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Who On The Show, SHVM, Wonderful Time of the Year, Cold Water Submersion and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know, y'all bat all at all?
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  Speaker 2: Given a black a million bus busy listening to.
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  Speaker 3: Show.
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  Speaker 4: I want to joy.
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  Speaker 3: Yah, yeah, Joy, you know you love you.
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  Speaker 5: Gotta turn.
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  Speaker 6: I got to turn the mouth turn. You probably got
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  Speaker 6: to turn the mouth.
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  Speaker 3: The mony.
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  Speaker 2: Look, come.
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  Speaker 7: Come on you.
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  Speaker 3: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening
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  Speaker 3: to the voice I said, come on now, dig me
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  Speaker 3: to one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, Now,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna be really honest with you this morning. I
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  Speaker 3: really don't know what to say. I really don't. I
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  Speaker 3: was sitting here and I was thinking, what do I
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  Speaker 3: say today. I do know that I want to be encouraging,
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  Speaker 3: uplifting and inspirational in some way to affect somebody today. Oftentimes,
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  Speaker 3: these conversations that I have in the mornings, they're designed
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  Speaker 3: with me because I needed myself, y'all, to be honest
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  Speaker 3: with you. I mean, you know who makes the comedian laugh?
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  Speaker 3: I used to say all the time, And even though
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  Speaker 3: what we talk about in the morning is not a
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  Speaker 3: laughing matter, it kind of like is where I am today?
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  Speaker 3: You know, I need motivation in my life sometimes myself.
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  Speaker 3: I think when I get in moments like this, I
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  Speaker 3: often resort back to the same thing over and over
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  Speaker 3: and over. And when I find myself in certain predicaments,
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  Speaker 3: I can always fall back on the same thing over
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  Speaker 3: and over. So while I'm sitting here trying to figure
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  Speaker 3: out what to say to you, the one thing that
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  Speaker 3: I did do this morning that I find to be
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  Speaker 3: very consistent in me is that I find myself grateful.
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  Speaker 3: I'm ever grateful for the things that God has done
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  Speaker 3: for me. I may not always know what to say,
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  Speaker 3: but I know how to say thank you do. I
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  Speaker 3: know how to remember and reflect back on where I
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  Speaker 3: come from. I know how to realize where all my
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  Speaker 3: blessings come from. I'm very very conscious of my journey
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  Speaker 3: that I've been on, the one that was from then
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  Speaker 3: until now, that journey right there is it's been. It's been.
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  Speaker 3: It's been. It's been difficult, man, it really really has.
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  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie to you.
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  Speaker 8: Me.
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  Speaker 3: Becoming successful was very difficult. But as hard as this
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  Speaker 3: is to say, I really really mean this. I wouldn't
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  Speaker 3: change nothing about the trip I've been on. Number one,
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  Speaker 3: because I can't change anything about it, so I never
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  Speaker 3: lived life and regret. But the main thing is was
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  Speaker 3: I discovered along the way now, not doing the process
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  Speaker 3: when you're going through rough moments that you can't hardly
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  Speaker 3: see the good in it at the time. It's just
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  Speaker 3: rough for you and it seems unexplainable, and oftentimes I
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  Speaker 3: thought it was unfair. But as I am now, I
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  Speaker 3: needed every single thing that happened to me, that happened
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  Speaker 3: to me to happen to me. I hope that makes
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  Speaker 3: sense to you. I needed everything to happen in the
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  Speaker 3: exact order and the exact way that it happened in
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  Speaker 3: order for me to be the person that I've become.
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  Speaker 3: And that right there, man, is just very comforting to me.
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  Speaker 3: Mister Jakes told me one time, he said, the closer
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  Speaker 3: you get to God, the more friendly you all become,
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  Speaker 3: the more He will reveal to you the how it
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  Speaker 3: comes and what falls of a lot of things that's
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  Speaker 3: happened to you. Because a lot of times what troubles
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  Speaker 3: us is we just can't understand why we lost that
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  Speaker 3: love one back then. We just can't understand why we
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  Speaker 3: didn't get what we wanted back then. We just don't
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  Speaker 3: understand how come our plan didn't work out and we
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  Speaker 3: had to fail so miserably. Back then, we don't understand
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  Speaker 3: the answers to these things. Well, the closer I've gotten
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  Speaker 3: to God, the more those explanations have become crystal clear
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  Speaker 3: to me. And See, the one thing that I came
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  Speaker 3: to the realization everybody is that the things that was
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  Speaker 3: happening to me, they weren't really all bad. They really
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  Speaker 3: wasn't that they didn't taste good. When it was happening,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't enjoy what I was going through. But as
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  Speaker 3: I look back on them and reflect now, it wasn't
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  Speaker 3: all bad. Some of those things were so necessary for
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  Speaker 3: me to get the information because see, I don't know
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  Speaker 3: about you, but I'm kind of hard headed and stubborn.
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  Speaker 3: I said, I don't know about you, but I'm kind
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  Speaker 3: of hard headed and stubborn. I kind of like to
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  Speaker 3: think that I know something about some things every now
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  Speaker 3: and then, and the things I am convinced about. I
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  Speaker 3: don't really really care for people trying to talk me
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  Speaker 3: off mine. So I can be stubborn and hard headed.
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  Speaker 3: Sometimes God knows that about me. So I think to
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  Speaker 3: get some of the messages crystal clear through to me
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  Speaker 3: that I needed to learn. That was this process I
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  Speaker 3: had to go through. That process was my journey. It
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  Speaker 3: was my trip. It was my woe, my pain. See,
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  Speaker 3: everybody got them different, It don't matter what it is.
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  Speaker 3: Everybody got a woe, everybody got a pain, everybody got
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  Speaker 3: a trial, everybody got some tribulations, everybody got some challenge.
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  Speaker 3: I don't care who you are due quit looking at
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  Speaker 3: me thinking that I got a going on, so tough man.
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  Speaker 3: But if Steve, yeah, it's easy for you to say that,
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  Speaker 3: but you ain't here. You don't know where. Ben, if
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  Speaker 3: you would stop hanging yourself up on your past, worrying
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  Speaker 3: about your woes and your troubles and the situation you in,
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  Speaker 3: and start praying and start asking God to get you
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  Speaker 3: through it. See a lot of times you messed it.
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  Speaker 3: You messed the message up yourself, because when you're going
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  Speaker 3: through some stuff, you ask God to remove it and
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  Speaker 3: take it away. That ain't the lesson. You got to
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  Speaker 3: learn your lesson sometimes it's got to be how to
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  Speaker 3: be strong, how to see it through, how to bear
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  Speaker 3: under it, how to carry that weight long distances for
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  Speaker 3: long periods of time. That's how you get strong. The
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  Speaker 3: lesson is to make you stronger. But to make you stronger,
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  Speaker 3: you got to carry the weight. You can't get stronger
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  Speaker 3: you don't go to gym or you're gonna do something
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  Speaker 3: at your house to lift your own body weight. See,
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people can't even do push ups. They
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  Speaker 3: can't get down, and in the course of a day,
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  Speaker 3: give you one hundred push ups because they ain't. They
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  Speaker 3: ain't never tried it. They boy it. They get to
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  Speaker 3: twenty and they shake it so bad they stop. That's
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  Speaker 3: too much for me. Well, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 3: So I learned to quit praying to take stuff away.
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  Speaker 3: My prayer became to give me the strength to handle it.
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  Speaker 3: People oftentimes ask me, how do you do all that
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  Speaker 3: you do in the course of the day. I don't
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  Speaker 3: really know. I just know I can because I know
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  Speaker 3: God don't put more on you than you can bath.
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  Speaker 3: So when you ask me how you do all of
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  Speaker 3: what you do in the course of the day, I
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  Speaker 3: got God. God is good. He'll get you through whatever
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  Speaker 3: it is you're going through. So when you trip it
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  Speaker 3: and you don't know what to say, reflect and be
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  Speaker 3: grateful for all you reflect on. Think about God's goodness
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  Speaker 3: and watch what he do for you. That's the cold part,
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  Speaker 3: Okaystening show, Ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to the Riode. This
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  Speaker 3: is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Thank you, Lord God
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  Speaker 3: for this wonderful day, for this opportunity, for this blessing,
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  Speaker 3: for this gift that You've given us call today. I
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  Speaker 3: am a participant in it, and I would be nothing
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  Speaker 3: without you. I'm so grateful that you mine and I'm yours.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. And I also claim
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  Speaker 3: to be one of his favorites. Now, I want you
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  Speaker 3: all to understand something. When I say that you can
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  Speaker 3: also be one of his favorites. I'm not saying I'm
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  Speaker 3: his only favorite. You have an opportunity to be his favorite. Also,
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  Speaker 3: if I were you, I would claim to be a
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  Speaker 3: favorite because I already have join it with me as
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  Speaker 3: we participate as one of God's favorites. Today, Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 3: Morning Show Shenny Strawberry calling Forrell, Missisbi Monica Jr. KLS
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  Speaker 3: killer Wall's face. Yeah, sounds like a radio station. Welcome
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  Speaker 3: to w k LS Straight and the legend that is
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  Speaker 3: Nephew Tommy Little Radio. What's on your mind today?
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  Speaker 9: Well, you know what unc man, We approach you Christmas
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  Speaker 9: and uh, I don't have this gift and I need
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  Speaker 9: some help.
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  Speaker 3: Boy.
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  Speaker 9: Let me tell you right now, I'm some pressure. And
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  Speaker 9: how much money is this gift? Got to be a
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  Speaker 9: lot flood? Yeah, Hey, Tommy, you're just a lot. This
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  Speaker 9: is his first Christmas married.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta make the impact, man, Yeah right there, wrap
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  Speaker 3: that he is about that that house got bought this summer.
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  Speaker 3: You can't because because he live in it too. Know,
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  Speaker 3: your Christmas gift to your wife has to be personalized.
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  Speaker 3: Let me tell you some fellows. Don't come in there
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  Speaker 3: with no damn microwavee, no flash screen TV. Don't come
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  Speaker 3: in there with no blend on vacuum clean new bren
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  Speaker 3: washing dry. Yeah. Mind, you can't do that, Junior. It
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  Speaker 3: has to be a personalized gift that appears that you
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  Speaker 3: have put considerable amount of thought into the gift. What
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  Speaker 3: are you thinking about getting, Junior?
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  Speaker 9: I was thinking about getting her like a spa, Yes, okay,
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  Speaker 9: you know, a trip to a spa in another state.
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  Speaker 1: You know, you something like that, not not here?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I love the way that came out.
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  Speaker 3: A trip to a spa in the states. He cut
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  Speaker 3: it off from being a real balling a trip to
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  Speaker 3: a SPA in another country. He went to a trip
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  Speaker 3: to a SPA in another state like he been living
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  Speaker 3: in Atlanta. She gonna drive to South Carolina. Ya, boy,
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  Speaker 3: that gift took a turn for cheap so fast. But Junior,
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  Speaker 3: that'd be nice. What else you think about getting out
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  Speaker 3: of state SPA package?
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  Speaker 1: But a SPA is always good, Junior.
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  Speaker 3: Though it is. Do women always like spa treatment packages? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: it's a good one.
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  Speaker 1: That is my jam?
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  Speaker 9: What else do you I've got? What else I can
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  Speaker 9: tell you? I thought about this nice tennis braces and
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  Speaker 9: she's been looking at there. You go go with her
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  Speaker 9: ring and go with her, and go with her diamond
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  Speaker 9: ear rings that she got for a wedd day.
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  Speaker 3: See, she can't show the SPA package off. She showed
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  Speaker 3: that bracelet at all. Got about the brownie points?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, we like your all right.
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  Speaker 3: You can't get her like a year's subscription to tail
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  Speaker 3: and all and nothing like that.
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  Speaker 1: Don't do that coming up to do that?
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  Speaker 10: She always coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 10: We're gonna hear from the nephew as we run that
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  Speaker 10: prank back right after this you're listening morning show, and
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  Speaker 10: it's time now for the nephew to run that prank back?
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  Speaker 3: What you got for us?
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  Speaker 6: New?
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  Speaker 7: This is apartment three sixteen, Shirley. Can y'all remember all
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  Speaker 7: y'all apartment numbers from years and years ago?
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  Speaker 3: Can y'all? I'm young number.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, not all of them?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, two seventy one, fifty three, oh five, yep.
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  Speaker 1: How long you been to your house? When he's six?
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  Speaker 1: Five months? Okay? Still fresh, still fresh, still fresh, apartment
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  Speaker 1: so six it's a blessing.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, this is apartment three sixteen. Let's go catch down.
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  Speaker 8: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach deal.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, this is deal, Hey you deal?
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  Speaker 8: How you doing? Man? My name is Bond. Dude you
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  Speaker 8: live in to make sure I got the right dude? Man?
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  Speaker 8: You living for it right? Apartments? Yeah? I live going on? Okay,
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  Speaker 8: you live in an apartment of three sixteen? Right?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's something I need to be worried.
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  Speaker 8: I was going on my Oh no, no, no, everything
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  Speaker 8: cool with your apartment.
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  Speaker 9: Man.
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  Speaker 8: I got your numbers from lady at at the least
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  Speaker 8: in office regarding Thursday, wasn't I what's it?
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  Speaker 5: What's in regards to well?
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  Speaker 8: Actually, what's going to happen. Uh, I'm finna moved to
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  Speaker 8: court and what I wanted to do? You know? Uh
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  Speaker 8: see me in every apartment I've always had. I've always
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  Speaker 8: lived in apartment three sixteen, and I know you in
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  Speaker 8: three sixteen, so they you know, the girl at the
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  Speaker 8: office gaming, you know, because I don't want to move
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  Speaker 8: nowhere else where. I can't be in room three sixteen.
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  Speaker 8: I gotta be. You know. It's just real superstitious, I know,
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  Speaker 8: but I kind of got to have a party.
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  Speaker 5: Hold on god, you say your name Vaughn?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I'm gone right Vaughn.
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  Speaker 5: And who gave you my number?
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  Speaker 4: Again?
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  Speaker 8: One of the ladies at the least in office when
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  Speaker 8: I was over there?
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  Speaker 7: Who was it?
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  Speaker 8: I can't really remember her name? Man.
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  Speaker 5: Uh little well listen cut to and I'm gonna tell
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  Speaker 5: you like this, man, I don't comment you for nothing
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  Speaker 5: like that.
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  Speaker 8: Man.
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  Speaker 5: Now, I ain't moving out of my apartment. Man, I've
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  Speaker 5: been staying there for four years. When I moved out
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  Speaker 5: of the apartment, I moved in the house. You understand
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  Speaker 5: all this got going with your which is which? Whatever
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  Speaker 5: it is? You're three sixteen, you won three two.
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  Speaker 8: That's on you. Man, it ain't. I got to stay
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  Speaker 8: in three sixteen. Man, see that, that's what I'm trying
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  Speaker 8: to say. I don't sign the least, so I'm stuck
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  Speaker 8: with it. I got to get that apartment. So I said,
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  Speaker 8: I'm trying to tell you would you like to which
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  Speaker 8: which other apartment would you like to move to? And
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  Speaker 8: I go only get them to move your stuff all
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  Speaker 8: the time over than nothing.
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  Speaker 5: Ain't nothing moving on. Thing gonna moves. The numbers. You
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  Speaker 5: can add them up, divide them, do whatever you want
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  Speaker 5: to them. But I ain't moving. So you're gonna have
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  Speaker 5: to get that to your head. Man. And really, I'm
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  Speaker 5: because I don't know gave you my number? Was like this,
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  Speaker 5: I mean, working called me because I don't.
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  Speaker 8: Even know no vun no, no, you don't know me, DoD.
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  Speaker 8: I asked them who was in three sixteen? They told me,
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  Speaker 8: sain't none of your.
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  Speaker 5: Business going three sixteen?
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  Speaker 8: Man, Hey, listen, man, I'm trying to do this as
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  Speaker 8: respectful as possible. You know, like I said, I really
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  Speaker 8: can't function unless I'm living in apartment.
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  Speaker 5: Just respect me, then doing disrespect for them, because I'm
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  Speaker 5: gonna show him.
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  Speaker 8: Do this.
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  Speaker 5: You called me with like this I don't get favorite now.
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  Speaker 5: I don't care if there was your favorite scripture.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, hey me with like that man team. Now, you're
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  Speaker 8: gonna make this hard, okay, so let me let me
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  Speaker 8: tell you this to you. And I already told the
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  Speaker 8: lady I want to be in three sixteen. She told
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  Speaker 8: me I needed to deal with deal. Now I'm trying
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  Speaker 8: to deal with you on a polite way, okay, because
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  Speaker 8: like I say, I can't function, man, unless I'm in
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  Speaker 8: an apartment three sixteen, I can't. I can't even get
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  Speaker 8: them go to work. I cannot function. Okay, I have
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  Speaker 8: to have that apartment number done right.
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  Speaker 5: So it sounds like you've got a problem on your hands.
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  Speaker 8: Man.
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  Speaker 5: Whatever your pridem is, that's your priblem ain't got to
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  Speaker 5: do with me coming you know like that. Like I say,
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  Speaker 5: I've been staying in three sixteen, I'm gonna stay in
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  Speaker 5: three sixteen till I moved to a house. You need
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  Speaker 5: to find something else to do. And really I'm starting.
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  Speaker 5: They gave you my number to call me with is
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  Speaker 5: I can't leaves like the way you're talking to you
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  Speaker 5: talking to me first, what you come at me with that?
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  Speaker 5: Come at me with a number that looks like you man,
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  Speaker 5: three sixteen.
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  Speaker 8: What excuse me though, what you're saying?
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  Speaker 5: You calling me with this? I tell you what, man,
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  Speaker 5: come at me, Come at my problem that you gonna
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  Speaker 5: see it? Man, you understand what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 8: Hey man, I'm trying to handle this respectably. Man. Okay,
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  Speaker 8: all right, Well I said I'm trying to do.
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  Speaker 3: Listen to me.
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  Speaker 8: I'm trying to tell you honestly, dog, I cannot function
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  Speaker 8: outside of them three numbers. I have to live in
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  Speaker 8: an apartment three sixteen.
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  Speaker 5: That ain't my business. Man.
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  Speaker 8: No, I don't wanna have to come move yo, Yo,
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  Speaker 8: but I do.
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  Speaker 5: Hold on with running back what you say?
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  Speaker 8: I said, I don't want to have to move, Yo.
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  Speaker 4: Said that.
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  Speaker 5: Now let me said what you're gonna come move my
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  Speaker 5: I want hey, matter of fact, come yeah, come on,
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  Speaker 5: come move three sixteen, three sixteen. I had a free
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  Speaker 5: for you. Come on, man, come on, come move my man,
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  Speaker 5: Come on, two ten sideds. Come on, move yet all
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  Speaker 5: kind of going on the world with numbers. They got
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  Speaker 5: three hundred sixty five days.
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  Speaker 8: Deal with this.
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  Speaker 5: I mean it works. You want, I'm on my nine
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  Speaker 5: to five. When you come at you bout three sixteen
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna move somebody. That's all I got to say. Man,
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  Speaker 5: it's gonna be you before I did, before I deal
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  Speaker 5: with you. So I'm gonna get at least I was
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  Speaker 5: even giving you my number day.
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  Speaker 8: Hey man, I'm just trying to tell you I have
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  Speaker 8: to stay under them numbers, man, I have to. I'm
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  Speaker 8: superstitious like that. I know, I know everybody ain't like that,
• 19:12
  Speaker 8: but I just happen to be like that. You don't
• 19:13
  Speaker 8: say nobody ain't like that.
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: Man, I ain't got time to be dealing it. Really,
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: everybody ain't got time to sit up listen like this. Man.
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: You looked up the Christian other than I've been out
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: this job looking what appointment numbers did they give you?
• 19:26
  Speaker 8: They gave me like three twenty nine or something like that.
• 19:28
  Speaker 8: I don't. I can't stay there, man, That's why I'm.
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: A meat shit man. Meet me at three twenty nine,
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: six o'clock tonight. How bout them numbers?
• 19:36
  Speaker 8: Okay, okay, So how about these numbers right here? A
• 19:39
  Speaker 8: seven seven twenty nine, Steve? What mean A seven seven
• 19:43
  Speaker 8: twenty nine.
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: Steve eight seven seven twenty nine.
• 19:46
  Speaker 8: See you ain't never heard that number before.
• 19:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fun for me.
• 19:51
  Speaker 8: That's the number to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because
• 19:53
  Speaker 8: this is nephew, Tommy, and you just got pranked by
• 19:56
  Speaker 8: your coworker. Limita ib me like that.
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: It's it's sounds crazy as hell. I'll believe this for
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: us to had me rolling, God got me about to
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: take off and go to the Lisa Off and College height.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Now, who you say?
• 20:16
  Speaker 5: Got enough?
• 20:17
  Speaker 8: Ain't you got a coworker? Ain't Linda, Linda?
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: Ain't this about members coming from Linda right now? I
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: wonder why she takes so long? She put you out?
• 20:29
  Speaker 8: Man?
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: God ya, I hadn't going though.
• 20:32
  Speaker 8: Man, Hey Dale, I got one more thing, ask man,
• 20:36
  Speaker 8: Well you at work for real, ain't you? Yeah? Hey man?
• 20:41
  Speaker 8: What's the baddest radio show in the land? Man?
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: Steve brother Morning Show?
• 20:46
  Speaker 8: All right, Man, get back to work. Man, your phone
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: off the hook over there?
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: All right? All right, nephew, thank you.
• 20:51
  Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO with our
• 20:54
  Speaker 10: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 20:59
  Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour. And entertainment news.
• 21:02
  Speaker 10: Some sad news out of Hollywood. Actor Andre Brower has
• 21:06
  Speaker 10: passed away. Oprah Winfrey says she does, Yes, she does
• 21:10
  Speaker 10: take weight loss medication. And our girl Fantasia. Have you
• 21:14
  Speaker 10: seen her lately?
• 21:17
  Speaker 6: May thing?
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: She looks so good.
• 21:20
  Speaker 10: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
• 21:22
  Speaker 10: of the hour, but right now it is time to
• 21:26
  Speaker 10: ask the clo All right. This one's from Olisa in Manchester.
• 21:30
  Speaker 10: Olitha writes, I sent a new photo to a coworker,
• 21:33
  Speaker 10: and he sent it to another guy of work, and
• 21:36
  Speaker 10: he passed it on to a few others. I want
• 21:38
  Speaker 10: to get revenge by sending out the sad pick of
• 21:41
  Speaker 10: this guy's little You know what, do I embarrass him
• 21:44
  Speaker 10: like he did me?
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: Or let it go?
• 21:47
  Speaker 8: Ma?
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: I think you should let it go and learn yourself
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: a lesson, because why would you do that? Now you
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: all over the office, Now you showing a picture him
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: ain't gonna help you, but it could get you into
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: a further hole, because now they got something else to
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: talk about. Why did you do that? Why? See? These
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: are the lessons in life you got to learn. Have
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: y'all ever noticed you don't really learn something unless you
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: learn it from all your mistakes and failures. Those are
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: your major lessons in life, your mistakes and great failures. Agreed,
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: And so as we sit here and go, why would
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: you send this picture to this man? And now he
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: didn't send it somebody else, And he didn't send somebody
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: else because you're in the office. She been walking around
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: with these clothes on. Now we get to see what's
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: under the clothes.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: But she should she should just let it go. Don't
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: get revenge on him by sending a picture of him out.
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: Well, huh, you can let it leak. You could let
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: it leak. How would it me. I'm not that good
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: a Christian. I posted on the bullet the board and
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: kept here machine making funny. I had an I'm small
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: minded like that, though I real stuff like that. I
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: won't send it out, but I will put it up
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: on the bulletin board in the cafeteria in the hallway
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: or something like that. Or any suggestion boxing say, you
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: have a little note up under something catchy like, you know,
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: Vianna sausage sale, something like this.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: All right, Moving on to Mikayla in Buffalo.
• 23:25
  Speaker 10: Mikayla says, we bought our daughter a car for Christmas,
• 23:28
  Speaker 10: and my husband made sure it's fully loaded. He then
• 23:32
  Speaker 10: said that he and I won't be exchanging gifts this
• 23:35
  Speaker 10: year since we spent so much money, He said, I'm
• 23:38
  Speaker 10: selfish for not agreeing with him.
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: Am I selfish?
• 23:42
  Speaker 8: No?
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: No, I don't know how I do think you finna
• 23:47
  Speaker 3: get the daughter something and you ain't gonna get the
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: woman who made the daughter something. Brother, You can't bruh.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: These are still women we have here, these women in
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: our lives. They are still women in our lives, and
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: we still got to find way to keep them important.
• 24:01
  Speaker 3: You cannot put your wife second to your kids. She
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: made them kids. You got no kids without hub. She
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: is the maker, producer, and manufacturer of all human life
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: on this earth. A woman did it. You can never
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: forget that. Dog. No, she's not being selfish. She want
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: to be recognized too. I got y'all spent his money
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: on his baby, but damn, and we ain't exchange and
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: gifts because we just spend too much money.
• 24:37
  Speaker 10: Also, all right, Moving on to Journey in Baton Rouge.
• 24:45
  Speaker 10: Journey says, my man's new thing is tailored suit. Okay,
• 24:49
  Speaker 10: but he doesn't have a he doesn't have a flat stomach,
• 24:52
  Speaker 10: and he doesn't have thin thighs. For the cut of
• 24:54
  Speaker 10: the suit that he prefers, he looks more uncomfortable than stylish.
• 25:00
  Speaker 10: You can't tell him he's not sharp.
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: How do I nicely tell him that he is not flying?
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: He ain't.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: You just got to say it. Your fat ass k
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: wes lim cut suits. You know, see them skinny suit
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: says that suit supply and all that for them, young boys.
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: That's for them, young boys. Skinny jeans belong on skinny
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: people because when fat people put on skinny jeans, you
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: look like a waffle cone. See your stomach and stuff
• 25:29
  Speaker 3: hanging all over the top of the pants. You look
• 25:31
  Speaker 3: like a waffle cone. You can't do that. And you
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: get tailored clothes so that to close a tailored to
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: your body. You don't see what you don't do, Fellas,
• 25:43
  Speaker 3: listen to me. You don't go get a tailored suit
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: and take in a sample of a suit you want
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: your tailored suit to look at, because now you might
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: as well just buy a snowball suit. If you get
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: a properly tailored garment. What they can do, because I
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: have had the stomach issue, they will make shoulders. Yeah,
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: I flattened it out a little bit. It still ain't
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: flat flat. It ain't schamam flat, but it's down enough
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: where I feel more decent about it, you know, I
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: ain't shamed or whatever. They will take your point to
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: point on your shoulder and increase it a little bit,
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: and then they can taper the front of the jacket
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: to give it more of a V cut while leaving
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: the little room in the sides where you can move along.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: And you can't have tight thighs on your on your
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: custom suit stuff because you're too big. You're just too big,
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: all right.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: So she just wants to tell him nicely fly.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't. You can't tell him nicely. You've got
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: to hurt him. Come out the suit on. Yeah, yeah,
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: you paid for that, that's custom.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Tell him nicely though.
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: No, No, you gotta cut a man. Y'all already know
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: men don't do hints. Y'all already know that. How many
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: times you drop your man to hit and he missed it?
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Will do She needs to be that mean to her man, No,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: not me.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: Tell baby, baby, baby, them pants too tight around your thighs.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: They're too tight, and the start a fire and start yeah,
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: show glad they ain't called Roy put up the flame
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: that was saying paper.
• 27:56
  Speaker 11: You got just tell him, baby, you wanted unkle show up.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: But why is your she and app see right there?
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: Let them know you need new Taylor. All right?
• 28:13
  Speaker 10: Moving on last one, Celestine and Enterprise says, for Christmas,
• 28:19
  Speaker 10: my husband and I have booked a staycation forty five
• 28:22
  Speaker 10: minutes from our house. My mom will be keeping our
• 28:25
  Speaker 10: one year old. But she said on Christmas Day, we
• 28:28
  Speaker 10: need to see our child. Why is she trying to
• 28:31
  Speaker 10: make us feel guilty about this?
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: Well, it's Christmas, uh huh, And they want to see y'all,
• 28:43
  Speaker 3: you know, yeah, the one year old. Oh, she was
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: telling them that y'all need to see y'all's child on Christmas.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just the way.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, baby don't know what's Christmas dough? Yeah,
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: Union got to take him over there by the tree.
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: You ain't reg.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Colo. Coming up at the top
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening hard morning show.
• 29:21
  Speaker 10: Actor Andre Brower, best known for his roles on Homicide,
• 29:25
  Speaker 10: Life on the Street, and Brooklyn nine nine, has died
• 29:28
  Speaker 10: after a recent illness. This is according to People Magazine.
• 29:31
  Speaker 10: He was sixty one years old. Brower won two Primetime
• 29:35
  Speaker 10: Emmy Awards while being nominated eleven times. That's how good
• 29:40
  Speaker 10: he was. He also had supporting roles in such movies
• 29:43
  Speaker 10: as Glory and many many more. Terry crews who starred
• 29:46
  Speaker 10: with Brower on Brooklyn ninety nine wrote on Instagram quote,
• 29:50
  Speaker 10: can't believe you're gone so soon. I'm on it to
• 29:53
  Speaker 10: have known you, laughed with you, worked with you, and
• 29:55
  Speaker 10: shared eight glorious years watching your irreplaceable talent.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: This hurts.
• 30:00
  Speaker 10: I will be forever grateful for the experience of knowing you.
• 30:04
  Speaker 10: You showed me what a life well lived looks like.
• 30:07
  Speaker 10: Rest in peace, Andre, I love you, man. Andre is
• 30:11
  Speaker 10: survived by his wife and their three sons, and of course,
• 30:14
  Speaker 10: our deepest condolence is going out to Andre Brower's family.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Wow, what a great actor he was.
• 30:22
  Speaker 12: Sure.
• 30:26
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: I love Brooklyn nine nine.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 30:29
  Speaker 7: Uh.
• 30:31
  Speaker 10: And he surprised a lot of people because he was
• 30:33
  Speaker 10: such a dramatic actor. People didn't know he could do
• 30:35
  Speaker 10: comedy so well. Yeah when he got Brooklyn nine to nine.
• 30:39
  Speaker 8: Good man.
• 30:41
  Speaker 10: And In other entertainment news, Oprah has been looking slim
• 30:47
  Speaker 10: and fabulous in her purple while on her media press
• 30:50
  Speaker 10: tours promoter movie The Color Purple Oprah told People magazine
• 30:54
  Speaker 10: that she does, in fact take weight loss medicine. She
• 30:58
  Speaker 10: says the fact that there's a medically approved prescription for
• 31:01
  Speaker 10: managing weight and staying healthier in my lifetime feels like relief,
• 31:05
  Speaker 10: like redemption, like a gift, and not something to hide
• 31:09
  Speaker 10: behind and once again be ridiculed for. She also said,
• 31:14
  Speaker 10: I'm absolutely done with the shaming from other people and
• 31:17
  Speaker 10: particularly myself. Oprah didn't say which weight loss medication she's taking,
• 31:22
  Speaker 10: but she did say it's not just about the medicine.
• 31:25
  Speaker 10: She has put in a lot of work to shed
• 31:27
  Speaker 10: the pounds, including several lifestyle changes like drinking a gallon
• 31:31
  Speaker 10: of water a day and having her last meal at
• 31:33
  Speaker 10: four pm and using the weight Watcher's point system.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: So there you go. That's what Oprah is to damn
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: right there. I don't drink a gallon of water, a
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: glass meal at foe and on weight Watch A point.
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: So one, I'm.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Alive, Steve, you call every day?
• 31:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, which I would rather be on them damn weight
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: Watch A point. You had a choice, Yes, I need
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: to give me some of that damn old zipic, some
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: more covey damn weight watcher points and stop eating at
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: four thirty and be me and Oprah because I'm gonna
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: tell you what I can't do. Man, I can't. I
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: can't quit eating last meal of four thirty. That can't happen. Yeah,
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: I got to get another program. But this cold plunge,
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: you know, is more than a notion. I'm sitting to
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: be a cold right now.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: And this is working.
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: I just you know what, Just let me just say
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: this to you. Cold plunge has done wonders for me.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: But I can't recommend it to you. I just I
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: can't say, hey, man, you got to do this because
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: it's difficult. Now I don't love it.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I know you can't say that. Yeah, you were saying,
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I can't recommend it.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 32:54
  Speaker 7: Every challenge, man, every challenge I see. I see people
• 32:58
  Speaker 7: put their foot in it and they back up off
• 32:59
  Speaker 7: of Yeah, they leg and they come.
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: Back out of it. Man. It is one of the
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: most challenging disciplines I've ever done. Physically, Yeah, yeah, this
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: is harder than me trying to run around the track,
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: lift weights, go to the gym. This is harder than
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: me stretching hard. I can't take a thirty second cold shower,
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: right I tried ten seconds. So a cold shower got
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: me in a an uproar. It's like when you drop
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: your body down in that water man at forty eight degrees,
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: you know, and people listen.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Eight degrees.
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: The science. The science says, in order for your body
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: to burn brown fou the science says, the water must
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: be a minimum fifty eight degrees, and you don't have
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: to go lower than fifty degrees. Mine is said at
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: forty eight because my tub varies a little bit. You know,
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: someday you wake up as fifty there some days it's
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: fifty one. I just I just want to do the maximum.
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: And science also says the minimum you have to do
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: in cold water submersion is three minutes. This is the science,
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: it's new science. And the maximum is six minutes. I've
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: done ten minutes before. I'll never do that again, and
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: ten minutes before.
• 34:32
  Speaker 10: So is this a lifestyle permanent change for you? Because
• 34:37
  Speaker 10: you hadn't stopped milling it since you started?
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: So are you for me?
• 34:41
  Speaker 8: It is?
• 34:41
  Speaker 7: I mean, go ahead, tell me, are you stiff when
• 34:45
  Speaker 7: you like after six minutes trying to get up out
• 34:48
  Speaker 7: of this?
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: No, that's the point.
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: No.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: No, The most joyous moment of your day is climbing
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: your ass out that water.
• 35:00
  Speaker 10: Isn't that what That's part of what it's for, to
• 35:02
  Speaker 10: get the stiffness out and the inflammation and all of that.
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: Isn't that what I'm telling you, man? I had a
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: lot of inflammation in my body. I had leaky gut.
• 35:11
  Speaker 3: I had uh a sodeurn syndrome. I had UH high
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: trust triglycerize just whatever they call it. I had that.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: I had severe sleep app neel, and I had high
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: blood pressure. All praise to God. And because of my
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: elevate you and my tenex health protocol, I have none
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: of those things anymore. I don't take high blood medication,
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: I don't have leaky gut. And for the first time
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: I've been able to lose weight. I stepped on the
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: scale this morning, shocked myself this morning. Wow good, Let
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: me let me let me take my inbody and put
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: it in your face. I gotta go though.
• 35:55
  Speaker 11: None of that coming up.
• 35:56
  Speaker 10: In twenty minutes after the hour, wonderful, We're gonna play
• 36:00
  Speaker 10: a round of who on the show. Right after this,
• 36:03
  Speaker 10: you're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time to play
• 36:07
  Speaker 10: a quick round of who on the show. This is
• 36:09
  Speaker 10: where I ask you guys a series of questions, and
• 36:12
  Speaker 10: the answer is someone on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 36:16
  Speaker 10: All right, we'll see who on the show is most
• 36:19
  Speaker 10: likely to throw a fit during a game of Monopoly?
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: Tommy, Tommy Steve, would Steve Steve be No, I ain't
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: gonna throw no figure. I'm a cheat. I'm gonna have
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: you money, cheat. Yeah, i ain't gonna have it. I
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: ain't gonna have to thron You turn your face on
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: me if you want to, you bank be gone. I
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: take money. I overpay myself. My lord, don't let me
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: be the banker because, oh dog, I licked my fingers.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: I take two of the five hundreds out. Yeah, I
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: be bankna.
• 36:58
  Speaker 10: Who on the show was likely to go vegan and
• 37:02
  Speaker 10: give up? Who on the show is most likely to
• 37:04
  Speaker 10: go vegan and give up?
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: A Monica caller, Monica and caller, We ain't leaving this meat.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: Who on the show is most likely to have sex outside?
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm talking about going out there to see.
• 37:31
  Speaker 10: Who on the show is most likely to get a
• 37:33
  Speaker 10: tattoo while drunk?
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: M hmm.
• 37:40
  Speaker 7: You can't get it while you're drunk, now, that's the
• 37:42
  Speaker 7: last thing most people do, though, well, I ain't never been.
• 37:46
  Speaker 3: Drunk, so once again, timmy don't drink no more, y'all.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: My nephew really changed his life a lot. He don't
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: drink no more, but he got tattooed though.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: Sleep even.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: I ain't all got a tattoo.
• 38:05
  Speaker 10: One of the show is most likely to help you
• 38:07
  Speaker 10: get over a break up. That's hanging their dog your.
• 38:16
  Speaker 11: Ass and crying.
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: So making your work it'd be hard.
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: I tried to tell you not to be with it.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: The first placed on the show is most likely to
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: get caught cheating.
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: Hm hmm, well, well that's a hard because yeah, blame
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: it on the single person. I'm just gonna say I've
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: probably done it most of it than anybody. But the
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: most likely to get busted would be Junior. If he
• 39:04
  Speaker 3: ever did it, come he'd be in there talking and
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: saying the wrong stuff, so I think he would be
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: the most likely.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: That's who on the show.
• 39:16
  Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll
• 39:18
  Speaker 10: check Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve
• 39:21
  Speaker 10: eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're
• 39:25
  Speaker 10: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It is time now to
• 39:29
  Speaker 10: check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Steve, call him, leave a message. You might just hear
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: your call on the air, ready, Steve, Yeah, all right,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: here to go. This is from d Ray from Dallas.
• 39:41
  Speaker 8: Hey, Steve Lee raised from Dallas.
• 39:44
  Speaker 5: I was calling because I got him. I got a situation.
• 39:47
  Speaker 5: I need good, older manly advice.
• 39:50
  Speaker 8: I got a fourteen year old son.
• 39:52
  Speaker 12: Of course he's all into girls and stiggs, and of course.
• 39:56
  Speaker 8: He already got him some. But even though I'm all
• 39:59
  Speaker 8: ready he ran everything to him.
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  Speaker 12: I gave it to him, rollering and everything, even before
• 40:03
  Speaker 12: he had sick. It's still not resonating to him. And
• 40:06
  Speaker 12: we all been young men before. But of course the.
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: Divide in the house.
• 40:10
  Speaker 8: Is me, him and his mama.
• 40:12
  Speaker 12: But I get what I'm owns me and as we say,
• 40:16
  Speaker 12: man is kind of that's a tricky one. But I
• 40:19
  Speaker 12: also started to think to myself as the advice I
• 40:22
  Speaker 12: keep getting some other men that have teenagers or acclaim
• 40:26
  Speaker 12: it's like the world is transversing into man. It's just
• 40:29
  Speaker 12: reality and you just got to let it happen. And
• 40:31
  Speaker 12: I thought we were supposed to be raising these boys
• 40:34
  Speaker 12: to be better than what we do because everybody keeps
• 40:36
  Speaker 12: telling me what was you doing when you know how
• 40:39
  Speaker 12: it is? And I'm like, damn, but is that what
• 40:42
  Speaker 12: we're supposed to stick with? And it's becoming a big
• 40:45
  Speaker 12: problem in the house to where you know, Mammy and
• 40:47
  Speaker 12: Daddy more Mama really want to kick him at the
• 40:50
  Speaker 12: house to you know, and all that old type of stuff.
• 40:53
  Speaker 12: And I'm just confused on it, and I don't know
• 40:55
  Speaker 12: what to do.
• 40:56
  Speaker 8: So I need your help. Oh help, I got you, ma'am.
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  Speaker 3: If you're a father currently and you have sons, this
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: is the dilemma. This is the dilemma because you know
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: what the proving marker is for all boys, and that
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: is girls. And if you're a heterosexual man, you want
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: your son quite naturally to gravitate that way towards him girls.
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: But here is the dilemma. Even though you know it's
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: going to happen, you don't have to push him in
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: that direction for it to happen so early, and you
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: don't have to condone it and reward it, because that's
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: a dangerous thing to do, especially at fourteen, because this
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: boy don't even have the capability of understanding the ramifications
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: of it all. And even what it means at fourteen,
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: he's just doing some reactionary stuff because of all of us.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: If you remember your first time with the girl, just
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: think back when the actual moment happened that the whole
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: thing was supposed to It was rather confusing. You didn't
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: really know what was going on. Your body was trembling.
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: All of a sudden, your hair stood up on your head,
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: and you were just as confused and you didn't know
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: what was going on. So what I decided to do
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: was to raise my sons and tell them this, look, man,
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: this is the life you should live as a respectful man.
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: To be respectful for young girls. Do not go out
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: here and do anything you want with these girls and
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: then lead these girls hold in the bag. You go
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: off to college, pursue your dreams, and this young girl
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: sitting here with a baby trying to make it work.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: I said, bruh, don't do that, and I've tried to
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: talk to them about that. At the same time, you
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: know that the world we live in, they are going
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: to partake in it. It's no way to avoid this
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: with your children. Because they got the Internet, they got
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: peer pressure, They go to school every day, they spend
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: more time away from you than they do with you.
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: So all you can do is hope that your teachings
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: resonate with them while they await, and then prepare yourself
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: for the mistakes that they are going to make. And
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: they are all going to make mistakes, and you will
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: feel horrible about it, and you will think of this
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: as your reflection on you as parenting, but it's not.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: It's not reflective of you as a parent. You can
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: teach your children the right way all you want, they
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: gonna go out here and make a decision that goes
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: counter to everything you've ever told them. So it's a dilemma.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: But putting your boy out the house is not the solution.
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: And I don't know where she coming with that. If
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: you think putting them out your house is the solution,
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: you sadly mistaken about that. Because this boy out here
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: got active at fourteen, you're gonna put him out? Well,
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: what you're thinking have now? So you got to talk
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: to your boy about respect. You got to get him
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: to understand the way to treat women. And that's it.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: It's a tough one, but you got a state of course,
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: But raise your son is the right way man. Tell
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: them the right thing. How to be respectful of women,
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: you know, because you got to remember two. You don't
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: want nobody doing your daughter like that, dude, right, all right,
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: so raise your boys accordingly and the whole protection conversation.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: All right, world, all.
• 44:15
  Speaker 10: Right, great advice, Steve. Coming up next, it is the
• 44:17
  Speaker 10: Nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Morning show.
• 44:25
  Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 44:27
  Speaker 10: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, and
• 44:29
  Speaker 10: the subject is trying to get through the holidays. We'll
• 44:32
  Speaker 10: get into that in just a few find out what
• 44:34
  Speaker 10: that's all about. But right now it is time for
• 44:36
  Speaker 10: the Nephew. He is here with today's prank phone call.
• 44:39
  Speaker 7: What you got for us, nep Well, you know, sometimes
• 44:42
  Speaker 7: you gotta say it, you know, sometimes you got to
• 44:45
  Speaker 7: get it off your chest. Sometimes you just got to
• 44:46
  Speaker 7: give somebody a phone call.
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: You just gotta let them know. You just gotta say it.
• 44:51
  Speaker 7: What we're saying, say what I love your wife.
• 44:55
  Speaker 8: Oh, you.
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: Just gotta say no, you just trying to say.
• 45:01
  Speaker 7: I mean, you know, it's been on, it's been heavily
• 45:03
  Speaker 7: on my mind. But the last year or two I
• 45:06
  Speaker 7: love your wife or than you. I mean, it's just,
• 45:10
  Speaker 7: it's just fact.
• 45:12
  Speaker 3: It's a lot of nerves.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: A audastiny.
• 45:18
  Speaker 7: I've been, I've been, I've been. I mean we've been.
• 45:20
  Speaker 7: We've been going ourselves at lunch at work. You know,
• 45:23
  Speaker 7: I've been sending money over there. I'm taking care of
• 45:25
  Speaker 7: you when you're getting laid off.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: The most, aren't you.
• 45:31
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm keeping the lights on over there. Let's go,
• 45:34
  Speaker 7: cat dog.
• 45:35
  Speaker 8: Hello. Hey, I'm trying to I'm trying to track that's right.
• 45:38
  Speaker 8: Who is this, hey, Trey? How you doing? Man? This
• 45:40
  Speaker 8: is Milton. I work at your wife, Terese Milton. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
• 45:45
  Speaker 8: you've probably heard of me before. I've been been at
• 45:47
  Speaker 8: the job probably about five years now. She ever mentioned me.
• 45:50
  Speaker 5: No, I don't no milking, what's going on? Everything?
• 45:55
  Speaker 8: Everything's good, Everything is good. Hey, listen, I wanted to
• 45:59
  Speaker 8: have a conversation with you. Man. I don't really know
• 46:02
  Speaker 8: how to spring this on you or whatever. But like
• 46:06
  Speaker 8: I said, I've been working at this spot for five
• 46:08
  Speaker 8: years and been on Teresa probably like around three. And
• 46:14
  Speaker 8: I guess what I really want to say is that
• 46:16
  Speaker 8: I didn't I didn't gain some feelings for Tcha and
• 46:20
  Speaker 8: oh yeah, whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa wah who whoa
• 46:22
  Speaker 8: wo holong hold on, man, holo, holo.
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: You're calling me and you're telling me right now you
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: have feelings for my wife, who you work with, and
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: you like Teresa because that is my wife. You have
• 46:34
  Speaker 4: feelings for my wife?
• 46:35
  Speaker 8: Is that correct? Yeah? You know it took me a
• 46:37
  Speaker 8: while to come forward and say this, but you know
• 46:40
  Speaker 8: I'm man enough now and I feel like me and
• 46:43
  Speaker 8: you need to talk about it. Have you lost your mind? No, No,
• 46:46
  Speaker 8: I haven't. Have you got your mind now? Listen, I'm
• 46:50
  Speaker 8: just letting you know. Today is the day that I
• 46:51
  Speaker 8: decided I'm not carrying this weight on my shoulders no more.
• 46:54
  Speaker 8: I'm getting it off of me, all right. And at
• 46:56
  Speaker 8: the end of the day, I love your wife more
• 46:59
  Speaker 8: than you do. What I I love your wife more than.
• 47:05
  Speaker 4: You two bright so you would how long you've been
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: loving my wife? You tell me how long you've been
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: loving my How long?
• 47:12
  Speaker 8: How long you feel that.
• 47:13
  Speaker 4: You have been in love with my wife?
• 47:16
  Speaker 8: I mean I'm looking at I know, I know, I
• 47:17
  Speaker 8: know at least too.
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: Does my wife even know this?
• 47:22
  Speaker 8: I mean, I'm sure she's aware of to a certain
• 47:25
  Speaker 8: extent to a certain extent. What what?
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: How how certain of the extent are we talking?
• 47:29
  Speaker 8: I mean, you know when we go to lunch together,
• 47:31
  Speaker 8: she you know, I mean, I'm sure she know, y'all.
• 47:34
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we're going to lunch together. How long y'all been
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: going with lunch together?
• 47:37
  Speaker 8: Bro, we were going to lunch together at least at
• 47:39
  Speaker 8: least two and a half years. I mean we go
• 47:40
  Speaker 8: to lunch together almost every day. I mean we might
• 47:42
  Speaker 8: miss the day if she go with the girls, I
• 47:44
  Speaker 8: go with the fellows, so be it. But for the
• 47:46
  Speaker 8: most part, me and her, me and her pretty much
• 47:48
  Speaker 8: at lunch together. God, I need a.
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: Bro stayed the hell away from my wife, Bro, I
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: needed the back up her. Ain't no one because you
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: he didn't talked enough that you didn't talk enough. Ain't
• 48:02
  Speaker 4: no more in love, ain't no more state. You need
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: to stay this back period, say the back man. I
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: don't want to hear none of that, nothing, nothing, nothing
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: at all, because.
• 48:12
  Speaker 8: Come on, b listen, listen. I know all about you,
• 48:17
  Speaker 8: trade everything about it, all right. I already know how
• 48:20
  Speaker 8: you treat her.
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: I'm hot, right, I'm feeling like a strong sense station
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: right now because I really want to reach through the
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: phone and just some break through the neck right now, That's.
• 48:30
  Speaker 8: What I really want to do.
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: That's what I really want to do.
• 48:33
  Speaker 8: And why is my wife talking about business outside of
• 48:35
  Speaker 8: our household?
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: That's what I'm trying to figure out.
• 48:37
  Speaker 8: Hey, all I'm saying is when we go to lunch,
• 48:39
  Speaker 8: she let me know how she's feeling. She let me
• 48:41
  Speaker 8: know what she's going through.
• 48:42
  Speaker 4: Let me stops time with that lunch. Bro, I don't
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: want to hear another damn thing about lunch. Bro, ain't
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: no more lunch. It's from here on out, bro calling
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: me talking about you in along with my wife. People
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: taking what.
• 48:55
  Speaker 8: He's a milicin im You there, man, man, listen, calm
• 49:02
  Speaker 8: down with all that energy you got going on like
• 49:04
  Speaker 8: you're gonna do something.
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: You're not time down? What you not nothing to work?
• 49:09
  Speaker 8: You're not You're not finna do nothing on you right
• 49:12
  Speaker 8: right now, Bro.
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: I'm my teams white now some where you're at right
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: right now, bro, right now?
• 49:16
  Speaker 8: So how about how about when you got laid off,
• 49:19
  Speaker 8: when you was off for six months and she was
• 49:20
  Speaker 8: carrying all the all the waiting pan, all the fields.
• 49:23
  Speaker 8: You ain't jump all right, Ben?
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: You know you know everything.
• 49:30
  Speaker 8: I bet you know.
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: I got a too.
• 49:32
  Speaker 5: So all you need to know is all you need
• 49:34
  Speaker 5: to know.
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: Is bright Get done, bro, get done, Bro, Come down, bro.
• 49:39
  Speaker 8: You know what what.
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: Folk talk about? That he would my wife saying that
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: he'll love it, talking about lunches.
• 49:48
  Speaker 8: So the hell up. While we in, you can thank
• 49:50
  Speaker 8: me for the twitter. For the suit that you got
• 49:53
  Speaker 8: for Christmas. You can thank me for that. I picked
• 49:55
  Speaker 8: it out and I paid for it.
• 49:57
  Speaker 4: Okay, a word, okay, cool?
• 50:00
  Speaker 5: Cool?
• 50:00
  Speaker 8: All right? Cool?
• 50:01
  Speaker 4: Well let me go into the project right now.
• 50:04
  Speaker 8: Right now, all right?
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: You talking about the great Suster stuff?
• 50:07
  Speaker 8: What you thought about boot? Right here with this boot?
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: Anyway?
• 50:14
  Speaker 5: I don't like this.
• 50:15
  Speaker 8: I'm not now you don't like the suit. You don't
• 50:16
  Speaker 8: want to suit? Three times now you don't like it.
• 50:19
  Speaker 8: Told me at lunch when you don't want to sue dude.
• 50:22
  Speaker 8: I'm swear to God, I swear to God. I need
• 50:26
  Speaker 8: to talk to my wife. Man, I need to talk
• 50:28
  Speaker 8: to my wife.
• 50:29
  Speaker 5: I needn't talk to my wife because.
• 50:31
  Speaker 8: I man, listen, you know what, I just couldn't hold
• 50:35
  Speaker 8: this back. No more me living behind in the shadows,
• 50:38
  Speaker 8: and but I'm over here kicking money out to Teresa
• 50:41
  Speaker 8: when she needed while you was laid off. I'm helping out.
• 50:45
  Speaker 8: I'm going you know I'm doing I'm doing too.
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: Much on money, Bert, So you was getting the money.
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: You're kicking the money when I was laid off.
• 50:53
  Speaker 8: You're kicking the money, dude. Somebody had to step up,
• 50:56
  Speaker 8: man to me and Teresa's tight, so you know, I
• 50:58
  Speaker 8: just try to step in and help her out.
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: So you give me my wife money?
• 51:03
  Speaker 5: Is what you're saying.
• 51:04
  Speaker 8: Do you want me to make you feel better about
• 51:06
  Speaker 8: the whole time? You want to make you feel better.
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: You ain't need to make me feel better about it. Man,
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna do is talk about wife. That's all I
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: got to do is talk to my wife.
• 51:16
  Speaker 8: That's that's fine. But can I say something that will
• 51:18
  Speaker 8: make you feel better? What I'm gonna say this to you?
• 51:22
  Speaker 3: Trade.
• 51:22
  Speaker 8: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:26
  Speaker 8: Your wife Teresa gotten me the breakfone colle you wait
• 51:33
  Speaker 8: what hey? This is timy Man. This nephew Steve Harb
• 51:38
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• 51:49
  Speaker 4: Bro, don't do that. Bro, you gotta stop that, Timmy,
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: Come on now, come on, you gotta stop. My heart
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: is breaking.
• 51:59
  Speaker 8: I'm what. Oh now, hey, I gotta ask you this.
• 52:03
  Speaker 8: You got to tell me what is the baddest and
• 52:04
  Speaker 8: I mean the baddest radio show in the lane. It's
• 52:09
  Speaker 8: a Steve show, got to be I think.
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: He was a little upset. I'm sorry.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: I think you think thank you.
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 52:16
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: I just find you to be one of the more
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: ignorant people in our family, and sometimes me just talking
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: to you remind me that we are related. Because dog,
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: I hurt you about that type of call. But did
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: you enjoy the call?
• 52:33
  Speaker 7: That's what it's about. It's not about that man's feelings
• 52:36
  Speaker 7: and how he felt and all of that. It's about
• 52:39
  Speaker 7: people riding in the car listening to this. People enjoyed that.
• 52:41
  Speaker 7: What we're talking about here, Let's let's not get away
• 52:44
  Speaker 7: from what we're trying to do here. People, what's going on?
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: You were saying, Steve, you know what, I'm not gonna
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: do this.
• 52:55
  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do it with you.
• 52:56
  Speaker 7: This weekend Nate Jackson's Super Funny Car I don't know
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• 53:05
  Speaker 7: The Nephew is there all weekend long. Got a few
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• 53:25
  Speaker 7: You can make it anywhere. See if I can go
• 53:27
  Speaker 7: make it?
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Nephew coming up next.
• 53:31
  Speaker 10: It is my Strawberry Letter for today and the subject
• 53:34
  Speaker 10: is trying to get through the holidays.
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this.
• 53:39
  Speaker 10: You're listening Dave Hardy Morning Show. It's time now for
• 53:44
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 54:08
  Speaker 10: Nephew's subject trying to get through the holidays. Dear Stephen Shirley,
• 54:12
  Speaker 10: I'm in love with another man, and I just need
• 54:15
  Speaker 10: to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend
• 54:18
  Speaker 10: so I can dump him and get with the new guy.
• 54:21
  Speaker 10: But I need your advice before I let a sure
• 54:23
  Speaker 10: thing go and move on to a fairy tale lover.
• 54:27
  Speaker 10: I don't want to leave my current boyfriend just yet,
• 54:30
  Speaker 10: because he is getting my breaks fixed on my car
• 54:33
  Speaker 10: and he's getting me a bracelet that I want for Christmas.
• 54:36
  Speaker 10: I already saw it hiding in his drawer, so I'm
• 54:39
  Speaker 10: doing all I can to stay faithful until the new year.
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: My new man is in a.
• 54:44
  Speaker 10: Similar situation, but he's married. He advised me to stay
• 54:49
  Speaker 10: put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out. He
• 54:52
  Speaker 10: and his wife don't have any children, so he can
• 54:55
  Speaker 10: make a clean break. We've been looking at apartments together,
• 54:58
  Speaker 10: but I told him we might be moving too soon
• 55:01
  Speaker 10: by choosing to.
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  Speaker 1: Move in together.
• 55:03
  Speaker 10: I agree that I will put the apartment and all
• 55:06
  Speaker 10: of the utilities in my name until his divorce is finalized.
• 55:10
  Speaker 10: I told my sister about my excitement over the new guy,
• 55:13
  Speaker 10: and she wanted to meet him, but he said it's
• 55:16
  Speaker 10: best to not invite family into our messed up situation
• 55:20
  Speaker 10: until he's out of his marriage. My sister took that
• 55:23
  Speaker 10: as a bad sign, that he's going to have me
• 55:26
  Speaker 10: staying in an apartment all by myself and he's going
• 55:29
  Speaker 10: to come over and have sex with me and go
• 55:31
  Speaker 10: right back to his wife. I don't think that's the case,
• 55:34
  Speaker 10: because this guy is the one that initiated everything.
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: He pursued me and told me I deserve to be
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: treated like a queen.
• 55:41
  Speaker 10: Meanwhile, my boyfriend does not take me out anymore, and
• 55:45
  Speaker 10: he never wants to have sex. All he does is
• 55:47
  Speaker 10: ask me to be patient with him because he's working
• 55:50
  Speaker 10: on a master plan for us. It's been three years
• 55:52
  Speaker 10: and he's not even ready to live together. Do I
• 55:55
  Speaker 10: start twenty twenty four with my prince or stay with
• 55:59
  Speaker 10: this bump?
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  Speaker 1: All right?
• 56:01
  Speaker 10: I know we've said this before about a lot of
• 56:03
  Speaker 10: strawberry letters, but I think this is one of the
• 56:06
  Speaker 10: truly dumbest letters we've had. And I hope the men
• 56:10
  Speaker 10: that are listening don't think all women are like this, because.
• 56:13
  Speaker 6: We are not.
• 56:14
  Speaker 10: It's wrong what you're doing to your current boyfriend, who
• 56:18
  Speaker 10: doesn't take you out anymore, who doesn't want to have
• 56:20
  Speaker 10: sex with you. Maybe he knows about the man that
• 56:23
  Speaker 10: you have, this married man. I just say, if you
• 56:26
  Speaker 10: don't want your boyfriend let him go. You ask for
• 56:29
  Speaker 10: advice about leaving your current boyfriend before you let a
• 56:33
  Speaker 10: sure thing go.
• 56:34
  Speaker 6: And here it is.
• 56:36
  Speaker 10: I mean, he said he's just waiting for his marriage
• 56:39
  Speaker 10: to fizzle out. I mean, do you hear how stupid
• 56:42
  Speaker 10: that sounds. There's no end date, no nothing, no papers
• 56:46
  Speaker 10: in the works, nothing. Then you volunteer to put the
• 56:50
  Speaker 10: apartment in all of the utilities in your name.
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: Now, why would you do that?
• 56:54
  Speaker 10: Why would you do that for a man who's married.
• 56:57
  Speaker 10: You said he pursued you and said you should be
• 57:00
  Speaker 10: treated like a queen. Well, yes you should, we all should,
• 57:03
  Speaker 10: but this is not queen treatment. A queen wouldn't accept
• 57:06
  Speaker 10: any of this mess. There are way too many red
• 57:09
  Speaker 10: flags here. Your sister saw them right away when he
• 57:12
  Speaker 10: said he didn't want to meet her until he got
• 57:14
  Speaker 10: out of his marriage. That sounded like a cop out
• 57:17
  Speaker 10: to her, but not to you. You are still making
• 57:20
  Speaker 10: excuses for him. Listen, this married man is gonna do
• 57:25
  Speaker 10: just what your sister said. I if he's that into you,
• 57:29
  Speaker 10: then then why not get out of his marriage then
• 57:32
  Speaker 10: get with you, and you should back off until he
• 57:35
  Speaker 10: gets out of his marriage. You're talking about making all
• 57:39
  Speaker 10: these moves and he's not available. Okay, he is not
• 57:42
  Speaker 10: available for you to do this right now, so don't
• 57:45
  Speaker 10: do it, Steve.
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: I'm so sick, I'm tired, I'm tied. I'm gonna just
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: tell you all right now, after I do this strawberry letter,
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go in there and lay down, you know,
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: because I'm tired. I don't know what to keep telling y'all.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: I don't know why y'all keep trying me. But today today,
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: though today ain't today, I ain't the one fault today.
• 58:19
  Speaker 3: Let's just get into it. I'm telling you nothing but raw,
• 58:24
  Speaker 3: raw truth, a w truth. I'm in love with another man, Okay.
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: I just need to make it through the holidays with
• 58:36
  Speaker 3: my current boyfriend so I can dump him and get
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: with the new guy. Wow, this letter got stupid wrote
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: on it so far because right now we just talking
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: about a boyfriend. This ain't even a marriage, and I
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: can dump him to get the new guy. But I
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: need your advice and hear where I come here at
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: Before I let a sure thing go and move on
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: to a fairy tale level. So we gonna let go
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: of the sure thing to go to the fairy tale level.
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: But let's find out a little bit about this show
• 59:09
  Speaker 3: thing in this fairy tale level. I don't want to leave.
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: Listen to this reason right here. I don't want to
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: leave my card boyfriend just yet because he's getting my
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: breaks fixed on my car and he give me a
• 59:22
  Speaker 3: bracelet I want for Christmas. I'll be damn, Your damn
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: whole life is hanging on some breaks and a bracelet.
• 59:32
  Speaker 3: You done put your life on hold so you can
• 59:36
  Speaker 3: get some breaks and a bracelet. I'm gonna tell you
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: right now you ain't worth a damn I'm just gonna
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: tell you that you're not. You are so cheap you're
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: worth a set of breaks and a bracelet. Girl, I
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: already saw it hiding in this drawer. So I'm doing
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: and all I can to be stay faithful until.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 8: The new year.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 3: But you're gonna ride it out. You're gonna stay faithful
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 3: for the embracelet and breaks. That's all it take to
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: B and B break bracelet boyfriend. Rachel through the.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 10: Well that part she will be your response coming up
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 10: at twenty three minutes after the subject of today's strawberry
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 10: letter trying to get through the holidays. We'll get back
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 10: into this right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 10: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 10: The subject is trying to get through the holidays.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: This ignorant strawberry letter is about a woman that's trying
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: to get through the straw just trying to get through
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: the holidays because she in love with another man, but
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: she don't want to leave her boyfriend yet because she
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: can't dump him just yet, because she need advice. But
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: now she say, before I let a sure thing go
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 3: and move on to a fairy tale lover here, why
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: she don't wanta leave her current boyfriend? You ready? Because
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 3: he getting my breaks fixed on my car and he
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 3: gonna get me a bracelet I want for Christmas? That is, Hey,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: y'all out there that's got real lives. How many y'all
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 3: willing to hold your life up for a break job
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 3: in a bracelet? How many of y'all f in they
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: delay your happiness and what you really want over some breaks?
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: Probably just need some new pants at a bracelet already
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 3: saw it hiding in this drawer. So I'm doing all
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: I can to stay faithful until the new year. He
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: was just laying in the drawer. It wasn't in the
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 3: box or nothing. Your bracelet hot. That's a lot of
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: bracelet if you drawers just laying in the drawer, you
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: don't see it in no velvet box or nothing. Your
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: bracelet hot. He just got that out the pawn shopping.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: When they find it, they gonna take your bracelet from me.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 3: My new man is in a similar situation, but he married.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 3: Miter got done. Wow breaks bracelets, break up and boyfriend
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: the folk bees. Here we go. My new man is
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: in a similar situation, but he married. He advised me
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: to stay put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 3: What what do that mean? What does that mean? I'm
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 3: gonna let my marriage fizzle on out? Girl? This ain't
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: a birthday coundle. You can't just wait til your marriage
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 3: fizzle out. This ain't one of them sparkless we used
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 3: to have when we was kids. You know you lighting
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: you waved around till it fizzle out. This is marriage.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 3: This ain't no damn fire cracker. This is marriage. He
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: can't just let it fizzle out. He got to go
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 3: to court and they got some for your little fizzle
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: out ass playing. I can tell you that right now
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 3: I've been dying. Now tell about you gonna let it
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 3: fizzle out. They're gonna help your ass out, is what
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: they finn to do. This been the cost this hay,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: You don't let marriage fizzle out. He and his wife
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 3: don't have any children, so he can make a clean break.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: What what did you say you think? Cause ain't no
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: kids involved, you can make a clean break, girl. Bye.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: We've been looking at apartments together, but I told him
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: we might be moving too soon by choosing to move
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 3: in together. He not moving in with you. All y'all
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: been doing is looking at apartments. He can't move in
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 3: with you cause the marriage ain't fizzled. Our check, it's
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: still sparkling. Show dumb self. I agreed that I will
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: put the apartment in all the utilities in my name
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: until his divorce is finalized. They ain't gonna stay in
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 3: your name even if he do get a divorce. Who
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: who switched? Who switched names on apartments and electric bills
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: and all that? Girl? I can't believe you this signat
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 3: I told my sister about my excitement over the new guy,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: and she wanted to meet me, but he said it's
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 3: best not to invite family into our messed up situation.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: That's a true statement until he's out of his marriage.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 3: My sister took that as a bad sign. Your sister
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 3: stupid too. She took the fact that he didn't want
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: to meet her as a bad sign. You don't think
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 3: the bad sign is he married? That ain't That ain't
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: a bad sign. Also, y'all, y'all think the bad sign
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 3: is he didn't want to meet you. The bad sign
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 3: is he married, and he told you he ain't no
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: his marriage to fizzle out. They ain't got no kids yet,
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 3: so they're gonna make a clean break. Let me show
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: you how this marriage fit in a fizzle. She fit
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 3: to get pregnant because the wife don't know nothing about this.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 3: This is him telling you that the marriage is fizzling out.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 3: I promise you that the wife's sitting over there thinking
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: everything is honky doing. I promise you that. I promise
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 3: you that all men that's married that's trying to have
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: an affair with a woman gonna tell him something wrong
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 3: at the house. That's the opening line because we play
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: on the fact that you all are nurturers by nature
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 3: and y'all always want to fix something. Let me hear
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 3: him get through with this. I don't think that's the
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 3: case because this guy is one that initiated everything. Wait
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 3: a minute, you don't think that's the case, because he
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 3: initiated everything, girl, You stupid. He pursued me and told
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: me that I deserve to be treated like a queen. Well,
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 3: you're not getting treated like a queen, though you don't
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 3: see that. Meanwhile, my boyfriend does not take me out anymore,
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 3: and he never wants to have sex. That's cause he
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: having sex somewhere else. Y'all been together three years. All
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: you getting is your breaks fixed and a bracelet. You
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: ain't getting no wed and ring because you're having sex
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: with somebody else. Let me tell you how stupid this is.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: You're in the movie Dumb and Dumble. Your boyfriend is dumb,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: Your married boyfriend is dumb. Up if you then had
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 3: signed wow.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 8: A.
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• 1:06:55
  Speaker 10: minutes after.
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  Speaker 1: The hour, it is Junior and Sports Talk right after
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: this you're listening morning show. It is time now for
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Jr?
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 9: All right, Shirley, Well, big HBCU game this weekend, The
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 9: Celebration Bowl is this weekend, Fam, You versus Howard University's
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 9: gonna happen just coming Saturday, Man and Mercedes Being Stadium
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 9: in Atlanta.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 11: So man out there, you get your tickets.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: Check that out.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 9: Man, they got your HBCU experienced the Battle of the Band,
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 9: the whole thing. Man, I don't know who gonna win
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 9: that band battle, Sam. What I'm trying to I'm trying
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 9: to feed it out, man, I don't know how, I
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 9: don't know. Joke now I'm rocking my Howard University shirt
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 9: right now.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Fam you strong too. Yeah, it's gonna be.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: Something you matter.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 11: Fact that one of the most people gonna be in
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 11: the stadium at the Battle of the Band, I know that.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, we see you at the halftime they clear out.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: That's the ratless the Vicens. Let's go.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 9: Let's see what happen. Man, all right, unk Man Let's
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 9: just talk about this man. Draymond Green has been suspended indefinitely.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 9: This is his third suspension of the season. The last
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 9: time he was suspended it was five games. Now he's
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 9: definitely suspended for another punch on a Phoenix player.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: Man, I don't know what this is with this young man.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 3: This is your third time.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 9: It's not even like he've apologizing to nothing. The coach
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 9: then gave up on you in the post game interviews
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 9: that you look, he just got to get it together.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 9: Ain't nobody supporting this no more? Steph ain't said nothing.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 9: He signed one hundred million dollars deal or this past
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 9: off season. What else do he need or need to do?
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: This is crazy, you know. I don't know. I don't
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 3: know if record mend this, but his ass needs some
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 3: type of counselor. But you fit the mess all your
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 3: money up. He needn't anger management, I Draymon, But dog,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: I mean if we was in the hood on the
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: basketball court, I got you, but we don't leave On
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 3: TV the NBA see you do this on the basketball call, Man,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 3: I ain't mean slapping you like that. You will on TV? Thought, Yeah,
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: they running in to replay you see it?
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: The referee is right there watching it happen.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 6: He didn't need.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: And call it. Even if he miss it, they gonna
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 3: go over that TV screen on the Scollars table. Yeah,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 3: you are hurting your team by not being on the floor.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 3: You have got to understand that the team supersedes your feelings.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: Don't nobody give a damn how you feel. Wow, bro,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 3: we don't care how you feel. He will push in me,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: so five hit me in the throat.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 11: So yeah, next week, next year, we get Draymond Dusk
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 11: in the camp.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: Y'all when he pushed me. No, we didn't when he
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: pushed you, but we saw when you backslapped. Yes, yours
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: is out to leave.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Junior.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, Steve, a
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 10: man on social media, needs your advice. He says, My
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 10: mama invited my ex to Christmas dinner. We'll talk about
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 10: that right after this.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show. All right, Steve.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 10: This is from RJ on Steve BARBFM dot com, and
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 10: RJ says, about six months ago, I ended things with
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 10: my fiance. We clearly weren't on the same page about
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 10: what we wanted for our future, and with something we
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 10: both agreed on. My ex was friends with my mama,
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 10: and I think my mom took the break up harder
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 10: than either of us. Just because my ex and I
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 10: are still on friendly terms, though, doesn't mean I want
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 10: to spend Christmas with her and watch my mama try
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 10: to plot and plea for us to get back together.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 10: I'm not trying to hear that. I'm not trying to
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 10: hear that at all. Well, my mama invited us, invited
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 10: her over for the holiday, and.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: It would be just the three of us.
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 10: I really don't want to go now, but I also
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 10: don't want to ruin my mom's holiday. I just wish
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 10: she'd be more respectful of what's been going on in
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 10: my life. Is there a right way to handle this?
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 3: Just the three of us? We can make it if
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: we try just the three of us that you're doing
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 3: mama doing, So it's just three of them over the house.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, him, his ex and his mom.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: I ain't gone.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: So you're not gonna go see your mama for Christmas time?
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 7: And I see Mama before that. I ain't going over there.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 7: You gotta go see mama on Christmas. I got to
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 7: go there at six o'clock in the morning. Then I
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 7: got to get out of there for that woman.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 3: Get over there?
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: What did you say to you? And your FaceTime?
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 9: FaceTime work shall smell good? And then I'm gonna look
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 9: at it. Can't go over there?
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 7: What I mean?
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 3: You gotta go see your mama on Christmas? Your mama
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 3: that invited her? She coming. Man, you finnah have a
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 3: bad Christmas. Though bad Christmas. It's finna get ugly at
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 3: your house.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 1: You said, hear the excerp are friendly? He did say that.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well see, but they friendly. Stop saying you friendly
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 3: with your ex and you really not. If y'all was friendly,
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 3: y'all going to do Christmas at your mama's house. Why
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 3: don't you tell the damn truth. You don't want to
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 3: see her, no damn mom. Now you just broke up
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 3: without hating each other and wanting to kill each other.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 3: That's all you did. But that don't mean you're friendly.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 3: Stop all this friendly talk make me sick. Tell the truth.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 3: Y'all broke up because y'all wasn't compatible and you don't
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: like her no more and she don't like you. That's
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: the damn truth. Every by Quit trying to act like
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  Speaker 3: y'all are celebrity couple. Will and Jada, y'all staying together.
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  Speaker 3: Hell y'all trying to be that fault.
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  Speaker 11: Just break up.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, it's been on friendly terms. He don't want over
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  Speaker 3: mama house. That was on friendly terms. They have Christmas together.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, what should he do?
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  Speaker 3: Shout out, told you you're finna have messed up Christmas
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  Speaker 3: and that's it. Go on over to your mama's house
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  Speaker 3: and act friendly. You just said y'all was friendly. Going
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  Speaker 3: over there and be friendly. Take that new girl hollering
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  Speaker 3: that over there with you so you can see how
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  Speaker 3: friendly y'all really are. Because that's what he That's why
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  Speaker 3: he can't stand it, because he just he done moved on.
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  Speaker 3: He got somebody else. He ain't put that into the Christmas.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 3: Donna take that new girl over there. He don't want
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: to because he was gonna bring this other girl over
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 3: at mama house. Now it's gonna be crowding. Four people.
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  Speaker 3: Just we can make it if you tried, just three
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  Speaker 3: and I nor time for tears, wasted waters all day,
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  Speaker 3: head here and it don't make no flyers groom. M hmm,
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  Speaker 3: that's what the lady that say. I can't say I
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  Speaker 3: know that, but.
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  Speaker 1: It's how you feel about the songs you sing. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: just the two of us, that is, well, you should
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  Speaker 1: you should tell us excellent to go.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, remember you frink.
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  Speaker 10: All right, all right, we'll have more of the Steve
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 10: Well, guys, we know that it's the most wonderful time
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  Speaker 10: of the year, as the song says, or is it?
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  Speaker 8: What?
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  Speaker 1: What do you really dislike about this time of year?
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  Speaker 3: Gifts? I hate. Maybe it's not the gives, it's the mall.
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  Speaker 1: The mall, say gifts, it's the mall. It's all the
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  Speaker 1: shot is going into.
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  Speaker 3: You don't like.
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  Speaker 1: It's too crowded.
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  Speaker 7: It's dangerous. It's crowded. You've got to be alert on everything.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a lot going. It's in your car.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, and then when Amazon come, you got to wait
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 7: on your package. They're gonna steal that all the front step,
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  Speaker 7: you got to stand outside.
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  Speaker 1: The porch pirates.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we definitely live in a different world now
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: we do.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 3: And that's not my problem.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: What's your problem?
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 9: Iwey courrier. I'm pushing so many wheelchairs up on Christmas Day.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 9: They all these old people come to my grandmother house.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 9: I got to go out here and get him up
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  Speaker 9: to the driveway.
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  Speaker 8: My bed.
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  Speaker 11: Wheelchair currier.
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  Speaker 1: That's junior.
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  Speaker 9: Go out there and get your bedy. Got that driveway game.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 9: I can't keep going out here. Hold that's my problem.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 9: All these the second ain't no ramp. You gotta put
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 9: up the driveway, give up the garage. They got to
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 9: stand up and go back down there and get Uncle
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 9: June and he coming in. I didn't mail mail on
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  Speaker 9: the cane. Gotta hold him by his shoulder. Man's took opp.
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  Speaker 1: Family j All right, Julie, Well, happy holidays.
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  Speaker 10: Everybody coming up him thirty three minutes after juniors, we're
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 10: gonna play around.
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather? Right after this you're.
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  Speaker 10: Listening Hardy Morning Show, It is time now for a
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 10: round of would you rather? Would you rather have to
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 10: spend the week after the New Year dressed up as
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 10: the baby New Year?
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather be father time.
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  Speaker 3: All the time?
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: No baby New Year for you?
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 3: Guys, Well, you can be either real real old man
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 3: or you can beat his baby. If both of them
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 3: gonna have dipoles. I'm gonna be that baby so I
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 3: can lay back and get wife. I'm gonna that. I
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 3: can't talk none of that, all right?
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: Would you rather play monopoly for five hours?
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  Speaker 10: Would you rather have a conversation about politics with your family?
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 3: Politics?
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 10: Uh?
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 3: Uh some monopoly too, damn long?
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, oh no, I don't like monopoly. There may really
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 3: no houses. I don't really own nothing. And by the
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 3: time token, I'm always on wheel bell or a shoe
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 3: or something.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: Your piece before.
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  Speaker 3: Don't nobody want to be damn thimble and want that
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 3: damn wheel bell? All right?
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 10: Would you rather eat only Christmas leftovers for two weeks
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 10: or would you rather have no Christmas leftovers at all?
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 1: We can give me beef no Christmas leftover?
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 3: How many weeks to two weeks? Yeah, ain't none to
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 3: say that turkey so damn dry? Oh, I can't refrigerate
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 3: that turkey. But for so damn long ham too, It's
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 3: just get old and and ham can't be nothing but ham.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 3: You can't make your soup.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: Ham can't be nothing but ham. The ain't no ham stew.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 3: You can disguise that turkey, but damn ham sitting over
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 3: that just ham.
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  Speaker 1: Ham and Hammon.
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  Speaker 10: All right, would you rather build a snowman for two
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 10: hours without wearing any gloves?
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather make a snow angel for two hours?
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: Laying on that two hours? Or build a snowman with
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: no gloves?
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 3: You can hear and build a snowman without glove?
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: Really?
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: Who going back and forth with your legs on?
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: But at least you have all your clothes on.
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 3: You'll be warm. But I'm finna make this snowman in
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: by thirty seconds with this.
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  Speaker 1: No, he ain't gonna be tall at hours. No, he's
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  Speaker 1: not gonna be tall.
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  Speaker 3: You can do that. You can make a little quick.
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  Speaker 8: Yea.
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  Speaker 3: The snowman he shouldn't made. He couldn't make a snowman doll.
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  Speaker 1: That's the day's round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 8: Now?
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  Speaker 10: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it
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  Speaker 10: is our last break of the day, and we'll close
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  Speaker 10: out the show with the one and only Steve Harvey
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 10: right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening.
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  Speaker 10: Morning show?
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  Speaker 6: All right, guys, it is.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 10: Time for us to close out the show. It's our
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 10: last break of the day. And before we get to
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 10: all of that, Steve, we have one more voicemail for you.
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 10: One more call about your closing remarks.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 13: Hi, Steve, I wanted to make a comment regarding your
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 13: closing remarks where you talked about not giving up on
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 13: your dream. I appreciate hearing it because I definitely felt
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 13: like giving up on my dream, and I understand not
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 13: to give up. I just don't, you know, I'm in
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 13: a position where I don't know how to achieve my
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 13: dream to go after them because some of them, you know,
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 13: are things that I can't control.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 14: But it's just rough when you know, you pray and
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 14: things just stay the same, and I'm just waiting for
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 14: things to change and been waiting for a long time,
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 14: but trying to you know, stay and face and have hope.
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  Speaker 13: But just wanted to make a comment regard in that
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 13: thank you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, based on what she's said, that's the
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 3: diliver for most people. That's the same dilimma I face
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 3: from time to time because oftentimes some of the things
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 3: that I'm asking God for, it takes a lot longer
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 3: than I would like for it to take because God's
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 3: timing is different than our timing. But here's something I
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 3: had to understand. When you're asking God for something and
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: it's taken a while to get it. That's because God
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: is preparing it his way, not your way, and that
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 3: he's allowing you in putting this delay on it and
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 3: allowing you to go through the process because there's several
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 3: lessons he wants you to learn in the waiting process.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 3: It's gonna be a test of your faith. Faith, is
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 3: gonna require your patience. It's gonna cause you to trust
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 3: more and more in his time. I mean, he may
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 3: be trying to show some other people in your life
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 3: something and he's using you. But the reason he's using
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 3: you is because he knows you can handle it. He
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 3: knows that when it gets real dog for you, that
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 3: you will be the one who comes to him and
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 3: he'll provide you with comfort and strength to get through it.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 3: He's not gonna give it to you right when you
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 3: want it. Everything I've ever gotten from God has seemed
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 3: to be delayed, seen to be postponed, put off. Has
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 3: required me to do my due diligence, to practice my faith,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 3: to trust in his time, to learn that it's harming
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 3: only him, to stop collaborating with people. All the time.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 3: I used to try to force deals by calling people
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 3: to try to put him together. I called it networking.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 3: God called it interfering. And I would get in the
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 3: way of so much of what God was trying to
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 3: do that it would even further delay my Bless him
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 3: because he now he had to undo all this garbage
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 3: I had created by getting in the way. I know
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 3: it's difficult when you ask God for something and it
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 3: doesn't seem to get answered right away. God said he
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 3: would hear and answer your prayer. He ain't saved by Friday.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 3: That's not in the Bible. The date of when he's
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 3: coming back ain't in the Bible. You know why he
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 3: don't give us dates because if he gave us dates,
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  Speaker 3: that would destroy the one principle that's required of us faith.
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  Speaker 3: If he gave us dates, you wouldn't need faith, You
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 3: just need patience. It's easy to be it's easy to
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 3: be patient that it is to be faithful. Those are
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  Speaker 3: two different practices because sometimes in waiting, you waiting on something,
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 3: You waiting on three o'clock, Well, you know, if the
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 3: clock is moving, eventually be three. But faith is different
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 3: than patience. Faith is the belief in things that you
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 3: cannot see. That's what faith is. And system he put
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 3: it on you like this because you've been chosen for this,
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 3: because you the one. You have been chosen for this journey.
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 3: He picked you. It's you, you the one. Man. I
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 3: wish I had something that I found on the internet
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 3: early this morning, at four o'clock in the morning, something
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 3: that described totally what's happening to me right now, and
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 3: it was saying, I'm paraphrasing it right now, but I
• 1:24:23
  Speaker 3: was chosen for this. I am uniquely made. You are
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 3: uniquely made all of you. God made you just the
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 3: way He wanted you to be. You you because He
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 3: made you You. Your journey ain't nobody else's journey. Quit
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 3: comparing yourself to other people. Quit looking at your life
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 3: and matching it up with somebody's life.
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: That ain't your life. God got a whole.
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 3: Nother life for you. So what, you didn't get that
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 3: kind of airplane you're still flying? So what you don't
• 1:24:55
  Speaker 3: live in that house? Ain't your house still nice? Don't
• 1:24:58
  Speaker 3: you still appreciate the one? Yeah, you ain't got the
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 3: money Oprah Winfrey got, but dog on it? Who do.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 6: Hell?
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 3: Quit tripping yourself out. Quit, I'm telling you, man, Quit
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 3: tripping yourself out looking at your life compared to other
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 3: people's lives, because that ain't your life, That ain't who
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 3: God made you to be. Do you know that there's
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 3: rich people out there and famous people out here that
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 3: would trade lives with you because they are so unhappy?
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 3: So many they ain't got no family, They ain't got
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 3: nobody up around them that care about them. They ain't
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 3: got nobody to sit down and playing nothing with. Everybody
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 3: in their life is conniving, stabbing them in the back,
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 3: trying the woiy to get a peace. Man, I got
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 3: so many people around me. Man, it's sicken in that times.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 3: But I'm also grateful that God gave me Marjorie. God
• 1:25:54
  Speaker 3: gave me my kids, Brandy Carley gave me bj gave
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 3: me my grandkids. That people genuinely care about me.
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 8: Mam.
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  Speaker 3: My daughter called me this morning before I got on
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 3: the Aird, talked to me for forty minutes, didn't ask
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 3: me for nothing, scared me, but didn't ask me for nothing.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 3: That's what I got. I got family, man, So whatever,
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 3: I'm cool with it. Stop looking at other people's lives
• 1:26:15
  Speaker 3: comparing it to y'all. Man, how you feel Magic Johnson billionaire?
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 3: You ain't no billionaire. I'm cool I ain't got no billion.
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 3: I'm all right though. I'm alright you are too, Hey,
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 3: y'all enjoy your holidays, y'all be safe out there. Steve
• 1:26:28
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• 1:26:31
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