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You’re Not Lazy—You’re Burnt Out · TonyTidbit: A Black Executive Perspective

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4:25
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4:38
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4:59
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5:43
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5:44
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5:49
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5:50
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5:51
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5:51
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6:14
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6:15
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6:16
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6:17
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6:18
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6:18
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6:18
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6:19
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6:20
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6:20
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6:20
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6:21
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6:21
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6:21
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6:21
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6:22
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6:23
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6:24
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6:26
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6:28
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6:29
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6:30
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6:30
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6:33
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6:33
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6:34
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6:34
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6:35
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6:35
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6:35
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6:36
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6:37
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6:38
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6:41
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6:51
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6:52
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8:11
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8:14
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8:16
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8:17
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8:17
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8:19
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8:19
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8:20
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8:21
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8:21
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8:22
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8:22
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8:22
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8:22
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8:22
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8:23
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8:23
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8:23
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8:24
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8:24
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8:24
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8:25
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8:25
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8:25
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8:26
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8:26
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8:27
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8:28
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8:28
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8:28
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8:28
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8:29
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8:29
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8:30
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8:30
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8:31
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8:32
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8:36
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8:36
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8:37
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8:37
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8:38
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8:39
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8:39
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8:39
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8:40
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8:40
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8:42
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8:42
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8:49
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8:50
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8:50
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9:03
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9:04
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9:04
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9:05
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9:05
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9:06
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9:07
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9:07
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9:08
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9:08
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9:12
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9:13
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9:14
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9:16
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9:17
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9:17
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9:17
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9:17
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9:17
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9:18
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9:18
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9:18
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9:18
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9:18
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9:19
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9:19
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9:19
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9:19
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9:19
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9:20
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9:20
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9:21
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9:21
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9:21
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9:22
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9:22
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9:22
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9:22
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9:23
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9:23
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9:23
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9:23
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9:23
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9:24
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9:24
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9:25
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9:26
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9:27
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9:27
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9:27
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9:28
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9:28
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9:28
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9:28
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9:29
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9:30
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9:30
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9:31
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9:31
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9:31
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9:33
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9:33
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9:33
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9:34
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9:35
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9:36
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9:36
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9:36
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9:36
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9:36
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9:37
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9:37
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9:38
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9:38
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9:38
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9:39
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9:39
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9:39
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9:39
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9:39
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9:40
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9:40
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9:40
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9:40
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9:41
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9:41
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9:41
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9:42
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9:43
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9:43
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9:43
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9:45
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9:45
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9:45
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9:46
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9:47
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9:47
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9:48
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9:48
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9:48
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9:48
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9:49
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9:51
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9:51
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9:52
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9:52
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9:52
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9:52
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9:53
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9:53
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9:53
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9:54
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9:55
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9:55
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9:55
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9:56
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9:56
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9:56
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9:56
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9:57
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9:57
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9:57
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9:57
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9:57
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9:57
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9:57
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9:58
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9:59
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9:59
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9:59
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9:59
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10:00
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10:00
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10:01
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10:01
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:02
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10:03
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10:03
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10:03
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10:03
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10:03
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10:04
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10:04
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10:04
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10:05
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10:05
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10:05
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10:06
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10:06
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10:07
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10:07
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10:07
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10:08
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10:09
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10:09
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10:10
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10:10
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10:12
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10:12
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10:12
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10:13
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10:14
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10:15
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10:15
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10:16
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10:16
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10:16
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10:17
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10:18
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10:19
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10:19
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10:19
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10:19
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10:20
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10:20
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10:20
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10:21
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10:21
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10:21
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10:21
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10:21
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10:22
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10:22
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10:23
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10:23
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10:23
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10:23
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10:23
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10:23
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10:24
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10:24
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10:24
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10:25
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10:25
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10:26
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10:26
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10:26
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10:27
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10:27
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10:28
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10:28
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10:28
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10:29
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10:29
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10:29
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10:29
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10:29
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10:30
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10:30
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10:30
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10:31
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10:31
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10:31
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10:31
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10:31
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10:32
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10:32
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10:32
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10:32
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10:33
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10:33
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10:33
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10:34
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10:34
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10:34
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10:35
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10:35
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10:35
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10:36
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10:36
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10:36
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10:36
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10:37
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10:38
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10:38
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10:38
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10:38
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10:38
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10:39
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10:39
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10:40
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10:40
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10:40
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10:40
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10:40
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10:40
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10:40
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10:40
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10:41
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10:41
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10:42
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10:42
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10:42
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10:42
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10:42
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10:43
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10:43
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10:44
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10:44
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10:44
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10:45
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10:45
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10:46
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10:46
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10:46
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10:46
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10:47
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10:47
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10:47
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10:47
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10:47
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10:47
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10:48
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10:48
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10:48
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10:49
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10:49
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10:49
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10:49
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10:49
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10:49
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10:50
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10:50
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10:50
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10:50
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10:50
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10:51
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10:52
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10:53
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10:53
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10:53
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10:54
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10:54
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10:54
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10:55
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10:55
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10:55
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10:55
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10:56
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10:56
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10:57
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10:57
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10:57
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10:57
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10:58
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10:58
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10:58
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10:59
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11:00
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11:02
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11:02
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11:04
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11:04
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18:24
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18:25
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18:25
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18:25
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18:26
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18:26
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18:27
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18:27
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18:27
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18:28
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18:28
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18:29
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18:29
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18:29
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18:30
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18:30
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18:30
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18:30
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18:30
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18:30
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18:31
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18:31
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18:31
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18:32
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18:32
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18:32
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18:32
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18:33
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:34
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18:35
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18:35
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18:35
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18:35
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18:36
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18:36
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18:36
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18:38
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18:39
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18:42
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18:42
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18:42
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18:43
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18:44
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18:44
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18:45
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18:45
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18:45
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18:47
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18:47
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18:48
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18:48
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18:48
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18:48
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18:49
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18:50
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18:53
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18:55
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18:55
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18:56
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18:56
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18:56
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18:57
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18:57
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18:57
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18:58
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18:59
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18:59
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19:03
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19:04
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19:04
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19:05
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19:06
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19:06
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19:06
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19:06
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19:06
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19:07
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19:07
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19:07
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19:07
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19:07
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19:08
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19:08
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19:08
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19:10
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19:10
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19:10
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19:10
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19:11
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19:11
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19:12
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19:12
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19:13
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19:14
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19:14
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19:14
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19:15
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19:15
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19:15
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19:15
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19:16
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19:16
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19:16
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19:17
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19:18
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19:18
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19:19
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19:19
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19:19
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19:20
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19:20
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19:21
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19:21
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19:21
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19:21
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19:22
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19:22
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19:22
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19:22
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19:23
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19:23
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19:23
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19:23
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19:23
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19:24
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19:24
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19:24
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19:25
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19:25
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19:25
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19:26
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19:26
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19:26
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19:27
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19:27
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19:28
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19:28
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19:28
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19:28
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19:29
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19:29
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19:29
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19:29
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19:29
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19:30
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19:31
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19:31
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19:31
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19:31
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19:31
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19:31
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19:31
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19:32
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19:33
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19:33
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19:34
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19:34
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19:34
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19:35
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19:36
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19:36
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19:36
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19:36
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19:37
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19:37
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19:37
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19:38
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19:38
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19:38
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19:38
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19:39
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19:39
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19:39
Tony Tidbit: saying
19:39
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19:39
Tony Tidbit: your
19:40
Tony Tidbit: own
19:40
Tony Tidbit: background.
19:41
Tony Tidbit: Okay.
19:42
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19:43
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19:43
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19:43
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19:43
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19:44
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19:44
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19:44
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19:45
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19:46
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19:46
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19:46
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19:46
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19:48
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19:48
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19:48
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19:48
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19:48
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19:49
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19:49
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19:50
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19:51
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19:51
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19:51
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19:51
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19:52
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19:52
Tony Tidbit: mother,
19:53
Tony Tidbit: um,
19:54
Tony Tidbit: married.
19:55
Tony Tidbit: So
19:55
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19:55
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19:55
Tony Tidbit: a
19:55
Tony Tidbit: lot
19:56
Tony Tidbit: of
19:56
Tony Tidbit: pressures
19:57
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19:58
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19:58
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19:58
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19:59
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19:59
Tony Tidbit: deal
19:59
Tony Tidbit: with,
19:59
Tony Tidbit: that
19:59
Tony Tidbit: you
20:00
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20:00
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20:00
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20:00
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20:01
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20:01
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20:02
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20:02
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20:03
Tony Tidbit: your
20:03
Tony Tidbit: own
20:03
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20:04
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20:05
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20:05
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20:05
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20:05
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20:05
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20:05
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20:06
Tony Tidbit: through,
20:06
Tony Tidbit: depression
20:07
Tony Tidbit: stuff
20:08
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20:08
Tony Tidbit: that
20:08
Tony Tidbit: nature
20:09
Tony Tidbit: shaped
20:09
Tony Tidbit: your
20:10
Tony Tidbit: mind?
20:10
Tony Tidbit: How
20:10
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20:10
Tony Tidbit: you
20:10
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20:11
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20:11
Tony Tidbit: of
20:11
Tony Tidbit: that
20:11
Tony Tidbit: mindset?
20:12
Tony Tidbit: Yeah.
20:12
Tony Tidbit: And
20:12
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20:13
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20:13
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20:13
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20:14
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20:14
Tony Tidbit: more
20:14
Tony Tidbit: control
20:15
Tony Tidbit: back.
20:15
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20:16
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20:17
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20:17
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20:17
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20:17
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20:18
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20:18
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20:18
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20:18
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20:19
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20:19
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20:20
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20:20
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20:20
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20:21
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20:21
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20:21
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20:21
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20:21
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20:22
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20:22
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20:22
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20:23
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20:23
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20:23
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20:24
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20:24
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20:24
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20:24
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20:24
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20:24
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20:25
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20:25
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20:25
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20:25
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20:25
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20:25
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20:26
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20:26
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20:26
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20:26
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20:28
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20:28
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20:28
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20:28
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20:29
Seema Desai: always,
20:30
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20:30
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20:32
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20:32
Seema Desai: Sanskrit,
20:33
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20:33
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20:33
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20:33
Seema Desai: Right?
20:34
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20:34
Seema Desai: tendencies.
20:35
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20:36
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20:36
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20:37
Seema Desai: this,
20:37
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20:38
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20:38
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20:39
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20:39
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20:39
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20:39
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20:39
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20:39
Seema Desai: 99,
20:40
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20:40
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20:41
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20:41
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20:41
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20:41
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20:41
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20:41
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20:41
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20:43
Tony Tidbit: Right?
20:43
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20:43
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20:45
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20:45
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20:45
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20:46
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20:46
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20:46
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20:46
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20:48
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20:48
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20:49
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20:49
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20:49
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20:49
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20:49
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20:50
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20:50
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20:50
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20:50
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20:51
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20:51
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20:51
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20:51
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20:52
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20:52
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20:52
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20:52
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20:52
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20:53
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20:53
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20:53
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20:53
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20:54
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20:54
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20:54
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20:54
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20:54
Seema Desai: quality
20:55
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20:55
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20:55
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20:55
Seema Desai: the
20:56
Seema Desai: amount
20:56
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20:56
Seema Desai: stress
20:56
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20:56
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20:57
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20:57
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20:57
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20:57
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20:58
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20:59
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20:59
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21:00
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21:00
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21:00
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21:00
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21:01
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21:02
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21:03
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21:04
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21:04
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21:04
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21:05
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21:06
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21:06
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21:06
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21:07
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21:07
Seema Desai: burnout.
21:08
Seema Desai: And
21:08
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21:08
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21:08
Seema Desai: characterized
21:09
Seema Desai: more
21:09
Seema Desai: in
21:10
Seema Desai: just
21:11
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21:11
Seema Desai: flat
21:12
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21:12
Seema Desai: I
21:13
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21:14
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21:15
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21:16
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21:17
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21:17
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21:17
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21:17
Seema Desai: tired
21:18
Seema Desai: to,
21:19
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21:19
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21:20
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21:20
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21:20
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21:20
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21:20
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21:20
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21:20
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21:21
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21:21
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21:21
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21:22
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21:22
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21:23
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21:23
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21:23
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21:24
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21:24
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21:24
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21:24
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21:24
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21:24
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21:25
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21:25
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21:25
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21:25
Seema Desai: love.
21:27
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21:27
Seema Desai: just
21:28
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21:28
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21:28
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21:29
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21:29
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21:29
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21:29
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21:29
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21:29
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21:29
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21:30
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21:30
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21:30
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21:30
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21:30
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21:30
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21:30
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21:31
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21:31
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21:31
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21:31
Seema Desai: do
21:31
Seema Desai: any
21:32
Seema Desai: of
21:32
Seema Desai: it.
21:32
Seema Desai: Now
21:32
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21:33
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21:33
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21:33
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21:33
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21:34
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21:34
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21:34
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21:35
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21:35
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21:35
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21:36
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21:36
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21:36
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21:36
Tony Tidbit: up
21:36
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21:37
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21:37
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21:37
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21:37
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21:37
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21:37
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21:38
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21:38
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21:38
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21:38
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21:38
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21:38
Tony Tidbit: high
21:39
Tony Tidbit: stress
21:39
Tony Tidbit: moment
21:40
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21:40
Tony Tidbit: you
21:40
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21:41
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21:41
Tony Tidbit: down?
21:41
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21:42
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21:42
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21:42
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21:43
Seema Desai: very,
21:44
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21:44
Seema Desai: insidious
21:45
Seema Desai: and
21:45
Seema Desai: gradual.
21:46
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21:46
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21:46
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21:47
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21:47
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21:48
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21:48
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21:48
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21:48
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21:48
Seema Desai: reckoning,
21:49
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21:50
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21:50
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21:50
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21:50
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21:50
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21:51
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21:51
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21:52
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21:52
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41:23
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44:33
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44:33
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45:28
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45:39
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51:38
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51:58
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51:58
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52:13
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52:23
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52:24
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52:38
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Tony Tidbit: thrive
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Tony Tidbit: about
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Tony Tidbit: it.
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Tony Tidbit: We
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Tony Tidbit: love
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Tony Tidbit: you.
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Tony Tidbit: And
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Tony Tidbit: now
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Tony Tidbit: it's
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Tony Tidbit: time
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Tony Tidbit: for
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Tony Tidbit: us
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Tony Tidbit: to
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Tony Tidbit: get
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Tony Tidbit: out
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Tony Tidbit: A
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Tony Tidbit: Black
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Tony Tidbit: Executive
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Tony Tidbit: Perspective.