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Lori Harvey Essence, Negative Thoughts, Damar Hamlin, Powerball Jackpot and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the
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  Speaker 1: million bucks things. And it's to me through good Steve
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  Speaker 1: listening to the other for st Please, I don't join
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  Speaker 1: join me. You gotta turn you are you gotta turn
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  Speaker 1: to turn them out? Turn? You haven't got to turn
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  Speaker 1: them out to turn the water the water got me?
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  Speaker 1: Come come on your tha U. I sure will a
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  Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on
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  Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only. It is Steve Harvey. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I got a radio show. Okay, this is timely for everybody.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure I want to offer you all or some
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  Speaker 1: encouragement because everybody needed. Let me tell you something. You
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  Speaker 1: strike out on your goals, you strike out on your aspirations,
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  Speaker 1: and so you strike out, as it happens to all
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  Speaker 1: of us. Here it comes life. Life just hits one
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  Speaker 1: of them bad notes, as it always does, as it
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  Speaker 1: always does for all of us, for everybody. Now, when
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  Speaker 1: those bad notes happen, when the haters come out of nowhere,
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  Speaker 1: when the setback comes up, when when the out of
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  Speaker 1: nowhere appears, When I didn't see that coming comes. Here's
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  Speaker 1: here's what you have to do. Here is the thing
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  Speaker 1: that I have been teaching myself for years that I
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  Speaker 1: used to not always understand, so I'm trying to give
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  Speaker 1: it to you. You have to be encouraged anyway. Now
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  Speaker 1: that's difficult, Okay, Steve, what you're talking about? You just
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  Speaker 1: told me all this discouraging stuff that can happen, and
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  Speaker 1: you said you got to be encouraged anyway. Yeah, man,
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  Speaker 1: you have to because what's happening to you right now,
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  Speaker 1: the thing that you're going through right now, the thing
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  Speaker 1: that everybody's going through right now. Ain't nobody don't smood sailing. Man.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody got something and if they, if they don't smooth sailing,
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  Speaker 1: just notice is coming. There's nothing I'm wishing on anybody.
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  Speaker 1: It's just that this is life. This is how it
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  Speaker 1: happens everybody. So please stop stop getting on the old
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  Speaker 1: woe is Me bandwagon? Old Lord? Why met old Lord?
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  Speaker 1: Something always happened to me, something always happens to everybody.
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  Speaker 1: But here's what you got to do. When you get
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  Speaker 1: in moments like this, you got to be encouraged. You
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  Speaker 1: got to remember in those times, in those times when
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  Speaker 1: it's going wrong. You got to remember all that you've
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  Speaker 1: been through. You got to remember all that you've come through.
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  Speaker 1: You have to remember those other times when you felt
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  Speaker 1: like this, and somehow, unexplainably you don't even really stop
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  Speaker 1: to say nothing about it. It just changed for you.
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  Speaker 1: And the problem that walls is no more, and the
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  Speaker 1: situation that seems so insurmountable, you got over it, You
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  Speaker 1: got around it, you got over it. Sometimes you just
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  Speaker 1: got to slide right under it. Sometimes you got to
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  Speaker 1: plow through it. But in those times when it's discouraging
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  Speaker 1: for you, when you feel like giving up, those are
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  Speaker 1: the test. Those are the moments that will determine whether
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  Speaker 1: we make it or not. I'll tell you one thing
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  Speaker 1: for sure. If you give up in these moments, right
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  Speaker 1: here here is a foreshow you'll never make it. That
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  Speaker 1: that's unquestionably the deal. If you give up in these
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  Speaker 1: dark times, if you give up in these what you
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  Speaker 1: think is insurmountable moments, if you turn back now here
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  Speaker 1: is the one thousand percent for shore. You ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: make it. But there's a bright side to this situation.
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  Speaker 1: If you keep your head down, if you keep forging,
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  Speaker 1: if you keep pressing on. Sometimes if you just stand
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  Speaker 1: there and sometimes get knocked to your knees. But if
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  Speaker 1: you stay in that place, if you just stay there
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  Speaker 1: and ride the storm out, my head is bloodied but unbowed.
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  Speaker 1: If you can just stay there, if you consider in
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  Speaker 1: that moment and ride it out, you will win. You
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  Speaker 1: will pass the test, and you will get to move
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  Speaker 1: on to the next level. But there is no next
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  Speaker 1: level without a test. You can't get to grade six
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  Speaker 1: without passing grade five. You can't be a senior without
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  Speaker 1: first being a junior. You can't graduate without fulfilling the
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  Speaker 1: hours and requirements. You see, I don't care what you
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  Speaker 1: do in life. Look at it. It's all set up
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  Speaker 1: on levels where you've got to accomplish the thing before
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  Speaker 1: in order to get to the next level. And when
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  Speaker 1: you've made those level accomplishments, you get to graduate. Now
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  Speaker 1: you can go on and get the masters in a PhD.
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  Speaker 1: You can go on and become rich. You can go
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  Speaker 1: become wealthy, or you can go or you can go
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  Speaker 1: somewhere and think yourself in another set of circumstances. But
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  Speaker 1: you got to go through something to get to something.
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  Speaker 1: There ain't nothing free. So you can stop that notion
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  Speaker 1: about being successful. That is easy. Come on, man, if
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  Speaker 1: it was easy, what we are, what we're talking about,
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  Speaker 1: It is not easy. Stop thinking it is. It is difficult.
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  Speaker 1: But I'll tell you what's even more difficult than becoming successful.
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  Speaker 1: You want to know what that is, Try not being
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  Speaker 1: successful your whole life. That's hard. You are listening to
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  Speaker 1: a person who has done them both been successful and
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  Speaker 1: really really been not successful. And I got news for you.
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  Speaker 1: Both of them hard. But I would rather deal with
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  Speaker 1: what it is to be something, to make something out
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  Speaker 1: of myself, to force myself to go to work when
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel like it. This morning was a rough
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  Speaker 1: get up for me, but I got up and I
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  Speaker 1: said thank you anyway. Never give up. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: watch this dude too. He even mess around and got
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  Speaker 1: close to me because he just never gave up. You
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  Speaker 1: can never ever give up. Never. It's not an option.
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  Speaker 1: Giving up cannot be an option for you. You cannot
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  Speaker 1: do that. It's out of the question. It's ain't conceivable
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  Speaker 1: in your mind to quit, because to quit, it's to
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  Speaker 1: what what you get when you quit nothing. That is
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  Speaker 1: a reward for those who hang in there, who never
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  Speaker 1: give up, who forged through, who see it through. Who
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  Speaker 1: getting knocked down and get back up? Who gets trampled
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  Speaker 1: but somehow gathers themselves and get back to your knees.
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  Speaker 1: But stay in that place, man, don't ever give up.
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  Speaker 1: Don't let go be encouraged. Think of all you've been through,
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  Speaker 1: Think of all you come through. Think of all He's
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  Speaker 1: done for you. Think of all the times you thought
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  Speaker 1: you wasn't gonna make it, but somehow, without you ever
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  Speaker 1: even saying thank you, he got through. He got you
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  Speaker 1: through it. Anyway. That's that thing called grace. Now we
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  Speaker 1: kind of need that in our life. All I need
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  Speaker 1: is a little more grace. You can't give God no
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  Speaker 1: money for grace, man. Grace is absolutely free. It's available
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  Speaker 1: to everybody. But you can't get none if you quit.
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  Speaker 1: Don't give up. I'll just tell you that flat out.
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  Speaker 1: Don't ever give you're listening, ladies, gentlemen, boys and girls.
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  Speaker 1: You know what. It's a new year, everybody. Man. When
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  Speaker 1: you look at God, I can't believe it. I'm so grateful.
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  Speaker 1: He gave me another shot, he gave me another trip
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  Speaker 1: around the sun. He let me see another year. It
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  Speaker 1: is twenty twenty three. Do you understand that if you
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  Speaker 1: are over fifty, bass had to have been a time
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  Speaker 1: where you wouldn't really show about getting to twenty twenty
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  Speaker 1: three or some other year. If you're over fifty, you've
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  Speaker 1: had a scare. It might have been an accident, it
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  Speaker 1: might have been a health crisis, it might have been something.
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  Speaker 1: But I'll tell you what I show. Glad I'm here man.
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  Speaker 1: Gratitude baby, Yes, yes, So as we gather, we want
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  Speaker 1: to say happy New Year to everybody. We want to
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  Speaker 1: say time is of the essence. I got my foot
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  Speaker 1: on the gas pedal because I'm grateful that he led me.
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  Speaker 1: I have a foot to put on the pedal, so
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  Speaker 1: I'm putting it on that man. Twenty twenty three is
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  Speaker 1: the Jordan year. Jordan's number was twenty three. I'm playing
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  Speaker 1: on putting up numbers like never before. This is your
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  Speaker 1: Jordan year. If you're a basketball fan, and if you're
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  Speaker 1: not a basketball fan, this is just twenty twenty three.
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  Speaker 1: And give God the glory and let's get it on.
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  Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry, Hall of for Rell, the Mouth of the South,
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  Speaker 1: straight out of Mississippi, all four hundred and eighty five followers,
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  Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Now you Tommy the legiond that is
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  Speaker 1: this is Steve hard Morning Show. Us up everybody. Ye
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  Speaker 1: years off this morning, He'll be back in the day
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  Speaker 1: or two year Wow, been together for two minutes, guys, man, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: we had a long time, A lot going on. Have
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  Speaker 1: no New Year's resolutions, Like I never do everything I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to do. I I've been trying to do. This
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  Speaker 1: is nothing to resolve nothing nothing, No, No, I've start
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  Speaker 1: as soon as I had a problem, I get resolved
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  Speaker 1: in mine. You're under crisis management. Yeah. I started my
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  Speaker 1: weight loss program a few days ago. I ain't had
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  Speaker 1: all right looking looking you know what I'm saying. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna elevate you. I got my green drinks just got
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  Speaker 1: released on the third. They're coming three flavors, Chocolate, natural
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  Speaker 1: and tart cherry. The greens is out, the gummies is
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  Speaker 1: coming all of the way. I got a lot of products.
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  Speaker 1: But man, this is going great. I'm getting healthy. You
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  Speaker 1: know money though, the gummies coming. The gummies is coming.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know that people like gummy vitamins and gummy supplements. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I like that huge. Yeah, it's
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  Speaker 1: huge because it almost gives you an idea like you're
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  Speaker 1: having candy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, trying to swallow that big tablet. Man. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of cool. So it's coming to But man,
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  Speaker 1: just grateful, man, just glad to be here. Man, this
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  Speaker 1: is the year, God willing, I'm gonna really really focus
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  Speaker 1: like never before on my health, on my health. I'm
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  Speaker 1: exploring different things, but health is wealth, Your health is
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to focus on my health. That's right, all right,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, Happy New Year, everybody. Coming up in thirty
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  Speaker 1: two minutes after the hour. We got the nephew to
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this you're listening to show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time to start your morning
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  Speaker 1: off with the nephew and run that prank back. What
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  Speaker 1: you got for us, nap on this first day of us,
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  Speaker 1: for the new first day of us. This right here
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  Speaker 1: is God is not through with you, but we are. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: God is not through with you, but we are. Yeah. Yeah. Hello, Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach our sister Takara. This is Brother
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  Speaker 1: Brinkley from the church. How you doing. Oh hey, how
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  Speaker 1: is it? It's I'm at work. Can I call you back? Well?
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  Speaker 1: This is this is kind of urgent. I call your
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  Speaker 1: your house phone and I didn't get an answer, and
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  Speaker 1: I had this other number on file, so I wanted
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  Speaker 1: to reach out to you. But what I won't take long.
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  Speaker 1: But it really is a hurt. All right, Well that
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  Speaker 1: urgent matter. If you don't man all right, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, let me let me step away from our tubercle. Hello. Hello, yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: so what's uh, brother Brinkley speech? Truly okay. We have
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  Speaker 1: a bit of a problem here and we try to
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to clean up a lot of things here
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  Speaker 1: at the church. You know, I hate to be the
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  Speaker 1: one to bring you some bad news. Let me just
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  Speaker 1: start by by saying that God might not be through
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  Speaker 1: with you, but we are here at the church. It
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  Speaker 1: has been brought to our tension, Uh, Sister car that
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  Speaker 1: you guys are halfway coming to church and you you
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  Speaker 1: you might come once once out of a month. You're
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  Speaker 1: not tithing as we expected. You know, the church can't
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  Speaker 1: really depend on you. Um, it's you you got you know,
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  Speaker 1: you bring your kids. I think your brother comes to
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  Speaker 1: the church, but everybody is coming every now and then.
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  Speaker 1: We cannot depend on you all to be the members
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  Speaker 1: and have the expectation of what we're trying to say.
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  Speaker 1: You say your name, yes, and you work, you work
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  Speaker 1: under the Dacian. I'm sorry, I've never heard of you before.
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  Speaker 1: I have been officiated by the pastor as I'm over
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  Speaker 1: actually over the finance and we're going through all of
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  Speaker 1: the books and looking at all of the numbers of
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  Speaker 1: the of the members of the church and directory, and
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  Speaker 1: we're noticing what people are panside, what people aren't fans I,
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  Speaker 1: who's coming to church, who's participating in different and different
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  Speaker 1: UH ministries and whatnot. And since it takar I got,
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  Speaker 1: I had to be honest with you. You are maybe
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  Speaker 1: once every one of the mind. We might see you
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  Speaker 1: might not see you, you know, and like I said,
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  Speaker 1: God may not be through with you, but we are well, okay,
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  Speaker 1: you've been saying that this. Listen, why I don't understand,
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  Speaker 1: like y'all monitoring my my my church going like I can't,
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  Speaker 1: I can't I have to go every single week. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: when why are you absence so much at the church
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  Speaker 1: explaining that, I mean, I have three kids, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I y'ob sometimes I don't. I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: still pray, I don't understand how a church can Are you, y'all?
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  Speaker 1: Stories you got two jobs, But we're not getting tied
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  Speaker 1: like you got two jobs. You're not tiding like you
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  Speaker 1: got two jobs because I can't afford you just you
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  Speaker 1: just said I got two jobs. That's what you just said,
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  Speaker 1: and that those two jobs are in supporting my chid.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I can't support the church and my kids.
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  Speaker 1: It's the same term, kid, you both. I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: I give when I can. Let me ask you something.
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  Speaker 1: What are you making on that other job? Are you serious?
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  Speaker 1: Are you really? You? Really? You? Really? I didn't know
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  Speaker 1: the church? God? Is this deep within you? Really asking
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  Speaker 1: me how much I make? And my fucking y'all that
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  Speaker 1: ipe to support my kids? Cool? Now? Did this gotta
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  Speaker 1: be something? This is I'm gonna say this to you again.
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  Speaker 1: God may not be through with you, but we are you.
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  Speaker 1: You are not gonna pay your tides. If you're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna come to work on a consistent basis, then what
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  Speaker 1: what do you benefit? The church? Is that what the
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  Speaker 1: church is about? This can be I'm gonna say this.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this to you. You let me tell
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  Speaker 1: you what the church is all about. The churches, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: and you say we do with you again one more time.
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  Speaker 1: I'm serious. No, I'm gonna tell you this. You're talking
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  Speaker 1: about this that what the church is about. Let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you what the church is. The church is a
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  Speaker 1: hospital for cripple souls. You understand that. That's what Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's what the church is. But when when we have
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  Speaker 1: the souls that are coming in to be saved, we
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  Speaker 1: are doing our job. And guess what those people that
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  Speaker 1: are coming and you know what they're doing. They're tithing.
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  Speaker 1: That's what they're doing. They're tithing you, sister Takara, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure your soul's crippled. You're not coming and you're
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  Speaker 1: not tithing. You may give us a little some something
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  Speaker 1: when you show up, if you show up. Am I right?
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  Speaker 1: A wrong? Okay? Hold up, let me get this straight.
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  Speaker 1: This is what you call me for in the middle
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  Speaker 1: of my work day to tell me that you're kicking
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  Speaker 1: me out the church because I don't give enough money
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  Speaker 1: to the church while I'm at my job that I
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  Speaker 1: can barely afford to pay my bills with. Not a fact,
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know who you are. I've never met
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  Speaker 1: you in my life, and I don't you know what
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  Speaker 1: this church? You know, this church. I hate to say it,
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  Speaker 1: but if that's what the church is about, you had
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  Speaker 1: the nerve to call me. I'm plan people on sho Okay,
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  Speaker 1: Na na, na na. Let me say something. Now, you're
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  Speaker 1: being very Unchristian like. Nah, just the car you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: watch you done in your language him, this is not
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  Speaker 1: Christian life. Well do you do you know? Brother Dwayne?
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  Speaker 1: Isn't that your brothers? Okay? And my brother Duwayne is
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  Speaker 1: who told me to call you? Really my brother? So what? So?
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  Speaker 1: What is it about? Hum? Brother whatever? I don't know name.
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  Speaker 1: My name is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Your brother Dwayne got me to prank phone call you. No,
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  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you know he's about to get me
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  Speaker 1: buy you from this job. I'm in the lobby screaming
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  Speaker 1: up looking at me. Oh my harsh you are right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what's up? No? No, normal, Oh my god, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: my heart is racing. Tell me it's the car. What
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  Speaker 1: the world. I don't want to lose him, but I
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  Speaker 1: I don't what is this statement? You made something? I
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  Speaker 1: have to tell my husband. How you think this's gonna
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  Speaker 1: go Lady? Your marriage will be oval and you could
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: run the risk of your husband going to jail. It's
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: so many things can go wrong here. And now look
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: you've made the mistake. You told him it could never
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: happen again. Yea. Now, if you really mean that, you
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: ask God for forgiveness, you get back up on the horse,
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: and you start back to riding again second time. I
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: probably shouldn't say that. You don't get back up on
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: noble horses. You don't get up on stay your fast
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: ass down. She really enjoyed it, which means she's considering
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: it again if you're going to do it, okay, let
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: me tell you how this works in case. And I
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  Speaker 1: was ill tell this to my kids. I told everybody.
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  Speaker 1: God gives everybody a break. Your first sin, he files
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: a warning shot over your head. If you do the
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: same sin again, the next shot takes a little piece
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: of ear meat off. Just if you do it a
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: third time, the next bullet is writing your teeth. It
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: just get coyle. That's that third one. Now you got
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: the warning shot. If you go back again, it's gonna
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: be a piece of ear meat. Second shot, if you
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: go back a third time, you're gonna get it in
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: the teeth. Now here's a deal. You don't seem like
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you're showing any remorse. You told him it can never
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: happen to him. But now you tell my mom that
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: you enjoyed it. So what means you're considering it because
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: you haven't had any repercussions. But I'll tell you what.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: If you go in there to that man and confess this,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: it's over. It's all wrapped because you low down, not
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: the uncle. He did it too. Wow. That boy's daddy's brother,
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: yeah's brother yeah, or mother's brother. Yeah. We're gonna move on.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Steve to Melina in Pittsburgh. Melina says, I allowed my
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: husband to have a hall pass with my best friend's sister.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: But this is craziness right, happy to everybody. I allowed
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: my husband to have a hall pass with my best
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: friend's sister, but I told him I had to be present.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: He did it without me knowing, and that wasn't the plan.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: I feel like if he snuck and did it once,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: he'll do it again. Should I be worried? What? Hey? Stupid, Hey, stupid?
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: You gave him a hall pass. He decided he needs
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: you to see the pass because what he doing at
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: the hall pass is you don't need to see this
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: hill because he got a special performance that he'd been
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: waiting for your best friend's sister for a long time.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: So he and that clown, so he didn't need you
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: to see it. So would he do it again? Why
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: did you give him permission? See, you can't open the
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: door and shut it too. You ain't the lord. Yeah, yeah,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: what kind of plan was that? Anyway, he didn't stick. Yeah,
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: you don't need to be here. You said I could
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: watch it because you're gonna have instructions that much. Stop.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: All right, this is over. I don't like it. I
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: changed my mind. Put your clothes on now it's too late.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: Now moving on to Bunny and Richmond. Bunny says, my
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: husband and I've been together for four years and he
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: got me two pairs of the wrong size shoes and
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: a coat that's too big. He got it for Christmas.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: He said it was a coincidence, but he may have
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: gotten them from a booster. Should I ask him if
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: the stuff is stolen before I try to return it
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: or would that be offensive? You don't all you got
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: to do to return it is safe? Maybe because I
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: return it for the right size, and if so, I
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: love it, but I just need to get the right size.
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: Do you have receipts? That's all you got to do?
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: What is you taking this hot mess back down to
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: this stove? You're going to jail? Yes, today, codes and
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: stuff they they check against inventory and all this now
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: stuff is on computer. They showed them shoe still in inventory,
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: y'all and you show up back down. They've been looking
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: for that for that thirty eight. Yeah, so she just
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: really want anything but Christmas. That's it. Bottom line. You
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: wear you're doing European sizes and all that thirty Ye
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: you got nothing that thirty eight on. If you want
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: to over the front, feel like that he stabbing you
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: in the middle of your pa. You ain't got the
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: right side. You got to disperse that weight, baby, don't
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: ask you man for the receipt A big girl, Thank you?
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: All right? Last one, Steve, last one, Tatum and Minkmory says,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: I've been divorced for two years and my ex wife
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: is still trying to have sex with me. I have
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: a new girlfriend now and I no longer want to
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: have sex with my ex. When I turn her down,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: she threatens my new relationship. How can I cut her
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: off for good? How she threatening your new relationship? You
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: know what you've been doing because you've been sleeping with
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: your ex wife. Why are you sleeping with your new girlfriend?
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: And she gonna tell it for two years? God, that's
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: how I go, man, That's how I go. Dog, You don't.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. Why you going back?
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Who go back to the X? Now you go back?
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Telling you? Well, who won't they ex? She wants him,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: she wants him, he doesn't want her. You don't need
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: to insert yourself in this. Un to me and time
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: to tell you want to talk? Right? All right? Thank you? Hello,
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: You're listening well. In today's entertainment news, Steve, we have
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: to say congratulations to your baby girl, Laurie. Laurie is
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: on the cover of the January February cover of Essence magazine. Now.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: In the article, which is called the Other Side of
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: Laurie Harvey, Laurie talks about the power, the power of
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: falling in love with yourself. She is unattached right now,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: She's unbothered, and she's unconcerned with what anyone thinks. I
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: love that, I love that everything. Jesus right ahead, Laurie
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: with your pretty self. Yeah, she is going, what are
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: you talking about in Jesus name? Because you know I'm
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: a father, right so right of course, yeah, you know.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Laurie was a bought a little bothered by the article
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: because people were saying, what has she done to deserve
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: to be on the cover in Essence? And I told Lord,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I said, Lord, you don't have to explain stuff to people.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I will. The reason she's on the cover of Essence
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: is because there's a thing that God passes out. It's
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: called grace and favor. Man, you can say grace is undeserved, unmerited.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: You can't earn it. He just passes it out randomly
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: to who he see fit. And she just benefited from
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: from grace. So I said, baby, quit trying to justify
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: to people who who who require an explanation that you
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: don't owe an explanation too. You're on the cover because
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: God did you a solid right father. You don't care
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: what anyone thinks. Then live in that. That that's okay,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: that's where you have to be with it, because see,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: do you know, man, most people, when you have success,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: there's always a certain amount of people in your life
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: who are going to question that success. All of you
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: have experienced it. The show. Yeah, exactly what's she doing
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: with a with a fragrance, her candle, a live class?
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: What are he doing? Why he always how he always
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: getting there? Why don't he gives somebody else a chance? What?
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: You know what? Many times I've heard that one? Why
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: don't he give somebody else a chance? I ain't stopping
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: nobody from doing nothing. You go be whatever you want
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: to be at and let that be a lesson to everybody. Yes,
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: sometimes in life God just shows you grace and favor.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: And have you ever heard people say favor ain't fair? Yeah?
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: But speak to this quickly though, because I think people
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: need to hear this as well. Not being concerned with
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: what other people think of you, what they're people are
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: always gonna do. You know, Look, Lorie, because she's had
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: to grow up in this light. She has a light
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: on her and it's a light you ask for. You know,
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: you posting, you, you, you, social media active, you all
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: is here, So you gotta be gonna be open to
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: all of this. Here people are going to have an
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: opinion of you, regard what you don't even whether you
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: ask for it, right, They're going to having a and
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: you know, and so you've got to develop this skin
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: where you know who you are and you know whose
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: you are exactly about that. But it's hard though you
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: only hear me in this world today us and man,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: but it's to hear people's opinion whether you know it.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: You know this people? What is the frustration? Tommy? What
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: say it? It's but it's so simple what we're on
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: the air three? Have you lost your mind? Where we're
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: gonna have to beep it out because yeah, you know
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: we have careers. I just wanted to be perfectly clear
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: where that came from. I was not asked the question,
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: you know. But at the end of the day, man,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: you really have to take that attitude if you're gonna
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: stay sane, because we live in a culture now where
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: everybody has an opinion, whether you want it or not.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: And the people with these opinions are not decision makers,
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: shakers and movers or power brokers. They sit online. Do
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: you know that there are people who wake up to
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: go online to make a negative comment about all posts
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: that come across their timeline and and that's what they do. Ye,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: they troll laters And you just have to be ready
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: for that. And so you know, I'm glad she's getting
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: to that point. Yeah, it's hard to get there, especially
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: at twenty five this year. That's amazing. At twenty five,
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: that's amazing. And living your life in that spotlight, man,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: So it sometimes, yeah, especially for women, because when you
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: live your life under the microscope. See, if you're not
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: under the microscope, you get to make your stakes in
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: the cloak of darkness. When you're in the spotlight, all
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: your mistakes in the spotlight. And and that's a tough
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: position to be in and you have to you have
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: to develop a tough skin. If that's the last, like
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: God willing this year, if I have my birthday, my
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: new model is I can't say it on the air. Well,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: your nephew just went cross. I'm not my nephew cousin
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: a little bit, but one of the key words in
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: the middle of my phrases less than a God. All right, well, congratulations, Laurie.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: We love you, I know it. Everybody pick up a
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: copy of the January February issue of Essence magazine. All right,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: guys again, pick up that copy of the Essence magazine
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: and check out Laurie loving that Laurie Harvey. All right,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, it is
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: time to resolve to be more positive and be healthier
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: as well. We'll talk about it right after this you're
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: listening to. Well, it is the new year, and it
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: is time to resolve to be more positive and healthy.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: And her survey has found that the average person has
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: up to eleven negative thoughts every day. These include things
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: like I'm not good enough, I'm overweight, I'm too fat,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: and I'm not good looking, or I'm ugly. Those surveys
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: said these negative thoughts keep them from achieving their goals,
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: including getting healthy. So, Steve, I gotta turn to you
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: on this one. I have heard you say out of
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: your own mind. We all have on this show. Yes, well,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I've never saying I'm ugly, I'm not attractive. Yes, that's
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: still unhealthy older, I tell you it was even more
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: unhealthy looking in the mirror at your ugly ass and cut.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: It is really unhealth denial. That right has to stop
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: in twenty twenty three. And all you see is cute.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Come on out that mirror, because now you're trying to
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: force upon those of us who knows something that we're
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: not willing to accept. But you don't consider yourself attractive.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: And Tommy thinks he's drop dead gorgeous. Fine, and I'm
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: not gonna quit thinking this way. And I mean, I'm sorry,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I'm not gonna pick just said
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: you're in denial. I don't care what he's ugly. Behind said. See,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: we got a problem here, we do. And we are
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: trying to understand where Tommy coming from. But because he's
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: dealing with you know, like like you can have a
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: sprain arm, you can have a fracttion arm, you can
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: have a broken arm, and you can compound fractor. Tommy's
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: dealing with a compound fractor. I knew you were gonna say,
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: I knew you were so short and waiting. Okay, okay,
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: let me say to cuteness. Let me say this. The
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: last time has he heard anybody say, hey, with your
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: little cute ass, I went to the car practice. Yes, yes,
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: and I have been I have been stretched, I have
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: been realigned, and I am now by ten and a half,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I am now. I've been elongated. I've been elongated. Nobody
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: believe that in twenty twenty three. I'm telling you you
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: ain't got the lacry. What you know when we get off,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: when we get off to add this one, I'm gonna
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: measure my height and take a picture of it. Right,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: I'm take a picture. You can stand up on this zoom.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: If you stand up on your zoom, you still be
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: all right. We gotta go listen. Coming up in thirty
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, Gabrielle Union says she cheated
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: on her first husband. We'll find out what that's all about. Okay, Gabby, Okay,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: happy new here. Right after this you're listening show, all right,
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: So you guys hear about Gabrielle Union. She let it
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: out that she felt entitled to cheat during her first marriage.
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: She was once married to X football player Chris Howard uh.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: She said she felt that she could cheat because she
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: was the bread winner at the time. This was during
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: a recent conversation on a podcast, Gabrielle said, in her
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: first marriage, neither one of them felt like the marriage
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: should get in the way of their dating. Uh what
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: as part of it? She said, they didn't feel like
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: the marriage should get in the way of their dating.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: A part, yeah, she said, A part of it was
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: like keeping up with his activities, Like, oh, that's what
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: you're doing. And then Gabrielle went on to say she
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: was paying all the bills, working her butt off, and
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: so she felt entitled to cheat. And as we all know,
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Gabrielle Union is now in her second marriage to NBA
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: star Duane Wade. But um, yeah, you know, so the
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: bread winner, she felt entitled to cheat because she may
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: not site and Dione Cole said, thank you so much, Gabrielle,
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I'm going out tonight. Is that's the reason, the reason,
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: Gabrie just go go be quiet. Man. What is this
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: thing that we have now where we got to tell everything? Yeah,
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: keep it just so we don't hear the crazy stuff
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: until they get ready to drop an album and drop
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: a CD and movie promote somewhere crazy stuff until the end,
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: we don't hear from it. But then when someone coming
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: out Oh yeah, here, come well, I'm dropping something new,
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: so I guess I better come up with something. So
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: go ahead, bring up my products and watch me come up.
• 41:31
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• 41:35
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• 41:38
  Speaker 1: you're so keen on being healthy and staying healthy and
• 41:41
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• 41:44
  Speaker 1: So what is your product that's elevate? Tell us? Yeah,
• 41:47
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• 41:58
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• 42:04
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• 42:07
  Speaker 1: Like Gabrielle, used to cheat because I feel bread winner.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah huh. That's better than falling out fifteen times. When
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: I used to cheat it because I was making the money.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: I've always been at dude, So it means I'm cheated
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: entire damn time. If that's the reason you're cheating, because
• 42:29
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• 42:31
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• 42:37
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• 42:43
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• 42:49
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. Do what
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  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour right about four minutes after.
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  Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today and the subject is
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: he has to step away to take calls. But I
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  Speaker 1: will get into that in just a bit. But right
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: now it is time for the nephew with his praying
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  Speaker 1: phone call for today. What you got for us neat
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  Speaker 1: fairly that's right here is called Christmas lights expiration, Christmas
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  Speaker 1: lights and black people listen. It's time to take him
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  Speaker 1: down right now? Ain't Christmas over wick up? Yes, yes
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: it is, okay, So take him damn lights down? Okay, Frost,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: you ought to be thawed out by now. They take
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: keep people down. Jesus, don't make no sense Christmas lights expiration?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Christmas lights expiration? Cat dog if you wood? Hello? So
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach James. Yeah, hey James, how are
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: you doing? This is Gregg. I don't want to get neighbors.
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: I live a few streets over from you. How are
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: you doing to day? I'm doing fine? What's up? This
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: one makes sure I got the right person. You're at
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: um chick North Willow Been Yeah, okay, what are you? Okay?
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: I'm on I live on Shadow Bend. Man. My name
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: is Greg and I want to I want to reach
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: out to you. Uh, we seem to have a bit
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: of a problem. Man. You still have your Christmas lights
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: up on the house and what what? What's what's going on?
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: You know? We you know some of the neighbors have
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: had a conversation when you gonna take these down? Man?
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: We go through this every year and uh, it ain't
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: no problem. Man. The lights are gonna stay up on
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: what what? What? What do you mean they're gonna stay up?
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: Did I start up? I said the lights are gonna
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: stay up, you know, no go down? No hold on, bro,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: Christmas is over. The lights ain't finn to stay up? Okay,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: I don't call you nicely and tell you that the
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: lights need to come down. You know, I don't. I
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: don't even why do you have your lights up? After
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: Christmas Center Claus and the whole Christmas thing is over? Wait? Wait,
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: wait a gay man? What's your name again? Grego of
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: the my name? My name is Greg. My name is Greg,
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: and I live on Shadow being. I live post chriss
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: over from you. I don't give a about where you live. Man.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: You know, how do you get my number? I got
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: your number from the Joy you know, the President and
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: alum the one gave me your number. But that's but
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: let's neither here nor there. The big issue is these
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: Christmas lights just got to come down. You sound like
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: a joke. Man, You sound like a girl fool. What
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: you're gonna take my Christmas? Like? You know, I keep
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: those lights up? You know why I keep those lights up.
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna listening. My mama loves those lights. She she
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: keeps the lights up a little bit longer than usual.
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: But we don't give a fuck about that as long
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: as she's happy. So okay, okay, okay, let me say
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: that I'm hearing you with your mama. Understand that you
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: know you gotta love for your mom. Cool, but check
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: it up. The whole neighborhood won't show lights down. So
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this right here, from neighbor to night,
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: you got to the Mara evening to take them to
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: lights down. If not, I'm gonna take them down, my
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: damn sir. What time are you coming? Bro? What time
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: are you coming? Okay, I'll tell you what. I get
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: off at five. I'll be at your house about six
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: to take thee Diner lights down. You know, yeah, I'll
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: be looking for you too. Man. You know we got
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: a big family. I'm gonna call my brother and we're
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: gonna meet you. We're gonna meet you because you ain't
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: taking down. You understand what lights are gonna stand up? Bro? Okay,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I don't care if you and your mama got to
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: take them damn life down. Hold up, brother, what you
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: say about my mama? I said you and your mama
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: can take them life there or somebody got to take
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: them down. Mother. You're talking about my mom. We ain't
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: taking down. Where did you say you live? I'm saddle
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: shadow being. I'm gonna shadow then. You just you're trying
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: to you're trying to sign you up death sentence if
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: you come over to my crib and talk about taking
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: down I mother Christmas like you. Man, If I come
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: over and you and your mama ain't on the ladder
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: trying to get the lights off that house, then I'm
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: taking them down. A man, you you're talking about my mom,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: mamma taking down the light. I've got a face fall
• 49:03
  Speaker 1: back for your mother and everybody at the h o A.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I heil. I don't everybody at that club you in
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: or whatever h o A and whatever. I'm you up, mother,
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: I'm you up? Okay? Well if you if you meet up,
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to You're gonna have to time me
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: up too. I one, he's the one told us you
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: had the lights on the house and hadn't taken them
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: there comedy one time? Who comman? You can you get
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: over here right now? I't I didn't come. I'll tell
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: you what I've come through there, Me and tim me
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: both all come through there. If that's what you want,
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: come on, mother, ya silly? Okay? So so can I
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: say something? So what? Mother? Can I? Can I say
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: one more thing to you? Man? You ain't gotta say hell,
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: you say that when you get over. Yeah, you're talking
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: about my mama. Man. Okay, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: calm down, dude, Calm down, Okay, I'm down about what
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: can I say something else? Can I say one more thing?
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Just that, the one more thing. What all I'm gonna
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: say is this nephew timent from Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: Did you say, oh you you got to be kidding me? Man? Yeah? Man,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: you got James? You all right? Man? No, man, ain't
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: all right? Man? What you got my blood pressure up?
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: What little wow business? Hey hey, James, you got some
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: neighbors Russell and shot Nis. Russell and shot Nise. They
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: are the ones that got me the prank. Call you back.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: They ain't gonna get no Christmas present for me next
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: year as some bulls. Man. Wow, Oh you was heated
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: for Oh man, you was heated man. One thing I
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: do know about you, Jane. You love your mama, don't you.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: I love it. I love it to death. Man, you
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: you you had to take it there. That ain't right, man.
• 51:22
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• 51:25
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• 51:28
  Speaker 1: the land. Let me hit Oh god, the Steve Hardy
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: in the morning show man early. They got to take
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: these lights down. Tell people when to take their Christmas life.
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Get to it. Who are you? You hit the wrong
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: switch in the whole house? Light up? Stop, Hey, get ready,
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: it's going down. It is going down. On January fifteenth,
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: Sunday night, January fifteenth, I would be in Shreport, Louisiana.
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: It is date night, comedy show, Date night comedy show
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: with nephew Tommy and friends. You don't want to miss it.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: So that's everybody, Tyler, East Texas. Everybody around the way.
• 52:08
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• 52:10
  Speaker 1: there and municipal AUDITORI yeah, it's back down. I got
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: a little bit more to go. But I'm I'm working
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: to make good. Yeah, yea. I was worried about you
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: for a minute. I said, well, shouldn't think I was
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: gonna make I can't do ready for you know, I
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: ain't saying I ain't think you just gonna make it.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: But you notice I didn't call you no more. What
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: you want to be on the phone. I don't want
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: to be on like the last call. I don't do well.
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: You do not do well in these types of your
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: bad Something happened to him and then you know it's cool,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna sue you. Why would I sue you? Well,
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be here. What you know? Well, you
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: know on his call log his uncle was the last
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: phone call that. Wonder what he said to kill god? Man?
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: I don't see. That's why i'd be scared of man.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Do you know? I actually had somebody close to me
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: pass and when he passed, they family started looking into
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: my finances to see if I owed him any money. Wow,
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: I wanted to go do you know how much money? Out?
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: And loaned his ass to y'all. Luck it ain't coming
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: after y'all's hand. She had gone do this and be quiet?
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: How many people? How many people have passed away that
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: you knew that owed you a lot of money? Probably
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: about four hundred hundred people. All right, Strawberry Letters. Subject
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: he has to step away to take calls. We'll get
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: into that right after this tree you're listening morning, It
• 54:01
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• 54:04
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• 54:27
  Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry letter. Thank enough you subject.
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: He has to step away to take calls. Dear Stephen Shirley.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: I'm a thirty six year old married woman and my
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: husband is thirty three. We've been married for almost eight years,
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: and he has told me that he regrets getting married
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: so young. I asked him if he needed a break
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: from the marriage, and he said no. He told me
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: we could find ways to make our marriage work. So
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: we planned a trip back to our hometown and it
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: didn't work out as planned. We went for Thanksgiving and
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: there was a big game in town, so we barely
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: saw each other. I was busy with my parents and
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: he was out late every night. He came into my parents'
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: home late, and I noticed on the third night that
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: his cell phone was off while he slept. I asked
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: him about it the next morning and he said it
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: must have died, but it wasn't dead because I turned
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: it on and back off. That same night. After we
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: spent the time in our hometown, his attitude changed. He
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: started posting more pictures on Instagram, and he was constantly
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: on his phone scrolling through social media posts. He also
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: started to get phone calls late in the evening, and
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: he would ignore them. I would check the phone when
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: he wasn't around, and I could see that he'd always
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: delete the incoming call log. Then, over the holidays, a
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: few calls came in and he had to step away
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: to take them. It happened when we had company or
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: we were out, so I couldn't question him or cause
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: us see a New Year's Eve, we decided to stay
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: in and have champagne at home. He was distant and
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: he played with his phone all night. At the stroke
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: of midnight, his phone rang and he stepped outside to
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: take the call. He told me he was going to
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: see the firewall. Should I have confronted him at that
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: moment and ruined the beginning of a new year? What's
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: my husband up to? All? Right? Sis? This is bad?
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: This is really bad. He's really doing too much with
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: all of this. And yes, you should have confronted him
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: at that moment. Who says it would have ruined the
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: beginning of a new year. He's getting phone calls all night,
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: walking away from you to talk. It's like he hasn't
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: even told whoever it is, that he's got a wife.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: You asked Steve and I what is your husband up to? Well,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: what do you think he's up to? I mean, what
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: do you think he's doing. I think he's disrespecting you
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: right in your face. I mean, you have to say
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: something right then and there when it's happening. He gets
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: called out where the stuff happens, you know, that's when
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: he gets called out where he's doing it. That's it, period.
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: I get that you don't want to cause a scene,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: you don't want to let people in your business and
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: all that, But when he's already doing that, he is,
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: he's already doing that when he steps away to take
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: a call. What do you think they're thinking when he
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: does that. The only thing he's trying to hide is
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: who it is. He's definitely not trying to hide the
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: fact that there's someone else he's talking to. Doesn't he
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: get that this is wrong? Doesn't he understand that? Is
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: that what he meant when he said he could find
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: ways to make the marriage work? Or you guys could
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: find ways to make the marriage work. It sounds like
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: he thinks you're stupid because you even asked him before
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: all of this, did he need a break from the
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: marriage whatever that means, and he said no. I just
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: think you know, as you can see these calls and
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: your man or just out of control. You're letting him
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: do whatever he wants to do and you're not saying anything.
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's way past time for you
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: to let him have it. You need to shut it down. Uh,
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: start with this. You got a car. I'm sure you
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: have a car. Well, accidentally on purpose, run over his
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: phone with your car today, okay, And then when he
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: asked you about it, do what he does. Just get
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: a phone call. Just get him. You heard me, you
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: heard me run over his phone with the car. All right,
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: walk away, Do what he does when he gets a
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: phone call when he asked you, Just walk away, Steve.
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: Let me just address this last comment that crazy maid
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: in the new year, just phone you calling? Are you
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: calling me crazy? Don't be man? Run over run over
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: it with your car. Yes, yeah, if you got to
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: run over your man's phone with a car, the problem
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: ain't the phone now, let's go to the letter. He
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: has to step away to take calls. Now it's thirty
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: six year old woman is married to a thirty three
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: year old man and they've been married about eight years.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: He made the announcement that he regrets getting married so young.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: Did the math he's be got married at twenty five,
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: that he is young. He has regretted it. He didn't
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: get the fool oats, so in season end, he didn't
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: get a lot of stuff out of his system. He
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: didn't get rid of the things he needed to get
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: rid of before he got married. So when he got married,
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: he did like a minister taught me. He found out
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: that the only thing changes the day after you get
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: married is the appearance of your left hand third finger.
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: I asked him if he needed a break from the marriage.
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: He said no, that's because most men don't want to
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: say let's take a break from the marriage, or don't
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: want to get a divorce or admit to defeat. We
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: just find ways around it, he said. He told me
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: he could find ways to make our marriage work. That
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: is the key to this whole letter. Because you should
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: have asked what all did he mean? You should have
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: had a thorough discussion about you gonna find ways to
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: make our marriage work. What you thought he said was
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: he was gonna work on the marriage. You interpret it
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: as he said he's gonna work on the marriage. You
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: didn't explore fine ways to make our marriage work, even
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: though I regret doing it so long. When I come back,
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: I'll explain the rest of hold that thought Steve. Coming up,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response too. He has
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: to step away to take phone calls. That is a
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry Letter. We'll get back into it
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour right after this.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, come on, Let's recap today's
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject is he has to step up
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: away to take calls. Yeah, yeah, he do. The reason
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: he has to step away is because is no way
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: you need to heal these phone calls. Let's just get
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: with the obvious. Now, you can't get a man at
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 1: least some credit. At least he's stepping away because let
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: me tell you something, if he don't step away, huh,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: he just told you in the letter he was gonna
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: find ways to make the marriage work. Well, the way
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: he found you don't need to hear this now. He
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: got it married at twenty five. My answer, we'll see,
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: but see, you don't like mine because my answer the truth.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: Your answer was filled with speculation. And he runs over
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: phones and stuff. Yeah, phone out and try to run
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: over with the car. Yeah as them an ass ass
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: late response. Yeah, but you guys know how you are
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: about your phone. But let's get to the care of
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: what's wrong. The problem ain't the phone. He getting new phones.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: See him called all his stuff in the clouds. He
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: getting new phone by this eating see now, because you're
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: acting funking running over cars. He gonna fix your ass
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: because he's gonna now he gonna get track phone. See,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: he gonna buy a phone at Walmart and put some
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: minutes on it. And you run over all these you
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: want to that's for starters. See that's so let's just
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: understand that y'all ain't doing nothing with this phone, and
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: you're gonna mess around. Ain't gonna see what track phone do.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: Ain't no clouds for that, no tracking now. So thirty
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: six year old woman married this board that he was
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: twenty five. He told her one day he regrets getting
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: married so young. I asked him if he needed to
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: break from the marriage. He said no, he told me
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: find ways to make our marriage work. What you should
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: have did, like I told you, was talk to him
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: about what all he meant by that, Because what he
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: meant by that, you thought he meant he was gonna
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: work on the marriage. Now he gonna find some ways
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: to make the marriage work for him. So we planned
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: the trip back to our hometown. Oh, you thought that
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: was it. You thought if y'all went back to the hometown,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: that was gonna fix it. And then she said right
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: away it didn't work out his plan because that wasn't
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: his play. See, that was y'all's plan. You said, let's
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: go back to where it all started. Well, where it
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: all started. He was twenty four where it all started.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: He was so in Oaks. So you went to Thanksgiving
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: and that was a big game. In time, we barely
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: saw each other. I was busy with my parents. He
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 1: was laid out every night. He came into my parents'
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: home late, and I noticed the third night that his
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: cell phone was off while he slept. I asked him
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: about it the next morning. He said it must have died,
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: or he could have used another excuse, and says, I
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: turned my phone off to give it some rest. Because
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: you turned this phone off at night so it could
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: recharge itself at a break every nine. Then you have
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: you know, you have to cut your phone off and
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: cut it back on again off and just let it
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: needed a break because I needed to reset it so anyway,
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: but it wasn't dead because I turned it back on
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: and off the same night. That's why you used the
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: other life fellas go with it. I turned it off
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: to reset it. After we spent time in our hometown.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: His attitude change. He started posting most pictures on Instagram.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: He was constantly on his phone scrolling through social media
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: post Then he started to get phone calls late in
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: the evening. He would ignore them, but I would check
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: the phone when he wasn't around, and I could see
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: that he'd always delete the incoming call. Law my dog,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: your dog, Well he do it, and all the right
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: things to work on his marriage, to save his marriage. No,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: listen to me. I want you all to hear me
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: so you learn how to question your man. When he
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: said he was gonna find ways to make our marriage work,
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: you should have asked him exactly what he meant by that.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: Because it damned show wasn't a trip back to the hometown.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: That was part of it. But who was at the
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: hometown at the game. It's what you didn't know. So
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: now he racing call logs. You can't track no calls.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: He ain't got no names listing. Then over the holidays,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: a few calls came in and he had to step
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: away to take them. And it happened we had a
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: company or when we were out, so I couldn't question
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: him a calls and seen. Well, that's where being a
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: little a bit polite, because most women I know would
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: have opened up with where you're going? Yeah, yeah, I
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: get well, I will all be outside taking calls. She'll
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: walk out there with you and listen. So I don't know.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: On New Year's Eve, we decided to stay in have
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: shamp champagne. He was distant. He played with his phone
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: all night. That stroke of midnight, his phone ring and
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: he stepped outside to take the call. He you don't
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: need to hear him wishing her a happy new I
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: love you, I miss you, Happy New Year, wish you
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: was here. All that he working on staying with you,
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: and this is the only way he can do it.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Don't you understand you should have asked him what I
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: meant when he said I'm gonna work on making this
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: work because he's doing something. Should I have confronted him
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: at that moment of the new year, Yes, you should have.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: What's my husband up to? You're for asking the question?
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and on Facebook, and check out the
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour. Sports Talk right after this talk,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: right you're listening to show. Well, guys, we know Junior
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: is out today, but Steve and Tommy, you know we're
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: all still playing for a twenty four year old Buffalo
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: Bill's player, Damar Hamlin. Damar Hamlin suffered cardiac arrest and
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: collapsed on the field during Monday night's game against the
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: Cincinnati Bengal. According to NBC Sports, Damar Hamlin's heart stopped
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: following the seemingly just a routine play. DeMar tackles Cincinnati
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: Bengals wide receiver T Higgins, then briefly got up before
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: he just collapsed. I mean just collapsed. NFL Commissioner Roger
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: Goodell canceled the game and said the folk because should
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: be about DeMar's health. Sports media outlets yesterday reported DeMar's
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: recovery seems to be trending upwards in a positive way,
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: and players, coaches, and fans from all over are praying
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: for DeMar as we are. What they thought the problem
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: was it was something to do with his heart. You know,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: he took the he's the defensive player, but the actual
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: runner in dead into his chest and it's with his heart.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: It's what his heart. But it wasn't a head to
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: head like normally, you know, which is where you normally
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: have a concussion. But this was this was straight to
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: his heart, man, And he just this little brother just
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: he stood up, let us if he was still with
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: the play, Yeah, just ing and just yeah, yeah, yeah stopping.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah that was a good thing. Yeah. Because the teams,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: both of the teams, you know, look, man, even though
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: they play on opposite teams and they all friends, they
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: understand they know what this sport is. Man. That's Aaron
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: Rodgers saying, yeah, some brothers, some ships out there. Man,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: cats know what each other do. They know what their
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: bodies go through to play professional football, respect level training,
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: hard game hitting, and it's physical and at this part
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: of the season, nobody's without an injury. Oh everybody got
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: something hurt. Ye. But the question comes up, like you
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: got you know, I have a son, you got too,
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 1: I got two something. I got a son that's elevens
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: in the sports, real strong. You got grandson is probably
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: gonna be in sports. Do you want your your your
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: kid to play that game? I want them to play
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: sports if that's what they want to do. But I
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: show hope it's golf. You play golf a long ass time,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: and you know, I mean you know, but football is
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: a great game. But it's surprise, hard hitting, it's surprise.
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: It's physical game, violent, physical game. The life expectancy of
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: a football player on the feel I'm talking about playing.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: But your career life you're playing life is not long.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: It's like it's not even five years on that is it? Wow?
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: So when somebody in play twelve years, they really are
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: running back. Running back has the shortest career span. Oh wow,
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: because again in time they touched the ball, it's eleven
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 1: people looking for his ass. Wow. Target Again, our prayers
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: going out for day Mark Hamlin. Now coming up, we're
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: gonna switch gears here. At the top of the hour,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: a guy on social media, Steve, has a question for you.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: He needs some advice about how to deal with his neighbors.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening, all right, So Steve Carlos
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: Son Facebook writes, over the holiday, I learned that the
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: man who lived in my house before me was one
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: generous soul. Supposedly, whenever it snowed, he'd whip out his
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: snowblower and plow and clear off the entire street for everyone.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: What I didn't know was that the responsibility somehow landed
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: on my shoulders when I bought the place. During this
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: last storm, everyone was coming to my door asking why
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: the street wasn't cleared off and blaming me for them
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: being late to work. I thought the previous owner, Uh huh.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: I thought the previous owner was just being nice leaving
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: that snowblower in the garage. But now I see the
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: real reason. So, Steve, what's the best way Carlos wants
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: to know to respond to these neighbors, and he's trying
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: not to go off on any of them as well. Well,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: you ain't got to do that. But there's a couple
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: of things that you need to make clear. Number one
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: to avoid any other confusion, take the snowblower and roll
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: it out into Middlity Street and going back in your house. Started.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: Second thing you can do is didn't next time is storm?
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: Take that snowblower, wad down the street, cut it on,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: blow about two feet of snow, just a little block,
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: two foot block of snow. Cut the snow and lead
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: a snowblower running and walk all the way back down
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: to your house and going in. Then start watching TV.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: What this ain't your job? Yeah? Your job? I love anybody, anybody, anybody.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: The last thing you can do, put your snowblower on
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: Craig's list and got nothing else to do with this here,
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: money with your neighbors. No, or go down to home
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: deep on and buy twenty two shovels, sent them on,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: put bowls on all of them. Merry Christmas. All right,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: all right, Carlos. We hope that helped you. Here's another one, Steve.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: This is from Shell from Steve HARVEYFM dot com. She says,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: I made a resolution to be healthier this year. I
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: plan on trying to exercise a few times a week
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: and I'm going to eat healthier. I talked to my
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: boyfriend about it before the new year, but now that
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to put it into practice, I'm getting no
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: support from him. Actually, he's making it more difficult. He
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: just went to the grocery store and bought a bunch
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: of junk food. And when I went to the gym yesterday,
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: he said he was going to watch TV and chill.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: I know I have to do this on my own.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: I know this, but I expected him to at least
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: support me. Am I wrong for wanting him to not
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: actively work against my healthy resolution? Was that wrong? He
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: didn't come along with the resolution. He made a commitment
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: in twenty twenty three to be more of me. That's
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: obviously where he is. You trying to be less of
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: you and he trying to be more of me. And
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: it's hard when you don't have a support in the
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: house to stay on track, to die and everything. But
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: you can't blame him. He ain't that dude. So just
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: stay on your mission, stay focused. Maybe when he sees
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: your improvements he might join along. But that's all. It's
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: hard to make the decision and hard to stay committed.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: But if that's what you want to do, that's what
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: you have to do. So just go on and make
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: it work. But Steve, do you really think he's got
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: a bunch of junk food? She said, Now not a
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: candy bar or backwhere with him? Huh. She's gonna be
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: back on the couch in February. Both of y'all just
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: sitting over there. Just swear it. But stay with it,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: those sisters, stay with it. Hey, order the new Elevate
• 1:14:45
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• 1:14:51
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• 1:14:56
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• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: the energy to keep. So just go get to Elivate
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• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: Ellivate You. That's right, Shelley, And we're with you, girl,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: coming what's that apostrophe? All right? Coming up in twenty
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to morning show. Well,
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: there was no winner on Tuesday and the Mega Millions lottery,
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: so now the jackpot is over. Guess what one billion dollars? Again?
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: You are? Who I play? Yeah? I got close, Shaw,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 1: I got close. I got the powerball right, and then
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: I got two other ones right. I was like, this
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: is it. I was about to difference. Wait a minute,
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: timey powerball is different from Mega millions. So did your
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: bottom gets to the right A lot of me? It was?
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 1: I had it. It was eight. Well, anyway, you remember
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: back in July of last year there was a Mega
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: millions billion dollars winner from Illinois, and now here we
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: are again. This is just January with another billion dollars Jackson.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: If you won and you went in to convert your ticket,
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: would you let people see who you were? No? No,
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: I'd be like that Asian man who was in that suit,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: that Pikachu suit the sky. Yeah. Yes, I'm letting everybody
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 1: know see me I am a billionaire. No, all of that,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: all the way. Yeah, I'm going in as a white man.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: I'm bleach scanning everything now. No, No, I'm going in
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: as me and I'm not cooking an old costume jockey
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 1: strap and out of ship. Nothing else coming up. In
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play a round.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 1: It would you rather right after this you're listening to show?
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: Here we go first one for the new year, twenty
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: twenty three. It is time now for would you rather?
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: Would you rather when we just talked about the lottery
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: last break, would you rather win the current lottery jackpot
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: or would you rather live in good health and live
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: to be one hundred and twenty years old? But we
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 1: broke though at one hundred and old. But to me,
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: fifteen good years of this big so you only get
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: fifteen years? No no, no, Sam, no no the lottery
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: and yeah no no, no, no no. Would you rather live?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: Would you rather win the current lottery jack potter? Or
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: would you rather live in good health to be one
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: hundred and twenty years old? One hundred and twenty has
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with the money. Oh give me this
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: money and has from me? He exact, Yeah, give me
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: this money and whatever my ride is. I had worked
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: out with the lie. I was looking for one old
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: fo anyway, you are a health proponent now you like
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: big proponent health wealth. Health is more important than wealth.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah in your statement, yeah you would you could be health, right, Carlo,
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: you could be healthy and live till one hundred and
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: twenty years old. I'm healthy. Now give me this billion
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: and watch this health. I'm healthy. Now. It's not saying
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: you've got to be unhealthy with the billion. It's just
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: you're guaranteed one hundred and twenty years of good health.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: Or you can get this billion right now healthy because
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: I'm I want to do but anyway, I got a
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: couple of issues, but just billion though, straight? All right,
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: all right, movie, I'm gonna take that billion. I'm gonna
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: make myself sick by saying nohing he were stupid? All right? Straight? Now,
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 1: come on? Would you rather think about this when you
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: were single? Okay, I gotta put that in there. Would
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: you rather get a text from from a one night
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: stand that says I'm pregnant or I have an STD?
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: Which one? This is when you were single? Well? Which
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: damn STV? Is it? I mean? We gotta do? Yeah,
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 1: we might be you know the baby? You just got
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: some insects on me? We worked through that. What kind
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: of prescription we talk Yeah, sexually transmitted disease? We're talking about?
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 1: What are we talking about? Which we talk about for penicilling?
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 1: Somebody showed off his penicilla antibody. Yeah, we just penicilla.
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: I go and take shotya? All right? All right, you guys,
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: that's today's round of would you rather coming up at
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after the hour, our last break of
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: the day and some closing remarks from the one and
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to show,
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: all right, guys, here we are one showdown for the
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: new year. I mean, uh huh, it was a good show.
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: We have fun. Glad to be back, yeah, surely, just
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: three hundred and sixty four. Yeah till christ. You know, though,
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: you say glad to be back, Glad to be back, great,
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: feeling healthy and blessed, feel with gratitude. I could have
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 1: stayed off though, Yeah right, I'm not mad at the vacation.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 1: I could have stayed off, don't give me wrong. Yeah.
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: I love my people out there. I love a waking
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 1: people up in the morning. I love being inspirational. I
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: love being you know, informative. I love being entertaining. Like
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: me some me though, Yeah, I like me and I'm
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: doing what I want to do. You know, look, you
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: could love your career. You could love your job, you
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: could love your profession. And I don't love that mod
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: in free time. Fun. It's fun, isn't it. You know.
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 1: It's just the ability to just sit still and do
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: you and the older, I've gotten the cooler I am
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: with the sitting around just doing me. I love them. Yeah,
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: and we got to really go nowhere. Yeah. What I've
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: discovered is I don't need an activity to have a
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: really really good time. A lot of people that they
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: have to always. Yeah, but but that comes with age,
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: Like you say, Steve, being comfortable within your own skin,
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 1: you know, loving yourself, enjoying your life, all of that
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: stuff comes with that. I was younger and we'd go
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: on vacation, we'd have an itinerary. Yeah, and when I
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: got off the vacation, I needed a vacation. Yeah, we're
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: gonna go on the picnic. We're gonna take the tool,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: we're gonna go see this. Then we're gonna go on
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: a boat ride. Then we're gonna go in the helicopter.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: Then we're gonna get in doing the mount it's too much.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: And wait, Steve, be downstairs at twelve o'clock. We got
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: to go at twelve. We're on vacation group dinner. We
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: got hey, man, you know what me and my girl do.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: We wake up and do nothing until we want to,
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: and then a lot of times what we want to do,
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  Speaker 1: we change our mind about that. That's it. As we go,
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  Speaker 1: people want to get the most out of their vacation
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  Speaker 1: and their money. So a lot of times when people go,
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  Speaker 1: they want to go on these excursions, do all this
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  Speaker 1: because they feel like, Oh, I could chill at home.
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  Speaker 1: You know how you swimming with the sharks call why Well,
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  Speaker 1: if you're the sharks, you probably ain't gonna come back.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe because you're like living on the edge. You like
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  Speaker 1: that thrill, you know that. That's how I don't. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: see this something I learned a long time ago. Fun
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  Speaker 1: and fear, not in the service people talking to me,
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  Speaker 1: May we're gonna get on this roller coaster. No, man,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like that moment where I'm scared. Yeah No,
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't. That was Game Drops roller coaster and I
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  Speaker 1: released immediately. Now when I'm scared, I don't, I just
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  Speaker 1: let it. We're not gonna talk about that. No, No,
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  Speaker 1: a roller coaster fifty five. I'm being only black paints
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  Speaker 1: because if I got on page passers, you're gonna fully
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  Speaker 1: be aware of whatever is our next vacation. I need
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  Speaker 1: black and some leggings, legs. Crazy. We got something absorbing it.
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  Speaker 1: We're trying to keep it in you know what y'all.
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  Speaker 1: In closing, just let me say this briefly. This is
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  Speaker 1: a new year. I suggest that you take on this
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  Speaker 1: that I've decided twenty twenty three. I am living my
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  Speaker 1: life in expectation. I am expecting God's goodness, grace, and
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  Speaker 1: mercy to follow me throughout the year. Even in the
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  Speaker 1: midst of trouble. I will keep my eyes focused on
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  Speaker 1: the goodness, the grace, and the mercy of God, because
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  Speaker 1: I know from all my years experience that no matter
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  Speaker 1: what happens, this too shall pass. It always does it
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  Speaker 1: all ways, does this too shall pass. So I'm inviting
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  Speaker 1: everybody man in twenty twenty three, live your life in
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  Speaker 1: the expectation. Write your visions and goals down on a
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  Speaker 1: piece of paper, put them on your phone. Make them
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  Speaker 1: your screen saver. Stop taking pictures of your dog and
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  Speaker 1: putting your dog on your screen saving all like that,
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  Speaker 1: that's your dog. It's gonna be your dog. Put something
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  Speaker 1: on your screen saver, man. That matters that you can
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  Speaker 1: look at your dreams, your visions, your goals, your aspirations.
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  Speaker 1: So every time you pick that phone up, you look
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  Speaker 1: at the things you are expecting. Twenty twenty three to
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  Speaker 1: breed and it will put you on track more often
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  Speaker 1: than you think if it's your screen saver. My vision
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  Speaker 1: board has been my screen saver for years. Every time
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  Speaker 1: I pick it up, I am reminded of what I'm
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  Speaker 1: expecting to happen. I end up changing is this screen
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  Speaker 1: saver every year and a half because so many things
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  Speaker 1: happen from living my life in the expectation that I
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  Speaker 1: get to create a new vision board. Y'all think in
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  Speaker 1: positive terms. Let's pray more in twenty twenty three. Let's
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  Speaker 1: meditate more in twenty three. Prayer is talking to God.
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  Speaker 1: Meditate is listening to God. Do more of that and
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  Speaker 1: your life will be great. Let's have a great twenty
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  Speaker 1: twenty three started off with gratitude, thanking God for what
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  Speaker 1: He's gotten you through and what He's gonna do for you.
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  Speaker 1: Those are my clothes remarks. God willing will see y'all
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  Speaker 1: again tomorrow. Y'all stay in peace, man for all. Steve
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