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Jonathan Majors, Frisky Fitness, Bass Pro Shop, steveharveyfm.com and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all bat all at all, So.
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  Speaker 4: Don't given them.
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  Speaker 1: Black the millon bu bu boozy.
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  Speaker 5: Listen to.
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  Speaker 2: Show.
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  Speaker 4: I want joy, Yeah, joy, You want to do that?
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  Speaker 5: You love? Turn you.
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  Speaker 4: Gotta turn.
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  Speaker 6: To turn the mouth, turn the probably, got to turn
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  Speaker 6: the mouth out, turn the water the monk.
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  Speaker 4: Come come out your.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning everybody, y all listening to the voice, Come
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  Speaker 7: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 7: a radio show. Man, old Man, Oh Man symbolizes just
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  Speaker 7: one thing to me. Man, It's just a constant remind
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  Speaker 7: of exactly how good God has been to me over
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  Speaker 7: the years. And I'm thanking for it too, because I
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  Speaker 7: realize every day that I wake up that I would
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  Speaker 7: be nothing without Him. That everything I am, that's any
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  Speaker 7: good in me, I owe to him.
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  Speaker 2: Now. Have I made some mistakes along the way?
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  Speaker 7: Yep, bunches, bunches and bunches. And will I continue to
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  Speaker 7: make mistakes along the way yep? Not as many, hopefully
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  Speaker 7: as I have in the past, because a lot of
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  Speaker 7: stuff I know better now. But you're still going to
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  Speaker 7: make mistakes now, you know, hopefully I've limited the amount
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  Speaker 7: of intentional in my life. I've wiped quite a few
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  Speaker 7: of those out. But from time to time, because we're human,
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  Speaker 7: we're going to make a mistake every now and then.
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  Speaker 7: The trick, what it is, y'all, is not to let
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  Speaker 7: the devil deceive you into thinking that once you make
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  Speaker 7: that mistake that that's it.
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  Speaker 2: You can't do it.
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  Speaker 7: You're falling off the wagon. You can't reboard it. That's
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  Speaker 7: the biggest trick that he uses. He makes you think
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  Speaker 7: that if you keep stumbling, that you can't run the race.
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  Speaker 7: It kind of reminds me of a marathon runner. From
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  Speaker 7: time to time I watch them on TV, and you'll
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  Speaker 7: see some people who finish the race, you know, in
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  Speaker 7: a nice pace. You see people finish the race sprinting
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  Speaker 7: towards the finished line. But every now and then you'll
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  Speaker 7: watch a marathon and you'll see a runner and the
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  Speaker 7: runner is in really, really bad shape.
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  Speaker 2: The key is they finish the race.
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  Speaker 7: See, you don't get disqualified in the marathon because you stumble.
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  Speaker 2: You don't. They don't.
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  Speaker 7: They don't take your opportunity to finish the race because
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  Speaker 7: you keep falling.
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  Speaker 2: That's not the key. The key is finishing.
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  Speaker 7: And a lot of times what the devil does is
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  Speaker 7: he makes you think that because you keep stumbling, because
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  Speaker 7: you're swaying from side to side, that you know you
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  Speaker 7: out the race. Well that's not the case. And see
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  Speaker 7: and then this thing called life. Let me help you
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  Speaker 7: understand something. Everybody falls, Nobody sprints to the tape in
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  Speaker 7: this one. Nobody just runs free and clear that as
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  Speaker 7: some people running faster than you, and all like this,
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  Speaker 7: and some people gonna get to the end before you
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  Speaker 7: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the
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  Speaker 7: end come. I ain't in the rust. You get to
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  Speaker 7: the end.
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  Speaker 2: But in this race, though, when you're stumbling and you're falling,
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  Speaker 2: it's a part of it. No one gets through this.
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  Speaker 7: Race without stumbling and falling, swaying from side to side.
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  Speaker 7: So don't let the enemy to see you and the
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  Speaker 7: thinking that it's over. I try to be encouraging to
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  Speaker 7: people because I don't want people to get stuck on
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  Speaker 7: this thing, you know. And my walk is very different
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  Speaker 7: from a lot of people's walks. And then I know
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  Speaker 7: a lot of people who walking in faith the way
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  Speaker 7: I'm walking in faith. But my thing in the morning
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  Speaker 7: is just to remind those that is not a perfect
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  Speaker 7: walk man, that it's not something that's set up where
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  Speaker 7: you're gonna be skipping through life scott free without any pitfalls.
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  Speaker 7: You know, I keep saying it over and over and
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  Speaker 7: over again because, like I said, when I was in DC,
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  Speaker 7: my boy Hondo said this to me and it just
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  Speaker 7: kind of stuck with me that the road to construct,
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  Speaker 7: the road to success is always under construction. You have
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  Speaker 7: to figure and count on the setbacks and the pitfalls.
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  Speaker 7: But it's those people that are that that are that
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  Speaker 7: fight through will be the victors in the end. You
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  Speaker 7: cannot give up, man, Stop going somewhere and sitting down
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  Speaker 7: every time something goes down. It's going to go down.
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  Speaker 7: It's a part of it. It's going to happen. It's
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  Speaker 7: going to occur that are going to be setbacks. If
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  Speaker 7: you go and sit down every time there's a setback,
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  Speaker 7: that's not how this works. It is designed that way.
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  Speaker 7: If success were easy, everybody would be successful.
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  Speaker 2: But success is just reserved for those who are willing
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  Speaker 2: to fight through.
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  Speaker 7: Who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more. Now,
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  Speaker 7: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual.
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  Speaker 7: So what I may consider to be successful. You may
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  Speaker 7: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considered successful.
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  Speaker 7: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considered successful. I
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  Speaker 7: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might
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  Speaker 7: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself.
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  Speaker 7: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your
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  Speaker 7: level of success could be tied up in community service.
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  Speaker 7: It could be tied up in family. It could be
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  Speaker 7: tied up.
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  Speaker 4: In the church.
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  Speaker 7: Your level of success could be tied up into boys clubs.
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  Speaker 7: It could be any number of things. Whatever your level
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  Speaker 7: of success is, you have to determine what that is
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  Speaker 7: you and the best way to determine that is to
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  Speaker 7: get in touch with your maker, who created you, to
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  Speaker 7: find out what your mission and your purpose is so
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  Speaker 7: he can put you on track. I just had this
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  Speaker 7: conversation with my son, and we were talking about getting
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  Speaker 7: on the path that God has set up for you.
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  Speaker 7: Many times we find ourselves fighting through life because of
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  Speaker 7: so much uncertainty, because we have no idea where we're headed.
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  Speaker 2: It's like one of my.
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  Speaker 7: Sayings that I have at my mentoring camp for boys
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  Speaker 7: is is that a boy without a male role model
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  Speaker 7: is like an explorer without a map. See if you
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  Speaker 7: don't have a map laid out in front of you
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  Speaker 7: of where you're going when you wake up every day,
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  Speaker 7: that pretty much explains the feeling of confusion, the laxadaisical attitude,
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  Speaker 7: the lack of purpose, to not understanding your mission because
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  Speaker 7: you don't have not gotten in touch with your creator
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  Speaker 7: to find out exactly what your path in life is.
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  Speaker 7: What are you supposed to be doing? The moment you
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  Speaker 7: can identify that is the moment that you get started
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  Speaker 7: waking up with purpose, with the sense of direction. When
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  Speaker 7: you kill the sense of I don't know what's next
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  Speaker 7: or what to do. Now, there's going to be some
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  Speaker 7: confusing moments no matter what happened, it's going to be
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  Speaker 7: some uncertainty, but at least you'll know where you're going.
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  Speaker 7: So if you're tied a waking up feeling loss, abandon confuse,
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  Speaker 7: don't know what to do, don't know what you're supposed
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  Speaker 7: to be doing, refer back to your makeup. Because when
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  Speaker 7: He created you, he had a plan for you. When
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  Speaker 7: he created you, he.
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  Speaker 2: Had a path for you.
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  Speaker 7: Now we've made some decisions to get off of both
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  Speaker 7: of those, the mission and the path. But God can
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  Speaker 7: get you right back on track. Do that today, ask
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  Speaker 7: him what you're supposed to be doing, and listen. God
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  Speaker 7: has all the answers if you form the relationship. Okaytening show,
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  Speaker 7: ladies and gentlemen, it's time again.
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  Speaker 2: It's time to be grateful.
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  Speaker 7: It's time to wake up, give honor, and thanks to
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  Speaker 7: the Almighty for letting you see another day.
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  Speaker 2: Man, oh man, oh man, God is good.
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  Speaker 1: You know something, y'all.
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  Speaker 7: Twenty twenty four is starting off rather well for me,
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  Speaker 7: and I just want you to know why, because.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I've learned so much. It is every
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  Speaker 2: year I.
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  Speaker 7: Live, I learn more and more and more and more.
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  Speaker 7: And I want all y'all to put this in your head.
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  Speaker 7: What God has for you. There is not a living
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  Speaker 7: soul that can stop that from happening. And man, what
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  Speaker 7: God made you to be. You are who you are
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  Speaker 7: because God willed it so you in good hands. If
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  Speaker 7: you are a person who believes in God, you are
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  Speaker 7: in good hands. And don't worry about what they out
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  Speaker 7: there saying because they have nothing else to do.
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  Speaker 2: Man, oh man, oh man, I ain't got nothing else
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  Speaker 2: to do. See Harby morning to show y'all. Charity Strawberry calling.
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  Speaker 7: For Reil, Mississippi, Monica Junior government name is kill Spas
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  Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, legend that he is nephew Tommy Junior.
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  Speaker 2: It's a new year. What's on your mind?
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  Speaker 8: You know?
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  Speaker 2: Uh?
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 6: I feel for some people, man, because nine days in
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  Speaker 6: they not already quit on their dream.
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  Speaker 4: Man.
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  Speaker 6: Nine days in, friend of mine and called up said, man,
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  Speaker 6: I can't do it.
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  Speaker 2: I said, what's wrong? Man?
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  Speaker 6: He said, Man, I ain't gonna be able to get
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  Speaker 6: to this CDL license. So now he didn't quit on
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  Speaker 6: the CDL dream. See, all he had to do was
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  Speaker 6: you go down to school, go get his license, and
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  Speaker 6: he can go drive trucks.
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  Speaker 2: But I found out he ain't got no driving license. Damn,
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  Speaker 2: he had to give it up. He ain't got no
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  Speaker 2: reving license.
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  Speaker 7: What the steps to success? I think that's what everybody
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  Speaker 7: has to understand. There's steps to success, and a lot
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  Speaker 7: of the steps you're going to take is going to
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  Speaker 7: be difficult, you know what, man. I was listening to
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  Speaker 7: a guy early early this morning on one of the
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  Speaker 7: motivational feeds, and he says that whenever he makes a
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  Speaker 7: plan to do something great with his wife or anybody
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  Speaker 7: can do something do something great.
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  Speaker 2: He expects an attack.
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  Speaker 7: To come, because he says, whenever you in agreement with
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  Speaker 7: your spouse or your mate, or you trying to accomplish
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  Speaker 7: something wonderful in your life, expect an attack to come
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  Speaker 7: because the opposition don't want to see it happen for you.
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  Speaker 2: But what throws people off is we make.
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  Speaker 7: These New Year's resolutions, we make these claims, and then
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  Speaker 7: when the attack comes, we think that's the final blow. No,
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  Speaker 7: it comes with the process of becoming successful. That the
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  Speaker 7: attack may come in the form of a person that
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  Speaker 7: you trusted or loved, but if it also can just
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  Speaker 7: come in the form of a test. Okay, Like your
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  Speaker 7: boy Junior, he wanted to get his CDL license, but.
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  Speaker 2: He gave up. But he got he gotta go get
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  Speaker 2: a regular license first. Yeah, because you can't even give.
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  Speaker 7: It a truck to drive without the damn regular license.
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  Speaker 7: So all he gotta do is go get the license.
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  Speaker 2: But he canna let that stop it? Man, Come on,
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  Speaker 2: come on, come.
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  Speaker 1: On, all right, we can do better than this. Don't
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  Speaker 1: give up. Don't give up. That is the message coming up.
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  Speaker 1: At thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll hear from
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  Speaker 1: the nephews. He runs that prank back right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening hard Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for the nephew to run that
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  Speaker 1: prank back. What you got for his nep.
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  Speaker 2: Sureley, I got. Can you hear me now? Can you
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  Speaker 2: hear me now? All right?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, doing a little sign language down at the church.
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  Speaker 10: Can you hear me now? Cat dog? If you would hello,
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  Speaker 10: I'm trying to speak to sister Lauren. Please be my
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  Speaker 10: sister Lauren. This is Brother Davids from the church. I
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  Speaker 10: don't know if you know me. You might know me
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  Speaker 10: when you see me, but I don't know if you
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  Speaker 10: just know me because we don't really interact that much
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  Speaker 10: at the church. But I wanted to give you a call.
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  Speaker 10: We got a bit of a problem going on. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 10: you got you get Do you have a minute to talk?
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 11: Now?
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  Speaker 10: How long have you been doing the sign you in
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  Speaker 10: the you know you in the ministry when you do
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  Speaker 10: the sign language for the church, and you know I
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  Speaker 10: noticed you up there at least two Sundays out of
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  Speaker 10: a out of the month.
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  Speaker 2: You've been doing it quite a while, am I right?
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  Speaker 12: So yes, I've been doing it for over ten years.
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  Speaker 12: But I'm a little to confuse as to why they're
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  Speaker 12: calling about this time. I'm just a little to confuse.
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  Speaker 12: I don't know who you are. You say that. If
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  Speaker 12: I see your face, I may know you, But I
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  Speaker 12: what did you have to do with anything?
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  Speaker 4: That is?
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  Speaker 12: How long I have been doing SI language? I know
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  Speaker 12: I've been doing it for years? So how may I
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  Speaker 12: help you with this? Do you want?
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  Speaker 13: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, I'm not trying to learn any sign language.
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  Speaker 11: Do you do?
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  Speaker 2: You know miss everybody call him MSS murdered. Do you
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  Speaker 2: know Miss Murdle?
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  Speaker 12: Oh yeah, I sure do.
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  Speaker 2: M okay, so Miss murder.
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  Speaker 10: That's that's that's that's that's one of my aunties, right there,
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  Speaker 10: MSS murderers.
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  Speaker 12: Okay, And she gave me my number to call me.
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  Speaker 12: I'm what what do you mean for me?
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  Speaker 4: Did she get?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 2: No, That's what I'm getting at. So, so you know,
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  Speaker 2: you know my you know, my honest is death. You
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  Speaker 2: know she's hearing it. Pay you know that?
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  Speaker 4: Right?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 2: So here's a problem.
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  Speaker 10: I ain't murderer is telling us that you're not doing
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  Speaker 10: the sign language right, doing the service, and like you're
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  Speaker 10: missing some things in the scripture.
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  Speaker 13: Or something, you know that's incorrect. I've been doing this
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  Speaker 13: for a very long time and I'm know what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 12: So how you so she told you for me to.
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  Speaker 13: Tell me that I'm not doing this siline directly, let
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  Speaker 13: me say, let me.
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  Speaker 2: Say this to you.
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  Speaker 10: I don't want us to get off on the wrong
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  Speaker 10: for Let me just say this to you. Once my
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  Speaker 10: once my murder told us what was going on.
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  Speaker 11: You know.
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  Speaker 10: We then went to one of the deacons and asked him,
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  Speaker 10: you know, is that way we can uh have a meeting,
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  Speaker 10: you know, with with with Sister Lawrence so we can
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  Speaker 10: try to get this taken care of and talk about it.
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  Speaker 10: He said, well, won't you just won't you just call
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  Speaker 10: and y'all can just work it out. And and that's
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  Speaker 10: how I'm calling you now. I hope you I don't
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  Speaker 10: know if you're at work or whatever. I apologize, but
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  Speaker 10: I'm just trying to get to the bottom up. Now,
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  Speaker 10: let me go and say this. If my ain't murders
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  Speaker 10: say that you ain't signing right, then MIAINTI ain't lying.
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  Speaker 10: That means your excuse me, that means you ain't signing right.
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  Speaker 12: Really, so the pastor couldn't come to me. But he
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  Speaker 12: but you figured you would just call me and tell
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  Speaker 12: me that your auntie says that I'm doing incorrectly. That
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  Speaker 12: doesn't make to me.
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  Speaker 5: How does she tell you that?
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  Speaker 12: Did she sign it to you?
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  Speaker 10: She signed language to her daughter. Listen, you ain't got
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  Speaker 10: to worry about who she's signing too. What you need
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  Speaker 10: to worry about is getting your getting your stuff together
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  Speaker 10: all right, and learning how to do this the correct
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  Speaker 10: way so that my ainte can get you know, MIAINTI
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  Speaker 10: needs to be getting the word like everybody else getting
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  Speaker 10: the word, but.
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  Speaker 2: She not getting it because you the word is getting
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  Speaker 2: lost in your hands.
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  Speaker 12: All I'm hearing is your voice is getting very loud
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  Speaker 12: and you need to match my tone.
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  Speaker 5: Young man.
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  Speaker 12: Okay, let's start with that. What I means that match
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  Speaker 12: my tone because you're getting very loud and I can't
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  Speaker 12: hear through all of that. All right, Okay, Okay, I
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  Speaker 12: say the situation you called my phone correct. You have
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  Speaker 12: a problem that you're discusting with me, but you're getting
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  Speaker 12: more angry than anything else. How am I going to
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  Speaker 12: resolve this problem? I am trying to be as close.
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  Speaker 10: The way you resolved this problem is carryos back to
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  Speaker 10: science school so you can learn what you need to
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  Speaker 10: so my anti can get the word.
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  Speaker 2: Mia ain't he can't get the gospel because you messing
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  Speaker 2: it up.
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  Speaker 12: God anointed me to do style language at that church,
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  Speaker 12: and I've been doing it for a long time and.
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  Speaker 13: I will continue to do so.
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  Speaker 5: Don't call my phone.
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  Speaker 12: Telling me that I'm not doing something right?
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  Speaker 4: You know?
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  Speaker 2: But do God know that you not doing it right?
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  Speaker 2: Do God know that? Does God know that my ain't
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  Speaker 2: myrtle not getting the word because of you?
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  Speaker 5: Name?
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  Speaker 13: Young man?
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  Speaker 12: Jesus, please give me the strength to continue on with
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  Speaker 12: this conversation.
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  Speaker 13: But you know what, man, I'm gonna be right back.
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  Speaker 13: Let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 5: Don't you ever call my.
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  Speaker 12: Mother freaking phone telling about I ain't doing something.
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  Speaker 5: Man?
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  Speaker 12: If I see you in this tree, this can't I have.
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  Speaker 12: It's gonna go outside your God? Damn, Pa, did I
• 18:47
  Speaker 12: miss myself? Claire?
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  Speaker 2: I cannot believe you talking to me like this.
• 18:51
  Speaker 12: Oh now you want to be calm? Now you're calm?
• 18:53
  Speaker 12: Now you mask my tone?
• 18:55
  Speaker 5: I engaged.
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: I can't believe you just got through talking to me
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  Speaker 2: like that.
• 18:59
  Speaker 12: Are we done here?
• 19:00
  Speaker 10: So you think it's cool for you to tell the
• 19:03
  Speaker 10: Lord I'll be right back. Thank you, Lord. I needed
• 19:06
  Speaker 10: a moment you.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: We've been on the phone in this world.
• 19:09
  Speaker 12: You've been sewing at me. I told you to match
• 19:11
  Speaker 12: my tone. Match my tone.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: I am matching your tone.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: No, can I say? Can I?
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Can I give you something else in this tone?
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: Do you mind?
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: If I say something in this tone?
• 19:24
  Speaker 12: You're gonna hear a click and the dog real quick,
• 19:26
  Speaker 12: go ahead.
• 19:27
  Speaker 10: I just want to tell you in this tone that
• 19:30
  Speaker 10: your friend Vonda Taylor got me to prank.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Phone call you.
• 19:34
  Speaker 10: I am nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 19:37
  Speaker 10: In your tone, have mercy.
• 19:43
  Speaker 13: Bonda, Bonda Taylor, Bonda Taylor, tell me put this on
• 19:49
  Speaker 13: the radio, on the radio in Jesus name, Amen Radio.
• 19:58
  Speaker 12: I'm not playing in the game. I think it's funny, but.
• 20:01
  Speaker 8: This is my job here.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Listen, everything is fine.
• 20:06
  Speaker 12: You haven't known me. I have to tell Jesus give
• 20:08
  Speaker 12: me a minute, because you was about to pressure up.
• 20:11
  Speaker 13: Lord, have mercy.
• 20:12
  Speaker 12: I don't even want to hear this, but I will
• 20:14
  Speaker 12: be calling Bonda because I have some merch. Oh Lord, Lord,
• 20:18
  Speaker 12: Lord father, please forgive me.
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: Look, you gotta you gotta do this for me. In
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: my tone, in my tone.
• 20:25
  Speaker 10: Tell me in your tone, what is the baddest radio
• 20:28
  Speaker 10: show in the land.
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: In your tone?
• 20:31
  Speaker 12: Steven Show.
• 20:35
  Speaker 13: In my tone, And there you have it.
• 20:38
  Speaker 10: No need for an applause or anything. Jacksonville, Florida. Then
• 20:41
  Speaker 10: if you come to town, I got five shows down there.
• 20:43
  Speaker 10: Two Friday, two Saturday, one on Sunday. Nephew, MLK Weekend, Jacksonville, Florida.
• 20:49
  Speaker 10: Comedy's all all.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Right, all right, Nephew, thank you. Coming up next, it
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: is asked the CLO. With our Chief Love Officer, Steve
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Harvey in the building right after this. You're listening, She's
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: a Steve Harvey morning show coming up at the top
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: of the hour. In Entertainment News, Jonathan Majors breaks his
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: silence on the guilty verdict. Oprah Winfrey says there are
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: no issues between her and Taragi and comedian Joe Coy,
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: the comedian who hosted the Golden Globes Award Golden Globe Awards, Well,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: he's responding to the backlash she received. We'll talk about
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: all of these stories at the top of the hour,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: but right now it is time to ask the CLO
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Karen and Tulsa.
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  Speaker 11: Right.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: My husband and I have a lot of phone sex
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: when he's traveling. Last week he called and woke me
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: up at three am, and I didn't know that our
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: five year old had snuck into my bed until my
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: hobby saw her fatal face on my phone. I told
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: her it was just a game. She told my mom
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: about the game. I can't punish her.
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  Speaker 4: What do we do?
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Nuts?
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  Speaker 7: Hum, nothing, what you're gonna do? That's maybe growing on
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: to her, you know. She then told you, mamma, your
• 22:06
  Speaker 7: mama know what's happening.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: So what Let's let me ask you something.
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  Speaker 7: Why are y'all nowadays always feel like you gotta feel
• 22:13
  Speaker 7: like you explain some of your children.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: Right where didn't come from?
• 22:18
  Speaker 9: Growing up?
• 22:19
  Speaker 7: Where they come from? What happened to? Shut your ass up?
• 22:24
  Speaker 7: You better not say nothing? How Yeah, because I said,
• 22:31
  Speaker 7: what happened to that?
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  Speaker 10: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Stop? What do we do?
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: Why?
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what. I tell you what. I bet
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: your ass better not say nothing. I say something that
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  Speaker 2: you want to see. What happened? Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: That's where that that's to fix all for that next world?
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: Sure? All right?
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Henry and Schomberg, who says, my girlfriend
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: does accounting work part time at her church, but she's
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: never been overly religious. Lately she's been bragging about the
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  Speaker 1: preacher and giving me advice that came from him. Is
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  Speaker 1: she doing more than the books at church?
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  Speaker 4: Hmm?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what what what in this question gives
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  Speaker 2: us enough information to go? Where you going with this?
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know if she's quoting the pastor she's gotten off.
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  Speaker 7: She's quoting the pastor maybe she been paying attention in
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  Speaker 7: the service.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: Look, I don't she's doing account.
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  Speaker 2: Church didn't want to give you advice.
• 23:42
  Speaker 7: You know how many people ain't overly religious. People's at
• 23:45
  Speaker 7: the church right now. Yeah, it ain't just your girl,
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: So I wouldn't worry about it one way or another.
• 23:55
  Speaker 7: You know, if it's if its sound advice, just gone
• 23:57
  Speaker 7: and take it. You know, she getting some that's your
• 24:00
  Speaker 7: counselor from the pastor. It's all to help you.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: So just yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You know, a man doesn't want his woman coming home
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: and saying, well the pastor said this, and you know,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: talking about another man.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, well see number one, all your girl did was
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: give her girlfriend the information she ain't got to go
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: in the house and say, pastor saying, see.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: But the whole letter.
• 24:21
  Speaker 7: The question in this letter is what is she doing
• 24:24
  Speaker 7: with the pastor where she's getting all this inside information?
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: That's what this is about.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Here, well he yeah, he wants to know is his
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: girlfriend doing more with the pastor than just keeping a book?
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: You need to cut your seeing down. Sign here here
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: and here he Look, man, you know your girl better
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: than we do. What you think she and that you don't.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: So your answers see al over?
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: My answer, Hell, we don't. You know how better we do?
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: You tell us what's happening.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna move on to Tiffany then, since
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: that one straightened out, Tiffany and Augustus says, I'm married
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: and my husband has a son from a previous marriage.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: The ex wife and stepdad gave his son a car
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  Speaker 1: for Christmas. My husband feels disrespected. I told him that
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: he's overthinking it. Why is he upset at the stepdad
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: for buying the.
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  Speaker 7: Car because he didn't? Stepdad, I bet your son ain't
• 25:34
  Speaker 7: mad at all.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: You roll the damn step man, Daddy, Look what step vaught?
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Your damn call that driveway. You can't call this phone,
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: this drive You need a ride, Daddy, here he buy
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  Speaker 2: you a car for.
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  Speaker 1: Oh.
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  Speaker 7: I understand the father being upset because he got beat
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: to the punch. And maybe the stepfather could be a
• 26:07
  Speaker 7: little bit more affluent. You never know, you know, and
• 26:11
  Speaker 7: maybe he wanted to buy his son his first car.
• 26:13
  Speaker 7: Maybe that could happen, but you know it didn't.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So moving on. Last one now, Steve,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: this is from Prissy.
• 26:23
  Speaker 7: And he probably the look at the new stepfather. No,
• 26:28
  Speaker 7: he can't do nothing with him. That's why I had
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: the house. Complained it to the wife, because he can't
• 26:33
  Speaker 7: go over to buy him something else. And see what happened.
• 26:35
  Speaker 7: Now we can see what's happening right now, Pop, see
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: right there.
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  Speaker 9: At my house.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm buying him My house was getting ready, all right.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Last one again, this is from Prissy and Danbury. Christy says,
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: I've been married for seven years and we have three children,
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: and I'm pregnant. Now I asked my Yeah, I asked
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: my husband about getting a sectomy. He said, what if
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: we get divorced and my new wife wants kids? He
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: has one foot out of the door. This is crazy.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: That sounds like your answer.
• 27:20
  Speaker 7: Obviously, slanging is more important to him than anything. So
• 27:26
  Speaker 7: I don't even know why you're in here talking to
• 27:28
  Speaker 7: me about getting myself cut on because that ain't gonna happen.
• 27:30
  Speaker 7: Because if something happened to me and you, I got
• 27:33
  Speaker 7: to be able to go somewhere and reproduce. Now stop,
• 27:39
  Speaker 7: My job is to multiply what you're gonna try to.
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: You're gonna try to criss cross out the timetable. That
• 27:48
  Speaker 7: ain't what we're doing. I'm here to multiply. I'm the
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: I'm the X on the calculator, baby, I'm the ex factor.
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: I'm times this. Yeah, fine, what we've posed for having
• 28:02
  Speaker 7: us and my new wife and little kids, and I
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: ain't gonna give you while she pregnant. Dog, Yeah, you
• 28:12
  Speaker 7: better be. I don't think you should go to sleep.
• 28:15
  Speaker 7: It's pregnant on your ass. I don't know how you
• 28:19
  Speaker 7: make that statement that, thank you Finn to get some
• 28:21
  Speaker 7: shut ey not right.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: He did.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of stupid people in this world. Wow.
• 28:33
  Speaker 7: I had a friend one time told his wife, oh,
• 28:38
  Speaker 7: so you screwing roll now, I mean right up to
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: him and sending the.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: Female we heard about that to walk right in there
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: to I.
• 28:58
  Speaker 7: Said that to him all right now with conviction didn't
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: So that's right up there with why would I get
• 29:08
  Speaker 7: a seconment? Then my new wife, my new wife won't.
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: Kid thank you.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Coming up in the I had some entertainment news for
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: you right after this.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: That was entertainment news.
• 29:25
  Speaker 9: You're listening, Hardy Morning Show.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Actor Jonathan Majors has done his first interview since being
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: found guilty of harassment and assault in his highly publicized
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: domestic violence trial. Majors told ABC News anchor Lindsey Davis
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: that he felt quote absolutely shocked and afraid by the
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: guilty verdict. Major still denies in injuring his ex girlfriend
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Grace Jabbar and said I was reckless with her heart,
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: not with her body. Jonathan also made headlines when audio
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: used in the case highlighted his infinity for Coreti Scott
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: King and Michelle Obama, both women he told his white
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: ex girlfriend to aspire to. During the interview, Jonathan also
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: mentioned his new girlfriend, Megan Good. He said she's an angel.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: She's held me down like a Coretta. I'm so blessed
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: to have her. Majors, who will be sentenced on February sixth,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: faces up to a year in jail.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: He's referencing these people like that to the white Yeah,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 30:29
  Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he need to Okay, is he trying
• 30:34
  Speaker 10: to pick a role model for Is that what he's
• 30:36
  Speaker 10: trying to do.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: I mean those are good reference Yeah, great, excellent.
• 30:43
  Speaker 7: However, well he might have to say Bob Streis said,
• 30:46
  Speaker 7: and Betty White something like that. Celine Dion, I mean,
• 30:50
  Speaker 7: you got to find something. But you know, man, I
• 30:54
  Speaker 7: feel for this cat because it just seems to wa
• 30:58
  Speaker 7: the way the convictions came down, and then the guilties
• 31:01
  Speaker 7: and they're not guilties. The pieces that they found him
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: guilty on and the not guilty pieces were so separated.
• 31:08
  Speaker 7: You know, he didn't get hit for anything of physically
• 31:13
  Speaker 7: abusing this woman. You know, he got hit with a
• 31:17
  Speaker 7: lot of difference. I didn't understand the way they broke
• 31:19
  Speaker 7: down the guilty and I've never seen somebody get off
• 31:23
  Speaker 7: with mo not guilties and then some guilties.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't understand it, man, And.
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: Then the whole thing running down the street and she
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: running after him, and on the video, Man.
• 31:37
  Speaker 7: Most dudes that's abusive to a woman is not running
• 31:40
  Speaker 7: from them. You know, I just found this whole thing
• 31:45
  Speaker 7: to be what they found him guilty of. It was
• 31:50
  Speaker 7: just just my opinion from what I saw because I'm
• 31:52
  Speaker 7: not really well versed on it because I didn't follow it.
• 31:55
  Speaker 7: What they found him innocent of was the real major
• 31:59
  Speaker 7: stuff they found him innocent of that, So I don't
• 32:03
  Speaker 7: know what they find The sentences do too, and all
• 32:09
  Speaker 7: that well.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: In other entertainment news, Steve Oprah says there's no bad
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: blood between she and Taraji p Henson. Of course, Taraji
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: plays sug Avery in the movie The Color Purple, the
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: latest version. Oprah addressed the recent online rumors on the
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: red carpet at the Golden Globes. Take a listen, heerd,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I was trending yesterday.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Because people are.
• 32:33
  Speaker 7: Saying that I was not supporting Taraji.
• 32:36
  Speaker 8: Taraji will tell you herself that I've been the greatest
• 32:39
  Speaker 8: champion of this film, championing not only the behind the
• 32:44
  Speaker 8: scenes production but also everything that everybody needed. So whenever
• 32:48
  Speaker 8: I heard that there was something that people needed, I'm
• 32:51
  Speaker 8: not in charge of the budget because.
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: That's Warner Brothers.
• 32:54
  Speaker 8: You know, that's the way the studio system works, and
• 32:57
  Speaker 8: we as producers.
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: Everybody gets their salary that's in a negotiated by your team.
• 33:01
  Speaker 8: And so whenever I heard there was an issue where
• 33:03
  Speaker 8: there was a problem, there was a problem with the cars,
• 33:05
  Speaker 8: or there's a problem with the food.
• 33:07
  Speaker 6: I would step in and do whatever I could to
• 33:09
  Speaker 6: make it right. And I believe that she would even
• 33:12
  Speaker 6: vouch for that.
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Wow, break it down.
• 33:17
  Speaker 7: See that's a person talking with some facts and the
• 33:21
  Speaker 7: realness of how this industry works. You have to be
• 33:25
  Speaker 7: careful when a person who claims to tell you're gonna
• 33:29
  Speaker 7: put the industry on front Street and not be willing
• 33:32
  Speaker 7: to tell you the whole truth. Because the real, whole
• 33:36
  Speaker 7: truth of the matter is, brother, you know how this
• 33:40
  Speaker 7: game works. We are all trying to find our niche
• 33:44
  Speaker 7: in this game and play this game so we can
• 33:47
  Speaker 7: support our families. And everybody knows that. Everybody knows that
• 33:53
  Speaker 7: because we don't control the system out here in Hollywood.
• 33:57
  Speaker 7: So when you talk about people got this lucky breaker,
• 34:00
  Speaker 7: this person was a plan or this person this he
• 34:03
  Speaker 7: all this and her. Hey man, just understand now, we
• 34:07
  Speaker 7: are all playing this game by the same damn rule.
• 34:12
  Speaker 7: We don't own none of these studios. We ain't got
• 34:16
  Speaker 7: we ain't got none of that. We we we don't
• 34:19
  Speaker 7: have that power.
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: One of the most powerful cats out there is Tyler Perry,
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: and he put himself on the map with that ownership
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: of his product and studios. Other than that, and even
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: Tyler still got to play the game.
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean, basically, that's what Oprah said. I'm a producer,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: I'm not the studio. But even knowing that, she still
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: stepped in and helped them get what they needed. That's
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: what I loved about that story.
• 34:49
  Speaker 7: Yeah, that's why I say I applaud her for saying
• 34:52
  Speaker 7: and telling the truth about it.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: So, you know.
• 34:56
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Finally, in entertainment news, Steve Joe Coy you know him
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: as a comedian right well, he hosted, of course, the
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: Golden Globes. It didn't go well for him. He was
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: a last minute pick for the gig. He responded to
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: the backlash on ABC's Good Morning America three Monday morning.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: He said, quote, I had fun. You know, it was
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: a moment that I'll always remember. It's a tough room.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: It was a hard job. I'm not going to lie.
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: I'd be lying if I said it doesn't hurt. Hosting
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: is just a tough gig. Yes, I'm a stand up comic,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: but that hosting position. It's a different style. I kind
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: of went in and did the writer's thing. We had
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: ten days to write this monologue. It was a crash. Course.
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: I feel bad, but I got to still say I
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: loved what I did. Asked about the moments he regretted,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: and Joe said that I think it was when Taylor Swift.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: You know that joke went a little flat. He said
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: it was a weird joke, I guess, but it was
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: more about the NFL.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: I think the room was a little tight because they
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: didn't know.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: I saw it.
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: It was tight.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about frisky fitness. Right after this, you're listening Steve.
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• 36:52
  Speaker 1: we're gonna switch gears here now, guys. Frisky fitness, all right,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: that's what we're calling this. Did your significant other join
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: us gym as part of their New Year's resolution? Be
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: careful because, according to sex expert Jessica Leoni, the gym
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: is a hot bed hot bed for affairs, especially in
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: the month of January when so many people are signing
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: up for gym memberships. Leone said went on to say
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: research shows that testosterone can spike up for up to
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: an hour after heading to the gym. This behavior can
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: have an extraordinary effect on your sex drive, and that's
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: why Jim's are a hotbed for affairs seekers this month.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: She says, people should become suspicious if their partner suddenly
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: becomes obsessed with the gym and is spending a lot
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: of time there. Okay, so here's the question.
• 37:48
  Speaker 7: We know you guys, Okay, so good, We're gonna forget
• 37:51
  Speaker 7: the fact that they might be trying to get in shape.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I'm telling.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: You right now. They felas before she eat this right here.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: I wrote this article. Go ahead, I saw that.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: So has working out had a bad effect on your
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: sex drive? Are you in the mood after your workout?
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: You know you do cold plun Steve Cardios, Temmy, you
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: run junior lift weights. So what's the story?
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: You guys? Ain't nothing to you. I wanted before I run.
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: When I get through Bronny, what when I Yeah, it's
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: not what I want it, So if I can get it,
• 38:27
  Speaker 3: it's the question.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: It's not us.
• 38:30
  Speaker 10: I start putting in an appointments and now you're doing
• 38:32
  Speaker 10: anything next Wednesday? You got a boocket in Vain or
• 38:35
  Speaker 10: anything next Wednesday? Can I get thirty minutes of your time?
• 38:38
  Speaker 10: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna hold you. I done
• 38:40
  Speaker 10: worked out, I done been so as hell and still
• 38:43
  Speaker 10: tried it.
• 38:45
  Speaker 7: How to pull muscles, childie horses toast spasms.
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: And you're still in the mood wanting to get busy
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: after all that.
• 38:53
  Speaker 7: What I laid out? Yeah, oh oh, I laid that
• 38:56
  Speaker 7: foot off that bed. Let that top spasm work itself out.
• 39:00
  Speaker 7: That I'll get that thing off that side of that
• 39:03
  Speaker 7: be and they'd go on to work itself out.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: What about a cold plunge because you're just you know,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: you're always so cold at.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: The cold plunge. It is not good to discuss when
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: it comes out.
• 39:14
  Speaker 7: They don't go together when you first meet out that
• 39:17
  Speaker 7: cold plunge, you're not very attractive to you.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: You need to turn the heat off.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hours. Are
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: you capable of surprising yourself? We'll talk about that right to.
• 39:33
  Speaker 13: Lunch.
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: Shock of your life?
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I got you're listening.
• 39:39
  Speaker 9: Morning show.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: Here's a question, Are you guys capable of surprising yourself?
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: And this wild video clip it's gone viral where this
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: man leaped over the bench in a Las Vegas courtroom
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: and attacked the judge at it sentencing hearing after she
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: denied him probation last week. Now we all saw the
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: clip and we just assum that this guy didn't just
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: walk into the courtroom planning to do this, to jump
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: over the bench. He probably surprised himself when he did that.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: What do you guys think and have you ever surprised yourself?
• 40:11
  Speaker 10: He surprised him. Say he got a hell of a
• 40:13
  Speaker 10: vertical I mean did you see that? Yeah, clear that
• 40:17
  Speaker 10: whole bench across the front. I tell you what to
• 40:20
  Speaker 10: real surprise is gonna leap when he brings his ass
• 40:22
  Speaker 10: back to court for this new sentences.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he go to surprise. Yeah, just took whatever that
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: little whatever that lady was gonna give you. You should
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: have went on and took that because you wasn't gonna
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: get probation.
• 40:34
  Speaker 7: But now, boy, yeah, you jumped on a white woman
• 40:40
  Speaker 7: on film in court and she a judge.
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking ten, what you're thinking?
• 40:46
  Speaker 10: Ten?
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: At least oh dag he Finnah gets some time for that.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: But he went back.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: He had to go back to the assistency the other day.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: Well did give it to him? Well, they had his
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: face covered up, they had.
• 41:00
  Speaker 11: Us he.
• 41:06
  Speaker 7: Got he had to go back because now they got
• 41:10
  Speaker 7: to finish up the trial, right, so he gonna get
• 41:12
  Speaker 7: the time. And she was gonna give him for that.
• 41:15
  Speaker 7: When he when he got mad, found out he wasn't
• 41:17
  Speaker 7: gonna get probation. They gonna the new charges then they
• 41:22
  Speaker 7: they ain't done that yet. He's gonna go to jail
• 41:25
  Speaker 7: for this here for for the for the original thing
• 41:28
  Speaker 7: he was in that for while he in jail. He
• 41:31
  Speaker 7: gonna have to come back and face these new charges.
• 41:34
  Speaker 7: A salt battery, a temp they're gonna hate, a tipping
• 41:38
  Speaker 7: murder on his ass, his ass.
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: He finished some time that you look like doctor Lechner, now, Claire,
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: he got all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, that wasn't that
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: wasn't that whatever. That wasn't the smartest thing he's done.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: And it came from out of nowhere.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: I mean, he's just he could have made He could
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: have had you could have Yeah, that's ignorant. Ignorant. You
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: need to come out of nowhere. You don't. Just don't.
• 42:10
  Speaker 7: They always surprise you. You see people do stuff. It
• 42:14
  Speaker 7: seemed like it come out of nowhere. It be it
• 42:16
  Speaker 7: be a little surprise you.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: Is his ass just rude? Is he punching this white woman.
• 42:25
  Speaker 14: Black cash?
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: No you won't.
• 42:31
  Speaker 7: Oh you done jumped over that. Oh you thought you
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: was white. You're gonna jump your ass over this bitch bout.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: You soon as that lady said no, I don't think
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: you've learned your lesson. We're gonna have to do a
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: little bit more. Hell, make the announcement those time, he
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: did make the enough blank.
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: That not today.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he gave me warning. Yeah, we didn't know it
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: was gonna.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Be that though.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: Now I guess they're gonna the sentencing nineteen months to
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: four years in prison, his hands, his mind, everything.
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: They said, you're not gonna come in here and do this.
• 43:09
  Speaker 9: He has a job.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because it took too many people to get him
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: off of her.
• 43:15
  Speaker 4: He had So that's the thing.
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Have you guys ever liked surprised yourself with an.
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: I've never done anything like that. It's not like, yeah,
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: I surprised.
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: Myself, like what what.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: That requires?
• 43:33
  Speaker 11: An?
• 43:33
  Speaker 10: Oh?
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: Oh, all my kids was a surprise.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: You surprised yourself with your kids?
• 43:44
  Speaker 7: Yeah, that was the first big surprise. I've had several
• 43:47
  Speaker 7: surprises after that.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I have.
• 43:52
  Speaker 10: I have what what? I didn't feed in the water
• 43:56
  Speaker 10: a bottle while I was driving and didn't drip nothing.
• 43:58
  Speaker 10: I was outstanding with I mean, I mean, I surprised myself.
• 44:03
  Speaker 10: When you get past fifty, you know when you got
• 44:04
  Speaker 10: to go, you got to go. I peed in a
• 44:06
  Speaker 10: water a bottle while I was driving. All people over
• 44:09
  Speaker 10: fifty as me, and we keep walk empty water bottles
• 44:11
  Speaker 10: in our car. Call we do that because we know.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: I've done that.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: One really over sharing.
• 44:17
  Speaker 7: Tern Pike because they didn't have no rest areas and
• 44:19
  Speaker 7: no stops on the Western in terms of I peed
• 44:21
  Speaker 7: in the bottle and had too much.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, the prank phone call is coming up next
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: right after this.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Overflow.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: You're listening.
• 44:36
  Speaker 9: Morning show.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: the subject is his sister catfished me. We'll find out
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: what that's all about in just a few because right
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
• 44:53
  Speaker 10: What you got for his nept Well, before we get
• 44:55
  Speaker 10: into this prank, I gotta do this. I gotta say
• 44:58
  Speaker 10: Happy birthday to the one and only that means the
• 45:02
  Speaker 10: world to me. January ninth, on this day, the one
• 45:07
  Speaker 10: and only Jacqueline Patria Miles ak Lem my name, baby,
• 45:14
  Speaker 10: it's my favorite birthday, head birthday US relations.
• 45:18
  Speaker 7: I thought you were saying that for the Sudents. This
• 45:28
  Speaker 7: is my baby birthday. Happy birthday. Can't be with you
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: right now.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: I hate it.
• 45:32
  Speaker 10: I hate it, but we're gonna make it work. I'm
• 45:34
  Speaker 10: gonna make it all up to you because I made
• 45:36
  Speaker 10: Christmas good. Then that girl, Yes, I did I made
• 45:38
  Speaker 10: a trip for good. I was a cold Santa Claus.
• 45:41
  Speaker 10: I was a cold Santa Claus.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: Me I was cold?
• 45:45
  Speaker 10: All right to the prank, This right here goes out
• 45:47
  Speaker 10: to all the members of five Beta Sigma, all the
• 45:50
  Speaker 10: members of five Beta sigment Happy founders day that you are.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: This prank right here is you ain't no Sigma. You
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: ain't no Sigma? You dog?
• 46:03
  Speaker 11: Hello, oh, I'm trying to reach a greg please, yeah?
• 46:06
  Speaker 10: Is he?
• 46:07
  Speaker 11: How you doing? My name is Bernard, five Beta Sigma.
• 46:10
  Speaker 11: I'm overpledged relations giving you a call today. Man, you
• 46:15
  Speaker 11: attended for of U A and M University of I correct,
• 46:18
  Speaker 11: that's right, and m okay, And from my understanding, you
• 46:23
  Speaker 11: pledge five Beta Sigma in fall of ninety one. That's correct.
• 46:27
  Speaker 11: All right, that's the double data chapter. Correct, Yes, all right.
• 46:31
  Speaker 11: Here's where we're having some problems here going through the records, records,
• 46:35
  Speaker 11: actually looking at the records that we have here a headquarters,
• 46:38
  Speaker 11: you're not actually an official member of five Beta Sigma.
• 46:43
  Speaker 11: I don't know what has taking.
• 46:44
  Speaker 5: Place, but wait, man, what what you mean? And not
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: a member?
• 46:48
  Speaker 11: Looking at our records here at national headquarters, it's indicating
• 46:51
  Speaker 11: that you're not an official member of five Beta Sigma.
• 46:54
  Speaker 11: I don't know what could have gone.
• 46:55
  Speaker 5: Wrong with this now, No, that ain't right, man, that
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: ain't right, because to see that the data is recognized nationally,
• 47:02
  Speaker 5: So why wouldn't I be nationally recognized.
• 47:05
  Speaker 11: I'm not certain, sir. Maybe it's something that took place
• 47:07
  Speaker 11: on that actual line of Fall ninety one. We're actually
• 47:11
  Speaker 11: going to have to do some research on everything that's
• 47:13
  Speaker 11: going on with your line as well.
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: As the chapter. But how is that possible if they
• 47:18
  Speaker 5: gave me a certificate and the plaque and I got
• 47:21
  Speaker 5: my pin and I mean, I'm gonna say, but what
• 47:23
  Speaker 5: you mean?
• 47:24
  Speaker 11: Okay, sir, I don't know what I'm looking at here,
• 47:27
  Speaker 11: and please understand I want to try to clear this
• 47:30
  Speaker 11: matter up.
• 47:31
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we need to do this matter. Who else?
• 47:33
  Speaker 5: Is there somebody there like an overseer, maybe the head
• 47:38
  Speaker 5: president or your branch or something that I can talk
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: to something Well, I'm actually I am actually over pledged
• 47:42
  Speaker 5: relations uh huh. And I wanted to give you a
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: call personally so we can try to rectify the matter.
• 47:48
  Speaker 5: And it's gonna take us some time to hire this
• 47:49
  Speaker 5: thing out.
• 47:50
  Speaker 11: But what I need you to do.
• 47:52
  Speaker 5: As this point.
• 47:53
  Speaker 11: Yeah, And you know what the problem is that I'm
• 47:55
  Speaker 11: noticing is that all of the people that were on
• 47:57
  Speaker 11: your line they are official for some reason. Mister Greg
• 48:01
  Speaker 11: is an official, So I.
• 48:03
  Speaker 5: Want to I don't understand that because I was the
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: line president. So how is everybody else able to be
• 48:09
  Speaker 5: a sigma and not me when I did all the
• 48:12
  Speaker 5: paperwork that it takes to for the process to be right.
• 48:15
  Speaker 5: I don't understand that, sir.
• 48:17
  Speaker 11: You know what, Brother, I can't call you brother for
• 48:20
  Speaker 11: the fact that you're right now.
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: I'm telling me brother because I'm a signa.
• 48:23
  Speaker 11: So here's what we're gonna have to do. Greg. We're
• 48:25
  Speaker 11: gonna have to get you to first of all, if
• 48:28
  Speaker 11: you're dealing with anybody alumni wise, we're asking that you
• 48:31
  Speaker 11: don't go to any meetings right now. We're also asking
• 48:34
  Speaker 11: that you don't wear any five beta Sigma pearl fan
• 48:37
  Speaker 11: Elia Peraflin at this point. We want to make sure
• 48:40
  Speaker 11: and get clarity that you are definitely a brother.
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: Mamen, man, I am definitely a brother. Do you know
• 48:45
  Speaker 5: what I had to go through to get where I
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: am today? To be a signal? All the due y'all,
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: y'all took y'all, dudes, what happened today? If you're taking
• 48:53
  Speaker 5: my dudes, you should be able to tell me. Yo, Man,
• 48:56
  Speaker 5: we got this going on. Certain things are going on
• 48:59
  Speaker 5: with your line. We need we need to check you.
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: You took our money.
• 49:02
  Speaker 11: That's the thing I'm seeing checks that I've gone through
• 49:04
  Speaker 11: for other people that are.
• 49:05
  Speaker 5: On that line. I don't still your man, And to
• 49:08
  Speaker 5: this day, I'm like a lifetime member.
• 49:09
  Speaker 11: So what the hell are you talking about? I have
• 49:11
  Speaker 11: no records indicating that you're a lifetime member. That's what
• 49:14
  Speaker 11: I'm saying, sir.
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: We guessing that dog. Somebody need to tell me something today.
• 49:19
  Speaker 11: We're gonna try to get to the end of this
• 49:20
  Speaker 11: by the end of the week.
• 49:21
  Speaker 5: It's gonna take no, no, but no, but no, you're
• 49:24
  Speaker 5: not understanding what I'm saying, man, because I'm a sigma
• 49:26
  Speaker 5: to the heart.
• 49:27
  Speaker 13: Dude.
• 49:27
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm talking about. Y'all playing with my
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: heart right now? Man, Ain't nobody gonna do that and
• 49:31
  Speaker 5: get away with I don't know what's going on.
• 49:33
  Speaker 11: You know, here's what we can do. We can bring
• 49:35
  Speaker 11: you back in and do another pleasuring process.
• 49:38
  Speaker 5: Pledge, Do you understand what you just said to me? No?
• 49:41
  Speaker 5: Man that ain't have me. Dog, I'm been through this already. Man,
• 49:44
  Speaker 5: I'm not pledging. I'm not signing my name on nothing
• 49:47
  Speaker 5: else because I have pledged. I'm not doing it no more.
• 49:51
  Speaker 5: I need to get somebody on the phone that can
• 49:52
  Speaker 5: answer my question. I want to know what's going on,
• 49:54
  Speaker 5: okay right now?
• 49:55
  Speaker 11: And I understand you know the disbelief of what's going on.
• 49:59
  Speaker 11: I really do.
• 50:00
  Speaker 5: You obviously lived on so you a brother.
• 50:02
  Speaker 11: Brother, We're gonna try it.
• 50:03
  Speaker 5: What year did you go across? Did you walk the sands?
• 50:06
  Speaker 5: I mean, tell me what's going on?
• 50:08
  Speaker 11: Brother, I'm fall eighty nine, brother. And now what we're
• 50:11
  Speaker 11: gonna have to do right now is, first of all,
• 50:14
  Speaker 11: no paraphernalia, no pros.
• 50:16
  Speaker 5: You've got to tell me that I can't what's nearest
• 50:19
  Speaker 5: and dearest to my heart, next to my wife and
• 50:21
  Speaker 5: my child. You're telling me that I can't go around
• 50:23
  Speaker 5: and proclaim what I am. That's like telling me I
• 50:26
  Speaker 5: can't be black. What the hell that you're saying.
• 50:28
  Speaker 11: And another thing we're gonna have to get you to do.
• 50:30
  Speaker 11: I understand you have a brand, a Sigma brand that's
• 50:33
  Speaker 11: gonna have to come off until we get this second
• 50:36
  Speaker 11: care of what Wait.
• 50:38
  Speaker 5: Man, you talk about a medical procedure. What are you saying?
• 50:42
  Speaker 11: So we cannot allow you to wear a brand representing
• 50:45
  Speaker 11: five better Sigma when right now you are not old.
• 50:47
  Speaker 5: You can't plain't a lot that that branded me? Was
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: allowed to put the brand on me. Now I can't
• 50:52
  Speaker 5: be allowed to wear something that I've been wearing for
• 50:55
  Speaker 5: almost fifteen years? Are you crazy? Come on, man, that's
• 50:58
  Speaker 5: some crazy right Wait, gotta get you to take your
• 51:01
  Speaker 5: brand meets until all of this, Well, friend, what the
• 51:04
  Speaker 5: hell it gout?
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: This is some Look here, brother, what banard? Is that?
• 51:09
  Speaker 5: What your name is? You need to get somebody on
• 51:12
  Speaker 5: this cam a minute. That's all right, I know the
• 51:14
  Speaker 5: president myself. How about that? I would just call in
• 51:18
  Speaker 5: and I figured out my delf. So right now we
• 51:22
  Speaker 5: need you to take the brand off off not even
• 51:24
  Speaker 5: come out, you'll come take the brand off of me.
• 51:27
  Speaker 5: And you wanted that bad, come get it. That's what
• 51:30
  Speaker 5: you do. You are not a member of five beat
• 51:32
  Speaker 5: of six. You don't give up shoe talking about dog.
• 51:35
  Speaker 5: I am a member. If you want something over here
• 51:38
  Speaker 5: high land your board, that's what you do, you bad, Come.
• 51:41
  Speaker 11: Do it, sir, I'm telling you for the final time.
• 51:44
  Speaker 11: Do not wear any paraphernalia.
• 51:46
  Speaker 5: Kick K don't want to hear that talking about no final.
• 51:49
  Speaker 5: Let me tell you what's final. I am a five
• 51:52
  Speaker 5: beta sigma to the hard damn sir.
• 51:56
  Speaker 11: All I'm telling you is no more shirt and cover.
• 51:59
  Speaker 5: That brand up and here will here man. I'm gonna
• 52:01
  Speaker 5: wear everything like I got a hat. I'm gonna have
• 52:03
  Speaker 5: that so matter of fact, I'm gonna wear it. Hey,
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: just to get on your nurs You're gonna help me
• 52:09
  Speaker 5: praying coming up until we figured out if you want
• 52:11
  Speaker 5: say no, I ain't coming up, you come get it,
• 52:14
  Speaker 5: and till this you better get away from me. So
• 52:17
  Speaker 5: I'm talking about don't want none of for that braying up.
• 52:20
  Speaker 5: Don't you wear no shirts no more. Let me tell
• 52:22
  Speaker 5: you something. I ain't coming come get it if you
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: want it. I got one man, hard man. This is
• 52:28
  Speaker 5: blue fie. You don't want none. You don't want none
• 52:30
  Speaker 5: got this is a man. I don't know what one
• 52:33
  Speaker 5: more thing I need to say to you are You're
• 52:35
  Speaker 5: not to say what you got to say? You ain't
• 52:37
  Speaker 5: getting this. This is Nephew Tiby from the Steve Hobby
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: Morning Show. You just got pranked. By your boy, boy,
• 52:46
  Speaker 5: y'all had me ready to kill by my man. Y'all boy,
• 52:50
  Speaker 5: Let go one more thing?
• 52:51
  Speaker 11: Man? What is the baddest radio show in the land?
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: Greg? What is it that Steve Harvey Morney show?
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: That boy that's serious about here?
• 53:03
  Speaker 7: Happy founder date of j Anthony Brown. There's a sigmad
• 53:07
  Speaker 7: named Paul turned out of Chicago. So happy found his
• 53:11
  Speaker 7: date of Paul Turner. Happy found his dated. Having found
• 53:15
  Speaker 7: this data all eleven of y'all.
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: Every last is you have to say that though you
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: had to say that last part, you couldn't just let
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: it be Happy found this.
• 53:26
  Speaker 10: Day that comedy zone this weekend Jacksonville claud you already
• 53:32
  Speaker 10: know the Nephew is coming Friday, Saturday Sunday.
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: Tickets on sale.
• 53:34
  Speaker 10: Landing to cut Dayton, Ohio at the Funny Bone twenty
• 53:38
  Speaker 10: six seven eight.
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: That is all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next,
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: it is a Strawberry Letter for today. The subject his
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: sister catfished me. We'll get into that right after this.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: You're listening Hard Morning Show, and it's time now for
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  Speaker 2: You got it for it you here it is strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject his sister catfished me. Dear Stephen Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: I'm thirty eight years old and I've been with the
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  Speaker 1: same man for five years, and he's not focused on
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  Speaker 1: marriage or taking our relationship further, but he won't let
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  Speaker 1: me go. He accuses me of seeking attention from other
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  Speaker 1: men because of the way I dress, and I see
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  Speaker 1: that as him not trusting me. He's so paranoid all
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  Speaker 1: the time, so I reassure him that I'm not up
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  Speaker 1: to no good when I'm hanging out with my friends.
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  Speaker 1: I told myself i'd give him another year to propose.
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  Speaker 1: I would never tell him about my deadline because I
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  Speaker 1: don't want him to propose unless he really wants to.
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  Speaker 1: I took a short break from him, and I stopped
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  Speaker 1: playing house. I went and stayed with my mom for
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  Speaker 1: a month to force my boyfriend to take me on
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  Speaker 1: dates and make time for me if he wanted to
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  Speaker 1: have sex with me. During that time, I got a
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  Speaker 1: DM from a handsome guy that said he saw me
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  Speaker 1: at a career fare that I was speaking at. We
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  Speaker 1: exchanged phone numbers and I gave him career advice and
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  Speaker 1: helped him with his resume. I never talked with him
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  Speaker 1: on the phone, only texts and emails. He wanted us
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  Speaker 1: to meet up somewhere and I told him that I
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  Speaker 1: have a boyfriend. That led to him opening up about
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  Speaker 1: the trouble he was having with his love life, and
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  Speaker 1: I told him about how my boyfriend takes me for granted.
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  Speaker 1: Little did I know my boyfriend's seventeen year old sister
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  Speaker 1: was catfishing me and I had been communicating with her
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  Speaker 1: with her not the handsome guy. I was so busted.
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  Speaker 1: My boyfriend broke up with me and I tried to
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  Speaker 1: reason with him, but then I realized, I said, I'm
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  Speaker 1: too old for games. I did not cheat or do
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  Speaker 1: anything terrible. Should I stop fighting for this relationship?
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  Speaker 13: Well?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're asking me, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: absolutely yes, because what are you fighting for? You're not
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  Speaker 1: fighting for anything. He's not worth it. What would you
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  Speaker 1: be fighting to say you weren't happy with him anyway?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, you said you've been with this man for
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  Speaker 1: five years and nothing, no proposal, nothing, no working on
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  Speaker 1: the relationship, trying to take it to the next level,
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  Speaker 1: none of that. And all this moving in with your
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  Speaker 1: mom to force him to take you out and to
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  Speaker 1: want to have sex with you is crazy. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: don't you know if he wanted to do any of
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  Speaker 1: these things, he would and that includes proposing and his
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  Speaker 1: sister catfishing you. What is that all about? This is
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  Speaker 1: all just stupid and immature, and like you say, games,
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  Speaker 1: he broke up with you over that. You didn't cheat
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  Speaker 1: or do anything terrible. You said you helped this guy
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  Speaker 1: with his resume, you gave him some career advice, and
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  Speaker 1: you told him you had a man that took you
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  Speaker 1: for granted, you never even saw this guy or talk
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  Speaker 1: to him on the phone, and your man broke up
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  Speaker 1: with you over that after five years of dating. I
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  Speaker 1: think this incident just gave him a reason to do
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  Speaker 1: what he's wanting, what he had been wanting to do
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  Speaker 1: all along, and that was get out of this relationship.
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  Speaker 1: So to you, I say the same thing. Get out
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  Speaker 1: of this relationship, Steve Well, you're out of it because
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  Speaker 1: he broke up with you, But get over it, Steve Well.
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  Speaker 7: This letter kind of ignorant to me, So yeah, I
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  Speaker 7: think I should address it as an ignorant person. Doing
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  Speaker 7: more in twenty four is my new slogan. I've heard
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  Speaker 7: that somebody said that anyway, so I've just adapted it.
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  Speaker 2: Certainly.
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  Speaker 7: Don't want to say I thought of it, because then
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  Speaker 7: that'll be just something else my asston stole.
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  Speaker 1: So it's just a letter.
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  Speaker 7: Just say that, you know, talk about the damn stealing anyway.
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  Speaker 7: God pray for me, Father, God helped that all the time.
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  Speaker 7: I asked God to let that be more of him
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  Speaker 7: and less of me in twenty four, mow you and
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  Speaker 7: less me in twenty four. And I'm trying because to
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  Speaker 7: me is so dominant. I want to say something and respond,
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  Speaker 7: but the God in me is holding my tongue. This
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  Speaker 7: thirty eight year old woman is a dating this man
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  Speaker 7: that ain't thinking about her, really no further than what
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  Speaker 7: it is.
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  Speaker 2: He's really just got her dad.
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  Speaker 7: His beckoning call seems to me he's not focused on
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  Speaker 7: marriage or taking a relationship further.
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  Speaker 2: But he won't let me go. No, no, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 2: that's not true. It ain't that he won't let you go,
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  Speaker 2: as you won't leave.
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  Speaker 7: See, stop blaming me and for holding on to you,
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  Speaker 7: when it's you that's holding on to them. Stop giving
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  Speaker 7: a man that kind of power over you. It ain't
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  Speaker 7: that he won't let you go. Is that you don't
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  Speaker 7: have the courage to leave.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 7: He's always saying that you're trying to seek attention from
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  Speaker 7: other men because of the way I dress, and I
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  Speaker 7: see that as him not trusting me.
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  Speaker 2: Both of those things are true.
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  Speaker 7: When you get dressed in the morning, ladies, don't you
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  Speaker 7: dress to impress. It might be yourself, it might be
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  Speaker 7: your coworkers, it might be your husband, But you dressed
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  Speaker 7: to impress. Now, if somebody at the job get impressed,
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  Speaker 7: then that's just bonus. But I put it on to
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  Speaker 7: put it on, you know what I'm saying. I put
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  Speaker 7: it on to put it on. And anyway, he's so paranoid,
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  Speaker 7: and I got to reassure him that I'm up to
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  Speaker 7: no good when I'm hanging out with my friends. I
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  Speaker 7: told myself give him another year to propose, but I
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  Speaker 7: would never tell him about my deadline because I don't
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  Speaker 7: want him to propose unless he really wants to.
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  Speaker 2: Well, that don't make no damn sense right there. That's
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  Speaker 2: a mistake.
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  Speaker 7: As if y'all don't start putting timelines on some of
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  Speaker 7: these men, you ain't gonna ever get what you want.
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  Speaker 7: Because as long as we get what we want, we cool. Now,
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  Speaker 7: you did a smart thing. You took a short break
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  Speaker 7: from me, man, you and you stopped playing house. You
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  Speaker 7: went and stayed with your mom for a month to
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  Speaker 7: force my boyfriend to take me on dates and make
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  Speaker 7: time for me. If you wanted to have sex with me.
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  Speaker 2: That was a good move. It just you only did
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  Speaker 2: it for thirty days. You should have kept that play
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  Speaker 2: in place. We come back, we'll tell you about the
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  Speaker 2: DM she got, how the catfish began.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of
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  Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject her sister, His sister catfished me.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 1: The subject is his sister catfished me.
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  Speaker 7: The thirty eight year old woman got this man that
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  Speaker 7: don't half won hers, so she done played the games
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  Speaker 7: with him and stuff. She ne set a deadline she
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  Speaker 7: want a proposal in the year, but she didn't get
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  Speaker 7: a guy the deadline, which now he don't know me
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  Speaker 7: and stupid we don't take hints, So I think you should.
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  Speaker 7: If you have a deadline, you ought to give it
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  Speaker 7: to a guy and you said the reason you didn't
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  Speaker 7: do that because you didn't want him to propose to
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  Speaker 7: you unless he really wants to. Well, they won't. A
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  Speaker 7: man ain't gonna propose to you unless he really want to.
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  Speaker 7: But he ain't gonna give you a date unless he
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  Speaker 7: know you really wont to.
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  Speaker 2: Hello. You see how it works.
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  Speaker 7: So you know y'all can't have one without the other ladies.
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  Speaker 7: So you want to just stop playing house with him.
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  Speaker 7: So you took a break from him and you went
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  Speaker 7: and you stayed with your mom for a month to
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  Speaker 7: force him to take your own dates and make time
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  Speaker 7: for you if he wanted.
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  Speaker 2: To have sex with you during that time.
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  Speaker 7: I got a DM from a handsome guy that said
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  Speaker 7: he saw me at a career fair I was speaking at.
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  Speaker 7: We exchanged phone numbers, I gave him career advice, helped
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  Speaker 7: him on his resume, never talked to him on the phone,
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  Speaker 7: only texting emails. He wanted us to meet up somewhere,
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  Speaker 7: and I told him I have a boyfriend. That led
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  Speaker 7: to him opening up about the trouble he was having
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  Speaker 7: with his love life. And I told him about how
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  Speaker 7: my boyfriend takes me for granted. Little did I know
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  Speaker 7: my boyfriend's seventeen year old sister was catfishing me. Now,
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  Speaker 7: for those of you that's like me that thought that
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  Speaker 7: catfishing was a sporting in Mississippi and riverbanks, let me
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  Speaker 7: help you understand something. Catfishing is when someone pretends to
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  Speaker 7: be someone else without your knowledge, to get you to
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  Speaker 7: perform some type of act, could get you to talk
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  Speaker 7: or make a commitment. What I am keeping from you
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  Speaker 7: whole time their real identity. That's basically what catfishing is.
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  Speaker 7: The boyfriend's seventeen year old girl sent a picture to
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  Speaker 7: her saying this is who I am. And I met
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  Speaker 7: you at a place she was speaking at, and that's
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  Speaker 7: what the catfish began. But because they didn't get on
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  Speaker 7: the phone and have no verbal or face time. See
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  Speaker 7: face timing stops all this. But because they didn't do
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  Speaker 7: no faith, he's timing now You was communicating with his
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  Speaker 7: seventeen year old sister who was catfishing you because she
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  Speaker 7: don't like you anyway. And don't be surprised if your
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  Speaker 7: boyfriend didn't put her up to it, because he was
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  Speaker 7: jealous of you anyway. So he probably had his little
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  Speaker 7: sister do this to set you up because he ain't
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  Speaker 7: trying to marry you all the new way. He been
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  Speaker 7: suspicious that you anyway, So now he thought he was busted,
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  Speaker 7: and you said, I'm so busted. My boyfriend broke up
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  Speaker 7: with me. I tried to reason with him, but then
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  Speaker 7: I realized I'm too old for games. I did not
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  Speaker 7: cheat or do anything terrible. Should I stop fighting for
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  Speaker 7: this relationship? Shirley said you should, And you know what,
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  Speaker 7: I agree with her one hundred percent, cause what you're
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  Speaker 7: fighting for, you ain't got time for these games. Him
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  Speaker 7: always a little ignorant ass sister, But he more ignorant
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  Speaker 7: than the little sister is.
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  Speaker 2: At least she's seventeen. She done for a reason, catfished.
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  Speaker 2: So what you didn't do? Nothing?
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  Speaker 7: You ain't meet with him. And then when he tried
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  Speaker 7: to meet you told him you had a boyfriend. He
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  Speaker 7: opened up about how he was having a hard time
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  Speaker 7: with his girl. And then you said, your boyfriend taking
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  Speaker 7: you for granted. Oh that's true. Now your boyfriend gonna
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  Speaker 7: break up. Now he gonna make you crawl back. Now
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  Speaker 7: y'all gonna start over, and now he gonna buy another
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  Speaker 7: five years with you. That's how that's gonna work. Good riddance.
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  Speaker 7: Next time you go to a conference to speak, you
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  Speaker 7: need to spot a handsome guy and dm him. Quit
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  Speaker 7: fooling with this man that ain't fooling with you. And ladies,
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  Speaker 7: listen to me, stop expecting a man to get the
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  Speaker 7: hints when we don't do hints well at all. If
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  Speaker 7: you are giving your man a year to propose to you,
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  Speaker 7: but you don't tell him he got a year, and
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  Speaker 7: then he don't propose, and now you mad.
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  Speaker 2: No, if he has a year to propose, tell him.
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  Speaker 7: Listen, you got one year to get yourself together. When
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  Speaker 7: it comes to me, If you don't think you love
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  Speaker 7: me enough in a year to want to spend the
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  Speaker 7: rest of your life with me, then I will know
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  Speaker 7: any year and we can part ways.
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  Speaker 2: That's what you have to do.
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  Speaker 7: So stop talking about he wouldn't let you go. No,
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  Speaker 7: you are afraid to leave, That's all it is. Any
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  Speaker 7: questions ladies, surely?
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  Speaker 4: Well?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what do you think why did he break
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  Speaker 1: up with her? I think that he didn't do any
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  Speaker 1: of these things because he didn't want to.
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  Speaker 7: You know, he doesn't want to marry her. He's not
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  Speaker 7: going to let the relationship move any further because he's
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  Speaker 7: getting everything he wants. They play in house, he having sex,
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  Speaker 7: he got the chicken, his dreams. You want the day
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  Speaker 7: of your dreams when that ain't his dream. You making
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  Speaker 7: all his dreams come true, but he ain't making none
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  Speaker 7: of yours come true. So that's why ladies always have
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  Speaker 7: to have that issue. That's soft ultimatum, yeah or else.
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  Speaker 2: Or else you're gonna have nothing. And I don't see
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  Speaker 2: what you're fighting for. Let him break up? Bye?
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  Speaker 1: Why is she she thinking that? It's him that's paranoid.
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  Speaker 1: It's him that's thinking that she's going out?
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  Speaker 2: You know because man who.
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  Speaker 7: Have great manipulation skills, and it will make you think
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  Speaker 7: as you when it's them the whole time. The best
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  Speaker 7: office is a good defense I mean, excuse me. The
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  Speaker 7: best defense is a good office. If you throw in
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  Speaker 7: shade and blame all the other person all the time,
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  Speaker 7: they ain't got time to throw it on you because
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  Speaker 7: they're over there playing defense.
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  Speaker 2: It's an old trick. Yeah, hen fools, you stop being fooled.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you. Post your comments on today's
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  Speaker 1: now coming up at forty six. Meant it say after
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  Speaker 1: the hour, it's Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this
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  Speaker 1: you're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk.
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  Speaker 4: What you got junior?
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  Speaker 15: Well, the National College Football Playoffs was the championship game
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 15: was last night, and uh, let's go ahead and.
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  Speaker 2: Give a congratulations to Michigan. Michigan is the national champs.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, beat Washington thirty four to thirteen down in Houston.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh man, what's wrong that you you want to loose?
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  Speaker 2: I ain't nothing.
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  Speaker 7: That ain't what we're here to talk about. Go ahead, though, well, Donald,
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  Speaker 7: you tell him what it's gonna be.
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  Speaker 2: Like we gotta go back to that same stadium too, Tommy,
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  Speaker 2: thank you.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, the Browns and the Texas playing that same stadium.
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  Speaker 2: I gonna say it. They're gonna clean up all this
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  Speaker 2: confetti and get it ready for y'all, come living.
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  Speaker 15: They're getting all the confetti up right now.
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  Speaker 2: They sweeping now, massage that massage that.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, you all and the two of you need to
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  Speaker 7: be in deep solitary prayer. Somehow the Texans beat.
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  Speaker 2: The brown and if they do, don't you bring your.
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  Speaker 7: Behind to work on mycome work. But see, once again,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 7: out of told y'all a battle tested I have told
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  Speaker 7: y'all what that got to listen to me because.
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  Speaker 2: I done lost my whole life with the Browns.
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  Speaker 7: See, I've had my hope snatched from me year after
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  Speaker 7: year after year year.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't even that ain't even nothing to me. What
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  Speaker 2: is gonna surprise y'all?
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  Speaker 7: Y'all too young ass dummies sitting up in here actually
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  Speaker 7: thinking y'all ass gonna win. And then if you don't, Oh,
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  Speaker 7: I'm gonna be right here for you. Oh, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 7: provide for you all the little words of encouragement that
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  Speaker 7: you're gonna need. To know, because I've had it since
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  Speaker 7: nineteen sixty folk. I watched the Browns beat the Baltimore
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 7: Coats and being the only championship. I was seven years
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  Speaker 7: old and sat on the floor back against refrigerated.
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  Speaker 2: With my daddy. That's the last time. Well, let me
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  Speaker 2: ask you that we ain't had it with all we got.
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  Speaker 6: Well in nineteen sixty four when they won.
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  Speaker 2: Was that when they was playing with the leather helmets? No, no, no,
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  Speaker 2: damn damn, he said, tagging Julian, cause we got real
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: helmets and we used these real ones.
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  Speaker 7: I ain't know in sixty four I had hairline to whatever,
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  Speaker 7: how are we talking about helmets? And ain't you got
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 7: to put a helmet on your head? And then said
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 7: helmet hide your hairline? And ain't his head says hiding.
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  Speaker 7: You see how I tied that out?
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  Speaker 2: You tie that together. I didn't see it though, but
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  Speaker 2: I did.
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  Speaker 7: Now, I tell you one thing, I tell you one thing, y'all.
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  Speaker 7: Be hope, y'all, y'all been a pray the large y'all with.
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  Speaker 1: All right, thank you Junior. Coming up at the top
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  Speaker 1: of the hour. A man Steve on social media needs
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  Speaker 1: some advice from you because of some drama over a
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: last name change. We'll talk about it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening morning show, All right, Steve, here's a question
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  Speaker 1: for you. This is from Wendell on Steve HARBFM. Wendell writes,
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  Speaker 1: I'm married into step parenthood situation three years ago, and
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  Speaker 1: now there's some last name drama brewing up. My wife
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  Speaker 1: hates her ex and I do my best to stay
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  Speaker 1: out of it, first because I don't need to be
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  Speaker 1: involved in it, and second, I don't want my stepdaughter
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  Speaker 1: to hear me say anything negative about her dad. Now,
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  Speaker 1: my wife is upset that her daughter is not calling
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  Speaker 1: me dad, and I think it's a decision she needs
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  Speaker 1: to make for herself without pressure. As long as she
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  Speaker 1: knows she's cared about, that's all that matters to me.
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  Speaker 1: It's also pressuring her law or her to go along
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  Speaker 1: with changing her last name to mine rather than the
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  Speaker 1: name she's had for the last twelve years. I can't
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  Speaker 1: imagine how messed up it is for her to be
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  Speaker 1: put in the middle of something like that. I need
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  Speaker 1: to address it with my wife, but I'm not sure
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  Speaker 1: how to. But I do think it's damaging inappropriate. Any advice, well.
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  Speaker 7: I think you approaching this the right way. I mean,
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  Speaker 7: I can only applaud you brother for taking his stance
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  Speaker 7: that you're taking. That you're being so gracious towards your
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  Speaker 7: daughter stepdaughter. I mean, that's the way it is. I
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  Speaker 7: don't use the term step We just decided never to
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  Speaker 7: do that. These are the kids, so other people got
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  Speaker 7: to make their own decisions day life. You do it
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  Speaker 7: the way you want to. But this man is being very,
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  Speaker 7: very admirable towards the daughter. I can't imagine having her
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  Speaker 7: having to do this. I think you're absolutely right. You
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  Speaker 7: can't make these people call you dad. That has to
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  Speaker 7: be a decision on their own, and I think that
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  Speaker 7: that's the way you should approach it. I think you
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  Speaker 7: talking to your wife should just be hey, look, let's
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  Speaker 7: just give her time. She may come around, she may
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  Speaker 7: want to change her last name. I've been in this
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  Speaker 7: situation before.
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  Speaker 14: Steven's saying like that the wife is still bitter with
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  Speaker 14: the ex husband. That's what it sounds like. Well that's
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  Speaker 14: what she said. Yeah, Yeah, that ain't bitter, that's hate. Yeah,
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  Speaker 14: I'm familiar with both.
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  Speaker 11: That.
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  Speaker 7: Right now in two thousand and four, bitterness and hate.
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  Speaker 7: You've all seen. Yeah, it's out there. It's a lot
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  Speaker 7: of hate and bitterness. The woman hates it, so, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: she wants to get rid of that. But you got
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  Speaker 7: to give a little girl time to make the adjustment.
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  Speaker 7: She's twelve, you know, she may eventually. Like I said,
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  Speaker 7: I've lived that situation and two of my children changed.
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  Speaker 7: They last Nay, they came and voluntarily wanted to do it,
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  Speaker 7: and it happened. The third one didn't. It's cool with me.
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  Speaker 7: It was an honor when they asked me. You know,
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  Speaker 7: I felt very proud because I had lived enough for
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  Speaker 7: them and been around him enough since they were young too.
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  Speaker 2: I fill the role, you know, I stepped in and
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  Speaker 2: did the thing. And then our.
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  Speaker 7: Applauds are who were father so to speak, for going
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  Speaker 7: in and stepping in and filling the role because lot
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  Speaker 7: of these fathers, some fathers walk away and they leave
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  Speaker 7: these children with no doubty. Then another man come in
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  Speaker 7: and fills the role. You go, get that dude around them,
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  Speaker 7: applause man, because I came right there. He's a special
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  Speaker 7: dude and there's a lot of men out there doing it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so how should he approach his wife?
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  Speaker 7: You know, surely in twenty twenty four. You can listen
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  Speaker 7: more twenty so listen to me. Let me well, I
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  Speaker 7: guess so, let me reinerrate reinterrut a little degree, little
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  Speaker 7: military school. I just think that you set your wife
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  Speaker 7: down and say he listen, Let's continue to give her
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  Speaker 7: the time she needs to come around. And she calls
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  Speaker 7: me dad, that's fine. But the fact that I love
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  Speaker 7: her and I'm gonna take care of her, that's good
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  Speaker 7: enough for me.
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  Speaker 2: Right now.
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  Speaker 7: I want you to take the pressure off yourself and
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  Speaker 7: your daughter. I love the both of y'all. Let's just
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  Speaker 7: live our life. If she comes around, she does. If
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  Speaker 7: she don't, it's okay, too.
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  Speaker 1: Great advice. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
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  Speaker 1: Show coming up twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here's a strange story from your favorite store,
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  Speaker 1: the Bass Pro Shop and Alabama.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 1: I know, we know how much you love this store.
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  Speaker 1: And Alabama man was arrested after a wild scene at
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  Speaker 1: a Bass Pro shop. This was just outside of Birmingham.
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  Speaker 1: Police say forty two year old George oh went on
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  Speaker 1: a rampage which began when he crashed his car into
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  Speaker 1: a pole outside in the parking lot. From there, he
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  Speaker 1: stripped naked, ran into the store and did a cannonball
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  Speaker 1: into the large aquarium. Cops arrived and George climbed out
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  Speaker 1: of the tank as they approached him, but he shouted
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  Speaker 1: at them and dove back into the water. As officers
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  Speaker 1: ordered him to get out, he climbed out and fell
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  Speaker 1: to the concrete floor below and knocked himself unconscious. She's
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  Speaker 1: charged with probably lewdness, disorderly conduct and so on and
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  Speaker 1: so on and so on.
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  Speaker 2: So you love the.
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  Speaker 7: Every bast pro shop has that giant aquarium in really
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  Speaker 7: because they show you how lures work in the water
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  Speaker 7: a lot of time.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, a lot of them had that. I'm not sure
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  Speaker 2: if my favorite one down in making has it.
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  Speaker 7: I don't remember seeing the one in making, but a
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  Speaker 7: lot of them had the big aquariums in it. George
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  Speaker 7: old and took his uh, he took his naked ass
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  Speaker 7: down there and stood on the end of up tanking,
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  Speaker 7: slipped and busted his head on that concrete.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he knocked it up all right out.
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  Speaker 1: George coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 1: We'll play around it, would you rather. Right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening.
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  Speaker 9: Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: It it's time now for a round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather? On a cold winter day, enjoy a
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  Speaker 1: bowl of hot chili or a bowl of gumbo.
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  Speaker 7: Junior, better eat that hot chili as soon as it
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  Speaker 7: get cold for this hospital, eat chili chili or something.
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  Speaker 2: I want the Dumbo to Dumbo hot. Yeah, why your
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  Speaker 2: ass steal? Any cold climbing? You need to take your cold.
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  Speaker 1: This is not about sickle cell.
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  Speaker 2: It is if it get cold enough. This is how
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 7: Right here, I learned about sickle cell mimia that I
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  Speaker 7: have never known in my life.
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  Speaker 15: Hanging with my little homie Junior. Right now, you got
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  Speaker 15: the best phone call steal. Don't nobody call beter than
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 15: you do, though. Hello, Hey all right now? No, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 15: this is how it goes. Hey, Junior, what's having it?
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  Speaker 2: You're doing? You're doing well?
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  Speaker 7: He hold up dog hanging that dog clicking because I
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  Speaker 7: don't want to be the one on the phone that
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  Speaker 7: he last talked to, because he all in the criminal investigation.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 2: You know that looking at his phone.
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  Speaker 7: No, see they looking at his phone log and then
• 1:18:09
  Speaker 7: they looking at her the last phone call now I'm
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 7: down at the police station.
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  Speaker 2: What did he say?
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  Speaker 11: No?
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  Speaker 5: Crazy?
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  Speaker 7: Because on forty eight hours when they find the phone,
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 7: they always wanted to talk to the last person that
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 7: talked to him. I've seen that on forty eight hours
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 7: murder investigation.
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  Speaker 2: But if he had a crisis, I'm not finna be
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  Speaker 2: the last one.
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  Speaker 7: Click he got dead. But he can talk to he
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  Speaker 7: got he got kishi, he can talk to he can
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  Speaker 7: talk to all the people that he got kids.
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  Speaker 2: Now, Queen shut his wife.
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  Speaker 1: Shut, ain't no queation.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah it is, that's her name? Yeah, all right, yeah
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  Speaker 3: you really thought it was. And she know too, you
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  Speaker 3: know hard I ain't say my name, right, I said,
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  Speaker 3: I know. Just don't say nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Just go get it k oh Man. Yeah, oh my god,
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  Speaker 2: thank you. I appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, what do we do? Okay? Would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather shovel snow or rake leaves?
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  Speaker 5: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Rake leaves?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, the shovel snow? Yeah, all right. Would
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  Speaker 1: you rather have average sex every single day for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of your life or would you rather have great
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  Speaker 1: sex for the rest of your life once a year,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: once a year.
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  Speaker 2: Take them average, Take that average. You just go and
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  Speaker 2: just get used to it.
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  Speaker 1: That's today's round, and would you rather because we spend
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  Speaker 1: most of the time talking about sickle cell.
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  Speaker 4: Coming up?
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  Speaker 9: In forty nine.
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  Speaker 1: Minutes after the hour, we'll have some closing remarks from
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  Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening hard Morning show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
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  Speaker 1: the day on this Tuesday. It's been a good day. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: thanks all earthly you don't want to.
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  Speaker 6: Talk to me if I'm a sick sel Christ it
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  Speaker 6: was good to then, so I find out.
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  Speaker 7: Well, you know, hey, that's not what I'm here for.
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 7: I'm here for encouragement and uplifting and enlightened motivation the
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  Speaker 7: dog side, I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Not the guy you don't encourage an uplift if he's sick.
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  Speaker 1: Can you hear your motivational speakers?
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  Speaker 2: What are you saying if he's not hearing me?
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  Speaker 7: It's okay, okay, let me give you all the re
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 7: enactment A high went, Hey, Junia, what's going on with you?
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  Speaker 13: Man?
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  Speaker 2: He doing okay? Cool? He don't want to hear that
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  Speaker 2: right now?
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  Speaker 4: The fall.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, So what I can't have you do is still
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 7: my joy. I told you that I called uplift and motively.
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 7: Now you're trying to bring me down. I'm not having
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 7: a crisis. And what you're not Finns do put me
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 7: in the crisis. That's not what you're fitting in the man.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 4: JUNI how you doing?
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  Speaker 13: Man?
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  Speaker 2: How everything going on? You're hanging in there? Soldier?
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 7: No click, get up out of here. In the time,
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 7: I can't help nobody that don't want help, listen to me.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 7: I'm I'm in a motivation lifting business. If you don't
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 7: want to hear it today, then just do like he did.
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  Speaker 2: Let me know this.
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  Speaker 7: Ay, what you want to hear today and you want
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  Speaker 7: Wally in it, then let me let you waller in it.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 7: When you feel better, you call me.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, come on, you do thelomks Man.
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  Speaker 7: You know hey, listen, my clothes remarks is pretty much
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  Speaker 7: it's on point. It's just to keep reminding people to
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  Speaker 7: stay on the upside, man, Stay on the upside, y'all.
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  Speaker 7: I'm telling you these are lessons that I've had to
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  Speaker 7: learn in my life.
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  Speaker 11: You know.
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  Speaker 7: I was talking with the morning crew the other morning
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 7: when we first got back on the air. We hadn't
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 7: talked to each other since the break, and we were
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 7: all talking about everything, and you know the uproar and
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 7: everything that's out on the in and neet and all
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 7: this stuff. And you know what we all had a
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 7: general consensus was when I said, you know what, man,
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  Speaker 7: I'm just gonna stay on the wall. I'm not coming
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  Speaker 7: down off the wall to address nonsense. I'm not coming
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  Speaker 7: down off where God has placed me to get on
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  Speaker 7: the lower level. And I'm reminding everybody, listen, y'all, as
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  Speaker 7: you go through your day, remember this. You are in
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  Speaker 7: the pursuit of success and happiness.
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  Speaker 5: All of you.
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  Speaker 7: Everybody I know wants those two things in life, to
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  Speaker 7: be successful and to be happy. And in your pursuit
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  Speaker 7: of that, you have to remember that the devil has
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  Speaker 7: one job and that is to rob you of your destiny.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 7: That is the one job of the devil. He don't
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  Speaker 7: care how he do it, and he will try and
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  Speaker 7: attempt it by any means necessary. Your job is to
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  Speaker 7: be aware of that.
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  Speaker 2: Be aware. Do you know that the devil got.
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  Speaker 7: Imps working for him twenty four seven, that they are
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  Speaker 7: on call and they ain't got no problem doing his bedding,
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  Speaker 7: And man, they just show up when you least expect it.
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  Speaker 7: You could be going on with your life and then
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 7: here comes something, and you know what, you really got
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 7: to be aware of people. Don't let somebody if you
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 7: have a person in your life that's constantly bringing up
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 7: your past, to bring it up as current news, to
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 7: remind you of what you did or what you were,
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  Speaker 7: and it has nothing to do with who you are
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  Speaker 7: and where you are going.
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  Speaker 2: Erase that person from your life. You don't need it.
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  Speaker 2: Stay on the wall. Listen to me. Everybody makes mistakes.
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  Speaker 2: There's not a living soul.
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  Speaker 7: Be careful of people who are so eager to point
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  Speaker 7: out everybody's mistakes, but ain none of them fingers pointing
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  Speaker 7: at they self?
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  Speaker 4: Who is this?
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  Speaker 2: Ye who is out saying cast the first stone?
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  Speaker 4: Throw it?
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  Speaker 7: But it's amazing how they have thirty rocks and don't
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 7: and ain't nothing supposed to come at them. Y'all listen
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  Speaker 7: to me, Uncle Steve had learned a lot. You know
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  Speaker 7: what I told my team at the beginning of the year,
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  Speaker 7: I'm battle testing. I'm battle testing, man. I've been through
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  Speaker 7: it so many times on so many levels. I done
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  Speaker 7: got accustomed to it. And you know the one thing
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 7: I've learned that what God has for you, do you
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  Speaker 7: know there's nothing nobody can do about that.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know that if God is moving you in
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 2: a certain place, on a certain level, do you know
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 2: that there's nothing that a hater can do, nothing unless
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  Speaker 2: you stop, climb down off the wall and address it.
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 2: See when people, when you're.
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  Speaker 7: Up at a certain level, as many of you are,
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  Speaker 7: this is why you have. If you have a hater,
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 7: it's because you above somebody know that. That's why you
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 7: have a hater. But for them to throw the rock
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  Speaker 7: at you, they got to throw up. Even if the
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 7: rock hits you from throwing from the lower position, it
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 7: don't hurt. But if you climb down off the wall
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 7: and you get on the same level as them and
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 7: they throw that rock at you, that one can hurt
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  Speaker 7: you because you've lowered yourself to they level. Stay on
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  Speaker 7: the wall, y'all, stay on the wall where God has
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 7: placed you. Don't let no man talk you off your position,
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  Speaker 7: and don't let nobody bring up the past to keep
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 7: reminding you of what you were and what you used
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  Speaker 7: to do, because that has nothing to do with who
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 7: you are and where you are going. God is in
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  Speaker 7: the blessing business. I'm open for all of them. I'm
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 7: looking for a whole lot more. In twenty twenty four,
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  Speaker 7: those are my clothes remarks y'all stay with it.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all have as goodful God will. We'll see y'all. Tom All.
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