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- 0:02Imagine the whole church discovering their passion to care,
- 0:06one small group at a time.
- 0:10You're listening to this special podcast series, Care Journey,
- 0:14from the Journey with Care podcast.
- 0:19Fixing trying to fix things is different than lightening
- 0:23someone's load. So what what do friends do? We don't go around
- 0:27fixing each other. But we do think about how can I lighten somebody's load right
- 0:30now? Yes. It's not about erasing everything
- 0:34that's here that's contributing it in from an individual level, systemic level.
- 0:38That's a recipe for paralysis. But if we can start to say
- 0:42how can I lighten the load? Is there anything I can do to come alongside?
- 0:45Is there a way that I can listen and learn? Then what happens is
- 0:49my next step starts to be unveiled.
- 0:54Welcome to another episode of Journey with Care. We are in the midst of our
- 0:58Care Journey series. If you haven't listened to our previous episodes,
- 1:02this series is highlighting some of the
- 1:05topics key for Care Impact, and we're just giving you a taste
- 1:09here what our small group course is like. If you want to get more into
- 1:12it, visit careimpact.cacarejourney
- 1:16and you can get on the waiting list there to make it part of your
- 1:20small group. Really encourage you to do that. We've had nothing but great
- 1:23feedback so far. Also, I wanna remind you that we have journey with
- 1:27prayer, a 5 minute devotional series to start off your week. That's on a separate
- 1:31feed, or you can find it at journey with care dot ca. You can get
- 1:35it early there on Friday, the same time this one releases. Otherwise, you get it
- 1:38Monday. So make sure you check that out. Today, we have a special
- 1:42guest on with us, Marlo Fox. But before we get into that
- 1:45conversation, I wanna remind you that we can only continue to produce great
- 1:49content because the generosity of our listeners, our donors
- 1:53of Care Impact. And if you wanna support our work in the community, if you
- 1:56wanna support the podcast, head over to journey with care dot c a,
- 2:00and there are some links you can click there to be able to support
- 2:03us and the work that we are doing in the community. Or you can just
- 2:06go to the show notes, and there's some links there as well. Wendy, you wanna
- 2:09introduce our guest? Absolutely. I'm delighted to
- 2:13introduce, our friend to Carry Impact, Marlo Fox. She
- 2:17comes from Ohio in the the USA and,
- 2:21works with an organization as the executive director of Think Tank.
- 2:25Welcome to the podcast. Thank you, Wendy. It's so good to be here with
- 2:28you. Can you tell us a little bit about Think Tank?
- 2:32We've really appreciated the work you've done, but tell us what a little bit
- 2:36more about it. Yes. So think tank just turned 18
- 2:40years old. I can't even believe it. I'm one of the cofounders
- 2:43of think tank and have had the joy of working
- 2:47with, teams all across the United States. So as you
- 2:51mentioned, Wendy, our work originated here in Southwest
- 2:54Ohio, and our mission is to equip groups to rethink
- 2:58poverty and to partner directly with people
- 3:02that are affected for change in community.
- 3:06And so, with that, my own journey started
- 3:09out previous to this role. I was, in social work. I worked
- 3:13in workforce development. So in that role, I,
- 3:17got to know people in my community that were
- 3:21struggling to get into the workforce and actually have a
- 3:24living wage job. And so I was working day in and day out
- 3:28with families, right here that were navigating poverty.
- 3:32And what I learned through that was, you know, our answer, certainly in the
- 3:35United States, is the answer to poverty is just get a job and make more
- 3:39money. And as I got more deeply acquainted,
- 3:43and involved in people's lives, you know, work's important,
- 3:47and that was very rewarding. We were designed to work, right,
- 3:51to create, to contribute to our community, to other people's lives, and
- 3:55yet there were, you know, numerous barriers, that people were encountering
- 3:58just to get into the workforce or stay in the workforce. And all of them
- 4:02was this kinda complex interconnected web to poverty. And so
- 4:06I had the privilege to be able to found think
- 4:09tank, with the idea that we needed to work more holistically rather
- 4:13than in our silos. That meant doing a lot of capacity
- 4:17building and equipping work with groups that were on the ground,
- 4:20interacting with people, navigating different aspects of poverty,
- 4:24and to work to be a convener to bring those, groups to be more
- 4:28effective in their work and to build solutions with people that were
- 4:32navigating poverty instead of to them or for them. And so we've been at this
- 4:35for 18 years, and I'm sure we'll talk about how that's evolved, but that's a
- 4:38little bit of our history. Yeah. And while I've sat in through some of your
- 4:42sessions and your curriculum and even as you've been creating some of the and
- 4:46been a guinea pig, and I just have really appreciated the content
- 4:49that you have delivered, your team has created.
- 4:53And what I find interesting is you're right. Like, when we think of
- 4:57poverty, we're thinking of how do we, problem solve for the
- 5:01people that are in poverty. What I've really
- 5:05appreciated about your team is that you're working with people
- 5:08that are in poverty saying, how do we build capacity
- 5:12for those who wanna care? And you're really building the capacity
- 5:17of not how to get a job in the sense, which there's places for that
- 5:20as well. There's a need for that. However, you're building capacity in the
- 5:24local church. You're building capacity in the local community. How do we
- 5:27respond? How do we interact with that? Because poverty affects us all,
- 5:31but we're just not all as vulnerable. But how do we contribute? How do we
- 5:35neighbor well? And, I've really appreciated that you're
- 5:38working with people and not just for them. You
- 5:42shared a little bit, Marlo, about what got you started
- 5:46in think tank and and why there was a need for this
- 5:49organization. But what led up to that
- 5:54beforehand, before you were working? What were those moments? You
- 5:58were having an ordinary life, but did you grow up
- 6:02desiring to to be in the space of poverty alleviation and capacity
- 6:05building, or were there these moments that got you there?
- 6:10Yeah. I appreciate that you said moments because I think for
- 6:13most of us, it's not a lightning bolt revelation. There are lots
- 6:17of things that happen in our lives that continue to
- 6:21build into our calling and reveal, truth in our lives. And so
- 6:25I think I would say the same was true for myself. I did
- 6:29not personally grow up in poverty, but I became
- 6:33well acquainted with poverty as a young adult. I married somebody
- 6:36that did grow up in poverty and then began working in this
- 6:40space. So I think that perhaps my journey
- 6:44is similar to others who have taken
- 6:48that road, maybe gone into a vocation wanting to help
- 6:52based on maybe certain faith callings or skills
- 6:56or or gifts and care. And then realizing
- 7:00as I got into it that I thought I could help, but,
- 7:04actually, I also got helped, if that makes sense. And
- 7:08so I think that was, again, a series of moments
- 7:13based on maybe some faulty or incomplete paradigms
- 7:18is that I feel like so often we see
- 7:21the responsibility for poverty alleviation setting on the
- 7:25shoulders of those who are in poverty, and it's,
- 7:29them that need to change. And very quickly,
- 7:33I realized, oh, I need to change. And this is an
- 7:36ongoing process and will be for the rest of my life, but I think
- 7:40there were a number of things along the road
- 7:44that contributed to those awakenings for me. Some
- 7:48real concrete story. Initially, when I get into workforce development,
- 7:52part of what we were doing, we were offering GED classes. So in the US,
- 7:55that's, the equivalent of a high school diploma if you drop out of school.
- 7:59And I actually came back from college. I had gone out of
- 8:03state, came back to my hometown. I was working in the school district
- 8:06where I grew up, and we had people coming to
- 8:10our GED class that I had grown up with. I had no idea they had
- 8:14dropped out of high school. And so this revelation of, like,
- 8:17wow. Was I in a tunnel? Like, how were these people
- 8:21invisible to me? You know? And so just
- 8:24that, just realizing my own maybe, isolation
- 8:28or my own focus on myself and how I needed to be alert
- 8:32to parts of my community that were invisible to me and the pain that was
- 8:36invisible to me. So just a number of things like that. The
- 8:40other thing, again, I was in the position as a social worker
- 8:44to help others, so I there was a power imbalance there. Right? I was the
- 8:47one that was supposed to have the answer as a young person. You
- 8:50know? And then I found myself in conversations with people that were
- 8:54my clients, and they were pouring into me. They were giving me some
- 8:58answers for things that were going on in my life. So this, like, this
- 9:02idea of, again, doing 4 or the helper has
- 9:05the answer solution to more relationships
- 9:09and mutuality, which is, I think, a much healthier place to
- 9:13be as helpers or as just people that wanna come
- 9:17alongside neighbors in good ways. So, yeah, it was a number of those things,
- 9:20Wendy, that have shaped me and and continue to shape me in how I think
- 9:24about this work. See, Marlo, this is why I love you. There's so many good
- 9:27nuggets there, and I hope our audience has paid attention to those. It's just
- 9:31so true, and it shows in the curriculum and
- 9:35the resources that you are producing that it is created with, and
- 9:39and the people going through poverty become our professors. They're actually
- 9:42contributing to the solutions. It is so much more complex than the
- 9:46individual's bank account. And you're right.
- 9:50Poverty is hidden in plain sight. We don't know what
- 9:53poverty looks like in the day to day, and I think the individualism
- 9:57and the privacy of people's, lives in
- 10:01our society contributes to that. It doesn't it doesn't
- 10:04alleviate poverty when we we sit in our silos. There's so
- 10:08much more than meets the eye. Let's talk a little bit of
- 10:12poverty. What are the things that you have learned? Surely, poverty is
- 10:16more. You've alluded to it. Is more than just not having money or
- 10:19a a job. What are the ways that we could all identify with
- 10:23areas of poverty that we might be even be impoverished and
- 10:27not realize? Yeah. I mean, I I do think
- 10:31that just the recognition that our our
- 10:34brains, I think, shut down to complexity a lot of times. We
- 10:38wanna make it about that one thing. And the deeper
- 10:42you get into learning about people's lives, there is a lot of
- 10:45complexity there, but I think at the core,
- 10:49we understand because we are in bodies navigating
- 10:53a real physical tangible world, and we have a
- 10:57spiritual dimension to us and a physical and emotional and a
- 11:01mental dimension to us, and, that that's true for all of
- 11:04us. And so I think when you look at our work, think tanks work,
- 11:08that's why we center it on the human impact of poverty so that we
- 11:12can take a human centered approach to alleviating
- 11:16poverty. Right? And so there are these very
- 11:19tangible, realities of physical
- 11:22needs. You know, we have housing insecurity and food insecurity
- 11:26and, you know, all these things are undergirded
- 11:30by economics. Right? But there are numerous
- 11:33things that keep us maybe from
- 11:37being economically stable. And so as I mentioned, when I was
- 11:40doing workforce development and I got involved in people's
- 11:44lives and and would help open up opportunities perhaps to
- 11:48affirm their gifts and to get into a job, there were those tangible
- 11:51things that we often think about, such as barriers like
- 11:55transportation, childcare, you know, housing, food, and security, and all those things
- 11:59come out and cope. But, also, what happens is
- 12:03this individualism you talk about, Wendy, and and even scarcity
- 12:07mentality that we carry around, I think that has created
- 12:11isolation that compound those factors. Right?
- 12:15And so there's an emotional dimension to that. There's
- 12:18trauma that comes into that. There, are a number of
- 12:22things that contribute to our well-being.
- 12:25And so as we look at rethinking poverty from
- 12:29our standpoint, it's really anchored on centering on the
- 12:33human impact and taking a relational approach. So no
- 12:37matter what issue you're gonna work on, I would say if we can
- 12:41be grounded in those things, how can I see this through a human
- 12:44lens, and what can I do to take a relational approach?
- 12:49The other thing I think we get ourselves into is we want a quick fix,
- 12:53and we oftentimes wanna step into
- 12:56poverty alleviation in very episodic ways, you know, or transactional ways. So, you know,
- 13:00hopefully, I I can challenge myself and we can challenge our listeners here, Wendy, that,
- 13:02you know, I think if more of us think about, like, where maybe is god
- 13:05calling me to make a longer term commitment,
- 13:13longer term relational commitment. Again, if we think about our human experience, where have
- 13:16we been changed? What we've been changed where people have made a long term relational
- 13:20commitment in our lives. And that often starts with just one step and an
- 13:23openness to what's right in front of us, really. And I
- 13:27think it's easier than people think than what we fear.
- 13:31Yes. Like you and I having a conversation, we find things
- 13:34in common. Our prefrontal cortex is predisposed
- 13:38to to find that connection, that relational capacity, but sometimes when
- 13:42we think, oh, no. They are maybe in a different economic status or they
- 13:46don't have a job. Somehow, we've gotta fix or we we freeze up.
- 13:49That's the amygdala talking, and we can actually relate well.
- 13:53But if we could only human to human like Jesus did with the
- 13:56Samaritan woman or the the the high officials to
- 14:00the disciples, he was human to human no matter their
- 14:04status, but could we relate? And we have to address that
- 14:08fear that prevents us from actually being able to
- 14:11to connect in a meaningful way, but it's easier. It's accessible.
- 14:15People actually can do that. Right. But we have to reframe.
- 14:19I have to pay attention. Where is fear setting in when I'm sitting in
- 14:23front of a person. Is there fear? Because that actually is gonna inhibit my
- 14:26ability to have a meaningful connection
- 14:30regardless of if they wanna talk to me or not. It's not about forcing a
- 14:34relationship. That's right. It's about the posture. People know
- 14:37when they're a project or when they're a friend to be with.
- 14:41Absolutely. And I think our nature, again,
- 14:45because we do at our core want to alleviate pain and
- 14:49suffering, our nature is to go to fix, particularly
- 14:53if we're in a position where we have resources and we're compelled to help and
- 14:56all of that. And yet, as you say, Wendy,
- 15:00sometimes our best approach is just taking time
- 15:04and creating space to listen. Yeah. It's that withness.
- 15:08It's not about fixing. And I think sometimes we wanna
- 15:12ease their discomfort because, actually, we're discomforted by
- 15:16it. We want that we want that discomfort, that that that pain to
- 15:19go away. We don't wanna see that suffering because we can't handle
- 15:23that. It's very true. It's hard to set, and and we understand this
- 15:27intuitively, right, because we've been through our own grief, and we've gone through
- 15:31grief with others. You know, when there's a death, it's really hard to sit
- 15:34with that. Right? But presence is mostly what people need. And
- 15:38so, again, I think it's like you said, when there's that fear, it's like,
- 15:42what can I go back to that's relatable about being human? And I and
- 15:45I also think fixing trying to fix things is
- 15:49different than lightening someone's load. So what do what do
- 15:53friends do? We don't go around fixing each other. But we do think about
- 15:57how can I lighten somebody's load right now? Yes. And, again, that's just
- 16:00a way to simply lean in and take a next step. It's
- 16:04not about erasing everything that's here that's contributing it
- 16:08in from an individual level or systemic level. That's a recipe for
- 16:12paralysis. But if we can start to say, how can I lighten alone?
- 16:15Is there anything I can do to come alongside? Is there a way that I
- 16:19can listen and learn? Then what happens is my next step
- 16:22starts to be unveiled. And and that's
- 16:26where I love the utilization of the care portal care
- 16:30sharing technology because that's where social workers and case workers
- 16:33who are walking alongside, and they know where the needs are in the
- 16:37community. They're working with them in their distress, and they're
- 16:41able to work with and we train the social workers to work with the
- 16:45families and the youth and the the vulnerable sector and saying, what
- 16:49are those things that you need to lighten your load to
- 16:53that aren't being resourced anywhere else, but if you could have a
- 16:56relational intervention, what would that look like? And they get creative
- 17:00together, and that's where those stories come up that that we put onto our website
- 17:03with through the care portal, and that's how churches can meaningful so we take
- 17:07that guesswork out, and, again, we keep having to push
- 17:11back, against that transactional understanding. Oh, if I only
- 17:15get that bed and and we just, like, drop it off and go. No. Actually,
- 17:19this is a connection point. They've said yes to community when they put that their
- 17:22story out there. They've said yes. I'm I'm willing to have that
- 17:26meaningful connection, and this is simply a
- 17:29tool to help bridge that. Now you've been working with Care Portal.
- 17:33We've been working with Care Portal, and you've developed this amazing
- 17:37cope experience, cost of poverty experience. I can't wait to I think we got a
- 17:41segue there because we're actually good news, Canada. We're
- 17:45we just got it through customs, and we're bringing it to Canada. But can you
- 17:48tell us about this cope cost of poverty experience that you have
- 17:52developed with your team? Yeah. So I did mention the
- 17:56first part of our mission is to equip groups to rethink poverty through that
- 18:00human lens. And so one of the I we have
- 18:03found one of the most effective ways to do that is by
- 18:07inviting people into the stories of others. And so
- 18:11the other thing that, Wendy, I know Care Impact creates a lot of
- 18:15resources and training and equipping tools for churches and community groups.
- 18:19And so what we understand then in this space about
- 18:22adult learning, you know, how we do learn and change and grow
- 18:26and become more effective is we have to
- 18:29immerse ourselves. It has the information has to be relevant.
- 18:33It's gotta be more than stuck in the head. We've gotta embrace it emotionally,
- 18:37and we've gotta be able to apply it. And so that's why I think cope
- 18:40has been so effective is that it is a simulation, and so it
- 18:44it is a 2 and a half hour experience that invites
- 18:47people to take on the role of families much
- 18:51like families in their community that are navigating poverty day in, day
- 18:55out, and to put themselves in the shoes of their
- 18:58circumstances and to make some decisions about how they think they
- 19:01may navigate those circumstances. And we don't just leave it there at the
- 19:05simulation, so we simulate 1 month in the life of those families,
- 19:10broken down into, you know, 4 weeks. But we don't stop there,
- 19:13then we have a conversation about, you know, what insights did
- 19:17this give you and, what does this mean for us
- 19:21both individually and collectively. And so what that
- 19:24experience is like is we've actually interviewed families
- 19:28all across the United States now. We started with a group of families in Ohio,
- 19:31and then we recently updated this experience to interview families all
- 19:35across the United States to just hear their stories in
- 19:39their own words about kinda some of their presenting
- 19:43challenges, about their family dynamics, about the
- 19:47way in which they told their own story or kind of made sense
- 19:50of their own story. And so what it does is it gives us a chance
- 19:54to think about poverty through the lens of that individual, but to also
- 19:57see what the community system looks like and and where the
- 20:01community system, inclusive of the local church, is an asset and an
- 20:05ally to families that are navigating these hard times and where
- 20:09there may be barriers that collectively we could come together, to
- 20:12resolve. Well, and that's what I appreciated about the COPE experience. The church was at
- 20:16the table. They were a literal table there, a presence there, and we're really
- 20:20it really drives on the point of collective impact that there you're
- 20:24right. We try to simplify, poverty that we just need a
- 20:27job table, right, or we just need an whatever social
- 20:31services table, and then, like, they should fix it. And yet
- 20:35you're brought into this immersive experience, and there's a variety. Just
- 20:39like a community, it's represented there, and people in these roles
- 20:43that you were needing to interact with. And when I went through it,
- 20:47now I've walked with a lot of people in poverty. I am that foster and
- 20:50adoptive mom that it's not new to me. I have worked with
- 20:54my husband worked with the incarcerated. I have worked with anti human trafficking,
- 20:58and yet when I put myself in that immersive experience,
- 21:03Marlo, I'm not proud of this, but I tried kidnapping
- 21:06my virtual daughter so that I could keep my rent
- 21:10and that I could keep everybody safe because I had one job. I wanted to
- 21:14keep everybody together. And that mama bear instinct, I'm
- 21:18like, woah. I know the rules. I I work with social
- 21:21services, and yet it really simulated that, and it made me, like,
- 21:25what are my choices? And and it it it created that
- 21:29dynamic, and not everybody had that same experience. But for me, I just, like,
- 21:33actually, this becomes a viable option right now.
- 21:36And and then we went into a debrief, and we could share about those
- 21:40experiences. It was really powerful to hear and and to kinda drop
- 21:44that vulnerability curtain, I think, is so necessary
- 21:47within the community, within the church that we could talk
- 21:51about it, that it's not just about pathologizing those
- 21:55going through these actual situations, but what was going
- 21:59on? What were the barriers? What were those blind spots that were like, oh my
- 22:02goodness. I can't believe I held on to this. We don't know what we don't
- 22:06know. Right? It's at Johari's window, and it really helps
- 22:09people understand a little bit better. It's not gonna be
- 22:13everything, but it puts us on that pathway, and we're so excited
- 22:16to bring that to Canada. You are training one of our staff, and we're
- 22:20hoping to have more staff across Canada and a kit that is being prepared
- 22:24here, and we're so excited to bring it here that we could actually go
- 22:28into different cities, different churches, different organizations.
- 22:31Why? Not just so that they have this poverty experience
- 22:35debut, but it's like this can be a stepping stone,
- 22:39a catalyst for being that human to
- 22:42human, being that relational presence in community. And so,
- 22:46yeah, we're excited that you are letting it come to Canada,
- 22:50first time over the border, and it's faith inclusive. It really
- 22:54drives some of the point of care portal, and we couldn't be more excited
- 22:58to partner with your team, you and your team, to have
- 23:01this experience up in Canada. Well, thank you. We're excited
- 23:05to learn with you. And just to affirm your experience,
- 23:09Wendy, for your audience, I would imagine that,
- 23:13there would be a number of people that could attend or be invited to
- 23:16or attend this experience that come from a whole
- 23:20spectrum of lived experiences. And so you might have thought, like you said, I am
- 23:24immersed in this. I know this. And so we can be proximate, but,
- 23:27again, not necessarily see through certain eyes, and everybody's experience
- 23:31is unique. And so, whether you're proximate or
- 23:35you're isolated or we've even had some, individuals that have grown
- 23:39up in poverty and have some lived experiences, and they
- 23:42got some insight as well. Maybe they had a kind of a bigger picture
- 23:46view of what was maybe driving certain factors for their own
- 23:50family, or they were in the role of someone that may have may have
- 23:53had different kinds of dynamics. And so no matter where your starting point
- 23:57is, I think if you come open, there's something here for you. I'm
- 24:01just gonna jump in here as someone listening to this conversation
- 24:05to remind our listeners that we have our Decadent Care
- 24:08Summit coming up where we are actually running a cope on the Saturday
- 24:12morning. So if you wanna get in on that, you wanna get in on that
- 24:15very quickly because there's limited seating, so you wanna head over to
- 24:19decadentcare. C a and register. Make sure you're in for that.
- 24:23Yeah. And it's gonna be a lot of fun. Only a 120 spots. So if
- 24:27there is still a spot, I would say get that weekend pass. We're giving it
- 24:30to a 120 people for the weekend pass for decadent care.
- 24:34So sign up at decadentcare.ca and be part of this
- 24:38immersive experience. And not only that, we're gonna follow that up with
- 24:42actual opportunities to serve the community. So people will be put into
- 24:45teams and be able to respond to real care portal needs across
- 24:49the city. Gonna be working in small little teams and gonna be
- 24:53blessing families across the city of Winnipeg as
- 24:56in a way for people to experience what it could look like in their
- 25:00cities, in their communities, and so we want to invite you
- 25:04warmly into the city of Winnipeg for this experience.
- 25:08For those of you that cannot be part of this experience but do wanna,
- 25:12experience it in their your own city or in your church or
- 25:15organization, if you wanna catalyze people in your community to
- 25:19talk about poverty, experience it in a new way, we invite you
- 25:23to contact us. Go to our website or or contact us at
- 25:26info at careimpact.ca. We'd be happy to to
- 25:30bring our team to you and, serve you in this way.
- 25:34Marla, let's talk about the local church. What what are some
- 25:38words of encouragement or some advice that you would give for local
- 25:41churches who are wanting to make an impact, wanting to grow in their
- 25:45capacity, to walk alongside those
- 25:49experiencing poverty? Yeah. I think the
- 25:52encouragement I would like to give the local church is that
- 25:56one of the strengths, you know, I had the great privilege of growing up in
- 25:59a local church and when I think about how formative
- 26:04that that was for me and the way that the local
- 26:07church helped me grow in my understanding of being a
- 26:11disciple of Christ, I didn't think about, or I
- 26:14don't think about great youth programming or an awesome
- 26:18children's choir or the Christmas event. You know? Those
- 26:22are just containers. And so my
- 26:25encouragement to the local church, I think a lot of times we apply this program
- 26:29mentality poverty alleviation. You know, we've gotta come up with some
- 26:33program or 10 different programs or and
- 26:36there's some great programs out there and they can be great
- 26:40facilitators or containers. But the
- 26:43question I think local churches have to ask themselves are,
- 26:48more closely aligned with the strength that they have, which is
- 26:51relationship. And so what context do we have?
- 26:55Where are places where we could hang out with people that we don't
- 26:59normally get to hang out with in our community? And, you know,
- 27:03maybe that's through our partnership with Care Impact and Care Portal that that gives us
- 27:06a proxy to hang out with people or meet people we don't normally get to
- 27:10meet, or maybe it's a basketball court,
- 27:13you know, in our parking lot, or maybe it's a grill that we can fire
- 27:17up and, you know, grow some hot dogs on the weekends. I don't know if
- 27:20you guys grow hot dogs on the weekends. I can't believe that. But
- 27:25I I think we're oftentimes asking the wrong questions.
- 27:29It's not what's the program we need to develop to fight poverty. It's like,
- 27:32where are the places where we can meet people? Yeah.
- 27:36And then just be willing to show up and be
- 27:40willing for God to nudge you in that one next step.
- 27:44And that may be individually, something I'm being drawn to in a
- 27:47one next step. Maybe maybe I do need to be open to a relationship that
- 27:51could foster and grow. And maybe it's that one next step
- 27:54corporately. You know, something that we learn or hear that we can partner on
- 27:58as a church to bring power and
- 28:02community. So that would be my encouragement to the local
- 28:06church. Don't create any unnecessary barriers or think that
- 28:10you have to be on your own or the hero. Yeah. Just look for places
- 28:14you can show up because the community desperately needs you and the hope of Christ.
- 28:18Well, that smell is a lot like Jesus.
- 28:22Showing up at the well, at the lake, in a fishing
- 28:25boat, in the places where people hang.
- 28:28And if you are a community leader or a person
- 28:32sitting in the church saying, how can I make a difference? How can I actually
- 28:36make a difference? It might be easier than you think. And
- 28:40yet, also in Canada, we it might be more difficult than we think because people
- 28:43don't know how to people well. It's countercultural at this point
- 28:47often to to sit with people, and let us
- 28:50know. We're having amazing conversations with leaders from
- 28:54across Canada, different cities that are paying attention to a care portal could do
- 28:58because we can help take the guesswork out of that compassion and say, actually, here
- 29:02are some opportunities. And now pour yourself rather than looking for programs
- 29:05and and projects. Pour yourself into these relationships.
- 29:09We're gonna bring it on a Monday morning, a Thursday evening, a Saturday
- 29:13afternoon. This isn't a program. These are people to
- 29:17walk with. They're inviting you in, and these are
- 29:20opportunities to do so. But you're right. It might that
- 29:24well might be a basketball court, and so it might
- 29:28be easier than we actually think. Well, Marlo, I am so
- 29:32excited that we can journey this with you. I'm so appreciative of
- 29:36the the resource of the the cost of poverty experience that we get
- 29:39to now share with Canada. We wanna hold it with a lot of integrity,
- 29:43the the the work that you've put into it, and we know
- 29:47that this experience will help, that conversation
- 29:51will help move the needle along for the church to be in these
- 29:54places in meaningful relational, humble
- 29:58ways, and we wanna thank you for 18 years ago
- 30:02saying yes to think tank to doing this venture,
- 30:05and for continuing it on with the resources. We can't wait for what god is
- 30:09gonna do in the future. Thank you so much, Wendy.
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