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Lily Phillips Was Made For More + Other News · The Lila Rose Show

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Hey, everybody, welcome back to the podcast to the Lila Rose
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Show. We're doing another Live Today.
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I'm going to keep an eye on the chat here.
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It's good to see everybody. Hey, John Henry, thanks for
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joining. Hey, H thanks for being here.
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All right, we've got a rundown today of stories that are in the
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news in just the last few days. And Lily Phillips is a only
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fans. They call them content creators,
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but ultimately into pornography. And she has announced that she
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is going to go for this world record of doing prostitution in
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24 hours with 1000 men. This story, I think, is going
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viral because of a documentary that shows the real toll of what
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this activity really take out, what the real toll it really
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takes on on these only found creators.
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We're going to talk about that. Some of the incredible
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controversy is generating online.
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I think it's a really important story, actually.
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It's telling the story of our times.
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And then also there is an update that has just been announced.
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Some statements made by you might not remember this story.
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It was from many years ago, but it was incredibly famous at the
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time. People knew the story.
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It was ignited a national firestorm.
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But a woman named Crystal Magnum, again involved in really
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salacious activities, but she had falsely accused several
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athletes of rape. They ended up actually facing
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charges. It was this huge story.
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And she has statements made actually apologizing for that.
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All of these stories. You know the stories in the news
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lately about the Diddy tapes. Apparently there are tapes from
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Diddy's parties that show abuse and rape.
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All of this is connected back to this moment we are in, which is
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America today is in the middle of a huge, the fruit of the huge
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sexual revolution that we saw a few decades ago.
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And this is also hit Europe. And what we're seeing right now
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is the fruit of that sexual revolution.
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Or we've done away with sex as this beautiful sacred thing
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between a man and a woman in a marriage for life.
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And now it's really whatever anybody wants it to be.
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And there's so much breakdown from that.
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There's so much sorrow. There's so much sadness.
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There's so much hurt that is caused from that.
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And I think that really is the lesson that we're going to see
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when we unpack these stories. OK.
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As we go, though, I will take keep my eye on the chat.
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Hey, Rex, thanks for joining here.
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Rex says why is Pearly things pragmatic?
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OK, We're actually going to talk about Pearly things too in this
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episode because she had some things to say on X that I
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noticed just over the weekend. I had an X tweet that went
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viral, an X post that went viral.
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We're going to talk about that as well.
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Hi, La Tenage, thanks for joining.
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Hey, Savannah. Savannah says my heart breaks
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for her. She is so beautiful and young
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and loved. I wish someone could tell her
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that. Completely agree.
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OK, let's get into the basics here.
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So there is a Only Fans content creator named She goes by Lily
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Phillips. She's a young woman.
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She's from England. She's a British woman.
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And she recently made headlines because she publicly announced
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that she slept with over 100 men in just 24 hours.
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And this was a publicity stunt for her because she has built a
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business of prostituting herself online.
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This is how she's been able to make millions of dollars.
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As you guys know and we've talked about on the show before,
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prostitution, pornography, digital prostitution, this is a
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huge problem today and it is corrupting so many minds and
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hearts. And there are women out there
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who are making truly millions of dollars from selling their
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bodies online. So Lily Phillips is not alone in
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that. There are other women that are
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doing that. But what is particularly gone
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viral about Lily Phillips is this clip.
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And I want to show it with you. This is a clip that is from a
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documentary that actually Lily created that documents this
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horrific sex act that she did with 100 different men.
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But it also talks about what the aftermath looked like for her
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personally. So let's take a look at the
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clip. I think sometimes like feeling
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so like robotic, like by the, I think like the 30th, you know,
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like when we're getting on a bit, I've got like a routine of
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like how we're going to do this and like it.
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Just sometimes you'd like disassociate and be like, you
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know, like it's not like normal. So in my head right now, I can
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think of like 5-6 guys, 10 guys that I remember and that's it.
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But it's just, I don't know, it's just weird, isn't it?
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Like if I didn't, if I didn't have the videos, I wouldn't have
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known I've done 100, you know? But yeah, I think that was kind
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of the hard part is like conversing with them and like
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like when they'd kind of be like, oh, like we've only had
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two minutes or three minutes and you said 5 on the message.
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Did someone say that? To you, yeah.
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And obviously just makes you feel so bad.
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Do you think you should feel bad about that?
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I guess when you've promised something to people who support
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you, it's kind of hard to let them down.
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But it's up to you, right? Like when you.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Have you even processed? Do you think what's happened?
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Not yet. God, I won't forget this day.
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Jesus, when I decided to start making this documentary I wasn't
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too sure of what to. Expect.
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OK, I certainly didn't pause it here.
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There's another clip of her coming out of again,
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prostituting herself with 100 different men and she's
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literally speechless. She's kind of quaking and she's
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unable to really get her words out.
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She's crying and here she's saying.
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It made me feel really robotic. It's not normal.
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It's not normal. I don't even remember all the
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men and you know, they were upset with me.
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Some of them. I mean, she's sharing very raw.
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It's a very raw moment that she's having on camera hearing
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about the experience. And I think what you're seeing
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here, crystal clear is human nature.
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You're seeing that no matter how much we buy this narrative that
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pornography is empowering and that, you know, being an Only
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Fans creator, you're a creator and you make all this money and
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it's so glamorous and great. No matter how many lies we put
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on this kind of activity, at the end of the day, it's still soul
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crushing. And you see it in some of these
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clips in the in her eyes that she it is soul crushing for her
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because she just prostituted herself with 100 men and it's
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soul crushing for those men as well.
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So I had to take very simply that I put up on acts over the
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weekend because I heard this, I saw the clip of Lily Phillips.
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I was really sad and felt so sad, not just for her, but for
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the men who were involved in this and for the people that are
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looking at this and, you know, using it for porn consumption.
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And then for the example this sets to young girls who might be
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thinking they want to flirt with prostitution themselves.
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And so I put up this tweet and I said Lily Phillips was created
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for love, not abuse and prostitution.
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And of course I believe this to be true.
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It's not just Lily Phillips that's made for love.
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It's every single man that objectifies and objectified and
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used her. She objectified and use them.
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By the way, it's a two way St. It's every single person that
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creates or consumes pornography. They weren't made for
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pornography. God didn't create them for that.
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God didn't create us for that. God created us for love, and I
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want to just call out right now the difference between love and
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lust because pornography is about lust.
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Pornography is about selling lust, and it's about using men's
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lust to make money, woman's lust to make money.
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Love is not about using human beings for pleasure.
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Love is about seeing the good in human beings and wanting the
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best for human beings and making choices that help serve the good
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of that human being. So love wants the good for the
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other person, even to the point of sacrifice.
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Lust says I'm just going to use you for my own selfish
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pleasures. So it's very clear what's going
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on here. And the reason that Lily is in
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tears here is not because of love.
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Love doesn't leave you feeling used.
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It's because of love and she couldn't help but feel used even
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though she was also using these men.
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So anyways, I put this up on X. You know Lily Phillips was
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created for love, not for abuse and prostitution.
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There were a lot of comments down including from a creator
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online. I have not met her in real life
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but I've seen her stuff pop up online.
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H Pearl Davis and she tweets at me and says you're an idiot.
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Now, I don't, I'm not in Pearl Ted, but I've seen enough of her
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content from afar to know why she's calling me an idiot for
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saying that. Lily Phillips was created for
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love, not abuse and prostitution.
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And it's because I think her immediate paradigm and worldview
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is that women are always treated as the victim, but women are not
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the victim. And we have to stop saying that
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women are the victim. And so therefore we just need to
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hold women accountable because they're not being accountable to
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at all. Women are just not held
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accountable because as a feminism, and I agree with some
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of Pearl's beef that she has with the modern feminism.
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I agree that modern feminism, today's feminism, third way
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feminism, a lot of it is about hating unborn babies.
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A lot of it is about erasing true womanhood.
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A lot of a lot of it is about hating men and putting women on
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a holding women to different standards and saying that men
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are always wrong and women are always right, so forth and so
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on. Right.
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That is a fact about some elements of modern feminism.
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But regardless of that fact, it is the truth that Lily Phillips,
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myself, Pearl Davis, every woman in this world and every man in
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this world was created by God to be loved and to love.
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That is the universal human calling.
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And so when I see, you know, someone like Pearl respond like
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this, I can see it's because there's a lot of chips on her
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shoulder, I think, and a chips on a lot of shoulders out there
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where people are so angry at modern feminism that they just
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want to say women bad. It's like they want to go the
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opposite direction that feminism has gone.
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And they just say, well, the women are all rotten, They're
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all bad and these poor men. And they also bring up things
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like divorce agreement, saying that, you know, men have a get
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the short end of the stick in divorce court and, you know,
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endless complaints, right? But the, the, the solution, the
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Christian answer. And you guys know, I come at
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this from the Christian perspective because that is I
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believe the truth about us and God, that God created us for
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love, that we were made by a loving creator.
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The truth in all of this is that we all have original sin.
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We all are wounded by sin. We all commit sin, men and
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women. And it's not like men commit
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more sin than women or women commit more sin than men.
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No, we are all sinners. Sometimes the sins might look
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different, but we are all sinners.
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We all are in need of a Savior, and we all have dignity.
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And no matter how many horrible things Zoe Phillips does to
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herself or to other people, right, and no matter how many
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horrible things a man might do to himself or to other people
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and, and pornography and prostitution is self abuse,
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fornication, masturbation, these things are self abuse.
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So you can abuse yourself by doing these sorts of activities
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that is harming yourself as as well as often harming other
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people. Regardless of all of that stuff,
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no matter how deep in a hole you have fallen or Lily Phillips may
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fall, it doesn't change the fact that she wasn't made for that,
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that she was made for love and that she was made for good.
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That's what God made her for. But she is has free will and
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she's choosing not to live for love at this time.
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I know I have big hope for her that she can have a conversion
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and she can change her her life, but obviously that's not her
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choice at this time. She's choosing to go deeper and
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deeper into this dark hole. Really, it's hell.
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I mean, what is hell? Hell is a place where people
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refuse to accept God's love and they refuse to love themselves
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and they just want to embrace sin in the devil.
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I mean, that's what hell is. And so they're just God is
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respecting their free choice and that's what they choose.
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They don't want God, they don't want heaven.
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And what is heaven? Heaven is saying I reject the
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ways and the works of the evil 1 and I want love.
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I want to love and be loved. I want to glorify God forever.
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So I see the, you know, controversy this has sparked and
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I think it's an important conversation guys, because yes,
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modern feminism has been a brain warm.
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It has infected the minds of many women and men today.
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And we see things like the horrors of abortion.
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Women think my body, my choice, I get to kill a baby because
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that's going to empower me, right?
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Or I, you know, men are violent and bad and we need to feminize
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men and that's the the right approach and posture towards
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men. Or even this new variation where
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feminists are now saying that those that are have gender
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dysphoria and present as a woman, even though they're
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biologically a man now they are women and they need to be in
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women's sports. I mean, these are all
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manifestations of modern feminism that has lost the plot
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entirely. And the very fact that someone
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like Lily Phillips can be out there legally making millions of
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dollars off of prostituting herself and objectifying
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herself, and men legally can go out there and buy pornography of
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young women or women in general like Lily Phillips.
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The fact that that's even legal and that's culturally a thing,
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it just shows how far we have fallen, my friends and I know
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you guys see this. I know you guys see it.
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I'm going to take a quick look at the chat here.
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Armando says between yours and Pearl's argument, I lean towards
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what you're saying. Lila Pearl is wrong with her
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response to you. And yeah, I, I do think she's
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wrong. And also, you know, I should
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reach out to her because I'd be happy to discuss it with her on
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the show. We were actually going to do a
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debate on Tim Fool's podcast, I think over a year ago.
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There was talk of that, but the timing didn't work out with my
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schedule and I think the schedule of the show.
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So anyways, I think it would be good to continue that
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conversation. Sips with Sarah.
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Hey, hey, shout out to Sips with Sarah saying imagine if Lily
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Phillips converts after this. Yeah, would be amazing.
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That would be beautiful. And many of her followers could
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convert as well. And there was an Only Fans
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creator. There been actually a few of
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them who have converted. There's a young woman named Nala
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Ray. She goes by Nala the Ninja on
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Instagram. And she had been an Only Fans
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producer for, I think five years.
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So she was a pornographer, she was a prostitute, and then she
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totally changed her life after a conversion to Christianity.
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She said Jesus Christ radically changed her life, showed her the
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right path, showed her her value, showed her her sin, and
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she repented. And now she shares the good news
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of Jesus Christ. And this was someone who has
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made millions of dollars working in pornography.
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And she had this dramatic conversion.
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Or my friend Joshua Broom, he's been on the podcast last year.
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He's an amazing guy. He was a male pornographic actor
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and, you know, adult film star, they call it, for years.
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And he was actually one of the most decorated, you know, famous
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ones. And then he had a dramatic
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conversion after he wanted to commit suicide.
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He was so miserable and he just was at rock bottom.
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And then he felt that God met him in that and showed him his
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sin, showed him his worth, and he had a radical conversion.
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Now he's married, he's preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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He has children, he's a faithful husband and father.
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So there is there he is on the screen.
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There is a future for anyone, no matter how far they have fallen.
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But we have to call a spade a spade and say this is evil, this
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is falling. You know, the pornography is
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evil. I, I, I believe that pornography
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should be banned. It should not be something
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that's legal. It is, it is obscene material
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that is not protected under our freedom of speech.
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It is not a protected right. It should not be considered that
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it is obscenity and it should not be legal to create websites
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with pornography and sell pornography.
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I don't think it should be legal.
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I think it is destroying human beings, it's destroying
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relationships, it's destroying families, and it's destroying
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people like Lily Phillips. So all is to say, I think we
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should pray for Lily Phillips. I think we should pray for
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everybody caught up in pornography.
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This is not just a Lily Phillips problem.
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This is a problem that is afflicting truly millions of
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people and they need our prayers.
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1st. So no matter how many times we
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say that pornography is powerful sex, you know, recreational sex
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outside of marriage is fun and empowering.
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Whatever all of the lies that we tell ourselves, at the end of
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the day, there are still the natural consequences to our
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actions that are inflicted on our bodies and our spirits and
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on our psychology. And I think to close up the Lily
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Phillips story here, her saying that she felt robotic, that she
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felt almost out of body when this was happening, that she was
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just kind of in shock. She didn't know what to say
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after she did this prostitution with 100 men in one day.
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Her saying all of that, it's not an accident that that's what she
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experienced. That is the natural consequence
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of 1's actions to have effectively A trauma response.
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She's speaking about something that you could call
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disassociation, to use psychological terms.
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She's effectively having a trauma response because the
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human person was not made to be used and abused.
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With 100 people in sexual acts in a day.
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You know, sex was designed for love and fidelity and commitment
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and procreation. It's designed for a marriage, a
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loving marriage. That's got God's design for sex,
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and it's not designed for pornography, prostitution and
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abuse. So at the end of the day, the
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story here is a sexual revolution has steered us wrong.
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You guys know that. I'm going to keep shouting that
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from the rooftops and saying sex belongs in marriage between a
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man and woman who've committed each other for life and love
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each other for life. And I'm just going to close this
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section with a quote from Saint John Paul the Second, who I
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love. He wrote the amazing Love and
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responsibility. He wrote a lot on the theology
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of the body, talking about God's plan for sexual ethics.
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I mean, it's amazing his writing, but I love this quote
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from Saint John Paul. The Second he says it is is not
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enough to long for a person as a good for oneself.
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One must also and above all long for that person's good.
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So true love is not about wanting to possess the person or
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use the person or derive physical or emotional pleasure
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from the person. Because sometimes objectifying a
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person isn't even about sex, it's about emotional pleasure
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you get from that person. But true love is about longing
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for that person's good and wanting and acting towards that
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person's good, what is best for that person.
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And of course, abuse, pornography, prostitution is not
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best for anyone. All right, let's move to our
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next story here. Again, this is a very
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interesting, it caught my it's a very interesting again, post
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sexual revolution story and it's making the headlines right now.
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You can see the CNN article headline right here.
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Crystal Magham Mangum, who accused 3 Duke lacrosse players
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of rape, now says that she lied. She says I testified falsely
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against them by saying that they raped me when they didn't and
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that was wrong. I betrayed the trust of a lot of
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people who believed in me. Now the context here for those
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that might not know is this was a few decades ago, but it was a
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huge story at the time. 3 Duke students were arrested after
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this woman made allegations of sexual assault against them at a
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party. There were charges brought
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against these students. They lost.
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They were athletes. They lost their teams 2006
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season, so they were no longer even able to play.
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Their coach was even fired. So there was all of this fallout
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from this one woman's accusations.
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And ultimately the case was reviewed after the fact and the
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men were all exonerated of the charges against them.
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And they ended up reaching an undisclosed settlement with the
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university because, again, the university just took this woman
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out of word, said, OK, these men are rapists and ran with that,
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and they did not see justice. Now about decades later, this
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woman who accused them is publicly apologizing for it.
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This is actually incredible because it's one thing to make
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false allegations and then face legal penalties and then try to
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still get money out of it and whatever it is.
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But in this situation, she is publicly, as they say, taking
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the L and publicly saying I was wrong.
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She says I made-up a story that wasn't true because I wanted
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validation from people and not from God.
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And she says, I want to know that I love them and they didn't
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deserve that, and I hope that they can forgive me.
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So I think, yeah, people can maybe hear this and say, tough
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luck, lady, you, you ruined their lives for at least a
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couple years. It's easy for you to say sorry
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your life wasn't ruined the way that theirs was.
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But I think it shows that again, there's natural consequences to
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1's actions that should be had in a civil society.
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So if someone makes false charges, they should face
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penalties, I think, for that. False allegations against men
22:28
saying they're they're rapists or they're sexual abusers when
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they're not is a very serious matter to, to to to slander
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someone's character and publicly put them in in the realm of, you
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know, facing criminal charges because of lies.
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It's so serious. But I think it's powerful here
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that she is saying very simply, well, my motivation as I wanted
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validation, I wanted attention. She's saying I wanted attention.
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And we've seen, especially in politics, allegations of rape
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come up. And that's been something that's
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happened in politics, especially in the last few years.
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Whether they're allegations against, we're not going to get
23:02
into that today against new cabinet members that are being
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appointed. And under Trump's
23:07
administration, there were the allegations against a Supreme
23:11
Court Justice, Brett Kavanaugh. Allegations are something that I
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think just kind of pop up, especially when it comes to
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politics because they're so powerful.
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They can really shut down a person's career.
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And if allegations are true, it's such a serious matter.
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But it's just as much a serious matter if the allegations are
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not true because you're destroying someone's life, at
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least temporarily until there's an exoneration of some kind.
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And even then, these allegations can stick with them.
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But I think it's very powerful that in this story she is saying
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that she repents truly and that she wants forgiveness and she's
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asking for forgiveness. And you take up, you take 3
23:47
steps back from this. And I look at the Me Too
23:49
movement and I think there was a lot of good, the Me Too movement
23:52
because there was absolutely and still I think is absolutely CD
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activity that should not be seen as acceptable, that takes place
24:00
in certain level, certain industries, especially in
24:03
entertainment. And so, you know, the Harvey
24:05
Weinstein allegations against him and the casting couch
24:08
allegations, he's basically giving women favors in the
24:12
industry for getting sexual favors back.
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It's all disgusting. It all should be not something
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that is acceptable in any business in any industry, right?
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So in that sense, me too was reckoning in a good way.
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But we're me too. And I think, again, modern
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feminism goes all the wrong direction, is when you have that
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slogan of believe all women, you have that working premise that
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if someone makes an allegation and that someone is a woman,
24:37
then the allegation must be true.
24:38
And the person that they're alleging assault against or
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whatever it is, is automatically the bad guy and should be thrown
24:46
away in prison or lose their livelihood or lose everything
24:49
that they have, right. Then we've entered, I think, a
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OK, guys, so here is the clip I wanted to play with you play for
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you of Crystal Mangum, who was the woman that had accused the
26:12
three Duke lacrosse players of rape.
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And now that she's now she's saying that she lied.
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And this just came out in the last few days.
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So let's take a listen to this clip.
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I testified falsely against them by saying that they raped me
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when they didn't and that was wrong.
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And I betrayed the trust of a lot of other people who believed
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in me and made-up a story that wasn't true because I wanted
26:44
validation from people and not from God, and that was wrong
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when God already loved me for who I was.
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I hope that they can forgive me and I want them to know that I
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love them and they didn't deserve that.
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Pretty incredible, pretty incredible in my view.
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And I also say that's incredible because this apology, because
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first of all, you can just try to disappear off the face of the
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planet after being proven of proved to make false allegations
27:15
against someone. She's coming up publicly and
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saying, I apologize, but I think it's also powerful here is that
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I think people that go as far as making false allegations against
27:25
people for attention or money or control or power, whatever it
27:29
might be. I think they also they often may
27:31
have a narcissistic or sociopathic personality disorder
27:35
thing that give it's giving them that much confidence, that much
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daring to do such a heinous thing as making public
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allegations that are false against someone else.
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Well knowing fully that it's not true.
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And so that she fact that she's coming out and saying this now I
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do think speaks to it does point to me anyways, to an actual
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change of heart for her to come out again and publicly own it
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and publicly say it. So I just want to applaud that.
27:59
And yes, she did face a settlement.
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I mean, Duke University did a settlement with the lacrosse
28:04
players, but her name obviously was completely dragged from the
28:07
mud after this, as it should have been because she did
28:10
something very, very wrong. But again, she's coming out and
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apologizing publicly for it in this way.
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And I think that is a powerful thing that gives me hope.
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People like Nala, I mentioned Nala earlier, the former Only
28:20
Fans creator who had a big conversion and completely
28:23
rejected that and now is going on to share the good news of
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Jesus. I think that is also a beautiful
28:28
sign of change. That change is possible.
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Alright, I'm going to take a quick look at the chat here.
28:34
Kerjavi says Nala admits she lied for money.
28:37
I think what you're referring to here is the fact that she says
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she said there was a clip I think of her on the whatever
28:42
podcast saying that she would just say whatever she needed to
28:45
say for money, but she was talking about her time as a
28:49
content creator with, you know, pornographic creator with only
28:53
fans that she would just lie so that she people would give her
28:55
more money through only fans. Now, I think consistently I
28:58
think it's sincere. She has been saying and
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rejecting making money through that way completely rejecting
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pornography. She's married now.
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She's walking a different path. I do think it's possible.
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I know people like Joshua Broome.
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I've seen them share this, that people who have had such dark
29:12
paths that are so public and that they then publicly repent
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and they try to change their life.
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There are some people who just say too bad.
29:20
That will always go with you. You can't change your life.
29:23
If you want to change your life, fine, but then shut up about it.
29:25
You can't even talk about it because we don't believe you
29:27
anyways. I think there's a lot of attacks
29:30
that people who have these public conversions you've had
29:32
very dark paths may receive, and I don't think that that's fair.
29:36
I can understand why it happens, but I don't think that's fair.
29:38
And I think the Christian response to anybody who is
29:42
repenting is 1 of encouragement and support.
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And that's what I believe we should be offering to people
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like Nala, people like if Lily Phillips repents like Lily,
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anyone who has publicly left that lifestyle.
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Now we all have something to repent of.
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There's actually a debate in the check right now.
30:03
I'm going to take a quick look at it.
30:05
People are debating about whether or not there is a
30:10
difference in the kinds of sin and the grat the gravity of
30:13
those sins. Meaning someone like Lily
30:15
Phillips doing this horrific prostitution with 100 men.
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If that's more of a sin than say someone else's sin.
30:21
And yes, of course sins are different, but all sin separates
30:25
us from Jesus Christ and we need forgiveness for all sins.
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Some sins are much more serious and require more serious
30:31
criminal penalties or more serious forms of restitution or
30:35
repentance. But all sin separates us from
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Jesus Christ. So in that from that
30:39
perspective, as Christians, we all need a savior.
30:43
As non Christians, regardless of your sin, still you need a
30:46
savior. Everybody needs a savior.
30:49
All right, guys, I'm going to check check out the chat here a
30:52
minute. Folks are saying if Lila, if
30:54
Pearl debates you right now, you'll just get the it's all her
30:57
fault because she is a big girl and making all her own decisions
31:00
and we shouldn't hand hold her cuddle women, etcetera,
31:02
etcetera. Yes, I think that is Pearl's
31:04
argument that, you know, it's all her fault.
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Tough luck. Tough luck girl.
31:09
And yes, she is choosing this. That is a fact.
31:13
According to what she said publicly, Lily Phillips, she's
31:15
choosing this, but that doesn't mean that she's not a victim of
31:18
her own sin. We are victims of our own sin.
31:21
And that also doesn't mean that we shouldn't encourage her to
31:23
not do what she's doing and tell her that she was made for love,
31:27
not abuse and prostitution. Someone else in the chat is
31:31
saying Lila Rose becoming a feminist before 2024 is so
31:35
weird. I think this is the same person
31:38
that was talking about. I think this is one of the kind
31:44
of Pearl type folks defenders. You can let me know if I'm wrong
31:48
here. I am, I would say a feminist in
31:53
the first wave sense, which is so long ago no one even knows
31:57
what that means anymore. I think women should be treated
31:59
equally under the law. Surprise, surprise.
32:02
I do think it's good that women can vote.
32:04
I do think it's good that women can own property.
32:06
I do think it's good that women can go to school.
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I think those are all great things.
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Do I think that women should be look down on men or kill their
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babies or women should be treated better than men?
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No. I think that under the law, no.
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And I think that's where again, modern feminism has gone so, so
32:24
wrong. And I would say I'm very proudly
32:27
an anti feminist in terms of being anti modern feminism.
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Very proud to be anti modern feminism.
32:36
All right guys, I think what a good way to close this out today
32:39
would be to close with a decade of the Divine Mercy chaplet and
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we're going to offer this decade of the Divine Mercy Chaplet for
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freedom for many people from prostitution and pornography.
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OK, I think that's a good thing to do and this might be a great
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thing for Advent to have something that we love.
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We know might be struggling with some sort of sexual addiction or
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sexual sin. We can pray for them too.
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And so you guys have, we know the drill, we've done this
33:07
before, but you go to the Chaplet of Divine Mercy and this
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is this beautiful prayer asking for mercy on the world from
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Saint Faustina that she believed Jesus gave to her.
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And it's a beautiful prayer that we can join in praying.
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And there's five decades of it. We're just going to do 1 decade.
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But I'm going to offer this prayer for freedom from sexual
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addiction, sexual sin, and that everybody listening for you and
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your families, for us to have just a really beautiful Advent.
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We've got just a few more days really before Christmas so we
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can get closer and deeper in our faith, in our walk with Jesus as
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we prepare our hearts to receive Jesus on Christmas Day.
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OK, so you guys know the drill. There's 10 little prayers that
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we pray, and we're going to start with the Eternal Father.
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In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit,
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Eternal Father, Ioffer you the body and blood, soul and
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divinity of your dearly beloved Son, our Lord Jesus Christ, in
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atonement for our sins and those of the whole world.
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For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on
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the whole world. For the sake of His sorrowful
34:02
passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.
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For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on
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the whole world. For the sake of His sorrowful
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passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.
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For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on
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the whole world. For the sake of His sorrowful
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passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.
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For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on
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the whole world. For the sake of His sorrowful
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passion have mercy on us and on the whole world.
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For the sake of His sorrowful passion, have mercy on us and on
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the whole world. For the sake of his sorrowful
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passion, have mercy on us and on the whole world.
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Amen. We all, we all need mercy.
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All right, guys, thanks so much for joining us live.
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We will be back here next week and have a wonderful, beautiful
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advent. God bless you guys.