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Sister, Sister Split, Cuffing Season, Marri(Separate)ed Houses, Shirley's Handbags and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Yeah, I got a radio show. Okay, this
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  Speaker 1: is timely for everybody. I'm sure I want to offer
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  Speaker 1: you all or some encouragement because everybody needed. Let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something. You strike out on your goals, you
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  Speaker 1: strike out on your aspirations, and so you strike out,
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  Speaker 1: as it happens to all of us. Here it comes life.
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  Speaker 1: Life just hits one of them bad notes, as it
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  Speaker 1: always does, as it always does for all of us,
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  Speaker 1: for everybody. Now when those bad notes happen, when the
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  Speaker 1: haters come out of nowhere, when the setback comes up,
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  Speaker 1: when when the out of nowhere appears, when I didn't
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  Speaker 1: see that coming comes, Here's here's what you have to do.
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  Speaker 1: Here is the thing that I have been teaching myself
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  Speaker 1: for years that I used to not always understand, so
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to give it to you. You have to
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  Speaker 1: be encouraged anyway. Now that's difficult, Okay, Steve, what you're
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  Speaker 1: talking about? You just told me all this discouraging stuff
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  Speaker 1: that can happen, and you said you got to be
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  Speaker 1: encouraged anyway. Yeah, man, you have to, because what's happening
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  Speaker 1: to you right now, the thing that you're going through
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  Speaker 1: right now, the thing that everybody's going through right now.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't nobody don't smooth selling. Man. Everybody got something and
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  Speaker 1: if they, if they don't smooth sailing, just notice is coming.
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing I'm wishing on anybody. It's just that this
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  Speaker 1: is life. This is how it happens everybody, So please
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  Speaker 1: stop stop getting on the old woe is Me bandwagon?
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  Speaker 1: Old Lord? Why met old Lord? Something always happened to me,
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  Speaker 1: something always happens to everybody. But here's what you got
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  Speaker 1: to do. When you get in moments like this, you
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  Speaker 1: got to be encouraged. You got to remember in those times,
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  Speaker 1: in those times when it's going wrong, you got to
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  Speaker 1: remember all that you've been through. You got to remember
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  Speaker 1: all that you've come through. You have to remember those
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  Speaker 1: other times when you felt like this, and somehow, unexplainably
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  Speaker 1: you don't even really stop to say nothing about it.
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  Speaker 1: It just changed for you. And the problem that walls
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  Speaker 1: is no more. And the situation that seems so insurmountable,
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  Speaker 1: you got over it, You got around it, you got
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  Speaker 1: over it. Sometimes you just got to slide right under it.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you got to plow through it. But in those
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  Speaker 1: times when it's discouraging for you, when you feel like
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  Speaker 1: giving up, those are the test. Those are the moments
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  Speaker 1: that will determine whether we make it or not. I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you one thing for sure. If you give up
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  Speaker 1: in these moments right here here is a foreshow you'll
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  Speaker 1: never make it. That that's that's unquestionably the deal. If
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  Speaker 1: you give up in these dark times, if you give
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  Speaker 1: up in these what you think is insurmountable moments, if
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  Speaker 1: you turn back now here is the one thousand percent
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  Speaker 1: for shure, you ain't gonna make it. But there's a
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  Speaker 1: bright side to this situation. If you keep your head down,
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  Speaker 1: if you keep forging, if you keep pressing on. Sometimes
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  Speaker 1: if you just stand there and sometimes get knocked to
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  Speaker 1: your knees. But if you stay in that place, if
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  Speaker 1: you just stay there and ride the storm out, my
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  Speaker 1: head is bloodied but unbowed. If you can just stay there,
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  Speaker 1: if you consider in that moment and ride it out,
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  Speaker 1: you will win. You will pass the test, and you
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  Speaker 1: will get to move on to the next level. But
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  Speaker 1: there is no next level without a test. You can't
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  Speaker 1: get to grade six without passing grade five. You can't
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  Speaker 1: be your senior without first being a junior. You can't
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  Speaker 1: graduate without fulfilling the hours and requirements. You see, I
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  Speaker 1: don't care what you do in life. Look at it.
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  Speaker 1: It's all set up on levels for You've got to
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  Speaker 1: accomplish the thing before in order to get to the
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  Speaker 1: next level. And when you've made those level accomplishments, you
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  Speaker 1: get to graduate that you can go on to get
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  Speaker 1: the masters in a PhD. You can go on and
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  Speaker 1: become rich, you can go become wealthy, or you can
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  Speaker 1: go or you can go somewhere and think yourself in
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  Speaker 1: another set of circumstances. But you got to go through
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  Speaker 1: something to get to something. There ain't nothing free. So
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  Speaker 1: you can stop that notion about being successful that is easy.
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  Speaker 1: Come on. Man, if it was easy, what we what
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  Speaker 1: we're talking about. It is not easy. Stop thinking it is.
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  Speaker 1: It is difficult. But I'll tell you what's even more
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  Speaker 1: difficult than becoming successful. You want to know what that is,
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  Speaker 1: Try not being successful your whole life. That's hard. You
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  Speaker 1: are listening to a person who has done them both
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  Speaker 1: been successful and really really been not successful. And I
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  Speaker 1: got news for you. Both of them hard. But I
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  Speaker 1: would rather deal with what it is to be something,
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  Speaker 1: to make something out of myself, to force myself to
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  Speaker 1: go to work when I don't feel like it. This
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  Speaker 1: morning was a rough get up for me, but I
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  Speaker 1: got up and I said thank you anyway. Never give up,
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  Speaker 1: And I don't watch this dude too. He to mess
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  Speaker 1: around and got close to me because he just never
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  Speaker 1: gave up. You can never ever give up. Never. It's
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  Speaker 1: not an option. Giving up cannot be an option for you.
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  Speaker 1: You cannot do that. It's out of the question. It's
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  Speaker 1: in'tconceivable in your mind to quit, because to quit, it's
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  Speaker 1: to watch what you get when you quit nothing. That
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  Speaker 1: is a reward for those who hang in there, who
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  Speaker 1: never give up, who forged through, who see it through,
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  Speaker 1: who get knocked down and get back up. Who gets
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  Speaker 1: trampled but somehow gathers themselves and get back to your knees.
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  Speaker 1: But stay in that place, man, don't ever give up.
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  Speaker 1: Don't let go be encouraged. Think of all you've been through,
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  Speaker 1: Think of all you come through. Think of all he's
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  Speaker 1: done for you. Think of all the times you thought
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  Speaker 1: you wasn't gonna make it, but somehow, without you ever
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  Speaker 1: even saying thank you, he got through. He got you
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  Speaker 1: through it. Anyway. That's that thing called grace. Now we
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  Speaker 1: kind of need that in our life. All I need
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  Speaker 1: is a little more grace. You can't give God no
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  Speaker 1: money for grace, man. Grace is absolutely free. It's available
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  Speaker 1: to everybody, but you can't get none if you quit.
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  Speaker 1: Don't give up. I'll just tell you that flat out.
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  Speaker 1: Don't ever give up. You're listening, coming in Salt, coming
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  Speaker 1: in sexy, coming in pretty. It's that nephew, that sexy nephew. Okay, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: that's that's that's it. He let me have it today
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  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna give it to you today. It's sexy
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  Speaker 1: Timmy holding it down. Steve harp In Morning Show with
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  Speaker 1: the Beautiful Ladies. Yeah, Shirley Strawberry call of Farrell, Mississippi
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  Speaker 1: month to call, and also junior boy laying in the cut.
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  Speaker 1: It is the nephew. Well you you everybody fin to
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  Speaker 1: say good morning sexy timmey on im. I'm oh, you
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  Speaker 1: gonna wish every day we got every day. Let me
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  Speaker 1: ask the question we all want to when is your
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  Speaker 1: voice getting back? You know, to be back at about
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  Speaker 1: another month? Don't you worrybody right now? Sexy Timmy to you,
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  Speaker 1: I can't, I can't, I can't get it, can't nobody, nobody,
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  Speaker 1: I can't. Just want to say it sexy nobody. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and he none. Eight. Yes, I've been married twenty days.
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  Speaker 1: The old thing I say, sexy is my wife. I
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  Speaker 1: know that strong coming in here. Strong. I wish I
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  Speaker 1: would call it shut. I can't do that. So now
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  Speaker 1: you're down to two. You're lost down the Okay, ahead, Shirley,
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  Speaker 1: Now you go ahead, call you go ahead. Wait. I
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  Speaker 1: have a question. It's Tommy still my work husband. Oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you guys, he said, were about I want to be
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  Speaker 1: Gizelle tom Brady's wife. Carl. We we are. We are
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  Speaker 1: work married. I just don't require a lot from you.
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  Speaker 1: That's all that is I just don't ask you to
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  Speaker 1: do a lot, that's all. But I have to say sex.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. Just sexy times, that's all. Good morning, sexy times,
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  Speaker 1: that's all I want to get up with. Three two one,
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  Speaker 1: Good morning sexy Tommy was scratch that I'm and just
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  Speaker 1: went for it, all right, Shirley, Come on, sexy, tell
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  Speaker 1: me sexy, tell me good morning. That's what I don't
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  Speaker 1: tell me about it. That's what I'm talking about. Junior
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  Speaker 1: boy Lord, you want to ask sexy anything because you know,
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  Speaker 1: you know you always asking. You want to ask me
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  Speaker 1: about a game? Better? Right? You better asked me about
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  Speaker 1: you see the sixty second home run or something. You
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  Speaker 1: better to say something like that. I'm not saying it.
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  Speaker 1: I can't was it? Was it a sexy run? Ji,
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  Speaker 1: That's all I'm asking. Brothers run hey man, hey Mann
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  Speaker 1: had queen So you can't ask no other man to
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  Speaker 1: say sexy? Did you? You you talking to me? Man?
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  Speaker 1: I know I've been knowing you for years. I know
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  Speaker 1: when when your voice coming back. I need the strong
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  Speaker 1: Timmy back now, sex. I need strong Timmy. Give me
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  Speaker 1: about thirty more days. I'm gonna be ready. But when
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  Speaker 1: we need to know since we're talking about sexy junior,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think we've ever heard your sexy boys. What
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  Speaker 1: a sex juniors down? Like just like that, he goes
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  Speaker 1: sixty juniors. Come on, come on moring everybody se n Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I see all y'all getting turning fans on right now.
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking yeah, se juniors, I can do shar that's
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  Speaker 1: the best special bestow All right, we got all kinds
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  Speaker 1: of shenanigans coming up for you this morning. At thirty
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  Speaker 1: two minutes after the hour, we'll run that prank back
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  Speaker 1: with the nephew right after this you're listening to show.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time to start your morning
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  Speaker 1: off with the nephew and run bad prank back nephew
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  Speaker 1: what you got today? With my stupidity and this I'm
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  Speaker 1: right here just just just you know what makes me proud.
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  Speaker 1: That's right here. It's title bring my Breast Back, you understand.
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  Speaker 1: And for all of you out there, to all you
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  Speaker 1: me and out there that have they have bad breasts,
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  Speaker 1: you know, and hen make some. You know, if y'all
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  Speaker 1: break up, you got the right to get your breath back.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you bought them. You bought them you
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  Speaker 1: ought to be to get them back? What's up calling you? What? What? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: What about the BBL You kind of touched on it yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never invested in No, but no, no bbl's here.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Why I sound like some
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  Speaker 1: realms though? Why we sound like BBS? That stands for
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  Speaker 1: big booty Ladies? Okay? Is that what it is? Bbl's
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  Speaker 1: that's what That's what some people think it stands for.
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  Speaker 1: If I buy you Brazilian butt lifts, that's what it's
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  Speaker 1: stands for. Now, bye bye butt two? Oh come on
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  Speaker 1: now me oh, let oh, let just a just a
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  Speaker 1: box full of stuff? There we go, let's go get them. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Oliver. Yeah, this is him. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: you married? You? You engaged in Madison? Right? Yes, I am.
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  Speaker 1: There's a problem with it or something? What's up? No? No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: My name is Ricky. Man. Have you heard about the
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  Speaker 1: last person that she was engaged too? Well, she kind
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  Speaker 1: of spoke briefly about you. You know what. Man? First
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  Speaker 1: of all, let me just say this, congratulations. Okay. Let
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  Speaker 1: me let me be the first say that. Congratulations for
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  Speaker 1: y'all getting engaged and I hope it worked with y'all. Okay, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: here here's why I call uh. We got we got
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  Speaker 1: a situation at hand that we kind of need to
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  Speaker 1: clear up between you and I. So what is it?
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  Speaker 1: And me and you? Got a little conversation we need
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  Speaker 1: to have about property. Well we're talking about property? What property?
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  Speaker 1: The property we live in? What are you talking about?
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  Speaker 1: This is my property? Okay. Now I'm not talking about
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  Speaker 1: your house or nothing like that. Oh I got some
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  Speaker 1: property or that that belonged to me, and I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure out how we can rectify problems. Well, I'm
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  Speaker 1: quite sure something nothing to pack up or whatever, you
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  Speaker 1: can come get it. I don't know what do you
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  Speaker 1: have over here in my house that yours? Okay, the
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  Speaker 1: ash the ashwal breast that she had belonged to me,
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  Speaker 1: the breast breather. I bought her some breasting plants. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't know nothing about nor the breast in plants. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you might not know nothing about it. But the bottom
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  Speaker 1: line is I spend ten thousand dollars or some breasting plants,
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  Speaker 1: and I want my property back, buddy, man Jeeves, No, man,
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  Speaker 1: you're not getting back. What are you talking about breashing plan.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't know nothing about that many, man, I don't
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  Speaker 1: knowing about it, But I'm calling you like a man
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  Speaker 1: explaining it to you know. I'm trying to let you know.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I bought her some breasts in plants. Now
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  Speaker 1: that's my property now, just like just like when it
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  Speaker 1: don't work out with with uh an engagement don't work out,
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  Speaker 1: you want your ring back? Well, I want my breath back.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, man, if you had gave a ring, you
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  Speaker 1: can get that back. But just man, what do you
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  Speaker 1: I mean? Come on, man, you ain't get back. Hey man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting them back. Oh I'm gonna be over there
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  Speaker 1: every other week being happy with without in bought. No,
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  Speaker 1: no that ain't. That ain't what's gonna happen. No, no, no, brother,
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  Speaker 1: that ain't gonna happen there. I don't know what you're
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  Speaker 1: calling for about than ten thousand dollars the breasting places
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  Speaker 1: you ain't getting. You come over here if you want to.
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  Speaker 1: When you're with somebody, when you lose them, you lose
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  Speaker 1: every damn thing you paid for. So if you brought
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  Speaker 1: us and you're done, you should have bought when you
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  Speaker 1: got married. You know what I'm saying you should have
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  Speaker 1: waited then bought the damn tell them mine. I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: be over here. That's what I'm gonna do with your
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  Speaker 1: breast and plans. So your money was well spent. You
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  Speaker 1: ain't get back. Move on in your life. Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: you don't tell me when and when when I supposed
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  Speaker 1: to buy? Thought I bout someone I feel like it.
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  Speaker 1: But the bottom line here is them breast alone to me. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna work'na. Somebody gonna pay me ten thousand dollars
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  Speaker 1: one way or the up. Oh no, No, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: getting nothing back here, man. You got to move on
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  Speaker 1: with your life. Man. When y'all broke up, y'all running together.
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  Speaker 1: No motive left with us. She walked away with a man.
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  Speaker 1: That's it. That's over. I'm sorry. Let me say something
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  Speaker 1: to you, man. I'm coming over there. I'm coming over
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  Speaker 1: there and have a conversation with Madison about this, because
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  Speaker 1: that's whoever, darly I need to talk to. No, you're
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  Speaker 1: not talking to nobody over here. You're talking to me,
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  Speaker 1: like you say, man to man. I'm letting you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: your loss your lost. Man, you don't get nothing. I
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  Speaker 1: can't even get money. Number you get money. Let me
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  Speaker 1: get your number so I can call you back when
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  Speaker 1: she on the way home. My number on the breath,
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  Speaker 1: number on the breast. Two thousand dollars. That's your number. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna check it. I'm gonna show check it
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  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna look at it every day because you
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  Speaker 1: ain't getting nothing back, brother than mine. Get lost. Man,
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  Speaker 1: it's over. Let me ask you this, man, Have you
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  Speaker 1: even bought the ring from man of it? Yeah? I've
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: bought the ring. That's what you do when you get engaged.
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  Speaker 1: I paid, the ring is bought. Brother, way you're wear
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  Speaker 1: I must ring calls about nine thousand dollars. That's a
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: nice ring fee. The breast calls more than the damn ring.
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  Speaker 1: You're a cheating man, man, you man, I mean, I
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: don't about the ring you talk about. Look, dude, she
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  Speaker 1: going then brusts ain't yours? No more? Man, you don't
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: get back here. If he was wearing a pair of
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: shoes or something, I key that back. So what what? Noah?
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  Speaker 1: Hey man, all I'm gonna say is this here. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna come over there and have a conversation with Madison
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  Speaker 1: about my breath because the breast bloss to me, you're
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  Speaker 1: not coming over here hitting nothing. She ain't even here.
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  Speaker 1: But you can bring your over here. You come over
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  Speaker 1: here with your chest pushed out, I'm gonna push it
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  Speaker 1: back in for your brother, don't. I got two breaths
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  Speaker 1: over there. You tell them is five thousand dollars. I
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  Speaker 1: won't both for man. Look, you ain't getting who the
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  Speaker 1: gis you. You call every extral friend you break up
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  Speaker 1: with wanting, but I call the ones that I'm in
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  Speaker 1: bought breastfa thank you. That's a good damn wedding gifts.
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  Speaker 1: I guess he don't. Hey, man, don't don't let me
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  Speaker 1: tell you something. Don't you touch my damn breast? You
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  Speaker 1: war mean man? Look heah, man, I don't know who
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  Speaker 1: the hell man? Hey, you can get on my line. Man,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: who is this? I'm the person that on the breast.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know who this is? Here? You're on nothing
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  Speaker 1: over here? Man. You didn't took the loss on their brother.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't took a straight loss on their man. You
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  Speaker 1: got up partner. Who is this man? He lost it?
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: Ain't calling my phone. I'm gonna tell you right now
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  Speaker 1: who this is your partner. Yeah, don't wonder who is this.
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  Speaker 1: This is neph Tom It's Steve Harby Morning Show. Your
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  Speaker 1: girl Madison got me the plankball called you. Oh man, boy,
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  Speaker 1: you ain't it's cold where you cod man? Ain't somebody
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  Speaker 1: but damn me, this is it. They real aught it
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  Speaker 1: out of here. I know you're supposed to know what
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: you marry. I don't know why are you asking me?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Good I'm still what you told about. You bust the man.
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: You still got me messed up? Real a fake. You
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: sound like where y'all come. Man, y'all, y'all need to
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: stop that. Man. But I listened to you last people.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: You gotta laugh my stuff. I never thought i'd get
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: got Hey, y'all, what's the baddest radio show man? Steve
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Harby money sell that's the truth. He got me, good man,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: You got me good man? All right? Thank you, Tommy.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, ask the nephew and asked you. You're
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to show? Coming up at
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour and Entertainment News, Black Lives
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Matter goes off on Kanye West and Candice Owens for
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: wearing White Lives Matter T shirts. Plus Herschel Yeah, plus
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Herschel Walker's son Christian drags his daddy on Twitter and
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, this is craziness. Gonna be rmby singer
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: Life Jennings. He's been on the show several times. Life
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Jennings said serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer asked him to sing
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: pretty Brown Eyes for him while they were in prison together.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: of the hour, but right now it is time to
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: ask the nephew and as junior. Okay, here we go,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: shar Linda in the Bronx Rights Listen, guys, my husband
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: and our neighbor got into an argument for trash cans
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: on our side of the yard. I told my hubby
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: to chill out, and he got mad and told me
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: not to ever talk to him like that in front
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: of others. People are crazy nowadays, and I didn't want
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: my husband to get hurt. How can he be mad
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: at me for that, because what you cannot do it's
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: called yourself checking your man or putting your man in
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: a certain place in front of everybody. Your man is
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: out there being king. When you're out there being king,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: you got to stand behind him and say whatever my
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: man say that's the way you ride it out. But
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: you can't be out there, baby, hold on, hold on,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: you can't be out there refereeing. Stand behind your man. Okay,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: whatever your man saying, that's where it go. I don't
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: care if he picked that man up and put his
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: ass in the trash can and clothes to lead. You
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: ride it out with your man. Nah, go ahead, Julie,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I can't. I didn't have a trash can argument before.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, man. I'm sorry, clearly, Bet you go to
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: next question. Because I have ballet trade, they pick it up.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I don't never argubat trade. I have never they come
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: getting my trash. I can't speak. I don't know how
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: to pull the trash can to the end of the road.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I live in the park. What the hell am I
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah? Why should Why should I be out
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: here trying to give advice on trash cans? Tommy got
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: a trash cans can etiquette? Yeah, I never saw the
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: people getting my trash, never seen it. And Junior, let
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: me tell you something out here. I live in the
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: of course, I live in the wilderness, So you got
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: to really, it's a it's a it's a work of art.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: When you take the trainsht you gotta take the trash
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: at you gotta you gotta pull liver the clothe rocks
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: in down so you can keep all the roadings out
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: because if not, you can walk out there too in
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: the morning and the raccoons have taken over. So you
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: got the Yeah, they gotta be runned. Oh they're smart. Smart,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: sound like I'm gonna be an apartment apartment living you
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: and your boot your new wife to get her mind
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: off our house. It'll be all right. Moving on, Moving
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: on to Deny in Honolulu, the nay says, I'm a
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: forty four year old single woman, and I scare men
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: away because I don't shave the dude groom the hair
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: under my arms. But I don't go bear. I have
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: my own beliefs about body hair, and it's been a
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: problem in my relationships. Why can't men embrace this? Why
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I just that that national geographic look. I just can't
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: do it. It's just, oh, it's just too much for me.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: I got this. I'm dealing with you. I was promise
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: you we're gonna get this old witty meeting. I'm gonna
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you in there we're gonna shave you
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: down all of it. Matter fact, I'm gonna tak o.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: We're gonna get you waxed everything. Wow, laser, all that
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: from the neck down is to be really naked. Were
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: from the neck down. We've been to get you right, Junior.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: You sure took out the mystery. Why are you single
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: that mystery out of that? We're not surprised if you
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: don't shave. I can't walk into batho. M your right
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: arm up and you comb and half under you. I
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: want this, don't none of this say I won't. You don't, Nene.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Did you miss the part where I said she grooms
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: the hair under her arms? But she does? But what
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: about everything else? Yeah? That you said the hair under there?
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: See that's the problem. YE don't know. Man, if it
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: embraced this, we both, we both got it. We got
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: we both got a hair under our own both. I
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: don't like hell on the lady's legs, y'all like that
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: just for me, not preference or preference. No, man, ain't
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: he didn't shave her legs. Every time I saw it
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: look like the wolf pack like I think she played football?
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: What you got hair on your calf muscle? Dog, Come
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: on that car, all right. Some women out there with
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: back hand too, you know that, don't right there? Okay, now,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: y'all men say nothing by backhad be quiet. But if
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: a woman got back then but a woman got back out,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: that's that's that's really. Come on now, yeah, stand all right,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: Barbara and Albany says, my husband is sixty two years
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: old and he's worked as a road manager for over
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: forty years. I found an unopened pack of condoms in
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: his toiletry bag after he got back from a gig.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: He told me, therefore, the guys in the group and
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: it's his job to have all the stuff they need.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: This is news to me. Should I believe him? What
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: is you doing in his toiletry bay? That's how you
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: flipping it? What are you doing in there? That's got
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with you. That. Ain't you deodorin that,
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: ain't your toothpaste? What are you doing in his toiletry bay?
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: And whatever? He said, that's what it is. That's for
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: the rest of the group. Okay, that's Robbie, Bobby Rick
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: and Mike. Robbie Bobby Rick and Mike shout out to
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: brook manager, what's up? Yeah, No, I'm with Tommy. If
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: we stand inside, what are you doing in that toward
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: your back? That is none of your business. Let me
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: say something. Do you know how much sex backup singers get.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: It ain't just for the league group. Backup singers get
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: action too, they do, Okay, get the matter. They don't
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: get what the group don't want. They get what the
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: group don't want. That's how that go. You have to
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: have condoms for them because they ain't thinking. And then
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: the band got the drama, got get a drama song.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Come on, rama that stupid. I don't believe them, don't
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: believe them, don't don't believe them. Oh my god, you
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: have to. I believe because he believe manager managers. They
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: got promise you. The road manager got everything in me
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: everything I'd be proof and condoms. Come on now, all
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: that he got all of it and whatever he don't have,
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: he gonna. He knows how to get it even okay,
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: all right, all right, um, moving on, last one guy,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: he can get some chilly go ahead. I'm moving on
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: to Marcus in Nashville. Marcus says, I'm forty nine and
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: I've been married since i was twenty one years old.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: I've been focused NonStop. I'm providing a good life for
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: my family. My wife says she needs a break from
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: me and our kids. So she's going on a vacation
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: by herself. I've done because I've never needed a break
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: from her. Why does she need to be alone? Well,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: let me tell you this. I don't know why she
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: need to be alone. It's probably you. But let me
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: tell you it's been to happen on that weekend. Does
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: she leave? It's going down? What's going down? What everything
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: she beends to do? It? Calla what? What? What? Man?
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: You're saying, she's gonna be with a man? Don't meet
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: somebody now? Or somebody gonna meet hard hel she gonna
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: meet somebody? Why she there? But it's going down and
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: when she come back, you're not gonna know what damn
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: thinking about. I just think it's a self care mental
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: health break. Yeah, I'm all right, Thank you guys. Coming
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: up next it is at the top of the hour.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Some entertainment news for you. Right after this, you can
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: go to your mama house with self kill. You ain't
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: got to go way out. You're listening show. We've all
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: seen the picture of Kanye West and right wing activist
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: political activist Candice owens they were both rocking White Live
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Matter T shirts at his Easy fashion show in Paris. Now,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: in response to the picture, black Lives Matter movement is
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: going after Kanye, saying it's nothing but a stunt to
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: her folks fighting for justice. In a released statement, black
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Lives Matter said, um, while some may see Kanye and can'
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: it's a stunt as a distraction, we recognize that it
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: harms thousands of families fighting for justice for their loved
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: ones killed by state sanctioned violence. Kanye says he wore
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: the White Lives Matter T shirt at his fashion show
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: because he thinks Black Lives Matter was a quote scam. Wow,
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: he just can't get him stupid to te Yeah, I'm
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: tired of talking about him. I really am. I'm dead.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: I'm not giving him the more chances. I'm not. He
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: not getting the more for me. That's it, and that's
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: what happens. We keep giving him chances, we keep talking
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: to him and listening to him. Yeah, it's insulting for him.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: It is shirt. It is sulting and I cannot believe
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: that he wore that shirt. And I can't this. Some
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: one I could care less. Yeah, and we can believe. Yes,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not shocked about her. But Kanye, come on, come on,
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: come on this Yeah, it's disappointing. It's it's but like
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: he's attention, very much so attention and you know this
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: whole it's we never said. No one has ever said
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: that white lives matter, white lives didn't matter, No one
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: has ever said that. All we said is black lives matter.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: That's what we as a people have said because we
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: were the ones being gunned down, shot and killed, you
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: know before America's very eyes, you know, and that's all. Yeah,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: and that's all it's been. Yeah, Tommy, all lives matter.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: Absolutely they did. But I want to say this, a
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: good black ass whooping would matter, mole. If we can
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: just give Kanye to whopping that beam black ass whopping,
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: we just need it bad that he needed good baw.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: He does well. And it goes back to what we
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: were saying too well, what Shirley was saying with black
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: lives matter, all we were saying was don't It's like
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: when you kill us and you shoot us, we're saying,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: don't kill and shoot us like you don't do them.
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: We're not telling you to do that. We're saying, don't
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: kill us, like you don't kill them. That's what black
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: lives matter, That's what it means, that's what right. That's
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: killing us. Stop killing us. You don't kill them. Don't
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: kill usus for just a minor traffic stop, you know,
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: you stop someone black person in a car. Yeah, and
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: there still and it were still and we're still seeing it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, I was looking on social media to day.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I'm looking at a kid that did something wrong in
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: school and I'm watching police officers come up and just
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: oh my god, what they are doing. The amount, the
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: limit that they go to is is crazy. Man. But
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Drell drugged this kid down the bleachers, pepper spray, I
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: mean everything, And I'm like, oh my god, they're gonna
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: kill it. Yeah yeah, yeah. So Kanye, you're wrong for this.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: You're you're wrong for this. You are wrong for his
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: name marries him, Yeah all right, herschell Walker also in
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: the news. Yeah, he's of course, a Republican Senate candidate
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: in Georgia. Walker has come under fire by his own son,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Christian Walker, in a series of tweets. The Daily Beast
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: recently ran a story about a woman who claimed that
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: herschel Walker got her pregnant in two thousand and nine
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: and then paid for her to have an abortion. Christian
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: his son tweeted, I know my mom and I would
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: really appreciate if my father herschel Walker stopped lying and
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: making a mockery of us. You're not a family man.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: When you left us to bang a bunch of women,
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: threatened to kill us, and had us move over six
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: times in six months running from your violence. Yeah, he continued,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: I don't care about someone who has had bad past
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: and who's had a bad past and takes accountability. But
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: how dare you lie in act as though you're some
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: moral Christian upright man. You've lived a life of destroying
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: other people's lives. How dare you you? Huh herschel Oh yeah, goodness.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: You know there are a bunch of commercials in Georgia,
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: and you know one of them is his ex wife
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: saying that he put a gun to her head, and
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: you know, oh my god. Yeah. Yeah, but he wants
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: to run for senator. Yeah, he's running against Senator Senator
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Rafael Warnock. Yeah, from Georgia to get out of voting. Yeah,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: we have to, we have to. I want to send
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Herschel a nice bouquet of cotton. You know what I'm saying,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: bouquet of cotton. You know what I'm saying. I mean that.
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: Don't that make sense? Though? It makes sense though. Oh
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: and by the way, uh, the debate between Senator Rafael
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Warnock and Herschel Walker, it was scheduled for next week
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: and making verse they weren't going to debate, then they
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: scheduled a debate. Well, now that debate has been canceled. Yeah,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: bet it has, Yeah, yeah it has. Yeah. And finally,
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: this story is really weird. In entertainment news R and
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: B singer Life Jennings. We know him. He's been on
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: the show a few times. Well, he dropped a fun
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: fact we'll call it a fun fact on social media.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: He claims that serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer asked him to
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: sing pretty Brown Eyes while they were in prison together.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: Life posted a video on the brand and said, uh,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: look it up. You better get the sang your ass
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: better get the singing Life. Why you say that, Betty,
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: because you will be eating. If not, you better get
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: to cannibal life. Yeah. Life Porter inside the Wisconsin jail,
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: and he explained what a porter is, according to Life
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: a porter clean, clean railings, mops the floors, et cetera.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: He went on to say that Dahmer asked him to
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: sing it. You know, anyway, coming up in twenty minutes
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: after the hour, celebrity divorce couple news. We'll talk about
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to all right. After
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: fourteen years of marriage, actress Tiamari has filed for divorce
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: from her husband and actor Corey Hardrick. Uh. This is
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: due to irreconcilable differences. According to TMZ, Tia is asking
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: a judge for joint physical and legal custody of their
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: two children. She's also asking the judge to terminate the
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: courts ability to give spousal support to either, and notes
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: the couple has a pre nup. Wow that was a shock. Yeah,
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: that was very shock. Yeah it was a shock. Yeah,
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: it really was to see that. I hate Yeah. I
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: mean a lot of divorce is going on, or divorce
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: talk going on this week. Uh, why Junior, they heard
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: I got married? They won't me. I know it is
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: the street. Why you think all this stuff is happening time?
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: I just got married. I've been eighteen days. Look, look
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: I tell you look at this, man, look at this.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: I tell you, when I got married to Queen Dad,
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: it was I think, give it up. When I got married,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: I knew that. I knew it. Who get go ahead?
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: Well Tom and Giselle, Yeah, we've heard about them. They're
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: looking to hire attorneys to handle their divorce proceedings. Yeah,
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: they are up. Uh huh. Giselle is not happy about time.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Just told three weeks ago, I told you. Talked to Giselle. Yeah,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: you and Antonio. I said, stay what I told him?
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Tom divorced and weeks ago the singer Miguel and his
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: wife of just three years asked the statement. But they've
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: been off and on about separation and stuff for a while.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: So I hate this. Yeah I do too. I don't
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: like Yeah. Yeah. Marriage is hard work. Um, you know
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: it involves trust, commitment, love, patience, forgiveness, anything else you
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: guys can think of off the top of your head.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: What makes a good marriage. Well let's yeah, Junior, stay
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: with who you had. Don't don't come out here for me.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: Don't get the void because of me. I'm I'm gone.
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I can't do stay with you. You had you off
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: the market. I told I told you. Zille on September fourteenth.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Don't leave tom that here, I asked. Now, I got
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: to talk about this at work. I can't believe I
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: told till. I said, till, don't do that. I told
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: you what we had and what we had it is.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: They don't believe me, don't even believe me. What have
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: you learned being married to? Yea? What have I learned?
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: Shut I've got so far? Shut up, just shut up.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I saw my name on
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: that paperwork, and it's Leagal. That's what's scary married, trust me. Yeah,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: people getting married, Let me tell you something your wife
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: might tell it. Piece of paper. Up going up to
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk about
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: cuffing season. Right after this you might have a tap
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: it back together, but up a couple of times. You're
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: listening to the string show. Well, guys, it is upon
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: us cuffing season. You know, fall in winter means it
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  Speaker 1: is cuffing season. That's the time of year when singles
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  Speaker 1: start to get all booed up. But it's only for
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  Speaker 1: a short time. It's only four a short term romance
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  Speaker 1: to pass those cold months, you know, because it gets
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  Speaker 1: cold and you want somebody to you know, cuddle up
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  Speaker 1: to and all of that. It's like the total opposite
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: of a summer fling. That's what it is. Cuffing season
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: usually kicks off at the start of October. Here we
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  Speaker 1: are what at the start of October? And it ends
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  Speaker 1: right after Valentine's Day? Okay, yeah, it ends, or get
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  Speaker 1: in after Christmas, to get in after New Year's et cetera,
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  Speaker 1: et cetera. So I gotta ask you, guys, if you
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  Speaker 1: have any any advice for coffers out there. Oh to
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  Speaker 1: you couples, find you somebody first of all, who can cook.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be all trapped up in there and can't
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  Speaker 1: go to where I can't nobody to cook. All right,
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  Speaker 1: So you don't want to cough for sure? You need
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  Speaker 1: a real couple. Okay, somebody does Somebody who can cook,
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  Speaker 1: Somebody who want to have six two three times a
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  Speaker 1: day these this is good covering three day. Hey, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't got a job. We gotta go to work. Yeah, hey, hey, hey,
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  Speaker 1: coughing it Ryan, we're coughing. Hey, Hey, what are we
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  Speaker 1: doing here? Come on, new what's you think? Yeah, i'mna
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  Speaker 1: tell you what makes a good cuffing season. Find somebody
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  Speaker 1: that got a strong fact you need that die over
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  Speaker 1: a strong people. Yeah, you don't need a strong makes
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  Speaker 1: a difference. Okay, So are there don't that you don't
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: do what on your list for cuffing season? When you
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: don't get nobody under one sixty, I know that you
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: need some weight. You need some weight weight, Okay, don't
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  Speaker 1: get nobody into one sixty. Come on, you remember time?
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: You remember how you used to do a side sixteening
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  Speaker 1: it up, a shout hair cut? Why you don't understand
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  Speaker 1: nothing like a six stage? Boy will giving somebody? So
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  Speaker 1: do you think it could maybe last for longer than
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: cuffing season? You know? Maybe getting hot you started making
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  Speaker 1: our way out? Yeah, because that lead get too heavy around.
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  Speaker 1: Don't need that? Yeah, I'm dot me tell you what's
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: an end? Carling? This when coming season ends? Soon as
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: you click on your air condition, when you when your
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: league start sweating on my league up? It sounds like
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: no wit before a Memorial Day and no white after
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: Labor Day. That's what this said. That like coming seas?
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  Speaker 1: What you got? What you got? Well, I have a question,
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  Speaker 1: So relationships take time, you know in your season? Caller
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  Speaker 1: no your season though, So we get together in October,
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  Speaker 1: we get this in this you know you ain't you
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  Speaker 1: know you ain't March. You know you ain't you October
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna get you through because you're not You're not
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  Speaker 1: You're not built the March not truthful time. Don't nobody
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  Speaker 1: even see you, They don't even know we together, you
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  Speaker 1: and I, we are ain't nobody seeing you. We have
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: a nat we have when when that sun come out
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  Speaker 1: in March? You know this over you? Well, how do
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: you break up with them? Though? Gonna go Yeah, I
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: don't know she knew it. But the minute I don't
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  Speaker 1: call no more, I'm gonna it's over. I gotta get
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: to the you't fann me way too much food. I
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: gotta get to the gym in March and get this
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  Speaker 1: off me. Somebody. I just think this is so wrong
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  Speaker 1: because I think you just terrible relationships. It takes time.
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  Speaker 1: You need to, you know, get to know each other.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: You got Thanksgiving, you can meet the family. What about
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: that Christmas Holidays? New Years? You got a date for
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: New Years and then you just break it out. That's
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: kind of cold blood. Look you got all them good
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: days in now, why you. Why would you? Why would you?
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Why you want to overdo it? I get Christmas you
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: did in front of nobody, though you got your gift
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: in front of nobody. I mean you ain't over here
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: with the family. I bringed your gift to you. Oh,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: anybody who see you open this? No Christmas, it's Christmas
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  Speaker 1: Eve and you know that you know it? All right,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: We're got to get so much for this nothing season. Yeah,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: is a savvy season or coughing season. With the brain
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: phone call right after this, you're listening, all right. Coming
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, and the
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: subject is get a load of this subject. Guys, I'd
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: rather be in prison than to live with her. Lowda.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: That is deeper. You know what you're trying to do?
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  Speaker 1: Three to five? Three to five, Wow, we'll find out
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  Speaker 1: what that's all about. Is if we don't know? Coming up,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here with today's prank
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  Speaker 1: phone call. Now, what's your gout today? This right here
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  Speaker 1: is just vintage time and stupid. Right here, this is
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  Speaker 1: vintage time and stupid. Now we're gonna call somebody. We're
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: gonna I want to I want to go to the
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  Speaker 1: high school reunion. You understand. I want to go to
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  Speaker 1: the high school reunion. But I want to go to
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: the high school. But I want to go to the
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: high school reunion with my high school sweetheart. Okay, Now,
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: the high school sweetheart. She's married. She's okay, son, we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna We're gonna call the husband and ask Kim, Kim,
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  Speaker 1: can I go to the high school reunion with her?
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  Speaker 1: Which is his wife? You see what I'm saying. I mean,
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: it's it's the it's the gentleman thing to do, right, Yeah,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: you play too much calling in your high school sweetheart
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  Speaker 1: and call and ask your husband to take you to
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: your reunion? Can you do that? Never? Never? I saw
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: him in the mall one day. I bumped into him,
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: just walking, I said, I screamed, Oh my gosh, Oh
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  Speaker 1: he can ask. That's all that matters. When you're ex seagures,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: you're fly? Yeah? Did you say that? Like you gotta
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  Speaker 1: be fly? Like? Whoa man? All right, buckle up, here
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  Speaker 1: we go. This is the high school reunion. High school reunion.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go. Care dog, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Sylvia.
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  Speaker 1: Please she's unavailable. This is a husband. I'm driving to
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  Speaker 1: help you. How you doing, man, My name is Ken,
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  Speaker 1: I'm I graduated with Sylvia. We're having a big twenty
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  Speaker 1: five year class reunion this year, okay for nineteen eighty five.
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  Speaker 1: We should be homesome. I don't know, man, she had
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  Speaker 1: shopping right now? Okay, okay? Cool? Well, um, hey, listen,
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: as you heard about does she know about the reunion
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  Speaker 1: or or do you know anything about that? Not? To
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: my knowledge, that's the first I ever heard about reunion. Okay,
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: well there was a reunion, man, she's actually I think
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  Speaker 1: signed up for it. I'm not sure that's why I
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: asked you, but I think I saw her name was
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  Speaker 1: that she was signed up to come. Let me I
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  Speaker 1: should just when? When? When exactly did you graduate? I
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: graduated in eighty two? Okay, eighty two, Okay, you a
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: little bit before us. Then, all right, we'll listen. Um
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  Speaker 1: let me let me go ahead and say this sounds drink. Uh. Actually,
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  Speaker 1: in high school, man, Sylvia was mine, you know, my
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  Speaker 1: high school sweetheart, and we you know, we dated from
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: ninth grade to freshman year in college. And I wanted
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: to see if you know, if if it was cool
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  Speaker 1: with you, you know, if you didn't mind me escorting
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: her to the twenty five year class reunion doing what.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: Let me say that again, Like I say, man, my
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: name is Ken. I got that part. I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: make sure I heard right what you said. Yeah, I
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: said that I Sylvia and Iowa high school sweethearts. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I was you know, from ninth grade all the way
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  Speaker 1: to freshman year in college. We dated each other. Okay, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I got I got that. But what did you ask me?
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: I asked you if if it was all right for you,
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: if you didn't mind if I escorted her to the
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  Speaker 1: twenty five year class for you union. Are you related
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  Speaker 1: to her? No? I mean no, I'm not related to
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I just told y'all was in a high school sweetheart. No, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying, nobody gonna be ascooting my wife nowhere. I
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  Speaker 1: put the ring on my finger. You said you was
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: you was a high school sweetheart. Yeah, I mean we
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: was together from you know, ninth grade always to months
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  Speaker 1: to press me year in college. You know, so that
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  Speaker 1: was that was in the past. But hood, I'm sorry
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: to let you know that, but that was in the past.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: I'm the president so I don't much think she's gonna
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: be interested in trying to go know where was you anyway?
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: Hey man? What I'm trying to explain to you? This
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: is something innocent though, Man, This is just me taking
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: her to you know. You know, I thought she might
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: get a kick out of us going together. You know,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: I don't know what's wrong with you. I hadn't told you.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: If it's not going to one ear, put the phone
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  Speaker 1: on the other one. She ain't going nowhere? What you
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: can do? I need to break it down anymore? Hey man,
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: you ain't gotta you ain't gonna talk to me and
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: disrespect me like this. Man, Now, all I try to
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: do you, I'm disrespecting you gonna call want to tell
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  Speaker 1: me I'm disrespecting you? You asking me, can you take
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: my wife to the damn class reunion? And expect me
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: to be okay with that? What kind of damned food
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  Speaker 1: that to call? Somebody ask? Can you take the white
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: to class reunion? Hey man? That was my high school sweetheart?
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  Speaker 1: All right? We had we asked something. I was our
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: first okay, I was our first dog. If you was
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: the first thing, I'm the laugh and I'm the only one.
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: So We're gonna leave it at that. How about that partner?
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: It's whatever, man, You know what, Man, I try to
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: call you and talk to you like a man. But
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: you know what I should have did. I should like
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: you doing a little stuff. Man, I should have called
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: Sylvia in the first I should have never called. Matter
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: of fact, you know what I apologize for called. Let
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: me get out the phone and just called Sylvia. C
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: me the head and do that. You go right on
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: the head and call them. Well, that's what I'm gonna do.
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: Because Sylvia can make a decision on what Sylvia want
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: to do. I can tell you what thing Sylvia do,
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: what Sylvia want to do. But Sylvia ain't interested in you. Man.
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: This is not about being interested in me. Man. This
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: is innocent. This is just me and her going to
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: the damn class reunion together. Man. And it ain't like
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: we're gonna go do something together. Man, on a physical level,
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: We're just going to have phone I sing. Its my clue.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you that I've already told you no. Okay,
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: if you can't get no, I don't know what you
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: can't get. But you ain't getting Sylvia. I tell you
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: that much. She's not going to no reunion. You know what, man,
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: I'm through talking to you. I'm just gonna call Sylvia
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: because that's what I should have done in the first place.
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I told you, brother, you ain't gonna call nobody. You
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: bet not doubt my wife another man, I'm telling you
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: this right now, I'll be at that pass reunion. I've
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: been looking for your can whatever your name is. I'm
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: gonna mind out who you are. I ain't playing no
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: like asn't told you you are disrespectful in the first place.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: I didn't told Joe, don't call my wife. She ain't
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: going to don't but union told you best not call
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: her phone. I've been to walk up and my situation
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: not until you will come to this class reunion. And
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: I want your man, because you look like you're playing
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: with me, an acting stupid or something. You ain't taking
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: my wife to no class reunion. You understand what I'm saying.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: Your wife don't gonna want to go to the reunion
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: with me. How do you know that you ain't going nowhere?
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: What you would have told you, man, don't get me
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: act the quas up in here. I'd have told you now,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: I said first, I was gonna come to the class
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: when you but I will come to that just to
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: make shout, knock your likes out. Donna be acting stupid
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: like I can't find they got all kind of a
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: ain't signed or some of it. But I'll find you.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: What's just innocent, man, Me and her going to the
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: reunion is innocent, and she want to be able to
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: decide if she want to go with me or not.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: Holding it about to your sounds trife in any way,
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: calling somebody talking about a class reunion. Ain't even much
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: hurt about it, Like I don't. I'll tell you what
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm gonna get our phone calls him. Okay,
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: respect the ring. You understand what I'm saying to you.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I didn't sue, man, but I don't understand what you
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: can understand about that. Respect the ring, and man, I
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: got one more things I need to say to you. Man,
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: got to say to me. Man, you ain't got a
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: faint to say to me except to hit it clicking
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: your heel. I got one more damn thing to say
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: to you, and then I'm gonna get off the phone.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be through with it. Man, I'm gonna got
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: to say to me. What what's you gotta say to
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: me for? I hang up? I got this to say
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: to you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobbin
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. Your wife Silvia got me to prank phone
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: call you serious, man, oh man, I'm over here winning
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: and everything. Man, just man, oh, this is a joke.
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: You all right, I'm gonna be out right about an
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: hour to that's that's okay, that's all right, all right,
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: y'all got me, y'all got me. Well, I guess this
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: is a good time to tell you the class reunion
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: is coming up. And I guess ain't no classroom. Huh No,
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: here's a classroom you need to get rid of because
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: you're going. Yeah, I'll be making well that stupid enough, Yes,
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: always are, ok. I'm gonna be that same stupid Chawston,
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: South Carolina Baby, Saturday, November to twelfth at the Old
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: mar Shrine Auditorium. The nephew with the microphone just as stupid,
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: most stupid than that prank called most stupid than that
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: ticket sale red. Now all right, nephew, thank you, coming up.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: It is a strawberry letter subject I'd rather be in
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: prison than to live with her. We'll get into that
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 53:41
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• 53:44
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• 54:01
  Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here it is the Strawberry Letter.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: All right, guys, You guys didn't like this title, but
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: here it is the subject. I'd rather be in prison
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: than live with her. Dear Stephen Shirley. I was released
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: from state prison a few months ago. While in prison
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: for twenty three months, I thought my girlfriend had my
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: back and we get married. When I came home, boy
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: was I wrong. And I came home to a situation
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: that was worse than prison. I was released to my
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: own home with my girlfriend, who has been staying in
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: my home while I was in prison. It was supposed
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: to be a joyous homecoming, but instead I walked into hell.
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: My girlfriend has turned into a conniving, cheating, and very
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: immature person. I don't know what happened while I was away,
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: but I thank god I got to see who she
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: really is before I married her. I found out that
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: she's been cheating on me and the I was all
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: up in my house all of the time. She also
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: hasn't been doing the upkeep on my house, and it's filthy.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Along with real life obstacles I'll face as a convicted felon,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: she has run up my credit cards, mismanaged a lot
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: of my money, and destroyed my credit I've told her
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: it's over and asked her to move out several times,
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: but she said it's her house too, and she's not
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: going anywhere. I can't raise my voice at her or
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: touch a hair on her head because I live in
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: constant fear that she may use the criminal justice justice
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: system as a weapon against me. It's back to jail
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: I go. If I have any police contact, other guys
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: call her and she'll go in another room and talk
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: to them, and I can't say a word to her
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: about it. I am living in sheer hell. I thought
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: about calling my parole officer to explain what's going on,
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: but I don't want to get anyone involved in my
• 55:56
  Speaker 1: business like that. I do not need relationship advice. I
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: need advice on how to get away from her so
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: I can have peace and get situated back into my community.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: How can I handle this? Yeah, well, you know we
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: give relationship advice here, that is what we do. But
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: we'll see what we can do to help you, sir,
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: because we don't want you to go back to prison.
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: That's definitely what we don't want. And first of all,
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: let me say this. I need you to be as
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: nice to her as you possibly can while she's in
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: your home and until the day she leaves. Okay, yeah,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: keep it up, keep it up. This willum, I'm sure
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: have to involve some very skilled acting on your part.
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: You're you're doing a great job so far. Just keep
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: it up. But like you say, you can't give her
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: any reason at all to suspect you're up to anything.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: You don't want her calling the police. You don't want
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: to go back to prison, so um, I'll just say
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: start building a support system. You know you're out now,
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: start you know, dealing with people that you know have
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: your back, like family members, people that you can trust, friends,
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: like I say, have your back, maybe a pastor, maybe
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: someone who has knowledge of the law, real estate, all
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: of that. You need to find out your rights as
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: a homeowner you have. You know, you gotta be smart
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: in this. You gotta be strategic. Again, you don't want
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: her finding out anything. This woman sounds like the devil
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: himself sent her to your house. So you definitely need
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: to have God on your side. That's why I mentioned
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: a pastor. If you're gonna, you know, get her out
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: of your house. I'm saying all of this. I don't
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: even know why you went in prison and spent two years,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: almost two years to begin with, but the tone of
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: your letters sounds like it comes from a decent man.
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say you're a decent man. You know. Anytime
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: you say you'd rather be in prison than in the
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: comfort of your own home, I just think it's think
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: it's a major problem and having this woman who has
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: taken over your home and basically your life is beyond
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: unsettling and she needs to go. So I just say,
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: please get a plan together, her together to get her out.
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: Now write it down. But you know, never let her
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: know what you're doing, because you don't want to upset
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: her or alert her or anything like that. But you
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: can get her out of your house. It's just gonna
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: take a plan. Steve. Yeah, bron, I don't know what
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: to say to you in this letter. Honestly, man, it stup.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: I feel for you, I really really do. Man, you
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: did your time for whatever the mistake boys you made.
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: Thought your girl had your back, y'all was gonna get married. Boy,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: were you wrong when you came to a situation worst
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: in prison. Now let me say this. You're saying that
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: you're glad you find out that she's been staying in
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: your home while you was in prison, and it was
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: supposed to be a joyous home coming, but you walked
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: into hell. She's turned into a conniving, cheating and very
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: immature paid I don't know what happened while I was away,
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: but here's the deal. I thank god I got to
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: see who she really is before I married her. BINGO,
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: that's the good thing. Somebody sent me a text one time,
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: and I'll try to see if I can find it
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: while I'm talking to you. But sometimes, and I've often
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: said this to women, the blessing is in the breakup,
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: and you've got to realize what that is when you
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: get it. I think you had a blessing, and so
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to find this thing that someone sent me
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: about this situation you're in. First of all, young brother,
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: here's what it is. It says, don't worry about the
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: people God removed from your life. He heard conversations you didn't,
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: saw things you couldn't, and made moves you wouldn't. Now, brother,
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: you seem like a good man. I'm going to assume
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: that this crime you went to jail forwards federal prison,
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: and you did some federal time, and you probably did
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: some type of white collar crime. I don't really know
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: what it is. I know it's a nonviolent offense. Let's
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: just say that you did twenty three months you got out.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour, subject
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: for today, I'd rather be in prison than live with her.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this you're listening
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: to all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: Letters subject I'd rather be in prison than live with her. Well, brother,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: I know what you're saying, but we can't go back
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: to prison. I don't think you're trying to do that,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: so we're faced with this situation. This woman has turned
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: out to be a cheated here's the upside. You found
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: out just in time. You didn't marry her. All you
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: gotta do now is get her out your house. Now.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: There are ways to file for this. I'm sure now
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: you being a convicted felon, that's going to create a
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: couple of problems because once you go down there and
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: you include the court system to get her put out
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: the house, all she got to do is spending and
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: lowing you, as she may do the dirty on you,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: just so she can go back to business as usual.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: So you have to be extremely careful and cunning. Here.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: You had a house that you still manage to keep.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: She's ran up all your credit, she's ruined your money,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: and she's been in your house. Well at leasha had
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: a house. So we gotta get smart here, man. You
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: gotta go a couple of friends house. You gotta get
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: some measures taken legally that can help you out. In
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: the meantime, spend as less time as home as you
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: can until you find a way to work through this legally.
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: But then you're gonna have to spend time away from
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: the house because if you stay there. She can get
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: you jammed up. All she gotta do is call nine
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: one one one time. They come to your house, bro,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: and you backed up. Now. I know you say you'd
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: rather go to prison and live with her, but you
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: really don't mean that, because nothing happens when you locked up. Nothing.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: So get with a friend, Get with some smart friends,
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: because you got some smart friends. Get yourself some knowledge
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: about what you can do. Move out of there and
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: start the process then, and don't go nowhere near her.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: Put a restraining order on yourself before she asked for one.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: See if you don't go over there by her dog,
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: she can't put a restraint in order on you. That's
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: the worst thing can happen to a convicted fellow. You
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: start getting some of those insinuated charges, and when you're
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: on probation, man, you can't do nothing. You can't have
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: police contact you. Already know that they can set you
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: down for violation or parole and you could be in
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: now for up to a year before they even bring
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: in front of a judge. You know how this system works. Man.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: So I feel badly for you, brother, but surely did
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: the right thing and told you the right thing. I
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: think you should separate yourself from a situation because it
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: sounds like you're gonna get in deep and ain't gonna
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: ain't gonna donna lead you down a dark road, man,
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: and don't put yourself out there. Don't throw your freedom away. Brother.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: She is not worth it. The cheating, immature, stealing, low down,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: perfect person, disrespectful now noncommittal. Yeah, it ain't worth it, bro, Yeah,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: it ain't worth it. And don't let her know anything
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: you're doing. Please, it's terrible. That's like a really bad
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: document everything you do. True, Yeah, that's everything. Everything. Whose
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: house you're staying over? Where was you at? Pictures? Time checks?
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: Who paying for the house? Who's paying for that house?
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: It's his house, it's his house, Stop paying for it,
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: let it go. But she yeah, she said it was
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: her house. Yeah. But if the bank kick everybody at Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: he wanted to sad Steve, that's one way to do
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: because he sounds like a really nice guy. Man. Yeah,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: that's an ugly situation for this guy to be in, man,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: because this woman could hurt him and because he's on probation. Yeah,
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: he walked on eggshells. Yeah. I like the fact that
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: you said, don't stay there. No, he's got a family,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: he's got friends, you know. Yeah, good, I have out
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: from around her. Yes, Junior, what you got I just
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: haven't suggested to men. You know, that's one way. For
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 1: closure could be one way. But I have a lot
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: of experience for pro officers and all that type of stuff,
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 1: a lot of family members that have been through that.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: But one thing we could do is people that he
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: met he was in there, if you know, they out,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: we could use this to our been. We could scare
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: her out the house. Gonna be good, Junior. I'm just
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: saying we could scare act. Don't you think we thought
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: of that? You don't. You don't think they're gonna be
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: able to tie them? Also, he wasn't to keep him
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: out of prison. We can't do that, Junior. I'm sorry, Okay,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: I know you want to. He's got to kind of
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: go by the book on this one. That's any false
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: move he could go back in and that's what we're
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: trying to avoid. But he could tell his proofs of
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: what's going on, because you got to update the buntial status.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: You know. I like the fact that he said I
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: don't need relationship advice too, because he knows that's over No,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: that's over with. Yeah, that's really sad. Yeah, it really is.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: It really really is. She's taking advantage of him, and
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: she's going to take advantage of the judicial system, and
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: he's smart enough to know that. Yeah, yeah he No
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: one said. He didn't say how long he's on parole either.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: You know, this could be going on for quite a while.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: But yeah, he's got to get rid of her, get
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: her out of his house and out of his life. No,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: I don't rather be in prison, or I'll sleep in
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: the car for I'll go to jail. Yeah I noticed that.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: Ain't no damn option, Like you can't even go to
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: the stove. Yeah, I'm gonna swing around. He need a
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: cheek fil a. They don't have that in prison, right, Okay,
• 1:06:36
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• 1:06:39
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• 1:06:43
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• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: to show. All right, Junior, it is time now for
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: sports talk. What you got Junior? Okay, surely, but let
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: me let the people know. Listen, Virginia Beach, I'm there
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: tomorrow night now at the funny Bone. Okay, two show,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: two shows Saturday, I'll FINNI go out here and act
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: of food time Finn to go out head and get
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: to him. But then also, I ain't gonna I gotta
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: put this out here too. Man, I'm out here on
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: this road. I'm back. I got man, I'm back to work. Richmond, Virginia.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: Get ready for just to smoke weekend. It's better happen
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: for you, Richmond. Funny Bone Thursday party on Friday. All
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: this to raise money for the foundation. We're doing all
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: this for Curious Hope. On January. On October twentieth and
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: twenty first, I said, January, what the hell I'm talking about?
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: We get October October twentieth and October twenty first, Richmond, Virginia.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: All right, t let's get to it. Man. Here it
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: is picks, Timy. I need to know how you feel.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: You get the pick? Man. Here we go, starting to
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: night Coats, Broncos. What you got? Which one you go? Coats? Okay, okay,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: I ain't he going against Russell Wilson like Sieria. Ain't
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: gonna be happy about that. If this was about dancing,
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: then I would pick Siera. Here you go Jad's Packers. Man,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: what you got man? Backers? Backers over to Jack. Okay,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 1: here go Stealers Bills. That's my friend brother over there.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: I gotta go with Pittsburgh. That's my friend brother. Hey, hey,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: hey hey, I picked for different reasons. I picked true. Okay,
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: this ain't this ain't like Steve, This ain't pimping. This
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: is time I picked the different reason speaking Steve. See
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: charges Browns. Oh, I don't fool with the Browns, just Steve.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: I'm going with the Chargers, thank you. Okay, Vikings, yeah,
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: on on, you act like the Sean playing already. Ain't
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: playing Cleveland. Cleveland is not looking good right now? Okay
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: then okay, Viking's bed Vikings Burgers go with the bikers
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: because well, I don't know. I like Chicago, though, I'm
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 1: going with Shot. I'm the only reason I'm going with
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 1: Chicago because it's not too cold yet. When it gets
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: too cold, I don't I'm I just came back from Chicago. Chicago.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: Right here we go, Lions pay I'm not picking Chicago. Cousin, you,
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: I'm not going here. You're gonna Lions Patriots, Lions Patriots
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: Lions versus I'm going with the Lions. That's my boy
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: over there. You know, defensive corn deepensive cornet. I'm going
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: with so man, all right, here we go, Seahawks Saints.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: I got to get this. You call us it right there?
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: Lord see Yawks listen. Yeah, they're gonna get that boys
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: and crab legs. He can play his ass off. But
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: if y'all not gonna get that bottom crab leg you're not.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying struggle. All right, Thank you guys. Coming
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, Um, some advice
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: is needed for a few of our listeners on social media.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: We'll try and answer their questions right after this. You're
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: listening show. All right, So, guys, we have a question
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: from Mark on Facebook. Mark says, my girlfriend and I
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: have been together for six months, and all this time
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: I've known she was quote the one. Marriage is clearly
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: in our future, but she just sprung one of her
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: rules on me and I'm tripping about it. She's adamant
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: about us both having our separate lives even though we're
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: together and faithful. That includes separate places to live. She
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: wants to keep her apartment and she doesn't care where
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: I live as long as it's not with her. She says,
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: she's very picky about her living space, and me messing
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: that up would not end well for us as a couple. Dog,
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: I don't even know how should I feel about this.
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: This is beautiful, This is absolutely beautiful. You get your
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: own spot, You get to go visit her when you
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: want to visit her. This is beautiful. They're dating at
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: this point, they're not married. But when we get married,
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: we're gonna have my own places. I love it, surely,
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, sure listen. And I in my in
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: my in the neighborhood where my grandmother lived in when
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: when I was in front of Houston, when my grandmother's
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: living that was a person that was married and and
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: and the husband lived down the street in another house.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: It was the craziest thing I don't see. And he
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: would come down to her house, to his wife's house
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: half dinner, and then go back to his house. Craziest
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: thing I ever see. But I love it. Wow thing.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: I'm all for separate bathrooms, but in the same house thing. Surely? Yeah, yeah,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: this is nonsense. What about you, newly Web What you think? Mark?
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: What are you writing us for? She said this? She
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: said it we gonna have separate living. You're good. I
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: love it. I come on wish telling eighteen days in.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: I wish she would have say it. I wish you
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: would have see she it. She said it. Mark, And
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: you're writing us complaining, Missim. You're perfect, You're good. I
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: wish I wish Jackie little down the street. If jack
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: can live down the street, down the street? What crazy
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: got right here? Well, I get married. What's the point
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: of getting married separately? I don't get it. Do you
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: mean by getting married, nobody have you? Okay, that's I'm selfish.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: Don't nobody had? But we just don't have to live together.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: We don't have to live together because I'm gonna tell
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: you all these errands I'm running. I didn't have to
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: do these eighteen days ago. Now I'm doing every day.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: I got some way to go. Tire you. I'm tired.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm tired. Dropped me off at the airport.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: I've never driven to the airport. What did you writing
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: us for? Mark? Me and Tommy gave you out? Oh,
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: I wish Jackie little on it. I'll be fans about
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: jack insanity. Guys, every merryman, listen to the show right now. Said,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: what is you write before? Shut up? This is a
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: perfect times shut your damn mouth. All right, let's see
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: if we have time for one more um. This is
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: from Ronnie on Twitter. Ronnie writes, Uh, I just got
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: called into HR for having a sexually degrading material posted
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: in my cubicles. Apparently one of my female co workers
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: wandered her nosy behind into my cubicle. Uh, and had
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: an issue with a picture that was on my desk.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: The picture in question my wife, who is built like
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: a brick house. Yes, uh, and it's a professional bodybuilder.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: Earlier this year she won a regional competition and the
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: picture is of her flexing in her bikini with her trophy. Okay,
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: can I really get in trouble for celebrating the greatness
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: that is my wife? What? Yeah? I'm just not a
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: fan of these cubicles. They always get your ass in trouble.
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: All these It's always a problem with these cubicles. Dogs
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: can't You can't put your life up in your cubicle. Dogs,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: you can't do it, and you are yo. Your co
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: worker is not fine, and she's intimidated. I find your wife,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: But you got we got we gotta get these people
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: out in cubicles. I've seen it coming. I've been twenty minutes.
• 1:14:37
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  Speaker 1: And they're having a big grand opening this Saturday, a
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  Speaker 1: handbags and an array of colors red, pink, blue, green, black,
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  Speaker 1: Sweet one, if I buy my wife a bag, you'll
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  Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play a
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  Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Right after this you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to show. All right, guys, it is time now for
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  Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather have nosy neighbors? Or
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  Speaker 1: would you rather have noisy neighbors? Nosy? Ye don't like.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like a nosy neighbor. I don't uh, I
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  Speaker 1: don't not not do anything. I just don't. I don't
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  Speaker 1: need all that in action. I don't need that out
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  Speaker 1: of my business. Yeah, I think i'd rather you be noisy.
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  Speaker 1: He's coming over to my house. No right, really, you
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  Speaker 1: could actually spark something up in here. Yeah, get you
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  Speaker 1: some business, all right? Would you rather spend a week
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  Speaker 1: with no soap, or would you rather spend a week
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  Speaker 1: with no toothbrush? God, I'm brushing my teeth. I gotta
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  Speaker 1: have that soap off, I gotta have that soap. I got,
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna take that soap and I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna wash my mouth out with that damn soap. But
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  Speaker 1: I'm but I'm gonna be able to hit everything that too.
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  Speaker 1: Brush on your own problem, You own your own. You
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  Speaker 1: can't hit enough spots, you know. One time that way
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  Speaker 1: I look at it is that you know I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: brush my teeth now, I ain't got no soap, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it in the shower. Uh huh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: still gonna make it. Just ain't no soap. Oh, you
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  Speaker 1: can be wet and funky. I'm sorry. You can be
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  Speaker 1: wet and funky. I'm sorry, but my breath is amazing.
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  Speaker 1: My breath gonna smell like men's dub soap. Okay, all right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you guys rather walk barefoot in a public restroom?
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  Speaker 1: You'd rather get food poisoning? Ye? I'm not walking. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not I'm not walking on that flow in that bathroom.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. Tommy, I'm not walking on that
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  Speaker 1: floor at all. Have you seen the restrooms in the airport?
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  Speaker 1: Just starting? Oh my god, So you'd rather get food points,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be sick because, let me tell you some
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  Speaker 1: if I go on that bathroom, if I go in
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  Speaker 1: that bathroom, I'm gonna find out that my ass and
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  Speaker 1: spider Man, because I'm gonna be stuck to the I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be stuck to the ceiling, ain't I'm not No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not walking on that flow sider nephew. All right?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather be blind and not be able to talk?
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  Speaker 1: Or not be able to talk for the rest of
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  Speaker 1: your life? Not be able to not be able to
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  Speaker 1: talk for the rest of your life? I'm guessing you're
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  Speaker 1: going with eight times what I'm try I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: talk now. The struggle is real. You're getting better every day, though.
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  Speaker 1: What I ain't gonna do is be blind too. No, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: you cast a free baby, you can't cast all right.
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  Speaker 1: That is today's round of would you rather? Coming up
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  Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour. It's our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks
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  Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, Here we are last break
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  Speaker 1: of the day on this Thursday. Take us home with
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  Speaker 1: some closing remarks. You know, somebody sent me something a
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  Speaker 1: while back. You know, I keep stuff that people send
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  Speaker 1: me because a lot of people send me things when
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  Speaker 1: I know I'm going through something. A lot of people
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  Speaker 1: send me stuff when just to say, Steve, if you're
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  Speaker 1: out there talking, man, here's a thought for you. And
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  Speaker 1: one of the things that I've learned in my life
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  Speaker 1: is that all of us are going to be tested.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna be tested and tried throughout our life. It's
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  Speaker 1: these tests that are presented to us that has allows
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  Speaker 1: us an opportunity to grow. Every test that comes your
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  Speaker 1: way is an opportunity for you to gain some valuable
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  Speaker 1: knowledge from it, and so throughout life you will always
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  Speaker 1: be tested. Everything that happens to you is not just
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  Speaker 1: because the devil is busy. Some thing's happened to you
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  Speaker 1: because God has to present certain things for you in
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  Speaker 1: order for you to learn how to deal with it,
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  Speaker 1: which better prepares you for what you ask for later
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  Speaker 1: in life, or to prepare you for what God is
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  Speaker 1: going to present to you. Later in life. So when
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  Speaker 1: you're going through hardships, you got to understand that these
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  Speaker 1: hardships are preparing you for the future. And like I've
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  Speaker 1: been saying a lot over the past few weeks, if
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  Speaker 1: you think about all your hardships and your tough days
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  Speaker 1: and your rough days, your actual record for surviving bad
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  Speaker 1: days all the way up until this point, y'all, is one.
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  Speaker 1: And that's a pretty good track record. Now, in this
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  Speaker 1: test that God is going to present to you, somebody
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  Speaker 1: sent this to me on a plaque, and it's said
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  Speaker 1: that life has many ways of testing a person's will.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to hear me clearly. It says life
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  Speaker 1: has many ways of testing a person's will, either though
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  Speaker 1: by having nothing happened at all, or by having everything
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  Speaker 1: happened all at once. Do you know how true of
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  Speaker 1: a statement that is? You get tested by first of all,
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  Speaker 1: a person's will get tested by either having nothing happened
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  Speaker 1: at all. You know how hard it is man when
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing going on? Do you know how
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  Speaker 1: hard it is man when you can't get nothing popping?
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  Speaker 1: You know how difficult life can be man when you
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  Speaker 1: just can't seem to get it right? Do you know
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  Speaker 1: the difficulties you face. Man, ain't nothing clicking on none
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  Speaker 1: of the cylinders. Man, ain't nothing happening at at all.
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  Speaker 1: That's a test, Man, that's a real hard test. Man.
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  Speaker 1: That's when you're sitting up that man, going Lord, Heavenly Father.
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  Speaker 1: And now it's preparing you and conditioning you to get
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  Speaker 1: closer to God, because I'm telling you, man, you can't
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  Speaker 1: make it in this world without God. Now you can
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  Speaker 1: keep on trying this way if you want to, but
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  Speaker 1: I got news for you. You can lock in on
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  Speaker 1: this room. This is a fact. You can't make it
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  Speaker 1: through this life without no God. You can't do it.
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  Speaker 1: You cannot do it. It's too difficult. And one of
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  Speaker 1: the tests to get you to draw closer to Him
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  Speaker 1: is sometimes a person's will is tested by having nothing
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  Speaker 1: happened at all. But here's the other way you get tested.
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  Speaker 1: How about this one? Or by having everything happened all
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  Speaker 1: at wants? How many times that didn't happen? Man, when
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  Speaker 1: it just felt like man, it's raining cats and dogs
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  Speaker 1: on you. It's almost like, man, you can't catch a breaking.
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  Speaker 1: Ten minute ago you couldn't catch a break to get
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  Speaker 1: something happened, And now all of a suddenly look like
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  Speaker 1: you can't stop this thing from happening. It's just old
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  Speaker 1: balling on you. Man, that's a test, you know what.
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  Speaker 1: God has wanted you to get close to him too,
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  Speaker 1: so he can take some of that weight up off you,
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  Speaker 1: so you can take your troubles to him and tied
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  Speaker 1: to him, so he can prove to you that you
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  Speaker 1: ain't in this thing by yourself. See, you ain't in
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  Speaker 1: life by yourself. When it ain't you ain't got nothing happening,
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  Speaker 1: and you ain't got and you ain't by yourself in
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  Speaker 1: life when you got everything happened. You need God. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I kid you not. And you know how I know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about because you're looking at a man
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  Speaker 1: who tried it without him. And I knew better. My
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  Speaker 1: mom was a Sunday school teacher. I knew better than
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  Speaker 1: to turn away and try it in my way. But
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: I did it for years and I made you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, I made a mess out of myself.
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  Speaker 1: I was turning myself into a big old glob or nothing.
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  Speaker 1: But he got my undivided attention one day when I
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  Speaker 1: was at a real low point. But one of them days,
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  Speaker 1: why I thought I'm gonna rit eyes no more. On
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  Speaker 1: one of them days where I thought, man, I hadn't
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  Speaker 1: had enough of this. I ain't never thought about killing myself.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't never thought about checking out. The thought has
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  Speaker 1: never crossed my mind. But I'm just talking about I
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  Speaker 1: just had some days, man, we're just felt like, Man,
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  Speaker 1: this is like, yeah, I can't do no more this hill.
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  Speaker 1: When I was living in that car, I had some
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  Speaker 1: days man, when I just said, Man, I can't do
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  Speaker 1: this no more. I'm gonna go home. Man, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: go home my mom and daddy. Man, just see if
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  Speaker 1: I can stay there until I find a job. I
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  Speaker 1: almost did that because, you know what, was nothing happening
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  Speaker 1: at all. I couldn't get nothing clicking and right about
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  Speaker 1: the man, I just say, as Scottison, man, can you
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  Speaker 1: just show me a sign that it's gonna be our
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  Speaker 1: Next thing? I knew I called as some machine in
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  Speaker 1: my mama's house, and it was a message and it
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  Speaker 1: was a guy named Chuck Chuck Sutton that showed time
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  Speaker 1: with your power. Next thing, you know, man, next thing?
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  Speaker 1: You know? That weekend I was on TV for the
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  Speaker 1: very first time. And do you know something that I
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 1: been on TV? Every since that. But it was real
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  Speaker 1: dog for me for a minute. But he always comes.
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  Speaker 1: Life got a lot of ways of testing the people's will,
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  Speaker 1: either about having nothing happened at all, about having everything
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  Speaker 1: happening all at once. But either way as a test
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  Speaker 1: you can pass. You've done all the rest of them,
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  Speaker 1: ain't you got through it? Yeah? Yeah, that's it. Keep
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: your faith. Put some God in your life. You need him.
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