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FULL SHOW: Love Letters, Strawberry Letter: Why Is He In My Brother's House? - 6.5.26 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all bay.
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  Speaker 1: At all at all?
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  Speaker 3: Soon given them.
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  Speaker 1: Black the busy listening to.
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  Speaker 2: Show.
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  Speaker 3: I don't joy, Yeah, joy.
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  Speaker 4: Show.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta do love, you gotta turn.
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  Speaker 1: You have to turn the mouth. Turn You probably got
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  Speaker 1: to turn the mouth. Turn the mouth, turn the mono.
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  Speaker 2: Come come on, you'll think that.
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  Speaker 1: I sure will.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on,
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  Speaker 5: dig me now. One and all is Steve Harvey. Man
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  Speaker 5: got a radio show. How good is God?
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  Speaker 2: Huh? Think about it?
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  Speaker 5: Just take a slight inventory of your own life and
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  Speaker 5: say it to yourself when you get through, how good
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  Speaker 5: is God? Think of all the small things all because
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  Speaker 5: that's him. You breathing, that's him. You still here, that's him.
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  Speaker 5: You got another chance?
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  Speaker 2: That's him.
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  Speaker 5: You ain't out of here. That's him. You got any
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  Speaker 5: measure of health, that's him. You think it's more to
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  Speaker 5: it than it really is than it already showed up
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  Speaker 5: to be.
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  Speaker 2: That's him. All of that.
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  Speaker 6: You got, any dreams or aspirations you dream of other things.
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  Speaker 2: That's him.
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  Speaker 5: All that, that's him, that's him. Him, clothes you got,
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  Speaker 5: that's him. Every time you eat. That's why they had
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  Speaker 5: this thing called you say you're grace. That's him. See
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  Speaker 5: that's him, man, that's him. It's amazing. When you take
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  Speaker 5: a small inventory, you find out how big God really
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  Speaker 5: is in your life. Now, the more you turn yourself
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  Speaker 5: over to him, the bigger he can be for you. See,
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  Speaker 5: he'll only be as big as you let him. It's
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  Speaker 5: one thing about God. Now, he's a gentleman. He can
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  Speaker 5: make you do anything. You know, you get too big
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  Speaker 5: for him, you know, you you lose your humbleness. He
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  Speaker 5: can humble you.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 5: God created man with the power of choice. We're the
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  Speaker 5: only creature he created that. He gave us the total
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  Speaker 5: power of choice when we mate, who we mate with.
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  Speaker 5: You know everything, all of it. Man, it's a choice.
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  Speaker 5: What we want to be, how much we want to make,
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  Speaker 5: where we want to live, with climate we want to
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  Speaker 5: live in. We can live in cold climates, hot climates.
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  Speaker 5: You know, we speak different languages. You can go learn
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  Speaker 5: another language. A bear can't do nothing but be a
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  Speaker 5: bear is he can't go learn how to be a fox.
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  Speaker 5: Ain't gonna learn how to be an otter.
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  Speaker 2: He just can't.
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  Speaker 5: An ostrich is an ostrich Man. He can't come out
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  Speaker 5: here and fight like a lion. A lion is a lion.
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  Speaker 5: A lion eat meat. He can't eat vegetables. I don't
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  Speaker 5: care how much meat ain't around. He'll lay down and
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  Speaker 5: pull up out of here and die because he can't
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  Speaker 5: eat grass.
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  Speaker 2: He just a lion. Man.
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  Speaker 6: You understand this that.
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  Speaker 5: God gave us. We are the one creature he created
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  Speaker 5: that has total power of choice. You can make every
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  Speaker 5: decision in your life. What kind of watch you like?
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  Speaker 5: That's the one you can buy. You want to live
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  Speaker 5: in Switzerland, go ahead. You don't like Switzerland, you can
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  Speaker 5: move to Miami. You want to live your life.
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  Speaker 1: For crime, go ahead.
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  Speaker 6: That's you.
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  Speaker 2: He gave you the power choice you want to do? Right?
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  Speaker 6: Come on, So now look at this thing.
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  Speaker 1: We are all.
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  Speaker 6: The results of a series of decisions that we have made.
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  Speaker 5: If we could just identify that the problem is us,
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  Speaker 5: we could begin the solution.
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  Speaker 6: See that's the problem, y'all, it's us. It's what we do.
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  Speaker 6: I threw my life down the hill.
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  Speaker 5: I can't tell you how many years based on some
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  Speaker 5: decisions that I was making. Now I can justify my
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  Speaker 5: decision where I wasn't happy and I was doing this,
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  Speaker 5: and I was in miserying y'all on that he ain't.
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  Speaker 2: Yes to you.
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  Speaker 5: When you get through, you made the decisions though, And
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  Speaker 5: you can look at this anyway you want to, y'all.
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  Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, I'm just talking
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  Speaker 5: to people that's really really wanting to improve their position
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  Speaker 5: in life.
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  Speaker 2: And how do you do that? You got to have
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  Speaker 2: a solution. How do you come up with a solution?
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  Speaker 6: You got to identify the problem to even begin to
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  Speaker 6: solve it.
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  Speaker 2: But if the.
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  Speaker 1: Problem ain't ever you, how you gonna solve something that
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  Speaker 1: ain't you?
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  Speaker 2: See?
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  Speaker 5: Okay, let me look at this one. If somebody say,
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  Speaker 5: like I got a child of mine, man, I just
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  Speaker 5: do right here. Man, I don't even gonna get into
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  Speaker 5: it this morning, bore. I'm struggling with this this boy.
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  Speaker 5: But man, you go to people, you ask them why
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  Speaker 5: they do so I just did. I just wasn't taking
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  Speaker 5: care of business? Why I just didn't take care of business? Boy,
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  Speaker 5: do you understand that your life is gonna be filled
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  Speaker 5: with you got to take care of business? So when
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  Speaker 5: you're gonna start, you know what I mean, you can't
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  Speaker 5: You can't.
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  Speaker 1: You can't go through life. Blame it everybody. It's got
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  Speaker 1: to be you.
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  Speaker 2: See, you can fix you.
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  Speaker 5: You can't fix nobody else if you keep getting married
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  Speaker 5: and the marriages don't work. Hello, Hello, Hello?
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  Speaker 1: Could it be you?
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  Speaker 6: South Foundly had to sit down and just make that decision.
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  Speaker 5: Ain don't need to be coming on the radio talking
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  Speaker 5: about nobody else and what they did to me, and
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  Speaker 5: y'all just don't know. No, no, no, man, what about
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  Speaker 5: the part you played in it? Cause see, if you
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  Speaker 5: got a good marriage, you got a part to play
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  Speaker 5: in that. If you got a bad one, you got
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  Speaker 5: a part to play in that. Even if it just
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  Speaker 5: get down to you the one picked them, how about that, mister, mister,
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  Speaker 5: I made a decision. The problem is usually within yourself.
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  Speaker 5: Do you know that's the quickest and easy way to
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  Speaker 5: fix your life. That way, you ain't got to check
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  Speaker 5: with nobody. Here's the beauty of going on and admitting
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  Speaker 5: that it's you. You don't have to check or clear
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  Speaker 5: it with nobody to start the repair process. You don't
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  Speaker 5: need anybody's permission. You ain't got to put it before
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  Speaker 5: the review board to see if it will pass. It
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  Speaker 5: ain't got to go through Congress. You ain't got to
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  Speaker 5: hope that your local politician get their hands on it
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  Speaker 5: and make a phone call for you. You ain't got
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  Speaker 5: to ask any counselors to come in and sit with you.
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  Speaker 5: You don't have to check into rehair. All you got
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  Speaker 5: to do is decide the problem is me. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 5: start changing me. Identify the problem, and start with the
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  Speaker 5: part that you can own up to. Once you identify
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  Speaker 5: the problem, you can start planning on how to fix
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  Speaker 5: this or how to get to accomplishing something. But remember
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  Speaker 5: this planning is important. If you fail to plan, then
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  Speaker 5: please plan to fail. If you don't know how to
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  Speaker 5: make a plan, let's just start with the basics. Just
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  Speaker 5: make a list of what you want. Make this list
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  Speaker 5: and then go to God in prayer with an open
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  Speaker 5: mind and open your mind up to all the clean
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  Speaker 5: opportunities that are available here. Why a lot of people
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  Speaker 5: won't succeed because certain opportunities come along you don't want
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  Speaker 5: to do them.
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  Speaker 1: That kills me.
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  Speaker 5: Man, when I hear here, I ain't doing that. I
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  Speaker 5: know young comedians that come to me all in time.
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  Speaker 5: I'm talking about man with you, and I say, man,
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  Speaker 5: just take every gig you can, no matter.
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  Speaker 2: What it pays.
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  Speaker 5: Well, listen to me, son, you can go make that
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  Speaker 5: money that they pay, or you can make the decision
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  Speaker 5: to sit at home and make no money. It's a comedy,
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  Speaker 5: hard business. They ain't paying but one hundred dollars. You
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  Speaker 5: gotta drive fifty miles. But if you drive fifty miles
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  Speaker 5: and you make the hundred and you stand on that
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  Speaker 5: stage for thirty minutes, you are now thirty minutes better
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  Speaker 5: than you was the last time you went on stage. Oh, man,
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  Speaker 5: they ain't man, they don't pay me. I ain't coming.
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  Speaker 5: You ain't finna be a comedian, man, not not like
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  Speaker 5: this here. A lot of people just don't want to
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  Speaker 5: do what's necessary to do. So when the opportunity presents
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  Speaker 5: itself and you open up your mind to it, man,
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  Speaker 5: then get ready to go on and do it. Man,
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  Speaker 5: identify your problem today, start with the part that'sh you.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen, let's get to it. Today is the
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  Speaker 5: day that the Lord has made. Let us rejoice and
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  Speaker 5: be glad in it. I'm gonna tell you why, because
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  Speaker 5: this only one you got. You have no control over
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  Speaker 5: any other days. Yesterday gone futures is not promised. Today
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  Speaker 5: is the day, right now, get in it and get
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  Speaker 5: your tood right. Get the two together, man, triple tease
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  Speaker 5: up in here. Start with gratitude you have to, which
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  Speaker 5: will immediately affect your attitude, which has a direct correlation
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  Speaker 5: on your altitude.
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  Speaker 2: It's them toudes, baby, you get them together. You can
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  Speaker 2: be somebody, man, that's my plan. I wnna be somebody.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna mess around somehow, some way with a little
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  Speaker 5: more grace and some mercy and a whole lot of forgiveness,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Mess around to be somebody.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know what y'all doing, I'm telling you, but
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  Speaker 5: I'm inviting you to get on this dude.
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  Speaker 2: Trade gratitude, attitude, altitude. That's Steve Harll Moore shure. That's
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  Speaker 2: how we're doing it right now.
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  Speaker 5: Shirley Strawberry calling for real junior smile for the South,
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  Speaker 5: Miss Monica.
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  Speaker 6: Legend of Nephew Tommy Junior, Your.
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  Speaker 3: Sir, what here we go?
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  Speaker 7: Let me ask youself, man, because it's like the comes
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  Speaker 7: with my nephew man, and he just he wanted. Now
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  Speaker 7: it's such a microwave society today. I want the money. Now,
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  Speaker 7: I want this lifestyle now, I want everything now, And
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  Speaker 7: they don't understand. They're gonna have to trust this is
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  Speaker 7: a process, a process of phase. Everything that I did
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  Speaker 7: to get to my point, I had to fail to
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  Speaker 7: get here.
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  Speaker 2: He just wanted me to do it for him. That's good,
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  Speaker 2: you know.
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  Speaker 5: No, I didn't have nobody I could even want to
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  Speaker 5: do it for me. So if you blessed or to
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  Speaker 5: even have somebody, he thinks he got the audacity to
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  Speaker 5: saund like for you to do it for me. It
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  Speaker 5: is not the way it goes. It's a it's a
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  Speaker 5: long lesson to learn, and the longer it takes you
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  Speaker 5: to learn it, the longer it's gonna take for you
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  Speaker 5: to get it. It is imperative man, that people understand
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  Speaker 5: what this is. But know this, as long as it
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  Speaker 5: takes to get successful, must I remind you all there
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  Speaker 5: is joy in the journey. You have got to stop
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  Speaker 5: along the way, man, and appreciate where you are. You
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  Speaker 5: may not be where you want to be, but take
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  Speaker 5: inventory and oftentimes you can realize you may not be
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  Speaker 5: where you want to be, but thank god, I ain't
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  Speaker 5: where I was. See in steps and sometimes people don't
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  Speaker 5: even get joy in the steps.
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  Speaker 2: Man, I ain't where I want to be yet.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I got you, brother, But must I remind.
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  Speaker 5: You that two years ago the position you were sitting in,
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  Speaker 5: five years, eight years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Hell, last summer.
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  Speaker 2: That started the new year.
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  Speaker 5: See, some people ain't got to look far back, you understand,
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  Speaker 5: and there's joy in the journey.
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  Speaker 6: But you got to take inventory. Everybody want it now.
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  Speaker 5: You know you need to try to take advantage of
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  Speaker 5: your success because they want it now. I'm gonna say
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  Speaker 5: that again. People try to take advantage of your success.
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  Speaker 5: All of you out there have measured success. Somebody done
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  Speaker 5: tried to capitalize on that. This is Steve Harvey Mortar
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  Speaker 8: its nephew on this Friday.
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  Speaker 2: This right here is God is not through with you,
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  Speaker 2: but we ah, yeah, okay, God is not through with you,
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  Speaker 2: but we off yeah, yeah, we feel let's go cand up.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach sister Takara. This is
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  Speaker 3: brother Brinkler from the church. How you doing?
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  Speaker 1: Oh hey, how is it's?
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  Speaker 9: I'm at work?
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  Speaker 3: Can I call you back? Well, this is this is
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  Speaker 3: kind of urgent. I call your your house phone and
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  Speaker 3: I didn't get an answer, and I had this other
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  Speaker 3: number on file, so I wanted to reach out to you.
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  Speaker 3: But what I won't take long, but it really is
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  Speaker 3: a hurt, all right, from that urgent matter, if you
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  Speaker 3: don't mind, all right.
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  Speaker 9: Hold on, hold on, let me let me step away from.
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  Speaker 3: Hello.
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  Speaker 9: Hello, yeah, okay, so what's uh the Brinkley spey.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, we have a bit of a problem here and
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  Speaker 3: we're gonna try to We're trying to clean up a
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  Speaker 3: lot of things here at the church. You know, I
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  Speaker 3: hate to be the one to bring you some bad news.
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  Speaker 3: Let me just start by by saying this. God might
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  Speaker 3: not be through with you, but we are here at
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  Speaker 3: the church. It has been brought the eye attention sister
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  Speaker 3: car that you guys are halfway coming to church. And
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  Speaker 3: you you you might come once once out of a month.
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  Speaker 3: You're not tithing as we expected. You know, the church
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  Speaker 3: can't really depend on you. It's you you got you know,
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  Speaker 3: you bring your kids. I think your brother comes to
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  Speaker 3: the church, but everybody is coming every now we need.
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  Speaker 3: We cannot depend on you all to be the members
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  Speaker 3: and have the expectation of what we're trying to do.
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  Speaker 9: What you say, you say your name is.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, and you work, you work under the DJ.
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  Speaker 9: I'm sorry, I've never.
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  Speaker 3: Heard of you before. I have been officiated by the pastor.
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  Speaker 3: As I'm over actually over the finance and we're going
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  Speaker 3: through all of the books and looking at all of
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  Speaker 3: the numbers of the of the members of the church,
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  Speaker 3: the directory, and we're noticing what people are paying tied,
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  Speaker 3: what people aren't paying tied, who's coming to church, who's
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  Speaker 3: participating in different and different uh uh ministries and whatnot.
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  Speaker 3: And Sister Takar, I got I have to be honest
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  Speaker 3: with you. You you you the hell maybe once every
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  Speaker 3: want of someone, we might see you might not see you,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and like I say, God may not be
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  Speaker 3: through witch you, but we all.
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  Speaker 9: Well, okay, you can't saying that. Thatsten why I don't understand, like,
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  Speaker 9: are y'all monitoring my my my church going? Like can
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  Speaker 9: I can't. I can't have to go every single week?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, why are you absent so much at the church?
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  Speaker 3: Explain that?
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  Speaker 9: I mean, I have three kids, you know, I mean
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  Speaker 9: I have two jobs. Sometimes I don't. I mean I
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  Speaker 9: still pray. I don't understand how a.
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  Speaker 3: Church can are you you got two jobs, but we're
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  Speaker 3: not getting tied, like you got two jobs, You're not tied,
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  Speaker 3: and like you got.
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  Speaker 9: Two jobs because I can't afford.
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  Speaker 3: You just said I got two jobs. That's what you
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  Speaker 3: just said, and that those two jobs.
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  Speaker 9: Are in support my kids. I mean, I can't support
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  Speaker 9: the church and my kids is the same term I
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  Speaker 9: can't do vote. I mean, I get when I can, let.
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  Speaker 3: Me ask you something, what are you making on that
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  Speaker 3: other job?
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  Speaker 9: Are you? Are you really?
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  Speaker 3: You? Really? You?
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  Speaker 9: Really?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know what the church?
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  Speaker 3: God? Is this deep?
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  Speaker 9: What you're really asking me? How much I make? And
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  Speaker 9: my second jot did I take to support my kids?
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  Speaker 9: Come on, now, that's gotta be something.
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  Speaker 3: This is I'm gonna say this to you again. God
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  Speaker 3: may not be through with you, but we are. If
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  Speaker 3: you are gonna pay your tides, if you're not gonna
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  Speaker 3: come to work on a consistent basis, then what what
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  Speaker 3: do you benefit? The church?
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  Speaker 9: Is that what the church is about?
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  Speaker 3: This? I'm gonna say this. I'm gonna say this to you.
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  Speaker 3: You let me tell you what the church is all about.
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  Speaker 10: The church is and you say we done with you
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  Speaker 10: again one more time?
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  Speaker 1: I'm serious.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna tell you this you're talking about? Is
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  Speaker 3: that what the church is about? Let me tell you
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: what the church is. The church is a hospital for
• 18:55
  Speaker 3: crippled souls. You understand it, That's what That's what the
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: church is. But when when we have the souls that
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: are coming in to be saved, we are doing our job.
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: And guess what those people that are coming in, you
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: know what they're doing. They're tithing, That's what they're doing.
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: They're tithing you, sister Takara, I'm sure your soul is crippled.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: You're not coming and you're not tithing. You may give
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: us a little some something when you show up. If
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: you show up, Am I right or wrong?
• 19:26
  Speaker 9: Okay? Hold, let me get what is straight. This is
• 19:29
  Speaker 9: what you called me for in the middle of my
• 19:32
  Speaker 9: work day to tell me that you're kicking me out
• 19:36
  Speaker 9: the church because I don't give enough money to the
• 19:39
  Speaker 9: church while I'm at my job that I can very
• 19:43
  Speaker 9: afford to pay my bills with. So matter of fact,
• 19:46
  Speaker 9: I don't even know who you are. I've never met
• 19:49
  Speaker 9: you in my life, and I don't know what this church.
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: This church?
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: I hate to say it, but if that's what the
• 19:55
  Speaker 9: church is about, you have the nerve to call me?
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Okay, no, no, no, now, let me say something now,
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: you being very Unchristian like, now is the card You're
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: gonna watch it done? In your language? Him?
• 20:13
  Speaker 9: This is not Christian like?
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Well, well do you do you know brother Dwane? Isn't
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: that your brother?
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: Okay?
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: And my brother Dwyane is who told me to call you?
• 20:25
  Speaker 9: Really my brother? So well, so what is it about?
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Huh? Whatever?
• 20:31
  Speaker 9: I don't know what is your name?
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: My name is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: Your brother Dwanne got me the prank phone call you.
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: No, mo.
• 20:50
  Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, yo, he's not You can't meet by
• 20:52
  Speaker 9: you from this job I'm making lobby screaming.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: My you're looking at me.
• 20:57
  Speaker 10: Oh my gosh, you all right, Jerry me?
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: What's up? No?
• 21:07
  Speaker 10: No, no, oh my god, oh my god.
• 21:11
  Speaker 9: My heart is racing.
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: Tell me that's the car. What is the baddest and
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: I mean the baddest radio show in the land.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Go ahead, sir, take it.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Thanks, nep coming up. It is as the c l O.
• 21:29
  Speaker 8: Cheaf Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, ready for
• 21:32
  Speaker 8: your love questions.
• 21:33
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• 22:10
  Speaker 8: It is time to ask the CLO. Our Chief Love Officer,
• 22:14
  Speaker 8: Steve Harvey is ready. And this one's from Nicole Colo.
• 22:19
  Speaker 8: Nicole and Raleigh writes, I'm twenty eight years old and
• 22:22
  Speaker 8: I reconnected with a guy that was a troublemaker when
• 22:25
  Speaker 8: we were in high school.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: He's been in the.
• 22:27
  Speaker 8: Military and he's a changed man. But I'm scared my
• 22:31
  Speaker 8: dad will judge him by his past. Should I talk
• 22:34
  Speaker 8: to my parents about him?
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: First?
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean you can if you're serious. You know,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: everybody got a pass. But that military has straightened a
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: lot of people out. It can be a game change.
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: That military has done some amazing things in some people's lives. Man,
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: I've seen it happen. So that military is given some
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: great live to some people. So he could have changed.
• 23:02
  Speaker 5: He might have been a trouble maker, but you know,
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: people do a lot of stuff when you're eighteen. I
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: don't do nothing that I do. I don't do nothing
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: now that I did at eighteen. Nothing, No, that would
• 23:14
  Speaker 5: be all I do. I still do When I was
• 23:18
  Speaker 5: eighteen is talk. I don't walk the same. I don't
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: run jump like I used to. I can't box like
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: I used to.
• 23:30
  Speaker 6: I can't do nothing.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: No, why you are enrich? You are right now?
• 23:41
  Speaker 6: I sure somebody tell me, man, if you could go
• 23:43
  Speaker 6: back to twenty one, would you do it for what?
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: In that moment?
• 23:50
  Speaker 10: Don't know?
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: You go back then? Making him decision no longer? Yeah,
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: but you have money though I don't need this money.
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: At twenty one, I'd have blew it for show. I'd
• 24:00
  Speaker 5: have been broke by twenty two year. Probably wouldn't even
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: took me that long.
• 24:07
  Speaker 8: Like a lot of winners, some of those all right?
• 24:10
  Speaker 8: Moving on, Moving on to Twanda and Philly, to Wanda Wrights.
• 24:14
  Speaker 8: I left my husband after he cheated on me with
• 24:17
  Speaker 8: his boss. The lady took a pic in my house
• 24:20
  Speaker 8: and posted it on social media. I called her a cheater.
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: Uh huh uh huh. I called her a cheater in
• 24:26
  Speaker 8: the comments, and we got into a nasty exchange of comments.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Would I be wrong to get her fired?
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: No?
• 24:35
  Speaker 5: Hell no?
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: What go forward?
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Hell no?
• 24:38
  Speaker 5: I go straight to h'all with that picture? Yeah, corporate
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: headquarters of everybody to see his picture? What is the
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: nasty exchange photough, I come to your house if I
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: want to.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Okay, what is that?
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: Lucky?
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: She wasn't at called a house. That's all I can here.
• 24:56
  Speaker 11: What you're not gonna do is cheat with my husband
• 24:59
  Speaker 11: and then take Pope pictures in my house.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: Hold up, but then argue with me about it.
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: See, this is no longer an hr of fad. This
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: is we down at the police station. Now we're down
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: there filling out paperwork. We in interrogation rooms. I'm in
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: that little room that they have you in on forty
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: eight hours. Hold, I'm in that shield. Yeah, I'm trying
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: to answer questions. Can we ask you? Who is the
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: people in the background, sir, on that picture frame? Who
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: would that be? Uh? I don't know that they would.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: Well reading, I'm down here because that's my family. Okay,
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: that's just your family that's in the in the background.
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: That's who that is. Yeah, okay, Now who's the lady
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: in the front of the picture with you you're talking
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: about what you're talking about making a little colder, make
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: it a little colder in here. A person that's on
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: the picture with you, sir, that's my family. So let
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: me help you out. That's my family.
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: The reason I'm down here is because my boss, who
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: was a man, was in my house.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: With my wife and took that picture. Oh I see
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: now that why got clarity? And you're here because of
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: what sir. I'm the reason that all this yellow tape
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: was out there. What we saw the post.
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: We're moving on to Cheryl.
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: I'm down here to clear that part up, to go detective,
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: But sir, can you explain the tape around the outside
• 26:42
  Speaker 2: of the house. Well, why is it so much? D
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: all right?
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Cheryl and Montgomery.
• 26:51
  Speaker 8: Cheryl says, I'm forty nine and my boyfriend will be
• 26:54
  Speaker 8: get this eighty soon. I have been battling his son
• 26:58
  Speaker 8: over a property his dad gifted me. I've been with
• 27:01
  Speaker 8: this man for ten years, so I'm past the gold
• 27:05
  Speaker 8: digger stage. How much grace should I show his fifty
• 27:08
  Speaker 8: eight year old son? Before I snapped, she's forty nine,
• 27:12
  Speaker 8: he'll be eighty soon.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: Well, how much is it are? How much we fighting
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: over whatever it is?
• 27:20
  Speaker 6: The sun son?
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Thank you? My daddy old and can't make these decisions.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: Nobo and she then came up here with some rice
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: Christis and put some snap crackle pop on him, and
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: now all exaid, he ain't.
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: He ain't thinking, so I think that's where the sun
• 27:38
  Speaker 5: is at. But she been with him ten years. You
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: knew this day was coming, lady, Let's quit playing. He
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: ain't knewing that any day now hard to be up
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: on some of this property.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: You knew that.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Wait a minute, so ten years Steve, So she was
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: thirty nine and thirty nine she knew what she was
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: doing then, Yo, Yo, she knew what we's doing there.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: Listen, because at a certain point you start thinking about
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: your immortality.
• 28:08
  Speaker 6: You really don't, I mean, you really do. Fifty If
• 28:12
  Speaker 6: you hit the fifty.
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: Here mark, you start going okay, because now you know
• 28:19
  Speaker 5: pretty much the chances are.
• 28:22
  Speaker 6: The road behind you is a lot longer than the
• 28:26
  Speaker 6: one in front of you.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: You start quarter by.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Quote one more time, you got about twenty more summers.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: See when you breaking down like the no.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: On the third quarter? Buddy?
• 28:43
  Speaker 10: All right?
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: So should she? So should she? How much grace before
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: she snaps on the fifty eight year old.
• 28:50
  Speaker 6: Well you can go on to snap, but you're fin
• 28:52
  Speaker 6: to hear some stuff you ain't heard before.
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: Now, she be careful about all that snapping, because getting
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: people snap normally get snapped back, and you're finn to
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: hear some stuff what you had had not heard before.
• 29:04
  Speaker 2: So be careful about this snapping. That's my dash.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: You.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and you sitting a been talking about you passed
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: the gold digger. Stay you can, you.
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: Can, You can be a gold digger longer than ten years.
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: You knew when you was with the dude what you
• 29:18
  Speaker 5: was banking on. Yeah, that's how your name got on
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: the property you was investing in. You knew this day
• 29:25
  Speaker 5: was coming. You knew it wasn't gonna be here much longer.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: Been waiting.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Actually yeah, actually it was too long.
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: Time has taken him so long long? Ain't nobody eighty
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: investing in the stock market. I'm just gonna tell you,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: all right, Celo, thank you, Steve Harvey Moore on The
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: show Man. Ain't nobody playing with y'all.
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: This show, I have said thousand times, is for enlightenment, entertainment,
• 30:04
  Speaker 5: entertainment and inspiration. And entertainment is a big part of
• 30:09
  Speaker 5: this show. A lot of Loss eight listeners because you
• 30:11
  Speaker 5: don't get the joke. I'm not apologizing for nothing, and
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: I ain't preparing No, I'm sorry statement I tell Joe
• 30:19
  Speaker 5: and for living.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: And if you didn't like to joke, tune in tomorrow.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: I have others. So here's a question for you, guys.
• 30:34
  Speaker 8: Did you ever write love letters to your high school
• 30:37
  Speaker 8: sweetheart or to women period?
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I mean, do you think the.
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: Hell yeah, how.
• 30:46
  Speaker 6: I lived in segregation. You ain't wrote no letter.
• 30:49
  Speaker 5: They may stamp talking about and licked them, trying to
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: hope that this girl would want me back.
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: What'd you say?
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: You drop stuff off?
• 30:57
  Speaker 5: I'll tell you one of the deepest things I did was,
• 31:00
  Speaker 5: I was a senior in our high school.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: Man I wanted this girl man so bad.
• 31:05
  Speaker 5: I wrote the lyrics to Devotion by Earth, Wind and
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: Fire on a poster board, rolled it up, put it
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: in my I tucked my T shirt in my pants,
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: put it in the back of my T shirt like
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: a like a bow and arrow case, and got on
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: my bike and rode over to her house and rolled
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: um down the street till she came out on the porch.
• 31:26
  Speaker 5: And just because y'all had no way of calling her,
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: you know, so rode them down the street till she
• 31:30
  Speaker 5: came out. I got off my bike and handed it
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: to her. She unrolled it on the thing and read
• 31:35
  Speaker 5: the whole lyrics to devotion.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: Oh did she cry or was she?
• 31:39
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: She cried, Yeah when her father came out on the
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: porch and put my softy porch, get your boat.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: SOI media evil. What about your nephew?
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Definitely? High school? Sweetheart wrote it walk to the high school.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: Little sweet love was so brand new.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: As my grandmama say. My nose was wide open.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: If you ain't had your nose wide open, you ain't live.
• 32:15
  Speaker 7: Come on, man, no, we I'm three generations from three months.
• 32:22
  Speaker 7: That's two fun We open here texting. I mean, I
• 32:26
  Speaker 7: made cassette tape.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: That's what I had. I had that. I listened quiet
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: stole Press playing Paul's for you record the song did
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: you Call the Dog? That's what I had to do.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: But we love letters.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: We had technoledge.
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: By this time, we was paying paper boy.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all were paying a paper in it man.
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: That pony express with my bike.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Express.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, delivered myself.
• 32:51
  Speaker 5: They on know three days and you know, mal it
• 32:53
  Speaker 5: took three days even locally, three days to get to
• 32:56
  Speaker 5: somebody's house locally. You write a letter, man, I ain't
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: gonna time for this here. I gotta ride this over there. Yeah,
• 33:04
  Speaker 5: I had pony express me in that bike.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: Bo.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Man, I had I wrote it. I wrote a girl
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: a letter one time, man, and I, you know, I
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: just wanted her to like.
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: I drove it over the house and put it in there,
• 33:14
  Speaker 5: uh uh mailbox, and I'm riding up the street and
• 33:19
  Speaker 5: then I come back down the hill just to see
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: and uh she would had reached out there and pull
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: the uh let out the mailbox, didn't even open it
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: and just tow it in half.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: That broke my heart, man, heartbreaking.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, hell yeah.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: I had to write it on there, you know.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, you.
• 33:41
  Speaker 5: Know, got put it in the mailbox. Got to make
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: sure her mama, daddy don't get it, have a name
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: on it and everything. She as soon as I came
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: back down the hill, I said, Man, she reaching in
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: the mailbox to get it.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: She pulled it out the mailbox and tow it in half.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: Sharing. Who knew you guys were so romantic?
• 34:00
  Speaker 11: All right?
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: Switching gears. Now, So here's a question for the guys.
• 34:04
  Speaker 8: When you were a kid, how often did you do
• 34:06
  Speaker 8: things without adult supervision on a daily back and what
• 34:11
  Speaker 8: was it that you did.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Every day on supervision? What we was on that bike
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: moving around that neighborhood. Boy, what are you talking about?
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Way back in the woods? Jumping ramps, breaking windows? What
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: stealing wood? Building a club high white? We did it all.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: What were you doing?
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Every single day?
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: We made soccer own bikes.
• 34:39
  Speaker 7: Just kick a tennis ball to the goal all the
• 34:41
  Speaker 7: way down the street while ride the bike, ride the
• 34:46
  Speaker 7: wein't know nothing.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: We're just playing soccer on bikes.
• 34:47
  Speaker 7: That we were doing baseball basketball at the park where
• 34:51
  Speaker 7: I wasn't supposed to be because people over there don't
• 34:53
  Speaker 7: know how to act.
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: We was all over the neighborhood. We was doing everything.
• 34:55
  Speaker 7: Didn't nobody know where I was Between nine am and
• 34:58
  Speaker 7: five pm.
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: They didn't know where I was.
• 35:00
  Speaker 7: The street lights came, my mama did They had to
• 35:04
  Speaker 7: call houses to find it.
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: Is he over there? Tom, Come on, he ain't here.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: It didn't know where he was.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: That was my job was to play.
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: You had place.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: I have no idea what they passing the law for supervision?
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: Do you do you understand what the horror that my
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: parents would have been in had they seen what I
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: was doing?
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: What were you up to? I was I was headed
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: in the wrong direction a lot of time.
• 35:42
  Speaker 5: If I had kept going down the path for burglary,
• 35:47
  Speaker 5: being e breaking and entery armed robbery. I'd probably be
• 35:53
  Speaker 5: into that. I definitely would be in the US. Oh,
• 35:56
  Speaker 5: I've set so much stuff on. Yeah, animal use I
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: being locked up for so much stuff we was doing.
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: I had a magnifying glass and burned up a whole
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: colony of ants one day, the whole wiped out in
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: entire colony of ants with magnifying man.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: All my the stuff we used to do. Man bike
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: robbery and eight for theft and hey Man.
• 36:21
  Speaker 5: We used ride out to the white neighborhood and played
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: baseball with him because we had to. We had finally
• 36:26
  Speaker 5: formed a little black little league team on our street,
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: but we didn't have money for gloves. So we go
• 36:30
  Speaker 5: out to the white neighborhood and play with the white kids,
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: and they would give us their gloves and we would
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: go to the field and then give them their gloves,
• 36:36
  Speaker 5: and then they go out in the field. Then they
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: give them out they gloves and we go out in
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: the field, and we got to about the third inning,
• 36:42
  Speaker 5: and then we gave each other the signal. As soon
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: as they tossed us the gloves, we just headed to
• 36:46
  Speaker 5: the bikes and they were sitting there going, hey, what
• 36:48
  Speaker 5: are you guys doing.
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: Without no glove? Well, you know cause they just tossed
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: them to.
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: Us, and we just on the third bout, third fourth inning,
• 36:56
  Speaker 5: we fit in the head on over to these bikes
• 36:58
  Speaker 5: because we got the gloves.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: He here, you guys going, what you guys do it?
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Hey, come back, come back?
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  Speaker 1: Time now for would you rather?
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  Speaker 8: Would you rather be completely invisible for a day or
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  Speaker 8: would you rather be able to fly for one day?
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: Completely invisible for a day, or be able to fly
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  Speaker 1: for a day.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I'm finla fly away. Oh just just your body flying.
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  Speaker 2: Then it started raining and.
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  Speaker 1: Can on thunder.
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  Speaker 6: Oh lord.
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  Speaker 2: Again. Now we're all gonna be invisible. No, ain't no,
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  Speaker 2: ain't no plane. It's just me and I'm talking about
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  Speaker 2: invisible at Chiall's house. I'm gonna go see what y'all
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  Speaker 2: talking about over there.
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  Speaker 8: Would you rather a spouse that is not opinionated or
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  Speaker 8: would you rather a spouse that is controlling?
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  Speaker 2: Strolling? I don't want controlling? Yeah, but gee, I'm a
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: rebelled on that I'm controlling. But I don't want to
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  Speaker 2: hear your opinion all day.
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  Speaker 1: I really know that is not opinionated, like a like.
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  Speaker 2: Like a dorg. That's that they don't even make that
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  Speaker 2: type of woman. That's an impossible. Yeah, that's an impossible statement.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: That was a movie. That was a movie that mayorica.
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  Speaker 8: All right, would you rather be voted class clown or
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  Speaker 8: would you rather be voted most.
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  Speaker 1: Likely to succeed?
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  Speaker 2: That was voth for them? I know good and hell,
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  Speaker 2: well I wasn't going to beat p.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you didn't think so dreams back then?
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  Speaker 2: Who the hell was going to vote for me? It's
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  Speaker 2: most likely to succeed. I was voted most difficult. That
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  Speaker 2: that was so accurate.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, why do you have to carry that onto your
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  Speaker 8: adult life? Leave that where it belongs?
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  Speaker 2: The vote? That is how I am?
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: They voted you that?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, well I really like being how I am.
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  Speaker 5: I don't really see the problem. I really, I swear
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  Speaker 5: to you. I do not see the problem.
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  Speaker 3: You see it?
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  Speaker 1: No, I tell you about it every day. What is
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: the problem?
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  Speaker 5: But but see, look at the source of who's telling
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  Speaker 5: me this. Y'all telling me this because I don't want
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  Speaker 5: to do what y'all want me to do.
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  Speaker 2: I'm true.
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  Speaker 1: No that's not true. No, that's it all that. It's
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: what is to be done, it's we want you to do.
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: Y'all. Don't tell me what I need to do who
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  Speaker 2: is not it?
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Sometimes we need impratication from you.
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  Speaker 8: Give us that.
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: A lot friendship business.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: Say you've been difficult right now. That's your angile.
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  Speaker 2: Round is because y'all look at my scheduling and y'all
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  Speaker 2: try to fill it with what y'all want to do.
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  Speaker 1: Now we don't. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 4: Time.
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  Speaker 1: All right, So Steve. Recently we talked.
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  Speaker 8: About the new dating term on the dating apps called
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  Speaker 8: ethical non monogamy. You guys remember that from the other day.
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  Speaker 8: It's a practice of having a closer sexual relationship where
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  Speaker 8: both parties consent to the infidelity. In other words, I'll
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  Speaker 8: tell you that I'm married and you agree to sleep
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  Speaker 8: with me anyway, Swinging, open relationships, all that polyamory all
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  Speaker 8: fall under the umbrella of ethical non monogamy.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: So we have a caller that left a message about
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  Speaker 1: our discussion on the subject. Take a listen.
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  Speaker 10: So y'all are talking about ethical monogamy and call them
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  Speaker 10: it cheating.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm gonna let y'all know right now, you're very
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  Speaker 4: much knowing your ag just.
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  Speaker 10: In terms of if it don't apply, if you don't
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  Speaker 10: want to do it, then don't.
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  Speaker 4: But calling something cheating and changing the terms, because again,
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  Speaker 4: what is Monogymy monogomy is saying with partnership, that's a monomenogamy.
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: You're saying that you don't want Now is it something
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  Speaker 4: that I want to do so I get jealous?
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like sharing.
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: Is it something that I almostly here in clowns because
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: I don't want to do it? No, I understand that
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: it's just not for me. Y'all are very much showing
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  Speaker 4: your age and insisting that something is cheating when you
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: are open with your partner and discussing the fact that
• 42:51
  Speaker 4: neither of you want to just be with one person
• 42:54
  Speaker 4: is not cheating. Not the first time I've talked something
• 42:58
  Speaker 4: that I don't understand, probably not gonna be the last time. Again,
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  Speaker 4: being absolutely ethically nominogamous, need you're quite literally let your
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: partner know that we're not the only people together. You
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  Speaker 4: both know that you both have that agreement.
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  Speaker 3: And it works for them.
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: If it works for them and it doesn't work for you,
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  Speaker 4: leave it alone. Simple that don't go call on something
• 43:19
  Speaker 4: cheating cheating.
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: This is not cheating.
• 43:21
  Speaker 10: Cheating is lying.
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Cheating involves line. If it does not involve lighting, lying,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: it's not cheating.
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  Speaker 5: I appreciate you calling in and telling us we're showing
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: our age because well we have the age to show, yo,
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: just showing yours because you don't listen. The lady that
• 43:37
  Speaker 5: wrote the letter and called in did not say they
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: partner knew about it. They said that's what they were practicing.
• 43:46
  Speaker 5: There are sights on where married people are on the
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  Speaker 5: putting it out there for the other person to partake
• 43:52
  Speaker 5: in them and letting them know that they're married and
• 43:55
  Speaker 5: their partner knows nothing about it. That's what the phone
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: call was about. So when you call here talking about
• 44:02
  Speaker 5: somebody showing they age, make sure you ain't showing yours too.
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: So learn to listen, because that's what it takes when
• 44:11
  Speaker 5: you come after me, y'all showing y'all age.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Now, look, if y'all swingers, we know what swingers is.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: We was doing when this was around for your young
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  Speaker 2: was born.
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  Speaker 5: Have you got another company, y'all going out to the
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: club now and you want to swing?
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: We know what that is.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: That ain't what the call was talking about, but you
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: didn't listen to that.
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: You heard the part you wanted, and now you want
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: to call it and be critical because we old. Old
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: is the goal, and maybe one day you'll have to
• 44:41
  Speaker 5: get older and have some this too. Sitting up in
• 44:45
  Speaker 5: here and I'll be listening to this stuff. And I'm sorry, ladies,
• 44:48
  Speaker 5: but you're on the back end of my work week
• 44:50
  Speaker 5: because I work with young people. That family few say
• 44:54
  Speaker 5: stupid sugar hundred ice teeth all to day long. And
• 44:58
  Speaker 5: I got to sit there because HR just riding the
• 45:01
  Speaker 5: corner and I gotta act like I'm okay with that
• 45:04
  Speaker 5: what I ain't.
• 45:07
  Speaker 6: And you done walked up.
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: Into the hornet's nest while the hornet was sitting outside
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: reading the paper, busting you.
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: All right, I can tie the young people because we old,
• 45:22
  Speaker 5: we scaping and we don't know how to look at stuff.
• 45:24
  Speaker 5: Y'all keep y'all can come up with all these new
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: titles you won't do. It's called cheat.
• 45:31
  Speaker 6: The hell it is man.
• 45:34
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it's an agreement between the people who are going
• 45:38
  Speaker 8: to be cheating with it or seeing each other. They
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  Speaker 8: didn't say anything about them their telling their partners or
• 45:44
  Speaker 8: anything like that.
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  Speaker 2: Surely that's even what the call was about. She ain't
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: hit that though.
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: She all want to light us up because her dumb
• 45:52
  Speaker 5: said some relationship and some man that told her he's.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Saying somebody else. No, her dumb trying to be okay
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: with over what called.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: He's just uninformed?
• 46:11
  Speaker 8: Coming up next, the nephew with the prank phone call
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  Speaker 8: for today. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 46:17
  Speaker 8: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after
• 46:25
  Speaker 8: the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today, and the
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  Speaker 8: subject is why is he in my brother's house?
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: We'll find out in just a little bit.
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  Speaker 8: We'll get into it, but right now it is time
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  Speaker 8: for the nephew and the prank phone call for today.
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  Speaker 1: Next.
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  Speaker 2: What you got?
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: So the title of the strawberry letter is why is
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: he in my brother's house?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: Right? Rank here? Is I left my medicine in your house?
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying. Oh kind of goes together.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna you know, we don't want to have
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: a title fight.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. We have a title right,
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: I left my medicine in your house? All right? That
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: is a cat dog if you would We're going to
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: strategically dive into this one. If you're driving right now,
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: I think you should pull over because this one right here,
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: this home running head, this classic nephew, tell me I
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  Speaker 2: left my medicine in your house.
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: Let's go Hello, Hello, want to say to Clarence? Yeah?
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: Is he it was this Claire? Uh hey money Sherman
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: dog your house is the one that got broke into
• 47:31
  Speaker 3: last week?
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 47:33
  Speaker 10: Man, just waiting on the police to get back with me,
• 47:36
  Speaker 10: tim if they found these people or not. Man, So
• 47:39
  Speaker 10: now hold on, what's your name again of Sherman?
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: Sherman, Furman, Sherman Surman.
• 47:46
  Speaker 10: How you here about it?
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: Oh? No, you know, I stay a couple of streets.
• 47:49
  Speaker 3: So everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard that y'all
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: got broke in.
• 47:53
  Speaker 10: On damn man, everybody being kind of kind of real
• 47:55
  Speaker 10: good around here.
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 47:56
  Speaker 10: It don't make no sense.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 47:57
  Speaker 10: You go out here and work hard for stuff and
• 48:00
  Speaker 10: then you know, people just do your like this.
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 48:03
  Speaker 10: It just I'm just glad it wasn't nobody hurt.
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: Man.
• 48:06
  Speaker 10: My wife and my son they alive, and that's you know,
• 48:09
  Speaker 10: that's the best thing.
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: Man.
• 48:10
  Speaker 10: So you know, trying not to cousin something like this happened.
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: You know, I understand.
• 48:15
  Speaker 10: Man, you stay a couple of streets over, you say.
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, hey hey, let me let me let
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: me say this to you. Man. I want to say,
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: first of all, I hate what happened. You know what
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: I mean? Yeah, and uh, I do, man, you know,
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: and I'm glad you're your family and so yeah, I
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: said the man, Well, hey, man, can I just can
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: I just say this here?
• 48:39
  Speaker 9: Man?
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: Uh? And I don't really know how to say it,
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: but I was. I was with the two dudes that
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: had broken there. I was with them when they did that.
• 48:52
  Speaker 10: Okay, you did you just say you was with them
• 48:55
  Speaker 10: that broken my house?
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: Oh so you broken my house? Saying no, saying see,
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: that's why I'm to see them claims. That's what I'm
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: I'm calling you, trying to tell you. I was trying
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: to talk them out of it. You know what I'm saying, Well,
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: what the cathic?
• 49:10
  Speaker 10: Because they did this.
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: I couldn't talk them out of it. But you know
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: I was who I wasn't in there taking nothing, That's
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying.
• 49:16
  Speaker 10: Okay, okay, okay, Well who was in the ittation?
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: Then? And I can't. I can't be doing I can't
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: do that. I can't see I ain't trying to get
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: in the middle of that.
• 49:24
  Speaker 10: No, no, no, you can't do that. You just called
• 49:27
  Speaker 10: my phone. Oh you can tell me who broke in here?
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: You was one of them? You I was worsting with you.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: That That ain't that. That ain't even the reason why
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: I called. Man, I don't give it for the reason
• 49:38
  Speaker 3: you called me.
• 49:38
  Speaker 10: You called me broken up?
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: Who who was with you? Who was with you?
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 49:45
  Speaker 10: I'm matter of fact, what street you stay on.
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: The Let me say this to you, man. This reason
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: why I called ain't when we was in there and
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: then they started screaming and hollering at each other and
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: then saying we got to hear him get out, you know,
• 49:58
  Speaker 3: like I say, I was in there run to talk
• 50:00
  Speaker 3: them out of that.
• 50:02
  Speaker 10: I don't give it.
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: If you tried to talk them into it.
• 50:05
  Speaker 10: You walk into my broken my mind, you.
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: My dancing to call me. Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen.
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: Listen to me, man, I'm listening to you for me.
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: While I was in there, man, and and you know
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: they was we was getting out of there in a hurry.
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: I actually left my uh my pills fell out my pocket,
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: my bottle of pills and my medicine, and I don't
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: I don't got no more refills on it, man, And
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: I need my medicine. That's why I'm calling you to
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: see if you don't man me coming back over there
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: to get my fee. They don't give them.
• 50:38
  Speaker 10: How about your medicine? Who gives us? I tell you
• 50:44
  Speaker 10: what I tell you can ask me about some medicine.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: I was just caught up in a bad situation. Man.
• 50:52
  Speaker 10: I swear to God, if I see you over, I
• 50:54
  Speaker 10: swear to God, I'm gonna beat yours. I'm gonna beat you.
• 50:58
  Speaker 10: You better be glad my sun wouldn't at my house.
• 51:02
  Speaker 3: Man. Listen, man, I'm not trying to get you. Have
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: no problems with nobody. I just need my medicine.
• 51:07
  Speaker 10: Man, kill noticing you got problems with me.
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: But I don't have no more reals on that medicine.
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: I need my medicine. I get sick. I tell you
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: what I tell you what Come, Come get your medicine.
• 51:19
  Speaker 10: You know exactly where I said. I'm gonna have to
• 51:21
  Speaker 10: get the front door open. You ain't got to break
• 51:22
  Speaker 10: in this time. Come get your medicine. I said, what
• 51:25
  Speaker 10: a god gonna need more than just that a medicine.
• 51:28
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna put some on your I said, why are
• 51:30
  Speaker 10: you downing and out on me?
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: Man? And I'm the one that was in there trying
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: to talk them out of it.
• 51:35
  Speaker 10: She was with them because that's the point, that's what
• 51:38
  Speaker 10: bring them to telling them to help you. Come get
• 51:41
  Speaker 10: your medicine.
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: All I want to do is get my medicine and
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: be through with this. That's all I'm trying to say
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: to you. I ain't trying to start no trouble with you.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: Start no trouble. You go catch the lucky. I'm house,
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: you know what.
• 51:55
  Speaker 10: I tell you what I all this, You know, I
• 52:00
  Speaker 10: tell you what, Come get the medicine. Come come, come,
• 52:02
  Speaker 10: get the medicine right now. I'm in what what street
• 52:05
  Speaker 10: you stay on? I bring it to you.
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: Man. I'm not finna go back and forth arguing with you. Man.
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: I'm finna come over there and give my medicine. And man,
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: you're gonna be through with each other.
• 52:15
  Speaker 10: You ain't got to go back and for I tell
• 52:17
  Speaker 10: you what. Come on over here, get your medicine right now.
• 52:21
  Speaker 10: This even if you're gonna need some more medicine. They're
• 52:24
  Speaker 10: gonna come break in my from houses. You bo can't
• 52:28
  Speaker 10: tell my I take care of my wife.
• 52:31
  Speaker 3: And my kids in this house. I understand that. And
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: I will not be back in your arm if not
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: get my medic.
• 52:38
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna is you hollering at no, I tell you
• 52:41
  Speaker 10: what you no, no, no, no, you ain't gonna be
• 52:42
  Speaker 10: back in my house. After you get your medicine, You're
• 52:45
  Speaker 10: gonna have a permanent new residence. I swear to God,
• 52:48
  Speaker 10: you're gonna be living in the cemeteries.
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: I got one of your friends under before.
• 52:53
  Speaker 10: I get over there, and I man, say that on
• 52:56
  Speaker 10: your way over heres going.
• 52:58
  Speaker 3: There here, I'm on my way now. I won't say
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: I need to say it, say want say it. This
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: that's my talent from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: just got pranked by your sister. Bring hello? Who is this?
• 53:19
  Speaker 4: Hey?
• 53:19
  Speaker 3: Man? Hey class? This nephew telling me man from the
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Bree got me to
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: prank you. Man boy you you oh, you say too
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: so much. I don't believe this, she said. Man, they
• 53:35
  Speaker 3: broke in my brother house. He needed spirits lip, he said,
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: come on call him and get it. You know what.
• 53:44
  Speaker 10: You ma, you're a well who.
• 53:47
  Speaker 3: Oh man, what are y'all wrong for? This is oh man,
• 53:51
  Speaker 3: hey man, he man, ask you something. What is what
• 53:54
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• 53:57
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  Speaker 8: Subject, why is he in my brother's house? Dear Stephen Shirley.
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  Speaker 8: I'm writing for my brother because he is too upset
• 56:54
  Speaker 8: to do it for himself. My brother is thirty eight
• 56:57
  Speaker 8: and his wife is thirty five, and she has planned
• 57:00
  Speaker 8: a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a
• 57:03
  Speaker 8: guy that has been her friend since they were eighteen
• 57:06
  Speaker 8: years old. This guy was married before and he has
• 57:09
  Speaker 8: one child. Now he's no longer dating women. He told
• 57:13
  Speaker 8: my brother that he is a great new man in
• 57:16
  Speaker 8: his life, but he keeps him away from his friends
• 57:18
  Speaker 8: because it is not serious yet. My brother told this
• 57:22
  Speaker 8: guy it's imperative that he meet the boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: And here's why.
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  Speaker 8: My sister in law is always with this guy, and
• 57:30
  Speaker 8: my brother thinks she's cheating on him right in his face. Now,
• 57:34
  Speaker 8: the guy is going on vacation with his wife, so
• 57:37
  Speaker 8: my brother got really skeptical.
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: But that's not the biggest issue.
• 57:41
  Speaker 8: We need to know how far another man is allowed
• 57:45
  Speaker 8: up in another man's house. Last week, my brother came
• 57:48
  Speaker 8: home and this man was sitting in a shirt and
• 57:51
  Speaker 8: shorts on the patio. His wife was sleeping on the couch.
• 57:55
  Speaker 8: The guy said they had gone running in the neighborhood
• 57:57
  Speaker 8: and he jumped in the shower while she took a nap.
• 58:01
  Speaker 8: The biggest issue is that he took a shower in
• 58:03
  Speaker 8: my brother's bathroom. My brother uses the upstairs bathroom so
• 58:08
  Speaker 8: his wife can have the primary bathroom all to herself.
• 58:11
  Speaker 8: There is a shower downstairs in the other guest room,
• 58:15
  Speaker 8: but this guy went upstairs and used my brother's shower.
• 58:19
  Speaker 8: My brother feels that this guy is way too comfortable
• 58:22
  Speaker 8: in his house and it's his wife's fault for letting
• 58:25
  Speaker 8: him do it. I agree with my brother and his
• 58:28
  Speaker 8: wife needs to be checked and this guy should not
• 58:31
  Speaker 8: go on vacation with her. What if his boyfriend doesn't
• 58:34
  Speaker 8: even exist. I am trying to stay out of it,
• 58:37
  Speaker 8: so I need your advice on how my brother should
• 58:40
  Speaker 8: handle this situation.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, sis.
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  Speaker 8: It just sounds like someone might get hurt in this situation.
• 58:49
  Speaker 8: I don't know, I just feel that in my spirit somehow.
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  Speaker 3: Huh.
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  Speaker 2: I have a question, Yeah, did a lady write this
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: letter or a guy?
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  Speaker 8: A sister wrote the letter for her brother because her
• 59:00
  Speaker 8: brother's too upset to write it. And I was just
• 59:02
  Speaker 8: going to get to that, Steve. It's confusing. This letter
• 59:05
  Speaker 8: is really confusing. But from what I gather, the wife
• 59:10
  Speaker 8: you guys suspect is cheating on her husband your brother
• 59:16
  Speaker 8: with the guy who she said is gay to throw
• 59:19
  Speaker 8: everyone off. That's kind of what she's trying to say here.
• 59:22
  Speaker 8: And not only is your brother mad about the cheating
• 59:25
  Speaker 8: he thinks that he thinks is going on, he really
• 59:28
  Speaker 8: is angry that the guy is in his house using
• 59:31
  Speaker 8: his shower and acting like it's okay because his wife
• 59:34
  Speaker 8: gave him permission, especially when there are other bathrooms in
• 59:39
  Speaker 8: the house. You're also asking for yourself and your brother,
• 59:44
  Speaker 8: how far should another man be allowed in a man's house?
• 59:48
  Speaker 8: And I'm going to tell you right now you shouldn't
• 59:49
  Speaker 8: even have to ask that question because at your house
• 59:52
  Speaker 8: it's simple. You set the rules. It's a respect thing.
• 59:55
  Speaker 8: I don't care who it is. If you don't want
• 59:58
  Speaker 8: him in there, he shouldn't be in there, is that
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 8: I mean? And your wife, his wife, your sister in
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 8: law should know better. She should never let another man
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 8: or anyone disrespect the household, especially your husband's things, your
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 8: husband's bathroom. She's wrong for this. I think it's just
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 8: a matter of time before the truth about her and
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 8: her so called gay best friend comes out. So tell
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 8: her you're you're going on the trip too, and that
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 8: it'll be nice time for the two of you to
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 8: reconnect and have some fun. That's what the husband should say.
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 8: See how she reacts. If she protests just a little
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 8: too much, that then you'll know that your instincts are
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 8: right and you can deal with her accordingly. But all
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 8: signs are pointing to she's cheating with this guy, the
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 8: so called gay friend of hers. I mean, he has
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 8: too much leeway in the house, all of that. It's
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 8: just too much. It's way too much, Steve, And it's
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 8: very confusing.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: I know that you know what is it? Yeah, it is.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: I'm so confused here.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: It is very confused.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 5: Because let me read this letter with y'all and let
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 5: me just go as I'm feeling this letter. Okay, we
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 5: may not ever even get to the end. Why is
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 5: he in my brother's house? I'm confused with I'm the girl.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: Let me just Stephen Shirley. I'm writing for my brother
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 5: because he is too upset to do it for himself. Well,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 5: as we go through this letter, we gonna find out
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 5: that your brother is incapable of doing several things for himself,
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 5: not only write this letter, but he's too upset to
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 5: do it for himself. Okay, you've been calling this little
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 5: boy my brother thirty eight, his wife thirty five. She's
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 5: playing a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 5: a guy that has been her friends since they was
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 5: eighteen years old. How many times have I got to
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: tell y'all about these male friends that y'all keep thinking
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 5: and just want to be your friend?
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: How many times we got to go over there?
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: How many letters do we need for y'all to get
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 5: off this trick trail and quit thinking this merry go
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 5: round don't come around. I'm so sick of y'all. This
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: guy was married before, he has one child. Now he's
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 5: no longer dating women. Hello, Now I've heard of this,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 5: You've seen it in famous people. A purpose person starts
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 5: living their truth later on in life. That's allowable, that's doable.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 5: That's fine.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 10: But now.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know at what point.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 5: He decided he no longer dating women because you was
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 5: making kids a minute ago, so there had to be
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 5: some type of.
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: Oh girl.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 8: At coming up in twenty three minutes to have me
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 8: our k Well, have you spot coming up today's strawberry letter?
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  Speaker 1: Why is he in my brother's house? We'll be back
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 8: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 8: The subject why is he in my brother's house?
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  Speaker 5: This letter is beyond ridiculous, y'all. I ain't even touched
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 5: on any points, so let me try to do it quick.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 5: Why is he in my brother's house? I'm writing for
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 5: my brother because he's too upset to do it for himself.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 5: Your brother too upset to write, He too upset to
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 5: do a lot of.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: Things in this letter. Let's get to it.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 3: Yep.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: My brother thirty eight is wife thirty five.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 5: She's playing a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 5: and a guy that's been her friends since they were
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 5: eighteen years old. I'd have told y'all about these opposite
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 5: six friends. I have told y'all about this, but y'all
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 5: don't believe me. So this is another Strawberry letter to
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 5: help you understand. This guy was married before, he has
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 5: one child. Now he's no longer dating women, but he's
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 5: still friends, which your wife though he don't date women
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 5: no more.
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: But he didn't cut your wife out.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 5: He told my brother that he has a great new
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 5: man in his life, but he keeps him away from
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 5: his friends because it is not serious yet.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: Man, what First of all, if you are my wife's
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: friend me and you ain't that cool you telling me
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: about a new man you got, but you don't bring
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: him a round your friends yet because it ain't that serious.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 5: Wait a minute, we ain't all discovered the news yet
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 5: that you don't date women no more.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: So then you ain't brought him around your friends because
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: you don't know if it's serious yet.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: Have you told your new friend that you don't date
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 5: women no more? Or maybe you've been running in this
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 5: circle the whole time. I don't know what's happening right here,
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 5: but because of hr, I'm not gonna come in. I'm
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 5: just gonna try to keep moving. Okay, then my brother,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 5: your brother told this guy's imperative that he meet the
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 5: boyfriend and his Why what, man, I don't give a
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 5: what you doing.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: I ain't gotta meet your boyfriend. But here's why.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 5: Though my sister in law is always with this guy
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 5: that to stop liking women and date me in now
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 5: and got a child and used to be married. My
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 5: sister in law is always with this guy, and my
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 5: brother in law thinks he's cheating on him right in
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 5: his faith. Hold on, so your brother thinks that his
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 5: wife is cheating with the guy that don't don't date
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 5: women no more. That then came up to him and
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 5: now he wants to meet this guy's new guy, but
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 5: he'd have told him, and he don't wanted to meet
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 5: yet because he don't know if it sees that pair
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 5: missed me with this this ain't or why is that
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 5: whipping not started yet? Because I'm trying to figure out
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 5: if I think my wife is cheating with a man
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 5: and then he come up in my face and strike
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 5: up any conversation. I want to meet this new guy, Well,
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 5: it ain't serious yet, so I ain't gonna bring her man.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 5: Please pop dead in your jaw, dead in your jaw.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 5: Now the guy is going on vacation with his wife.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 5: So my brother got real skeptical. But that's not the
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 5: biggest issue. What is more, We need to know how
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 5: far another man is allowed up in another man's house.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 5: Wait a minute, he need to know how you ain't
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 5: allowed in my house, not how far you ain't. You
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 5: can't knock on the door, ring the dotveil you can't
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 5: call my house. I wish I would come home and
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 5: you in it. Oh, pardon, I can't take you know
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 5: all right, let's go. Last week, my brother came home
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 5: and this man was sitting in the show and shorts
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 5: on the patio.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: His wife was sleep on the couch. Knocked out, privy,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: that's when she sleep on the couch, knocked out. The
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: guy said they had gone running in the neighborhood and
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 2: he jumped in the shower while she took a nap.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: What right, I'm a hold of dog.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 5: You so cool and comfortable. You and my wife went running,
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 5: took a shower in my house. In my house, this
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 5: ain't our house no more. See when it comes to
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 5: a man, the man, no, it's the other man's house.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 5: You I don't care what the wife say. You already
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 5: know you need to check with this man.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 2: The biggest issue is that he took a shower in
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: my brother's bathroom. Hold a dog, you're in my room? Oh,
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: my brother uses.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 5: The upstairs bathroom so his wife can have the primary
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 5: bathroom all to itself. There's a shower downstairs in the
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: other guest room. But this guy went upstairs and used
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 5: my brother's shower. He ain't what I'm staying because that's
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 5: where the bedroom at. Might as well go around the corner.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 5: Why you think she downstairs knocked out on the count?
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 5: Right man, I'm in you whooping so much right now
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 5: you can't count it.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: Just getting whooped everybody that got something the.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: Lawn board and got something on the way in, the milkman,
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: the mailman, car.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: Repair dude and got whooping. You don'et got that whoopie for?
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: Right man? He don't even have no more.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 5: My brother feels that this guy is way too comfortable
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 5: in his house and his wife's fought for letting him
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: do it. No, dog is your fault because you letting
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 5: him do it. You let this man come up in
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: your house and sit around and you ain't at the house.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 5: Oh man, this ain't on your wife, This on you.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 5: You being disrespected on so many levels. This is an
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: ignorant letter.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: Should I agree with my brother and his wife needs
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: to be checked and this guy should not go on
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: vacation with her. What is his boyfriend doesn't exist. I'm
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 2: trying to stay out of it, so I need your
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 2: advice on ho my brothers to handle this situation.
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 6: Your brother need to start woming somebody.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, Steve.
• 1:10:01
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  Speaker 11: who needed most. We also connect companies with exceptional HBCU
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  Speaker 11: talent through workforce development initiatives. I am a proud HBCU
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 11: graduate and my education help me reach my fullest potential.
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  Speaker 11: I'm continuing that tradition with my daughter, who will be
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 11: attending an HBCU this fall. Generational excellence continues. TMCF is
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  Speaker 11: America's largest organization that exclusively represents the HBCU community.
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  Speaker 8: What is the weirdest place? What is the weirdest place
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  Speaker 8: You've ever done it? We'll save Steve for last.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 7: But you oh, yeah, I tell you crazy place. I
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 7: had six in the hood in the back room with
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 7: roaches everywhere. Oh god, you didn't nobody move.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: They just looking at tennis.
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 7: Baby, roaches, bro am I doing it?
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  Speaker 1: But was it good though?
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 3: No, not nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I got to go.
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  Speaker 2: All right, have you come on?
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  Speaker 1: We're saving Steve for last What you got fifty yard line?
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  Speaker 2: Texas A and m right there.
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  Speaker 1: Baby, watching the Aggie game again on the turf.
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  Speaker 2: Baby, he again sneak out.
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  Speaker 1: All right, mister Harvey, you're up go eggs.
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  Speaker 2: The beach under the bleachers.
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  Speaker 1: This is too much.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 5: List at an ice skating rink one time in college.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 5: That's skating rink with ice skates on. No, no, no,
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 5: lady and coach down on the ice and put my
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 5: foot up against the board and pushed.
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  Speaker 1: Off across the ice.
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  Speaker 2: Once I slid out there, it was messed up. I
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 2: was trying to get back. Was hard? Oh man, man, Okay.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: Track to the barn, the barn, the barn, the barn.
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  Speaker 5: Why do you hear you in the country. You you
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 5: live in the country, and you don't have sex in
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 5: the barn where you've been having at. Ain't no hotel,
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 5: ain't no hotels.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: In the country. The bard is the hotel.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: His hate.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 5: But looks tell something about that, hay, though, you really
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 5: need a blanket with that hate, straight hate it.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I made that mistake.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: That ain't good.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: You think that saying is rough? Were all is hail? Yeah,
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: it's been a long run for you going out. I'm
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: purely house now house in the hotel.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, ain't no more outside. No, they't got cameras everywhere
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 5: now elevated. That's over with, haven done a while.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 2: Party was going on?
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wait what.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 6: Party?
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: Restaurant?
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: A restaurant?
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, Let's go on and on. Sounds like
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 8: All right, Steve, Lisa and Laurel Maryland says, I work
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 8: as a dispatcher and on Fridays we do a potluck lunch,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 8: or we'll order pizza or a deli sandwich tray. My
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 8: coworker always chips in the same amount of money that
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 8: we all chip in, but she takes way more food
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 8: than we do. She always fixes her husband a play
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 8: of pizza or sandwiches to take home with her, and
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 8: many of us in the office think the leftover should
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 8: be divided amongst us, or she should chip in more
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 8: if we're feeding her husband?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: What do you think needs to happen here?
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 2: I think y'all need to stop having it.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 4: Food, you know what.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: Listen?
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 2: Why is bringing food to the office and then you
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: want it back? What you take it down there?
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 3: For?
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 5: If I take food down to the office and everybody
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 5: picking in it, you think I won't take an back
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 5: to my house, not to me, not after everybody has
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 5: been in that. See, I don't understand people like that.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 5: Listen to me, man, stop participating in the pot. Look,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 5: if you don't want to just leave it when you
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 5: take your dish, just take your dish. That's your donation
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 5: to the partner. You can't possibly want to take it
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 5: back home.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: Who do that?
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: Well? No, though, that's the point.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: They do well, see, But you ain't got to be
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: one of them.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 5: If I'm supposed to bring a pan of rolls, and
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 5: I bring a pan of rolls and they need all
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 5: of them, but twelve of the rolls, I don't want
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 5: them twelve.
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: But that's you, Steve. Well, they feel like who she asked?
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: I know, but that's your experience. They still want to
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: take it home. But you're telling I can't.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 5: I can't tell you to think in a way that
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 5: I don't think you know what I'm saying. And I'm
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 5: sorry you think if they think that's some rich boy
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 5: attitude and stuff. But I've been that way at all
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 5: levels of my life. Once I take something down there
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 5: and everybody pick on it, that's your.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: You can't touch it.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 5: No, you can't touch nothing belonged to me, and then
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 5: expect me to still want it.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: Man.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 5: I was eating with a dude of a lawyer and
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 5: we were at Toile restaurant and we ordered the duck.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: I was gonna get the duck by myself.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 5: Didn nobody want nothing, he said, I eat it with
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 5: you because they only bring you one whole duck. I
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 5: was just gonna eat what I want and then leave
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: it alone. This dude had his chopstick. He would take
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 5: reach on with chopstick with a piece of duck, dip
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 5: it in the sauce, put it in his mouth. Then
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 5: with the same chopstick, he'll move a piece of duck
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 5: out the way and pick another piece of duck. Yo, dude, yo,
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 5: what you're doing? Yeah see now, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And you can't watch everybody at the office. Somebody
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 2: then touched it. That's just me.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: I was gonna ask a question. Go ahead, you gotta ask, Okay.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 11: So if I ordered, like a platter of sandwiches, right, someway, right,
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 11: and I bring I go get them myself.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: I go get the sandwiches, and I bring them to
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 1: work for y'all.
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 11: And then I open the container for the for the sandwiches,
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 11: and I pull a few of the sandwiches out to
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 11: the side or to bring home to Tosh or for
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 11: me to eat later for Tasha.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: Something wrong with that.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 5: No, I'm just kissing there. It is something wrong with that,
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 5: because get a sandwich, yeah.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 2: His own, Yeah, thank you? You know the office, and
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 2: then Tosh sandwich don't work down here? Down here, don't
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: work down and work the bank.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: Example, I just asked the question the baint you see
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: how the cargo.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 5: Yeah, now if the bank don't work, Tosh eating down now,
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 5: what does he finish?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: Come over here? Eat my last time?
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 8: I buy y'all some subways, like Steve said, then cancel
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 8: the potluck.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 9: I guess.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: We can't have any more fight.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: I want to justice s mo leg.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: From subway. All right, I try. So you're just saying huh,
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: Who's Who's the Who's the chief?
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 2: Skape that our group though on this show, who's the chief?
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: Who don't want to spend the money?
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 2: Ain't going to buy no sandwiches.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to pick something to mess with me.
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: All Right, we gotta go.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 8: Coming up in twenty minutes after we'll have more of
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  Speaker 8: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 1: Right after this.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 8: So guys, forget the mosquito this summer. Our most intrusive
• 1:19:02
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  Speaker 8: of tech companies and advertisers. Your phone thrives while you
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  Speaker 8: sleep loosely, while they lose. You lose focus, you lose time,
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  Speaker 8: you lose privacy, all of that. So next time you're
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 8: scrolling at two am, just remember that your phone might
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 8: be using you more than you using it. You guys throwso,
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 8: so do you scroll on social media when you should
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 8: be sleeping or doing something else?
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: Are you on your phones? That much? Yeah two am?
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: What about yeah?
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, and then my phone go to sleep.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 8: All right, so you're not scrolling on social media when
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 8: you should be sleep or doing something else.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: That's the question, man, mom.
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  Speaker 2: Way over there.
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  Speaker 8: Would you rather be completely invisible for a day or
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  Speaker 8: would you rather be able to fly for one day?
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 8: Completely invisible for a day or be able to fly
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 8: for a day.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm finna bevisi I fly Way you're talking about ever?
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 2: Oh here, just just your body flying death. No no,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: then it started raining and can on.
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  Speaker 1: Thunder.
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  Speaker 6: Oh lord.
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  Speaker 2: Again. Now we are going to be invisible.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: No, ain't no, ain't no plane.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: It's just me and I'm talking about invisible at child's house.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go see what y'all talking about over there.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 8: Would you rather a spouse that is not opinionated or
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 8: would you rather a spouse that is controlling?
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: Controlling? I don't want controlling, Yeah, but gee, I'm a
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 2: rebelled on that I'm controlling, but I don't want to
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: hear your opinion.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: All I really know that is not opinionated, like a like.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 2: Like a dog. That's that They don't even make that
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 2: type woman too. Whatever. That's an impossible that's an impossible statement.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: That was a movie.
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: That was a movie, Yeah, America, all right?
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 8: Would you rather be voted class clown or would you
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 8: rather be voted most likely to succeed?
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 2: That was both for them? I know good and hell
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 2: well I wouldn't gonna be b.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: Oh you didn't think so? The dreams back then, Who
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 1: the hell.
• 1:22:56
  Speaker 2: Was going to vote for me? It's most likely to succeed?
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 2: I was voted most difficult. What that that was so accurate?
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 8: Yeah, why do you have to carry that on too
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 8: your adult life? Leave that where it belongs.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 2: That's what's the voting. This is how I am. They
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 2: voted you that.
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, well I really like being how I am.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 5: I don't really see the problems. I really, I swear
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 5: to you, I do not see the problem.
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 3: You see it?
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 1: No, we tell you about it every day. What is
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: the problem?
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 5: But but see, look at the source of who's telling
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 5: me this? Y'all telling me this because I don't want
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 5: to do what y'all want me to do.
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: I'm true. No, that's not true.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: No, that's it all that, it's what needs to be done.
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: It's none we want you to do.
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 2: Y'all don't tell me what I need to do.
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: Who is not it? Well, sometimes we need impredication from you.
• 1:23:55
  Speaker 3: Give us that.
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 2: Outship business.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: You've been difficult right now, that's your adual round.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 5: And this is because y'all look at my scheduling and
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 5: y'all try to fill it with what y'all now.
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 8: We don't coming up last break of the day and
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 8: some closing from the one and only mister Difficult himself.
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. Hey, this is John Legend. Hi,
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  Speaker 5: All right, you know something, these are my closure remarks today.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 5: I've discovered a lot over the years, and there are
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 5: some things you can make it without in this world.
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 2: It really is.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 5: I really didn't understand how significant certain relationships were. But
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 5: I'm old enough now and a lot of you are
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 5: where you can relate to what I'm about to say.
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 5: You can live your life. You can lose some really
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 5: really important things in your life and survive. And all
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 5: of us know that feeling of losing someone that you
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 5: cared deeply about, whether you lose them because you all
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 5: just were separate ways, or you lose them because they passed.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 5: But we know the pain of losing someone you love dearly.
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 5: And I've discovered something in my life. The greatest loss
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 5: I ever had was my mother. It was an un
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 5: bearable pain for me. I had never experienced anything like it,
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 5: and haven't experienced anything like it since then. When I
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 5: lost my father, that was a pain. My mother's pain
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 5: was first, though, and it was just excruciating. I didn't
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 5: know what to do. I've lost my father, and then
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 5: I lost my oldest brother. That one really hurt me
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 5: in a different way because he had taught me everything.
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 5: He taught me how to drive, he taught me how
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 5: to ride a bike, because he did stuff because he
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 5: was so much older than me that my father allowed
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 5: him to do. My father taught me how to drive,
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 5: but my brother taught me how to you know, pimp drive.
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 5: But he taught me how to ride a bike. He
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 5: taught me how to talk to girls, taught me how
• 1:27:50
  Speaker 5: to save money. So that loss was tragic. And I've
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 5: lost a lot of things in this way, and I've
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 5: learned to live life without all of them. But the
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 5: one thing that you cannot live your life without, and
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 5: that is a friend. You can lose your mother, you
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 5: can lose your brother, you can lose your father, you
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 5: can lose your job, you can lose your wife, you
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 5: can lose your husband who and these things can be debilitating,
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 5: and you can live in this world without them. But
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 5: you cannot live in this world without a friend. You know,
• 1:28:36
  Speaker 5: the Bible says a friend is often closer than even
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 5: a brother, because see, your friends you pick and choose.
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 5: Your family is just your family. Now, I love my brothers,
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 5: dearly man, flaws and all, I loved them, but losing
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 5: a friend. I've lost some really dear friends.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 2: Wan Hull.
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 5: Was a truly great friend of mine that I lost.
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 5: Greg Calhoun out of Montgomery was the last, well not
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 5: the last friend, but a great friend that I lost.
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 5: He was my best friend. And then I lost my
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 5: dear friend Flip Bass, who was a founder of our
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 5: chapter at Kent State. And losing them three men right there,
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 5: man was really really rough because they were dear to me.
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 5: But I thank God for the friendships that I do have,
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 5: because there is something to it, man, to have a friend.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 5: I look at all that I have. I look at
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 5: the awards and the accomplishments and plaques and all this
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 5: stuff I have. But you know what I value more
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 5: than all of those awards that I've gotten and everything.
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 5: I value friendship more than that, because friendships give a return,
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 5: a constant return. Somebody you can share your thoughts with man,
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 5: Somebody that you can be yourself with, Somebody that you
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 5: can sit around and they don't judge you. Somebody that
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 5: you can be around and they allow you to be
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 5: just exactly who you are, however and whenever and however
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 5: you want to present yourself at that time, and you
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 5: need that man, because if you think about your work relationships,
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 5: you have to put on to come to work.
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  Speaker 2: Oftentimes we do.
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  Speaker 5: We got to get up in the morning, no matter
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  Speaker 5: how we feel, and we got to put on a
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  Speaker 5: happy face because we morn and drive people.
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  Speaker 2: We've got to get up.
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  Speaker 5: And put on that we okay today face because we
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  Speaker 5: are responsible for millions and millions of people's attitude on
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  Speaker 5: the way to work. We morn and drive people in
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  Speaker 5: some days we don't feel like driving all morning, but
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  Speaker 5: we got to come up in here. We got to
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  Speaker 5: be a certain way you at work, man, you have
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  Speaker 5: to put on ass. You got to put on a
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  Speaker 5: different mask to go to work. You know, you got
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  Speaker 5: to fake the funk in front of them people. You know,
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  Speaker 5: when you get in your department, you got to put
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  Speaker 5: on that I'm the cheerful employee mask when you don't
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  Speaker 5: be feeling them at all. You got to go to
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  Speaker 5: lunch with them and sit next to him in the
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  Speaker 5: cafeteria and pretend that they are right when you when
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  Speaker 5: they really ain't even your type of people. That's why
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  Speaker 5: you can't wait to get off so you can just
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  Speaker 5: go be yourself again, because at work you can't. So
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  Speaker 5: if you have a friend, or several friends, or a
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  Speaker 5: few where you can sit around and be your natural self,
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  Speaker 5: that's valuable. Man Cherish your friendships because when you lose them,
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  Speaker 5: it's not a good day. Somebody once told me that
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  Speaker 5: friendship is essential to the soul. I think that's the truth.
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  Speaker 1: Stout.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, y'all have a great day. Y'all talk to God.
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  Speaker 2: He loved to hear from you.
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