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Honest Liars, Mary J. Blige, Tommy's in Steve's VM, Chris Rock's Mother and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things in it to be true. Good Steve
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  Speaker 1: to mother, I don't join jo You gotta turn you go.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you haven't
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  Speaker 1: got to turn them out. Then turn the water the
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  Speaker 1: water go. Come come on your baby. Uh huh. I
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  Speaker 1: show well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice.
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 1: I got a radio show. Real grateful for that. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's funny, man. I remember when I first started out
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  Speaker 1: in radio, A lot of my peers laughed at me.
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  Speaker 1: Some of it was being mean spirited, some of it
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  Speaker 1: was just you know, marking me. I'm used to stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that. But I had as a special guest on
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  Speaker 1: my show, Joel Oldstein, and you know something, man, he
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  Speaker 1: says something that was I can't remember the scripture. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know exactly how I where. Like. We were having
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  Speaker 1: a long conversation, but the gist of it was, don't
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  Speaker 1: be upset with where you are now, and don't be
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  Speaker 1: upset with the small things in your life. Be grateful
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  Speaker 1: for the small things and a small position that you
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  Speaker 1: have right now, because you don't know where that's going.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know what that's gonna be one day. You
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  Speaker 1: don't know what that's gonna lead to. And that was
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  Speaker 1: very warming to hear him say that. But it also
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  Speaker 1: reminded me of when I started in radio, how small
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  Speaker 1: it was. It reminded me of when I started in
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  Speaker 1: stand up making twenty five dollars a show. It reminds
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  Speaker 1: me of not having a home at a period in
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  Speaker 1: my life and what God has allowed me to live
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  Speaker 1: in now. So don't be distraught over your position now,
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  Speaker 1: and don't be ungrateful or unappreciative for the things you
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  Speaker 1: have now because you don't know what that's going to
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  Speaker 1: grow into. And that's really the gist of that I
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  Speaker 1: got from what he was saying. I just wanted to
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  Speaker 1: share that with you, that where you are now it's
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  Speaker 1: so temporary because now, like I've said before, now as
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  Speaker 1: a fleeting moment. Right after you fits saying now, that
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  Speaker 1: moment that you claimed as now, that's gone. So the
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  Speaker 1: where you are now is a very fleeting process. Now
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  Speaker 1: you can change where you are now, and you can
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  Speaker 1: change how you feel about where you're at now, and
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  Speaker 1: you can change about where you're going by simply changing
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  Speaker 1: your mind. It is no difference. I'm telling you, folks,
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  Speaker 1: the thing that I've learned about successful people is not
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  Speaker 1: so much what they do. It's not what they have.
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  Speaker 1: The biggest thing I've learned about successful people is how
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  Speaker 1: they think. That's the thing that's different. It's how they think.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm telling you that you can change the way
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  Speaker 1: you think on any subject and start becoming successful towards that.
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  Speaker 1: Starting now, you have to understand that. Man, the biggest
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  Speaker 1: difference I've noticed between successful people and non successful people
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  Speaker 1: is how they think. I was reading what is God
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  Speaker 1: said that he was taught all wrong about money. He
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  Speaker 1: said that his father was very negative about money. He
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  Speaker 1: all throughout his life he heard his father to say,
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  Speaker 1: you know, people who got money have walked on somebody
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  Speaker 1: to get it, or cheated somebody way to get it.
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  Speaker 1: People who have money, money is the root of all evil.
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  Speaker 1: Money is money is this, And people who got money,
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  Speaker 1: you know, don't deserve it. They've done something wrong to
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  Speaker 1: get it. YadA, y'ah. So he said he grew up
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  Speaker 1: the whole time thinking that having money or something was
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  Speaker 1: wrong with that. He discovered that it wasn't. Look. You
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  Speaker 1: can choose to be successful in anywhere you want to.
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  Speaker 1: I've chosen several ways to be successful. I want to
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  Speaker 1: be a very, very successful father. I think that's one
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  Speaker 1: of the things that's paramount in my life that I
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  Speaker 1: really am working hard right now to become a successful father.
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  Speaker 1: Not a successful father in terms of money, but a
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  Speaker 1: successful father in terms of offering the amount of love
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  Speaker 1: and guidance and leadership and the example that my children
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  Speaker 1: need to look at. That's what I'm really really working
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  Speaker 1: hard at now. I want to be successful as a father,
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  Speaker 1: but also I want to be successful as a husband.
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  Speaker 1: You know. I want Marjorie to always that she can
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  Speaker 1: count on me, to not have to wonder about me
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  Speaker 1: a look for me. You know. I want her to
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  Speaker 1: feel secure in the fact that I really have gotten
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  Speaker 1: it right, that I really am focused on being a
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  Speaker 1: good husband to her because it means so much to me,
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  Speaker 1: you know. So I'm working hard on a lot of levels.
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  Speaker 1: I'm working hard. I'm trying very strong to be a
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  Speaker 1: successful motivator of people. I want to be a sharer
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  Speaker 1: of information to people that will uplift others and give
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  Speaker 1: others the same things that I've learned through the trials
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  Speaker 1: and tribulations of my life. But at the same time
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  Speaker 1: share that information and use the power this microphone to
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  Speaker 1: uplift people, you know, not to destroy. My show is
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  Speaker 1: not about guess what's so and so said? Guess what's
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  Speaker 1: so and so did. I don't like mean spirited things
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  Speaker 1: about people, you know. I joke with people calling this
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  Speaker 1: that's another thing. But I don't like destroying people with
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  Speaker 1: the power to microphone. So I'm working very hard on
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  Speaker 1: being successful in a lot of areas of my life now.
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  Speaker 1: Also I do care about being financially successful too, because
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  Speaker 1: my father. One of the gifts he gave me was
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  Speaker 1: very simple gift. He told me a long time ago.
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  Speaker 1: He says, son, the best thing you can do for
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  Speaker 1: poor people is not be one of them. And that
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  Speaker 1: stuck with me. And this was a hard working man
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  Speaker 1: who was a coal miner who worked construction his entire life.
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  Speaker 1: My father didn't have an easy life man. My father
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  Speaker 1: didn't sit behind a microphone. My father didn't come to
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  Speaker 1: work and people cheered for him. My father wasn't famous.
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  Speaker 1: My father was just a go get it, dude, that
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  Speaker 1: he instilled that in me and I've taken that and
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  Speaker 1: applied it to my craft and I thank God for
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  Speaker 1: him for that. But I do try to be financially
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  Speaker 1: successful so that I can do some things with it
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  Speaker 1: to help some other people. Now, am I opposed to
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  Speaker 1: having nice things? No? Do I apologize for having nice things? No?
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  Speaker 1: And why should I? I work? I work? You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm not on the radio asking to give
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  Speaker 1: me money, you know, so I can go buy a car.
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  Speaker 1: I'm working. So I don't feel how you want to feel.
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  Speaker 1: And other people do feel that way about it. But
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  Speaker 1: if success in terms of finance it's what you're lacking,
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  Speaker 1: you can go about the business of doing that. I'm
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  Speaker 1: writing a book and that whole book is about teaching
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  Speaker 1: people how to become successful. And man, I'm breaking it
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  Speaker 1: down in a way where everybody can get it, man,
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  Speaker 1: because I want the college student to get it, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I want the working mom to get it, the single
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  Speaker 1: mom to get it. The hard working father has been
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  Speaker 1: trying to hold his family together can get it. The
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  Speaker 1: father that ain't ever got it together and feel that
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  Speaker 1: because of that reason, he can't be the father he
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  Speaker 1: needs to be. I'm writing something, man, to put it
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  Speaker 1: into words, to let you know that God is a
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  Speaker 1: forgiving God, and that God is a merciful God, and
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  Speaker 1: that God can get you out of any situation you
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  Speaker 1: find yourself in. You just can't beat yourself up every
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  Speaker 1: time you make a mistake. I make mistakes all the time, man,
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  Speaker 1: I just got to remind myself to get up. I
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  Speaker 1: ask God for forgiveness, I call on his mercy and
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  Speaker 1: it's grace and I get up and I go again.
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  Speaker 1: But it's coming, man. And if finance success is what
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  Speaker 1: you want, you got to change your mind. You got
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  Speaker 1: to start thinking about how to produce it. The first
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  Speaker 1: thing you do is you gotta ask. You gotta ask
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  Speaker 1: to have a life and have a life more abundantly.
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  Speaker 1: That's a scripture that He comes to you to give
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  Speaker 1: you life and to give you life more abundantly. That's
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  Speaker 1: a scripture that ain't a joke, that ain't a theory.
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  Speaker 1: That's a fact, and the fact that if you don't
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  Speaker 1: have a life of abundance, you can get that by asking.
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  Speaker 1: Then it starts by believing, and how to don't even
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  Speaker 1: worry about that. He takes care of at himself. He'll
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  Speaker 1: send the stuff your way. But you got to be
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  Speaker 1: willing to put some effort in this thing now, and
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  Speaker 1: you can do it. Okay. I know I was a
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  Speaker 1: little around the place today, but that's what it was.
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  Speaker 1: So you know, let's go get it. You're listening to
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen to Steve Harvey Morning Show has begun again,
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  Speaker 1: by the grace of God. I'm so grateful that he
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  Speaker 1: wakes me up in the morning. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: share that joy. Man. Don't ever let the day go
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  Speaker 1: by without opening it with gratitude, because you know what, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: it don't really have to be it really don't. There's
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  Speaker 1: no guarantees on this thing. Every day above ground is
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  Speaker 1: a blessed man, and I'm so glad I'm above it.
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry and Mississippi Monica, Junior Kills Spates, the legend,
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  Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy and yours truly, Junior. What's on your mind?
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  Speaker 1: You know? Unc man um mash something like what is
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  Speaker 1: your TV? Viewing? Heavy? Like what shows you watching? What
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  Speaker 1: are you? What you into? Now? You know, I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of all over the place because emostly by accident, I
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  Speaker 1: found you know, because like I'm not really good with
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  Speaker 1: the remote and stuff until like I get stuck on
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  Speaker 1: the show and then get caught over in it about well,
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  Speaker 1: surely when your head is filled with other stuff, you
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  Speaker 1: don't leave a lot of room for little stuff. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And then yeah, I normally just called somebody,
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  Speaker 1: and then I do. And I just learned that that
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  Speaker 1: little thing I got with the microphone on, I could
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  Speaker 1: talk it to it. But me and the lady got
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  Speaker 1: in the argument yesterday. That is not what I see
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  Speaker 1: on the remoter arguing with her ass yesterday. I'm sitting
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  Speaker 1: I'm still listening. I just said it. Then she gonna
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  Speaker 1: type in things you can say that I can learn
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  Speaker 1: what I'm not here to too, to you. Other things
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  Speaker 1: you can say into the room. I don't want other things.
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  Speaker 1: So I was. I got hung up yesterday watching I
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  Speaker 1: got saw this show Married at First Sight. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 1: I know, because I've seen nothing, well, I don't watch it,
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  Speaker 1: but I got caught up. Let's see, I got hung
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  Speaker 1: up on I watched ninety Day Fiance. I got caught
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  Speaker 1: up on that because the little a little dude that
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  Speaker 1: looked like a wild boy. He was on man and
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  Speaker 1: the little dude that looked like a wild boy. He
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  Speaker 1: was about Mike. Yeah, he was all over in the
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  Speaker 1: Philippines trying to find the wild I knew that one't
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  Speaker 1: gonna work. And then it got kind of crazy from
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  Speaker 1: because I got caught up the other day one watching
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  Speaker 1: marry that first sight. Yeah, and I'll be there. Let
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  Speaker 1: me tell you something, man, when that girl came around
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  Speaker 1: that corner, I don't care what paperwork I didn't say.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what contract you have my name on,
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  Speaker 1: but I bet you I'm not doing it this damn
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  Speaker 1: show because it's no way I'm man who just came
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  Speaker 1: out that damn corner. I wouldn't marry her on the
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  Speaker 1: first sight, the other, the sight, last sight. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: wear Mary Hut if I didn't have sight. I'm telling
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  Speaker 1: you right now, I'm not man her ass. This show
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  Speaker 1: is over, sir. You signed the paperwork. I don't give
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  Speaker 1: a damn what I signed married at first sight? Man like,
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  Speaker 1: look like it just wasn't for me, all right. He
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  Speaker 1: seemed a little bit okay with it, which made me
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  Speaker 1: feel different about you. Thank you, thank you. We get
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  Speaker 1: it coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour,
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna start the show off with the nephew and
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back. Right after this you're listening show,
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  Speaker 1: it is time to start your morning off with the
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  Speaker 1: nephew and run that prank back. What you got for
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  Speaker 1: his neft? I got today? Adoption Agency adoption? Heyguard, Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Clarence. Uh yeah, this is Clarence.
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  Speaker 1: How you doing man? This is Robert Robert. We were
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  Speaker 1: trying to get a schedule with you guys. Maybe we
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  Speaker 1: can swing through and uh pick up little Clarence. I
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  Speaker 1: guess around six if you guys are available around six
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  Speaker 1: O can Hey what do you mean picking up little
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  Speaker 1: clans Well, we got the um, we got the call
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  Speaker 1: that we can come and actually pick up Clarence and
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  Speaker 1: and and take him with us. If you guys packed
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  Speaker 1: this things up yet? Oh way, man got the call
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  Speaker 1: from who did you come pick him up? I don't
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  Speaker 1: know about this. Well my name is Robert, Robert and
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  Speaker 1: my wife and I got the call that we could do.
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  Speaker 1: You not know about us UM adopting little Clarence. Oh
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  Speaker 1: what the adopting? Who? Oh? Okay, wait a minute, are
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  Speaker 1: you guys that are you guys? That drive. Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 1: that's my address. But uh, what what you're talking about?
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna come take my son from here? Okay, but
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  Speaker 1: you're you're your son is two years old? Right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's too what that y would you come to pick
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  Speaker 1: up my son? And what is this agency's number? Whether
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  Speaker 1: the agency told us that what adoption agency? They've got
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  Speaker 1: all our information, We've we've filled out all the paperwork,
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  Speaker 1: and you guys aren't aware that that we're supposed to
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  Speaker 1: come there today to pick him up? Well know what adopenation?
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  Speaker 1: She said, as well, how to get my information? I'm
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  Speaker 1: not sure. We've we've got pictures of Clarence and and
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  Speaker 1: uh you know, my wife has actually going out and
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  Speaker 1: bought balloons and everything, and and we were gonna come through.
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  Speaker 1: They told us anytime today, so we felt maybe like
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  Speaker 1: around six pm we'd come get it. Now, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: coming here to pick up new clans? Tell you that
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  Speaker 1: right now? Okay, wait wait a minute, now like this
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  Speaker 1: this this, I mean, this can't be happening. Okay, wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute. You're you're you're you're Clarence Senior. Correct, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I am, And you don't know anything about us to
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  Speaker 1: come over there to pick the baby up. He don't
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  Speaker 1: know I'm known about this. See what's the adoption agents
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  Speaker 1: who believe you my information and how they get my
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  Speaker 1: information to come pick up my son. I don't know that, sir.
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  Speaker 1: All I know is is, uh, we've bought a car
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  Speaker 1: seat where where you know my wife has bought balloons. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't care y'all bought a car seat, balloons, hotchair, whatever.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't come and get my son, okay, sir. I
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  Speaker 1: mean what I'm not gonna do is tell my wife
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  Speaker 1: that we're not coming to get Clarence Junior today. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: y'all you're gonna have to tell that because you ain't
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  Speaker 1: coming here to pick up my h sir. From with
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  Speaker 1: the paperwork that I have, Clarence is actually my son. Now, man,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't your paperwork. You ain't coming here to pick
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  Speaker 1: up my son. Sir, Clarence Junior is mine and I'm
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  Speaker 1: actually gonna change his name to Robert. So I mean, like,
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  Speaker 1: like here you are, come on over here, if you
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  Speaker 1: want to come on over here, I'm waiting for you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm standing in that way right now. Okay, we'll wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute. The adoption agency tell us that you guys
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  Speaker 1: are not doing well financial financial? Are you working? No?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't working, y'all doing anything. I ain't gonna get
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  Speaker 1: rid of my son just because I ain't working. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: But but but in other words, you're you're not able
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  Speaker 1: to provide for him. From what I understand, my son
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  Speaker 1: ain't miss no mean, he got clothes on his back,
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  Speaker 1: he got a roof over his head. Man, I'm out.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't coming here and pick up my son. I
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  Speaker 1: don't care what I got to do, man, I go
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  Speaker 1: out cut glasses. I'll make money on the side watching
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  Speaker 1: cars nearthing. Okay, okay, about to come here and get
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  Speaker 1: my sons. But don't you think he deserves a better home?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what the but the screw up is.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I'm trying to at least rationalize
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  Speaker 1: with you so you can understand why me and my
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  Speaker 1: wife Junior ain't coming to get my son. He ain't
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  Speaker 1: a going home right now, I learn my son, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't taking nowhere. I'm telling him right, ain't in the
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  Speaker 1: bad way. Come on over here, sir. I don't want
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  Speaker 1: to go back and forth, but I am Me and
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  Speaker 1: my wife are coming to get Clarence today. Okay, come on,
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  Speaker 1: come on, I'm waiting for you. I'm not really third
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  Speaker 1: about two three times. Come on, I'll be waiting right here.
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  Speaker 1: I get you, sir. I don't want any altercations when
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  Speaker 1: I get there. I just want Clarence to get in
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  Speaker 1: the car and me and my wife are gonna take
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  Speaker 1: him to his new home. When you get it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: be one hell of an aftercation. So you might won't
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  Speaker 1: come to law. Whoever gonna come with you ain't my
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  Speaker 1: adoptionation too? So I can woop back too. If you
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  Speaker 1: want to be able to provide for your family, would
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  Speaker 1: nobody be trying to adopt your child? The problem is
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  Speaker 1: that you can't take care of your family. Now I'm
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  Speaker 1: near my wife coming over there, and we're coming to
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  Speaker 1: get Clarence. Do you you ain't coming down here to
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  Speaker 1: get my child? Man, you get down here, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: your wife's up? How about wait a minute? Wait when
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  Speaker 1: you gonna do what to my wife? I don't hear women,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna tell you right now. You ain't your
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  Speaker 1: wife's gonna come down here. I'm gonna hurt most of you.
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  Speaker 1: Anybody come down here and try. I took my child
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  Speaker 1: about them, Miss, they're gonna get up. I'm coming to
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  Speaker 1: get it. I got to do what I got to
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  Speaker 1: tell you. I'm gonna tell you right now, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: coming down here get my son. You your wife, No,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: nobody's gonna come here and tell you where I feel
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: disappoint My wife has got my nut. I don't know
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: how you got my all dress. I don't kill what
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: agen sen you got going through or whatever going home.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: But I'm telling right now you come down here. I'm
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't trying to disappoint my wife. Now,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: just saint were coming to here. I don't give him
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: disappoint where you wan't disappoint. I don't get something right now,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: But you ain't about to take my son about I'm
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: gonna come and get him out that I might have
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: told my wife I was coming to getting man. I'm
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: telling man, you better tell your wife you come this driveway.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be sitting right whole waiting for him. The
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: last one y'all up, every last one. Y I don't
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: care who he brings you bringing a pleasure the Obama.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna you ain't been the t now you ain't been.
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: You ain't been trying to my son out of the house.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell Ride now everybody didn't I fand it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: Let you know this. I'm coming to get clears. Junior.
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: You ain't got nothing to tell me or let me
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: new I'm letting you know ride Now. You better come
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: here with the corner and everybody, because I'm about you up.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: You're gonna leave here with a come on, let me
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: tell you something. Let me tell you something. You get
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: his clothes. We can't coming here of a better life.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: He's not living a good life. There you get him.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: I'm told you about six and eight times, bring you
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: more down here, and I'm you and everybody whoever you
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: bring down here up? You trying to you know who
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: else I'm bringing with me because I'm bringing somebody. Eh,
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: you better bring a horn and say what it better
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: be a I'm gonna come down here. Man, get hass
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: on about the house. I'm bringing nephew Tommy with me.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm bringing nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning
• 20:09
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• 20:15
  Speaker 1: is Tommy Man, This is nephew Tommy Man who I'm
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: anybody out here, man, come down and taking your brother
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: named Benjamin got me to get you dog. Oh man,
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: See that's my family getting steps. Next time I see
• 20:29
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• 20:32
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• 20:40
  Speaker 1: thank you? Coming up next, it is asked to see
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: l O with Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: building ready for your love questions. Right after this, you're
• 20:50
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• 20:54
  Speaker 1: of the hour, and entertainment news a friendly reminder to
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• 21:00
  Speaker 1: it is? You already Judge Steve, Judge Steve Tonight Central, Yeah,
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: on ABC and Hulu. Also, Chris Rock's mother, Steve said,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: when Will Smith slapped her son Chris, he slapped all
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: of us. Okay, oh huh. We'll hear what she has
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: to say a little later. Speaking of Will Smith, will
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: tell you why he is in India right now. Plus
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: another entertainment news, Diddy will be the host and executive
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: producer of the Billboard Awards. Now we'll talk about all
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: these stories at the top of the hour. But right
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: now it is time, ladies and gentlemen, for ask the CLO,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: which stands for Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Ready, here
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: we go, Cheyenne and Virginia says. My boyfriend and I
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: moved in together after we broke up and got back together.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: I had hung out with another guy for a few months,
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: and I ghosted him after my boyfriend and I got
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: back together. The guy saw me out and followed me home,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: hoping to talk to me, but I ran inside. Do
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: I owe this guy an explanation? Not really? You really
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: don't you know? I'm married to him? You know, you
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: know in love what y'all have none? Y'all was just
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: kicking and y don't know him nothing, nothing at all.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: He wants closure. She breaking run because she ain't want
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: to deal with you know what I mean? Do? Yeah?
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: And I's not closure. And he don't want clothing. He
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: want another He want another time with her. He ain't
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: looking for clothing. He doesn't want to know why they
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: broke up and which no, no, no, no, no no.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: All he want to know is hey, what's happening. You
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: cannot hail at you, That's all he don't need no explanation. No,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: all right, that's all that is. It sounds like she's
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: going to be running away from for a while man. Well,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: but what she needs to do is to get a
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: little bit more decisive in her life. It makes the
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: guy that she keeps going in and out with is
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: more end than out. That's really a problem, yeah, her boyfriend,
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Miss jessin Bradenton, Miss Jess writes,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: I'm in my mid sixties and I've got a man
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: on the side that I'm in love with, but my
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: husband won't give me a divorce. My husband's girlfriend is
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: disrespectful to me, and I just want out of this mess.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: Why won't he let me go so I can be happy? Why?
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: Why does he have to let you? Why don't you
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: take that information down to a lawyer and file some paperwork.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: It ain't nona let you go? And then he got
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: X amount of time to respond, and if he don't respond,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: y'all gonna get a court day. Yeah, And if he
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: don't come to court, you're gonna get declared a divorce.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: You ain't got to do this And what is what
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: y'all be talking about? And quit writing? In here about
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: stuff that didn't happen to me. Okay, wait what wait?
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: What about you? Well, demic, that's how I took it.
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Everything is always coming in here with boy something I'm
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: trying to get out. She won't let me out, get out.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: This is not about you. Calm it, all the way down,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: all the way down. Yeah, all right, moving on, jeez.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Moving on to MJ and Charlotte. MJ says, I'm a
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: single mother of six boys and they're with me most
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: of the time because their father works in another state.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: My ex husband invited me to come see him for
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: them for the weekend and his parents well babysit. He says,
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: he wants us to catch up and he wants me
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: to relax. Is that all he wants or does he
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: want sex too? You got six boys? What you think
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: he won't You didn't make them. You didn't make them
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: six boys just because y'all got together six times. He
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: wants you to come and relax. Relax, you relax if
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: he come get them damn boys. If he wants me
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: to relax, come pick up the damn boy are going
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: to right now. And he wants you to come over there.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: And you know what's gonna happen? What? What? What always happened?
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: What you usually happened? Seven boys? What's gonna happen? That's
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: what's going to happen. He might want a little girl,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but he is trying to get you
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: over there without them boys, so they can quit blocking
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: right now. The thing of it is you're hoping in
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: the back of her mind that he wants her back. Yeah,
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: and they can pull this thing together. Is that all
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: he wants for me to relax? Hey, y'all know, y'all
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: gonna be relaxing after you to woe yourself out a
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: single mother of six boys down. Yeah, he invited her
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: to come see him for the weekend. Oh yeah, they
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: got a babysitter. He wants it all all right. Last one, Steve,
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Vicky and Beverly says. I'm an educator and I'm active
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: in my church, so I don't have time to hang
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: out and meet men. All the guys I date are
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: either at my job or at my church, and it's
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: usually just for sex. If I want to date one
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: of them, is it too forward to tell them straight up? What? Yeah? Yeah?
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Vicky, see this is what I who
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: that is I don't have time to date because I'm
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: real active on my job and my church. So the
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: only man I date go out with our own my job,
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: at my church, and it's usually just for sex, just
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: for sex. Would I be too forward to tell them
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I want to date? Wait a minute, man, how much
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: more forward can you be? Them? Having sex? Thank you
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: pretty much? And you pretty much put the whipped cream
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: on top of the ice cream. I'm gonna tell you
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: that right now, because after that it ain't no more forward.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: How much more forward you want? Yeah, you forward enough
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: to have sex with these men, but you ain't forward
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: enough to say I want to be dated. I don't understand. Well,
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: enlighten her because you know, I'm sure she's not well.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: She needs but she needs some standards. Let's just start there.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I think miss Vicky, you need some standards. You need
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: to have an idea of who you are and what's
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: best for you, and not just at that particular time,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: but you need to give some type of fourth thought
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: to the long run. You can't date the men at
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: your job and then your church just for sex and
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: then gonna decide one of them you want to ask
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: them to date you. After we didn't just had sex.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: Now you want to be romanced, you want to be courted.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: It's not how this works. No, you didn't, she said,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: what you no I'm saying. She said she doesn't have
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: time to hang out and meet them, meet men. But
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: people make time for what's important to them. They just
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: take time. Excuse me, excuse me, she's having sex with
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: these people. What you Russian? Look at here? Oh god,
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: we got to go ahead. Come on now, come on out.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: We ain't got time to get in the hotel room.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Come on, what you're doing. Let's get at n I
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: don't want to meet your boma. Let's go out, come out.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: You need to reverse that, missus binky. All right, thank you, Cello.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Coming up next at the top of the hour, we'll
• 29:07
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• 29:11
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• 29:17
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• 29:26
  Speaker 1: The Judge is in the building for a two hour
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: season finale tonight. Steve what what? What? Who? You man?
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: You know you did not just say a double run.
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• 30:23
  Speaker 1: lot of double runs going on all over the country
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: for Family Few, but that's a syndicated show. This is
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  Speaker 1: what they do it. We're gonna leave it on twice,
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• 31:11
  Speaker 1: you pray, while you yet praise him, Steve. Chris Rock's
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: mom is finally speaking out about the slap, the infamous
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: slap I should say that was laid upon her son
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: at the hands of Will Smith at the Academy Awards
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: last month. While chatting with the South Carolina news station
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: wi STV earlier this week, Miss Rose Rock I love
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: her name. Miss Rose Rock recalled her initial reaction after
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: seeing Will strike Chris, noting that at first, she, like
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: many others, thought it was a joke, but then after
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: Will started using obscenities, she knew in her heart that
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: something was wrong. Take a listen, Well, I told someone
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: when when Will slapped Chris, he slapped all of us,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: but he really slapped me. But so many things could
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: have happened from that. Chris could have stepped back and fallen. Yeah,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: you really could have taken out in handcuffs, you know.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: So what was you didn't think? You reacted to your
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: wife's um giving you the side eye. Yeah, and you
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: went up and you made her day because she was
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: bold overlapping when it happened. I don't think this is over.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: And the reason I don't think this is over, it's
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: because when your mom makes a comment and she's one
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: hundred percent correct, Miss Rose Rock is one hundred percent correct.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: But let me tell you something. When she said she
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: slapped all of us, she really he really slapped me,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: this ain't over, This ain't old. Yeah, this ain't over.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: And I almost there say this and it shouldn't be.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I got my mama feeling like she slapped. No,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: this ain't no, my Pardner, this ain't over. Well, we
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: haven't seen Will Smith for a while, and that's because
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: he is in India seeking solid us and reflection at
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: a spiritual retreat. Okay. Will was spotted in casual attire
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: and he smiled and waved at cameras after landing in India.
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: It's the first time he's been seen since the Oscar slap.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Will was greeted by fans and graciously, graciously took a
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: number of selfies. Will is reportedly in India to meet
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: spiritual leader there uh Side Guru, who Smith and his
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: family met with back in twenty twenty in Los Angeles.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: So that's where Will is. That's what he's doing in India.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: No what ye what Junior? No, he trying to play craze.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: See no, no, no, you you you're trying to avoid.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: You're trying to you trying to buy out gracifually you
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: trying to put your hands together Noma state No, not buying,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: you buying a state. Nothing I know, I don't know.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: We try to play craz spiritual guru. Where God it
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: We need to be talked to because the whole Rock
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: family they slapped Smith's everywhere, Tommy Smith, Gregg Smith, willis
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: anybody out Junior? Let me say something. He could have said,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: all that money, all the flying over there, and he
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: could have flew right into Dallas to the Potter's house
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: and saw Jake, you ain't gotta go over there talking
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: to the people right here, old dollar Lama, Lama, got dollars,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: all this hill, all up in a Tibetan mountain, got
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: a little orange roll, got a little got some hints sense.
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: We are gonna come back with in sense and selling
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: sandals orange roll. Okay, okay, well we're still gonna know
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: it's you though, Yeah, come back home. Oh my ass Hey,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: when I see you doing something, I ain't knocking and
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know the people over that visited, and I
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: ain't talking about them right right, I gonna try to
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: go get in no cave now tho. Yeah, and this
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: and this is not the first time we've seen him, sister,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: infam a slap. I want to point that out too,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: because his ass was at the park right after Yeah, okay,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: big Willie style, Yeah right now, though they'll still be
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: looking for that Oscar bab We got it when you
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: said it the first ten thousand times. Where to Oscar
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: that we all ain't saying? But he still at the
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: whole flight coming up in twenty minutes, we're moving on
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour. Did you all see Mary J.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Blige's yell at Kyrie Irving at the next game. We'll
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: talk about that right after this. You're listening to show
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: all right, still trending, guys in sports entertainment news. Did
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: you all see Mary J. Blige sitting courtside at the
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Brooklyn Nets versus Boston Celtics game. Well, anyway, people are
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: talking because Mary yelled at Kyrie Irving. She yelled at
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: him step it up, and social media went crazy. One
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: of the comments was Mary J. Blige was yelling at
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: Kyrie like she's talking to Cane on power. Also at
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: the same game, Nets player Ben Simmons, who was not
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: playing due to a toe injury. Did you see Ben's
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: colorful trending outfit? Ben was rocking a pair of orange pants,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: orange glasses, and purple varsity jacket. One person tweeted Ben
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: Simmons teammates out here trying to survive the playoffs. Meanwhile
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: he is sitting on the bench with an injured toe,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: looking like a pack of skittles. So they were going
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: in h he got a toe. Now I thought it
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: was his back. Yeah, I thought, well, this story says
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: injured toe. He ain't played all years last year. Hey man,
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know, man, he's casts man. They cut different man. Now, Yeah,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: he ain't played all year. You know, if he got
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: a back injury, I understand, but you know they didn't
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: want to bring him in this in that series. With
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: all that, I don't know when they're gonna bring him
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: back the kids. He's fragile to me. Well, let's get
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: back to Mary J. Blige, because I do have a
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: question for you concerning what Mary J Blige did. Now,
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: do you think it's okay with the situation with Mary
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: J Blige and Kyrie? So can celebrities be fans? I
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: know celebrities are fans yea of sports? So can they
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: yell at the players too? Like the fans? Don't shadn't
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: do nothing wrong? Wasn't disrespectful? Step? It up. No, that's cheering,
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: like come on, now, that's an other way to say it.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: H You know, my stepping up is a little bit different,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: like I'm afraid syllables ain't but two words was a
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: lot more syllables with the blank we do. Step it up?
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: Come on, blank up? You ain't played half a year man, Yeah,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: this is sad nets is down three old. I saw
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Mary J at the game. She looked nice. Man, she's
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: having beautiful Yeah, you get into it too. Absolutely, how
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Spike be into it? Drake Jack Nicholson? Jack Nicholson was
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: into it? So let me just go to games all
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: the time. Mary J. Blige, she s New York girl.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: She pulled it for him. Yeah, step it up, but
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: yours would just be a little different. Oh with mine
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: had vibes way more colorful. Step it up. I don't
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: give a damn how you step it shows out at
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: my nephew game. It don't matter what game he is.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: I'm watching my rooting for rooting for you, Like when
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: you're gonna get off the bench man, me and him
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: both on the bit. Where did you gonna play to
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: flow away? Down here? I got a hotel to see this.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: You came from Atlanta. Don't even all right, thanks guys
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: coming up with thirty four minutes after the hour. We're
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: gonna check Steve's voicemail right after this, you're listening to
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: Steve Morning Show. All right, Steve, it is time to
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: check your voicemail if you want to leave a voice
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: message for Steve. If you want to do that, all
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: you have to do is call him eight seven seven
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: twenty nine. Steve is the number. So Steve, remember last
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: week when you guys were asking the audience to call
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: in to say if Tommy was good looking or not?
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: Remember we did that last week? Oh yeah, well, okay,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: all right, we're going to the phone. Call her name.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: Megan left a message about Tommy. You're just knock and kirk.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: I think tommins very fine name, skin complexion and he's
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: very tall, box all of hansel. Hey god, oh well,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: I hope you like it because it sound like a man.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Oh doctor, Hey whoa tall dog and you've got nice
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: complexion on you? But here are you? All right? Let's
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: move on to Sabrina in Tampa Bay. Hey, Tommy, this
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: is Sabrina from Tampa Flora. I think you're fine and
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: I didn't hear what she said. She was saying, don't
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: worry about the bush about Yeah, all right, M Beverly
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: from Jersey has something to say about Tommy. I Steve.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: My name is Beverly. I'm calling from New Jersey. I'm
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: calling regards to is Tommy fine? I think Tommy is fine.
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: It's hell. I think he dressed nice. He probably smells good.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: And I just want to say that I love you, Steve.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: I love your show, I love your words, I love
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: everything about you. I love your beautiful wife. May God
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: continue to bless you. And yes, Tommy is fine as hell.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: Love you seed By. Wow. She puts some extra on
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: that one, didn't she. Let's just get some calls from somebody.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: Don't go to church anymoment. All right. This one's from
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: No More, No More about Tommy. But this one's Hey, Steve,
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: this is Kathy Lord. Hey. I was just thinking, if
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: we all wear Man and it saves live, doesn't that
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: mean that we're all superhero? I was just thinking this
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: looking next, this inner in the wrong way. So yeah, okay,
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: the question was hollest Timmy. Look, I didn't call. I
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: didn't say calling here now, Timmy, I didn't ask you
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: to call in here and impersonate Tommy. Don't come in
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: here with the look. Don't ask remarks like Tommy be making. Um,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: I just have a question if wearing man sage love mask,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: ain't we all superheroes? The question was it is Tommy cute?
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: That's what we asked for, not can you do Timmy?
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: What's your impersonation of Timmy? We asked you what's Tommy cute? Now?
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: Three people thank you cute? We got nine million listeners
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: them ain't good? An asshole? Oh gotta meet that. How
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I'm taking a good start though? Oh we with three
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: phone calls say nine million people there? All right? This
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: last color is um Zik from New York keeps the
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: taxi driver. Let's see what the end day. Hey Steve,
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Zeke. I'm calling you from
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: what happened, New York. I drive for disabled people in
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: New York. I listen to your program every day, My friend,
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: you do wonderful work. Man until tallman that the stop
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: of the frank you man. Hey Steve, if you're in
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: New York, he hit me up. Man, maybe I can
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: take you out and I'm get some some doubles. Have
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: you ever had double steeds. Yeah, man, it's a wonderful
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: dish from Trinidad. I'm from Drivedad originally, but I live
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: in New York by drive over here. I'm a taxi driver. Say, bro,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: give me a holloas you in the city. But you
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: can do something all right, Stay safe for the good
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: work again, and thank you very much for the last
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: every day bro. Hey zeke. I appreciate the calls and everything. Man,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: love the invitation, but I bet you won't catch my
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: black ass in the camp. Thank you for calling everything
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: about you. I loved everything about you. But I'm not
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: riding in your damn cab. You see me in the
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: cab in New York, man, But you know what I
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: do have to ride Coming up next, Fine, Tommy, it's
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: here with today's Hey, it was unanimous prank phone call
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: coming up next right after this. You're listening to morning
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: show coming up at the top of the hour, right
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: and the subject is he doesn't make me feel safe.
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that see what that's all about in
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: just a few but right now the nephew is here,
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: or should I say the fine nephew is here with
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. Let's say it's Shirley. What you got? Fine,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: it's it's section Okay, I'm it's unanimous. It's all nine
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: mean said it. I didn't well, actually of nine million,
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: but you know, are you out of the man? I
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: take them free? It's bad. Let's go. We got This
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: is a this is fight night, Fight night. Shut up, Jian,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: this is fight night. Let's go. Hell. Hey, I'm trying
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: to speak to Troy. Yeah, here's hey, Troy. You're doing man?
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: It's Kirby Man. I live a couple of streets over
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: from you. What what's happening with your brother, Kirban Kenny?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Kenny gave me you got kid? You know Kenny on
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: your street? Right? Oh yeah he had no Kenny, Yeah yeah,
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Kenny gave me your number. Man. I wanted to reach out.
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I'm inviting a lot of people in the neighborhood, man,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: to you know, Mayweather fight. So I'm inviting a lot
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: of people over to the fight party over here at
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: my house. Oh yeah, yeah, I'm gonna watch it on
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: fight too. Learns that don't sound like a bad did man? Okay? Okay,
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: well listen man, come on through. Everybody gonna be getting
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: here like around seven seven thirty and uh, man, we
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: got food. We got Luka, margaritea machine. My boy here
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: gonna be on the grill with the burgers and the
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: hot dogs. Man, and one of my other partner's gonna
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: be smoking some wings. Man, so we could man. So
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: I'm just inviting a bunch of people to the neighborhood
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: to come through. Cool. You need me to brace them through?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Mans from one anything. Uh look at now that you uh,
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: now that you mentioned it. Man, we we missed a
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: little something. Uh hey, let me let me ask you
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: this here. Try you um, you got cable at your house? Yeah, yeah, okay, okay,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: listen here what we need man, I got about four
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  Speaker 1: thousand feet a cable card. And what I want to
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: do is come over there and hook up this cable
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  Speaker 1: card to your house and run it two streets over
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  Speaker 1: to my house so we can watch the fight in
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: the backyard. Hey wait, wait, wait, hold up, man, I
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: know your hold up, man, ship, I know hold I
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: know you didn't just say I say that again? You
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: want you got see we got, like I say, we
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: got the food. The look of all of that man,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: you know a lot of people coming over. But see
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: the problem is, I ain't got cable here at the house.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: How is you gonna have a fight for it? And
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: you ain't got no And that's what I'm saying. That's
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You asked me work as you help
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: by wit, so that's what I'm asking you. I used
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: to wait for the cable coming. I know how to
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: look it up at your house. I know how to
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: buy pass pay per view. We're gonna run. It's two
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: streets so I got a real duable cable call. I
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: got a big TV. I'm gonna put out in the backyard.
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: You called me and invite me to a fight. Part
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: of y'all ain't got no no, no cable. Now you
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: want me to do something illegal and run folk thoys
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: and see the cable wives two streets over to my
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: backyard over to sit. I might heal d wife POLM
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: have man, get me put out. I'm already having my
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: mortgage are alridy. Now now you want me to do
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: something illegal, get me put out? Okay, I understand that.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: Do will listen. What I'm saying is, do we just
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: talk about for a few hours. We ain't open. We
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: ain't like we're gonna do it for a couple of
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: days or not. I don't know how you've been even
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: to call it. Call up a cat man and invite
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: them out to a fight part. And you ain't got
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: no cable, okay, but I invited you to do. You
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: putn't get looking food and stuff. Man, You putn't have
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: a good time, do yo hard. Let me let me
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: get a little bit of you, okay before a couple
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: of hours so everybody can watch the fight. So you
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: want to have a fight part that in my hout, man,
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know you like that. You know I'm not
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: saying we have an it. I don't how house. Man.
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: I was like, so I'm gonna we're having it at
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: my were just using your cave. Man. I can't have
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: no cab. I don't do nothing that illegal. Man, So
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not having no polies in front of my house. Man.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: I got I got a family. Now, I'm a family man.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I got to get up every morning, go to work.
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: I work hard. I'm not and I got that man.
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just killing you for a few hours, man, so
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: everybody see the main weather fight. Man. Man, you're saying
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: clever man, Kennedy, Man, I don't know. I don't really know,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: y'all people like that. Man, I don't know, Kennedy. Man,
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: I didn't know because of keep a nice yard. Man,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know, y'all. I can't be having no laws
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: and all this in my children running around this cave
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: but coming from my highlight. I can't have that. Man.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: I'm out here with the white shaw. These white folks
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: are not having it. Man. I understand all that, man,
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: but I didn't invite it all these people. I can't
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: disappoint these people. I got to have to fight on
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: at the house. I understand your situation. Brother. I want
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: to be at your house watching the fight too, But
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: I can't know where in the run up the hair.
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: No for the cable running from my house, I can't
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: see that. What happen. I'm not hitting a suburb now
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: with a family, and now I can't do them type
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: of thing. Man. I can't. I don't want to the police.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I don't want the cable, can man? You only one
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: in the suburb. I'm not here too. What I'm trying
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: to tell you? If I'm nothing to disappoint the people now,
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: I want to have your approval, But I'm coming to
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: hook this cable up. You're coming well to hook up
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: from cable. I'm coming to your eyes to hook this
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: table and run it two streets old. Oh. So if
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I say you can't hook it up, you're gonna come
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: and hook up anywhere. That was you're telling me. I'm
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: telling you I can't disappoint these people. I'm coming to
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: hook this cable up, man, whether you like it or not. Now,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: if you put me in front of my hour fut
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: for the cable, it's thennae. I got it right. Hey man,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: I can't disappoint these people. Now, I'm just trying to
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: get you to show some law for four pm. You
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: don't have a shot form. If you don't come around house,
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: you're bringing them people you got coming up with you
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: so they can see the fight. Hey man, what are you?
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: What is you saying? You're trying to tell me you
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna let me hook the cable up. When I
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: get over that, I'm standing up on it. I'll be
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: waiting out there with no short the shot. You're gonna
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: fit teen around with me? Hey, non, I'm nothing to
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: see and kenny me you was I don't know who
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: to extend and I you're not going to give me
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: the breaking on a long in front of my chittering
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: out here. Man, I'm sitting nine years. I'll play them
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: games man when I was you know, you maybele the
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: cut of course me with a lot of money, but hey,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not going for I'm not going for that route
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: to sign brother. I'm not having all that activity going
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: on in my house. I'm coming over that and I'm
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: get up this cable when you come over here, you
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: to man, I got something fun of you testing you
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: come over. I'm gonna sitting in front of my house
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: right now. I can't it comes winning two, mister Cary,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I got something on y'all all. I'm telling you if
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I'm coming over that my cable though, so these people
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: can watch height they were lining up dead. Yeah, and
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: you're gonna come take some care from my house. Line
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: it up. I'm gonna have my wife's taking my hands
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: up right now. So I'm beings like. I got one
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: more thing I need to say to you though, issue listening.
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: I don't care what you say. You come in front
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: of my house, You're better raising him with you because
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: you're gonna leave here you con front of my house
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: with a cable car. I don't gonna who you is.
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: And I'm gonna whop kenning when them I see him,
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: I'm whooping him on side. I don't get my chairing
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: in the car and his shooting to come and I'm
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: gonna whoop you if you come out here then this
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: time about your camera. I'm on you right here, man,
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: right now. I said, I got one more thing to
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: say to you. What you got to say is you
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm listening. This is nephew caught me
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got franked
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: by your boy. Who is who you say is here?
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: This is nephew tire me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: And I know you ain't called my phone. Man, I'm
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: my blood pressure hid here. You got me riding the
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: squabrel mean, I got me a cliss from and I
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: my cliss rom that a little thing, man. You got
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: me riding somebody out here? All right, man, I gotta
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: ask you this right here, choice, what is what is
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: the baddest I'm talking about the badest radio show in
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: the land, man, Steve Harvey Morning Show man, y'all crazy coming?
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: That was right down. Man, Really want my favorite first
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: of all ignorance to say, I'm glad you asked me that.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Don Look, I got four thousand feet of cable. I'm
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: gonna running two streets over. Man, Man, what did you say?
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: D d My favorite lines and the whole thing. What
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: did you say? Huh dog? You can't run four thousand
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: feet of cable from my house two streets over. I'm
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: out here with these wife folks. That's my line. They
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: ain't having it. Hold up, I got two more lines.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: If they come over here, I'm gonna be in the
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: front with my shirt off. My next favorite line was
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: I've been going here and have my wife tape off
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: my hands. This dude is Fenn the Beef. Yeah, come on, Toughie,
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: come on, Oh my god, come on Toffy. Oh other line,
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: I promise you you can't go fifteen rounds with me.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: That boy thore my white tape of my hands. I said, yeah,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: just do right here. Business a few years ago you
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: could have you could have cohersed me. A few years
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: ago with no money, you could have gotten me. But
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: I got a family now. Man thirty nine years old. Man,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: I can't head any law in front of my house
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: from my kids. Man. Yeah, all right, listen coming up next,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: thanking you Strawberry letter for today. The subject is he
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: doesn't make me feel safe. We'll get back into it
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
• 53:51
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  Speaker 1: live pap on the air. It's just like we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do this one right here, right now, and it could
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  Speaker 1: be yours. You never know. Bugle up and hold on tight.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: We gotta four you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Tommy.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: What's your fine self? All right? Subject he doesn't make
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: me feel safe. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: year old woman and my fiance is thirty. We met
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: at a house party four years ago and we got
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: engaged a few weeks ago. We started out as friends
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: for a while because of his height. He is shorter
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: than the men I used to date. I love his
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: personality and that's what got me hooked on him. Whenever
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: we are together, everyone always says we're such a cute couple.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: It's because we're short. I'm five to three and he
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: is five six, but he loves to say he is
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: a lot taller. He works out a lot, so he's
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: got muscles everywhere. But he's not an alpha male and
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: I don't. He'll protect it when we are out. And
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: here's why we got engaged and then went to Paradise
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Island to celebrate. Our getaway was going great until the
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: second day when I was sitting by the pool and
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: a man came over and tried to talk to me.
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: I let him know that I was newly engaged, and
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: my fiance went to get me a drink. He said
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: that was cool, but he was going to sit by
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: me anyway. When my fiance came back, they shook hands
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: and my fiance asked him if he needed anything. The
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: guy said he was just sitting there trying to get
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: to know me better. But I told him I'm engaged.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: My fiance laughed it off and leaned back in his chair.
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: Then the guy said he could still take me, but
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: he was there to relax, not to steal anyone's girl.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: I looked at my fiance so crazy, and he was
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: lying back, drinking his girly frozen drink, and I could
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  Speaker 1: not believe he didn't say a word. He didn't ask
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  Speaker 1: the guy to move or asked me to move with
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: him to a different area. I set there stressed out
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: because he didn't protect me. Am I overreacting? Or is
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: this a major sign that I'm marrying a whim? Why
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: didn't he say anything? Well, you're not engaged to Will Smith,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: that's for sure. Will Smith is not your man because
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: he didn't do anything and Will Smith did. But I'm
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: going to take a little different approach to this letter.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: I agree with you. Women do like to feel protected
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: when we're out. We absolutely do. We like to feel
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: that security when we're with our men. But it sounds
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: like your man was saying to the guy, if you
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: think you can get her, go ahead and shoot your
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: best shot. Your fiance had probably already sized him up
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: when the guy hit on you at the pool. He
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: was at the bar, remember, getting drinks. He probably saw
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: everything go down, and that's why he wasn't worried. I
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: think your man sounded confident and not worried about this
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: man at all. This other man, he probably thought he
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: could take him if something jumped off, if he had
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: to throw the hands, he probably would. And I think
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: that's why he laughed and just leaned back in his
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: chair and sipped his cocktail. I don't think he's going
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: to the gym every day and working out for nothing.
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: He said he has muscles everywhere. I suppose he could
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: have told the guy to keep it moving, to leave
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: you alone, to get up, you know, all of that.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: He could have customed out. He could have punched him
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: in the face, but he decided to play it cool
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: and not start anything while you guys were on vacac.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: He could have done more, he could have said more,
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: but I think he took the high road out of
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: the country. I think that's what he did. If you're
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: concerned about his method, I think you need to talk
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: to him and let him know how you feel that
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: you don't feel protected, you don't feel safe, and you
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: know I don't want you to go into this marriage.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: If you feel this way, you need some reassurance from
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: this guy. You want to feel secure, Steve, I don't
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: even go ahead. I was leading Miss letter just rubbing
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: my thighs on top of you. I couldn't even what
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: I already know because I kept waiting. I kept waiting
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: for him. Yeah, and what twenty nine year old woman
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: fiance thirty met at a house party four years ago,
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: got engaged a few weeks ago. Started out as friends
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: because you know, of his height, he's shorter than the
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: men you know I used to date. I love this personality,
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: and we hooked up on him. Now whenever we're together,
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: people always say we're such cute couple. It's because we shot.
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: I'm fied three and he five six. But he loved
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: to say here a lot taller. This is so fun,
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: just what, it's so familiar. So I'm not gonna say anything.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: But I know men who say that a lot taller
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: than they are all the time. And y'all all cute
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: couple because you five three and he five six. But
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: he say here a lot taller all the time. They
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: do that he works out a lot. Oh this is so,
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: he works out a lot, always running. It just helped
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: the lady. Helped the lady. I am, okay, I'm sorry
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: to you know, you get caught up Steve, and he's
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: got muscles everywhere, but he's not an alpha male. Now
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: that's the only reason this ain't about Tommy, because Tommy
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: is an alpha mayle as crazy. He won't. He ain't
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: got a lot of muscles everywhere, but he do have muscles,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: but everything else? Who close about Tommy? We now where
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: has Paradise Island? Why do I know that? Is? Okay?
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I get away. He was going great until the second day.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: Sitting by the pool, a man came over and tried
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: to talk right hold that thought. This is where the
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: letter gonna go crazy. Okay, surely totally dis We disagree
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: on this one. I knew we would. All Right, listen,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up in
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subjects
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: he doesn't make me feel safe. He doesn't make me
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: feel safe. We'll get back into it. Gets Steve's response
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: part two coming up right after this. You're listening to
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject is he doesn't make me feel safe,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: and I think we have a problem here. I've heard
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: Show's response and that's fine, but let me explain something
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: to you now, y'all look cute, ass coupling to everything.
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: People call y'all cute because you're short. You five three,
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: he five six, you know, and people think y'all cute. Now.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: He always telling people he a lot taller. I don't
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: know how you're gonna keep telling me you're talling. You ain't.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: I've been dealing with that for years, So you can
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: stop telling me you're tall coast to me, you ain't so,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: but let's get off of that. Because you're tall and
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: I knew it, and I've been around basketball players and
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: looking up going one, I'd be damned. Man's six two.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Ain't nothing right here, ain't throwing all my shots out
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: in the hallway. But he's not an aw for male
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: and I don't feel protective when we're out in here.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: While we got engaged, we went to Paradise Island and
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: celebrate our gataway. It was going great until the second day.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting by the pool and the moment man came
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: over and tried to talk to me, I let him
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: know I was newly engaged, and my fiance went to
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: give me a drink. He said it was cool, but
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: he was gonna sit by me way. When my fiance
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: came back, they shook hands and my fiance asked him
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: if he needed something. The guy said he was just
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: sitting there trying to get to know me better. But
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: I told him I'm engaged. My fiance laughed it off
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: and leaned back in his chair. Then the guy said
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: he could still take me, but he was dad of relax,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: not to steal anybody's girl. I looked at my fiance
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: so crazy, and he was lying back drinking his girl.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: He froze and drink and I could not believe he
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: did not say a word. He didn't say to the
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: guy move or asked me to move with him to
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: a different area. I set that stressed out because he
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: didn't protect me and my overreacting. Was this a major
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: sign that I married a whim? Why didn't he say anything?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: I don't think you overacting at all, And I'm gonna
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: tell you because these are the rules of manhood. This
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: is man engagement. I'm not asking anybody out that to
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: agree with me. I don't gonna give a damn. How
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: you feel is how it'd go. Because I've had something
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: similar happened to me when I first started dating Marjorie.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: We were standing at a party. She asked, I said,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: you want something to drink. I said, I'm gonna get
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: your champagne. We're standing there with about two three people.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: I told the guys, I say, hey man, this is
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: my fiance right here. This is Marjorie introduced it to
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: some guy. I'm gonna go get a drink. I go
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: get a drinking. Now, what I was doing was marking
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: my territory. What happened in this ladder was the guy
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: had been watching her from a distance and him so
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: when he got up, he swooped in. He had already
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: sized him up, figured he little man going on out
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: the way. He walked his tall ass over there and
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: set out and started talking. So this dude, I come
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: back with the drink. He's standing there and I'm walking up.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: He don't see me coming, and his head is tilted
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: to the side talking to Margrete. Now I know when
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: a man got his head cocked to the side, I
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: know what's happening. So I walked up and poured the
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: drink on it. He went, oh, man, hold up, damn,
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: you just poured the drink on it. I said, hey, man,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: didn't I tell you when I went over here. Who
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: she was? Dog? We're just talking, na, dog, you ain't
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: just talking, you're hitting on it. And I told your
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: ass He said, man, you're just gonna pour a drink
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: on me because I'm trying to get it started. Then
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: you ain't doing nothing I can't handle. So that was it.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: That's how my reaction to it. So now he come
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: back with his drink. The girls and told him I'm
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: help with my fiance. Say you newly engaged, and he
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: went to get you a drink. He said, that's cool,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna sit by you anyway. Then the fiance
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: shurely came back. They shook hands on my fiance, asking me,
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: my fiance, do we need something because see right now
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: I'm finging this thinning go down? Hey man, you need something? Nah? Man,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: I'm just sitting here. I was trying to get to
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: know your girl better. But she told me she was engaged.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: And then my fiance laughed it off and leaned back
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: in his chair. The guy said that. Then the guy said,
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: I could still take her, but I'm just here to relax,
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: not to steal nobody's girl. And now we're sitting here,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: let me tell you something I to put them to
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: a strong ass muscles to work. Now I'm in the
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: gym to get all these muscles. It's time to test
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: them that a man. Listen to me. Hey, my man,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: she told you she was engaged, that you still gonna
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: sit here. Then I come back and now you're gonna
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: sit here and tell me that you're gonna sit here anyway.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: But you could try, but you ain't here to take
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: nobody's girl. See, first of all, let me tell you
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: something like Shirley said, he took the high road because
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: they out of the country. I don't give a damn
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: if we end on Pluto. You don't have to like me.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: You're not gonna disrespect me. And that's the ultimate show
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: of disrespect in the manhood game. So now let me
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: tell you what. We're gonna see how much you want
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: to disrespect me, because we're gonna get to move with
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: some furniture around out here at this pool. Because what
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: you're not fit to do is sit over there on
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: the other side of my girl and say, you know,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: I could take you anyway, but I ain't really here
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: to take nobody's girl. Pardner, you're asking for this ass whooping,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: and I got to issue it. No, I don't have
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: a choice because you can't disrespect me and that's ultimate disrespect.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: And yeah, you're marrying a whim. You need to slow
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: this thing down because he ain't gonna protect you now,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: he ain't gonna protect you later because it ain't any
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: heina alpha mail? Why would you marry a man that
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: ain't Alpha mail? What kind of mail is it? Beta?
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter
• 1:06:45
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• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Two coming up with
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: forty six minutes after the hour. You know what time
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: it is time for Junior and Sports Talk. Right after
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: this you're listening, Dave, it is time for Junior and
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: Sports Talk. What you got junior? Thank you, Shirley. Just
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: let everybody know. June fourth is the fourth annual Kiers
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Hope Fun Running and Walked for Sickle Celle happening in
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: Dallas at the Market Hunt Hill Bridge. Go to kiars
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  Speaker 1: Hope dot org and register. Listen. We need volunteers this year.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: We need we need some men out there this year.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: Man to help move somebody equipment around. So I gotta
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: I gotta work on that. I'm gonna talk to the
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: teams see how we're gonna get that done. But we're
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: gonna have that out there all right. Listen, man, I
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: don't know you missed it over the weekend. I know
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: you're probably working, but Tyson Fury knocked out Dylan White
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: in the sixth round. I'm gonna tell you right now,
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: we need a black heavyweight back. I'm telling you right now,
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: something's wrong about this fight because it happened at two
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: in the afternoon. You probably couldn't catch it because the
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: fight was at two in the afternoon, and I was like, well,
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: maybe the champ got to go to bed or something
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: because the fight starting at two pms. I see, wouldn't
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: I ain't know when it were, but it happened over
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: it was overseas. I didn't know that the fight was
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: overseas at Wimbley Stadium. If I'll tell you, I've never
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: seen this many white men in a ring. Everybody was
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: from Great Written Box had probably two blacks on the undercard.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: It was six fights, two blacks, and that's concluding the
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: one that was fighting types of fear. We need rappers
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: to walk these champs back down the ring. I understand why,
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: Little Wayne. Now I see why, because Sweet Caroline is
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: not an aggressive song. They coming after Sweet Caroline, Nil Diamond.
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: They singing this. This is not aggressive. This is not
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: aggressive at all. I swear to god, I can't even
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: get mad. There was so much lugging going on out
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: in the artist. That's the coming out to the ring
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: with it. Man, Please give me out of Tiger. That's
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: a big stadium, sold out nineties. You know how we
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: used to say Bill Clinton was our first other black
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: brillion Uh huh, Tyson Fiard, black Dog, the Gypsy King
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: sat shirts and drink, and he be dressing. He dressed
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: like a hood. He can't talk good. He got bad.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: Grandmother talked trash. He did come out to me, He
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: came out to Biggie. He did walk the ring. That
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: boy got hands man head movement talk. He called and
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: dog came. Nobody whoop him. No man, I'm talking about
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: He set him up with a right and a straight
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: upper cut man. The boy was lights out. It was
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: over after that. Yeah, it was lights out. I've talked
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: about what you ever heard of this other dude? We
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: didn't know him. How much money he made Junior to
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: do this. I had no idea. But I tell you
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: one thing, though, it ain't enough to get it. It
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: ain't enough money to get that ass him. He just
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: took THEO. I bet you took the junior. I bet
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I bet you to took that ass from me. Oh man.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: But it was good for Michael. It was a thank you,
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: all right, coming up at the top of the hour. Sometimes, guys,
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: honesty isn't the best policy. You already know that. Of
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: course we'll talk about it though right after this you're
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: listening to you guys already know. But sometimes honesty isn't
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: the best policy. Here's a situation or a question that
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: we found on Facebook, and this one is from Jerry.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: Jerry says, when my wife comes home from getting her
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: hair done and colored, it doesn't look great, but I
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: always tell her it does always okay. Any married man
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: should know this, no matter what, tell her she looks beautiful.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: So when do you feel like honesty isn't the best
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: policy all the time. I'm not hardest look on me,
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: just man, just yeah, joy, I've been on the old
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: because I've been on the old. Yeah, I was going
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: yourself virgin. I'm trying to save myself from what I
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: already know. If I tell the truth, what's gonna happen?
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: So why not try this? Yet? You put your hand
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: on the Bible and still like, that's not a real
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: Bible shilling. And the people that's in there trying to
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: get me is not religious people. Everybody in that line
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: to prosecutor line, everybody in that line. I ain't even
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: put my hand on the Bible and then hold me
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: to that. Um, if you lied in the relationship, yeah,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: you lied to you. The last time you lied to you?
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: Who uh, it's been a while, that's been a while,
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm not Yeah, I don't, you know, I
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: don't really lie. But the last time you lie at
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: your wife time? There's morning? What's your call? What? Perfectly comfortable? Yeah? Morning?
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: Now that was an honest answer from you. When it
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: when about you, Steve? Yeah, well, she out of town
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: right now, So I'm anticipating you sooner. I'm anticipating as
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: soon as she called exactly. But why do you guys
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: lie when the truth will? Will we beat your spine?
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: I don't get that. Don't say that. No truth, Yeah,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time, the truth is not fine, Okay,
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: what is she gonna ask you that you have to
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: lie about this? I don't. I'll tell you what. I'll
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: tell you what asked me something. Let's let's just practice.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: Let's go do several my honey, is it raining there?
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: About to seem like, why are you asking about rain? Yeah?
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: Because see now I got to is it raining there?
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: Because now what I got to see in you in
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: the mail? No, go ahead, and she'll ask me something that, uh,
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: what what are you doing today? What are you gonna
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: do today? Like after work? I know you have to work,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: but like after working all day, baby, I ain't. I'm
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: gonna work all the way to this time to go
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: to bed. I ain't got no breaks, no breaks because
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: I was thinking about coming down and maybe we could
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  Speaker 1: have lunch together. Now we don't have a lunch today
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  Speaker 1: because we got we got cases is backed up for COVID.
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  Speaker 1: What did you wear to work today? Did Ellie? Um?
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  Speaker 1: Did Ellie pick something out for you to wear? No? No,
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  Speaker 1: I just put on something myself, just got on sweatsuit.
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  Speaker 1: That's well. I saw you posted something and it had
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  Speaker 1: Ellie's name under it. Yeah, I was picture from last week.
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  Speaker 1: You know. I don't post that. No, damn way. So
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  Speaker 1: I pictured that from last week? Well, um, have you
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  Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? Instagram social media? Yeah? Have you
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  Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? When did they When did they
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  Speaker 1: start that? To lie? You know? Just that that just
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  Speaker 1: gets your black ass. If you don't ride by Steve,
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  Speaker 1: what are you lying about Instagram? I don't know, just
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  Speaker 1: practicing dis yeh, all right, when did they start? We'll
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  Speaker 1: have more of the show coming up in twenty minutes after.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, I worked with a bunch of liars. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening show, all right, guys. Before we left for break,
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  Speaker 1: we were talking about lying when it isn't a good
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  Speaker 1: time to lie. But you guys like, regardless, it doesn't matter. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why I lie regardless. Why if
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  Speaker 1: you tell a woman the truth, yeah, they're gonna expect
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  Speaker 1: it all the time. Yeah, thank you, and then manage
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  Speaker 1: her expectations. Yeah, And then what happens when I do
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  Speaker 1: tell the truth and then she don't believe me. I
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  Speaker 1: picked those moments where I will tell you the truth,
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  Speaker 1: but they're very few. And then when you when you
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  Speaker 1: assume that's a lie, then I jump out and proved
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  Speaker 1: that it was the truth, and then I'm good for
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  Speaker 1: another yell. See, damn, every time AMNA tell you something,
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  Speaker 1: you think I'm lying? Did I tell you the truth?
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  Speaker 1: Now look at this right here? Yeah? Damn baby, that
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  Speaker 1: allowed me to lie for another year? Love it? You
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  Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. You see that, Shirley, That's how
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  Speaker 1: that worked. I see it. But you know whatever with
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  Speaker 1: that all the life? Yeah? Ain't you still with your
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  Speaker 1: husband after all these years? Yeah? Thank the Lord, he's
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  Speaker 1: been lying? Yes, Yeah, so you're so then you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: all men lie. That's what you're saying. I'm saying you're saying,
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  Speaker 1: all men lie. Absolutely. Yeah. Coming up in thirty three
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll try to get the truth
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  Speaker 1: out of you when we play a round of would
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  Speaker 1: you rather? Right after this, you're listening time now for
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather let your ball us
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  Speaker 1: see your full Internet history? Or would you rather let
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: your spouse see your full Internet history? Boss or spouse? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and he won't fire you, and he wonna fire you
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  Speaker 1: might get a raised at the deal. If I do
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  Speaker 1: it right, you might bade me proud. All right, boss,
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  Speaker 1: all day, all right? Would you rather lose a finger.
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  Speaker 1: Lose a finger, or have a headache every day for
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: the rest of your life. No, take this damn finger. Okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: not that headache, all right, but but but take that.
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  Speaker 1: Take that ring from on the right hand, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the ring finger on the left hand. Just give me
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  Speaker 1: the ring finger on the right hand, because I'm left handed,
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  Speaker 1: and that thing. I don't need that finger to button
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: my shirt or nothing, jip up my pants. That finger
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  Speaker 1: kind of useless. I'm gonna need that. Yeah, you ain't
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: gonna be a behold a knife without that thumb, without
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: looking like a cave man. Yeah, all right, it's hard
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: to button your shirt with both your indeck fingers. I'm
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: gonna tell you that right now. All right, picking up
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: French fries gonna look a little crazier like you're smoking
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  Speaker 1: a cigarette. Yeah. Would you rather be trapped on the
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  Speaker 1: desert island with someone who never speaks, never talks to you,
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather be trapped on a desert island
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  Speaker 1: with someone who never shuts up? Hey, quiet all the time.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna get tired of that. I'm talking, gonna dry
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  Speaker 1: you crave. I really had to talk. Yeah, you rather
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: have to talk to Niles and kill me, Junior. You
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  Speaker 1: want someone who saw the talk to me? We talk
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  Speaker 1: every morning. I don't. I don't want to talk all
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: the time. Okay, do you want someone who who who's quiet?
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  Speaker 1: What about you never shut up? Oh? No, I want
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  Speaker 1: the person to talk all the time. I know how
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  Speaker 1: to cut I know, I know how to shut people
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  Speaker 1: out anyway. You can be talking your ass off to me, man,
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: I just look right at you, to be looking right
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  Speaker 1: through the back of your head. I know how to
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: I know how do you hear me? I know you
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: hear me looking right at me and make them think
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at them. But I'll be my man. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be looking at something right off to the side
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  Speaker 1: of your head after me, you know, you know, like
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: a bush or something, and you be talking to your ass.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: I don't even know you talk to me. All right,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: that's today's round, guys of would you rather now? Coming
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it is
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and of course we'll
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: have some closing remarks from the one and only Steve
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. You're listening to Steven Show. All right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day on
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  Speaker 1: this Tuesday. And it's been a good day. It's been
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  Speaker 1: a real good day. Grateful and don't forget to watch
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• 1:21:01
  Speaker 1: The Court is in session. Who Steve? Very good? Such
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: a blessing. Hey, I want to talk to you all
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  Speaker 1: about haters. My closing remark today is about haters because
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  Speaker 1: everybody has experienced it or currently experiencing it. I think
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  Speaker 1: we all have them. For those of you who don't
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: have haters, it's simply because you're not doing anything to
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  Speaker 1: be hated for. But the moment, the moment you make
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  Speaker 1: the decision to improve your position your life, to improve
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  Speaker 1: your space, to improve your family, to improve your education,
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  Speaker 1: to improve your job, to improve your money, to improve
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  Speaker 1: your lifestyle, the moment you make that decision. You are
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: going to have haters. Everybody has them, and because social
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: media is so big now you find haters everywhere. It's
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  Speaker 1: sad that there are those who spend their day hating.
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  Speaker 1: One guy told me what time? I said, Man, why
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: do you waste your time hating? He said, Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I do. I'm a hater. Everybody know I'm
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: a hater. Does what does that get you? But I
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  Speaker 1: tell you what they're hoping. The cause and effect is
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: a hater is hoping that their voice is big enough
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  Speaker 1: in your ear or your space to affect it. That's
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  Speaker 1: what they actually think and actually hate us or some
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: really really small minded people. Because I gotta tell you something, man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know powerful people. That's haters because they
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: don't have time. I don't have I don't know any
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  Speaker 1: powerful decision making people who are online blogging about somebody else.
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  Speaker 1: Most people that I know and affiliate with that are
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  Speaker 1: shakers and movers and decision makers. They have to be
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  Speaker 1: told what's online. They don't have time. I'm for that
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  Speaker 1: mess right there, and haters, let me give you some
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  Speaker 1: advice for those of you that are suffering from something
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: that a hater has said and done. If it's affecting you,
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: I want you to understand something. Haters don't matter unless
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: you allow them to. Haters don't matter unless you allow
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  Speaker 1: them to. Well. See, once you understand something, you can
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  Speaker 1: take the power from a hater by not giving it
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  Speaker 1: to them in the first place. But if they think
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  Speaker 1: they have the power, and you've in the past given
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  Speaker 1: the power to a hater, this is how you get
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  Speaker 1: it back. I need for you today, I need everybody
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  Speaker 1: to look at it like this. Listen to me. Haters
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  Speaker 1: do not make decisions in your life. Haters opinion of
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: you is merely that it's their opinion. It's not a
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  Speaker 1: factual statement. Haters don't know who you really are, what
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: you really think, or what you really feel. They are
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: basing in a round what makes them sound the most hateful,
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  Speaker 1: and they say it in a way to bring about
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  Speaker 1: the most hurt to come towards you. Once you demand,
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  Speaker 1: once you take that power back, once you just say, hey,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, you don't matter to me. You don't
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  Speaker 1: You're not the author of my book. You're not the
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  Speaker 1: architect of my life. You are not my creator. You
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: will not determine how I swim or sink you are
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  Speaker 1: not the person who's responsible for my comings or goings.
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  Speaker 1: After you make that assertion, right there, haters no longer
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  Speaker 1: have power. Stop giving haters power. They have none. Do
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  Speaker 1: you know, man, I don't care what you say about me.
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  Speaker 1: You don't know me. If you're sitting in the barber
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: shop talking about me and you hear somebody talking about
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  Speaker 1: turn around and ask him do you know him? I
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: bet they don't. I bet they don't. Stop allowing people
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  Speaker 1: to shape your day. I've been stopped doing that because
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  Speaker 1: I am a child of God, and I know this.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: I know I'm his I really am, And you can't
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  Speaker 1: do nothing to me. He don't allow and the stuff
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: he allows to happen to me is just testing my dreams,
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: because every dream you have is going to be tested.
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  Speaker 1: I said this the other day, so I understand that
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be tested. It just ain't thing to be
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  Speaker 1: by you. You're not my testing. You may think you are.
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  Speaker 1: But all a hater has done for me, It's taught
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: me how to depend on God. Even more, all haters
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: has done for me has made me stronger. And I
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 1: thank y'all. I thank y'all of the hate you've given
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: me over the years, because you've helped mold me into
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: the man that I am to today. And it's not
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: because your hate worked, It's because God showed me that
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: your hate don't work. My life is totally in God's hands.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with you. I don't kill
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: what you say about me because what you say don't
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: matter because you you're nothing. You're just a hater and
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 1: I'm going on about my business. Please take that attitude
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 1: and stop letting hate and shake your day or and
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: and and they don't do nothing for me. Say what
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 1: you want to say. Your opinion in me is none
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: of my business, nor should I make it. Man, those
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. If you didn't like that one,
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: tune in tomorrow. God's willing will have one that you
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 1: will like. Last, but not least, don't get talk to God.
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: He would love at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated.
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