Latest / REZ CHURCH Podcast / Your Pain Isn't Pointless - October 5, 2025
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- 0:01So my name is Justin Emanuel and I serve as the production
- 0:04director here. Thank you.
- 0:08I need my movie buffs. Raise your hand if you know The
- 0:12Karate Kid 1984, the original Ralph Macchio.
- 0:17Keep your hand raised if you think Daniel Larusso is the main
- 0:21hero. What if Daniel Larusso isn't the
- 0:28hero? He's the problem.
- 0:31What if everything you thought about The Karate Kid was
- 0:35backwards? Raise your hand if you've seen
- 0:40How I Met Your Mother and you know Neil Patrick Harris's
- 0:44character, Barney Stinson. Barney had a theory.
- 0:50He argues Johnny Lawrence, the blonde kid from Cobra Kai you
- 0:54thought was the villain, is the hero.
- 0:58Think from Barney's perspective, Daniel went after Johnny's
- 1:01ex-girlfriend. Daniel went after Johnny's face
- 1:05and he got in his face at the beach.
- 1:08Daniel beat Johnny in the tournament with an illegal crane
- 1:11kick to the face. And Johnny, he's a high school
- 1:17kid trying to win back his girlfriend and defend his
- 1:20championship while dealing with the toxic coach.
- 1:24On the surface, Daniel's the hero, but from Barney's
- 1:28perspective, Daniel's the bully, and Johnny's the real Karate
- 1:34Kid. Same story, different
- 1:37perspective on the hero. And perspective changes
- 1:43everything. Right now, we're watching our
- 1:47lives from our perspective and from where we're sitting.
- 1:53When pain and suffering come, when we're in crisis, when life
- 2:00falls apart, the pain can seem pointless.
- 2:05I know, because in my suffering I thought it was meaningless,
- 2:10that I had to be the hero of my life and dig myself out of my
- 2:14pain. But what if God is watching the
- 2:19exact same situation and seeing something completely different?
- 2:25Same story, different hero. People talk now about main
- 2:31character energy, right? That we're supposed to be the
- 2:35star of our own movie. There's a problem when we're the
- 2:39star. We have to fix everything.
- 2:42We have to bear the weight of everything.
- 2:45We have to make sense of everything.
- 2:49And the problem is that we can't.
- 2:54We're not the heroes of our story.
- 2:57We're the supporting character. And our pain, God uses it to
- 3:04write his story about our true main character, Jesus Christ.
- 3:10And that's our big idea. Your pain is God's pen.
- 3:17Write that down. Your pain is the pen in God's
- 3:22hands and he is a writing the story about his Son Jesus that
- 3:27you don't see yet. The pen doesn't control the
- 3:33story, the author does. Let me show you in John Chapter
- 3:3811. Picture this as we get there.
- 3:41Jesus is 3 years into his public ministry.
- 3:45He's got this motley crew of disciples, fishermen, tax
- 3:49collectors, nobodies. Think Master Splinter and the
- 3:53Teenage Mutant Ninja disciples. It's just and Jesus is
- 3:58performing miracle after miracle.
- 4:01That kind of power attracts opposition.
- 4:04In John 10, the religious leaders just tried to stone
- 4:07Jesus for trying to prove that he was God.
- 4:11So Jesus and the disciples went away to lay low.
- 4:15Now word reaches Jesus that Lazarus is sick.
- 4:19He's sick. And Bethany, the same place,
- 4:22they just tried to stone him. John Chapter 11, starting in
- 4:27verse one, continues the story. Now a certain man was ill,
- 4:31Lazarus of Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha.
- 4:35It was Mary who anointed the Lord with ointment and wiped his
- 4:39feet with her hair, whose brother Lazarus was ill.
- 4:43So we have Lazarus, Mary and Martha.
- 4:46These are three siblings and they're friends of Jesus.
- 4:50Their house became a regular stopping point between Jerusalem
- 4:52and Jericho for Jesus and Lazarus.
- 4:56Is ill really ill? Growing up, did you have someone
- 5:01in your house that always had a cure all?
- 5:04Mom, grandma, what was it for you?
- 5:06Was it ginger ale? Was it rub some dirt on it, walk
- 5:11it off? Was it Big Fat Greek Wedding and
- 5:14spray some Windex on it? Put some Windex on it.
- 5:17Was it Vicks? That magical blue tub that
- 5:19somehow cured everything from the common cold to a broken
- 5:22heart? What was it?
- 5:26I'm sorry, grandma. There's no amount of Vicks
- 5:29that's going to make Lazarus better.
- 5:32He's on the edge of death, powerless, No strength left.
- 5:37Every family remedy has failed and the physicians treatments
- 5:41have run their course. This is a crisis and in their
- 5:46crisis verse 3 tells us so. The sisters sent to him saying,
- 5:50Lord, he whom you love is ill. They knew they couldn't do
- 5:56anything about it, but they knew Jesus could.
- 6:00Jesus responds in verse 4. This illness does not lead to
- 6:05death. It is for the glory of God so
- 6:08that the Son of God may be glorified through it.
- 6:14Jesus sees the same situation differently.
- 6:18Mary and Martha saw crisis. Jesus saw an opportunity to
- 6:23bring glory. This brings us to our first
- 6:26shift. Write this down.
- 6:28Your crisis is God's platform. What we see is crisis.
- 6:35God sees as a platform for His power and His glory.
- 6:41So your crisis isn't meant to destroy you.
- 6:43It's meant to set the stage for God's power to be shown, but
- 6:48it's only how you respond to your pain.
- 6:51So I've been watching this show about vampires called What We Do
- 6:54in the Shadows. And in there there's this
- 6:56character, Evie Russell. She's an emotional vampire.
- 7:03She feeds off of pity and sympathy.
- 7:07She generates conversations that talk about nothing but her pain,
- 7:11and her goal is to keep the sympathy going so she can gorge
- 7:14herself. And as I'm watching this show
- 7:18and thinking about things, I realized something that was me
- 7:23and my pain. That I am a recovering emotional
- 7:28vampire. As an emotional vampire,
- 7:34everything became about my pain. Many of you experienced this
- 7:39with me in the breezeway. You'd come up happy to talk, and
- 7:42then within 60 seconds I made it about me.
- 7:45I made it about how my ADHD messed my week up, how I failed
- 7:49because of my OCD. I see your faces and they drain
- 7:56and you would be exhausted because I would take every
- 8:00conversation and make it about me and my pain and my problems.
- 8:06As an emotional vampire, I fed on sympathy, not solutions, Man,
- 8:12when someone said I'm so sorry, I don't know how you're going
- 8:15through with going through it, man, it was this rush.
- 8:20It's like finally someone understands me.
- 8:23I became addicted to the validation.
- 8:28And when sympathy dried up, I'd find a new crisis to keep the
- 8:31pity supply flowing because if I got better, I'd be normal
- 8:36Justin. And normal Justin didn't get
- 8:39that kind of attention. As an emotional vampire, my pain
- 8:45became my identity. I used my disorders as a get out
- 8:48of jail free card. Oh, I can't do this because of
- 8:51my ADHD. I'm going to fail.
- 8:53Because my OCDI wasn't managing my conditions.
- 8:57I was hiding behind them. I was using them as a shield
- 9:00against responsibility. I wore my pain like a badge.
- 9:05Many of you I introduced myself as hi, I'm Justin.
- 9:08I have ADHD and OCD. So if I mess up that's OK,
- 9:11right? I wasn't Justin, follower of
- 9:16Jesus, loved by God. How is Justin the guy with
- 9:22disorders and problems? And I was comfortable there.
- 9:29See, if people expected me to struggle, that I wouldn't be
- 9:32responsible for getting better as an emotional vampire, I
- 9:38drained everyone around me. Emotional vampires don't just
- 9:43feed on sympathy, they drain the people they love.
- 9:47In therapy this year, I had this mental picture of a train
- 9:49passing by. And in the window window was my
- 9:53pastors, my friends, the staff here, family back home.
- 9:59And I realized two things. These are people who loved me
- 10:03dearly, and I was the jerk who dumped on every single one of
- 10:10them. People stopped asking how I was
- 10:15doing, not because they didn't care, but because they'd leave a
- 10:19conversation with me exhausted. I even drained myself.
- 10:27I'd hear myself complaining and as I'm saying the words in my
- 10:30head, I'm going. I don't even want to listen to
- 10:32me right now. Then my mentorship group sat me
- 10:38down. I said, Justin, we, we love you.
- 10:42You become exhausting. Every conversation circles back
- 10:46to your pain. You're not looking for help,
- 10:52you're looking for an audience. You're putting on a show and
- 10:56it's leaving everyone around you drained.
- 10:58I had a choice. Do I get defensive and walk out
- 11:06or do I hear the truth? They were right.
- 11:13I wasn't the victim of my pain. I became an addict of it.
- 11:18I made it my identity and it was destroying me.
- 11:24Do you remember what I said in the beginning?
- 11:25That when we're the main character, we have to fix
- 11:29everything. We have to make sense of
- 11:31everything. We have to bear the weight of
- 11:34everything. That was me.
- 11:39I was the main character of my own misery, and I couldn't fix
- 11:44it. I hated what I saw, but instead
- 11:49of working on it, I escaped. Video games, YouTube, anywhere
- 11:54that would take me somewhere. But here inside I was screaming.
- 12:00There was something wrong that I needed to change.
- 12:03But my pain muffled my screams and I kept on going until my
- 12:07mentorship group confronted me. And that's when everything
- 12:11changed. Because everything changes when
- 12:14I stop being the main character. When I got out of the way and
- 12:19let Jesus take center stage, I didn't have to worry about
- 12:23fixing me. I didn't have to bear the weight
- 12:26of my story. I didn't have to make sense of
- 12:29my life. Jesus did.
- 12:35And the people around me, they weren't drained anymore because
- 12:38I wasn't searching for pity and sympathy.
- 12:41They didn't see me with my problems anymore.
- 12:44They saw Jesus working in and through me as he transformed me.
- 12:51So be honest with yourself. Does any of this sound familiar?
- 12:57In your life, not someone else's?
- 13:02Your life? Do your conversations circle
- 13:08back to your struggles? Are you more comfortable in
- 13:15crisis than in healing? Do people seem exhausted after
- 13:24talking with you? Have you made your pain and your
- 13:30problem as your identity instead of Christ?
- 13:37If you're thinking that's me, welcome to the club.
- 13:43You don't have to live that way anymore.
- 13:47Your pain is real, I am not dismissing that, but how you're
- 13:51handling it is hurting you and everyone around you.
- 13:55They say that hurt people hurt people, and right now you have
- 13:58weaponized your pain instead of bringing it to God.
- 14:03Scripture says we're supposed to bear one another's burdens, but
- 14:08you can't just unload your pain on the people around you while
- 14:11you refuse to bring it to Christ yourself.
- 14:16That's asking people to carry what you won't.
- 14:19Surrender to Jesus. Keep going this way and you're
- 14:24going to push away everyone in your life.
- 14:27Make the change now before you find yourself alone.
- 14:32And if you're there alone with your pain, God's still there.
- 14:40God still loves you. God is waiting for you to bring
- 14:46it to Him. So you have a choice.
- 14:52Are you going to use your suffering as a shield, hiding
- 14:55behind blame and being a victim and watch every one of your
- 14:58relationships die, or surrender it to Jesus and let the healing
- 15:05begin? Your pride, your pain, your
- 15:11fear, your whatever it is, is what is holding you back from
- 15:14the one and only one who can heal you from what you are
- 15:18suffering through. Bring your pain to Jesus and
- 15:24here's what that looks like. If that is you this week, find
- 15:28someone in your life you trust, a strong believer, a mentor,
- 15:32someone from your community group and go, I need help.
- 15:36I've been handling my pain the wrong way.
- 15:39Can you pray with me? Can you keep me accountable?
- 15:43And then be receptive to what they have to say in their
- 15:46counsel to you. Now, if you're thinking that's
- 15:51someone I love and care about, how can I help them?
- 15:55Keep pointing them to Jesus? Pray.
- 16:01Set boundaries where you need to, but remember that you can't
- 16:04carry what only God can carry. Jesus is the one who can heal an
- 16:11emotional vampire. Bring them to Jesus, and if they
- 16:15refuse to let God work, you may have to love them from a
- 16:19distance. It's not abandonment, it's
- 16:22wisdom. Pray, point them to Jesus and
- 16:30trust God to do what we cannot. And if you're thinking I don't
- 16:35do that or I'm past this, you might be right.
- 16:38You may be past this and God has brought you through it.
- 16:42God wants to use your story so that someone younger can see
- 16:46what he has done in your life. Keep going, but remember that
- 16:51even the most mature believer stays teachable.
- 16:56That the moment we stop being teachable and we think we're
- 16:59past things, that's when we become vulnerable.
- 17:02That's when our growth stops. Because the reality is when it
- 17:07happens to you, we are all one crisis away from making
- 17:13ourselves the main character. So the choice is yours.
- 17:18Stay focused on your crisis and drain everyone or surrender it
- 17:22to God and become a platform where God displays His glory.
- 17:29Let's continue in verse 5. Now Jesus loved Martha and her
- 17:33sister and Lazarus. So when he heard that Lazarus
- 17:36was ill, he stayed two days longer in the place where he was
- 17:43what he'd love them. Does your Bible say what He
- 17:50stayed two days longer? That doesn't make sense.
- 17:57For the three siblings, this only deepens their pain.
- 18:00Lazarus isn't sick anymore, He's dead.
- 18:04And Mary and Martha go from watching their brother be sick
- 18:07to now grieving his loss. And they appealed to Jesus to
- 18:14heal him. And Jesus didn't come.
- 18:20If Jesus loved him, why didn't he come?
- 18:24Why wait, knowing Lazarus is already dead and they're in
- 18:27their grief? Have you been there?
- 18:34You've given your crisis to Jesus and things didn't get
- 18:38fixed. You found yourself crying out.
- 18:43God, if you loved me, why didn't you show up?
- 18:52The text gives the explanation Jesus delayed because he loved
- 18:56them. That's our second principle for
- 18:59today. Write this down.
- 19:01God's delays reveal God's deeper love.
- 19:08What we're seeing is delays God is seeing as revealing A deeper
- 19:12purpose behind our pain. This is how God often writes.
- 19:16He sometimes used delays on purpose so he can reveal more of
- 19:20Jesus. By allowing Lazarus to die and
- 19:25to stay dead, Jesus was setting up a platform so that only God
- 19:32could be the one who could raise him.
- 19:34Look back at verse 4. Jesus says this.
- 19:37This illness is for the glory of God.
- 19:41Before their message even reached Jesus, Lazarus has
- 19:44already died. So why did Jesus wait two weeks
- 19:48more? Two days more?
- 19:51Well, you'd have to know Jewish burial customs.
- 19:56See, when a Jewish person died, they would bury them the same
- 19:59day. And for three days they believed
- 20:01that there was a spirit that hovered over, looking for a way
- 20:04to get back in. But on day 4, the body would
- 20:08start to change, and the spirit would go.
- 20:10And now death is final. Death is permanent.
- 20:15Sounds morbid, sounds theological, sounds boring.
- 20:19Who knows? The Princess Bride.
- 20:22There we go, breath of fresh air.
- 20:25This is a case of mostly dead versus all day.
- 20:31Day one, Day 2, day three, Mary and Martha are going to go He's
- 20:34dead, he can't talk, and Miracle Max is going to go Nope, he's
- 20:38mostly dead, which is slightly alive.
- 20:42Jesus waited for day 4 because on day four, mostly dead becomes
- 20:47all day. So now as Jesus arrives on day
- 20:504, the miracle Max of Bethany can look at Jesus and go, well,
- 20:53Rabbi, he's all dead. There's only one thing we can
- 20:56do. Go through his clothes and look
- 20:58for loose change. Four days in the tomb, no
- 21:06possibility of revival by human means.
- 21:10This wasn't cruelty. The delay was strategy.
- 21:15Jesus wanted to ensure that when he raised Lazarus, it would be
- 21:19unmistakable that only God could do such a thing.
- 21:23If Jesus came and he healed Lazarus when he was sick, they
- 21:26would say he was a good doctor. Jesus brought Lazarus back when
- 21:30he was mostly dead. Miracle Max would have said he
- 21:33was a great doctor. But to bring someone back, Four
- 21:37days in the tomb, body decaying, all dead, no hope.
- 21:41They could say that only God can do this.
- 21:47Picture the scene, Mary and Martha, the sealed tomb.
- 21:51They've been there for four days in their grief, 4 days asking
- 21:56what if Jesus showed up? Four days and now the body
- 22:00begins to decay and then Jesus shows up and he says roll away
- 22:04the stone. They say it's too late, it
- 22:08stinks in there. Then Jesus said, did I not tell
- 22:11you that if you believed, you would see the glory of God?
- 22:17God's delays are not denials, they're setups for greater
- 22:21glory. When He makes you wait, He's not
- 22:25ignoring you. He is setting something up in
- 22:27your life that you can't see yet.
- 22:31Isaiah 3018 puts it this way. Therefore, the Lord waits to be
- 22:35gracious to you, and therefore He exalts Himself to show mercy
- 22:38to you. Did you catch that?
- 22:42The Lord waits. God sometimes delays on purpose.
- 22:49He didn't abandon you, He's setting up something greater.
- 22:53So when God doesn't show up on your timeline, it doesn't mean
- 22:57He doesn't care. So in your delays, you can
- 23:01interpret God's love by your circumstances, or you can
- 23:05interpret your circumstances by God's love.
- 23:12Now I know some of you are in here and you're thinking Lazarus
- 23:16came back, but mine didn't. My marriage didn't.
- 23:23My career didn't. My loved one didn't.
- 23:27My health didn't. I can't promise that God would
- 23:32bring back what you've lost. What I do know is that Lazarus
- 23:37himself died again. Lazarus's resurrection was for
- 23:42proving that Jesus had power over death.
- 23:48Even if God doesn't resurrect your marriage, your dream, your
- 23:52health, Jesus still has the power over death.
- 24:00If you've lost someone you love, that grief is so raw and just in
- 24:05your chest. When you breathe, your pain is
- 24:09seen. God is not distant.
- 24:13He's not punishing you. When Jesus came to the tomb, he
- 24:18wept fully knowing that he was about to raise Lazarus.
- 24:23Jesus grieves with you right now, the resurrection promises,
- 24:30and that you'll get them back today.
- 24:32It's that death does not get the final word.
- 24:37John 1125 Jesus says I am the resurrection and the life.
- 24:42Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live.
- 24:49For the believer, physical death is not the end.
- 24:54A believer's last breath on earth is immediately followed by
- 24:58their first breath in eternity with Jesus.
- 25:04God's purpose isn't always to change your circumstances, it's
- 25:08to reveal who Jesus is through them.
- 25:11Romans 818 would say. For I consider that the
- 25:14sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the
- 25:18glory that is to be revealed to us.
- 25:22God's greatest work isn't removing pain, it's sustaining
- 25:27you through it. Now there's one more perspective
- 25:32shift and it might be the most challenging.
- 25:35Let's look at verse 11, Jesus talking to his disciples.
- 25:38After saying these things, he said to them, our friend Lazarus
- 25:42has fallen asleep, but I go to awaken him.
- 25:46The disciples said to him, Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will
- 25:49recover. Now Jesus had spoken of his
- 25:52death, but they thought he meant taking rest in sleep.
- 25:56Verse 14, Jesus told them plainly, Lazarus has died, and
- 26:02for your sake I am glad that I was not there.
- 26:05So that you may believe Jesus is glad he wasn't there, not glad
- 26:12that Lazarus died, but that by Lazarus's death a greater thing
- 26:18would be accomplished, that it would give evidence for everyone
- 26:22to see that Jesus is God. Look again at verse 15 so that
- 26:30you may believe Lazarus's story isn't about Lazarus, it's about
- 26:39Jesus. Your story is not about you,
- 26:44it's about Jesus. And that's our Third Point for
- 26:47today. Write this down.
- 26:49Your pain writes Jesus story for others.
- 26:55God wants to use your suffering, not waste it.
- 26:59Use it so that others would believe your pain.
- 27:05Is the pen writing a story about Jesus that others will see?
- 27:11Right now we have moments like this in our church.
- 27:14Some of you are sick. Some of you are seeing family
- 27:18members suffer. Some of you are seeing them die.
- 27:24You're seeing your careers fail, your marriages fail.
- 27:27You're seeing all of these things.
- 27:30Here's what I need you to see. Your pain is not pointless.
- 27:36God sees it and he wants to use it so that others would believe.
- 27:43Your Co workers? They see how you handle that
- 27:46impossible boss. Your neighbors, they notice how
- 27:50you respond when life falls apart.
- 27:53Your kids are asking, is your faith real when it costs you
- 27:57something? Your friends wonder if this
- 28:01whole Jesus thing still works. When the bottom falls out in
- 28:03your life, this can be how you respond in your personal crisis.
- 28:09It can mean how you respond to global and national tragedies.
- 28:14I was a high school senior in New York City.
- 28:18On September 11th, 2001. We were in homeroom.
- 28:24We heard a rumor that a plane had hit the World Trade Center.
- 28:29Then we watched live on TV as the second plane hit just 10
- 28:33miles north of us. And then the towers fell and the
- 28:39announcement came over the speakers.
- 28:42Anyone who has a family member working in the towers or a first
- 28:46responder on duty, please come to the library.
- 28:51I watched half my class stand up and walk out not knowing if
- 28:55their family members were alive. In the days that followed, the
- 29:00ashes from the rubble reigned over Staten Island for days.
- 29:06Unspeakable tragedy. Yet from those ashes, God was
- 29:13moving. In the days that followed, my
- 29:16future pastor LED teams that provided care for the
- 29:19firefighters responding, they provided food, care, comfort,
- 29:24just a hug. And that movement became the
- 29:28catalyst that would later birth Crossroads Church in Staten
- 29:32Island, the church that eleven years later would become my
- 29:35home. Crossroads is where I was.
- 29:40Disciples, Crossroads is where I got my calling for ministry.
- 29:45Crossroads is where I served for 10 years.
- 29:49Hundreds have come to faith and still come to faith in Christ
- 29:53because of Crossroads Church. It's the same church that was
- 29:59born from the literal ashes of America's worst tragedy. 24
- 30:08years later, God is still riding with those ashes because
- 30:12crossroads exists. I'm here.
- 30:14And because I am here, you are hearing this message.
- 30:21When you stop asking why is this happening to me?
- 30:25And you start asking who might believe because of how I respond
- 30:29to this. That is how you take your
- 30:32suffering and let it be a stage for God's glory.
- 30:37Because here's the story God is writing with the pen of your
- 30:41pain. He's writing that Jesus is
- 30:44powerful enough to handle what you can't.
- 30:49Jesus is loving enough to be trusted in the delay.
- 30:54That Jesus is supreme over death itself.
- 31:00And that story written through your suffering is what brings
- 31:04people to faith, not your strength.
- 31:08His in my life today. It's not pain free, but in the
- 31:15pain God is still writing. I wake up in the mornings and
- 31:20that emotional vampire wants to come back.
- 31:23I want to be the main character again, but God reminds me.
- 31:26My place in my story is as the supporting character and my
- 31:34story is to be a life used by God so that others would believe
- 31:43your crisis. Right now someone is watching
- 31:47how you respond, and one day you will stand before Jesus and He
- 31:56will show you everyone who has come to faith because you
- 32:01allowed God to use your crisis so that they would believe that
- 32:07you would see the glory fully revealed, that you would see the
- 32:12full story. So until then, surrender your
- 32:19pain, trust God's timing, and be the platform where Jesus
- 32:27displays His glory. There's one more way God rides
- 32:35with pain, the ultimate one. At the cross, everyone saw a
- 32:42tragedy. The disciples saw their dream
- 32:46destroyed. But God was revealing something
- 32:50different. At the cross, God was writing
- 32:53the ultimate story, your salvation.
- 32:59See, Jesus died on the cross not because he deserved it, because
- 33:04you do. On the cross, Jesus took the
- 33:08punishment for your sin, for your rebellion against God.
- 33:13He died, and on the third day he rose again, defeating death
- 33:17itself. And maybe you're realizing right
- 33:22now there is more to life than my pain.
- 33:27Romans 10/9 says if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is
- 33:32Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the
- 33:36dead, you will be saved. If you'd like to surrender to
- 33:43God today with every eye closed and with every head bowed,
- 33:49repeat this prayer after me. Jesus, I know I am a Sinner.
- 33:56I cannot save myself. I want you to save me and adopt
- 34:02me into your family. I surrender everything to you,
- 34:09my pain, my suffering, my circumstances.
- 34:15I receive your promise of forgiveness and eternal life.
- 34:20Be my Lord, please Jesus, if you just prayed that prayer for the
- 34:26first time, would you be brave enough to raise your hand so I
- 34:29can see? Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- 34:37You can put your hands down and Amen everyone.
- 34:41Let's look up here if you have put your faith in Christ.
- 34:45Welcome to the family. In a moment, there's 2 tables in
- 34:53the back that say I raised my hand.
- 34:54We want to celebrate with you. We have a gift for you.
- 34:58But for all of us, here's what you can do starting today.
- 35:03First, respond differently. When you find yourself turning a
- 35:07conversation back to your pain, stop.
- 35:11Take a breath. Thank God for one thing in your
- 35:14life, and let the conversation be about what the other person
- 35:18has to say. Second, choose to trust God's
- 35:22timing over your timeline. When anxiety hits about God's
- 35:26silence, pray. Pray.
- 35:28Lord, I choose to trust you in your timing.
- 35:33Let His delays draw you closer to Him in your prayer life, in
- 35:37your Bible study, in your devotion and desperation for
- 35:40Him. Third, invite someone into your
- 35:44crisis. Ask a trusted person this week
- 35:48to pray. You don't have to have it all
- 35:50together to simply say I am struggling and I need help.
- 35:54Will you pray with me? Would you all stand with me?
- 36:00Our prayer team is coming to the front right now.
- 36:04You've come in with your pain, with your suffering.
- 36:07You do not have to be alone with that.
- 36:09Come to the altar, pray with our team.
- 36:13Do not leave here the same if you put your faith in Christ.
- 36:17Head back to those I raise my hand tables.
- 36:19Now the rest of us. The altar is open.
- 36:22You move as the Lord leaves church.