Latest / The Virtual Couch / Entrepreneur, Podcaster, Writer or D) All of the Above - Zlatko Bijelic On Taking What Life Gives You
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- 0:00Music.
- 0:21Hey everybody, welcome to a very special bonus episode of The Virtual Couch. It is
- 0:26episode 368, I believe, but I'm gonna try to do something a little bit unique here.
- 0:31I want to start airing more bonus episodes and the reason I have some bonus episodes, I think there's a life principle here and that is when you find
- 0:40yourself a little bit overworked or overwhelmed and you keep saying that I'll get to things later, then it is absolutely okay to reach out and ask for
- 0:50help. So I have for some reason edited all the podcasts myself and I've tried to book
- 0:55everything myself and I don't know if it was more of a wanting to being a cheapskate or
- 1:00if it was just not really wanting to almost like inconvenience or burden someone else
- 1:04by offering them a job in a sense. But once I asked for help and have a wonderful assistant
- 1:10Naomi who is helping book podcasts and then I have a couple of my daughters that are helping
- 1:15edit podcasts. It is phenomenal when you can just reach out to somebody and say,
- 1:21hey, we'd love to have you on the show and Naomi can set that up. And then when I'm done recording,
- 1:26I can hand that over to one of my daughters to edit. And then you can keep doing all the
- 1:30other things, writing and creating and seeing clients and all those wonderful things.
- 1:35And I've talked about this in the past too. I think this has to do with one of the principles
- 1:39of acceptance and commitment therapy that if you're doing something just because you think
- 1:42you have to, or you should, or you're going to.
- 1:45This is what you're supposed to do. It's called a socially compliant goal, and your motivation
- 1:50will be weak and ineffective because it goes against your own process of unfolding and
- 1:54becoming. And so the things like the editing, while it's fun, it's okay, it can take me a
- 1:58long time. And the booking of guests, I will get to that later. And as we've talked about
- 2:03in previous episodes around the world of ADHD, there are two timeframes, now or later. So if
- 2:09I don't do it now, I'll do it later. And later doesn't happen until it becomes now. So I think.
- 2:13I think I've missed out on some really good interview opportunities in the past by scheduling
- 2:17them later, which sometimes means not at all. So, then by asking for help and having people
- 2:23that are good at things like organization or people that really just find the editing
- 2:27process satisfying or people handing out things like accounting and bookkeeping that they're
- 2:33actually people that like numbers and math and those kind of things, that then in that
- 2:38world you free yourself up to do more of the things that you really enjoy or what matter
- 2:41to you. So, that's a way to say that I have a lot, not a lot, I have more than I have
- 2:46had in the past of interviews that are starting to get backed up. And I am just not, sometimes
- 2:51I'll get asked to go on a podcast and they'll say, okay, this one's coming out in four months.
- 2:55And I don't know, a lot can happen in four months and maybe that's just the world I live
- 2:58in because I want to talk about whatever the latest therapeutic principle is or things
- 3:02that I'm seeing in my office or I want to talk to people that I'm honestly thinking
- 3:06about in the realm of what's going on now. So I've been doing more interviews and I want
- 3:11to get them out. I want to do more bonus content. So today's episode is with a friend of mine
- 3:16named Z, Zlotko, and he is just a fascinating individual. So we talk about a lot of things
- 3:22today. He's done a lot of things. He has some real, I think very, I want to say unique thoughts
- 3:29around doing, but it's funny if you really break them down, not to do a spoiler alert
- 3:33but he creates apps. He owns an ad agency. He does business coaching. He does a whole lot of things.
- 3:40But some of the apps he's created are just because he just sees a problem. Actually,
- 3:44pretty much all the things he creates, he sees a problem and he says, I'd like to fix that.
- 3:49And he fixes it. He's not trying to see, okay, what can I do that will get the most,
- 3:53people engaged or that people will want to buy the most of so that I will make a lot of money?
- 3:58He says, I want to do things that I want to do. And then I'm going to put them out there and I'm
- 4:02and I'm gonna put a lot of content out there and then I think that eventually people
- 4:06are gonna find things that they like that I do and maybe they'll like other things that I do.
- 4:10And so really just kind of creating, I know it can sound a bit cliched,
- 4:13but in essence, this brand around just who he is. and he talks about.
- 4:17Becoming a different person throughout his life. We're going to talk about journaling, which I, as a therapist, I highly recommend, but I am a bit of a hypocrite and that I don't do.
- 4:27And then you have somebody like Z that's going to talk about his journey of journaling and why and writing and that's been pretty fascinating. And when he and I first really started talking together.
- 4:35We were just both on this accountability train of where accountability doesn't have to be so scary just to say, oh, my bad. Yeah, I did that or I didn't mean to do that.
- 4:45But also just trying to be more consistent and say here are the things that I can do or that I can't do.
- 4:52But let's get to the interview. So here's a special bonus episode.
- 4:55So the only things I'll do to promote the things that I'm doing, maybe just go to the show notes and there's a link,
- 5:00called linktree. or it's link.tree or something like that, slash virtual couch.
- 5:06And it will have all the links to the latest episodes and podcasts and courses and newsletters and all those things. So I would love it if you would just stop by there
- 5:14and take a look. Oh, and if you could take a look in the show notes as well, I'm going to have a link to
- 5:20something that Zee has put together since the time that we recorded this interview, just in the last couple of weeks.
- 5:25And it is a 30-day writing challenge. In essence, it's a little mini course that he has prompts and examples, but
- 5:34I think it's a real kickstarter to really help you,
- 5:37Learn the power of writing daily writing journaling So check that out in the show notes and you'll see a link to his his course or his mini course about
- 5:46about the journaling. So, with that said, let's get to this interview with my friend Zee.
- 5:51Music.
- 5:57Here we go. On your mark, get set. Let's podcast. Go. Okay. What a joy. This has been a long time in the making
- 6:07literally because we tried to do this a year or so ago and I feel like the behind the scenes of podcasting Z is I did not
- 6:13bring my A game to a particular interview and you were very gracious and kind. So, here we are. Well, I think the timing
- 6:20was just a little bit off and I think you and I both figured out like, hey, this is just not the right time at the moment.
- 6:26Mind. So I think this is where we're at right now, man.
- 6:28It is exactly right. So all right, my good friend, and someone that I've been working with, I guess, in the role of
- 6:35mentor, slash, coach, kind of a vibe for a couple of years, right? That's it. You know that I've, I've just called you Z
- 6:44for so long that I don't know if I even know exactly how to pronounce your last name.
- 6:49You don't need to it's Z. Okay, I love it.
- 6:52That's Z. That's the brand. Can you please do me the honor of telling my guests,
- 6:57my audience on the virtual couch, a little bit about you. And then we have so many things that we can talk about.
- 7:02You're a very impressive person and you have given me full reign
- 7:06to then kind of go in any direction I want.
- 7:08And oh my gosh, we've got a million directions we can go. So Z, who are you?
- 7:12This is gonna be very hard to not go down crazy rabbit holes.
- 7:15So I'm really- I'm counting on us going on a couple of them.
- 7:18Yeah, so my name is Z, Zlatko. So I do a few different things.
- 7:26I run a couple of different agencies. One is a service agency.
- 7:30We help e-commerce clients, merchants set up their stores, sell products online, do,
- 7:36the kind of branding, design, development, all of those things.
- 7:40Anybody that's on Shopify, that's who we help, which is majority of the market at this point.
- 7:45And I also over the past year and a half started another agency where we actually build products.
- 7:52So we build software products on a very small level, nothing enterprise, and we just solve,
- 7:57you know, one of a kind problems across different marketplaces.
- 8:01And along with that comes with comes, you know, a newsletter comes a podcast, I have
- 8:06my own podcast called What is my brain.
- 8:09And then I have also...
- 8:11What else do I have? Man, so many different things, but that's kind of the gist of it.
- 8:17I write a lot on social media as well. That's pretty much the other part of it is
- 8:23that I write a lot on like Twitter and LinkedIn.
- 8:25Those are my two main outlets where I just kind of drop my thoughts about creating a personal brand,
- 8:31being a creator online, and entrepreneurship as a whole because I've been in this space for
- 8:37well over 12 years at this point.
- 8:39So that's kind of the summary of where I'm at, what I'm involved with, what am I doing every day
- 8:44and that kind of stuff.
- 8:45Okay, so now I feel like I need to spin the wheel of where do we go next?
- 8:47Because I've got a few notes.
- 8:49And one of them is, so I've been doing the therapy coaching game for a long time.
- 8:54And I love that when I really learn how somebody ticks, you know, what makes somebody really get excited
- 9:00about waking up in the morning.
- 9:01And I feel like talking with you over the last two or three years, you really do have a gift, a couple of them.
- 9:08One of them is being able to take anyone's business or thought or idea and then being able to
- 9:15almost synthesize it and then add to it.
- 9:18And I remember when you would first just kind of start talking about ideas,
- 9:22and I used to think, how does one just have ideas about some product or business or area
- 9:29that they don't really know about?
- 9:30And so at first I thought, oh, I must school Z on the fact that he must find his lane.
- 9:36But then it's so interesting because I feel like This is one of those things where when somebody has that as a gift, it is their gift and I
- 9:41do not.
- 9:42So then I don't know what that's like. So talk about that. You have this ability to just make anything.
- 9:48I don't know.
- 9:49What is that? Yeah. So talk about being in the lane. I'm one of those people that you see swerving on the freeway when it comes to being in the
- 9:54lane and I go left and right the entire time. But honestly, I think Tony, for me, it's just been in just in real life when I'm walking
- 10:01around, doesn't matter what it is. I'm very observant.
- 10:04I look over my shoulder. I kind of know what things are going on at all times.
- 10:08And that also applies to sort of the online game as well.
- 10:12So whether it's me scrolling through Twitter or watching a YouTube video or watching a soccer
- 10:18game, whatever that might be, I'm constantly, I don't know if the right word is opportunistic
- 10:26or an opportunist, but it's one of these things where I automatically go into what is that?
- 10:33How did they do that? I started asking myself a lot of questions. And I think from those questions
- 10:38when curiosity kicks in, I immediately go into, well, how was that made?
- 10:43What was sort of the process to do that?
- 10:46And I think from that point forward, I just started going, oh, there's got to be a business
- 10:52thing for here or somebody's built a solution or a service or, you know, whatever that might be.
- 10:58And I think that curiosity, once it kicks in, that's why a lot of my stuff that I, whether
- 11:03I write or I talk about on my podcast is people leaning into their curiosity or just asking questions.
- 11:09I think for me, if I'm sitting at an airport and I see people walking around and somebody
- 11:14might be on their laptop, whatever, I immediately wonder, what is that guy up to?
- 11:17Or what is that girl up to? My mind is constantly running, but then for a while, I was like, man, it feels kind of
- 11:24weird just asking these questions.
- 11:26It's almost like you're like a nosy Rosie, but at the same time, I'm like, no, that's
- 11:31That's just my curiosity going into a thousand different directions, just being curious about
- 11:37somebody's situation and then not in a way of like.
- 11:40Doing investigative work, but in a way of I'm just interested in your life and what you have going on because it looks interesting.
- 11:47And that's literally where it comes from. So when people, you know, when I'm working with our clients, or I come up with an idea for a product, I immediately go into this gear where I'm like, Oh, well, I can build it and it's going to do this. And it's going to solve this problem.
- 12:02Or if I'm using an app or something, I immediately go into this.
- 12:06Why didn't they add this part? Like I'm missing like whether a feature or whatever.
- 12:11So I think it's a curiosity honestly that kicks in and it just sort of takes its own little path
- 12:17into whatever is gonna come out of that.
- 12:19It's a business opportunity and sometimes it's a product, sometimes it's just a thought.
- 12:23I write it down and I sometimes sit on it for a year, three months, six months, whatever it might be
- 12:28and I come back to it and be like, Damn, I had that thought four months ago or a year ago.
- 12:32That's crazy, I'm still asking those same questions.
- 12:36Yeah, and okay, and I like where you're going there too. I don't know if it's just your overall vibe or mannerism,
- 12:41but I think it doesn't sound like you are trying to tell somebody what they've done is wrong or bad.
- 12:46You have a particular version of curiosity that I feel like almost lends people to then say,
- 12:51yeah, yeah, I don't know, I hadn't thought about that versus the, well, what you don't understand is.
- 12:55Because even when we're talking and I'm supposedly coaching you,
- 12:58you know, you'll kind of turn things around and say, well, tell me about that. And how long have you been thinking that?
- 13:02Or, you know, and all of a sudden I find that's where I'll say, well, hang on, I'm supposed to be doing this for you. And.
- 13:07So I feel like it just seems very natural. How long has that happened for you? I mean, is there a Genesis story of where
- 13:12that goes back to.
- 13:14I don't know if there's an actual like a beginning to it, I think is just when I realized that
- 13:19when I actually started building my own path with like building my first business or whatever.
- 13:25That might be, I just always looked at things.
- 13:29I always say like I never care about peeking over the fence and looking what the next person is doing.
- 13:34Yes. Rolling with my own thought process or my own ideas.
- 13:38And I think from that, once you start looking over the fence too much and you start looking
- 13:42of what the next person you're constantly peeking over, you lose sight of whatever you're thinking about.
- 13:48And so for me, I was in sports all my life. You see somebody playing soccer a certain way, like how did they get that much better
- 13:56than this person or how they, you know, it's all these different things.
- 13:59And I think for me is when I started my first official business, which was a IT business
- 14:05back in, shit, man, I think it was probably in the 2009, 2010.
- 14:11And I was just at my parent's house, I was still basically a teen, but I enjoyed playing
- 14:15around with computers.
- 14:16And actually at age like 12, I think it was, I built my own computer.
- 14:21And to the point where somebody came and helped me to do the initial piece and I took the
- 14:25whole thing apart and I rebuilt it myself, not having like pictures of it or anything
- 14:30else and just, you know, let's tear this thing apart again and let's put it together and
- 14:34see if I can do it myself.
- 14:36I think at that point is when I take that story back because I think at that point I
- 14:40I realized I'm actually really interested in this.
- 14:43I'm not just, you know, somebody that's just, Oh, I want to do this for the hell
- 14:47of it, I actually just went with my curiosity.
- 14:49And I think once I started my first business and then I, you know, went ahead
- 14:53of the job and all these other things, I would just ask a million questions all the time.
- 14:57And then in like 2015, I started another business, which was a sock subscription service.
- 15:02And I always wondered, I was like, why is nobody making sock purchasing easier?
- 15:07Like the way that Apple makes it easier to buy a laptop or a phone or whatever.
- 15:11They give you one, two or three choices. They don't give you a thousand different choices.
- 15:15And I literally went and started a sock business based off of that idea.
- 15:18Hey, wait, talk about that. Because why socks? I'm curious.
- 15:22So I was working at AT&T as a retail sales consultant. And we have to wear basically uniforms.
- 15:28So you had a white shirt, blue shirt, whatever. There was only certain colors.
- 15:31You have to wear khakis. Everybody looked the same.
- 15:33And two things that I did, because it was customers are coming in because
- 15:37they're having problems with their phone.
- 15:39And every time somebody comes in, it's just like the whole spiel.
- 15:42Hey, how you doing this and that.
- 15:44And I figured out, I was like, man, I really enjoy wearing like colorful socks.
- 15:49Like I have a, my personal, like if anybody goes on my website right now,
- 15:52you see all these different colors. It's like very retro.
- 15:55I always had that as part of my personality, I'm very extroverted.
- 15:58And so when that happened, I was like, oh man, this is really, really cool.
- 16:03I get to show my personality in a very discreet way.
- 16:06I'm not wearing a big, bright pink shirt, but people will come by and my pants would
- 16:12be just a little bit higher off of my dress shoes.
- 16:15And they would be like, oh, cool socks. And it would break the ice immediately.
- 16:19And so in my mind, I was like, oh man, this is kind of cool.
- 16:22It's like a fashion statement, but it's not so loud. It's not a, like I said, pink shirt or pink pants or whatever else it is.
- 16:31It's more discreet.
- 16:32But when somebody sees it, they're almost like.
- 16:34Already know that they can be like friends with you. It's like a psychological trick that everybody,
- 16:39no matter who it was, no matter what culture they were from or anything like that, they would just
- 16:45see that and go, I want to, I want to talk to you about like, they felt like you were immediately
- 16:50friends with them. And I think it was just a, almost like an open door policy for somebody
- 16:54to talk to me about something other than their phone being broken. Well, and what I think is
- 16:58so fascinating about that is, I mean, I have a very strong sock game. I've had sock subscriptions
- 17:02that I then forgot about for months and months and then have a tremendous amount of socks.
- 17:07But I never thought about starting a sock subscription company.
- 17:10So there you are as an AT&T and you start wearing socks.
- 17:14I mean, I think that's the part where I feel like I don't even know if you know how cool that is.
- 17:17And so people that are listening that are entrepreneurs, oftentimes I feel like they think,
- 17:21oh, well, Z's incredibly wealthy parents must have handed him a dump truck full of money
- 17:25and he started a sock subscription, right?
- 17:29Farthest thing from it. You know how people say
- 17:31you're the first there's a first generation of like somebody graduating from college i'm the
- 17:35first generation in my family to actually start anything on my own like nobody in my family has
- 17:39ever started a business has never done anything everyone's already already kind of like worked
- 17:43for somebody else or worked at a company or whatever that might be in fact when i was working
- 17:47at&t my dad was working at&t as well in a different store so it was like that was always sort of his
- 17:53name was tom at&t like you were the son of right no hey real quick and i'm gonna get you back to
- 18:00to the stocks. Talk about your backstory. I mean, talk about your parents. I mean, that's,
- 18:03a pretty good story.
- 18:05So yeah, backstory. Originally, I was born in Bosnia at a very young age. I moved to
- 18:11Croatia because of the war in Bosnia. So I was born in 88 and...
- 18:14By the way, that's when I graduated high school. Z, did you know that? That's when I graduated
- 18:18high school. Yeah, that's, I don't know if that's in New York City or something.
- 18:21Oh, wow. That's amazing. you.
- 18:23I love it. Well, I wouldn't have thought that because your mindset is completely different than people that, you know,
- 18:29Oh, stop. There we go.
- 18:31Okay.
- 18:32Don't stop. No, no, don't stop. Okay. So, but in 88, yeah. Okay.
- 18:36Yeah. And so, yeah, my parents, you know, the war broke out. We ended up moving to Croatia because my grandparents had a house there.
- 18:43Stayed there for a couple of years. And then after that, we ended up moving to Germany because that was the only place that, you know, my parents can potentially get a job, make some money, all this.
- 18:52All this, but long story short, we're there for four years.
- 18:56They couldn't get permanent citizenship or residency there because there was.
- 19:00Just like laws were changing in Germany at the time.
- 19:02And then we had a, some sort of cousin family members, some underground way of
- 19:07getting to the U S which I have no idea. I still don't believe any of the stories that my parents tell me, but I'm just, I
- 19:12just roll with the punches.
- 19:14Uh, and so we came here and my parents came here to literally with one suitcase,
- 19:18Maybe two and a thousand dollars in cash with two kids.
- 19:23And so four of us total and literally started rebuilt their life from ground up.
- 19:27We had nothing when we got here. And so that's one point of where now, when anything happens to
- 19:32me or whatever I'm doing, I always use that as the humbling experience.
- 19:37And your problems are not bigger than what your parents had to go through.
- 19:41And all these other things, like you're very fortunate, whatever happens,
- 19:44there's going to be good.
- 19:45There's going to be bad, but that story always pulls me back a little bit and kind of like to think about it. So yeah,
- 19:51I'm sure that my parents, yeah, my parents got, you know, got good jobs and didn't know English and they were doing
- 19:57sales with no English, which is like, what the hell? And yeah,
- 20:02it's been crazy. It's been a crazy ride. We've been here since 97. So
- 20:06Wow. So then okay, so now back to AT&T, and then you like your
- 20:10socks. And then what causes you to say I will start a sock subscription business.
- 20:15Well, yeah, after a few years, when I left AT&T, I was like, all right, I need to do something.
- 20:21I left my job, all of that. I moved down to Orange County with my sister. And after that,
- 20:26I just wanted to start something. I moved to LA to be by myself and just literally was like,
- 20:30I really want to do this. I want to build everything from the ground up. I want to,
- 20:35create the boxes. I want to understand how fulfillment works. I want to understand how,
- 20:40everything, like literally out of a 600 square foot apartment, that's basically where the
- 20:44the business was born out of.
- 20:45And so at that point we had a few hundred subscribers that came on board and I had to
- 20:51actually shut the business down because I ended up starting, you know, more like project
- 20:56management work and stuff that was actually paying the bills because that wasn't paying
- 20:59the bills at the time.
- 21:00And then after that I started my agency and all this and then kind of just went from there.
- 21:04But yeah, the business never ended up, you know, becoming the thing, but it was one of
- 21:08the best experiences I've had because I just got to learn about every aspect of business.
- 21:13Yeah, and if you don't mind, and this is the part where I love that you said free reign,
- 21:17but we can edit out anything if you ever want to.
- 21:19But when you went down to LA, I really love this concept too,
- 21:21because I'll talk to people that will feel like they don't even, you know, they don't have their people,
- 21:25they don't know what to do, they don't have, you know, necessarily have friendships in an area.
- 21:29And I remember you telling me a story about what you would do every day
- 21:32and how that played out for you as far as like,
- 21:35do you know where I'm going with this?
- 21:37At the coffee shop? Yeah, and just going out and starting to just be around people
- 21:41and starting to be that guy, and hey, let's go out and let's,
- 21:44and you just started developing a community.
- 21:46And I just felt like that, when I work with a lot of people
- 21:49that are struggling with anxiety or depression,
- 21:50or they don't feel like they, you know, anybody cares or they don't have friends.
- 21:54And so, yeah, how did you remedy that?
- 21:56Well, yeah, for me, I actually, so when I was living with my dad for a little bit,
- 22:02and then, so my mom had gotten a job out here in like Rockland area.
- 22:06My dad was still in the Bay Area and I was staying with him because that's where my job was.
- 22:10And shortly after, I kind of felt like I was getting stuck in this sort of three-prong-like system.
- 22:17I was going to work, I was going home, and I was hanging out with the same people
- 22:20I basically grew up with. And I just didn't, my mindset didn't align with them.
- 22:26It was just always, I was always wanting to do more. I wanted to start a business,
- 22:29or I wanted to do something different. I didn't want to be stuck at a nine to five anymore.
- 22:33And one day I just told my manager, I was like, I'm leaving after six months, I'm out of here.
- 22:39And he was like, yeah, whatever. That's what everybody says.
- 22:41You know, two weeks came around, I put in my two week notice and he's like,
- 22:44oh, you're really leaving.
- 22:45I said, yeah, I'm out of here in like literally two weeks. Like I'm moving down to LA with one bed,
- 22:51one, you know, suitcase and like a thousand bucks in my pocket.
- 22:55Like I don't need anything else at this point.
- 22:57And so...
- 22:58Stayed with my sister for a little bit. I was fortunate enough that she was down there. She had an open room and then after I got my dog Buddy, I couldn't be there anymore. And so I got a place in LA because that's where I originally wanted to be.
- 23:10I was always very drawn to sort of the energy of those people. Anytime I made a trip down to LA, I felt like a different vibe, a different energy. Like everyone was doing multiple things.
- 23:20You talk to one person on the street at a coffee shop and they're like, I have a clothing
- 23:24line and I run this business and I do this and I have a side job and all these things
- 23:28and that always kind of was like, man, I need to be here.
- 23:31Like I need to be in this sort of space. And when I got down there, I again started from nothing and didn't have any friends,
- 23:40didn't have anybody that I knew that I was, you know, that I can connect with and be like,
- 23:44oh, that's my buddy from school or whatever.
- 23:46And so I kind of just went about it in a whole different way.
- 23:50I had my dog and myself and my little apartment and every day I would just walk to a coffee
- 23:57shop and I would just hang out with random people there.
- 24:00And in LA where I was at, I would see all sorts of famous people.
- 24:04Like I'm talking people from the show Breaking Bad or in crazy commercials or whatever else it is.
- 24:11And so I just started, I was just me, like always, never dressed a certain way, never
- 24:15of just literally what you see is what you get.
- 24:18And it started sort of building, you know, friendships and, you know, going out by myself.
- 24:23And I was always, I think the other thing what you touched on is that people get anxiety
- 24:27or they don't want to go out.
- 24:28I was always okay with being alone. Like I never.
- 24:32I was always happy to just be, you know, by myself, go out, sit at a bar, not worried about,
- 24:38you know, is somebody going to talk to me or not? Like, I can be there. I can start conversations
- 24:43with anybody. Again, very extroverted. I don't think a lot of people maybe have that. But I
- 24:49was just always okay because I didn't really care what people thought. I was a good, I would say a
- 24:56pretty good human from that perspective. I wasn't trying to hurt anybody. I wasn't trying to be
- 24:59creepy with anybody. So at that point, I just, you know, kind of was just me. And so I just
- 25:04stepped out of my shell. And I think that was the, that was, I think the point in my
- 25:08life where I ended up really, really maturing in all sorts of different ways from taking
- 25:15care of myself to starting a business to being, you know, when I was broke and didn't have
- 25:19money for rent and all these other things, like just had to kind of work through all
- 25:23of those problems. And I think that was probably any point in my life. I think that was the
- 25:27the biggest growth point of like maturity and everything else.
- 25:31Do you remember, you taught me what, is it a Irish goodbye is, or what was that? You were telling me?
- 25:36Yeah, the Irish goodbye, when you just leave and you don't say bye to anybody,
- 25:40and you just, people look around like, oh, he's coming back, and you never come back.
- 25:44And for context, because I think, you know, you are a good human being.
- 25:48I just really appreciated that story,
- 25:49because if I remember it correctly, you can tell me, but the more you would just hang out
- 25:53around these places, and you would get to know people, but then people would naturally start to invite you
- 25:58to go places, and so now you're starting
- 26:00to pick your friends and friendships, and so sometimes, if I write, you would get out
- 26:04and you'd be with somebody and all of a sudden, oh, this is not somebody that I think I wanna hang out with.
- 26:10And that, yeah. I always had some sort of moral compass, I think,
- 26:13I would, does this person feed my energy or are they sucking my energy?
- 26:18And I always kind of weighted up against those two things.
- 26:21And if they suck my energy, then I would just, that's not for me.
- 26:25I wouldn't talk to that person or whatever that might be.
- 26:28And if it's somebody that really like gives me energy and somebody that I'm like, enjoy
- 26:32being around, can have a good conversation, then that's the person I'd be like, Oh, we
- 26:36should like hang out again, or we should go do this, or we should go do that.
- 26:39Or, Hey, you know, what do you think about this? And, and I think from conversation alone, even just being at a bar or whatever, like
- 26:45you can kind of understand the people that you can connect with and the people that you can.
- 26:49Well, I think there's so much that I want to say that, you know, this sounds silly Zee,
- 26:53but I want to say you don't even know what you don't know about yourself, which sounds
- 26:56very egotistical on my end, but the part where the confidence that you exude is what I like
- 27:02to call coming from a healthy ego, where it's based off of real life experience and you're.
- 27:06Not trying to be somebody that I don't know, you think you have to be to get people to like you.
- 27:10And so even if somebody just heard, you know, cause I'm laughing about the Irish goodbye
- 27:13concept, but it's really, it's, it's trusting your gut and it's realizing, I think that,
- 27:19You know, you don't, man, that does sound funny to say it
- 27:22to somebody that maybe isn't as emotionally mature or in a healthy ego.
- 27:26If I was gonna say, at some point, if you realize that someone isn't who they say that they are
- 27:30and you're out with them, then you don't owe them anything as far as spending that extra time
- 27:36because you don't want to make them feel uncomfortable.
- 27:38It's your trust in your gut and following that. And I think that, yeah. Exactly.
- 27:42And that's something I always, whether it was in sports, whether it was in business,
- 27:45whether it was just like personal life, That's always one thing that I always go by my gut feeling.
- 27:50It's never treated me the wrong way, I would say. I think it's always been a great sort of like compass
- 27:56of which way to go about with this. So do I go left, do I go right, do I just,
- 28:01you know, whatever that would be.
- 28:03Yeah, and so then take us to, you start your agency, and then that ends up having just tremendous growth.
- 28:08What was that experience like? That's when we started working together.
- 28:11So I take all credit for the good part.
- 28:13Absolutely, you definitely do. You definitely helped me with a lot of the process of changing
- 28:21things. And so, yeah, I started my agency in 2018. A couple people, just myself as the
- 28:27project manager, had a designer and developer to just build stuff out. And that was the
- 28:32other thing, going back to the sort of the confidence thing. The day after I registered
- 28:36my business, I registered my business, I think January 18, 2018, I think it was, or January
- 28:4116th, one of those days, literally the next day, I landed a $30,000 contract, which was
- 28:48crazy because we had a designer on staff, but the developer just wasn't going to be available.
- 28:55And so, you know, I take this job basically knowing that we can knock it out of the park.
- 29:01But we didn't really have all the resources to do it. So while we were doing the design work, I went out and hunted for a developer to try
- 29:07to kind of bring it to life when that was all ready.
- 29:10So I just knew what we can do and what I can, you know, what I can do.
- 29:14And so I just was like, yeah, we got it all figured out.
- 29:16And little do you know, it was just like, everything's kind of half half assed at that point.
- 29:22But we got the project done. Everything was good.
- 29:24And so everything was going well, we kept getting new projects, we kept growing the
- 29:28business, I was basically wearing all the hats.
- 29:31And so at one point when 2020 came around, and the pandemic and all this stuff, everybody
- 29:36kind of shut down all their retail. it was there was like a three-month period where.
- 29:42Pretty much didn't get any new leads, didn't get any new projects, didn't get anything.
- 29:47And I just remember being curled up on my couch and kind of thinking like, oh,
- 29:51my business is going to be doomed. And so basically at that point, I kind of had to
- 29:56make a decision. I ended up starting, thanks to you, starting a podcast because you told me,
- 30:01I remember seeing your microphone in there and I said, oh, I've been always wanting to start
- 30:05a podcast. And you're like, dude, here's the mic, here's this. I literally went home that day.
- 30:09I ordered everything and I started a podcast within a week of that time frame.
- 30:13Okay, pause right there, Z. Pause right there. Like that is the part again where I don't think...
- 30:17Do you recognize how...
- 30:20That is impressive because I cannot tell you how many people have said,
- 30:24man, I should do a podcast.
- 30:25And I say, yeah, you should. I mean, it'd be great. And you literally did.
- 30:30And within a week or two, you were rolling, right?
- 30:33Yeah, that's always... That's one thing that I actually...
- 30:36A lot of whether it's like through my newsletter or like social media, it's one thing I exude
- 30:41a lot through my writing is just for people to start taking action because I think you
- 30:46can sit here, you can write the plan, the perfect plan, the this, the that, all of that
- 30:51honestly goes out the window the minute that you start because you just don't know what's going to happen.
- 30:56And so to me, it was always one of these things where I got on a podcast with my friend, I
- 31:00asked, I was like, Hey, would you be interested in jumping on as like my first guest?
- 31:04And he's like, absolutely. And so I did and he ran an agency as well.
- 31:08And then he said one thing to me, he was like, you can't scale an agency if you don't have
- 31:13retainers in place with your clients. that light bulb just immediately went off.
- 31:19And I said, okay, I need to change everything that we're doing.
- 31:23So the next day, I went to each one of our clients that we had and I said, our pricing is changing.
- 31:28Here's the cost. Here's what's required every single month.
- 31:31Take it or leave it. We're willing to... You guys are already not paying us anything because the pandemic is hurting your business
- 31:38and all these other things.
- 31:39And then when people started coming back, they're just like, this is the only option,
- 31:44basically. much and we do this kind of work or we just can't work with you.
- 31:49And that ended up being one of the best things I've ever done because it just, I think we
- 31:54ended up being around between anywhere between like 80, at one point we were like 100,000
- 32:00in reoccurring revenue every single month for like a long period of time.
- 32:06And so by the end of 2021, the business had grown from like, I don't know, like six, $700,000
- 32:12a year in revenue to in 2020, end of 2021, we broke like 1.4 million, which was like absolutely insane.
- 32:21But then we also grew our team and we had 22 people and we definitely got bloated.
- 32:26And so now that we're in this place where things have kind of already, like things are
- 32:29still a little bit shaky.
- 32:31We ended up having to like bring that, bring that down to about seven people now because
- 32:36I had a bad burnout and all these other things, but I just didn't care about managing that
- 32:40many people anymore because it was just way too much. It was sucking my creative
- 32:44energy to be honest with you. It was completely sucking my creative energy.
- 32:47And I think kind of keep into your strengths and that I hope that people that are listening even from a mental health standpoint is you went out there
- 32:52and you grew this agency and then you got to a point where there was just acceptance that okay this is no longer what is sustainable or viable and then
- 33:00happen to deal with that discomfort and then and downsizing and I feel like you
- 33:04you've done a nice job of everything that you have been doing. Go in big and
- 33:08and then you learn, and then you tailor it to fit.
- 33:11I mean, you don't just say, okay, well, I guess that didn't work, period, I'm done.
- 33:15Right, right, and the other thing is it took a really big toll on my mental health
- 33:22because it was just a lot going on.
- 33:25I had been running 100 miles an hour for like three years straight.
- 33:28I mean, it was just a lot of stuff going on.
- 33:30And it was great, money was great, everything was great. We were growing the team, paying people really well.
- 33:37But at some point I was just like, this is just not, it doesn't feel sustainable, maybe it is,
- 33:42but I'm not the right person to keep this ship moving.
- 33:45Like I'm just, I just understood that about myself that I did not want to be steering this ship
- 33:51one way or another. And so then I...
- 33:53You know, had some changes happen, whatever. And then I ended up just simply saying, you know what, we just have to dial all
- 33:59this back. I just don't want to be every time I pull it, turn on my slack.
- 34:04I just have like a hundred messages waiting for me. People, this, people that we
- 34:09need to, we have a problem here. I was basically the fireman at the, at that
- 34:13point. And I just didn't want to be that anymore because I just had no creative
- 34:16space. And so then I just ended up dialing it down and really now starting to
- 34:21to focus on building more of a one-person type business or a smaller business.
- 34:27So Taco Agency is basically kind of the hub for all the service work and that sort of feeds
- 34:32all the other stuff that I'm working on, whether it's my podcast, my personal brand stuff,
- 34:38my newsletter, anything, building products and all that other stuff.
- 34:41So that's kind of the little engine that sort of runs everything.
- 34:44I think that's where we were kind of vibing as well of the if somebody just has the nine to five,
- 34:49which is great if that works for them.
- 34:50And then I think we were talking about how, okay, if I'm going to see clients and podcast and write and go speak and, you know, and you're talking about, okay, if I'm gonna have the agency and I'm going to develop products, I'm going to write, I'm going to podcast and that what if it is, it's okay to do a lot of different things, because that keeps that excitement going or that creative energy going.
- 35:08Absolutely, and I just didn't know what I didn't know at that time and I think what I didn't know was how much
- 35:14I needed to and you and I talked about this a lot is.
- 35:19The power of writing to me over the past year. I mean in April It's literally about to be 12 months since I started, you know that drop that guard,
- 35:28The imposter syndrome wasn't there anymore and I just said, you know what?
- 35:31I'm gonna just start writing online and whatever happens happens But I know that I want to start a podcast as well. I want to do all these other things and,
- 35:41You know You don't have to give up one to do the other all of these things as long as you can manage it or you have
- 35:46a couple of people to help you out.
- 35:48And so for me, that was one big unlock because I can actually.
- 35:54It was like self-therapy. I can, like, distill my thoughts, my ideas, my emotions, be vulnerable. And,
- 36:01I, you know, sometimes you think, like, I really wish that I had started writing a lot earlier in
- 36:07my journey. But again, you don't know what you don't know. I think school ruined it for me. I
- 36:11think school ruined a lot of writing for me and different things because it just was very.
- 36:16You know, five-sentence paragraphs. You need this. You need, you know, like, there was too many
- 36:20parameters where I feel like online it's more like lean, fast, moving, you know, stuff and
- 36:28you can just kind of write short form, you can write long form, you can create videos,
- 36:32you can create a podcast out of it, you can transcribe that podcast and use some of that content online.
- 36:37Like there's so many ways of doing things and so I think for anybody that was listening
- 36:41to this, if you're in any kind of space where you're, you know, whether you have a lot going
- 36:46on or whatever, set aside at least like 30 minutes to an hour every single day and just
- 36:52write. Just dump your thoughts.
- 36:54Just put them on paper. It's going to look like crap. It's going to maybe feel weird.
- 36:59It's going to be all of these things. But it is the best self-therapy that I believe anybody, especially anybody in the entrepreneurial
- 37:06space can do for themselves because it just really unlocks a lot of ideas.
- 37:11And I always use a phrase that my, I felt like my brain was congested and writing decongested my brain.
- 37:18I like that. And I really like that phrase. And I think we were even talking recently about
- 37:22when I'm talking about it as a therapeutic intervention of sorts,
- 37:25that when things are in our brain, they're just flying around a million miles an hour.
- 37:29And when you lay it out linearly, does it seem to just then,
- 37:31I don't know if it's make more sense, but just seem more tangible or what's that like?
- 37:35I mean, when you, yeah.
- 37:37It's like, it's just basically putting pieces to the puzzle together.
- 37:40There's this big puzzle that will never get completed, but you're just sort of piecing
- 37:44things together as they come.
- 37:46And I also think that, you know, I know a lot of for me, it's a lot, I'll be walking,
- 37:50I'll be driving or whatever I'm doing.
- 37:52And when I'm not behind my computer or behind, you know, whatever that might be work related.
- 37:57That's when a lot of my things start flying through my head.
- 38:00So I started doing a lot of like voice, like voice memos on my phone and just like,
- 38:04walking and just talking literally. And it just something to listen back to.
- 38:09It was like, what is this?
- 38:11But that's just what was going on at the moment. And so I think for writing, it's just kind of the same thing.
- 38:17It's just taking those thoughts and putting it on paper.
- 38:19Kind of like what I said earlier is that you might have an idea five months ago and you might look at it and say, oh, that's nothing right now, but maybe five months later, you look at it again.
- 38:29You say, oh, there's actually something there. It keeps this this repeating thing going on.
- 38:33And we just have so many things, so many dopamine hits every single day.
- 38:38Social media, tick tock, like all these other things. I think if you don't control, try to give your thoughts a little bit of structure, I
- 38:45think a lot of ideas and a lot of great things just kind of get lost in the minutia.
- 38:49I love that. And just to be clear for anybody listening, you were not a writer before a year ago.
- 38:56Is that right?
- 38:57No, I didn't do any writing. I at all. And we had talked about that ever.
- 39:01I started with a like a writing cohort called ship 30 for 30 and it was it's all about starting
- 39:06to write online. a very,
- 39:09Publish 30 essays in 30 days. That's literally all you do and it doesn't matter what it is. It could be off subject
- 39:15It could be an entrepreneur like whatever you want to write about there's people writing about fitness. There's people writing about food
- 39:20there's people writing about business and yoga, whatever that might be and it's just a matter of getting that that.
- 39:28Consistency going and I think that That part of it when I started being consistent with writing that ended up trickling down into so many other parts of my life
- 39:38life, whether it was, you know, consistently recording a podcast every week, consistently, like, you know, whatever that might be consistently
- 39:46exercising.
- 39:47Cause I just realized the results of doing something consistently ends up just compounding over time and you don't see it in that moment.
- 39:55But I feel like when you start to look at it, like now 12 months, I've, I don't
- 40:00know how many pieces of content I've put out there.
- 40:02I don't like, it's just, it's crazy numbers. And to me, that's just been the, I mean, it's one of the things where I always
- 40:09think back, man, what if you had just started, you know, 12 months even before
- 40:13that, or 12 months before that, but you know, you can always go back and think,
- 40:17why didn't I do that?
- 40:18But now the process is really continuing that forward and just never stop writing.
- 40:23Yeah. So I want to do, we got just a few minutes left. I want to tell one quick, funny story that I think always made me laugh.
- 40:28And then I want you to talk, if you don't mind talk about your, I mean, you, you
- 40:31offer things like business coaching and I want people to be able to find you and
- 40:34listen to your podcast and that sort of thing. So the story and maybe it's not even that funny. I thought it was I thought it
- 40:39was funny, but you, you were you did some work for some and we
- 40:42won't even mention but some giant YouTube person that had a store and then I remember you set up their store and then you
- 40:48left some like alert on your phone and you forgot to turn it off. And then you had like, Oh, yeah, thousands of alerts to the
- 40:55point where your phone got so hot that it turned off. I didn't know that that was they worked that way? What was that?
- 41:00Oh, my God, that was crazy. So yeah, we built a store for a very famous YouTube influencer person.
- 41:06And, you know, they just came to us and there was something, I mean, we built a store pretty
- 41:11quickly because they had like a really tight launch date, whatever. We built it and they
- 41:14were like, you know, and you hear most clients say, oh, we're just going to get so many sales
- 41:18on the first day. And I'm just like, yeah, whatever. It's not going to, it never happens.
- 41:22It's like you get a few and you're just get excited. And I just remember, and at this point,
- 41:26And I wasn't really in control of like doing a lot of the day-to-day work at my agency
- 41:30Somebody else was handling that and I think at like three o'clock in the afternoon
- 41:35They had set the website live and that person had started making a live YouTube video.
- 41:40Like a live stream on YouTube telling people to go to the website and I think from what I remember, I think they did,
- 41:50$270,000 in sales and And I really thought that the app was broken because I, for some reason, I was still connected
- 41:57to the Shopify app and the notifications came in so quickly that it was literally like,
- 42:05it felt like my phone was stuttering.
- 42:06It was like, like it just kept going and it just shut down and it overheated because there
- 42:12were so many notifications coming in and it was absolutely insane.
- 42:15And I just like looked at it and I was like, oh my God, this is crazy.
- 42:19And I went on my email and I just had like hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds
- 42:23of emails where I had to basically go into the store and take it off because I wouldn't
- 42:28have been able to like do any work at that point.
- 42:32It was crazy. It was absolutely insane. Like I still cannot believe how crazy that was.
- 42:37And that was the only time that actually clients said like, oh, we're going to get a lot of
- 42:40sales in the first day. And they actually, I mean, they broke my phone.
- 42:44I think that would be the funnest thing in the world. I think that that's, and I remember even the person
- 42:49was kind of secret. I don't think you got to talk to the person.
- 42:51And then I remember looking them up and they had 30 million followers or something.
- 42:56And that was crazy.
- 42:57Yeah, yeah, it was insane. It was absolutely insane. And so it was it was one of the craziest
- 43:02stories. And I just didn't realize it. And I went back to the guy and I was like, Hey,
- 43:05so you guys want to set up some sort of like, like revenue share partnership thing, because
- 43:10this seems like way more money than what you guys paid us and we'll help you with absolutely
- 43:14anything. And they obviously didn't do that because they're just like, No, we know what
- 43:18we can make because we're just there through the roof through the roof.
- 43:22Crazy. Okay, so last couple minutes here, where do people find you? And then that concept of you can literally look at any
- 43:29person's project or product? I mean, we didn't even take the time today, but you've made apps just because you wanted to make
- 43:35an app. I remember one time you said, Hey, Tony, have you ever?
- 43:38Have you ever just wanted to know when all your favorite teams played and have that on a calendar? And I thought, yeah,
- 43:42that's kind of cool. And you said, I made an app, you know,
- 43:45and you just made you make apps. And again, I think you alluded to that at the beginning of the show. But if you want something,
- 43:51you make an app for it, and then maybe it will, maybe other people will like it too.
- 43:55Which I love that concept. Exactly.
- 43:57Yeah. I'm a big proponent. So yeah, so I'm a big proponent of solving, solving my own problems first.
- 44:02I'm a, I'm like the best user of my own apps.
- 44:06And so whenever I have a problem, I go out and I see if there's anything out there to solve that problem.
- 44:10And if there isn't, then I just find the very smallest, most lean version of that to build
- 44:16it myself because I just need that problem solved and software can solve so many problems
- 44:20without having to hire a virtual assistant or whatever that might be.
- 44:23So that was an app called SportsCal.io. And basically you just go on, you sign up and you pick your favorite team across
- 44:30any sport, football, basketball, soccer, whatever you want.
- 44:34And you just select your team. You pay, I think we've charged five bucks a year or something,
- 44:38or 15 bucks a year or something like that.
- 44:40And you can literally just sync up with their calendar and you never miss a game.
- 44:43So if you're a Kings fan, whatever that might be, you just go on and you just do that.
- 44:48But yeah, so my whole what I've been focusing over the past like 12 months is.
- 44:52Just do after all this experience with like starting businesses, running businesses, working with people,
- 44:57project management, just have so many components to my overall kind of being. I really, really love
- 45:04helping people in any way that I can. I'm just kind of like what you do with mentorship and
- 45:09therapy and all these other things. For me, it's business coaching and there's no better feeling
- 45:13than somebody coming to you asking for help and then after even one session or two sessions,
- 45:19They just say, Oh man, you unlocked that thing.
- 45:22I just needed somebody to tell me this or, or, or some, most of the time they just solve their own problems.
- 45:27You're just there to listen to them. And then they just, they're already solving their own problems and you just have to like
- 45:32point and be like, you know, that thing you just said, that thing you need to lean into
- 45:36or need to push more or cause you seem excited about that.
- 45:40And so for me, people can find me, I'm on Twitter.
- 45:43It's just at ZBajelic, spelled Z-B-I-J-E-L-I-C, or on LinkedIn, same thing,
- 45:51LinkedIn.com slash in slash ZBajelic.
- 45:55My website also, I don't know, maybe you'll have it in the show notes.
- 45:58I will, I'll put them all in the notes, yeah.
- 46:00Perfect, so it'll be in the show notes, but it's ZlatkoBajelic.com, spelled Z-L-A-T-K-O-B-I-J-E-L-I-C.
- 46:09Dot com. I have a newsletter that I publish weekly. I highly recommend. I mean, I really, I've commented a few times on your newsletter.
- 46:16I really like that. It's pretty concise and to the point and it's got some humor and then you
- 46:20you throw a, here's like the things you're enjoying. And I like that quite a bit.
- 46:25Yeah, yeah, I make it it's mostly around creating a personal brand and entrepreneurship and
- 46:30just like mindset things and all this, but it's usually like a four or five minute read.
- 46:34It's very quick. It's you know, I don't do like a lot of, you know, big blocks of text and make it very
- 46:40consumable. It's actionable, basically actionable stuff that you can take with you and just kind of,
- 46:44marinate on it and actually put it to use at some point.
- 46:48But yeah, that's pretty much the biggest thing. My newsletter is probably one of my favorite things to do every single week.
- 46:53I get to just write to, you know, my, I call it my tribe, my email subscribers
- 46:58and people who actually are interested in it and get a little bit more personal with them.
- 47:02And then, yeah, I read on Twitter every single day. I run on LinkedIn every single day. Yeah.
- 47:07Your podcast, a lot of business coach and I have a podcast that I publish every
- 47:10single week, at least one episode.
- 47:13I'm getting into my 30th episode. So yay to that. But yeah, that's kind of where you can find me happy to help anybody that needs
- 47:20help with anything.
- 47:21And yeah, it's been, it's been really awesome. chatting. Thanks for.
- 47:24Yeah, no, it's a time.
- 47:25Tony, I think it's it's kind of nice to get to really understand your entire I know it sounds so
- 47:30cliched, but your entire journey because I think you again, I don't even think you recognize
- 47:34how impressive that is that when you think of something, you build it. If you want to try
- 47:38something new, you do it. And,
- 47:40then you just learn from there.
- 47:41And I feel like I work with so many people that say, if only I could work for myself or if only
- 47:45I could start something and I know hearing you over and over again, then you just say, okay,
- 47:50well, then let's do it. And so sometimes I think people just
- 47:52need the permission to know, or even where to start. And I feel like that's something that you can offer. So I think it would
- 47:58be really nice.
- 47:58I'm here to give permission to anybody to do everything that they want to do.
- 48:02There you go. And if they haven't happened, they sell things and it blows up your phone, then you just want to
- 48:05wet your beak a little bit, right?
- 48:10Absolutely, man. Thank you so much. All right, I can't wait to hear from you.
- 48:13Music.
- 50:17Distance don't explode allow the understanding through to heal the legs and hearts.
- 50:24Music.