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North West, Flava Flav, Dherbs, Chief Love Officer and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Uh huh. I shall will a good morning everybody. You're
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  Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one
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  Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, If
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  Speaker 1: if I had time enough to tell the whole trip,
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  Speaker 1: the whole journey, and y'all would be sitting up in
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  Speaker 1: there going okay to Steve, are we gonna play the
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  Speaker 1: show this week? But man, it's been a lot of
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  Speaker 1: amazing things has happened to me over the years, and
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  Speaker 1: not all of them good. It's been some amazingly bad
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  Speaker 1: things that have happened too. But I just come on
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  Speaker 1: in the morning as a reminder to everybody of the
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  Speaker 1: actual goodness of God that you know, man, that these
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  Speaker 1: mistakes that you're making, that these setbacks that you keep
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  Speaker 1: having that these falls that keep occurring in your life,
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  Speaker 1: that they all are leading you somewhere. If you just
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  Speaker 1: don't ever give up. That's the key. You can never
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  Speaker 1: ever give up because you don't know how the trip
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  Speaker 1: has been laid out for you. You know, if somebody
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  Speaker 1: had told me years ago when I had the dream
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  Speaker 1: of being on TV and then I thought about being
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  Speaker 1: one of one of the best comedians I could be,
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  Speaker 1: you know, when I when I started, somebody had told
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  Speaker 1: me everything that was gonna have to happen in order
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  Speaker 1: for me to get there, I would have changed it.
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  Speaker 1: I would have I would have said, Okay, well I
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  Speaker 1: ain't gonna be that. How about this? See and no
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  Speaker 1: one can know all of the events of their life
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  Speaker 1: ahead of time. You know, it'd be so nice, wouldn't it.
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  Speaker 1: You know, to prepare for it, see it coming, be
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  Speaker 1: aware of the haters, always knowing when the backstabbing moment
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  Speaker 1: is coming in your life, always knowing when you're go
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  Speaker 1: get blindsided by the enemy. We are really great to
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  Speaker 1: know that, wouldn't it. Well, that's not how it works.
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  Speaker 1: So since no one knows exactly the challenges and the
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  Speaker 1: pitfalls and the detools that's going to be set them.
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  Speaker 1: It's it's it's imperative that you just don't give up
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  Speaker 1: because see, knowing these things, we as human beings by nature,
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  Speaker 1: would choose another route. But it ain't the route God
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  Speaker 1: God for you, though, See the route God God for you.
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  Speaker 1: If you if you're trying to do the right thing,
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  Speaker 1: if you're doing the best you can, if you ain't
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  Speaker 1: out here just intentionally just messing over, folks. If you
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  Speaker 1: use in faith and that's the belief in things that
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  Speaker 1: you cannot see, If you have something on the inside
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  Speaker 1: of you to keep saying there's got to be more
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  Speaker 1: to life than that, then that's that's you. You, my friend,
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  Speaker 1: have a great chance here. And if you've ever had
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  Speaker 1: that feeling then gave up on it, just get it back,
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  Speaker 1: just ask for it back, Just say, hey man, I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting back to the way I used to be because
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  Speaker 1: there's a change that's available in your life. But you
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  Speaker 1: gotta take it. You gotta take a shot at it. Folks.
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  Speaker 1: There's a chance for you to get it right, but
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  Speaker 1: you gotta take a shot at it. Folks. There's a
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  Speaker 1: chance for you to turn this whole thing around with
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  Speaker 1: God's help, but you gotta take a shot at it.
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  Speaker 1: You see, this decision is yours. The decision to lay
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  Speaker 1: down and give up, that's yours. It ain't. It just
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  Speaker 1: got too hard for me. Life too much, man, life
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  Speaker 1: hard and too much for everybody. What I gotta get
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  Speaker 1: you to See, my father used to always tell me,
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  Speaker 1: He says, son, best lessons in life to burn your
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  Speaker 1: value and learn the most is a bout lesson. I
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  Speaker 1: didn't quite understand that being young, but I showed God
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  Speaker 1: it Now ain't no lesson like a bout lesson. The
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  Speaker 1: one you pay for. Those are the ones that hold
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  Speaker 1: to you, that stick to you, that that that started
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  Speaker 1: turning you into who you're gonna be. Those are the
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  Speaker 1: character builders. See, you got to be forged to get
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  Speaker 1: to where you want to go in life. So that's
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  Speaker 1: what the challenges and missteps is for. That's what the
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  Speaker 1: failing is about. Now, I know you don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. I know you're not comfortable with I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 1: I know you wish it was over sooner than later.
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  Speaker 1: I always do. I always wanted to be over sooner
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  Speaker 1: than later, because the later manager seems like it's so
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  Speaker 1: much I gotta go through. But let me tell you something, man,
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  Speaker 1: if you can, if you can forge your way through
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  Speaker 1: it and understand that you are forged in life. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. I was on TBN one time when I
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  Speaker 1: was doing one of my motivational speeches, and I began
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  Speaker 1: to wonder about this experience I had. It Ford Motor
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  Speaker 1: Company and my last job after the auto industry started
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  Speaker 1: going down, my last job was in the fountry and
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  Speaker 1: my job was to stand at the end almost where
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  Speaker 1: the engines first come out of the furnace. See, the
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  Speaker 1: engines are poured into a mold's hot melted down metal
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  Speaker 1: whatever they call it, lava or whatever. They poured into
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  Speaker 1: a mole and it goes into this furnace that's extremely hot.
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  Speaker 1: And my job was after the heat was applied to
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  Speaker 1: the engine block, it would come through and it would
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  Speaker 1: go through a hardening stage. With the way it was hardening,
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  Speaker 1: they would cool it. Suddenly they would flush it with water.
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  Speaker 1: It was just blast water on it. But the fire
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  Speaker 1: and the high temperature is what made the engine block solidified.
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  Speaker 1: It's because it's gotta get real hot, get melted down first.
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  Speaker 1: Then it's got to get poured into a mole. Then
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  Speaker 1: it's gotta be pressure, hit with water and all of this,
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  Speaker 1: and then it can and it's real hot. Now it's
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  Speaker 1: still hot even though its water been shutter. But when
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  Speaker 1: it comes out the end of the side, there's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of flashing in it, and flashing is a metal
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  Speaker 1: from that din dripped through the cast molding on it,
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  Speaker 1: just like flecks of extra pieces of metal. My job
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  Speaker 1: was to hit this engine block in the front, which
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  Speaker 1: is huge, heavy rubber mallet, knock all the flashing off
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  Speaker 1: the front, and when it came around back to bam,
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  Speaker 1: hit it real hard again on the backside. And that
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  Speaker 1: became the core of what the car is. A car
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  Speaker 1: without a great engine is nothing. It's just a pretty
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  Speaker 1: looking vehicle over there. But if it can't do what
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  Speaker 1: it was made to do because the engine block then cracked.
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  Speaker 1: So you can have a car look real good, but
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  Speaker 1: if it freezes, an engine block crack your car, you
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  Speaker 1: can it's over man. You gotta get a new block.
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  Speaker 1: The block is the core. But in order for you
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  Speaker 1: for the car to do what it's got to do,
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  Speaker 1: gotta have a strong engine in it. In order for
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  Speaker 1: the engine to be strong, it's got to be forged
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  Speaker 1: and stell come through fire, get poured in a mole,
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  Speaker 1: cooled off, heated, knocked around, beat on the front end,
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  Speaker 1: beat on the back end, in order for it to
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  Speaker 1: be what it's gonna be. The moral of the story, folks,
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  Speaker 1: is you got to get forged in fire to be
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  Speaker 1: what you gonna be. You got to get beat up,
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  Speaker 1: you got to get pressure washed, you got to have
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  Speaker 1: heat on you, you you gotta get melted down, you gotta
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  Speaker 1: get poured into a mole. That's how you become who
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  Speaker 1: you are. So the tough things that you're going through,
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  Speaker 1: the difficult challenges and the setbacks. I know a brother
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  Speaker 1: who went to prison, man, And the whole reason he
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  Speaker 1: ended up going to prison because he was looking out
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  Speaker 1: the looting window, looking out in the yard at him
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  Speaker 1: working out. And then the next thing, you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: this brother decided that he was gonna go out there
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  Speaker 1: and work out. Well, guess what, he's one of the
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  Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour, We're gonna talk
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  Speaker 1: about the newest beef between two little bitty rappers. Wait
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  Speaker 1: till you hear about this. It's it's kind of a
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  Speaker 1: really cute beef and that's all. I'll tell you. We'll
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  Speaker 1: the Nashville area. Nashville, Tennessee. Steve, it was hard hit
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  Speaker 1: on one point one, the beat out there. We're praying
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  Speaker 1: for you. We love you. Yeah. Wow, you're in Kyrie.
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  Speaker 1: Bad tornado. Yeah, I got to check on my man. Yeah. Man,
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  Speaker 1: that's not good. Yeah, but our prayers and we'll keep
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  Speaker 1: you updated on this story. Um. You know as news
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  Speaker 1: comes in. Wow, Um, we're moving on now. We're going
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  Speaker 1: to change gears here. Um. Kanye West U is in Paris.
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  Speaker 1: You know how he got there. He may have parachuted
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  Speaker 1: in Paris Fashion Week to debut his Yeasy Season eight
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  Speaker 1: clothing line. You know, he's still doing his fashion thing.
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  Speaker 1: But it was his daughter, Little Northwest who stole the show.
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  Speaker 1: North is six years old. She appeared on the runway.
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  Speaker 1: She's started rapping Kanye being the proud dad as he
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  Speaker 1: that he is. You know, he watched from the sidelines,
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  Speaker 1: but everyone was not a fan of North's rap. The
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  Speaker 1: team behind Red Carpet Girls rappers Zaza, who is five
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  Speaker 1: years old, Yeah yeah, she's five. They yeah, They claimed
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  Speaker 1: that North's performance sounded a lot like Zaza's song What
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  Speaker 1: I Do. Zaza's team took to her ig to call
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  Speaker 1: out Northwest and the entire Kardashian West family for not
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  Speaker 1: giving Zaza credit. Now, after Kim Kardashian West caught wend
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  Speaker 1: of the backlash, she responded under Zaza's post to let
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  Speaker 1: her know that it was all in love and mentioned
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  Speaker 1: that she'd love for the girls to get together. So
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  Speaker 1: we just, you know, have to hope that this little
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  Speaker 1: rap beef is settled a minute, wait a minute, puts down. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I mean, come on, her dad is Kanye, Now,
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  Speaker 1: come on, It's got in her blood. I mean, you know,
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  Speaker 1: for Kim to squash it like that, ain't had no kids, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, yeah, so it's all I wouldn't even I
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't even worry about that. Kim is smart enough, you know,
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  Speaker 1: And so what if it sounds just like another song
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  Speaker 1: she's six and the other little girl is five? What
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  Speaker 1: they got. That's original. They six. Everything they're doing is
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  Speaker 1: something they saw. They ain't thought of nothing. I know.
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  Speaker 1: I remember when Kim posted on her ig North doing
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  Speaker 1: Oldtime road Uh last year when that song was so hot.
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  Speaker 1: So girl, I'm fin to release this new birth. Ain't
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  Speaker 1: nobody doing this? Okay, go ahead and try. Yeah, let's
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  Speaker 1: squash this immediately. Yeah. For them to even respond to
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  Speaker 1: that sound a lot like without giving her credit. It
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  Speaker 1: doesn't matter, it doesn't You're fine, your parents are rich,
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  Speaker 1: You're fine. It's okay, good. You ain't even having regular problems.
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  Speaker 1: You're not gonna have any. Now she's gonna have problems,
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  Speaker 1: but they're not gonna be regular. All these clothes in here,
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nowhere for this correct to go. Yeah, what
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  Speaker 1: what you're It's funny you should say that, Steve, because
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  Speaker 1: one of her problems. One of the problems that Kim
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  Speaker 1: had with Little Northy was one day a North had
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  Speaker 1: on this pink like snakeskin dress and she went in
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  Speaker 1: Kim's closet and got her pink snakeskin heels. Now she
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  Speaker 1: was fly, but Kim was like, under no circumstances are
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  Speaker 1: you wearing my heels? You're I think she was five
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  Speaker 1: at the time. Out she thought she was ready for
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  Speaker 1: school because North is a little fashion East. It was
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  Speaker 1: so cute. North was mad a little feelings were hurt.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, we really enjoying this conversation. This is so
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  Speaker 1: good for us, you know, m y okay, you got
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  Speaker 1: something else you want to add? Loving this conversation. As
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  Speaker 1: Duke Earl about it, I don't know we're talking about
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  Speaker 1: sht Oh god, Junior, Oh my god, I've been request that.
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  Speaker 1: I love that, Joia, said Duke Earl of Arting. Having
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  Speaker 1: here again to comment on something that I know little
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  Speaker 1: to nothing about. I dast you say that the little
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  Speaker 1: West girl, the lovely little girl, was accused of stealing
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  Speaker 1: something by another child? Does that? Kan her? Rap? That
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  Speaker 1: that's correct? Well, she stouted, what are you gonna do
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  Speaker 1: about it? We're gonna whip her? Ask what are we
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  Speaker 1: talking about that? Let's do it. That's right. Start a
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  Speaker 1: childhood be that's how you want to raise your child?
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  Speaker 1: Kills another girl. You're messing with the Kardashians and the West.
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  Speaker 1: They have tremendous amounts of money. Oh my god, yes
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  Speaker 1: they do. You don't want Kanye angry with you? Do you, hey, duke,
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  Speaker 1: how would you like to live in Kanye West's house
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  Speaker 1: and be a duke there? I had never thought of that. Well,
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  Speaker 1: that Master Tommy, I might be still be a duke?
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  Speaker 1: Could he still be a damn? I would be with
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  Speaker 1: one of the sisters. Of course, any one of them
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  Speaker 1: take it. It doesn't matter that they're taken. Take me, hell,
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  Speaker 1: I want to be I want to be taken, just
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  Speaker 1: like the movie Taking three. I want to have my
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  Speaker 1: white father looking for me a very special set of skills. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: get him out of here, dude, can go go key.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciate you breaking him out. And he tired. Now,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: yeah you don't kick kick yo yo carecters in and out,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: you got car. I just let him. He just gets tired,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: get tired, just drop off. Yeah, yeah, my character. Everybody
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  Speaker 1: knows me. Coming up next, the nephew in the building
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  Speaker 1: would run that prank back right after this. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to show, all right? Coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour, miss Anne will be here with our national
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  Speaker 1: news and then entertainment news. Two people are out of work.
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  Speaker 1: That's a number one rapper, Flavor Flayve out of work.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know he was walking. Okay, we'll talk about
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  Speaker 1: that is did Um and anchor you know him, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: you know him Steve and MSNBC's anchor Chris Matthews. He's out.
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  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it. Right now. It's time for the
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  Speaker 1: nephew to run that prank back. What you got for
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  Speaker 1: his nest? I got pecan tree? That's right. You can
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  Speaker 1: say pecana, pecan. How you want to do it? Pecan tree.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go cat. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh
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  Speaker 1: LC hey, let me let me Hey. My name is Marcus.
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  Speaker 1: Uh My mom and them little next dough to you,
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  Speaker 1: uh mister and missus, my mom and daddy little next
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  Speaker 1: dough to you. And I was calling because y'all got
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  Speaker 1: a pecan tree in y'all backyard. I mean right on
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  Speaker 1: the fence line, and it keeps, you know, pecan and
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  Speaker 1: stuff keep falling over to my mom and them yard.
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  Speaker 1: So I tally to see if y'all can do something man,
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  Speaker 1: where y'all can pick up I mean, my mama and
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  Speaker 1: them got a little older. You know, we've been picking
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  Speaker 1: them up for a long time. But I need somebody to, like,
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  Speaker 1: maybe you can cut the limbs back that's hanging over
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  Speaker 1: so that they won't you know, the pecans won't be
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  Speaker 1: falling over into my mom and them yard because you know,
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  Speaker 1: for them to be bending over like they're picking up
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  Speaker 1: them pacan and it's a lot of them. So, you know, mister,
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  Speaker 1: I just wanted to haul at you and see if
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  Speaker 1: you don't mind maybe cutting the limbs back, because even
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  Speaker 1: when we turned the lamo on and stuff, man, it
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  Speaker 1: just you know, the peconus and stuff be coming out
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  Speaker 1: of the lamo just shooting all over the place. Well,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, Mama con trills an old coon tree
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: and all. It's fought well, and I can't see me
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: cutting it. Well. I mean, I'm not saying you can't
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: have no body to maintain your yard, but I mean
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: you your mother. You can maintain your mother's yard. So
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: I go by my mother's house, you know, every other
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: day and check on them. But I don't have time
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: to go on the back and pick up pecans and stuff,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I mean, if you just
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: it don't seem no more than like maybe four or
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: five limbs that's hanging over there. But them four or
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: five limbs, I mean they they there's a lot of
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: pecans falling off of that. So if you my pacans
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: tree to shady, I go back there. There's no kind
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: of nothing back the okay whatever, sir, I'm not cutting
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: my tree for a little like that. Sir. Listen, what
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I'm what I'm trying to get you to do is
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I'm not I want you cutting your entire tree down.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I just want you to cut a few limbs, sir,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: so you know those that way that those are the
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: ones that are hanging over. It won't be you know,
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: the pecans won't be falling over into my mom's and
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: them yard. And and and you know, like I say,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: they're older now, man, they can't be bending over like that.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: So you know, I'm I'm just coming to you as
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: a man right now and asking you when you please
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: cut this down to these pecans can quit falling over
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: my mom and them yard. I'm asking you. All you
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: can do is hard from one someone I know your mother.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: Don't cut your yard. It's it's a guy that it's
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: a guy that cuts the yard. But even when he
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: cutting the yard, these pecans is flying out from underneath
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: the yard. The law more they sooner, lady, we're gonna
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: be breaking windows over that. What kind of long person
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: you have that don't pick up before they cut? That's food?
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Why am I arguing with you about picking up stuff
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: and all of this. I'm asking you to cut a
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: funking let five limbs so these dog gonna pecans ain't
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: a falling off my mama yard. You you want to
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: cut you you're gonna make me come over here and
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: cut the old I would come cut the whole damn
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: tree down. You ain't gonna put my tree. I grew
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: that tree from when I was a kids, and that
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: tree gonna say that York long as I stay though. Sir, look,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: I didn't ask you like a man to cut your
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: little funking pecan tree down. Now, I ain't in the hat.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: What you know? What? Guess what you you? You bad
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: know you can't cut it. I look, sir, tonight today, Rother,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: this evening, it's either gonna be two things happening. Either
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: you're gonna cut the five limbs that I won't cut,
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: of gonna cut cut the whole damn or corn tree down.
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: That's my tree in any game. Nobody's gonna with my tree.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I'm here right now. I'm You're not hearing the yard
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: right now, come on, is you over that right now?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Right now? I will bring right on back. You know
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: what you get my numb in the way, got your No,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I got it because it's the same. Is one address
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: left than my mama's. You're gonna cut this damn tree down.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I'm waiting on them, but anyway, man, I ain't using
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: my crea selling in the long top any wait. I've
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: been waiting on them like you. You didn't lost your
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: damn mind. You live, y'all, puck. I told you once,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: and I told you twice. I'm old you younger, don't
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: do that. See that's what's right. Then. You know what
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: you can do? Tell your mom to make up a
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: corn what you say by my mama, Tell her to
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: make corn pop and come for me. Tell my mama
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: what break a corn pop with? You? Make a pecorn pie?
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: I don't want no pecoran prob. We don't even eat
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: pecan pie. We're so sick of he's damn becun. You
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: got fallen over in the backyard. You got to do
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: something about this. Man. Now, I'm trying to I'm trying
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: not to hurt you. Oh man, I really am hurt me.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Hurt me, come on, hurt me, prettit for me. I'm
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: I'm on my I'm on my way. It's your side side.
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: It is you outside. You know how? You know stay?
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: You know what. I'm here. I'm here, I'm I'm I'm
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: gonna be in your mama bay. Dude. You get out.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: You get out my mama driveway right now, get out
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: my mama driveway. I want putting me out. I'm you
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: get your you get your back in your driveway. You
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: get out my mama drive way. Get out, you get
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: out of my mama job way. Who I'm now tell
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: you I'm here waiting on you. You get out of
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: my mamma. Get out of my mama. Joy, baby, better
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: go cook me some me because I'm gonna sit here.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to you.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: When you listening, you don't gonna try to say I'm
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: waiting at you at your mama house. This is Nephew
• 27:16
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• 27:19
  Speaker 1: got pranked by your brother. Man, I don't play this tuna. Man.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna put my man. I'm gonna. I'm gonna, but
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: I don't play. I'm too old for this else, do
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: me a favor. First of all, get out till people yard,
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: go back to your yard. You gave me how blood pressure.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody mad about your country none of that. Ain't
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: nobody going to cut it down. Ain't nobody tripping you right?
• 27:55
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• 27:58
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• 28:52
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• 28:54
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• 28:56
  Speaker 1: gonna have a dog on food. He leaves. All right,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news and some national news and update with
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: miss Anne Tripp right after this. You're listening to show well.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Our prayers go out to those affected by the tornado
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: in Nashville. Miss Anne will definitely update us shortly, but
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: first in entertainment news. Legendary hip hop group Public Enemy
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: split over the weekend after an argument between Chuck D
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: and Flavor Flav. Flavor Flav has been the hype man
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: for Public Enemy since the eighties. We all remember him well.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Over the weekend, he got mad because Chuck D participated
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: in a Bernie Sanders political rally and he had words
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: with Chuck D over his support of Sanders. Then, shortly thereafter,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Public Enemy issued a statement that said that Public Enemy
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: and Public Enemy Radio will be moving forward without Flavor Flav.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: In other words, they fired Flavor Flay from the group.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: The statement went on to say we thank him for
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: his years of service and wish him well. Chuck D
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: later clarified that the group did not part ways with
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: Flavor Flavor over his political views. He said the Flavor
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Flav had been suspended since twenty sixteen from missing a
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: few performances, and that was the last straw. This was
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: the last straw the Bernie Sanders incidents. Because Flav chooses
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: to a party instead of working. That's always so you
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: got to go my life, boy. Apollo Theater was the
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: night that Public Enemy was to appear. I'm hosting the show, Franco.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: The band leader was Frank Ray True, who hadn't even
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: got the gig yet. They had been in line since
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: ten that morning because Public Enemy was coming. We got
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: all the way down to the end. They started taking
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: the band down the orders. Where's public to me? I
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: had to go out and tell the Apollo Theater that
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: they couldn't perform tonight. You know why Flavor Flav got
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: his ass arrested. Yeah, Block, No, for real, Flavor Flav
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: got They almost told that damn theater up that night. Yeah,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: all the time that he was supposed to be somewhere,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Flavor miss too. Flavor, good dude, man, he just he
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: just so. You need to look at your clock. I
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: don't believe then, why do you have that clock? His
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: damn clock and still at the clock. I had to
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: gonna talk show a few years ago. Flavor war or
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: fur a fur jaging suit with some black and white
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: spectator Stacey Adams shoes on a brim and o'clock. Flavor
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: was sitting on that stage. Swinton like his ass was
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: a runaway. I think you think it was that fur
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: jogging suit perhaps, boy, So that's said man, Yeah, yeah, um.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: Also out of a job now, Steve. You know him.
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: He's the host of MSNBC's Hardball. Chris Matthews. Yeah, he
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: retired from a show Hardball, after he was accused of
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: inappropriate behavior. He made the announcement at the start of
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: his show on Monday. He said, I'm retiring. This is
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: the last Hardball at MSNBC. And obviously this isn't for
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: the lack of interest in politics. As you can tell,
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I've loved every minute of my twenty years as host
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: of Hardball. Matthews also apologized for making inappropriate comments about
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: the appearance of women. Uh, saying compliments on a women's appearance.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: That's some men, including me might have once incorrectly thought
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: were okay. We're never okay, not then and certainly not today.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: And for making such comments in the past. I'm sorry,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: and after that he quit. All right, let's move on
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: to miss Anne. Ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne Tripp, thank
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: you very much, and good morning everybody. More than a
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: third of the delegates needed to snag the Democratic presidential
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: nomination rough for grabs yesterday because it was Super Tuesday.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: This was the first time that Michael Bloomberg was on
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: the primary ballot, but after spending more than a half
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: a billion dollars on advertising and organizing, his soule win
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: was the territory of American Samoa. Meanwhile, Bernie Sanders won
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: his own state, Vermont, as well as Colorado. He won
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: the delegate rich state of California. However, Joe Biden was
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: the winner in delegate rich Texas. He also won Oklahoma, Virginia, Alabama,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: North Carolina, Tennessee, Arkansas, and Minnesota, a state that Sanders
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: had hoped to win. He also won Massachusetts, and black
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: voters are very important to many of his wins, especially
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: in the South. So far, the Associated Press has Biden
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: with one hundred and seventy four delei gates the Sanders
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: one hundred and twelve, twelve to Elizabeth Warren six to
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: Mike Bloomberg. Tulsea gabber. She's in the race, believe it
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: or not. Still, but of course those numbers Tulsea Gober
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: has one, but of course those numbers are not firmed.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: Both Sanders and Biden are expressing confidence. I tell you,
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: with absolute confidence, we're gonna win the Democratic nomination and
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: mcnomics think about it. This campaign will send down Trump
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: packing Bernie Sanders one in California, like I said, but
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: Maine still hasn't been called yet. More states vote next week. Meanwhile,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: destructive stores are responsible for big problems in yesterday's Super
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Tuesday voting. In parts of Tennessee. The Democratic Party had
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: to send voters to a high school, a community center,
• 34:45
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• 34:48
  Speaker 1: the dozens of places damaged or destroyed by tornadoes in
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: and out of Nashville Monday night. At last were at
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: least twenty five people were killed in four Tennessee counties.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Thirty eight people are still miss and schools and court buildings,
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: even the airport had to be shut down. That's in Tennessee.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: While China reports some eighty thousand cases of coronavirus out
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: of ninety one thousand worldwide. More than newer cases of
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: COVID nineteen. That's coronavirus are popping up outside of China,
• 35:16
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• 35:17
  Speaker 1: worst outbreaks with cases in the thousands. Rat Mugul jay
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: z As joining Rapper Yogatti and filing a second lawsuit
• 35:24
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• 35:28
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• 35:31
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• 35:33
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• 35:37
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• 35:42
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• 35:45
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• 36:05
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• 36:09
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• 36:14
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• 36:18
  Speaker 1: I've been dating a great guy for seven years and
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: we've known each other for thirteen years. Things have been great,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: and I don't want I want to be with him forever.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: My question for you is kind of woman proposed to
• 36:30
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• 36:35
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• 36:38
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• 36:41
  Speaker 1: you forever? And what's in it for him to get married?
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: If you all have been seeing each other for seven years,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: then what did she say they're doing for thirteen? They've
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: known each other for thirteen, known each other thirteen being
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: seeing each other seven? Did she say how old she was? No?
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: She didn't. Maybe he don't want her, Maybe he just
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: wants something from her at seven years. I think all
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: she has to do is just sit down and say, hey,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: can we have ain't listening to me? I want to
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: say something to you that I think you should hear. Hell, yeah, baby,
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: what's that? I love you? You have told me that
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: you love me, and we've been together for seven years,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Can you tell me exactly what your plans are for
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: me moving forward? You have it. That's a simple question.
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: That ain't That ain't making him marry you. That ain't
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: no ultimatum, And just let him tell you what he
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: wants from you moving forward. You've already had seven years
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: and if he says the same thing that you already got,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: then he has no other plans for you than what
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: you already getting. But Steve, I'm going to assume that
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: she's a young woman. So and a lot of young
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: women believe it or not feel this way, that it's okay, no,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: we don't care, blah blah blah blah blah. So you
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: need to laser in on why a woman should not
• 38:06
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• 38:11
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. If you're leaving it
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: up to a man to say whether he wants to
• 38:17
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• 38:21
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• 38:25
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• 38:29
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• 38:33
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• 38:36
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• 38:38
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• 38:42
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• 38:46
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• 38:50
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  Speaker 1: make that suggestion to your wife. Yeah, it's not gonna
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  Speaker 1: it is a Nephew Frank phone call for today. Right
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  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show coming up
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  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject is my
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: wife is way too relaxed. Now we also have the
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: nephew standing by with today's prank phone call. But Steve,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: before we went to break um, we're talking about a
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: question from Shawanna in Dallas. She wanted to know can
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: a woman proposed to a man? She's been dating a
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: guy for seven years, known him for thirteen, and she
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: wanted to know, because she wants to be with this
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: guy forever. Can she propose to a man? Well, I
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: know that times have changed, right, and I know young
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: women are taking a more assertive roles, and I'm absolutely
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: fine with that. You can do it. But from uncle Steve,
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: let me show you a slicker way to do it.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: See why would you embarrass yourself and get a note?
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Because you're not gonna like the know as soon as
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: he tell you no, guess what you're gonna want to know?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Why not? We've been together seven years, we've known each
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: other thirteen. You're gonna go over the obvious facts. So
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: why I embarrass yourself that way? Ask a man what
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: he wants to do moving forward with this relationship? If
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: he gives you anything itself. I want to marry you,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: and I'm getting you a ring, and you don't like
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: the answer. Here's what your next statement should be. Well,
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: in order to continue this relationship, I really want to
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: be married. Don't say to him listen to what I'm
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: exactly fining you. I'm not listen. In order for this
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: relationship to continue, I want to be married, and if
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: if it's not going to be you, then listen to
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: this line. I want to be married, and if it's
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: not going to be you, here is to catch line, Ladies.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Then I want to take other options. Don't say don't
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: say explore other options, because then that means that now
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: you got to go find somebody in a dude, go
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: you ain't got nobody. No, I want you to say this,
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: then I want to take other options. Take other options
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: means there's another guy at me. You heard what Junior said, right, yeah, yeah,
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: I'll be down to Jears tonight getting ready to go
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: buy the round. I'm telling me. I'm telling you, ladies,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: this is what you do? What what? What? What? What
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: you mean? You're gonna take other options? I want to
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: be married. I don't want to spend my life as
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: someone's girlfriend. I've been with you seven years. We love
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: each other, so you say, and I want to be married.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be anybody's girlfriend. So I want
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: to be married. And if it's not going to be you,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: then I want to take other options. That means that
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: says there's another option out there that I might be
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: willing to take. So this is sugar honey, iced tea
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: or get off the pot. Hello? Hello? All right, right time, Well,
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: let's let's go and do this here when we're talking
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: about relationships. Come on, let's slide on into relationship departure. Hello,
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: relationship departure glove. Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I was um
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: I was calling to tell you baby. Look, I just
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: I just can't do huh what? Oh? Hello Ran ban Hey,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: this is Greg. I know, I know you was just
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: talking to Vow, but this is this is Greg talking
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: to Brian. Yeah, this is Brian. Greg. I was just
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: talking to my wife. Did you put it back on
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: the phone. Uh No, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: be able to do that. Why can't you do that? Man? Hey,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. Uh all right, there's
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: some things, you know, long conversations about this. Oh, well,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: how you know my wife on the first name basis
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: like that? Man? How you who are you? Like I said, man,
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: my name is greg h all right, at the airport? Okay,
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: well airport? Which the airport? Why is you at the
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: airport with my wife? Sport? Hey? Let me hey, hey,
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: all of this is complicated. Okay, it's really yeah it is. Yeah,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: make it simple for me. Okay, So what I want
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: to explain to you? What? Let me explain to you mann.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: We've had a lot of long conversations about this. It's
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: something that you when when was this? Why? Why are
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: you about the airport with my wife's with me? And
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: why is leaving with me? Okay? What we're leaving? And
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: what do you mean leaving? Leaving me? Oh? Hell no,
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: put it on the phone. And I don't even want
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: to talk to you, man. Put her on the phone.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Put her on the phone, man, and look, you need
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: to put her on the phone right now, leaving. I
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: don't believe that. Now. I want to hear her say
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: that you want to talk to me? Oh here, you're staying. Hey,
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: let me talk to my wife, man, because you you
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: feed maybe baby? Yeah, yeah, yeah, what's up? What's this
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: dude talking about to tell you this for a while,
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: so you think everything, but it hasn't been okay, Why
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: are you telling me this whole phone? What can't you
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: just come home and tell me this? Why can't you
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: just tell me this to my face? Hey? Hey, hey bro,
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: come on man, why are you my wife? Hey? Hey,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: hey bro? I know this is painful. Man. Now you
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: don't know, you don't know nothing, but I noticed, okay,
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: the ladies, I just put my wife on the phone.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: If you if you got any ounce of a man,
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: and you just put my wife's back on the phone.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: All right, bro? Let me, let me let me say,
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: let me, can I say something to you man? Sitement
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: it was less my wife on the phone, but you
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: ain't got to tell me. I'm gonna put it on
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: in the second. But let me say this to you man,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: say man and wrap it up like because I need
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: to talk to my wife. I just want you to
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: know this, Brian, this is let me. This is nephew
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mare that show got me
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: to prank phone call you what you hold on? So?
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: So okay, if you point to me, what's up with
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: the airport and stuff? In the back. Then when y'all
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: at the airport, No, bro, your wife is here at
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: the studio. Man, ain't not happening. Man, your wife hold on,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you talk about you all right. First
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: of all, are you all right? Man? Oh man? It
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: was about to be a murder sing man. Look at now,
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: who's a big price? I got you? Finally you could
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: have been a little bit more. You and y'allo your brother.
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: You think y'all the only ones can prank. People say
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: you and your brother be pranking all the time. Man, Man,
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: this is life stuff though. Girl you are happy birthday baby?
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: Oh you got a birthday coming up. Happy birthday, Brian.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: This yeah, man, looking great? Gifts great? Yeah, man, Let
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: me tuck my wife. Man, I got ain't got no dude,
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: your wife hold on, please? But what woman? You got me?
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: All right? Don't don't you ain't gotta go this far?
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: All right? Every time supposed to be funny. I did
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: feel man kind of started tearing up. But I'm glad
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: to know you fight for me like that fight. It
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: was gonna be some fights. It wasna oh girl, just hey,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: bring your black don't even stop at red like like
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: I feel bad. I didn't know he's gonna start crying
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: like man, I feel a little bad about that part. Okay,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: Tom you should hey dog, I love this girl right
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: here't do she even? Hey? Man? But if you any
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: cowpoint that wan get tense right now? Yeah, they get
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: ten Sound like I were leaving in fifteen minutes. Man,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: sound effects. That's what sound effect? Okays after that, no
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: matter what's right, Steve? Yeah, yeah, probably this weekend. Ye
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: come on, Tommy ten seconds, Dothan, Alabama. Come see me.
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: Don't whoop my head, just come see me. Appreciate you.
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: I'm next Strawberry letter. Thank you, fh you subject. My
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: wife is way to relax. Now we'll get into it
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to morning show. Well, it's
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
• 53:36
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• 53:48
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• 53:53
  Speaker 1: on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, uh so let's
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: let's go buck it up. Hold on tight, we got
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: it for you. Here it is berry letta thank you nephew.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: This one says the subject, My wife is way too
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: relaxed now, Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married for twenty
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: four years and my marriage started out great. My wife
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: was beautiful and kept herself up, and that was what
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: attracted me to her. We started a business together after
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: we got married, and it was hugely successful, mostly because
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: of my wife's sacrifices. She started putting the business in
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: front of our family, and she neglected a lot of
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: her responsibilities to me and her children. As the years
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: went by. My wife also failed to be intimate with
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: me and we went for almost a year without sex.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: I should say that she went a year without sex
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: because I ended up getting my needs met by another woman,
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: which resulted in me having an outside child. This shook
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: my wife to the core and it was a wake
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: up call for her. Temporarily, she vowed to be more
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: present with me and make sex a priority. Well, now
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: that she has changed her schedule and is paying more
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: attention to me, she has really started to let herself go.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: She is home for most of the day now, and
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: when I get home, she's still in her pajamas, which
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: aren't very sexy, and she hasn't done her hair or
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: showered some days. She does not clean up often, and
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: she rarely cooks. We will be watching TV and a
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: sexy woman will come on the screen and she will
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: look over at me to see my reaction, and sometimes
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: she comments, there's your type of girl or a woman
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: right there. I don't know what's going on with her,
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: but she's way to relax and I feel like I'm
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: married to one of my buddies. I want my sexy,
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: ambitious wife back, but I do feel a certain amount
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: of guilt for turning her into someone different. How can
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: I fix my marriage and get my wife back to normal?
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: Help me? Well, I'm glad you said that that you
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: feel a certain amount of guilt, because you should feel
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: a certain an amount of guilt. And mister selfish, because
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: you just talk about, you know, the things your wife
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: doesn't do for you in this letter, I don't see
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: anywhere in here where you you know, feel what your
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: wife has gone through the the you mentioned the word sacrifice,
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: but what she has put into building your business and
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: making it successful, you said it was hugely because of her.
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's you wrote the letter from
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: how it makes you feel. And that's just a selfish
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: way to look at this. And yes, take a lot
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: of responsibility and guilt for changing your wife in this
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: situation you had an outside child. I mean, come on, really,
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: I mean to me, your wife needs to get back
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: to work. She was in her element when she was
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: building the business and making those kind of sacrifices. She
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: had purpose, she had a reason to live. She was thriving.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: You know, she was being herself. She was doing what
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: she loved. I think the issue here is besides you,
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: is your wife didn't have a balance. You know, a
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: lot of there are a lot of working women who
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: keep it together and do all those things you know,
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: and and still have sex with their husbands. But your
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: wife seems like an all or nothing person. She put
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: all she had into the business, building the business, and
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: then you know when she came home, she didn't have
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: a lot to give I suppose, So you know, those
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: were two extremes. So her sweet spot needs to be,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: you know, finding that balance where she can work and
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: do her thing, because she's got to work, because that
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: gives her life, that gives her energy. She she loves
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: doing that. That's where she can be who she is
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: and and then you know, trying to make your marriage work.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: But it's not a problem just for your wife. You
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: have a lot, a lot, lot to do with this situation.
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: It doesn't even seem like you were really helping her
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: in the bid business that much. You know, you said
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: it was mostly because of her. I keep saying that
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: because of her sacrifices. What did you do? What did
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: you sacrifice? You know? Can you cook? Can you clean?
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Can you hire somebody to do these things? I mean
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: it sounds like your wife was doing everything and you're
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: just sitting back being critical of what she's not doing
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: for you. So, you know, if you want this marriage
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: to work, I think you're gonna have to make some sacrifices, now,
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: you know that's what I think. You need to make
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: some sacrifices and let your wife know how much you
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: appreciate her and the things that she did for the
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: business and for this marriage. I mean, she's only one person.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: She can't do it all. Steve, you're a problem upset
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: with this guy. You know, you've been married twenty four years.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: No marriage is the same after twenty four years. Same
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: thing it took to get your babyhooked, he's gonna take
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: the same thing to keep her. Somebody stopped doing something,
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: and I think it was both of y'all. My wife
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: was built, utiful and kept herself up, and that's what
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: attracted me. We started a business together after we got married,
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: and it was hugely successful, mostly because of my wife's sacrifices.
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: Did you hear what you just typed? You all started
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: a business together and it was hugely successful, And you
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: said mostly because of my wife's sacrifices, meaning she gave
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: up and put in the most to make the business work.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: She started putting the business in front of our family,
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: and she elected a lot of her responsibility to me
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: and our children over the years as it went by.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, so now now you building a case for
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: writing a letter. You said, she sacrificed to hugely build
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: a business, which means she did more than you. And
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: then you say, she started putting the business in front
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: of your family, and the elected a lot of her
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: responsibility to me and our children. Now you want the
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: business built, You want the money. That sounds like some
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: a man was say to a woman. Now you want
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: me to build his business bringing his money home? Feed
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: you had he gross you up in here? You want
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: me sitting around the house watching TV. Which all but
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: you got the script flipped on you. When I come back,
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what else it's wrong. All right, Steve,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: thank you. We'll have part two of your response coming
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour, subject my
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: wife is way to relax. Now we'll get back into
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. Subject my
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: wife is way to relax Now, well she's relaxed hers.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: You and your wife been married twenty four years. Ain't
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: nothing the same after twenty four years. My wife was
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: beautiful and kept herself up, and this was attracted me
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: to her. Now, let me make a statement, sir, I
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: promise you you don't look like you did twenty four
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 1: years ago. I give you my word on that. I
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: promise you you don't look just like you did twenty
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: four years ago. We started the business together, we got married.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: It was hugely successful, mostly because of my wife's sacrifices. Okay,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: so you admitted that your wife gave up the most
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: and did the most. It was her success, her sacrifices
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: that made the business huge. She started putting it. Now
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: hear why you started building the case for writing a letter, say,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: I know when me and making turn. She started putting
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: the business in front of our family, and she elected
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: a lot of her responsibilities to me and our children
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: as the years went back. Really, dog, now you want
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: the business, you want the successful life, or you want
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: her at the home, cooking and taking kids to soccer, practicing,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: and and and and banging you to you, to you,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: to you, just sitting over there like a dishrag well, pardner.
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: My wife also failed to be intimate with me, and
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: we went for almost a year without sex. Hold up, dog,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: if you go, don't go a year without having sexually
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: there at your wife. That ain't just your wife fault. Dog,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: that ain't your wife's fault. I can promise you man
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: that UDN did something. Man, UDN did something. Dog, not
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: to move the sex and needle in your house. You've
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: been sitting around powding. But you say for about a
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: year and then you said hold on because this high
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: I know that it got tricky. I should say that
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: she went a year without sex because I ended up
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: getting my kneeds met by another woman. Okay, excuse so
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: it was a year. It wasn't a year before you
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: started having sex. It was earlier. Because you say me
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: and my wife went a year without having sex, I
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: should say she went a year because you've been started
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: seeing this other chick. Dog, you did that before the
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: year was up. But you didn't think Uncle Steve was
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: gonna spot that in the letter because I ended up
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: having my kneeds met by another woman, which resulted in
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: me having an outside child. Oh you stupid, Oh you stupid,
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: you out there. It ain't gonna raincoat on? Is you tripping? Man? Now?
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: And now when you did had a sex after year,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: you don't put your wife's health at risk. Oh man,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: this ain't looking good. You shouldn't have wrote me though.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: This shook my wife to the car and it was
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: a wake up call for her. What way? Hold up? Dog?
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: What did you say? This shook my wife to the car.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: You crushed her and it was a wake up call
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: for her, like nine nine nine, that's what you get?
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: What dog? You're stupid man. You've been married twenty four
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: years and this is what you didn't learn. You're stupid.
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: Very uh in a wake up for hall call for
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: her temporarily, she vowed to be more present with me
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: and make sex a priority. Oh all this was causing her,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: y'all you're for real? Are you for real? Man? Well,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: now that she has changed her schedule and it's paying
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: more intention to me, she has really started to let
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: herself go. She is home most of the time of
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: the day now, and when I get home, she's stealing
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: her pajamas, which ain't very sexy. She ain't done her
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: hair or shower. Some days, she does not clean up off,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: and she rarely cooks. We'll be watching TV. Hold hold
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: of Dog. You crushed a woman. You crushed her, man,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: You took her spirit, You cheated on after she's sacrificing
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: Bill Charles business. Then you made that sacrifice the reason
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: she neglected you, the children and the family, and which
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: made that the reason that you went out and got
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: the other chick, which is the reason you had another baby.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: And then when she tried to steal hold the marriage together,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: she was crushed. So now she at the house where
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: you won't her. But now you're talking about she don't
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: shower someday she crushed man. She don't clean up off
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: and then she rarely cooks. We'll be watching TV and
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: a sexy woman walk cross the screen. She looked over
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: me and see my reaction and sometimes comments that show
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: type of woman right there. Yeah, you know why because
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: she waiting on you to do it again. She waiting
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: so now hold up, so now, so now this one
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet. I'm willing to bet now that
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: she at home and won't cook and clean. You haven't
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: probably got another chick. Wow. Yeah, it's her fault because
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: she got her the Jamazon. But you know why she
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: got a jamazone and at the house all day because
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: you crushed her. Dudes, kill me man, after we do
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: something to a woman. Yeah, we don't understand her reaction.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: Now she's sitting up looking at time about that's probably
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: your woman too, But she and I know it's I
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: don't know what's going on with her. You don't know
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: what's going on with her. Flushed her. You took her
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: dreams from her. She built the business and sacrifice for
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: her and her family and find out you don't want
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: her to have another baby. So if you don't want me,
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: when I'm getting sexy phone and y'all still ain't having
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: set because you're screwing somebody else, Pardner. I don't know
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: what's going on her, but she waged too relaxed, and
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: I feel like I'm married to one of my buddies.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: I want my sexy, ambitious wife back. She probably want
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: her sexy ambitious husband back. Remember you didn't sacrifice for
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: the business. So now she got some low level, low
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: ass ambition playboy sitting at her house. She probably won't
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: the huffing back. She thought she had a man. You
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have wrote me, dog, You really shouldn't a dog.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: We gotta go. Thank you, Steve. You can leave your
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: comments on today's letter at Instagram, at Steve Harvey FM,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: up in ten minutes. We'll have more relationship questions for you,
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey right after this. You're
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: listening show, all right, Steve? So um, you're our Chief
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: Love Officer CLO. So you know, yes, yes, people email
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: us and they want relationship questions from you. So earlier
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: we heard from Showanna and Dallas who wanted to know
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: is that okay for a woman to propose to a man.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Now this one comes from Birmingham. But there's no name
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: attached to this one. It's anonymous and you'll see why
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: in a second. It says I'm a side chick and
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: I know it, but I think I should get the
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: same treatment as the wife. We have a two year
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: old daughter together, so I'm not going anywhere. Why can
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: I get the same benefits his wife gets? CLO, you're
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: up cause you de side chick. Why do you, who
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: have a child with this man and all the side
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: chick not get the same benefits as his wife Cause
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: you ain't the wife. You was the side chick and
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: you steal leaves the side chick. Let me explain something,
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: ladies about him that you're not going to all. Men
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: don't give promotions. Oh once what you are? Men don't
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: give promotions. You are what you are when we hire you.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: That there's no promotions when we hire you. If you
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: are hired as the side chick, you're not fitting to
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: be the wife. You are the side chick. That's it.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: And the reason he not gonna treat you the same
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: is cause you ain't ever been the same. He bought
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: you no house, he didn't got you pregnant, and you're
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: y'all didn't had a baby. Why can't I get it?
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: You ain't because you're not her. You're not her, You're
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: not missus, you miss you the side chick. You went
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: in as the number two. Men don't give promotions now,
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. You can start off as a girlfriend,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: eventually become a fiance and the wife. But at one
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: point you are the number one. See if he asked
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: you to be his fiance, you number one. If he
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: never asked you to be his fiance, evil, you could
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: be one of the ones until we ask you to
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: marry us you might not, or if you're dating, you
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: can be the one. But just know this, if you're
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: the side chick, you will die the side. Hello. All right,
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: we have more questions for you, Steve, coming up at
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: the time the hour. Well, we have more have more
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: questions for our Chief Love Officer. Relationship questions coming up
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour right after this. You're listening, Steve.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: This is from Cynthia and Maryland. She addresses you as
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: mister CLO, Chief Love Officer. W you are? She says,
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: I am a mature single woman and I think you
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: should do a single's cruise or your single listeners and fans.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: She says, we can mix and mingle at sea, and
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: we can call the cruise the love boot. You would
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: you consider this, Noah, because I got a couple of
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: questions when you say I'm a single, mature woman and
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: you want to mix and mingle and call it the
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: love boat. Howl? Yes, don't nobody remember the love boat?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: Don't nobody remember the Julie? Listen to me. Old people
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: on a cruise ship a fun. Here's a problem because
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: you gotta stay out there a week. You can't get
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: away from the ass. Now you can come to saying
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: this soul. There's a lot of single people are saying
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: this soul that way. If you see them that look
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: them down there on the beach, go to other way
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: on the cruise ship. You gotta walk that way, because
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: that's why the buffet on the problem. You can't You
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: can't escape nobody on a cruise ship. So no, I'm
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: not gonna do a single with him me and then
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: I'm married. How much fun that's gonna be for me?
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: Y'all out there single in meanland, Me and Marge. You're
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: sitting around taking pictures. Excuse me, Tommy did you really
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: want to say that I can't get away on cruise.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you walk away from your wife for a minute too.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: You know, we came in the cab where everybody asking
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: you at the time, it just didn't sound right because
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: he talked about you can't get with me a wife,
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: and we talked about to see. Yes, that's what I'm
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: asking you. Do you really mean to say this stuff
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: you and your wife allowed where people can hear you? Crazy?
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: My wife knowing work, Shirley, stupid, he says. Stupid mans
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: don't work. Yeah, Sully, that's that's what Junior is exactly right.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: Stupid mans don't work when they're supposed to keep after
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: he mean and saying yes. But he just doesn't think
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: before he says things as a married man though. That's
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: what I'm does key words. He doesn't think, Yeah, yeah,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: Do you want me to think about what I'm gonna
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: say before I say it? Right there? Well, I mean
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: when it pertains to your marriage. Yes, no, no, no, Tommy,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: I think you should continue to just just as surprised
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: as everybody else. You go, that's it, right, Then you're
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: encouraging Yes, yes, keep surprising us, including yourself. Yes, yes,
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: that logic, right, there is just what we need. So
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: now we won't be doing a single crew for old people.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: You got any more courses of that shit? Okay? This one?
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: This one is from June from Ohio. She didn't say where.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: She just wants to know how soon, Steve, should I
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: introduce my new man to my four kids? First of all,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: how old are they? Secondly, well, now I think they
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: ranged in ages. I think she said from ten to seventeen. Well,
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: if you're gonna introduce your new man's who it is,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: it's a little bit late for this. I mean, obviously
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: you've claimed them as your man. You need to hear them,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: introduce them to the kids so they can get a
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: feel for each other. Because you are now what's called
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: a package. You are a package deal. Now, after man
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: really loves you, he comes, he knows that these children
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: come with the package. There's nothing wrong with having kids.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: I'm gating a man. It's just a man has to
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: understand the most real men get it comes with a package.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: Ain't know. Hey, hey, I don't want all them kids
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: around us, these hawkeys. So immediately, all right, you've done it.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: Now he's your man. You want you make the claim
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 1: you got to introduce Okay, all right, Chief Love Officer
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: putting it down Today it today, Though we'll be back.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: We might have one more for you, Steve, coming up
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: on the se Morning Show. More questions, more music, more
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: everything in twenty minutes right after you're listening, Steve, We've
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: been just sprinkling questions for you throughout the morning from
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 1: our listeners who want to ask you relationship questions. As
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: the CLO the Chief Love Officer, here's our last question
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: of the day. Uh. This one comes from I think
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 1: her name is uh Sharon, Yeah, I was from Chicago
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: U and says, I know you've got lots of these letters,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: but I would really like your help. She says, I
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: just want to find happiness with a man. I know
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: a man can't make me happy, but sometimes I get lonely.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: I want to find my best friend who can love
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: me as much as I love him. Can you please
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: give me any advice or suggestions? And then she also
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: asks his nephew Tommy single. No, you wouldn't know it
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: from this show, but he's actually he's actually got some
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: sense after dumba has stuff, he said, But yes, why
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: you don't know that by now? Is even more amazing. Well, Sharon,
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: here's a deal. You kindly said a contradictory statement. I
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: want you to be careful of every word that comes
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: out of your mouth, because where does it come out
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: of your mouth for the things that you are attracting
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: to yourself. So you said, I want to find happiness,
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: and then she said I know a man can't make
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: me happy. Yeah, she did say that. She says, I
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: know a man can't make me happy, but sometimes I
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: get lonely. You have to change what you say. When
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: we come back, I'm gonna give you an example, and
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: what a suggestion for you. Okay, we'll be back with
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: more questions for the close. But on the radio is
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: sad right after this. You're listening all right, Steve, you're
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 1: on your last question. It's from Sharon out of Chicago. Uh,
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 1: I got one from ray Nod. Ray Nod got a
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: question man off. Oh Jessie. She says she wants to
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: find happiness with the man, but she knows a man
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: can't make her happy, but she gets lonely sometimes she
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: wants a best friend who can love her as much
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: as she loves him. And it is Nephew Tommy's single
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: she threw that nephew, Tommy isn't a single stop looking
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: for man. The Bible says, when a man finds a wife,
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 1: he finds a good thing. Have you ever thought of
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 1: asking God for the man and then asking God to
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: share with you the things you need to do to
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: attract the man you're looking for? A lot of times
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: when you ask God for something, you haven't prepared yourself
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: to receive it. So the thing that you're asking God for,
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: you have to make sure that you're the person that
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: would be able to receive the thing that you're asking
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: him for. You can't ask this God for this wonderful
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: man if you ain't a wonderful woman. So you got
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: to ask God what are you doing wrong? And ask
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: God to send you the man that's for you and
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: to help prepare you to receive it. Go ahead, Ray now, okay, yeah,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: let me read this from Ray Reynard is married. He
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: say his number two, then found out about a number
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: three and now three and two is threatening to call
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: number one and Raynard wants to figure out how to
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: keep out the number and not lose Now one up, well,
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: Raynard wants one, two and three. Yeah, Ray, now you're
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: in the world of trouble because two and three is
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: five and if they get together and call number one, man,
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: you have a serious problem on your hands. Yard. So
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: I would suggest to you, if you want to hold
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: on to number one, let it just be a number one.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: That's my strong suggestion to you who keep losing it. Yeah,
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: Raynard and Ka Tommy sound like yeah, oh boy? Okay, listen,
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: I have a quick question for you as we go
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: to break, and it will be our last break of day.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: By the way, which of these NBA players have never
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: played in March Madness? Check this out? Is it a
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: Michael Jordan's b u Stefan Curry or see Lebron James
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 1: Lebron never played in March Madness? Lebron Lebron? Jay? Why
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: you ask him? Question? Sir went straight on? I can
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  Speaker 1: ask him? Did you guys? You guys? Yeah, well you
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  Speaker 1: know why it's hard. Moses Malone ain't never played in one.
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  Speaker 1: Haven't got Thatt ain't played in one? Kevin Garnett ain't
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  Speaker 1: ever played in one? Don kill you guys know your sports? Okay?
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  Speaker 1: Who all right? Coming up our last break of the
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  Speaker 1: day and some closing remarks from the one and only
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: Here we are last break of the day. It's been
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  Speaker 1: a good day, um on this Wednesday. Yeah, hop day.
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  Speaker 1: We got through it, Yeah, got through it. Yeah. So see,
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  Speaker 1: if you want to impart some wisdom on us as
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  Speaker 1: we leave, well, I think I should talk about dreams
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  Speaker 1: because it's such a major component to your success. Dreams
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  Speaker 1: are such an important component to success. You can't underplay dreams. See,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Education is necessary for certain
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  Speaker 1: fields and professions. You want to be a doctor, a lawyer,
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  Speaker 1: a dentist, a pilot, a scientist, a teacher. Education is
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  Speaker 1: so necessary for many professions in this world. But there
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  Speaker 1: is nothing, and I repeat, there is nothing more important
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  Speaker 1: than your dreams. Your dreams have value. Your dreams wake
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  Speaker 1: you up in the morning. The dreams give you hope.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'm not saying education doesn't do that. But
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  Speaker 1: education don't wake you up in the morning. It's what
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  Speaker 1: you dream and hope of becoming with the education that
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  Speaker 1: wakes you up. It is your dream that causes you
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  Speaker 1: to even get an education. If you want to fly
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  Speaker 1: a plane and that's your dream, your dream will cause
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  Speaker 1: you to do the things necessary to accomplish the dream.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I tell people educators in all, if we
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  Speaker 1: spent more time talking to our children in our school
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  Speaker 1: system about their dreams and visions, we could reduce the
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  Speaker 1: dropout rate. But what we're doing is we keep talking
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  Speaker 1: to kids about the education, and we're not talking about
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  Speaker 1: the kids for the reason for the education. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: get your education, because you got to finish school. Finish
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  Speaker 1: school for what we have got to take time out
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  Speaker 1: to talk about their dreams and visions. I tell parents
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  Speaker 1: all the time. If you're not talking to your kids
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  Speaker 1: about dreams every ninety days, that's a mistake. Man, that's
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  Speaker 1: a mistake because young people change more often than you think.
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  Speaker 1: But if you're not revamping your dreams every ninety days
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  Speaker 1: as an adult, you're making a mistake because guess what
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  Speaker 1: you change also now you know may not change as
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  Speaker 1: often as your children, because you become a little bit
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  Speaker 1: more subtle when you're older. But you've got to refurbish
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  Speaker 1: these dreams. You gotta dust them off. You gotta keep
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  Speaker 1: reminding yourself or what the purpose is, because the dream
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  Speaker 1: provides purpose. You wake up in the morning because of
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  Speaker 1: what you dream to be. You get excited when the
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  Speaker 1: lawn clock get our goals off because of what you
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  Speaker 1: dream to be. Man, don't let nobody fool you. Now,
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  Speaker 1: listen to me. I'm gonna say this again. Education is
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  Speaker 1: important and it's critical to certain things in life, but
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  Speaker 1: you can actually make it in this world without one. Now,
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  Speaker 1: do you need to have some basics under your belt?
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  Speaker 1: I strongly suggest you do. And I'm not saying at
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  Speaker 1: all that you don't need school, because you do. School
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  Speaker 1: offers you a way to become well rounded. That's the
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  Speaker 1: thing that school does for you a great deal. It
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  Speaker 1: not only educates you, it gives you social skills. It
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  Speaker 1: teaches you how to be well rounded. It teaches you
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  Speaker 1: now to adapt, It teaches you the tool of memorization.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm not knocking it at all. But what I
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  Speaker 1: am saying to you, if you are like me in
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  Speaker 1: any way and you just not a school person, what
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  Speaker 1: you gonna do? You can still be something. If you've
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  Speaker 1: blown your education opportunity in life, you can still be something.
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  Speaker 1: If you just don't feel like you can do school again,
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  Speaker 1: you can still be something. Because the scripture says a
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  Speaker 1: man without a dream or vision shall perish. I'm old
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  Speaker 1: the Bible inside out. I don't know if I didn't
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  Speaker 1: go to theology school anything, so I can't quote it
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  Speaker 1: like people can oftentimes. But I don't really don't recall
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  Speaker 1: ever going to Sunday School or any service I've ever
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  Speaker 1: been to and read a scripture about how necessary your
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  Speaker 1: education was. But I have seen repeatedly that a man
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  Speaker 1: without a dream or vision shall perish. See the reason
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  Speaker 1: you'll die without the dream of the vision, because without
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  Speaker 1: the dream of the vision, you'll give up hope. You've
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  Speaker 1: heard so many people saying, keep hope alive because it's necessary.
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  Speaker 1: The dream, the vision. What you see for yourself, your
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  Speaker 1: hope for tomorrow, that impossible thing that nobody else can
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  Speaker 1: see except you, that thing that floats around in your imagination,
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  Speaker 1: that keeps pushing you to make you think that's something
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  Speaker 1: out there other than this. For me, If you wake
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  Speaker 1: up in the morning and you keep saying yourself, man,
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  Speaker 1: that's got to be more to my life than this,
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  Speaker 1: that's because it is. That's because it is. Your visions
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  Speaker 1: and dreams are out there. And let me tell you
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  Speaker 1: something else. You got to make your dreams and visions
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  Speaker 1: so big, so big that it causes you to overcome
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  Speaker 1: all of your fears. See the fear of failures in
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  Speaker 1: number one cause of failure in this country, because people
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  Speaker 1: are afraid to fail. But you have to have dreams
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  Speaker 1: and visions so big that it just overcomes all of
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  Speaker 1: your fears. You've got to want something so big, so
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  Speaker 1: dynamic to happen in your life. Man, that you've got
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  Speaker 1: to make this happen, and the fear is secondary to
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  Speaker 1: all of it, and it will cause you to push through.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to dream of something so outstanding that in
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  Speaker 1: order for it to have to in order for it
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  Speaker 1: to happen, you absolutely have to have God's help. If
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  Speaker 1: you're dreaming of only stuff that you can accomplish yourself,
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  Speaker 1: I got news for you. You ain't dreaming big enough.
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  Speaker 1: Start dreaming big. Increase your dreams. They would change your life.
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  Speaker 1: It would change your perspective. It will cause your hope
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  Speaker 1: to grow. All right, those are my closing remarks. All right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: All right, yes y'all have a good with hey, and
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  Speaker 1: can I say, have a great week here for all Steve.
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