I'm telling you that right now. Brother, Calvin,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: you bring you, I am gonna fold you like a
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: wet piece of paper. You don't know who you're fucking with. Okay,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: I hadn't been locked up six seven years. I'm just
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: in the check try and get my life together. And
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: you think you're just gonna talk to me. You got
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: another thing coming, brother, I'm gonna tell you that right now.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: So if you want to get it off, meet me
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: in the parking lot right now. I give you an
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: hour to get there your piece of tonight. Now you're
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: trying to scare me with your with your background, I
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: tell you what it is. You're trying to scare me
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: with your background or something like ever then you. I
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: ain't know you have been in jail. Who's the wrong woman.
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say this. Do you know Lester that
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: that also he also had the cards parking Would you
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: try to buy buy yourself out of this? Now you're
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: talking about I know a Lester. Okay, okay, Leicester, he's
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: the person to tell me to call you. This is
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey More. Brenda, your boy
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: Leicester in the parking lot got me the Frank Cary.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: I brought the lockdown out of you. Man that I
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: bring the lockdown out of there. Strangle Lester. Y'all got
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: me out here to talk directless. I should who passed
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: overhead this by hanging there, brother, and then do this
• 52:53
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• 52:58
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• 53:03
  Speaker 1: Sunday pull up in a van, show him some love, baby,
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: show him some love. I might have to call out
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: this week, but my heart take you. I think I
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: did that thing right now. You know what I'm saying.
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: You know, I preach to say they preached that thing
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: this morning. I pranked that thing this morning. You hear
• 53:20
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• 53:24
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• 53:30
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• 53:33
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• 53:40
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• 53:42
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  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject He's never ever pleased.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty four years old and I
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: own a hair salon in a strip mall. I've been
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: hanging out with a thirty eight year old dentist who
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: works directly above my salon. I need your advice on
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: how to deal with him. He is never ever pleased
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: with anything, and the first time we met, he came
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: down to my salon and told me to turn my
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: music down. I told him to relax, and he got mad.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: A few days after that, he came back down and
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: asked if he could get ado over. He told me
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: he was very accomplished and listed all the things he
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: owned and said he is single because he knows what
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: he likes and won't settle for less. I was intrigued
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: and asked him to go see a movie with me.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: He was displeased with the theater and he said the
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: popcorn was burnt. I wore a sun dress and sneakers,
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: and he said he prefers that women wear their toes out.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: He picked me up and he commented that I live
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: in a transitioning neighborhood, which to me meant that I
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: live in a ghetto. I told him I would let
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: us comment and slide so we would not argue. We
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: still hang out, and he's always complaining. He tells me
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: what I should do with my hair or what I
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: should wear when we're hanging out. But the most irritating
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: thing about him is the sex. Don't get me wrong,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: He's really good in bed, but he told me that
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: I fall short of pleasing him the way he is
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: used to getting pleased. I do my best, but he
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: critiques every sexual encounter we have and tells me what
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: I need to work on. I have never been told
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: that I can't please a man. I love a challenge,
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: but I feel like this is his way of controlling me.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: Will I ever be able to please him? Probably not?
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: But who cares? Are you kidding me right now? Just
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: you know this guy, it only matters what you think
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: of you okay, And most importantly, you still have to
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: be yourself. You still have to love yourself. I do
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: agree with you. I think he is control. His words
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: are just full of put downs. You don't need to
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: be controlled. You need to be appreciated and respected, And
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: according to you, he only criticizes and complaints to you
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: and about you. I don't like this guy. I don't
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: like him for you, and I hate the fact that
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: you think you need to please him. You don't. You
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: obviously have things going on for yourself. You must be attractive,
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: or he wouldn't have gone out of his way to
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: go out with you in the first place. Remember he
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: came back down there and asked you for a do over.
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: I think you're smart. You have to be smart. You're
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: a business owner. You must have to have somewhat of
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: a personality because in your business you do have to
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: deal with the crazy public, you know, So don't let
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: this guy keep putting you down, treating you this way.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: I mean, who does he think he is? Just because he's,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: in his words, a very accomplished dentist, that doesn't mean
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: that he knows how to deal with women. I think
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: a real man in this case, a gentleman who cares
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: about you, would be trying to get to know you,
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: would be supportive of you. This guy, I don't think
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: he's worth your time. I mean, you may like him,
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: but can you imagine being in a relationship or a
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: marriage with him. He's he's not gonna change. Okay. He
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: is who he is because he doesn't think anything is
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: wrong with how he is. And so that's where you,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: I think, should tell him what you're telling us in
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: this letter. You know about how he criticizes you and
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: all that. He's not gonna like it. He's not gonna
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: expect this from you because you haven't been letting him
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: know how you feel, and you've been letting him get
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: away with this. But only you can stop him. So
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: you know, until you do that, I say, don't go
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: any further with him. Steve, Wow, you know I thought
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: this letter wasn't going here, and then the letter with there,
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: and then the letter turned back around. He's never ever pleased.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: I think that's the key to this whole thing. This
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: thirty four year old woman that owns his hair salon
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: in a strip mall. You've been hanging out with a
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: thirty eight year old dentist who works directly above your salon,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: and now she needs our advice on how to deal
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: with him. And she says, point blank, he has never
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: ever pleased with anything. And the first time we met,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: he came down to the salon and told me to
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: turn my music down. I told him to relax. He
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: got mad. Then after that he came back downstairs and
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: asked if he could do a duover. See what happened
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: was he knew who you were. He went downstairs to complain.
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: That was just the move to come downstairs. But I
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: can understand because you got a dentist office upstairs. But
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: you handled it perfectly. You told him, hey, look just relax,
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: it's no problem. I can turn it down. So you
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: did what he needed. And then after that he came
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: back and he found out he was wrong, so he said,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: let me do a due over now. When he was
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: down there, he was assessing he's a man. He looked around.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: He said, okay, she owns the salon. She fine, hold up,
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: I'm tripping. Let me start this over now. After that,
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: when we come back, I'm gonna show you what this
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: whole thing went wrong and how it's gonna stay wrong. Okay, okay,
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: all right, sounds good. All right, Steve, hang on. Part
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: two of your response is coming up at twenty three
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter. Subject He's never
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: ever pleased. We'll get back into it right after this.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject he's never ever pleased? Well thirty
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: four yeall hair salon owner. Obviously a nice looking woman. Attractive,
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: we'll well put together in terms of ownership. No, having
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: her life together and everything ownership. Thirty eight year old
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: dentist upstairs, she has the music up. He comes down
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: to complain to the music too lives. He tells them
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: to relax, chaves. He turns her music down. He felt
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: bad about it. After assessing her song, how fine she was.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: He bought his ass back down there and said, hey,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: can I get a do over my bad? I came
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: down here wroung. I ain't know he used on her
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: my bad. I thought it was the other. Yeah, And
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: so anyway he came back and so he told me
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: he was very accomplished, and listed all the things he owned,
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: and said he is single because he knows what he
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: likes and he won't settle for lesson. No, no, no, no, no, Doc.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: You're thirty eight year old dentist. You're single because there's
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: something wrong with you. You're single because you ain't found
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: nobody to tolerate you yet. Do you know how many
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: good women is looking for good men out here you?
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: And it ain't hard to find a good woman man.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: It's a bunch of them, and once they leave that
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: baggage at the back door, they can be real good.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: But now here you come because you say you single,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: because he knows what he likes and he won't settle
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: for less. This is a setup move. Lady. You were
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: intrigued and you asked him to go see a movie
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: with you. He was displeased with the theater. He said
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: the popcorn was burnt. Okay, so he's a whiner and complainer.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: I wore a sun dress and sneakers, and he said
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: he prefers to women where they toes out. I understand that.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: I'm there way too though. You got on a sun dress.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: I think you should have them toes out. I agree
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: with that one hundred percent, but I'm not gonna tell
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: that to a woman on the first date. We're gonna
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: work on round to that. But right now, I don't
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: have a right to tell you what I want because
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: you don't belong to me and I don't belong to you.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: So I can't tell this woman nothing. I got to
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: just deal with it. And he picked me up, and
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: he commented that you live in a transitioning neighborhood, which
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: to me meant that I live in together. Well, a
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: transitioning neighborhood. You know what that is, and so you
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: read it right, But that's where you live. So so
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: a lot of diamonds in the rub. I told him
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: I would let his comment slide so we would not argue.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: We still hang out, and he's always complaining. I just
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: told you he was a complainer. He tells me what
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: I should do with my hair or what I should
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: wear when we're hanging out. See, you're not telling us
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: that you all have already had sex, see this departure.
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: You're not telling us, lady. You keep saying when we
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: hanging out, but you're actually seeing him. And obviously he's
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: a controlling guy and he likes to, you know, implement
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: what he wanted at all times. It regardless us to
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: what you want, But the most irritating thing about him
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: is the sex. Here we now we find out this
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: hanging out is sex. Don't get me wrong, he's really
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: good in bed, but he told me that I fall
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: short and pleasing him the way he's used to getting pleased. Yeah,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: and let me tell you something. This ain't the first
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: time he'd said this. This is why he's single, because
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: everybody got to please him. I do my best. Okay, okay, okay,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: So you didn't been on debait his whole thing? You
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: remember up top, he says, because I know what I
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: like and I won't settle for less that intrigued. You
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: see what I mean? So now what a woman started
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: doing is trying to prove that. Like when a man
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: meets you and he tells you why he broke up
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: with his ex, he's trying to get that from you.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: She didn't do nothing for me, She didn't take care
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: of me, she didn't love me the way I need it.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Now here you go, well, I'm going to love you
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: the way you need to. It's a setup move so
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: he can keep getting what he wants. But you haven't
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: told us anything about what he's doing for you. Right,
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: He's done nothing for you. You just keep trying to
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: prove yourself as someone to be someone he likes and
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: that he don't have to settle no more. I do
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: my best, but he critiques every sexual encounter and he
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: tells me what I need to work on. I've never
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: been told that I can't please a man. I love
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: a challenge. Oh, now here you go. Now you fin
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: to prove him wrong. So now you find the sex
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: are or now you up in here doing some stuff?
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: You really you? You you above and beyond. But I
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: feel like this is the way of controlling me. Will
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: I ever be able to please him? All right, let's
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: answer this left. No, you will not be able to
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: please him ever, because you know why, because he's a manipulator,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: and men who are manipulators do things to manipulate. So,
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: simply put, he always has you trying to prove yourself
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: to him, when he, in turn, does nothing to prove
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: himself to you. He's selfish, he's controlling, he's self centered,
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: he's overbearing, he's arrogant. All his accomplishments and where you
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: live and all this here, y'all, he on top of
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: your stove, y'all in the same damn strip mall. If
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: you're making all that money, why your ass y'all stands
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: at the strip mall? You ain't even stole front? All right?
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: Thank you? Steve comments as today Stubert at Steve Harvey
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• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Why you at a strip mall? Why your ass ain't
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: in a medical build? Coming up at forty six minutes
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: after the hour at Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this,
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show. All right, here we are. It
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: is that time for Junior and Sports Talk. What you
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: got Junior? All right, Shirley, But first let me let
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: him know. Huntsville, Alabama. You ask fun me when here
• 1:07:05
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• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: There it is all right, uncan here we go. The
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: NBA is set to retire the number six to honor
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: Bill Russell. That mean no team, no team will have
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: the number six in honor of Bill Russell. H that
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: is that's a very huge accomplish before a brother who
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: meant a lot to the NBA. So congratulations to the
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: Russell family. Also, UNC, your boy Antonio Brown is back
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: in the news. God dog this boy Antonio Browse. Come on,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: come on, interested in playing for the Cowboys. Tell Jerry
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: Jones to call me. Not the way you left Tampa.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: He not. He didn't forgot this whole video. Yeah, I didn't.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: He didn't forgot all of this appen, not the way
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: you left there, not that the part of you throwing
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: the end zone, not the running around the stadium in
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: New York. Did a whole flipping end zone. I thought
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: I thought he was the president of don the Sports don't. Yeah,
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: he said it. Ain't tell Jerry Chelse to call me,
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: Jerry Jones to call you. Go. You feel to be
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: playing for one hundred and twelve thousand a year, ain't
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: no fight? Man, must one hundred and twelve thousand a year.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: Your ass gonna get paid per route? Random, Yeah, she
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: s per route. That mean in the season, your ass
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: gonna be moving blocking plays don't count. Also, man, my boy,
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: prime time, Man, what prime is funny to me? Man
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: Dan saying this man Dan said to say, the Hall
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: of Fame is enshrined it now, good players. Man, you
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: saw that. Man then said he want his bust of
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: himself to be put on a hot to being put
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: on a high plane. He don't want to be on
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: the same level as everybody because they're only in the shrine.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: Good players. Now, I don't know how they gonna do that,
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: But Prime won't hear is to be elevated because he's
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: a Hall of famer. He's not a good player. Don't
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: put me on the same level at the people coming in. Now,
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: that's what I know. Man and last man Brittany Grinder's
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: defensive team thousand appeal of conviction for nine years today
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: yesterday in court and Russia. Now here's an interesting thing
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: about that. They're pilling it. We knew they would. But
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: normal time giving for the crime that she committed for
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: other people is five years, with a third of them
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: getting parole. And she may be used as a political
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: pawn right now, yea, everybody that's getting five So what's see?
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: What else happening? All right, junior? Thank you. Coming up next,
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about Steve's recent golf trip. Right after this.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve. You know how much we
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: love to hear about your trip and you had a
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: golf trip to Florida because well, but you know, for
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: the first time, I went somewhere by myself. What huh,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: no security, what I ain't going no friends. I went
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: by myself, and I'm gonna do it more often because man, yourself,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: you like hanging out with I like me. Uh, you know,
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: I'm really a cool person. Man. Yeah, you know me
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: and me and me and me, we like the same thing, right,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: you know me and you know you don't argue with me. Yeah,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: you know, me and myself will't ever fall out. Myself.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: Elf usually like to do the same thing that I
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: like to do. You know, you know I was. I
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: was telling myself the other every morning where I wanted
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: to eat, and myself wanted to go to the same place.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: What you know, then, me, I told, I told myself,
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: I said myself. He said, yeah, me. I said, I'm
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: gonna have the guy bring me up just a bowl
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna eat CeAl this morning, myself said Cyril. Man,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: me too. I ain't had seal in a long time.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: So on the way back from Florida. You know, I
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: drove and I just I said, you know what I
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: want myself and myself said what me? And I said,
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: I want to stop at five house. So and I
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: stopped and I bought the meat ball and I bought
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: the fire engine. Y'all bought both of them so I
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: could make sure I did they taste right, one for
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: yourself and one for your meat. Yeah. Me had the
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: meatball and myself had the fire engine, and everyone's just
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: an incredible moment, man, I said. Man. And then so
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna invite ie h next time we go, because
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't take I just took me and myself. But
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take me, myself and Eye next time. And
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: because I was pissed off, I said them, they asked
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: me to go, and I said no, and me and
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: myself was just sitting over the aven good ass time
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: because I sometimes I think he the boss, you know,
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: And so we didn't want to take Eye ass with
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: us this time because I'd be out the pocket and
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: I had a third uh huh yeah, what what did
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: what did you guys talk about it? In the car
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: and the drive man, you know, we was watching Netflix.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: He drove No, I didn't drive. I was ride. Oh
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: I got a sprinter, so I was watching Netflix. Uh,
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: but it was a grueling ass drive back because my
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: AD wasn't working right in the back room. Ain't for you, Huh.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: I was back there rassling, tossing and turning like I
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: was in a bad dream. That so then I had, Oh, yeah,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: it's it's it's made. This last trip, ain't damn my ass.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna care after damn compressor come home or night.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: But I enjoyed myself. Man, I was a lone. Yeah, man,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't play one round the golf. No, no, man,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: I just took lessons. Oh, because it was a golf trip,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: you took lessons? Yeah, I just I gotta I gotta
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: change some things. Man, I don't play enough golf, he said,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: So what do you want to do? I said, I
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: want to change my golf swing? He said why? I said, Well,
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: here on the one I got ain't one for damn,
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: Why would I keep it? Why we keep fixing that one?
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: That one obviously not working. So give me another one
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: something I could do something with. And then you know,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: so that's it. It's hard to change your golf swing.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: You've been golfing as long as me and I've done
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: so many wrong things. Man. When this guy showed me
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: the way you really swing a golf club, I went,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: what really, dog, I said, do this, dude, I understand
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: the sport I'm trying to play. I never knew. So
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: now I have a lot of drills. I got to
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: get myself together. But you know, we'll see. I had
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: a great time though, man. I really enjoyed myself, and
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: I suggest to people, if you really want to have
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: a good time, just take me and myself with you.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: Don't take I me myself and I I I want this.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: I said that, then you have trouble. Just take me
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: and myself and y'all have a good time. All right, Steve,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: thank you. We'll have more show. Yeah, but don't take
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: idle at twenty minutes after you're listening. All right. We
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: don't hear these two often, but here we go. Here's
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: a bad mom story. A worker inside an Ohio convenience
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: store says she saw a six year old boy walk
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: into the store while drinking a bottle of a malt
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: liquor drink. She was shocked an ass a little boy
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: if he knew what he was drinking. He told her, Yep,
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: this is me and my mommy's favorite beer. We drink
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: it all the time. What, Junior, I should have had
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: you do that part? Man? Oh yeah, yep, this is
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: me and my mommy's favorite beer. We drink it all
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: the time. Say that, Junior. Yep, just me and my
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: mommy favorite beer. The worker. The worker then called the
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: police and told him to buy whatever he wants. He
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: picked out some candy. The little boy did a package
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: of doughnuts and toothpaste and a bottle of mouthwash. Now,
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  Speaker 1: when the police arrived, the mom told them it was
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  Speaker 1: all an accident and she was allowed to go home
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  Speaker 1: with the boy. Later, the police went to the home
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  Speaker 1: to check on the boy and found him riding a
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  Speaker 1: scooter while drinking another malt liquor drink. This time, the
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  Speaker 1: cops arrested the mother and charged her with child in
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  Speaker 1: endangering and contributing to the delinquency of a child. So good,
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  Speaker 1: they only sail malt liquor in two places, the hood
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  Speaker 1: and trailer parks. Okay, so give me your thoughts. What
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  Speaker 1: was this one? App This sound like ye trailer Paul?
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  Speaker 1: This guy trailer Park wrote on it all right, coming
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  Speaker 1: up with thirty three minutes after we'll play a round
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  Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this you're listening to guys,
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  Speaker 1: it is time now for a round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather if you were in this position, use
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  Speaker 1: a dating app? Or go on a blind date? Dating
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  Speaker 1: app or blind date? Let me do the day now,
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  Speaker 1: I at least see what I'm going to do now. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I go on the blind date of Drake picking him. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: uncle Steve, I got one for you. Okay, break I
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  Speaker 1: track that boy. Don't met Yeah, only if it's Drake
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  Speaker 1: that's setting up the blind date? Who? I don't know
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  Speaker 1: that out don't know Drake? What? I ain't never met him? Wow? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know that. You knew everybody? All right? Would
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  Speaker 1: you rather be happy, wealthy? Or healthy? Would you rather
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  Speaker 1: but healthy? Wealthy? Them? Free? Gotta pick one? Would you
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  Speaker 1: rather be one of one of these? If I'm wealthy,
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  Speaker 1: I'm healthy, I promise you. If you three, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: take that wealthy Steve. Now I'm gonna take healthy. Huh.
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  Speaker 1: I could work from there. I could work it from there. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't, man, Let me tell you something you're wealthy
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  Speaker 1: and you ain't and you ain't healthy. You you give
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  Speaker 1: all your money up to be healthy. Huh. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: go with this healthy. I'm gonna get a shot. Though
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  Speaker 1: it's wealthy as beyond rich. I'm gonna get out a shot.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't wealthy and unhealthy now, hell you're talking about
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  Speaker 1: I got to go with this wealthy going a good one?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather be on an airplane between
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  Speaker 1: two arguing paths and you're in that middle seat between
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  Speaker 1: two arguing path passengers, or would you rather sit next
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  Speaker 1: to a screaming baby. I'm gonna take that baby, because
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  Speaker 1: because at that middle seat something else I can't. I ain't.
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  Speaker 1: I'm one of them licks gonna hit me. I got
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  Speaker 1: to get this baby. They're just arguing. No see, but
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  Speaker 1: you're not gonna be agging cross meeting because all this
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  Speaker 1: fitting to stop. I'm gonna gonna take that screaming baby
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  Speaker 1: because all this go, all this agging over me gonna
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  Speaker 1: result in a fight, all right. Last one, would you
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  Speaker 1: rather have unlimited pizza for life or unlimited tacos for life? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: Unlimited pizza pizza? All right? That's today's brown meat and
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  Speaker 1: cheese be real coming up next, it's our last break
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  Speaker 1: of the day and at forty nine minutes after some
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  Speaker 1: closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right
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  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening here, we are guys, our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day. Before we get to your closing Steve,
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  Speaker 1: we want to say thank you so much to miss
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  Speaker 1: Pat from the Mispatch Show. Yeah, streaming right now. What
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  Speaker 1: a great guest and yeah she comes better than you.
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  Speaker 1: Can't pay for it too, no problem, congratulations. Hey listen,
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  Speaker 1: I have some closing remarks. After spending some time last
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  Speaker 1: week with myself, I came away with some great takeaways
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  Speaker 1: and it's a it's really really hard, I know, for
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  Speaker 1: the average person to take time today's self. It's really
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  Speaker 1: really hard for me because I have so many things
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  Speaker 1: attached to my life. I have such a huge life
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  Speaker 1: and I and I realized it, and I do realize
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  Speaker 1: it when I try to set this life down sometimes
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  Speaker 1: and just give it a rest. Everybody needs a rest,
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  Speaker 1: everybody needs a break, everybody needs some time today's self.
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  Speaker 1: But my team did the best they could without bothering
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  Speaker 1: me with stuff that was the day to day. They
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  Speaker 1: only text me if it was pressing and they had
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  Speaker 1: to have a response, and I'm the only one that
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  Speaker 1: can give them a response, so they played it. So
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't bombarded with a lot of stuff last week.
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  Speaker 1: I was still a lot of request was coming in,
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  Speaker 1: but not the usual amount. And even though what I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, I know it's difficult to do. It's difficult
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  Speaker 1: to just take some time for yourself, but it's imperative.
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  Speaker 1: And I discovered that I really have to do it more,
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  Speaker 1: and I really really have to discover that I have
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  Speaker 1: to just do more more things for me. I do
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  Speaker 1: so much, and a lot of women can relate to this,
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  Speaker 1: and a lot of men. You do so much for
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  Speaker 1: other people that you look up at the end of
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  Speaker 1: the day and you ain't done nothing for yourself. You
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  Speaker 1: take care to kids, you take care of the house,
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  Speaker 1: You take care of your man, You take care of
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  Speaker 1: your wife, You take care to kids. You go to work,
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  Speaker 1: you take care of bills. You come home, you take
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  Speaker 1: care of the yard. Something happening with the car, you
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: gotta go see about that. Something happening up at the school,
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: you gotta go see that. Then, if you got a child,
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  Speaker 1: it's got some extra curriculum activities. Now you gotta support
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  Speaker 1: that because that's your job, because your child can't get
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  Speaker 1: that unless you take them that. And it's just it
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  Speaker 1: gets to be a lot. But you can't forget about
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  Speaker 1: you because without you, this whole thing don't really work.
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  Speaker 1: So every now and then, I can't tell you how often,
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  Speaker 1: or I can't tell you how to make it happen,
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  Speaker 1: but you've got to take some time to get with
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  Speaker 1: just yourself. And you know what it does, like, it's
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: sort of refreshing me because you get to reintroduce yourself
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  Speaker 1: to yourself. You know, it's kind of good to get
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: to know yourself. Think your thoughts, respond the way you
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  Speaker 1: want to respond to respond, Sit where you want to sit,
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  Speaker 1: look out the window, look out at the water, look
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  Speaker 1: out at the park, look out in your backyard, and
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  Speaker 1: just have your own thoughts. That is such a cool
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  Speaker 1: thing to do. You don't spend a lot of time
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  Speaker 1: meditating and praying. You know, I finally took me a
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  Speaker 1: long time, but I just learned this a couple of
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  Speaker 1: years ago. The difference between meditation and prayer. Prayer is
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: talking to God. Prayer is talking to God, putting in
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 1: request of God, telling God about your gratitude, your thoughts,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: your dreams, your ambitions, your goals. It's saying thank you, prayers,
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  Speaker 1: talking to God. But meditating is different. Meditating is listening
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  Speaker 1: to God. Get yourself somewhere in the old place and
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  Speaker 1: be quiet and ask God and ask his spirit to
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  Speaker 1: just talk to you, to calm you, to give you peace,
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  Speaker 1: to keep you enclosed in the right mind, to just
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  Speaker 1: give you, to help you with your decisions, you know,
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  Speaker 1: to just sit there and listen to what He has
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  Speaker 1: to say. Bishop Kenneth Olmer out in Los Angeles taught
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  Speaker 1: me one of the most valuable lessons I've ever heard.
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  Speaker 1: You know how you have people come up to you
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  Speaker 1: and they may say God told me to tell you this,
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: or God told me to tell you that. You've ever
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  Speaker 1: heard people come up to you like that. I'm always
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  Speaker 1: literally when people come up to me and say, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad I met you, because God wanted me to
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  Speaker 1: tell you this. You know what he told me that
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  Speaker 1: rings true. I was asking, I said, man, how do
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  Speaker 1: you know it's God that's telling you something. Bishop Kenneth
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  Speaker 1: Olmer said, because God's voice has no sin in it.
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  Speaker 1: Because I've heard people say I'm gonna go down there
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  Speaker 1: and tell him. The Lord talk to me, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna go down there and tell them what's on my mind. God,
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  Speaker 1: they never told you to go down there and telling
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  Speaker 1: people off. God ain't never told you to go down
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  Speaker 1: there and show them who the boss is. God don't
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  Speaker 1: tell you to go down there and bust out no
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  Speaker 1: car window. God. God ain't told you to post something
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  Speaker 1: wrong about a person. God ain't never told you the
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  Speaker 1: secret revenge. God ain never told you to go down
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  Speaker 1: there and show nobody up, embarrass nobody. God's voice has
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  Speaker 1: no sin in it. So when people come up to
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  Speaker 1: you and they talk to you, and they saying that
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  Speaker 1: God told me to tell you this, you know, it's
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  Speaker 1: always interesting. Because I talk to God every day. I
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  Speaker 1: hardly ever miss a day. So when a person comes
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  Speaker 1: up to me and tell me what God told him,
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  Speaker 1: he didn't even tell me that I would be talking
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  Speaker 1: to you today. And now some people do have messages,
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: but a lot of them don't, So be conscious of it.
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  Speaker 1: Take some time out for yourself, don't forget to pray, meditate,
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  Speaker 1: spend some time alone, get to know yourself and remember
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  Speaker 1: something about prayer. Prayer works. So don't forget to pray,
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  Speaker 1: don't be ashamed to pray, and don't ever be too
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  Speaker 1: proud to pray, because prayer, prayer changes things. Okay, those
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  Speaker 1: are my closing remarks today. Hey, look, talk to God today, y'all.
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