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Things Black People Say, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Vacation Breakup, Crying 4 Food and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all?
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  Speaker 6: Come out your thing.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are
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  Speaker 2: listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One
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  Speaker 2: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show man.
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  Speaker 6: Oh man, oh man?
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  Speaker 2: How many times I got to say that before I
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  Speaker 2: get tired of it. I think it's gonna be a minute, folks.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta be real with you, because boy, that's Steve Harvey,
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  Speaker 2: got a radio show man. Clear indication of how God
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  Speaker 2: can do some unexpected, wonderful things for you, how he
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  Speaker 2: leads your life in directions that you never ever saw coming.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking with somebody the other day and they
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  Speaker 2: were talking about how man, they were young and they
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  Speaker 2: were doing things, and they never knew that the things
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  Speaker 2: that they were doing as a youngster would come and
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  Speaker 2: help help form who they were today as an adult.
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  Speaker 2: This guy is fifty years old. And you know the
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  Speaker 2: same thing for you. If you look back on your
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  Speaker 2: life and all of the things that you've done, it
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  Speaker 2: helped shape you into who you are now. This is
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  Speaker 2: provided now that you take the positive approach. Now when
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  Speaker 2: I say look back at your life and see what
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  Speaker 2: you've done, that doesn't mean dwell on the misfortunate moments,
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  Speaker 2: because the misfortunate moments were necessary.
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  Speaker 6: I know it.
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  Speaker 2: It's hard to see that when it's happening to you,
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  Speaker 2: but the unfortunate moments are necessary. You know, what really
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  Speaker 2: makes you appreciate summer vacation is winter work. What really
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  Speaker 2: makes you appreciate a walk on the beach is when
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  Speaker 2: it's cold.
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  Speaker 6: Is rain in our side.
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  Speaker 2: What really makes you appreciate when you're up, it's because
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  Speaker 2: you've been down. See if you were up all the time,
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  Speaker 2: just the nature of us as human beings, we would
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  Speaker 2: lose our appreciation for it because it becomes case arrah.
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  Speaker 6: Whatever it is, what it is, what it is.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just what you take it for granted, it becomes expected.
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  Speaker 2: But what happens in life is it has so many
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  Speaker 2: twisting turns, and then you learn how to deal with
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  Speaker 2: those twisting turns, which makes you now a more experienced person.
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  Speaker 2: And then when the sunny days come, man, you go, wow,
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  Speaker 2: it's really nice outside. You really want to appreciate how
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  Speaker 2: warm weather. Just stay in a bunch of cold weather
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  Speaker 2: all the time. You know what I'm saying. I'm just
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  Speaker 2: this is really simple and now allowing the analogies, but
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  Speaker 2: it helps you along the way. Now here's what I
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  Speaker 2: came to say today to everybody out there.
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  Speaker 6: And this has helped me in my life.
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  Speaker 2: I can't tell you what it's done for me, but
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  Speaker 2: a lot of people are struggling with moving forward with
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  Speaker 2: their future. Their future plans, their future goals, their future aspirations,
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  Speaker 2: their future hopes, their future dreams, just simply your future wants.
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  Speaker 6: A lot of people try.
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  Speaker 2: I have a hard time mapping out their future, even
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  Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do, what I'm gonna be, what I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna make, how I'm or go about it?
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  Speaker 6: What do I do next? I want to share something
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  Speaker 6: with you that I had.
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  Speaker 2: To come to terms with the quickest way to lose
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  Speaker 2: focus on your future is to keep focusing on your past.
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  Speaker 6: You know, It's like I said at the beginning.
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  Speaker 2: You know, when I say It's wonderful to look at
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  Speaker 2: your life and review it, because if you look at it,
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  Speaker 2: it'll tell you it really helped shape inform you today
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  Speaker 2: as the person you are now. If you look at
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  Speaker 2: it in a positive sense. But if you dwell in
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  Speaker 2: harp on the negative that's happened to you, then that
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  Speaker 2: keeps you from seeing the good in the incident. Every
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  Speaker 2: bad thing that's happened to you, that was a silver
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  Speaker 2: lining behind it.
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  Speaker 6: I know people who were on.
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  Speaker 2: Drugs who finally, man just got sent to prison for
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  Speaker 2: stealing because of their habit had sold dope. Well, he
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  Speaker 2: went to prison. He told me one time, he says Steve.
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  Speaker 2: He said, man, this is the best thing ever happened
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  Speaker 2: to me to save my life. Now, most people would think,
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  Speaker 2: how in the world is going to prison helpful for you?
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  Speaker 2: The brother said, it saved my life. First of all,
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  Speaker 2: it got me clean. He said, I've been clean for
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  Speaker 2: five years from sitting in here. That's for starters. I'm clean.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't stealing no more. I ain't putting myself in jeopardy,
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  Speaker 2: and I ain't jeopardizing nobody else.
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  Speaker 6: He said.
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  Speaker 2: Now, man, I done went to college. I done got
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  Speaker 2: a college degree. While I'm in here. Then he was
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  Speaker 2: released from prison, and the brother's life was completely turned around.
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  Speaker 2: He married, he got a family, he got a great job.
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  Speaker 2: He go to work every day. He's a productive citizen.
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  Speaker 6: I mean.
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  Speaker 2: So he looks back on his incarceration, even his drug abuse,
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  Speaker 2: and it taught him how to appreciate the things in
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  Speaker 2: life he had taken for granted and was missing because
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  Speaker 2: he said, man, my life was just in a blur.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even know what was going on. He said,
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  Speaker 2: Now I appreciate every day I wake up. That's what
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  Speaker 2: I mean. Even in your missteps in life, there is
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  Speaker 2: a purpose for the missteps.
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  Speaker 6: Every time you fail, there was a reason for the failure.
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  Speaker 6: See what I.
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  Speaker 2: Had to do was I had to learn that all
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  Speaker 2: of my failures taught me how to get back up.
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  Speaker 2: So I became a very strong and tough person in
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  Speaker 2: getting back up. And then I was down and out
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  Speaker 2: so long that it taught me how to really appreciate
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  Speaker 2: that up. And so I've taken all of that and
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  Speaker 2: used it. Those experiences that happened to me, and I
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  Speaker 2: became a more experienced person.
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  Speaker 6: So next time when.
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  Speaker 2: People talk about me who don't know me, it don't
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  Speaker 2: shake me, cause everybody not gonna like you. Man, you
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  Speaker 2: might as well go and get on this train right now.
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  Speaker 2: And so what I'm saying to you out there is
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  Speaker 2: the quickest way to lose focus on your future is
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  Speaker 2: to keep focusing on your past. Let it go. Yeah yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: he left. Sometimes the breakup is the blessing. I know
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  Speaker 2: it's hard to break up because now you're loaning you
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  Speaker 2: by yourself. But man, but wasn't you in misery when
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  Speaker 2: you was in that? Weren't you in complete misery in that?
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  Speaker 2: Now you kept asking God to fix it. But it
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  Speaker 2: takes two people to fix a relationship. It don't just
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  Speaker 2: take one. It take two to make a thing go right.
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  Speaker 2: It take two to make it out of sight. You
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  Speaker 2: really do have to have two people wanting a relationship
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  Speaker 2: to work. It can't just be one person won a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: So you can pray about the relationship all you want.
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  Speaker 2: If the other person don't want you no more, it
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  Speaker 2: ain't gonna act right. You can't make him do that.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you can't make her do that. But you steady
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  Speaker 2: asking God for a new relationship. But you are yet
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  Speaker 2: to be grateful that you are in a position to
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  Speaker 2: have a relationship. And you keep harping on the past.
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  Speaker 2: You don't think you hear that. I'm just a dude
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  Speaker 2: with a show and I hear it all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Let it go, go forward.
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  Speaker 6: It's over.
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  Speaker 2: You made it, He bought you through it, you conquered,
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  Speaker 2: you survived it. Why are you dwelling on it and
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  Speaker 2: making it the cross around your neck when clearly he
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  Speaker 2: had removed it for you.
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  Speaker 6: Now, all you got to do is come on.
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  Speaker 2: So if you sitting behind them walls, brothers and sisters,
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking directly to you sometimes. Man, you just got
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  Speaker 2: to get it right. All this repeat of fender business,
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  Speaker 2: that's for?
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  Speaker 6: Who is that for?
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  Speaker 2: How ignorant can you be to keep giving your life
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  Speaker 2: back to the penal system? Be free, man, walk the streets,
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  Speaker 2: do the right thing. Ask God to help connect you.
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  Speaker 2: He could do anything. You think he can't give you
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  Speaker 2: a job? Are you serious?
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  Speaker 8: Man?
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  Speaker 6: Put some faith on it. Let's move forward, y'all. Let
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  Speaker 6: it go.
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  Speaker 1: Let's move you.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, your undivided attention is needed right now.
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  Speaker 2: I have a special announcement to me. It is the
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  Speaker 2: beginning of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Which means there
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  Speaker 2: will be an abundance of ignorance, some serious laughter today
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  Speaker 2: because I've decided that today that Steve Harvey is gonna
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  Speaker 2: go vintage Steve Harvey vintage, which means all the clo
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  Speaker 2: questions anything directly with me, I will be delivering an
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  Speaker 2: answer in the form of ignorance.
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  Speaker 8: We're gonna get fired.
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  Speaker 2: Which means, you know this is gonna be funny to
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  Speaker 2: me even if it ain't to you. And I have
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  Speaker 2: a high level of sense of humor, I happen to
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  Speaker 2: know what is funny. Now, if you touch it, probably
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  Speaker 2: need to turn your radio today. Touch your people, turn
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  Speaker 2: your radio because it's about to pop off. It's about
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  Speaker 2: to pop off.
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  Speaker 6: Time you hit.
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  Speaker 10: It, It's about the to pop the pop off.
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  Speaker 6: Won't he do it? JR?
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  Speaker 2: That's what's gonna be happening today. Warning Shirley Strawberry.
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  Speaker 11: Hey, good morning Steve. Thanks for the warning. Thanks call
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  Speaker 11: learning for real.
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  Speaker 12: I'm ready, I guess good morning again, JR.
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  Speaker 10: Yayyyy, Tommy, one more time, were about to pop the
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  Speaker 10: pop the pop off?
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  Speaker 2: Now what you have been worn? Welcome to the ride. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that was at the end right there. That was Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: with James Thomas on the Y.
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  Speaker 6: Man. All right, well Thursday, y'all scared, y' all I
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  Speaker 6: want to talk.
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  Speaker 11: About No, No, I'm not. I'm myself.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, because if I know what vintage Steve Harvey is, I.
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  Speaker 11: Know it's embarrassing. That's what it is.
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  Speaker 2: You know, And that's that's a good thing. Sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: need that in your life, some embarrassing moment. My mama
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  Speaker 2: used to tell me that when we go to church,
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  Speaker 2: don't embarrass me. And I sit my ass right over
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  Speaker 2: there and do it, mouth full of candy, spit it out,
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  Speaker 2: laughing at the visiting past. I didn't think nobody could preach,
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  Speaker 2: but Bishop James L. Harton anybody else was a comedy
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  Speaker 2: routine to be here. That was just came, he snorted.
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  Speaker 6: I believe a god I would one day come back.
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  Speaker 2: We would all be in the health and we all
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  Speaker 2: you know, we're right, boy Floyd the ho was that.
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  Speaker 6: The third snort? Paul Walker and butcher boy cousin.
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  Speaker 2: We was leaving on E show to laugh and I
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  Speaker 2: had so much cand here my mom. You know, I
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  Speaker 2: was trying to keep my mouth prosing of chewing candy
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  Speaker 2: so my mama couldn't see our head, candid juice all
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  Speaker 2: down and crack of Mama. I was dripping on my suit,
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  Speaker 2: was laughing so hard.
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  Speaker 11: My embarrassed her. She asked you not to. All right, listen,
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  Speaker 11: we got to move on, sir.
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  Speaker 7: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 7: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back
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  Speaker 7: right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening hard morning show.
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  Speaker 7: All right, guys, it is time now to run that
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  Speaker 7: prank back with the nephew.
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  Speaker 11: What you got f the church.
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  Speaker 8: Parking lot here it is, Come on care.
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  Speaker 13: Hello, this is Brendan.
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  Speaker 10: Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey, trying to reach you. How you
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  Speaker 10: doing uh Britain. I want to make sure I got
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  Speaker 10: the right person. You're the person that uh you work
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  Speaker 10: at the at the first of all, I go to
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  Speaker 10: uh my name, my name is Calvin, got brother Calvin.
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  Speaker 10: But I go to uh sat Missionary Baptist Church where
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  Speaker 10: you yeah?
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  Speaker 13: So yeah, so everything all right.
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  Speaker 10: Everything fine, Well, I got a little issue and I'm
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  Speaker 10: trying to get to the bottom of it.
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  Speaker 8: Now.
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  Speaker 10: You work in the before service start. You work in
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  Speaker 10: the parking lot on and yeah yeah, and you tell
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  Speaker 10: people where the park and stuff right right, right, what.
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  Speaker 13: You looking for some employment? You want to you want
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  Speaker 13: to join us?
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  Speaker 10: No, no, no, what to see the issue I got, man,
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  Speaker 10: I've been dealing with this probably about the last two
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  Speaker 10: months now that okay, hold on, I'm trying to tell you.
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  Speaker 10: So the problem is when I come to the church
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  Speaker 10: last couple of months, man, I've been I've been coming
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  Speaker 10: like my my my my regular card and broke down
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  Speaker 10: on me. So I had I got an old van that.
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  Speaker 13: I've been about that.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, you know, I got old van and I've
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  Speaker 8: been using to get around in.
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  Speaker 10: So now for the last two months, I've been riding
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  Speaker 10: in it when I come into the church. You know
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  Speaker 10: you and I find out who you were, but you
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  Speaker 10: keep sending me to the back of the parking lot.
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  Speaker 10: And then but you know I noticed, now, no, brother,
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  Speaker 10: not on the real So you sending me to the back,
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  Speaker 10: and I'm noticing when I see cars that's like two ten,
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  Speaker 10: twenty fifteen cars.
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  Speaker 13: Well, brother, well listen, we don't have no set place
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  Speaker 13: where we put model car. You know, I just direct
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  Speaker 13: the traffic.
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  Speaker 10: Brother, Okay, So so you're trying to tell me. For
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  Speaker 10: the last two months, you just direct traffic. But you
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  Speaker 10: got but you directed me to the back every time.
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  Speaker 10: But a car behind me or a car in front
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  Speaker 10: of me, it'll be going to the front.
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  Speaker 13: Now where you getting this information from me?
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  Speaker 10: I didn't seen you man or send people to the
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  Speaker 10: front to park. I hadn't seen you do.
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  Speaker 13: No. No, I just I just put you know, the
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  Speaker 13: bigger vehicles in the in the back and uh certain
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  Speaker 13: you know it's really no schedule if if you come in,
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  Speaker 13: I just I just direct you to the right of
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  Speaker 13: the left. It's really nothing to it.
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  Speaker 10: Really, So you're not trying to say so my my
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  Speaker 10: van being raggedy ain't the reason why I'm.
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  Speaker 13: Be No, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what
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  Speaker 13: we're about. Now, Okay, I'm sorry you feel that way.
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  Speaker 13: I mean, so I guess this Sunday.
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  Speaker 10: Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this Sunday, Michael,
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  Speaker 10: make sure, no, no, let me tell you right now
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  Speaker 10: when my van pull up there Sunday. I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 10: you right now, if I get sent to the back,
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  Speaker 10: I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna be no,
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  Speaker 10: it's gonna be a problem if I get.
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  Speaker 8: Sent to the back.
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  Speaker 13: You know, now, you don't have to cuss up. Just this,
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  Speaker 13: calm down, it's not it's not that serious.
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  Speaker 10: No, it is serious. See what already know. I know
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  Speaker 10: I got a ragged ass van.
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  Speaker 1: I know that.
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  Speaker 10: I know that, but I see that's the reason why
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  Speaker 10: I'm getting sent to the back. And I know it
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  Speaker 10: because the car I had before y'all were sending me
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  Speaker 10: up front.
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  Speaker 8: So already know. I'm just saying.
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  Speaker 10: I'm telling you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now,
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  Speaker 10: it's gonna be a problem if I get sent to
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  Speaker 10: the back.
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  Speaker 13: Brother, you just singled me out, and no, no, or
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  Speaker 13: did you?
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  Speaker 10: I didn't single you out? You you are the person
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  Speaker 10: that has been sending me to the back, Dude, No,
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  Speaker 10: I haven't. Hey, man, why you keep Why are you
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  Speaker 10: sending it?
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  Speaker 13: Why are you accusing me?
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  Speaker 8: I'm thank because I didn't seen it.
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  Speaker 14: No you are.
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  Speaker 13: You're calling me. You're calling me out of the blue,
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  Speaker 13: and you accuse me of something that I'm not doing.
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  Speaker 8: No, No, you just sent my ragged ass band to
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  Speaker 8: the back.
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  Speaker 10: You dodnet done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,
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  Speaker 10: you have.
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  Speaker 13: Done having Yes, you have.
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  Speaker 10: You sent all the Preda cars up front. That's what
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  Speaker 10: you're doing. But I tell you what comes sound is
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  Speaker 10: gonna build a problem.
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  Speaker 8: You're threatened me.
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  Speaker 13: I mean now now listen, we we we can meet
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  Speaker 13: up at it. We can meet up there to be
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  Speaker 13: for any cars get there? How about that?
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  Speaker 8: I don't care how you want to do it, Brendon.
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  Speaker 13: You actually do know how you want to do it,
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  Speaker 13: So bring it then.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, I'm letting you know my car, yea, my van
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  Speaker 8: gonna build.
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  Speaker 13: Frock comes give bent get band. It's me and you.
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  Speaker 13: How about that? You want you you want to talk
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  Speaker 13: to Tony stuff?
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  Speaker 8: Oh okay, so you are you sweating all up?
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  Speaker 6: Now?
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  Speaker 8: All right?
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  Speaker 13: So now like you already did so, I guess I'm.
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  Speaker 8: Making Okay, Well, no, I'm going to call.
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  Speaker 13: Listen, brother, brother, listen, you're not gonna call my phone
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  Speaker 13: and threaten me and tell me what you what you
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  Speaker 13: think I did? When I didn't do it.
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  Speaker 10: I told you, man, you've been sending me to the
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  Speaker 10: damn back man.
• 18:20
  Speaker 13: That's what we passed, what you thought.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, that's what it is. No, it's what I know.
• 18:24
  Speaker 8: It's what I know, Brendan, it's what I know. Okay,
• 18:27
  Speaker 8: you didn't you didn't sit where you're at right now. Okay,
• 18:30
  Speaker 8: you know you know work, you know what. I'll tell
• 18:31
  Speaker 8: you what you are right now, Come sunny. That's it's
• 18:34
  Speaker 8: damn brend.
• 18:34
  Speaker 13: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. How about what
• 18:36
  Speaker 13: you're doing right now?
• 18:37
  Speaker 8: What you mean what I'm doing right now? I'm at
• 18:38
  Speaker 8: work right now?
• 18:39
  Speaker 13: Ohh So you at work calling me about some bull
• 18:43
  Speaker 13: parking spot?
• 18:44
  Speaker 8: Oh okay, Oh look at the cussing Christian.
• 18:46
  Speaker 13: Now look at you. No, look at the cuss No
• 18:49
  Speaker 13: you no, no, no, matter of fact you Okay, if
• 18:53
  Speaker 13: you want to do something, let's do it now.
• 18:55
  Speaker 8: Parking lot.
• 18:55
  Speaker 13: I don't I don't care.
• 18:56
  Speaker 8: We'll be at okay.
• 18:57
  Speaker 13: Okay, that's one thing you're not gonna do.
• 18:59
  Speaker 6: Is this just me?
• 19:00
  Speaker 13: I'm telling you that right now, Brother, Calvin, you bring,
• 19:03
  Speaker 13: I'm gonna fold you like a wet piece of paper.
• 19:05
  Speaker 13: You don't know who you with? Okay. I didn't been
• 19:08
  Speaker 13: locked up six seven years. I'm just in the church
• 19:10
  Speaker 13: trying to get my life together. And you said you're
• 19:12
  Speaker 13: just gonna talk to me. You got another thing coming, brother,
• 19:15
  Speaker 13: I'm gonna tell you that right now. So if you
• 19:17
  Speaker 13: want to get it off, meet me in the parking
• 19:19
  Speaker 13: lot right now. I give you an hour to get
• 19:21
  Speaker 13: there your piece tonight.
• 19:22
  Speaker 10: Now you're trying to scare me with your God, with
• 19:25
  Speaker 10: your background. What it is you're trying to scare me
• 19:27
  Speaker 10: with your background or something like EVI then you I
• 19:30
  Speaker 10: ain't know you had been in jail.
• 19:31
  Speaker 13: With the wrong one.
• 19:32
  Speaker 10: I'm just gonna say this. Do you know Lester that
• 19:35
  Speaker 10: that also want he also had a cars parking.
• 19:38
  Speaker 13: Would you dry by yourself out of this you're talking
• 19:42
  Speaker 13: about I know a lesser?
• 19:44
  Speaker 10: Okay, okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to
• 19:47
  Speaker 10: call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby
• 19:50
  Speaker 10: Morning Brenda, your boy Lester in the parking lot, got
• 19:54
  Speaker 10: me the front from the car. Yeah, I brought the
• 20:03
  Speaker 10: lockdown out there?
• 20:04
  Speaker 8: You man? Did I bring the lockdown out there?
• 20:10
  Speaker 13: Strangles? Y'all got me out here talking recklessly. I should
• 20:14
  Speaker 13: have cast it this way.
• 20:17
  Speaker 10: By hanging there, bro, and then do this for me, man,
• 20:20
  Speaker 10: tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean
• 20:21
  Speaker 10: the baddest radio show in the land.
• 20:24
  Speaker 13: Man, It's Steve Harvey Radio.
• 20:26
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 20:28
  Speaker 10: Hey, man, if you see somebody's Sunday pull up in
• 20:30
  Speaker 10: a van, show them some love, baby, show them some love.
• 20:32
  Speaker 13: I might have to call out just wed, my heart
• 20:35
  Speaker 13: can't take you.
• 20:38
  Speaker 11: I know where you're going.
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: Coming up next, it is Ask the Clo with our
• 20:42
  Speaker 7: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey and the Building for your
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: Love Questions. Right you're listening, shoot Steve Harvey Morning show
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: Time Now for Usk the Clo. This one is from
• 20:54
  Speaker 7: Frida in Jacksonville. I'm a twenty eight year old single woman,
• 20:59
  Speaker 7: free to set and a man that lives in my
• 21:02
  Speaker 7: apartment complex invited me to game night at his place.
• 21:06
  Speaker 7: It was just the two of us and we played
• 21:08
  Speaker 7: Uno and drank a lot of tequila. The rules were,
• 21:12
  Speaker 7: whoever loses has to take off, you know, a piece
• 21:15
  Speaker 7: of clothes. Okay, I lost two games and I ended
• 21:20
  Speaker 7: up in my panties and my bra. When it got late,
• 21:24
  Speaker 7: he told me to get dressed so he could walk
• 21:26
  Speaker 7: me home. Nothing happened, not even a kiss on the cheek.
• 21:31
  Speaker 7: Was he turned off by me?
• 21:32
  Speaker 11: Or was he being a gentleman?
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about a couple days. They're I don't know, naked,
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: and you're sitting up in brown panties. He made up
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: rule yeah, and when you took all your clothes off,
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: he said, all right, that's it.
• 22:07
  Speaker 6: Put everything on.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: You're pretty nice, Seela, see you some all the time.
• 22:16
  Speaker 6: Well, let me ask you something.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: When you pulled your clothes off of you completely comfortable.
• 22:25
  Speaker 11: At least she sounds like she was Steve.
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: She was really Yeah, she said I lost two games
• 22:31
  Speaker 7: and I ended up in my panties in bra.
• 22:34
  Speaker 6: Okay, Well she didn't say if he lost any games.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: So let's just look at this. Let's take the road
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: that I think. It depends if you're twenty eight, it
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: depends on how old he is, If he over forty,
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: it's game. Yeah, he played you and you just gonna
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: he just gonna see where it would go. And he
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: playing it. Now, next come on there and you take
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: them off.
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: I can't tell you.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: I can't promise you nothing, nothing to that if you
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: come back up in there, if I invite you the
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: game night again, and yeah, sure we ain't got to
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: play no cards this time.
• 23:12
  Speaker 6: All to be seeing one of them, that could be it.
• 23:16
  Speaker 7: Well, she sounded like she was disappointed. Nothing happened, not
• 23:20
  Speaker 7: even a kiss on the cheek.
• 23:22
  Speaker 6: Well, you know.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: You just I haven't seen you, so only you can
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: answer this question. But you could send us when you
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: saw yourself sitting if you was him and you saw
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: you sitting over there in some panties and a brawl
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: twenty eight, what would you do twenty eight?
• 23:44
  Speaker 11: At twenty eight.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: This sounds like it was really naked and afraid.
• 23:49
  Speaker 8: It really do sound.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: Like when I was twenty eight, I wouldn't have given
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: a damn what you look like it would have been.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I would have felt obligated at this point your duty.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: This looks like something I must do.
• 24:04
  Speaker 11: But how is she not fine at twenty eight?
• 24:06
  Speaker 8: Though?
• 24:08
  Speaker 11: Twenty eight? Twenty eight?
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: Some people ain't fine at Shirley, Shirley. When you graduated,
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: you was about eighteen, as all of.
• 24:16
  Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah.
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: When you went to your ten year reunion, did you
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: not go what the hell?
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, holy hell?
• 24:27
  Speaker 11: At ten years years?
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Lloyd Freeman.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: Looking a mess.
• 24:40
  Speaker 6: Lloyd had full teeth missing in the front, all the top.
• 24:45
  Speaker 10: Just ten years later, I'm going to tell you ain't
• 24:48
  Speaker 10: get no tea for the reunion.
• 24:56
  Speaker 7: Lauren in the DMV says, I'm in my mid thirty
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: and I'm dating a fine man I met at church.
• 25:03
  Speaker 7: We're both in the choir, and I had a question
• 25:05
  Speaker 7: on him for a while, but then I heard he
• 25:07
  Speaker 7: wasn't interested in females. Well, he asked me out a
• 25:11
  Speaker 7: few months ago, and now we're dating. Other choir members
• 25:14
  Speaker 7: give me the side eye when they see us together,
• 25:16
  Speaker 7: and it makes me unsure about my man. We've had sex,
• 25:19
  Speaker 7: so I know he's into me, But how can I
• 25:21
  Speaker 7: tell if he's got other interests too?
• 25:24
  Speaker 6: Well, everybody else knows you. That's it.
• 25:29
  Speaker 8: Yeah, we're not preaching to the choir.
• 25:31
  Speaker 6: You in the choir and who looking at you?
• 25:36
  Speaker 11: Side?
• 25:37
  Speaker 15: Ay?
• 25:38
  Speaker 11: All right now, choir members.
• 25:40
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you know he.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Might be changing his ways, but he picked you to
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: change with. Should it could have happened?
• 25:51
  Speaker 7: Well? Mo and Gary Indiana says, I'm a forty four
• 25:55
  Speaker 7: year old married woman and I need to know why
• 25:57
  Speaker 7: my husband's underwear disappearing. He had started going back to
• 26:02
  Speaker 7: the gym after work and when he gets home, he
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: drops his clothes on the floor and he takes a shower.
• 26:07
  Speaker 7: I've been picking up this man's clothes and washing them
• 26:10
  Speaker 7: for nine years, and I can't figure out why some
• 26:14
  Speaker 7: days there's no underwear on the floor or in his
• 26:16
  Speaker 7: gym bag. My intuition says, something strange is going on,
• 26:20
  Speaker 7: and he's hiding his underwear from me.
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: What do you think no one or two things can
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: be happening. I have taken off a pair of draws. Yeah,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: in my life.
• 26:33
  Speaker 8: Here we go.
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: Well, I had to immediately take out back, tell them
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: and start a fire.
• 26:46
  Speaker 6: And get them draws off flame.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: I knew he held well not to put them in
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: my mama washing machine. Yeah, but I was gonna spawn
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: all the clothes in the water. Can't run up and
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: down the floor playing basketball.
• 27:07
  Speaker 6: Them things, and that would would ruin some things.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Now the other other time, back in my wild days
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: when I was wild, and yeah, some of them draws
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: couldn't come back to the house.
• 27:20
  Speaker 6: Either, because it just ever did.
• 27:27
  Speaker 14: It?
• 27:29
  Speaker 16: You know?
• 27:29
  Speaker 6: Telling what's on these draws?
• 27:31
  Speaker 10: Running that blue light over that.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: I can't explain nothing on these draws, hand prints, make up?
• 27:52
  Speaker 6: Yeah, what is this stuff? I could not so Chamber
• 27:58
  Speaker 6: two things.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Are you either working out really hard he's embarrassed or
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: he's working out real hard and he's in bad.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Clo.
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  Speaker 11: You're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show.
• 28:14
  Speaker 7: All right, Jay, it is time for one of our
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: favorite segments, comedy roulette.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Why do we do that, Jay, because.
• 28:26
  Speaker 17: Because juniors comedian comedian.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Let's show number one.
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  Speaker 7: Things people say who've been in jail a long time.
• 28:44
  Speaker 11: Okay, get this one, guys. Directions that black people give
• 28:47
  Speaker 11: you all.
• 28:48
  Speaker 7: Right, okay, okay, excuses men say when they're not getting
• 28:53
  Speaker 7: a lot of sex all day, that for a hour.
• 28:59
  Speaker 7: If you want, some people say, who don't have cable?
• 29:04
  Speaker 7: That's another girl, all right.
• 29:07
  Speaker 18: It's funny. Oh this is unusual.
• 29:18
  Speaker 11: It's step down directions that black people get.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: Definitely, black people give different directions.
• 29:27
  Speaker 11: What do you mean jay? Here though?
• 29:29
  Speaker 17: What you want to do is do you know where
• 29:32
  Speaker 17: the Baptist church used to be?
• 29:37
  Speaker 6: You don't know where it.
• 29:38
  Speaker 8: Used to be.
• 29:40
  Speaker 17: You're not gonna find it.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 29:48
  Speaker 8: I know a lot about this because I am.
• 29:49
  Speaker 12: Black, so I do have a I do know some
• 29:52
  Speaker 12: directions that black people here. This is also a direction
• 29:55
  Speaker 12: when you back it up.
• 29:57
  Speaker 8: Come on, come on, come on, come on back, come
• 30:01
  Speaker 8: on back, come on, you.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Come on, o union. You got it on this side? Yeah, yeah,
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: come on. Hold what you.
• 30:09
  Speaker 8: Got that's what you're looking for right there, that's the
• 30:13
  Speaker 8: whole what you got direction people give all Now, look,
• 30:18
  Speaker 8: this is what you want to do.
• 30:20
  Speaker 10: Now you want to go down here to the second
• 30:22
  Speaker 10: stop time you're gonna mend the left right there, go
• 30:26
  Speaker 10: down to the next block. I don't know what street
• 30:28
  Speaker 10: that is, but go down to the next block. It's
• 30:30
  Speaker 10: the store there. Go in that store and ask for Lucky,
• 30:33
  Speaker 10: and Lucky know how to get.
• 30:42
  Speaker 8: Come on, see.
• 30:46
  Speaker 6: All is right down there across from Earl Neil.
• 30:51
  Speaker 8: That's what people say.
• 30:53
  Speaker 7: Yeah, come on, directions and black people give you jay.
• 30:58
  Speaker 8: We're different with.
• 31:00
  Speaker 17: You're gonna go down a bit ways and you're gonna
• 31:03
  Speaker 17: see an old man sitting on the porch. If he
• 31:06
  Speaker 17: ain't on the porch, you just keep driving or wait
• 31:09
  Speaker 17: till he come out, and then you make the left
• 31:12
  Speaker 17: right there.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: You can't miss.
• 31:20
  Speaker 11: It right during that.
• 31:23
  Speaker 12: This is a direction step Black people give you what
• 31:26
  Speaker 12: you mean. You don't know where we're at. We at
• 31:28
  Speaker 12: the same place where Liddy was shot right there. How
• 31:33
  Speaker 12: come you home with him? You've been when Liddy got shot.
• 31:36
  Speaker 12: I was there, Keith was said down with that. We
• 31:39
  Speaker 12: the exact same spot with when Liddy got shot. My god,
• 31:46
  Speaker 12: this is what you want to do. Take this road,
• 31:49
  Speaker 12: this road, Take this road, this road.
• 31:52
  Speaker 6: It take this road.
• 31:53
  Speaker 10: It you go down that road. Now this here is
• 31:56
  Speaker 10: is uh asphalt. Now wait, do you see your dirt road.
• 32:02
  Speaker 10: You see a dirt road that way, you make your right.
• 32:05
  Speaker 10: You are to see the house coming up on the
• 32:08
  Speaker 10: right side. If you go further than that, you might
• 32:11
  Speaker 10: see a clan round and that means you went too far.
• 32:14
  Speaker 8: You might want to back it up. You might want
• 32:16
  Speaker 8: to back it up.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Directions that black people give make enough.
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: When you get down there and see the big black
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: tree that got the squirrels in.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: It, and you got to be looking.
• 32:30
  Speaker 17: The directions, Yes, he go here, go right here. How
• 32:36
  Speaker 17: much gas you got in your car? Because you ain't
• 32:39
  Speaker 17: gonna make it on half a tank. You're gonna need
• 32:41
  Speaker 17: to have a whole full tank of gas.
• 32:43
  Speaker 6: To get what.
• 32:51
  Speaker 8: I got it.
• 32:52
  Speaker 12: These are directions that black people give you. Okay, you
• 32:56
  Speaker 12: coming to the Fan of Reunion, follow the north.
• 32:58
  Speaker 8: Star till the run into Sherylf House.
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: People.
• 33:05
  Speaker 10: Yeah, all right, all right, you're trying to get your
• 33:08
  Speaker 10: convention center. Thats where you're trying to go. Let me
• 33:10
  Speaker 10: tell you what you need to do. I can't get
• 33:12
  Speaker 10: you there, but I can get you there for them
• 33:14
  Speaker 10: to do what I need.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: You to do.
• 33:15
  Speaker 10: Take Maine, get your main if you go down nine
• 33:20
  Speaker 10: uh uh the second street. I think commerce, commerce and name.
• 33:24
  Speaker 10: It's a girl named Glitter. That's the prostitute right there
• 33:28
  Speaker 10: on the car.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: Glitter.
• 33:30
  Speaker 8: Get Glitter in that car and Glitter.
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: Know how to get you to that convention.
• 33:39
  Speaker 9: Thank you Glitter?
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 33:42
  Speaker 6: Direction, all right?
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: You go all the way down now to you'll see
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: black people no more. Then come back two blocks black people.
• 33:58
  Speaker 6: Get it hig bigger, right.
• 34:01
  Speaker 17: Kenny, Kenny, it's a man out hit lost.
• 34:09
  Speaker 6: I didn't even know how to get that.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: Come out breath, Okay, Going down all the way to
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: the rock, the rock. Get down at that rock, make
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: a right pulling that gas station on that corner. Now,
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: it's an old woman in there that's selling Barbyq sandwich.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: You got to buy a Barbyque sandwich from her.
• 34:40
  Speaker 6: Then't ask her question where you're trying to.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: If you don't buy a sandwich, that's just gonna be
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: stepping in there.
• 34:47
  Speaker 7: And that lady concludes comedy Roulette for today.
• 34:52
  Speaker 8: We'll be back.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right after this.
• 34:55
  Speaker 7: You're listening morning show. All right, it is time now
• 34:59
  Speaker 7: for a rounded. Would you rather, guys, would you rather
• 35:03
  Speaker 7: have a missing tooth on the side or a full
• 35:07
  Speaker 7: chest of gray hair?
• 35:09
  Speaker 6: Give me b Yeah, I'm gonna take you want that, don't.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Take that chest full of gray hair. I'm making sex
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: out wear black shirts with it. Who salt? I got
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: to have that tooth though. You know, I'm talking about
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: the wall where you can have a cigarette dangling off
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: the side of your mouth in that flot.
• 35:34
  Speaker 11: That is not sexy.
• 35:36
  Speaker 8: That's a visual. We all got it right.
• 35:39
  Speaker 6: Down, all right.
• 35:42
  Speaker 7: Would you rather take a guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars?
• 35:46
  Speaker 7: Are guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars? Or would you rather
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: a chance at getting one million dollars?
• 35:52
  Speaker 8: Would they say?
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: One hand be two in the bush.
• 35:55
  Speaker 11: That's why, sure thing I can flip that.
• 36:00
  Speaker 8: I'll take the hash.
• 36:01
  Speaker 11: Can't make a die, make a nickel.
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna definitely take that hand.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: All right, all right?
• 36:10
  Speaker 11: Would you rather have stinky breath or stinky feet?
• 36:15
  Speaker 6: Yeah? B, I put them in them shoes I got,
• 36:18
  Speaker 6: I got shoes. I get through fishing. I can't even
• 36:20
  Speaker 6: take my damn.
• 36:21
  Speaker 11: Boots off like that.
• 36:24
  Speaker 19: Yeah, I'm going with bee, Yeah, B all.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: Right, the gym got through working out and took them
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: shoes off, But at least you have to unleash them.
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: A problem with bad breath is it is you?
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you've never heard nobody go like people go, man,
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: whose feet is that?
• 36:49
  Speaker 6: You know? Ain't nobody would? Who breath?
• 36:51
  Speaker 10: Is that?
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: They know?
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: You open your mouth and used to hut talking and
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: we were affected.
• 37:00
  Speaker 11: And what about the mask? The mask?
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Well you know that bad Breaference rough Man, because if
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: you put that mask on, you actually knocked your own
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: ass out.
• 37:12
  Speaker 8: And there's some people just not knowing it was them.
• 37:18
  Speaker 6: I can't wait. This is another. Ain't gonna finish the
• 37:21
  Speaker 6: day out right here?
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 37:25
  Speaker 11: Last one?
• 37:25
  Speaker 7: Would you rather have a constant sinus headache? Constant sinus
• 37:30
  Speaker 7: headache or constant itching down there?
• 37:36
  Speaker 16: I'm just I'm just gonna be stopped up all the
• 37:39
  Speaker 16: way stopped up. No sis headache. No, well, I'm just
• 37:44
  Speaker 16: I'm gonna just be digging. Damn you can dig and
• 37:48
  Speaker 16: I help dog. I'm talking about look.
• 37:50
  Speaker 6: At making eye contact?
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: What you want that.
• 37:56
  Speaker 11: You're listening?
• 37:58
  Speaker 9: Morning show time?
• 38:00
  Speaker 7: Now to check Steve's voicemail. If you want to leave
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: Steve a message, call him eight seven seven twenty nine.
• 38:05
  Speaker 11: Steve. All right, So Steve.
• 38:07
  Speaker 7: Recently we talked about the new dating term on the
• 38:10
  Speaker 7: dating apps called ethical non monogamy you guys remember that
• 38:14
  Speaker 7: from the other day. It's a practice of having a
• 38:17
  Speaker 7: closer sexual relationship where both parties consent to the infidelity.
• 38:21
  Speaker 7: In other words, I'll tell you that I'm married and
• 38:23
  Speaker 7: you agree to sleep with me anyway, Swinging, open relationships,
• 38:27
  Speaker 7: all that polyamory all fall under the umbrella of ethical
• 38:31
  Speaker 7: non monogamy. So we have a caller that left a
• 38:34
  Speaker 7: message about our discussion on the subject.
• 38:37
  Speaker 9: Take a listen, So y'all.
• 38:39
  Speaker 15: Are talking about ethical non monogamy and call them at cheating.
• 38:43
  Speaker 15: And I'm going to let y'all know right now you're
• 38:45
  Speaker 15: very much showing your age.
• 38:48
  Speaker 14: Just in times of it all.
• 38:51
  Speaker 15: If you don't want to do it, then don't but
• 38:54
  Speaker 15: call us I'm cheating and changing the terms, because again,
• 38:58
  Speaker 15: what is monogony monogymy saying partnership ethical nominogamy? You're saying
• 39:04
  Speaker 15: that you don't want now is it something that I
• 39:06
  Speaker 15: want to do? So I get jealous? I don't feel
• 39:09
  Speaker 15: like sharing. Is it something that I almost to hear
• 39:12
  Speaker 15: in clowns because I don't want to do it? Now
• 39:14
  Speaker 15: I understanding that it's just not for me. Y'all are
• 39:17
  Speaker 15: very much showing your age and insisting that something is cheating.
• 39:21
  Speaker 15: When you are open with your partner and discussing the
• 39:24
  Speaker 15: fact that neither of you want to just be with
• 39:28
  Speaker 15: one person is not cheating. Not the first time I
• 39:32
  Speaker 15: saw something that I don't understand, probably not gonna be
• 39:35
  Speaker 15: the last time. But again, being ethically non monogamous means
• 39:40
  Speaker 15: you're quite literally let your partner know that we're not
• 39:42
  Speaker 15: the only people together. You both know that you both
• 39:45
  Speaker 15: have that agreement and.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: It works for them.
• 39:48
  Speaker 15: If it works for them and it doesn't work for you,
• 39:50
  Speaker 15: leave it alone. Simple as that. Don't folk call on
• 39:53
  Speaker 15: something cheat and cheating.
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: This is not cheating.
• 39:55
  Speaker 15: Cheating is lies.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Cheating involves lines.
• 39:58
  Speaker 15: If it does not involve lighting line, it's not you.
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: I appreciate you calling in and telling us we're showing
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: our age because well we have the age to show.
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: Your ass is showing yours because you don't listen. The
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: lady that wrote the letter and called in did not
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: say they partner knew about it. They said that's what
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: they were practicing. There are sites on where married people
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: are on there putting it out there for the other
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: person to partake in them and letting them know that
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: they're married and their partner knows nothing about it. That's
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: what the phone call was about. So when you call
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: here talking about somebody showing they age, make sure yo,
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: the last I ain't showing yours too. So learn to listen,
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: because that's what it takes when you come after me,
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: y'all showing y'all age. Now, look, if y'all swingers, we
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: know what swingers is. We was doing when this was
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: around for your young ass was born. Now have you
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: got another couple of y'all going out to the club.
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: Now you want to swing? We know what that is.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: That ain't what the damn call was talking about. But
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: you didn't listen to that. You heard the part you
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: on it, and now you want to call it and be
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: critical because we old. Old is the goal and maybe
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: one day your ass to get older and have some
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: damn sense too. Sitting up in here and I'll be
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: listening to this stuff, and I'm sorry, lady, but you're
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: on the back end of my work week because I
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: work for young people. That family few say stupid sugar
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: hundred ice teeth all.
• 41:32
  Speaker 6: Damn day long.
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: And I got to sit there because HR just riding
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: the corner and I gotta act like I'm okay with that.
• 41:39
  Speaker 14: What I.
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: And you done walked up into the hornet's nest while
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: the hornet was sitting outside reading the paper and buzz
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: stanging your ass. All right, I can ty the young
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: people because we old, we stupid, and we don't know
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: how to look at stuff.
• 42:00
  Speaker 6: Y'all can come up with all these new ass titles.
• 42:02
  Speaker 9: You won't do, Brian.
• 42:03
  Speaker 6: It's called cheat the hell it is man.
• 42:09
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's an agreement between the people who are going
• 42:13
  Speaker 7: to be cheating with the or seeing each other. They
• 42:16
  Speaker 7: didn't say anything about the their telling their partners or
• 42:19
  Speaker 7: anything like that.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: That's surely definite, even what the call was that though,
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: you all want to light us up because her dumb
• 42:27
  Speaker 2: ass is some relationship and some man that told her
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: he's seeing somebody else.
• 42:31
  Speaker 6: No, her dumb ass trying to be okay with what you.
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: Call he's uninformed. Coming up next, the nephew with the
• 42:48
  Speaker 7: frank phone call for today right after this You're listening
• 42:53
  Speaker 7: morning show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 42:57
  Speaker 7: right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today.
• 43:00
  Speaker 7: The subject he facetimes me when he's with her.
• 43:05
  Speaker 11: Huh. We'll get into that and just a few.
• 43:10
  Speaker 7: But right now the nephew is here with today's frank
• 43:13
  Speaker 7: phone call.
• 43:14
  Speaker 11: What you got for us, nest?
• 43:15
  Speaker 10: Surely it is PSC ps C. That is pro State Checker,
• 43:24
  Speaker 10: pros State Checker.
• 43:26
  Speaker 11: Okay, you going in?
• 43:28
  Speaker 10: Huh yeah, I'm going I'm going in PSC. All right,
• 43:34
  Speaker 10: all right, let's go get o PSC pros State check.
• 43:39
  Speaker 13: Hello.
• 43:40
  Speaker 14: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Roger. Hi. My name
• 43:44
  Speaker 14: is Greg. I'm a PSC. I got you on my schedule.
• 43:47
  Speaker 14: I'm supposed to come by your house tomorrow morning at
• 43:49
  Speaker 14: about seven to fifteen. I just want to give you
• 43:51
  Speaker 14: a call and give your heads up and let you
• 43:53
  Speaker 14: know we will be there about seven to fifteen. From
• 43:55
  Speaker 14: my understanding, you go to work yet, Oh you say
• 43:59
  Speaker 14: I'm a PS See, sir, I'll be there. I'll be
• 44:01
  Speaker 14: there tomorrow. I got you on my schedule for Monday morning,
• 44:04
  Speaker 14: and I'll be there at least about seven to fifteen.
• 44:07
  Speaker 14: From my understanding, you go to work at seven thirty,
• 44:09
  Speaker 14: and my proceed is only going to take a couple
• 44:11
  Speaker 14: of minutes. But I wanted to do a friendly call
• 44:14
  Speaker 14: and let you know that I will be by there
• 44:15
  Speaker 14: tomorrow morning.
• 44:16
  Speaker 20: What's the PSC PFC.
• 44:18
  Speaker 21: What's you say a PSC PSC?
• 44:20
  Speaker 14: Sir, PSC, I will be there tomorrow. I've been in
• 44:22
  Speaker 14: business probably for the last I guess about thirteen fourteen years.
• 44:26
  Speaker 21: Now.
• 44:27
  Speaker 20: What is PSC specialist?
• 44:29
  Speaker 13: What you do?
• 44:29
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 44:29
  Speaker 14: You're not I'm sorry you're not familiar.
• 44:31
  Speaker 20: How you got me on the schedule? Why ain't trying
• 44:34
  Speaker 20: us for nothing?
• 44:34
  Speaker 14: Oh? I got you on my list here. I don't
• 44:36
  Speaker 14: know who puts you on here, but you've it's been
• 44:38
  Speaker 14: paid for in everything for me to come by and
• 44:41
  Speaker 14: do my job. And like I said, only take me
• 44:43
  Speaker 14: a couple of minutes and I'll have you on your way.
• 44:45
  Speaker 14: How do you get my number?
• 44:47
  Speaker 20: Say again, how did you get my phone number?
• 44:50
  Speaker 6: Sir?
• 44:50
  Speaker 14: Everything I have I got. I got twenty stops tomorrow
• 44:53
  Speaker 14: and I got you schedules as my first stop tomorrow morning.
• 44:58
  Speaker 14: I don't know I got your phone number. I do
• 44:59
  Speaker 14: have your address. Are you at drive?
• 45:04
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 45:04
  Speaker 20: That's my address. But I'm not scheduled for nobody to
• 45:07
  Speaker 20: come to my.
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: House in the morning. I gotta go to work in
• 45:09
  Speaker 3: the morning. I'm i gonna be here right right.
• 45:11
  Speaker 14: My understanding, Well from understanding, you pull out about seven
• 45:14
  Speaker 14: thirty and I'm gonna get there seven fifteen. Like I said,
• 45:16
  Speaker 14: you know, the procedure only takes about two three minutes.
• 45:19
  Speaker 20: And you tell me about everybody my information, you know,
• 45:22
  Speaker 20: when I leave home and everything.
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: Who is this?
• 45:24
  Speaker 14: Like I say, my name is Greg, I'm a PSC,
• 45:26
  Speaker 14: and I'll be there.
• 45:27
  Speaker 20: Okay, you said that already.
• 45:29
  Speaker 14: You'll see me tomorrow. I'm sorry. I just wanted to
• 45:31
  Speaker 14: give your friendly call here on Sunday. I'll let you
• 45:33
  Speaker 14: know that i'll be there. I'll be there about seven
• 45:35
  Speaker 14: fifteen and we'll get you taken care of and then
• 45:37
  Speaker 14: I'll let you get on any way to work.
• 45:38
  Speaker 20: You still ain't telling me what I was supposed to
• 45:40
  Speaker 20: What you're supposed to be doing, sir.
• 45:41
  Speaker 14: A PSC is PSC. I'm a pro state checker and
• 45:45
  Speaker 14: what I'll be doing is coming in and checking your
• 45:47
  Speaker 14: pro state tomorrow.
• 45:48
  Speaker 20: Oh well, now you ain't coming here and check my
• 45:50
  Speaker 20: prive state. I gave my pro state checked by my doctor.
• 45:53
  Speaker 20: Who is you talking about coming to check my five state?
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: Not at my house?
• 45:55
  Speaker 21: You ain't come to check my And you know what,
• 45:58
  Speaker 21: I get this all the time.
• 45:59
  Speaker 14: I get a lot of people that are in denial,
• 46:01
  Speaker 14: a lot of men that that claim that they STY.
• 46:05
  Speaker 20: Is signed I hear my price state checked just at
• 46:07
  Speaker 20: at the beginning of this year. Man, you don't need
• 46:09
  Speaker 20: to come to my eye checking my price.
• 46:10
  Speaker 21: State, sir.
• 46:11
  Speaker 14: A lot of people, a lot of men are in
• 46:13
  Speaker 14: denial saying that they got it checked and they got it.
• 46:15
  Speaker 14: A lot of times we find out they haven't. And
• 46:17
  Speaker 14: there has to be a reason. If I got you
• 46:19
  Speaker 14: on my list and it's paid, somebody is paid one
• 46:22
  Speaker 14: hundred and twenty five dollars for me to come out
• 46:24
  Speaker 14: there and check.
• 46:24
  Speaker 20: It, well, you should be happy you paid us twent
• 46:26
  Speaker 20: a five dollars. This is a lesson job you have
• 46:28
  Speaker 20: to do then, because you're not come and check my price.
• 46:30
  Speaker 14: State, sir, I'm gonna check it now. I'm gonna be
• 46:32
  Speaker 14: by there tomorrow and I'm seven pif pent. I'm putting
• 46:34
  Speaker 14: my rubber glove on with a little bit of jail
• 46:36
  Speaker 14: on it, and I am gonna check your prop state
• 46:38
  Speaker 14: and then I'll let you get on the work.
• 46:40
  Speaker 20: Well, I'll tell you what that rubble glove ain't going
• 46:42
  Speaker 20: nowhere near me, home boy. I'll tell you what you
• 46:44
  Speaker 20: pay on over my eyes if you want to. It
• 46:46
  Speaker 20: ain't gonna be pretty, and it ain't gonna be nice
• 46:48
  Speaker 20: with you in your rubber glove, sir, I might have
• 46:51
  Speaker 20: had to stick a rebel glove up yo. When I'm
• 46:53
  Speaker 20: done with you, and I'll be comforted by my eye
• 46:54
  Speaker 20: talking about checking my price.
• 46:55
  Speaker 14: State sir, Sir, do you realize that this is the
• 46:58
  Speaker 14: leading calls to black men?
• 47:00
  Speaker 20: You realize that I understand that, all right.
• 47:02
  Speaker 14: They ain't.
• 47:05
  Speaker 6: Black men.
• 47:06
  Speaker 14: Three out of five black men are lost every year
• 47:08
  Speaker 14: we dump, So you ought to be very grateful that
• 47:12
  Speaker 14: someone is sending me by there to check it and
• 47:13
  Speaker 14: make sure you're okay.
• 47:14
  Speaker 20: I'm grateful that I can pay for a doctor that
• 47:16
  Speaker 20: I go to every at once a year.
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: Man, you're gonna have to come to my hot time,
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: my sticking, no rubber glove of me. Man, it's phone
• 47:22
  Speaker 3: with you, sir.
• 47:23
  Speaker 14: So I'm not gonna sit here and go back and
• 47:25
  Speaker 14: forth with you. My job is to give you a
• 47:27
  Speaker 14: friendly call and let you know that I'm coming all
• 47:29
  Speaker 14: right now tomorrow morning.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: Listen.
• 47:31
  Speaker 14: I don't want to hear anymore of it. Tomorrow morning,
• 47:33
  Speaker 14: I'm there at seven fifteen, and you're gonna get your
• 47:36
  Speaker 14: pro state check. Whether you like it or not.
• 47:38
  Speaker 20: Well, you bad it.
• 47:39
  Speaker 21: Don't buy here dead. I showed me here. You bay
• 47:41
  Speaker 21: your bad thank.
• 47:42
  Speaker 20: You bad enough us come over here, check my prist
• 47:44
  Speaker 20: take you bay it.
• 47:45
  Speaker 14: I'm gonna make it so you just be ready at
• 47:47
  Speaker 14: seven fifteen that you're gonna get your prostate check, and
• 47:50
  Speaker 14: I'll be here.
• 47:51
  Speaker 21: I want to let you go on the work case comes.
• 47:53
  Speaker 20: You come on over here if you want. You you know
• 47:55
  Speaker 20: my address and all my wi time I go to
• 47:57
  Speaker 20: work and everything. You you bag your back.
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: Don't know me if you want to.
• 48:00
  Speaker 14: I don't care if I gotta come over there, sir
• 48:03
  Speaker 14: and hold you down and check your prostate. I'm coming
• 48:06
  Speaker 14: to check your prostate at seventy fifteen tomorrow.
• 48:08
  Speaker 21: Morning, or I'll tell you what you bring your mas
• 48:10
  Speaker 21: John over them.
• 48:12
  Speaker 20: You you think you know who I am?
• 48:13
  Speaker 21: What I need over here? You come on over here
• 48:15
  Speaker 21: and you.
• 48:15
  Speaker 13: Do what you gotta.
• 48:16
  Speaker 21: Don't over that worrow more wherever being wrong. You're gonna
• 48:19
  Speaker 21: be checking something else besides me.
• 48:20
  Speaker 20: You're gonna be checking you own.
• 48:22
  Speaker 21: You bring your don't know where if you want to,
• 48:24
  Speaker 21: she'll wrong.
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: Get you up out of here.
• 48:26
  Speaker 20: I be coming to my house and that.
• 48:28
  Speaker 13: But but you.
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: You tell somebody talking about I needed pros stint check
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: or something somebody on the phone talking about I need
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: a prostate or something.
• 48:37
  Speaker 20: You bring your I'll tell you what. I'll be here
• 48:39
  Speaker 20: when you get here.
• 48:40
  Speaker 21: You bring it over.
• 48:41
  Speaker 14: You will tomorrow right in the mall going wrong.
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: You won't walk it over.
• 48:47
  Speaker 21: If you might be wheeled away from this, you rain.
• 48:50
  Speaker 3: Up where if you want to.
• 48:52
  Speaker 14: I'm gonna have my glove on tomorrow and I'm gonna
• 48:54
  Speaker 14: be checking your prostates.
• 48:55
  Speaker 21: I'll tell you what you ain't in the morning.
• 48:57
  Speaker 20: Where you want to talk about checking the price state,
• 48:59
  Speaker 20: You're gonna be checking you on frid Stay cause I'm
• 49:01
  Speaker 20: telling you what I got something for you. You come
• 49:03
  Speaker 20: from here, you bring your bad You think you're bad
• 49:06
  Speaker 20: enough to come on here and chase something over here?
• 49:08
  Speaker 14: You come on with it. I got one more with
• 49:10
  Speaker 14: I need to say to you.
• 49:10
  Speaker 8: Are you listening?
• 49:11
  Speaker 20: But what Dad you got to say to me?
• 49:12
  Speaker 15: Now?
• 49:13
  Speaker 20: You told me it's not just you got to tell me.
• 49:15
  Speaker 14: Now, Are you listening to me?
• 49:17
  Speaker 20: This bab down over here?
• 49:18
  Speaker 14: You're gonna be here and I'm gonna be over there.
• 49:20
  Speaker 14: But I got one more thing I want to say.
• 49:22
  Speaker 21: Are you listening?
• 49:23
  Speaker 20: What you got to say to me?
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: Man?
• 49:25
  Speaker 14: That is nephew Tim me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 49:28
  Speaker 14: You just got pranked by your homeboy.
• 49:32
  Speaker 20: H who you say you was?
• 49:36
  Speaker 14: Again? Hey man, this is Nephew tim Me from the
• 49:41
  Speaker 14: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, your homeboy got me the
• 49:44
  Speaker 14: prank phone call you.
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: Good, damn Harbin tell me by man, you are right?
• 50:00
  Speaker 14: Roger boy, y'all about to make me go out.
• 50:03
  Speaker 21: I'm wondering, who the hell don't come out somebody how
• 50:05
  Speaker 21: to do.
• 50:06
  Speaker 20: A postage chicks may on a regular basis like that?
• 50:12
  Speaker 21: Yeah, yeah, I got me man.
• 50:13
  Speaker 20: I'm gonna get him back.
• 50:14
  Speaker 21: Boy.
• 50:14
  Speaker 20: I can't believe he do.
• 50:15
  Speaker 21: Me like that.
• 50:16
  Speaker 20: I'm gonna go over there and check his prostate.
• 50:19
  Speaker 21: You know, I don't even think you get here checked
• 50:20
  Speaker 21: on the regular.
• 50:21
  Speaker 20: I want to have somebody to come check mine.
• 50:25
  Speaker 14: Hey man, I got one more thing to ask you, man,
• 50:27
  Speaker 14: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
• 50:30
  Speaker 14: baddest radio show in the land, Steve.
• 50:34
  Speaker 20: Harvey Morning Show Man, Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 50:41
  Speaker 8: All right, come on.
• 50:44
  Speaker 11: Oh my god, he's not about that.
• 50:48
  Speaker 17: You didn't when you get there. Yeah, he's gonna tinch
• 50:52
  Speaker 17: up when he gets there.
• 50:56
  Speaker 11: Right now, I don't even have one.
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: Fringe you.
• 51:00
  Speaker 8: It saves lies. Get out there and get yourself checked.
• 51:03
  Speaker 8: I'm just telling you that's what.
• 51:05
  Speaker 6: You don't get.
• 51:08
  Speaker 8: So you're doing awareness with the prank. Why not?
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: Why not just do it all?
• 51:13
  Speaker 8: See I say I do stupid, then I turn around
• 51:15
  Speaker 8: and make some sense. I do all that.
• 51:17
  Speaker 17: I don't know what I did was stupid, but on
• 51:21
  Speaker 17: he put his finger on the funny.
• 51:22
  Speaker 6: Go ahead, you get.
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: That, Carl.
• 51:26
  Speaker 8: I'm getting me a shirt made with that on it.
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: Stupid and he.
• 51:32
  Speaker 8: Got a walk and everything with it. Stupid with a purpose.
• 51:37
  Speaker 10: Dothan, Alabama and everybody around the way, it's your boy
• 51:40
  Speaker 10: nephew telling me July fifteenth, the nephew is coming to town.
• 51:43
  Speaker 8: Did you hear what I said, Dothan, Alabama?
• 51:46
  Speaker 10: I said, July fifteenth, the nephew is coming to town.
• 51:49
  Speaker 10: I'm back, I'm stronger, I'm better, I gotta testimony. Oh,
• 51:53
  Speaker 10: I got a purpose and I'm still straight stupid. Come
• 51:57
  Speaker 10: on and get your laugh on, baby, it's going down.
• 51:59
  Speaker 10: July fifteenth. Mm hmm, Oping Alabama tickets are on sale
• 52:02
  Speaker 10: right now?
• 52:03
  Speaker 7: All right, well, thanking if you coming up. Strawberry letter,
• 52:06
  Speaker 7: He facetimed me while he was with her we'll get
• 52:09
  Speaker 7: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning
• 52:13
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• 52:17
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• 52:34
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• 52:36
  Speaker 7: It is letter subject he facetimed me while he was
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  Speaker 7: with her.
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  Speaker 11: Dear Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 7: I met the love of my life seven years ago
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  Speaker 7: and I was twenty one years old at the time.
• 52:47
  Speaker 7: He's three years older than me and had already had
• 52:50
  Speaker 7: a child. He was my first everything, and he influenced
• 52:53
  Speaker 7: everything I did. I overlooked a lot of things he
• 52:56
  Speaker 7: did because I was young and crazy in love. He
• 53:00
  Speaker 7: would be intimate with the mother of his child, and
• 53:02
  Speaker 7: he didn't try to hide it. It made me feel
• 53:04
  Speaker 7: like I wasn't good enough or skilled enough at sex
• 53:07
  Speaker 7: because he kept on having sex with her. She threw
• 53:10
  Speaker 7: it up in my face whenever she could, so I
• 53:13
  Speaker 7: finally broke up with him. I was heartbroken, but managed
• 53:17
  Speaker 7: to stay friends with him. He ended up having another
• 53:20
  Speaker 7: child with this lady and told me that it was
• 53:23
  Speaker 7: a big mistake. Then he started dating this lady he
• 53:26
  Speaker 7: worked with, and they had a baby together.
• 53:29
  Speaker 11: After his third child.
• 53:30
  Speaker 7: Was born, he came to me humbly and said he
• 53:33
  Speaker 7: was so tired of how he had been doing things
• 53:36
  Speaker 7: and he wanted me back. He also said he was
• 53:38
  Speaker 7: ready to get married. We got back together eight months ago,
• 53:43
  Speaker 7: and I'm pregnant. He seemed to be happy when I
• 53:46
  Speaker 7: told him, and he said he would have my dream wedding.
• 53:49
  Speaker 7: We would have my dream wedding, but that's on hold
• 53:52
  Speaker 7: for now. Week ago, he went to visit his youngest
• 53:55
  Speaker 7: son and we were on FaceTime as he drove.
• 53:59
  Speaker 11: When he got out out of the car.
• 54:01
  Speaker 7: He thought he had hung up and he must have
• 54:03
  Speaker 7: thrown his phone in his pocket. I heard a female mumbling,
• 54:07
  Speaker 7: and then I clearly heard her ask if he had
• 54:10
  Speaker 7: a condom. Then I heard a lot of moaning. I
• 54:14
  Speaker 7: hung up and I got physically ill. When he came back,
• 54:17
  Speaker 7: I didn't let him know what i'd heard. I'm about
• 54:20
  Speaker 7: to deliver his fourth child, and he's still a liar
• 54:23
  Speaker 7: and a cheater.
• 54:24
  Speaker 11: I don't want to be a single parent. What should
• 54:27
  Speaker 11: I do?
• 54:27
  Speaker 6: Now?
• 54:29
  Speaker 7: Well, girl, you got to get it together, I mean
• 54:31
  Speaker 7: quickly and in a hurry. You're about to deliver his
• 54:35
  Speaker 7: fourth child. You gotta just stop being stupid.
• 54:37
  Speaker 11: These are some stupid moves you've been making, you know,
• 54:40
  Speaker 11: with this man.
• 54:41
  Speaker 7: This guy's been using you, lying to you all along,
• 54:44
  Speaker 7: and you keep on falling for it. I know you're young,
• 54:49
  Speaker 7: but I mean you could have just asked him to
• 54:53
  Speaker 7: use a condom. You could have to use protection. It's
• 54:56
  Speaker 7: okay to say that you know or or did you
• 55:00
  Speaker 7: want to get pregnant by him? I'm not so sure
• 55:03
  Speaker 7: you didn't, you know because you were so happy to
• 55:05
  Speaker 7: have him back. I mean, and did you think that
• 55:08
  Speaker 7: a baby would keep him well, as you can clearly see,
• 55:12
  Speaker 7: it didn't. And now although you may not want to
• 55:15
  Speaker 7: be a single parent, you will be. This guy is
• 55:18
  Speaker 7: a loser in every sense of the word, who just
• 55:21
  Speaker 7: keeps dropping babies wherever he goes. I mean, he's not
• 55:24
  Speaker 7: thinking about protection.
• 55:26
  Speaker 9: And you know.
• 55:28
  Speaker 7: You never once said at least he's a good father,
• 55:31
  Speaker 7: because he's not.
• 55:33
  Speaker 11: He's not.
• 55:33
  Speaker 7: Let's face it, he's too busy making kids and he's immature.
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: Like a kid.
• 55:39
  Speaker 7: I'm sorry you loved him more than you loved you
• 55:42
  Speaker 7: and got yourself caught up in his game of lies
• 55:45
  Speaker 7: and deceit.
• 55:45
  Speaker 11: But please know that it is not the end of
• 55:48
  Speaker 11: the world for you.
• 55:49
  Speaker 7: First of all, please don't even consider marrying this guy
• 55:53
  Speaker 7: right now. I mean, you need to walk away from
• 55:56
  Speaker 7: this toxic relationship. It is now time to make plans
• 56:00
  Speaker 7: for a future without him.
• 56:02
  Speaker 11: Use this time. I'm telling you to use.
• 56:04
  Speaker 7: This time to figure out how are you going to
• 56:06
  Speaker 7: take care of your baby and taking that baby daddy
• 56:09
  Speaker 7: to court right now?
• 56:11
  Speaker 6: Steve, Wow, it's a lot of here, man. Listen.
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: I feel bad for this lady right here, this young girl.
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: But this started wrong, and it's wrong from the very beginning,
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: and there are no corrections being made along the way.
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: And now you're faced with the ultimatum. At the end
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: of this letter, you're simply saying, I don't want to
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: be a single parent.
• 56:38
  Speaker 6: What should I do? Now?
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: Well, let me show you what has happened so I
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: can paint a clear picture of you. You met the love
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: of your life seven years ago. Stop saying that because
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: this is the love of your life, your life is
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: headed for a loveless, remaining livelihood.
• 57:00
  Speaker 6: This can't be the love of your life.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: This was the love of your life, so you thought
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: up until that point.
• 57:08
  Speaker 6: But after you met him, he started proving to you
• 57:11
  Speaker 6: he was not the love of your life.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: You've got to get a better definition of love of
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: your life. You got to learn how to let somebody
• 57:19
  Speaker 2: else love you that knows how to do it. Twenty one,
• 57:21
  Speaker 2: he's three years older, he already had a child. He
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: was my first everything. He influenced everything I did. I
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: overlooked a lot of things he did because I was
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: young and crazy in love. Right there, right there, you
• 57:39
  Speaker 2: made the statement, young lady, that I want you to
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: pay attention to I overlooked a lot of things he
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: did because I was young and crazy in love. He
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: would be intimate with the mother of his child. He
• 57:53
  Speaker 2: didn't try to hide it, so he just throw it
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: up in your face.
• 58:00
  Speaker 6: It made me.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: Feel like I wasn't good enough or skilled enough as
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: sex because he kept having sex with him, and you
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: knew he was kept having sex with her, and you
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: allowed him to have sex, and then he kept having
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: sex with and then the lady threw it up in
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: your face.
• 58:16
  Speaker 6: Whenever she could, and now you got.
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: Other women calling you about the love of your life,
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: and the love of your life is screwing all these
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: other people. I was heart broken, but I managed to
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: stay friends with him. Why why what has he done
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: that's friendly towards you know, we need to do two
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: things right now.
• 58:45
  Speaker 6: When we come back, we talk about it. You need
• 58:47
  Speaker 6: a new definition of friend and you need a new
• 58:50
  Speaker 6: definition of love.
• 58:51
  Speaker 7: Wow, all right, Steve, hold on to that thought. We'll
• 58:55
  Speaker 7: get part two of your response coming up at twenty
• 58:58
  Speaker 7: three minutes after the hours subject he face timed me
• 59:02
  Speaker 7: while he was with her.
• 59:03
  Speaker 11: We'll get back into it right after this.
• 59:05
  Speaker 9: You're listening morning show.
• 59:08
  Speaker 11: All right, Steve, come.
• 59:09
  Speaker 7: On, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject he face
• 59:12
  Speaker 7: timed me when he was.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: With her, This young lady who I have no jokes
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: for because I'm heartbroken for her because the twenty one
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: she claimed to have met the love of her life,
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: which was just the love of her life up at
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: that point. But this guy has shown her no respect
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: or love. He was your first everything. He influenced everything
• 59:36
  Speaker 2: you did. And the mistake you made was I overlooked
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of things he did because I was young
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: and crazy in love.
• 59:41
  Speaker 6: So what did you do?
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: You allowed him to have sex with other women repeatedly
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: that you knew about it. They had other women call
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: you to confront you about the screwing that he was
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: doing with them. You allowed it, and you allowed him
• 59:58
  Speaker 2: to put it in front of your faith because he
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: didn't care that you knew about it. Okay, these are
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: the stuff did you allowed to happen because you was
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: young and crazy in love?
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 6: Now let's move on.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: So finally you broke up with him, You say, but
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: y'all remain friends. Why what friendly was he towards you?
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: He's done nothing but dog you the entire time. That
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: ain't love on friendship. I was heartbroken, but manistate friends
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 2: with Windom. He ended up having another child with this lady.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: So now that lady they had another baby and told
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: me that it was a big mistake. Then he started
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: dating a lady from work and they had a baby together. Now,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: after the third child was born, he came to you
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: humbly and said he was so tired of how he's
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: been doing things and he wanted you back. He also
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 2: said he was ready to get married. Oh, he said
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 2: everything you wanted to. Hear got been together eight months ago,
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: and I'm pregnant. He seemed to be so happy when
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 2: I told him. He said we would have my dream wedding.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: But all that's on whole now. You know why because
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: a week ago he went to visit his youngest son
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 2: and we were on FaceTime as he drove.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 6: When he got out.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: The car, he thought he had hung up and he
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: must have thrown his phone in his pocket. You heard
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: a female mumbling, and you clearly heard her ask if
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: he had a condom. Then I heard a lot of moaning.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: I hung up and I got physically ill. When he
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: came back, he go to other mistaken I did not
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: let him know what I heard.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 6: Now I'm about to deliver his fourth child.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: He's still aliar and a cheetah, has been that the
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: entire time, and I don't want to be a single parent.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 6: What should I do now?
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: So, a young lady, you don't want to be a
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: single parent, So the only other option is this. You
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: can get married and ruin your entire remaining life by
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: being married to this liar and this cheater. Or you
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: could take this blessing, this baby. Learn from your mistakes.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: Never allow another person to walk over you, take your child,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: raise him, and then wait on your real love of
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: your life to come along.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 6: You're still young, You're still young. This is not the
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 6: end of the world for you. The baby is not
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 6: a mistake. It's not.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 2: The baby is fine. The baby will you'll You'll be fine.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: You will manage, just like every other single parent does.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 2: Do not marry this man. Now he gonna have to
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: get his But it's not up you. It's not up
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: to you to give it to it. Let me tell
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: you some ladies, y'all alwayste a lie time being scorn,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: and I do understand it, and I ain't saying it
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: shouldn't be that way. Because you hurt, you hurt. He'll
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 2: have no fury like a woman scorn. I used to
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: think it was a Bible verse. I swear to God,
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: I did. I thought it was a Bible verse. It's not,
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 2: but it sounds so true. And they use the word scorn.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: Scorn is a biblical term. That's why I thought it
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 2: was a Bible verse.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 6: But it's not.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: So now you have it, you have a decision to make.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 2: Cut your losses from this man. Stop giving yourself to
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: this man. Stop thinking you can change this man. Stop
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: hoping this man changes. You may have been the love,
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: he may have been the love of your life, but
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: listen to me, young sister, you have never been the
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 2: love of his life ever.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 11: He knows nothing about it.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: And you are not now, So let God handle him.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: Oh please know he got his coming. Ladies, dudes that
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 2: do like this, they don't get.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 6: Away scott free. I'm just why. I just need you
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 6: to know that.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 11: And he'll probably have more kids with other women.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean a lot of stuff gonna happen, but
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 6: it don't need to happen in your face though.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 11: Nope, nope.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: You could take your baby and get along and start over.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: And it happens all the time. There are men who
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 2: accept women who have children with open arms. Become great fathers,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: great families, They adopted kids, the kids take their name.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: All types of stuff happen. Don't think it's hopeless for you.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: But please do not let your yearning not to be
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: a single parent, wanting not to be a single parent
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: be in your decision in fact of whether you marry
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: this worthless, no good human being. For don't compound your mistakes.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: Your mistake was taking him back don't compound it by
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: keeping him right.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 6: Let it go, little girl.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: Uncle Steve, you're telling you walk off, cut your losses,
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: tell him what you know so he know, and go
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: about your nie.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 11: Steve, thank you.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 7: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey
• 1:05:15
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• 1:05:18
  Speaker 7: podcast on demand. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 7: so this was a question guys from Facebook. It says, Hey, Steve,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 7: Tommy Junior, my homeboy took his girlfriend on vacation because
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 7: they were beefing and thought.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 11: They needed a get away.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 7: They both were tripping and still arguing, so while on vacation,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 7: they decided to break up on the last day there.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 7: The flight home was tough, but they said, ultimately it's
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 7: for the best man. I'd be mad if I had
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 7: to spend three grand to figure out we needed to
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 7: break up.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 9: Here's a question for you, guys.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: Did you ever break up on your vacation with your
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 7: book or did you stay and fly home early?
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: You did? I?
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 8: Actually did?
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: I did?
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 8: We broke on a damn cruise ship.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 9: Yes happened.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 8: It all just.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: Came to a rocky inn.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 10: It was bad I don't know how we stayed in
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 10: that cabin two extra days.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 8: It was just bad.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 10: And by the time we docked, matter of fact, call
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 10: it doc back in New Orleans. Man, take something. I
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 10: was broke, didn't have no money, but I was though
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 10: with hot.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 6: God.
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 7: Were you guys having problems before you went on the
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 7: cruise like this guy until you thought the cruise might
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 7: you know we was having might make it better.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 8: Before we met. Seemed like we was having problem.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 10: Not Yeah, I don't want to talk about this.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 6: This is like some.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 8: Ragged in memory lane.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 12: No, I ain't never did anything like that. First of all,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 12: only beef I'm eating is on the plane. You can't
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 12: be beef before we go.
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 6: I ain't never did nothing like this.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 2: Come, I'm here to tell you that I've gone on
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 2: several vacations, yes, sir, and wanted to break up this
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: soda vacation, wanted to break up on the vacation, stayed
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: and went on some.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 6: More vacations.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 2: Until finally he's talking about he would be mad if
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 2: he spent three thousand.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 14: Uh huh.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: I've lost millions in bad vacations and break up. So no, son,
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you try to save it. You try to go
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: out there and you know, maybe this we get some
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: time away alone. But that's the best way to find
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: out if you really belong with somebody. Go somewhere where
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: there's no distractions. It's just you and Marjorie and I
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 2: have a running joke we knew we were meant to
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: be each other when we went to Borrow because Bora
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: bora has nothing to do.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 6: Bora bora. There's a Latin word that means boring, boring
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 6: and bora.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, that's a good way to
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: find out if you belong to think if you can
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: pay three thousand to get out and learn that information, money,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 2: well spit.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wow about lesson?
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 11: Uh huh, you're listening.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 9: Hard morning show.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 7: All right, So Steve, here's the question that we saw
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 7: on Facebook. It says, my sixteen year old daughter has
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 7: been dating a kid from school for the past six
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 7: months and he's cool. The problem is, now, you know,
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 7: we all know, it's summer and they're out of school.
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 11: He's always at the house, I mean.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 7: Like from eight am to like ten pm sometimes later,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 7: which means we wind up having to feed him all
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 7: his meals unless they should. Maybe they'll go out for
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 7: an evening or something.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 11: I don't mind. I'm feeding him once in a while, but.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 7: Food costs a lot these days, and we can't really
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 7: afford to keep feeding him. I told my daughter that
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 7: he either has to come by less or maybe bring
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 7: his own food now and again, and she got mad,
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 7: telling me I was being cheap and unsupportive. This boy
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 7: is eating us out of house and home. I mean,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 7: at this point, his parents should be paying me. I
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 7: feed him so much. So the question is, Steve, what
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 7: would you do and how did they get this boy
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 7: to stay home sometimes?
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: First of all, it's certain days you can't come over here.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna get this bill back down to normal, okay,
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: and we're gonna have some visitation out and you sixteen y'all,
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  Speaker 2: you'll leave over here. You can't be over here all day.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: What they doing all damn day? You don't think nothing
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: on his mind all day long, and you could don't
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: lit onm night here, and that's why he's over there
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: all day all night. No, man, you ain't coming over here.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 2: You can come over here on sad and wins now
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: during the summer, we got in there and they may
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: go somewhere in the evening here.
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 6: You mean they may go somewhere.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 7: In eave, go out for the evening or something.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, you got to be careful, y'all showing your age,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: trying to show guidance and yeah.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 6: And things like that.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: But you're not bringing your ass over here all day
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 2: every day.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 7: And the daughter remembers said that they were being cheap
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 7: and unsupportive.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 11: She said that to her parents.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: Well, I tell you what, you split your food with
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 2: it because we're making three plates here.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 11: Yeah, because she got mad mad? Yeah, you know the
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 11: daughter got mad.
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  Speaker 6: Do you know I wasn't even loud to get mad.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 11: Oh we didn't do at our parents.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: No, I be mad. But you just best to keep
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: to yourself. Are you in that blowing.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: Shoe?
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  Speaker 8: What did you say?
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 9: Shoe?
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 7: Show your eyes again, that's the one I got all
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 7: the time. Roll your eyes again one more time.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 6: Put you're in that quiet fault.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: All of that.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 8: I could.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 11: Let me give you something to think about.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: Better, not being there thinking about me and your daddy.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 7: So, yeah, this is crazy. So you're saying he can
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 7: only come over one day a week.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 6: A couple of days a week, that we put some
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 6: restrictions on.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 11: I know, everything boundaries.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 6: But you know, you know I'm gonna get his parents involved.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, that's right. Come you sixteen without a
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: summer jerm Where is your job? When I had it,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: I had to.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 4: Be at work.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 8: Get me over my girlfriend every day.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 6: I've had a job.
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 7: Any high school memory? See when you were a teenager
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 7: dating a girl in high school?
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 22: Anything had a bunch of failures, no success story, all failures,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 22: no game.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 8: What's the longest you dated in high school?
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 2: Probably about four weeks?
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 11: It a month, a month. Yeah, it was all Why
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 11: did you break up? Why did you break up?
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: I usually had something to do with money.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 8: Yeah you heard earlier it was facial features.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know money, you don't had a flat tire,
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: couldn't couldn't buy the glue to fix the flash that
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: broke up one relationship. Then a girl gonna ask me
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 2: to go to the movies, have me pay for it,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: and I didn't have no problem with it. But when
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: we got to the movie, I didn't have enough money,
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: so I just let her go.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 6: Don't have enough money?
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 11: You were rich, you had to be.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 6: I went. I went to move with one girl.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: She mad because I only got one box of popcorn
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 2: and we split it.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 6: That's all I had. Yeah, Drake, I said, here's a
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 6: water fine out.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 7: All we gotta god me cry. All right, more more
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  Speaker 7: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up for twenty
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  Speaker 7: minutes after right after this, you're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 7: All right, So, guys, have you ever eaten a meal
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 7: that just brought you to tears?
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 11: It was so good? I mean, have you ever done that?
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what's gotten close?
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 10: What when we were all in Paris that baked potato,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 10: oh with that loaded cayeh.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 8: That cavear.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it had me so emotional.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 11: Yes you all right?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 7: Okay, well wait a minute, so good, hold your tears.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 8: It was good.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: Hold your tears, baby, all right, here we go.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 7: So yeah, So, so some of us have eaten a
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 7: meal that has brought us to tears, or at least
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 7: come close to bring us to tears. Or maybe it
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 7: was a bill at the end of the meal that
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 7: made you cry.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 11: Well, anyway, there is this elderly man in China.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 7: He's been diagnosed with an extremely rare condition. It's known
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 7: as crocodile tears syndrome. I'm like, is this for real?
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: You got this? Yeah, you got a to turn here.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: I didn't.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: I beat my mama oxtails and he just happened.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 7: It causes him to cry every time he eats. It's
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 7: ruining his social life. Doctors reported that his nerve fibers
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 7: are misdirected and they interfere with his uh salivary glands,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 7: so when he smells or tastes food, it makes him cry.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 11: And I'm very funny, No it's not.
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: Nat can't and try and trek him to him to say,
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: just eat like this.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 7: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Ship.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 7: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 11: All right, it is time now for a round of
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 11: would you rather? Guys?
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 7: Would you rather have a missing tooth on the side
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 7: or a full chest.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 9: Of gray hair?
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: Give me be Yeah, I'm gonna take you want that,
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: don't take that chest full of gray hair. I'm making
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 2: sexy out wear black shirts with it. Oot. I got
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 2: to have it too, though. You know, I'm talking about
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 2: the wall where you can have that cigarette dangling off
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: the side of your mouth.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 6: That flop.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: That is not sexy.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 8: That's a visual.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: We all got it right down.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 8: All right.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 7: Would you rather take a guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 7: A guaranteed five hundred thousand dollars, or would you rather
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: a chance at getting one million dollars?
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 8: Would they say one in a hand.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: Be two in the bush. That's why one of their
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: take the half of the thing.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 8: I can flip that. I'll take the hash.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 11: I can't make it die, make a nickel.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 6: Fun I'm gonna definitely take that half.
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: All right, all right?
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 11: Would you rather have stinky breath or stinky feet?
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: I put them in them shoes I got, I got shoes.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: I get through fishing. I can't even take my damn boots.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 4: Off like that.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 19: Yeah, I'm going with bee Yeah, b all right, closing
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 19: the gym, got through working out and taking them shoes off?
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 4: Whoa?
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 2: But at least you have to unleash them. Problem with
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 2: bad breath is it is you?
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 15: Yeah?
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 2: You ain't never heard nobody go like people go, man,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: whose feet is that?
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 8: You know?
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 6: Ain't nobody would? Who breath? Is that?
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 11: They know?
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 2: You open your mouth and you still talking, and we
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: were affected?
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 11: And what about the mask? The mask?
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: Well you know that bad breakfast rough man, because if
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: you put that mask on me.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 6: You actually knocked your own ass out.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 8: And there's some people just not knowing it was them.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: I can't wait, there's another. This ain't gonna finish the
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: day out right here?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 8: All right?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Last one?
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 7: Would you rather have a constant sinus headache? Constant sinus
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 7: headache or constant itching down there?
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 16: He No, I'm just I'm just gonna be stopped up
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 16: all the way stopped signs headache.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: No. Well, I'm just I'm gonna just be digging. Damn
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 2: you dig and.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 6: I help dog. I'm talking about looking at making eye contact.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 7: What you want that's around today, coming up with.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 6: How you do it?
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 7: Last break of the day, and closing from Steve Harvey.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 4: Steve.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 7: Here we are end of the show with just one
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 7: more thing. Your closing remarks.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: Uh, you know, today I want to still stay on
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: the encouraging tip and I want to talk to people
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: about something that you should make. These are just suggestions, folks.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: You know, I don't know everything, but these are some
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 2: things that I do to personally keep myself moving forward
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 2: in a positive direction because I'm always trying to accomplish
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: something new. You know, I'm never satisfied. Well, it's not
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: that I'm never satisfied. I'm never complacent. I don't I
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: don't believe in sitting still. I don't believe in they're
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: not moving forward.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 6: I just don't see it.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: You know, every day I try to wake up and
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 2: approach and attack a new challenge. I've always setting goals
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 2: out there because it just gives you something to aim
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 2: for throughout the day. One of the things I want
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 2: to remind people of something that I do and you're
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 2: invited to do the sing is you know, have a
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 2: life feel with a mission, have a life filled with
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 2: a mission. Now you can have several missions in life,
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 2: but get your life filed with missions. Remember the show
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: Mission Impossible, And remember that tape recording that used to
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: come on every day and tell the guy what to do,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 2: and then at the end of it, the tape with
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 2: self destruct. But that became the mission. It became the purpose,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: the task at hand, and until you completed that task,
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 2: you came back in and that's what the whole show is.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 6: It was a really funny thing.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 2: You know, this tape recording comes on and in it
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: fears is and disintegrates, and that's your mission.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 6: I still do that. Man.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: It's sort of a funny analogy. I try to create
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: a mission in my life all the time, and in
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: order to accomplish your mission, one of the things you
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: have to do is you have to surround yourself with people.
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 6: Who are about the same mission.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 2: That will be no missions accomplished in life solely by yourself.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: I don't I can't think of anything that you can
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: accomplish solely by yourself. You know, even if you want
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: to have a relationship with God, Yeah, you can have
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 2: a relationship with God, but to draw closer, you know,
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 2: you gotta have some type of tool.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 6: Lig you know, you got to read some scripture. Somebody's
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 6: got to show you another way to approach it. Somebody go, Man,
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 6: if you going.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 2: Through this, read this or read that, and it sort
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 2: of helps you with your goal even in that. But
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: I don't know anything that you can accomplish mission wise alone.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: So you need to surround yourself who with people who
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 2: are like minded. As a motivational speaker, sometimes when I'm
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 2: going you use my motivational pictures.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 6: That I keep in my phone, and.
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 2: I put them up on a big screen and I
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 2: show them to people. And one of my favorite pictures
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 2: is a picture of these lions walking and the expression
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 2: on the lion's face because they've woken up from their
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: nap and they're going out for the hunt.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 6: And if you look at lions when they're walking to
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 6: go out on.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: A hunt, they all have that same determined look on
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: their face because they're all about the same mission. You
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: ever notice when lions ready to go out on the hunt,
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: they leave the cubs back at the den because see,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 2: it ain't no time to play out here, because we're
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: going out here to feed.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 6: Were going out here to hunt.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 2: So they leave the cubs back in the den when
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: they go out on the hunt because they ain't got
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: no time for no foolishness. And I have this picture
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: in my phone of these lions just striding and if
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: you look at all the looks on when they face,
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 2: they serious.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 6: It ain't no playtime.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: Because everybody is on the same mission. Everybody is of
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: the like mindedness that it takes to accomplish the mission.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 2: And the capture says, surround yourself with people who are
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 2: on the same mission. And I'm saying that to you today.
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: Find someone who is about the business just like you are.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 2: Start hanging out with people who are goal oriented, who
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 2: are are success minded. Somebody was talking to somebody one time.
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 2: They said, man, Steve, let me ask you something. Why
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: rich people are always talking about money? That would get
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: on my nerves. Okay, what else you want to talk about?
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 2: You want to talk about what happened on the Real Housewives?
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 2: What you want to talk about, what's going on in
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: the theaters today? We can talk about that. But when
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: I get together with my friends, we get together. We
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 2: on a mission. I even play golf with people who
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 2: are on the same mission as me, you know, because
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: we of like mindedness. I don't play golf with a
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: bunch of single friends because see, now, when we're not
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 2: playing golf, we're not gonna be able to single mind
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 2: I need people just want to go play golf, Go
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 2: to the clubhouse, have a cigar, get yourself a drink,
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: get yourself some neat and go and go to your room,
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 2: cause we gotta get up early in the morning play
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 2: this tournament game we got going again.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: That's just it.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: Even when I play, I play with people of like mindedness.
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 2: I don't play with people that's doing something else because
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 2: I don't need the distraction. It's very important that you
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 2: surround yourself with like minded people.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 6: Find them somewhere.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 8: See.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: It goes along with an old saying. You've all heard this.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 2: If you're the smartest person in your group, then you
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: need a new group. You can't be the smartest person
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 2: in your group. Man, you gotta have somebody that knows
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 2: a little bit more about the journey, or is familiar
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 2: with a certain thing that's going to happen on the journey,
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 2: or they can give you a suggestion when you get
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 2: to that point. Everybody ain't got to be good at everything.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you have specialty people. It's like you know, when
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 2: you assembling your team, all of your friends ain't the same.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 2: Some of your friends you don't have spiritual messages for you.
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 2: Some of them just have uplifts, some of them just
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 2: cool to be around. Some of them do the same
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 2: things you do. But surround yourself with people who are
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 2: on the same mission. It will make your journey to
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 2: the top a lot smoother. It won't make it easy,
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 2: it will make it smoother.
• 1:24:41
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