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January Birthdays, Oscars, National Champions, Meghan Markle and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back
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  Speaker 1: a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them
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  Speaker 1: more like amazing buck things. And it's not me true
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  Speaker 1: good at Steve Harten to move together for Steve, Please, Moby,
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  Speaker 1: I don't join join me. You're doing me. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: use that turning them. You gotta turn to turn them out.
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  Speaker 1: Turn't got to turn them out the water, the water. Come,
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  Speaker 1: come on your back at it. Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 1: A good morning everybody you are listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show. Man. If y'all only knew, I
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  Speaker 1: think I'll tell it to you this morning man started
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  Speaker 1: off real crazy. But it's just those little mishaps where
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  Speaker 1: we as people who are striving to be successful that
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  Speaker 1: makes all the difference in the world. When you have
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  Speaker 1: those little minor things that come up, you can't let
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  Speaker 1: the minor things stop you. You've got to keep pressing forward. Now,
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  Speaker 1: could I have played the role of where is my car?
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  Speaker 1: Where is my car? Oh? Where is my car? Instead
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  Speaker 1: of hustling and grab a cab? So what am I? Am?
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  Speaker 1: I above a cab? Ride now, or do I have
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  Speaker 1: to look at the bigger picture and say, okay, I
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  Speaker 1: could act like a little spoiled brat sometimes a star
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  Speaker 1: and go I don't ride in cabs or where as
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  Speaker 1: my car and then go to blaming people for not
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  Speaker 1: having a car, Or do I make the adjustments because
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  Speaker 1: ain't like I ain't been in a cab before? Now
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  Speaker 1: slow down? Ain't like I ain't never been in a
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  Speaker 1: in a beat up car before. Slow down? Ain't ever
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  Speaker 1: like I ain't never had a carb and roll the
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  Speaker 1: bus before? Slow down? Ain't like I ain't never been
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  Speaker 1: homeless before? And they have nowhere to go? Slow down.
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  Speaker 1: So in those moments right there, always remember where you
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  Speaker 1: come from, but even more importantly, always remember where you're
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  Speaker 1: trying to go, because it's important for me that I
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  Speaker 1: get here as many mornings as I possibly can. It's
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  Speaker 1: important because that's the goal. And so many people allowed
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  Speaker 1: a minor things to stop them on their road to success.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm giving you this example today not to say hey,
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  Speaker 1: look at me, but to say to you, hey, listening
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  Speaker 1: to me. There are going to be a lot of
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  Speaker 1: things that's gonna happen along your way to being successful,
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  Speaker 1: and if you allow the small things to stop you,
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  Speaker 1: there's no way you'll make it. You've got to always
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  Speaker 1: press forward and stop looking at the situation for what
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  Speaker 1: it is and look. Sometimes you have to take your
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  Speaker 1: offer right now and put your eye in the future.
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  Speaker 1: You know, God has blessed me in so many ways.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what can I say? You know, I ask
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  Speaker 1: God for this syndicated show. He gives me a syndicated show.
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  Speaker 1: Now I act like I don't want to come to it.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, man, slow down. Did not you ask for this?
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  Speaker 1: Do I not realize that there are certain people, man,
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  Speaker 1: who look forward to this message in the morning. I've
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  Speaker 1: heard it from people, So from the hundreds that I've
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  Speaker 1: heard it for, that could represent thousands for all I know.
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  Speaker 1: So if I think somebody's counting on me, I got
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  Speaker 1: to try to get there and give something. So today
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  Speaker 1: I didn't have any time at all to think about
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  Speaker 1: what I might say. I just walked right in and
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  Speaker 1: the jingle was playing, and so I decided to just
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  Speaker 1: tell you about my day and maybe you can relate
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  Speaker 1: it to something you're going through alone the way, Because
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  Speaker 1: no matter who you are, you're going to have some moments. Man,
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  Speaker 1: where things are going to happen. And like I always
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  Speaker 1: tell my kids, and I just had this conversation with
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  Speaker 1: my little girl, it ain't that things ain't gonna happen.
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  Speaker 1: It's how you handle what happens that matters. But it
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  Speaker 1: don't matter. It's how you handle what happens that's the
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  Speaker 1: determining factor on where you get in life and how
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  Speaker 1: soon you get there and how long you stay there.
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  Speaker 1: That will always be a mishap, something that's gonna throw
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  Speaker 1: you off. That will always be something man that could
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  Speaker 1: deter you. That will be something somewhere man that will
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  Speaker 1: make you doubt it. Now that you know that's gonna happen,
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  Speaker 1: then let's talk about how you handle what happens, because
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  Speaker 1: it's going to happen. So now what do you do
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  Speaker 1: as a person when these moments come about in your life?
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  Speaker 1: How do you handle? Oh? Woe is me? Oh? I
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  Speaker 1: guess it wasn't meant to be? Well, if the Lord
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  Speaker 1: wanted me to have this, I'd have that. How many
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  Speaker 1: deal how many times you hear people say that? You know, man,
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  Speaker 1: it really irks me. Man. Stop using God as your excuse.
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  Speaker 1: God ain't no excuse. God is a reason He's a
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  Speaker 1: reason why the good happens. He's a reason. He's not
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  Speaker 1: an excuse. God don't have no excuses in none of
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  Speaker 1: his scriptures or writings, not that I but he just
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  Speaker 1: don't make excuses. I would have done this. But you
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  Speaker 1: know there's a scripture that says the poor will all
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  Speaker 1: shall always be amongst us. Why that's got to be you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he said the poor will always be amongst us, because
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  Speaker 1: you know, everybody ain't gonna follow the principles of success.
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  Speaker 1: But he also said he came to give you life
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  Speaker 1: and give it to you more abundantly. He said that too.
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  Speaker 1: But oh no, you don't want to hear that because
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  Speaker 1: your life kind of trip it out a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: So now what you do with it? Now, you twist
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  Speaker 1: it and you go to that one little scripture that
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  Speaker 1: say well, the poor shall always be amongst us. Well,
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  Speaker 1: that's put in there because that's a that's suggests in case. See,
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  Speaker 1: that's a just in case y'all don't want to follow
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  Speaker 1: the scriptures. That's just in case you don't understand that
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  Speaker 1: faith without works is dead. That's just in case you
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  Speaker 1: have not because you ask not. It's just in case
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  Speaker 1: you don't believe in shall not doubt he got all
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  Speaker 1: that in there. But in case you don't want to
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  Speaker 1: do that, there is a scripture that tells you who
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  Speaker 1: don't happen if you don't do it, And here it
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  Speaker 1: is the poor shall always be a monster. But then
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  Speaker 1: you get that when they say, well, hell, that's I
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  Speaker 1: guess that's the Lord's will. Lord's will, really, really, really
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  Speaker 1: really that's amazing. I just don't believe that about him.
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe that God created your life to be
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  Speaker 1: a life of misery. I think that we make decisions
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  Speaker 1: along the way that caused us to have lives of misery.
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  Speaker 1: But I really really just don't believe that God created
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  Speaker 1: you for that. I've heard Nelson Mandela speak, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta go wild. All those years in prison, man,
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  Speaker 1: what was it about. When you hear him speak, you
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  Speaker 1: understand what it was about. He said he always knew
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  Speaker 1: he would be free one day. Now, what he said
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  Speaker 1: he never knew was he said he never knew that
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  Speaker 1: he would be the president of that country. Oh my goodness,
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  Speaker 1: what a long way around. But he could have sat
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  Speaker 1: there and got involved in prison activities that wasn't up
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  Speaker 1: to pawing things like that, and they said whenever young
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  Speaker 1: inmates used to come in. He was telling the story
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  Speaker 1: one time of how young inmates used to come into
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  Speaker 1: the prison. They all sit around and talk to him
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  Speaker 1: about what they were doing and how many kids they
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  Speaker 1: had in their lives, and it helped them keep track
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  Speaker 1: of the outside a little bit, and it kept a
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  Speaker 1: sense of time for them, and it reminded them in
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  Speaker 1: to talk about what they left behind, and it kept
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  Speaker 1: them going because something was greater on the other side.
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  Speaker 1: Had he allowed that to stop him, had he allowed
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  Speaker 1: the imprisonment, which is a pretty major deal. Oh, by
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  Speaker 1: the way, then guess what he would have never been?
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  Speaker 1: To Nelson Mandela that we know to day, a martyr,
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  Speaker 1: a leader, a great force. People want to go around him.
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  Speaker 1: Even people that imprisoned him could not understand his staunch strength,
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  Speaker 1: his faith, his unwavering commitment. They couldn't understand it. So
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  Speaker 1: things are going to happen in your life. But it's
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  Speaker 1: how you handle what happens doesn't matter. So keep pushing, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Don't let the little things get in the way, okay,
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  Speaker 1: And if you just sometimes you just don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: got in the cab thinking I wasn't gonna make it,
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  Speaker 1: but at least let's go see, let's try. I made it. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Guess what that gives me? Another piece of information that
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  Speaker 1: I have and all I had to see it again
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  Speaker 1: to date. Guess what I said today. Man, Sometimes when
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  Speaker 1: it looked like you aren't gonna make it, just go
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  Speaker 1: head on anywhere. Now. I could still be back there
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  Speaker 1: at the hotel till I wear my car, but I
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  Speaker 1: got up in here made it. So now what y'all
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  Speaker 1: gonna do with it? Let's go you're listening show ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, man, have your undivided attention, please, I have
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  Speaker 1: an announcement to make that this day that we are
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  Speaker 1: currently being blessed to be a part of today it
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  Speaker 1: is on and cracking. Today is one of those three
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  Speaker 1: hundred and sixty five days that God gave you at
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of his new year for new opportunity, new chance,
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  Speaker 1: new growth, new blessings, new level of expectations. All of
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  Speaker 1: that's in place with me, y'all. Dister Steve Harvey, Marty Show,
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  Speaker 1: everybody up in here, glad to be here. Shirley Strawville,
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  Speaker 1: Thank you Jesus, and good morning to your steed, Lord God.
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  Speaker 1: Colin Pharrell a man, Good morning everybody, Good money, ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, A young star in the making, killed junior
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  Speaker 1: boy spakes Morning up fourteen days and New Year, single sale,
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  Speaker 1: free out here, living in expectation. Yes, ladies and gentleman.
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  Speaker 1: Man who has claimed the title and carried it better
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  Speaker 1: than anyone I have ever known. In mind, tire existence
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  Speaker 1: on earth, the biggest food I've ever met. Next you, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: your side top of the morning, baby top top fourteen days,
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  Speaker 1: inn and me and my wife are getting along just fine. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because you did, because you give right on her birthday.
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  Speaker 1: Right that botch fol days. That's all Steve this week
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  Speaker 1: four days. He gave me a good tip for this.
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  Speaker 1: It was good. She enjoyed it. She looked like she
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  Speaker 1: enjoyed social media. Yes, she enjoyed it. Good job, Tommy,
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  Speaker 1: good job. Good do we have nothing else to do.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Don't keep them happy and see
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  Speaker 1: how that work. Or let me tell you. And you
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  Speaker 1: know what, it's amazing. It's that are some men that
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  Speaker 1: most men really do get it. They really do get it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, now know this, It's not your job to
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  Speaker 1: make another person happy, Nor can you do it, nor
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  Speaker 1: should you make it your job. You should marry a
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  Speaker 1: person that's already happy. So when you do things, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so when you do things of the hey nature of bringing,
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  Speaker 1: you're bringing more happiness. That's right, exactly. You cannot start
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  Speaker 1: happy from ground zero. You'll never get off the ground
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  Speaker 1: that we're trying to make someone else happy, don't. It's
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  Speaker 1: not your job. Exhausting, Carla, Carla, it's busty, man. It's
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  Speaker 1: the hardest thing you ever attempted to do is to
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  Speaker 1: make somebody else happy. That don't won't be You can
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  Speaker 1: give it to him, all done that, take them there,
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  Speaker 1: show it to him and buye form. It ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: mean you're gonna be miserable. Yes, you're gonna go to court.
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  Speaker 1: Let's get happy about this. Coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour inside something Funny do January Birthday
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  Speaker 1: babies get less presents than everyone else. We'll discuss right
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  Speaker 1: after you're listening to show. All right, Steve, So your
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  Speaker 1: birthday is coming up this Friday, January seventeenth. Happy early
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  Speaker 1: birthday to you and the baby. Carlo's baby Tasha is
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  Speaker 1: born on the same day. My husband Ernesto, Tommy's wife Jackie.
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  Speaker 1: They had a birthday last week January ninth, And Steve,
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  Speaker 1: your daughter Laura's birthday. Laurie's birthday was Saturday. Your father
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  Speaker 1: in law's birthday was last week. To check the story out. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: January babies really get the short end of the stick.
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  Speaker 1: It says, not only are they born into generally crappy weather,
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  Speaker 1: but they get way fewer birthday presents than people born
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  Speaker 1: in other months. Friends and family members of January babies
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  Speaker 1: spend more money on presents to give out on Christmas,
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  Speaker 1: and because of that, there isn't a lot of money
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  Speaker 1: to go around or left over for those January birthdays. Now.
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  Speaker 1: This is according to financial comparison site, January birthdays end
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  Speaker 1: up getting about fourteen hundred and sixty dollars less over
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  Speaker 1: their lifetime. The average adult spends five hundred and twelve
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  Speaker 1: dollars a year on birthday gifts, but those surveyed have
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  Speaker 1: admitted that they spend thirty four percent less on people
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  Speaker 1: who had birthdays in January. Well, Jackie is caught up.
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  Speaker 1: If if ain't hunting at something East year, Jacket ain't
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  Speaker 1: caught up. She's frying she's above now. But I told
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  Speaker 1: I tell everybody that's born in January, move your birthday,
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  Speaker 1: move your money. You know what I'm saying. Start show
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  Speaker 1: year with February, March, April, January, get people time to
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  Speaker 1: come back to you. We're celebrating that right out to
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  Speaker 1: Christmas too much. We're doing that. Start, but I'm celebrating it. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: here's a January baby. Come on, baby, come on baby, baby. Yeah. Well, well,
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  Speaker 1: all that that you just said is true unless Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey is your daddy, your son in law, or your
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  Speaker 1: brother in law. This business as usual. Happy day on
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  Speaker 1: birthday to all y'all sitting a bit hill my birthday,
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  Speaker 1: I'll be working in a Here we go. What I'm
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  Speaker 1: fit to get? Over here? What? What is somebody who
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  Speaker 1: coming to this party? Don't nobody even know I'm here?
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  Speaker 1: Don't nobody even know I'm here? Who coming to this party?
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  Speaker 1: Right here? Hold up? I got something better like that
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  Speaker 1: that de Stoes you shot at Dave, Rob did not here.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying you're throwing it out. Hey, your favorite restaurant,
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  Speaker 1: they ain't over here? Huh? The way you like your
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  Speaker 1: chocolate can't Rob they ain't over here. So naw, January
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  Speaker 1: seventeenth is coming. I'm gonna be ever grateful to the
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  Speaker 1: Lord God of Mighty if you let me live to
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  Speaker 1: see it. That's all I'm gonna do is be great.
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  Speaker 1: Am I expecting nothing? Nah? You know why all the
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  Speaker 1: damn money got spit at Christmas in January or everybody
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  Speaker 1: else's damn bird That's why. Oh I ain't bitter. I'm
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  Speaker 1: real though. Oh hello, African chocolate can't over there. They
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  Speaker 1: Oh the food is extull. You just gotta pay attention
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  Speaker 1: with your order. Oh the food is exull. What does
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  Speaker 1: that mean? You know, a biscuit ain't what you think
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  Speaker 1: it is. As far you asked for a biscuit, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be what you think it is. If you
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  Speaker 1: ask for pop, that's another damn thing. Don't say I
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  Speaker 1: like a pop youth, you know, pop being a cold
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  Speaker 1: Solda drink. It's a bowl of hot, creamy stuff that
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  Speaker 1: comes to your table. I didn't order like she got lost,
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  Speaker 1: but damn man, I fricking brothers and sisters with laughs.
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  Speaker 1: So heart of my ass in that restaurant, I said hey,
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  Speaker 1: I said hey, lay they on the way back, give
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  Speaker 1: me some pop, give me a poplem. You know I'm
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  Speaker 1: cool with everybody over here. They all know me. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I am famous in Africa now I ain't he no
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  Speaker 1: mistake about that, so they know worldwide. Yes, I'll do yes.
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  Speaker 1: But and that lady came back to that table, set
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  Speaker 1: this bowl down. It was steaming. Hell u huh what
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  Speaker 1: is what is this? I said, excuse me, man, I
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  Speaker 1: asked for a pop. Yea, what you say? Yea? I said,
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  Speaker 1: But now this ain't the pop she said, yea, and
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  Speaker 1: I'll be down. Pop is like a hot grit. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's like pop. So when you ol me a soulder. Now,
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  Speaker 1: once you learn it, oh it's delicious. Yeah you go,
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  Speaker 1: oh it's good. But how did they lay it out?
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  Speaker 1: Or they lay it out? It's real not keep in
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  Speaker 1: mind your ass. Oh how chicken? Chicken over here is
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  Speaker 1: a little bit smaller because they don't know hormone. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they don't do it like in the States. Yeah, they
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  Speaker 1: glow the chickens differently here. You said something, Steve when
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  Speaker 1: you were over there before about the catch up for fries.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you want it. This ain't thing to be what
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  Speaker 1: you think. It's not high. Now we were over there
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  Speaker 1: with him with that Shirley. We had the French fries time,
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  Speaker 1: and you remember that that was notchup. We got the
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  Speaker 1: catch up. We all said, it's real tomataly read I
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  Speaker 1: thought it was. I thought I said it. Remember this
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  Speaker 1: tomato one taste its different version. But they have some
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  Speaker 1: good stuff over here. The meat, the meat over here outstanding. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: has good meat. I've never been to Africa, but I've
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  Speaker 1: had um. I've had had lamb prepared by Africans and
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  Speaker 1: it was delicious, good, very tasty. Yeah. Steakhouse steakhouses over there, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they got this. This is the bomb. It is some
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  Speaker 1: of the best food I've eaten. Johannesburg has amazing restaurants.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man. You every night we go somewhere
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  Speaker 1: different man, and people say go here, go here, and man,
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  Speaker 1: they got some restaurants that's outstanding. The decor, I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's posh, man, It's it's so different than what you
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  Speaker 1: would expect. It's posh restaurants over here, and the pricing
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  Speaker 1: is way beyond the four. Oh okay, all right, Steeve, Well,
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  Speaker 1: thank you coming up, nephew Tommy and run that prank back.
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  Speaker 1: That's coming up right after this, you're listening to show
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  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, miss Anne
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  Speaker 1: will be here with national news and and entertainment news.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: The Joker leave the nominations. As far as the Oscars go,
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  Speaker 1: uh really we're mad at the end. That's a bad
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  Speaker 1: boy right there, man, the movie Joker, Yeah, the Joker, Yeah,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: talking about watching Phoenix, who started as well, why can't
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  Speaker 1: you go into a role? He becomes that person? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what a movie going becoming? He was acting his ass off.
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  Speaker 1: But the movie I watched, what is this about? What
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  Speaker 1: is he doing? No? Especially man, he acting his ass
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  Speaker 1: Oh but what what is this movie about? Saw the movie?
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  Speaker 1: Steve ok okay up for Oscar? He wasn't up for
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  Speaker 1: Oscar for writing. It was up for just damn move
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  Speaker 1: it to right here. I ain't if you if you
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  Speaker 1: are a person who are intelligent and got good asses,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't gonna wear in hell? Are you gonna like
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  Speaker 1: this move? But you know how the Oscars, you know,
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  Speaker 1: they don't. They don't go with the popular opinion a
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  Speaker 1: lot of times. That's why Jennifer Lopez was snubbed for
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  Speaker 1: her role at in Hustlers. Remember that should have gotten
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  Speaker 1: I saw that move. Yeah you saw. Let's save it, Steve. Wait,
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  Speaker 1: I'll vote it for I tell you. I will talk
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  Speaker 1: about all of these stories at the top of the hour.
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: But right now it is time for the nephew to
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: run that prank. Back what you got for us? Nav
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: Baby wait, if your baby way too much, they can't
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  Speaker 1: get on the bus. Okay, were weighing them before they
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  Speaker 1: get on the bus? Baby wait, let's go. Hello Hello,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a trainer please. Yeah, this is
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  Speaker 1: trainer China. My name is Earnest Earnest Murphy down here
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  Speaker 1: at the bus bard with the from the school district.
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  Speaker 1: Your son is is Devin? Am I right? Yeah? He's
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: in the sixth grade? I think yeah, yeah, everything is
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  Speaker 1: flying now. I think he's on He rides bus ninety
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  Speaker 1: Bus ninety three. Does he ride US ninety three? Uh? Yeah,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: yeah he does. Okay, So now the school board has
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  Speaker 1: implemented a new rule, and um, we're having to call
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: a lot of parents and let him know about the
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  Speaker 1: new rule for us as far as the buses are concerned. Now,
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  Speaker 1: from my understanding, each child that gets on the bus
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  Speaker 1: has to weigh less than one hundred and twenty five pounds.
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  Speaker 1: That's what the new rule that is implemented by the
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  Speaker 1: way Board. Say that again, each child that gets on
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  Speaker 1: the bus has to weigh less than one hundred and
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  Speaker 1: twenty five parents, I don't understand, k So what's okay?
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: So what does what does that mean? So starting on Monday,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Starting on Monday, what they're gonna do. If they're gonna
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  Speaker 1: the bus driver will have a scale and he will
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  Speaker 1: wag the kids they get on on the bus. I understand. Man,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: the doctor, like I say, I'm calling, I'm calling every
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: patent that they say, you're gonna you're gonna waive my
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  Speaker 1: child before he gets on the bus. That's that's what
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  Speaker 1: the new rule. That's what the new rules. And if
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  Speaker 1: he's over one twenty five then he he'll either have
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: to walk, you have to take him to school. But
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I have a job. Okay, I have a job. I
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: thought gonna take my kids in school, but I don't.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: That's what the bus explores. That's what my tax dollars
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: paid for us. Right, But what's the reasoning the rationale
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  Speaker 1: behind this. Okay, let me tell you what's going on.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: From what they're saying, the weight of these children is
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: wearing down these transmissions on this bus, on these bus transmission,
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  Speaker 1: the transmission cannot take all of that. So they are
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: limiting the weight of each child. So now how much
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: does that discrimination? But it definite? Over Is he over
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  Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five pounds? He okay? He is okay?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: And you you're probably gonna have to take your son
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  Speaker 1: to school or you gonna have to walk. He probably
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: need to walk to school if he already or hunting
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  Speaker 1: twenty five pounds? What as are you talking about? Man?
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  Speaker 1: All I'm saying. All I'm saying is if your son
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  Speaker 1: is overweight one hundred twenty five, you know, maybe the
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  Speaker 1: exercise is doing good. But like I said that, the
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  Speaker 1: school is that's gonna allow him on the plus sure,
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  Speaker 1: I will not accept this. I who do I need
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  Speaker 1: to call? Is there a manager? Is there a city's
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  Speaker 1: council member? I mean, this is seriously, this most ub
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: discriminatory practice I've ever heard of. It doesn't even make sense.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: You're talking about a child, I understand, but we're talking
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: about a child weigh more than a grown person. You're
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: so I need to get what is your name, sir?
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: Tell me your name again? My name is ernest. I'm
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: down here at the bus ball. I would like to
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: speak with the supervisor, like, now, what do you you
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: do not get to speak to my about my child
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  Speaker 1: that way? You get to speak to any kid that way.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: You should not be working at a school if that
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: is your attitude. I'm no, I don't work at the school.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: I work at the bus ball. I'm down here at
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: the bus ball and they gave me your attended They right,
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: because you're saying he's over behind in twenty five pack.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I am an absolute shock. This is so okay. So
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: do you have a fat chat? I mean, do you
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: have scuoba? I'm sorry, do you have a big chatter? Listen?
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: What my child looks like, how much he weighs is
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: none of your business. I'm gonna call the school. They
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: be working with your company. If this is the way
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: that you treat people and you talk about children with
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: fight doesn't matter with here. I guess what they're doing
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: is this is the way of them approaching obesity. You know, whoever,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: whoever over one hundred, they might walk it all your start. Listen, Listen,
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  Speaker 1: that is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I have to work. My son is getting on that
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  Speaker 1: bus and I'm going to call the schoolboard and should
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: not be working with you. We're another bus company. I
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm calling the city. I will call
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: members they need to call, but you need to give
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: me a supervisor's name right now, right now? Do you
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: think you need to start cooking different post so Devin,
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: don't have you know, maybe maybe it's starts at home
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: and what you're feeding everybody, you know. I am calling
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: the supervisor. I'm calling the the city, I'm calling the school.
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: I'm going to so fired, like I can't even believe it.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: You're allowed to make this call like our other parents.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Okay with this? I'm called when you on your way
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: to work in the morning, TRAINA, do you listen to
• 28:13
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• 29:03
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. So,
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: yesterday the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences announced
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: the nominees for the ninety second Academy Awards Best Actress
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: made some noise because our girls, Cynthia Rivo, she was
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: nominated for her role in the movie Harriet. I loved Harriet.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: The movie was great. Yes, Cynthia Arrivo is the only
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: person of color nominated in anti category this year. Okay, Yeah, Also,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: our girl j Lo Jennifer Lopez was snubbed for her
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: performance and hustlers. Everybody was talking about it, how she
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: was a shoe in for the nomination and all of that,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: but she did not get it. The Oscars have made
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: some mistakes over the years. I think we all agree
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: with that. I think they've snubbed so many great ones
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: on the Jennifer Lopez should have got something causes best
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  Speaker 1: body the way she pulled it. Yeah, but you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if you look, I mean Jay can act man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: she was, she could have act. She's been a lot
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: of stuff. Yeah, she's very believed. But back to this
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: damn joker. Okay, who wrote this praiser? Ass moving? What
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: was it? Let me explain something to you. Yeah, man,
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: the clips you see? The clips you see is the
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: best part in the movie when he going down that trailer, Steve,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: after that, why is he talking? Man? What is wrong
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  Speaker 1: with you? I don't give a damn what's wrong with you?
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: This ain't got to be your damn reaction. Huh. I
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: didn't get it, man. I can't tell y'all what the
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: movie about. And you know what, I couldn't. If you
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: know why, I can't tell you what the movie about
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: because I watched it. I don't know what the damn
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: move about. All I knows is nutty. Ass Man was
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: just telling you I'm nutty the whole damn move, every
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: reaction he had to everything happened to him. I look, man,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I'm black. I had a lot of bad stuff happened
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: to me in my life. She's putting this damn mad
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: Stone fall. Take that damn makeup off and get your
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: hands out that cap and quit talking to these people. Takeaway, Steve.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: It's Batman with Batman Man. The whole damn movie. I said, man,
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: now you know what would help out Batman? If I
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: could just see the emblem in the sky something Man,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: stop all this New York City, Gotham, do hell Writler,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Come on, Gwin, somebody coming here and help this damn man,
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: and can we get out this ragged ass apart? He
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: needed to be a movie critic for half the reason.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Half the reason he was crazy because where he stayed
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: up some Why don't you get some help in here.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: You need somebody to come in here, put you some
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: nice colors in here. Tomorrow you got to do, Harriet.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Tomorrow was good. It was real good man. He gonna
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: find something, all right. So that is hilarious. Time to
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: get caught up on today's headlines. Steve good ahead, Steve
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: crazy man, Lady generate, miss and trill okay, thank you
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: very much. This is a trip with the news. House
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Speaker Nancy Pelosi is expected to send the articles of
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: impeachment against President Trump to the US Senate this week.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: In fact, the representive Pelosi is scheduled to meet with
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: House Democrats this morning to discuss the timing of a
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: vote on impeachment. Managers the Republican dominated Senate those expected
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: to make quick work of the impeachment charges and to
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: quit the president. However, Pelosi says, no matter what, Donal
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: Trump is still impeach for life and there's nothing his
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: friends and supporters can do about it. President Trump is
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: still defending his decision to order American forces to take
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: out Irani in General CoStim Solomany, contending that Solomany posted
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: an impending threat to the US, but then he adds
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: it is not important anyway, given the general's history you
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: as Attorney General William Barr says that a number of
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Saudi military cadets are being expelled following the last month's
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: deadly shooting at a Pensacola, Florida, naval base. A Saudi
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: military student murdered three young American sailors and injured eight
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: other people last December, and the AG says it was
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: a terrorist attack. They say the gunman who was killed
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: at the scene was motivated by radical jihadism and hatred
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: of Americans. So, after an investigation of the eight hundred
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: and fifty Saudi trainees here, Bar says, a number were
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: apparently found to be sharing extremist material, even child pornography.
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: So you know what, they gotta go. Twenty one cadets
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: have been disenrolled from their training curriculum in the US
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: military and will be returning to Saudi Arabia, and Barr
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: says the Saudi government apparently agrees with his decision to
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: send them back. New Jersey Senator Corey Booker has ended
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: his race for the Democratic presidential nomination. In an email
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: to supporters, Booker explains that he simply doesn't have enough
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: campaign money to continue. He's been polling kind of low,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: so he doesn't really qualify to be on the debate
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: stage in Iowa tonight, but Bookers says that does not
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: mean he's about to disappear. I can't wait to get
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: factle on the campaign trail and campaign as hard as
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I can for whoever is the eventual nominee and for
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: candidates up at him down the ballot. But for now,
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: I want to say thank you as the senator of
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: the Garden State. Democrat says Trump's impeachment trial will be
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: keeping him busy for the next few weeks, and Booker
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: says he doesn't tend to run for reelection. According to
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: The New York Times, president Trump's trying to take credit
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: for the country's lower cancer rates. American Cancer Society says
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: that the US has experienced the sharpest one year dropping
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: the cancer rate ever recorded. After that, at the time,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: says Trump took to a Twitter saying US cancer death
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: rate the lowest and recorded history. A lot of good
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: news coming out of this administration. Well, folks at the
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: American Kansas Society gently reminds the president the cancer rate
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: has been dropping over the last twenty six years last
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: time when Obama was president. Today's tonight National rubber ducky day. Yeah,
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: back to the Steve. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: All right, so Junior is here with this sports talk
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: the National College Championship football game. Hold up about that?
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: Hold on? Oh they do? They do? They do? It
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: was a good game last night. It was last night,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: girl wise you in sports intro Sports tonight, girl girl,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: it was last night. Was ain't washing up? And now
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: me now, guess what. I ain't seen the damn game
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: because I'm in Africa. You can't see nothing. So in Africa, right,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: know you not? That was a great game last night,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: beautiful game. Thank you, Junior man. You in Baker Mayfield
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: and kids, my behind that going on with all that? Well,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: well they both had the house now house Trumpy whin
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: the LSU is Joe Burrow versus clips is Trevior Lars
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: went to work last night. Great game last night, up U,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: LSU wins. But we want to bring in undefeated, undefeated.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: We want to bring in coach. Oh, the head coach
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: of LSU Tigers. We can't understand it. We can get
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: coach over here and talk about how you feels today
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: as a national japan So I was there thinking you
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: and then you football always been in cold color football
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: in the over board, play the game like down over
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: the gold Tigers. All he want to do? Oh, he
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: wanted to loom for Steve Louis Downad, you're going on
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: toward the team down? Who can ever going down? Now?
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: Who that down? And I said, over there and win
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: the football game and greeted It was greeted, deal my
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: live coach. Anybody want to thank all the music or
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: the Jeff val all the people are going to throw
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: around that go who that legal? And play the football game. Okay,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: I didn't understand, not a word, not already you never do. Yeah,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: don't worry about that, right now go tigers. Understand that? Yeah, time,
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: because don't understand national Chimp, national chimp cratl who that?
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Why the coach? Why the coach sound like a white
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: wash goo waller? Oh boy? All right, h crazy. We'll
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: talk about Corey buck he dropped out of the Democratic
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: presidential race. We'll talk about it. You're listening to well Steve.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Corey Booker is the latest Democratic candidate to drop out
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: of the presidential race. It was hard. That's so fake,
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, it was hard. It was hard for
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Corey to make that decision. He posted a statement on
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: social media, and here's some of Corey's statement. He said,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: I've made my decision to suspend my campaign for president.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: I've said throughout this race that this election is not
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: just a referendum on Donald Trump. It's a referendum on
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: who we are and who we must be to each other.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: Corey Booker went on to say, to my team, supporters
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: and everyone who gave a shot, thank you. I'm so
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: proud of what we built. Okay, can I say something listen, Camelo, Corey.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: All these people they had good intentions, some of them
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: had great ideas. The problem that we have right now
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: is that Donald Trump has changed politics in this country
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: and this country right now with him as the president,
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: they have given up all pretense of morality. They not
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: even facing or playing like we're trying to be morally correct.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: The Southern evangelicals have all back Donald Trump. Excuse me,
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: the far right wing religious moral compass of this country,
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: so they've been telling us, is now backing down Donald Trump,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: who is against everything everything for regular people and only
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: supportive of rich people. Politics is by partisan they have.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: I've never seen the rights banned together as much as
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: I have with Donald Trump banned together to the right
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: on somebody so wrong, So Kamela Corey with great intentions
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: of the other dude. So you know, so all these people,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: they all had good intentions, but this, this election is
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: not about good intentions. And no, no, this is not
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: about who's going to be best for the country. All
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: this election is is about power, position, and money, and
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: the right wing will do anything to maintain those three things.
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: And right now it's represented by Donald Trump. Because if
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: you go against Trump, he go against you. So now
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: if you don't back this guy right now in your
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: local elections, he come out against you. So this dude
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: done buffalo and bully the Republican Party when really he's
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: a Democrat at heart, but because he liked democratic dudes.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: But really, this dude right here, man has change politics.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: So the good god, this isn't about the good guy
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: no more. This ain't about who best for the country.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: So all right now is trying to get somebody who
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: can beat Donald Trump. And the only dude in a
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: debate that can stand there and match this dude is Biden.
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: That's it. You got to have two old white men
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: talking about each other and then let all the rest
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: of them decide who they're going to vote for. This
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: got to be two white men talking about each other
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: because he has polarized it. He has made his party
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: about white men. I'm telling you, man, this dude, then
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: gangster politics has changed. Yeah, it's been allowed to. Yeah,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. They want to stay in power. So in
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: order to stay in power, they think they should stand
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: behind Donald Trump and support whatever he does, right or wrong,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. They have to stand behind. They come
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: out against him, the trader, the Lord, and then here
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: and then he'll go to the NI and they'll pull
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: the money from their campaign. Yeah he didn't gangster him. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: The debate is tonight Democratic yes in Iowa, Iowa. Yeah,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: right before the claucus says all right, Coming up next,
• 43:37
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• 43:46
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four
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  Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the subject
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  Speaker 1: my married ex boyfriend wants to be friends. But right
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
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  Speaker 1: What you got for his neat? Bad pot luck? Bad
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  Speaker 1: pot luck? When t winter baby, let's go kn't Hello? Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to flying Heather. Excuse me what I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to reach a Heather Heather? How are you? Okay? Okay, listen?
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  Speaker 1: Uh I got your number from from Lois. Look that's
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  Speaker 1: my mama. I'm my reach. I'm Lowis oldest son. Now
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  Speaker 1: wait wait excuse me Lois? Who's Lowis? Okays? Yes, yes, yes, Hi,
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  Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? You you you you? You
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: was at at Mama themes house on on New Year's Day? Yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: okay when I got when I got there, you was gone.
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  Speaker 1: But what I'm what I'm calling about it is. You
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: don't want made the black eyed peas? Right? I did
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  Speaker 1: you enjoy them? No? I enjoy the mother. That's why
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I'm calling. Let me say this here. Let me say this. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: come at work. You can't talk to me like this.
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: Don't do that, don't do that. Say whatever you gotta say,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: but please don't curse that me. Don't do no. No,
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  Speaker 1: your beans got my mom checked up and I didn't
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  Speaker 1: have to go down to the doctor get my stomach pomp.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got no damn insurance none. This. You know this, this,
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: this didn't have me messed up for the last week,
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Noma for the loans to tell you exactly you know
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: how your damn things is? Okay? First of all, okay,
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: I told you ask. I'm at work, I'm around all
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: these white people. I can't talk to you the way
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: I want to talk to you. But let me just
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: tell you that. Don't call me with the dumb First
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: of all, it was a whole bunch of food there.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: How do you know? How can you single out my
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: damn beans that made you sit with all that got
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: food there? You're not gonna blame me. Get the out
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: of here, mama, mama Dean says, you are the one
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: to make the blase you. I don't give us your
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: mama being said it was all this food there. You're
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: going to single out my beans. Nobody else complains, you
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: know what the day's date is, okay, and not one
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: other person called me about some beans. And by the
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: as a matter of fact, other people were complimenting me.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: So for you to call me with the dumb all
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: late and wrong, gonna blame me pie because you need
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: a doctor's appointment. You should have got Obamacare when it
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: was available to you. And how you want to call
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: me with no no, no, no, no no, so you
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: can tell or whatever somebody you're trying to blame somebody
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: else's food. Joe beings my stomach up and that's where
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: and that's where it falls down to. And at the
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: end of the day, your friends about you know the hell,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: I ain't what doctor bill. You said you want to
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: have insurance, So how does the hell is you go?
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: I had to play out my pocket to get my
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: stomach pumps. Okay, well taking care of if you paid
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: off your pocket, that means the bill is paying so
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: you can get you gonna reimburse reward. No, I'm not
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: going to reimburse you with okay, and that's not out
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: more beans for you since you got a problem with them,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: I got a whole bowl for you. Okay, how about
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: because you're foolished, so if it made you, that's good
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: for you. Hey, look look, I'm gonna tell you this
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: here right now. Uh the bill was four hundred seventy
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: two dollars. I need four hundred and sent me two
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: dollars for your boys things. No, no, no, no, you're
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: not getting the money from me. And I need to
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: go because I got work to do. I don't know
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: what you got to do. Spend it all this time
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: on the phone and talk about something being with all
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: that food. So the rice didn't do it, the meat
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: didn't do it. They had some other gravy. Gravy always
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: people up that didn't do it. You want to sing
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: about my beans? Out of here? Don't be calling me
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: with this dumb you know what? Now? Company? Who gave
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: me your number? Because I don't even know you. I
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: do know your mom. I was little mama. Mama didnt
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: gave me your number? I called mama Mama dean passing
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: out numbers. Well, I'm gonna call Mama Dean, and I'm
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: gonna see if anybody else got sick, which I know
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: they didn't because your ass is fullish. So I'm gonna
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: call her see if any he got sick. How about
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: we doing it that way. And also I'm gonna call
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: your mother. Okay, I'm gonna call Miss Lois and see
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: why her dad son is calling me on the phone,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: because this is something. I'm sick inside of this phone call.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: And nothing was wrong with my beans. If anything something
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: wrong with you, and so take a access to clear
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: your ass out and keep it the movies. If you're
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: gonna get off my phone, Okay, okay, okay, they say
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: they say Tommy had some problem with the bag through.
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: First of all, I don't even know no God, Tommy,
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: I barely know your mom. I just know her by face.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I don't even know her know her. So Tommy, Hugh,
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: I'm calling Mamma Dean. She ain't got no business getting
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: my mother number to nobody. This is what I've just
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: told you. I don't know anybody named Tommy, So you
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: can tell him whatever you want to tell him. And
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: when you try to gain other people who want to
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: jump on your side. It's not gonna happen because nobody
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: complaints about the being Give me, give me another names,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: because Tommy wasn't there. I know just about everybody that
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: was there. What nobody names Tommy there? Okay, okay, so
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: you're gonna say nephew, nephew Tommy wasn't then what nephew
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: taught me? This is nephew from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: And have you just are you crazy? Your cousin got
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: me a blank phone, called you crazy. I'm at work,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: people walking by me looking at me because I'm about
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: to get writing with you. Tommy, are you crazy? He's
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: a good Oh man, you got me. You got me
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: one to taste your black eyed peas. Good. Nobody can play.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting here like I know, you get these people fat.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: You aren't gonna get no money. Tell me this, tell
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: me this is the baddest, the baddest ray dr show
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: in the land. Oh but you know it, but you
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: know it's Steve Harvey Morning Show. Oh my god, this
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: is great. After twenty twenty two, you have to keep
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: cooking your bean. But you are all right, thank you?
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: Having year all right? After New Year and next year,
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: I probably pop up in Mamma Dean house here. You
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: are welcome to com How was that you can't bring
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: no bad beans to New Year's Day? Down? You understand
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: the saying you can't bring bad beans? Hey? Uh this
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: this week Charlotte, North Carolina. The Nephew coming to the
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: comedy zone Thursday Friday said Sunday. Okay, question about that,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: y'r sir? Yes, sir, okay, okay. I'm about I'm about
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: five four three. How work out on many? Go ahead?
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: You had the comedy I'm about the comedy zone. Third
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: you through Sunday. Tickets about gold the Nephew gonna be
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: so lot before the weekends up, get the tickets. I
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: got a few up left comedies on Thursday through Sunday.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: That's right, emil Okay, weekend, y'all come hang out with
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: your boy. But now the laughter continues. Laugh Fest Valentine's Weekend.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: That's gonna be Cleveland on the fourteenth, Cincinnati, Ohio on
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: the fifteenth, Memphis, Tennessee on the sixteenth. It's the laugh Fest.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: It's me Dio, Hughley said the entertainer Dion Cole and
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: earthquake shaking it up laugh Fest. Valentine's Weekend tickets on
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  Speaker 1: sale right now? I think sure, all ticket mask off
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: this show. That's a good show, right there? Are you
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: gonna come see me on one of them? Come to Cleveland? Man?
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: I wish you couple later February fourth on the on
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: the fourteenth. Is that a week That's a weekend, ain't it?
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: I think? Family? Or Tommy? You could take your show
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: to Africa? Hm? I was saying Tommy could take a
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: show to Africa? Where you are? Can we come over there?
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: Ain't o? Can you send a jet for us? Me
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: and the boys? They got tickets. You ain't been getting
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: on see all of a sudden, see see how people
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: do plane? Nah, ain't been on jet nowhere? No, all
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: I say, send a jet fast? Hey on what I
• 52:18
  Speaker 1: said to play? Way over there? Seventeen outs, pick your
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: ass up, Bring you back seventeen you could have been here.
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: Just start coming that way? Hey? Can I can I
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: come hang out over them? Can I? Can I come
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: hang out for about a week? Yeah? I'm serious? All right?
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: Well there it is coming up next Strawberry letters subject
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: my married ex boyfriend wants to be friends. We'll get
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: into that right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, it is time now for today's
• 52:50
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  Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it for you here.
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  Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you. Subject my married ex
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend want to be friends. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: heartbroken and I need your advice. My boyfriend broke up
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: with me in September of twenty eighteen, and I'm having
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: a difficult time letting him go. We've been close friends
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: since we were in middle school, and we had a
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: deep emotional and physical connection for many years. When he
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: dumped me, he tried to still be friends, but it
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: was awkward for me, so I didn't talk to him
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: much because I needed to heal well. Shortly after we
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: broke up, he met a nice woman and they had
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: only been together six months, and he asked her to
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: marry him. They got married in September twenty nineteen, and
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: he had the audacity to invite me to the wedding.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: I did not go for a couple of reasons. First off,
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to see him walk down the aisle
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: with someone else. And secondly, I did not think it
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: was appropriate for me to attend the wedding since a
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: none of our other friends knew the true nature of
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: our friendship. We were more than friends. I'm his ex boyfriend.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: His new wife doesn't know about me? Or should I
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: say us? Surely? Surely? Yes? Yes? Huh? You want me
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: to read it again? Okay, Yeah, I said we were
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: more than friends. I'm his We were talking about We're
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: talking about the ter, the writer of the writer, the
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: writer of the letter who says he's heartbroken because he
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: and he needs our advice. His boyfriend broke up with
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: him in September of twenty eighteen, So skipping down. Huh, okay,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: follow with me, Steve. Okay, he and his boyfriend. His
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: boyfriend broke up with him in twenty eighteen. Uh, we
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: were more than friends? Yes, yes, yes, yes, my boyfriend
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: broke up with me. Okay, I'm gonna you want me
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: to start over you slow, Okay, Dear Stephen Shirley, I
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: am heartbroken and I need your advice. My boyfriend broke
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: up with me in September of twenty eighteen, and I'm
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: having a difficult time letting him go. We've been close
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: friends since we were in middle school. So far, so good, right,
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: Steve and we had and we had a deep emotional
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: and physical connection for many years. When he dumped me,
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: he tried to still be friends, but it was awkward
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: for me, so I didn't talk to him much because
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: I needed to heal well. Shortly after we broke up,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: he met a nice woman and they had only been
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: together six months, and he asked her to marry him.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: Then they got married in September of twenty nineteen, and
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: he had the audacity to invite me to the wedding.
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: I did not go for a couple of reasons. First off,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to see him walk down the aisle
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: with someone else. And secondly, I did not think it
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: was appropriate for me to attend the wedding since none
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: of our other friends know that they knew the true
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: nature of our friendship. We were more than friends. I'm
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: his ex boyfriend. His new wife doesn't know about me.
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: His new wife doesn't know about me? Yep, follow along stage.
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: His new wife doesn't know about me? Or should I
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: say us? I am not vindictive and I would never
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: ruin her happiness by sharing this information with her. He
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: got really upset with me for not coming to his
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: wedding because he said everyone was asking why I wasn't there.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: We have argued about me missing the wedding, and he
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: doesn't understand my side of it or why I'm still hurt.
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: He seems to think we can just go on as
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: friends and hang out on the weekends like we've always done.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: I've been avoiding his calls and texts, but I do
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: miss talking to him. How should I deal with this
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: going forward? Should I cut ties with him for good?
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: Or do you think time will heal all wounds? Please advise?
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: All right, Sometimes you know you do have to just
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: let things, You have to let people go, you do
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: in life. Sometimes you do that, But in this case,
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: I understand it's harder for you because you guys have
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: been friends since middle school and you've been more than friends.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: But clearly he doesn't feel the same way as you.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: Proof he dumped you. He married a woman six months later,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: and he didn't even tell her about you. That's the
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: proof right there. So it sounds like you were way
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: more into him than he was into you. And he
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: has moved on with his life in terms of a
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: romantic relationship. He's married a woman now. Now he's insensitive?
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: Is he insensitive? I want to ask you that you
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: think he's insensitive and confusing because he seems to be
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: sending mixed messages to you. Absolutely, because he wants to
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: still be friends with you and still hang out like
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: you guys used to do, and all of that. Those
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: are mixed messages. It's confusing, without a doubt, all of that.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: And and while yes, you asked the question, does time
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: heal wounds? Yes, time heals all wounds, that's what they say.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: And this so called friendship of yours that he wants
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: to still have and he wants you guys to still
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: you know, be together and all of that, it's as
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: one sided as ever. I think he's a selfish type lover.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: He just wants what he wants. He's not caring or
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: understanding how you feel about this situation. So I think
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: you really should take a page out of his book
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: and move on with your life, just like he has
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: moved on with you with his whether that be with
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: a woman or another man, whatever your preference. I think
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: you should move on with your life and forget about
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: this guy, because it seems he's done that. Steve, you're
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: all right. Let's just start towards the end of the
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: letter where it says I should I deal with this
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: going forward? That is the question for me to answer
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: on this commercial break. Steve won't come back with an
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: answer for this after the break. The subject my married
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: ex boyfriend wants to be friends. We'll get back into
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to all right, Steve,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject my married
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: ex boyfriend wants to be friends. I know you were
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: thrown a little bit because we're talking about two guys here. Okay,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: But now okay, So now, in fairness to me and
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: my radio audience that listens to me, I'm gonna take
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: you on the journey through this letter as I took
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: myself through this letter, because the moment of discovery that
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I had was doing the reading of the letter. So
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: here's when the letter's reading here's where Steve is thinking.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: My married ex boyfriend wants to be friends. Acceptable title?
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: Then this Stephen Shirley. I'm heartbroken and I need your advice.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: My boyfriend broke up with me in September two eighteen.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: I'm having a difficult time letting him go. I'm familiar
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: with that situation very for me. Not in twenty and eighteen,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: but this happened in the past. We were close friends
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: since when we were in middle school, and and and
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: and we had deep emotional and physical connection for many years.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: Been in that, I've been right there, I'm in this letter.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: When he dumped me, he tried to steal be friends.
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: I tried that with a couple of women before. I
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: tried being a friend, but it was awkward for me.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: I know, lady, but you know I was cool, So
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: let's just try so. I didn't talk to him much
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: because I needed time to heal. Very familiar with that. Well.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: Shortly after we broke up, he met a nice woman.
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: They hadn't even together six months. He asked her to
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: marry him. I asked, I, don't they have three people
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: married me. I'm familiar with this right here. I asked
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: somebody to marry me in a minute. They got married
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: in September twenty nineteen. I've been married three times and
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: I don't even remember all the damn date, but that's
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: how many times I've been married. He had the audacity
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: to invite me to the wed now that I've never done.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: I'm not having your ass come to the wed and
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: run the risk of when they say, does anyone here
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: see any just calls I'm not gonna have you, and
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: said so. I wouldn't do that. That's why I started
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: not being in the letter so much. But you know,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: and and and they had to das and invite me.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: Now I'm thinking this woman is saying I didn't go
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: for a couple of reasons. This is what I'm thinking
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: as I'm reading out. First of all, I wasn't ready
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: to see him walk down out. I ain't saying I'm
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: all that, but I'm pretty sure somewhere in my history
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: somebody has felled a sudden loss. I'm just saying yeah
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  Speaker 1: with someone else. Secondly, I didn't think it was proper
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  Speaker 1: for me to attend a wedding since none of our
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  Speaker 1: other friends knew the true nature of our friendship. Well,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: most of my friends know what I was doing, so
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: I'm backing the letter again. But they knew the true relationship.
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  Speaker 1: But then the letter, we were more than friends. This
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  Speaker 1: is who the letter took a turn from me and
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: he got throw me. You gotta understand that. Sixty three.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just telling i'm his ex boyfriend. Now I've been
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  Speaker 1: reading the letter the way I told you. I've been
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: reading the letter. I'm hearing now this is new information.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: I'm his ex boyfriend, so now I have to find
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: a way to give this advice from a perspective. But
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: it's just like any other relationship, so that's how it
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: has to be hampered. So I'm his ex boyfriend. His
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  Speaker 1: new wife doesn't know about me. None of my wife
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: knew about anybody from my past, or at least I
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: tried not. They have come up from time to damn me.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: I've had some lading into you, but I've just really
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 1: tried not to have many conversations about that. His new
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  Speaker 1: wife doesn't know about me, or should I say us.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not vindictive and I would never ruin that happiness
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  Speaker 1: by sharing this information about it. Okay, so this is
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  Speaker 1: a cool dude, right, I ain't mad at him. This dude,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: it's all right. He got really upset with me for
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: not coming to his wedding because he said everybody was
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: asking why I wasn't there. Hey, do you don't gonna
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: hear well why he wasn't there? So now for the
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: dude that gotten married? What game you playing Pardner? Talking about?
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: Why wasn't you that? Now? You mad? What to hear? You? Mad? Folk?
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: You got on with your life, didn't get on with
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: your life. You're dragging the dude back up in it? Folk.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: So then we have argued about me missing the wedding
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: and he don't understand my side of and why I'm
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: seeing what are you arguing with it? Folk? Now here's
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: where I think you can get some justice here. He
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: seemed to think we can just go on his friend
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: to hang out on the weekend like we've always done.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: I've been aborting his calls in text, but I do
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: miss talking to him, well, not listen to him if
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: he don't understand your side. I'm just gonna say it
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 1: like this, both of y'all men, right, I ain't got
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with your preference and all like that.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: You're just men. So I'm just talking. This is I'm
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: talking to two dudes now right, Ain't got nothing to
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  Speaker 1: do with your preference. I don't care what it is.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 1: Ain't none of my business. God bless you. More power
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: to you. If a dude, if a friend of mine
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: keep talking to me and I ask him leave me alone,
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: let me work some things out, and he keep running
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: his mouth, I'm gonna whop his ass. I'm knocking his
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: ass out because I told you, Hey, dog, I'm trying
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: to pull myself together. What is you over here? Fault? Nah?
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: You keep coming over here arguing we're not been an
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: argy here. I'm knocking your ass out. I'm just talking
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: to the two men here. What your preference is? Again,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: got nothing to do with me? Walk go over there,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: go up to his job. When he in lunch, sit
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: across the table, haul off and bust his ass dead
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: in the damn show. That's yours. Just two damn dudes,
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: that's Jesse. But hold up, dog, the hash ideal with
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: this going for at least get an ass whooping. Not
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: to wait, you will feel better. Yeah, cut tis time,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: we will heal all wounds. Please advise, just get the
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: ass whooping, not your system than out post your comments
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• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be on Ellen or you are on Ellen's
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: show yesterday, I should say, and we'll talk about that
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right,
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: So Steve, you are on Ellen yesterday. It's always fun
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: when you dropped by Ellen's. Yeah, y'all had a good time.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Ellen's one of my favorite people. Yeah, it's so much fun.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: You look good on the shelf. St I'm just coming
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Well, it's twenty twenty. Baby
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: crip is getting flipped. Huh. And you guys were you
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: got on your mustache. It seems like every time you
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: go on her show, you guys talk about the mists,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: fascinated with it. I know. It seems like all right, yeah,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: so she can put that video on social media. So
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: she was reacting where your son put the video on
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: social media about the bustache and you guys talked about it.
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: Take a listen. You've got to be accurate to make
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: it even on each side. That's really tough work. Well,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 1: it's the only hair I have. Well that is true.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: Ain't like I got to do a bunch of other stuff.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: But just to be clear, you do have other hair,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: but it don't get a breath though. She's so quick, man,
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: I was the one that was quick in that clip,
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: Timmy asking questions, ain't quick waver Man, ask y'all something
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: did the part go on there where they was talking,
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: we're talking about the Kelly Clarkson show. Boy, that one
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: got funny, though, Boy, that one got funny cause uh,
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: I was just saying, how much you know the show?
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: I like Kelly Clarkson. I got nothing against Kelly Clarkson
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: at all, you know. I am a matter of fact,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: I'm happy for And so she said, well that's good,
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: you know. And so then I was talking one of
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: my boys and my boy said, yeah, man, that's that's
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: messed up what they did. I said, no, man, it's
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: not her fault. She cool with me, man, I mean
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: that was decision was made by other people. I said,
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: I'm happy for her. He's, oh, that's cool, man, you
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: happy for He says, so you watched the show? I said,
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: I ain't that happy? Yeah, moment. I had a real
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: black moment, right and I did that only Ellen. That's
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: and I don't know. Ellen don't normally like to air
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: anything controversial. Yeah, that might not have made it cut though,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: City watched the show. I ain't that TV. Come on
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: dog very cheap. All right, Steve, thank you. Junior is
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: coming up with sports talk at the top of the
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  Speaker 1: hour right after this. You're listening Steven show. All right,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: so juniors here with this sports talk the National College
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  Speaker 1: Championship football game. Hold up, hold on? They oh they do?
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: They do? They do? It was a good game last night.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: Surely it was last night, girl, wise you in sports
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: stop intro sports tonight? Girl it was last night. And
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: now me, now, guess what. I ain't seen the damn
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: game because I'm in Africa. You can't see nothing so
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: in Africa, right, know you not? But excuse me. We
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: have something to discuss because we have both of the
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: fellas here and call it. You just stay out the
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: way because you kind of really appro football. Oh god
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: about you want to call about the Texas That's all
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: he wanted to talk about, which was two days ago.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: Why are we talking about the crime when I was
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: in Africa. All I heard y'all telling me what all
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: texts out to texts out to tech. It's folks key nothing,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: it's twinty want nothing. It's twinty folk nothing. I ain't man. Congratulations, man,
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: look like y'all gonna win it. I woke up for
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: real and I go online to just check NFL scores
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: to see how bad the Texas had beat the damn Chief.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: I thought we were telling LU that was a great
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: game last night, beautiful game. Thank you, Junior man. You
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: in Baker Mayfield can kiss my behind? That going on
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: with all that? Well, well they both at the house now,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: how trumpy When the LSU is Joe Burrow versus CLIPS
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: is Trevior Lars went to work last night. Great game
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: last night? Uh uh, LSU wins. But we want to
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: bring in undefeated. Undefeated, We want to bring in coach
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: oh and we can't understand them to head coach of
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: LSU Tigers. We can't understand it. We can get coach
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: over here and talk about how you fields today as
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  Speaker 1: a national Hi, thank June. I was there thinking and
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: you football always been in cold color football over board,
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: play the game like gold Tigers. All he want to do.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: Oh he wanted to room for Steve. Louis downad, you're
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: going on here on toward the team Louis Downado ever
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: going down down? Who that down? And I said, over
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: there and win the football game, and greeted it was
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: I want to greet a deal on my live coach.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: Anybody want to thank Yeah, of course. I want to
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  Speaker 1: think all of you or the Death Valley and all
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: the people that are going to lose, throw mind around
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: all that that right, go to go who that that
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: all on? And play the football game. I didn't understand,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: not a word, not already. You never do. Yeah, I
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: can't worry about that right now. Any plan, any plans
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: for celebration this year, Well, you know, I'm gonna sell
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: the old girls some more crayfish on my soil, the
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  Speaker 1: heads off them and go that little boat. I'm gonna
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: talk about thirty four pounds of crowfit and sohol the
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  Speaker 1: heads over, give me hold, give me some of that
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: all greenhol that sad right now on my granddad to me,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have celevision gold time, good tigers. Yeah time. Chimpngratulated.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: Why a coach? Why a coach? Sound like a white
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: wash goo wallet. Oh boy, all right, uh crazy, all right.
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: The Queen has released a statement about Harry and Megan.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about that when we come back right after
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: this you're listening show, all right. In response to um,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: Harry and Megan's really like shocking announcement that they were
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: going to spend part of their time in England and
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: then part of their time in Canada, they were stepping
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: down from their major royal duties, the Queen has released
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: a statement because people were saying she was blindsided, so
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: she says today, my family had very constructive decision discussions
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: on the future of my grandson and his family, the
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: reigning Monarch shared in a statement. The Reigning Monarch, of course,
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  Speaker 1: being the Queen, my family and I are entirely supportive
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  Speaker 1: of Harry Megan's desire to create a new life as
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  Speaker 1: a young family. Although we would have preferred them to
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: remain full time working members of a royal family, we
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: respect and understand their wish to live a more independent
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: life as a family while remaining a valued part of
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  Speaker 1: my family. Has anyone spoken to the Earl of Nottingham, Yeah, ye,
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: as a representative of the only black remaining and never
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: heard of in the palace. I'm here to say that
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: the Queen are spoken, and she really does support macle
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: and Harry. I'll just be saying, I, for one, I'm
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: glad they're gone. Maybe now they could recognize me as
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: the only black in the palace. Take they want to
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: be financially independent game and I don't. I want to
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: become more dependent. We'll have more morning show coming up
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this,
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: we're back with the Earl of Attingham or you guys
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: called black Girl. Yeah, he always colt that I am
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: the Earl of Ardingham. I was listening to you, Shirley
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: make the announcement of our beloved queen making the announcement
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: that the family had a very constructive description concerning the
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: new life that he have in Malcolo gone to partaker
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: even though they wanted the Queen wanted them to remain
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: full time. She understoods cut that damn music. God, Oh,
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: horn's what I'm talking. No other horns before I have
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: your head. Thank you. That damn boy on that horn
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: been making noise since he was a boy. That's Earl
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: Julia on horn him mean he got her. They're from London.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: They're patterning themselves after Bruno Mars and one day, hopefully
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: they will make it because Bruno Maas has an incredible
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: horn section and obviously my son is trying out for
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: the Bruno Mars horn section. I Earl of Altingham, having
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: to be the other black family member that no one discusses.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: I am outside four bore child of Harry's daddy. No
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: one knew about Charles's outside of foul with another platform,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: and those white love their black women, and I am
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: Earl of Altingham and I've been on the outskirts of
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: the family. But now that Miracle and Harry are moving on,
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: I expect to take full position and take my la apart.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: They want to financial dependency. I want none of that.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: I want to be totally financially dependent on the palace.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: They have everything. Have you been down? They have everything,
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: Butler's servants down. Their slaves, not really slaves, are wonderful people.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: They're white, though I love it being there. Because they're
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: white slaves, I find it quite a long and I
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: just point that stuff. I don't even along from time
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: to time just to have a white person handed to
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: me with white gloves. There's no chest getting into palace.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: Even white people wear white old gloves. I'm going down.
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: It's cold outside. You can't get a black leather man
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: loves all right, thank you, Earl of Addingham. Steve Harvey
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: would say I was pimping the game. We'll be back
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: with our last break of the day. Ends of closing
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey at forty
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  Speaker 1: nine minutes after right after this, you're listening to show,
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Here we are last break of the day.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 1: It's been a good day, good Tuesday. Yeah, we've got
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: fun today. We have so much fun. He've been on
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: fire all morning morning, just crazy clingham blacker. Only black
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: in the palace. But don't nobody know him yet because
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: Harry had outside and they ain't never talked about it,
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: but they know it's him because I have told him
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: if you left, you don't let me in it. Yeah. See,
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: I've never gone in public because if you if you
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: let me in the palace, I'll keep my damn. Don't
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: let me in the palace. I'm going to the tabloids.
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: So Earl they've let earl of aulting him. They don't
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: give him no power nothing when he walked around and
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: get all the minutes. But can't I say this though, Steve.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: I was watching TV yesterday and they were saying that
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: that's one of the reasons why they want to talk
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: to Harry and Megan, why they had that meeting, because
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: they don't want them to do interviews and talk about
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: and go public. So it's kind of like what you're saying, Steve,
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 1: You don't say know what he's talking about? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: I still if the counter running, y'all. He's never known
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 1: anything else, right, this is his inheritance. All of this.
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: She didn't got over there. She unhappy and she wants
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: to start and have their own life, and he's convinced.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: She's convinced the man and he loves a woman and
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: he trying to make her happy. You got I ain't leaving.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: Hey hey hey, yeah, the media and everybody and Margie
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 1: will have another meeting. Hey, you knew what this was.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: Where as we going and get all this now? We
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: can build a pril behind the castle if you want to.
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 1: I can have them seal off of Ween Well, that's
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: where they live. They do like that leaving. We ain't
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: got to work. We don't need no damn money. All
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: we got to do is take you. I mean, you
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: know they said that people were telling her to take
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: your black baby and lead. See it's a lot of
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: racial stuff. They said she was dealing. I'm gonna take
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: my black baby. I'm not leaving them. And when you
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: see him, you gonna say your highness when you see him,
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: when you want to be royal, I would that you
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: can't have all that I want to be. I want
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: to be happy. Yeah, I do too. All right, Well,
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 1: you know Earl of Aldingham. I love how he keeps
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 1: it on point. He really is on point with this
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: one black people. Yeah, it's universally the same situation. Hey,
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: can I can I share this with you all? Yeah?
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: It's a cool up. Yeah, you know, Um, before we
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: get out of him, I want to share something with you.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 1: I've noticed a lot that goes on, especially because of
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: social media and and everything, and just even before social
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: media can happen, so many people predicate their happiness based
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 1: on comparisons. You know, a lot of people are trying
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: to find their happiness and measure their happiness against someone
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: else's moves makeup layout, plan, and position. That's a dangerous
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: thing everybody, because we have all been set on very
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: very unique paths. No two paths are the same. There
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: are similarities, but no two paths are the same. You
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: are running too the same types of circumstances, but all
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  Speaker 1: the circumstances will be different for all of us. So
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  Speaker 1: when you start predicating your success and happiness on the
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  Speaker 1: comparison of somebody else, you're setting yourself up for majors
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  Speaker 1: appointment because there's a great chance, a ninety nine point
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  Speaker 1: nine percent chance that that's not your route at all.
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  Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I can assure you that
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  Speaker 1: it's one hundred percent chance that it's not your route.
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  Speaker 1: You know, two people make the exact same journey. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: you can have the same goals, but the route getting
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  Speaker 1: there will differ. Each and every one of us would
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  Speaker 1: have a different route because we're in different positions, in
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  Speaker 1: places and situations in life. So stop comparing yourself to
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  Speaker 1: other people success that you're looking for that's not their success.
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  Speaker 1: And the reason you shouldn't compare yourself to this is
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  Speaker 1: because that's their success, it's not yours. Yours could be
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  Speaker 1: slightly different, just as rewarding if you would only look within.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're looking for your happiness outside, you'll never
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  Speaker 1: be happy and content within. And that happens to so
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  Speaker 1: many people. Let their success be their success. Be happy
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  Speaker 1: for people. I know that's hard for some people because
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  Speaker 1: there's so many haters out here now, but that the
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  Speaker 1: haters don't outweigh the good will people. They just don't.
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  Speaker 1: It's just the haters are so much louder what they mess.
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  Speaker 1: But listen to me. Just you can be happy for somebody.
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  Speaker 1: You know. You don't have to support them, but you
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  Speaker 1: don't have to tear them down either. Just let them
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  Speaker 1: have whatever level of success they're gonna have. If you
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  Speaker 1: spent all the time that you're taking comparison looking over
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  Speaker 1: the fence at their success and with just tend to
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  Speaker 1: your mission, not to your business. Tend to your mission.
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  Speaker 1: Get yourself a mission in twenty twenty. Make twenty twenty
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  Speaker 1: the year that you have a mission. A mission is
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  Speaker 1: something you have to accomplish. This is the mission, and
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  Speaker 1: it may not get all completed in twenty twenty, but
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  Speaker 1: start the process to tending to your mission. This is
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  Speaker 1: my mission this year and lay claim to that, don't
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  Speaker 1: worry about nobody else's success, stop comparing yours to theirs,
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  Speaker 1: and tend to your mission. You will have a much
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  Speaker 1: happier life. You'll get to enjoy who you really are
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  Speaker 1: if you just stop compares comparing yourself to who they are.
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  Speaker 1: Because I got news for you. The majority of the time,
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  Speaker 1: who they are are not what it seems. Those are
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  Speaker 1: my closing remarks. Drop it, y'all, have a great weekend
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