Latest / REZ CHURCH Podcast / The Worst Day In History Was The Best Day Of Your Life - April 3, 2026
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- 0:00Good evening. Welcome to Good Friday.
- 0:08I want you to feel the weight of where we are.
- 0:12Jesus has already been arrested, dragged through multiple trials.
- 0:19It's around 6:00 AM. He hasn't slept.
- 0:24All his disciples ran away. Peter has denied him three times
- 0:32and now he's standing in front of the Roman governor and things
- 0:36are about to get a lot worse. Pilot has flogged him with a
- 0:42whip designed to shred skin, leather strands with bone and
- 0:46metal woven in. People died from flogging alone.
- 0:53Then the soldiers drama jammed a crown of thorns into his skull,
- 0:59put a purple robe on him and slap him in the face and mock
- 1:03him. The king of the universe takes
- 1:08it, every bit of it and says nothing.
- 1:14Isaiah 53 and Isaiah 53 was predicted 700 years before it
- 1:21happened. He was oppressed and afflicted,
- 1:27and yet he did not open his mouth.
- 1:29And like a lamb led to the slaughter.
- 1:32And like a sheep, like a sheep silent before her shears, he did
- 1:36not open his mouth. Pilot drags him out, bleeding
- 1:42thorns, purple robe and says 3 words.
- 1:45Behold, the man John wants us to stop and see what's actually
- 1:52happening. Who this actually is.
- 1:57The Word of God who existed before a creation, The one who
- 2:02raised the dead, healed the blind and the lepers, fed the
- 2:07thousands standing there covered in blood and spit, letting it
- 2:14happen on purpose for you. Why does he lose his dignity?
- 2:24Because of what we lost in the garden, the moment Adam and Eve
- 2:29sinned, they felt shame and they hid.
- 2:33And we've been hiding ever since.
- 2:37I know what it's like to carry shame.
- 2:39I used to hide my drinking. I was ashamed that I was an
- 2:44addict. But when I was honest about it
- 2:49and I surrendered it to God, I was free from the shame because
- 2:56I realized what Jesus did for me.
- 3:00Jesus, who never did anything wrong, steps in and wears the
- 3:04crown of shame so we don't have to.
- 3:11Isaiah 53, five says he was pierced for our transgressions,
- 3:15crushed for our iniquities. The punishment that brought us
- 3:19peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.
- 3:25Whatever you're carrying shame about tonight, Jesus already
- 3:29knew about it when he let them put that crown on his head.
- 3:35He saw you. The cross says your shame
- 3:39doesn't get the last word. Jesus does.
- 3:44It's covered. That's why the worst Day in
- 3:48History was the best day of your your life.
- 3:58Then Pilate hands him over, and this is the one of the most
- 4:03uncomfortable scenes in the New Testament because it's familiar.
- 4:08Pilate's not confused about Jesus.
- 4:10Pilate found Jesus not guilty three times.
- 4:15He knew he was a righteous man and he still hands him over.
- 4:21This is a man who knew the right thing and chose the easier
- 4:25thing. The crowd shouts.
- 4:28If you release this man, you are not Caesar's friend.
- 4:32That one line breaks him because Pilot's whole identity is
- 4:38wrapped up in his position. The second he feels that
- 4:42threatened, he folds. To not be Caesar's friend would
- 4:47have cost him everything. Position, status, and ultimately
- 4:51his life. He folds because of the crowd.
- 4:57We do this all the time. We know what the right call is
- 5:03and instead of making the right decision, we delay, we deflect.
- 5:08We hope the problem goes away. Avoiding the decision is still a
- 5:14decision. I can relate.
- 5:17When I first started working in the high school district, there
- 5:21was an incident between a staff member and a student and they
- 5:26have been arguing in the. The student was about to leave
- 5:31the classroom and the staff member just popped off and said
- 5:34some very unchoiced words, very inappropriate words to that
- 5:37student, antagonistic. And that student turns around
- 5:43him, hits that staff member. And because I saw the whole
- 5:47thing, I had to fill out the statement, the witness
- 5:50statement, and I filled it out. And but I was afraid to include
- 5:58what the staff member said because I thought the other
- 6:03staff members wouldn't see me as a team player, that I wasn't on
- 6:08their side. I sided with the crowd instead
- 6:15of doing what was right. That's Pilot's move and I did it
- 6:19too. He calls for a bowl of water and
- 6:24washes his hands in front of everybody.
- 6:28But think about it, you don't wash your hands of something you
- 6:31weren't involved in. The hand washing was his
- 6:35confession. The crowd is a different kind of
- 6:39tragic. Some of these people were just
- 6:43waving palm branches 5 days earlier shouting Hosanna which
- 6:49means save us and now they're screaming crucify him.
- 6:56What happened? Unmet expectations.
- 7:02Jesus didn't show up the way they wanted so they trade him in
- 7:07for Barabbas, a man literally imprisoned for murder.
- 7:14Pilate says shall I crucify your king?
- 7:18And they say the most devastating line in the whole
- 7:20chapter. We have no king but Caesar.
- 7:26Their entire identity was built on God alone being their king.
- 7:31And at this moment, they throw it all away to get what they
- 7:36want politically. Pilot tried everything to avoid
- 7:41this decision. The crowd ran straight toward
- 7:45the wrong one. 2 completely different paths, same
- 7:51destination. Both walked away from Jesus.
- 7:57And the question tonight is, which one are you?
- 8:02Are you avoiding the decision, hoping it resolves itself?
- 8:07Or have you been freely choosing something that looks like it
- 8:10will satisfy you and it doesn't? Both Pilate and the crowd are
- 8:20physically close to Jesus and both of them walk away.
- 8:28One because of fear and 1:00 because of disappointment.
- 8:33But the outcome is the same. Being close to Jesus is not the
- 8:39same as being surrendered to Jesus.
- 8:43Proximity is not the same as commitment.
- 8:48Pilot was close, the crowd was close, but close wasn't enough.
- 8:55Maybe you came tonight and you're not sure what you believe
- 8:58yet. You don't need to have it all
- 9:02figured out. Just follow the story before
- 9:08Jesus even gets to the cross. There's this moment that I think
- 9:12is one of the most Lotus scenes in all the scripture.
- 9:15And it happens fast. Pilot trying one more time to
- 9:18get Jesus released, offers the crowd a choice.
- 9:23There was a custom at Passover where the governor would release
- 9:281 prisoner, a good as a goodwill gesture, a way of easing the
- 9:34tensions during this chaotic Holy Week.
- 9:37Pilot figures this is his out. He puts two men in front of the
- 9:43crowd. It says you choose.
- 9:48On one side you have Jesus, the man who never committed a single
- 9:53crime, a teacher, a healer, someone who has spent three
- 9:59years giving everything to people who needed it.
- 10:05And on the other side, you have Barabbas.
- 10:08And John's gospel is clear who this man was.
- 10:12He was an insurrectionist, a rebel, a murderer.
- 10:16He had done the very thing that Jesus is being falsely accused
- 10:19of, stirring up the crowd, threatening the peace.
- 10:27Barabbas. He was in a Roman prison waiting
- 10:34to die. His execution date was set.
- 10:41Here's what's crazy. The name Barabbas in Aramaic is
- 10:462 words Bar and ABBA which means bar which means son and ABBA
- 10:56which means Father. Barabbas literally means son of
- 11:01the Father. So the crowd is standing looking
- 11:08at two men. One is actually the Son of the
- 11:10Father, the eternal Son of God standing there innocent, and the
- 11:16other is a man whose name just means Son of the Father, a
- 11:20guilty murderer who deserved everything that was coming to
- 11:24him. And the crowd chooses Barabbas.
- 11:30They choose the counterfeit Son of the Father over the real 1.
- 11:38But the camera doesn't stay on Barabbas.
- 11:41It follows the one walking towards the cross in his place.
- 11:47They all cried out. Take this man away.
- 11:49Release Barabbas to us. Release Barabbas to us.
- 11:57Think about what's actually happening in this exchange.
- 12:02A guilty man goes free and an innocent man takes his place.
- 12:11Barabbas walks out of that prison and Jesus walks toward
- 12:14the cross. That's not just an interesting
- 12:20historical detail. That is the entire gospel in one
- 12:24scene. That's exactly what happens to
- 12:28every one of us when we put our faith in Jesus.
- 12:31The guilty one goes free, and the innocent 1 takes our
- 12:36punishment. There's a reason this scene is
- 12:41in all four gospels. Barabbas is not a minor
- 12:46character in a courtroom drama. We are the ones who are guilty.
- 12:55We are the ones who deserve the sentence.
- 13:00We are the ones who, by every standard of justice, should have
- 13:04been handed over. And instead, something happens.
- 13:10Something happened that makes no logical sense.
- 13:14Jesus took our place. The crowd chose Barabbas, and in
- 13:20doing so they acted out the gospel without even knowing it.
- 13:25They released the guilty and condemned the innocent.
- 13:30And that is precisely what the cross is about.
- 13:34Well, Pilate stalled and the crowd shouted.
- 13:36Jesus stood there and he chose every second of it.
- 13:44Barabbas woke up that morning on death row.
- 13:48He had no idea what was about to happen.
- 13:52Somewhere in that prison, he could probably hear the noise
- 13:55and the crowd outside, the shouting and the chaos getting
- 14:00louder and louder. Then the door opens and someone
- 14:04tells him you're free, that it's over, that another man was
- 14:13taking his place. I don't know what Barabbas did
- 14:17next, the Bible doesn't tell us. But I wonder if he understood
- 14:25what just happened to him. I wonder if you ever found out
- 14:34who that other man was and what he had done.
- 14:40I wonder if the weight of it ever landed on him.
- 14:45Because the weight of it is supposed to land on us.
- 14:52If you're in Christ, you are free tonight because someone
- 14:56took your place. Not because you earned it.
- 15:00Not because you deserved it or you were better than Barabbas.
- 15:07Not because you have something to offer.
- 15:11The door open, the sentence transferred.
- 15:14Jesus walked toward the cross so you could walk out.
- 15:20Barabbas walked out of that prison a freeman.
- 15:24The question is whether he lived like 1.
- 15:33Jesus was already beaten, bleeding, and he carries his
- 15:37cross toward Golgotha. Correction, Crucifixion was not
- 15:43just execution, it was a carefully designed system to
- 15:48deliver as much pain as possible, for as long as
- 15:51possible. Nails through your wrists and
- 15:56feet, and in order to breathe, you had to pull up and press on
- 16:01those very wounds just to get a breath in.
- 16:09All of that in public for everyone to see.
- 16:14The shame was built into the design.
- 16:20Jesus went through it all, all of it.
- 16:25Not because he had no choice, because He chose it for you.
- 16:35Jesus didn't just die for our sins.
- 16:39He didn't just die as a symbol of His love for us.
- 16:47He took every sin you ever committed and every sin you ever
- 16:50will commit. Every wrong word, every evil
- 16:55thought. Some of us are still beating
- 16:59ourselves up about things we've done.
- 17:05Just for a moment, I want you to think about the worst thing
- 17:09you've ever done in your life. I want you to think about that
- 17:15radically evil thought you had that you would never share with
- 17:19another human being. Think about it.
- 17:27And if that thought or that thing you've done, that if
- 17:32someone found out you'd run out of here with embarrassment and
- 17:37never show your face again, Jesus paid for that 2000 years
- 17:43ago on the cross so you don't have to carry it.
- 17:55The thing you did last week, that thing on your phone you
- 18:00don't want anyone else to see the way you treated someone, the
- 18:08version of yourself you've been hiding.
- 18:12Jesus paid for that. Your whole guilty record was
- 18:17laid on Jesus. There was a legal transaction,
- 18:21just like in a courtroom. Guilt was moved from you to Him.
- 18:35The Bible says He made the one who did not know sin to be sin
- 18:40for us, so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God.
- 18:48He didn't just die for our sins. His righteousness was put on us.
- 18:58His perfect record before God, His complete obedience, His
- 19:02sinless life transferred to your account.
- 19:12We didn't earn it. We didn't deserve it.
- 19:16He went to the cross and offered us the exchange.
- 19:25It says in John 1930 when Jesus had received the sour wine, he
- 19:29said it is finished. Then bowing his head, he gave up
- 19:33his spirit. Some of us are still trying to
- 19:39to be good enough for God, still thinking if I just read my Bible
- 19:44more, if I mess up a little less, get our if I just get my
- 19:48act together, then maybe God will be OK with me.
- 19:54That's not the gospel, that's exhausting and it's a lie.
- 20:02When Jesus said it is finished. In the Greek that one word is to
- 20:10talisdai, which means the account is settled, paid in
- 20:15full. You don't owe what you can't
- 20:17pay. Because Jesus already paid it.
- 20:25The question is whether you received it.
- 20:27Here's what that looks like on Monday morning.
- 20:35When the guilt comes back, and it will, you don't fight it with
- 20:39willpower or trying harder. You say the account is settled.
- 20:47I don't owe what I can't pay. Jesus already paid for it.
- 20:53You fight guilt with the truth of what happened on the cross.
- 21:02That's why the worst Day in History was the best day of your
- 21:05life. The account is settled, paid in
- 21:14full, and now, in the quiet, it's all over.
- 21:23Two men step forward, out of the shadows.
- 21:28After Jesus died, two men who had been following him in secret
- 21:32finally step out. Joseph of Arimathea and
- 21:37Nicodemus both believed. Both were too afraid to say it
- 21:44publicly. But now Jesus is dead and both
- 21:49of them come forward. Joseph goes to Pilate and asks
- 21:54for the body. Jesus is dead.
- 21:58There's nothing left to gain and everything to lose.
- 22:02And they showed up anyway. These two men who spent years in
- 22:08the shadows finally step into the light at the moment everyone
- 22:13else ran away. I understand that pool to try to
- 22:19stay in the shadows. A couple years ago I was
- 22:22interviewing for another position in the district I
- 22:27interviewed. Seemed like it went well.
- 22:29Couple weeks later I get a phone call, one of those off the
- 22:32record phone calls and the administrator goes, hey, I need
- 22:37you to convince me why you're my guy, why you're my pick.
- 22:40So I start going in all the work I've done with youth counseling,
- 22:45guiding, mentoring, and then somewhere in the conversation it
- 22:51came out that I knew her husband.
- 22:54So I go, Oh yeah, I love him. Awesome guy.
- 22:56I used to work with him, man, We always used to talk about Jesus.
- 23:04It slipped and I thought I'm not getting this job.
- 23:20Joseph and Nicodemus kept Jesus quiet for years trying to
- 23:24protect something. I almost did it in a phone call.
- 23:32I end up getting the job. Sometimes it takes the cross to
- 23:37finally breakthrough what's been holding you back.
- 23:43They lay him in a borrowed tomb belonging to Joseph.
- 23:48Jesus, the one through whom everything is created, is buried
- 23:53in a tomb that doesn't belong to him.
- 23:56He came into this world at a borrowed Manger, spent his
- 24:01ministry with no place to lay his head, and he leaves this
- 24:04world in a borrowed grave, complete loss.
- 24:10He lost his dignity, his freedom, his friends, his
- 24:13strength, his life, and now even his burial place, the one who
- 24:19had everything, gave up everything.
- 24:25The borrowed tomb is the final picture of that complete giving.
- 24:34Good Friday is 1 is the one day we sit with the loss before we
- 24:39move to victory. Sunday is coming, but tonight,
- 24:45let's stay here for a moment after the borrowed tomb in the
- 24:53garden, in the quiet, because here's what I keep coming back
- 25:01to. Barabbas was a dead man walking,
- 25:11but he walked out of that prison of Freeman.
- 25:15Someone told him the door was open, another man had taken his
- 25:18place, and he walked out. We don't know what he did with
- 25:23that. We don't know if the weight of
- 25:28it ever landed on him. But it should land on us.
- 25:38Just like Barabbas. We were all dead in our sins and
- 25:42our trespasses, lost in this world without hope, Dead men
- 25:48walking. You walked in here tonight,
- 25:57maybe carrying something. Maybe it's shame, like the crown
- 26:04Jesus wore. Maybe it's guilt, the debt that
- 26:10Jesus says is already paid. Maybe you've been like Joseph
- 26:15and Nicodemus, believing something about Jesus but
- 26:18keeping him quiet, staying in the shadows, calculating the
- 26:25cost. Or maybe you've never met Jesus.
- 26:34Maybe you've been sitting in church your whole life and
- 26:38you've never actually surrendered to Jesus.
- 26:46Maybe you walked in here carrying something you never
- 26:50told anyone. You were invited tonight and
- 26:58you're not even sure you believe any of this.
- 27:05Or maybe you walked away from your faith years ago and
- 27:07something brought you back tonight.
- 27:14Maybe you're exhausted from trying to hold everything
- 27:16together on your own. It doesn't matter where you're
- 27:20coming from, the door is open. The Creator stepped into his own
- 27:27creation, born into this world by the very creation He made.
- 27:34He lived among His creation. He was rejected by His creation
- 27:38and judged by His creation and died for His creation, hanging
- 27:43on a cross made from a tree that he created so he could redeem
- 27:52everything in creation. Complete loss, complete love for
- 28:04you. Jesus didn't come to make bad
- 28:12men good. He came to make dead men live.
- 28:21That's why the worst Day in History, it's the best day of
- 28:25your life. So the only question left is the
- 28:30same one Barabbas had to answer when the door swung open.
- 28:33So what are you going to do with it?
- 28:41I asked myself daily. Is the life I'm living worth
- 28:47Christ dying for? I want to give everyone in this
- 28:58room a chance to respond tonight.
- 29:04None of us are good people who just need a little help from
- 29:08God. You are Barabbas, We all are
- 29:16guilty, deserving of the sentence, and Jesus went to the
- 29:20cross in your place so that the door could be open for you.
- 29:26The door is open right now. The only question is whether
- 29:32you're going to walk, whether you're going to walk through
- 29:35that door. 2000 years ago, God sent his Son Jesus to walk this
- 29:42earth, to live a perfect life, to live the life we couldn't,
- 29:50and then he died the death that we deserve to pay for our sins.
- 29:58He died, was buried and rose on the third day, defeating sin and
- 30:01death, giving us assurance that if we put our trust in Him as
- 30:06Lord and Savior that we will rise and have eternal life and
- 30:14we walk. When we walk out of this life,
- 30:17we will be with God for eternity.
- 30:22The Bible says that you can be saved if you declare with your
- 30:26mouth and believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord.
- 30:33If you're willing to ask Him for forgiveness and salvation
- 30:38tonight, would everyone just bow your head and close your eyes
- 30:43for a minute? That's you tonight.
- 30:52You want to ask Jesus to be your Lord and Savior, to make you
- 30:57new. Would you quietly or even
- 31:04silently repeat this prayer after me?
- 31:08Jesus, I know I'm a Sinner and I'm lost on my own.
- 31:15I can't save myself. I know I'm incapable of living
- 31:22perfectly. I want you to save me.
- 31:27I want to be part of your family.
- 31:30I surrender everything to you. I receive your promise of
- 31:36relationship, of adoption as your child, of the forgiveness
- 31:44of sin, the promise of the Holy Spirit, and of eternal life.
- 31:53Be my Lord, Please, Jesus, with every eye closed.
- 32:00Still, if you said that prayer tonight for the first time,
- 32:06would you just be brave and raise your hand for me to see?
- 32:13Thank you, Amen. You couldn't open your eyes if
- 32:21you prayed that prayer tonight. Welcome to the family of God.
- 32:33Our prayer team is going to be coming up right now and we'd
- 32:37love to pray with you. And if you raise your hand
- 32:40tonight to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we have two
- 32:43tables in the back. Let's say I raised my hand.
- 32:50We have a gift for you and we'd love to talk with you.
- 32:56Talk with you about what it looks like to follow Jesus and
- 32:58how we can walk with you on this journey.
- 33:02Please stand and move as the Lord leads.