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Weekend Review, Virginia Beach, Box Office Report, J. Anthony Brown and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know. Y'all have
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  Speaker 1: all suit looking back to back down, giving them more
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  Speaker 1: like the million buck things in its cubs me true
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  Speaker 1: good it Steve Hart listening to the movie together for study.
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  Speaker 1: I don't join joining me, Honey. You gotta turn, you
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn, turn, got to turn them out.
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  Speaker 1: Then turn the water, the water go. Come, come on
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  Speaker 1: your fad uh huh I show. Well, good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well,
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  Speaker 1: nothing changes about that, Nothing changes about that. Man. I
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  Speaker 1: was just so getting ready to come on the air
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  Speaker 1: this morning. I was just thinking, man, I was just
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  Speaker 1: having a reflective moment of just how really good God
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  Speaker 1: has been to me. I just it's it's it's man.
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  Speaker 1: Let me just say that again, how really good God
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  Speaker 1: has been to me. And here's a cold part. In
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  Speaker 1: spite of myself, you understand, in spite of all my shortcomings,
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  Speaker 1: in spite of all of my flaws and and and
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  Speaker 1: and in spite of all of what anybody has said
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  Speaker 1: about me, God, through his grace and mercy, just keeps
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  Speaker 1: me anyway, so many of us are exceptional people, but
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  Speaker 1: we refuse to just go ahead and be exceptional. We
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  Speaker 1: settle for the ordinary, We follow the pack, We try
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  Speaker 1: to fit in. Man, oh man, oh man. You know
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  Speaker 1: I've heard my wife say this to my children all
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  Speaker 1: the time. When she's scolding and talking to him. She'd
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  Speaker 1: be talking to him about leadership. You know, why are
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  Speaker 1: you following everybody when God clearly made you to lead?
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  Speaker 1: So many of us are born, and so many of
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  Speaker 1: you are born to be exceptional people, but we always
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  Speaker 1: trying to follow the pack. Why would you try to
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  Speaker 1: fit in? Why would you try to be like everybody
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  Speaker 1: else be ordinary? Why would you follow the pack when
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  Speaker 1: God has created to be exceptional? The key word in
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  Speaker 1: exceptional is accept you. Ever you ever done this? Right here?
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  Speaker 1: You know, everybody did that accept me. Everybody felt that
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  Speaker 1: way except me. Everybody said that except me. Everybody won't
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  Speaker 1: wanted that. Accept me. Everybody went over that except me.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody jumped in except me, accept me. See why have
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  Speaker 1: you said that in your life? If you were not
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  Speaker 1: to be exceptional? See you got to say everybody accept
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  Speaker 1: me at one point in You're to I don't know
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  Speaker 1: who ain't done it? You know everybody wanted. Everybody voted
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  Speaker 1: no except me? See it? So you're not You're not
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  Speaker 1: created to follow the pack. You ain't created to fit in.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't created to, uh you know, to be ordinary.
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  Speaker 1: You will create it to be exceptional, as exceptional as
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  Speaker 1: your fingerprint on your finger is. You were created to
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  Speaker 1: be exceptional. Why not make this the year that you
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  Speaker 1: go ahead on and be exceptional? Why won't this be
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  Speaker 1: the year that you decide in your mind? But just
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  Speaker 1: has to be a decision that we make. Now we're
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  Speaker 1: not following the pack no more. We're not trying to
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  Speaker 1: fit in no more. We ain't settling for ordinary no more.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna be exceptional. But you know, you got you
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  Speaker 1: got to go ahead and follow that. You got to
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  Speaker 1: get on the exceptional path because that's what you were
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  Speaker 1: created for. Why be ordinary? You know? But all of
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  Speaker 1: this this comes to it has to start with a thought.
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  Speaker 1: You got to first think something thought to become things.
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  Speaker 1: A man is as he thinketh that's all you will
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  Speaker 1: ever be. So what are your thoughts today? Why not
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  Speaker 1: have exceptional thoughts instead of ordinary thoughts? Why not have
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  Speaker 1: exceptional thoughts instead of fitting me in thoughts? So why
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  Speaker 1: you want to be like everybody else? Why you want
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  Speaker 1: to be ordinary when you could possibly be extraordinary with
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  Speaker 1: a change of your mind, a change of your venue,
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  Speaker 1: And you don't have to be any other kind of
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  Speaker 1: way just because my mama was this way, my daddy
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  Speaker 1: was this way, or this the school I went to? This?
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  Speaker 1: What race I belong to? This is my sexual preference,
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  Speaker 1: this is my this, this is my dad? Why? How many?
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  Speaker 1: How many? How many excuses? You need? I'm an excuse? What? What? What? What? You?
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  Speaker 1: What's it gonna be this year that we let another
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  Speaker 1: three hundred and sixty five days slip by without improving
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  Speaker 1: our condition, our place, our spot, our life, the quality
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  Speaker 1: of life we have. We cannot afford to keep letting
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  Speaker 1: all these years go by without changing. You're an exceptional person.
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  Speaker 1: How many times have you set up and said, everybody
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  Speaker 1: did that accept me? You know I was only everybody
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  Speaker 1: jumped in accept me. I told him, I knew it.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody voted for that, accept me, And now look at him, man,
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  Speaker 1: it seemed like everybody went that way, accept me. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: do you get it? Do you understand what's being said
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  Speaker 1: to you that don't accept me is because couldn't it
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  Speaker 1: be because you're an exceptional person, and it's time for
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  Speaker 1: you to take control of that. It's time for you
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  Speaker 1: to start thinking different. It's time for you to start
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  Speaker 1: acting on what you think. It's time for you to
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  Speaker 1: start doing something about it. It's time for you to
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  Speaker 1: stop taking each and every day that God gives us
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  Speaker 1: for granted and letting them go by the wayside. Like
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  Speaker 1: you got plenty more. Well, you may have plenty more,
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  Speaker 1: but guess what what you wasting the ones you got for?
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  Speaker 1: I got you young, and you and you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna live forever. D Okay, cool, But let me
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  Speaker 1: ask you something. See here, here, here go the part
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  Speaker 1: about pose you do live? See see everybody willing about dying.
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  Speaker 1: But I got news for you. Suppose you keep on living.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep living in the condition you in now.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep living with the money you got now.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep living with the relationship you got now.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep living by yourself like you are now.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep wanting the right relationship, the right man,
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  Speaker 1: the the right woman, but you keep getting the wrong one.
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  Speaker 1: You want to keep doing that for the rest of
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  Speaker 1: your life. Problem ain't dying. It's problem is if you
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  Speaker 1: keep on living. Who wants to keep on living just
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  Speaker 1: the way they are right now? And if you can
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  Speaker 1: say I'm cool, what I am, just the way I
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  Speaker 1: am right now? In cool, this conversation ain't for you.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem with that. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: want to say, greatness ain't for everybody being exceptional, ain't
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  Speaker 1: for everybody becoming extraordinary. It ain't fun everybody. Heck, becoming
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  Speaker 1: successful ain't fun everybody. I got it. And you can
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  Speaker 1: come up with a way to justify your non existence
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  Speaker 1: in your ordinary life. All you won't, And that's fine
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  Speaker 1: and dandy. I ain't got no problem with it. Because
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  Speaker 1: some people just gonna be regular. Some people just gonna
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  Speaker 1: follow the pack, follow the crowd. Some people just wants
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  Speaker 1: to fit in. But if you're not that person, if
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  Speaker 1: you want to be extraordinary, if you want to be exceptional,
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  Speaker 1: if you want to be if you want to dare
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  Speaker 1: to be great at something, and you got to change
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  Speaker 1: your mind set. You got to get with your creating,
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  Speaker 1: find out what he created you fault. You gotta quit
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  Speaker 1: thinking of things just in your own thought process, you know,
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  Speaker 1: lean not to your own understanding. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: that is, but it's in there somewhere. Seeing. Once you lean,
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  Speaker 1: if you lean to your own understanding, you know what
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna do. It's gonna limit you, man, it's gonna
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  Speaker 1: limit you. Why not see what God got for you?
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  Speaker 1: I would rather know what God got for me than
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  Speaker 1: to think of all the things I could, because I
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  Speaker 1: can't out think him out and tried it before. All right,
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  Speaker 1: it's just the beginning. We're gonna have a good one. Man.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go. You're listening, all right, everybody? As you know
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  Speaker 1: how you feel. The weekend was very short. It's over.
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  Speaker 1: You're waiting on the bus, you in a car, you're
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  Speaker 1: going to work. It seemed like twenty minutes, twenty minute weekend,
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  Speaker 1: but it wasn't. You had a full damn weekend. We
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  Speaker 1: are here to help you get through it. Ain't that right?
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  Speaker 1: Ain't that right? Yo? That's right? I feel You're like,
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  Speaker 1: my weekend wasn't long enough. Nobody's is okay? Nobody is
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  Speaker 1: that We're gonna do it? Put that smile on your face?
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  Speaker 1: Is that right? Shot? Is it Monday already? There? Already?
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  Speaker 1: Good morning? Jay? Oh my my hero, you are my
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  Speaker 1: hero Jay. Oh my god, it monday already, it is monday.
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  Speaker 1: It is here. What's happening, Jane, Nothing happening, baby, but
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  Speaker 1: the junior it is Mondy Smith is sick and dying
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  Speaker 1: to build it. I'm sick and I'm that. Welcome everybody
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Irby Morning Show. We're gonna do if they
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: put some smiles on your face. Making to get about work, baby,
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  Speaker 1: that's what we do. Persons start is not here, but
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  Speaker 1: last but not least, my partner in crime. Because I'm
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  Speaker 1: on team timing, I don't give what do you do? What?
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  Speaker 1: He in his face, Yeah, but behind his bat his back. Listen,
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  Speaker 1: don't listen to the nay says. Okay, I'm team timing
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  Speaker 1: rather that baby he king of in the building. I'm
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  Speaker 1: in the building. Baby, Let's let's make it do what
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  Speaker 1: it don't can do what it do. Man, it happened, man, Wow,
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  Speaker 1: the weekend was always gone. I know the weekend is
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  Speaker 1: gone gone, but you know how many people still inded
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  Speaker 1: we have he woke up and what you call the
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  Speaker 1: jail when you're late, When you said you woke up
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  Speaker 1: past part the past, I'll be damned. Let me ask y'all,
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  Speaker 1: something when you realize that you definitely are just truly late.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: If you're really seriously late, you're gonna be breakfast. You
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  Speaker 1: go get brow out. Okay, you might as well. Let's
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  Speaker 1: ask you how about that as a pop tea? Shirley
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  Speaker 1: just shot the first on the morning your own question. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: can I do a pip pop tea? Yes? Yes, yes, yes, yes.
• 12:32
  Speaker 1: Shirlette strawberry birthday is coming up next. It is time
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: to throw a part. Yes, a big party, a big part,
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  Speaker 1: a big birthday. This is a big birthday. But Shirt
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  Speaker 1: the Strawberry is trying to have I just want to
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  Speaker 1: ask everybody on the crew, what do we do when
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  Speaker 1: somebody trying to have Should we thought a surprised birthday?
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  Speaker 1: Surprise birthday? What should we do? Surprise? We go surprise today? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: I love surprises. I absolutely love surprises. And put some
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  Speaker 1: shoes on top of that because you love companies. And also,
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: Shirley is so grateful for everything. I thought. Shirley is
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  Speaker 1: some gum. Oh my gosh, and I don't even shoe gum. Hey, listen,
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  Speaker 1: we got something big going on. We have to say
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  Speaker 1: congratulations to Junior, and we're gonna do that. Coming up
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  Speaker 1: when we do our weekend right after this year, coming
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  Speaker 1: up at thirty two after the hour, Junior, Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: ye right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, this
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  Speaker 1: is really exciting news. Yeah. Yeah, I think we all
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: had a great weekend, but Junior really had a we did. Junior,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta tell us about it. Kat's getting that drum
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  Speaker 1: roll read any Junior. I know, I'm so happy for you.
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  Speaker 1: Come on you and you tell us about it. What happened? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a proud Texan. First, I don't I have a
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  Speaker 1: driver's license that still stay Texas, man, My license plays
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  Speaker 1: on my trucks, still stay Texas. But when your state,
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  Speaker 1: your state Senate recognize you and name an entire month
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  Speaker 1: after your foundation, what you doing in the state, dude,
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  Speaker 1: will it will be known as cheers whole Sickle Cell
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  Speaker 1: Awareness Month. When I had my second annual five K
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  Speaker 1: one and I want to say thank you to Senator
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  Speaker 1: Royce West. My dog, that's my dog, that's my dog,
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  Speaker 1: and my grandmother was there to witness, My daddy was
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  Speaker 1: there to witness. Come on, devil Lee was there, man,
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  Speaker 1: and Devil Lee walked the race. Man who had a
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  Speaker 1: heart attack in December and he was walked to three
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  Speaker 1: and a half miles man good, and I tried not
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  Speaker 1: to cry, Yes, I tried not to. But when you did.
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  Speaker 1: But when they when they say from here on, as
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  Speaker 1: of today and the day after and forevermore, the month
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  Speaker 1: will be known as the month in the state of Texas. Man,
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: that's that's big. That is I just want to say.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: I think what he's trying to do is top of
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  Speaker 1: the fact that I got luke kemyan. That's that's what
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  Speaker 1: I got out of That's right there again, die that again.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to accuse me, excuse me, excuse me. J yes,
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  Speaker 1: how is this your moment trying to shine me? Y'all?
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  Speaker 1: Ain't know? No, what are you saying? Is that sick
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  Speaker 1: heself is nowhere meal greater than It's unfair enough. I
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: don't fighting too now. I'm fighting diabetes. And look, this
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: is not sad to me. You can't win, can't you win?
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: This is crazy? They got the pick one, you can't
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  Speaker 1: have it. And I'm just announcing I got gout. How
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  Speaker 1: about that? Oh no, you you don't have a third
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  Speaker 1: you know, in all seriousness, congratulations, you don't mean you
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  Speaker 1: don't mean it. I'm sure Tommy calling me you don't
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  Speaker 1: mean it, but it it was crazy because I never
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  Speaker 1: thought that a guy out of the south side of Houston, Texas,
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  Speaker 1: I have a day like that, could have a southside man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling I never even went into this four award.
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  Speaker 1: I just want to help some people in the same
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  Speaker 1: condition of it, and for your state to recognize you
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  Speaker 1: and man and give you a proclamation. And my grandmother
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  Speaker 1: standing there when they read the problem, I said, take
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  Speaker 1: that over there to the little skinny woman and the man,
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  Speaker 1: get my grandma because she gonna hang it in the house.
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  Speaker 1: She got bragging, right. Can I tell you something, man,
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  Speaker 1: Very happy Julia to still have your grandmother. Wow, is
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  Speaker 1: a is a blessing beyond you still got your grandmother. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know if you realize it right now,
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  Speaker 1: but that is a blessing. It is, man. I remember
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  Speaker 1: tell you something. She had a full week because last
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  Speaker 1: Sunday was her birthday and I gave a surprise party,
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  Speaker 1: and then six days later her grandson gets a proclamation
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  Speaker 1: for the state. She had a full week. Yet, bract
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  Speaker 1: I wish they bring up the grand baby is doing.
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  Speaker 1: I wish they would bring my grandmother. You said your
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  Speaker 1: grandma graduated. He graduated. I tell you what, your grand
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  Speaker 1: baby don't have Your grand baby ain't got no proclamation? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: who is here? Raised your head? If your grand baby
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  Speaker 1: got a proclam William by Dixon gonna be raised the head?
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  Speaker 1: Can I can I say this, Shirley, Let me tell
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  Speaker 1: y'all something. Y'all have not met the grandmother yet. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my junior's grandmother. Oh my god, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 1: Feeds the real deal. If you need to be cussed out,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: that's gonna that's gonna happen in matters fact, I was
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  Speaker 1: being polite on the radio. But if she what's one
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  Speaker 1: of your ms Gott's proclamation, that's what she ridiculates. Man,
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  Speaker 1: y'all did a damn thing. Asked grandchildren? Who proclamation? We
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  Speaker 1: love you? Man, Thank y'all so much. Man. But I
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: told him, I said, man, I said, man, I have
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  Speaker 1: a great support team. And I was talking about my
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  Speaker 1: morning show town. I said, man, you don't understand. We
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  Speaker 1: give here. We do stuff for our community and our fans. Man,
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  Speaker 1: that that that goes beyond because I tell you I
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  Speaker 1: never did this for awards. It's never. It was never.
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  Speaker 1: And then for them to any that you know what
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  Speaker 1: they was. J Let me ask you a question, though,
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: real quickly tell everybody what foundation is, what it's about,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: don't know? Yeah, curious Hope is just promoting awareness for
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: sickle cell. I do a lot of things for families
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: who have kids with sickle cell, because sickle cell don't
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: affect just one child, it affects an entire family. And
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: I do that the Kount of my heart. Man, we give,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: we pay for Christmases, we give some posiums, we do everything.
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  Speaker 1: People was clapping for the proclamation. I was crying, not
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: for the proclamation. I was crying for the mistakes I
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: had made. And now you're wining something and then you're
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: gonna give me if you just knew all the stuff
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: I had stuff. Yeah, that's part. That's with everyone, Drew.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody has their story and that's your nobody story. And
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: you know you're doing well with the congratulations, Thank yall.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: I would tell you this man Jay has done nothing
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  Speaker 1: for nothing nothing. Wow, there's descension in the ranks, all right. Listen.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up nights it's church complaints and church announcements with
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: Digg and dev Jam and Reben adnoight and for Reben
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  Speaker 1: Motem right after thishing you're listening to show coming up
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour. And entertainment news, some
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: really sad news out of New Orleans. Miss Leah Chase,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: civil rights pioneer and queen of Creole cuisine, has passed away, guys,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: true legend. Also in entertainment news, we'll tell you about
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: the star studded third annual Wearable Art Galla, hosted by
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Tina Knowles Lawson, who of course is Beyonce's mom. We
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: know her as Beyonce's mom, Miss Tina Knowles. But first,
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: it is Monday. You know what that means. It's time
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: for church complaints and church announcements with Deacon dev Jam
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: and Reverend at Noy. I bet he got that fix,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: That's why he was out. We are here at the
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  Speaker 1: jack pot joined jerusale ing llelujah, halle I'm sorry, Hallelujah, hallelujah.
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  Speaker 1: As you know, Reverend Motown is APT today, but Reverend
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  Speaker 1: ad Nord is in here and he will be giving
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  Speaker 1: us the church come. But now he would be giving
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: us a church announced, so you would beginning announcements and
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: you will be at the same time. Now you complaints
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  Speaker 1: that I will be given adults. I already add I
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  Speaker 1: said that already, Reverend, do you need to call for
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: is an excellent day? This is my best day. It's
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: a little you know, you know, you know, you don't
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: hear how you breathing. You know what the problem is?
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: People listen to Claude Bill. When you listen, you listen
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: to Claude Bill. I'm fun, I'm all right, boxer for breeze.
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  Speaker 1: and all those people who got to the oil placed
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  Speaker 1: on their foreheads are high and hungry. But what do
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  Speaker 1: we want to do about this? Because these people are
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  Speaker 1: starving right now. They are hungry, and we need to
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  Speaker 1: we need to make sure that we are doing something
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  Speaker 1: to benefit them. That's all I'm asking right now. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let me answer that question. Haven't been high and hungry
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  Speaker 1: both of the same time. A couple of times when
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  Speaker 1: I was at church, anyway, I was more hungry than high.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, but how do we handle it? Past? I
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  Speaker 1: mean I'm sorrying ad and because once again you are
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  Speaker 1: high and you are hungry, and how do we handle
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  Speaker 1: what we do normally. Whet no, normally, when you get one,
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  Speaker 1: just grab a handful. Do you have any type of
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  Speaker 1: eye The pastor has been complaining that some of the
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  Speaker 1: You feel everything raw as shirt. Yes, ain't like a
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  Speaker 1: good Let me say this that the Christian spelling bee
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  Speaker 1: that took place this weekend is still ongoing. We have
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  Speaker 1: twelve contestants that are still there and they are all
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  Speaker 1: struggling on one word nicka deem us. That is the
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  Speaker 1: one word that they are struggling. Anouncer, I'm asking all
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  Speaker 1: parents help me on child with the word. But so
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  Speaker 1: we can finish this because it is going on way
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  Speaker 1: too long. That's all right. I was at the spelling
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  Speaker 1: being a lot of the contestants were spilling inward please,
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  Speaker 1: and that was throwing everybody off. There was nothing they
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  Speaker 1: y'all to find her black baby daddy. Plenty chickens go
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  Speaker 1: are asking that Sister Carling and Sister I Shirley please
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  Speaker 1: bring all broths that a double D to the front
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  Speaker 1: so we can actually get acclimated on the double D bros.
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  Speaker 1: We are asking all double D bros to be brought
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  Speaker 1: to the front. All right, to hate your pastor. I
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  Speaker 1: have a footnote on that announcement. You have we footnote
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  Speaker 1: some men who can bring them bros in. You know
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  Speaker 1: who you are. No, I need you to breathe, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no breathe. That's that's the ahead. The people who are
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  Speaker 1: just fat in the back of there in the front,
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  Speaker 1: we're meeting meeting rooms for people who are just fat
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  Speaker 1: on the back of They are in the front on
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  Speaker 1: meeting me So front fat and back fat is in
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  Speaker 1: the same front fat and back fat is now here.
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  Speaker 1: We are listening. I heavier congregation is asking for paper
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  Speaker 1: towels to be in the bathroom. The toilet paper is
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  Speaker 1: too small. But it's past called on the chains I write.
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  Speaker 1: They say it's not wide enough. The paper is not
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  Speaker 1: wide enough. So we are asking to put paper house
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  Speaker 1: as well as tarnet paper in the bathroom. All right,
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  Speaker 1: that's good, that's good with us. Behind here we go.
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  Speaker 1: White people does Shiki Day was not a big success? Right?
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: People does sky Day? It was not? Alright? Alright a
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  Speaker 1: ready here go, ready here, White people, All right, sister
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  Speaker 1: you amaze Steptoe. She is on the sick and shut
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  Speaker 1: ends list and she has sick of seal like chemia
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  Speaker 1: and died past. The men who think it's cool to
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  Speaker 1: button every damn button on their jacket will meeting meeting
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  Speaker 1: room five. All right, thank you guys. Coming up at
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  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, entertainment news right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey show, Carla our New Orleans connection
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  Speaker 1: on this show. Some sad news out of New Orleans time.
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  Speaker 1: Miss Leah Chase, New Orleans, matriarch of Creole cuisine who
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: fed civil rights leaders, musicians and presidents. Well, sad to
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: say that she has passed away. Miss Chase, the executive
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  Speaker 1: chef and co owner of famous Dukie Chase's Restaurant. This
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  Speaker 1: restaurant was a hub for meeting places for organizers of
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: the civil rights movement back in the day. Miss Chase
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  Speaker 1: was ninety six years old. Ninety six years old. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: condolences from Steve Harvey morning. Yeah Dukey Chase Restaurant. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: her legacy, Miss Chase to that city, inspirational, iconic. You
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: just can't even put into words what Miss Leah Chase
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: meant to the city of New Orleans. This restaurant. She
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that when the freedom fighters and
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  Speaker 1: when they came there to had a place to eat.
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  Speaker 1: And she fits the people involved in a civil rights movement.
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  Speaker 1: Just iconic, historic restaurant and Miss Leah Chase was just
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  Speaker 1: a legend to the city of New Orleans. And ar condolenses,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: just like you said, Shirley going out to the Chase
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  Speaker 1: family in the city of New Orleans. Yeah, and another
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: entertainment news. This past Saturday night was the third annual
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Wearable Art Gala. The theme of this year's event was
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: a Journey to the Pride Lands. It was inspired by
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: the upcoming Live Action Disney remake. The event was thrown
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: by Where Art Can Occur Waco. In other words, it's
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: an organization founded by Miss Tina Knowles, that's Beyonce's mom
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: and her stepfather, Richard Lawson. The gala was over the
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: top and it was star studded. Beyonce held court in
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: this stunning lion and goal themed outfit she brought. She
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: brought her daughter to Blue Ivy to the event, and
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: other stars included Kelly Williams, of course, Roland, Michelle Williams,
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Tyler Perry uh and of course Stephen Marjorie were there. Yes, yes,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: that's Maxwell performed. I would definitely be their next year.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how I missed that. I love stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, fun stuff, right, and you get to where,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: you know, like really exciting costumes and stuff, you know,
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: over the top, over the top, yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking like Matt Kaylin, what would you wear tom
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: over the top? Oh, I'm going to come with that
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: thing that John snowhead on that that that that big
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  Speaker 1: bad jacket. I'm going to come with that. I don't
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  Speaker 1: see that for you, Tommy, I don't see that. I
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  Speaker 1: really think I'm Game of Thrones. I see you with
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  Speaker 1: it on. Come on, tell me their claws and everything?
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Jay. And the zipper up the front. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: and if you ain't had a bad zipp up, then
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: you ain't really man. And patch pockets on the on
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  Speaker 1: the cold or something in a hood. Yeah, yeah, And
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  Speaker 1: that's from my dog. And really don't do pockets, but
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  Speaker 1: he gonna do my pockets. Don't worry about Jay, I
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  Speaker 1: got you. He gonna turn around and do you got
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, No, No, he don't do pockets, but
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  Speaker 1: he gonna do my pocket. They might not they might
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  Speaker 1: be small pockets, but he don't. I don't see that.
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  Speaker 1: See what do you see for me, Julie? Same thing?
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: Sure do you see me wearing the same thing? Sure
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  Speaker 1: you know what? This is a hotstyle room. I haven't
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: anything by what do you see me wearing? Okay? I
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: was feeling the John hold John Snow thing because you
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  Speaker 1: know how I felt about John Snow, Okay, don't matter
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: about how they did him on that last episode. We'll
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: switch gears here. It's take us to Miss Anne. Like
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: everybody's time for the news with miss and Trip A
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  Speaker 1: thank you very much, Ann. Good Monday morning, everybody out there.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: This is and Trip with the news. Violence rage in
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Chicago over the weekend with a jaw drop in Get this.
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  Speaker 1: Thirty one people shot with only a twelve within only
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: a twelve hour period. Thirty one people shot within twelve
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: hours in Chicago between six pm Friday and just before
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: dawn on Saturday. Several killed. One young woman was found
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: stabbed to death as a result, police say of a
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: domestic violence situation. Now all the others were shot. The
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: youngest victim a seventeen year old boy who was shot
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: in the leg and who is in the hospital. Law
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: enforcement authorities in Virginia Beach say they're still trying to
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: figure out why a forty year old utility engineer shot
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: and killed twelve people on Friday at the municipal building
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: where he worked. Before he himself would kill was killed
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: by police. City manager Dave Hanson says the guy wasn't fired,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: the perpetrator's performance satisfactory, that he was in good standing
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: within his department, and there were no issues of discipline ongoing. Meanwhile,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: David Hanson says that four people remained hospitalized in critical condition.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: The FEDS also have now taken over the investigation. California
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Democrats wrapped up their statewide convention in San Francisco yesterday
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: with fourteen candidates. They're trying to make their political pitches
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: to the party faithful. By the way, even though the
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: convention was on Kamala Harris's home turf, the candidates that
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: seemed to draw the most enthusiastic responses were actually Massachusetts
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Centator at Elizabeth Warren, Pete Boudhajig, and Jersey Santa Cory Booker. Meanwhile,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: most Poles showed Joe Biden still leading the pack. However,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: he campaigned in Ohio all the weekend. As you heard
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Cala talk about tributes and condolences continuing to pour in
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: into New Orleans over the passing of the Queen of
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: Creole cuisine. Restaurateur Leah Chase, Miss Chase, propride of the
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: famous Dukie Chase restaurant, died a Saturday, at age ninety six,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: Leah Chase and her late husband, the Edgar Dukie Chase,
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  Speaker 1: expanded and transformed was originally a sandwich shop in the
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: nineteen forties into a high class eatery in the surrogated
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  Speaker 1: South where blacks were welcomed, didn't have to worry about
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: being threatened or harassed by whites, and was therefore safe
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: hazen haven for African Americans doing the civil rights movement.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Leah Chase spoke about her life on National Public Radio
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  Speaker 1: back in twenty thirteen years. So it's fun. That is
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: a good feeling for me that people remember me. I
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: couldn't live honey without people. Yeah, Ray Charles wasn't the
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: only one who went to Dukie Chase to get something
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: to eat. Also, some other guests included the Reverend Martin
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: Luther King, Junior Supreme Court Justice Thirdgood Marshall. Even Presidents
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: George W. Bush and Barack Obama made it their favorite
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: stop for jambalayah, gumbo, red beans and rice, and so
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: many other Southern meals. Among her many honors, Leah Chase
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: the first black restaurant tour to receive the James Beard
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: Lifetime Achievement Award again. Leah Chase dead at ninety six,
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: finally tops at the week being the box office. Yeah,
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: it was Godzilla's World, bringing forty nine million dollars domestically
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: one hundred thirty mill internationally. Now back to the Steve
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: another sad, awful shooting. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: going out to the city and the community of Virginia Beach.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: This past Friday was one of America's deadliest workplace shootings.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Dwayne Kradick submitted a letter of resignation from his job
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: as an engineer for the City of Virginia Beach this
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: past Friday morning, just hours before murdering twelve people and
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: injuring six people at the government building where he worked.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Dwayne Kraddock's motives were unclear, and investigators said even though
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: he resigned, Kradick was not in danger of being fired
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: and his performance was considered satisfactory. Dwayne Kradick used two
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: forty five caliber handguns in the shooting, and police found
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: a sound suppressor commonly known as a silencer, and extended magazines.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: He purchased the guns legally and he was killed by
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: law enforcement officials. This is the great I mean, come on,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: come on, yeah, instead of this is just getting worse.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: It's so out of hand. I mean, it seems like
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: we say the same thing after every mass shooting. This
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: is so awful. And spot, it's a nice nice from me,
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: Jay and and go down and work. This is where
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: we go. We go down, we tell jokes there. This
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: is our spot. You know, the community. Community, Oh my god, Carlin,
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: we love going on. I'm talking about you out your
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: room all day, hanging in the community. And not to mention,
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: when you do a show in Virginia Beach, all types
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: of people come to you. Everyone, I mean all races, definitely, everyone.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: They come out right, Our hearts definitely go out, prayers
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: go out. But they need to. This gun lobby thing
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: has got to change. And until the President and the
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Republicans get more serious about dealing with the gun lobby,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: it's not going to change at all. And I don't
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: see that happen. It's gonna be known unfortunately, if you
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: make it easier for people to get these guns. I mean,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: that's part of it too, It says he purchased his legally.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: But there's also some issues with mental health that we
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: need to talk about workplace safety as far as maybe
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: installed metal detectors, having security guards at work at all places.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: But no, the Republicans, they're too busy word about abortion. Yeah,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: that's a crisis for them right now, and said how
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: many people have to die in mass shootings for this
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: to be addressed? Yeah, and I do see. I do
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: see in the future and not too distant future, a
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: more workplace safety where we might have to have metal
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: detectors to go to work and all of that. I
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: do see that because there's some Yeah, they're definitely seriously
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: to work what or or to school, or to the movies,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: or to the mall. I mean, yeah, anywhere anywhere where
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: we've seen these mass shootings because he purchased his gun legally.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Um yeah, all right, Well, coming up at thirty four
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: after the hour, again, our prayers and our thoughts are
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: with the people of Virginia Beach. Right now, coming up
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: at thirty four after the hour, we're going to switch
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: gears and talk about trending sports news. The boxing match
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: this past weekend. Wow, what's with folks getting hit at
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: baseball games, and we'll talk about the NBA finals all
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: that coming up right after this. You're listening to the show,
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: all right, time to talk some sports, Junior. What you got, Well,
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: you've already seen this weekend. We must don't. We must thought.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: First of all, we must say a condolency always sorry, No,
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: it's embarrassing. We're sorry to Canada, no go a little
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: first in England apologized to the queen because he came
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: all the way over here and got his spirit and
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: not back. Who is he? Anthony Joshua lost his heavyweight
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: championship to Andy Ruiz, but but the Queen was with him.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Though yes, everybody, all those hi hi are people right out? Yeah,
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: but wait a minute, we have to talk about Anthony
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Ruiz did not look like a fighter at all. He
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: don't look but that Hispanic brother was fighting. Man. Did
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: you see his dressing night? He had a play, he
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: had just eight, He had just been he was looking
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: his throughs at the time and went out there and
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: one junior, he was not playing though. That's what I
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: wanted to ask. So what do you think made him
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: win that fight? Was it sheer will and determination or
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: was it some skill involved fighter? I tell you what
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: it didn't do for Joshua. What defense. I'm at home
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: watching the fun I was, I was. I was in
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: the corner being his quarterman from home. Did you see
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: the jail? Are you looking at the hook? You think
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: you think he took this guy lightly? I'd say, heaven,
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: he was not Andy Ruise nothing. He fought a great fight.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: But when you saw him coming rain, you swore to
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: God like you didn't think he was gonna win. All
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: I saw, all I saw, what I'm saying, had a chance.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: All I saw and short too small your shorts, and
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: I see your draw. He didn't look like he was
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: gonna win. Let's just be honest. I didn't see a man.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: He was a man. He was whooping him. Put him
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: to the cam his full times and one of the
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: times he got up. That's what he said. Is it
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: three of them or the two of them? Okay, okay, okay.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: But Julian caller sent me a video. Did you see
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: it was yes, Julian, and the brother got hit. It
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: looked like he had left the fight. He no plane.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: That video was when he hit him, his spirit left
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: his body and jumped on British airways and went back
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: to England. Was tolerant. That was funny. Oh my god,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: that was funny. Was funny. Oh okay, wait call it
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: call have you posted this? You have to post this?
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: Call it? So yeah, because that right came across and
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: he hit and you see that little blue spirit leave
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: that like it's walking and it said Magic Square Garden.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: Then British Airways show up and that plane take it off. Man,
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: I was man, that was hilarious. So it's safe to
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: say now Anthony Ruiz is a very rich man right now,
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: you know, and and right now we don't know what
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: you want on that right, but he's gonna have what
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: he wants. He's gonna have. He's gonna have to defend. Yeah,
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: but then he'll make it check. Then that's gonna be
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: his big He was the belt. Yeah, he was not
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: expected expect to win. No, I know, I didn't think.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: Now you're the champion. You got paid two and now
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: I'm said that they're gonna have to get you another check.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: But then he says something to his mom after the fight,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: like they weren't gonna have to struggle anymore. Yeah something yeah, yeah,
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: because he knew too. That touched my heart. Yeah, he knew.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: And then we want to give a shout out to
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: also to the Warriors. They won last time you said
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: that really lightly yeah, one man, one on nine, one
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: on four. Last yeah, they won man they want let night. Yeah,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: so now we gotta now we got a series now now,
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: y'at have made the little light skin boys upset and
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: speaking of light skins, Drake and Draymond Day made up
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: or something made up? Nothing made Drake sit out here.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: We gotta go. You ain't straight. The nephew is up
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: next with the praying phone call for today. Right after this,
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Morning Show coming up at the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour. Guys, right about four minutes after,
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  Speaker 1: it's today's Strawberry Letters subject, I got a good one
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  Speaker 1: for you, guys. I heard that my vows are weighing
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  Speaker 1: heavy on me. Gott a good one for you Right now.
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  Speaker 1: Nephew's in the building with today's praying phone call. What
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  Speaker 1: do you have for us today? Net? Okay, Shirley, he
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  Speaker 1: ain't Carl Shirley, Yes, he's not here. Your uncle Uncle
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  Speaker 1: Steve was out, so y'all cool if I run the
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  Speaker 1: time that I prank Uncle Steve you're gonna be out
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  Speaker 1: of work. Yeah, no, I ain't gonna be out of
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  Speaker 1: work right now. I'm tend to play the time I
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  Speaker 1: prank uncle Steve. Can y'all can we do that? We
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  Speaker 1: can't do it. Can't be out of let the room.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you. Jay the idiot running kad Renny.
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  Speaker 1: So what did you say? I'm saying to you right
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  Speaker 1: now that he chelling on everybody, he's checking on He
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with me, man, That ain't
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  Speaker 1: my book. That's his damn book. Put him on the phone.
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  Speaker 1: I canna tell him. I ain't already staid to Steve.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't writing about you day. He's a tall on me.
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  Speaker 1: He's a tall on my boy. He's telling on everybody. Man.
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  Speaker 1: He goes this book, ain't got nothing to do with you, man, No, no,
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  Speaker 1: nobody book dud got something to do with me. Because
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  Speaker 1: everything that Steven run if he was growing up from
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  Speaker 1: the hood telling on everybody, and I'm tired of this.
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  Speaker 1: He ought to go somewhere and sit down. I do. No.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta be get right with your girls. That if
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  Speaker 1: he's stolling my girl, he ain't got no business coming
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  Speaker 1: in my house. In my car, tell on every damn thing.
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  Speaker 1: So hello, who who who is this? Who is it?
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, man, this Steve Harvey? Who is this? This
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  Speaker 1: is your team? Man? Listen here man. Okay, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: fall with your nephew. And I'm just saying this to you. Steve. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: hold up to you, dude. I see you on the
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  Speaker 1: front of essence. I see you on the on the
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  Speaker 1: family field, on your radio show. So why don't you
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  Speaker 1: go somewhere and sit out and quit telling on everybody?
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  Speaker 1: What I mean? If from everything, Steve, I'm riding the
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  Speaker 1: car with my family. I'm gonna turn my radio off
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  Speaker 1: because you're telling game. We grow up, sticking together. If
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  Speaker 1: I'm running the middle game to make my ears meet
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  Speaker 1: or whatever it is, that's my goodest. You ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: on me. Hold on, hold old women. First of all,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know who you are. I know you're gone.
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  Speaker 1: I know who you are, and we listen to the
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  Speaker 1: show first time. You're gonna do though, Back up a
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  Speaker 1: little bit dull because you're talking to me. Plays if Steve,
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  Speaker 1: ain't nobody scared of you because you got money on it,
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  Speaker 1: just ain't gonhing doing no money and I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: be too many, but this is money. You want to
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  Speaker 1: plait a minute and one and just enjoy your life.
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  Speaker 1: You're finding the perfect right now. You you found the
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  Speaker 1: perfect person, the perfect relationship. Okay, that's good. God blemming.
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  Speaker 1: Don't put God in this. Lead God out of this
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  Speaker 1: because you ain't calling from the God ain't gonna s
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  Speaker 1: people killing me with that part right there, God bless you.
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  Speaker 1: Don't throw God. You don't w God bless me because
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  Speaker 1: you're talking too crazy to me. That's for starters right there.
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  Speaker 1: But since you're talking crazy to me, let me turn
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  Speaker 1: you onto something you want that running game. That's your problem.
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  Speaker 1: Run your game. You can't get mad at me because
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: I'm doing what I do, sooth man, y'all kill me.
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  Speaker 1: You out there doing what you want to do like
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  Speaker 1: you all in this right here. Then you're coming to
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  Speaker 1: me because I'm trying to empower somebody. I don't give
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  Speaker 1: a damn about you. Man, see on how you want
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  Speaker 1: to feel about me. But what you ain't gonna do though,
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  Speaker 1: it's talk to me like you clay, because I ain't
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  Speaker 1: that Wait a minute, save, let's make the player feel fail. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you got the airways, you got the microphone, you got
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  Speaker 1: the ability to touch a lot of people. Okay, and
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  Speaker 1: you just tell you're gonna walking talking on. Hold, hold on.
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  Speaker 1: This ain't got nothing to do with the adway. This
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing doing with the media. This just for
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  Speaker 1: me and you talking. I can't talk to you personally. Personally,
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  Speaker 1: me and you can talk anybody. I talk me in there,
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  Speaker 1: you call. You're talking all this yet see his people
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  Speaker 1: like you, man, dog, You know why I wrote a
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  Speaker 1: book in the first place, because you always somewhere up
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  Speaker 1: trying to act like you're something that you went. Now
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  Speaker 1: you've got the sauce on the phone. Now you're trying
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  Speaker 1: to mink about money and to me, this just me
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  Speaker 1: and you're just two men talking, not what you want.
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  Speaker 1: And if there's two men then talking there from one
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  Speaker 1: man to another, watching guests go from where and sit down?
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  Speaker 1: It quit telling. First of all, I ain't got this
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  Speaker 1: sit down. You're already doing nothing as it is. She's
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  Speaker 1: as soon as somebody go out and do something, trying
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  Speaker 1: to do something positive. You're got someone shaking big shimmy
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  Speaker 1: way like you sitting up in here man wanting to
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  Speaker 1: go to sit down somewhere. I ain't gonna sitting down,
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  Speaker 1: no damn where you can mince me with that. Say
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  Speaker 1: what I want to say? And who are you anyway?
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  Speaker 1: You ain't even doing nothing. I don't tell me I
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  Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing. I tell you what I am doing.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to do something. Every time I take a step,
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  Speaker 1: you take two steps. I can't hang hang hoh man,
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  Speaker 1: what kid? Hey? Yeah, you don't kill me. Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you quit trying and do something? You aren't killing me? Man?
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  Speaker 1: With that on you trying to do something? Why don't
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  Speaker 1: you do something? Dog, you shouldn't have been here talking
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  Speaker 1: to me about what you're trying. You tall of selling
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  Speaker 1: that same thing to your people. You're trying where your
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  Speaker 1: tie to me and trying still where you're gonna do something.
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing something right now. You're talking to me on
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  Speaker 1: the floor. You're gonna be improving your relationship with your
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  Speaker 1: girl or whoever you're trying to get it together. But
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  Speaker 1: you're on the phone with me complaining because I don't
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  Speaker 1: wrote a book. Man, don't read the damn book. You
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  Speaker 1: probably ain't read it no way, And don't watch the
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  Speaker 1: TV show. You probably ain't working enough to play the bill. Noh,
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  Speaker 1: I let me wait a minute. Jo. You don't know
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  Speaker 1: nothing about me, Okay, you don't know nothing about my finances.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I won't about your finances. This about
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  Speaker 1: you as a man. Man. If you don't want y'all kimmy,
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  Speaker 1: what y'all do to me? Do what y'all do to me?
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  Speaker 1: Y'all always talking to me on an email somewhere, y'are
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  Speaker 1: always on the blog talking about me. You don't even
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  Speaker 1: know me. Then when you're giving me face to face,
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  Speaker 1: you want to bring up money. This concients ain't got
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  Speaker 1: nothing to do about money. I ain't brought him money
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  Speaker 1: one time. It's about man who now, why don't you
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  Speaker 1: do that right there? But no, Steve, it ain't about
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  Speaker 1: money now because you got it, Okay, because you've got
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  Speaker 1: it when you're broke. I bet that when you're at it,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got just what's a man? Just when I
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  Speaker 1: was broked on, I was working. I wasn't sitting on
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  Speaker 1: the phone crying to some other men by what he
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  Speaker 1: meanting me feel with my wife. Yeah, and time I
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  Speaker 1: take a step forward, you got me took the two
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  Speaker 1: step around. That's why you ain't taking step but give me.
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  Speaker 1: I'll tell you something. Did you got Frank offense Uncle's
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  Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm gonna call you back, dog man. Did
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  Speaker 1: I get my mom? You know he's a he's zero
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  Speaker 1: to sixty easy. So you got any given any given day,
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  Speaker 1: use I get my uncle. That's all I want to ask.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry, you're not gonna get fired or nothing. No,
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  Speaker 1: you know what because because because you can take off
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  Speaker 1: come in light but time. I don't know how you
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  Speaker 1: knew that time. But as soon as you handed the
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  Speaker 1: phone off, it was open. I already knew he was
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  Speaker 1: gonna bite the bait as soon as I as soon
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  Speaker 1: as I was talking to the guy on the phone,
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  Speaker 1: I knew I was setting him. Was like, he gonna
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  Speaker 1: ask for this phone, and you know what, all he
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  Speaker 1: said was give me the phone sometimes sometimes killing out
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  Speaker 1: in his strong point. It really a long time, longer
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  Speaker 1: than all of the the straight killing out let that
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  Speaker 1: go na. He don't do that. There is no one
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  Speaker 1: that I cannot get. Go to Thomas Miles dot com
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  Speaker 1: and solicit. No, you nobody. I want who you think
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  Speaker 1: who you think I can't get? Junior, I'll tell you
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  Speaker 1: what I don't know. If you can get it, but
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  Speaker 1: they're gonna lead to a serious ask for me. Who
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  Speaker 1: mister Farr, I'm not doing that. I'm not doing it.
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  Speaker 1: That would be good one. Some people you don't miss with.
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  Speaker 1: I'm look, thank you, nephew. Coming up, it's today's Strawberry Letter. Subject,
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  Speaker 1: my vows are weighing heavy on me. Wait till you
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  Speaker 1: hear this one. We'll get into it right after this.
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  Speaker 1: Steve's and I here so we want to hear from
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  Speaker 1: the Ellas on this one as well. Jay Junior, the nephew,
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  Speaker 1: Oh lord, all right, here we go. Subject, my vows
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  Speaker 1: are weighing heavy on me. Dear Stephen Shirley I've been
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  Speaker 1: married for sixteen years, and my wife and I are
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  Speaker 1: headed for a divorce. We're headed for a divorce six
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  Speaker 1: years ago because of her infidelity. She cheated on me
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  Speaker 1: and admitted it. But shortly after that we found out
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  Speaker 1: that she was really sick. So I decided to stay
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  Speaker 1: with her and help her out because she could only
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  Speaker 1: work part time because of all her medical appointment I
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  Speaker 1: worked extra hours at a job that I really hated,
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  Speaker 1: and I paid most of her medical bills. After all
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  Speaker 1: of that, I found out that she had another affair
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  Speaker 1: with a new guy at her job. I'm not trying
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  Speaker 1: to boast, but I get approached by women all the time,
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  Speaker 1: and I have never cheated on my wife. Right after
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  Speaker 1: I found out about the second affair, her god worse
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  Speaker 1: and she had to stop working altogether. So I am
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  Speaker 1: stuck because she has no source of income and she's
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  Speaker 1: still on my health insurance. I don't want to be
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  Speaker 1: with this woman at all, but I know what it
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  Speaker 1: would look like if I left her. Now. We have
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  Speaker 1: a son and a daughter, and they are old enough
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  Speaker 1: to understand. But if I leave her, they are going
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  Speaker 1: with me, and that will devastate my wife. I have
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  Speaker 1: told her repeatedly that I am not happy, and she
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  Speaker 1: refuses to let me go. She thinks I should forgive
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  Speaker 1: her past affairs and honor my wedding vows by taking
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  Speaker 1: care of her. As soon as she feels better, she
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  Speaker 1: might have another affair and I should not have to
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  Speaker 1: keep dealing with this. What do you think am I
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  Speaker 1: thinking selfishly for wanting to leave this unfaithful marriage? Please help?
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  Speaker 1: Wow is a lot. This is a lot for any
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  Speaker 1: human being after sixteen years of marriage. I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: really have to say that. You ask the question, are
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  Speaker 1: you are you thinking selfishly for wanting to leave this
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  Speaker 1: unfaithful marriash No? Absolutely not um. And if you are,
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  Speaker 1: it's okay in this instance, because look what this woman
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  Speaker 1: has put you through. I would say you're a very
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  Speaker 1: good You're a kind man, you're a considerate man, you're
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  Speaker 1: a loving man. And you yes, you are honoring your vows,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And that's the thing. You do have a
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  Speaker 1: decision to make, because you could walk off and leave
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  Speaker 1: this woman and take your kids. A lot of people
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  Speaker 1: would think that's what she deserves. But I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that's what's in your heart. I think you're better than that.
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  Speaker 1: I really do after all that she's done. And let
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  Speaker 1: me let me tell you this, it is a rare
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  Speaker 1: occasion when a man takes a woman back and still
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  Speaker 1: calls her his wife after she's cheated on him. Women
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  Speaker 1: do it all the time, or they do it a
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  Speaker 1: lot and way more than men. But men definitely don't
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  Speaker 1: do this a lot. The problem is your wife is sick.
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  Speaker 1: That's the problem. And the vows do say in sickness
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  Speaker 1: and in health. But where was this illness when she
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  Speaker 1: was cheating? Well, I don't understand she cheated and then
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  Speaker 1: she you found out she was sick. I mean, what
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  Speaker 1: a mess you're in. I just have to say, by
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  Speaker 1: the grace of God that you can get through this.
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  Speaker 1: Your wife will get better and eventually you will be
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  Speaker 1: able to divorce her and move on to a better life.
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  Speaker 1: But this is no way to live. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: can still look after your wife and take care of her,
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  Speaker 1: and she could still be on your your health insurance
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  Speaker 1: while she's going through this illness, but you don't have
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  Speaker 1: to stay there and take this. And you say your
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  Speaker 1: children are old enough. I have to give you credit
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  Speaker 1: for that too, because you're staying with her. You know
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  Speaker 1: what it looks like you know, you're the kids to
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  Speaker 1: go with you. According to you, this is a mess.
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  Speaker 1: Your wife is all the way wrong. I'm sorry that
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  Speaker 1: she's ill, I really am, but I do thank god
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  Speaker 1: that she has health insurance and she has a good
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  Speaker 1: man like you. But you don't have to stay there
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  Speaker 1: and deal with this. There's a way you can do
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  Speaker 1: this and still take care of her. She's still in
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  Speaker 1: your house and your health insurance. Say yeah, this is
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  Speaker 1: a mess. This, this is horrible, this is really bad. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't say she's near death. He just says she's
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  Speaker 1: really really sick. But I mean the nerve of her though, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the nerve You got this good man and you're he's
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  Speaker 1: taking care of you while you're saying the gall yeah,
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  Speaker 1: the unmitigated gal. Yeah, yeah, this is crazy with it
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  Speaker 1: all right? Yeah? You what you need to do. We
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  Speaker 1: don't have his name, we don't even know what he needs,
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  Speaker 1: Rob Robert. You need to get out before she gets well,
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  Speaker 1: because look at the tail she's giving away, thick. Look
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: at what she's doing sick. This is sick tail that
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: she just constantly giving it away, and you don't want
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: her to get healthy and really distribute that thing. No,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: what you need to do is leave her sick ass
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  Speaker 1: right now before she gets fully well, I mean completely
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  Speaker 1: what she's doing the sick tail away like she ain't
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  Speaker 1: that damn sick first of all? Is she gonna drag
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  Speaker 1: out sickness for a long damn time? Oh yeah, and
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: make him feel guilty about staying there taking care of her.
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: Leave I to leave her sick and when she gets well,
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: get well, my man. They all right, Look, we're gonna
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  Speaker 1: hear from Junior and Tommy when we come back at
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  Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Today's subject my vows are
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  Speaker 1: weighing heavy on me, and they should because vowers are
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  Speaker 1: serious and God takes vows serious. So we'll we'll have
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  Speaker 1: part two of this Strawberry letter coming up right after this.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, guys, let's recap today's
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject my vows are weighing heavy on me?
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  Speaker 1: A man wrote in he and his wife have been
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  Speaker 1: married for sixteen years. Sixteen years. They were going to
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: get a divorce six years ago, but they found out
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: that his wife was really sick. They were going to
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: get a divorce because he found out that his wife
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: had cheated on him. So then when she got sick,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: he decided to stay and help her out because she
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: couldn't work full time and he had to help her financially.
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  Speaker 1: He worked extra hours at a job he didn't like.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, where is this man there? I mean, this
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  Speaker 1: is as a good unselfish man, and he wants to
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: know is he selfish? So anyway, he nursed her kind
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: of back to health and everything. Then she got well
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: and had another affair with a new guy at her job,
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: so and then her health got worse. She had to
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: stop working altogether. So now he feels like he's stuck
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: because she has no source of income and she's still
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: on his health insurance. He doesn't want to be with
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: this woman. Uh he knows if he leaves her right
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  Speaker 1: now while she's down, what it'll look like. And they
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  Speaker 1: and they have two kids, a boy and a girl
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: who would go with him? So his question is is
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: he thinking selfishly for wanting to leave this unfaithful marriage?
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  Speaker 1: And absolutely no, he's not selfish. So that's that's the
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: recap of the letter, Junior. What do you say? What
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: did Jay say? Jay? And let me tell you something,
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  Speaker 1: what a better two people? To respond to show we
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  Speaker 1: all ready No. If Jane Turtley was sick, ass, then
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  Speaker 1: you should leave. But here's another option that I would
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  Speaker 1: like to present to you. First problem you as your
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  Speaker 1: ass is too healthy. Get your ass sick and confronting.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: So you got too much stress? You know you got
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: to get Joe ass something. He needs to gona something.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: Didn't catch something. I don't know if it's a woman coughs,
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: call it, save one of me, bird flu get yours
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: something and get your count takes whoever she did it with.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: Be in a hospital. Get Joe ass admitted and see
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: what hell going on with your wife? Yeah, you're too healthy.
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: She's not gonna help him though, don't sert he too healthy.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: All the cheating tapped it down there is that I
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: see you? Why you ain't down? Get Joe ass admitted.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: She cheated with the second guy at her job and
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: the job is down at the hospital. Get working sick.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: We're telling you stop sikest people even you go leave
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: or catch something, get you something, nurse her back to
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: health and get out of there. You need to be
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: in that room in the huspit. Hey mate, we get it,
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: We get it. Thank you, junior, all right, tell me
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: my my vows are weighing me down. Sixteen years of marriage.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: Uh sickness and fidelity. Uh, bad health, no job, health insurance?
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: Thank god? What do you yes? Is he being selfish?
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: The most important thing that needs to be on your mind?
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: Eels life in sharing, that is what you might want.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: You need to make sure you got five million dollars
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: life insurance. Let her leave here. Every time she go down,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: she come up with another man. Let me tell you something,
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: get you some life insurance. Let her lead. Yeah, help
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: her every step of the weight, and I promise you
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: when she leaves. What what y'all ain't never help nobody
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: to die before. That's illegal. You could go to prison
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: for that, just saying yeah, oh look, this onean is
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: susceptible to diseases. We know that. Well wait, wait, if
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: she's dying, never said that. Okay, let's get her to dance.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: What you gonna do? Call it cheat on me? And
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: then I'm trying to help you back back. I'm not
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: trying to help you back. I'm gonna I'm gonna cordially
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: let you leave here, but I'm gonna make sure I
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: got life and sh And then when you me and
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: this boy and this baby that you're leaving us with.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have money and we're gonna leave and we're
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: gonna have a great life. Oufter you leave, and you
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: have decided to do this, You you decided to cheat.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: Don't mean and guess what life in Sharance is the key?
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: The key noticed this. You can put anything in vegetables.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: Oh god, they have two kids. They'll be losing a mother,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: a cheat mother. He's not cheating on the kids, but
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: she hating their daddy. Yeah. Yeah, and it's time for
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: you to go. Either we do what Jay said, dude,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: or I say, dude, I say, get your ass something.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: He got options. There's nothing that says you serious when
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: you pull your hospital bed off the next to her
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: and you catch your ass an egg. Well will will
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: on the path that he's doing. He can nurse her
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: back to health and then leave her because he does
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: the one too. He's a good man. He does not
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: want to leave her while she's But you bring us,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: If you bring her back, she just cheating on us again.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Well you'll be out by then we'll be out. You
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: go give all her street to go cheating now a
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: full street. She won't be cheating. If he divorces her, well,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: she won't be his wife. You can email as your
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  Speaker 1: Instagram as your thoughts on today Strawberry Letter at Steve
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: Harvey FM, or you can check out the Strawberry Letter
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: podcast on demand now coming up at forty six after
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: the hour. On this Motivational Monday, We're going to talk
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: to mister Jay Anthony Brown. You may have heard of him,
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: about his battle with leukemia and how he stays in
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: such good spirits. You don't want to miss this. We'll
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: be back right after this. Jay is motivation you're listening
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: to show. All right, guys, today is Motivational Monday. And
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: for those of you who don't know, our very own
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Brown, has cancer and he's battling leukemia. We've
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: all been in prayer for healing for you, Jay, of course,
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: because we love you and we know you can beat this.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: M but you gotta tell us about your progress and
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: how do you stay. This is why you're my hero now,
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: because you stay in such good spirits. You really do well.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: I think one of the things when I was first
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: told that I had lukemia about the doctor. The doctor
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: told me this. He said you gotta He didn't even
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: know I was a comedian. He said, you gotta find
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: a way to laugh at the situation and to stay
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: in a funny mode, to try to bring things that
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: are in your life that will make you laugh, that
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: would cheer you up. And that's one of the ways
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 1: to beat Oh, he didn't know who he was talking.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: He had no idea. I mean, to anybody who has
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: leukemia and this is just me, that's some days when
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: you just go, this is a tough day, but I'm
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: gonna get through this. But for the most part, man,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: I got this. I really got this. I mean, I'm
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: not afraid. I'm not scared of dying. I know I'm
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: gonna kick cancer, Indie. And why why is that? Why?
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 1: Why is that just it's just the way I feel.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: It's just the way I feel. And not only that,
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: because of the type of leukemia that I have had.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: This been twenty years ago, I wouldn't be here. Oh yeah,
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: my grandfather died ukemia. Now that's another thing that people
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: people that they they're sharing me, they come up because
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: I hear a lot. You know, my grandfather had did
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: he make it? No? He died just saying no, this
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: that's why you're my hero, Jay, because of your attitude.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: Because yeah, seriously, well there's so many people that I
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: have to thank, you know, from his family members and
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: friends and you know you mean, I mean people on
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: the street who listen to the show and they'll just
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: walk up and say, you know, we're praying for you,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: and that that's just that's that lifts your spirit. That's
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: what Alex Trebek said. He said, the people that have
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: exped resting prayers for him and condolences and all of that,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: that's what gives him strength a lot of times when
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 1: he feels down. But you know what, let me say this, Jake,
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: your attitude, that's it. Your attitude and on how you
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: have addressed this whole thickness man, is is something that
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: we all need to watch and listen and adhere to
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: because you have taken a whole new precedent. Man. Yeah,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: the way you've taken this is I would have I
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: would have never thought you would have taken it this way.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: And you make us feel like you know what he's
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: been to beat this. Yeah, I've never seen this, I'm
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: but I've never seen someone handle it like you. And
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: it really has touched my heart. I mean seriously, you
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: make me laugh. All right, Jay, So hang on, we
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: have more with you. Yeah, we'll bring Jay back. This
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: is motivational Monday. We'll talk about it when we come
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: back at the top of the hour. Right after this.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, We're back with the one and
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: only Jay Anthony Brown, who has been still open and
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: uh about sharing what he's going through with us. He
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: has leukemia. Yes, that is a form of cancer of
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: the blood, of the blood and the bone marrow in
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: the back. And it was I think the busy biggest
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: decision I had to make for me was the fact
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: that I was going to share it with people. Yeah.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: I was gonna just try to keep it to myself,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 1: but then people would see me losing weight and when
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: your mustache drop off, something something going on. I started
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: that real private. Jay. Yeah, So it was I thought
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: maybe sharing it would help other people deal with it,
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: and it has. And when I go to the leukemia
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: center where I actually get treatment, it is so Jay,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: let me ask you this, though, what is a day
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: like like like a chemo day? What is that? What happened?
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: A chemo day is like this. You get up, you
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: go into the room where you're in the room. Before
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: you walk in, it is surrounded by a lot of
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: people who are sick. Not only are these people sick,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: there's sick people who are bringing sick people. So you know,
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: you have family members who are bringing somebody who's sick,
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: and then you have to go into your room and
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: get your your chemo. Once you get into that room
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 1: and you're separated and maybe you have one person, it's
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: it's a whole different feeling. But when you walk into
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: that room, the whole entire room, you just have a
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: feeling that everybody has something. So when I walk in,
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: I make it my thing to speak to everybody as
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: loud as I can. You know, that's just something I
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: do to speak to people because it's just you could.
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: When you walk into you you can see the like,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: good morning, everybody, how y'all doing? You know, and people uh,
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: and normally they perk up and they speak back. But
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: once you get past the lobby where it's surrounded by
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: people who are sick, and you get into your room,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: it's a whole different feeling because you know you're gonna
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: get help. And I got prayer warriors out there. Yeah,
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: I met the whole time read my sister, you know,
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: my my son, and my nephew. I really have to
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: do a shout out for my nephew who lived with me,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: who's been very very helpful. I mean not more helpful
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: than anybody else, but him living with me has been,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: you know, an inspiration. Tell me to make sure you
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 1: take your medicine, make sure you get an exercise, make
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: sure you eat right. And this is something I never
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: would think that this boy would have done because that's
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: my sister's oldest but I am his favorite uncle. The
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: other thing about Keima, you can use it to your
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: advantage really, Yeah, Like when you don't want to do something,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: you know, I got keemo, I got leukemia. I hang
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: up for it today, gone going on with all of that,
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: you know how to seal it with dad? Or how
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: many how many hours are you in there? Well, leukemia
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: treatment if you're actually taking leukemia, can be by six
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: to seven hours really because they you know, they want
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: the drops to going slowly, and then they'll after you
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: take the leukemia for a week, then you take another
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: four or five weeks cleaning your system out with a
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: saline solution. So you do like five weeks of that
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: and then you start back to chemo. So it's gonna
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: be probably a year to deal with this, you know,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: And I haven't. There's been one day when I was
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: just really really sick. Are you in any pain or anything? No? No, no, no,
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: only if I make it up, because we don't see
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: any difference. That's the other thing. People say, you don't
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: look sick. And if you go to the treatment center
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: where a lot of people are getting treated, a lot
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: of these people just look like regular ordinary people. I'm not.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: And cancer don't care. Its young white. It goes across
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: the board. Man. Yeah, but it's your spirit, man, your spirits.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: It's incredible, bro, what you're dealing with, how you're handling it.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: Your spirit tells it all. Jay. If you can tell
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: people that are going through this, give them something to
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: go on today, so they can maybe take a page
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: out of your playbook with I just in your spirit.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: I just found out another fan of mine has cancer,
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: and I called her daily and I told her her
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: attitude towards what she has means a lot. And everybody
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 1: who has cancer, who've either who've either beaten it or
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: dealing with it, they will all say the same thing.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: You can't be. You can say that you can't be
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: no punk towards cancer. You just can't. You gotta fight,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: have to fight it and worry. Wow, alright, most I
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: have a smoke on the damn show. We're still praying
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: for you and know just dealing with We know you're
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: gonna be fine. I know you are, and we thank
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: God for you and for for sharing that with us,
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: you know, all right, Marvel Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: up at twenty minutes after the hour, right after this,
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, guys, Time now for the weekend
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: box office report, and I can tell you we're doing
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: the top five movies. I can tell you right now
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: that Jay and Tony Brown has seen every single one
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: of these, maybe even twice. Yes, I love movies too,
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: but you more than anybody. Yeah, more than anybody. Okay.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Coming in at number five, it was John Wick three
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: The Parabellum, very good. I love that. I love that movie.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: Number four Ma with Octavia s Mom was good. I
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: really did. It was good. It was it was kind
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: of funny and had a lot of funny parts in it,
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: but you know, it was good. I like it was
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: not scary it's kind of scary because she kind of
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: goes over the edge. But you know, white kids learn
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: not to mess with a black woman who say come
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: have a party and party like rock star stars. Yeah,
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: white kids learned, all right. Number three Rocket Man Elton
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think it's better than. To me,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: it's better than And I'll tell you why, because we're
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: more familiar with Elton john songs than we are with
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: Queen songs. Okay, and that's one of the things that
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: really made that movie. Okay, Aladdin with Will Smith coming
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: in at number two for the two point three millions great. Yeah.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: You know when it first came out and people were
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: critical of the fact that he was so big and
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: so blue. Yeah, Will is a triple thread. He can sing, dance,
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: and act in this movie kind of shows all the
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah in this movie. Number one movie over the weekend, Godzilla,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: King of the Monster. His mama did a great job
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: in this movie. What do you mean he's got zout?
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: More of the Steve Harvey Morry Show, This ignorant show.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 1: We'll be back right after this. Hello, you're listening to
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: show some sad news out of New Orleans. Time. Miss
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: Leah Chase New Orleans, matriarch of Creole cuisine who fed
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: civil rights leaders, musicians and presidents. Well, sad to say
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: that she has passed away. Miss Chase, the executive chef
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: and co owner of famous Dukey Chase's Restaurant. This restaurant
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: was a hub for meeting places for organizers of the
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: civil rights movement back in the day. Miss Chase was
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 1: ninety six years old. Ninety six years old. Yeah, condolences
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: from the morning, Yeah, Dukeye Chase Restaurant. Yeah, her legacy,
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: Miss Chase to that city. Inspirational, iconic. You just can't
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: even put into words what Miss Lea Chase meant to
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: the city of New Orleans. This restaurant. She wanted to
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 1: make sure that when the freedom fighters and when they
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: came there, they had a place to eat. And she
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: feeds the people involved in a civil rights movement. Just iconic,
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: historic restaurant and Miss Leah Chase was just a legend
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 1: to the city of New Orleans. And our condolences, just
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: like you said, Shirley, going out to the Chase family
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 1: in the city of New Orleans. Yeah. And another entertainment news,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: this past Saturday night was the third annual Wearable Art Gala.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: The theme of this year's event was a Journey to
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: the Pride Lands. It was inspired by the upcoming Live
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 1: Action Disney remake. The event was thrown by Where Art
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 1: Can Occur Waco. In other words, it's an organization founded
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: by Miss Tina Knowles, that's Beyonce's mom and her stepfather,
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: Richard Lawson. The gala was over the top and it
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: was star studded. Beyonce held court in this stunning lion
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: and gold themed outfit she brought. She brought her daughter
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: to Blue Ivy to the event, and other stars included
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: Kelly Williams, of course, Kelly Rowland, Michelle Williams, Tyler Perry
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 1: uh and of course Stephen Marjorie were there. Yes, yes, yes, yeah,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Maxwell performed. I would definitely be their next year. I
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: don't know how I missed that. I love stuff like that. Yeah,
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: funk stuff, right, and you get to where, you know,
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: like really exciting costumes and stuff, you know, over the top,
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: over the top, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yeah. I'm
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: thinking like Mett Kaylin, what would you wear tom overtime?
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm going to come with that thing that John
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: Snowhead on that that that big bad jacket. I'm going
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: to come with that. I don't see that for you, Tommy,
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: I don't see that. I really think I'm Game of Thrones.
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: I see you with it on. Come on, Tammy with
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: the bad claws and everything. Thank you Jay Jay and
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: the zipper up the front. And if you ain't had
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: a bad zipp up, then you ain't really leave man
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: and patch pockets on the on the cold or something
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: in a hood. Yeah yeah, and that's from my dog
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 1: and really don't do pockets. And coming up, last break
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: of the day, and Steve Harvey left us with some
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: closing remarks at forty nine after the hour. Right after this,
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: at the final break of the day with us one
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 1: more thing. Steve's closing remarks, what do you have for us? Say?
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Sir? Your wisdom
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  Speaker 1: drop it? Okay? Today, I thought i'd talked to you
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  Speaker 1: about something with a little bit different angle to it.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna be positive, but I want to talk to
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  Speaker 1: you about something that many people consider negative. I want
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  Speaker 1: to talk to you today about disappointment. I think that
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  Speaker 1: we all have to grapple with disappointment from time to time.
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  Speaker 1: The problem with disappointment, disappointment can turn so ugly so fast.
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  Speaker 1: Too many people allow disappointment to turn into resentment. Too
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  Speaker 1: many people allow disappointment to turn into a final verdict,
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  Speaker 1: so to speak. In other words, you know, so many
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  Speaker 1: people think that this disappointment for them symbolizes the end.
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  Speaker 1: When you allow for disappointment to turn into resentment, and
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  Speaker 1: you allow disappointment to turn into the final verdict, you're
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  Speaker 1: losing what disappointment actually can become for you. And I
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  Speaker 1: want you all to start looking at disappointment as motivation.
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  Speaker 1: How many times have you been faced with something that
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  Speaker 1: was disappointing. Let's say you go in to get a
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  Speaker 1: job and you own your last interview. And I have
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  Speaker 1: been in this position. Man. I was trying to get
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  Speaker 1: an insurance job one time years ago, and I went
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  Speaker 1: in and I had gotten gone through about three or
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  Speaker 1: four interviews. I was at my final interview and I said, man,
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  Speaker 1: I'm about to get this job. Man, get my little
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  Speaker 1: family together. I'll be all right. And got to that
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  Speaker 1: interview and they told me no. And the reason they
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  Speaker 1: gave me for not behind me was I had moved
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  Speaker 1: too many times over the past seven years, and that
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  Speaker 1: represented it to their company a sign of unstableness. That
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  Speaker 1: disappointment for me was gut wrenching. I actually got in
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  Speaker 1: my car, my little seventy two Chevy, and I was
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  Speaker 1: driving off Man and tears was in my eyes when
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  Speaker 1: I got up on the freeway and I drove back
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  Speaker 1: and I looked back over at that big building with
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  Speaker 1: that big powerful name on it, and I had gone
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  Speaker 1: through four interviews and I and all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 1: I was so disappointed in not getting hired. But you
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  Speaker 1: know what I learned to do though, From that moment on,
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  Speaker 1: I turned all my disappointment into motivation. I said, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: now this might not be right for everybody, but I
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  Speaker 1: use it as a challenge. I use all my disappointments
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  Speaker 1: as okay, I'll show you. I use them all this motivation.
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  Speaker 1: From the time teacher told me that you ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: never be nothing, that there's no way they'll put somebody
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  Speaker 1: like you on TV because you have a stuttering problem
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  Speaker 1: and you can't even talk, I said, okay, but who
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  Speaker 1: are you who is issuing out this disappointment because you're
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  Speaker 1: not gonna make me resent you, and you're not gonna
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  Speaker 1: cause me to think that you're denying me this opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: Are you handing me this bad news of disappointment. I'm
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  Speaker 1: not going to allow you to be my final verdict.
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  Speaker 1: You will not be the truth teller in my life.
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  Speaker 1: You are not going to be the person who is
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  Speaker 1: the author of my destiny. You are not it that
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  Speaker 1: belongs to God, not you, and I will not give
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  Speaker 1: that to anyone. So when you're facing disappointment, do not
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  Speaker 1: hand that disappointment over to the person who gave it
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  Speaker 1: to you in the form of empowerment. Do not allow
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  Speaker 1: them to control your destiny with this one piece of
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  Speaker 1: disappointment that causes you to go into such resentment that
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  Speaker 1: you become bitter that all of a sudden, now all
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  Speaker 1: you think about is that, and you be getting you
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  Speaker 1: developed this nasty attitude. You don't have to do that,
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  Speaker 1: and you also don't have to let them become the
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  Speaker 1: final verdict. They are not the author of your destiny.
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  Speaker 1: They are not the author of your future. They are
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  Speaker 1: not that belongs to God and only God. Don't let
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  Speaker 1: them trip you up. And I'm saying this because I've
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  Speaker 1: had many, many, many disappointments. You ain't this. You ain't that.
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  Speaker 1: I've had shows canceled, gigs taken, I've been fired from radio,
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  Speaker 1: I've been all of at all. I've had some disappointing setbacks.
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  Speaker 1: But let me tell you something I've learned to do.
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  Speaker 1: I've learned to take all those setbacks and use them
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  Speaker 1: as motivation. And I just quietly say to myself, you
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  Speaker 1: ain't my God. You ain't the author of my destiny.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't create me, You don't know me, You have
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  Speaker 1: no say so in the real outcome of who I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to be and what I'm going to turn myself into.
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  Speaker 1: You who think you have the power by telling me no,
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  Speaker 1: by refusing me, by voting against me, by saying that
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  Speaker 1: I'm not the right one for the part, by telling
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  Speaker 1: me that I represent an unstable person, by telling me
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  Speaker 1: that I don't have what it takes. No, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: no no. It's just because you don't know, because you
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  Speaker 1: don't know what God really has for me, And that
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  Speaker 1: ain't your fault. So why bear resentment for these people
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  Speaker 1: who are causing this disappointment in your life? You don't
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  Speaker 1: have to do that because they are not the author
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  Speaker 1: of your destiny, and don't you Dad give them that.
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  Speaker 1: You take that disappointment and you use it as the motivation.
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  Speaker 1: I feel sorry for people who tell me no, because
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  Speaker 1: you know what, I know. I know they just don't
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  Speaker 1: know what God has for me. And I end up
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  Speaker 1: somehow through God's grace and mercy showing them all. Keep
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  Speaker 1: it right attitude, y'all. God got something for you through
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