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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all.
- 0:09Speaker 3: At all at all, So.
- 0:12Speaker 4: Don't given them.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Back a million bu bu boozy.
- 0:24Speaker 4: Listening to show, I don't joy, yeah, joy.
- 0:53Speaker 1: They show.
- 0:58Speaker 5: You gotta do.
- 1:06Speaker 6: Love, you gotta turn well, got to turn the mouth,
- 1:42Speaker 6: the turn you probably got to turn the mouth, the
- 1:45Speaker 6: turn out the word the money.
- 1:49Speaker 3: Looking come.
- 1:58Speaker 7: Come out.
- 1:59Speaker 2: You'll think that, Uh huh.
- 2:02Speaker 8: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
- 2:07Speaker 8: come on dig me now one and on that. Steve
- 2:10Speaker 8: Harvey got a radio show. Well all right, I've learned
- 2:17Speaker 8: something and it's sharing time. And I am ever appreciated.
- 2:25Speaker 8: I do appreciate God for all that he allows me
- 2:29Speaker 8: to learn in my life. Well, one of the best
- 2:33Speaker 8: lessons I've learned is that hardship teaches you some great lessons.
- 2:42Speaker 8: Challenges brings about some of my best results. I think
- 2:48Speaker 8: what I'm trying to say is, and every challenge in hardship,
- 2:54Speaker 8: every setback, I've learned something so so valuable. So here's
- 3:01Speaker 8: what I've You know, I've known this, but I've just
- 3:05Speaker 8: learned it at.
- 3:05Speaker 2: A different angle. Appreciation and gratitude is the key to
- 3:12Speaker 2: having more. Now.
- 3:16Speaker 8: I don't know how that sound to you, but I
- 3:21Speaker 8: can't tell you how true it is. God being fair
- 3:25Speaker 8: and just as he really is.
- 3:27Speaker 2: He really is. He's a fair and a just God.
- 3:30Speaker 8: What's most beneficial to us is he happens to be
- 3:35Speaker 8: full of mercy and grace. And I'm telling you something, man,
- 3:42Speaker 8: I've probably benefited from his grace and mercy more than
- 3:50Speaker 8: anything else. I mean, really, man, if it wasn't for
- 3:53Speaker 8: him just forgiving me, and then for him just touching
- 4:00Speaker 8: my life the way he has, I mean, I'm not
- 4:04Speaker 8: here in this position today.
- 4:05Speaker 2: I'm just not.
- 4:07Speaker 8: But the funny thing has happened along the way, even
- 4:11Speaker 8: to you, if you look at it, is that your
- 4:14Speaker 8: genuine appreciation and gratitude has been the key to you
- 4:20Speaker 8: having more for your continued blessings and for making room
- 4:27Speaker 8: for Heaven to open up and pour out blessings that
- 4:29Speaker 8: you don't have room enough to receive. If you look
- 4:32Speaker 8: at it, see God being affair and just God, which
- 4:35Speaker 8: he is.
- 4:37Speaker 2: Why would he.
- 4:40Speaker 8: Put more on you than you can bear? If you've
- 4:43Speaker 8: noticed everything that's happened in your life, if you're still here,
- 4:48Speaker 8: you've made it, you know, forget how rough. It was
- 4:52Speaker 8: got that, but you made it. Forget what it sent
- 4:56Speaker 8: you through, and it how it made you feel. You
- 5:00Speaker 8: made it. Now, what makes people give up and you
- 5:05Speaker 8: hear about people committing suicide, is they leave the God
- 5:08Speaker 8: out of their life and they start allowing that other
- 5:12Speaker 8: voice to control. And if it's really true that God
- 5:15Speaker 8: never puts more on you than you can bear, as
- 5:18Speaker 8: long as you stay connected to God, you can get
- 5:21Speaker 8: through anything. But you lose that connection, you lose that communication,
- 5:28Speaker 8: you lose that relationship with him. If you're not having
- 5:32Speaker 8: a relationship with God, then who you having a relationship with?
- 5:37Speaker 8: Now it ain't but two forces at work at all time.
- 5:42Speaker 8: It's good and evil. It's positive and negative is God,
- 5:50Speaker 8: it's Satan.
- 5:51Speaker 2: Now, this is at work all the time.
- 5:55Speaker 8: So if you're not being positive about everything, you leave
- 5:58Speaker 8: room for negativity to step in. If you're not trying
- 6:03Speaker 8: to be righteous in your way, then you allow evil
- 6:06Speaker 8: to step in. If you don't work on your relationship
- 6:10Speaker 8: with God, come on, now, look who you're letting step in.
- 6:16Speaker 8: So now I'm asking you to understand that God never
- 6:22Speaker 8: puts more on you than you can bear. Okay, now
- 6:24Speaker 8: that we got that clear, that's a fact. Okay. Now
- 6:27Speaker 8: with that fact in mind, let's go over this right here.
- 6:30Speaker 8: Why would God, being as just and merciful as he is,
- 6:35Speaker 8: put more on you than you can bear? Example, if
- 6:39Speaker 8: God has given you blessings and all you're doing is
- 6:43Speaker 8: complaining about him, you're never showing any appreciation of gratitude
- 6:48Speaker 8: about it. Why would he give you some more stuff
- 6:50Speaker 8: to be ungrateful for? Why would he give.
- 6:53Speaker 2: You some more stuff to complain about?
- 6:56Speaker 8: Why would he give you some more stuff that you
- 6:57Speaker 8: would not show any more appreciation for? I mean, this
- 7:01Speaker 8: thing is real simple, man, ain't it if you think
- 7:03Speaker 8: about it?
- 7:04Speaker 7: So?
- 7:04Speaker 8: A lot of times, man, when I was going through
- 7:06Speaker 8: my positions of not having it and wondering at all
- 7:10Speaker 8: I here, I ended up checking myself and going, man,
- 7:13Speaker 8: I'm not even showing any gratitude or appreciation for the
- 7:16Speaker 8: things He has done for me. Start showing some appreciation
- 7:19Speaker 8: and gratitude, because it's the key to have it more.
- 7:23Speaker 8: It's the key to continued blessings, is the key to
- 7:26Speaker 8: the wonders of heaven opening up and pouring out a
- 7:29Speaker 8: blessing that you won't have room enough to receive. It's
- 7:33Speaker 8: the appreciation and gratitude of what you already have, as
- 7:38Speaker 8: minimal as it may appear to be right now for you,
- 7:42Speaker 8: it is still what you have. But if you've shown
- 7:46Speaker 8: no gratitude for the minimal, why would he give you
- 7:54Speaker 8: the maximum? I mean, I'm just really just trying to
- 7:58Speaker 8: put it real, real simple. Keep understanding this thing right here.
- 8:02Speaker 8: So let me give you an example. In my life,
- 8:05Speaker 8: I had gotten so busy at one point that I
- 8:09Speaker 8: had began to complain about how busy I was. This
- 8:15Speaker 8: is true because I am busy, but it ain't the
- 8:19Speaker 8: busy part because I asked to be busy.
- 8:23Speaker 2: You know.
- 8:23Speaker 8: I asked God to give me opportunities and to make
- 8:27Speaker 8: a way for me. Well, in that you got to
- 8:29Speaker 8: do something, and you got to get busy. But I
- 8:33Speaker 8: began to complain about the busyness and how busy I was,
- 8:38Speaker 8: and I noticed that a couple of things slowed up
- 8:41Speaker 8: for me. So I had got to the point where
- 8:44Speaker 8: I wasn't showing real gratitude for it. Well, I looked
- 8:48Speaker 8: up and a couple of things started slowing down, and
- 8:51Speaker 8: then I had to catch myself and I went, wow, man,
- 8:54Speaker 8: you have got to start embracing the fact that you
- 8:57Speaker 8: are this busy embrace, that's the fact that what all
- 9:01Speaker 8: comes along with it. Because to whom much is given,
- 9:03Speaker 8: much is required. You gotta start embracing the requirement part
- 9:09Speaker 8: if you want to continue.
- 9:10Speaker 2: With the giving part. So I changed my attitude.
- 9:13Speaker 8: I caught myself and I started thinking him and showing
- 9:16Speaker 8: real gratitude for how busy I was instead of complaining
- 9:19Speaker 8: about how busy I was. And then guess what, It
- 9:22Speaker 8: opened up the windows of heaven and some more blessings
- 9:24Speaker 8: got pulled out. It just works that way all the time,
- 9:28Speaker 8: for everybody, for me, for you, for everybody. So listen,
- 9:32Speaker 8: y'all again. Your appreciation and gratitude is the key to
- 9:36Speaker 8: having more. Your appreciation and gratitude is the key to
- 9:39Speaker 8: continued blessings. And your appreciation and gratitude is the only
- 9:44Speaker 8: way that you can get those windows of heaven to
- 9:47Speaker 8: open up and pull out these blessings that you won't
- 9:49Speaker 8: have room enough to receive. You gotta act like you're
- 9:52Speaker 8: glad for what you got in order to get more.
- 9:54Speaker 8: You feel me, huh, let's go.
- 9:57Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 10:04Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen, it is upon us another great day,
- 10:07Speaker 8: another opportunity, another blessing from our heavenly father man. The
- 10:10Speaker 8: show is good to wake up, y'all. It show is
- 10:12Speaker 8: good to get off work, y'all. It show is good
- 10:15Speaker 8: to have any measure of health, y'all. It show is
- 10:18Speaker 8: good to be breathing. It show is good to be
- 10:20Speaker 8: giving another chance, another opportunity. It is a blessing to
- 10:26Speaker 8: be in the land of the living, and living.
- 10:29Speaker 2: In the land.
- 10:30Speaker 8: I'm all of that, Thank your heavenly father man. I'm
- 10:34Speaker 8: good today. You know what I feel really really good
- 10:37Speaker 8: about today. Let's get it on. Shirley Strawberry collar for real. Oh,
- 10:42Speaker 8: Mississippi Monica Junior government named kill state. The legend that
- 10:48Speaker 8: is Nephew Thompson Junior. You, sir, what's on your mind today?
- 10:55Speaker 10: Let me ask you this up uh huh. You've been
- 10:57Speaker 10: in this business a long time. How'd you learn how
- 10:59Speaker 10: to deal with criticisms? All the criticism you had over
- 11:03Speaker 10: your career?
- 11:05Speaker 2: You get otter at it.
- 11:06Speaker 8: You're not good at it in the beginning because you
- 11:10Speaker 8: you know, you know, in the early on you got
- 11:12Speaker 8: to train for this. I know, it's like a fighter.
- 11:14Speaker 8: When you first get in you don't duck all the blows.
- 11:17Speaker 8: There's some simple blows that be hitting you when you
- 11:19Speaker 8: first get in the ring as a fighter. Then after
- 11:21Speaker 8: you get hit you start learning women.
- 11:23Speaker 2: Hold up.
- 11:23Speaker 8: Now, I need to start some weaving and some bobbings
- 11:26Speaker 8: so I can duck some of these punches. And then
- 11:30Speaker 8: it's like being in the gym. When you first get
- 11:32Speaker 8: in the gym, you can't lift as much weight as
- 11:35Speaker 8: you can later on.
- 11:37Speaker 2: It's just timing.
- 11:39Speaker 8: I wish I could find this, Uh, wish I could
- 11:43Speaker 8: find this thing. I'm trying to find it on my
- 11:45Speaker 8: phone to show you a description of how I really am.
- 11:51Speaker 8: And I'm gonna find it as I look under.
- 11:53Speaker 2: My motivational page.
- 11:55Speaker 8: I ain't got said we'll have this, but I want
- 11:58Speaker 8: you all to understand that it is. It's a picture
- 12:01Speaker 8: of a puppy with one arrow in him, laying on
- 12:06Speaker 8: the ground bleed. And under that picture of that puppy
- 12:10Speaker 8: that baby wolf should, I say, with one bown arrow
- 12:14Speaker 8: in his back in a little pudl of blood, And
- 12:17Speaker 8: it says under that picture the old me. Then next
- 12:21Speaker 8: to him is a wolf standing up, a full grown
- 12:25Speaker 8: wolf standing in the same puddler blood with about forty
- 12:30Speaker 8: arrows in his back, and he looking down at the
- 12:33Speaker 8: little puppy, and the caption over him says, life, don't
- 12:37Speaker 8: get in the.
- 12:37Speaker 2: Easier, you just get strong.
- 12:40Speaker 8: So as I suffer the slings and arrow the older
- 12:44Speaker 8: you get, the better you get at Hamlet And like
- 12:48Speaker 8: I was just looking this morning, amazing you asked me
- 12:51Speaker 8: that an old video of me on one of my
- 12:54Speaker 8: on my talk shows saying that I don't even let
- 12:59Speaker 8: what people say about me bother me no more, because
- 13:02Speaker 8: I've been ripped up.
- 13:04Speaker 2: On that internet man over the years. Now I don't.
- 13:07Speaker 8: Even care, because I have discovered that you actually have
- 13:13Speaker 8: no power, position, authority, or say so or rule over
- 13:21Speaker 8: my life. You have none unless I give.
- 13:25Speaker 2: It to you.
- 13:26Speaker 1: Yes, so the.
- 13:27Speaker 8: Person I've given that to is God Almighty. The rest
- 13:30Speaker 8: of everybody else, Man, miss me, you might as well
- 13:32Speaker 8: quit throwing rocks at me.
- 13:33Speaker 2: I'm too high up on the wall now. I'm gone.
- 13:36Speaker 9: Indeed, coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour,
- 13:39Speaker 9: run Frank back with the Nephew.
- 13:42Speaker 1: Right after this.
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- 14:20Speaker 1: All right, and it's time now to start your morning.
- 14:22Speaker 9: Off with the nephew and run that brank back? What
- 14:25Speaker 9: you got for his nest?
- 14:26Speaker 2: All?
- 14:27Speaker 1: Rah?
- 14:28Speaker 2: That my dad?
- 14:29Speaker 13: All right, Well, you don't know what you're finished saying
- 14:31Speaker 13: a truck driver exchange E Steff, come on with.
- 14:36Speaker 5: Hello.
- 14:37Speaker 7: Hello, I'm trying to recycle.
- 14:39Speaker 14: Yeah, this is Franklin.
- 14:40Speaker 7: Hey, Franklin, how you doing? This is Roosevelt giving you
- 14:43Speaker 7: a call from Human Resources Human RESO.
- 14:45Speaker 14: Hey, Hey, what's up Roosevelt? What could I do?
- 14:48Speaker 7: All right, man, I'm calling you from hearing the Resources
- 14:51Speaker 7: Trains and Partners. Where you been You've been driving trucks
- 14:54Speaker 7: for us for quite some time? Now? What are you use?
- 14:57Speaker 7: Six and a half years right now? Man?
- 15:00Speaker 14: And I'm eight and a half.
- 15:01Speaker 7: Years he's two years shorty, okay, eight and a half?
- 15:04Speaker 7: He is?
- 15:05Speaker 14: How you doing, man, I'm good man, enjoying this road life.
- 15:09Speaker 7: Man.
- 15:09Speaker 14: I love working with you guys. Man, the benefics is there.
- 15:13Speaker 14: I mean, I'm surprised to get a call for me.
- 15:15Speaker 14: I mean, I hope.
- 15:16Speaker 7: Well, I'm sure you're on the road right now. You're
- 15:19Speaker 7: probably driving. I wanted to give you a call and
- 15:22Speaker 7: is this a bad time? Can you talk right now? Yeah?
- 15:25Speaker 14: I actually told over man, I have to get something
- 15:27Speaker 14: to eat, man, Okay, okay, so listen, let me tell
- 15:30Speaker 14: you what's going on here with GTT.
- 15:33Speaker 7: What we're doing is we are doing some job exchange
- 15:38Speaker 7: and some of the drivers that we have have been
- 15:43Speaker 7: pulled out of a pool and some of you guys
- 15:46Speaker 7: are going to be actually driving in different places now.
- 15:50Speaker 7: So for the next six months, within the next thirty
- 15:53Speaker 7: days here, Franklin, you're gonna be You're going to be
- 15:57Speaker 7: driving trucks in South Africa. You're gonna be or for
- 16:01Speaker 7: about six for about six about six months, you're gonna
- 16:04Speaker 7: drive in South afohol.
- 16:08Speaker 5: Hold hoo.
- 16:09Speaker 14: Yeah, listen, I ain't got no problem with South Africa
- 16:12Speaker 14: for joab Jack. Rather mind, I'm not going on. No,
- 16:16Speaker 14: South Africa. I don't a job on the right hand
- 16:19Speaker 14: side of the road.
- 16:20Speaker 7: Man.
- 16:21Speaker 14: I love Africans, I love everything about Africa, but I'm
- 16:23Speaker 14: not going I got a family out here in the
- 16:25Speaker 14: United States of America and you're trying to tell me
- 16:27Speaker 14: I got to go.
- 16:28Speaker 7: To South Africa.
- 16:29Speaker 14: Come on, man, what type of are you on?
- 16:30Speaker 7: Man? It's it's fragment. It's part of the job. Exhange
- 16:34Speaker 7: is what it is.
- 16:34Speaker 5: Man.
- 16:35Speaker 7: Okay, the only.
- 16:37Speaker 14: Going on man. I don't want to be part of
- 16:39Speaker 14: that job in Shane. No, no, I'm not going to
- 16:41Speaker 14: know South Africa.
- 16:43Speaker 7: This is not happening. This is listen to the Frank
- 16:46Speaker 7: six months and you'll be back in the States. Okay,
- 16:49Speaker 7: let me say this type of national geographic program.
- 16:52Speaker 14: Y'all got going on? Man, I don't know what Jock
- 16:55Speaker 14: got going on at y'all calling me. I'm in the
- 16:56Speaker 14: middle of the talking life, trying to eat me at
- 17:00Speaker 14: from being on the road all night, and you're talking
- 17:02Speaker 14: about sending me the South Africa.
- 17:04Speaker 5: What type of are you on?
- 17:06Speaker 7: Man?
- 17:06Speaker 14: There's some foreign exchange program I got going on. I'm
- 17:09Speaker 14: not being part of this. You pulled my name out
- 17:12Speaker 14: of a pool like it was a sousu to come tell
- 17:15Speaker 14: me that I'm up to be driving in South as
- 17:19Speaker 14: This must.
- 17:19Speaker 7: Be a joke. No, no, so this is a good
- 17:24Speaker 7: This is a good thing, though, Franklin, I think you're
- 17:25Speaker 7: gonna like it.
- 17:26Speaker 14: And no, it's not a good thing. What are you
- 17:28Speaker 14: telling me is a good thing? I got white and kids,
- 17:30Speaker 14: but I'm gonna know what the are you talking about?
- 17:33Speaker 14: South Africa? Do they even have roadways out there? I'm
- 17:36Speaker 14: not going to Are you serious? I'm not here, I'm
- 17:40Speaker 14: not I'm not hearing this correct, brother, I'm not hearing
- 17:43Speaker 14: this correct, mister roses Old. I don't South what. I
- 17:47Speaker 14: can't play South Africa? Are you serious?
- 17:52Speaker 7: Okay, this will frank hear me out here, man. Like
- 17:55Speaker 7: I said, they pulled names out of a pool and
- 17:58Speaker 7: uh you in about fifteen the guys are going to
- 18:00Speaker 7: be going to different parts.
- 18:01Speaker 5: Of the world.
- 18:02Speaker 7: What type of pool you pulled it in?
- 18:04Speaker 14: You better put me back in a shallow part. You're
- 18:06Speaker 14: going to the deep end, puller man.
- 18:08Speaker 5: Get them.
- 18:09Speaker 14: I'm not going to South Africa. I am not going
- 18:11Speaker 14: to South America. I'm not taking no malarious shots. So
- 18:15Speaker 14: I only without a passport. You want me to go
- 18:17Speaker 14: to about that point, Well, listen.
- 18:18Speaker 7: To me, Franklin. We're gonna get you all the shots
- 18:20Speaker 7: you need within the next thirty days, so you'll be
- 18:23Speaker 7: set to go.
- 18:24Speaker 14: I'm not going to go around go to South African
- 18:27Speaker 14: and Trump will let me back in the country because
- 18:30Speaker 14: of you. I'll pot right now. I'm not going to
- 18:33Speaker 14: South Africa.
- 18:34Speaker 7: It's a job exchange, Franklin. Okay, let me say it.
- 18:37Speaker 14: What let me the job is saying? So what what
- 18:40Speaker 14: we exchanged? You bring South African's over here, and then
- 18:43Speaker 14: you're bringing me over the ya. My wife is not
- 18:46Speaker 14: going to be happy about this. I'm not going my someplace.
- 18:50Speaker 7: Basically, Can I tell you this that your salary actually
- 18:54Speaker 7: doubles the six months while you're over there.
- 18:56Speaker 14: Don't try to don't try to tell me about that
- 18:58Speaker 14: foot in South African or American dollars?
- 19:01Speaker 2: What is it?
- 19:02Speaker 7: What is it? Don't tie that American dollars, Franklin, it
- 19:08Speaker 7: will be American dollars.
- 19:10Speaker 14: I'm not going to no South Africa. I am not going.
- 19:13Speaker 14: Matter of fact, this is my last day and the
- 19:15Speaker 14: growth y'all can come pick up this riga and it's
- 19:19Speaker 14: talking like because I'm not going to South Africa.
- 19:20Speaker 7: I don't care how you.
- 19:22Speaker 14: Sell it or you say it. I ain't going.
- 19:25Speaker 7: Listen, you've been with the company eight eight plus years,
- 19:28Speaker 7: and I just got to tell you. You are obligated. You've
- 19:31Speaker 7: been chosen out of a pool. All you have to
- 19:33Speaker 7: do is six months. You're gonna get paid double. Your
- 19:36Speaker 7: family's gonna be fine, You'll be back.
- 19:37Speaker 14: I ain't obligated to do but driving truck like I
- 19:41Speaker 14: do every day, I'm not going. You can't tell me
- 19:44Speaker 14: about being obligated. Let me tell you what I'm obligated
- 19:47Speaker 14: to do. I'm obligated to this truck and fourth here
- 19:51Speaker 14: and try right for the human resources window because I
- 19:54Speaker 14: ain't going to move South Africa. And I keep telling
- 19:57Speaker 14: you that I told you that since you got in
- 19:59Speaker 14: the phone. I ain't going nowhere.
- 20:02Speaker 7: Okay, uh but but but but let me ask you.
- 20:05Speaker 7: I'm Franklin. You've been here for what is for a
- 20:08Speaker 7: some years? Man, you don't you don't want to continue
- 20:10Speaker 7: your job here with the company.
- 20:12Speaker 14: I don't give a about this job right now, trying
- 20:14Speaker 14: to send me overseas like you're setting me up from me.
- 20:17Speaker 14: I ain't going a matter of fact, let me turn
- 20:19Speaker 14: this truck on right now. I'm coming down to see.
- 20:21Speaker 7: You, mister Roses. Okay, well hold on now do you
- 20:26Speaker 7: know Jermaine? Yeah, I know Rivers?
- 20:31Speaker 14: But what do you got to do with it?
- 20:32Speaker 7: Okay, let me go on on. Say this, Franklin, This
- 20:35Speaker 7: right here that you're talking to is nephew Tommy and
- 20:39Speaker 7: your boy Rivers got me the prank phone call you.
- 20:42Speaker 7: You just got pranked by your boy Jermaine Rivers. Oh
- 20:48Speaker 7: that much?
- 20:50Speaker 14: Wait till I see so you ain't no Roses though,
- 20:53Speaker 14: and I ain't got to go to South Africa.
- 20:55Speaker 7: No hot God, this meshing me? Man? You want to
- 21:03Speaker 7: play a lis Well? Put some sugar, all right, frank
- 21:07Speaker 7: Before we leave, man, tell me this. What is the
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- 22:01Speaker 15: by donating at Salvation ARMYUSA dot org.
- 22:06Speaker 9: It is time to ask the Chief Love Officer, the Colo,
- 22:10Speaker 9: Steve Harvey.
- 22:11Speaker 1: All right, here we go.
- 22:13Speaker 9: Keena in Tampa writes, I will be thirty next month
- 22:16Speaker 9: and my best friend is a manager of a high
- 22:19Speaker 9: end restaurant. I want to have my dinner at her restaurant,
- 22:22Speaker 9: and she said I can have it, but there's no discount.
- 22:26Speaker 1: She gives a discount to others. So why is she
- 22:29Speaker 1: refusing to help me out?
- 22:32Speaker 8: Well, I mean, why'd you go in there expecting a discount?
- 22:35Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 22:36Speaker 2: See, y'all kill me with this.
- 22:37Speaker 7: Man.
- 22:38Speaker 8: If y'all gonna support one another, why don't you all
- 22:40Speaker 8: support each other at full price? Every time somebody open
- 22:43Speaker 8: up for vis is to get something going. You want
- 22:45Speaker 8: a discount, and how do you know she gives everybody
- 22:49Speaker 8: else discount?
- 22:50Speaker 2: Maybe she don't like you.
- 22:55Speaker 1: Her best friend?
- 22:56Speaker 2: Well wait, look, you.
- 22:59Speaker 8: Know what have you done. You're always bragging about what
- 23:02Speaker 8: you got. You got a new bag every time you
- 23:04Speaker 8: round in all this food, price, this food you can
- 23:08Speaker 8: afford it? You can't afford it? Dog, go eat there.
- 23:10Speaker 12: Yeah, that's right.
- 23:12Speaker 1: Moving on to Cammi and Denver. Cammy says, I married.
- 23:16Speaker 9: I'm married, and my husband and I fight about a
- 23:19Speaker 9: lot of small stuff. He gets upset if I don't
- 23:22Speaker 9: change the sheets every Friday. I told him he's welcome
- 23:25Speaker 9: to change them if I don't get to it. He
- 23:27Speaker 9: thinks he has a living housekeeper. Am I wrong for
- 23:30Speaker 9: rebelling no changing?
- 23:34Speaker 8: Well you heard it from Tommy, like he ain't never
- 23:38Speaker 8: been on the sheet molde in seven days? I don't
- 23:41Speaker 8: think so. I live by myself. I had a pet
- 23:45Speaker 8: of sheets on that so long, mister nasty. I didn't
- 23:55Speaker 8: even know you post to change changed one in my
- 24:01Speaker 8: life before I had seen my mama do some stuff.
- 24:04Speaker 8: I didn't even know where she got the mother sheets from.
- 24:08Speaker 8: Didn't even have another sheet so there. So her time
- 24:12Speaker 8: I came in, I was sleeping.
- 24:16Speaker 1: That's where we get it from our parents.
- 24:18Speaker 8: No, you know what he wants, the sheet change he got?
- 24:22Speaker 8: You know, fellas you cannot assume that it's all on her.
- 24:27Speaker 8: I would it'd be great if everybody had assigned rolls
- 24:31Speaker 8: and they agreed to the sign roll.
- 24:34Speaker 2: But who gave her to change the sheet every Friday roll?
- 24:37Speaker 1: That's right.
- 24:39Speaker 15: She's not saying Tommy not to change them, but she
- 24:41Speaker 15: saying you could change them to if I don't.
- 24:43Speaker 1: I don't get to it.
- 24:45Speaker 8: Yeah, because it couldn't happen. You ain't got explained nothing
- 24:49Speaker 8: that the little mister.
- 24:53Speaker 13: She need to get into a routine. She old having
- 24:56Speaker 13: them hot flashes, sweating on them. Sheets, take her and
- 24:58Speaker 13: them take them sheets off. You shut up, You shut up,
- 25:04Speaker 13: master sheets, and I know you're doing.
- 25:09Speaker 1: You can closet and change.
- 25:11Speaker 2: I'm all sleep in another spot.
- 25:17Speaker 7: All right.
- 25:18Speaker 9: Moving on to Chavelle and Ferguson. Chavelle says, I'm married
- 25:22Speaker 9: and my husband and I don't have sex with each other.
- 25:25Speaker 9: He's got a side piece and I do too. I
- 25:28Speaker 9: like the arrangement because we live a great life and
- 25:31Speaker 9: we split the bills fifty to fifty. My side piece
- 25:34Speaker 9: wants me to move out. Should I stay or go?
- 25:38Speaker 1: What I mean?
- 25:40Speaker 8: You probably ought to just gone and go because you
- 25:43Speaker 8: over there anyway.
- 25:45Speaker 2: My mid is here with you.
- 25:48Speaker 1: This calls fun.
- 25:49Speaker 8: My mind on the other side, missing you around. Hey, Junior,
- 25:59Speaker 8: you ain't from that era right there. You ain't have
- 26:02Speaker 8: one song by Big Dog.
- 26:04Speaker 2: You thought it gave you my money?
- 26:08Speaker 3: Yeah, that's me.
- 26:09Speaker 12: It works though, that's your song.
- 26:15Speaker 14: You got?
- 26:16Speaker 1: What kind of marriage? You go on over here? This
- 26:19Speaker 1: is crazy?
- 26:20Speaker 2: Now you might as well leave what man?
- 26:23Speaker 1: She said? She she loves the arrangement. They have a
- 26:26Speaker 1: great life.
- 26:28Speaker 2: Doing.
- 26:30Speaker 13: Wait, what is Brenda doing? Okay, Robbie Robert is just fine.
- 26:41Speaker 2: You think you think we invite everybody to dinner.
- 26:43Speaker 1: This Friday, Couple's Nights, couples double date.
- 26:53Speaker 2: No, I'm just telling you now.
- 26:54Speaker 8: When he gets over there, mm hmm, he can't do
- 26:58Speaker 8: nothing to you in my house.
- 27:01Speaker 1: Oh there's rules rules.
- 27:03Speaker 8: Yeah, Oh he can come over here, won't you get
- 27:10Speaker 8: y'all got to carry that over Hell, listen, if Brenda
- 27:13Speaker 8: cook bring me a plate, I'm.
- 27:15Speaker 16: Note like, like Steve, You're right, he's so stupid.
- 27:27Speaker 12: Level stupid.
- 27:33Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm ignorant. He's stupid.
- 27:39Speaker 1: Oh okay, I'll get it right.
- 27:42Speaker 9: There's levels to this, Yes, sir, On one more before
- 27:46Speaker 9: we go to the next.
- 27:48Speaker 2: Still boun to to let me use his lawn more
- 27:50Speaker 2: my lawn.
- 27:59Speaker 8: Ignorant?
- 28:01Speaker 2: Y'all got by, baby, I'm sitn't go out?
- 28:05Speaker 1: Come on?
- 28:05Speaker 8: Can I use your perfume? I like the way that smell.
- 28:08Speaker 8: I'm gonna put it on her tonight.
- 28:12Speaker 3: Cash.
- 28:13Speaker 2: They're comfortable. They're comfortable, very comfortable.
- 28:23Speaker 3: Okay, smell like you? Great?
- 28:27Speaker 2: Maybe?
- 28:29Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 28:29Speaker 2: Maybe?
- 28:31Speaker 12: What is it?
- 28:32Speaker 8: What?
- 28:33Speaker 2: Baby?
- 28:33Speaker 7: Don't?
- 28:35Speaker 2: Baby? Don't put that season in on the greens. No more.
- 28:37Speaker 2: She don't like that on my breath.
- 28:40Speaker 1: You took complaint?
- 28:45Speaker 7: All right?
- 28:46Speaker 1: Are we done? So I can move on.
- 28:50Speaker 2: To now? Y'all like, all right?
- 28:56Speaker 1: One more and then we're moving on one more.
- 29:01Speaker 13: We're gonna put your condoms back. But I had to
- 29:03Speaker 13: take these right real quick. I didn't.
- 29:05Speaker 2: I didn't, I didn't have none.
- 29:06Speaker 1: I just dang got deep with it. Yeah, all right,
- 29:13Speaker 1: now we're moving on.
- 29:14Speaker 9: Maxie in Augusta says, I'm sixty nine years old and single.
- 29:20Speaker 9: I've been married four times and I want to get
- 29:22Speaker 9: married again.
- 29:24Speaker 1: I'm in a small community of men, and.
- 29:26Speaker 9: So that means I may end up dating friends or
- 29:29Speaker 9: relatives of my exes.
- 29:31Speaker 1: Somece I'm older now, can't you know? Can I date whoever?
- 29:35Speaker 1: I want to date Maxie.
- 29:38Speaker 2: Listen to me.
- 29:38Speaker 8: You can do like you want to do. But I've
- 29:40Speaker 8: shot number five. I think that slim to none person.
- 29:47Speaker 8: You just shot all the shots you've made five times.
- 29:49Speaker 8: You need to go ahead on sit down four.
- 29:52Speaker 2: Well four won't five.
- 29:53Speaker 8: You know a small community, you didn't date everybody in
- 29:57Speaker 8: you age bracket. You gonna have dates one of them
- 30:01Speaker 8: they wonderfulse I don't know what community you live. Got
- 30:04Speaker 8: a bunch of available stepping you old people in it.
- 30:09Speaker 8: Good morning, This is your man, Steve Harvey, and my
- 30:12Speaker 8: New Year's resolutions are the same as they've been all
- 30:16Speaker 8: year long.
- 30:16Speaker 2: That ain't your business. Happy New Year, y'all from the
- 30:19Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Keep your resolutions to yourself. A
- 30:22Speaker 2: lot of haters out there, don't let them shake your baby.
- 30:25Speaker 11: Ah, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 30:33Speaker 1: All right, Actually it's you, nephew with black people leaving?
- 30:37Speaker 13: What is it so, Shirley? You know it's about some
- 30:41Speaker 13: people leave. They make a scene when they leave, you
- 30:43Speaker 13: know what I'm saying. Yeah, all right, some people leaving
- 30:46Speaker 13: you just never know.
- 30:47Speaker 12: You never know they left, They just gone.
- 30:49Speaker 3: But you're talking about us as a race us as
- 30:52Speaker 3: a race people.
- 30:53Speaker 12: We make a scene.
- 30:54Speaker 13: You understand I'm saying, we make a saint like this
- 30:56Speaker 13: right here, when you leaving the funeral. Ja, my name
- 31:02Speaker 13: ain't even on the program. Go look at your granddaddy.
- 31:07Speaker 13: Come on, we leaving up out of here right now.
- 31:10Speaker 13: I'm telling you, right now, we out how we ain't
- 31:12Speaker 13: on the program.
- 31:14Speaker 1: How my baby ain't no power b gott to make
- 31:17Speaker 1: the scene us.
- 31:20Speaker 13: Oh, yeah, you know when we leave, when we leave
- 31:25Speaker 13: a weddy whoa, I said that right, yes, you did
- 31:29Speaker 13: when we leave with wedd Look here what I said
- 31:34Speaker 13: it when I wasn't didn't know I was saying it.
- 31:36Speaker 2: When we leave?
- 31:37Speaker 12: What when?
- 31:41Speaker 13: How come I ain't got no place to see it?
- 31:45Speaker 12: Just so you know that ain't your that baby, ain't yours.
- 31:48Speaker 12: Were out of here. I'm just telling you were out.
- 31:52Speaker 7: Of here like that.
- 31:55Speaker 13: This is black people. When black people leave a scene,
- 31:58Speaker 13: we actually make a scene. When we leave the movies.
- 32:03Speaker 13: Why I can't bring my own food in here? It's
- 32:05Speaker 13: my food.
- 32:07Speaker 12: It's my food.
- 32:08Speaker 2: I leave.
- 32:09Speaker 13: But I'm gonna tell all y'all the girl died at
- 32:11Speaker 13: the end. Since I got to go.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Oh, we gotta make it about us.
- 32:18Speaker 7: Don't.
- 32:21Speaker 13: This is us baby. This is when it's black people,
- 32:23Speaker 13: we make a scene. Look at you were leaving the
- 32:25Speaker 13: Little League game. Okay, my baby ain't playing the whole game.
- 32:31Speaker 12: What did I play?
- 32:31Speaker 2: Eighty five out the fun eighty five dollar for you?
- 32:34Speaker 2: Come on, chub, chub, let's.
- 32:35Speaker 13: Go on, let's go, let's go. Let's go, baby, don't
- 32:40Speaker 13: worry about it. Don't worry about it.
- 32:44Speaker 1: That is did you said? Chill?
- 32:49Speaker 13: Yeah, come on, chub, chub, don't worry about We get
- 32:53Speaker 13: you another team.
- 32:54Speaker 2: Baby.
- 32:54Speaker 13: You ain't got to put up with this head where
- 32:56Speaker 13: your uniform in school?
- 32:57Speaker 2: Tomorrow?
- 32:59Speaker 12: When black people leave the job, we gonna make a scene.
- 33:02Speaker 12: That's how we do it up.
- 33:04Speaker 1: Will it turner?
- 33:05Speaker 13: It's a good thing you fired me because I was
- 33:07Speaker 13: finn to quit anyway.
- 33:08Speaker 12: Oh yeah, truth be te, truth be tale.
- 33:13Speaker 2: Let it be known.
- 33:15Speaker 8: Woud Hey, Hey, I'll leave a Friday coming, So I
- 33:23Speaker 8: got to say come there friday though, Just.
- 33:29Speaker 1: So you know, I've been here ten years and I'm
- 33:31Speaker 1: skinning something every week.
- 33:33Speaker 3: How about that?
- 33:34Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 33:35Speaker 1: Count you invant it because I've been stealing? How about that?
- 33:39Speaker 13: So I'm fired? Grand up? When we leave a restaurant,
- 33:45Speaker 13: why do black people sit there and order the highest
- 33:47Speaker 13: thing on the bill, knowing they ain't got.
- 33:49Speaker 2: It in their pocket.
- 33:54Speaker 13: Eating four dollars, You know, I ain't got no tip
- 33:57Speaker 13: money now that that's the ain't gonna grab some mints
- 34:03Speaker 13: and two pics on the way after?
- 34:06Speaker 1: What a waiter waitress gotta suck?
- 34:12Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 34:12Speaker 13: Yeah, when we leave, When we leave a store, we're
- 34:17Speaker 13: gonna make a scene.
- 34:18Speaker 7: Oh.
- 34:19Speaker 12: I didn't even know that they had expirations on coupon.
- 34:22Speaker 3: I didn't even know that.
- 34:23Speaker 13: Okay, I don't know why y'all tripping at a dollar
- 34:26Speaker 13: snow anything? Wait, why is y'all tripping bed bath and beyond?
- 34:30Speaker 13: They don't expie? Why do y'all expe the dollar store?
- 34:37Speaker 2: Black people leave a scene, they make a say.
- 34:40Speaker 1: And that Can they add one? Can I add one?
- 34:42Speaker 2: Come on?
- 34:43Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 34:44Speaker 1: When they get put out the strip blood, you know
- 34:47Speaker 1: something like this? All I had was four dollars.
- 34:50Speaker 9: Why can't I stay in here and just look what that?
- 34:58Speaker 12: You keep picking your folk back up?
- 35:04Speaker 3: I had fled out.
- 35:05Speaker 1: I can't just stay here and look. I put money down,
- 35:07Speaker 1: I putt look money down.
- 35:11Speaker 12: We are a trip.
- 35:13Speaker 1: Yeah, we always about us. We love what.
- 35:20Speaker 2: We're the ish.
- 35:21Speaker 1: Oh that happened yesterday.
- 35:24Speaker 15: I was at this taco place and the lady apparently
- 35:28Speaker 15: she was there yesterday, so she bought the exact same thing.
- 35:31Speaker 1: Right, So she gets this talk walk in, she hay, girl,
- 35:36Speaker 1: how you doing.
- 35:36Speaker 2: I'm like hey.
- 35:37Speaker 3: So when she check out, the lady wrung it up, so.
- 35:40Speaker 15: It was nine dollars the day before whenever she was there,
- 35:43Speaker 15: but it was eleven yesterday.
- 35:45Speaker 1: So she said, well, why is it eleven dollars?
- 35:48Speaker 15: And she said, well, ma'am, you got an extra order
- 35:50Speaker 15: of chips and caesa. I got there yesterday and she said, well,
- 35:54Speaker 15: let me see the receipt, So that the girl pulled
- 35:56Speaker 15: the receipt down and she gave it to her.
- 35:57Speaker 1: She said, yeah, but they.
- 35:58Speaker 15: Didn't charge you for the case. So for the cheese yesterday, Well,
- 36:02Speaker 15: that ain't my problem. I'm not ben giving you no
- 36:04Speaker 15: two extra dollars because the ain't in charge.
- 36:06Speaker 1: I want to pay. I said, here we go, But
- 36:16Speaker 1: she on the.
- 36:17Speaker 3: Phone the whole time, and then she said, I don't.
- 36:19Speaker 1: Want the case on When the chips just rang up.
- 36:21Speaker 1: The taco salad man.
- 36:25Speaker 8: Always standing behind that person too, always.
- 36:29Speaker 2: And it looked like and it looked like you with them.
- 36:37Speaker 11: When you stepped back two feet and started looking around you.
- 36:41Speaker 2: Trying to let other people in front of your own.
- 36:43Speaker 1: Man, trying to separate it. All right, thank you that you.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Steve Harbin, Marty show Man. You can't do nothing around
- 36:53Speaker 2: my crack and.
- 36:58Speaker 12: Your tattoo.
- 36:59Speaker 2: You can't scare, you can't. You can't put tracing paper
- 37:03Speaker 2: on my crack. And I'm not gonna hold steal. I
- 37:06Speaker 2: just can't do it because I'm a clinch. I'm a clinch.
- 37:09Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell your paper. I'm gonna tell your paper.
- 37:12Speaker 2: Steve Morning Show coming up right after you.
- 37:17Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 37:24Speaker 13: Hey, it's Timmy and this season, fill your home with
- 37:27Speaker 13: more than decorations. Fill it with festive playlists, nosologic films,
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- 37:55Speaker 1: It is time now for a round.
- 37:56Speaker 9: Would you rather would you rather have to spend the
- 37:59Speaker 9: week after the New Year dressed up as the baby
- 38:01Speaker 9: New Year, or would you rather be father time all
- 38:07Speaker 9: the time?
- 38:09Speaker 1: No baby New Year for you?
- 38:10Speaker 7: Guys.
- 38:10Speaker 8: Well, you can be either real real old man or
- 38:13Speaker 8: you can beat his baby if both of them gonna
- 38:16Speaker 8: have dipos. I'm gonna be that baby so I can
- 38:21Speaker 8: lay back and get white.
- 38:32Speaker 2: I'm gonna that. I can't talk none of that, all right?
- 38:36Speaker 1: Would you rather play monopoly for five hours?
- 38:39Speaker 9: Would you rather have a conversation about politics with your family?
- 38:43Speaker 2: Politics? Uh?
- 38:45Speaker 3: The monopoly to Yeah?
- 38:49Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh no, I don't like monopoly. There make really
- 38:52Speaker 2: no houses. I don't really own.
- 38:54Speaker 8: Nothing, And by the time I paid the token, I'm
- 38:57Speaker 8: always at willbell or you or.
- 39:00Speaker 1: Something taking your game piece.
- 39:04Speaker 8: Yeah before, don't nobody want to be thimble and dobody
- 39:07Speaker 8: want to will ball?
- 39:10Speaker 2: All right?
- 39:10Speaker 9: Would you rather eat only Christmas leftovers for two weeks?
- 39:15Speaker 1: Or would you rather have no Christmas leftovers at all?
- 39:18Speaker 1: You can give me bee no Christmas leftover?
- 39:22Speaker 2: How many weeks to two weeks?
- 39:24Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 39:25Speaker 2: Ain't done?
- 39:25Speaker 8: Go to say that turkey so dry? Oh you can't.
- 39:33Speaker 2: Refrigerate that turkey, but for so long?
- 39:35Speaker 8: Ham too, This is old and and Ham can't be
- 39:39Speaker 8: nothing but Ham.
- 39:41Speaker 2: You can't make your soup.
- 39:45Speaker 17: No, Ham can't be nothing, but Ham ain't no ham stew.
- 39:52Speaker 8: You can disguise that turkey, but Ham sitting over that,
- 39:57Speaker 8: just Ham, him and Ham.
- 40:01Speaker 3: And Ham and.
- 40:04Speaker 1: All right?
- 40:06Speaker 9: Would you rather build a snowman for two hours without
- 40:09Speaker 9: wearing any gloves?
- 40:10Speaker 1: Or would you rather make the snow angel for two hours?
- 40:14Speaker 1: Laying on that two hours? Or build a snowman with
- 40:18Speaker 1: no gloves?
- 40:20Speaker 2: Going her and build a snowman without glove?
- 40:22Speaker 1: Really?
- 40:24Speaker 2: Who was going back and forth with your legs on?
- 40:28Speaker 1: But at least you have all your clothes on. You'll
- 40:30Speaker 1: be warm.
- 40:30Speaker 12: But I'm finna make this snowman in bout thirty second.
- 40:34Speaker 3: Oh no, he ain't gonna be tall at hours.
- 40:39Speaker 1: He's not gonna be tall.
- 40:40Speaker 8: You do that he can make a little quick Yeah,
- 40:45Speaker 8: that little snowman he shouldn't have made. He shouldn't make
- 40:48Speaker 8: a snowman, doll.
- 40:51Speaker 1: That's day's round of would you rather.
- 40:55Speaker 2: She's Steve Harbin Martin show man? Why do we have
- 40:57Speaker 2: a radio show? If we're gonna do it.
- 41:01Speaker 12: Listen to yourself.
- 41:02Speaker 2: That's stupid.
- 41:05Speaker 13: That's what I'm talking about, boy man.
- 41:08Speaker 2: Why do we show if we don't be right? Show
- 41:13Speaker 2: coming up right after you.
- 41:16Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 41:23Speaker 9: Well, you know, guys, every couple has that one or
- 41:27Speaker 9: maybe two really big fights that never fully go away.
- 41:31Speaker 9: You say you're over it and all that, but they
- 41:33Speaker 9: never fully are done. Okay, Like, for instance, the story
- 41:38Speaker 9: we found on Reddit of a man who said he
- 41:40Speaker 9: complimented a waitress on her short haircut in front of
- 41:44Speaker 9: his wife, and over a year later, a whole year later,
- 41:48Speaker 9: his wife still makes him feel bad about it.
- 41:51Speaker 1: Okay.
- 41:51Speaker 9: Now, according to the story, she offers to go get
- 41:54Speaker 9: her hair cut short if it would make him happy.
- 42:00Speaker 12: Oh, you like her so much?
- 42:02Speaker 1: How about if I go get my hair Yeah, that
- 42:04Speaker 1: I don't.
- 42:05Speaker 2: Look like the waitress.
- 42:09Speaker 9: So here's a question, guys, do you have an argument
- 42:12Speaker 9: in your relationship? I know you do, Steve. That never
- 42:15Speaker 9: really goes away, and one of you will bring it
- 42:19Speaker 9: up from time to time.
- 42:21Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I said mad condition that night. Yeah, that
- 42:24Speaker 2: was what what happens.
- 42:26Speaker 8: It's too cold in him, that's what you said. It
- 42:32Speaker 8: up on me and bundle and be warm when I'm
- 42:34Speaker 8: bald hitded Are you how many times I had to
- 42:37Speaker 8: sleep in a hoodie? I just couldn't take it no more.
- 42:43Speaker 8: Let me share with you in case those of you
- 42:45Speaker 8: who are not bad hitted, what it feels like when
- 42:48Speaker 8: the room is cold and there's a vent blowing over
- 42:51Speaker 8: your head. It's like someone has licked the top of
- 42:56Speaker 8: your head and it's now blowing on it.
- 43:00Speaker 2: Oh, that's what they feel like.
- 43:03Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a recurring argument.
- 43:06Speaker 2: Well, she's not going to turn the temperature.
- 43:10Speaker 12: That's right.
- 43:10Speaker 1: Don't you touch.
- 43:15Speaker 15: Junior.
- 43:17Speaker 3: Current that always happened. Ain't my fault. I ain't say nothing.
- 43:21Speaker 10: But they was in the bathroom talking about me in
- 43:23Speaker 10: the show, and one girl said I was cute and
- 43:25Speaker 10: she hap to be in there. Now, I don't even
- 43:26Speaker 10: know this is going on, Saint got nothing.
- 43:28Speaker 3: What was this?
- 43:29Speaker 11: What was this?
- 43:30Speaker 7: Oh?
- 43:30Speaker 3: This was about this impossible five years ago?
- 43:33Speaker 2: So long?
- 43:34Speaker 1: No, I said, where he said they were?
- 43:36Speaker 2: But take to take the that tone. Not where was this?
- 43:41Speaker 1: I said, where you?
- 43:45Speaker 12: Okay, let me do it over.
- 43:46Speaker 3: Where was this?
- 43:47Speaker 2: Junior?
- 43:50Speaker 3: She went to the bathroom said Junior kind of cute?
- 43:52Speaker 3: That ain't funny too.
- 43:53Speaker 10: And then when I get back in the car, she says, so,
- 43:55Speaker 10: so you're cute and funny.
- 43:56Speaker 8: H She heard somebody say it at the bathroom at
- 44:02Speaker 8: a show, at a show, funny you have funnuny.
- 44:06Speaker 1: Okay, I couldn't say.
- 44:09Speaker 3: I said, I don't know what you said.
- 44:11Speaker 10: They talk about it in the bathroom.
- 44:15Speaker 3: It's my fault.
- 44:17Speaker 2: You did not for sad for being cute and funny.
- 44:21Speaker 10: But cute and I don't know about the cute part,
- 44:23Speaker 10: but the funny that was good, But the cute, the
- 44:25Speaker 10: funnies what I got.
- 44:27Speaker 3: Now, I'm saying my other to you're confused.
- 44:29Speaker 2: I know, cute but funny, Joe, you just turned the
- 44:34Speaker 2: rear view mirror down.
- 44:35Speaker 1: Yeah, but did you think about it later?
- 44:39Speaker 10: She said no, She don't bring them timetime, just like
- 44:42Speaker 10: that time I was in the bathroom telling everybody, tell me.
- 44:50Speaker 13: Mine is is me. I'm the one that keep bringing
- 44:52Speaker 13: something back up, and it's all.
- 44:55Speaker 1: It's me, it's me.
- 44:57Speaker 2: And it's always around tax time.
- 44:58Speaker 13: It's always wound tax when we find in tax because
- 45:01Speaker 13: years ago, when we ain't had no money, she was
- 45:04Speaker 13: over all the buildings.
- 45:05Speaker 2: She always over the buildings. But he forgot to pay
- 45:09Speaker 2: my student loan.
- 45:12Speaker 13: And I had ten grand coming most money I ever
- 45:15Speaker 13: had coming back in tax and ten grand. They took
- 45:18Speaker 13: that whole ten grand and put it towards that god
- 45:22Speaker 13: doll man, I ain't I'm talking dog, that was that
- 45:25Speaker 13: was gonna be the most money I ever had in
- 45:27Speaker 13: my account. I ain't never. I ain't never let it go.
- 45:30Speaker 13: So every time tax I said, so you're finish, do taxes?
- 45:32Speaker 6: You do?
- 45:32Speaker 2: You know what the hell you're doing.
- 45:36Speaker 1: So you bring it up.
- 45:37Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm no one bringing it up. Man.
- 45:39Speaker 1: You can't let anything go. Something that was.
- 45:43Speaker 13: Ten grand still ten grand. Ten grand a lot of money, Yes,
- 45:47Speaker 13: it is, especially when you when you're looking for it.
- 45:52Speaker 13: It's on the way back when you used to walk
- 45:55Speaker 13: to the mailbox and open Yeah.
- 45:58Speaker 2: All right, get some wheels put on this car.
- 46:02Speaker 6: Ms.
- 46:03Speaker 2: We have no wheels, tires, not no real tire.
- 46:08Speaker 9: Coming up next to nephew who never lets anything go
- 46:11Speaker 9: with the prank phone call for today.
- 46:13Speaker 1: Right after this letting go.
- 46:15Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
- 46:22Speaker 9: at about four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry
- 46:25Speaker 9: letter for today, and the subject is I can't do
- 46:29Speaker 9: that often. The problem we'll get into that, find out
- 46:38Speaker 9: what that's all about in just a few because right
- 46:40Speaker 9: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
- 46:44Speaker 1: What you got for us, NEPHT today?
- 46:46Speaker 13: Early your title k top man? Oh really okay, that's
- 46:51Speaker 13: what this title here is? Panty party?
- 46:57Speaker 1: Oh you win folk Show?
- 47:01Speaker 2: Let's go partner.
- 47:06Speaker 7: Hello? Hello, Uh well, I must have got a wrong number.
- 47:10Speaker 7: I'm one of is markers. I'm trying to find. Is
- 47:13Speaker 7: this the person that lives in in nineteen a? Yeah?
- 47:17Speaker 5: Yeah, nineteen eighty Gary.
- 47:18Speaker 7: What's up? I'm trying to find the lady that lives
- 47:22Speaker 7: in in nineteen A? Am I calling the right place?
- 47:26Speaker 5: He's talking about Bree?
- 47:28Speaker 7: Bree? That's yeah, that's it. Bree is Pree available? Uh?
- 47:34Speaker 5: Nah man, she she's probably at work.
- 47:37Speaker 7: Oh okay, all right, well listen. I'm I'm I live
- 47:40Speaker 7: in I live on the eighteenth floor. Me and some
- 47:43Speaker 7: of the guys on the eighteenth floor are throwing throwing
- 47:46Speaker 7: a party on the rooftop and we were gonna we're
- 47:49Speaker 7: inviting a few people. So I was trying to tell yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 47:53Speaker 7: so we was gonna invite Brie. I've never seen you before.
- 47:56Speaker 7: I didn't know you. So you live in the building two. Yeah.
- 47:59Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, man, I lived in her. Yeah, that's my girl.
- 48:01Speaker 14: What's ume?
- 48:02Speaker 5: Wait?
- 48:02Speaker 7: Where when's the party? Okay, the party is Friday night,
- 48:06Speaker 7: all right, a party is Friday night. So yeah, well,
- 48:08Speaker 7: like I said, we was we were reaching out and
- 48:10Speaker 7: you know, we wanted to invite I never you know,
- 48:12Speaker 7: I've seen Brie coming there out of the building and
- 48:15Speaker 7: and uh, you know, the doorman told me that you
- 48:17Speaker 7: think she lives on the nineteenth floor somewhere. So so yeah,
- 48:20Speaker 7: I was trying to come again. What you're on the
- 48:25Speaker 7: eighteenth cor Yeah, I'm on eighteenth four. I'm eighteen a half. Yeah, yeah,
- 48:30Speaker 7: I'm at eighteen a half. So the parties, you know,
- 48:33Speaker 7: it is on Friday night, like about ten o'clock, ten
- 48:35Speaker 7: to ten to one. We're inviting a few people out.
- 48:38Speaker 7: So but but like I said, you know, I didn't
- 48:41Speaker 7: I didn't know you lived with Bree. But this is
- 48:44Speaker 7: a this is a cool thing, man. But so we're
- 48:46Speaker 7: having we're having a panting party on Friday night.
- 48:49Speaker 5: What any party?
- 48:51Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, on on on the rooftop. We're having a
- 48:53Speaker 7: panting party. You know. We got food and drinks and
- 48:56Speaker 7: all that kind of stuff. So I was wanting to
- 48:58Speaker 7: see if she wanted to come out.
- 49:00Speaker 18: So so that that's what you do, Market, that's what
- 49:02Speaker 18: you'll do on the eighteen four y'all just head up,
- 49:04Speaker 18: folks and try to get dude. Girls come to a
- 49:07Speaker 18: penty party, a panty party.
- 49:09Speaker 7: We have a party once once every you know, once
- 49:12Speaker 7: every once a quarter. We throw a party. So you know,
- 49:15Speaker 7: keep up.
- 49:16Speaker 5: This bull brow to me the last party you're throwing
- 49:19Speaker 5: this matter with you calling me out.
- 49:22Speaker 7: The language, the language, bro hold on? Hold on. First
- 49:26Speaker 7: of all, I didn't know Breed lived with someone in
- 49:29Speaker 7: nineteen Hey, I've never seen anybody other than Brie.
- 49:32Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, Sayce, I worned my soft dog. Who are
- 49:35Speaker 5: you market?
- 49:37Speaker 7: So? So okay, I'm Marcus. But let's just calm down.
- 49:40Speaker 7: Like I said, all I'm trying to do is invite
- 49:43Speaker 7: Bree to to you know, to a party.
- 49:46Speaker 14: Now, Bree ain't coming to the penny party.
- 49:48Speaker 18: Boy, what's the matter with you?
- 49:51Speaker 7: Okay? So let's let let me ask you this, sir.
- 49:54Speaker 7: I called for Bree, I don't know, yeah, and you
- 49:57Speaker 7: got guarant nothing about Gary. Okay, So brit would have
- 50:03Speaker 7: to let me know that that she doesn't want to
- 50:06Speaker 7: come to the party, but I don't since I thought
- 50:09Speaker 7: I had the right number for Brie. Well I'll do
- 50:12Speaker 7: is find out how to get in touch with Breed directly,
- 50:14Speaker 7: because once again I didn't know I was getting in
- 50:16Speaker 7: contact with a Gary. I thought I was getting in
- 50:18Speaker 7: touch with Brie. Yeah.
- 50:20Speaker 18: Yeah, you're gonna be worth much to Bree.
- 50:21Speaker 5: Man when I cut that off, you to call me.
- 50:24Speaker 5: That's my girl, that's my girl.
- 50:26Speaker 7: Okay, so it's your girl, all right. But like I said,
- 50:29Speaker 7: I didn't know she had a boyfriend anything. But that
- 50:31Speaker 7: doesn't stop me from asking brief if she wants to
- 50:33Speaker 7: come to the party. Yeah, well she ain't single. She's
- 50:36Speaker 7: not single.
- 50:37Speaker 18: The only the only thing single in nineteen A is
- 50:39Speaker 18: that single barrel. That's the only thing that's single up
- 50:42Speaker 18: in nineteen as.
- 50:43Speaker 7: Okay, so let me ask you this, man, how long
- 50:45Speaker 7: have you Bree been together?
- 50:46Speaker 5: And I don't worry about what the with my girl?
- 50:49Speaker 7: What the are you? Hey? I think I think Bree
- 50:52Speaker 7: can make her own decision or if she want to
- 50:54Speaker 7: come to the party, I just call her directly. I
- 50:57Speaker 7: just got the wrong number mixed up, that's all it is.
- 51:00Speaker 18: No, you got the right number, Marcus, you got the
- 51:02Speaker 18: you got the right number and the wrong mother.
- 51:05Speaker 7: So are you trying to say brie can't make up
- 51:07Speaker 7: on my mind on her she want to come to
- 51:08Speaker 7: the party or not? Bris she can make up. She
- 51:11Speaker 7: can make up her mind if she wants to. I
- 51:12Speaker 7: think she has made it up, Marcus. I think she has. Well,
- 51:16Speaker 7: how do you know that? I haven't even asked to
- 51:17Speaker 7: come to the pan and party?
- 51:20Speaker 5: What the you want, Marcus? What do you really want?
- 51:23Speaker 7: I won't breed at the padded party, That's what I want.
- 51:27Speaker 5: You can't have bree at no handy party, that's mind. Listen,
- 51:33Speaker 5: I'm at work right now. Don't come and leave with
- 51:35Speaker 5: this both. I've been in that building for years. I've
- 51:38Speaker 5: never heard no anny party before.
- 51:40Speaker 7: Are you gonna ask her to come to the panty party?
- 51:42Speaker 7: Or do I need ask that penny party?
- 51:46Speaker 5: You Marcus? My girl a coming in no penny parties?
- 51:50Speaker 7: All right?
- 51:51Speaker 2: All right?
- 51:51Speaker 7: I see what I gotta do now. I gotta go
- 51:53Speaker 7: to the door man and get Brianna's get Breath's number
- 51:56Speaker 7: and ask her to come. You're not gonna pass on
- 51:58Speaker 7: the message that I want her to.
- 52:01Speaker 5: Let me tell you something you better not come to
- 52:02Speaker 5: know doing man, you better not come to nineteen eight.
- 52:05Speaker 5: That's my girl. Stay the away from her.
- 52:08Speaker 7: Okay, okay, okay, all right, cool. So, I mean, I
- 52:12Speaker 7: don't know what else to say. Parties in a few days,
- 52:15Speaker 7: and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna let up until
- 52:17Speaker 7: I at least give Brion I'm an invitation to come
- 52:19Speaker 7: out to the panty party.
- 52:21Speaker 5: Your invitation bringin't coming up? The only mother you can
- 52:24Speaker 5: see there is me.
- 52:26Speaker 7: So let me ask you this. Are you a saying
- 52:28Speaker 7: of Bree's fannies? Do you not want her? Do you
- 52:31Speaker 7: not want us to see her in the in the
- 52:32Speaker 7: in her panties?
- 52:33Speaker 5: I mean, what if we don't worry about me or
- 52:37Speaker 5: my girl or her pennies? You got me? You got me?
- 52:40Speaker 7: Okay? All right?
- 52:41Speaker 5: Man, I'm not work. If I wasn't at work, I
- 52:44Speaker 5: crossed my mother. Lucky you call me at work.
- 52:47Speaker 7: I know you at work. And because somebody told me
- 52:50Speaker 7: you had work. You know who told me you at work? Carry?
- 52:53Speaker 5: Who told you that was at work? Mother?
- 52:56Speaker 7: Bree told me you at work. This is a nephew,
- 52:58Speaker 7: Tommy from the Steve Abby on the show You just
- 53:00Speaker 7: got I told you? See what's the hey? Hey, Hey, Gary, Gary, Gary, Gary,
- 53:09Speaker 7: listen to me. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve
- 53:13Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. Your girl Brianna got me to prank
- 53:17Speaker 7: phone call you. This is a prank you alright, man,
- 53:30Speaker 7: see you alright.
- 53:31Speaker 5: Man, I'm in the closet right now.
- 53:35Speaker 7: Now, Man, you tell me the broom closet. Man, you
- 53:42Speaker 7: come home.
- 53:42Speaker 14: Brow. You did me like that at work?
- 53:45Speaker 18: Man, I need this job. I got bills to pay.
- 53:48Speaker 7: Oh man, your girl got me to prank you.
- 53:50Speaker 13: Man.
- 53:51Speaker 7: She said, you gotta brank my boyfriend and get dead
- 53:54Speaker 7: in his ass. All you got to do is say
- 53:55Speaker 7: something about me and he gonna go straight crazy.
- 53:58Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, got here.
- 54:01Speaker 18: Oh you said, come on, bro, my god, I love yourself.
- 54:05Speaker 18: You do me like that?
- 54:07Speaker 7: Uh, it's what I wanna do. Man. I got one
- 54:10Speaker 7: more question, man, what is the baddest and I mean
- 54:12Speaker 7: the baddest radio show in the layer.
- 54:14Speaker 5: That's the Steve By Morning Show.
- 54:16Speaker 7: Come on and you know that the party find I'll
- 54:25Speaker 7: see that now.
- 54:28Speaker 1: Whoa Tommy? You played to much?
- 54:34Speaker 2: You say nothing you say did you say green name?
- 54:38Speaker 2: No more talking to me?
- 54:41Speaker 8: Don't you say coming to party.
- 54:46Speaker 12: Through the phone. I was scared.
- 54:50Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was.
- 54:57Speaker 3: That's the right one today. You talking through his seat?
- 55:02Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, Tommy.
- 55:07Speaker 13: Keep it stupid, man, that's my job. My job is
- 55:13Speaker 13: to keep it stupid. I mean, you know why hit
- 55:16Speaker 13: me up Thomas Miles dot com. You got somebody want
- 55:18Speaker 13: me to prank. Go to Thomas Miles dot com. Click
- 55:20Speaker 13: the prank button. Leave me.
- 55:21Speaker 11: Ah.
- 55:22Speaker 13: You have information and right now I'm just feeling like
- 55:25Speaker 13: pranking past.
- 55:26Speaker 2: So you church just do it, all.
- 55:29Speaker 12: Right, We gotta go.
- 55:30Speaker 9: Thank you.
- 55:31Speaker 1: Nephew's coming up next.
- 55:32Speaker 9: Strawberry letter for today, the subject I can't do that often.
- 55:35Speaker 9: I can't do that often. We'll get into that find
- 55:38Speaker 9: out what that's all about right after this.
- 55:41Speaker 1: Hey, it's Shirley Strawberry.
- 55:43Speaker 9: You know who taught me my ABC's and what it
- 55:45Speaker 9: means to be kind Sesame Street Sesame Workshop, the nonprofit
- 55:49Speaker 9: behind Sesame Street.
- 55:50Speaker 1: It's still doing that for kids everywhere. Elmo and Cookie
- 55:54Speaker 1: Monster are out there teaching kindness, empathy, and joy. But
- 55:58Speaker 1: they need our help to keep it.
- 56:00Speaker 9: So this holiday season, visit Sesame dot org and donate
- 56:03Speaker 9: what you can. Once again, please visit Sesame dot org
- 56:07Speaker 9: this holiday season because the world needs sesame and sesame
- 56:11Speaker 9: needs you. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is
- 56:19Speaker 9: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need
- 56:21Speaker 9: advice on relationships, on work, on sex, parenting, and more,
- 56:27Speaker 9: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEBARBFM dot com and click.
- 56:33Speaker 1: Submit Strawberry Letter.
- 56:34Speaker 9: That's all you have to do, and we could be
- 56:37Speaker 9: reading your letter live on the air.
- 56:38Speaker 1: Just like we're going to read this one right here,
- 56:41Speaker 1: right now. You never know, it could be yours.
- 56:44Speaker 13: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
- 56:47Speaker 13: We got it for you here it is Strawberry Letter.
- 56:51Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Subjects. I can't do that often.
- 56:55Speaker 9: I think this letter deserves a disclaimer, so if you
- 56:59Speaker 9: have young kids in the you might not want them
- 57:01Speaker 9: to hear this.
- 57:03Speaker 2: Here we go.
- 57:03Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley.
- 57:05Speaker 9: I'm twenty eight years old and I'm dating a really
- 57:07Speaker 9: nice forty year old man. He's been married twice, and
- 57:10Speaker 9: according to him, both marriages ended because his wives got
- 57:14Speaker 9: lazy and tried to deprive him of sex. He also
- 57:19Speaker 9: complained about them spending too much money. Well, since we've
- 57:22Speaker 9: been together, he's been a great provider and money has
- 57:25Speaker 9: never been an issue. I wanted to get to know
- 57:28Speaker 9: him better to see if he's the reason he had
- 57:31Speaker 9: the two divorces after almost a year of dating. I
- 57:35Speaker 9: think it was the sex that drove his two wives away.
- 57:38Speaker 9: This man has a very high sex drive, and I
- 57:42Speaker 9: find it hard to keep up with him in the bedroom.
- 57:45Speaker 9: It's not just the high sex drive, it's his size too.
- 57:49Speaker 9: He is unbelievably well endowed, and I've set limits on
- 57:53Speaker 9: how often we have sex by telling him I'm waiting
- 57:56Speaker 9: for marriage.
- 57:58Speaker 1: That's helped keep him off me for a while, but.
- 58:00Speaker 9: Now he's coming for me all the time because he's
- 58:04Speaker 9: claimed to me as his third wife. I told him
- 58:06Speaker 9: we haven't even been together a year, so he needs
- 58:09Speaker 9: to slow down on the marriage talk. I don't like
- 58:12Speaker 9: telling him no, but I can't do it as often
- 58:16Speaker 9: as he'd like to. He's too much for me, and
- 58:19Speaker 9: I feel like I should be the one that's got
- 58:22Speaker 9: all of the stamina.
- 58:23Speaker 1: Because I'm a lot younger than he is.
- 58:25Speaker 9: I'm finding it harder and harder to keep him happy
- 58:28Speaker 9: without having a lot of sex.
- 58:30Speaker 1: He knows what he's working with, so he should.
- 58:33Speaker 9: Respect my body enough to put a reasonable time limit
- 58:36Speaker 9: on our activities in the bedroom. If I'm going to
- 58:39Speaker 9: be his third wife, I'll have to set guidelines on
- 58:42Speaker 9: how often we're intimate. Do you think that will be
- 58:45Speaker 9: a deal breaker for him? Well, I'm not really concerned
- 58:50Speaker 9: about him right at this moment. I'm concerned more about you.
- 58:54Speaker 9: And why are you more worried about his feelings and
- 58:57Speaker 9: what's going on with your own body and how you feel.
- 59:00Speaker 9: This forty year old man is only thinking of his needs.
- 59:04Speaker 9: He wants sex, and he wants a lot of it,
- 59:06Speaker 9: which is okay if both parties agree. You got to
- 59:10Speaker 9: be in agreement with this stuff. But that's not the
- 59:12Speaker 9: case here. He's selfish with what he wants. He's thinking
- 59:16Speaker 9: about the fact that this may be he's not thinking
- 59:19Speaker 9: about the fact that I should say that this is
- 59:21Speaker 9: causing you some discomfort, some pain. He's got you so
- 59:25Speaker 9: upset that you can't keep up with him that all
- 59:27Speaker 9: you do is second guess yourself. I like that you
- 59:30Speaker 9: put him on a sex diet. That is a good
- 59:32Speaker 9: thing if he's if he's too much, you know right now,
- 59:37Speaker 9: just imagine if you get married to this guy.
- 59:39Speaker 1: Yeah, you need some guidelines. You asked about setting them.
- 59:43Speaker 9: You absolutely must do what's best for you in this instance. Okay,
- 59:48Speaker 9: he's not trying to hear what you have to say anyway.
- 59:50Speaker 9: He may be well in doubt, but does he really
- 59:54Speaker 9: know what he's doing with it?
- 59:55Speaker 1: You know, all the time? Does he know?
- 59:57Speaker 9: I mean, you know, sex should be fun, it should
- 1:00:00Speaker 9: be pleasurable, it should be enjoyable. So please continue to
- 1:00:04Speaker 9: go at your own pace, your own pace, okay, and
- 1:00:07Speaker 9: make him make the necessary adjustments in this situation. Please
- 1:00:11Speaker 9: don't marry him right now because you can't handle him
- 1:00:14Speaker 9: right now. And if you can't handle him right now,
- 1:00:16Speaker 9: if you get married to him, and he's really gonna
- 1:00:19Speaker 9: think he should get it all the time, So you
- 1:00:21Speaker 9: need to rethink this situation.
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: If this is not this might not be for you.
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: It might be just be too much for you. Steve.
- 1:00:28Speaker 8: Well, well, well, well, well, I know that you've asked
- 1:00:33Speaker 8: me in the past.
- 1:00:34Speaker 2: Surely, yes, not to make these letters out me.
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: But you can't help.
- 1:00:41Speaker 9: But can you, especially ones like these?
- 1:00:47Speaker 8: Well, be honest, this ain't about me at all, but
- 1:00:50Speaker 8: I can't. I got a couple of things I need
- 1:00:54Speaker 8: to address about this letter. It's gonna sound like I
- 1:00:58Speaker 8: know what I'm talking about. But I'm gonna do it
- 1:01:01Speaker 8: in a lighthearted way because this problem that you have, lady, eh,
- 1:01:09Speaker 8: that problem is not as wide spread as people make
- 1:01:14Speaker 8: it out to be. In other words, this ain't a
- 1:01:18Speaker 8: very common problem. All we like to say it is,
- 1:01:27Speaker 8: Oh we'll lie about it, but everybody don't have this
- 1:01:32Speaker 8: problem right here, and we will discuss the real problem
- 1:01:36Speaker 8: in a minute. You twenty eight dating this farty, you
- 1:01:40Speaker 8: old man been married twice and according to him, both
- 1:01:43Speaker 8: his marriage ended because his wives and he is the key,
- 1:01:47Speaker 8: got lazy and tried to deprive him of sex. Now
- 1:01:53Speaker 8: the key word in this letter is they got lazy,
- 1:01:57Speaker 8: meaning they didn't want to they didn't feel like it.
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: Ah not now maybe some other time. Well yeah, and
- 1:02:10Speaker 2: why is that? Because of what he working with.
- 1:02:15Speaker 7: Here?
- 1:02:15Speaker 2: In that wrong?
- 1:02:16Speaker 8: You got to know, You got to know, you know
- 1:02:20Speaker 8: if you're blessed or not, and you got to learn
- 1:02:23Speaker 8: how to distribute your blessings.
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: Okay, you can't.
- 1:02:30Speaker 2: Just pass out blessings all the time.
- 1:02:34Speaker 8: You got to you got to distribute your blessings different.
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: Uh huh.
- 1:02:39Speaker 2: We come back.
- 1:02:40Speaker 8: I'm gonna share with you some things that people haven't
- 1:02:44Speaker 8: looked at in this letter.
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: You just think she can't handle the way he is.
- 1:02:48Speaker 8: He won't sex all the time, and he's will and doubt,
- 1:02:51Speaker 8: he's just too much.
- 1:02:53Speaker 2: Well, you know, we'll talk about that.
- 1:02:58Speaker 9: Hang on, Well, that parton two of Steve's response coming
- 1:03:01Speaker 9: up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's Strawberry Letters, subject,
- 1:03:05Speaker 9: I can't do that often.
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: All right, we'll get back into it right after this.
- 1:03:10Speaker 11: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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- 1:03:48Speaker 9: All right, Steve, this letter I think deserves the disclaimer.
- 1:03:52Speaker 9: If you have small children in the car writing with
- 1:03:54Speaker 9: you as you listen to this letter, you might not
- 1:03:56Speaker 9: want them to hear this one. But having said that,
- 1:03:59Speaker 9: and have said that, let's recap today's strawberry le.
- 1:04:02Speaker 8: Well, you know, the disclaimer is real, but I'm gonna
- 1:04:07Speaker 8: try to be very smart. I'm gonna be very cagy
- 1:04:12Speaker 8: with high handle this good because we all know what
- 1:04:15Speaker 8: we're talking about. There's this twenty eight year old girl
- 1:04:17Speaker 8: is dating this for the you old woman's and the wait,
- 1:04:19Speaker 8: dating it is for the old man that's been divorced twice.
- 1:04:22Speaker 8: And he's been divorced because he say the women were
- 1:04:25Speaker 8: lazy and deprived him of sex and because he wants
- 1:04:29Speaker 8: it too often. And you've discovered that in dealing with him.
- 1:04:33Speaker 8: But it's not just his high sex drive. It's the
- 1:04:38Speaker 8: size of of what he's dealing withness creating problems for you.
- 1:04:44Speaker 2: You know.
- 1:04:44Speaker 8: Once again, that's surely and I talked about at the beginning.
- 1:04:47Speaker 8: I try not to make these letters about and I
- 1:04:51Speaker 8: won't on this one right here, But somehow I don't
- 1:04:55Speaker 8: really have all that problem. I had that problem in
- 1:04:58Speaker 8: the past before coup occasion, but then and then I've
- 1:05:02Speaker 8: also had the problem with where I just wasn't quite enough.
- 1:05:06Speaker 8: You know, I've been on both sides of the coin
- 1:05:08Speaker 8: out here talking about what you're doing.
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: Well, hold up.
- 1:05:12Speaker 1: Now, you know and get the letter.
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello.
- 1:05:18Speaker 8: Hello anyway, read the letter anywaycat anyway anyway. It's not
- 1:05:27Speaker 8: just as high sex drives decidey too. He's unbelievably well
- 1:05:30Speaker 8: and down. I've set limits on how often we have
- 1:05:32Speaker 8: set by telling him I'm waiting for marriage. That that
- 1:05:35Speaker 8: kind of brought you some time right there. I told
- 1:05:37Speaker 8: him we haven't been together. He claimed you as his
- 1:05:40Speaker 8: third wife. You told him we ain't been together long enough,
- 1:05:42Speaker 8: so he need to slow down on the marriage talk.
- 1:05:46Speaker 8: I don't like telling him no, but I can't do
- 1:05:47Speaker 8: it as often as he liked to, and he's too
- 1:05:49Speaker 8: much for me. I feel like I should be the
- 1:05:52Speaker 8: one that's got all the stamina because I'm a lot
- 1:05:54Speaker 8: younger than he is. You know you're gonna learn that
- 1:05:56Speaker 8: ain't got nothing to do with it. Nah, we talking
- 1:05:58Speaker 8: about me now, nine, That's why I come in that.
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: Now.
- 1:06:02Speaker 8: Hold on now, little girl, Hold on, little girl, hold now.
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: You know.
- 1:06:10Speaker 8: I ain't all of what he is you talking about,
- 1:06:13Speaker 8: but you know, you know I have, I have and
- 1:06:16Speaker 8: you know I have had people, you know, try to
- 1:06:19Speaker 8: catch their breath. You know what I'm saying. Coach time,
- 1:06:22Speaker 8: you know, here now and then you know, yeah right here.
- 1:06:26Speaker 8: I've never had no lord. I ain't never had nobody
- 1:06:29Speaker 8: like grab their clothes and run out of the room.
- 1:06:31Speaker 8: You know, just because I walked out the bathroom, everybody
- 1:06:34Speaker 8: went like, I can't try this.
- 1:06:36Speaker 2: You know, I ain't never had that problem. Anyway. He
- 1:06:41Speaker 2: knows what he's working with.
- 1:06:42Speaker 8: So he should respect my body enough to put a
- 1:06:44Speaker 8: reasonable time living on the activities in the bedroom. If
- 1:06:47Speaker 8: I'm going to be his third wife, I'll have to
- 1:06:49Speaker 8: set some guidelines on hopton we intimate. Do you think
- 1:06:52Speaker 8: this would be a deal break from him. I think
- 1:06:54Speaker 8: at the rate this is going, he will be looking
- 1:06:56Speaker 8: for his fourth wife. That's what I think is gonna happen.
- 1:07:00Speaker 8: Ellie is absolutely right. You cannot marry this man. He
- 1:07:03Speaker 8: is too much. He is too much for most people.
- 1:07:09Speaker 8: Two women in front of you have tried this and failed.
- 1:07:13Speaker 8: You are number three and you are failing, and you
- 1:07:16Speaker 8: ain't even the white see y'all getting there and thinking
- 1:07:19Speaker 8: you married man. You gonna cut him off just so
- 1:07:21Speaker 8: you can have a husband. But you got to deal
- 1:07:24Speaker 8: with all these blessings he gotten. He's stupid, he don't
- 1:07:27Speaker 8: know how to do it.
- 1:07:28Speaker 2: Now.
- 1:07:29Speaker 8: What this man needs to do is before he starts
- 1:07:33Speaker 8: meeting other women.
- 1:07:34Speaker 2: He's got to have some questions for women.
- 1:07:37Speaker 8: He's got to go at this and be a little
- 1:07:40Speaker 8: bit more conniving and a little bit more telling. So, Shirley,
- 1:07:45Speaker 8: you're about to date me the man in the letter,
- 1:07:48Speaker 8: and I'm gonna add I'm gonna interview you me now,
- 1:07:52Speaker 8: I'm gonna interview you all right now here we go,
- 1:07:56Speaker 8: Let men ask you any baby girl? How you doing today?
- 1:07:58Speaker 2: Baby?
- 1:07:59Speaker 7: Hi?
- 1:07:59Speaker 1: How are you?
- 1:08:00Speaker 6: Honey?
- 1:08:01Speaker 8: I want to ask you a couple of questions. I
- 1:08:02Speaker 8: know we talk about being intimate, but I just have
- 1:08:05Speaker 8: a couple of questions, you know, see huh.
- 1:08:13Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you something right here.
- 1:08:16Speaker 8: When you go through a fast food restaurant and you
- 1:08:19Speaker 8: have to drive through one, do you ever ask for supersize?
- 1:08:23Speaker 7: No?
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: No, no, I'm no, I'm trying to you know, watch
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: my sig, watch my way.
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: We're gonna have some problem.
- 1:08:30Speaker 8: But let me ask you another question right here? How
- 1:08:33Speaker 8: do you handle extreme pressure?
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: I work well under pressure.
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: But okay, that's good. That's good. That's good. Right there. Okay,
- 1:08:44Speaker 2: let me ask you a question. Are you very limber?
- 1:08:52Speaker 7: You know?
- 1:08:53Speaker 1: I used to be in my younger day.
- 1:08:54Speaker 8: Well you have like in the gymnastics or cheer lead
- 1:08:57Speaker 8: or anything like that. Okay, well that ain't good right there.
- 1:09:02Speaker 8: When the last time you had surgery?
- 1:09:06Speaker 1: Surgery?
- 1:09:09Speaker 2: Do you do well with anesthesia and stuff like that?
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: I've never really had one.
- 1:09:16Speaker 2: Last question right here? Do you have insurance?
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: Insurance?
- 1:09:23Speaker 7: Yes?
- 1:09:24Speaker 2: Oh? Well I don't think you and I should be dated.
- 1:09:30Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so.
- 1:09:34Speaker 8: But you probably wondered why I asked you questions like that. Oh,
- 1:09:38Speaker 8: it's just a little problem I've had in the past.
- 1:09:44Speaker 9: Leave your comments on Instagram and steam barb FM.
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: On today's Strawberry Letter, you check.
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: Out hand the surgery though, check out.
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: The Strawberry Letter podcast coming on demand. Good morning, This
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: is Shirley Strawberry and Tims.
- 1:10:00Speaker 9: The season for happiness and love and giving and family,
- 1:10:05Speaker 9: Happy Holidays from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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- 1:10:45Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we go. One of these has
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: to go.
- 1:10:49Speaker 9: Steve, listen carefully, Tommy Junior, everybody listen.
- 1:10:53Speaker 1: Carefully, Football, basketball, golf.
- 1:10:57Speaker 7: Woah.
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: To it as a sport, one has to go. Whatever
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: the ball, basketball, golf, golf, what you're playing, just.
- 1:11:12Speaker 12: Has to go.
- 1:11:12Speaker 8: I finished, because if you're out here playing it, I'm
- 1:11:15Speaker 8: gonna we can get rid of football and basketball.
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: If I'm watching it, one has to go. That's it.
- 1:11:20Speaker 8: But if you're talking about watching it, you can take
- 1:11:22Speaker 8: this golf off TV today.
- 1:11:25Speaker 9: Yeah, all right, Teddy Luthor Peebo one has to go.
- 1:11:32Speaker 1: I'm done, Teddy Luthor Peebo one has to go.
- 1:11:38Speaker 12: Luther ain't going, not all none of these answers watch.
- 1:11:43Speaker 1: What Okay, he's not going?
- 1:11:48Speaker 2: Who's going?
- 1:11:49Speaker 1: Is going? We don't want to know who's in.
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: It's it's all okay.
- 1:11:55Speaker 12: He the sunk down in your pebo hurt me?
- 1:11:59Speaker 15: Man.
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: We got to turn off the lights, y'all.
- 1:12:02Speaker 3: We got to Yeah, people from.
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: Wow, I'm taking Teddy out.
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: Take it, Take Teddy out.
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: I had two people man that feel the fire.
- 1:12:17Speaker 1: Something that.
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: Stayed in my.
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: All right, you take lobster. One has to go.
- 1:12:32Speaker 2: I lost five. I'm allergic to spiny lobster anywhere. I
- 1:12:36Speaker 2: don't give it. They don't make that nowhere.
- 1:12:38Speaker 8: I eat spiny like my whole Mousewell, start eating really
- 1:12:42Speaker 8: spiny lobster.
- 1:12:43Speaker 2: Yeah, red main lobster. I can eat the spiny lobster.
- 1:12:47Speaker 2: Back on my start, Junior. Chi can get rid of chicken.
- 1:12:52Speaker 3: I can't give it a chicken steak. That's all I
- 1:12:54Speaker 3: grew up on.
- 1:12:55Speaker 2: Ye, get rid of out of here.
- 1:12:59Speaker 13: Okay, but I want the lobster. I'm gon let go.
- 1:13:02Speaker 13: I'm gonna let the red meat goes all right.
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: One, Yeah, I'm here.
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: I gotta have that loft.
- 1:13:13Speaker 12: All right, here we go.
- 1:13:14Speaker 2: One has to go head lost to you with thirty five.
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: One has to go boobs, but nice teeth. One has
- 1:13:22Speaker 1: to go boobs, but nice teeth.
- 1:13:25Speaker 2: I'm eliminated.
- 1:13:28Speaker 12: Yeah, left the boobs go, but them.
- 1:13:33Speaker 2: Teeth, booty and teeth.
- 1:13:37Speaker 8: If you can do without breast you can make that work,
- 1:13:39Speaker 8: but you cannot have no ragged mouth under no circumstances,
- 1:13:45Speaker 8: sit across from me chewing food coming out the middle
- 1:13:49Speaker 8: of your mother.
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: Hay, I know that's right.
- 1:13:54Speaker 10: Thanks guys, But this is Alicia Keys wishing you a
- 1:13:58Speaker 10: happy holiday.
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:14:05Speaker 9: All right, So Steve, here's a question from Steve Harvey FM.
- 1:14:09Speaker 9: I'm control, he says, and I'm forty seven years old.
- 1:14:12Speaker 9: I've been blessed with the gift of designing and sewing
- 1:14:14Speaker 9: clothes for women. I mostly do custom prom dresses for
- 1:14:18Speaker 9: students and that's made me a lot of money, but.
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: I want to do more.
- 1:14:23Speaker 9: My other customers get me to make knockoff designer outfits
- 1:14:27Speaker 9: for them, and it irritates me because I want to
- 1:14:29Speaker 9: do my own designs. Why are people so into wearing
- 1:14:33Speaker 9: designer brands instead of having an original handmade garment?
- 1:14:38Speaker 5: Wow?
- 1:14:38Speaker 8: Well, bro, look I sympathize with you on a couple
- 1:14:41Speaker 8: of parts.
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: You know, designer brands.
- 1:14:43Speaker 8: It gives you a feeling when you have them all
- 1:14:46Speaker 8: for some people, and then you want to do your
- 1:14:50Speaker 8: own thing. See what a person going to especially vin
- 1:14:55Speaker 8: they want to think and feel special. Now you're saying
- 1:14:59Speaker 8: nothing but prop make you feel more special than to
- 1:15:01Speaker 8: be wearing a custom piece design especially for you.
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: I happen to agree with you.
- 1:15:07Speaker 8: But if your custom design piece ain't flyer in the
- 1:15:10Speaker 8: designer piece, I think they're gonna end up going with
- 1:15:13Speaker 8: the designer piece. And I think that's what a lot
- 1:15:17Speaker 8: of it is. And until you get your notoriety up,
- 1:15:20Speaker 8: you're gonna keep running into this. This is the part
- 1:15:23Speaker 8: about being successful, is getting the notoriety and the recognition
- 1:15:27Speaker 8: that you want or deserve for your ideas and your work.
- 1:15:32Speaker 8: You know, I get people approach me all the time.
- 1:15:34Speaker 8: I wear designer stuff, but I wear some stuff that's
- 1:15:37Speaker 8: made by people people have no idea who they are.
- 1:15:40Speaker 8: And you know, I do a little bit of both.
- 1:15:42Speaker 8: But I think it's a personal choice, you know. But
- 1:15:46Speaker 8: you're gonna have to stop using words like sewing.
- 1:15:52Speaker 9: All right, So, Steve, here's a question from Steve harbsm.
- 1:15:56Speaker 9: I'm control, he says, and I'm forty seven years old.
- 1:15:59Speaker 9: I've been blessed with the gift of designing and sewing
- 1:16:01Speaker 9: clothes for women. I mostly do custom prom dresses for students,
- 1:16:06Speaker 9: and that's made a lot of money, but I want
- 1:16:09Speaker 9: to do more. My other customers get me to make
- 1:16:12Speaker 9: knockoff designer outfits for them, and it irritates me because
- 1:16:16Speaker 9: I want to do my own designs. Why are people
- 1:16:19Speaker 9: so into wearing designer brands instead of having an original
- 1:16:23Speaker 9: handmade garment?
- 1:16:25Speaker 2: Wow, well brouh.
- 1:16:26Speaker 8: Look, I sympathize with you on a couple of parts.
- 1:16:29Speaker 8: You know, designer brands. It gives you a feeling when
- 1:16:32Speaker 8: you have them all for some people, and then you
- 1:16:36Speaker 8: want to do your own thing. See what a person
- 1:16:41Speaker 8: going to especially vent they want to think and feel special.
- 1:16:45Speaker 8: Now you're saying nothing would probably make you feel more
- 1:16:48Speaker 8: special than to be wearing a custom piece design especially
- 1:16:51Speaker 8: for you.
- 1:16:51Speaker 2: I happen to agree with you.
- 1:16:54Speaker 8: But if your custom design piece ain't flying in the
- 1:16:57Speaker 8: designer piece, I think they're going to end up going
- 1:17:00Speaker 8: with the designer peace.
- 1:17:02Speaker 2: And I think that's what a lot of it is.
- 1:17:04Speaker 8: And until you get your notoriety up, you're gonna keep
- 1:17:08Speaker 8: running into this. That's this is the part about being successful,
- 1:17:11Speaker 8: is getting the notoriety and the recognition that you want
- 1:17:15Speaker 8: or deserve for your ideas and your work. You know,
- 1:17:19Speaker 8: I get people approach me all the time. I wear
- 1:17:21Speaker 8: designer stuff, but I wear some stuff that's made by
- 1:17:24Speaker 8: people that people have no idea who they are, And.
- 1:17:27Speaker 2: You know I do.
- 1:17:28Speaker 8: I do a little bit of both, but I think
- 1:17:30Speaker 8: it's a personal choice, you know. But you're gonna have
- 1:17:34Speaker 8: to stop using words like sewing. You're gonna have to
- 1:17:37Speaker 8: stop using wordship. Read well, well, reread the statement.
- 1:17:42Speaker 9: Again, Shirley, I have been blessed with the gift of
- 1:17:45Speaker 9: designing and sewing clothes for wee.
- 1:17:48Speaker 8: Right there, see right there, you got to stop saying sewing.
- 1:17:52Speaker 8: Sewing is old. Don't nobody want nothing you sold using
- 1:18:01Speaker 8: old terms design, custom.
- 1:18:06Speaker 2: Be spoke, you know, stuff like that.
- 1:18:09Speaker 8: Once you say sewing, I see your sitting down at
- 1:18:13Speaker 8: a machine somewhere in the parlor room. And now I
- 1:18:19Speaker 8: got just one shoulder calling. See, you can't use old
- 1:18:26Speaker 8: words and spectrum. I've been designing and sewing no matter what.
- 1:18:30Speaker 8: I don't want you to sew me nothing.
- 1:18:34Speaker 9: He also says, ye, but you know, really, you got
- 1:18:39Speaker 9: to use words that sound.
- 1:18:41Speaker 2: Bespoke, custom. You know a lot of words.
- 1:18:47Speaker 3: Yeah, I want know you sold?
- 1:18:50Speaker 8: Come on, man, you know what I mean? Outfits they
- 1:18:52Speaker 8: made for me? Go see Earth Winning five commodores. My
- 1:18:57Speaker 8: sister sold them out.
- 1:18:58Speaker 2: Fist. I couldn't wear them nowhere. Yeah, I'm into this.
- 1:19:05Speaker 8: Falling apart, fethers, shingles all on the ground and stuff.
- 1:19:08Speaker 2: I'm picking up stuff sticking it back on my pants.
- 1:19:11Speaker 9: Come on, man, well, I mean he's happy, you know,
- 1:19:16Speaker 9: with everything I guess he has. He does say that
- 1:19:19Speaker 9: he has been blessed with the gift, so he knows.
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: The problem is I bet he is gifted.
- 1:19:25Speaker 8: And congratulations to you, brother, But you've been making the
- 1:19:28Speaker 8: majority of your money, been making you know, prom dresses.
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: He's been throwing prom dresses. What had you know?
- 1:19:40Speaker 8: See now, I got to hope you could make this suit,
- 1:19:42Speaker 8: right dang, Come on now all to go for prom dress?
- 1:19:46Speaker 2: To the suit. I got to wear this out on TV.
- 1:19:52Speaker 2: You're lying it little stuff like that.
- 1:19:57Speaker 8: I've heard all this stuff before. Don't be dune. You
- 1:20:00Speaker 8: might want to go in the bathroom. The helm you're
- 1:20:02Speaker 8: standing on your heel.
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: That's sewing. You're saying, that's sowing.
- 1:20:09Speaker 8: So on, because they don't put that little basting on
- 1:20:11Speaker 8: the back of the heel, and if you he'll get
- 1:20:12Speaker 8: caught on the back of the pants. They snatched the
- 1:20:14Speaker 8: line because it ain't been basted on the bottom. See,
- 1:20:17Speaker 8: because you was in that sewing and you don't have
- 1:20:20Speaker 8: a basting machine. So now my'sitn't have been here whereh
- 1:20:22Speaker 8: and he's sold with the pants?
- 1:20:26Speaker 1: All right?
- 1:20:27Speaker 9: I think we got it coming up in twenty minutes
- 1:20:29Speaker 9: after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey
- 1:20:31Speaker 9: Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve
- 1:20:35Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:20:40Speaker 13: All right.
- 1:20:40Speaker 9: It seems more and more people are making the decision
- 1:20:42Speaker 9: not to have kids these days. According to a recent
- 1:20:45Speaker 9: study by Michigan State University, the percentage of adults who
- 1:20:48Speaker 9: don't want kids today has nearly doubled. It was fourteen
- 1:20:52Speaker 9: percent back in two thousand and two. Now it's twenty
- 1:20:55Speaker 9: nine percent. That's the latest from twenty twenty three statistics.
- 1:21:00Speaker 2: Which it was in the nineties.
- 1:21:03Speaker 1: The trend is still growing.
- 1:21:05Speaker 9: The research didn't pinpoint the exact reasons why Americans are
- 1:21:08Speaker 9: opting out of parenthood, but they're they're saying things like,
- 1:21:12Speaker 9: you know, the state of the world right now, economic worries,
- 1:21:15Speaker 9: the allure of having more freedom. You know, they don't
- 1:21:18Speaker 9: have to worry about their children, your parents. See, yes, I.
- 1:21:22Speaker 2: Say it all those things. I say it all the reasons.
- 1:21:28Speaker 8: But we didn't have planned parenthood.
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: Yes we did, we did, we did.
- 1:21:35Speaker 9: Why what do you guys love about being parents and grandparents?
- 1:21:39Speaker 9: In your case Junior and Steve and.
- 1:21:42Speaker 2: Well this ain't a good That ain't a good. Say way, Well,
- 1:21:45Speaker 2: it ain't a story about we don't want the kids.
- 1:21:47Speaker 9: Now you got to commence them. Yeah, convince the people
- 1:21:53Speaker 9: that don't want them that they want.
- 1:21:54Speaker 2: Well, I think we.
- 1:21:55Speaker 8: Should start with Junior, because Junior is the newest grandfather.
- 1:21:59Speaker 3: Oh, well, the pictures. I love seeing the pictures.
- 1:22:02Speaker 2: I am.
- 1:22:03Speaker 9: Yeah, Tommy is Yeah.
- 1:22:08Speaker 13: Yeah, that would be Papa t You're gonna get that straight.
- 1:22:12Speaker 1: Right, all right, Papa Tea. Thank you, guys.
- 1:22:18Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll
- 1:22:20Speaker 9: play another round, would you rather? Right after this you're
- 1:22:23Speaker 9: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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- 1:23:01Speaker 9: It is time now for a round it would you
- 1:23:03Speaker 9: rather would you rather have to spend the week after
- 1:23:06Speaker 9: the New Year dressed up as the baby New Year?
- 1:23:09Speaker 1: Or would you rather be father time at the time?
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: No Baby New Year for you, guys, Well.
- 1:23:17Speaker 8: You can be either real real old man or you
- 1:23:20Speaker 8: can beat his baby if both of them gonna have diepoholes.
- 1:23:26Speaker 8: I'm gonna be that baby so I can lay back
- 1:23:28Speaker 8: and get white. I'm can't talk none of that.
- 1:23:42Speaker 2: All right?
- 1:23:42Speaker 9: Would you rather play Monopoly for five hours? Would you
- 1:23:46Speaker 9: rather have a conversation about politics with your family?
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: Politics?
- 1:23:51Speaker 7: Uh?
- 1:23:51Speaker 6: Huh?
- 1:23:52Speaker 2: Monopoly?
- 1:23:54Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 1:23:55Speaker 2: Yeah, oh no, I don't like it? Not there mad
- 1:23:58Speaker 2: really no houses, really old nothing.
- 1:24:02Speaker 8: And by the time I par token, I'm always that
- 1:24:05Speaker 8: wheel bearl or a shoe or something your piece. Yeah,
- 1:24:11Speaker 8: don't nobody want to be thimble and wheel bel.
- 1:24:16Speaker 2: All right?
- 1:24:17Speaker 9: Would you rather eat only Christmas leftovers for two weeks?
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: Or would you rather have no Christmas leftovers at all?
- 1:24:24Speaker 7: Oh?
- 1:24:25Speaker 1: Didn't give me bee no Christmas leftover?
- 1:24:28Speaker 2: How many weeks to two weeks?
- 1:24:31Speaker 8: Yeah, ain't nothing going to say that turkey is so dry?
- 1:24:40Speaker 8: I can't refrigerate that turkey. But for so long, Ham
- 1:24:43Speaker 8: too is to get old. And and ham can't be
- 1:24:47Speaker 8: nothing but ham.
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: You can't make your soup.
- 1:24:52Speaker 17: No hamm can't be nothing but ham ain't no ham stew.
- 1:25:00Speaker 8: You you can disguise that turkey ham sitting over.
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: That just Ham and Hammon?
- 1:25:12Speaker 7: Right?
- 1:25:13Speaker 9: Would you rather build a snowman for two hours without
- 1:25:16Speaker 9: wearing any gloves?
- 1:25:17Speaker 1: Or would you rather make the snow angel.
- 1:25:19Speaker 12: For two hours laying on that two hours?
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: Or build a snowman with no gloves?
- 1:25:27Speaker 13: I'm gonna heart build a snowman without the glove. Really,
- 1:25:32Speaker 13: who are going back and forth with your legs on?
- 1:25:35Speaker 1: But at least you have all your clothes on. You'll
- 1:25:37Speaker 1: be warm.
- 1:25:38Speaker 2: But I'm finna make this snowman in by thirty seconds.
- 1:25:41Speaker 10: But this, oh no, he ain't gonna be trn at hours.
- 1:25:47Speaker 8: Tommy, you can do that. He can make a little
- 1:25:49Speaker 8: quick out there, a little snowman. He shouldn't have made.
- 1:25:55Speaker 8: He shouldn't make a snowman, doll.
- 1:25:58Speaker 1: That's today's would you rather now?
- 1:26:01Speaker 9: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, It
- 1:26:04Speaker 9: is our last break of the day and we'll close
- 1:26:06Speaker 9: out the show with the one and only Steve Harvey
- 1:26:08Speaker 9: right after this.
- 1:26:10Speaker 8: Hey, good morning, this is your man, Steve Harvey. Tis
- 1:26:13Speaker 8: the season for love, peace, happiness and soul. Happy holidays
- 1:26:19Speaker 8: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:26:21Speaker 2: Yeah, I wrote that myself.
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- 1:26:59Speaker 9: All right, Steve, come to the end of the road
- 1:27:01Speaker 9: for this week. This is our last break of the
- 1:27:03Speaker 9: day on this Friday. Leave us with some closing remarks.
- 1:27:07Speaker 8: Please you know something, man, I'm not gonna take long
- 1:27:11Speaker 8: to tell you this, But what's the old saying that
- 1:27:17Speaker 8: the grass is always greener on the other side. So
- 1:27:22Speaker 8: when you hear that, what they're saying is almost like
- 1:27:26Speaker 8: a warning to people be careful because it always appears
- 1:27:33Speaker 8: that the grass is greener on the other side. And
- 1:27:39Speaker 8: so many people spending their life standing at the fence
- 1:27:45Speaker 8: looking at somebody else's grass and then acknowledging the fact
- 1:27:52Speaker 8: that they grass is greener. It causes you to do
- 1:27:58Speaker 8: nothing about your own yard. And then some people have
- 1:28:04Speaker 8: the audacity, and you see it on the internet all
- 1:28:08Speaker 8: the time that if they look over there and your
- 1:28:10Speaker 8: grass is greener, they try to kill the grass or
- 1:28:13Speaker 8: throw some weeds in it. But you know what I
- 1:28:17Speaker 8: come away with, I don't worry about that because here's
- 1:28:22Speaker 8: what I know. I'm too busy working on my own
- 1:28:27Speaker 8: grass to notice if yours is greener. That's really the truth.
- 1:28:35Speaker 8: I'm really so busy working on my own grass that
- 1:28:38Speaker 8: I don't have time to notice if yours is greener.
- 1:28:42Speaker 8: Because if it is greener, let's suppose your grass is greener,
- 1:28:47Speaker 8: why can't mind be just as green. I ain't saying
- 1:28:51Speaker 8: we gonna have the same yard. Were just talking about
- 1:28:54Speaker 8: the color of the grass that's in your yard. You
- 1:28:57Speaker 8: don't have to have the same size house I got.
- 1:29:01Speaker 8: You ain't got to have the same size house. Edny guy,
- 1:29:04Speaker 8: You ain't got to have the same size house. Oprah, God,
- 1:29:08Speaker 8: you ain't gonna have the same.
- 1:29:10Speaker 2: Size yard they got.
- 1:29:12Speaker 8: But if you take care of your business, you can
- 1:29:16Speaker 8: have grass just as green as everybody.
- 1:29:19Speaker 2: Else if you just handle your business.
- 1:29:23Speaker 8: The goal in life is to get your grass to
- 1:29:26Speaker 8: be as green as it can. So when you go
- 1:29:30Speaker 8: outside to pick your crops, it got some fruit to bath.
- 1:29:35Speaker 2: And God will always supply your needs.
- 1:29:38Speaker 8: So even though it may look like somebody got more
- 1:29:41Speaker 8: fruit in they orchard, let me tell you something.
- 1:29:46Speaker 2: If you can't.
- 1:29:47Speaker 8: If you got an orchard full of apple tree a
- 1:29:51Speaker 8: thousand apple trees, and I got one apple tree in
- 1:29:58Speaker 8: my yard, but out a thousand apple.
- 1:30:01Speaker 2: Trees in your yard.
- 1:30:03Speaker 8: When it's time to eat, how many apples can you eat?
- 1:30:07Speaker 8: Let's say you eat apple six apples, that make you fool.
- 1:30:11Speaker 8: My one tree got six apples on it, so we
- 1:30:14Speaker 8: both fool. See, at one point in time, you're gonna
- 1:30:18Speaker 8: have to get content with where you are in your
- 1:30:21Speaker 8: process of the journey. Stop looking at everybody grass. Stop
- 1:30:25Speaker 8: looking at everybody orchard. They grass greening than mind. They
- 1:30:29Speaker 8: got more apple trees than mine. Hey, man, eat apples
- 1:30:32Speaker 8: off your tree. You might find out that you have enough.
- 1:30:35Speaker 8: But if you qulit, wear and counting mind, you're gonna
- 1:30:38Speaker 8: mess around and let worms get on yours. I'm too
- 1:30:41Speaker 8: busy working on my own grass to even notice that
- 1:30:45Speaker 8: your grass is green. Change your commitment to everybody else,
- 1:30:50Speaker 8: from everybody else's business.
- 1:30:52Speaker 2: Change your commitment to your business.
- 1:30:54Speaker 8: If you the time you spent worried about them, looking
- 1:30:57Speaker 8: at them, talking about them, if you took that same
- 1:31:00Speaker 8: amount of time and spend it on yourself, you have
- 1:31:03Speaker 8: any idea what you could accomplish. That's why haters man
- 1:31:07Speaker 8: is so much trouble man. You don't even understand. Let
- 1:31:10Speaker 8: people hate all they want. They tend into too many
- 1:31:15Speaker 8: other people's business. Don't get in the hate business. It
- 1:31:19Speaker 8: serves nobody. And that's another thing. Somebody asked me, how
- 1:31:24Speaker 8: do I deal with my haters? I keep all my
- 1:31:26Speaker 8: haters in my classroom. I just got them watching me,
- 1:31:30Speaker 8: because that's all they can do. They can't stop nothing
- 1:31:34Speaker 8: God has for me. They can't take away one blessing
- 1:31:38Speaker 8: God gives me. They can't do nothing to me. You
- 1:31:41Speaker 8: can't bring no harm on me that I won't be
- 1:31:44Speaker 8: able to survive. I'm not saying that it don't bother
- 1:31:48Speaker 8: me sometime.
- 1:31:49Speaker 2: I don't.
- 1:31:50Speaker 8: I'm not saying that people don't attack me sometime. But
- 1:31:53Speaker 8: when you get through attacking me, I'm a weather your storm.
- 1:31:57Speaker 8: I'm Isaiah forty three one and two. I can walk
- 1:32:00Speaker 8: through the rivers and not be overturned. The waters will
- 1:32:03Speaker 8: not overtake me. I can walk through the fire and
- 1:32:06Speaker 8: not be burned. Nor were kindlings set upon my clothing.
- 1:32:10Speaker 8: I'd havene been through some fiery situations and came out
- 1:32:12Speaker 8: on the other side, and there was no kindling. There
- 1:32:16Speaker 8: was no signs that I was even in a fire.
- 1:32:19Speaker 8: Now understand something, what that scripture does not say that
- 1:32:23Speaker 8: when you walk through the fire that it ain't gonna
- 1:32:25Speaker 8: be ungodly hot. They Now, it's been plenty hot for
- 1:32:29Speaker 8: me on plenty days, many occasions. Oh, I'd have made
- 1:32:33Speaker 8: some mistakes in front of the world before I didn't
- 1:32:36Speaker 8: had to deal with some stuff. But when I got
- 1:32:38Speaker 8: through what no signs that I was ever in a fire.
- 1:32:42Speaker 8: That's the God I serve. I have no concern about
- 1:32:48Speaker 8: what people say they gonna do to me. I have
- 1:32:52Speaker 8: no concern about how green your grass is. On the
- 1:32:56Speaker 8: other side, I have no concern about how many apple
- 1:33:00Speaker 8: trees in your orchard. I'm too busy tending to my
- 1:33:05Speaker 8: own grass to even notice that yours is greener. And
- 1:33:09Speaker 8: if I do look over there, congratulations on your beautiful
- 1:33:12Speaker 8: green yard. I'm getting mine there too. That's all it is.
- 1:33:17Speaker 8: Fix your attitude, change your attitude. You'll change your altitude.
- 1:33:24Speaker 8: Those are my clothes and remarks.
- 1:33:26Speaker 1: Sure drop the mics. See that was good.
- 1:33:35Speaker 2: Yeah, take you some great weekend for sure.
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