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Mo'Nique's Warning, Earn Your Leisure Interview, Steph Curry's Clinic and Parents, $2K Roaches and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time? I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks. Things in the stubs stood listening to the
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  Speaker 1: other for I don't join joint turning? You are you
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn them out? Turn? You haven't got
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out to turn the water? The water go?
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your baby, uh huh. I show well
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  Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. Y'all listening to the voice, come
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  Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got
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  Speaker 1: a radio show. Y'all do took of me when I said,
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  Speaker 1: but I do like I say always. It just is
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  Speaker 1: a constant reminder of how good God has been. So
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  Speaker 1: my question to you is what's stopping you from having
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  Speaker 1: the life that you want? What's stopping you from having
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  Speaker 1: the life that you want? I know a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people who have given up on achieving the life of
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  Speaker 1: their dreams. But I know they'd still want them if
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  Speaker 1: they could get to them. But they just allowed to
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  Speaker 1: settle for so many reasons. So who I'm talking to
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  Speaker 1: is you today? What's really at the core of stopping you?
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  Speaker 1: What is that? Is it your friends or your soul? Sits?
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  Speaker 1: Is it the fear of what you think somebody else
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  Speaker 1: will think of you if you decide to change. Is
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  Speaker 1: it what I used to call the call of the while?
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  Speaker 1: Is it the fact that you keep thinking that the
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  Speaker 1: thing that you're doing that's providing you these momentary moments
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  Speaker 1: of pleasure that really ain't really good or healthy for you,
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to stop doing that because you've got
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  Speaker 1: just a little bit more something else you want to do.
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  Speaker 1: I call that the call at a while. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's just out there. Them streets is calling you, Them
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  Speaker 1: lights is calling you. You know, them girls is calling you.
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  Speaker 1: Them guys that's on the wrong side keep calling you.
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  Speaker 1: You can't seem to make a decision by the right guy.
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  Speaker 1: You keep picking the wrong guy all the time. What
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  Speaker 1: is it that's stopping you from having the life that
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  Speaker 1: you really want to have? So whatever the reason you're choosing,
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  Speaker 1: that's the reason that's stopping you from having the life
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  Speaker 1: that you want to have. It's no good because at
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  Speaker 1: the end of the date, here's the real deal. I see,
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  Speaker 1: God is available, and God is available for all of us,
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  Speaker 1: and God has a plan for all of us, and
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  Speaker 1: God wants to vary best for all of us. That's
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  Speaker 1: the truth of the matter. So now what we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: do to get started having that life? First of all,
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  Speaker 1: if it's your friends, I want you to understand something.
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  Speaker 1: Your friends can't save you. A lot of your friends
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  Speaker 1: offer no real help for you. Most of your friends
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  Speaker 1: don't have the answer themselves. I mean, it's just a
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  Speaker 1: wide range of reasons. And misery love company. So usually
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  Speaker 1: when your friends are in a bad position, they kind
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  Speaker 1: of like company in that bad position. Your friends ain't
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  Speaker 1: going to church. You're gonna be their friend. They don't
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  Speaker 1: really want you to go to church. You know, your
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  Speaker 1: friends don't pray, so why would they offer up prayer
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  Speaker 1: as a solution to you. You know, your friends don't
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  Speaker 1: really really get the fact that if you treat people better,
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  Speaker 1: people would treat you better or soul? What's that? So
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  Speaker 1: your friends are a lot of times the reasons, you know,
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  Speaker 1: the peer pressure of what and then the thought in
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  Speaker 1: your mind of what they're gonna think once they find
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  Speaker 1: out I don't do what they do anymore. Who cares
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  Speaker 1: what they think other than you? I mean, really, you
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  Speaker 1: can't let what somebody thinks if you stop you from
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  Speaker 1: having the best life you wanted to have. If I
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  Speaker 1: went by that theory right there, I wouldn't I wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: even be on this mic this morning. I would have
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  Speaker 1: never become a stand up I would have had I
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  Speaker 1: listened to the people around me who clearly told me
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  Speaker 1: when I quit my job to pursue this. Boy, don't
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  Speaker 1: you quit your job? You got a family, Boy, don't
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  Speaker 1: you do this. You ain't got no bit dad, ain't
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  Speaker 1: ain't no security in that. Get yourself a job, Go
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  Speaker 1: down here and whet your brother, go to work over here.
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  Speaker 1: I heard all of that. I didn't let that stop
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  Speaker 1: me from pursuing this. Why would you allow that to
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  Speaker 1: stop you from pursuing your relationship with God so you
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  Speaker 1: can have the best life you could possibly have. You
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  Speaker 1: gang bang because they've convinced you that this is the
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  Speaker 1: family situation and love that you don't have, and they've
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  Speaker 1: convinced you that this is your only way, your only
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  Speaker 1: source of getting over And then you drum up these
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  Speaker 1: ignorant reasons man for staying with it. But they sound
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  Speaker 1: so good when you're listening to everybody else you surrounded
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  Speaker 1: by telling you why we gang banging, why we're holding
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  Speaker 1: this blockdown, why we slanging this thing here right here?
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  Speaker 1: Why we're letting it go like this here? You keep
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  Speaker 1: listening to them when all in your heart of hearts
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  Speaker 1: you know this ain't right, you already know, but you
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  Speaker 1: allow that form of the call of the wild, that
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  Speaker 1: wanting to be accepted by a group of people who
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  Speaker 1: trying to get you to accept the way so you
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  Speaker 1: can further they progress. To even prove that you worthy
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  Speaker 1: to be around them, you got to commit some type
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  Speaker 1: of crime to even prove that you're worthy to be
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  Speaker 1: around them. Then when you get busted on the crime,
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  Speaker 1: what happens to that where your familyad Now they don't
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  Speaker 1: come down there to see you, because guess what, they
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  Speaker 1: can't turn in their idea to death at a law
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  Speaker 1: enforcements center. So now your homies can't come visit you.
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  Speaker 1: And then you know your family back out here, they
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  Speaker 1: ain't taking care of your family because it's all about them.
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  Speaker 1: Then you learn that what is it that stopping you
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  Speaker 1: from having a life that you always wanted to have?
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  Speaker 1: What is it? Why are you a repeat offender? Why
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  Speaker 1: do you keep checking yourself back into that institution? Why? Man,
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  Speaker 1: why won't you get it together? Why won't you give
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  Speaker 1: God a try. Why won't you disassociate yourself? Why would
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  Speaker 1: you continue to be a part of a revolving door
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  Speaker 1: system and becoming the farm system for these institutions that
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing for you? But you keep going back
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  Speaker 1: in there. And then every time you go in there,
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  Speaker 1: and then your little homies or your gang banging, little
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  Speaker 1: little silly little friends try to make you think that's
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  Speaker 1: a badge of honor. There ain't no badge of honor. Man,
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  Speaker 1: that's one mode. What's one more scratch on that record,
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  Speaker 1: That's one mold, That's one more nail in that coffin.
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  Speaker 1: That's one step closer to that third strike where you
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna ever get out. It's one step closer to
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  Speaker 1: that graveyard. You keep on. Why would you not give
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  Speaker 1: God a try? Why would you not go and see
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  Speaker 1: what your life could really be? What is it that's
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  Speaker 1: stopping you? Because see, I got news for you. There's
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  Speaker 1: nothing like waking up free. I don't care who you are.
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing like waking up with the joy in your heart. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you ain't gonna be free, get the joy in
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  Speaker 1: your heart, the satisfaction of knowing that you accomplishing something
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  Speaker 1: with your life, help somebody behind them, bars, get in
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  Speaker 1: the program, show these young cats when they come in
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  Speaker 1: a better way. But don't you dare sit there man
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  Speaker 1: and just ride it out, and man, just go and
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  Speaker 1: get the fullest life that you can have. What you
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  Speaker 1: know what it feels like to wake up and be
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  Speaker 1: on your way somewhere knowing that you have something to accomplish,
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  Speaker 1: that you can change somebody, that you can stop somebody
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  Speaker 1: from going down the roads you went down. It's a
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  Speaker 1: whole lot of ways to make your life better. But
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  Speaker 1: why would you not go and have the best life
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  Speaker 1: you can have? What is it that's stopping you? Really? Really?
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  Speaker 1: So you think that Satan really has your best interests
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  Speaker 1: at heart. That Dela thing your mama kept telling you
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  Speaker 1: about praying, you wasn't listening. It was you. But you know,
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  Speaker 1: it ain't ever too late to get back to that.
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  Speaker 1: It ain't ever too late to turn around, It ain't
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  Speaker 1: ever too late to get your life together, it ain't
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  Speaker 1: ever too late to seek God, and it ain't ever
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  Speaker 1: too late to pray. Don't forget to pray, don't be
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  Speaker 1: ashamed to pray, and don't be too proud to pray,
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  Speaker 1: Because prayer changes things. Prayer change people too. I'm a
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  Speaker 1: witness to that. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, let me
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  Speaker 1: have it your undivided attention. Please. This is the Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. It is the morning Time. As we gather,
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  Speaker 1: it is two time. Start your day with gratitude, which
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  Speaker 1: immediately affects your attitude, which then will determine your altitude.
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  Speaker 1: It is two time on the morn to show. Get
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  Speaker 1: all three, get them to agree, and step back and
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  Speaker 1: start to see your life will appear to be times three.
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  Speaker 1: Oh lord, I'm gonna hear ob Artists, General Shelly Starberry,
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  Speaker 1: Colin Farrell, Mouth of the South, Mississippi, Monica Junior. That
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  Speaker 1: boy Mama named him kill Space. The legend that is
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  Speaker 1: nephew Tommy and yours truth Junior. Yes, what is it today? Sir?
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  Speaker 1: Couldn't be ask you something? A lot of things. Be
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  Speaker 1: happy with my partners, man, It just be funny stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I know you sixty five. You probably had all this happened, man,
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  Speaker 1: But one of my partners got put out over the week.
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  Speaker 1: They came home, found it close into the yard. Didn't
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  Speaker 1: call me talking about can I come through and help
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  Speaker 1: them pick these shirts? Up in these shoes at this yard,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going Have you ever been put out before
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  Speaker 1: like that? Well, I've never been put out like that.
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  Speaker 1: See he got put out by Roman that's throwing stuff
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  Speaker 1: over the balcony out in the yard. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: my lies couldn't normally stayed that much off and always
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  Speaker 1: had people that knew me that would go a man,
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  Speaker 1: you know, seem like something crazy at your house and
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  Speaker 1: you know, something like that. So I don't really know
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  Speaker 1: that part. Now. Have I been put out of an
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  Speaker 1: apartment before? Of course, notice something like that, I mean
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  Speaker 1: walk up there and snatch it off the door, like
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  Speaker 1: I pay you man, I'm coming. They came home and
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  Speaker 1: saw the sheriff standing there and moving company setting stuff out,
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  Speaker 1: you know, stuff like that. Then then that that's when
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  Speaker 1: you got that. You can't come in there. You can't
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  Speaker 1: beat when when it happens. Man, you can't be too
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  Speaker 1: I rate can't be mad at the people that's working.
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  Speaker 1: You do have to let them know this is a
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  Speaker 1: major mistake, you know, like walk in and beat you
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  Speaker 1: when you walk up on them putting your furniture out.
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  Speaker 1: You have to be more surprised than the people are
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  Speaker 1: that you came home. That's the key one. You have
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  Speaker 1: to be more surprised than the people that set your
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  Speaker 1: stuff out on the tree lump they got. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: be most surprised and you you came home, so you
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  Speaker 1: have to go in there go oh my god. Okay, okay,
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  Speaker 1: what excuse me? Excuse me? What what is going on?
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  Speaker 1: This is unbelievable. Wait a minute, stop, sir, sir, put
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  Speaker 1: that back hold on. Guys. You know hal well you've
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  Speaker 1: been told him Levin eviction notices off your dough. You
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  Speaker 1: know what, Thank you Steve for that. All right, coming
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  Speaker 1: up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: the pastors and church complaints right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it is Monday,
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  Speaker 1: so you know what that means. Church was yesterday, complaints
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  Speaker 1: are today? Time for church complaints with the Reverend Motown
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  Speaker 1: and Deacon deaf jam me amen. We oh yeah, gravel
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  Speaker 1: in this bidacious day of my comments by we info
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  Speaker 1: gavel m vicariously. No vicarious means that you care less
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  Speaker 1: than a viral, and all the rest of pontificate on
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  Speaker 1: the situation is yeah. And therefore we stand here in
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  Speaker 1: a retrimonious way, gathering our thoughts for du the roma,
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  Speaker 1: the face, the numbers of people being concluding rules as
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  Speaker 1: she provides the proverbs and psalms for Peter. Come on, alright,
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  Speaker 1: understanding that when we put this in chronicle logical order,
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  Speaker 1: we gonna have a revelation. Man, come on, get down
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  Speaker 1: to it, past it. We got an issue here. You're
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  Speaker 1: gonna have to talk to your brother Chester Miller. He
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  Speaker 1: claimed he's starting his own special barbecue business. He say
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  Speaker 1: the temperature outside is a hundred and fifteen degrees the
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  Speaker 1: next two weeks, he said, he gonna just lay the
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  Speaker 1: barbecue outside on something fall. He calling it summer barbecu.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna cook all the way through.
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  Speaker 1: I think you need to talk to him. Man. Any
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  Speaker 1: black person that byes this barbecu has been laying out
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  Speaker 1: on the ground in the fall deserves and I mean
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  Speaker 1: it's from the depths of my heart, your soul deserves
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  Speaker 1: to develop simon ella to berkelosis in the case of
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  Speaker 1: coronal all at the same time. Go ahead, all right.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who did it, but somebody puts speed
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  Speaker 1: bumps inside the church to slow down the people on
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  Speaker 1: the scooters and not a scooter members. They won't them remove,
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  Speaker 1: but everybody else ain't keep them in there because they
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  Speaker 1: need to slow it down. They out of control. It's
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  Speaker 1: your cardo pass out. I'm going to be or the
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  Speaker 1: first to come to the admission. I ordered the or
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  Speaker 1: placement or the bumps now because set the Berth's fat
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  Speaker 1: ass rolled up on the back of my heel last
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  Speaker 1: week and told all the skin off my achilles. I
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  Speaker 1: bled through the entire sermon, but my desire to serve
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  Speaker 1: him with strongle then the devil trying to stop me.
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  Speaker 1: So after that I had those old speed bumps placed.
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  Speaker 1: You put them in there. I didn't know you did that.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't. Ain't that the my attention. Here's something else.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if you recognize this, but it's been
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  Speaker 1: brought to my attention that somebody has stocked the baptismal
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  Speaker 1: pool with fish. There's at least farted fish swimming in
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  Speaker 1: the Baptista pool, catfish, bass, perch cropping. What do you
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  Speaker 1: want to do with this? I don't. I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: nothing about this. What I know you ain't done that too? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I had I stocked the pool myself well listening to
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  Speaker 1: the reason. And I had missed several fishing trips with
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  Speaker 1: friends of mine due to us having these revivals and
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  Speaker 1: what nobody coming down front to be saved or baptized
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  Speaker 1: after my sermons. So I decided to turn it into
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  Speaker 1: a fishing pond. I'm gonna tell you something. They're in
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  Speaker 1: that biting and they hit hard to the whole. You
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  Speaker 1: get holding big croppy. It's a little fight going on.
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  Speaker 1: Thoroughly enjoyed this. Matter of fact, I've decided to leave
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  Speaker 1: me because the number of people were baptizing. We're just
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  Speaker 1: gonna consider and stop calling it a baptizing pool and
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  Speaker 1: gonna call it a baptizing lake. Baptie, ain't let me
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  Speaker 1: say this to you. Please talk to your brother, Jabbo
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  Speaker 1: Jabbo kindly. He has decided that he is a super
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  Speaker 1: hero nine. He called himself super set a saber. He
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  Speaker 1: has an outfit with a cape on it and a
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  Speaker 1: mask and what it is that he got an ass
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  Speaker 1: on his chest. When he thinks somebody is getting of
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  Speaker 1: the sin, he runs over and trying to stop him.
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  Speaker 1: Now he got it, But whoop that the motail last
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  Speaker 1: night for trying to knock on something. Knock somebody dough down.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna have to talk there. Oh, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to say much or these or super
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  Speaker 1: soul save or jab on. It's gonna continue to get
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  Speaker 1: his ass. Whoop. Oh one thing you want about people want? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: when people want to sin, it ain't a hole lot
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  Speaker 1: you could do about ride. You can fly around slapping
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  Speaker 1: crack pipes out of people head if you want to crack.
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  Speaker 1: If you slap a crackhead dope on the ground, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna tell you right No, there're gonna be real situation.
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  Speaker 1: That's riding up all people's doors you think is in there,
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  Speaker 1: or having six there's another ass who I'm watching a
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  Speaker 1: man or trying to break in the waltmart there's another ass. Hoop,
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead, quickly, real quick us the reader college. You
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  Speaker 1: know she passed God rest up. So all the men
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  Speaker 1: who are appointed to be the Paul Borough Paul Barons
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  Speaker 1: have backed out. Now as you know, she was over
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  Speaker 1: six hundred pound. How are we gonna be to move
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  Speaker 1: her around? Path? Are we not? Where somebody got to
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  Speaker 1: carry out? We got to do something well. Her funeral
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  Speaker 1: is in the back of the church. I'm gonna do
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  Speaker 1: like a lot of white churches. I see, we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: start grevey'all right, a hood church college. I can't get.
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  Speaker 1: We're just gonna dig the whole backgwn by the fact
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  Speaker 1: I ridded a back hole to come and get the
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  Speaker 1: green good that ladies and gentlemen, it's church complaints for today. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it's Asked the Sealer with the Chief
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  Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening morning show coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour and Entertainment News. We will find out what
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  Speaker 1: Steve did over the weekend. I heard it with Star Studies.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it. Huh. Also, Melody Hobson is the
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  Speaker 1: first black female to be co owner of an NFL team,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: and Moniqu's sister calls her out for her negative behavior.
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  Speaker 1: And one more, Tire Woods is a billionaire. We'll talk
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  Speaker 1: about all this at the top of the hour, but
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  Speaker 1: first it is time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Ready for your love question, Celeste in Laurel Rights.
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  Speaker 1: My husband is studying to be a pastor, and he
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  Speaker 1: uses profanity at home when he's stressed, he will smoke weed.
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  Speaker 1: He shouldn't pursue this profession if he's going to be
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  Speaker 1: a hypocrite. Should I tell our senior pastor about his
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  Speaker 1: behavior or not? Whow you the wife tell her your husband? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's he that's crazy. You don't even had to testify
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  Speaker 1: in court on your husband, so he didn't mad a
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  Speaker 1: snitche Yeah. Basically, well, you know, he's studying to be
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  Speaker 1: a pastor. That that's the difference between a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people studying to be a pastor called to be a pastor.
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  Speaker 1: Two different things. To my understanding and the way I
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  Speaker 1: grew up and was raised. So he's studying to be
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: something he may not be qualified for. I had a
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: My degree in college was advertising. I have no business
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: sitting up in no damn advertising office. One of the
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: many wrong decisions I made as a young man. And
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: so you know, it's just another bad decision. You ain't
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: got to tell nobody. It ain't gonna work out. You
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: discomm one this course right here, he's too far over there.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Oh come on, man, he ain't him trying to come back? Okay,
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: what's really making him? Because them theological tests? All right?
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Benita and Tampa. Benita says, I'm in
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: love with the man that owns two car washers and
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: he hands out complimentary mimosas to women on Saturday and Sunday.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: He claims it's marketing, but I think he does it
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: so he and the guys can meet women. Is this
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: marketing or macking? So I like marketing to me? Oh yeah, yeah, house,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: well it's marketing. It works. Look how look what it
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: did to you. You probably got headed one of them mimosas.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: And now look at your ass. You've been to married
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: a man. Great marketing, mac marketing, Yeah, I call it marketing.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, free mimosas. Yeah, I'm all for it. Sound
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: like great marketing. You we're on the Steve Harvard National
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: Radio show talking about it. Marketing outstanding for this guy's brilliant.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: I hope they're drinking responsibly, all right, Wanda and Mabelton
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: says my daughters mimosa, Shirley, I know, I know still
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: has champagne in it. Just go ahead. Everybody ain't affected
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: by it like you, Shirley. This one's from Wanda in Mableton.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Wanda says, my daughter is seventeen and she hit her
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: boyfriend in the eye after catching him next door in
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: the pool with the sixteen year old girl that lives there.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I told my daughter that she shouldn't hit him, She
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have hit him. But now the boy's flaunting the
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: new girl in my daughter's face, and she's so hurt.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I want to pop him. How do I console her?
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: You can't. This is life. This is what happens along
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: the way. Boy meets girl. Girl means boy. Boy likes girl,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: girl likes boy. Boy looks across the fifth see another girl,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Boy like her too. He ain't committed. This boy seventeen.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: You don't even understand what's driving him right now. He's
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: not driven by his mind, in his brain, he's driven
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: by hormone. He in the pool, the sixteen year old
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: girl splashing around, she splashing water on his face. What
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: did that do that got him aroused? What are they
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: doing now? Now they walk around town? It don't take much.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: He's seventeen. You couldn't do nothing to me. Nothing. If
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: I saw a girl pulling her pants up, not even
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: because they was down, just you know, just walking, just
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: trying to make sure they stayed herself. I was heated.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, she won't me. She doing that in
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: front of my face, she said me, staring at her.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: That girl they got eyes in the back of her head. Lady,
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: you got to relax your daughter. This ain't the first.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: This ain't her last time getting hurt either. It's okay
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: that boy didn't hit or nothing like that. He just
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: changed his mind. Yeah, Yeah, he gonna gona he gonna
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: get another one. Yeah. And she shouldn't be hitting him anywhere.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Told her right, Wanda, not to hit anybody. Girls don't
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: hit these dudes they raised right. No, these dudes hit
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: women back. Keep your hands to yourself. Late, Yes, because
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: these cats out here they're not they're not raised like this.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: They will hit you back. Yeah, all right. Last one, Steve.
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: This one's from Dina in North Carolina. Dinna says, my
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: boyfriend had a barbecue so his parents could meet me.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I made beans, potato salad, greens, a pound cake, and
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: banana pudding. His mother said, my food tasted like hospital food,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: and I got DEFENSI taken't have any seeds, she said.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I got defensive and said, well, don't eat it. My
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: boyfriend said it was unnecessary and rude. But what his
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: mama said wasn't his Mama's told the truth. Let me
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: tell you something, girl, You ain't got enough experience to
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: make Bobbie Q classics for the family. Bobbie Q. The
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: damn baked beans, the potato salad, the pound cake? Are
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: you crazy? These black folk? Classic? Here? Are you making
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: potato salad? Folk? You know how hard it is to
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: get that right. You didn't open up a can of
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Campbell's poking beans and heating them up and gave them
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: to them black people. Hospital food pound you know, went
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: down to the grocery store and bought a Sarah Leeve
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: pound cake. Hospital food sent it here. Balter balter potato
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: salad from public hospital food sent up and try to
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: make these black people eat this. And you yung, He
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: said it tastes like hospital food because it did. What color?
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: What did she put in them? Green? Oh? And then green? Oh?
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I forgot left that off? The green nothing. You just
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: damn greens. They wasn't even cooked all the way through.
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: They and there chewing stalk. You didn't throw the stalks out,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: You just chopped them up small your collar. Green's in
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: there looking like kale. You just just rung They chewing
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: him like his Kale. I'm on the in the side.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: His mom told my ship man. You shut up, Shirley.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: This is not one none cooking ass person talking to another.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: Don't listen to Shirley about nothing but cookie because her
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: ass can't cookie. And Shirley no rude when she heard,
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: because she'd heard all of that. It's been hospital foods.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: It's been clinics saver. She somebody told Shirley her food
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: tastes like emergency room medicine. Coming up at the top
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: of the or, we'll have some entertainment news for you
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to show. Coming up at
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have special guests from
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: the Earn Your Leisure podcast, Steve. They're gonna tell us
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: all about the first annual Investfest and um, we're gonna
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: tell you right now. You're gonna tell us, Steve about
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: your star studied event over the weekend. What happened? Who
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: was there, what'd you do? Tell us everywhere? Are you
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: talking about my star studied event? I didn't have star
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: study event, but you were there though, See Shirley, While
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: I don't like where you set that up, so let
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: me just ta We'll get down a little bit. Let
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: me just tip it down. We went to Bishop Jake's
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: sixty fifth birthday party. Bishop Jake's was concerned. H Tyler
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: did a wonderful thing and several other people and through
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: the event with his wife. His wife did mostly all
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: of the planning. It was a really really nicey bit.
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: Bishop was concerned. He said, man, what if nobody comes?
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: What I mean? He was actually feeling that way. That's
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: his spirit though, as he's a humble guy. He said,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: what if nobody comes? My last text to him when
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I left last night was well they came. It was
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: not an empty seat in there. I made several key mistakes.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: I gave the custom the toast l cool jas White
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: said you know what she would lamb. She said you
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: almost made it. Because he said you almost made it.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: You almost made As soon as you said that, everybody
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: went hall. But they was laughing. Yeah, said the entertainer.
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: A comedy boy said's ass was funny. It's party. It
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: was funny man. He was funny man. He wrote a
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: bunch of material for church and partying with church folks
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: and getting old hysterical night. Kenny Lattimore saying, Jennifer Hudson
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: closed the night out. Boy added to tell you something,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Jennifer Hudson, that's the truth. It's not a joke, man.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: She did a tribute to Aretha Franklin. Dog. She had
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: that whole place. It was just such a great event, man,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: to honor a man who has meant so much to
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: so many people. And you just couldn't get over the
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: fact or beyond the fact of how many people were there,
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: because nah, man, I just came to honor you, brother,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: because what you poured into me the moment you've counseled me.
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: I mean, he's he's pulled some people to the side,
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: a lot of them people, all the famous people call it.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: But it was like and then I made another mistake.
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: I was before you know, it was one hundred to
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: six embarrassed. It was money and no at the beginning,
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: this outside, you know, before the heat makes you say
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: something bad. He what did you say? Well, I was
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: talking to this dude. Man. He had on a straw
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: hat bid you know, nice little outfit on sundals, no socks.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: I just think I'm talking to some you know reglass dude.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: I said, Man, man, it's hot than the mouth or
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: out here. While you dropped that one. You dropped that one.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: It was one hundred and six. Dog, there was what
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: else I could say. He looked at it smoked a
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: little bit sad. No, not when it's a hundred and six.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: And the little dude, I asked, the fusing walk. I
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: hadn't made it back yet, all right, I'd ask him
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: when I'd ask him for the water when I was parched,
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: and he had bought twenty minutes later. He's a little
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: ass still wasn't there. I said, Man, it's hot him,
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: both for our him. I was talking because I've been
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: talking with dude about five minute. He just cool. He said,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: bless you, brother, I said. He said, I'm Bishop so
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and so. For me, I said, I beat him being everything.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: He had horn real blasgic. He looked like somebody, I'll
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: hang out with us. What did you doing being a bishop?
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: I thought you was from Cleveland. This is not big.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: I'm Bishop so and so from miss Stock God. Then
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: I was talking to his other dude. Man, he came
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: with Steve. Man, what's up? What's going on? Man? I
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: was up. You ain't know who it was here. Man,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: it's been a long time, been a long time was
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: on the end, I was on, I'm pastor so and
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: so from oklohola, I need to put these robes on
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: at this all this walking around and regular player ass gil,
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: y'all just put some robes on the identify yourself. Anybody
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: got no cross on anything? Y'all need praising, and they
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: room Collins that y'all need some idea in here. Man,
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: I'm just making all kinds of mistakes. Oh man. Last
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: the toasts went good, you know, and then I was
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: saying some things and they was kind of you because
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: like right after they was almost finished eating, I told lady,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: you ain't supposed to do this while people eat. Now, No,
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: we got a plan like this. So I went on
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: up there and then you know, kind of look, I
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: kind of felt like they wasn't, you know, paying me
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: a hundred percent. Oh, I'm gonna be anybody paying me
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: to be up here. Now, you ain't half ass listening.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: So that's what I said, you know, I said this
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: right here, used to wear y'all's ass supposed to be clapping.
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: As soon as I said that, the whole room fell
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: out because I said, you know that part right there,
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: that's what y'all ass supposed to be clapped. I'm dead
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: at margin. She just dropped her head. She did, Baby,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: don't drop your head like you in bass. To be
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: with me? Wow, you know we got to ride home together.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: Don't be embarrassed to be with me now, all right?
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, our special
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: guests Troy Millings and Rashad Balil from the Earn Your
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: Leisure Podcast coming up right after this. You're listening, all right, everybody, Hey,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: we got some special guests this morning. I met these
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: two brothers recently. Man. I joined them for the podcast
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: called Earn Your Leisure Podcast, and it's probably one of
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: the most effective interviews I've done career wise. I mean,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I've never had anything become so more impactful to a
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: whole different culture of people, and this Earn Your Leisure
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: Podcast was so effective. I wanted to bring him on
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: the show to offer you a chance to get to
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: know them a little bit better and to improve your
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: life and give you a chance to earn your own leisure. Right.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: They've got some great business model and they've always been
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: at the forefront of cutting edge trends of finance. The
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: podcast is best described as a college business class mixed
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: with pop culture. And the first annual invest Fest is
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: going to take place August fifth, sixth, and seventh in Atlanta,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: and they're joining us to tell about us and how
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: you can be a part of it. Please welcome to
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: the show, Troy Mullins and Rashad By leaving. Let's do
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: that again. Please Welcome to the show, Troy, Troy Millings
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: and Reshod Bellow. Oh yeah, like you must be my soul. Welcome,
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: how do man? Welcome to the show. Man. Let's get
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: right into this invest Fest. It's the first of its kind.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: You guys got a festival that's combining investing, entrepreneurship, entertainment,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: and prop culture all in one place. And it's gonna
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: take place at your Georgia World Congress Center in Atlanta, Georgia,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: August fifth through the seven. Yes, correct, yes, yes, yes.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: So the idea behind invest Fest was to, you know,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: we see so many musical festivals you have Coachella, you
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: have made in America. We just came to them from
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: the roots picnic shout to the roots, and um, you
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: know it's real popular. But at that time last year
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: when we were thinking about it, we're like there's a
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: lot of business conferences and a lot of like business retreats,
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: but there's never been, to my knowledge of business festival.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, how can we get the best elements
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: of festivals, so like food trucks, vendor booths, you know, activations, experiences,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: performances for also having center around financial literacy and investing
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: in business. So that's what we were able to do
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: and you know, create an environment where we can have
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: thousands of people come and have fireside chats, have keynote addresses,
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: have you know, educational forms and all tie it in
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: with entertainment. So it's like a formal we call entertainment
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: with a mix of education and entertainment and over a
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: three day over three day weekend and just to have
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: an experience. And the goal is to grow it and
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: to be big as Coachella. So what they call it
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: the Coachella Financial Literacy. And you know it was off
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: to a great start last year and this year is
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: gonna be even bigger. Yeah, I think it's going to
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: be something special. Man. Like I said when I did
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: the podcast, it's probably the most impactful interview I've done
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: in my career in terms of discussing business and my
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: thoughts on motivation and things like that. Hey, guys, when
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: we come back, we're going to hear more about this. Ah.
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: We're talking to all the brothers that run Earn Your
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: Leisure and it's a great convention coming to the Georgia
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: World Congress Center in Atlanta, Georgia. Fifty to seven. We
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: come back, we're gonna have that information for you. You're listening,
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: all right, everybody, We're back and our special guest this
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: morning is a Troy Millings and Rasha Bilau, and they
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: are the guys that run Earn Your Leisure podcast that
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: you saw me on That was so I just so
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: relevant to what I've become. And I've never did an
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: interview like this. I just found these two young brothers
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: to be fascinating. They have a full team of people,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: so listen. They have this thing called Investfest. I want
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: you to go to investfest dot com. Investfest dot com.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: It will give you the entire attend ared ticket information
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: and vendor information. It's going to be a superb event.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be there because I just I'm just enamored
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: with how these young guys work. Now, let me ask
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: you something Troy I said in the thing, it's gonna
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: be a panel discussion, vendor market place, live musical performances,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: podcast stages for interviews with various celebrities of food, truck, caravan,
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: and so much more. What are these panel discussions primarily
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: centered around. Yeah, so set around a lot of things, cryptocurrency,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: real estate investing, for one case, how to have life insurance.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: So we're trying to encompass as much education as possible
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: with what we've seen and obviouslyeen when you through reference
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: Coachella and Ruspiff, there's a lot of entertainment, and so
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: when we talk about entertainment, it's a transactional relationship, Right,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: I pay you with detain meet and now in order
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: to entertainment again, I have to pay. What we're trying
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: to do is create entertainment where it's like, all right,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have transformational interactions where it's like now you came,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: you pay for the event, but you're leaving with educations
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: that can now change your life, to change the people
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: around you life. So it's a mix of commerce and cultures.
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: What we're saying, because what you take from this show
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: and what you take from this advantage something that's going
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: to transform not only you, but the generations that will
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: follow you for years. You know. I think that's the
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: thing that fascinated me about this invest Fest when I
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: first heard about it was the combination of commerce and culture,
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: because you've done a very very smart thing, very kind
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: of similar to Essence when they have the Essence Festival
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: for women. They throw this wonderful event of entertainment, but
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: all throughout the date is educating and pouring into him,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: empowering them and one of a very very powerful events.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: But this is the first of its kind for me
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: to watch young people such a and I say young
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: because hell, I'm sixty five so and you guys are young.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: You're touching an audience that I was exposed to when
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: I did the podcast that normally I don't really get
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: here that they see me on TikTok and I don't
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: even know how to get on it, and they see motivations.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: I don't even know how to get on that. But
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I think this year at invest Fest, Man, this is
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, folks, this is a great opportunity to
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: give this as a gift to a young person in
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: your life to know, you know, looking for answers. If
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: you're an older person that never got the answers, if
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: you're from my generation, you know, it's never too late
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: to become successful. I want to invite everybody down to
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: the Atlanta, Georgia World Congress Center in Atlanta August fifth
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: through the seventh. Now you can go to Investfest dot
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: com for that tenor at ticket information. Now, let me
• 42:15
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• 44:05
  Speaker 1: Coming up next to is the Nephew and the Prank
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: Phone Call. Right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today. Get a load of this subject.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: He can't out cheat me. Okay, he he can't out
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: cheat me. We'll get into that just a few purpose.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Cheating is real, do you hear me. We'll get into
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: that just a little bit. Like I said, right now,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: it is time for the Nephew and the Prank Phone
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: call for it today. What you got for us next? Huh?
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: What you got? What's on the menu? Stupid? Here it is.
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: Let me see, it's it's gonna be stupid. Let me see,
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: let me see. Let me pick this thunderbolt. Thunder boat, Okay,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: thunder boat. Yeah, Ladies and gentlemen, Cat dog if you
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: would Hello, hey man, let me speak not here. Who's called? Hey?
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: This stunned the boat from the club man? What time
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: she get in the boat? Hello? Yeah, yeah, this thun
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: the boat man. What time she get in? What you
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: mean what time she get in? Uh? She ain't in
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: here now, But you know what I mean? I was
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: what you need? Hey, Uh, I'm trying to pop up on.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to actually get an address and stuff. Man,
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: she got me dancing this weekend on Saturday night, and
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: I want to see it. Make sure I got the
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: address and everything everything. Still, I don't you know, I
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: already gave much. She got you dancing? Say what? No?
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: What you mean she got you dancing? She asked me
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: to do some mail dancing on Saturday night. So I
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: went on and took off at the club. And uh,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: you know, she don't already got my my gal ain't
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: she ain't had you do no mail dancing my gul
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: She nah? I guess he goes to go to school
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: at night on weekend. So you know naching? Okay, okay, okay,
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Who I named David David fiance? What? Yeah, that's my girl?
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Hol hold on, hold on, squeakers been to getting married.
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: Squeaky squeaky Wait wait wait, okay, I'm David, right, Okay,
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: that's that's that's squeaking squeaker to get me. No, my girl,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: you said you're a dancer. I dance that man is
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I'm Thunderbolt. But how do you know? My girl she
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: come to the club on Satdays. She asked me about
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: doing some dancing for this coming. Sayy, so she already
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: gave me half the money. He comes to the clubs
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: on on Saturdays. Now, my girl she goes to school
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: on Saturdays. Way you know, No, listen all right forever.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I'm blown away by you trying to tell me squeaking
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: married that you got me really toe up with stuff
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: I don't know. No, no, squeaky, that's what we call
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: her at the club, man and man, look at I'm
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: not gonna get into all of that. What I'm really
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: calling about is she got me working this weekend doing
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: some dancing, and I'm trying to just make show that
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: we are for this week because I didn't get much
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: spot up at the club. You're trying to tell my
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: girl hanging out of him buck naked club dance man
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: Squeak had been coming up in them, man for the
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: last buckle Weeki's he been there long enough. Nickname, No,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: I don know it. Squeaker for five years. Squeak had
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: been coming. Man, this this Thunderboat, Me and Squeaker go
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: way back. No, man, well we're gonna handle it when
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: she get in here. So you can you know, handle
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: to yours? Have you got to handle it? Talk to
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: whoever you got to to get your little money or whatever. No, no, no, no,
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: I don't wait a minut man that that's not as
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: you listening. Man, I can't get my slot back at
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: the club. The squeaker got to give me the remaining balance. Man,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: even if she ain't gonna do, I need my other
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: waining balance. I can't to give you the maining balance
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: of nothing. Hey man, I need to ring my money
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: money that that she gave you. What's your sting? You
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: can just count that out. She ain't gonna give you.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: Hey man, I under Boat gonna get his money. Man,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: I need my one fit tunder Boats don't get it, well,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: then that's what you got to do. And that's what
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: you got to do. Man, I told you for Thunderboat
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: piping into the getting. No can talking about calling you
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: Squeaky and all this, so ain't I ain't working for
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: to give them running a wing to some underboat lighting
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: or whatever. Hey man, look man, it's thunderboat. It ain't lightning.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: It's thunderboat. Lightning worked on Wednesday night. The thunderboat. I
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: don't know who you didn't talk to you already about that,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: but you need to haul that them. But don't be
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: calling here asking my girl to give you some money.
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: Ain't giving you because she don't make nothing. I'm coming
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: over there now and get my money from Squeaky. I
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: ain't hear it. Don't make nothing. I think all the
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: money around here, So you ain't gonna get nothing from
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: over year partner, So you can wipe that your mind.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: I'm coming over there to get my money from Squeaky today.
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: You're coming over here. I'm coming over there to get
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: my money from Squeaking. Don't I ain't got time to flight.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: I don't lost my slot at the club. And see
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: what you get seed you get some money, get your lady.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: Thunder coming over there to get the rest of his
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: body you've been. I bring you over here because you
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: come to what I tell you what? Bring them going
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: over here and I'm gonna show you lightning. I ain't
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: know you got some money all ready for she runing
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: here give you money the way I'm struggling. I tell
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: you what. You bring your over the moment and watch
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: what's go down. Hey man, all I'm saying is I'm
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: fenna come over there and wait outside down so Squeaky
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: to get there to get the rest of my money.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying to you. You're gonna come over
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: and sit outside what I'm gonna come over there and
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: wait outside for Squeaky to get this so I could
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: get the rest of my money over here and said
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: outside my house. That's what I'm senna do with. That's
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: when it takes for me to get my money from Squeaky.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. You be over here there and
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: sit outside of my house and we dinna get your
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: till you blow the hole one. That's what you do.
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: You blow the horns. I come out there and meet
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: you and let you know what's going down. But brush
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: them and were there. She can see y'all lay it
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: out like I'm come on over and get your money.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my money, Squeak. You on me one
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars, and I've been to come get
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: don't give what she told you about us? Money is
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: she giving you? You gotta be happy with that. You
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: want to come over here talking about you want some
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: old money. Here hunt somebody old thunderboat one hundred and
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: fifty dollars, and thunderboat gonna get his money. But to
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: try to go and dance at the clump on this
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: weekend for you, So here you will not be dancing
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: at the talking about sit out from money. Squeaky gonna
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: give me my one thing. You ain't even got nothing
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: to do with this, no way. This transaction is between
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: me and Squeaky. It ain't got nothing to do with you,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: no way. Her name is, and he's got everything to
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: do with me. You call my talking about killing you
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: some money and gone over here. I got your money,
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: come get you, and I got your money right here.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: Gonna be sitting out front waiting on you. Squeaky one.
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: Ask for me to dance Saturday night. Squeaky, I told
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: a three hundred dollars plus kills. Now I ain't gonna
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: get no kills, but I'll tell you where I am
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: gonna get my three hundred dollars though I got one
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: fifty and I'm gonna get the other one fifty one. Squeaky,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: get all, you ain't getting it from me. You'renna get
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: your busson from me. I got one more thing I
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: need to say to you. What you listening to me said? Man,
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: I'm this I can hear you, but this is Matthew
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: cranked by your homeboard. Who Who's this? This is Matthew Timmy,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: Man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: pranked by your homeboy. God, you need to put to
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: play too much. Man, y'all had me hot round this.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: I'm putting on boots, man, I gear. I'm gonna go
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: out in squabble. I got tights and bad the whipple man.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: Ye man, y'all bro I'd be glad when somebody drank
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: your Tommy. I'm gonna get that. Y'all got me, y'all
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: got me? Hey, man, I got one more thing I
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: gotta ask you, man, what is what is the baddest
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: The Steve Harvey Morning Show. Tommy yourself. Boy, that was funny.
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: That damn fund the boat. Come the boat. I don't
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: get that lightning work on wird, get it right, heightening
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: work we okay, man, come through it. Get this money
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: man squeaking. Squeaking gave her a nickname. We've been coming
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: at that long? What she got a nickname? Yeah? Boy,
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: that was funny. Hey man, a thunder boat man? So
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: I hold that man? What got the boat? He come
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: get there? Get that balance. I didn't give me this balance, man,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: real quick, I ain't gonna hold I gott hey man,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: That's that's what I like about my dudes. I was
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: putting my boots on. I was getting pipes bats. I
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: was to do something. See, and you can tell the
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: old school because all his stuff was fighting. I got
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: a pipe, so I put my boots on. I go
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: ahead and scrabble. You ain't had a fighting at a
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: long time. So you you ain't had a fighting yeels,
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: So you you got to be ready need all this stuff.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Oh you come sit out in front of your house. Hey,
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: different fat man. When you get in front of how
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: blow the home? All right? Neew thank you. Coming up next,
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: it's the Strawberry letter subject he can't out cheat Me.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: We'll find out what that's all about right after this.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stry Morning Show. All right, it
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you
• 53:32
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• 53:36
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• 53:43
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• 53:47
  Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: and never know. It could be yours could be you
• 53:51
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• 53:53
  Speaker 1: Tell you here it is the Strawberry Letter subject he
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: can out Cheat Me. Dear Stephen Shirley, my boyfriend and
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: I are forty four years old and we have been
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: together for years. I lost count on how long we've
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: actually been a couple because we were roommates first, then
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: we started fooling around. Then we stopped seeing other people
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: since we were living together. We became a couple after
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: our family and friends considered us a couple. I started
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: playing the role of wifey and made sure everything was
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: taken care of in the house. Little did I know
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: he was telling people that we were roommates and we
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: hadn't had sex and months. That's when my attitude changed
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: and I asked him to move out. He denied ever
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: saying that, and I knew he was lying. I started
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: seeing one of my old boyfriends and started to stay
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: at his house. Sometimes my roommate would stay away all
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: weekend and come home and sleep all day. On Sunday,
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: I saw his email and text messages and he was
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: telling women how much he enjoyed them sexually. I decided
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: to turn up the heat on him and beat him
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: at his own game. I with his boss at our
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: house and I send him a picture of us. It's
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: boss didn't care about being messy because he knew my
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: roommate was a big time cheater. My boyfriend, who said
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: he's just my roommate, came home and we got into
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: a really bad argument, and he admitted to cheating on
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: me for years. I told him he can't out cheat me,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: and I told him about my ex boyfriend. In addition
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: to his boss, those two people that I slept with
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: were far worse than any women he ever messed with.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: He knows how I feel about my ex. He cried
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: and begged me to stop cheating and swore he'd stopped
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: cheating too. I'm glad he realized what he'd lose. But
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: it's too late, or is it? Is there a way
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: to stay together and fix this mess? Okay, let's see
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: about that first. I'm gonna say it's not you know,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: it's not normal what we do as women. This is
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: not normally what we do as women. We don't make
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: it into a competition or game of who can cheat
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: on who the most, or who can cheat on who
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: the best. We don't normally do that because while women
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: may take a man back, you know, we might more
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: women take men back after they cheat than men take
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: women back. Okay, those numbers are pretty low for men
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: taking women back after they knowingly been cheated on. Okay,
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: but you did it, and you told your man, You
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: even bragged about it, you know, you being the better
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: cheater and who you cheat it with. Now you want
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: to know, is there any hope for you too? Well,
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: let me just say this again. I believe it's never
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: too late for anything. But really that's up to you guys.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: You guys, only you guys can answer that question, because
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: fixing it is going to involve the tea word, and
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: the tea word is trust in this situation, and it
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: all boils down to trust. I mean, after all that's
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: gone on between the both of you, can you trust
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: that it won't happen again? He asked you not to cheat,
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: He said he wasn't going to cheat. Well, can you
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: guys hold to that? That's the question. You have to
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: rebuild that trust. If you two really want that, you
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: got to start working on your relationship. And you guys
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: got to start from scratch, because there was never any
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: respect or any trust, it seems from you guys to
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: begin with. You have to do what you can. You
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: got to make each other feel secure if you want
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: to make this thing work. You know, it's just how
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: much are you guys willing to do. You might want
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: to go to counseling. I mean, that's going to help
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: if you guys agree to go. And it also means
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: no sexting with other females, no guys, definitely no seeing
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: other people. So again, if you bought, guys both want
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: it and you say you do. Since he stopped crying
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: and begging and stuff, you got to do the work
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: because right now, this raggedy relationship of yours is hanging
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: on by a thread. Steve, this letter right here is shocking.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: He can't out cheat me. Then after writes his whole letter.
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: Here's the line that they've given to me and Shirley.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: Here's the mandate. Is there a way to stay together
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: and fix this mess? After all she wrote? Here's the
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: question for me and Shirley? Is there a way to
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: stay together and fix this mess? Shirley has an approach
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: to it, a very logical approach. I don't feel like
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: being logical today. Here's the answer to your question, is
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: there a way to stay together and fix this mess?
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: The answer is hell? Now this is over? You know,
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: you know, I used to spend a lot of time
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: really trying to help people. But I've discovered that a
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: lot of people write me and Shirley with some helpless situations.
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: It's nothing we could do. You shouldn't have took this
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: to the Lord. We ain't got the qualification got the Lord?
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: Because what am I supposed to do with this? Hell?
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: Because okay, let me tell you what I read When
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: I read the letter? Did Steven Sherley my boyfriend and
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  Speaker 1: I forty four years old, and we have been together
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  Speaker 1: for ye years. Okay, y'all ain't married, and y'all boyfriend
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  Speaker 1: and girlfriend at forty four, y'all too old for this.
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: Here's the key to this letter. I lost count of
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  Speaker 1: how long we've actually been a couple because we were
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: roommates first, then we started fooling around. Then we stopped
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: seeing other people. Since when we're living together, we became
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: a couple. Out of our family and friends considered us
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: a couple. What what? What all I could say is
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: listen to me. When a woman says she don't know
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: how long we've actually been a couple. Let me tell
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: you something. When you lose count or when you stop
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: the count, it's because it don't count. Listen to me again.
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: If you lose the ac count of something, or you
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: stop the count, it's because it don't count. Everybody in
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: this room know how long they've been with their partner. Everybody,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, whatever we got part two of your
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after be our
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject he can't out cheat me. We'll
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening, all right,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, Let's get back into Today's Strawberry letter.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Let's recap. The subject is he can't out cheat me,
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: so very quickly, here's my recap. I just add went
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: to the bottom of the letter. And after she wrote
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: all this, she said it's their way to stay together
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: and fix this mess. My answer is hell no, just
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: hell no. This is a this is a done daughter.
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  Speaker 1: I can't help. This is a not fixable. I'll tell
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: you why. My boyfriend and I forty four years old.
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  Speaker 1: We've been together for years. Who forty folk steal boyfriend girlfriend?
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: I told y'all this stops after college. You stopped having
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: boyfriends girlfriends at the college after forty You got to
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: call it something else, boyfriend girlfriend. Y'all too old for this.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: I lost count of how long we've actually been a
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: couple because we were roommates first, then we started fooling around. Now,
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: let me, first of all, let me help you with
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: when a woman loses count in their relationship, you lose
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: count because it don't count. This is very true. Now
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: listen to this mess right here. I lost count of
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: how long we've actually been together because we were roommates first,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: then we started fooling around. Then we stopped seeing other
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: people since we were living together. We became a couple
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: after our family and friends considered us a couple. I
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: started playing the role of WIFEE and made sure everything
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: was taken care of in the house. Little did I know,
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: he was telling people that we were roommates and we
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: hadn't had sex and months. Did you hear what I
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: just read? They are only a couple because some people
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: told him they was a couple. They had to stop
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: seeing other people because they were both living together. Then
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: she started playing the role of wifey. But then a
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: little did she know he was telling people there was
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: roommates and had to have sex and most she said,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: that's when my attitude changed. Really well, this is gonna
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: be interesting, because what y'all in right now is a
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: complete mess with the attitude you had. But then your
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: attitude change. I asked him to move out. He did
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: not ever saying that, and I knew he was lying.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: So guess what she did. I started seeing one of
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: my old boyfriends and started to stay at his house sometimes.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: What what did you just say? But then my roommate
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: would stay away all weekend and come home and sleep
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: all day on Sunday. This is the dude that she
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: lives with the supposed to be a couple. I saw
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: his emails in text and he was telling and women
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: how much he enjoyed them sexually. Then after she read
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: these texts, she decided to turn up the heat on
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: him and beat him at his own game. She said,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: I slept with his boss at our house and sent
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: him a picture of us. What just this letter is
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: straight crazy. This is ship madness. This is nuts. His
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: boss didn't care about being messy because he knew my
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: roommate was a big time cheat up. My boyfriend, who
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: said he's just my roommate, came home. We got into
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: a really bad argument. He admitted to cheating on me
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: for years. I told him he came out cheat me.
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: I told him about my ex boyfriend, in addition to
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: the boss, which she sent pictures to. Now it's somebody
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: else she's doing too, her ex boyfriend. Those two people
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: that I slept with were far worse than any women
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: he ever messed with, because he knows how I feel
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: about my ex wet. This is sheer craziness. Man, you're
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: sleeping with people. He's sleeping with people your boss. You're
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: sitting in pictures, You're discovering emails y'all live together, y'all
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: a couple. Y'all ain't a couple? Uh? Y'all still boyfriend girlfriend?
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: After all these years you the lost count y'all foughty folk.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: After all this he cred and cried and begged me
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: to stop cheating. This war he stopped cheating too. I'm
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: glad he realized what he lose, but it's too late.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: He ain't lost nothing for you. Glad he realized what
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: he lose. What has he lost? You're passing yourself around
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: like ladies at what back tator chips? Or is it?
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: Is there a way to stay together and fix this mess?
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: This whole letter is filled with say what, lady? Do
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: you fix this? Why y'all together? Y'all don't be long together? You?
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: Neither one of you have any idea And in all
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: of this, in all of this, neither one of you
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: said you were in love with each other, neither one
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: of y'all, neither one of y'all said you can't live
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: without it. Neither one of you said you were hurt
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: by the other one cheating. This is a why y'all
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: need to break up, go your separate ways start over.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: Y'all have nothing this is this is nothing. Man, Man,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: this this could be close to It's gotten on your nerves.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: This is one of the worst letters man. I mean,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: what was he crying and doing? All that crying and
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: begging for? That's all that is? He can get her back.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: You don't cry and cut off women. Huh. You don't
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: cry and cut off women. Did you cry to keep
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: this one woman from cutting you off? Uh? Huh? Then
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: once she do, you ain't even you. It ain't even
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: make you. Take out all the emails and stuff he
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: got in his phone. Yeah, it's got a lot of
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: stuff in there. All right, Thank you. Steve. Hit us
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: up on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM to comment on
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check out the Strawberry
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. Now. Coming up next, it is
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk right after this. You're listening morning show?
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: All right, It is time now for Sports Talk with Junior. Hey, Junior,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: what you got? All right? Shirley Friday Night, Oh my god,
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: y'all saw it. But it was all about Steph Curry
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: in there, cooking man. Just one show, everybody, while he's
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: the best player in this whole series. Forty three points
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: man fourteen to twenty six from the field seven or
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: fourteen from three. Man, he wouldn't miss it nowhere where
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you serious tied in two too. Also, I
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: just need to see if Draymond Green could just give
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: us a little more Draymond d. They didn't kind of
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: set Draymond down a little bit here. Yeah, man, you
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: know it's it's it's it's one of these series, man,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: where you know this is gonna be pivotal Game five
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: coming up to night. Man, I don't know how. I
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: don't know how you're gonna look way it was. They
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: could be three one or two. It could have been
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: three one, man. Yeah, but you know Steph Man is
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: under now what is going on with Dale? And saw
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: your Curry up? And did you see this later? Well
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: they say wife swap is going on. So Darrel Curry
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: was in the stands with his boot and sign. Your
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: Curry was at the game with Hubbu. But they say
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: those two used to be married. Man's cooking on the
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: court and off the court. His parents like, my mama,
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: dad gotta go home, y'all gotta go home. Yeah, can
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: I just compete for a championship? I can't play with
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: all this care that talk about a crosshold. It's all
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: ain't seen it? He said, you ain't seen it. Yeah. Also, man,
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: the Houston Texas have to get lawyers as they have
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: been named as a defendant in this did you it's
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: coming out saying that the Texas knew they provided him
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: the hotels and the masseuses. Dude, right there, Who who's
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: suing the Texas? Is it the lawyer with the women, yes?
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: Is it Deshaun's people? Yeah? No, the lawyers the victims,
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: alleged victims have named the Texans as difficult. See now,
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: that means that the two neighbors have fallen out ugly
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: because what didn't happened is this lawyer that represents his
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: women has seen the case starting to lose momentum and
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: lose traction and not getting what he thought. So now
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: he didn't turned on his next door neighbor. I'm gonna
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: see y'all. Wow, Wow, all right, Junior, to be continued.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour,
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about more about Monique. Her sister has come
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: forth to say a few words. We'll talk about it
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to all right, So Monique's
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: sister now has come out and spoken about this whole
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: Monique and DL situation that happened a couple of weeks ago.
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: Monique's sister's warning Monique about messing with God. Monique's sister's
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: name is Millicent, i'ms She wrote a long Facebook post
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: pleading for Monique to stop creating drama in her life.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: Milicent wrote, enough is enough, my sister, stop the madness.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: It's not a good look. God has shut you down before,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: and believe me, he will do it again. You are
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: and have been displacing your anger on the wrong people.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: She also called out Monique for talking about deal Hughley's daughter.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: I see you are making statements about other people's children,
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: So where are yours? Before ending her post, Melicent urged
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: Monique to again clean your house up and you'll be
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: set free. L Ol. I have receipts. As your old
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 1: bodyguard used to say, let's play nice as you say.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: This is all coming from a place of love, sister,
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: stop who yes? Yeah? Calling her out. The part about
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: God is the part that I see right here. You know, look, man,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: you can't This is not the way it works. Um,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: I ain't got nothing to say, y'all go ahead, Okay,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: all right, we just wanted to put that out there
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: was trending on social media. Yeah, see how I got
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: out of there because my next comment was gonna be
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: on the internet. Yeah, y'all done. You want us to
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: move along? Nothing. You can comment on this, Steve, How
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: about this? Tiger Woods is officially a billionaire? All right,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: we have another billionaire. That's right. This is according to
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: a new Forbes estimate of Tiger's net worth. He joins
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: LA Laker superstar Lebron James. We heard about his billionaire
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: status last week. And of course NBA legend Michael Jordan.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: These are the only athletes to be only known billionaire
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: athletes athletes in the world. So there you go, Tiger, Lebron,
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: and Michael Jordans billionaires. So you can comment on that, Well,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: I don't think they're the only ones. Well you got
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: a look. They don't overseas, they don't do the reporting
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: of income the way we do m but Africa coverseas
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: that boys MESSI that soccer player, soccer player, the boys
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: is making bank. They're making bank, man, and they are
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: really really connected. I can assure you that Japanese board
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: had won the Masters last year. The rumors that I've
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: heard of what they've done for him and back in
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: his country way over the top. Way Well, so I
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: just think I think it's other people that's not to
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: just because what Lebron did as a major accomplishment and
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: he's really dope man like. Lebron is probably the most
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: relevant athlete. I mean, excuse me, Lebron. It's probably our
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: most relevant athlete of these current times right here. I
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: mean he's rivaling in terms of being an activist and
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: things like that and putting jobs in the community. I mean,
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: what what what when Chamberlain, I mean when Due Jabbar
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: made a stance and Jim Brown made a stance, it
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: was tough man. When they was making stances. Tim Boys
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: was making some real noise out there about for us.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: But to benefit from what they did, as Lebron has done,
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: I think he's taking it to another level. I think
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: he's a super relevant person. I think Michael Jordan has
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: started to show a lot of stuff. Michael Jordan has
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: done a lot of stuff for people that he told
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: talked about and I think he hasn't gotten enough credit.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: Before we leave, can we give a sister, some credit,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: some love. Melody Hobson, the first black woman to have
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: equity in the NFL, as the new co owner of
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: the Denver Broncos. Can we do that please? Yes? Yes,
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: relations to Melody Hobson. All right, and we'll be back
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening to show.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 1: A North Carolina pest company, The pest Informer, posted on
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: its website that it's looking for five to seven households
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: that will allow them to put one hundred American cockroaches
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: in their house and they will pay the participants two
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars. They're wanting to conduct a study on a
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: specific pest control technique, which will take around thirty days,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: and it will require to anicians to film the process.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: During the process, the homeowners are not allowed to use
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: other pest control techniques. The company promises that it will
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: use traditional cockroach treatment options if its new technique does
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: not kill the infestation within thirty days. Hey, listen to me.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: Don't sign up for this the little cockroaches in your house.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: Though they're gonna pay you two thousand dollars, you don't
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: even understand. Cockroaches thirty days, they set up shop thirty
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: days and cockroaches that's crazy cockroach convention. At the end
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: of week two, hein't nothing. But what does that see?
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: Sixty six dollars a day, don't even know? That's man,
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: some cockroaches losing your house for tooth grand for thirty days,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: and then for thirty days when when you don't see
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: them no more, when they leave, they ain't gonna This
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: is when I'm stays in the attic in a corner. Hey, man,
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: you smell all that. You smell that that's poisoned. Man,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: let's go over here and lay low for a little while.
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: You think they're gone, Yeah, they're gone. If you already
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: got cockroaches, then going on it ain't gonna mess up.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: Now you already got it. I know, computing enough for
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 1: two thousand dollars. You can come over and start filming today,
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: coming up with thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: play a round I would you rather? Right after this
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: you're listening to show? All right, guys, it's time for
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Would you rather live
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: in a new country every month? Or never? Go on? Vacation.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: I live in a new country every month, in new
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: country every month. Never go on vacation, never never leave
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 1: as Yeah, I don't new country every month, new country
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: every month. I move around. You would have to live
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: in a new country every month every month. Yeah, you're
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: just gonna keep moving every month. You donna move, y'all.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: Don't work where your money coming from? He doesn't say
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: we needed some money, we need money to new You're
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: living in a new country every month. What would you
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: rather do? He immediately thought about the money steves the
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: mind works. Yeah, no, I'm gonna stay in one country
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: making my money. I create some vacations, but they cast staycations.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: Yes they are all right. Would you rather pay five
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: dollars every time you lie to who? Or got it?
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: Because it's the one? Because this this could be costly?
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: Who everyone lie to someone? Or? Would you pay? Or?
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: Would you rather pay five dollars every time you insult someone?
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: I say money, yea for you? Who get to five
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: dollars the person you've lied to or insulted? Uh? Some reason,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: I feel like a spouse. I feel like a spouse
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: is attached to this. I don't want to do. Yeah, well,
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: I just go with beat in if it's you your spouse.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: Every time I'm insulted my spouse, I pay a five
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: off every time you like. No, I can't do that.
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: Chill damn everything. She'll have all your money so many times.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: All right, moving on? Would you rather be a pastor
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: for a week? Pastor for a week, or would you
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: rather be a stripper for a week? Which one past
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna preach this thing. I'm not going to be
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: past I probably ain't gonna make the week, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be a past We got but one sermon. You
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  Speaker 1: can make it a week. Now, you gotta be a
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  Speaker 1: pastor for a whole week. Gotta go sick and shut in?
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  Speaker 1: You got you don't like. I ain't good at that.
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  Speaker 1: Couldn't make it a bitch of TD Jake's birthday, Parker.
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  Speaker 1: Just be the stripper for a week. You could do that, right? Yeah? No,
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  Speaker 1: because then don't end up going to hell. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get caught up into life. Somebody gonna compliment me, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna want to hear it again. I'm out there,
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  Speaker 1: every said Parking. All right, Well that's would you rather
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  Speaker 1: for today? We'll be back at forty nine minutes after
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  Speaker 1: we're closing remarks. You're listening to all Right, guys, here
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: we are on this Monday, our last break of the day.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a good Monday break the day. Yeah, okay, guys. Questions, anybody,
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  Speaker 1: let's talk this out. Let me see if I would
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  Speaker 1: give you some advice or anything. I was thinking about this.
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  Speaker 1: It's not not a question that I need advice on.
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  Speaker 1: But I've been watching the Bobby Brown reality show every
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  Speaker 1: Little Yeah, it's so good. I love Bobby Brown. But
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to know. I know people have come to
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  Speaker 1: you and asked you to do reality. Why haven't you
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  Speaker 1: ever done a reality I know you you've created reality radio. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but what have you ever thought about? Kids came to
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  Speaker 1: me and wanted to do it. You know, they really
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  Speaker 1: had it in their head to get it done because
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  Speaker 1: they had been offered it. And my wife actually considered
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: it and was talking about what Steven would really help
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  Speaker 1: the kids get off the ground and earn money and
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. And I pulled
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  Speaker 1: my wife to the side when we sat on and said, baby,
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: I said, let me ask you a question. I say,
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  Speaker 1: when do I get off? I said, If I'm working
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  Speaker 1: all day on my job and then I come home
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  Speaker 1: and there's some more cameras sitting up in my house,
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  Speaker 1: I said, when do I get to be off? She said, well, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: I'll have it where they don't shoot you. I said, no,
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: it's cameras in the house. She said, Steve, let me
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  Speaker 1: go in and tell your kid and wet even do
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  Speaker 1: this here? She ran on in there, said, your daddy said,
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  Speaker 1: And it was mad at me for from me, But
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: it's cool because and then see reality shows for me
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  Speaker 1: become way too much reality because my regular the way
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  Speaker 1: I am on the radio is enough. Yeah, that's as
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: close as you get to being your any more revealing.
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: And this is gonna be catastrophic. You make lose gigs, Yeah, yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not really sure family few will maintain me. I'm
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 1: not sure about it. But when yeah, when we first
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  Speaker 1: started the radio show, you were giving it to them,
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  Speaker 1: having meetings on the air everything. Whatever you do to
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  Speaker 1: me or whatever you say to me, I'm taking it
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  Speaker 1: to the public. Let the public be the judge. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, next to anybody, you know, you have all
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: these TV gigs, man, you keep coming up on TV
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: all kinds of ways, and even with a new show
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: just Steve. You know, was there a process to just
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: reinventing yourself? Did you think these up or did it
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  Speaker 1: just come in your lap? I don't really. You know,
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of grace and favor in my life. Man.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I've been over two hundred pitch meetings in
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: this business. Of the two hundred pitch meetings, I've gotten
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  Speaker 1: five TV shows on TV. Two hundred meetings, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: two hundred pitch meetings of ideas I've taken for myself,
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 1: for other people, for this, got involved with this guy,
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  Speaker 1: executive produced that. And out of the two hundred pitch meetings,
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: I've gotten five shows on TV in thirty some years
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 1: since I was the whole journeys No, like Tommy's been
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: on Ready Ready to Love for how many seasons now
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 1: shooting seven and eight. You know how hard that is
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: to be on TV for seven seasons. It's crazy. I
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: mean this show goes into syndication after one hundred and
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: twenty five episodes. You know, it's really really hard. The
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: average eighty five percent of all TV shows has gone
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: within two years eighty five Man, it's very, very hard.
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  Speaker 1: So I've been very blessed in that. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: I've always been able to reinvent myself because I don't
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  Speaker 1: have a fear of change. I know that everything can change.
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  Speaker 1: Everything will change. Now. You can participate in the change,
• 1:23:31
  Speaker 1: or you can react to the change. If you are
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: continually reacting to changes in your life, you will forever
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: stay behind the eight ball. So why don't you participate
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: in the change. This is going to happen at a
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: certain amount of time, And let me make a move
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 1: and then lose your fear of failure because failure is
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  Speaker 1: a part of the process. Ain't going about your business
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: and then remain faithful. Give God credit, man, I think
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: that's been a big part of my success. I don't
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not afraid to give God credit, you know, give
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: where credit is due. It's not me. I'm not all
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: of that, you know. It's a lot of grace and
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  Speaker 1: favor on my life. It's a lot of me saying
• 1:24:09
  Speaker 1: prayers for other people, you know, things like that. Like
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  Speaker 1: it was a great quote that I witnessed the other day.
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  Speaker 1: It said that a society becomes great when old men
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  Speaker 1: plant trees under which the shade they know they'll never sit.
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  Speaker 1: Good people do things for other people. Old men plant
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  Speaker 1: trees of which under the shade they know they will
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  Speaker 1: never sit. And that's what has been a big part
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 1: of my growth. Like we bought this ranch, I know,
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 1: and we we planted sixty nine thousand spruce slings from
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: where a tornado came through and tore up my land.
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 1: We planted at sixty nine thousand and spruces. I probably
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: won't sit under the shade of them. So why would
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  Speaker 1: I plant those many trees? Because we need forests, and
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: we need wooded areas, and deers need habitat. And my
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 1: grandchildren gonna drive under them trees. That's your legacy. Yeah,
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 1: you know, in thirty years, I'll be able to sit
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 1: around the tree, but I won't really see what that
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: tree gonna really be. You know, I got thirty thirty
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  Speaker 1: nine more years and then I'm gone. You know that
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: nine I'm gonna be yeah, yeah, and then I'm gonna
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: go home. What what? What's what happening? Why not one
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: on five? Why? Why one on four? You're pushing it?
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: Give me one on four. I be happy. We have
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 1: to talk about that tomorrow, y'all. Have a great day. Hey, listen, everybody,
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 1: talk to God. He loved to hear from you. Okay, y'all,
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 1: stay in peace. We'll see you tomorrow. For all Steve
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