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Sister O'dell, Earl Graves Sr., Black Folks COVID-19 Talk, Junior Dating and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know, y'all all looking back to back down, giving
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  Speaker 1: them like theming bus things and it's not good. Stehen
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  Speaker 1: to mother, don't join You gotta use that turn. You
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  Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn them out, got to turn them out,
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  Speaker 1: to turn the water the water. Come come on your baby,
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  Speaker 1: Uh huh, I shall will. Good morning everybody. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and
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  Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey Man got a radio show. Wow man,
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  Speaker 1: how good has God been to me? You know? Today?
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  Speaker 1: Let me get right to it because I'm I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of feeling this today, and I'm pretty sure that's just
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  Speaker 1: quite a few of you who go through the same
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  Speaker 1: things today. Today was just a little tough morning for
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  Speaker 1: me because I didn't want to leave home yesterday. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to stay home a little. I just gotten home,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I gotta go again. And sometimes, you know,
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  Speaker 1: just the weight of all that you have to do
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  Speaker 1: just gets on you sometimes and sometimes you don't feel
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  Speaker 1: like doing it today. Huh. You know, I'm just talking
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  Speaker 1: to those who feel this way every now and then,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm assuming that would be everybody, because I don't
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  Speaker 1: know nobody who can just ply through this thing without
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  Speaker 1: having those days. Well, what do you do when it
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  Speaker 1: gets hard to stay up? What do you do when
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  Speaker 1: it gets hard to be positive? What do you do
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  Speaker 1: when it seems like things aren't happening for you fast
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  Speaker 1: enough or in the time frame that you thought it
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  Speaker 1: was going. What do you do? And the reason that
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  Speaker 1: I guess I chose to speak about this this morning
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  Speaker 1: is because I'm having one of those days. Because I
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  Speaker 1: had one of those days yesterday. It's just a tough day.
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  Speaker 1: I really can't explain. It's nothing really in particular bad happened.
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  Speaker 1: It's just I think the weight of all that's going
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  Speaker 1: on started to feel heavy to me. And so what
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  Speaker 1: do you do when when you have days like that,
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  Speaker 1: when it's hard to be positive, when it's hard to
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  Speaker 1: stay up? Okay, here's what I had to start doing
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  Speaker 1: this morning. Now I haven't completed it. Can I just
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  Speaker 1: be real with you? Haven't completed it, but I am
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  Speaker 1: processing it out because I know what to do. You know,
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  Speaker 1: been there, done that, I didn't had that pain before.
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  Speaker 1: I know what to do. You know, if I sprain
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  Speaker 1: my finger, I know what to do. Now you know
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  Speaker 1: the first sprain I had, O Lord, I thought it
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  Speaker 1: was broke. I thought I got me handac half. But
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  Speaker 1: now if I spray my finger, I know what to do.
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  Speaker 1: So since I've been in this position, in this hole
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  Speaker 1: so many times before, and God has always gotten me
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  Speaker 1: through it, I decided I've got to start the process today.
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  Speaker 1: Want to hear are some things Now I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: to the big one last. And one of the things
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  Speaker 1: I do is I remember the plan, sit down, and
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  Speaker 1: I consciously think about the goals I've set. I go
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  Speaker 1: over them. See, I've gotten mine down on an iPad
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  Speaker 1: so I can pull them out anywhere I am and
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  Speaker 1: pull them up. And I've got two lists that I've made.
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  Speaker 1: I've got a list of things that I know I
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  Speaker 1: can accomplish if I just keep working hard and if
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  Speaker 1: some couple of things just fall into place that I
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  Speaker 1: can see. Then I got a list of things that
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  Speaker 1: I'm planning on accomplishing. And then I have a second list,
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  Speaker 1: And the heading of this list is called only God
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  Speaker 1: can help me Now. And on this list it's things
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  Speaker 1: that I'm aspiring for or things that I'm hoping to
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  Speaker 1: that in order for them to happen. I absolutely have
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  Speaker 1: to have God's help. That's my favorite list. It's the
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  Speaker 1: list that I have of the things that I don't
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  Speaker 1: see no way it can happen. I'm just operating on
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  Speaker 1: faith and the hope that God hear me, and so sometimes, man,
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  Speaker 1: when you gotta when I have this list of who
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  Speaker 1: only God can help me, now that list is stuff
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  Speaker 1: that I cannot see. I'm just operating on faith that
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  Speaker 1: God is so much bigger than me, that he's so
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  Speaker 1: much more capable than I am, that I can actually
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  Speaker 1: acquire some things in my life, as he's proven to
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  Speaker 1: me time and time again up to this point, that
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  Speaker 1: He's willing to do for me if I'm willing to
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  Speaker 1: just give him some of my life. That's the only
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  Speaker 1: why I can't explain my existence today. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: began the conversation with my wife, how do I write
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  Speaker 1: a book that becomes so wildly successful? That would be God.
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  Speaker 1: That's only God, Because if you can plan to sit
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  Speaker 1: down and write a wildly successful book, I'd have Benden
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  Speaker 1: sat down and did it, and so would you, so
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  Speaker 1: that would be God. How it got purchased to become
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  Speaker 1: a movie when that was not my intent when I
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  Speaker 1: wrote the book at all. Again, that would be God right,
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  Speaker 1: there has to be, because if I can't explain it
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  Speaker 1: and it is by no doing of my own, then
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  Speaker 1: who did it? So when I get down in days
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  Speaker 1: like this, I remember the goal. I remember the plan.
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  Speaker 1: I remember the journey. I think about of all the
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  Speaker 1: things God has bought me to how did I even
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  Speaker 1: get to this point. Yeah. I might be having a
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  Speaker 1: little bummer of a day. Yeah I was a little
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  Speaker 1: down yesterday. Yeah, my bio rhythms is off, whatever they
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  Speaker 1: want to call it. Yeah, I'm just having one of
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  Speaker 1: those days. I feel a little bit heavy. I need
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  Speaker 1: a vacation real bad. I need some time off to
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  Speaker 1: just go and regenerate. But right now, man, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: got that. So guess what I do. I gotta start
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  Speaker 1: remembering the plan. I gotta start remembering the goals. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta start thinking about all the things that God has
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  Speaker 1: done for me and how He has bought me this far,
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  Speaker 1: and the blessings that I have instead of what I
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  Speaker 1: don't have. And that's what I'm in the process of
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  Speaker 1: doing this morning, And on the commercial breaks, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: pull out my iPad and I'm gonna go over my
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  Speaker 1: two lists, and I'm gonna read my little list of
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  Speaker 1: what I think I can accomplish, and I'm gonna really
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  Speaker 1: read that only God can Help Me Now list, because
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  Speaker 1: that's the list that's big. That's the part where I've
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  Speaker 1: been telling y'all, I said, quit telling God how big
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  Speaker 1: your problems are, and start telling your problems how big
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  Speaker 1: your God is. See, and that's why I got to
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  Speaker 1: sit down and do this morning. And then sometimes, man,
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  Speaker 1: you got to stay still. That's the other part. You
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  Speaker 1: got to stay still. You gotta quit moving for a second,
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  Speaker 1: because sometimes it feel like you're running on a treadmill
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  Speaker 1: and you really ain't you going somewhere, but it feel
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  Speaker 1: like you're running on a treadmill. Well, when you get
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  Speaker 1: that feeling, sometimes you got to stay still. And then
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  Speaker 1: when you stay still, sometimes you gotta fight to stay positive.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta fight not to let the devil win.
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  Speaker 1: You're in a fight, Mamer, I told you this. Now
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  Speaker 1: you're in a fight now, So trying to get you
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  Speaker 1: to get on that positive train so he can get
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  Speaker 1: you off the faith train. So God's delivery package that's
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  Speaker 1: coming to you built on your faith that you can.
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  Speaker 1: He can shake your faith and get you to thinking
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  Speaker 1: negative and then he wins. See. So when you start
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  Speaker 1: feeling negative, just know that that's the other force trying
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  Speaker 1: to throw your off track. And when you get through
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  Speaker 1: it all that he is the key, the big one.
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  Speaker 1: You want me tell it to you. You got to pray, man,
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  Speaker 1: You got to pray. You gotta take it to God.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta say, hey, God, look I'm having one of
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  Speaker 1: these days. I need your help. I got business to
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  Speaker 1: take care of. You got blessings in front of me.
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  Speaker 1: You got stuff you to ship to me. You got
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  Speaker 1: blessings and packages that's on the way. I need to
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  Speaker 1: be sitting on Faith streets so I can receive the
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  Speaker 1: delivery when you get there. What I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: do is be it on, be on doubted Way or
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  Speaker 1: or lack of Understanding Parkway, or Pity Parkway or some
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  Speaker 1: street like that, and the package keep going by. I
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  Speaker 1: need to be standing and sitting on Faith Street so
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  Speaker 1: when you drop that package down to me, I can
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  Speaker 1: go on and get it. You feel me. You gots
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  Speaker 1: to pray. You got to stay still, you gotta fight
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  Speaker 1: to stay positive. You gotta remember the plan. You gotta
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  Speaker 1: go over the goals. Come on, man, God and brought
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  Speaker 1: you too far? Come on, pick yourself up today. I'm
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  Speaker 1: talking to Steve Harvey this morning. Hope y'all didn't mind.
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  Speaker 1: That's quarantine, baby. When you're just coming up with stuff
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  Speaker 1: that ain't got nothing to do with a damn thing,
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  Speaker 1: but it sounds good to you. That's when you've been
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  Speaker 1: in too long. What's up calling? What's up? Steve? What's up? Crew?
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  Speaker 1: What's happening? Hey, Julian, howdy everybody? Yeah, first time speaking
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  Speaker 1: to people that what's up? Food? What to do? What
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  Speaker 1: to do? What to do? Is hump day on Stevens Wednesday? Baby, matter,
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  Speaker 1: it don't matter, don't matter all This ain't hump day?
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  Speaker 1: This another day? Yeah, what is it? A hump of
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  Speaker 1: It ain't the middle of the week. These ain't meek.
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  Speaker 1: These ain't weeks no more. Keep kan y'all stop looking
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  Speaker 1: at these These ain't weeks, these hours. We just said daytime. Hey, Steve.
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  Speaker 1: They got a TV station at Cleveland from Fox, and
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  Speaker 1: they got a segment where a guy comes out on
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  Speaker 1: the news and he tells you what day of week
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  Speaker 1: it is. That's a segment. It's Tuesday. He walked right over.
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  Speaker 1: I was hilarious, Seriously, man. My wife asked me twice yesterday,
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  Speaker 1: what's today? It's almost got an argument about it, though,
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  Speaker 1: you know, because I gave her the wrong day. And
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  Speaker 1: then I said, oh no, I'm sorry, baby, I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry it's Tuesday. Well, Steve, I I but I
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  Speaker 1: asked you this because I'm lighting the date on something
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  Speaker 1: I want to go hold on you up in the
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  Speaker 1: house together too lost. Yeah, yeah, your damn iPhone, Nerve.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna ask me nothing. But I you know,
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  Speaker 1: I stayed quiet, you know, let it go. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you, see, Yeah, because I got
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  Speaker 1: to stay here. Now, if I was going to work
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  Speaker 1: out of five one off and we haven't got in
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  Speaker 1: the car your escape, Yeah, but since I got ain't
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  Speaker 1: fine off ain't smart when you got ain't got no
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  Speaker 1: where to go. I didn't swallowed a lot of arguments.
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  Speaker 1: I show this last couple. I don't need to. I
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  Speaker 1: swallowed them. I said, So, I want to say something.
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  Speaker 1: You took it on the chin, picking it on you
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  Speaker 1: taking it on the chin. I just like to have
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  Speaker 1: one if they opening floodgates? Thought, where are you going?
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  Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't even know what's the
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  Speaker 1: first place you'll go? What do you think? Please? I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to Okay. While you're thinking about it, I'll ask Steve, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: where's the first place you're gonna come to? Places? And
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  Speaker 1: I ain't show which one I'm getting too first, But
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to Vegas because I got to believe some
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  Speaker 1: of this pent up and my ass is going to
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  Speaker 1: play golf. Okay, and it's too separate. I could go
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  Speaker 1: to Vegas and play golf, but uh, one at a time,
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  Speaker 1: back to back, coming up at thirty two minutes after
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  Speaker 1: the hour, since your odell is in the building right
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  Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, it is Wednesday.
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  Speaker 1: That is the day you say days don't matter anymore
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  Speaker 1: because they're all running together. But just so you'll know
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  Speaker 1: today is Wednesday. So when Marjorie asked you again, your
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  Speaker 1: beautiful wife, she asked you what dad is? She asked,
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  Speaker 1: shoot today, what are you gonna say? She's gonna suck
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  Speaker 1: your TV? Yeah, you've got a second and that's gonna
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  Speaker 1: create an argument, right day? Okay, no attitude? All right,
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: all right, change hat, switch gears. It's time for sister Odell. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Social distancing. Huh, that's a little close right there, Michael Jackson,
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  Speaker 1: I needed you bad. She oh, she made it into
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  Speaker 1: a gospel s you. Halleluke. Hey you morning, every wash
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  Speaker 1: girl girl girl. Hi, Hey Carlie, Hey, sister old, how
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  Speaker 1: you doing good? Good? How's your quanty going for you? Good? Quarantine?
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  Speaker 1: It's going, okay, it's going good, sister Adam good. Hey Junior, morning, Sisal,
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  Speaker 1: So glad to talk to you. You got a condition.
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  Speaker 1: How's your quanty going? It's the great? Sister there. I't
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  Speaker 1: it's good hanging out. Was praying for you. That's good.
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  Speaker 1: It's nice. Hello boy, Uh, just sodel, How you doing
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  Speaker 1: this morning? Oh? I'm pretty good? Family, cloudy part you sunny?
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  Speaker 1: You know, switched it anyway? You know that's good. How's
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  Speaker 1: your mama. My mama is good. She's safe and sounds good.
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  Speaker 1: Not coming out the house. You're doing good? Hello, asked
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  Speaker 1: about I ain't got round the calling it yet, but
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  Speaker 1: I will all though. Yes, man, yes, yeah, I ain't
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  Speaker 1: had my cell phone up to my ear since the
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  Speaker 1: Corona came out. You're scared to put the phone up
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  Speaker 1: to you. Well, you know they say G five gear
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  Speaker 1: to you? You mean five G somebody? I know it's
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  Speaker 1: in your telephone, but somebody told me my phone ain't
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  Speaker 1: have it though? What do you have? Oh? I got that?
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  Speaker 1: I got that, got that good one, that Samsung flipped phone,
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  Speaker 1: so that somebody told me because I pulled my intent
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  Speaker 1: up and they say, you once you put got a
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  Speaker 1: phone that pulled an antent off. You ain't got G five? Yeah? Hello,
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  Speaker 1: he loves this Strodell. How are you? Hi? You surviving
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  Speaker 1: the coroni and everything? Which because you can't cook? So
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  Speaker 1: what is what is he doing over there? Well, cister dell,
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  Speaker 1: I have you know, food, I have a refrigerator and everything.
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  Speaker 1: He leave home a lot? We're supposed to stay in
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  Speaker 1: cist dell Na did he leave home a lot? I said,
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  Speaker 1: we are supposed to stay in. So the answer is, well,
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  Speaker 1: we all is supposed to be able to cook, but
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  Speaker 1: that ain't happen it either. So I was just asking anyway.
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  Speaker 1: It's been trying. It's been trying. But you're a good
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  Speaker 1: wife though, Sheerley. That's good. That's one thing about you.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I was. I was pulling for you from
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  Speaker 1: the beginning with this. You know, I've been your cheerleading
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  Speaker 1: your turn. I did, got a nice little family and everything.
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  Speaker 1: So what else you're going out? Well, cister Dell, I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to ask you actually, because you know we've all
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  Speaker 1: had to quarantine. What are you missing from the quarantine?
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  Speaker 1: What's like the first thing you're gonna do when all
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  Speaker 1: this is over? Because this too shell pass. Yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: well I just really miss just rolling out. Say what now,
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  Speaker 1: I missed just rolling up, you know, just getting into
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  Speaker 1: bens Ow and rolling on out. I'm at the bends, baby,
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  Speaker 1: that's all I miss. I just miss you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: my stoping grounds, you know places I go, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like where like, ain't she the game been down? To
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  Speaker 1: the fabric store ain't been down? Now? Are you? Like
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  Speaker 1: you make your own clothes? Now that's something new. We
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  Speaker 1: didn't know that about you. Oh no, I make my
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  Speaker 1: own clothes. I'm high fashion all all my all. My
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  Speaker 1: OFFICI is white. I'm I'm an old ass Lisa Rayche
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  Speaker 1: was fine as Lisa Ray. I said, I'm an old
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  Speaker 1: ass Lisa Ray. But if you want to know the truth, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I was everything every bit. So when you was a
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  Speaker 1: young ass, Lisa Ray, you look like Lisa now, I said.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I wear white like Lisa. Right, it's what
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  Speaker 1: I now. You asked me. Was I as fine as Lisa?
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  Speaker 1: And I see it? Yes, I was no hesitation whatsoever. Yea,
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  Speaker 1: she were diamond, but I would pearl all right? Now
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  Speaker 1: down hello, So so you're going to the fabric story. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I missed going down there the fabric store. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't been down to the none in my little
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  Speaker 1: hang out. You know when we ain't played tomp me
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  Speaker 1: and the girls. We have a tomp night. You know
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  Speaker 1: we played cards. Yeah, we don't get to do that
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  Speaker 1: no more. And I don't down. You can make masks
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  Speaker 1: for people because you know they're making it. Yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't do that, sweetie. You get on way from me.
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  Speaker 1: If you need a mask, Get away from me. You know,
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  Speaker 1: sister will tell us that right attitude. I don't think so.
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  Speaker 1: We're supposed to be practicing social distance. But it's just
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  Speaker 1: so if you go you need a mask. What is
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  Speaker 1: your over here for? Back up off me? I ain't
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  Speaker 1: the president. I don't I ain't the president. Don't stand
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  Speaker 1: behind me. Sweet, you don't want your ass knocks. Move out.
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  Speaker 1: You don't get up behind old Dell, not in the building,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: not with all this hill going on. But Sister Rotell,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: you know there is still a way you can. You
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: can play tunk with the girls. You know, there's the
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Zoom app. You can play it virtual girl. He's hells
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  Speaker 1: ain't got no compruids zoom, yes, ma'am. All right, coming up, nephew,
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  Speaker 1: tell me he's run that prank back with special guest,
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  Speaker 1: Sister O'Dell. Right after this, you're listening Stry Morning Show
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  Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Miss and
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: will be here with our national news for today. Also
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you. Joel Oldstein, Uh,
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: it's going to host ay. That's Pastor Joel Oldstein. Of
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  Speaker 1: course he's going to host a virtual Easter Sunday service
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: with Kanye I'm sure you knew about that, sister, Odell.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that. Yes, it's jes Kanye and Tyler
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Perry and Mariah Carey. They'll all be there as well,
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: you know, um, because it's Easter this coming Sunday. You
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: know that our resurrection day. Yeah, so we'll talk about
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: all that at the time. Interested uh huh. Right now,
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: it's time to run that prank back. If they all
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: going to be at the Churchill's Day coming in day skyping,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sure they're probably going to zoom in or zoom
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: and ain't ain't We don't need the zoom this I mean,
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: but I'm interesting to introduced to Oh yes, ma'am, go
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: ahead with the prank. Run that timmy, Yes, yes, ma'am.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: What is the name of this here? Prank? Your wife?
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Felon boat, let's go catch up. Hello, I'm trying to
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: reach Terrence. Please, who's calling? Who's this? Hey? My name
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: is Mark. My name is Mark. How you doing? Bro?
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: I work with um with your wife Veronica. We're on
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: the same sales floor together. I think I met you before,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: but I don't know if you remember meeting me. But um,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I work at the job with Veronica, is everything on
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: right there or what's going on? No, no, no, everything
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: is straight here at the job. Not a problem at
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: all at the job. But I wanted to yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: she's all right, She's perfectly fine. Man. Um, I just
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I just you know, I actually, like I said, my
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: name is Mark Man. You don't remember me, Terrence, But
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: I just wanted to talk to you, Like I say, um,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: you know, I got some things on that that's been
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: bothered me for a minute. And I you know, I
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: just I just kind of wanted to reach out to
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: you and you know, just kind of have like a
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: little little hard to hard talk with you. Man. So
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: maybe you know, uh, you know, we can get things
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: in a in a better position. But I just wanted
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: I just wanted me and you to have a conversation. Wait, Manne,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: how'd you get if Verona could give you my number?
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Or how did you get my number? That's what I'm
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: trying to like, what's going on? I mean, I had,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: I had, I've had your number. I just I just
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: I just had never reached out to you before. But
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: like I said, though, man, this this, this has been
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: bothering me for a minute, and I wanted to get
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: it off my chest so you and I can try to,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I guess, fix this whole issue. But I just want
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: us to see if we can fix it. You know,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: well fix the issue. What's the issue? I don't understand.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I'm not following you. I don't understand what like what
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: is the issue? So but now you know, like I said,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: I went on out, talk to me. What's going on? Okay,
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: your wife, man is cheating on both of us, and
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: we gotta figure out how we gotta do something about this. Man,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: all right? I mean, did you say she's eating on
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: the both of us? What you say is cheating? She
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: is cheating on the both of us. Brow It sounds
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: like you said cheating. I don't know what you Verona
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: could listen to me, Terence, Veronica is cheating on both
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: of us. You say, Verica is cheating on me and me,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: you know, and we gotta we gotta figure out what
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Man. But as a husband, I gotta
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: you gotta. I'm gonna need you to step up and
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: get this thing in order. What you're talking about, you
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: say Veronica is cheating on I mean with you? No, No,
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: she cheating on both of us with somebody else. I know,
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: I've been noticing her going out with this, you know,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: going to lunch with this other cat. So I'm like,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: I got pissed off about it. So I said, you
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: know what, I can't take you no more. I'm calling
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: Terrece you saying to me that my wife has been
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: cheating around a job with somebody else. She cheating on
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: both of us. Dude, I don't get what you mean
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: if my wife is cheated on. I mean, you're calling
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: me to tell me that she's cheating on me. I
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: appreciate that, but I don't get what you're saying. You know,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: both of us said, I don't get that fun. I
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: don't understand what you mean. Me and Veronica been you know,
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: kind of cool, you know, last eight months to a Yeah,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: we've been, you know, pretty tight here at the job.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So listen what you mean
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: y'all been cool? That's what I don't understand. Like, what
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: do you mean y'all being cool? Because that's my wife.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Tell me what you're talking about. Okay, All I'm saying
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: is me and me and me and her been real cool.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: We've been real tight, you know, sometimes we take lunch
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: and then you know, don't come back. That's our thing though.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: But you know now, you know I'm noticing. You know,
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: she she didn't want out, you know, she didn't want
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: to lunch a couple of time with his brother named Alan,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, no, no, it ain't gonna go
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: down like this here. You know what I'm saying, Are
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: you my wife? Man? Hey, that's that's not why I
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: called you. I called you to my wife. That's what
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I want to know. I'm telling you about this dude
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: named Alan. I need you to step up as the
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: husband and fix this. But you're telling me that my
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: wife is cheating on both of us. Didn't little cheating
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: on the both of us? If she's she's cheating on me,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: you're telling me that you with my wife too, that
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: you've been messing around with my wife. That's That's not
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: the part I'm trying to talk about. I'm trying to
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: talk about this dude named Alan. Man, That's what I'm
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: trying to get out. I'm Alan, We're gonna get to Alan.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: You saying that my wife? Man, it's some crazy yo.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: You know what, man, I'm about to put my foot
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: right up your because play those games with her. She
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: with me. We messing around, we're doing listen doing that.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: It don't work like that. Do you understand what I'm saying, Dude,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying. But your beef ain't with me.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: The beef is with Alan. No, she messing over. She
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: messing over both of us with Alan, dalk. I'm about
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: to call her because right here, I'm telling okay, well,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: hold on, bro, I just want you to deal with Alan.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Are you about stop now? I'm at I'm at the job. Yeah,
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: but I'm about to come up my foot doing no.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I hear you, man, Alan is the one that then
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: blew this thing out of proportion. Dog. She messing over
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: me and you with this here. There ain't no me
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: and you. I don't shit. You see what I'm saying. Yeah,
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I hear you. You don't hear me. I don't shit.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: There's no shitting that goes on over here. Okay, I do,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I do. I'm just saying, you know what are you saying?
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: Leave me right here? Leaves me right now. I'm about
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: to come up with in Where you at right now?
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: Where are you at? I'm at the job. Where what Ronnie.
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: Had I call Ronnie. I'm at the job where Ronnie
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: at caller Ronnie. I called the ronnicka Ronnie. I mean
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: that's my little nickname too, all right, but well hold on,
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: hold on, Ronnie, Ronnie Ronnie. Right here, she's right where
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: see right here, right here? You want to h Okay, cool,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: man here cool? But can I tell you what she's saying.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I don't want to hear what she said. I'm on
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: the phone right now, Okay, but can I tell you
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: what she's telling me to tell you? She ain't telling
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: you to tell me a damn thing because the only
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: thing that you is my foot. Okay, okay, but but
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: but Ronnie wants me to tell you this man. Just
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: listen to me, Terrence. She wants me to tell you
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: that this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: You just got franked by your wife, Veronica. You know what,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: I don't play this all y'all up, ball, y'all up.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give your old school woman. You are man. No,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: I'm not all right. I'm in the coms. I was
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: on my way over there, about to go to jail,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: mess to the round with y'all. Hey, let me ask
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: you this man, what is the baddest and I mean
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. You already no,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: thank you, nephew, thank you, sister Odell coming up at
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour entertainment and national news. Right
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: after you're listening to all right, Steve, some sad news,
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: really sad news. Black Enterprise founder and publisher Earl G.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Graves Senior. I mean, just the entrepreneur m who created
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: a vehicle of information and advocacy that has inspired four
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: generations of African Americans to build wealth through entrepreneurship, career
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: advancement and money management has passed away. Um. Yeah, that
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: that really is sad, according to us. Now, according to
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: a son, Black Enterprise CEO, Earl Butch Graves Junior, Um,
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: mister Graves Senior passed away after a long battle with
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: Alzheimer's disease. And of course we are sending our condolences
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: to the Graves family and to the staff at Black
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Enterprise Magazine. He meant a lot to a lot a
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: lot of people. Yeah, man, this this brother right here
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: man was so instrumental in ensuring that black businesses had
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: a voice and recognition and support. And him and his
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: sons and his daughter, I mean, and his wife. Man,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: just a beautiful family man, one of the one of
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: the really really nice families. I played golf with his
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: sons several times down at the Black Enterprise golf and
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: tennis things that used to go on every year. I
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: met a lot of good people through him. He was
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: just a great leader for black people in the business community. Man.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: I mean, this dude was a great father man. He
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: was a great servant of people. He required excellence from
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: everybody around him, but he showed him how he was doing. Uh.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: He also was a CEO Pepsi during the nineteen nineties,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: you know. And uh he was a frat brother. He
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: was a longstanding member of Almighty Omega Sci Fi. So
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: all the brothers uh in the frat are very aware
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: of this. And uh. He was just a really really
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: powerful dude man, and really powerful. And he he loved people, man,
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: He just loved people, you know. And he was he
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: was some major loss man, major loss man in my
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: heart condolens to go out to butchering them. And uh
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: and and and you know the rest of the family
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: man who I've met, and it's just a tough you know.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Earl Junior. He had three sons. He had Earl Junior,
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: he had Johnny and Michael. I think he had lights
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: So I think he had eight grandkids. Oh wow, powerful dude, man,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: So you know the grandkids. It starts to having a
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: domino effect when you lose great people. Man, When when
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: a person passed, it ain't just at one. So condolences
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: go out to the whole Graves family. Man, Ali, y'all,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: thank you very much. Wow. Yeah, he'll be messed for sure.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: And other entertainment news. Steve Joel Olstein, pastor Joel Olstein,
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: is um he's going to have this big like virtual
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Easter service that is Lakewood Church in Houston. That's going
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: to happen this Sunday, of course, which is Easter Resurrection Day.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: While traditional traditional Easter services are not happening this year
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: due to the coronavirus pandemic, Joel Olstein is going to
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: welcome Kanye West, Mariah Carey, and Tyler Perry on Easter
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: to deliver as a message of love and support to
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: his massive audience. He has a huge audience. Mariah will
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: be a part of the special tribute to medical professionals
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: and first responders. Kanye and his Sunday Service choir will
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: be performing from La Wow. Yeah that's nice. Definitely yeah Joe,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: all right and got to move on as well. Time
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: to get caught up on today's new Steve, Ladies and gentlemen,
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: Missa and Trip, thank you very much in good morning.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: This is and Trip. Looking at the latest coronavirus figures
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: in hard hit New York State, let's start with that,
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: there have now been a total of five thousand, four
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: hundred and eighty nine deaths, with seven hundred and thirty
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: one people dying in just one day this past Monday. Nevertheless,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: Governor Cuomo says that looking at the three day casualty average,
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: he says there was a few fewer ICU admissions and
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: combined with some other indicators, the Governor of New York says,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: the Empire States COVID nineteen problem actually seems to be
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: lessening a little bit, or at least not surging. We
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: are changing the curve in that virus growth. You see
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: that plateauing, that's because of what we are doing. So,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: the governor says, people in the state need to keep
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: staying at home, practicing social distancing and washing their hands repeatedly.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: The state of Louisiana has been hit hard by the
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: coronavirus deaths now topping five hundred. They say more than
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: seventy percent of them are black, even though African Americans
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: make up only thirty two percent of the Bayou States population.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: In fact, recent data shows that Chicago is among several
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: major cities where the coronavirus has affected Blacks, primarily in
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: percentage is much higher than their portion of the population.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: So now, Chicago Mayor Louri Lightfoot says she's sure everyone
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: in her city. She wants to make sure that everyone
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: is entitled to the very same benefits healthwise and everything,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: no matter what. Well the federal government hasn't made all
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: of its COVID related benefits available to our nation's immigrants.
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: The Executive Order I sign ensures all Chicagoans, including our
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: immigrants and refugees, have equal access to these programs, regardless
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: of status. Major Life. Mayor Lightfoot says that it's all
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: part of an effort to improve access to better healthcare
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: for black and Latino Shytown residents. The Pentagon says, meanwhile,
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: it's begun testing a couple of possible coronavirus medications. They
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: say the tests being performed right now on animals and
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: there are five possible vaccines in all. The host of
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: one of Fox TV's TV business shows is out. Trish
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Reagan came under fire for underplaying the seriousness of the
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: coronavirus pandemic. Reagan described it as a quote scheme by
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: Democrats to impeach President Trump. She kept saying that and
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: saying that Trish Reagan called reports on people dropping dead
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: on the streets of Wuhan a coronavirus impeachment scam and
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: that it was just fake news. She's again out. Walmart's
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: being hit with the wrongful death suit by the family
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: of an employee who died from the coronavirus, one of
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: two deaths at the very same Chicago store. They're saying
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: that it was never sanitized or anything. By the way,
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: because of all the stay at home orders around the country,
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: people are gaining weight because they're eating and eating. Now
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: Steve's statistics show that the coronavirus is infecting and killing
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: African Americans in the US at disproportionately high rates. The
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: data is shocking. Here is some of the reasons why
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: black people being confused about messages. At the beginning of
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: the art outbreak, with rumors and myths saying black people
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: couldn't get the coronavirus. Remember that people were saying that
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: saying it was a white disease. That's not true. Also,
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: some African Americans have pre existing conditions like diabetes, hypertension, obesity,
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: and stress, and medical experts say the black community still
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: face barriers to having access to healthcare. This is not
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: a drill, Steve. We have to warn our people and
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: sound the alarm. And a lot of people that are
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: medical professionals also, um, you know, they're black. So that's
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: another contributing factor to the high rate. You know, listen, um,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: information is king. We have to be We have to
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: start understanding how important information is good solid information. Caution
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: to air on the side of caution is your greatest
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: protection right now. So the way they explain in it,
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: the way we have to look at this thing is
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: you have to assume everyone has That's that's the only
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: way you're gonna have to look at this. I was
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: so proud of my son. He had ordered something from
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: one of the you know, grub Hub or Postmates something
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: he had ordered off of and he had to go
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: outside to move his car round to the other side. Well,
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: it happened to run up into the driver of the
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: food and roll his window down and said, hey you
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: the driver with He said yeah, he said hook cool,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: you can give it to me out here. So the
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: guy came up and he had a mask on and gloves,
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: which is really cool. And so my son had on
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: his mask and his gloves when he go outside and
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: he got red rolling winder down and the dude pulled
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: his mask down and start saying, yeah, man, it's a
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: trip out here. My son said roller when the right
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: back up and went, yo, my man, you trip it now,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: Just do me favor man. Set the bag down right there,
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: I get it, and and and then he reached and
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: got the bag. You have to assume people that everyone
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: has it now. You don't treat them like they got
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: the plague. But you got to practice social distancing. You've
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: got to. They're saying, we're masks now, it cannot hurt
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: and stay home. And look, man, we came where y'all going. Yes,
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: it ain't ain't nothing open, ain't no where to go.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: All right, Steve, thank you. Coming up at thirty four
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: after the hour, we're going to switch gears. We're gonna
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: ask the CLO. He's in the building, the Chief Love
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Officer that's coming up right after this. You're listening to
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: time now to ask the CLO. The Chief Love Officer,
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey is in the building. If you want to
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: ask him something, please submit your questions to Steve Harvey
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: FM dot com. Okay, this one, Steve is from Anna
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: and Dallas. It says, I think my husband is cheating
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: on me. He is always on the phone and he
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: hangs up real quick if I walk in the room.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: I used to have the pass code to his phone,
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: but not anymore. Two months ago, he started taking viagra
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: and I got excited. But we have not had sex
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: at all since we've been quarantined. So I asked him
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: what was he taking viagraph for. He said he was
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: sick of me nagging him, and he ignored me for
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: two days straight. Last night, he grabbed a bottle of
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: our best wine and said he was going to play poker.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: I told him he shouldn't be around other people, but
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: he left anyway. What's really going on a lot of stuff.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Men that play poker don't drink wine. That's a start,
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: But you need to be at home and we quarantine. Yeah,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: well who playing poker? Way and found five other food
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: drip polka. Now listen to me. I'm not saying your
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: husband it's cheating, but you are. You have women's intuition,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: use it. I'm not saying your husband is cheating. Let's
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: just say that there's a remote possibility that there's five
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: dudes that play poker and drink wine. Let's just say
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: for the first time I've ever heard that in my
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: whole damn life. What are the odds? Yeah? Yeah, and
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: I know a lot of dudes. Hey man, you don't
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: get a bottle of wine play some cards? What next question?
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: What's the biograph? I don't know what that stuff? And
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: you ain't he been taking viagra? And y'all ain't having sex? Right?
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: Come on, now, it ain't one and one is two
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: and sweet stuff? All right? From this is from R
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: E in Atlanta. I'm a single black male and I'm
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: in graduate school. I am dating a female in my
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: graduate program, and I was planning to propose soon. In January,
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: she got pregnant but she terminated the pregnancy before she
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: told me she was pregnant. She said she slipped up
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: and had sex with her ex, and the baby wasn't
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: mine mine I had I'd heard about her wild side
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: before we started dating, but I have things in my
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: past that I regret too, so I tried not to
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: judge her, but this really hurt me. Should I leave
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: her alone now because she does something else before she
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: does something else? Or should I try to forgive her? Well, okay, don't.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: You can try to forgive what you can. Go ahead
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: and start with the forgiveness right now. You can go ahead.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: You can't forgive a person, but not let me ask you. So.
• 42:40
  Speaker 1: So you say you heard about her wild pads, but
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: is the wild pass still in the pad because she
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: ran up into her ex, slipped up, had sex, got pregnant,
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: terminated it, then told you it wasn't your baby. Wait
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: a minute, mane, how did you find out she terminated
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: a pregnancy? So now, dog, I mean, that's too much.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: That's a lot that you're trying to work through your
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: past that then crept back into the right now, the
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: eggs that then crept up into the right now, A
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: baby that was aborted, but she told you to keep
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: you cool. It wasn't yours. She slipped up one time
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: with him. What come on the yellow. I'm telling you
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: right now, dog, I ain't finished. You need to finish school.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: We ain't fits the Friday's fish and move on. Get
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: your masks. We we we ain't fitting the friday this
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: fish like you ain't get You ain't gonna worry about
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: what the sides is with this, just not fried this fish.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: What you're gonnahead with it? We're gonna have nothing. You're
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: not frying. No, don't worry about spaghet it. You ain't
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: gonna worry about nothing now. We don't worry about hot sauce. Yeah,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: you're right, Clo. That's why you are the CLO. Coming
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: up next, we're gonna switch gears. The nephew in the
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: building with today's praying phone call. Right after this, you're
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour,
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: subject my mom needs to get a life. Okay, plain
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: and simple, My mom's yea a life. Right now, Nephew
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: standing by with today's praying phone call. What do you
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  Speaker 1: have for us today. Nef a hot? It's huh again
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: a hot? Oh a brother? Part of the sermon Heart
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  Speaker 1: in the House tonight, Let's go. Hello. Hey, I'm trying
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: to reach Alan. This is Alan Alan. How you doing man?
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: My name is Bobby, Bobby Book. Uh what what can
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: I do for you? I got your number, man, from
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: the from the hospital. Did you just um within the
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: last I guess three four months? Did you get a
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: heart transplant? But the half months ago? Yeah? I did?
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: I did three and a half months ago. Okay, how
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: you been feeling? Man? Actually good, I'm actually up and
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: around faster than I thought it was gonna be, you know.
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: So I'm doing well. Thank you? Are you with are you?
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: Are you with the hospital? No? No, I'm not. Uh.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Actually you know they gave me your number. Man. I
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: hope you kate waiting, but you you you actually? Uh
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: the heart that you got was from from my brother Art.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: Oh my god? Really yeah that's my brother, my brother.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry about your brother, but wow, I gotta
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: tell you he saved my life. Man. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: so so, I you know, I just want to call you, man.
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: I hope you on mind? You know, no, no, not
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: at all. No, it's kind of like a little bit
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: of my brothers. It's still living, you know what I mean,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: It kind of it kind of feels like my brother's
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: still living. So that's a good thing. It's a good
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: thing that glad. Thank you. Yeah. Yeah, let me ask
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: you this, man. I'm just curious because you Caucasian, right, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, do you feel any any different having
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: a black man's heart in your body? Cutting up? No,
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: I don't feel any difference. Uh no. Oh. I didn't
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: really think about it though. And this this will just
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: make me and the rest of the family feel good
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: that we knew what he was dedicated to and the
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: things that matter to him. Would you feel all right
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: joining the naacp uh? Is that? Are there? Some people
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: are gonna be upset that I joined? I mean, it's
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: that okay, now, well, you know, I don't know about
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: anybody being upset. Man, It's just I know my brother
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: that that's what he was a part of, and you know,
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: you you're walking around with his heart. Man, it would
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: just feel different, feel great, you know, to have to
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: feel like he would be back in there doing what
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: he was doing and fighting for for injustice for the
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: black community. Now you are Democratic or Republican. Well, you know,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: I mean honestly that I was Republican until Trump, and
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: now I'm just really I'm kind of on the science.
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: I mean, that guy's in the idiot. You did vote
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: for Trump. I did not, But I am a Republican, Okay.
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: So and the reason why, you know, because I'm just
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: curious man about it. What I what I would hate
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: to see is you know, when twenty twenty come around,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you know, you you over there in the voting booth,
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: you know, with my brother black Heart and you and
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: then you know, voting Republican. Uh, you know, and and
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: that's something I know my brother wouldn't be doing, you
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I'm just I'm just asking, well,
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not happy with Trump, but if someone
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: else in the Republican party runs and I agree with them,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I'm it's kind of like it's my heart. Now I
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: can't change my point of view just because of that.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, but but but but what you're not
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: gonna do, though, man, is be in there with my
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: brother black Heart and you up in there making some
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: decisions that I know my brother wouldn't do. You see
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's a long way off, man, But
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: I can't promise you that. I mean, if somebody runs
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: that I like, I mean, I'm gonna vote the way
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: I feel my heart and my head tell me the one.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: Don't don't say what my heart because that ain't your heart.
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: You understand that my brother hard So you got every
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: right to ask me what you think my brother would
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: feel in his heart. And I tell you you understand
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't like the way I feel. Hey, man,
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: let me ask something you have you been like craving
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: different kinds of foods that you don't loly? Well? Wait,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, what kind of call is this? Man?
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're asking me all these random questions. Why
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: what I don't understand where it was coming from is
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: coming from my brother's hawt That's where it's coming from.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: You got my brother black heart inside of you, you know. Yeah,
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: I'm asking you. I'm asking you to do what my
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: brother would do, not what you would do. You want
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: to do it from your heart? You then you're doing
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: it from my brother's heart. When you first call me
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: about your brother, I was excited. Now I'm saying, how
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: much did the hospital give you just this number? And
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: you get to call me up? That's privilege information. You
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: shouldn't get to just call me and asking all these
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: random questions. Man, I just got a heart tat plan.
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: Now you're starting to get me worked up. If I'm
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: not trying to get you worked up, all I'm trying
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: to man, Okay, Okay, well let me let me come.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: All I know is you got Troy had and inside
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: of you, and I'm trying to let you know the
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: kind of person choy ap please okay, so let me
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: let me ask this. Has your music change or you're
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: listening to more n B? Now? I do like R
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: and B, but I listened a hard rock till that
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: hasn't changed. Because what's in trub hard Gonne stage in
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: troyt hard, you understand? So you got to have that's
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: in your heart? Naps? Did butt in a CP? That's
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Okay, trying to tell you about truth?
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: What are you crying that I'm trying to tell you
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: about Ruby? Hey? Hey, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Don't I
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: know you missed your brother, don't damn? I'm sorry. Okay,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: let let me say this, say, okay, since you got
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: my brother hard, I think it's only right to me
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: and you we get together and go to go to
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: a jay Z Cars so together. I think that's the
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: only right jay Z and be honestly, because so we
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: go together because that's what me and my brother did.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: We we will go see them perform. Well, I mean
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: they are to the best of all time. So am
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: I buying both the tickets? Oh this up? You got
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: trouble heart and you were a who's gonna pay for
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: some tickets? I didn't know. I thought maybe you might
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: want to treat your brother one last time. I'm sorry,
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, Yeah, no, no, okay, listen, I'm really
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. I mean I get upset. I didn't
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: mean the yell at I'm sorry. I'm really sorry. Do
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: you listen to black radio sometimes I do listen to
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: black radio. This is Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, yeah,
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: he's one of the best man I had to follow
• 51:24
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• 51:27
  Speaker 1: got a nephew on the show and he does frank
• 51:31
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• 51:37
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• 51:42
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• 51:49
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude, you almost gave me a second
• 51:51
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• 51:55
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• 51:59
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• 52:06
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• 52:21
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• 52:23
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• 52:33
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• 53:29
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• 53:32
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• 53:37
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• 53:59
  Speaker 1: love and hold on tight. We got it for you here.
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry letter, Thank you, nephew. This one says,
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: my mom needs to get a life. That is the subject.
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty one year old college
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: student and I am an only child. My parents divorced
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: when I was twelve, and I grew up living with
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: my mom. Since I was young. I have always been
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: a protector for my mom, and I felt like I
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: had to take care of her. She is a beautiful
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: woman and she still has a nice shape, so men
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: are drawn to her. Whenever we are out, men look
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: at her and stop and speak. She hasn't been on
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: many dates in the last few years, and I have
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: overheard her on the phone telling men that her son
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: is her main priority and she doesn't have time to date. Well,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I am grown now and living in another state, and
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: she's still using that line. My mom pressures me to
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: fly home on weekend so we can hang out and
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I can do things around the house for her. When
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: I'm at home, I have to cut the grass, her car,
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: mcminor repairs at home, and run errands for her. I'm
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: expected to go to church, dinner, and anywhere else she
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: might want to take me. If I tell her that
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: I made plans with my friends from high school, she
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: puts a guilt trip on me. And I end up
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: staying home. She has no idea how much she really
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: needs a man in her life. I am sure the
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: divorce messed her up, but maybe counseling could help her.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: She will probably be upset with me when she finds out,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: but I have asked her two best girlfriends to take
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: her out as soon as she as soon as this
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: quarantine is over. They agreed to do her hair and
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: make up and help her get her groove back. I
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: love my mother, but I can't be everything for her anymore.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: How can I get my mom to see that she
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: needs a man? Please advise? Well, first, I gotta tell
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: you this. It sounds like you were raised well. You
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: don't say much about your dad except where they divorced
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: at twelve. But you know, if this is all your mom,
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: she did a great job, because you know, you do
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: know how to take care of her. But now you're
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: twenty one, and you're right, she does need a man
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: of her own, or just not to pressure you and
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: to guilt trip you into doing it. And of course
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: you love your mom you want to help her. But again,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: you're twenty one. Now you have your own life, your
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: own friends, and that's okay. You're perfectly within your right
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: to do that. You should have that. You want to
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: be on your own, without any guilt trips, without any
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: babysitting mom, none of that. Your mom is taking advantage
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: of you, and at this point, all the stuff she's
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: making you do, you're right. Mom should have a man,
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: or a handyman. Get a handyman from tackle. They're easy.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: I did that at my house and it was perfect.
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: Do something like that. Okay, your mom is lonely. She
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: misses you. It's quite obvious. And since she doesn't have
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: a man, guess what you're it when she can guilt
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: you and pressure you into coming home. You say, she's
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: still nice. You know, she still looks good, she still
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: has a nice body, and she can attract men. So
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: you know, I think it's a really good thing that
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: you've called on her best girlfriends to step in and
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: help her. That's I think that's exactly what she needs.
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: I love the fact that you're twenty one and you're
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: wise enough to know all of this. Your mom just
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: needs to let you go now, and you need to
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: talk to her. Sit her down, talk to her nicely, respectfully,
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: and just tell her how you feel. You know, you
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: guys have that bond and then you go on and
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: live your life. Steve, Yeah, young brother, we got a
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: little situation here. You're the only child. Your parents divorced
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: when you were twelve. You are now twenty one. You
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: grew up with your mom. You've always been her protective
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: and you feel like you had to take care of
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: That's a boy's job. That's training for becoming a man.
• 57:55
  Speaker 1: That's what we are. One of our main qualities as
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: men is to be a protector. She's beautiful, still got
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: nice shapes from me. In a drawn to her, she
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: hadn't been on a lot of dates in a few years.
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: And I've overheard on the phone telling men that her
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: son is her main priority and she doesn't have time
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: to date. Or she's using that line because she's stuck
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: in reverse. And what I mean by that is, you
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: got a divorce. Your mom got a divorce when you
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: were twelve. You're twenty one. If you reverse the number
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: twenty one, you back at twelve. She has not moved
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: off that number. She is stuck thus who as she was,
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  Speaker 1: and since the divorce, she has put her life on pause.
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  Speaker 1: At first, that was a true statement. I don't have
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: time to date. He's your number one priority. You've grown,
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  Speaker 1: you live out of state. Now you cannot be her
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: number one priority anymore. But she keeps using that because
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: it sounds good. It's a defense mechanism that she's giving
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  Speaker 1: these guys to protect herself from the vulnerability of being
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: in a relationship. So we have a situation here, we
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  Speaker 1: really really do that, and your mom needs some help
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: and you have to help her get unstuck. You have
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: to help her find some independence. Now. I like the
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: idea you had about calling her girlfriends. So when we
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: come back, I'll try to find, maybe if I can,
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: a couple of suggestions for you, but I'm not I
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: don't know if you're gonna like them a lot, but
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: I think you might have to try some of them. Okay,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: hanging there, young fellow. It's gonna be all good. But
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: some things you're gonna have to do to help her
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: with her independence. I think that's what I think. That's
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: what I'll have when we come back. All right, Steve,
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  Speaker 1: I like it. We'll have part two of your response
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  Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's
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  Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. My mom needs to get a life we'll
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  Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters, subject my mom
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: needs to get a life. Well, you're right, your mom
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: does need to get a life. But you're gonna have
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: to help her because you've been divorced. You're from a
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  Speaker 1: divorce family since you were twelve. You're twenty one, and
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: like I said earlier, your mom is stuck in reverse
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: her life. She put it on pause when you were twelve.
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  Speaker 1: Nine years later, she's still stuck in that same thing.
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  Speaker 1: So even though she's nice looking, still got a nice shape,
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  Speaker 1: men are drawn to her. She's telling men that you're
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  Speaker 1: her number one priority, which you were when you were
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  Speaker 1: twelve through sixteen seventeen in high school, but you went
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  Speaker 1: to college. Now you live somewhere else. Now your mom
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  Speaker 1: pressures you to fly home and wants you to wash
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: a car, cut the grass. Now she wants you to
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: do the things that your dad used to do. See,
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 1: she keeps getting stuck in reverse, so she uses you
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  Speaker 1: as the excuse because you're her number one priority because
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: you were her child still are. But when you were
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: a little boy, you're grown man now well now she
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: uses that same excuse. But when you come home, now
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: you got to do what Daddy used to do. Okay,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: just go in your room and play video game. So
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: now you've called on her a couple of her girlfriends
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: to fix her hand, take her out once this quarantine
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: is over. Navd Greed, great job. But now, young man,
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do some things to help her
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: because you got to help your mother cut the apron streets. See,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 1: you're not hanging on to the apron strings. Your mother
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: has tied the apron strings around your neck and she
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: yanks him when she needs something. So now what you're
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: gonna have to do is you're gonna have to help
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  Speaker 1: her cut the apron strings. I have a few suggestions.
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  Speaker 1: Let's go now, young man, you might not like these,
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  Speaker 1: but you're gonna have to practice. I'm not gonna joke
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  Speaker 1: with him because he's a young dude and he trying
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: to help, trying to get it together. So like if
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: my son's had this issue, what would I tell? So
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: here we go in twenty one. You're gonna have to
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: start practicing some tough love. She is your mother, but
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: you've got to help her. Untied the apron strings so
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  Speaker 1: she can get on with her life. So in this
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: tough love, you're gonna have to start flying home so much.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: You just gotta stop. Man, mom, waa busy this weekend.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: I can't make it. That's one suggestion. The next suggestion
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  Speaker 1: is when you do fly in, fly in with a girl.
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  Speaker 1: See that puts the big boys stuff in their face
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  Speaker 1: a little bit quicker. And I think you have to
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  Speaker 1: introduce her to the man that you are now so
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: she could quit view and you ask the boy and
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: stop trying to make you her man. She has to
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: see that you are somebody else's man. Let's church say man.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: So I think you should fly in with her. Here's
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: another suggestion. You need to fly her sometimes to you
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: so she can see your life. Have your friends drop by,
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: have a card party at your house or whatever y'all have,
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: you know, have her, have her stay at your house
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: and your girl spend the night. You got to introduce
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  Speaker 1: her to your life. Now. I'm not saying you got
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: to be disrespectful in any way, so you don't want
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: to do that. But if it's not being disrespectful, you
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  Speaker 1: just got to introduce it to your life. Because all
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: that going out to did it with your mom and
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: all like that. Yeah that's good and all that's cool. Man,
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: ain't nothing wrong with that, But man, it's pulling on you,
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: and she's not. Once she sees her child with a life,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 1: once she sees her child with a man, then we
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: own to something. Now she might start saying, Wow, he's
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: not my number one priority because he has other priorities.
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: Now he's still You're gonna still love your mama to
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: day you die, but you gotta practice some tough love
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  Speaker 1: if you don't. And you're gonna be playing this game
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: for a long time. And I'm gonna tell you something, man,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: this game aren't gonna be cute to girls you're dating
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: because they're not gonna see it like that. They're gonna
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: thank you a mama's boy, when really it's just she's
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: a she's a boy's mama. It's really reverse. You ain't
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: a mama's boy. She's a boy's mama, and she want
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: to be a boy's mama all her life. And she
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: she gotta young man now, and so you're gonna have
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: to help her. Cut dabrid Street. That's my answer to
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: the letter, without any jokes, And I think he'll get
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: it because he's a pretty wise young man at twenty one,
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: smart dude, very much so. And he was raised well.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: So you give mom credit for that. Oh, she done
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: a great job. She did a really good job with
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: this young man. She did. But you know, come on, now,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: everybody has to grow up. But he's not her man though.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: That's the thing. He's not her man, he's her son. Well,
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: she has to realize that. And the only thing way
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: to get it is he got to help her. He's
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: got to help her. Yeah, and you could also solicit
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: her friends to help with that too, not only take
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: her out, but say, hey, come on now, you gotta
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: let this boy have his life. And it's not like Steve.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: It's not like she doesn't have men in her life
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: that call her, that want to be with her. It's
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: not even like that. But surely all he got to
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: do is flying down with a bad that'll shut it
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: all down you right now? Yeah, well, why would you
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: bring Hi Hi? Yeah? Because I really careful care about him. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: that's what you have to do. M hmm, that's what
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: you have to do. Oh Mom, gotta let go, all right.
• 1:06:23
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• 1:06:30
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• 1:06:33
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• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: about being positive on this Wellness Wednesday that's coming up
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show well on this
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: Wellness Wednesday, Steve. A new survey found that sixty percent
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: of respondence said they planned to use or have already
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: used this time during the stay at home order to
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: improve themselves, whether it's learning a new language, learning how
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 1: to play a new instrument, taking online college courses, learning
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: to cook, or working out more. It's way on this way,
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: It's Wellness Wednesday, Tommy, play on this your ask what
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: she's saying. She said, I never heard wellness Wednesday. We
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 1: do it. Come on. A majority of the responders Steve
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: believe that they will be a better person once the
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: COVID nineteen crisis is over. And so are you working
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: on anything right now? Guys, Steve? Yeah, I really am.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: I mean my eating I've changed, and this is a
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: This is how I know I'm serious because I've made
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: this diet change. Just the way I eat when I
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: ain't got no where to go. Yeah, and most people
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: Steve are doing the They're hanging on to that refrigerator.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 1: They're in there every yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Well my wife
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: and I hanging on to the refrigerator too, but we'll
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: only put certain things in there. I have not had
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: anything for fifteen days that I started this. Fifteen days
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: I've eaten completely clean. I have not put anything in
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: my body that's been processed at all. That's connect. So
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: have you lost weight? Have you lost Yeah? Yeah, I
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: don't want to say how much though, Okay, okay, okay,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: well congratulations. Yeah I don't ye yes, yeah, but I
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: just thought, yeah, go ahead, Yeah, I was gonna ask
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Junior or what I'm working on by the time this thing, Oh,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be bad at going out, I won't be
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: bad at I'm gonna be so much better at leaving.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: Like the meme that's says, after the COVID nineteen is over,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: crisis is over, I invite me to everything. I'm going
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: to everything. Oh yeah, I do that. Yeah, but but
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: but that's what I'm working on getting out of here.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: What about you, nephews? I do I do well onness wings.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: That's what I do what well on this wings wings
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: that they all they wings on the grills. Wellness wings
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: on whist man, you can't beat this him you you
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: you be wailing fan when you get a play of
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: my wings, trust me on this him? Okay, well, thank you.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: I think we're all caught up now. Coming up at
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll ask Junior about his
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: dating life. Oh right after this, you're listening to morning show.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: All right, Junior, So we all have a you know,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: a few single friends in quarantine that are very anxious
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: to get back to the dating life and hooking up.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: You know, uh yeah, that they're gonna be swiping left
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: and right on the online apps apps to meet people,
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: and you know they want to start dating again. So
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: our question to you, Junior, is, as the quarantine made
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: you want to be in a relationship or get married
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: or just appreciate being single? Which which way are you
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: going with this? Will you be lowing or keep lowering
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: or keeping your standards when you get out of the quarantine? Oh,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: absolutely sure that they low Like what will you accept
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: out that you would accept? First of all, I don't
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: have time to meet nobody own no app No, I
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: ain't swiping up. I gotta meet you right where you at,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: whether it's the stow in your car, at the park,
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: your football game, I'm gonna meet you over there, because, yeah,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: I got a problem with this lowly thing. I got somebody,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: and I realized high I'm pulling it is to have somebody.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: My standards are probably the same standards as you will
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: for a newborn baby. Ten toes, ten fingers. Let's I
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: really don't need much else after that. Anything else is
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: a bonus. If you can talk good, if you can
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: hold a conversation, we'll take that. I don't really have
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: too If they I don't care if they really messed up,
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: because I'm telling I've been in here nine months by myself.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I can't be picking how she looking, what she got on?
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: Is you talking to look you? I look attractive to you.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: This is what I need to know. This is all
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: I need because I found out it's important to have somebody. Uh,
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: you know it really is, you know you know what.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 1: Matter of factually, I don't even like dogs, but I'm
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: gonna get one because it's gonna help with the recruitment.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna use the dog dog to get
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: me a female. Yes, I am good laid out for
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: when they lift this lift this band. I ain't got
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: to take no shower. I'm already be out there though.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: I'd be our first one in the car. The best
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: suit I got in my closets coming out. Yeah, I'm
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: gonna be so damn shop. But I'm at a football
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: game hauling for Mason. Because that's her son. Put on Mason.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: Let's get in Mason. Here we go by Bacon has
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: no clue who the hell I am. And it's red
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: suit with the black suede shoes on. Yeah, he got
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: the red one out do I got the red without
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: man because I'm not gonna sit in here act like
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: this is this is, this is what's popping. Do you
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: know how many FaceTime videos I'm trying to have a
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: date on somebody. These virtual dates me going on don't work.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: Do you ever try tongue kissing with you just kissing them?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: It really don't go that well. Because I've learned how
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: glass taste. That's what I thought about. This ain't really
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: was popping that. What's it got my whole tongue sliding across.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: I didn't even know I had a cut in the
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: middle of my tongue had a TORTI and ship put
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: that there. We're learning so much. I'll be listening to
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: y'all be time. I can't stand talking to my partner
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: all this time. I want some time and partner all.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: I need somebody in here. I told y'all when my
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 1: neighbor she across the hall with her, don't open my
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: dough open. She think I'm creeping every time somebody lives
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: on her. I opened it, dough just said what's up?
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: She just slammed her. I don't shown't like me right now,
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: but wait till I walk out on this first day
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: of quarantine up on you. How she's gonna be all
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: of man, I don't care. I'm just saying it's just
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: enough for me to understand that this is important. Hey, Julior,
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: what's up on, Junior? When you're opening the dough man,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: why don't you take them big basketball shorts off? You
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: know what the problem? Yeah? Yeah, what I'm wanna put
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: on top? I'm in here by myself. I'm in him now.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: How you think I know I'm working from home? Don't
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: wear anything. I didn't even look you know what that
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 1: could be the problem? I mean I'm coming to the
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: doe like baby boy. That's why I look like what
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 1: I thought joan coming to the dough. We're not gonna
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: step it up now. I'm gonna go ahead and get
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: the blue suit and put it on. When she opened
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 1: up dough, then she gonna see something different. Yes, she's
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 1: gonna see something different. But this is the very important.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: This ain't even fun, man, it's not. Don't let nobody
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: single tell you that they're having a good time. They lie.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: I need the woman who can cook and clean or
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: do something. I'm tired of doing it. All right, coming
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: up more of today's trending stories, and I think Steve
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: has some information for Junior. More information. We'll be back
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour, right after this. You're listening,
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: all right, So Steve, you had some more information from Junior.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 1: Junior says, you know, when the quarantine is over, he
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: wants to um, you know, be in a relationship. So
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: you were trying to help him out. That's what you do, man, Cello,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: y'all you stay right across the hall. Man, Yes, I
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: get you one of them selfie sticks. I want you
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: to open your door so you can practice social distancing,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: Take the selfie stick and knock on her door, or
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: push it and ring the door back. Have a note
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: on the end of the selfie stick that says, I'm
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: going to the store. I just want to know if
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: you'd like for me to drop anything off at your
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: door when I come back. That's how you do, though,
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: I know you just say I'm going to the store,
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: just trying to be a decent neighbor. Say anything you
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: need it all. I'm going to the grocery store, into
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: the drug store. Can I pick you up anything at all?
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: She say? Oh, thank you so kindly, but I won't
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: have anything that ain't got nothing to do with you.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: You're gonna bring ass something back anyway. What's taller tissue?
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: You be a small? Ye? Yes? Oh you know real
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: nice bottle water? Yeah you know? Yeah. Right. We'll be
• 1:16:18
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• 1:16:20
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• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to, all right, Steve, some
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: sad news, really sad news. Black Enterprise founder and publisher
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: Earl G. Graves Senior, I mean, just the entrepreneur um
• 1:16:39
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• 1:16:43
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• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: career advancement and money management has passed away. Um, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that that really is sad. According to us, go ahead now.
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  Speaker 1: According to a son, Black Enterprise CEO, Earl Butch Graves Junior,
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  Speaker 1: mister Graves Senior passed away after a long battle with
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  Speaker 1: Alzheimer's disease. And of course we are sending our condolences
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  Speaker 1: to the Graves family and to the staff at Black
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  Speaker 1: Enterprise magazine. He meant a lot to a lot a
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  Speaker 1: lot of people. Yeah, man, this brother right here, man
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  Speaker 1: was so instrumental in ensuring that black businesses had a
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  Speaker 1: voice and recognition and support. And him and his sons
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  Speaker 1: and his daughter, I mean, and his wife. Man, just
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  Speaker 1: a beautiful family man, one of the one of the
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  Speaker 1: really really nice families. I played golf with his sons
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  Speaker 1: several times down at the Black Enterprise golf and tennis
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  Speaker 1: things that used to go on every year. I met
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  Speaker 1: a lot of good people through him. He was just
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  Speaker 1: a great leader Black people in the business community. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, this dude was a great father man. He
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  Speaker 1: was a great servant of people. He required excellence from
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  Speaker 1: everybody around him, but he showed him how it was doing. Uh.
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  Speaker 1: He also was a CEO Pepsi during the nineteen nineties,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And uh he was a frat brother. He
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  Speaker 1: was a longstanding member of Almighty Omega sci Fi. So
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  Speaker 1: all the brothers uh in the frat are very aware
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  Speaker 1: of this. And uh, he was just a really really
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  Speaker 1: powerful dude man, and really powerful and he he loved people, man,
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  Speaker 1: He just loved people, you know, and he was he
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  Speaker 1: was some major loss man, major loss man. In my heart.
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  Speaker 1: Condolens to go out to Butcher, Neil and h and
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  Speaker 1: and and you know, the us to the family man
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  Speaker 1: who I've met, and it's just a tough you know.
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  Speaker 1: Earl Junior. Oh he had three songs. He had Earl Junior,
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  Speaker 1: he had Johnny and Michael. I think he had lights.
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  Speaker 1: I think he had eight grandkids. Oh, powerful dude man,
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  Speaker 1: So you know the grandkids. It starts to having a
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  Speaker 1: domino effect when you lose great people. Man, when when
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  Speaker 1: a person passed it ain't just at one. So condolences
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  Speaker 1: go out to the whole Graves family man, all of y'all,
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  Speaker 1: thank you very much. Wow. Coming up it's our last
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  Speaker 1: break of the day. It's a love break of the day,
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  Speaker 1: and we'll have some closing remarks from the one and
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  Speaker 1: only Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes after the hour
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  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, Here we are,
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  Speaker 1: last break of the day. It's been a good day. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: wellness when today we're here, well on this Westen just
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  Speaker 1: some queens. I didn't tell you, guys, I did put
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  Speaker 1: on my last shots today. I have a makeup today.
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  Speaker 1: Uh what's the first thing you ladies gonna do when
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  Speaker 1: y'all get well? Well, Well, let me just say I'm
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  Speaker 1: happy for him. Pretty sure. I'm getting getting my hair done, hair,
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  Speaker 1: nail done for sure, pedicare all of that day. Put
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  Speaker 1: on my nail, Yeah, because I missed glad, I missed
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  Speaker 1: my glam. Put on some heel, Steve, I broke another
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  Speaker 1: nail in here. That's what I saw, my husband. When
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna get to the last damn nail, man, why
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  Speaker 1: don't you just cut him all down side? I said
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  Speaker 1: that that's what you gotta do. Weren't deny all about
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  Speaker 1: doing that? Yeah? I had to go ahead and cut
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  Speaker 1: him down. Yeah. Yeah, But junior. Steve is, uh, you
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  Speaker 1: got to find a way to get to this girl
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  Speaker 1: that was brilliant through the selfish stick. Tell me what
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  Speaker 1: you know about her. I know she's from Detroit. We talked.
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  Speaker 1: You know, she probably Detroit. You know, I know she
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  Speaker 1: is uh in mass communications for AT and T you know. Okay, okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, so I know a little bit about it.
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  Speaker 1: She's single. Uh huh, okay. Has she been coughing at
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  Speaker 1: all in that age? Yeah? Well if you hear coffing,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: if you hear coffing, cross to all. We need to canceled.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: We're talking about Yeah, yeah, we got canceled in Okay,
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  Speaker 1: So that's a slick idea. Another thing would be the
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  Speaker 1: slide a note under the door. Oh you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it's just a note up under the door.
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  Speaker 1: Hey listen, Uh, in light of this social distancing, I
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  Speaker 1: just thought I would ask you. That's anything I can
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  Speaker 1: do for you. Please don't hesitate to slide a note
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  Speaker 1: under my door, and you know, man, just leave it
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  Speaker 1: at that. Naw, she slides a note back under your door.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh we pop it. Oh, we popping, partner, because
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  Speaker 1: now your next note it's gonna be up. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: you sliding this note under my door absolutely made my day.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Is that? You know that's that's
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  Speaker 1: a whole nother trimp, Junior, just a separate You got
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  Speaker 1: to have a molding toilet tissue boy. Okay, she ain't
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  Speaker 1: down her last road waiting. Yea. So now then if
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  Speaker 1: she slides that note back, I had that note. Oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, it meant the world to me that you
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  Speaker 1: responded by note. I thought that was really precious. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much. If you need anything, don't hesitate and
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  Speaker 1: I'll be checking on you again. She don't know you
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  Speaker 1: mean tomar Ryan ran and now you get it started
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  Speaker 1: like they had. Anybody know how to spell hesitate? Is that? Yes?
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  Speaker 1: We do use the word. You know, you know? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: don't don't don't send bad spelling to the girl. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: she got a good job at a T and TC.
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  Speaker 1: Smart Tommy, Tommy has it for you. Go ahead, Tommy
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  Speaker 1: heads at z E hey e, hesitate. I know I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to get you through the dough boy, ain't trying.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you to sliding the notes all. I'm
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  Speaker 1: trying to get your all there in there. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you to quarantine with it. M
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  Speaker 1: breathe Yeah, who wants to breathe on? Stupid person? Come
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  Speaker 1: on over here with your dumb ass. Let me teach
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 1: you how to spade first, or I invite your dumb
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: mass to accompany you. So what should he wear, Steve?
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: You told him to take off the big basketball shop.
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  Speaker 1: I noticed what he got on. Yeah, don't show your
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  Speaker 1: legs on the first day. What my legs got doing
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  Speaker 1: with it? Because they got a lot of cuts on it,
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 1: a little different, little different and then little and they're
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: real skin at the bottom because you got rain, didn't
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  Speaker 1: speed speed. You know, that's a lot of fences. You
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 1: didn't quite make it over, you know, I know what
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  Speaker 1: that is a lot of steps. She was running up
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  Speaker 1: and just totally didn't quite make that step. But you
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  Speaker 1: kept going. I've been that dog, I know. Yeah. Yeah,
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: but you want to be well dressed. Just a sport coat,
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: sport coat and slacks and T shirt on under the knife.
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  Speaker 1: You know, have a mask on. Tell you what's real?
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  Speaker 1: Cute man, Buy a three pack of mask slide them
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  Speaker 1: under her dough just in case you want to get
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 1: out for a walk, Just in case you want to
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: get out for a walk. You hear that mask walking slides.
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: So slice some wipes under her dough. All these is
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: quarantine things. Get your through you know stuff you got
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: you know, wipe man, I don't give a damn if
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: you got to take a few of the mouth and
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 1: put him in the damn ziplock and push that n
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: this dough dog. I'm trying to tell you plating how
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  Speaker 1: to get it started. You got time. She locked in there.
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  Speaker 1: She can't go nowhere. You and them notes on the
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 1: dough go win boy, you need to work on her dough.
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  Speaker 1: That's she probably need. No, you're gonna put all this
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: stuff onund of that. She just can't open it while
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  Speaker 1: I'm doing it. Hey man, these are my closing remarks.
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 1: Old we quarantine. Y'all have a great weekend. But once
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: again weekends no longer exist. They just some more days.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all be good man, y'all take care of yourself, pay
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  Speaker 1: attention to wash your hands, practice social distancing, pray, stay
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