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The Love Doctor is in 02.14.17 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all baby
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  Speaker 1: have all suit looking back to back down, giving them
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  Speaker 1: just like themaking buck bus things. And it's to y'all
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  Speaker 1: to be true. Good to Tahua listening to me together
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  Speaker 1: for stoo bar hannay. Why don't you join? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: by joining me, honey said, turning them go, Yeah you go.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn at the time, lobby got
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  Speaker 1: to turn out to turn want to go? Come come
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  Speaker 1: on your back at it. Huh huh. I shall will
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  Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come
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  Speaker 1: on dig me na one and only. Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 1: a radio show today. It's it's it's it's real simple
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  Speaker 1: um for everybody that's trying to become successful on any
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  Speaker 1: level in any arena in the genre. I don't care
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  Speaker 1: what it is. If you're trying to be successful, this
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  Speaker 1: message is for you. Let me help you understand something
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  Speaker 1: real clear. You ain't gonna make it the way you
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  Speaker 1: want to, and you're not going to make it to
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  Speaker 1: the heights that's fully out there and available for you
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  Speaker 1: without God. And I'm just kidding. Keep it real, simpling
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  Speaker 1: clean for you. Today, you're not going to make it
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  Speaker 1: the way you want to, and you're not going to
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  Speaker 1: get to the heights that's available to you without God.
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  Speaker 1: You have to get this through your head. Now, listen
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  Speaker 1: to me. You can try it if you want to,
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  Speaker 1: because I did. I'm here to tell you I am
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  Speaker 1: talking purely from experience. Here. You can try it without God,
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  Speaker 1: and you can see how far you can get. Now
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  Speaker 1: when you have some measures of success, of course you
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  Speaker 1: will will will will it feel like days like you
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  Speaker 1: might make it? Of course you will, of course without
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  Speaker 1: a doubt. But let me ask you a question, though,
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  Speaker 1: What you're gonna do about them days when you feel
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  Speaker 1: like you ain't gonna make it. What you're gonna do
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  Speaker 1: about them, days when you feel like giving up. When
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna do about them, days where it feels like
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  Speaker 1: there are no answers to your questions. What you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do about them days? What you're gonna do about them
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  Speaker 1: days when everybody laughing at you, turned against you. What
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna do about them, days when you just don't
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  Speaker 1: see no way through it? What you're gonna do about
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  Speaker 1: them days? See? I got there, I got the sunshine,
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  Speaker 1: you know, sunshine cool. Everybody got friends when it's sunnay outside.
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  Speaker 1: You want some friends? Hit the lotto? You you you
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  Speaker 1: you you you want you want to get rid of them? Friends,
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  Speaker 1: Go ask for some help. You want some friends, hit
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  Speaker 1: the lotto. You wanna you want to get rid of
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  Speaker 1: some people, Go ask for some help. Man, I'm telling
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  Speaker 1: my man, they scattered like roaches when lights come on.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you. So now I'm here, here
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  Speaker 1: we go again. You can do this without God now
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  Speaker 1: because I've done it, and you can have yourself some
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  Speaker 1: measure success. But I want to let me, let me
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  Speaker 1: even hip you too a little bit closer though, Let
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  Speaker 1: me tell you why you are doing it without God
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  Speaker 1: and having some measure of success. Can I tell you why?
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  Speaker 1: Because of God's grace and mercy to us, because of
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  Speaker 1: His grace and mercy trying to keep us in spite
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  Speaker 1: of ourselves, for the real mission that He really got
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  Speaker 1: for us. See that's the truth of the matter. Now,
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  Speaker 1: now what we're talking about nasty see. So yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you can do it without God, and you can have
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  Speaker 1: some measure success without God. And yeah, you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: yeah you got your little degree and everything. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you completed the program, got all that, YadA, YadA YadA.
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  Speaker 1: But don't you know something. It's because of God's grace
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  Speaker 1: and mercy that he that he put that he helps
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  Speaker 1: us anyway when even when we ain't asking for help,
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  Speaker 1: When he bails us out anyway, when we don't even
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  Speaker 1: ask him to be bailed out. You know why. Because
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  Speaker 1: He loves us that much that he would that he
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  Speaker 1: would allow us to exist until we get our mind
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  Speaker 1: together where he could take us where really trying to
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  Speaker 1: take us. But now let me tell you something though,
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  Speaker 1: Let's get this real straight and clear today. You can
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  Speaker 1: do this without God if you want to. But I
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  Speaker 1: am telling you to get to where you really want
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  Speaker 1: to be and to be all that God has for you.
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  Speaker 1: You got to have God. There's no ifs ands but
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  Speaker 1: about it, and and and and and let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you this here. I don't really care what nobody then
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  Speaker 1: told you. Are you listening to me? I don't care
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  Speaker 1: what they say. Don't get this thing twisted. They got
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  Speaker 1: these people out here talking about their luminatis and all listen, man,
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  Speaker 1: don't listen to me. Don't get caught in this mess.
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  Speaker 1: Don't get caught in no foolishness. You were created by God.
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  Speaker 1: God created you, ain't your soul. We were all created
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  Speaker 1: in His image, all of us. Don't. Don't. Don't get
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  Speaker 1: to talking about you, FINNI cut a deal with the
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  Speaker 1: with the devil and all you ain't cutting no deal
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  Speaker 1: with nobody, man and dead. The devil don't do deals.
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  Speaker 1: He one sided you. I'm taking you to hell. You
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  Speaker 1: going to hell, You're burning hell. That's his deal. I
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  Speaker 1: want your soul. I want you to lose hope. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to take your life. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: take some other people's lives. I want you to feel hopeless.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to realize that it ain't no God.
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  Speaker 1: That's his whole deal. His whole deal is negative. Oh
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  Speaker 1: he can talk to you in the dealing drugs if
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  Speaker 1: you want to. But let me tell you something about this.
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  Speaker 1: I watched these shows all the time, drug ink and
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  Speaker 1: all this here, cocaine mafia. Everybody on now go to
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  Speaker 1: jail and get killed. Everybody on now. Our prisons is
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  Speaker 1: feeled the day with our young boys because somebody that
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  Speaker 1: did because they thought they could outslick the system. They
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  Speaker 1: thought they had a way. They thought they said them
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  Speaker 1: been here and they failed. For the old cliche, man,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta do what I gotta do, I gotta get
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  Speaker 1: this money. Well, the only reason you gotta do what
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do is because, like I said all the time,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't do what you were supposed to do. Had
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  Speaker 1: you just done some of the things you were supposed
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  Speaker 1: to do, had you just stayed in that school when
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  Speaker 1: it didn't look right, well, if you had just formed
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  Speaker 1: a relationship with God and and and and gotten rid
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  Speaker 1: of that, I ain't gonna make it that I'm hopelessness
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  Speaker 1: feeling it, you wouldn't have found yourself doing something so
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  Speaker 1: far out the box, got you out here being in
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  Speaker 1: the spirit that don't even belong to you. God ain't
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  Speaker 1: created you to be no dope dealer or no such
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  Speaker 1: a thing or nothing even close to that. So see,
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  Speaker 1: let's get your mind right. See see, let's get your
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  Speaker 1: mind right and understand what's going on here. You know
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  Speaker 1: that that's that's that's that's that's that's what I need everybody,
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  Speaker 1: I need, I need everybody to get me clearly about this.
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  Speaker 1: This is not going to happen without a relationship with God.
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  Speaker 1: It will not happen for you in any shape, form
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  Speaker 1: or fashion. Now one more time, for those of you
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  Speaker 1: that think you're making it without him, I want you
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  Speaker 1: to understand something. Clearly. It is but because of His
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  Speaker 1: grace and mercy that we exist. And God has just
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  Speaker 1: taken care of you, looking out for you. Got some
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  Speaker 1: angels encamped around you until you get your mind right
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  Speaker 1: so he can get you where you're going. But now
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  Speaker 1: I want you to understand something. There's a cause and
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  Speaker 1: a consequence and a penalty for everything we do this
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  Speaker 1: outside the will of God. That's for all of us.
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  Speaker 1: All of us have consequences, penalties and everything that we
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  Speaker 1: got to deal with outside of the will of God.
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  Speaker 1: Understand that clearly. Don't get this thing twisted sideways. You
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  Speaker 1: understand me. So now while we're dealing and we're operating,
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  Speaker 1: I want you to understand something that you know. I
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  Speaker 1: heard a young man tell me one day. He said, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: you know, man, I just don't see how God looking
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  Speaker 1: out for me and he would allow all these things
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  Speaker 1: to happen to me. I'm having such a hard time
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  Speaker 1: in my life. I really don't see how there's a
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  Speaker 1: God looking out for me. I lived the young man,
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  Speaker 1: I said the Man, it's just something. Man, you're still breathing.
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  Speaker 1: He said, you know, I'm standing here talking to you.
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  Speaker 1: I said, you're still talking and he said yeah. I said,
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  Speaker 1: you're still free. He said what you mean? I said,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't locked up, are you? So no, I'm standing
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  Speaker 1: here talking to you. I said, where you get them?
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  Speaker 1: Close from I bought him? I said, when you bought
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  Speaker 1: him with what? I bought him with? Money? So where
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  Speaker 1: you get the money? Fun? So I got a job, Mr.
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  Speaker 1: I got a job. I said, well where you live though?
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  Speaker 1: He's got apartment? I said, where you your department? For? Mr?
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  Speaker 1: How have I'm working? I got an apartment? I got
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  Speaker 1: a job. I was okay, okay, so now this this,
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  Speaker 1: this God ain't looking out for you. Think finish, finish
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  Speaker 1: telling me what you're telling me. We'll see. Man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: having it real hard right now. I said, hey, hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: are you are you hungry? You have you had lunch yet?
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  Speaker 1: He said yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, already had lunch yet.
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  Speaker 1: I said, okay, okay, So so so gone finished telling
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  Speaker 1: me about this how God ain't looking out for you?
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  Speaker 1: He said, oh, and you know, man, every every time
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  Speaker 1: I try to do something, it seemed like it go
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  Speaker 1: wrong for me. I said, but let let me match something, man,
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  Speaker 1: I said, every time you go wrong for y'all, say
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  Speaker 1: somehow you survive it. He said, yeah, yeah, I survive
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  Speaker 1: it some kind of way. But it's still be all
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  Speaker 1: messed up from me. I said, but but you still
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  Speaker 1: got through it though. He said yeah. I said, okay, Man,
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  Speaker 1: gonna finish telling me how how God ain't looking out
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  Speaker 1: for you? And he stopped. He said him it's hard.
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  Speaker 1: He said, how come every time I tell you something
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  Speaker 1: that's going wrong, you keep telling me God looking out
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  Speaker 1: for me? I said, because you're still here, man, I said, See,
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  Speaker 1: you don't understand it. I said. You seem to think, man,
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  Speaker 1: that they're supposed to be, that you're supposed to just
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  Speaker 1: supposed to skate through life, that is all supposed to
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  Speaker 1: go how you want it, any kind of way. I said, Man,
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  Speaker 1: Jesus to test to your faith, I say, God looking
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  Speaker 1: out for you the whole time. I said, every time
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  Speaker 1: you tell me something going wrong, you seem to turn
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  Speaker 1: around and tell me how you survived, and you keep
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  Speaker 1: telling me what ain't going right, But you keep telling
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  Speaker 1: me all these things you have. I said, man, so
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  Speaker 1: what you gotta do is you gotta stop looking at
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  Speaker 1: the stop looking at the what you ain't got column,
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  Speaker 1: and start focusing on what you do have column, because
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  Speaker 1: what you do have, it's probably God looking out for you.
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  Speaker 1: I said, now a part where is going wrong? Let's
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  Speaker 1: think about what you're doing wrong that's making it go wrong.
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  Speaker 1: I said. We are all products of our decisions in
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  Speaker 1: our life. I said, young man, I said, get your
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  Speaker 1: head out of the negative column and put it in
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  Speaker 1: the positive college. Be grateful for the things that God
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  Speaker 1: didn't gave you, and then God will probably give you
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  Speaker 1: some more. But if you ain't happy with nothing He
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  Speaker 1: hadn't done for you, you wanted to keep piling stuff on.
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  Speaker 1: I said, you fail in the test, young man. The
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  Speaker 1: test is are you grateful for where you are right
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  Speaker 1: now so I could give you more so we can
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  Speaker 1: move forward? He said, am I never even looked at
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  Speaker 1: like that. I said, well, why don't you take your
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  Speaker 1: blessed cell phone somewhere and sit down? He said, I
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  Speaker 1: think I'm going over here and let you finish talking.
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  Speaker 1: I said, thank you. So sometimes you just gotta look
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  Speaker 1: at what you do got, folks, that's all it is. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you can't make it without God. Y'all. You got me today.
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  Speaker 1: All right, let's be clear, let's go. You're listening. You know.
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  Speaker 1: I believe I can fly to I believe I can
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  Speaker 1: touch this guy. Think about it every night and day.
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  Speaker 1: Get up on these wings and just go on fly.
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  Speaker 1: I believe I can soul. I'm looking right now at
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  Speaker 1: that wide open air. M I believe I can fly.
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  Speaker 1: Come on, I believe I can fly. Yeah. We want
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  Speaker 1: to thank God this morning for the word all right,
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  Speaker 1: we want to thank him for all the moments of
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  Speaker 1: liberty m M. And now as we enter into a
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  Speaker 1: new day m HM. The sermon today, Deacon all right,
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  Speaker 1: is I believe I can fly. I believe I can fly.
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  Speaker 1: But the question beckons to be asked, what if you can't?
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  Speaker 1: Now now that I'm leave, I said I believe I
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  Speaker 1: can fly. The question is, but what if you say
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  Speaker 1: if you can see If the name of the song
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  Speaker 1: was I can't fly, it's a most definitive statement about flight. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you standing on a cliff, Yeah, and you were bird
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  Speaker 1: and you say to the other bird, I can fly
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  Speaker 1: and take off soaring through the air. Now, if you
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  Speaker 1: standing on the cliff and you're buried, and you say
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  Speaker 1: I can fly. M h And you were squirrel and
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  Speaker 1: you say I can't too. You're in a situation now,
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  Speaker 1: got your self in a problem, mess around listening to
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  Speaker 1: that bird Bird would made to fly squirrels? Was ment Klein. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and so this early Tuesday, mm hmm. Well, if you
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  Speaker 1: say I believe I can fly, the question beckers, but
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  Speaker 1: what if you can? I believe I can fly? But
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  Speaker 1: the question beckers, but what if you can't? Now you
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  Speaker 1: in something Now, Now you didn't jump your stupid tail
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  Speaker 1: off into that hell, flapping hard as you can, but
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  Speaker 1: you head ship, picking up speed, get it to your
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  Speaker 1: final destination. You on your way to the ground. You're
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  Speaker 1: not going up, You're going down. Yeah. You not fitting
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  Speaker 1: to be long much longer around you fitting to be
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  Speaker 1: a memory. You're about to be a part of the past. Bridge.
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  Speaker 1: People gonna go to your funeral and somebody gonna stand
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  Speaker 1: up and ask, did he's a he could fly? Somebody
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  Speaker 1: gonna say I believe he did. But somebody gonna sit
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  Speaker 1: up and say I told him that. The question beckons,
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  Speaker 1: but what if you can't. I don't believe he heard me?
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  Speaker 1: And he jumped anyhow on the way down. I could
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  Speaker 1: see the look on his face that flight wasn't exactly
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  Speaker 1: in his plans. And there he landed. Ain't no turning
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  Speaker 1: back down? Splack the sound splack when he hit the ground.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh kings mem oh or the king's horses.
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  Speaker 1: They came over the too, uh huh, the ones that
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  Speaker 1: couldn't put Humpty dumpty back together again. Men came and
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  Speaker 1: looked on the ground and said, where happened to him?
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  Speaker 1: What they say? What happened to the birds? Said? I
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  Speaker 1: believe he heard me say fly And then I on
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  Speaker 1: my way up, I leaned back and I heard him
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  Speaker 1: say I believe I can fly to Then I heard
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  Speaker 1: a squire. I don't say to him the question back?
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  Speaker 1: What if you another squirrel? A little we sitting here
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  Speaker 1: in new moment up to mine? Yes? Yes, what is
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  Speaker 1: your message you? Yeah? What is What is the question back?
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  Speaker 1: And what the moral? The moral of the story? Nick
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  Speaker 1: and I c K come on, come on ripping Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I need a c K on now exit in your
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  Speaker 1: mind first m hmm. Make your nile ryer state flyer
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  Speaker 1: higher dandel ground. That is I mess you today, Thank
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  Speaker 1: you all for coming. Jack Hut joined the room. I
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  Speaker 1: thought that a sermon was in order this moment. Man
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  Speaker 1: open the door with Jack. We might have a fly
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  Speaker 1: at the day, won't you joke? Now? Don't you jump? Today?
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  Speaker 1: Was a comedian with a book out with that same title.
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  Speaker 1: There's a comedian with a book out. Yeah, jump will
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  Speaker 1: will keep the kings? Man? Please give me the kings
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  Speaker 1: all the keen yes, and all of the King's men.
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  Speaker 1: Puts back together again? Splat what happened the world? You're
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  Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Hardy Show. Happy Valentine's Day? Today
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  Speaker 1: is Valentine's Day, the day of love? Yeah it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's all about love today, all about love? What are
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  Speaker 1: the haters gonna do? Hey, if you are, if you're
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  Speaker 1: a little love situation, you need a little advice of
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  Speaker 1: a guy that has blown it m so minute sixty
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  Speaker 1: nine we know for show sixty nine. Call me if
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  Speaker 1: you need some advice on this Valentine's Day. Maybe you're stuck,
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  Speaker 1: maybe you won't out, maybe thinking about staying. How to
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  Speaker 1: make it work? How do win one over? Fellas? What
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  Speaker 1: they're going to be supposed today? I didn't ask you
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  Speaker 1: that a lot of people do though. Yeah, but that
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  Speaker 1: ain't what we're telling about what? What? What does that
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  Speaker 1: tell him about it? That tone? It's just that I
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  Speaker 1: believe I can fly? But what if you can't? Eight
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  Speaker 1: seven seven nine Steve, Uncle Steve and I are here
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  Speaker 1: to help you. No, you're not giving up? All right?
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  Speaker 1: Questions for the love doctor at deal deal, Dr Love? No, No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh yeah, really I said, Dr Love. I
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  Speaker 1: tried to help you out. Not right now? You believe
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  Speaker 1: he could? What if the question? Let's go to line
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  Speaker 1: eight and talk to Andrew. Hey, Andrew, see how are
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  Speaker 1: you doing? Man's happening? All right? I'm all right, Um,
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  Speaker 1: well I felt my girl now for about three years. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we are kind of going a long distance relationship thing. Um,
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  Speaker 1: she's all always men right now, and uh she she's
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  Speaker 1: a medical school. So we're being patience trying to work.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in d C right now, all right. Yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: so I started putting money aside for ring and something
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  Speaker 1: came up, investment opportunity. It gave me an opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: start my own business. Um, so I put all that
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: money for the ring and everything. Um, I put it
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: in uh into this house, and we started to whip
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: it and it's going well. Right now, and I'm trying
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: to figure out ways that I could, uh uh, figure
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: out how I can get some more money right now
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: because I really love her and I want to be
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: with it, and I want to I want to propose
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: to it this year, so I'm trying to figure out
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: a way to do that. Um so, yeah, well, honesty
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: it's gonna go along way in this case. Really, excuse me?
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: What was that? It's not the time? So no, there's
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: a time for a line, but this ain't it. Honesty
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: could go a long way. I think if you set
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: her down and told her exactly how you feel, what
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: you have been doing, and what you did and why
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: you did it because you made the investment, because you're
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: trying to show up your financial future for your wife.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: If you tell a woman that, they'll get it. But
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I really love you and I want to marry you.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: I want to propose to you. But all the money
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I was saving for the wedding, you know, I made
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: this investment into our future. Now they're gonna want to
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: ring instead. But at least that's a good way to go.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: And then you could say, what could we do in
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: the meantime until I get the money, right to I
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: could give you the ring that you really deserved. So
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: could we do anything that that would be satisfactory to
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: you that would be a proper ring. Yeah, we could
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: go on and make this thing a lot more solid.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey show a right coming up
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: next at the top of the hour. On this Valentine's Day,
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: the Day of Love, we'll have more love calls for
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: the Love Doctor Steve Harvey. Uh uh huh for today.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Tommy was talking about. He just wanted to jump in
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: on that last call. M love advice from no very helpful. No,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: I'm very healthful. No advice, no money, nothing. Miss Anna
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: is going to be here with our National News. National
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: security advisor Michael Flynn. You guys, hear about this. He
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: resigned overnight after questions about his conversations with the Russian ambassador.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Uh so, get ready for a nephew. Tommy's run that
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: prank back as well. So We've got a power pack
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: our and show freedom papers. You gotta have your freedom papers. Hell,
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a uh Domingo. Yeah, this name speaking,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Hi Domingo. My name is Scott. I'm calling from FP.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call about actually, uh
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: using our services. If I think you'll actually like it,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: the FBI would definitely like to get you on board.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: What is it, FBI is Freedom Papers Incorporated, Freedom Papers Incorporating.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: What we do is we actually make sure you get
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: freedom papers and you can purchase them from US. And
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: what I can do is I can get you freedom
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: papers for you and every individual at your home for
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: roughly eight hundred bucks or under. What what are freedom
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: freedom papers? Well? Actually, what this is? You know? I mean,
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: are are you familiar with like, um, say, if you
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: are an alien from another country and you need a
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: you need a green card to be here? Are you
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: familiar with that? Okay? So what what goes on with
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Freedom Papers Incorporated is when you sign and get freedom
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: papers from US. What it does it it's uh, people
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: who are African Americans our papers let them know that
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: you're actually a free person in this country. Oh oh
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I've been free. I'm sorry. Ain't no flavor going on
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: when you talk about well I'm free? Well you you
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: you may be, but you have to actually show paperwork
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: for that. When they when did they start? The sir?
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: This is all over the news. You have to have
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: freedom papers within the next six months, every African American person,
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: it's gonna have to have freedom papers and have them
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: on on the you know. Uh, it's such like keep
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: on driver's license or a checkbook or something. You're gonna
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: have to have your freedom papers on you. That's some.
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: That's some. That's I'm free. I'm not about to pay
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: no money when I'm already free. Okay, but you're gonna
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: be sure. You're gonna need paperwork to show your freedom
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: and you don't. Do you have any freedom papers at
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: this point right now? No, because I don't need freedom
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: I'm free, sir. I don't think you quite understand. Do
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: you understand that you could possibly if you're caught without
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: your freedom papers, you could be taken into captive and
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: actually have to work for so many years in order
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: and then later on you might get your freedom. But
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: right now, right here, if you buy freedom papers from me,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I can I can fix it where you don't go
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: through that. You can actually get separated from your family. Sir.
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not going by where they're gonna send me to
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: where they gonna deport me to aftera I've never been there. No, No,
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: you're not going to Africa. You could be actually here
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: in the United States working on on a particular farm
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: of of with a lot of people who don't have
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: their papers. If you haven't gotten this news, I do apologize,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: but within the next six months you're going to need
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: freedom pay first to you anyway, sir. Like I said before,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: I'm Scott with FBI, no sp I, f third's FPI's
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: freedom papers incorporate. I don't give what it is. I'm
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: not about to pay no no money to be free, sir,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: you have to have paperwork on you to show that
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: you are a free citizen of the United States. Hold. Hold,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: how you get my number? Anyway? Sir? We have a
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: list of numbers of people that we don't think have
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: their freedom papers, and your name actually popped up here
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: in our database. So many pop up phones. Okay, sir,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to give my number. Sir. We have a
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: database here of people who we don't think their freedom papers.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Your name is actually here. After talking to you, it
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: seems like you don't have your freedom papers, and we
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: want to make sure you get them. We're letting you
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: know it's two hundred dollars per person to get these
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: actual paperties. So you're telling me you got database and
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: you're just calling black people all around the punches. Well, no, sir,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: what we're doing is we're calling African Americans and let them,
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: letting them know that they can actually, uh buy freedom
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: papers from us, so they don't have to be if
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: they're if they're if they ever get captured, then what
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: can happen is is that they can show their papers
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: and not have to deal with the problems that we
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: already free. You're gonna have a whole bunch runaway because
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: we ain't paying. I'm not paying. They might but I'm
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: not paying. Sure, you're gonna have to have your freedom
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: papers on you at all times. That's gonna be the
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: law within the next six months. So what I'm trying
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: to end can sell you freedom papers so you'll understand
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: that you you have everything that you need. You have
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: your driver's license, you have your freedom papers and and
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: whatever else did you carry on you you have must
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: Your mom called me on my phone this Sunday's wrong
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: with you freedom papers? I ain't getting you, are you?
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I'm Scott, sir, I'm gonnassociate here at FPI. I heard
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: about that sp I you just want to check from
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: me thinking about seeing you some damn money, y'all. Kiss
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: my sir, sir, I understand you. But what you gotta
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: understand is within the next six months, you're gonna need
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: these papers. Well, they're gonna have to catch my same pans. Okay, sir,
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: don't you don't you want to be free? I am free,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: everybody's free. We got a black president. He's gonna have
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: to get freedom papers I buy from you. Kiss, sir,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: You're gonna have to pay for these papers one way
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: or the other. Okay. I'm trying this because I gave
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: you a call. I try to be nice to you.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I'm letting you know now you're gonna have to pay
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: for your freedom. I'm not, sir. Everyone will be captured
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: if they do not have freedom papers. You tell you
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: right now, don't catch me, sir. Sir, you're going to
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: get captured when you least expected. Sir, You're going to
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: get captured when you least expected. I'm gonna be whom
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: to can't take. Y'all, donna have to catch me because
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: I ain't paying. I didn't look up on the computer
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: right now, I can't find scam trying to get my money.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Are you on the computer? Yeah? I will? Okay? Can
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I tell you one more thing? Can I? Can I
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: get you to google something else? Put in put in
• 32:05
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• 32:10
  Speaker 1: M M Y one song once you tell me this
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: is Nephew tim me man for the Steve Harvey Morning
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: until your wife Mariffa got me to prank phone call you. Man,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: y'all happy about saying is free already? I'll be. You're
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: about getting love as you? All right? Man? I go.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I gotta ask you one more thing though? What is
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: the lane? The Steve Park Morning The show is that?
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Can count? Keep it a stupid all day long? I'm
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: proud gonna be stupid tonight West Palm Beach, Flaw the Baby,
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: I'm at the Imperor Valentine's Night, one night only, one
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  Speaker 1: show only, seven o'clock tickets one and the almost gone.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: The Nephew is come into town tonight one night on
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: that is you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna go back to the phones with
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: more questions for the Love Doctor. But first we gotta
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: get to miss Ann Steve introducer, Ladies and gentlemen, miss
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: A and Trip. Everybody. This is entered for the news.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Good morning, for morning, Good Mornida. Okay, and happy Valentine today, everybody. Okay.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: President Trump's got no love. In fact, you've got to help.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: Want to sign out because National Security Advisor Michael Flynn
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: has resigned. Michael Flynn was accused of discussing the sanctions
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: at President Obama put on the Russians with the Kremlin
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: before President Trump was inaugurated, and while Flynn was still
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: then a private citizen and back in December, and that's
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: against the law. That's against the law. Private citizens cannot
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: negotiate foreign policy for this country. He initially denied doing it,
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: and he said he said this, and he said he
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: said that, but he didn't actually say that. But anyway,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: he submitted his resignation letter last night. So Michaelson is
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: out and they need a new national security advisor. President
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: Trump meanwhile met with Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau yesterday
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: at the White House. Afterwards, they held a joint news conference,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: with the President reaffirming the importance of good relations with
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: our neighbor to the north, and we will coordinate closely
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: to protect jobs in our hemisphere. Relations with the US
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: are crucial to Canada since more than seventy of Canada's
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: exports come to the US, and the two men do,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: nevertheless have very different views of things. I mean, Trudeau's
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: in support of free trade. He's welcomed some forty Syrian refugees,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: while Trump's administration, you know, as protectionist and when it
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: comes to trade policy, he wants to keep certain refugees
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: and certain immigrants from entering the US for a while.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: But they seem to get along and everything was very,
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: very cordial. Oh, the name Jerry Sandusky is in the
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: news this time one of his six adopted children, an
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: adopted son, has been arrested on multiple sex offense charges
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: involving children. Forty one year old Jeffrey Sandusky's charged with
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: fourteen counts, including the criminal solicitation of miners. His father,
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: Jerry Sandusky, you know, that's the former football coach at
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Penn State. He is serving time in prison thirty years
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: for the sexual abuse of ten boys. Okay, this is horrible.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: This is hard for me to even read that. Jackson
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: family matriarch Katherine Jackson has been granted a restraining order
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: against a nephew on her ex husband Joe Jackson's side
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: the family. According to court documents followed in l A
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: Superior Court, Katherine says she's afraid of her fifty two
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: year old nephew, Trent Lamar Jackson, who has worked as
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: her driver. The mother of the famous family accuses Trent
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: of bullying her. She says she has to hide in
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: a closet in order to speak to her children freely,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: and that she's afraid to Trent may be using her
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: credit cards and other financial information for his personal gain.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: She also wants him off the Jackson state. This is very,
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: very sad and scary. She wants him out of the
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: guesthouse right now. He has to stay at least one
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: feet away from Katherine Jackson. Accord hearing on somebody, somebody
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: needs to take Mama home and keep keep her with
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: them until this is straightened out or whatever, to make
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: sure she's safe. Anywag mm hmmmmhews, okay, anyway close to
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: in South Carolina. I'm just I can't do that. Yeah, Steve,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: be a good boy. Stop stop. Oh my goodness, of
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: course this is this is something going on California. Close
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: to two thousand people still evacuated from towns below the
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: massive dam in Oraville, California. However, while the water levels
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: are receding in Lake Oraville, which keeps them from spilling over,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: the dam's emergency spillway is still on Cleveland. Residents are
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: going to be allowed to go back to their homes.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: And today, of course, is National Frederick Douglas Day, National
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: call in Single Day, National Condom Day, and of course,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: of course it's Valentine's Day. When I say I'm in love,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: you best believe I'm in love. The UV that right, baby,
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: put out back to Starve Boarding show. Thank you miss
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: saying your mama, get them instruments and let's get to work.
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: Then of my mama. Don't my mama been gone years?
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: You can't even talk about if you talk about my
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: mother and I hear you, we immediately addresses this. And
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: you need to get me to understand that this was
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: an accident or something something dog because he ain't done
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: for you. But as all right, love doctor, you want
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: to switch. All right, let's go to the phones. If
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: you have questions for the Love Doctor on this Valentine's Day,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: call us eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. Let's go
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: to line six and talk to Brian out of Maryland. Brian, Steve,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: good morning's happening now much? My answer? I make things
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: like my girl. We had a little altercation. She told me,
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: checks her aunt out of her phone. I recommenze. I
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: think nobody didn't recognize looks at it, seeing that it's
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: a baby and stuff like that. And I was drinking
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: all right, not realizing that was my words. Phone it
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: go just went down hem from there. Okay, hold a dog.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: A lot of information missing in this stone because it's
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: a long it's a long story A time. I got that,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: but let me ask you something. She wants you to
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: take your her aunt's number out your phone. Her phone.
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: She gave me her phone and check her our new
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: address to come to the house, so ending that I've
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: seen his number and I clicked on it, and I've
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: seen baby and stuff like that. But I was drinking that,
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: like Steve, not realizing that this was my work number.
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: But I think what he's saying talking to you, somebody,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: somebody helped me understand what he's saying, Steve, is that
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: here in her phone. It was his work number in
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: that phone, and she was talking to him saying baby.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: But he said he was drinking, so he didn't know.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: He didn't recognize that that was his work saying yeahs
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: around his text messages. Oh so you don't accuse your girl, Yeah, okay,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: do just don't just seem like an easy fix. It
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: ain't that easy because he was so let me take
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: what you did. You don't win way out of bounce
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: when you found this text. Huh yeah, yeah, you you would.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: You would hard left and now you can't get back
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: over to the right exactly. I tried to blink and everything.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: Oh I see with the oh, I see, I see
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: right now, all right, doll, hang on, man, I'll help
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: you out. Quit reading and drinking at the same time,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: and don't add up. I'm trying to tell uk text
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: drinking read, You got pick one. Gona do somebody who drank,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: speaking from experience, talking to somebody who you must have
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: him talking, drink and read. You can't do it. Ain't
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: gonna come. All right, I'm teddy. You're listening to Steve
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, coming up next, Yes, it
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: is Valentine's day. We still have Brian on the line.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: He's unhauled. Brian wrongly accused his girl of cheating because
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: he was drunk and reading text messages. We'll get to
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: him right after this with the Love Doctor Steve Harvey
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: book with Questions for the Love Doctor on this Valentine's Day.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Let's go back to line six with Brian. Who Brian
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: b Yeah, okay, so let me help you out a
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: little bit. Man. So you read a text but it
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: was your work number. You thought it was from another guy,
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: so you snapped and went off. Did you do this
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: while you was drunk? No? I waited. I waited after
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: the party. Okay, So you weren't drunk, not drunk. Okay,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: So you in your right mind when you called all
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: these Yeah okay now so yeah, so now what you'dn't
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: done is you didn't said some stuff to her that's
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: been like pretty vile pretty much. Yeah. Okay, Uncle Steve,
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: we know word you can't say. Trust Please say you
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: didn't say that. Oh no, he said, God no he said.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: If he did, if he hadn't said that, we all
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: kinds of so and souls when you got through. Is
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: that what you're saying? Be yeah. Yeah, yeah, see you
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: you messed up. Ow can you fix it? Yeah, he
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: can fix it, but it's a crawl back process. Um,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: you gotta shower her. You gotta start How how long
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: y'all been dating B three years? Yeah? Man, you gotta
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: start over. So this is Valentine's Day? What what what
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: you do for for her today? Well? She worked in night,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: so last night I just left some rolls, candles on
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: balloons and a couple of gifts on the bed foot
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: when she came back because I'm not leaving in the
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: room right now, ll know. But they still in the
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: same house. Yeah, well he can work it out of
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: being the same how okay? So but I thought it
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: was a long distance relationship. No, no, that was the
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: car earlier producing Dude, I love it. I got a
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: chance to come back. You're in the same house. We
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: got a chance. How long ago did this happen? Less
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: than a week ago? Oh? Yeah, you got a chance.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: But now let me explain something to you. Be it's
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: going to have to be a constant shower of affection,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: an array of apologies. One ain't gonna get it. Mhm.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: The thought of someone else with the love of my
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: life was too much for me to bath. And I
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: thought I was actually losing you to another man. That's
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: pretty damn good. I struck out and I filed off
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: in ways that really ain't me. But if you thought
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: you would lose it, the love of your life, that
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: everything you ever hoped and dreamed of was walking out
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: the door, what would be your reaction. I'm sorry, Please
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: don't leave me. You're the greatest thing that's ever happened
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: to me. And that's got to be consistent. Man, M
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: look at six cold boy. Yeah, that's good. That's good.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: You just saying that. That's good. That definitely appreciates that.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: More gifts, keep the gifts coming. You gotta show out,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: be you gotta start over. But you can get it
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: back though though sober you do that no moment. You're listening, alright,
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day, Happy Valentine's Day. It's here today. So Steve,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: you're taking love calls, giving love advice as the love
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: Doctor to our callers. Eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: we'll take some more after this, all right, Steve, Let's
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: go to the phones. Let's talk to line eight. Let's
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: go to Mac, who is from Arkansas. Mac Mac Mac,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: What are you doing? Mac? All right? Okay, let's go
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: to line for Dr Chris out of l A. Chris. Hello, Hey,
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: what's up man? What's up? Steve? Hey, No, one's not
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: you in a long distant relationship. Um, all right, just
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: won't get that clear them a mile in the hair, man.
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: My wife has been separated since, um, the day after Thanksgiving, brother,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: and I just don't know how much more I could take. Brother.
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: She's been mean, Steve means, well, they usually a don't
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: mean for no reason. So I think you mean because
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: they take out their mama. Okay, that's why. That's why, y'all.
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: But what did you do, Chris? Um, I ain't did nothing, Steve.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: I've been spalling enough for years. Brother. Um. I think
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: she she got this job man, and it's just been
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: on for the past three years. She's been turning meaner
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: and meaner and meaner. She makes more money than you. Um. Now, Uh,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: it's the job stressful. Yeah, I believe it is. I
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: truly believe it is. Like they've been that. They had
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: a couple of deaths out that the other day they
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: had on explosion toe. Um, I know that kind of
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: took a toll on it. But I've been trying to
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: be there for you know. So come on, man, she
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: got a job. Y'all have been separated since thanks you. Okay, right, Chris,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: what you're not telling me? Um? I'm telling you everything, Steve,
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: like I try to love her, you know, and UM
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: trying to work through the separation. We went to counciling, man,
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: and she met it up a couple of um, a
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: couple of hours after council So I don't know. Okay,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: So y'all went to counseling because you all were having
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: what problem? Um? Because I left because she's been being mean?
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Oh you left unless she was? You left, right, So
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: the separation was caused by you. Yeah, okay, so now
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: what you want her to do? Nice? I love my wife, Steve,
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: but man, I can't deal with it. I'm old school,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: you know. I gotta Um, a woman had the no
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: woman's place. You know. That's why right here, that's why
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: you buy yourself a problem. Chris. There we go. Did
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: just keep the woman? The Bible? The Bible says that
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: a woman should be to music to a husban. I mean,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: it's plainly silf, a black and white brother. It also
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: says Christ treated the church. She can't wear the pants, Shirley.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: It also says, it also says, you know love your
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: wife is Christ loved the church, you know how right?
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: And I loved my wife. My wife became my wife
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: before weeks spent the ten thousand dollars on the week,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So it's um, I love her,
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Chris drug, Chris, you got this Bible verse? Man, That
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: Bible verse got you over there by yourself. Man, Man,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: hang on, we're coming back with you. You're listening Steve
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, all right, coming up at the top
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: of the hour. He is a good man with trust issues.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: That is the subject of the Strawberry letter. He's a
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: good man with trust issues. Okay, and we got more
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: than that on the phone. What's his name, Chris, Chris.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: We're just talking to Chris, Chris. Let me talk Chris
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: right quick, Chris, Chris, Yeah, I'm here. You know, man, Chris,
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: How old are you for the one? How old is
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: your wife? Um? Oh? Hell, let's do it. When you
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: have you read that Bible verse two or Chris? Yes,
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: we both know the Bible very wherever? Well, hold on,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: see hold on, I don't want you to think that
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to be chauvinistic when I said that, Well,
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: well let me ask you this. Come on you what
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: is Yeah? I know you're saying you're trying not to be,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: but how do you think this sounds? I get that? Okay, Okay,
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: give me an example, Chris, of her not staying in
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: her place, Um, just running around. You know. Every everything
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: we do is what she wants to do, you know
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: what I mean? And if I don't do it, then, um,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: it's pretty much attitude. Um, she gets mad at me
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: because the curtain is brown. They she think they should
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: be blue, you know what I mean, Like they just
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: don't fly. Brother. You know, well no, yeah, man, you're
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: saying the words that ain't. That's antagonistic. Okay, so listen
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: to me. Oh, I got you just using the curtains
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: as an analogy. Who decorates the house? She does? Right?
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: Do you have say so in it? Um? Yeah? Okay,
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: And you think you had the right to have say
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: so in it? Yes? I pay bill? Then okay, let
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: me give you some advice my daddy gave me. My
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: daddy says, son, you got one job. Your job is
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: to provide a home, right I mean, your job is
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: to provide a house. Her job is to make it
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: a home. You're interfering with the home making process. See
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: you got all these rules by her staying in her place,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: but your ways ain't in your place. See you gotta
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: you gotta understand that you are dealing with a woman.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: I don't care if seventy eight the women don't they
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: women now? Unless until you learn how to treat a woman,
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: you forever go have a problem. She means cause she
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: tied to you. She just tied you, and you get
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: this little young fine thing back like that because she
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: over there by herself just at least being able to
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: do what she wanna do because there's so much pushback
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: from her. Man, why do you find on every little
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: thing she want to do? I don't, Steve, I promise you,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: I don't. Brother. Okay, So let me ask you this.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: What is the big move that you went in the
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: house and asked her to do that she didn't want
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: to do, Because that didn't happen. Um, it wasn't that
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: I got my arm. She hid my wallet so I
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: couldn't go anywhere because she had to work on Thanksgiving night.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: I didn't playing on them going anywhere anyway. Um, And
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: she just hit my wallet just to be spiteful because
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: she didn't want me to go anywhere. I don't want
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: to go to the store. And that was just enough
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: for me. Like it is, the meanness had been going
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: on for months further, so I just decided, you know,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: maybe we need a separation, you know. Yeah, so you
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: left because when you get to the point, when you
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: get to the point, Steve, where um you feel like
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: you want to put your hands on them, you gotta
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: it's time to to separate. Yeah, definitely, definitely, definitely time
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: to do that. But let me ask you something. But
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: you left though right now, you won't help back, No nothing.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: I loved my wife, so we want each other back,
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's just that I'm not
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: sure they're going back is the right thing now, you know? Okay,
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: so this ain't bout she won't take you back. You
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: don't want to go back. I do want to go
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: back to you because a little my wife, right, But
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: you want your way or the highway. Not necessarily it's
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: always been her way. I live. I give her her way.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: All I wanted to do is be nice if she
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: if she can have her way be nice? You know
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah? Okay, can you fix this? Can
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: you give it up? Steve? Dr Harvey? Because Chris just
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: ain't being forth right? They are usually mean for a reason.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm um okay, Chris, they ain't just mad for
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: no reason. And the thing you think they're mad about
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: is usually way deeper than that. And how long okay,
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: how how long? How long y'all been married? Watched this hill?
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: Got it? I got it? Now? How long y'all a
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: year and a half a year? Let me ask you something,
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: when you first got married, what she means? Yes, okay,
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: well then, okay, so here we go bing bing bing bing.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: I told you it was coming to she was mean
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: before you got married, and you thought if you got
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: married what would change? It? Was gonna help it? You know?
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: I thought that was part of the problem of her
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: being mean. No, so Minister told me one time, when
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: you getting married, whoever you marry, and however you get married,
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: the only thing that changes after the wedding day is
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: the appearance of your left hand third finger. If y'all
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: wasn't cool back then, y'all ain't gonna be cool now.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: If she was mean, then she's gonna be mean the
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: day after the wind the next damn day. You ain't
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: even got the winter. Oh so bro, you don't mess
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: around and married yourself a mean woman. Now if the
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: reason you're married to mean woman is called she young
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: and fine, no no, no, no, no, no no no,
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: I'm ugly back. Okay, So you, Chris, she young and fine.
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: That's why you tolerated the meanness. Oh yeah, oh yeah,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, oh yeah. Now you're talking about something we
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: all know about. So now, Chris, hello, yeah, I don't
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: would say yeah, I know by Chris, have notice? Have
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: it Valentine by yourself? Yeah, Chris, course, Christine left our
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: way to my damn yeah, down the streets. She's down
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: the streets. You're down the street. Wow, who's gonna be
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: it in mama? Huh m hmm. All right, we're taking none.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: All right, we got line six. Jasmine out of Florida. Jasmine,
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: Good morning, jazz man. You're so heavy on my mind,
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: like a flower that grows amidst the rules. Jasmine, You're
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: always my mind. I said, don't make me cry this morning.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: I needed that. I know, all right, Jeffer, So what's
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: going on? Well? Me and my boyfriend. We've been together
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: for um almost five years now. Everything seemed like it
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: was going great, you know, and go ahead. Um, I
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: started feeling some mistrust lately. Um, he picked up a
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: more extra hours at work, so I'm barely seeing him now. Um,
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: but I kind of felt like it was more to
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: it that was going on. So I finally got him
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: to tell me that he ended up running into a
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: female that he used to like a while ago. Uh,
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: this was before my time when he knew about her,
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: but he never used to date or anything. But now
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you're running to the female, and I'm saying,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: less of you isn't more to it. Um, He's telling
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: me I had nothing to worry about and everything goes.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: But it just seemed like everything is just excuses around him.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: When I try to ask him about it, all I
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: get back is excuses and argument. Why did he tell
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: you thank you ran up into and an old girlfriend?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: Why did he tell you that? Well, it wasn't an
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: old girlfriend. He claimed he neverdated her. Um, but he
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: told me because he knew. I felt like I knew
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: something more was going off when I was asking about it,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: but he didn't tell me right then and there took
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: him a couple of days found telling um, but I
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: felt like more to it, and so I guess he
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: He always said that we would always be honest with
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: each others. That was why is his daddy in his life? No? No,
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: his kid, Your daddy would have taught you this. Yeah,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: I can always tell when the dad is. You know, like,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: we would always be honest. But see what he did
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: in his honesty was also an admission. The reason you're
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: not seeing me as much as we're feeling kind of
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: distance because I don't read up into this girl that
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: I used to like. Uh, it don't make no sense
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: to say that unless the two is tied together with
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: your lack of seeing him. You understand. So now what
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: you have to do is you have to trust your
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: intuition because it works. What is your intuition telling you?
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: I feel like he's lying. I feel like everything is alive,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: But he's telling me that you want me and only me,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: and when you know it's only us, but I don't.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: I don't feel it. Well, making prove it until you
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: feel it. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Marning Show. Yeah,
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: buggle up, hold on tight, we got it all your subject.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: He's a good man with trust issues. Dear Stephen Shirley,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: I have been in my relationship for ten years. We
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: have a daughter together, and for the most part, you
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: think all is well. We both have hurt each other
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: in the past and we forgave each other now. I
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: trust him, but he doesn't trust me. For example, I
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: am not allowed to be on social media, and when
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: I go out, he makes it hard for me to
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: leave the house. He always wants to go out with me,
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: or he tries to alter my plans. I don't have
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: any friend now because he wants us to share friends,
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: so I can't develop any friendships on my own. I
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: still respect him, but I don't care about this relationship anymore.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: When we do have sex a couple of times a week,
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: I don't want it. I want to pack up and go,
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: but financially I can't. We share the car note payment
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: and I have to consider my daughter. I care about
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: how my family ends up, but I want to go
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: so bad. Don't get me wrong, he is a good man,
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: just not for me. What should I do? You have
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: to go? If you want to go, I mean you
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: will only be getting away from a controlling, manipulative man.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's no way to live. You don't have
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: any friends right now, you can't be on social media, etcetera, etcetera,
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: the things that are important to you. You said you
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: guys hurt each other in the past. I'm thinking you
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: didn't say it, but that means you guys cheated. You
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: said you forgave each other. Uh, well, that's what you think.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: You may have forgiven him for whatever happened. Again, I'm
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: assuming it was cheating, but he certainly is still holding
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: a grudge and not forgiving you. And and that's what
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: he's using to control you. I mean when you say
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: things like I am not allowed, that means control. He's
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: controlling you. Um, if you're not allowed because he doesn't
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: allow you to do certain things, you have a daughter.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: You got to set an example for your child in this.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: So my advice to you would be to get some
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: sort of part time job, some sort of extra income
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: coming in so um, you won't have to be dependent
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: upon him financially, because that seems to be a major
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: problem with you. You can't leave because you know he
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: holds the purse strings. So if you want to be
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: out from under all of that, get yourself. Um uh,
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: you know some more streams of income and that way
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: you can leave since you don't want to be there, Steve. Yeah,
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: well all right, since I see the letter a little
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: bit different than you, Shay, I've been in my relationship
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: for ten years. Y'all ain't marry. We have a daughter together,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: and for the most part, you think all as well.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: I don't write there. You've been in a relationship for
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: ten years? What is going We have both heard each
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: other in the past, and we forgave each other. Forgiving
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: somebody don't mean you forget. And when you say you
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: both heard of each other, you both cheated. But I
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: can tell in this letter you cheated last, seem he
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: cheated first, You retaliated and you cheated last. Thus his
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: behavior because I know men now, I trust him, but
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: he does not trust me. Oh see you you hear
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: that little line in there. Because you've had more time
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: to forgive him, then you wouldn't done it on him.
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: He ain't had as much time you said. You say
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: you want to move on, he ain't. For example, I'm
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: not allowed to be on social media because when you
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: was on social media, you were sleeping with the dude
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: on social media. I'm just telling you. And when I
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: go out, he makes it hard for me lead a
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: house because the last time you left the house, you
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: left the house to sleep with the dude that you
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: met on social media. He always wants to go out
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: with me, and he tries to alter my plans. He
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  Speaker 1: gotta go out with you. Canned last time and let
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: you go out by yourself. You slept with the dude
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: that you met on social media. I don't have any
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: friends now because he wants us to share friends. The
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: reason you ain't got no friends because you said you
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: had friended him on Facebook. And then when you went
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: out with the man that you met on Facebook, that
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: your friend, and you slept with him, you slap with him,
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: And now he's scared to let you go out because
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: every time you leave a house is to see your friend,
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: that your friend and on Facebook, which is on social media.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: So I can't develop any friendships on my own. No,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: you cannot because you end up sleeping with filling. See this,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: I read the letter. I still respect him, but I
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: don't care about this relationship anymore. Okay, now, surely got
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: this part right. This overweight, this overweight bamussa bama moos
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: underlay or weavera dirty child? Are you like when we
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: do have sex a couple of times a week? I
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: don't want it like that. When we do have sex
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: couple of times a week, I don't want I want
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: to pack up and go, but financially I can't. Yes,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: you can. You just don't want to live at the
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: same lifestyle you at. You can leave m now you
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: just be walking into one room. There will be no
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: corn attorney you lead him car keys over too y
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: that's his on the thought twice a week. I'll be
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: back tell you what I want. Okay, you're listening to
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: all right? We are in the middle of the Strawberry
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  Speaker 1: Letters subject He's a good man with trust issues, Part
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: two of Steve's response. All right, he's a good man
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: with trust issues. Lady wrote in she's been in a
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: relationship for ten years. They have a daughter together. Um
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: we we we pretty much surmise that they both cheated
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: on each other. She says they trust each other. No,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: they don't. She trusts him, but he doesn't trust her. No,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: nobody trust nobody in this relationship. She trust him. She's
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: sick of him. He controlling calls. She didn't messed up,
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: He didn't messed up. You know it's over. When we
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: do have sex a couple of times a week, I
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: don't want it, says that's real good, though, Why are
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: we talking to him? I want to pack up and go,
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: but financially I can't. We share the car note payments,
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: and I have to consider my daughter. Well, let's look
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: at this. If you share the card note payments, ain't
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: had to call yours. M hm. Get over there and
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: sit on the stand wheel side and drive your half off.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: You can't drive half a car. You you over there
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: on the stand wheel side. Mhm, drive off? If you
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: that miserable, I mean, then she said, I care about
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: how my family ends up, but I want to go
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: so bad. You don't have a family, y'all just got
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: a daughter together. Y'all ain't married. You ain't even gotta
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: get a divorce. You ain't gotta get separation. You just
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: drive off. Don't get me wrong. He's a good man,
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: just not for me. Okay, Well that's it. That's it.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: Get back on social media, befriend your friend, go back
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: out with him and see if he won't. You now,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: because you may be not wonting this sex because you
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: might think that the dude that you went out went
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: on social media won't you. But it's real easy to
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: find out because I'm pretty sure he got somebody somewhere too.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: So why don't you call him up and find out
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: if he really won't you? Why are you making up
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: all easy? I want to go so bad, but financially
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: I can't find out if the dude that you slept
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: with is willing to help you and your daughter with
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 1: a place to stay or move in with him and
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: have a relationship. Why don't you just find that out?
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: Then you might not you might not be in as
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: bad as financial shape as you think. Greener, but you
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: don't want this man. He's a good man, just not
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: for me. So why are we together? Stop wasting time?
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: You're sleeping with a man and you don't even want
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: to sleep with him? Hell he hell he could? Where
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: do he want? I know what? He won't look at?
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: H up alone. You're gonna be all right. My nails
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: is still with a love We have more phone called
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve call us if
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: you want to talk to the love doctor for some
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: love advice. This morning, we'll be back. You're listening to
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Valentine's Day. Happy
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, every one. Yeah, Happy Valentine's Nephew. Thank you,
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: Thank you nephew, Steve, Tommy and Junior. Happy Valentine's Day
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: to you, well, thank you, thanks Carla. Happy Valentine's Day
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: to you, Thank you, my sister. Happy Valentine's Day. What's
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: gonna do? Tonic? Sharon call? Well, you know when you
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: heard me, saw me dance? Well I made reservations. Oh
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: we know you anyway, So we're gonna take phone calls.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: As I was saying, for Steve as a love doctor
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: today eight seven, seven twenty nine, Steve, you had some
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: interesting one so far. Yeah, yeah, Chris though, what should know?
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: A place? Man? Better place? Women? Take it to me?
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: What out a dope? All right, Happy Valentine's Day. Let's
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: go to the phone. People are on the line. They
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: have questions for the love Dr Steve Harvey. Let's go
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: to line seven and talk to Durant out of New York. Hey,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: how you doing? Oh man, what's going on with you?
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: And tell me about it? Not much? Man, really, I
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: know you gotta got much time. Basically, UM, I'm got
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: a girl now and that I love um about almost
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: a year. And then, um, we both have kids, so
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: as kids involved in the situation. Um, the thing is,
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: I'm basically going through what uh single mother will go through. Um.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: In November, I've gotten custody of my side, so I
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: have primary residential custody. And it seems like his mother
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: is doing everything that she could do basically to make
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: my life hell. Um, so and and and they're good
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: at it too though yeah, and I don't understand, like,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: but the thing is, you know, she doesn't really do
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: anything for him. Um, so everything is based on me,
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: and I make every decision. You know, I need to
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: to take care of far as my son as well
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: as myself. Now, the situation is me and my girlfriend.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: You know, we're great, Um, no arguments, nothing, you know,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: we're making plans, goals far as to each other and
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: things like that. But there's always a hiccup with as
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: far as my son's mom where it seems like she
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: still wants to have some sense of control of my
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: life and what's going on, and my girl doesn't want that.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: I don't want that. And I've been trying to do
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: the best that I can as far as to not
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: allow her to have control of our lives to where
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: it's starting to ruin far as our lives where you
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: know she slowly want. It's gonna be difficult because it's
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: crazy the way family court. You've dealt with this in
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: family court m hm. Family court is very different. There's
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: a lot of leeway in family court. It's not like
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: regular court where you're just going there. It's a slam
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: dunk just the way it is h family court. Man
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: allows a lot. It's crazy. I've been in that for years.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: Man and the mother. Uh gets a lot of leeway
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: in family court. But you gotta get some type of orders.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: You gotta get some type of orders for visitation and
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: things like that. The problem is, I know, I know
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: you have that, but they go outside of the order
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: to do things that there is no order for. You
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: didn't know you needed an order for harassing calls. You
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: didn't know you needed an order for rearranging schedules at
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: the last minute to throw a monkey wrench in the
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: scheduling plan that you had. But he'll have no fury
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: like a woman scorn. The reason you're catching this because
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: she's also aware of the new girlfriend. M hm. See
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: once they become aware that there's the other chick. Oh man,
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: the hale knob get turned up to team No. I
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: understand that. I just don't understand, you know, because like
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: at one point, you know, she like I know, from
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: from dealing with her and being in relation with her,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: I know that she's she's a manipulator. And you know,
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: the last time he was at court, you know, she's
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: explained to me. You know, she's she's engaged now and
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: that's fine. I'm glad you know that you're moving on
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: into life. I'm trying to move on my life. But
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it turns around and
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: it's like, um, you want to stop me from moving
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: or or doing things that I need to do far
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: as to take care of him. You tell me that, Okay,
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: my girl needs to step up and take care of
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: our child. But now when she does that, then it's like, well, oh,
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 1: you're taking him away from me, and you're taking away
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: my uh trying with my son or that that in
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: the third and I just don't really know far as
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: the others that take so where me and my girl.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: Now she's kind of like wanting to fall back now,
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: and I'm not sure she doesn't want to continue. Not
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: bake off of me, just stay sf of my son's mother.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: That she don't want the baby mama drama. Correct, she
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: don't want it. Yeah, and you know what, she don't
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 1: deserve it you. She loves you, but she didn't know
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: all that came with you. So unless you find a
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: way to deal with brun Hilda until of the hun
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: she gonna wreck this relationship and the next one too.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 1: So I don't know if it's a joint sit down
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: that you have to have with the mediator mm hmm,
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: her her fiance that probably don't really exist and you
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: and your girl m Do you all have battles about
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: parenting styles. No, I mean there is a little different,
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: but I know, Um, she's doing around my son a lot,
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: but I know what she means to where I don't
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: take it out of context to where it's like, um no,
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: don't tell him that, or don't don't talk to them
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: like that. You know, I know where she's coming from. Um,
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: you know she's West Indian. So yeah, it's a little different,
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: but I'm okay with it. So No, we don't bump
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: heads with that. Well, unless the three of you all
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: can sit down, man, and have a real adult conversation
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: about the child and give her the respect that she
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: really thinks she deserves as the mother when she does
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: because she is a mother, sit down and have a
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: heart to heart and the three of you sit down,
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: or if she really does have someone, the four of
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: you and say this is how we're gonna parent. I
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: love it, I respect you. I want you to respect me.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: What do we got to do to make this work?
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: What would you be happy? It's knowing and feeling. How
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: do you want to be involved in your son's life?
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: And we'll incorporate that and see if that works. That's
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: really other than that, man, and you gotta go to court,
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: and the court is too lenient in family court. They
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: just let them, man, They let him do what they wanted. Oh,
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning showy Candy Balladine
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: chocolates and stuff. Okay, you want to go back to
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 1: the phone, Steve. Okay, let's go to line three and
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: talk to Rodney out of Virginia. Oh dude, can't you
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: tell yeah Gus Valentine's Day. They want to get it
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: right and were it up. Crew, have a Valentine Day
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: to everybody doing what you got well the Horby I
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: found this was blessed by the Lord to bring queen
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  Speaker 1: to me. After four and a half years of going
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: through agne and everything with an ax, I asked the
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: Lord for what I wanted. I got on my hands
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: and knees for four and a half years, and he
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: found it, brought my queen to me. I didn't I
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 1: won't look, and she won't looking, and he brought her
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: to me, Mr Harvard, and the same with her, she
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: won't looking after four and a half years after divorce,
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: and he brung both of us together. And like they said,
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: don't miss your blessing, I didn't miss my Mr Harved.
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: And I heard you talk about the place in New
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: York where you can get the value of your ring,
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: far as the value of it, as far as the
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: money off of it. And I wanted to do that
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: because after they put the ring in my hand twenty
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 1: years ago because they thought the grass was greener, I'm
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: gonna take that ring, go up New York to the
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: place where you were speaking of. I'm gonna trade it in.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my Queen her Ring, and I'm gonna
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: come out in front of that store and I'm going
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: to sing Jeffrey Osborne right to her in the front
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 1: of everybody out there. I'm gonna sing the song by
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: Jeffrey Osborne, and I'm gonna love her until the day
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: that I die. People think about put that on my
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: talk show. Say a little bit now, I have never
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: been in love before. M m m m. You know
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: he had to get in so round, always got let
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: go and love, don't they know? Damn yeah, the hobbit
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: I'm putting down in New York never never so much more.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: He's still all in right, sorry, give him a minute,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: right he could see now never've never is much more
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: than they got into. She come on your short singing song.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 1: We gotta close it out right, thank you, thank you.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: That's right. Put that. Put the rock on the end
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: up when you got to that's where you do when
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 1: you can't saying you gotta rough it up. That's what
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 1: you're doing to put the rock on the edgetion. Well,
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: congratulations Rodney, Rodney. What you can do with your ring,
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 1: no dog is uh self uh you can you can
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: get it evaluated. You don't have to go to New
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 1: York to get it evaluated. Okay, you could take it
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 1: to where where do you live? Well, Mrs I live
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 1: in this slave state. Become with James. I live in
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 1: the slades, just like I just said, I live in
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: this slade state, the common Wealth of Virginia. Yeah, but
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: I like Virginia's nice is it's not confused love with slavery?
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: Right now? Yeah, we was going pretty good, Nick mad So.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: Oh no, thank you for calling. Man. You can get
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 1: your diamond appraised on the local level somewhere. Why is
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: the g store not coming to me? Ge h man,
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 1: it's not coming in my head? What do you take
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: to get your diamonds? It's the just check up the
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: jul No boy, the place where they evaluate all diamonds.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: Tell you what the grade is, flaws, color clarity? Oh
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: Ken Ken Wayne? If you want authentic, uh, g F
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 1: I certified. Oh I think I'm a saying right initial
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 1: g F I certified? You do all that rich stuff?
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about that. I got a brother
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 1: named Kenny Wayne can tell you exactly what it is.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: Everything you're gonna see Kenny Wayne, Kenny Wayne eating money
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 1: right there for the right that's good for you, Rodney though.
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: All right, let's see, let's go to the line. Let's
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 1: go to line to talk to Tasha out of Virginia. Tasha, Hi, Yeah,
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 1: have to home. We'll come back, Tsha right after the
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: break hold on Tasha Okay said Okayed, Valentine's Day and
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: you are married, mayor I'm talking to leave me alone? Alright, Yeah,
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: We'll be back to find out what's on Tasha's mind
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: this Valentine's Day. She has a question for the Love Doctor.
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 1: Do you have a question? Call us eight seven seven
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: twenty nine, Steve. We'll be right back. You're listening to Steve.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 1: All right, we're back. We are taking your phone calls
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: eight seven twenty nine Steve. Questions of love for the
• 1:27:44
  Speaker 1: Love Doctor, Steve Harvey on this Valentine's Day, two thousand
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: and seventeen love. All right, Steve. Let's go back to
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: Tasha online too, out of Virginia. Question for the doctor, Jasha,
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: h Okay, what can I do for you? Okay? So
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 1: I've been married. Um, it's coming up a year in April,
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 1: and at the well, not at the top of the year,
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 1: but towards the end of the year. I decided to
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: make a career change. It did not play in my favor,
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 1: and I am currently without a job. Um. Since then,
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 1: my husband has not I consider it not made me
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: a priority. Um. He says things like like if I
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: asked for something, he's like, you know, I take care
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: of the bills in the house kind of thing. And
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 1: let me explain that we're not in a position where
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  Speaker 1: we're pressed for money. Um. He's an engineer. He makes
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  Speaker 1: very good money. Um, but it seems like if I
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  Speaker 1: asked for something, it's an issue. It's like, I pay
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  Speaker 1: the bills, right, Okay, let me let me get a trade.
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  Speaker 1: You're you're not working right now? Correct? Okay. He was
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  Speaker 1: unhappy with the decision you made. We discussed it prior
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  Speaker 1: to me making the decisions because he worked on Monday
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  Speaker 1: to Friday and I didn't at the time. Um, my
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  Speaker 1: schedule was crazy and I wasn't turning holes until you know,
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  Speaker 1: anywhere between ten o'clock eleven o'clock at night, and he
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  Speaker 1: was unhappy with it. So we discussed me getting a
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  Speaker 1: nine of five. It did not play in my favor. Um,
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  Speaker 1: and currently I'm looking for something nine of five Monday
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  Speaker 1: through Friday. So that I can spend more time with
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  Speaker 1: my family. It was a sacrifice that we made collectively
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  Speaker 1: that did not play in my favor. And now, okay, see,
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  Speaker 1: listen to me. So you keep saying that, let me
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  Speaker 1: ask yourself. You quit your job thanking had the other
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  Speaker 1: job and it didn't come through. Correct, Okay, now he
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: mad about that. Yes, okay, it was a joint decision. Okay,
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. You quit your job
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  Speaker 1: before you had the job. No, I quit the job
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  Speaker 1: with the confirmation of having the job, and then they
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  Speaker 1: had a free So I'm on pause with no job. Now.
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  Speaker 1: I took a vacation prior to quitting my other job
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  Speaker 1: and that was the end of my employment with my
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  Speaker 1: other employer. Mhm, what is it you trying to buy?
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  Speaker 1: What did you want? Trying to buy anything? I don't
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: want to buy anything, but I get anything for Christmas?
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  Speaker 1: And his his thing was I pause every time, like, so,
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  Speaker 1: you didn't get anything for Christmas? No, and it was
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  Speaker 1: I tall all the disen house. Okay, listen to me.
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  Speaker 1: This is his way of saying, since you did that,
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  Speaker 1: this is what I'm doing now. And now this has
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  Speaker 1: caused us some financial strife. So before I go any
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  Speaker 1: further in the whole, this is what I'm doing right now.
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  Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is in his mind, he's creative
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  Speaker 1: because finance is big with him. He watches every penny.
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  Speaker 1: He dots all the eyes and crosses all the teas,
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  Speaker 1: don't it. He's not that guy. I'm that guy. And
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  Speaker 1: watch your tone. Her tone is a problem. That's when
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  Speaker 1: she asked for yah, I agree with Right now, you're
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: hauling at me. She's Tommy's on her nerves, ain't y'all know?
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  Speaker 1: On Tsha, We'll be back. You're listening show all right?
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  Speaker 1: More phone calls right after this, going back to Tasha. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: oh Valentine's Day. Back to the phones for the love
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  Speaker 1: doctor Valentine's Day line to Tasha out of Virginia, Hey Tasha,
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  Speaker 1: Hi go ahead's um so oh yeah. With the married
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  Speaker 1: to the engineer, I think my biggest concern is I
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  Speaker 1: just want my sweetheart back. Fike my husband, I just
• 1:32:48
  Speaker 1: want my sweetheart back. Like my husband, he'll to random
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  Speaker 1: acts of kindness like I'll get flowers on a random
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  Speaker 1: day or edible arrangement for a card. And now it's
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  Speaker 1: you're not getting of that. See he's tying all this
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  Speaker 1: to finance. You have to understand that about us. We
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: will tie something to finance if we feel a financial
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 1: let down, stress or strain were tied to something. He's
• 1:33:18
  Speaker 1: upset with you about the move you made and until
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  Speaker 1: that gets corrected. Here he is. Now he's acting out
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: something that he feels on the inside. It was a jocision.
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  Speaker 1: It don't matter. It wasn't really a joint decision. They
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  Speaker 1: talked about it. I know what you're saying, sweetheart, listen
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  Speaker 1: to me. I'm just I'm just giving you a different
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  Speaker 1: perspective how he's looking at it. It was a joint decision.
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  Speaker 1: But since you bought the decision, this was your idea.
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  Speaker 1: Now he agreed with it. I bet he did. But
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  Speaker 1: now he's looking at this is what I agreed to.
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: Now I hold out. The comfort zone that I was
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: feeling of this two incomes is gone. Now I'm solely responsible. Well,
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: I gotta button down the hatches and tightened up the ship.
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  Speaker 1: I can't buy you nothing for Christmas. I'm paying all
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: the damn bills. See, because he didn't figure it out.
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  Speaker 1: And if you were the person that was doting eyes
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  Speaker 1: and crossing the teas with the finances. You're not doing
• 1:34:27
  Speaker 1: that anymore because now all you're doing is asking for
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  Speaker 1: stuff to him. Okay, I mean you know, I just
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  Speaker 1: think that's where he could be. How do you really
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 1: feel about it? So tell me that in regards to okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you really want your boyfriend back my husband to be
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  Speaker 1: my husband. I want him to be the man that
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  Speaker 1: I got married to. And it only changed after I
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: lost my well and I can lose it, but still
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 1: I tried to do my switch, and my switch was
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: for us to have more time together. Right now, you
• 1:35:07
  Speaker 1: got the time, but there's a loss all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Right Well, see now I think have you sat down
• 1:35:18
  Speaker 1: with him and you all had a lengthy discussion about this.
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  Speaker 1: We do, but I mean it escalates, It escalates into
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 1: an argument about finances. Yes, M see, so that we
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  Speaker 1: ain't hurting the factor that you keep telling me in
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: his mind, we hurt mhmm. You don't know nobody that
• 1:35:41
  Speaker 1: hind If you don't want to work, you can get
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: a sugar daddy. You in the sugar daddy likes him.
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 1: He ain't gonna buy get you a sugar dad. Let's
• 1:35:56
  Speaker 1: move on, Mr Ernest. You need to mimr Ernest. Husband
• 1:36:01
  Speaker 1: needs to be my sugar daddy. That's that's what I want.
• 1:36:04
  Speaker 1: That's what I want. Hey, baby, you can get that,
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to sit it down and you're
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 1: gonna have the conversation without it escalating. Now, how do
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: you have the financial discussion with your husband without it escalator?
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: We go you're listening to the stew all right, on
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 1: this love Day, this Valentine's Day, we have more phone
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 1: calls for you. Um, we'll get to some more, some
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 1: good ones on the board, Steve. Hopefully we'll be able
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 1: to get to all of them before we get out
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: of here. This is our last break of the day.
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 1: All right, Valentine's Day. All morning, people have been calling. Uh.
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: We're calling him the Love Doctor h in honor of
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. Steve, all right, let's go to line three.
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 1: Maurice out of Florida used to be one of Maurice.
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 1: What's going on? Man? What talk to me? Hey more? Mr? Harder,
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  Speaker 1: how are you doing? Man? I'm Goodice? What's happened? Hold
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  Speaker 1: alright quick? I got got I gotta get my truck man.
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 1: Got too much mors all right, mhmod woman to Harvey
• 1:37:28
  Speaker 1: talked to me, that's all I got a story for you. Man,
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 1: it's a such a story. Man. I've been married for
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  Speaker 1: I know this lady for fifteen years. I've been married
• 1:37:38
  Speaker 1: to for fourteen years. And she's my first and she's
• 1:37:40
  Speaker 1: my only one. And her name is the Shan and Sean. Okay,
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 1: and see oh about six years old, man, I was
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 1: on my death bed and um, I was out here
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 1: working and my body crap up on me and I
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: had to get rushed to the emergency room. Man, and
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 1: the doctors came in and told me. They say, man,
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 1: you make it be a lie. I said, why you
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 1: say that? And she man, your muscles shutdown for your kidns?
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 1: Did Man? Your kids would have shutdown for your muscles. Man,
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be right here talking everything. See, I got
• 1:38:19
  Speaker 1: a sister in law, she's my sister's arm. Why she's
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 1: my wife. So some sisters and she came in and
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 1: she told me it wasn't. It wasn't. The m in
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: my huspital room by myself and everything was talking, and
• 1:38:33
  Speaker 1: she told me, she say, man, she said, I don't
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 1: know what it is about you. The muscles the lot
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 1: of hell out of you, and since sing Steve, I just,
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 1: I just, I just see myself with this wound forever
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 1: and forever and forever and seven forever, because no matter
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 1: if I do wrong, Steve, she's like del to put
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: me back in place and let me know that I
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 1: still love you, still want to be with you, Alright,
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 1: So what's wrong though? Yeah, you've messed up too many teams.
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 1: If loving you is wrong and I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: be right, that's how I gotta say. Man, that's all
• 1:39:16
  Speaker 1: I gotta say. Many. Yeah, you know Maurice is she is?
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 1: She is? She? Have you caused her to distrust you
• 1:39:31
  Speaker 1: because of your truck driving job? That times you see
• 1:39:37
  Speaker 1: that that that that Mourice that go your problems, see
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 1: the woman come to you on your deathbed. The lady
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 1: tells you this news. You love it, your love it
• 1:39:47
  Speaker 1: and your love her, but you keep giving her reasons
• 1:39:50
  Speaker 1: to distrust you, but you wanted to stay with you
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 1: don't At one point in time, we have got to
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 1: learn that women are not stupid and that if what
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 1: we want is what we want is really real, then
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 1: we got to get that one and buckle it on down.
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 1: That's a lot easier for me to say now, because
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 1: I've been in a great marriage for ten years, but
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 1: now I ain't always been this way. But you got
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 1: the right one. See, I wasn't with the right one.
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 1: You if you went the right one, you gotta shut
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 1: it down. That's the only thing I got for you, man,
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 1: you gotta shut it down. You already noticed the one
• 1:40:31
  Speaker 1: want your muscle shut down? Here you should have shut it.
• 1:40:36
  Speaker 1: You cry, man, because I'm mad at you. Man, you
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 1: ever come back to Jack still yet? And and um,
• 1:40:40
  Speaker 1: I need to know how open you're doing, man, because
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 1: I haven't heard opening a long time. Yeah. So hell Tommy,
• 1:40:47
  Speaker 1: you shut up so ree. If you don't shut it down,
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 1: you're gonna lose this girl. Man. You see, I'm going
• 1:41:03
  Speaker 1: to tell you right now. Man, from another brother to
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 1: another brother, Steve, I respect you as a man. I
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 1: respect you to tell me that. And Mr Steve Harvey,
• 1:41:14
  Speaker 1: I want you to know, man like fish it alone
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 1: said when they when they m when you have the
• 1:41:20
  Speaker 1: legations against him? He said, yeah, five stones and he
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 1: didn't throw yet. Steve, Man, how many stones you have?
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 1: But Berg you haven't thrown one yet. And I want
• 1:41:29
  Speaker 1: to tell you for standing up. Man, I appreciate you
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 1: and I love you from the front of my heart. Man,
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 1: from one brother to another. And I thank you, man,
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 1: I really an answer. Thank you appreciate your black man,
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 1: I do. I appreciate you so thank you saying that
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 1: I get it. I know where you're coming from. My race.
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 1: I read it. He look at you. What hey? Staying
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 1: there with your with your girl, dow dude you proposed
• 1:41:55
  Speaker 1: to do? Get here your here's working the truer out.
• 1:42:00
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