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Games You Can't Play Over The Holidays, Re-Gifting, Would You Rather, Are Your Lights On?, and more! - 12.13.24 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Joy. They say, you gotta.
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  Speaker 2: Come come on, you're thinking that, I sure will.
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  Speaker 7: Good morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on,
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  Speaker 7: dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey got a
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  Speaker 7: radio show. Yeah, man, Steve Harvey got a radio show.
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  Speaker 7: Trying to do something with it too.
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  Speaker 1: Man.
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  Speaker 8: You know, I was having a conversation the other day
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  Speaker 8: with a young person and they were telling me how
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  Speaker 8: they felt that their life was stuck, that their life
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  Speaker 8: was in a rut, that they didn't know what to
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  Speaker 8: do next. And one of the things that was causing
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  Speaker 8: them this sadness or this depression. I mean, they're really
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  Speaker 8: really into something right now. One of the things that
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  Speaker 8: was causing it was the fact that they had made
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  Speaker 8: a list of things they wanted to accomplish by a
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  Speaker 8: certain age, and.
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  Speaker 2: That age they just had a birthday recently, and.
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  Speaker 8: They were looking at the list, and the list hadn't
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  Speaker 8: been fulfilled, and because that list hadn't been fulfilled, they
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  Speaker 8: were really really sad about it. You know.
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  Speaker 1: One of the things that.
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  Speaker 8: They had on the list was marriage, kids, and I
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  Speaker 8: don't know everything else that was on the list, but
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  Speaker 8: that was one of them. And because she had reached
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  Speaker 8: a certain age and she wasn't married, and she didn't
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  Speaker 8: have the kids, and she had just celebrated a birthday,
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  Speaker 8: she's gone into this mode of sadness where it's really
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  Speaker 8: really taken a toll on her. And as I was
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  Speaker 8: learning about her situation, I was thinking about it, and
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  Speaker 8: I just wanted to share this with you all this
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  Speaker 8: morning that one of the things about making a list
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  Speaker 8: about what you want, which I happen to be a
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  Speaker 8: proponent of, I do it myself. People have dream boards.
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  Speaker 8: I have a goal sheet. I've been doing it for years.
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  Speaker 8: It's a wonderful way to set goals and to keep
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  Speaker 8: it in front of you as a constant reminder. And
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  Speaker 8: I always go over this gold list every day, you know.
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  Speaker 8: I mean I go with it all the time every day.
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  Speaker 8: Sometimes I miss a day here and there, but mostly
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  Speaker 8: every day I pull my goal sheet out and I
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  Speaker 8: look at it, I read it. So I was going
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  Speaker 8: to these rallies and I was learning about, you know,
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  Speaker 8: people who are successful in how they kept their mind
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  Speaker 8: writing possible. And one of the things I learned was
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  Speaker 8: to make these dream boards, these lists, these gold sheets,
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  Speaker 8: and in making a goal sheet, and you make the
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  Speaker 8: sheet according to what you want, think about one thing
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  Speaker 8: when you made your goal sheet, about what you wanted?
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  Speaker 8: Does your goal sheet have on it what God wants
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  Speaker 8: from you? Did you ask in any of this what
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  Speaker 8: was His will in your life?
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  Speaker 5: You know?
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  Speaker 2: Look, man, what we want oftentimes is not what He
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  Speaker 2: wants for us. And you know, if you're.
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  Speaker 8: Fighting against what you were created for, if you're fighting
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  Speaker 8: against his will, I mean, what do you want to happen?
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  Speaker 1: See?
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  Speaker 8: Don't be so hard on yourself when you look at
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  Speaker 8: your goal sheet and you look at what you've not
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  Speaker 8: become what you thought was a great idea. Don't be
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  Speaker 8: so hard on yourself because you just made a minded mistake.
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  Speaker 8: As do most people, we oftentimes make our goals and
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  Speaker 8: set our goals up without ever considering what is it
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  Speaker 8: that God wants from us. We keep talking about what
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  Speaker 8: we want without ever finding out and knowing what it
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  Speaker 8: is God wants for us. Well, guess what, man, maybe
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  Speaker 8: you're fighting against the grain. Maybe you just a salmon
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  Speaker 8: heading upstream. That's a tough fight upstream. Not all salmon's
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  Speaker 8: get up to the spawning grounds, you know. Some of
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  Speaker 8: them don't make it upstream, you know, but all all
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  Speaker 8: of them, nearly all of them, except the ones that's
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  Speaker 8: killed by pray. When they're spawn they go out to
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  Speaker 8: the ocean. That's cool, because you're going because you're going
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  Speaker 8: with the grain. You going downstream, you're going with the flow.
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  Speaker 8: That's but when it's time to go against the grain,
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  Speaker 8: it's tough. And a lot of us have just been
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  Speaker 8: going against the grain for all of these years. But
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  Speaker 8: you know what, listen, man, I did it. I know
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  Speaker 8: a lot of people who did it. Very few people
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  Speaker 8: get it right from the very beginning. Man, you got
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  Speaker 8: to stumble through life sometimes sometimes you got to fall
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  Speaker 8: through life. You got to make a lot of mistakes, man,
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  Speaker 8: But these mistakes are not failures. You know, when you fail,
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  Speaker 8: it's something. Don't look at it as a fail You
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  Speaker 8: don't look at yourself as a failure because you're thirty
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  Speaker 8: and your goals ain't reached that you had on your list.
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  Speaker 8: That was your list. What about the things that's going right.
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  Speaker 8: Stop looking at what you're not, take some time out
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  Speaker 8: and thank God for what you are. How about the
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  Speaker 8: fact that you keep waking up to be thirty? You
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  Speaker 8: know you get depressed about these birthdays. You really want
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  Speaker 8: to throw yourself in some depression. Miss a birthday, You
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  Speaker 8: really got a problem. Now look at where you are.
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  Speaker 8: You keep reaching birthdays. That's a glorious blessing. You keep
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  Speaker 8: waking up. You got your health, You've accomplished something. Something
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  Speaker 8: on your list is done. People spend too much time
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  Speaker 8: on the negative side, and you're just throwing yourself into depression.
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  Speaker 8: So what you want to be married by a certain
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  Speaker 8: age and you wanted to have kids, Okay, cool, you
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  Speaker 8: could have done all that with the wrong person. There's
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  Speaker 8: a blessing in not being married to the wrong person.
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  Speaker 8: There's a blessing in not having kids and nobody to
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  Speaker 8: help you raise it. There's a blessing in that man.
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  Speaker 8: You're talking to somebody who can tell it to you.
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  Speaker 8: You can marry the wrong person if you want to.
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  Speaker 8: I'm telling you you're gonna be up in some mess.
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  Speaker 8: You can't count on. So instead of being angry because
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  Speaker 8: you're not married, you don't have kids, why don't you
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  Speaker 8: thank God the man? Maybe he spared you from some
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  Speaker 8: misery here. Maybe you could have married the wrong person.
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  Speaker 8: Maybe you have kids and you're not really ready to
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  Speaker 8: be a mother or a father. To look at the upside, man,
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  Speaker 8: Quit looking at what you don't have. Take some time
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  Speaker 8: to thank God for what you do have. When you
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  Speaker 8: do that, you make more room for blessings to flow
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  Speaker 8: into your life. I'm not saying how God thinks, because
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  Speaker 8: I really don't know, but I'm telling you if a
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  Speaker 8: person comes to me and I always give a person
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  Speaker 8: something and they never appear grateful, or they never say
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  Speaker 8: thank you, please, know you can quit coming to me now.
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  Speaker 8: I don't notice how God works because I've gone back
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  Speaker 8: to him several times without being grateful of thanking him,
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  Speaker 8: and he's filled my basket up again. So I really
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  Speaker 8: think he's not like that. But I can't make the
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  Speaker 8: call for sure. But I think at one point in time,
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  Speaker 8: me it's just me talking. I'd be a little ticked
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  Speaker 8: off at somebody who was always taking, taking, taking, and
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  Speaker 8: never showing any gratitude. At one point in time, I
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  Speaker 8: would just stop the flow of the take you know,
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  Speaker 8: you just you can't take no more from me.
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  Speaker 2: That's what I would do.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 8: I'm not calling it like that because I ain't him,
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  Speaker 8: but I know he's merciful, He's full of goodness and
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  Speaker 8: he and he'll forgive you. And thank God he does
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  Speaker 8: that because he's show enough done it for me. But wow, man,
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  Speaker 8: take some time out today and be grateful for what
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  Speaker 8: you have, stop complaining about where you not, and think
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  Speaker 8: about where you are, and then take it from there.
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  Speaker 8: And the next time you make a list, make sure
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  Speaker 8: on that list you have God's will. What does he
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  Speaker 8: want for you? Does God create give everybody a gift
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  Speaker 8: and a talent. Some of us never apply gifts and talents.
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  Speaker 8: We head off in another direction. Then you wonder why
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  Speaker 8: your life ain't where it's supposed to be. Have you
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  Speaker 8: ever thought about what God gifted you to do? Have
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  Speaker 8: you ever thought about doing that? And still skip what
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  Speaker 8: you want? I wanted to play in the NBA, but
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  Speaker 8: I got to tell you something. At dribbling and shooting
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  Speaker 8: and running all at one time throwing me off a
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  Speaker 8: little bit. You know, they just so I'm doing what
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  Speaker 8: I do. It's pretty cool. You can look at it
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  Speaker 8: that way.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Ladies
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  Speaker 1: and gentlemen, is here another great day.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Heavenly father. I show appreciate it.
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  Speaker 8: Man.
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  Speaker 2: Started my day off with gratitude. I'm spreading it.
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  Speaker 8: If you get your gratitude together, it affects your attitude.
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  Speaker 8: If your attitude gets affected, this direct correlation to your altitude.
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  Speaker 8: It's about them tudes, man, get them up, get them started.
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  Speaker 8: It's gonna be a great day to day. I lived
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  Speaker 8: my life with that expectation. I had a little moment
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  Speaker 8: yesterday while I felt a little some kind of way,
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  Speaker 8: you know how you just being human and you know
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  Speaker 8: the principles of success, but somehow you.
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  Speaker 1: Just it's just one of them days. And I was
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  Speaker 1: feeling a little, you know, a little off.
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  Speaker 8: I wasn't I was looking at what was wrong, and
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  Speaker 8: I was so focused on what was wrong that I
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  Speaker 8: had stopped momentarily looking at my life and what was right.
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  Speaker 2: But I got it back on track.
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  Speaker 8: But I was in this little funk for about about
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  Speaker 8: ninety minutes, and I remembered something that I read somewhere
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  Speaker 8: like whenever you can't explain your emotion. If you're feeling
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  Speaker 8: like little foggy, a little darker, you feel like blah,
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  Speaker 8: all you have to do is retrace the conversations you've
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  Speaker 8: had with yourself the fifteen minutes prior. Go back to
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  Speaker 8: fifteen minutes prior, because your emotions, the what you feel
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  Speaker 8: is actually a barometer of what you've been thinking. It's
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  Speaker 8: like your internal thermostat. You are the temperature gauge in
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  Speaker 8: your own life. So what you have to do is
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  Speaker 8: when you feel these little moments of darkness and gloom
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  Speaker 8: and sadness and depression, all you gotta do is track
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  Speaker 8: the last fifteen minutes. As long as you can track
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  Speaker 8: those last fifteen minutes of thoughts, you can now explain
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  Speaker 8: your situation. And when I started tracking that, I was
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  Speaker 8: just on a negative plane. And so I went right
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  Speaker 8: back and put myself on the positive plane, and I
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  Speaker 8: was able to self correct myself. Now that didn't make
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  Speaker 8: the problem go away, no, But the focus wasn't on
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  Speaker 8: the problem anymore. The focus was on the God that
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  Speaker 8: has given me every solution I've ever had prior to this.
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  Speaker 8: That right there changes everything. I have no problems that's
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  Speaker 8: bigger than my God. Come on, boy, once you wake
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  Speaker 8: up to that realization, you can get on with it.
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  Speaker 8: That's how I'm opening to show this morning, Junior. I
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  Speaker 8: love to say what's wrong with you today? But all
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  Speaker 8: you're gonna ask me to do is explain it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, really, you should have just explained that because
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that. I got that same problem.
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  Speaker 1: Bruh.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody has that problem.
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  Speaker 8: It's not new to mankind to be human, you know,
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  Speaker 8: it's nothing, nothing new about it. And we all have
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  Speaker 8: those moments where we just find ourselves in a little funk,
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  Speaker 8: a little bit of gloom. But if you retrust the
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  Speaker 8: previous fifteen minutes of thought, there it is because all
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  Speaker 8: your emotions are is a barometer of what you've been thinking.
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  Speaker 1: So if you change what you think, if you change.
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  Speaker 8: Your attitude, it affects your altitudes. So I put my
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  Speaker 8: attitude on a positive plane, and all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 8: I felt better.
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  Speaker 2: So instead of looking at what I didn't.
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  Speaker 8: Have and what was going wrong, I shifted my thinking
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  Speaker 8: and I started focusing on what was going right in
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  Speaker 8: my life, and I started thinking him for the blessings
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  Speaker 8: that I had and all of a sudden, what I
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  Speaker 8: didn't have seemed so small in comparison to what I had.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you asked and answered your own question. Yes, better
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  Speaker 1: let him use you a whole word.
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  Speaker 2: I needed that myself.
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  Speaker 1: What do you have for us this morning? Going on?
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  Speaker 10: You know, I got it, I got it. Surveillance. This
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  Speaker 10: is surveillance. Okay, it's what you should all have around
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  Speaker 10: your house at this point. Pur valence, you got a
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  Speaker 10: smart house.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody else don't.
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  Speaker 10: You can't have no dumb house in this day. Tank
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  Speaker 10: have a smart house. But come, okay, dog surveillance, let's
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  Speaker 10: get it.
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  Speaker 5: Hell.
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  Speaker 10: Yes, I'm trying to reach your please. Hello, I'm trying
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  Speaker 10: to reach you missus police. Hello, my name is officer
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  Speaker 10: from the Police Department, Narcotics Division. And where's the call
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  Speaker 10: from Police Department Narcotics Division.
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  Speaker 2: Man, my name is the officer. Okay, I'm giving you
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  Speaker 2: a call.
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  Speaker 10: There is a possibility. I'm wanted trying to get the
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  Speaker 10: particulars with you. You have two sons?
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  Speaker 2: Do you have one in? Okay?
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  Speaker 10: Uh, there's reason to believe that there is some narcotics
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  Speaker 10: going on with these two gentlemen.
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  Speaker 2: Now, I wanted to speak with you about it.
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  Speaker 10: My understanding that you're over the crime watch actually in
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  Speaker 10: that particular area, yes, sir, and I know that here
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  Speaker 10: lately there's been.
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  Speaker 2: Camp Hello.
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  Speaker 11: Hello, hang on the phone.
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  Speaker 2: Go ahead, it's my understanding.
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  Speaker 10: You guys have I know you've put surveillance cameras up
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  Speaker 10: so you can actually get a general area of what's
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  Speaker 10: going on. All right, Yes, sir, Okay, where has it
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  Speaker 10: been within the last last week, because what we've done
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  Speaker 10: is we've put somebody on them and watched them very closely,
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  Speaker 10: and we're wanting to know from you because I understand
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  Speaker 10: that you are the person over the crime watch.
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  Speaker 2: What's going on with your two sons?
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  Speaker 5: Well?
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  Speaker 12: Certain, for one thing, I don't allow drugs selling for
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  Speaker 12: my house period.
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  Speaker 5: I don't.
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  Speaker 12: I don't even allow that because I am the head
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  Speaker 12: of the car watch. I don't even allow people to
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  Speaker 12: even come back here to buy drugs. Okay, Okay, Now
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  Speaker 12: I know some kids that's mad at my kids. They
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  Speaker 12: were calling the cops to my house come into my
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  Speaker 12: house and throwing rocks and everything. But I can assure you, sir,
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  Speaker 12: that's one thing I do not play. I do not
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  Speaker 12: allow people to even come back to my house.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 10: Now, are there surveillance cameras, ma'am that are pointing in
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  Speaker 10: any area like in your back that.
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  Speaker 12: You haven't really activated it?
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  Speaker 1: No more?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, where exactly were your cameras pointing? What angle? Were
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  Speaker 2: they towards the road towards you road?
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  Speaker 11: Right?
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  Speaker 2: Is there anything in the backyard area of where you are?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 12: Okay, that's the only one we had.
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  Speaker 10: All right, here's what's going on. We're actually and I'm
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  Speaker 10: gonna just be completely honest with you.
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  Speaker 2: Miss.
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  Speaker 10: There's a possibility of a raid coming in there, because
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  Speaker 10: we truly believe that you are having some type of
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  Speaker 10: countband in that house right there.
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  Speaker 11: Could you just hold on for me to say, sir,
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  Speaker 11: hell see if you can.
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  Speaker 2: Get that tech in here for yes? Okay, yes, have
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  Speaker 2: you spoken with sir?
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  Speaker 12: Let me tell you one thing. Okay, I will bust say.
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  Speaker 12: I don't even if I come back to my house
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  Speaker 12: at all. I don't play that. I'm the head of
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  Speaker 12: cry and watch. I think all they need to go
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  Speaker 12: get a job and and and stop messing up there.
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  Speaker 12: Damn like that's that's that's what's wrong with them.
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  Speaker 11: Okay.
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  Speaker 12: And I don't play that, and and I don't appreciate that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, are the two boys is there right now?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah? They're here?
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  Speaker 2: Can I speak with those guys one by one? Please?
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  Speaker 2: Do you mind if I do that?
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  Speaker 1: Miss?
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  Speaker 12: They don't want to come to the farm.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody wants to talk to the office of the law.
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  Speaker 2: Huh uh. What do you think, miss?
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  Speaker 10: I'm gonna try to handle us as diligently as possible.
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  Speaker 10: Do you think I should come out and speak with
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  Speaker 10: your boys there?
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  Speaker 1: At.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to avoid a raid happen.
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  Speaker 12: I'm avoiding my damnself.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm trying to avoid a raid coming to your home. Man,
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to do.
• 18:28
  Speaker 10: I want to call and talk to you sensible and
• 18:30
  Speaker 10: see if I can get some things rectified here, because
• 18:32
  Speaker 10: right now it seems like it shouldn't that your cameras
• 18:36
  Speaker 10: should be actually pointing at your back door or your
• 18:38
  Speaker 10: backyard so I can see what's going on there.
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: That's what seems to be happening here.
• 18:42
  Speaker 12: Okay, Well do what you gotta do, you know.
• 18:47
  Speaker 10: Okay, uh, Well, before you do all of that, can
• 18:50
  Speaker 10: we pretty much like make sure that we know what
• 18:52
  Speaker 10: we're talking about.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Do you think that they have contraband in the household?
• 18:55
  Speaker 12: No, I don't allow that in my household. Okay, I'm
• 18:58
  Speaker 12: a Christian woman.
• 18:58
  Speaker 5: I don't allow that at my household.
• 19:00
  Speaker 10: Have you beat these children before on this particular issue?
• 19:02
  Speaker 10: Have you had problems with them in to pass on this?
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: No?
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: All right, I don't.
• 19:07
  Speaker 10: I'm just trying to square it up as quick as possible.
• 19:09
  Speaker 10: I don't want you going through being stressed out about
• 19:12
  Speaker 10: this particular issue. But I know that from my understanding,
• 19:14
  Speaker 10: you're supposed to be a law abiding person, and you're trying.
• 19:16
  Speaker 12: To be lawyer abiding. Very right, Mary, y'all care very
• 19:19
  Speaker 12: much about my community, and that's why I do not
• 19:21
  Speaker 12: allow these things in my community. And if they're doing it,
• 19:24
  Speaker 12: trust me, I'm going to be on as soon as
• 19:26
  Speaker 12: I hang on this phone.
• 19:27
  Speaker 10: Well, I don't want you to hang up your cheat,
• 19:29
  Speaker 10: because I got a couple more things I want to
• 19:30
  Speaker 10: talk to you about.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: Because if you need me to come over there and
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: butt some.
• 19:33
  Speaker 12: With y'all done, come and bust some I need that.
• 19:35
  Speaker 12: Come bust and I'm gonna.
• 19:37
  Speaker 11: Help you, but some too.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Okay, I got one more thing I need to say
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: to you. Are you listening.
• 19:41
  Speaker 10: Yes, this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobbin Morning Show.
• 19:45
  Speaker 10: You just got you got, Frank Biddy.
• 19:50
  Speaker 12: Oh my goodness, I'm gonna kick the behind.
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: Don't do that, because I take that very serious.
• 19:58
  Speaker 10: They told me, they told me you are bou cleaning
• 20:00
  Speaker 10: up the community, and they better not be nowhere around there.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Selling no dope.
• 20:04
  Speaker 12: And I mean only got to do is look at
• 20:06
  Speaker 12: me and I stear it them and they automatically leave.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: And that's that's a good thing.
• 20:09
  Speaker 12: Oh my goodness, I'm gonna get you back.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: No, you can't get me. Now you can get you
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: can get them.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: Oh gosh, oh my goodness.
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: And here I'm like nervous. I'm like, oh my goodness,
• 20:24
  Speaker 5: Oh boy, you look at you.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I ain't want you to get off the phone because
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: you're finna go beat them boys.
• 20:28
  Speaker 12: That's right, because I do not.
• 20:32
  Speaker 11: Run up in my house.
• 20:33
  Speaker 10: Did we need more people like you in the community.
• 20:36
  Speaker 10: That's making sure that we ain't dirting up the neighborhood.
• 20:39
  Speaker 10: We need you, baby, But darling, you keep doing what
• 20:41
  Speaker 10: you're doing. I got one more thing to ask you, though,
• 20:44
  Speaker 10: What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio
• 20:47
  Speaker 10: show anymore? Andybody, everybody with a smart house, raise your
• 20:53
  Speaker 10: hands out here slanging this drugs and stuff, and we're
• 21:01
  Speaker 10: gonna put a stop to it.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: That's right.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: She's saving the community.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: That's what you do.
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: That's what we need more people like her, Yes, sir, Yes, sirs.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: She called you a cycle your favorite part.
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: Well, that's that's a compliment to me. What are you
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: talking about to you?
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: Yes, I that I EMBRACINGPW Thank you.
• 21:27
  Speaker 13: At the Salvation Army love gives beyond situation and season.
• 21:32
  Speaker 13: While lights are sparkling and temperatures are dropping, You can
• 21:36
  Speaker 13: be the difference for a family in need right in
• 21:39
  Speaker 13: your local community. Your donation puts presents under the tree
• 21:43
  Speaker 13: today and food on the table all year long, warm
• 21:47
  Speaker 13: hearts and homes beyond the Christmas season. By donating twenty
• 21:51
  Speaker 13: five dollars a month at Salvation Army USA dot org,
• 21:56
  Speaker 13: help a neighbor in need through the holidays and beyond.
• 22:00
  Speaker 9: Right now, it is time to ask the CLO Chief
• 22:04
  Speaker 9: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building all right, here
• 22:07
  Speaker 9: we go. Anthony inmobile says, I dropped my car off
• 22:12
  Speaker 9: to get a new tire, and a coworker dropped me
• 22:15
  Speaker 9: off at home. My wife didn't know I was at home,
• 22:17
  Speaker 9: and she came in on her speaker phone and I
• 22:20
  Speaker 9: heard a man say he tried to call her. Later,
• 22:23
  Speaker 9: she saw me and dropped her phone. I've been avoiding
• 22:27
  Speaker 9: her and she wants to explain.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: What do I do?
• 22:32
  Speaker 8: Let her explain? Yeah, yeah, you've been avoiding her and
• 22:37
  Speaker 8: she wants to explain. Let her explain. Now you are
• 22:42
  Speaker 8: about to find out that women and how better they
• 22:49
  Speaker 8: are at it.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, let her explain. That's all all right, just let
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: her explain. Do I wonder what she canna say? Well?
• 23:02
  Speaker 11: What do you?
• 23:04
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Well yeah, hello on yeah, hold hold on, what would
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: you say? What would y'all say?
• 23:10
  Speaker 11: My baby?
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: It was just a friend.
• 23:11
  Speaker 9: Yeah, we're going to give you. I didn't want to
• 23:14
  Speaker 9: tell you this, but you know we're planning a surprise
• 23:17
  Speaker 9: party for you.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: And no, no, no, wait a minute, wait a minute,
• 23:19
  Speaker 2: wait a minute. Oh so we could have friends?
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Now, well, I mean just somebody I'm cold.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so we called okay, so we call the
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: people we cool with now okay.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Thank Yeah, somebody I'm with associated.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, cool, ain't no problem, hey, Shirly, next question?
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: All right? Kennedy and Gary You mad? Kennedy and Gary Wright.
• 23:42
  Speaker 9: After eight years of marriage, my husband tries to blackmail
• 23:45
  Speaker 9: me into doing things. If I say no to sex,
• 23:49
  Speaker 9: he reminds me that he gave me a new car
• 23:50
  Speaker 9: for my birthday, or that he's taking me to Vegas
• 23:54
  Speaker 9: for Christmas. I told him to take the car back,
• 23:57
  Speaker 9: and he hid the keys from me. He is, so patty,
• 24:00
  Speaker 9: Did I handle this the wrong way?
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean he took the keys back y'all married.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't really know what's going on in
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: your house. I don't really understate.
• 24:19
  Speaker 8: You're not gonna have a sip with me. You're not
• 24:21
  Speaker 8: driving your car, okay? Yeah, which one you think gonna
• 24:26
  Speaker 8: hurt the most though?
• 24:28
  Speaker 14: Right?
• 24:30
  Speaker 11: Her?
• 24:30
  Speaker 13: Not driving her?
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Well you're not having sex. Okay, now you got that.
• 24:36
  Speaker 8: Yeah, you got that extra car key and you still
• 24:39
  Speaker 8: ain't having sex, You stupid dude.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: She said, he's so petty, really is h So what
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: should she do to get a car back? Car keys?
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Well, you know what's happening.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: Go in there, honey, I'm home.
• 24:58
  Speaker 8: You know, you know ain't like y'all ain't did it before,
• 25:01
  Speaker 8: So you know, trying to get your car keys back? Well, yeah,
• 25:09
  Speaker 8: come on in here.
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: You gotta do what you gotta do.
• 25:11
  Speaker 8: Seek Yeah, I gotta get this car. Then you wake
• 25:19
  Speaker 8: up next morning. This this blankety blank took the washing machine.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: She just got the dryer.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: I got to get in here, get this damn washing
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: machine back.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: My goodness, you.
• 25:35
  Speaker 8: Wake up till next morning, heat damn this food, and
• 25:40
  Speaker 8: put a lock on the refrigerator.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Go back in here.
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to make her say, well, come on boys,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I make this sandwich.
• 25:47
  Speaker 11: Come on, all right.
• 25:51
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Delane and Toledo. Delane says, my brother
• 25:55
  Speaker 9: and I live together and he's dating a wild woman.
• 25:57
  Speaker 9: I walked into the kitchen and she was on the
• 25:59
  Speaker 9: other side of the island on her knees. I've asked
• 26:03
  Speaker 9: him to be respectful or move out. He said, I
• 26:05
  Speaker 9: should move Which one of us should leave?
• 26:10
  Speaker 5: Well?
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: Damn doun Now who on their knees?
• 26:14
  Speaker 8: Though? Oh, it's kind of crazy. You don't want to
• 26:17
  Speaker 8: walk in on it. You know your brother here, you
• 26:20
  Speaker 8: don't want to walk in? Who should want of y'all
• 26:23
  Speaker 8: got the dog?
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: I'll leave, Yeah, I leave that man.
• 26:28
  Speaker 8: Don I'm gonna let you have this here, Gonna get
• 26:30
  Speaker 8: you another spot. Yeah, you probably need a better place.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Anyway from the island dog the kitchen. Yeah, come on, Oh.
• 26:42
  Speaker 8: It happened to before y'all getting in the kitchen. Don't
• 26:48
  Speaker 8: act like you ain't turn the washing machine on.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Turn on this one.
• 26:56
  Speaker 8: It's too much high water. Cut the water down some
• 27:01
  Speaker 8: Wait a minute, the fool be on here. Wait, the
• 27:03
  Speaker 8: fool be on here?
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: All right? Moving on to Hazel and Charlotte. Not on
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: the cutting board?
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Stop?
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, No, I'm not gonna hold on to
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: the high chair. This where the baby eat.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: That's where you drawed a lot.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Now, I'm not holding on to this high chair now, all.
• 27:27
  Speaker 9: Right, Hazel and Charlotte says, I work from home and
• 27:29
  Speaker 9: during a zoom call, my husband was trying to be
• 27:32
  Speaker 9: funny and he yelled out for me to come back
• 27:34
  Speaker 9: to bed. My boss excused me from the call and
• 27:37
  Speaker 9: then send an email saying it's a privilege to work
• 27:39
  Speaker 9: from home and I'm ruining my privileges. How do I
• 27:43
  Speaker 9: stop a forty nine year old man from acting so silly?
• 27:47
  Speaker 10: Oh?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: You need his ass well for that? Now they be
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: He'll no, you're messing with her money? Yeah, I mean, bro,
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: who don't understand that?
• 27:57
  Speaker 8: Yeah, she gotta be professional because if she lose her
• 28:01
  Speaker 8: job and she back home in the bed, you ain't
• 28:04
  Speaker 8: gonna like that.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you that, right, So, I don't really know.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: You just got to talk to your husband.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: You know he can't.
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: This is not the place to play.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: I've at work, no boundaries with that, and is he.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: Not at work?
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Everybody in a minute?
• 28:22
  Speaker 8: Right, Wow, you keep on your next line, you're gonna
• 28:30
  Speaker 8: hit You're still in the jail.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's why I want to know. How did
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: he say it? Steve?
• 28:37
  Speaker 14: While she's on the zoom call, I don't be back
• 28:42
  Speaker 14: in this bed, girl, Now you played too much.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah. The privilege to work at home, work from home,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: it is yeah, we.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: Enjoy it when I draw right now. This is a
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: beautiful thing, all of us.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Why would why would you wear something to go to
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: the room next though?
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Why would you do that?
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: What is that for? I have respect? All we got
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: on the shirts. All of us got shirts. I get
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: to the.
• 29:16
  Speaker 8: Bathroom three times doing the show, so I need should
• 29:19
  Speaker 8: have some moah.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, thank you.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: I stand up here, I stand up in front of this.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: Came the whole camera, black.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Eye anyway, all right, thank you c l O. Except
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: for that last what's that?
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: Steve Harbin Marley show Man?
• 29:39
  Speaker 9: Would you rather wear flip flops all winter? Or would
• 29:43
  Speaker 9: you rather wear a turtleneck all summer?
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: Give me flops?
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Wait?
• 29:47
  Speaker 8: Wait, wait, wait wait, it's just coming from the one
• 29:50
  Speaker 8: person on the show that cannot get cold.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: Yes it is.
• 29:55
  Speaker 8: Out yo, look waiting hold of you mean your little
• 29:58
  Speaker 8: sick and sale lass? Ain't thank that's when I no
• 30:00
  Speaker 8: better than that? You think that your little sick ass
• 30:03
  Speaker 8: needs somewhere and get cold. If you don't put this
• 30:06
  Speaker 8: damn turtle neck on and shut your ass in that car,
• 30:09
  Speaker 8: that be still and move to Phoenix.
• 30:15
  Speaker 11: Right after you.
• 30:17
  Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, say it is time
• 30:23
  Speaker 9: for games.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: You can't play.
• 30:25
  Speaker 9: You can't play over the holidays, Shaye, please explain.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: All right, here we go.
• 30:30
  Speaker 6: The holidays are coming around, and you know gonna have
• 30:32
  Speaker 6: folks over to the house. So what I'm gonna do
• 30:33
  Speaker 6: is set up the game, tell a little bit about it.
• 30:36
  Speaker 6: Steve Junior gonna jump in and make and explain how
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: the games get worse. Start off good, sound like a
• 30:42
  Speaker 6: good idea, but then as the game progresses, problems arrive. Liten,
• 30:49
  Speaker 6: simple game of spade. We're gonna play some spade. We're
• 30:51
  Speaker 6: gonna set up the table. We're gonna play some spade. Okay,
• 30:55
  Speaker 6: then and then everything happened. Somebody started cheating. You know,
• 30:59
  Speaker 6: you got that problem.
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: The first time. Somebody need you swear it with a
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: dead body in the room.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 31:11
  Speaker 6: So you can't play that. You know, people don't know
• 31:13
  Speaker 6: how to lose and and just take it, you know,
• 31:16
  Speaker 6: they take it personal.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
• 31:18
  Speaker 6: They take it all right, So you're gonna go outside,
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: play some touch football, you know, getting family, everybody. Just
• 31:24
  Speaker 6: play some touch football. You got a grown ass man
• 31:27
  Speaker 6: think it's cool to run over a third grader?
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: Just run over your ass. Just punish it. Damn man,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: we're playing football. You ain't been putting them on me,
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: you know how I you put him to check me.
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: So what I'm gonna do?
• 31:54
  Speaker 13: Do?
• 31:56
  Speaker 8: Remember what you out here for? You line, you should
• 32:06
  Speaker 8: have been like, hey, look, hey, this is all I
• 32:08
  Speaker 8: got to shake. You know, if you can't, you can't
• 32:12
  Speaker 8: the handling heat, Get out this kick.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I don't care if your aide, I don't care if
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: your age. Let him cry. Let him cry. He got
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: to learn learn.
• 32:25
  Speaker 6: That's a man's game. Here's another game you can't play.
• 32:31
  Speaker 6: You want to play dominoes. But you got that dude
• 32:33
  Speaker 6: that been you've been you've been away for a while,
• 32:36
  Speaker 6: and he take this game a little bit too seriously.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean, he been in, he's been away.
• 32:42
  Speaker 6: You know, he's been in the system.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: He even locked off so way away. Dominoes is a
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: different game, man.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you should have been here.
• 32:54
  Speaker 11: Man.
• 32:54
  Speaker 8: Now you want to play old old Wait man, hold up,
• 32:56
  Speaker 8: don't hold don't I just sent you to the.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: Yard on new trail.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: Hold nom, you just went to the yard on new track.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: You ain't had no trade min of the gold. What
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: you're talking about?
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: What I'm talking about, I'm talking about your asses? Oh
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: you're trying to Oh you remember gets shape? You pardner?
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: You're out now, you're out now, all no, no.
• 33:25
  Speaker 8: Okay, okay, I'm gonna need two packs of cigarettes for that.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I had the holiday party. It's all I'm saying.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: And I'm gonna need the two packs the next time
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: I've seen.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: You playing down, never get an under shaped. We can't play.
• 33:43
  Speaker 6: We gotta play another all right, Now we're gonna we're
• 33:45
  Speaker 6: gonna go back outside. Try to play just a simple game,
• 33:48
  Speaker 6: family game on your dodgeball. It's the same guy. Well
• 33:52
  Speaker 6: think it's a lot of fun. He hit a third.
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: Grader man in my own ball.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: He ain't got a lot of.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: What are you out here playing fall cat games?
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: It's wild god ball ain't standing there and get hit him?
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: Why you gotta hit him so hard?
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: What he do?
• 34:21
  Speaker 8: Now they're gonna cock back with that little week ass
• 34:26
  Speaker 8: throw like I ain't see that.
• 34:28
  Speaker 6: I get him in the faith in the face.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: That's what he needs to pay attention.
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: Means always go back in the hospital, decide to play chess.
• 34:39
  Speaker 6: But here's what happens. The man who thinks you know
• 34:42
  Speaker 6: everything about chests get his ass dusted by that eighth grader.
• 34:46
  Speaker 6: Now he really upset the little boy to throw his
• 34:50
  Speaker 6: ass up in chests.
• 34:52
  Speaker 11: He can't take it.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: That's where all the pieces gonna be on the floor.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: He picked them up for a hold up?
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Holder, do you can't say, check mate, we just got started.
• 35:08
  Speaker 11: How you gonna how you going to the dog? Dog? Dog?
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: No?
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: We even then before five six moves?
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: What is you talking about?
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: Check mate?
• 35:15
  Speaker 11: Dog?
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: No, that ain't my chest, goes the thinking man.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Game right, ain't you ain't even had time to think, David.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: He was the game man.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: He ain't want a damn game.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: He just said, check mate.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you beat.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Show me.
• 35:33
  Speaker 11: He showed you.
• 35:33
  Speaker 3: He showed you that.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: Ain't you can't do that? See you gotta do look,
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: man in chest, you have to make a minimum of twenty.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Moves each like you didn't have to do that for you.
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: Dog.
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: That's how it's done.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: Dog, Are you getting no? You ain't even gonna say
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: check unless it's been twenty moves.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: May try something else.
• 35:58
  Speaker 11: I don't know.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Man, see y'all need his chest with white folks.
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: Race, everything is racial with you. Play that last game?
• 36:09
  Speaker 6: Last game.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: We can't play checkers.
• 36:12
  Speaker 6: It's the same guy with the dodgeball really enjoys beating
• 36:16
  Speaker 6: a third Ready he gets such, what is your fork?
• 36:33
  Speaker 11: White?
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: Your ass out?
• 36:35
  Speaker 8: No no no no man, no no no man. You
• 36:38
  Speaker 8: can't jump back because you got the red pizza. Red
• 36:42
  Speaker 8: red piz can't jump.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: Bad a child?
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: Man? Allay the end of this game. Okay, let's move on.
• 36:51
  Speaker 8: Hey, good morning. This is your man, Steve Harvey. For
• 36:53
  Speaker 8: what Christmas means to me is a celebration of life,
• 36:57
  Speaker 8: the birth, the life, the gift of giving.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: From my family, yours and the crew from the Steve Robin.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: Mornasham Happy Holidays.
• 37:07
  Speaker 8: Nothing feels as good as driving a new Hondai And
• 37:10
  Speaker 8: now you can get a great deal on your favorite
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• 37:34
  Speaker 10: January second. Call five six two three one four four
• 37:37
  Speaker 10: six zero three for details.
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: It is time now for a round of would you rather?
• 37:43
  Speaker 9: Would you rather do two life two laps in a
• 37:45
  Speaker 9: race car at three hundred miles per hour?
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: Or would you rather zip line over the ocean?
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: The ocean?
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the oceans? Where does that end at?
• 37:55
  Speaker 5: No?
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: For damn, oh it don't.
• 37:58
  Speaker 8: It don't really matter to me because I'm a be
• 38:00
  Speaker 8: passed out in either situation. I'm not even gonna be
• 38:03
  Speaker 8: conscious because my ass will black out either way.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: Junior race car or.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: He did?
• 38:11
  Speaker 11: He did?
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: It's just two laps, race car, two lapts.
• 38:17
  Speaker 5: But this.
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Hold three.
• 38:22
  Speaker 8: That's a lot, though, but still three. I was just
• 38:26
  Speaker 8: at Formula one. I watched this one eighty No.
• 38:29
  Speaker 10: No, but when we get through these two left, your
• 38:34
  Speaker 10: ass is still over the Pacific.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: I'm not zip lining?
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: What is options?
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: See?
• 38:47
  Speaker 9: It's just too all right? Would you rather your wife
• 38:50
  Speaker 9: talk less? Would you rather if your wife talked less
• 38:54
  Speaker 9: or if she spent less?
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Which one? I'm not doing this to say, y'all not
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: messing up. We're going right on in the Christmas nice
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: been less to talk, yes, Steve, Yes.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Be brave mine talk less. I pay for that. I
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: pay for silence. What about it, I'm gonna get another bag,
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: go ahead, I'm not.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: I just got mad. I can't say nothing on this.
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: I can't do that anyway.
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, depend on what the week it is.
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 39:33
  Speaker 8: Hey, y'all, they're not gonna stop, they're not gonna start,
• 39:38
  Speaker 8: all right, so we'll get some quiet at your house.
• 39:43
  Speaker 9: Would you rather eat whatever you want without gaining weight
• 39:48
  Speaker 9: or would you rather say whatever you want without any consequences?
• 39:52
  Speaker 8: Be okay, I won't say it. Please, I'll be back
• 39:57
  Speaker 8: on stage next Friday. Please no consequence, by boy, Let
• 40:03
  Speaker 8: me tell you something, please, Please don't worry about the
• 40:06
  Speaker 8: eat me well, I take my fat ass right on
• 40:08
  Speaker 8: back out there.
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: You food, I don't give it.
• 40:15
  Speaker 10: Damn.
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I don't wait or anything.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: Steve, I don't care about that.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: I don't cay.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: I keep cold plunge that I work with that. Just
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: let me go out here, fry.
• 40:23
  Speaker 8: And say everything and ain't I'm telling you right now,
• 40:28
  Speaker 8: all these groups need to tune in.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Everybody that's in the group, every nationality need to tune in.
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: If you're over wait, tune in, if your shot, tune in,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: Come on, tune in.
• 40:43
  Speaker 11: Tune in.
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: You got you driving with a sticker hanging on your
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: rear view mirror. Tune in. I'm gonna have it for everybody.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Tune in.
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna start with me, so everybody get comfortable with it.
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: You're listening.
• 40:59
  Speaker 9: Morning, all right, Steve. This is from TC from North Carolina.
• 41:05
  Speaker 9: TC says, I am an events planner. I have collected
• 41:08
  Speaker 9: a lot of free gifts from trade shows that I've
• 41:11
  Speaker 9: attended and from swag bags at events. This stuff is
• 41:15
  Speaker 9: sitting in my garage and it's great stuff. But I
• 41:18
  Speaker 9: don't need it. It's too good to throw away or
• 41:21
  Speaker 9: donate to goodwill, So I want to regive them to
• 41:24
  Speaker 9: my family, friends and coworkers.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: What's the rule? If I do? Do I tell them
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: it's something I got and they'll need or don't say anything?
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: They all know spin my heart?
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: Money? Thought about you? What mine? That's what you say
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: when you give it to them, that yeah.
• 41:41
  Speaker 8: You earned everything that's in that garage. Thenbo I gave
• 41:43
  Speaker 8: you nothing. Hell no, I ain't telling nobody damn things.
• 41:47
  Speaker 8: Look what I got?
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: Oh, this is nice I know what it is. Thank you, Steve.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: You're welcome.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: So you're not saying anything for what? Yeah, especially if
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: the stuff is nice, why not.
• 42:08
  Speaker 11: Have you you?
• 42:09
  Speaker 8: Yeah?
• 42:10
  Speaker 10: Yeah, you can regive gift cards, right, like somebody give
• 42:13
  Speaker 10: you a gift card.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: You can just keep the past that. There ain't nothing
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: wrong with that is Oh yeah, that looked real good
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: going up there with the little timmy on the back
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: of your car.
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: But if you don't you already wrote the names. Yeah,
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: it to and from. Yeah, I don't know nobody giving away,
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: no damn gift card.
• 42:32
  Speaker 11: What do you mean.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: I ain't. I ain't never seen nobody regift money.
• 42:38
  Speaker 13: Oh oh, that's not a bad gift because you could
• 42:41
  Speaker 13: use it, right, the gift card.
• 42:43
  Speaker 8: Yeah, people give me stuff all the time. I ain't
• 42:46
  Speaker 8: carry this stuff, don't wear here.
• 42:49
  Speaker 11: You can have it.
• 42:51
  Speaker 14: Have you done it?
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah?
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:53
  Speaker 10: You know, people come by to a party or something,
• 42:55
  Speaker 10: they bring old, nasty, raggedy bottle of wine. You just okay,
• 42:59
  Speaker 10: we're gonna get We're gonna take that to the next
• 43:00
  Speaker 10: house we can go to.
• 43:02
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep this moving.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: What about your junior?
• 43:07
  Speaker 13: Wait a minute, back up, I've been to this house
• 43:09
  Speaker 13: several times and yeah, well yeah, well you know somebody
• 43:17
  Speaker 13: else got it.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know there's a possibility. You don't want
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: to just se dollars for it.
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: You damn right, the last bottle of wine. I get
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: the miles this thank you for him. So what about
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: your junior? Have you regifted?
• 43:36
  Speaker 5: No?
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't even go back gifts.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: When I come to your party, I just said I
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: am the gift.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Hell, I'm here.
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: That's to a.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Party empty handed. You're supposed to bring the host stuff.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: They didn't put that on the invitation. They said come
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: at five thirty.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: I'm here. They told me.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: They should have said bring gifts.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: Please say that.
• 44:00
  Speaker 8: I know good in here. I ain't bringing nothing to
• 44:01
  Speaker 8: your house. If I come to you part all these
• 44:03
  Speaker 8: pictures I'm gonna have to take.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: Like you are the gift.
• 44:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: Man, it's like it's a whole nother thing for me.
• 44:15
  Speaker 13: Yeah, what are you going to have another Christmas party
• 44:19
  Speaker 13: for us? For your staff? At least we come on.
• 44:23
  Speaker 10: We ain't done that since New York. And when we
• 44:25
  Speaker 10: did that, he put our ass out about two hours
• 44:28
  Speaker 10: in the middle.
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: Well, you know, we could do a.
• 44:32
  Speaker 8: Zoom party, but we you know COVID, so we can
• 44:35
  Speaker 8: ye do a zone wh y'all want to do it?
• 44:38
  Speaker 8: Because we can't. We can't handle it.
• 44:40
  Speaker 13: We have it in person Christmas party cause of COVID,
• 44:47
  Speaker 13: That's what he's saying.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Gives this year? Do we get gifts?
• 44:51
  Speaker 10: Yeah? What you get us?
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: What you get us for Christmas?
• 44:53
  Speaker 11: This year?
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: Christmas bonuses?
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: Anything? Really really asking that question?
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 44:59
  Speaker 11: Bonuses?
• 45:00
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: You mad because you didn't ask it first, because normally yes.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I'm not not bad.
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's cool to ask.
• 45:07
  Speaker 13: Why are you looking at your phone when we're asking
• 45:09
  Speaker 13: you about our Christmas bonuses?
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: I might as well?
• 45:14
  Speaker 11: Why?
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: That's all right?
• 45:15
  Speaker 8: You know you ain't getting none? You know, COVID, COVID, COVID. Yeah,
• 45:21
  Speaker 8: this year radio was struggle this year.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: Year.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Hey, good morning.
• 45:28
  Speaker 9: This is your girl, Shirley Strawberry. And my favorite Christmas
• 45:31
  Speaker 9: memory is every single one of my childhood Christmases. My
• 45:35
  Speaker 9: mom gave us the best Christmases ever. Our entire living
• 45:40
  Speaker 9: room was filled with all kinds of presents like dolls, bikes, Yeah,
• 45:45
  Speaker 9: easy bake ovens.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Had to have one of those.
• 45:48
  Speaker 9: But anyway, have a wonderful holiday season From Shirley Strawberry
• 45:53
  Speaker 9: and the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the
• 45:56
  Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 45:59
  Speaker 11: Come.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: I got that about a minute to after the hour.
• 46:01
  Speaker 9: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is Junior,
• 46:05
  Speaker 9: take my money, my house, and my car.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: Come on, what this is right there?
• 46:12
  Speaker 9: We'll get into that in just a minute, but right
• 46:13
  Speaker 9: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nest Are your lights on?
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: Are your lights on? Okay, let's go catch down.
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: Hello, Hello, is I'm trying to reach us?
• 46:32
  Speaker 15: Who's calling this?
• 46:34
  Speaker 5: This can call me Peper? I love. I think I
• 46:37
  Speaker 5: actually live in an apartment behind you. I think my
• 46:40
  Speaker 5: my apartments are up against each other. You are you
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: in unit? I want to know, actually, I want to know.
• 46:48
  Speaker 5: I'm calling YOU'A got a little bit of a problem.
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: I actually live in uh which is the apartment that
• 46:54
  Speaker 5: that's our apartments are back to back with each other.
• 46:58
  Speaker 5: And I'm I don't mean no harm man, but you
• 47:01
  Speaker 5: are right. Yes, Okay, here's what's going on. It took
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: me a long time try to figure this out. But
• 47:08
  Speaker 5: when you come home in the evening and you turn
• 47:12
  Speaker 5: your life through my my oven and stove come on,
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: and I'm talking about every out on my stove is
• 47:21
  Speaker 5: on and burning hot.
• 47:23
  Speaker 15: How do you know that's because when I turn.
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: My life on, I just I mean, I didn't figured
• 47:28
  Speaker 5: it out. It just seemed like every time, I mean,
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: I hear you when you close your door, and every evening,
• 47:34
  Speaker 5: I'm like, why is my oven in my stove coming on?
• 47:37
  Speaker 5: And I'm talking about my whole kitchen just hunting degrees
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: in there behind the stove being on like that?
• 47:43
  Speaker 15: Okay, did you call maintenance?
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: From my understanding, I'm on the list and they're not
• 47:47
  Speaker 5: gonna get to me for a couple of days now,
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: so I'm not I'm asking you, miss, you don't mind
• 47:53
  Speaker 5: to not have your life's on until they come get
• 47:56
  Speaker 5: this pace.
• 47:57
  Speaker 15: Okay, So you asking me not to turn on my
• 48:00
  Speaker 15: lights for three or four days and you know, to
• 48:03
  Speaker 15: sit in the dark.
• 48:04
  Speaker 5: Well, I'm just saying it's only gonna be for a
• 48:06
  Speaker 5: couple of days. I know it's a little bit of
• 48:07
  Speaker 5: an inconvenience, but I mean, I can't be over here
• 48:10
  Speaker 5: in the house. You know they're about to burn down.
• 48:12
  Speaker 15: Are you listening to what you're saying? You're asking me
• 48:15
  Speaker 15: to sit in the dark. You know, I got a baby.
• 48:16
  Speaker 5: I can't sit in the dark, Okay. I mean, do
• 48:19
  Speaker 5: y'all have any camels or something y'all can work with
• 48:21
  Speaker 5: or something like that.
• 48:22
  Speaker 15: I have to give my baby food milk. I mean, really,
• 48:26
  Speaker 15: you want me to sit in the dark, and you
• 48:28
  Speaker 15: don't want me to turn anything on. You know, I
• 48:30
  Speaker 15: got to feed my baby.
• 48:31
  Speaker 5: I understand, and and and much respect to you and
• 48:35
  Speaker 5: your child, much respect. But what I'm trying to explain
• 48:38
  Speaker 5: to you is, I mean, we have to look at
• 48:40
  Speaker 5: the big hazard here. The bigger hazard here is is
• 48:42
  Speaker 5: that I'm over here with fire on.
• 48:45
  Speaker 15: Okay, First of all, where are you getting this wee from?
• 48:47
  Speaker 15: How am I involved in your situation? I have nothing that's.
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: Going on in your house.
• 48:52
  Speaker 5: Your life is patched in some kind of way to
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: my ovens and stole.
• 48:56
  Speaker 15: Okay, but I still I don't have anything to do
• 48:58
  Speaker 15: with that. You know, you need to call management whatever.
• 49:03
  Speaker 15: But I don't have anything any of that. And I
• 49:05
  Speaker 15: want to know, how do you know when I get
• 49:08
  Speaker 15: home and turn on my lights? I mean, like, are
• 49:10
  Speaker 15: you looking at my window or something? Are you a
• 49:11
  Speaker 15: peeping tong? Do I need to call nine one one.
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: You don't need to call nobody on me. Now, what
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: we need to get somebody over here and fix this
• 49:18
  Speaker 5: other than the stove. That's what we got to get done.
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: But until then, right now, you can't turn them lights off.
• 49:25
  Speaker 15: Oh, I'm turning on my life list. I mean, I
• 49:28
  Speaker 15: know you ain't trying to regulate what I do in
• 49:30
  Speaker 15: my house.
• 49:30
  Speaker 5: I'm fin listening. I'm gonna tell you, just like this here,
• 49:33
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna need you to keep them lights off until
• 49:35
  Speaker 5: me this get over here in two days.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: Now.
• 49:38
  Speaker 5: If I see this stove come on and all these
• 49:42
  Speaker 5: eyes on this stove come on, then I'm finna come
• 49:46
  Speaker 5: back over there and we're gonna have directifire prowlem. But
• 49:48
  Speaker 5: I cannot have this coming on.
• 49:50
  Speaker 15: So you're threatening me now, I'm not.
• 49:52
  Speaker 5: No, I'm not, no, I am not. I'm telling you
• 49:55
  Speaker 5: not to turn the lights off. That's what I'm asking
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: you to do.
• 49:58
  Speaker 15: Well, I can't sit in the dark and I'm gonna
• 50:00
  Speaker 15: turn on my lights. So you know you're gonna have
• 50:02
  Speaker 15: to deal with it.
• 50:03
  Speaker 5: No, I'm not gonna deal with it. You're gonna have
• 50:05
  Speaker 5: to actually turn the lights off. Now I understand. Do
• 50:08
  Speaker 5: you have somewhere you can go stay me.
• 50:11
  Speaker 15: Do you have somewhere you can go stay? I'm not
• 50:13
  Speaker 15: leaving my house. I don't have a problem. You and
• 50:15
  Speaker 15: the one with the problem.
• 50:17
  Speaker 5: I'm not lean here and then you turn it on,
• 50:19
  Speaker 5: and then you over.
• 50:20
  Speaker 15: Here and knock on my door. You think you see
• 50:22
  Speaker 15: fire in your stove. You're gonna see some fire. I
• 50:24
  Speaker 15: can show you some fire.
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: Okay, listen, I'm trying to work it you as calmly
• 50:28
  Speaker 5: as I can.
• 50:28
  Speaker 15: Okay, they're trying to work with me calmly.
• 50:30
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 50:30
  Speaker 15: The only thing you're doing right now is you're trying
• 50:32
  Speaker 15: to tell me what to do and run my household.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 50:35
  Speaker 5: If you're not gonna work with me, then that's what
• 50:37
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna do. But I already found out where the
• 50:39
  Speaker 5: break is. I just go and just turn all the
• 50:42
  Speaker 5: power off so you don't have your power wall on
• 50:44
  Speaker 5: it off?
• 50:44
  Speaker 15: Wait a minute, what, No, you can't turn my breakrop?
• 50:48
  Speaker 6: Are you crazy?
• 50:49
  Speaker 11: I got to do what I got to do.
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: I can't start no file out here.
• 50:52
  Speaker 15: You get my phone number anyway? I mean, how you
• 50:54
  Speaker 15: know my name? My number? Artist? You know what I'm
• 50:58
  Speaker 15: about to come home? And he gonna put the it
• 51:00
  Speaker 15: up here. I don't care if he put your in
• 51:02
  Speaker 15: the of and we set your on fire. What you
• 51:06
  Speaker 15: talking about? You gonna damn turn the break off.
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to kill me and prevent a farm for
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: the whole complex, and you up in there trying to
• 51:14
  Speaker 5: commit U This is like aunser for you to.
• 51:17
  Speaker 8: Turn that on.
• 51:18
  Speaker 15: I don't give you want. You already got a problem,
• 51:20
  Speaker 15: so I'm just gonna add fuel to the fire. You
• 51:22
  Speaker 15: call me and again, I want to know how you
• 51:24
  Speaker 15: got my number.
• 51:26
  Speaker 5: I'm not from the city, and go on in this
• 51:28
  Speaker 5: little small to is that we got a problem with
• 51:32
  Speaker 5: your twitch when you turn it off. I don't have
• 51:34
  Speaker 5: a problem on the store you have.
• 51:37
  Speaker 15: The problem is about to be a bigger problem when
• 51:39
  Speaker 15: my man come over there and put a foot up
• 51:41
  Speaker 15: your I don't know who you think you with, but
• 51:44
  Speaker 15: it's about to be on. I don't know how you
• 51:48
  Speaker 15: got my number, but you called it wrong today.
• 51:51
  Speaker 5: Okay, fire, I got one thing I need to say
• 51:53
  Speaker 5: to you.
• 51:54
  Speaker 15: You listen, you got to say because I'm tired of
• 51:56
  Speaker 15: listening to you.
• 51:57
  Speaker 5: Are you listening?
• 51:58
  Speaker 15: You ain't saying that one here today? You calling me?
• 52:02
  Speaker 5: It is his nephew tire Me from the Steve Harvey
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: Morning Show. You just got pranked by your husband? Are you?
• 52:12
  Speaker 15: Wait a minute?
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  Speaker 9: Subject, take my money, my house, and my car. Dear
• 56:36
  Speaker 9: Stephen Shirley, I'm writing this letter for my older brother
• 56:40
  Speaker 9: that is in love with a gold digger. That term
• 56:43
  Speaker 9: may not apply to new relationships, because I know a
• 56:46
  Speaker 9: man is supposed to provide for a woman if he's
• 56:48
  Speaker 9: sleeping with her, But too many times he's called me
• 56:51
  Speaker 9: to complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. He
• 56:56
  Speaker 9: gives her money to go out with her girlfriend's most weekends,
• 56:59
  Speaker 9: and then she won't even call him till Sunday after
• 57:02
  Speaker 9: she's been out during whatever she wants to do. In
• 57:05
  Speaker 9: case you are wondering, my brother is thirty four years old,
• 57:09
  Speaker 9: but he's the quiet, shy type. He manages several properties
• 57:13
  Speaker 9: and he owns a barbershop, but he doesn't cut hair.
• 57:16
  Speaker 9: He has plenty of money and free time, and all
• 57:19
  Speaker 9: he wants is to spend it with someone that loves him.
• 57:22
  Speaker 9: He's asked his girlfriend to move in with him, but
• 57:25
  Speaker 9: she said it's too soon now, so now he's trying
• 57:30
  Speaker 9: to get her an engagement ring to make things official.
• 57:33
  Speaker 9: I hinted to her that after two years he's ready
• 57:37
  Speaker 9: to settle down, and she said there is no way
• 57:40
  Speaker 9: that they're ready for marriage. Supposedly, my brother told her
• 57:43
  Speaker 9: to take his money, his house, and his car and
• 57:45
  Speaker 9: whatever else she needs to be happy. She knows she's
• 57:49
  Speaker 9: got him right where she wants him, and I can't
• 57:51
  Speaker 9: stand by and let her play him like that. I
• 57:53
  Speaker 9: understand that I don't have a dog in that fight,
• 57:55
  Speaker 9: and if she's making him happy, then I should butt
• 57:58
  Speaker 9: out of it. But my question is, if I have
• 58:00
  Speaker 9: proof that she is sleeping with another man, and she's
• 58:03
  Speaker 9: been seen driving the man around in my brother's car,
• 58:06
  Speaker 9: should I tell him? My brother practically raised me, and
• 58:09
  Speaker 9: I want the best for him, So what do I
• 58:12
  Speaker 9: do in this situation? Will he hate me forever if
• 58:14
  Speaker 9: I tell him this? Well, the answer to that question
• 58:19
  Speaker 9: is maybe not forever, but he will be upset with you.
• 58:22
  Speaker 9: And look at this, You might not have to do
• 58:25
  Speaker 9: anything because your big brother has these are your words
• 58:29
  Speaker 9: now called you too many times to complain about her
• 58:32
  Speaker 9: misusing and abusing his kindnesses.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: So maybe he's getting fed up in some.
• 58:37
  Speaker 9: Sort of way because people you know, are really feeling
• 58:42
  Speaker 9: when they really are feeling someone and you start to
• 58:44
  Speaker 9: get all up in their business. Yes, you do run
• 58:47
  Speaker 9: the risk of them turning on you if you tell them.
• 58:51
  Speaker 9: I mean, that's a known fact. I know you care
• 58:54
  Speaker 9: about your brother. I can see it in a letter.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: I know you do, and you should.
• 58:57
  Speaker 9: He's your brother. But whatever you say to him at
• 59:00
  Speaker 9: this point, he's not gonna hear it. He's not gonna
• 59:03
  Speaker 9: see it because he is not trying to hear it.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: And he doesn't want to. Your brother is a big boy,
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: he's a grown.
• 59:09
  Speaker 9: Man who's gonna find out one of these life lessons,
• 59:12
  Speaker 9: life lessons that you get only by the experience of
• 59:15
  Speaker 9: being with someone like this, someone who uh he let
• 59:20
  Speaker 9: drive his car and she's driving some other man around
• 59:23
  Speaker 9: in it. Okay, she's obviously a user, she's taking advantage
• 59:26
  Speaker 9: of your brother.
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: But it's not your business. I'm sorry, it's not your
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: job to tell him this.
• 59:31
  Speaker 9: He will find out sooner or later because they always
• 59:34
  Speaker 9: find out, and uh, just be there for him when
• 59:36
  Speaker 9: it's over. He will get over her eventually, But right
• 59:39
  Speaker 9: now he's sprung.
• 59:40
  Speaker 8: Steve, you know how I respond about people mind and
• 59:44
  Speaker 8: they business that ain't gonna change.
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: But my response is going to shock you.
• 59:50
  Speaker 8: Here's a young girl that's writing this letter for her
• 59:52
  Speaker 8: older brother that's in love with a gold digger.
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: Now she thinks that.
• 59:56
  Speaker 8: That might not apply to relationships, because I know a
• 59:59
  Speaker 8: man is supposed to provide for a woman if he's
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 8: sleeping with her. Well, see right there now, And that
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 8: depends on the arrangement of the arrangement, or shall I
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 8: say that depends on the agreement of the arrangement. I
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 8: will provide for you if I see a future. I
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 8: will invest in you if I see a future or
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 8: some promise. Now, if we're just kicking it, you might
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 8: ask me something.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: I might let you have it.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 8: But you're not an obligation to me until I feel
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 8: obliged to help you, because you show an obligation to me.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: So let's get that straight away. But she said, too
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: many times he ben called to.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 8: Complain about her misusing and abusing his kindness, he gives
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 8: her money to go out with his girlfriends, and she
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 8: been out doing whatever she want to do. She don't
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 8: call him till Sunday. Now, then she says, my brother's
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 8: thirty four. But he's a quiet shot. He manages several properties.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 8: He owns a barbershop, but he don't cut hair. Smart guy,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 8: smart guy. He has plenty of money in free time,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 8: and all he wants is suspended with somebody that loves him. Now,
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 8: this sounds like a good dude, but he's smart too.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 8: He bought a barbershop and don't cut hair. Lord, have mercy.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 8: So that chair that he would normally be mad and
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 8: making forty dollars a cut, this boy that gave that
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 8: chair to somebody else and charging that dude for the chair,
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 8: and he can keep his for the cut.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: But I'm gonna need one hundred and fifty two hundred
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: a week for the chair.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: Whatever it is.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 8: Man, I'm finna go owe me a damn barbershop. Appreciate
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 8: the idea, man, I never thought of that. But he
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 8: don't cut hair. He got plenty of money in free
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 8: time and he just wants somebody. So he asked his
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 8: girlfriend to move in him. But she say it's too soon.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 8: So now he's trying to get her an engagement rien
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 8: to make things official. I think somewhere in there he's
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 8: been seeing her for two years. That correct, two years?
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, a couple of.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 8: Years anyway, Supposedly my brother now she's he hitted that
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 8: after two years he's ready to settle down. She said,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 8: there's no weight. They're ready for marriage, and it's gonna
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 8: be obvious in this letter. My brother told her to
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 8: take his money, his house's card, whatever else she needs
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 8: to be happy. She knows she's got him right where
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 8: she wants and I can't stand by let him play
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 8: it like that. Shirley says, he's a big boy and
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 8: he's grown. That's a true statement. What Shirley failed to
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 8: tell you is that your brother is whipped. Yes, yo,
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 8: brother is whipped.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 9: Hang on, Steve, Today's strawberry letter subject take my money,
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 9: my house, and my car. We'll get back into it
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 9: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:02:47
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  Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 9: The subject take my money, in my house and my car.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 9: When we left, you were gonna tell the difference between
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 9: sprung and whipped.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 8: This boy in this letter, this thirty four year old man,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 8: this being used by this woman. He wants to move
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 8: it further to marriage. She said, it's no way. I
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 8: wish too early to get married. I'll tell you why,
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 8: she said, Dad, he's giving her everything. He's told her
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 8: to take her his car, his house, his money, just
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 8: whatever else she needs to be happy. She knows she's
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 8: got him right where she wants. And I can't stand
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 8: by and let him play like that, I said. Shirley
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 8: is absolutely right in saying that he's a big boy
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 8: in the grown Man. She just left off the fact
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 8: that he's quipped. Shirley said, he's sprung. There is a difference.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 8: Let me help you understand something, ladies. Sprong it's when
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 8: a man is around you and he feels all tingry.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 8: Sprong is when a man is around you and he
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 8: feels all giddy. Sprung is when a man wants to
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 8: be in your company all the time. That's sprung. Okay,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 8: Sprung is wondering what you do where you're going? Quill
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 8: is different, quill. She don't put something on this boy.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: So strong.
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 8: It's damn neil voodoo, the old saying. Is he looking
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 8: for her in the daytime with a flash?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: All right, Julie noted, Okay, this is.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: How he talked when he round him.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: Babling this this boy right here, sprong.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: When they in the bed, This boy, he boy, he
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 2: can't control himself. And she got it. And that's what
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: the problem is.
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 8: Now. She knows she got him right where she wants him.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 8: And I can't stand by and let him play like that.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 8: I understand that I don't have a dog in this fight.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 8: And if she's making him happy, then I should butt out. Well,
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 8: she's not making him happy, she's making him unhappy. He
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 8: always calls you to complain about he's being misused, but
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 8: that whipped thing, that thing got him thinking it he
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 8: can fix it.
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: So now he want to rush to get her a
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: ring because he wants her to.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: Move forward with this. But now.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 8: The young girl says that she has proof she's sleeping
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 8: with another man and she's been seen driving the man
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 8: aroun in my brother's car. Should I tell him? My
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 8: brother practically raised me. I want the best for him,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 8: So what should I do in this? Will he hate
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 8: me forever if I tell him this? No, he won't
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 8: hate you forever. Because this is a different situation. And
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 8: here is the shaka. Yes you should tell him what,
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 8: Steve what? Yes, you should tell him.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: See this is quite different, oh, because listen to me.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 11: See.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 8: Normally it's girlfriends that see their girlfriend's man out somewhere
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 8: and see him with a woman not in the act
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 8: of nothing, but then wants to report that you don't
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 8: know what that situation is over there, and that report
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 8: and that that ain't you gonna start to fire a
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 8: house that don't need to get lit.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: This is different.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 8: This is a young sister trying to protect her older
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 8: brother and ask proof that she's sleeping with another man
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 8: because she's seen another man in her brother car with her.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 8: You got to tell your brother.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: So the proof, it's because she has proof.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 8: She got proofd This ain't speculation. She's been seen in
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 8: the car with another man. Hey man, that is so
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 8: damn disrespectful on her part and justice disrespectful on the dupot.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 8: And he's your brother. This ain't your friend. This your brother.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 8: You have got to go and tell your brother this.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 8: Will he hate me? Father, He gonna be a little
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 8: ticked at you, but he gonna get over that because
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 8: he needs to.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: Know the truth.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 8: This is why she say it's too early to get married,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 8: because she got access to his money, his house, and
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 8: his car. He knows she'll give him anything, and she
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 8: can have her cake and eat it too. Why would
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 8: she get married and stop the gravy train when the
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 8: gravy trainers rolled in all over town.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: You have got to tell your brother this information. And
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: I know y'all are.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: Surprised, but this is speech.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 8: If my sister saw a girl I was dating driving
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 8: my car with another man in it, my sister coming
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 8: to me, see you come here. This little halfer was
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 8: down there on shap here with a man in your car.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 8: Now she already knows what's finna happened. I'm finna get
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 8: the key and I'm finn find this man. Somebody getting
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 8: asked for. You have got to tell your brother because
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 8: your brother has called you complaining she abusing him and
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 8: tricking him and all this here he putting up with
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 8: that he can take some more bad news.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: He been handling the bad he's been handling all the
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 2: bad news.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Pretty good something for junior. What I'm trying to figure out?
• 1:08:51
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• 1:08:54
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• 1:09:01
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  Speaker 1: Yo yo, what's up to yo?
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  Speaker 2: Homie?
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  Speaker 6: Ice Cube Wishing everybody a happy holidays from my family
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  Speaker 6: to yours and the Steve Harvey Morning Show what up, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 13: Both the Morale of Soldiers with a little Love from
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  Speaker 13: back Home with a powerhouse performance from Kerrie Washington. The
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  Speaker 13: sixth Triple Eight will inspire you and touch your heart.
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  Speaker 1: All right, normally we would be doing junior sports talk
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  Speaker 1: right here.
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  Speaker 9: But Junior, you have questions about Discovery letters, take my money,
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  Speaker 9: my house.
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  Speaker 2: In my car.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, jose didn't mean none of that. What
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  Speaker 1: he doing he that is not what Josey was saying
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  Speaker 1: about what I'm asking you on is okay?
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  Speaker 2: Normally you are the.
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  Speaker 1: Person who will go along and lie. Yeah, you saying,
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  Speaker 1: this is not the time to lie, and this is
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  Speaker 1: what we should tell the truth.
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  Speaker 2: Listen to me, junior. It is rules to liar. You
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  Speaker 2: got to know the lie by law.
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  Speaker 10: Just what.
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  Speaker 1: See this is this is a new person. This is
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  Speaker 1: confusing you.
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  Speaker 8: Your lie Number one, I have to have a direct purpose, okay.
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  Speaker 8: Number two rule of line. It should be done in
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  Speaker 8: order to save or rescue or to number three. Number three,
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  Speaker 8: the lie should be a preventive measure. You want to
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  Speaker 8: prevent the feelings being heard? Yes, The shock to have
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  Speaker 8: a purpose, yes, And it has to have a lie
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  Speaker 8: that's aimed at making something better.
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  Speaker 2: And number four, the lie must be geared to hold
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  Speaker 2: it on.
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  Speaker 1: To what you have. What Yes, dogs are the fire law.
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  Speaker 2: I don't give a damn charity. These are the bylaws
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  Speaker 2: of lions.
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  Speaker 1: What line makes something better? Steve? It does?
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  Speaker 2: If you if your wife say to you, where have
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  Speaker 2: you been? Can you say I stopped at the stone? Okay?
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  Speaker 8: Why would I say I stopped at the strip club?
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  Speaker 8: Because I wanted to see Diamond dusky one more time?
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  Speaker 13: More?
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  Speaker 8: I came to this house, so we have to see you,
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  Speaker 8: and you don't look nothing like diamond us and damon
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  Speaker 8: to us can slide down the pole on her butt
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  Speaker 8: with no hands.
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  Speaker 1: Now why would I you want to see that myself?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Except but I'm not gonna tell you that.
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  Speaker 8: So the lie becomes necessary now, J In this letter, okay,
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  Speaker 8: the woman that's deceiving, the gold digger that's playing her
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  Speaker 8: brother is lying to her brother. The young girl has
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  Speaker 8: no reason to lie to her brother because it's not
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  Speaker 8: saving anything, and it's that's nothing good. She has now
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  Speaker 8: got tell her brother the truth. Man, you need to
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  Speaker 8: learn these bylogs.
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  Speaker 1: Just say it truth, you just say it truth you
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  Speaker 1: you never say truth?
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  Speaker 11: You never.
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  Speaker 2: I say truth all the time. That's a lie.
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  Speaker 1: Lie when the truth will do? I say truth all
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  Speaker 1: the time when I'm not lying. Good morning.
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  Speaker 9: This is Shirley Strawberry and tis the season for happiness
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  Speaker 9: and love and giving and family.
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  Speaker 1: Happy Holidays. From the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: All right, so this is from Facebook from Dre. Dre writes,
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  Speaker 9: I have a family friend who'd hit hard times. However,
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  Speaker 9: this family friend also has a reputation for lying and
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  Speaker 9: not paying people back. Now he's trying to guilt me
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  Speaker 9: and my entire family, talking about I'm turning my back
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  Speaker 9: on him. Well that's where I am right now, and
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  Speaker 9: I'm in the position to help. But I know darn
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  Speaker 9: well I will never see the money back since no
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  Speaker 9: one else can really help or is willing to.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like Tupac, all eyes on me, man, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: going to change my mind. So am I wrong?
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  Speaker 14: No?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 8: See See, you can't create a track record and then
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  Speaker 8: try to get off the track in front of somebody
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  Speaker 8: you that ran.
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  Speaker 1: Around on all this time.
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  Speaker 2: It's just not how it works.
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  Speaker 11: Hey man.
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  Speaker 8: When you when you create a reputation, then you're gonna
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  Speaker 8: have to you're gonna have to lay You make a bed, you.
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  Speaker 2: Gotta lay in it.
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  Speaker 8: Dog, I'm sorry. You don't pay people back. Now you
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  Speaker 8: back at me talking about y'all turning your back. Yeah, okay, cool.
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  Speaker 8: But here's the deal with me. If you did not
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  Speaker 8: have my number, what would you do?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: See, now gonna get to doing that because you already
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  Speaker 8: know I got it. So you don't save all.
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  Speaker 1: That with me.
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  Speaker 8: I tell people all the time. First of all, hey man,
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  Speaker 8: let me holler at you now. Okay, I'm gonna wait
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  Speaker 8: seventy two hours while I would turn that bone car.
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  Speaker 8: Don't text me or nothing. Hey man, hey man, when
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  Speaker 8: you get free moment called me. Okay, I'm not free
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  Speaker 8: for seventy two hours. I'm busy, hey man, I got
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  Speaker 8: an emergency.
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  Speaker 2: This is what I got. I got a text from
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  Speaker 2: a dude. I have an emergency.
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  Speaker 8: He texted, I have an emergen Who the hell got
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  Speaker 8: an emergency in Texas?
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  Speaker 11: Boy?
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  Speaker 2: Stop?
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  Speaker 8: So I waited my seventy two hours and called him back.
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  Speaker 8: Because all emergencies passed in seventy two hours.
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  Speaker 2: Trust me when I.
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  Speaker 1: Tell you that. Okay, you said you're into crisis management anyway,
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  Speaker 1: you know that it is Dane Jarvis. No, no, you
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  Speaker 1: know why you asked? Why you asked? Junior? Sound like
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  Speaker 1: somebody I might know.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody?
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  Speaker 1: No, No, it's not Alvin. No, No, I was gonna
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  Speaker 1: ask you. But he feels guilty? So how does he
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  Speaker 1: deal with that guilt? Feeling guilt is.
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  Speaker 8: The most useless emotion that we have as human beings. Yeah,
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  Speaker 8: no purpose, what's the purpose of guilt?
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  Speaker 5: No?
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  Speaker 11: Stop?
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  Speaker 2: Why why you got to feel guilt? That he's not
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  Speaker 2: your child?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just as fond friend, the family friend.
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  Speaker 8: He's not your child, y'all. Ain't took no vows. He's
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  Speaker 8: not your wife. Now he a family fred that ain't
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  Speaker 8: been much of a friend, right, all right, you all
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  Speaker 8: have a one sided friendship.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna let you go over there and stay
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  Speaker 1: on your side for a while.
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  Speaker 9: All right, Let's see if we have time for another one.
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  Speaker 9: This one's from Nicole on Steve HARVFM. She says, my
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  Speaker 9: husband and I went out of town to have Thanksgiving
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  Speaker 9: with his family. He started drinking with his brother at noon,
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  Speaker 9: and by the time dinner was served, they were both
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  Speaker 9: drunk as heck. He embarrassed himself in front of his
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  Speaker 9: whole family, and I was left to take care of
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  Speaker 9: him and then drive us home afterwards. We're supposed to
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  Speaker 9: go again at Christmas, and I told him I'm not going.
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  Speaker 9: Now he thinks I'm being unreasonable and is mad at me.
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  Speaker 9: I haven't done anything.
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  Speaker 1: Wrong and I shouldn't be made to feel bad after
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  Speaker 1: what he put me through.
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  Speaker 9: Steve, back me up?
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  Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Am I overreacting?
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  Speaker 2: Best offense is a good excuse me? The best defense
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  Speaker 2: is a good offense.
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  Speaker 8: So now he defensive about what he did, and so
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  Speaker 8: now he done took the offense. Now he mad at
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  Speaker 8: you for his ass getting drunk, and you not understand man?
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  Speaker 8: Please bye, ladies, stop letting these men out mad you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, do what you do.
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  Speaker 2: Do your job.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, man cannot out mad Marjorie. I don't give a damn.
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  Speaker 8: How I tried, by baby, how you gonna do that?
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  Speaker 1: Wait?
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  Speaker 2: Mis Steve, alright, we gotta run.
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  Speaker 1: Steve coming up in twenty minutes after the hour.
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  Speaker 9: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
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  Speaker 9: after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: Research from the Now Retail Federation reveals that Americans expect
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  Speaker 9: to spend and average of eight hundred and seventy five
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  Speaker 9: dollars on holiday gifts, decorations, food, and other seasonal items. Overall,
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  Speaker 9: holiday spending is expected to reach record levels in November
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  Speaker 9: and December, and the most popular gift is still gift cards,
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  Speaker 9: with fifty five percent of shoppers saying they'd like to
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  Speaker 9: get them this year, followed by clothes and accessories, books,
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  Speaker 9: video games or other media, and personal care or beauty items.
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  Speaker 9: So here's a question for you, guys. Do you have
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  Speaker 9: a budget for holiday spending and do you actually stick
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  Speaker 9: to it if.
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  Speaker 2: You do, I wish it was eight seventy five.
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  Speaker 1: I wish it was that, please Lord more. I wish
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  Speaker 1: that was your budget.
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  Speaker 2: I wish that was your Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I stick to my budget. Do you those your budget
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  Speaker 1: eight seventy five or more?
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  Speaker 11: More?
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  Speaker 10: More?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 10: Yeah, I go I go over your clumb I give
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  Speaker 10: my word everything. I think you won't any more. I'll
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  Speaker 10: go away over more.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, you gotta cut back on buying for everybody.
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  Speaker 1: I can't do that. You can't do what budget. You're
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  Speaker 1: my wife everything she won't and more. No, we're not
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  Speaker 1: going to do that. No, no, we're not fun to
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  Speaker 1: do that.
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  Speaker 8: You're gonna get two different worlds though. No, no, no, no, no,
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  Speaker 8: we're in the same world. You're sitting up here getting
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  Speaker 8: everything she won't and more. Yeah, you crazy, sit doun
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  Speaker 8: and talk to her so you can find out.
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  Speaker 1: What that really is. Competes the hour, We'll play another
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  Speaker 1: round and would you rather? Right after this you're listening
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  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for a round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather?
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  Speaker 5: Do?
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  Speaker 1: Two light?
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  Speaker 9: Two laps in a race car at three hundred miles
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  Speaker 9: per hour? Or would you rather zip line over the ocean?
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  Speaker 2: The ocean?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the ocean.
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  Speaker 2: Where does that end at? Damn? Oh it don't.
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  Speaker 8: It don't really matter to me because I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 8: passed out in either situation. I'm not even gonna be
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  Speaker 8: conscious because my ass blackout either way.
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  Speaker 1: Junior race car or.
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  Speaker 11: Race call?
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  Speaker 3: He did?
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  Speaker 1: He did.
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  Speaker 2: It's just two laps, race car, two laps with this.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on step three hour. That's a lot, though, but
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  Speaker 1: still three.
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  Speaker 8: Would I was just at Formula one, I watched this
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  Speaker 8: one eighty No, no, but when.
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  Speaker 2: We get through these two left, your ass is still
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  Speaker 2: over the Pacific.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not zip niney what is options? See? It's just
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  Speaker 1: too all right?
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  Speaker 9: Would you rather your wife talk less? Would you rather
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  Speaker 9: if your wife talked less? Or if she spent less?
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  Speaker 9: Which one?
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  Speaker 1: I'm not doing this. I'm not doing y'all.
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  Speaker 2: We're going right on in the Christmas nice No.
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  Speaker 1: Less to talk? Yes, Steve, Yes, be brave.
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  Speaker 2: Mine talk less. I pay for that. I pay for silent,
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  Speaker 2: Thank you? What about I'm gonna get another bag?
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  Speaker 1: Go ahead. I'm not I just got mad. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: say nothing on this. I can't do that. Anyway.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what week it is?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, hey, y'all, they're not gonna stop, they're not gonna start,
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  Speaker 8: all right, So might as well get some quiet at
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  Speaker 8: your house.
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  Speaker 9: Would you rather eat whatever you want without gaining weight?
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  Speaker 9: Or would you rather say whatever you want without any consequences?
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  Speaker 1: Be okay?
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  Speaker 2: Please, I'll be back on stage next Friday.
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  Speaker 1: Please no consequence, Yo boy, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 8: Please, Please don't worry about the way I take my
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  Speaker 8: fat ass right on back out there.
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  Speaker 1: Like though you love food, I don't give it THEMN.
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  Speaker 1: I don't gain weight or anything.
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  Speaker 8: I don't care about that. I don'tkay, I keep cold
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  Speaker 8: plunge that I work with that. Just let me go
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  Speaker 8: out here Friday and say everything. It ain't no, I'm
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  Speaker 8: telling you right now, all these groups need to tune in.
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  Speaker 8: Everybody that's in the group, every nationality.
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  Speaker 1: Need to tune in. Its open wait, tune in, if
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: your shop tune in, come on, tune in.
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  Speaker 11: Tune in.
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  Speaker 8: You got you driving with a sticker hanging on your
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  Speaker 8: rear view mirror, tune in. I'm gonna have it for everybody,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 8: big living tune in. I'm gonna start with me, so
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  Speaker 8: everybody get comfortable with it.
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  Speaker 1: After this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show