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- 2:21Speaker 1: guest is truly an industry decision makers. Dr Steve Perry,
- 2:24Speaker 1: Doctor PARR, is a national leader in the education revolution,
- 2:28Speaker 1: a change agent who is tireless in his fights for
- 2:30Speaker 1: providing equal and competitive opportunities for children who otherwise will
- 2:34Speaker 1: not have a voice. His mission is to provide high
- 2:37Speaker 1: quality education with college bound opportunities for children in poverty.
- 2:42Speaker 1: In Dr Steve Perry opened his fifth school campus in Bronx,
- 2:46Speaker 1: New York, and all students are admitted to the schools
- 2:49Speaker 1: by random lottery in order to ensure equal access to
- 2:52Speaker 1: all students regardless of socio economic status academic history. Dr
- 2:57Speaker 1: Steve Perry's mission is to provide historically disadvantaged students with
- 3:02Speaker 1: the college and career readiness skills needed to become responsible,
- 3:06Speaker 1: engage citizens for social justice and offering a rigorous college
- 3:10Speaker 1: prof curriculum and the collective variety of athletic programs, project
- 3:15Speaker 1: based learning, and multi prong faculty support. Please work with
- 3:19Speaker 1: the money making conversation. Dear friend by man, Dr Steve Perry,
- 3:24Speaker 1: how are you doing, sir? Having the time of my life? Brother?
- 3:27Speaker 1: Really genuinely, I am and forgive me. I am in
- 3:30Speaker 1: Harlem so you will hear the sounds of the city.
- 3:33Speaker 1: I have no control over that, well, the sounds of
- 3:35Speaker 1: the city. If you're New York. I always tell people
- 3:37Speaker 1: like I think basically seven million people living New York
- 3:41Speaker 1: proper in Manhattan proper, and on a given day, seven
- 3:45Speaker 1: to eight million will enter New York. So you can
- 3:48Speaker 1: look at from Twitter to fifteen million people on that island.
- 3:52Speaker 1: So when you say noise in New York, I say, okay, right,
- 3:57Speaker 1: I have to say that everybody as familiar with our
- 4:01Speaker 1: home as as you are, so, uh, you you know
- 4:05Speaker 1: from your time here at the Apollo that this is
- 4:10Speaker 1: allowed little place we know. It's like Steve Erry, it's
- 4:13Speaker 1: really interesting that you know New York. I moved to
- 4:16Speaker 1: New York like an eight first time I went up
- 4:18Speaker 1: to New York and lived there, and it was in transition.
- 4:22Speaker 1: I remember I couldn't catch a cab if I was
- 4:24Speaker 1: in Lower New York to come to If you say
- 4:26Speaker 1: you're going across the hundred fiftree, they wasn't gonna you
- 4:29Speaker 1: might were not even getting the cab because they weren't
- 4:32Speaker 1: gonna take you. And then we went through this, you know,
- 4:34Speaker 1: the Central Park Joger, you know situation where the five
- 4:38Speaker 1: being were convicted and and then we then we transitioned
- 4:41Speaker 1: into they pick you up and take you up there.
- 4:43Speaker 1: And then you look at New York a hundred street
- 4:45Speaker 1: and white people at two am are walking their dogs.
- 4:49Speaker 1: And so this morning trip tripping me out, like it's
- 4:54Speaker 1: just really tripping me out. And so would you in there? Now?
- 4:58Speaker 1: What is why is it important? Because we're talking a
- 5:01Speaker 1: different hall of now, not the hall of my new
- 5:03Speaker 1: not the hall of you reading the newspaper? What hall
- 5:06Speaker 1: of are you working in? Now? What's the environment of
- 5:08Speaker 1: hall that you're tied to? Now? That's that's interesting, Um,
- 5:12Speaker 1: I am Our school is currently located on a hundred
- 5:16Speaker 1: and fourth and fifth Avenue, which, if you know anything
- 5:19Speaker 1: about New York, is right across the street from Central Park.
- 5:23Speaker 1: I mean I can see the botanical garden right outside
- 5:26Speaker 1: my window. And um, excuse me. We are on what's
- 5:31Speaker 1: called a museum mile, which is just what you just
- 5:34Speaker 1: aptly named. Behind me is the African American Museum. Beneath
- 5:39Speaker 1: me is a musel all the way down to the
- 5:42Speaker 1: Museum of Natural History. So this area is a gorgeous
- 5:46Speaker 1: area as areas go. Similarly, um, you are seeing a
- 5:53Speaker 1: conversion of the Brownstones purchased by mainly. Uh, we can't
- 5:58Speaker 1: just be middle class, you gotta be upper middle as
- 6:00Speaker 1: to wealthy folks, many of whom appear to be white, um.
- 6:06Speaker 1: And for them, Harlem is a place of a cultural experience.
- 6:13Speaker 1: They come, many of them come to be immersed in
- 6:16Speaker 1: what they believed to be the culture of Harlem. But
- 6:19Speaker 1: there's still that group right over there in the Union
- 6:22Speaker 1: housing projects, which is on the other block. So again,
- 6:27Speaker 1: if you're not from New York, what I'm explaining to
- 6:29Speaker 1: you would seem unconscionable that so much happens in in
- 6:34Speaker 1: so few square feet. But in the h two yards
- 6:40Speaker 1: that this block is. On one side you have some
- 6:43Speaker 1: of the wealthiest real estate arguably in America, and then
- 6:48Speaker 1: just two yards on the other side you have a
- 6:54Speaker 1: couple of housing projects, um. And then then the other
- 7:00Speaker 1: high you have a new high rise. So butchers between these,
- 7:05Speaker 1: uh are stuck between these two pretty expensive pieces of property,
- 7:12Speaker 1: you have housing projects and rant controlled places. One of
- 7:16Speaker 1: my colleagues lives in approximately, I want to be polite, ex.
- 7:22Speaker 1: Seven hundred square feet. It feels like five d seven
- 7:26Speaker 1: hundred s graare feet efficiency and she pays twenty seven
- 7:33Speaker 1: that's my right, that's right. So you're not scaring me
- 7:35Speaker 1: with those numbers. See I that was in the five
- 7:38Speaker 1: hundred square feet and I was happy. I was happy.
- 7:40Speaker 1: But but but so that's what it looks like. But
- 7:46Speaker 1: what I worked with, I worked with some of the
- 7:47Speaker 1: poorest kids in America. I worked with some, um, some
- 7:52Speaker 1: of the most talented, beautiful, awesome, poor black Latin children.
- 7:57Speaker 1: UM who wow around them? There is uh call it renaissance.
- 8:06Speaker 1: I don't know as you call it a renaissance. We're
- 8:08Speaker 1: not going backwards, um, but it is a a resetting
- 8:14Speaker 1: on I don't know if you remember what the path
- 8:16Speaker 1: mark used to be that place, Yeah, so the path
- 8:18Speaker 1: mark used which is just which is just a block
- 8:22Speaker 1: away from, um, the train station. That building was just
- 8:27Speaker 1: torn down. They're about to build They're about to be
- 8:31Speaker 1: excuse me, a very very very nice uh set up there. However,
- 8:36Speaker 1: on the ground level, it's like the Land of the Dead.
- 8:40Speaker 1: Bunch of zombie people walking up and down looked, it's rough.
- 8:45Speaker 1: I don't know if they're homeless, I don't I wouldn't
- 8:47Speaker 1: know what they do at night, so I can only
- 8:49Speaker 1: see what they do during the day. Um. But people
- 8:53Speaker 1: who most would consider or believed to be homeless, are
- 8:57Speaker 1: walking um and stacked. Uh just in the shadow of this.
- 9:03Speaker 1: You know, the thing about it is that to make
- 9:05Speaker 1: people understand the relatability of what he's saying, is that
- 9:07Speaker 1: because I lived in New York three times, and what
- 9:10Speaker 1: always threw me off was that you can't walk from
- 9:14Speaker 1: wealthy to poverty in a block. I mean, you can
- 9:17Speaker 1: walk on the same block. Is the same way whereas
- 9:19Speaker 1: in if you're a traditional city, you drive to it.
- 9:22Speaker 1: You drive, you drive to a housing project in New
- 9:27Speaker 1: York City, you walk past it. You know, you you
- 9:30Speaker 1: walk past the doorman who secured building, and you go
- 9:33Speaker 1: to the next block, and you're like, okay, where's my security.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Where's my doorman to get me through this block? So
- 9:40Speaker 1: there's a right there, that building right there as a security.
- 9:46Speaker 1: I think that the condos in there and they have
- 9:48Speaker 1: to start in the load ones millions like right there
- 9:53Speaker 1: and right there, separated by two hundred uh two in
- 9:59Speaker 1: the yards is public housing that just separates. Just that's
- 10:03Speaker 1: what it is. And so it is a tale of
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- 10:20Speaker 1: of racism are so effective as to allow for them
- 10:28Speaker 1: the coexistence of two vastly different groups of people, and
- 10:33Speaker 1: they they never seem to understand one another. And my
- 10:39Speaker 1: children don't often understand. I have explained it, like do
- 10:44Speaker 1: you know who we are? I mean, they're right here.
- 10:48Speaker 1: Do you know people call this? No, it's the museum mile,
- 10:52Speaker 1: like this is one of the wealth. Like this stretch
- 10:54Speaker 1: right here, it's like the wealth like it doesn't again,
- 10:59Speaker 1: I'll put it this way so on the other side
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- 13:08Speaker 1: So we're talking about the kind of wealth that's jaw
- 13:14Speaker 1: dropping ship right there, and the kind of poverty that's
- 13:19Speaker 1: equally jaw dropping. And here we are in the middle
- 13:23Speaker 1: attempting to carve a new door. Because, as you know,
- 13:27Speaker 1: Carter G. Wilson said that if you send a man
- 13:29Speaker 1: to the back door now and there is no back door,
- 13:34Speaker 1: when he gets there, he will cut one for himself.
- 13:37Speaker 1: M hmmm. So we're trying to teach our children to
- 13:40Speaker 1: go through a different door, really, the children and parents simultaneously.
- 13:44Speaker 1: We've been doing this for a long time. Do you
- 13:46Speaker 1: ever get what what frustrates you about the process of
- 13:48Speaker 1: what you're trying to do. What really frustrates me, uh
- 13:53Speaker 1: and really trips me out is that I thought we'd
- 13:57Speaker 1: be done by now. Honestly, I thought when I thought
- 14:05Speaker 1: when charter school started to open and we were able
- 14:09Speaker 1: to show that you could take the same Black children,
- 14:13Speaker 1: same Latin children, in the same address, from the same
- 14:17Speaker 1: families and put them in a different school and those
- 14:22Speaker 1: children would be able to read on grade level, right
- 14:25Speaker 1: on grade level, do math on grade level, go to
- 14:28Speaker 1: college at the rates anywhere from ninety upon graduation. Again,
- 14:34Speaker 1: I told you you canna hear us um it is.
- 14:39Speaker 1: I figured this country, and for what it's worth, the
- 14:46Speaker 1: president who got us started down that road was President
- 14:51Speaker 1: Bush too, but the person who really kicked it into
- 14:55Speaker 1: um full gear was President Obama. So I figured, as
- 14:59Speaker 1: soon as we show that you can take children from
- 15:03Speaker 1: wherever they come and help them ascend to the highest
- 15:08Speaker 1: highs that I mean both sides of our I figured
- 15:14Speaker 1: maybe the Republicans of triped because they're not as committed
- 15:17Speaker 1: to black and brown people as the Democrats say they are,
- 15:21Speaker 1: so maybe there'll be some rub there. But other than that,
- 15:24Speaker 1: we should be cool because their freedom loving people, and
- 15:28Speaker 1: they want the freedom of school choice. That's what I thought.
- 15:31Speaker 1: I could not be more wrong. The Democrats have been
- 15:33Speaker 1: the most ardent opponents of the very escape route that
- 15:37Speaker 1: we need to use to get out of the poverty
- 15:40Speaker 1: that in many cases there policies have plunged us into. Sadly,
- 15:46Speaker 1: the Republicans are so uh in apt around issues of
- 15:50Speaker 1: class and race that anything that comes out of their
- 15:52Speaker 1: mouths people think is racist, even when they're making headway
- 15:58Speaker 1: and policies of school choice. So what frustrates me is
- 16:01Speaker 1: that I find myself with these lying politicians all the time.
- 16:05Speaker 1: I mean, they get on my nerves. I'm not even
- 16:08Speaker 1: replying to you. Just some of them are people who
- 16:10Speaker 1: I know, like friends, people in my house. It is.
- 16:14Speaker 1: It is a peculiar paradox that I find myself in
- 16:17Speaker 1: because I you know, I just didn't walk through and
- 16:22Speaker 1: one of our schools here in Harlem and had to,
- 16:24Speaker 1: you know, tighten up some kids about not being a
- 16:27Speaker 1: uniform the way that's supposed to be doing that very
- 16:29Speaker 1: micro thing. But then from there I have to have
- 16:32Speaker 1: a macro conversation with the legislator about something that's just
- 16:36Speaker 1: it's just foolish, man. I don't even it sickens me
- 16:40Speaker 1: that we're still having these conversations. It is. And I
- 16:44Speaker 1: might add where I really, really, really really really was
- 16:50Speaker 1: wrong was I felt like if I, as a black
- 16:52Speaker 1: man committed to the black community, came to members of
- 16:55Speaker 1: the black community and I'm being completely transparent because you're
- 16:58Speaker 1: my god, I felt like I would be able to
- 17:04Speaker 1: get from black legislators, um, black wealthy people the kind
- 17:10Speaker 1: of support that our children need and let me be clear,
- 17:15Speaker 1: they're not putting any money in my pocket. They're not
- 17:17Speaker 1: increasing my salary. They don't make my house bigger at all. Actually,
- 17:22Speaker 1: when they give money to us, when they create legislation
- 17:26Speaker 1: that creates more opportunities for schools like ours to open,
- 17:29Speaker 1: my salary does not move, you know, despite my wife's
- 17:33Speaker 1: interest and son's interest in my salary moving. In fact,
- 17:39Speaker 1: one of my sons, one of my sons, goes to
- 17:41Speaker 1: school with a person who runs a large charter network
- 17:45Speaker 1: and she makes a considerable amount more than I do.
- 17:48Speaker 1: And he said, he said, see me all time. Do
- 17:51Speaker 1: you ever get frustrated by that? I don't. I didn't
- 17:57Speaker 1: get into this that I got in because I feel
- 17:59Speaker 1: so blessed to be a part of our children's lives.
- 18:02Speaker 1: I can't believe that God wakes me up all the
- 18:05Speaker 1: people others. I'm telling you, I can't and you know this,
- 18:09Speaker 1: and this is what we talked about. When there's no
- 18:11Speaker 1: cameras on, nobody watching, there's no bs anything, I can't
- 18:17Speaker 1: believe that God wakes this to uh it part of
- 18:25Speaker 1: like I just like in this way, it's just the
- 18:27Speaker 1: most awesome experience. So, I mean, do I enjoy earning
- 18:32Speaker 1: a living. I do, but I want to make it clear.
- 18:34Speaker 1: And and and if I made sixty billion dollars doing
- 18:38Speaker 1: it because I help kids, would that be a bad thing?
- 18:42Speaker 1: Be people who do great things? But that's not what happens.
- 18:46Speaker 1: What actually happens is when they give money, when they
- 18:50Speaker 1: create legislation, it presents opportunities for us to be able
- 18:56Speaker 1: to serve more children. What that means is I can
- 18:59Speaker 1: hire more peak, but who can create more classrooms so
- 19:02Speaker 1: that we can have more children? That's it, Dr Perry.
- 19:04Speaker 1: When we talk about the five schools that you have,
- 19:07Speaker 1: this is from my audience who's listening and who also
- 19:09Speaker 1: are watching, And basically, what is the attendance size of
- 19:13Speaker 1: the school? What is the age rain of the curriculum
- 19:15Speaker 1: schacle the new one that you have and in the bronx,
- 19:18Speaker 1: how does that work? Because we know about the lottery
- 19:21Speaker 1: system to get in. Are they all located in the
- 19:23Speaker 1: New York Connecticut area? Where they located these five schools
- 19:26Speaker 1: they are? Thank you so much for asking a u
- 19:29Speaker 1: thoughtful question like that, because most people don't um. So
- 19:34Speaker 1: we have we have two sites in Connecticut and Bridgeport.
- 19:40Speaker 1: We actually three, So I went in Hartford. I'm not
- 19:44Speaker 1: affiliated with that one anymore. I'll explain to you at
- 19:47Speaker 1: a moment um that was the first school. And then um,
- 19:52Speaker 1: we have two sites in Bridgeport, Connecticut and they're about
- 19:55Speaker 1: four hundred apiece. And then we have uh in horror
- 20:00Speaker 1: Um we have one that will be about eight hundred,
- 20:03Speaker 1: and then we have one in the Bronx that will
- 20:06Speaker 1: be about eight hun So the one we did in
- 20:09Speaker 1: Hartford is what was around eight hundreds, so, and then
- 20:14Speaker 1: some of them are broken into multiple sites. So that's
- 20:17Speaker 1: where the numbers are. Roughly three thousand m look and
- 20:21Speaker 1: so when you when you reach them, there's a's three
- 20:23Speaker 1: thousand students that because you you can the hard student,
- 20:27Speaker 1: poverty driven students, so three thousand students that you're given
- 20:30Speaker 1: a different way of life. They wouldn't have that different
- 20:32Speaker 1: way of life academically if you didn't have a vision
- 20:36Speaker 1: or feel blessed to get up. It's not about the money.
- 20:38Speaker 1: It's about providing an opportunity and escape to a better life.
- 20:41Speaker 1: Basically what you're doing with these students and their families too,
- 20:44Speaker 1: because the kids benefait they they do the things they're
- 20:47Speaker 1: supposed to go to college, hopefully can pay it forward
- 20:49Speaker 1: and co pick their family and move them forward as well.
- 20:52Speaker 1: That's your dream, politicians. People who think they are undertones
- 20:58Speaker 1: of greed tied to this, what do you what do
- 21:01Speaker 1: you do want out of it? Those those frustrating lanes.
- 21:04Speaker 1: But then you see the results, the students who have
- 21:08Speaker 1: left your school. How does that make you feel? Again?
- 21:13Speaker 1: So this weekend, great question? Great question. So this weekend
- 21:16Speaker 1: I went to two graduation parties, college graduation parties and
- 21:21Speaker 1: they have have those parents one one graduation I went
- 21:29Speaker 1: to UM then Way to graduated from Cton Hall and
- 21:33Speaker 1: UM to have the parents who are no longer together
- 21:37Speaker 1: actually recently divorced, to have them each separately come over
- 21:43Speaker 1: to me and thank me. I don't feel worthy. Um,
- 21:49Speaker 1: it's what I honestly feel when dad came over to
- 21:53Speaker 1: me and he said, you know, she couldn't have done
- 21:55Speaker 1: around you as a brother. Come on, I'm just a
- 21:58Speaker 1: spectator and this and like, no, you know, school, and
- 22:02Speaker 1: I appreciate it, and I'm gonna I'm gonna thank you
- 22:04Speaker 1: for the flowers that you're giving me while I'm still
- 22:06Speaker 1: up here, and I'm gonna appreciate that. But I current,
- 22:09Speaker 1: come on, this is this no person can do this,
- 22:14Speaker 1: This is not what people can do. This is God.
- 22:16Speaker 1: So um but what you know, Dr Parry, Dr Perry,
- 22:21Speaker 1: I can stop you right there because I know it
- 22:22Speaker 1: a long time, because you are and I've always criticized
- 22:26Speaker 1: you for your humbleness. You know, you know you are
- 22:28Speaker 1: a vessel. It is God's work. But you get up.
- 22:32Speaker 1: I know your wife, I know your boys. They sacrifice. Okay,
- 22:37Speaker 1: it's at a time you're going the road to speak
- 22:40Speaker 1: to kids that you don't know. I've seen it. You
- 22:43Speaker 1: go to camps hot in the summer talking to boys
- 22:46Speaker 1: you don't know, trying to just give them a nugget
- 22:49Speaker 1: of information that would change their life. And so I
- 22:53Speaker 1: got the humbleness. But they are right, you're that blessing.
- 22:56Speaker 1: You're that You're You're the kid, You're the kid who
- 22:59Speaker 1: grew up become a man and say no, somebody want
- 23:01Speaker 1: to make a difference, and that difference has to be
- 23:03Speaker 1: in other people. So what triggered that? That's what I
- 23:06Speaker 1: need to know. What triggered that? I appreciate that I
- 23:10Speaker 1: as you know, I'm I'm wickedly competitive. I understand somebody
- 23:15Speaker 1: has to lose. It just never has to be made.
- 23:17Speaker 1: So um, so for me, I want to be the
- 23:24Speaker 1: when this thing is done, when when the box is
- 23:28Speaker 1: mine and the dirt drums on top of it, I
- 23:31Speaker 1: want to be the best who's ever done. I don't.
- 23:35Speaker 1: I don't. I want to. That will be evidence that
- 23:38Speaker 1: I took what a little bit that I came into
- 23:41Speaker 1: the game with and and I flipped it. You know,
- 23:45Speaker 1: I look at cats who who are comparably positioned in
- 23:50Speaker 1: their industries, who do things differently different than I do.
- 23:55Speaker 1: Who earned you know, who do something different than I do,
- 23:58Speaker 1: Because you mean, I see where they are, and I
- 24:00Speaker 1: think I want to be even them. Yes, but but
- 24:06Speaker 1: the beating part is less about ego and more about service,
- 24:11Speaker 1: meaning that when I win, we win. But one of
- 24:16Speaker 1: the things I've always appreciated about you, Jean, is that
- 24:21Speaker 1: you are committed to extending blessings to other people, to
- 24:25Speaker 1: give and give opportunities to other cats, and identify talented
- 24:29Speaker 1: individuals and help them build whatever it is that they
- 24:32Speaker 1: have and and have that turn into something meaningful. Um.
- 24:38Speaker 1: When when you are that kind of person, you build
- 24:45Speaker 1: a team of people who will always be there for you.
- 24:48Speaker 1: And so to your point, um My farewell wells comments
- 24:55Speaker 1: to the first school that we were at, the school
- 24:58Speaker 1: that we founded. Uh, when I left, what I said,
- 25:02Speaker 1: my sons attend my schools, and um, what I said
- 25:08Speaker 1: was thank you to them for all of the nights
- 25:12Speaker 1: that you went to bed and I wasn't there, all
- 25:15Speaker 1: the morning that you woke up and I wasn't there.
- 25:18Speaker 1: And that my hope and prayer is that one day,
- 25:24Speaker 1: when you feel like I'm the worst human being on earth,
- 25:27Speaker 1: you would come across somebody who will take the time
- 25:30Speaker 1: to say thank you for the time that you contributed
- 25:34Speaker 1: to my life by allowing your father to help us
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- 25:42Speaker 1: of the things that tripped me Irishun is I don't
- 25:43Speaker 1: understand how people do. When I don't how people do,
- 25:47Speaker 1: what I do could ever be seen as controversial. I
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- 25:56Speaker 1: black people open up schools in the black community, which
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- 27:28Speaker 1: is coming out the front door, strong with a double
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- 28:21Speaker 1: the beauty of you, Dr Steve Berry, When of the
- 28:23Speaker 1: leading voices. Uh, you know when he says that by
- 28:27Speaker 1: his sons, I remember it was a run dad. Every year.
- 28:29Speaker 1: I watched them grow, you know. I watched them grow everything,
- 28:32Speaker 1: pop up your annual sophomore year, you know, you know,
- 28:38Speaker 1: and go to the camps and Steve Harvey and then
- 28:40Speaker 1: go to the Dreams Academy. So at least twice I
- 28:43Speaker 1: watched them grow up, you know. And the beauty of
- 28:45Speaker 1: that is that respect. They understood their dad, They understood
- 28:49Speaker 1: the small Then they knew the value of effort. They
- 28:52Speaker 1: knew the value of making a difference. And when I
- 28:56Speaker 1: look at you and I look at the progress that
- 28:57Speaker 1: you made as a person, I have to honestly made
- 29:00Speaker 1: it is that you know, we we the television round
- 29:03Speaker 1: has been made available to you. You just did the
- 29:05Speaker 1: Fix My Life episode series, Uh last season? Where is
- 29:09Speaker 1: that in your life? Is being on television a need priority?
- 29:14Speaker 1: Or what's going on in your life from a television perspective?
- 29:17Speaker 1: Dr Stephen, You know, television for me is a vehicle
- 29:20Speaker 1: to tell the story of the work that we're doing
- 29:22Speaker 1: in the community, as you know, and what your viewers
- 29:26Speaker 1: are getting access to is the kind of conversation that
- 29:29Speaker 1: you and I have had two or three hundred times.
- 29:31Speaker 1: It's the same conversation where you know you've seen people
- 29:37Speaker 1: present me with TV projects and I've never I don't
- 29:39Speaker 1: turn them down. It's not my thing, but my focus
- 29:43Speaker 1: is primarily on running the schools. I know that's crazy
- 29:45Speaker 1: for some people who whose air is to be seen
- 29:50Speaker 1: by people, but I know that there's another side to that,
- 29:53Speaker 1: and there's a cost to that as well as you
- 29:55Speaker 1: well know. And you can't undring that bell. Uh So,
- 30:02Speaker 1: I am so grateful to uh Ayana and Oprah for
- 30:08Speaker 1: the opportunity and the opportunities. You also know this. You
- 30:12Speaker 1: never know what's gonna happen with televisions. So the conversation
- 30:17Speaker 1: is I'll put it this way, and you know you
- 30:20Speaker 1: understand this as well. I'll be as specific as I
- 30:22Speaker 1: can without getting myself jammed up. Um. There is fevered
- 30:31Speaker 1: conversation between a number of entities as to what to
- 30:37Speaker 1: do because there's there's been a there's been a long
- 30:42Speaker 1: interest from our backs when we did save my son,
- 30:46Speaker 1: of extending that work. There are people who are still
- 30:50Speaker 1: very interested in that. Some of those people in positions
- 30:53Speaker 1: of power networks, some of them are at streaming services,
- 30:57Speaker 1: and I think that they wanted to see how how
- 31:03Speaker 1: the most recent you know, I don't want to see
- 31:06Speaker 1: if I still got it, but they they wanted to
- 31:10Speaker 1: see it again in person, so they got to see
- 31:13Speaker 1: that again. And UM, I think that I think that
- 31:19Speaker 1: the open win Free Network, among others. I'm gonna be
- 31:23Speaker 1: really frank with you, I think that the Oprah Win
- 31:26Speaker 1: Free Network, among others. UM. I saw the Universal University
- 31:34Speaker 1: positive reaction to the work. I think that people were
- 31:38Speaker 1: I think I'll just tell you what people said. The
- 31:40Speaker 1: internet was a buzz with very very very high positive
- 31:46Speaker 1: and you know how hard that is to achieve this,
- 31:50Speaker 1: you know, because we know where we're going. Everybody sees
- 31:52Speaker 1: you serious. You are a fun guy. You know we
- 31:56Speaker 1: were realisted. You smile, you know, you like you know,
- 31:59Speaker 1: you know what the party is. So so I know
- 32:03Speaker 1: that you you gotta keep in looping this because I'm
- 32:05Speaker 1: telling you, man, I cannot let them not see the
- 32:08Speaker 1: three the full three sixty of you. You know, yes,
- 32:12Speaker 1: your passionate, yes you're driven to change, but man, come on, now,
- 32:16Speaker 1: can we see you smile on TV? Dry Can we
- 32:19Speaker 1: see that? Can see that? You know when it's just
- 32:23Speaker 1: that you know what it is is it's hard to smile.
- 32:26Speaker 1: What I'm trying to save the kids, and that's usually
- 32:29Speaker 1: what you get to see me do. Um. But they
- 32:32Speaker 1: don't get to see They don't get to see uh
- 32:36Speaker 1: us in hot ass Texas, just sitting back cooking meat
- 32:41Speaker 1: and laughing for hours, literally trying not to get eaten
- 32:47Speaker 1: by every on earth. Um. They don't see that because
- 32:52Speaker 1: it's just not an opportunity. But listen to me when
- 32:54Speaker 1: I say that. When I say that, the reason I'm
- 32:56Speaker 1: dropping that into your conversation because that's you, Because see
- 32:59Speaker 1: what happened, what happens with producers see things a certain
- 33:02Speaker 1: way because that's their mind. I'm telling you you change
- 33:06Speaker 1: lives on the different levels. You can smile and change
- 33:10Speaker 1: a child's life. I've seen you do that on a
- 33:12Speaker 1: regular basis. I've seen you at Disney, I've seen you
- 33:15Speaker 1: at Camp. I've seen you an others speaking opportunities. We smile,
- 33:18Speaker 1: we walked in the room, we make a decision. I'm
- 33:21Speaker 1: just telling you, if that television opportunity presents herself, please
- 33:25Speaker 1: be you at all levels. And I appreciate you saying that.
- 33:29Speaker 1: One of the challenges, So again, let's just have a
- 33:32Speaker 1: real conversation. So one of the reasons why the TV
- 33:35Speaker 1: one thing didn't work out is because I couldn't do
- 33:40Speaker 1: what I think they wanted me to do, which is
- 33:44Speaker 1: to get up in boys chests and and set your
- 33:49Speaker 1: ass down. Love. I don't talk to kids like that.
- 33:52Speaker 1: I don't. I don't talk to kids like that. I'll
- 33:53Speaker 1: talk to mine like that sometimes, but not everybody else's.
- 33:56Speaker 1: And I can take liberties of mine because the mind,
- 33:59Speaker 1: but I don't and take I'll try to avoid take
- 34:01Speaker 1: them even with them, because nobody responds really well to that.
- 34:04Speaker 1: I say all that to say, one of the challenges
- 34:09Speaker 1: there is about capturing that part of the nuances of
- 34:13Speaker 1: my personality. They wanted something I didn't have. Similarly, when Fox,
- 34:17Speaker 1: when I was doing the daytime piece with Fox, then
- 34:21Speaker 1: they it's it's like the pole. They either won the
- 34:24Speaker 1: the you know, like I'll bush kind of uh Joe
- 34:28Speaker 1: Clarkey guy. The other one they want is this goofy
- 34:32Speaker 1: Wayne Brady character. And I'm not disan Wayne Brady, but
- 34:35Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying, Like it's just this goofy
- 34:38Speaker 1: uh amorphous you know, you can tell he's African American,
- 34:43Speaker 1: but you're not gonna hear anything about his cultural underpinnings
- 34:46Speaker 1: as they relate to him come through. They wanted me
- 34:49Speaker 1: to be something that almost was Kelly Clarkson slash l
- 34:54Speaker 1: ensk And sure we can have those kinds of conversations,
- 34:58Speaker 1: no doubt that's what you w I would do. We
- 35:00Speaker 1: have those kinds of conversations. But I'm not silly. You
- 35:03Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying, Like, I'm not a silly person.
- 35:06Speaker 1: That's I'm just not, never have been, never will be. Um,
- 35:10Speaker 1: there are different ways in which we can laugh and
- 35:12Speaker 1: be relatable that are still respectful of who we are
- 35:15Speaker 1: a man. You're not a silly I don't anybody want
- 35:18Speaker 1: to say rashan silly like that? Just ridiculous. You know
- 35:23Speaker 1: if you laugh, you joke any are you silly? Serious cat?
- 35:27Speaker 1: It's been a lot of time in making people laugh
- 35:31Speaker 1: for a living, but it's serious about your business absolutely.
- 35:34Speaker 1: You know. The thing about it we're gonna wrap up
- 35:36Speaker 1: here is that because I want to talk to some
- 35:38Speaker 1: stuff offline as well about this, because you're right, that's
- 35:42Speaker 1: my life. My life is about shaping people's opportunities. My
- 35:46Speaker 1: life is about giving you some stuff that may not
- 35:48Speaker 1: even benefit me. And when I look at you, you've
- 35:51Speaker 1: always been a benefit not only to me, but the
- 35:53Speaker 1: people around me and the people that I invited you
- 35:55Speaker 1: into the world to make a change. Like to Steve Perry,
- 35:58Speaker 1: You're a blessing. Brother, family's a blessing, and the fact
- 36:01Speaker 1: you have five schools is going to be more. And
- 36:03Speaker 1: when you leave this earth, you will be that game changer.
- 36:06Speaker 1: You will be that competitive guy that said I made
- 36:08Speaker 1: a difference. And then people will show up and show
- 36:10Speaker 1: you as they line up and walk past that casket
- 36:13Speaker 1: and tell you thank you and cry and and remember
- 36:17Speaker 1: that he made a difference in my life, my children's life,
- 36:19Speaker 1: and my grandparents life and made created a nixt lefigacy
- 36:23Speaker 1: of growth and the opportunity for kids who didn't have it.
- 36:27Speaker 1: And just seeing you, man, I'm just telling your brother,
- 36:31Speaker 1: you're special. You've always been special to me. Man, And
- 36:33Speaker 1: we don't talk enough. I will tell you that I
- 36:35Speaker 1: will be I will be remissing not saying that, and
- 36:38Speaker 1: we need to start talking more. Let's do it. And Okay,
- 36:41Speaker 1: it's gonna happen as soon as I hang up this
- 36:43Speaker 1: this call here, my brother with you, this video show.
- 36:45Speaker 1: We're gonna talk some more. I'm gonna thank you for
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