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I Know You Are But What Am I?

This episode is a reminder that who we are can’t be defined by someone else’s misery, projections, or curated perfection. I’m unpacking how consumption—of media, opinions, expectations—can quietly convince us to shrink, contort, or forget our truth. But becoming who we’re meant to be requires emotional intelligence, daily kindness, and radical self-love.I share what it looks like to choose yourself with intention, to make progress without chasing perfection, and to love yourself out loud—even when the world tries to hand you a script that doesn’t fit. If you’ve ever felt like you were…

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