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Thanksgiving Education, T-Day Family Members, Turkey Talk, Holiday Breakup Timing and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down,
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  Speaker 1: giving them like amazing things. And it's not true. Good
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  Speaker 1: Steve to the mother for ste Barby, I don't join Jo.
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  Speaker 1: the water the water, y'all, come come on your bad
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  Speaker 1: uh I show will good morning everybody. You'll listening to
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  Speaker 1: the voice and now come on dig me one and only.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show one more time partner,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man. How amazing is that?
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  Speaker 1: How good has God been to me? How good has
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  Speaker 1: he been to you? Just check yourself sometimes, just sit up,
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  Speaker 1: Just let's run a survey. Just look at your life,
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  Speaker 1: where it's at. It might not be where you want
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  Speaker 1: it to be, but that's probably some decisions you made.
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  Speaker 1: But really, though, in spite of all the crazy mistakes
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  Speaker 1: I didn't made, I mean, man, I look back at
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  Speaker 1: some of the decisions I didn't came up with and
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  Speaker 1: and man, it's it's it's just amazing. He let me live.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's and and and to exist the
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  Speaker 1: way I exist, that's nothing but grace, mercy, favor all
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  Speaker 1: that is. That's what my mama praying for me when
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't praying for myself. It had to be it, because, man,
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  Speaker 1: I can truly tell you I have made enough mistakes man,
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  Speaker 1: stuff you would never even know about, and recovered from
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  Speaker 1: them all you can too, and I don't care what
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  Speaker 1: you've done. Marvin Sapp has a song out that says
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  Speaker 1: he saw the best in me when everyone else around
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  Speaker 1: me could only see the worst in me. You know
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  Speaker 1: that that's an important song man, especially you know. I
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  Speaker 1: want to talk to men today because man, being a
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  Speaker 1: man is so so difficult. Please know it has been
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  Speaker 1: my quest ever since I was a little boy. My
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  Speaker 1: father had one ambition, son, I don't care what you do. Both.
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  Speaker 1: When I get through raising you, you will be a man.
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  Speaker 1: That's all I want you to be. And he never
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  Speaker 1: cared what I did for a living, and it never
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  Speaker 1: made a difference to him. You're going to be a man.
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  Speaker 1: Manhood is difficult. Now, ladies, just listening to this, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not saying womanhood ain't. I don't know what it takes
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  Speaker 1: to be a woman, so you know, but I do
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  Speaker 1: know exactly what it takes to be a man. So
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  Speaker 1: you know, sometimes when you talk to people on the radio,
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  Speaker 1: you have to preface things because people are just go
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  Speaker 1: he trying to make it look like womanhood. Ain't. No,
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  Speaker 1: That's not what I'm doing. I'm just talking to men
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  Speaker 1: today to explain to them that daigned by the self
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  Speaker 1: and struggling trying to figure this thing out, that you
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  Speaker 1: are not alone in your quest for manhood. That is difficult,
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  Speaker 1: but I gotta I gotta tell you, man manhood is
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  Speaker 1: that kind of difficult, and it becomes even more compounded
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  Speaker 1: if a young boy does not have a male role model.
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  Speaker 1: I've said it a thousand times. I'll say it again.
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  Speaker 1: A young boy without a male role model is like
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  Speaker 1: an explorer without a map. While I have a suggestion
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  Speaker 1: for everybody that's struggling with manhood and all of the
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  Speaker 1: men out there that are men, This messages for all
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  Speaker 1: of us, and it's for me too. You know. I
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  Speaker 1: was listening to George Myers the other day and she
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  Speaker 1: made a statement, she said, sometimes you gotta do the
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  Speaker 1: right thing, even when it feels wrong. You know, one
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  Speaker 1: of the difficulties of manhood is pure pressure and the
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  Speaker 1: misguided principles of manhood. See what God wants us to
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  Speaker 1: be as men and what we believe manhood is sometimes
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  Speaker 1: two different things. Give you an example. I wrote this
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  Speaker 1: book for women, right and I was telling them the
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  Speaker 1: three ways that a man shows his love, and I
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  Speaker 1: call him three peas. We profess, we protect, and we provide.
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  Speaker 1: Every man who is a man, that's how he exhibits love.
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  Speaker 1: When I Talkie talking comforting with our great nurturists. But
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  Speaker 1: when it comes down to to it, what we all
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  Speaker 1: want to do, what is in our day DNA, is
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  Speaker 1: to profess our love for something you as a woman,
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  Speaker 1: to protect you as a woman, and to provide for
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  Speaker 1: you as a woman. That's in our DNA. Now, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: that gets messed up, and I'll give you an example.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes when a boy doesn't have the proper, real role
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  Speaker 1: model in his life, he takes that principle of love
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  Speaker 1: that we all possessing us every man, the professing part,
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  Speaker 1: the protecting, and in the providing part, and we misplay it.
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  Speaker 1: That's why gangs exist. Gangs exist off those three principles.
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  Speaker 1: What's the first thing a gang member do he professed.
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  Speaker 1: He claim a hood. That's the first thing you do.
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  Speaker 1: This is my neighborhood. I'm Duce's trade, I'm triple h
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  Speaker 1: I'm due de dude, I'm purple, I'm red, I'm blue.
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  Speaker 1: The first thing they do is claim. That's professing. That's
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  Speaker 1: how we show our love. But it's misguided though. Now
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  Speaker 1: we're professing something that ain't even good for us. Your hood,
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  Speaker 1: your game, your click. Now, guess what. Now we got
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  Speaker 1: to protect it. So now as a protection part of
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  Speaker 1: our love, here we go. You come down here, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do this to you. You go over there, they're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do that to you. You protect your hood, This
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  Speaker 1: your turf, this all you got. You ain't nobody coming
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  Speaker 1: down here with blue owned. Can't nobody come over here
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  Speaker 1: with red on. You can't come over here with purple on.
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  Speaker 1: You can't come over here with black and gold on.
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  Speaker 1: And we and we protect that because that's in our DNA.
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  Speaker 1: And then what's the third thing we provide? So guess
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  Speaker 1: what the game need money? Guess what we do. We're
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  Speaker 1: selling drugs, we're selling women, we're selling guns. It go
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  Speaker 1: back to the same thing. Man, I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: God gave it to me that way when I was
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  Speaker 1: writing a book, but he showed it to me along
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  Speaker 1: the way. That's how men love well. When you don't
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  Speaker 1: have a role model in your life. Guess what, Now
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  Speaker 1: that love is misplaced, it's misguided, it's off track. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: no man told you that. Really you're supposed to take
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  Speaker 1: this love and give it to a woman. You're really
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  Speaker 1: supposed to profess, protect and provide for a woman, not
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  Speaker 1: your gang set. Now you professing your hood, wrapping a color,
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  Speaker 1: you protecting your territory, shooting people driving by coming over
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  Speaker 1: you on your street, and then you provide. Now you
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  Speaker 1: are here selling drugs and guns for the same thing.
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  Speaker 1: When a boy does not have a male role model,
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  Speaker 1: he has a misguided way of looking at manhood. Here's
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  Speaker 1: a deal. See, God created all of us in his image.
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  Speaker 1: That means He's put some of our DNA in him.
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  Speaker 1: That's why it's in your DNA to profess, protect, and provide,
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  Speaker 1: because guess what, that's what God do for us, because
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  Speaker 1: we His children. I'm just talking to men right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling you man, I had to wake up
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  Speaker 1: about five years ago. I wasn't doing what God wanted
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  Speaker 1: me to do, and then he shook me. He said, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring about some changes in your life. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna cause some things to happen that's gonna put you
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  Speaker 1: in a position. And this time you're gonna listen to me,
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  Speaker 1: because if you don't, you're gonna keep living in this
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  Speaker 1: pain you've been in. But you put yourself in this pain.
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  Speaker 1: I own no blame to no one else but myself.
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  Speaker 1: Please know. I know that. And that's how you really
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  Speaker 1: get to manhood when you figure out what you hadn't
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  Speaker 1: done wrong. You can't blame this on none of your
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  Speaker 1: exes because you are a man. You can't go my
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  Speaker 1: ex dear this. No, No, you're a man, pardner. You
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  Speaker 1: got to take responsibility for yours and yours alone. If
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  Speaker 1: you got kids, you got to get to them some
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  Speaker 1: kind of way. Write him a letter, send them the money.
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  Speaker 1: If she won't let you see it, for the money, whatever,
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  Speaker 1: send them money to a mama. Do what you're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to do as a man. Do what God want you
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  Speaker 1: to do, man, because he's not letting us off the
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  Speaker 1: hook for what we're supposed to be just because you
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  Speaker 1: ain't doing it. And if you do it you turn
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  Speaker 1: your life around. Just holding that. The fellas today that
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  Speaker 1: saw sorry about that. You're listening here I ain't and
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  Speaker 1: here I be. You are listening to Steve Harvey is moaning.
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  Speaker 1: Time is early. We rise. We ain't got this the
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  Speaker 1: other time, all of these verses ain't got to ride
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  Speaker 1: because that ain't what I do at this time. It's
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  Speaker 1: early is moaning, and here I am for you. Come on, everybody,
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  Speaker 1: it's the Moaning Show. Hell yeah. Last time, it's the
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  Speaker 1: m you know what you just did right there, that's
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  Speaker 1: right there, that's talent. It's it's guilt. Yeah yeah, the
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  Speaker 1: whole thing. Oh no, no, no, it's not the saying no,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's the nerve. Yeah, lighten me, it's the nerve
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  Speaker 1: to saying in that tone first thing in the morning
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  Speaker 1: without asking no about right, that's where that's where the
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  Speaker 1: talent come in, the nerve of you. Yeah, so so,
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  Speaker 1: So when is a good time, because I need to
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  Speaker 1: probably take this advice. When's a good time to tell
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  Speaker 1: somebody they have no talent in the Pacific field? Well,
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  Speaker 1: I try to make it a point to notify people
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  Speaker 1: continue to come over to my house in my space
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  Speaker 1: with it, I must stop you because, see, someone, I
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  Speaker 1: am not the Church. The Church says come as you all,
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  Speaker 1: and God loves you just the way you are. Clearly
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  Speaker 1: I am not the Lord, and I don't love you
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  Speaker 1: just the way you are. I love you if you
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  Speaker 1: fix a cover band first, but I don't. Yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that. I don't love you just the
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  Speaker 1: things for you come back over here. So you know,
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  Speaker 1: if you come over to me, you're a little strong,
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  Speaker 1: I stand off. I say, hey, made you do something
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  Speaker 1: to coming up at the thirty two minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: my job. We're gonna start the show off with Tommy's
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this you're listening string
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  Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour, Miss
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  Speaker 1: Anne will be here with today's national news and headlines.
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  Speaker 1: But right now it's time for the nephew to run
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  Speaker 1: that prank back. Well, we will all have one one day,
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  Speaker 1: hopefully no time soon. But this title is tomb Stone
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  Speaker 1: tomb Stone. I mean you know it's the tunes gone
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  Speaker 1: this man. I know he don't drawne nowhere no line
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  Speaker 1: where it's no line I draw the line. We just
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  Speaker 1: ain't got to it. It's just way okay toombs do.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go cat down home, Miss kend Hey, man, I
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  Speaker 1: gotta we gotta problem with the steer home one. Let
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  Speaker 1: man's something y'allant to mess around and put the wrong
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  Speaker 1: name on my aunt tombs and wills to do, and
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  Speaker 1: we gotta problem. We gotta get rectified. Man, y'all got
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  Speaker 1: hold hold on, hold on, man, calm down. And first
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  Speaker 1: of all, what is your name? My name is Ritchie Man.
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  Speaker 1: But yo, I can't understand a funeral home making the
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  Speaker 1: tun of mistakes? You know what? That that don't make
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  Speaker 1: no sense. I wa y'all haven't been in the business
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  Speaker 1: to be doing something like this. So this is a
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  Speaker 1: family business. We've been doing this forty plus years. I
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  Speaker 1: don't making mistakes like this. Man, What's what? What's the problem?
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  Speaker 1: What's the mistake? What's what mistake do you think we made? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: look man, we're being my ain't it two weeks ago?
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  Speaker 1: Her name is Rosetta? Okay, all right, what do you spell?
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  Speaker 1: Our name is r O s e t t A.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all got r o z e t t an. She
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  Speaker 1: was born tune to eight, nineteen forty eight. Y'all got
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  Speaker 1: August the six, nineteen forty y'all got the dates mixed up.
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  Speaker 1: Then y'all got her name mixed up. And when we're
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  Speaker 1: king to do that's how I ain't are rifted in
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  Speaker 1: peace with the wrong stuff. On her thombstall. No first, man,
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  Speaker 1: com down right, and you can't getting at me. I
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  Speaker 1: can't use no way I can help you to getting
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  Speaker 1: at me now, I mean fix the problem, damn man,
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  Speaker 1: I could check the paperwork. I can check the paperwork
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  Speaker 1: and see what the problem is. Now, if you gave
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  Speaker 1: me the wrong information, your family gave me wrong information,
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  Speaker 1: then we just put down where we would get it.
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  Speaker 1: And if we got to change something, we're gonna change it.
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  Speaker 1: But it's gonna cause you some more money. No, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: we're here. We're not paying another damn damn to that
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  Speaker 1: funeral all, not another damn damn. The stuff gonna get
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  Speaker 1: changed from this damn toomst, then we're not paying for none.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this. I'm going I'm decided. I'm
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  Speaker 1: saying we can help you out. I can help you.
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  Speaker 1: What if you gave me the wrong information, that's only
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  Speaker 1: why didn't do that, that's on you. We didn't give
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  Speaker 1: you the wrong information. No, I'm gonna tell you that
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  Speaker 1: you put it on the name a wrong. What is
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  Speaker 1: your name? My name is Kendrick. Okay, Kendrick, let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something. If this don't get changed, body money,
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  Speaker 1: Me and some of my cousin's gonna come out there
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  Speaker 1: and start digging up about it. All right, y'all not
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  Speaker 1: coming over here and digging up nothing. He's my player.
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  Speaker 1: He would disrespect my family and come over here, and
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna get up what we're gonna dig up some body.
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  Speaker 1: If y'all gonna, if you're gonna get the direct problem
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  Speaker 1: of my hand Toomston, there's not gonna be none of that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not having you coming over here. We're gonna fix
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  Speaker 1: the problem and check the PaperWorks, and I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: back to you. That's why I can do. But you
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  Speaker 1: ain't digging up nothing. If if, if y'all ain't fix
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  Speaker 1: this thing on my head Toomston. But even me and
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  Speaker 1: my cousin is coming out there digging up something them
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  Speaker 1: damn dead body. Until y'all get this damn thing fix,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be nobody coming over there. Hold on,
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  Speaker 1: see what now I'm getting excited to come man, Let
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  Speaker 1: me just talk to you like a man. Listen. What
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying to you is that the family seals out
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  Speaker 1: the paperwork, put the name in the birth date on there.
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  Speaker 1: If it is incorrect, it has to be fixed. I
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  Speaker 1: have to call the man out here to fix it.
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  Speaker 1: And that's gonna call some money. I have to pay him.
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  Speaker 1: All I'm saying is if that is the case, if
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  Speaker 1: the paperwork is incorrect, it's not on us, and I
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  Speaker 1: might have to charge you a little extra money just
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  Speaker 1: so I can get it taken care of. To get
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  Speaker 1: charge nothing. We ain't got no more money, man, we
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no money. We ain't got no more I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you one more time,
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  Speaker 1: mister Kendrick. If don't see or chat, I'm coming after
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  Speaker 1: this evening. And look at my hand the tune. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm coming out there now. If the date and the
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  Speaker 1: name ain't fixed, I promise you so help me. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna starting up butt it. And if you're answering out there,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you in one of them home. I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you what vegid. You're not gonna put me in
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  Speaker 1: no hole man, Like I said, I tell it, I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to talk to you and tell you what the
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  Speaker 1: deal is and how we will get this fix. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: nobody come out here and dig it up nothing? I
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  Speaker 1: I bet you. I'm digging a hole, and I'll put
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  Speaker 1: you if you don't fix my hand. We're both were
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  Speaker 1: going in the damn hole. That's what's gonna happen. We're
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  Speaker 1: both going in that in because somebody want to fix
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  Speaker 1: this around and put the room. You want to put
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  Speaker 1: the spell. My hand ruin everything. I don't even answer
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  Speaker 1: the damn phone. And my uncle get Expisiens region resid
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  Speaker 1: fix nothing. Mean you're yelling at each other. We mean,
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  Speaker 1: we don't do this. Yelling at each other is not
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  Speaker 1: gonna fix the problems. I I still have to do
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  Speaker 1: a step here. I have to look at this paperwork.
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  Speaker 1: But when are you gonna look at it? Then? Rether
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  Speaker 1: you keep yelling. I don't even have time. I need
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  Speaker 1: golden and stay word every time. If you're really look
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  Speaker 1: at something, you're yelling in my hand. He let me
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  Speaker 1: say this until you one more time. I'm come at mondfucker.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna come out there right now. That's what I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. You know what we're to come on there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to talk nice to your tell you what
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  Speaker 1: to I told you that this is a fan of business.
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  Speaker 1: You dis respected me. You come out here. You ain't
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  Speaker 1: no because when we both go to old days. That's
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  Speaker 1: what I'm trying to tell you right now. Just me,
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  Speaker 1: you're not liking, but when you you need to. You
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  Speaker 1: need to know the mos on my way because they're
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  Speaker 1: guarantee you you're gonna chance. I'm gonna bring you. Then
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  Speaker 1: bring that you ain't your cousin as the gonna call
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: bigger bull setting hold. I'll just say when they get
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  Speaker 1: rid of the saying, Kendrick, come the thromb, so I
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  Speaker 1: mess they're gonna fan role oh b, then come off.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna cussing. I got miss, and I need
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  Speaker 1: to tell you. Yes, you got to say. I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to me, Kendrick, you wrap the same regid
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  Speaker 1: to say. Then is miss you tell me you got
• 20:00
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• 20:15
  Speaker 1: he man man old he was moving to being here
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  Speaker 1: today day I knew something was fun. Oh man, you
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: got me, but I was gonna do the whole for
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  Speaker 1: you to date trying to dig All right, Hey man,
• 20:32
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  Speaker 1: Researchers have discovered that Americans are having less sex than
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  Speaker 1: they were twenty years ago. Oh no, I'm no, I
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  Speaker 1: am what I'm years ago? Yeah, Jack Rebbit, you were
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  Speaker 1: bringing it stead. I'm talking Jack j R. S Everything
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  Speaker 1: Wheel thirty years ago. Boy, you should have seen it.
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  Speaker 1: You should have seen well. To be exact, they say
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  Speaker 1: about nine fewer times per year than they were in
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  Speaker 1: the nineteen nineties. Yeah, that's what they're saying twenty years ago,
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  Speaker 1: nine fewer times a week per year. Oh but you
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: were per week boy? Oh man, I'm talking about performances
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: that that had no meaning. No, what is it a performance? Though?
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: We got to put on a show. What what did
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: you say? Wasn't in love? Which before you're not on stage.
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  Speaker 1: You're just you're not on stage. I will sage gentleman.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: Rabbits sunshine come bouncing out the bath room with a
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  Speaker 1: white tail rabbit. Yeah, coming through the smoke dog lights, lights,
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  Speaker 1: glasses on, and a cottontail rabbit. Wasn't didn't kick the
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  Speaker 1: energy as of funny out to wait, I was. I
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  Speaker 1: had a drum beIN and muscular, hard ass looking rabbit dog.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: Nothing but veins, muscling skins, six pack ass muscles HARDI
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  Speaker 1: dam strange everything but veins, skin, just some massive I
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: ain't never had no real guns, but you just saw vein. Okay, man,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: I'd like to do nobody fat. You had to bring
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: him shut again to bring them out. The ladies and
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: gentlemen coming to the room right now. The holy rabbit
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: that makes bulls bunning not that funny. The only rabbit
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: that can tell Peter cotton hand on gold ahead is
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Jack rabbit. Fun Oh Jack rabbit. Back rabbit came in
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: with a pair of gold boots on from purple shoe
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: sho Yeah, Jack rabbit Johnson man, oh god telling you man.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: The only rabbit to star Roger rabbit girl Jack rabbit
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: so shot Wow, I'm getting ready to tell you right now.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: The researchers believe that this is because Americans are getting
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: married older and starting their families later, so that it's
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: called jack rabbits. Ain't give a damn back. That's why
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: I was. I had nothing to lose. So if you're older,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: you know you might be more tired as a parent. No,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: which means less sex. No, I ain't had no money.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I wasn't working regular Yeah time time I was out here,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: boy broke. Where are you yelling? Height? And was looking
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: for a home. What is this intensity level you have?
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Because I was homeless, rabbit sunshine with you had it
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: forfar girl, so I could stay. I got it. What
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: you're doing tomorrow night? Be hire you Friday? Driving back
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: through time? Little did she know? I wouldn't even leave
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: it time man, Okay. In technology, they say is also
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: a major distraction and relationships. Now, Oh yeah, I didn't
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: have nothing back then, I have nothing but time. You
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: couldn't text me, you can't find me, you couldn't call me. Yeah,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I am dang. It was a good old day. Oh man.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: That's what they're saying. People are spending more time looking
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: at their smartphones than they are talking talking dirty to
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: each other, now dirty on pay phone. Somebody will wait
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: phone sets over hard. No you can't. I'm standing up
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  Speaker 1: in a booth. Is hard for me to get what
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I need. And I'm standing hit this booth with these
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: folk glass sides, everybody looking at me. I'm trying to
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: trying to do it. But the phone booth, I'm standing
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: up the dop not if you grew and hit the
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: dough is over. I gotta do whatever that's my say.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Say little man, what is you in that talking out
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: hit the ruined? I shouldn't have been here, man, I don't. Yeah,
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: I got excited. Now I'm bad or bad. I have
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: to do a little bit man stupid. Oh man, I
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: had trouble then I'm trying to get it all in technology.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: No technology, none of that. No hell no that pay
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: phones hard. Yeah, the phone saying you got long distance,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: got put another part in there. God, you got to
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: hear up and say this. The greatest invention they had
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: was when they started dropping them pay phones down where
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: you could pull up your car and then let the
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: winder down. That was the greatest invention too. I used
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: to look for them, Wow, pull up over there, man,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I could arrange for phone calls. Call me back at
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: this number in full hour. I'll go over there and wait.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I'll be right there at that fact for the rest
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: of the night. I love your commitment to everything. How
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: you doing where I'm going? I ain't got no happen
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: rolling though, dog. I told the girl is where I live?
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: My home? No, it was a payphone. I signed let
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: no one. The girl told me one time you need
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: to answer, I got one. It ain't on I forgot.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: I used to give away pay phone number till girls
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: where I live because I couldn't tell me I was home. O. Man,
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: every time my car. You ain't never that. I can't
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: even leave you know mentions. I know you're thinking about me.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: All right? And on that note, the story Jack Rabbit
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Sunshin you didn't lived, Jack Rabbit Sunshine you thank God
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: for the place, jr Rabbit keep your Jack. Ain't your
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: rabbit forever with the sun shining on it. Love live
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: Jack Rabbit, Jackson and the sun that shined on it.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: All right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Show coming up right after this. You're listening to Stow
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving Us coming up and I just want to remind
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: you all to be conscious of the people that's in
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: your house. These are just a few different types of
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: people that you might have, and they're usually relatives. Now, oh,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: here's the first one. You might have a relative, Dad
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: that's been done some hard times. Oh yeah, that's well,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: so I'm familiar. Here's another one. You might have a
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: relative dad. This's got don't work clothes, but don't have
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: a job ahead uniform. He got on the mill of
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: high life. Come and got a damn post office uniform
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: on your hand. Start working on post office. Here's another
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: relative that you might have at Thanksgiving. Gather one of
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: them that have stole from their mama. So now you
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: gotta watch every damn move they mate. Oh yeah, let
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: him go in that back room. You'll not let him
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: go in that. Here's another relative that you might have
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: over on Thanksgiving. Mister black power one hundred percent, but
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: he's marrid to a white girl to the people. Here's
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: another relative that you might have over at the Thanksgiving dinner.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: You got one in relatives, got a brand new car.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: But what don't nobody know is he's sleeping in the
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: car because he ain't got place to live. Here is
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: the relative we all got, all of us got this
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: one ain't gonna bring a damn thing. We're gonna pack
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: six to go plates. Yes, I can't stand there, and
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: that man, I can't stand you go the other one.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: You one of your relatives gonna bring some kids to
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving that need their ass will, but you can't do
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: nothing about it because they ain't chills. Yeah, better to
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: be a whole trip. That's all of us in that,
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: just going punch on each other, just dipping into punch,
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: both owing it on each other. Black ass with you
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: table table is dangerous. Black cass can't read? Yeah, wait
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: what stand? You know the kids? We'll do all that
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: working but can't read. Yeah, damn show can't read cursing.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: The show came through. Yeah, and you ever had the
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: relatives come over to your house? That ain't nobody invite,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: but somehow they found out where everybody was? Yes, wonder
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: where y'all? Oh wow, crazy, you got the relative here?
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: The relatives come over, swamp them down. They don't eat park,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: but just turn up the greens that got park in them.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, killing them that would be a hogmall
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: part of that right, last one. This the relative I
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: had on one year. I mean sure his ass don't
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: come back no more. Found his ass in the guess room,
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: fast asleep, not on top of the bed, but under
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: the clover. When you wake your front house, I bet
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: you are Oh yeah, dog, oh dog, I would I'm saying,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: is in the guest rule. He was independing Lenny. All right, Steve,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: let's get to the news. Ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Tripp,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: thank you very much, everybody sand Trip with the news.
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Let's get to go. Closing arguments have begun in the
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Ahmed Aarbury case in Georgia, where the three white manacues
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: of chasing, corralling, and shooting an innocent, unarmed black jagger
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: to death are on trial. Some critics are as worried
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: about this judge as they were about the judge who
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: resided over the Kyle Rittenhouse case. In the Kenosha killer's case,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: the judge refused to even let the prosecutors refer to
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: the men Kyle Rittenhouse shot as victims, and the judge
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: in this case the Aubrey murdered child is refusing to
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: let the jury hear about the shooter. Travis McMichael calling
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: mister Aubrey the F and N word as he lay dying,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: or about McMichael's many racist comments on social media. Prosecutors
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: say that racism was the reason they assumed Aarbury was
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: a criminal, why they felt to get away with killing him.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: They almost did get away, by the way, until there
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: was a human cry in the nation. There were no
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: charges filed against these guys. The defense claimed that they
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: were merely trying to make a citizen's arrest. By the way,
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: mister Aubrey hadn't stolen anything. He'd stopped by the building
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: under construction and sipson water out of the sink and
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: continue his run. He'd stopped by there often. It was
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: at least four other times that he had stopped by there.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: The owner of the property confirmed that said that Aubury
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: was not the only person who'd stopped by, although there
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: were other black people a couple of white couple with
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: a bag also on his unfinished property. In Texas, two
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Astro World security guards suing saying that they were injured
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: during a crowd surge. It took place at the recent
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Traviscott concert Jackson Samuel Bush say they were hurt while
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: working the event. They're suing several of the parties involved,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: including the firm that hired them for the job. Their
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: suit says, in part that quote defendants failed to provide
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: a safe working place or basic training. Police and Walkershaw,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Wisconsin holding a man in connection with the five people
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: killed and over forty others injured two days ago when
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: a car plowed into that town's Christmas parade. Police Chief
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Dan Thompson says thirty nine year O'Dowd Brooks was involved
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: in another situation just before the carnage occurred. We have
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: information that the suspect prior to Insla was involved into
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: domestic disturbance which was just minaced prior, and the suspect
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: left that scene just prior to our arrival to the
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: domestic disturbance. CO say he tried to run his girlfriend
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: over with that same car. Sad and shocking news authorities
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: say that Malikashire Baz, one of Malcolm X's daughters, was
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: found dead yesterday evening in her Brooklyn, New York City apartment.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: Malika was fifty six. Her death is not considered suspicious,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: although a cause of death has not been determined. She
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: was discovered by her daughter Malika's death comes only two
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: days after two of the men who served two decades
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: behind bars for assassinating her father were exonerated, one posthumously.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: All of us here at WBLS send our heartfelt condoless
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: and all of us on the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: to the Shabbas family. Now back to the Steve Harvey
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening show. Getting together with family for
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving can definitely be stressful, really a stressful time for
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: some people, some families. All those extended relatives in one
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: place with different opinions, you know, they're bound to set
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: off a few fights. So most people just tend to
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: be careful of what they say. They tend to be,
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: you know, a little leary of what's not going to
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: be in my house. That's what I was gonna ask you. So,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: are there some subjects that you're told that are totally
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: off limits that you don't bring up or you just
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: do whatever? Because now this is my house. I say
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: what I want to say, but I did what. I
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: don't allow it in my house. Anybody to just pray, yeah,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: like over the food? You mean, yeah, I pigs who
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: pray like pop bridges, like Marjorie daddy, he could pray
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: all the food. I don't like other people coming to
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: the house. That happened one time, Marjorie, whole family with that.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Do you ever pray? Yeah? I pray it'd be so
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: short we eat everybody. My Thanksgiving prayer same as my grace.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: You know what's but Steve, how do you handle that?
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Because if somebody's there and say, well, can I bless
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: the food? Steve say no, No, I say no, Pop
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Bridge is bless it? Go head pop? And he jumped
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: right in. It's pretty simple that ain't Now We had
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: this lady. She told me, I want my husband and
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: bless your food. He does a good Thanksgiving prayer not
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: over here. Was he a pastor? I don't know what
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: it was, but he ain't him to do it up
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: in him. I don't know what it is those people
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: that are not pastors that they ministers and they don't
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: get the rid of see right there ministers all that.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: He got a really good Thanksgiving prayer? What does mean
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: it ain't better than this damn turkey? Yeah, he was
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: an elder at our church. He prayed too long? So long? Yes,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: so I mean so long? And you couldn't. Every time
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: you thought he was stop, he kept going. All he
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: was throwing was taking a breath. You know what bothers me?
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: That hole taking food out the house at the end,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: just wrapping up tubs and tubs and foods. People getting
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: their little to gold plate? How am I gonna eat
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: on Friday? Tommy? You need to cook some at How
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: am I gonna do? That's right, Tommy? How is she
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: gonna eat? Cook? Also? You mean people that are invited
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: to dinner, Tommy, and they get it to gold plate?
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: You know, you know, one plate? Okay, cool? But when
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I see you loading up three folk plates a fall
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: and it still come on, man, really y'all starving over there?
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: They may be pretty much well, but this high work
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: at our house because you know, usually Marjorie know what
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I like, She'll put that in the other refrigerator and
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: the other refrigerator. Oh okay, I'm now in an argument
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: for me to get to that. Huh man, Now, how
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: many refrigerators at your house? The one in the kitchen,
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: in the kitchen, you know, a bunch of fridgerator car man.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Can't wait to be that all right? Coming up next,
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steven Show. Okay, nephew, all right, now,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Carlo says you're pretty good at frying turkeys. He's excellent.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: She's always talking about your delicious frying turkeys. So can
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: you break it down as to what you do? I mean,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: you know, and how you do it and everything. Let
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: me know, because maybe I'll try one this year. You
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: don't try to Tommy, I'll tell Tommy's gonna tell me.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Let's let's let's let's deal with with just being uh say, first,
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: make sure your turkey is completely completely thought out before
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: you decide to right turkey, all right, because there's a
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: lot of people that And make sure that it is
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: room temperature. Okay, so a lot of people. I personally,
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: I'll season my turkey. I'll season my turkey on Monday.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna shoot it up because that's where it's so
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: delicious the season. So can you reveal, Nephew, some of this?
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I will. I will never tell you what I'm shooting
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: in the turkey, Okay, right, I mean, man, okay, you
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: know what? They don't say nothing else this second? What
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: is the big deal you gotta put some special seasons. Sure,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: you put your season all together. You put it in
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: a processor and it's very liquidy, and you shoot it up.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: They have a big huge syringe that you shoot the
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: turkey up with and you shoot it all over the turkey. Okay,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: you got that part. Okay, got it. Yes, I'm at
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: Let me talk to call. So after that call, after
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: that caller, you put your your turt in the fridge.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: It's Monday, Okay, it's Monday. Now let it sit for
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: twenty four hours. That's until at least Tuesday. Right now.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: I normally put it back in the freezer because I
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: don't like to let it sit that long, all right,
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: So I'll let it. I'll let it freeze back up.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Now Wednesday night, take it out, thought out. We are
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: not we are not gonna drop it into the grease
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: until Thursday, an hour before dinner is when we're gonna
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: drop it in. And you're telling people how you fried turkeys.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: This is how I do it. Now, what I want
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: you to do, though, I want you to make sure
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: that the turkeys room temperature. So take it out, let
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: it sit out, and until it's time to drop it in.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Because if you if I promise you. If it's a
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: little bit of freeze still in there, this iced up, now,
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have some problems. And you know, there's been
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: turkeys that's been shot straight through the route. Turkeys burnt
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: down some garages, so you got to know what you're
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: doing with these turkeys. Yeah, a lot of firefighters are
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: shaking their heads up and down listening. Yeah. Here come Thanksgiving.
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: We're gonna be on call, right right. Okay, I got
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: it so far. Okay, when you get to that Okay, Okay, Shirley,
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: what I said, do what I say. Do shit. You
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: take it out, you thought out, then you put it
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: back in the freezer, then you put you shoot it
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: up with a syringe with some stuff in it, and
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: then you freeze it again, and then you take it
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: back out. Okay, I'm with you. Go ahead, no more.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: But see the street down right there. You burnt your
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: whole street down. Okay, go on, go on, I'm listening.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: You are three pounds, you're gonna you're gonna fry three
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: pounds every for every other let's start it off. For
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: every pound is three minutes, okay, for every pound your turkey, ways,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: it's three minutes. Okay, okay, So you got a ten
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: pound turkey thirty minutes, it's thirty minutes. Then you might
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: want to let it cook a minute or two over
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: just to make sure completely that it's done all the
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: way through. But trust me, three pounds per three minutes
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: per pound, you are on point. Take it out, let
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: it sit, and I promise you you got a pipe
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: in hot turkey. Now for me, I'm gonna take it out,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna wrap it in fall, I'm gonna put it
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: in the bag, and then I got to go cross
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: town and take it to call a house because call
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: of order turkey every Thanksgiving and they have delicious. I'm
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: going to call nutst right now. We got a turkey.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: I'm making fried turkey for Thanksgiving. This okay, quick question, Tommy,
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: what kind of oil do you use peanut on? You
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: gotta have peanut ois. I'm sorry I missed that call.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: You gotta have peanut on all right. This is not
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: something you put crisco or olive oil. It is a
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: pan nut oil. So if you have some people that
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: are coming to dinner that have issues with peanuts, you
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: want to make sure you let everybody know this. It's
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: been Friday and peanut oi. Okay, okay, okay, so this
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: is good when you're gonna tell us how to make
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: the dressing in mac and cheese next, right, because I
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: gotta have a whole dinner. I just can't have fried
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: turkey now my mac and cheese. I can't get out
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: of way too. And I do not know how to
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: make driss. I do not know how to make dress fair.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: The people that cook have secrets, okay, but you don't
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: know that. Well, at least we'll have turkey for Thankgiving,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: all right, thank you, nephew. Coming up your bring phone
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  Speaker 1: will my man choose me for the holidays. Right now.
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that, but right now it's the nephew,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: and it's prank phone call. As you're not. Last year
• 45:10
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• 45:15
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• 45:20
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• 45:26
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• 45:33
  Speaker 1: I'm going with it? Do we need to be concerned? Well?
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: Your kids is yeah? Yeah, yeah, I'm glad you asked me.
• 45:47
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• 45:50
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• 45:54
  Speaker 1: I don't want you to miss the prank hold head
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: out to win for five minutes you can hit it. Hello, Hello,
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Darnell. Darnell see this, Darnell. How
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: you doing this? Is Scott soon with Bigger, Bigger and better,
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: where we make you larger in charge? How you doing today? Scott? Who?
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: I'm a Scott? So I'm with Bigger and better where
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: we make you larger in charge. I'm good Scott. Look
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: what's up? We were actually, uh given a phone call
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: by your wife? Your wife is? Is that correct? Yeah? Okay, well, um,
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: you know your wife's Um, your wife's birthday is coming
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: up pretty soon, is that right? Yeah? Yeah, so a
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks. Yeah, it's coming up. Okay, have you
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: have you decided on getting or anything or have you
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: purchased anything yet? No? No, I got a couple of
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: days in mind. Um. Well, actually, uh, we got a
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: call from from I think we've got something that's gonna
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: that's gonna really help you guys. And and something I
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: think that she wanted to recommend, something that you probably
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: wouldn't wouldn't think about getting on is okay and racking
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: my brain? So is actually gave us the call. She's
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: actually had an idea, you know, what she would really
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: really like for her birthday present? So what's her name?
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: You're coming Bigger and Better. Um, like I said, she
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: called you. I'm sorry she called you to give me
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: idea on what I should get her for her birthday.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, well this is this is something that's a
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: little a little different, and it's something that you probably
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: would never in a million years think of. But here
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: at Bigger and Better, where we make you large and
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: in charge, we actually do some things that we definitely
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: know you wouldn't have thought of. So I definitely understand
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: her giving what's your name against Sam Scott Scott Scott,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: get to the point what you're selling actually let us
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: know that there's some things that are really really lacking
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: between you guys, and she would very much like for
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: her birthday where you can be a lot more well endowed.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: So you know, that's what we do here at Bigger
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: and Better. We actually hello, what I could be more wet,
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: more well endowed. Sure, so I think really what's going
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: on is Beyonca is really not satisfied right now. She
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: called you to tell you that I'm not when you
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: meet willing doubt my junk. So you're you're, you're, you're
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: you're you're inadequate. You know what I mean? You're you're
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? What's what's the name of this
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: comping in Bigger and Better where we make you larger
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: in charge? And right now you know you're not You're
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: not larger in charge and we want to get you
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: that way you're able to come in for a consultation,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: your consultation. I'll tell you what. I'm gonna call her
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: right now because it usually right now. Okay, I'm gonna
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: call her. We're trying, we're trying to do. Do you
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: not do you not think you need to come in?
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: I don't even think I need be talking to you,
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: mister Scott, about whatever's going on in my bed room.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I'm king so I'm not even I'm not even I
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: don't even know what going on. This is the first
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: sign of denial, right, I don't have no no, I
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: don't have no problems in the bed room. Well, you know,
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: I don't even why am I even still on the
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: phone with you? Okay, but sir, I mean you and
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: now you don't have to wear about here from her.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: She's gotta something to kind of account with you. Then
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: you ain't got go ahead? And cold was that out?
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Because mister done? Let me say this. You have a
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: you have a very big ego, sir, you know, but
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: you're not You're not as big as your ego. I
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: want to get you to that point. This is some
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: crazy I've heard some crazy things people staying online. But
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: you're gonna call me talk about my wife called you
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: saying that I'm in adequate in the bedroom, sir, you
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: know what? And and and once again, I'm trying. I
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: know you you're just doing your job, Scott, but I'm
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: gonna have to call her right now. Okay. When you
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: don't work my number, you're in denial. I'm in denial,
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: you hellove, Sir. I really want to help you as
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: much as I can. Listen, man, listen, I'm trying to
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: get my wife on the phone right now. Okay. I
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: know you you got a job to do, but what
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: I need you to do right now is stop calling me.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: All right. I'm trying. I'm trying to be nice to
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: you because I'm sure whatever it is she she called you,
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: and you're just doing your job. But I'm trying to
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: get you in here to get a consultation so we
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: can get you further along on where you are. Consultation.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: I don't even know consultation. I don't even know as
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: sisters from you, sir? You call me no more? Man, Hey,
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: you're small and I don't want to make you bigger.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: What's what? What is this any like? Begause? Huh? What
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: kind of job is that? How do you even get
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: a job like that? You apply for this job, adiot,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: when you're in high school? Jop out. I'm trying to
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: stop calling me man, mister Darnell, I'm still trying to
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: help you get through the situation. Okay, are you willing
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: to come in for a consultation. At least we're coming
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: in for a consultation. We can get you where you are.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: Are you listening to me? The only consultation we're gonna
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: have is my sister in your place. As you call
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: me again to tell you what. I will come in
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: for a consultation. Give me give me your address and
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: everything like that, all your information, and I will come
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: down for a consultation. You're gonna be there. I'm here,
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm here the first eight hours of the day, sir.
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: What I want to do is get you lined up
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: with get your work. Let me call my wife. I
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: don't need no damn procedures. Give me your info, and
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: you got to work out here from us. No more. Okay,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: right now, I know sure to get up. I don't
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: want to hang up on you. And I understand you're
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: trying to do your job. You're small, you're small, and
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to make you bigger. You. Hey, sir, you
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: know what I'm trying to help the person that's a
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: little small guy. I'm trying to help you with your problem. Now,
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: if you're not gonna be appreciative of it, then I
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: don't even understand why your wife knows you're having your address.
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: Why then we can have this conversation face to face.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: You don't know what why your wife here. It doesn't matter.
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: If I can get on the line, I can figure
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: out why she calls you because you're coming adequate man, Sir, sir,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: here's the problem. You're tiny and you don't want to
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: admit it. I ain't even getting you know me, man,
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: You never see me. You don't know any think about me.
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: I can't even believe my wife's even called you. But
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: just this is just how you do business. Call me
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: and call me. I'm tiny, sir, So I'm playing something
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: to you. I'm not only the president, but I'm also
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: a client, Sir. I don't give up what you are, Okay, okay?
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: Then there are some other things that let us know
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: as well. What the would that mean? She also wanted
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: me to tell you that this is nephew Tommy from
• 52:23
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• 52:26
  Speaker 1: you bad man, funny man. I'm on here over here
• 52:34
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• 52:38
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• 52:40
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• 52:45
  Speaker 1: Come on now, you know it's a Steve Harvey radio show. Man,
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: I'm one to me. No, y'all, just give me my
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: next Strawberry letter subject, will my man choose me for
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: the holidays? We'll get into it right after this. You're
• 53:02
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• 53:58
  Speaker 1: will my man choose me for the holidays? Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: I am a thirty year old, beautiful and successful woman
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: and I'm in love with a forty four year old,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: well educated hunk that swept me off my feet. When
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: I met him. He told me that he was seeing
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: someone in a long distance relationship, but I still started
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: dating this man despite the news. After six months of dating,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: I did some research and found out that he proposed
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: to this woman and she has set a wedding date.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I never confronted him about it, but it tore me
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: apart emotionally. I figured if I started an argument about it,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: I would push him away and his fiance would win.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: So I have kept the news to myself. I'm trying
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: my best to make him fall in love with me
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: and leave her. I know the old saying if he
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: cheats on her, he'll cheat on you. But I believe
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: in love and I know we have something special. The
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: loving is so good, and he takes me on some
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: amazing trips all across the world. We are always together
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: when he's not out of town. Visiting the other woman.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: I am overly jealous, so I just need to know
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: how I can win him over before his fiance orders
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: the wedding invitations. The holidays are coming up and I
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: don't want to spend them without him, so time is
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: of the essence. How do I tell this man that
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: I am in love with him and will take any
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: and every risk when it comes to getting him to myself.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: It's totally possible to be in love with two people
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: at the same time, so he's probably struggling internally with
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: who he should be with. Maybe if I tell his
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: fiance about our relationship, she will just break up with
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: him and go away. It may make him mad, but
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: in the end he will still have me, and I
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: know we can be happy together. I'm head over heels
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: for this man, and I'm planning to invite him to
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving dinner so my family can meet him. How shall
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: I handle How should I handle this love triangle? Do
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: you hear yourself? Do you hear yourself? Because listen closely.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: This is this is the sound of desperation, all right,
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: this is the sound of delusion in this letter. So
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: I want you to hear yourself. You are so short
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: changing yourself in this relationship. You are number two. That's it,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: that's all. You are the side piece, and you're okay
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: with that. I think you're really okay with it because
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: he told you his status when you, guys, you know,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: first got together. He told you he was in a
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: long distance relationship. You even researched it, you did your
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: research and your words. You still dated him despite the news.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: You started dating him, and that's the problem. I mean, really,
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: what is his incentive to leave his fiance and get
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: with you number two? What is it He's getting everything
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: from you without having to change a thing he's doing.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: I mean the question then become, when are you going
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: to wake up and realize that if he was going
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: to leave her for you, don't you think he would
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: have waited to propose to her. I mean, you know,
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: you did all the research. You know, maybe he would
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: kind of see where the relationship could go with you
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: and him, or maybe that you would have won him
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: over by now you think it's a competition between the
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: fiance and you because you're you're willing to take any
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: and every risk to get him. You know, I gotta
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: tell you, please, don't bother inviting him to dinner, because
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: you know where he's gonna be. He's gonna be with
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: his fiance and her family kicking it over there for
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving because they're planning a wedding, they're getting married. You
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: are the side piece, all right, Steve, Well, I don't
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: know what Shirley's done a really excellent job with this.
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: All you can do is just get it worded in
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: a different way. So here we go. Well, my man
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: choose me for the holiday. The answer to that question
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: is no. And the answer to that question no. It's
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: simply because number twos don't get holidays. You don't get Christmas,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: you don't get Thanksgiving, you don't get Fourth of July barbecues.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Those are the holidays. You don't get the whole Valentine's dating.
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: You can't get them days right there. You don't get anniversaries.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: You don't get none of that because you will never
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: have an anniversary. Number two don't get anniversary dates. Number
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: ones get anniversary dates. You don't even have to be
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: married to your number one have an anniversity just the
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: third year we've been knowing each other. You don't do
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: that to the number twos. You don't go we've been
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: seeing each other for three years. Now, let's go out
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: and celebrate. No, there's no celebration. You don't celebrate number twos.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: When I met him, he told me he was seeing
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: someone in a long distance relationship. Then you know what
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: you're saying right after that? But I still dated this
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: man despite the news. Okay, so you stupid all you
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: just did what you wanted to do. You dated Demand
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: anywhere Demand and told you I got somebody. It's a
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: long dis relationship. I got somebody. You started dating the
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: man anyway. Then after some six months of dating, you
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: did some research and found out that he proposed in
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  Speaker 1: this woman as she has set a waiting date. What's
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  Speaker 1: the surprise. I never confronted him about it, but it
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  Speaker 1: told me a party. Mostly. I figured if I started
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  Speaker 1: an argument about it, I pushed him away and this
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: fiance will win. The fiance is already went in. She
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  Speaker 1: the fiance. Six months in, you found out they set
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  Speaker 1: a date for a wed. He asked her, she just
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  Speaker 1: put this date on Facebook. He asked the woman to
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  Speaker 1: marry him. Has he asked you? Has he mentioned marriage
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  Speaker 1: to you? He said nothing? By no, damn family with
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: you stupid letter. Make me sick and to tell the
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  Speaker 1: rest of him. Right after this shut up listening show,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject well, my
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  Speaker 1: man choose me for the holidays? This woman to met
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  Speaker 1: she thirty, She met just for the year old, well
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: for the for year old, well educated hunks swept you
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  Speaker 1: off your feet when you met him. He told me
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  Speaker 1: he was seeing somebody. You still dated the man. Bam.
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  Speaker 1: Six months later you did some research, that's social media,
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  Speaker 1: found out that he proposed to this woman. She even
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: set a wedding day. You ain't never said nothing to
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  Speaker 1: him about the man. Figure if you started argument and
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: push him away. Now you want to know in the
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  Speaker 1: letter where my man choose me for the holidays? I'm
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: telling you know because number twos don't get holidays. Holidays
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  Speaker 1: a reserved for number one. You can't be number two
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  Speaker 1: and get a holiday. You can get some Fridays, get
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: a Sundy here and there. Wait, what is that? What
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: do they get? Steve? You can get some Fridays and
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: occasional Saturday. But I said, usually it's the same day
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  Speaker 1: of the week. That he then told his wife on
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: number one that he does a certain thing on a
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: certain night, and that turns that night into YO night.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: I played poking with the boys on Tuesday nights, and
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: I'd be home late. Then that night is YO night.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: You don't get in the night you want. Now, here's
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: a delusional part, like Shirley say, I'm trying my best
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: to make him fall in love with me and leave her.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: What Let me ask something, how do you do that?
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  Speaker 1: How as the number two do you make the man
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  Speaker 1: fall in love with you and leave the number one?
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  Speaker 1: I know the old thing. If he cheats on her
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: here cheat on you? That ain't got nothing to do
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  Speaker 1: with this. No, he's cheating on her with you. You
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: you tell my head cheat on you? No, you to you?
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  Speaker 1: But I believe in love. Stop it. You just say
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: you believe in love. He's marrying a woman, and I
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  Speaker 1: know we have something special. You all this is in
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  Speaker 1: your mind. You have nothing special. Your number two two's
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  Speaker 1: ain't special? Ain't you a? And all this here it
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: ain't no two A two plus? This ain't a seat
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: an economy, that's ain't it economy super with extry leg room.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: You're still in the back. Economy plus you're still in
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: the back. But it's my room. Is still good, but
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: you're in the back door. You're not the first class seat,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: and you can't come up here with the economy plus ticket.
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  Speaker 1: I can sit on the exit row and get you
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: a little bit of extra if that's what you want.
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  Speaker 1: But look at that as a lot of people on
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  Speaker 1: the exit row. The loving is good, and he takes
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  Speaker 1: me on amazing trips all across the world. You haven't
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: been to the Bahamas? Who ain't been there? She's making
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: this sound bigger than it is. Yours across the world
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: stopped San Diego. Ain't all across the world. Then here's
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  Speaker 1: another line. We are always together when he's not out
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: of town. Hello, do you understand this? You're always together
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: when he's not out of town. You just said he
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: take you all around the world. Girl, when you're out
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: of town, he would hull. You ain't been nowhere, fly
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: to Atlanta. Ain't across the world when he's not out
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: of town visiting the other woman. I'm overly jealous. So
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: I just need to know how can I win him
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: over before his fiance orders to wear an invitation? Way
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: too late for that. They just set the date. They
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: aren't putting money down on places. She Brent dressed shot.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: I've been damned these invitations. The holidays are coming up,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: and I don't want to spend them without health. You are,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: this is your friend's holiday. It's only been six months.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: You've never been to the holidays before. You're spending those
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: holidays alone? You're number two. It's only been six months. Hell,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: it's November, so you met him prior to the summer.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: You're not. They don't get holidays, sweetie. I'm sorry, and
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: I don't want to spend them without him. So time
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: is of the essence, girl, Thanksgiving, down Giving. It's after tomorrow. Yeah,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: but they said nothing to you about Thanksgiving. Yeah, because
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: he ain't gonna be hel he he cast to go
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: out of town. We're gonna tell his fiance I ain't
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: coming to wonder what is your fen to do? Then?
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: How do I tell this man that I'm in love
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: with him and will take every risk to cans of
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: getting him to myself. You've already taken the risk. The
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: man told you was in a relationship, and you dated
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: him anyway. You took the risk. You've taken all the risks. Now,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: then you go right here, it's possible to be in
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: love with two people at the same time. So I
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: know he's probably struggling internally with who he should be
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: with little girl. The struggle isn't with who she should
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  Speaker 1: be with. The struggle is how to tell you he's
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: with her and Finn to getting married. Remember that he
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: has not told you this for a reason, because the
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: only struggle is when and how to tell you this
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: is over. Because I'm Finn to move this woman in
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: my house. That's the struggle to struggle aim. But you love, sister,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: pack your bags of he ain't coming over for Thankgiving,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: and do not call that woman because you could get shot.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: All those of my closing remarks today, y'all have a
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: great weekend. All right. You can post your comments on
• 1:06:03
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• 1:06:07
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• 1:06:09
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• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: the hour. I think Steve had more to add to
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: this Strawberry Letter, write Steve, We're gonna do a little
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: bit more. Let's let this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, you said you had some more to
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: add to the strawberry letter, subject, why my will my
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: man choose me for the holidays? For thold of you
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: that don't know, this girl is thirty years old dating
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: this forty four year old man swept off his feet.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 1: He told her on day one he's in seeing someone
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: in a long relationship. But you dated this man anyway
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: despite the news. Six months of dating. Did some research
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: found out the woman has setting wedding date with He
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: proposed to this woman. Now, this girl who wrote the
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: letter hasn't said anything to him about it, but she's
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: torn up. She's scared to start argument because it'll push
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: him away and his fiance will win. So she's kept
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: the news to the same to kept it all to himself.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: She's trying to figure out the best way to make
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: this man fall in love with her and leave her.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: I know the old saying, if he cheats on her,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: here cheat on you. But I believe in love. Now
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: she's talking about the man take on some amazing trips
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: all across the world. The girl had been in San Diego,
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: and now she came all around the world. San Diego
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: it's just close to Mexico. You did, you saw the sign,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: but you didn't actually go to to your wan. He
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: don't want to go. No, damn way. Coach's crazy. Now anyway,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: how do I wear him over before the fiance orders
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: to wed an invitation? Holidays is coming up. I don't
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: want to spend him with him, so times of the elsenes.
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  Speaker 1: How do I tell this man I'm in love with
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: him and would take every risk into getting him to myself.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: Totally possible. Well, now he's probably struggling with who he
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: should be with. Then here was the line the girl said,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: maybe if I tell his fiance about our relationship, she
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: would just break up with him and go away. It
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: may make him mad, but in the end he will
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: still have me and I know we can be happy together.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: Pump your brakes, little girl. You've obviously never gone to
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: a woman to tell her that you are the other woman.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: H They do get mad and it dud mess the
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: dude up with his girl for a while, but they
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: usually recover. Now he is going to hate you for
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: the rest of your life and you will have no
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: relationship with him, none whatsoever. And it is due. So
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: long as you know that, good luck. I'm planning on
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: inviting him to Thanksgiving. Don't do that. That man, don't
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: do that. When Turkey over there by yourself, they're gonna
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: have a place setting with somebody. Ass ain't gonna be there.
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: And baby, and when thanks Giving up Thanksgiving, Dave to
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: the moment Thanksgiving, say nothing to you about Thanksgiving? I
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: like not Thanksgiving on Thanksgiving? Thank you? No, no hold
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: on a second coming up more of the Steve Harvey
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: Morning Show, so listen. If you want to end a relationship,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: here's the question. Do you wait until after the holidays
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: or do you get out before having to hang out
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: with your family? So Thanksgiving might be more high stakes
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: at the time of COVID, but it's probably the safest
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: holiday to break up close to. So here is the question.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: Between Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's is there and is
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: there any good time to split up? Why am I
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: looking at you, Tommy? You know why? Well, you're supposed
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: to start breaking up around Halloween. But we're in the
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: week of right now though, Thanksgiving, so now well, then
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: then you might want to break up to day this
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: morning to day? If why would you I break up
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: to date and ride that all the way to like
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: mid January. But this is the day to do it, yesterday,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: And you can just come up with a cold argument.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: Just just just started anything. It don't matter what it is.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: Who the hell put water in the tarlet? How do
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: how do how do water get it my tarlet? I
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: just want you know what I'm saying, Just who, who
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: the hell who water and the tarlet? That's all I
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: want to know. That's an argument. Fine argument, fine one.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: Why why do you say that? Because you ain't got
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: to see the person, You could just zoom mass. They
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: ain't got to be in the same room to break up.
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: You know, you ain't got the moment, you ain't got
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: to worry about, no altercations and then going crazy getting
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: you and stuff you sting you, and then when it
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: get and then when it gets the way you don't
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: want to, you just zoom out. You lead meeting who's
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: gonna stay there? And you know, and just take all
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: of that. Yeah, I'm zooming. I'm I'm a proponent of
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: breaking up around Thanksgiving. I think that's the ideal time
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: because normally if you don't like her, Yeah, Thanksgiving this
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: best time break up Because you don't like her, she
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: probably just like her family so you know, yeah, I'm
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: pretty sure you don't need to sit around all these
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: other people house eating. You know, people usually have badass food. Yeah. Yeah.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: Can I say why wait to Thanksgiving? Because if you
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: wait to thank you you're giving people hopeween No one,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: you don't need to give them hope that long. Yeah,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: but see, sometimes it don't happen that way. And I'm
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: just saying, as each holiday approaches, you got to have
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: a plan because maybe nothing was wrong Halloween. You know,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: maybe maybe she busted you November ten. You know you
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be able to fix that about Thanksgiving if
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: she busted you on November ten, Now she bust you
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: like December. Phil, You got to get out now for
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: you must start going shopping. Be all up in there
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: at that table at Macy, looking at all that stuff
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: on that middle eye with two for one and all
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: this hell, you ain't got to go through that that.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: You definitely got to break up New Year's Eve, get here,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: because you can't go into the New year with her
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: ass or his ass or his ass. And can you
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: start an argument may be over politics, No, no, no,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: you know start in the argument. You don't even start
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: no argument. You can do that too, though, call you
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: can you know you're asking, just like Trump, And that's
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: why I came from denial. Denial, Yeah, just accuser of
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: voting for Trump, did me? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, there you go.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: No matter what she does, no matter what he or
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: she does, you go. That's it. That's it right there,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: It's over with, and keep them guessing about what it
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: is they did. Yeah to hear you mean that's it.
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: Can you pass me the remote? I'd like to change
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: the chance. No, you ain't going to turn it to
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: Atlanta House wid that's what you Wow, I'm out. I'm
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: out for Tommy. You're known for breaking up before the
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: holidays though, oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, all right, more
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. So what
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: are some of the strange things You're strange habits and Thanksgiving?
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: I have a relative that's what supposedly, um is it?
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: Which one? Is it? Jehovah's Witness or Seven Day adventutes on?
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: You know, they don't eat meat. But this particularly is
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: that there was meeting the Greens and she she had
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: already been like half played in you know, yes, yes,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: And my mom said, Annie, you know there's meeting in greens.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: She went, huh, and keep eating lives, all lives because
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: these greens were good. Right good. Let me tell y'all
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: something I gotta relative. I got a cousin that would
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: eat everything in one bowl. Food touch I don't like.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: But but j Jay the twist to it all. He
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: may have a dressing, a cranbar sauce, got some turkey
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: laid across it. Everybody understand it. That makes sense, right yeah?
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Right next to it is a scoop of vanilla ice cream,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: right yeah. But I'm looking at him like you please
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: tell me you're not gonna use my badfroom while you here. Please.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: Then you got that relative time and that you know
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: they're complaining because my food is touching I don't want
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I know people like that. Yeah, people,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: And you know what to j A lot of kids
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: when you're making their plates, they don't want them to touch.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: That's that's why you gotta have them paper places called
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: with them dividers in it for the kids. But the
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: kids take yes, kids, tell me you you're talking big
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: money paper places. I'm talking to take place with they
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: Gotta Weight with wiming on it coming out more of
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this You're listening show.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: Getting together with family for Thanksgiving can definitely be stressful,
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: really a stressful time for some people. Some families. All
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: those extended relatives in one place with different opinions, you know,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: they're bound to set off a few fights. So most
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: people just tend to be careful of what they say.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: They tend to be, you know, a little leery of
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: what's I'm not going to be in my house. That's
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: what I was gonna ask you. So are there's some
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: subjects that you're to that are totally off limits, that
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: you don't bring up, or you just do whatever because
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: now this is my house. I say what I want
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: to say, but I did what I don't allow in
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: my house anybody to just pray, Yeah, like over the food.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: You mean? Yeah, our pigs who pray like pop bridges,
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: Like Marjorie Daddy, he could pray all the food. I
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: don't like other people coming to the house. That happened
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: one time Marjorie whole family was that. Do you ever pray? Yeah,
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: I'll pray. It'd be so short. We eat. Everybody got
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: there my Thanksgiving prayer, same as my grace. You know
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: what's but Steve, how do you handle that? Because if
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: somebody's there and say well can I bless the food?
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: Steve say no, No, I say no, Pop Bridge is
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: gonna bless it? Go head pop And he jumped right in. Yeah,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: it's pretty simple, that ain't Now We had this lady.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: She told me, I want my husband and bless your food.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: He does a good Thanksgiving prayer? Not over here? Was
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: he a pastor? I don't know what it was, but
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: he ain't him to do it up in him? I
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: know what it is those people that have not pastors
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: that but they ministers and they don't get the rid
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: of see right there ministers all that he got a
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  Speaker 1: really good Thanksgiving prayer? What does mean my cousin? Wasn't
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  Speaker 1: it ain't better than this damn turkey? Yeah? He was
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  Speaker 1: an elder at our church and he praised too long?
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  Speaker 1: So long, Yes, I mean so long, and you couldn't.
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  Speaker 1: Every time you thought he was gonna stop, he kept going.
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  Speaker 1: All he was doing was taking a breath. You know
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  Speaker 1: what bothers me? That hole taking food out the house
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  Speaker 1: at the end just wrapping up tubs and tubs of food.
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  Speaker 1: People getting their little to gold plates. How am I
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  Speaker 1: gonna eat on Friday? Tommy? You need to cook some much?
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  Speaker 1: How am I gonna do? That's right, Tommy? How is
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  Speaker 1: she gonna eat? Cook? Also? You mean people that are
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  Speaker 1: invited to dinner, Tommy, and they get it to gold plate?
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  Speaker 1: You know, you know, one plate? Okay, cool? But when
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  Speaker 1: I see you loading up three or four plates of
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  Speaker 1: fall and it's just come on, man, really y'all starving
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  Speaker 1: over that? They may be pretty much okay, well, but
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  Speaker 1: this high work at our house because you know, usually
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  Speaker 1: Marjorie know what I like, She'll put that in the
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  Speaker 1: other refrigerator and the other refrigerator. Oh okay, I'm now
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  Speaker 1: in an argument for me to get to that. Huh man,
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  Speaker 1: how many refrigerators at your house? The one in the
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  Speaker 1: kitchen to chen? You know? How much to write an? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Wait to be there all right when we come back,
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  Speaker 1: last break of the day and Steve's closing remarks, you
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  Speaker 1: leave us with some parting words, some closing remark. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I kind of I kind of want to talk about
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  Speaker 1: something that's um that's on me right now. I want
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  Speaker 1: to talk a little bit about expectations and I want
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  Speaker 1: to talk about patience. But I'm going to throw one
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  Speaker 1: more thing in there. I'm gonna put need in there. Need,
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  Speaker 1: expectations and patience. Uh. It's something that I've been praying about,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and I've been asking God for it for
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  Speaker 1: quite some time and it hasn't gotten here. And He
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  Speaker 1: knows exactly what I need. So as I'm saying this
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  Speaker 1: to you, I want you all to imagine yourself and
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  Speaker 1: plug in your need. So I'm talking to God, right
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  Speaker 1: and I'm asking God for something that I need and
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  Speaker 1: I know I need it because it would it would
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  Speaker 1: make some things go so much better, so much smooth,
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  Speaker 1: so much easier, just overall, it would just help in
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  Speaker 1: so many areas. So I've been praying about it and
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  Speaker 1: it hasn't gotten here yet. And so my oldest sister
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  Speaker 1: text me the other day and I didn't get back
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  Speaker 1: to her, and so just last night she text me
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  Speaker 1: again and just said, hey, could you answer my text?
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  Speaker 1: I hope things are well with you, Love Mona. And
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  Speaker 1: so I text her back and I told, everything is fine.
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  Speaker 1: I've just been working so much. I said, sometimes I
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  Speaker 1: don't get to answer your text when you send it
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  Speaker 1: to me right away because I'll be on the set
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  Speaker 1: or something. I'll be doing something. I said, But I
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  Speaker 1: get him and I appreciate them. And then I told
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  Speaker 1: my oldest sister. I asked her to please pray for me.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I pray for a breakthrough from me, something
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  Speaker 1: I've been asking God for so I can just you know, take,
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  Speaker 1: you know, relax a little bit about this situation. And
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  Speaker 1: I went on to tell my sister that's hard being
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  Speaker 1: successful and stuff like that, and I said, but we're good.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just working real hard. I told, I love you,
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  Speaker 1: and then I said, let me know if you need something,
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  Speaker 1: She text me back the simplest thing. Now, Remember now,
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  Speaker 1: I've told you that I was asking God for something
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  Speaker 1: that I needed and I had been waiting for it,
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  Speaker 1: and I and I'm almost out of patience, to be
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  Speaker 1: honest with you. I just thinking it's taken a while, right,
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  Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure you could feel that way too.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you ask God for something and you you're living
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  Speaker 1: in the expectation and you got man, let's take it
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  Speaker 1: so long, and you're getting a little impatient. I think
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  Speaker 1: everything that's happened to every person. My sens simply sent
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  Speaker 1: this text backs to me. She said, just take one
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  Speaker 1: day at a time. The Lord knows what he's doing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm praying for you. That was her message. Now, my
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  Speaker 1: sister is eighty two years old. She told her brother,
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  Speaker 1: who is like, you know, the family guy that they
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  Speaker 1: can all come to when they need something. But she
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  Speaker 1: simplified it for me so easy. She said, just take
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  Speaker 1: one a day at a time. The Lord knows what
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  Speaker 1: he's doing. And do you know how much better that
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  Speaker 1: made me feel? I simply back and said I texted back.
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  Speaker 1: I said, okay, I will, because you know this thing
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  Speaker 1: that I've been asking God for that I so desperately
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  Speaker 1: feel like I need and I keep expecting it to happen,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm starting to lose patience about it. My sister
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  Speaker 1: says something so simple, if you just take one day
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  Speaker 1: at a time, the Lord knows what he's doing, and
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  Speaker 1: if I look at it. In her simple way of
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  Speaker 1: talking to her brother, she knows me very well. Her
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  Speaker 1: simple way of talking to me was letting me know
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  Speaker 1: that if you just keep waking up and keep doing
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  Speaker 1: what you're doing, God got all this under control. He
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  Speaker 1: know what he doing, and you know what he always has.
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  Speaker 1: He's always known what he's doing. Always, he ain't never
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  Speaker 1: not known what he was doing. Even when I thought
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  Speaker 1: I wanted it to go another way, and he worked
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  Speaker 1: it out a different way. It was for the best,
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  Speaker 1: and so I just had to grab myself and go, okay,
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  Speaker 1: I will. And it made me feel better because I said, okay, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually okay. I do actually keep waking up. I
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  Speaker 1: do keep somehow surviving it all. I'm not just surviving,
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  Speaker 1: I'm actually thriving. I'm going through it, but I'm getting
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  Speaker 1: through it. It's taking a while, but it's in the process.
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  Speaker 1: And God does know what he's doing. So that settled
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  Speaker 1: it for me. So I'm saying to you, if that's
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  Speaker 1: something you've been praying about, something that you need, and
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  Speaker 1: you're living your life in the expectation because you know
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  Speaker 1: he's gonna deliver it for you, but you haven't got
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  Speaker 1: a little bit impatient with it like I have, just
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  Speaker 1: taking a day at a time. God knows exactly what
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  Speaker 1: he's doing. He's working on something on your behalf that
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  Speaker 1: you don't even know about, and when He give it
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  Speaker 1: to you, it's gonna fix it all, probably better than
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  Speaker 1: you could have ever imagined. Those are my closing remarks.
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  Speaker 1: Just something to think about it. Yeah, wow respectively. Yeah,
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