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FULL SHOW: Ask The CLO, Sista O'Dell, Strawberry Letter: They Want Equal Treatment - 08.25.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all.
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  Speaker 3: At all at all.
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  Speaker 4: Given the.
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  Speaker 1: Black the millon bu bu boozy.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, listening to me, I want to joy.
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  Speaker 6: Yah yah joy.
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  Speaker 4: You you.
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  Speaker 5: You gotta turn.
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  Speaker 3: You got to turn the mouth turn.
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  Speaker 1: You probably got to turn the mouth out the money.
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  Speaker 2: Come come on you think that.
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  Speaker 7: Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 7: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 7: one and only Steve Harvey Man got a radio show.
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  Speaker 2: Real glad about it too.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 2: I hope that God.
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  Speaker 7: Always keeps me in the frame of mind to try
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  Speaker 7: to be sharing and try to be motivational and ubly
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  Speaker 7: even when it's not felt or wanted by some people.
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  Speaker 2: I have people around me.
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  Speaker 7: Who seem to not benefit at all or anything, and
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  Speaker 7: I can sit with them and talk to them or
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  Speaker 7: take meetings with them to try to encourage them, and
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  Speaker 7: for whatever reason, you know, they want to just keep
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  Speaker 7: going the way they're going. When you run into people
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  Speaker 7: like that, you have to pray for them. You have
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  Speaker 7: to just hope that one day that they release the
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  Speaker 7: chains on their mind and open up your mind to
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  Speaker 7: a new way of thinking. A couple of things I
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  Speaker 7: wanted to go over with that want you all today
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  Speaker 7: in terms of motivation, I want you to be aware
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  Speaker 7: of statements or old sayings that have been created that
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  Speaker 7: you hear over the course of time, and you may
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  Speaker 7: be applying them to your life. And I want you
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  Speaker 7: to be careful of some of them because some of
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  Speaker 7: these old sayings, man, are not designed for people who
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  Speaker 7: are dreamers, are not designed for people who have any
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  Speaker 7: aspirations of being extraordinary. These are not designs or sayings
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  Speaker 7: that people who want to be extremely successful at anything
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  Speaker 7: or have high aspirations to put these sayings into your life.
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  Speaker 7: Let me give you an example. Statistics say that's it.
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  Speaker 7: That's the one. I want you to be careful about.
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  Speaker 7: Statistics say, be very careful of stats. When a person says,
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  Speaker 7: you know, statistics say one out of every what see,
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  Speaker 7: listen to me. These are things that sound like they're good,
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  Speaker 7: sound solid advice, but they're setting you up for failure.
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  Speaker 7: And you can't adhere yourself to a lot of these
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  Speaker 7: sayings that's been passed down from generations. And it's not scripture.
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  Speaker 7: It ain't in a scripture nowhere that statistics say. It's
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  Speaker 7: just some people, and a lot of people who have
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  Speaker 7: lost have come up with these sayings to justify why
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  Speaker 7: they keep losing or why they lost. When I was
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  Speaker 7: earth got started in the business, there were more stand
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  Speaker 7: ups around now than it is today because the comedy
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  Speaker 7: boom in eighty four eighty five was it was gaining
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  Speaker 7: a lot of momentums, comedy club, comedy nights everywhere. The
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  Speaker 7: statistic that a guy told me I told him I
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  Speaker 7: wanted to be on the Johnny Carson Show, the Tonight Show.
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  Speaker 7: The guy said, one out of every two thousand comedians
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  Speaker 7: ever make it to the Tonight Show. Okay, now, when
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  Speaker 7: he told us that, some of the comedians in the
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  Speaker 7: room went, well.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, man, that's rough. Because a guy had also said
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  Speaker 2: that there was.
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  Speaker 7: Approximately six thousand comedians in the country at that time.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know if it was true. I'm just telling
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  Speaker 7: you a guy was out there spewing numbers. I have
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  Speaker 7: no idea how many it was, but he said one
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  Speaker 7: in every two thousand will make it to the Tonight Show.
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  Speaker 7: And he let the air out of everybody in the
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  Speaker 7: room but me. So every night before I went on stage,
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  Speaker 7: I used to do this right here, Bute that bad.
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  Speaker 7: That was the tonight theme song. I was young opening
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  Speaker 7: act nowhere near Hollywood, didn't.
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  Speaker 2: I was in Cleveland telling jokes at one night.
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  Speaker 7: But that was my thing because I was bent and
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  Speaker 7: determined that if it's one in two thousand, okay, why
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  Speaker 7: don't I just be the one?
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  Speaker 2: Be careful when.
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  Speaker 7: People say statistics, say because they are set up to
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  Speaker 7: fulfailure if you're gonna adhere to them. See that won
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  Speaker 7: in so many it wanted. So many people win the lottery.
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  Speaker 7: But if you don't play the lottery, you ain't gonna
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  Speaker 7: be the one to hit. Not when the dude hits
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  Speaker 7: you go while he was lucky, but he played. Here's
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  Speaker 7: another one. Maybe it's not meant to be. Let's go
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  Speaker 7: one step further. I guess it wasn't the Lord's will.
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  Speaker 7: Don't you dare blame God for something you may have
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  Speaker 7: not done yourself because you didn't get the proper education,
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  Speaker 7: because you didn't do the things you were supposed to do,
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  Speaker 7: because you didn't stay to the task, because you quit,
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  Speaker 7: turned around and went the other way.
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  Speaker 2: Now, maybe it's not it wasn't the lord's will.
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  Speaker 7: These are all statements that sound like sound advice, but
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  Speaker 7: they ain't all the time, got nothing to do with you.
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  Speaker 7: Stop letting these old fogy sayings get in your way
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  Speaker 7: of what can happen in your life.
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  Speaker 2: Don't put all your eggs in one basket? Who came
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  Speaker 2: up with this? Who came up with it?
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  Speaker 7: If you don't pour all your efforts into one thing,
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  Speaker 7: how are you gonna be great at that one thing?
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  Speaker 7: If Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan, Magic Johnson, Larry Bird had
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  Speaker 7: not played basketball sun up to sundown. Magic Johnson didn't
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  Speaker 7: go to Michigan to get an education. Larry Berry ain't
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  Speaker 7: go to Indiana to get an education. These cats was balling.
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  Speaker 7: Michael Jordan didn't go to North Carolina get an education.
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  Speaker 7: They went to play ball. They went to do one thing.
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  Speaker 7: Tiger Woods didn't go to Stamford to get an education.
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  Speaker 7: He went to play golf. Soon as he got good enough,
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  Speaker 7: he gone. These is guys that put all they eggs
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  Speaker 7: in one basket. See what's cool with putting all your
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  Speaker 7: eggs in one basket is you now can maximize your
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  Speaker 7: effort and laser beam what you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: Your problem is all you.
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  Speaker 7: Gotta do is make sure what is your basket made
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  Speaker 7: out of If your basket is made out of faith, hope,
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  Speaker 7: hard work, and belief, then guess what, that's a good basket.
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  Speaker 2: I'm dumping all mine in it.
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  Speaker 7: Because ever since I was a young dude, I've been
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  Speaker 7: telling jokes one thing, one thing only. Even when it
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  Speaker 7: got ugly and I was living in a car, I
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  Speaker 7: never quit telling them jokes.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 7: I just kept believing that them jokes was gonna pay
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  Speaker 7: me one day, and I'll be dog gone if it didn't.
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  Speaker 2: I ain't take no time off.
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  Speaker 7: Go work at the Walmart, get me a job, go
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  Speaker 7: back to Ford and big for my job back.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, man, put all your eggs in a basket.
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  Speaker 7: Just make sure that your basket is made up of faith, hope, belief,
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  Speaker 7: hard work.
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  Speaker 2: Your basket woven by God. What you tripping for?
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  Speaker 7: You're defeating yourself. Where is your faith? Where is your belief?
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  Speaker 7: Where is your trust? At one point in time, you
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  Speaker 7: got to bleed that God could do what he said
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  Speaker 7: gonna do because he'dn't done it for others, He'll most
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  Speaker 7: certainly do it for you. Be careful of these sayings
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  Speaker 7: that's out here, that's aligned by losers and people to
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  Speaker 7: justify why they are not succeeding. Don't apply this stuff
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  Speaker 7: to your life, and it ain't got nothing to do
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  Speaker 7: with you.
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna mess yourself up. All right.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your attention. God has
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  Speaker 7: done it again. The arrival of a new day, the
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  Speaker 7: fact that we are here present in it. What an
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  Speaker 7: amazing gift. It is, what an honor. Make the best
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  Speaker 7: of today. Okay, but start your day with gratitude. Tell
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  Speaker 7: God thank you for everything he's done for you and
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  Speaker 7: everything he's working on on your behalf. And remember, man,
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  Speaker 7: as long as you got God, you're gonna be all right.
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  Speaker 7: Those are my opening remarks, ladies. Jentimen, Shirley Strawberry calling
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  Speaker 7: for real Mississippi Monica and nephew Tommy. How's everybody doing
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  Speaker 7: for asking any questions? Anybody anything on your mind? Wonder
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  Speaker 7: me get your show started the right way? Anybody other
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  Speaker 7: than Tommy.
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  Speaker 8: Well, let me just say that I wanted to say
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  Speaker 8: congratulations since the earthquake he got married this past thirsdy.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, BOAKEI boy, that's nice.
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  Speaker 2: Good wedding, good wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Good we good time.
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  Speaker 7: Hey, man, you know how I met earthquake Mobile Alabama.
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  Speaker 7: Earthquake came and knocked on my hotel door. Now, I
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  Speaker 7: stayed at a hotel where you could see my door
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  Speaker 7: from the parking lot. You know, it's one of them
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  Speaker 7: a hotel and earthquake came and knocked on the door,
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  Speaker 7: and he said, hey, man, my name is Earthquake. I'm
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  Speaker 7: a comedian. I just want to get some advice from you.
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  Speaker 7: That's how I met earthquake, and me and earthquake been
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  Speaker 7: cool every since.
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  Speaker 1: Many good dude, love quake. Funny too, Yeah, really nice.
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  Speaker 1: What advice do you have for newly wed?
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  Speaker 7: Oh? Well, it's only one piece of advice you'll ever need.
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  Speaker 7: As a man, I can't give a woman no advice.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know they side of it, but I do
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  Speaker 7: know the man's side of it. So here's what I
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  Speaker 7: say to every man that's married. There's only one thing
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  Speaker 7: I can say to you. That one rule a man
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  Speaker 7: needs to remember. You can be happy or you can
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  Speaker 7: be right.
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  Speaker 2: I love that.
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  Speaker 1: It'sastic.
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  Speaker 7: Just make your mind up every day which one you
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  Speaker 7: want to be, and gone about your business.
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  Speaker 1: It's stimpton you stay. You said that in front of
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  Speaker 1: Denzel one day, Denzel Washington.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, man, we were on the boat and Paul Letter
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  Speaker 7: and Marjor were over there talking, and so she said, Denzel,
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  Speaker 7: y'all move over here a little bit closer.
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  Speaker 2: He said, Now, I want to stay right here. I said, dead.
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  Speaker 2: Listen to me, man, if we just moved.
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  Speaker 7: Six we pea, I say, but me and you stay
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  Speaker 7: right here.
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  Speaker 2: Whatever the reason she wanted us to move.
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  Speaker 7: Over, Yeah, it's it's peace over that if we stay
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  Speaker 7: right he said. You know what, man, you're exactly right.
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  Speaker 7: We just scootered our chairs over six feet. She would
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  Speaker 7: say nothing else to them.
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  Speaker 1: Priceless.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he says, six feet is peace. We
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  Speaker 2: stay here. I want to move. First of all, we
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  Speaker 2: wasn't on my boat.
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  Speaker 7: I'm a guess I want to move, as Paul let
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  Speaker 7: us say it, we move. I'm a guess. I'm already
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  Speaker 7: out my chair and this I ain't moving. Now, come on, Dan,
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  Speaker 7: come on me and you moving though, No, don't do this.
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 9: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll
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  Speaker 9: hear from the pastors with a word.
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  Speaker 9: It is time now for Reverend Motown and Deacon death
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  Speaker 9: Jam with a word.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, one second.
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  Speaker 8: Here we.
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  Speaker 7: Come to givel this morning in a most vocifious week,
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  Speaker 7: we are of being restitutionized, Yeah, recognized, and now we's
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  Speaker 7: galvanize as we bring forth the very arbitrary re season
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  Speaker 7: for coming into unification. Let us begin with a word
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  Speaker 7: from Deacon from the book. He will inform us on procrastination.
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  Speaker 8: Go ahead, all right, all right, pastor now pastor this morning.
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  Speaker 8: We have two books. But the first book is the
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  Speaker 8: Book of Jefferson. Were if you go to the Book
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  Speaker 8: of Jefferson and then verse chapter two, verse one, it said, well,
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  Speaker 8: we're moving on up to the east side to a
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  Speaker 8: de luxe apartment in the sky.
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  Speaker 2: Stop right there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we.
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  Speaker 7: Hidden up. Now we moving away from the side we
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  Speaker 7: was on, or to the east side.
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  Speaker 2: That's right to a not.
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  Speaker 7: A regular come on, not a king, not the queen,
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  Speaker 7: but a deluxe apartment in the sky. That's a high ride,
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  Speaker 7: read it says, bullbing on up to the east side.
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  Speaker 8: We finally got a piece of the pile.
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  Speaker 7: Stop right there. And we've been messing around, scrapping, scraping crumbs. No,
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  Speaker 7: we got a piece or the pile.
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  Speaker 8: Red fish, don't fry in the kitchen. Beans, don't burn
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  Speaker 8: on the grill. Took a whole lot of trying just
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  Speaker 8: to get up that hill.
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  Speaker 7: Stop right there, you fish, your fry in the kitchen. Beans,
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  Speaker 7: don't burn on the grill. Yeah, but you have no idea.
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  Speaker 7: I don't understand the hell I went through. Come on
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  Speaker 7: here trying to get up this hell?
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  Speaker 4: You read?
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  Speaker 1: Now we up in the big league.
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  Speaker 7: Stop right there. Now we in the big league. We
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  Speaker 7: ain't in the minors no more.
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  Speaker 8: Read getting our turn at bad Stop right there, our
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  Speaker 8: turn it.
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  Speaker 1: Throw it other day.
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  Speaker 2: As long as we live.
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  Speaker 8: It's you and me, baby, And ain't nothing wrong with that.
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  Speaker 7: Stop right down. I told you when I met you Oh,
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  Speaker 7: I need you.
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  Speaker 2: That's right.
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  Speaker 7: If I can get you, we can get off the
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  Speaker 7: west side, we head on over to the east side.
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  Speaker 7: If I got you, or we can get a deluxe
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  Speaker 7: apartment in the sky.
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  Speaker 2: That's all I had.
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  Speaker 7: You, and we ain't wearing about frying a fish in
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  Speaker 7: the kitchen and burning or.
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  Speaker 2: Beans on the grill.
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  Speaker 7: But along is I got a you girl, me and
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  Speaker 7: you would have found a way to get.
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  Speaker 2: Up that hill.
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  Speaker 7: I finally gotta turn that back.
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  Speaker 2: I just snapped the ball over the wall. There's a
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  Speaker 2: home run.
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  Speaker 7: I'm just trying to know, girl that if it wasn't
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  Speaker 7: for you, I never would have.
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  Speaker 2: Bet we out I looking about it.
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  Speaker 8: You brought that one now right past it that were
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  Speaker 8: gonna switch bucks for a moment, were gonna switch bucks
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  Speaker 8: if you would go to the book of Gilli getting
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  Speaker 8: past it, it says just sit right back and you hear.
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  Speaker 1: A tail, a tail of a faithful trip.
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  Speaker 2: That stopped right there from.
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  Speaker 8: Uh.
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  Speaker 2: I'm about to tell you something now, okay, now make
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  Speaker 2: it for some say it's a.
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  Speaker 7: Tale, but it's nothing but the truth that started from
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  Speaker 7: this tropic port aboard this tiny ship.
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  Speaker 2: Stop right there. We was on boat too small.
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  Speaker 7: I learned about boats from an old man one time.
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  Speaker 7: He said, I done been on a boat too small before,
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  Speaker 7: but I ain't never been.
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  Speaker 2: On one that's too big.
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  Speaker 7: We started from a tropical port on a tiny ship.
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  Speaker 7: Had just like living in a tiny house. You can
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  Speaker 7: brag about it all you want, but you don't good
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  Speaker 7: a wear. You wanted to regular size house. You ain't
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  Speaker 7: had the money. Now you're trying to justify why are
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  Speaker 7: you sitting there next to the tarlet frying fish.
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  Speaker 8: The mate was a mighty sailing man, the skipper braving shore.
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  Speaker 8: Five passengers set sail that day for a three hour tour.
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  Speaker 2: Stop right there.
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  Speaker 7: We we count people on the boat, the skipper, the captain,
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  Speaker 7: three other people. Yeah, that five right there, But it
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  Speaker 7: was more than that because they left out some people.
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  Speaker 7: Because the house was two people, Ginger was one man,
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  Speaker 7: was another one. You had skipper and Gilligan, and you
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  Speaker 7: had the professor. That's seven people. They ain't even told
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  Speaker 7: the story. They said at the beginning, I'm gonna tell.
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  Speaker 2: You a tale.
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  Speaker 8: Sound like a lot of me. The wall started getting rough.
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  Speaker 8: The tiny ship was pus.
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  Speaker 7: Stop right there, key word tiny ship, rough weather toss
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  Speaker 7: everybody in trouble. We gonna put a pin in it.
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  Speaker 7: Allo that hole in the boat. Everybody went down and
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  Speaker 7: ended up on the island somewhere. Had some years of
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  Speaker 7: TV on a whole show about an island save five
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  Speaker 7: white people right there. Not only wasn't no black people
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  Speaker 7: own there because the black people said, we ain't getting
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  Speaker 7: on the little tiny shoe.
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  Speaker 1: What your word today?
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  Speaker 10: Faster?
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  Speaker 1: I love ginger too, all right?
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  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour in the
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  Speaker 9: entertainment News, we're going to recap the weekend, cover some
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  Speaker 9: trending topics. Of course, that is all coming up at
• 22:20
  Speaker 9: the top of the show. We have a great show
• 22:22
  Speaker 9: planned for you. But right now it is time to
• 22:26
  Speaker 9: ask the Colo. This is from Jeralen in Saint Louis Colo.
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  Speaker 9: She writes, my daughter had a skating party and there
• 22:34
  Speaker 9: was a group of young ladies in their twenties also
• 22:36
  Speaker 9: having a skate party at the rink. My husband sent
• 22:39
  Speaker 9: them around of drinks and he went to talk to them.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Was he just being nice or was he doing too much?
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: He was just being nice?
• 22:49
  Speaker 12: Oh really, group you know over skating, You know, you
• 22:56
  Speaker 12: just send them around a drinks, you know, happy birthday.
• 22:59
  Speaker 7: We both had the thing. You know, I got my
• 23:01
  Speaker 7: daughter cake and everything, but this one right here, y'all
• 23:03
  Speaker 7: need drinks. Adn'ybody know around the drinks or his little
• 23:06
  Speaker 7: girl because they was over there eating cakes and cheetos.
• 23:10
  Speaker 7: You know it could have couldn't had your little girl
• 23:11
  Speaker 7: party at chuck or cheese. But when they were real
• 23:13
  Speaker 7: grown up and somebody skated by, looking right though, I'll tell.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: You that's what the wife wants to know. Was he
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: doing too much?
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: No, he wasn't doing too much. He just bought some drinks.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: That's all. Happy person day. That's what you do.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: That's what you do.
• 23:29
  Speaker 7: You know, big boss Willie. You know I rented out
• 23:31
  Speaker 7: the skating rink. You did too. Let me buy y'all
• 23:33
  Speaker 7: a drink, you know.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right?
• 23:37
  Speaker 9: But we go on to Felicity in Tampa. Felicity writes,
• 23:41
  Speaker 9: my coworker asked me to drop him off at his
• 23:43
  Speaker 9: wife's office after work. I took him and her messy
• 23:47
  Speaker 9: coworker said. We sat in the parking lot talking. He
• 23:50
  Speaker 9: was trying to call his wife and let her know
• 23:53
  Speaker 9: he was there. Do I owe his wife a detailed explanation?
• 23:58
  Speaker 7: Well, obviously the part she's leaving out in the letter
• 24:03
  Speaker 7: is it created a major problem. Yeah, Now she's trying
• 24:09
  Speaker 7: to figure out. Do I owe her an explanation? It
• 24:14
  Speaker 7: might help him out if you said, listen here that.
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: But I don't understand this. Dude, though, you set yourself
• 24:22
  Speaker 7: up for this stupidity. Ain't no male coworker could have
• 24:25
  Speaker 7: dropped you off. You had a You got in another
• 24:28
  Speaker 7: woman's car and rode to your wife's job.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: You stupid you.
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: How you didn't anticipate the potential in this situation because
• 24:42
  Speaker 7: this got this got dumb rode all over. It's got
• 24:47
  Speaker 7: dumb rode all over.
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: What should he have done?
• 24:51
  Speaker 7: He should have just ubert or got one of his
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: dudes to drop him off. You got this woman dropping
• 24:57
  Speaker 7: you off your wife's job, sitting in the parking lot,
• 25:00
  Speaker 7: and and other people saw it. You can't be that
• 25:04
  Speaker 7: stupid man.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: Well he was, and in this instance he was.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Workers stupid dog. You set yourself up for that.
• 25:17
  Speaker 7: My daddy's best advice with me was son, don't give
• 25:20
  Speaker 7: him a pean of sticky.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: Right of course?
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right.
• 25:27
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Reggie and Brooklyn, Reggie writes, I saw
• 25:30
  Speaker 9: an old buddy of mine and he said he is
• 25:32
  Speaker 9: down on his luck and he's had a lot of setbacks.
• 25:35
  Speaker 9: He threw shade at me by saying I looked like
• 25:38
  Speaker 9: quote money. I asked if I could help them in
• 25:41
  Speaker 9: any way, and he got offended.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Why did he get offended by that?
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: Don't know? I don't you know, Hey, man, I'm down
• 25:52
  Speaker 7: on my Look, man, a lot of bad stuff isn't happening.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Well, can I help you anyway?
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: Man?
• 26:00
  Speaker 7: See you looking good, man, you look like money. So
• 26:03
  Speaker 7: you say, hey man, anything can I help you in
• 26:06
  Speaker 7: any way anyway?
• 26:08
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Oh oh, oh, what you're trying to say?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Oh I look like I need help?
• 26:15
  Speaker 7: Now you said you need help, so you're down on
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: your look and anything. So what you want him to do?
• 26:21
  Speaker 7: You should have just lied to him. Yeah, man, you
• 26:23
  Speaker 7: look like money too.
• 26:25
  Speaker 9: Huh yeah wow.
• 26:28
  Speaker 7: Well you know he could be offended, you know, but
• 26:31
  Speaker 7: I don't. I don't so what hey bro, hey bro,
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: didn't mean to offend you, my bad manah, and then
• 26:38
  Speaker 7: just tell him that send him a text, Hey man
• 26:40
  Speaker 7: the other day, seemed like you were little offended. My apologies, man,
• 26:44
  Speaker 7: I didn't mean to offend you, man, my bad man.
• 26:48
  Speaker 7: Good luck with everything. And then dot dot dot don't
• 26:54
  Speaker 7: ask me for sugar, honey ice the little dudeo with
• 27:01
  Speaker 7: mooji and just gone with.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: The little eyes on it and everything. I can't stand there.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, something else besides that, all right?
• 27:19
  Speaker 10: I know?
• 27:20
  Speaker 9: Last one. This is from Lucretia in Chicago. Lucretia writes,
• 27:24
  Speaker 9: I was intimate with a guy from my past. We
• 27:27
  Speaker 9: hooked back up and it just happened. He told my
• 27:30
  Speaker 9: friend that the sex was cool, but he'd never be
• 27:33
  Speaker 9: with me because I snore. I think there's a lot
• 27:37
  Speaker 9: more to it. Does snoring really turn men off like that?
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, he just told you did.
• 27:44
  Speaker 7: She didn't want to believe. But you don't know how
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: bad you snoring that? You really don't. You need to
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: wake up and you in here till what it's like?
• 27:52
  Speaker 7: He can't believe he slept with you. Yeah, see you
• 27:56
  Speaker 7: you snoring like a man. Now, he questioned hisself, who
• 28:01
  Speaker 7: did I just sleep with?
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: What does it sound like like that part.
• 28:15
  Speaker 8: They need to sleep back?
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: You're too cute for this?
• 28:24
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you and you need a machine. Yeah you probably
• 28:31
  Speaker 7: chest heavy too, You need a machine.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 28:37
  Speaker 9: So that's what he told his friend. He couldn't be
• 28:39
  Speaker 9: with her because she snoring. She thinks it's something else.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: No, no, it's that.
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: But if you love someone and they snore, does that doesn't.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Ain't in love with it? We can't fall in love
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: with nobody like that.
• 28:52
  Speaker 13: But wait a minute, now, you say you say all
• 28:57
  Speaker 13: the time on the show to women, don't throw away
• 28:59
  Speaker 13: a good man.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah that is because of that little little bit stuff.
• 29:03
  Speaker 7: Don't throw away a good man because he snowed. But
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: We're not gonna be with no woman that snowed that
• 29:07
  Speaker 7: like that.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: If she was like a bear, then she's just.
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: Out and and we go to bend every night. This
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: is something you do.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: But she can put up with it from.
• 29:22
  Speaker 13: You, right if he snored, If it was the other
• 29:25
  Speaker 13: way around you, you would tell her, don't throw away
• 29:29
  Speaker 13: a good man because he snores.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: You would tell her to get him some help.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to say, yeah, he doesn't make the rules.
• 29:35
  Speaker 7: Get him some help in the world. Now he'd already
• 29:38
  Speaker 7: told hers because she snored. She thank, it's something else.
• 29:41
  Speaker 9: It's that that's not sexy.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: It's not sexy.
• 29:50
  Speaker 7: He wasn't with you before all lover, it was up.
• 29:53
  Speaker 7: You broke up before, you ran up into it again.
• 29:56
  Speaker 7: You had sex again. It just happened. He told a
• 29:58
  Speaker 7: friend he could never be with because you snaw. He
• 30:01
  Speaker 7: broke up with you before. But we can have sick
• 30:04
  Speaker 7: We just can't go to fleet. We have second case,
• 30:08
  Speaker 7: spend the nights.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: No as we lay going on here.
• 30:13
  Speaker 7: Huh hey, we have four blown relationship. But you have
• 30:16
  Speaker 7: got to go home. See you tomorrow.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: That's terrible.
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: It is all right.
• 30:27
  Speaker 9: Guys coming up at the top of the hour, we'll
• 30:29
  Speaker 9: have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're
• 30:33
  Speaker 9: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. Well, Steve, we know you
• 30:41
  Speaker 9: spoke of the fifth Annual Investments this past Saturday in Atlanta.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Wow five, This time goes by so fast.
• 30:49
  Speaker 9: You and Charlemagne did a roundtable discussion, and I'm sure
• 30:52
  Speaker 9: that was great, but that's not what we want.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: To talk about.
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: We want to talk about what you had on blue Cheese.
• 31:00
  Speaker 9: You were like this monochromatic peach suit and a silk Yes,
• 31:06
  Speaker 9: I saw so fly.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: I mean really, Steve, you heard him.
• 31:10
  Speaker 9: I believe you heard him at the fifth Annual Investments.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: This year, you've been training on social media.
• 31:16
  Speaker 9: The commenters gave you a lot of respect as the
• 31:18
  Speaker 9: og of man's fashion.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Do you enjoy you? You like that?
• 31:22
  Speaker 7: How do you?
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: How are we feeling that?
• 31:25
  Speaker 7: Yes?
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: There was.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: What's happening?
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: He brought up some curtains made super fly, the mom.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: I'm your daddy on somewe me, I'm your friend.
• 31:50
  Speaker 9: Your team, you were get in love the major love
• 31:53
  Speaker 9: man you.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: It was.
• 31:58
  Speaker 7: First of all, the speech was great with Charlemagne because
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: I read respect for him. Yeah, you know, he brought
• 32:06
  Speaker 7: up a story that I had forgotten when he first
• 32:08
  Speaker 7: came to by Wretch years ago before I had this
• 32:12
  Speaker 7: my other Wretch.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: He was going to release his.
• 32:17
  Speaker 7: First book and he said the title of the book
• 32:19
  Speaker 7: was like f you something something.
• 32:22
  Speaker 10: F you.
• 32:24
  Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, he told me this. We was riding on
• 32:27
  Speaker 7: the Polaris and I looked off and then I said,
• 32:30
  Speaker 7: what's your name book? And he said it again. I said, no, man,
• 32:35
  Speaker 7: We're not no man, we're nothing to do. We're not
• 32:38
  Speaker 7: doing that. And he told the story how I talked
• 32:40
  Speaker 7: to him out the name of the book, and then
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: the book made the New York Times Bestselling this because
• 32:44
  Speaker 7: I just had to talk to I know, I know you, Mad,
• 32:47
  Speaker 7: I know you, and I know you.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: Want to say this, but listen to me.
• 32:57
  Speaker 7: Yeah but yeah but you know yeah yeah yeah, yeah
• 32:59
  Speaker 7: yeah yeah. So we had a good, good conversation.
• 33:02
  Speaker 13: Jules guys dropping knowledge at the investment.
• 33:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, from from two perspectives, you know, like
• 33:09
  Speaker 7: he's younger than me, so but he still knew that
• 33:13
  Speaker 7: who we were in radio. But people can't do what
• 33:16
  Speaker 7: we used to do because too many eyeballs.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: You know, I took it.
• 33:21
  Speaker 7: I took my perspective and just said, hey, listen, man,
• 33:24
  Speaker 7: because of the revolution of technology and social media.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: I was famous before phone camera, so I was all
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: of that.
• 33:31
  Speaker 7: But now, man, you can't make a mistake. And I
• 33:35
  Speaker 7: just asked the culture. I said, I can't control the
• 33:39
  Speaker 7: culture because I'm too old. I said, in a in
• 33:43
  Speaker 7: a in a, I'm a year and a half away
• 33:45
  Speaker 7: from being seventy. And then I stopped and said, look,
• 33:48
  Speaker 7: I know, I know you can.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: I know you can't. I know what you're thinking.
• 33:57
  Speaker 7: Him creator what Yeah, anyway, And I asked them to
• 34:02
  Speaker 7: start taking better care of each other because as a culture,
• 34:06
  Speaker 7: we are the only ones who destroy each other the
• 34:09
  Speaker 7: way we do online. Nobody else goes after each other
• 34:13
  Speaker 7: like we do. And if they can get that part
• 34:16
  Speaker 7: of the culture together, we could be so much greater
• 34:20
  Speaker 7: because we have the power to make each other great,
• 34:23
  Speaker 7: but we use that power to take each other down.
• 34:27
  Speaker 7: I've never seen anything like what we do to one
• 34:31
  Speaker 7: another on social media, and I ask them to just
• 34:35
  Speaker 7: be mindful of it.
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: And they are these this is the culture that can
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: change that.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I can't change.
• 34:40
  Speaker 7: Anybody gonna listen to me. I ain't gonna post enough,
• 34:45
  Speaker 7: but they will listen to you. All who are the
• 34:48
  Speaker 7: current culture drivers. I'm on the other end of the culture.
• 34:54
  Speaker 7: I get a lot of respect when I go places.
• 34:56
  Speaker 7: That's Steve, that's the OG, that's O g Man. He
• 35:00
  Speaker 7: he dropped, he been in the game.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: You the blueprint.
• 35:02
  Speaker 7: I got all of that, thank you very much. But
• 35:05
  Speaker 7: who can currently change your culture now to young people today?
• 35:08
  Speaker 7: And you all have got to start. And I tried
• 35:11
  Speaker 7: to tell them, I said, listen, podcasts are dangerous. I said, y'all,
• 35:15
  Speaker 7: everybody don't need a podcast because what's happening now is
• 35:18
  Speaker 7: because you don't have the constraints that we have on
• 35:21
  Speaker 7: regular radio of F and C. You all get on
• 35:24
  Speaker 7: these podcasts and think, because you're on the podcast, it's
• 35:27
  Speaker 7: a new form of freedom. But that podcast affects your brand. Yes,
• 35:33
  Speaker 7: you are still a part of your brand. Whether you're
• 35:36
  Speaker 7: on somebody's podcast or you got a podcast, it will
• 35:40
  Speaker 7: affect your regular life. Saying Charlemagne tried to give me
• 35:45
  Speaker 7: say some crazy mess yesterday. You go with that podcast
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: mass but.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: You say crazy stuff but you anyway, yeah, yeah.
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my problem is surely and call it. I can't. Oh,
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: I be willing to say plenty of stuff.
• 36:05
  Speaker 13: No, no, not that, but that goes to what you're
• 36:10
  Speaker 13: saying about your brand and people rooting for you, and
• 36:12
  Speaker 13: people are actually wanting you to win.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I think when you tease about Shirley and I saying,
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: you know you can't say that.
• 36:19
  Speaker 13: You can't do that because we don't want to see
• 36:21
  Speaker 13: you your brand canceled or destroyed.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: Over right.
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: We're not those people that work for you to say, yeah,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: say that, Yeah, you do what you want. No, no, no, no,
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: we know it's a cancel culture.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: They know that. No, I an't hear you too much.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah that these two bird dogs right here, they play
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: bird dogs. You know that that dog you go out
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: and spot them birds hunting.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I don't like it. I kind of just sit there.
• 36:52
  Speaker 7: And point, and all of a sudden the bird flying,
• 36:54
  Speaker 7: then you shoot it. They go out there and see
• 36:56
  Speaker 7: all that trouble and go no no, not because we'll
• 37:01
  Speaker 7: discuss something like on a commercial break and I say, well,
• 37:04
  Speaker 7: I come back, I'm gonna say this, and there go.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: No no no, all right, all right, all right.
• 37:13
  Speaker 9: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, ICE had
• 37:16
  Speaker 9: seen an increase in job applicants over the past two weeks.
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  Speaker 9: We'll talk about it right after this you're listening Steve
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  Speaker 9: Immigration and Customs Enforcement that is ICE. ICE has received
• 38:05
  Speaker 9: over one hundred thousand applications to join its ranks in
• 38:09
  Speaker 9: the past two weeks, making this an unprecedented response to
• 38:13
  Speaker 9: their recruitment campaign. The Defend the Homeland campaign has relaxed
• 38:18
  Speaker 9: the age limits and now accepts applicants as young as
• 38:22
  Speaker 9: eighteen years old, and they also welcome retirees. Wow, so
• 38:27
  Speaker 9: if you're eighteen or if you've retired, you can join
• 38:30
  Speaker 9: the Defend the Homeland campaign. Defend the Homeland is backed
• 38:34
  Speaker 9: by nearly thirty billion dollars billion with a B for
• 38:38
  Speaker 9: hiring ten thousand new staff and offers incentives like fifty
• 38:42
  Speaker 9: thousand dollars signing bonuses and student loan forgiveness.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Wow, oh that didn't get cut. Yeah, that's amazing. Fifty
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars in signing bonuses to join ICE.
• 38:54
  Speaker 7: What somebody go mess around sign I'm gonna get that book.
• 38:56
  Speaker 7: That's all I'm telling you. Right now, you're going to
• 38:58
  Speaker 7: set them run up on the wrong person. They ain't
• 39:01
  Speaker 7: going back today, not today.
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: It's going to happen, not today.
• 39:05
  Speaker 7: But you know, this is all a part of Project
• 39:07
  Speaker 7: twenty twenty five. This is also part of the whole
• 39:10
  Speaker 7: Make America Great Again. I don't know why we don't
• 39:13
  Speaker 7: understand what Make America Great Again actually represented it. It
• 39:18
  Speaker 7: was to take this country back to a time where
• 39:21
  Speaker 7: it was more comfortable for a certain type of people
• 39:24
  Speaker 7: to live here. They had gotten extremely uncomfortable with the
• 39:28
  Speaker 7: way they were having to live, slowly becoming a minority,
• 39:32
  Speaker 7: things of that nature, feeling it as though too much
• 39:35
  Speaker 7: was going on that they had no control over. The
• 39:38
  Speaker 7: Make America Great Again campaign is designed to get America
• 39:43
  Speaker 7: back to a point where they were in more of control.
• 39:48
  Speaker 7: So look Let's get rid of black history in schools.
• 39:53
  Speaker 7: Let's stop stop teaching that blacks made a contribution to
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: this country. Let's stop that so we can stop having
• 40:01
  Speaker 7: to feel what we did. We want to forget what
• 40:05
  Speaker 7: was done. That will never be reparations. We can stop
• 40:08
  Speaker 7: asking for that. They're not gonna give us money. They
• 40:13
  Speaker 7: won't even let you have your own history. How they
• 40:15
  Speaker 7: gonna give you some money. The Make America Great Again
• 40:19
  Speaker 7: campaign is designed to make a certain group of people
• 40:23
  Speaker 7: the Magabase feel comfortable, but it is extended beyond the magabase.
• 40:30
  Speaker 7: It is extended into the Republican Party in terms of
• 40:34
  Speaker 7: senators and congressmen. They are so in fear of Donald
• 40:38
  Speaker 7: Trump that they be into his will on everything. Everything
• 40:43
  Speaker 7: he wants to pass. They will pass.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: Everything, and there no one is standing up to him,
• 40:49
  Speaker 2: no one. It is a party.
• 40:54
  Speaker 7: I'm talking about the representatives, not the people who call
• 40:56
  Speaker 7: themselves Republicans. I'm talking about the representatives are cowards. I'm
• 41:01
  Speaker 7: okay with you being a Republican. That doesn't bother me.
• 41:05
  Speaker 7: It's the representatives that you have that don't even represent
• 41:07
  Speaker 7: what you stand for anymore.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Yep, all right, all right?
• 41:12
  Speaker 9: Uh coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
• 41:15
  Speaker 9: we will switch gears.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Sister Odell will be in the building right after this.
• 41:21
  Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen, as promised,
• 41:29
  Speaker 9: she is here.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Well I wanna know, I won't to know a dude.
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: You love dude?
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: You love him?
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: Yes, I do, my lord. My local mornings everyone was.
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: Good, good morning, going, Well, let't get do it? What's
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: going on?
• 41:50
  Speaker 8: Shure?
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: What's happening?
• 41:52
  Speaker 9: Well, you know, it's been so hot, so humid this summer.
• 41:55
  Speaker 9: Everywhere a lot of people are just declining, declaring that
• 41:59
  Speaker 9: they they aren't gonna wear underwear.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: They haven't been wearing underwear because it's been so hot.
• 42:05
  Speaker 7: Uh.
• 42:05
  Speaker 9: City girls Wrapper, Young Miami sparks the debate when she
• 42:08
  Speaker 9: said she doesn't wear panties because, quote, it's too hot
• 42:11
  Speaker 9: for all of that extra fabric. So, without being disrespectful
• 42:17
  Speaker 9: and with all due respect, do you agree with that?
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: How about you?
• 42:21
  Speaker 12: Have you ever?
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: What is this little girl name.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: Young Miami?
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: Uh huh, that's that's in the southern Miami.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: Florida, Yes, ma'am, uh huh.
• 42:34
  Speaker 7: Yes, that's about a clothes to hell that you can
• 42:35
  Speaker 7: get anyway. That Dyna at the bottom.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: That was she hit it. Put your panters on your
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: little fast self.
• 42:42
  Speaker 7: But it's you never know the wind blow. You gotta
• 42:45
  Speaker 7: do bend over all the way half pants on. I
• 42:49
  Speaker 7: recommend bloomers come up more yourself.
• 42:52
  Speaker 9: But you know, people wear like thongs and things now,
• 42:55
  Speaker 9: they don't really wearing boys shorts. They don't really wear
• 42:58
  Speaker 9: bloomers anymore.
• 42:59
  Speaker 7: As sister death, that's what's wrong with the world today.
• 43:02
  Speaker 7: You're showing too much.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: Wait say that again. What's wrong?
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: I said that was wrong with the world today. You're
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: showing too much, is what I said?
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Cover of your tails regulated that's lone world.
• 43:17
  Speaker 7: Yes, too much skin out, just showing. Some men ain't
• 43:20
  Speaker 7: got a wonder what happening? No more then you wonder
• 43:23
  Speaker 7: why they ain't gonna stay with you.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, well what about you, sister that.
• 43:26
  Speaker 9: I don't mean to be disrespectful at all, but have
• 43:29
  Speaker 9: you ever gone commando?
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: Gone away to commando? I've had several men in the military.
• 43:37
  Speaker 13: Not command der nom Yes, it's the difference commando not
• 43:43
  Speaker 13: wearing any we.
• 43:45
  Speaker 7: Don't wear whatever. That was one of my husband's named
• 43:48
  Speaker 7: Commando Hughes.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: How long were you married to mister Hughes eight months.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: That was short lived. Why he died? How did he right?
• 44:07
  Speaker 2: How do he die? I don't know.
• 44:09
  Speaker 7: I just came home and he was just laying in
• 44:10
  Speaker 7: the middle of the floor. I called the funeral home.
• 44:13
  Speaker 7: They came and got him. They charged extra to get
• 44:16
  Speaker 7: him out that day.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: Why Why did he charge you extra? I don't know.
• 44:21
  Speaker 7: They said they was backed up so that I had
• 44:24
  Speaker 7: to pay extra for him to come get him there,
• 44:25
  Speaker 7: or they was gonna get him in the morning.
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: I didn't. I had to vacuum. I had to clean up. Yeah.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: I couldn't have him laying in there all night long.
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: I got clean this house.
• 44:37
  Speaker 9: So his name was Commando. What did you call him,
• 44:41
  Speaker 9: mister Commando Hughes? What did you did you have a
• 44:43
  Speaker 9: nickname for him or anything?
• 44:45
  Speaker 8: No?
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: I just called him Commando? Uh huh, that's all.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: How'd you meet him? Where'd you meet h at.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: The h at the DFW hall. Yeah, yeah, they was
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: They were dying now. They were throwing on it by
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: old b I was in there trying to save souls.
• 45:08
  Speaker 7: When I saw Commando, I went, well, we ain't got
• 45:11
  Speaker 7: to worry about souls right now.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: Come on over here, big fellow.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: Oh he was big, sister Dell. How's tall?
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: Was he all six? He was six four?
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: Oh, got big old man.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 45:28
  Speaker 7: When I met him, he hugged me and lifted me up.
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: I married him the next Saturday.
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: It took just a week. Did you have any children
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: by him?
• 45:37
  Speaker 10: No?
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Everything to hell? So but we didn't have Now he
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: practiced a lot. We didn't throw. We ain't reproduced. We
• 45:48
  Speaker 2: was just producing.
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: Okay, all right?
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: So who did you marry after mister Commando Hughes? Since
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: that was so short lived? Eight months?
• 45:59
  Speaker 8: Oh?
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: Sat I marriage sat a page for a short time.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: We didn't know that.
• 46:07
  Speaker 8: Okay.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: He's in the negro league, you.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: Know, yes, yes, all right, thank you, Sister Odell.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: Can you ahead a goal? Because they were short of negros?
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: Could prank?
• 46:17
  Speaker 9: Phone call with the nephew right after this, you're listening
• 46:21
  Speaker 9: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at about
• 46:28
  Speaker 9: four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry letter for today,
• 46:31
  Speaker 9: and the subject is they want equal treatment. They want
• 46:35
  Speaker 9: equal treatment. We'll get into that and we'll find out
• 46:37
  Speaker 9: what that's all about. And just a few because right
• 46:40
  Speaker 9: now it is time for the nephew and today's prank
• 46:43
  Speaker 9: phone call.
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: What you got for his nept?
• 46:46
  Speaker 2: I got it for you.
• 46:47
  Speaker 8: I got my favorite socks, my favorite socks. How about
• 46:52
  Speaker 8: that prank?
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Your people show socks?
• 46:56
  Speaker 8: That's really normal though, So wait till you hear and
• 47:02
  Speaker 8: here we go my favorite sock.
• 47:04
  Speaker 10: Let's go, get up all I'm trying to reach the charge. Yeah, okay?
• 47:09
  Speaker 10: Are you do you live an apartment?
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: Who is it?
• 47:12
  Speaker 10: My name Benny Man, I live in. Let me say
• 47:15
  Speaker 10: this to you. Man, this like the third time this
• 47:17
  Speaker 10: that happened, you know, and I got fed up with it,
• 47:20
  Speaker 10: so I'm finished city and then we finished get here
• 47:21
  Speaker 10: straight up?
• 47:22
  Speaker 8: Man?
• 47:22
  Speaker 10: Wait?
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: Wait, wait? Who who are you again?
• 47:25
  Speaker 10: My name Benny Man, I live in Let's listen. Do
• 47:28
  Speaker 10: you use the washroom on the property?
• 47:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah? Man, I used washroom? What's up?
• 47:32
  Speaker 10: Okay? This is the third time this to happened. Last
• 47:35
  Speaker 10: night was the third time, right now. The first time
• 47:38
  Speaker 10: I happened to be in the washroom with you and
• 47:41
  Speaker 10: I come up with a shirt missing.
• 47:43
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 47:43
  Speaker 10: The second time was was was uh uh my T shirt?
• 47:47
  Speaker 10: My Chicago Bulls Championship T shirt? I saw your girl
• 47:50
  Speaker 10: with it on now? Last night? Last night was one
• 47:53
  Speaker 10: that drew to nine my favorite socks was missing out
• 47:56
  Speaker 10: the dryer to get my I don't know what you're doing. Man,
• 48:00
  Speaker 10: when you in the washroom, if you decide you just
• 48:02
  Speaker 10: gonna go shopping in the dry and get what you
• 48:04
  Speaker 10: want out of it from other people's stuff. Man, but
• 48:07
  Speaker 10: this thing, I'm gonna hold up.
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: I'm a grown man. What are you talking about shopping
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: for every day? I buy my own. Listen, you called
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: me tripping by some cup and what you called me
• 48:17
  Speaker 4: tripping by some socks?
• 48:19
  Speaker 10: I'm right, they' my favorite socks. So when I got
• 48:21
  Speaker 10: a problem is why what makes you think you can
• 48:23
  Speaker 10: start opening up dryers getting people stop out? Man?
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: Hold up? What makes you think I'm opening up? Hold up?
• 48:28
  Speaker 4: You got the wrong one. Where you getting my number from? Anyway?
• 48:31
  Speaker 10: I got your number from the least in office. I
• 48:34
  Speaker 10: told them my number.
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: Say what they done lost their mind? Giving you my numbers,
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: calling me with some to buy some socks.
• 48:41
  Speaker 10: Hey, man, they ain't my favorite socks, and look at it.
• 48:43
  Speaker 10: I want my socks back from you.
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: Man, I'm gonna say this one more time. You done
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: lost your mind.
• 48:48
  Speaker 10: Okay, I'm gonna say this one more time. Eat, I'm
• 48:51
  Speaker 10: gonna get them socks. I'm gonna get that.
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: Hold a plan. You say you living five? What I
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: live in? You got I live? I knock on your
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: door about ten minutes if it's okay with you, Potner,
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: Hey man, it's whatever.
• 49:04
  Speaker 10: All I know is you better bring them socks when
• 49:06
  Speaker 10: you bring your frown.
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: Fox.
• 49:11
  Speaker 10: You've got my favorite socks and you crying like a
• 49:14
  Speaker 10: little by some socks. Man, hell with you?
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: You got my man, I'm gonna man show whooping your part.
• 49:20
  Speaker 10: I ain't man.
• 49:20
  Speaker 7: You better have shake.
• 49:22
  Speaker 10: You better have my Chicago Ball Championship shake, and you
• 49:25
  Speaker 10: better have my socks. You can't be taking people stuff
• 49:28
  Speaker 10: out the washroom.
• 49:29
  Speaker 4: Fine pottery you got three it was called fox shirt
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: and a T shirt. That's what you want. You gotta
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: we'll be coming for all up. But that's fine with me.
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: Dog blah, I do I want my socks back.
• 49:38
  Speaker 10: Man flack like my little sister with ever crying. We
• 49:40
  Speaker 10: ain't man. I don't worry about that. I better not
• 49:43
  Speaker 10: catch you are your sister and my stuff. I'm a
• 49:46
  Speaker 10: cat off you and me.
• 49:47
  Speaker 4: You ain't gonna tell thing nobody. You gonna lost your mind.
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: First of all, why don't you shut your head on
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: down to the washroom so I can whoop your Now.
• 49:55
  Speaker 10: I'll get you in the washroom right now, but you
• 49:57
  Speaker 10: better bring my socks with you.
• 49:58
  Speaker 4: You and me come bring them? Do you pop?
• 50:00
  Speaker 10: I'm gonna put you inside that drive and turn it
• 50:02
  Speaker 10: off until you're stealing stuff.
• 50:04
  Speaker 13: Out of it.
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: Man, let me tell you what that Hurry up, put
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: your get down to the washroom. Now. I'm tied up,
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: my shoes on. I'm from the fall phone.
• 50:12
  Speaker 10: I'm already walking that way.
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: So now what want see me? You know me? No,
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: you know I already know you.
• 50:18
  Speaker 10: Once you get busted in the head, you'll know what's
• 50:20
  Speaker 10: going on.
• 50:22
  Speaker 4: You ain't a man enough. I'm going you may. I'll
• 50:26
  Speaker 4: tell you what.
• 50:27
  Speaker 10: I long just gonna take you to get your throwhere.
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: That's gonna take me.
• 50:29
  Speaker 10: Up about two minutes, Paul, Right, then, guess what else
• 50:32
  Speaker 10: I'm bringing with?
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: What's to bringing? Now?
• 50:35
  Speaker 10: Is you listening to see what I'm bringing?
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: Man? What this is?
• 50:38
  Speaker 10: Nephew? Tommy?
• 50:40
  Speaker 4: Say what? Man? Who is this?
• 50:46
  Speaker 10: Hey? Charles? This nephew? Tell me from the deal, Harvey,
• 50:49
  Speaker 10: more than your man. Your girl Sandrea got me to
• 50:54
  Speaker 10: prank you.
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: Man, many wrong, y'all wrong, man, I got one boot on.
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: I'm on my way down, said, tell me, come on, man,
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: tell me it ain't so man I'm talking about I know,
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: ain't no brawl on this phone crying over no.
• 51:11
  Speaker 10: Oh, and that son is made some sock.
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: Man, some sock. But you know y'all tripping.
• 51:17
  Speaker 10: Hey man, I got one more question, baby, what is
• 51:20
  Speaker 10: what is the baddest radio show in the land? Man?
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: That's easy to Steve Harvey Morning Show, George, I got.
• 51:28
  Speaker 8: You, man, all right, and now you have it my
• 51:34
  Speaker 8: favorite socks. Yes, yeah, too much, too bad, Keep the stupid,
• 51:38
  Speaker 8: keep it ignorant. Hey, y'all know it's about to be
• 51:43
  Speaker 8: late in the weekend, weekend, and what difference does that make.
• 51:49
  Speaker 8: It's time to start cooking. It's time to get this
• 51:51
  Speaker 8: grill cracking. Now you already know what that means. It's
• 51:53
  Speaker 8: time to get it fired up.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: Baby. Oh yeah, Well, we know that you've.
• 52:00
  Speaker 8: Been on like a little excursion by yourself for the
• 52:02
  Speaker 8: last five six weeks.
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: I gotta get myself together.
• 52:06
  Speaker 8: You're fishing, and it's you showering daily.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: I meant you know you're going down.
• 52:12
  Speaker 10: To that What.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: You ain't down here? What you're worried about it?
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: And then after Labor Day.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Stop.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you, before you know it, it's your trees,
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: gets your light, get you. I've already been. They have
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: Christmas decorations up already.
• 52:43
  Speaker 13: Okay, they're gonna start playing Mariah Carry in a minute.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: Classic, Yeah, definitely, yeah, all right, So.
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: What you go?
• 52:57
  Speaker 8: So what you got going on this weekend? I've been
• 53:01
  Speaker 8: talking about it forever. It's time now it's the comedy
• 53:04
  Speaker 8: jam August twenty night, Me and Bill Bellamy, baby and Birmingham, Alabama, Adory.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: It's not saying that right.
• 53:13
  Speaker 8: About yeah, about well about well bout.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Well bout well, they're gonna they're gonna come to either one.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: Thank you. You did that years ago, right, big though
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: yourself five thousand?
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: Hey you sounded serious. Didn't he have to say the
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: audience number?
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: That's how I know? I mean buildings and buildings always
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: had numbers attached to.
• 53:34
  Speaker 8: Okay, let's go, let'shit a couple of city there. Uh, Charlotte,
• 53:37
  Speaker 8: North Carolina.
• 53:38
  Speaker 7: What you play over to the theater twenty five hundred
• 53:43
  Speaker 7: mm hmm, Augusta, No, no, Kings was out.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: There Arena but in Charlotte though, right, yeah.
• 53:51
  Speaker 7: Augusta, George is why I did my comedy special two
• 53:55
  Speaker 7: thousand seats by all auditory.
• 53:57
  Speaker 8: Real.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: All right, let's get one. Washington d C. Okay, Washington D.
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: See where I hold the record. I hold the record,
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: Washington to thank you for bringing it up. Thank you.
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: That's why he didn't want to bring it.
• 54:15
  Speaker 12: Constitution Hall, Okay, Constitution Hall D. Steve Hawgy, all.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: Right, coming up next.
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  Speaker 9: Subject they want equal treatment. They're Stephen Shirley. I'm in
• 55:36
  Speaker 9: my late forties and my sister in law is my
• 55:38
  Speaker 9: best friend. My brother is cheating on her and she
• 55:41
  Speaker 9: found out from their six year old son. I was
• 55:44
  Speaker 9: keeping their son, and we went to visit my mother,
• 55:46
  Speaker 9: his grandmother. Well, my stupid brother had his girlfriend over
• 55:51
  Speaker 9: there having a fish fry in the backyard. My mother
• 55:54
  Speaker 9: was in the house mad as heck, but my dad
• 55:57
  Speaker 9: was outside with them because the woman has a really
• 55:59
  Speaker 9: nice boy.
• 56:00
  Speaker 1: My nephew didn't see the woman.
• 56:02
  Speaker 9: But my mother was so upset that she unleashed a
• 56:04
  Speaker 9: rant and the boy heard it from the other room.
• 56:07
  Speaker 9: He could not wait to tell his mom, and she
• 56:10
  Speaker 9: called me and lit into me about it. I told
• 56:13
  Speaker 9: her that I was clueless, and she didn't believe me.
• 56:16
  Speaker 9: My brother blames me for bringing his son over to
• 56:19
  Speaker 9: our parents home. My brother ended up moving in with
• 56:23
  Speaker 9: my parents temporarily and continued to date this side chick
• 56:26
  Speaker 9: even though he was trying to work things out with
• 56:29
  Speaker 9: his wife. I am stuck in the middle because he
• 56:32
  Speaker 9: has me counseling the side chick, begging her to be
• 56:35
  Speaker 9: patient while he figures out how to leave his wife.
• 56:38
  Speaker 9: He's not leaving his wife, and I want to tell
• 56:40
  Speaker 9: his side chick that, but that would be even messier.
• 56:44
  Speaker 9: The side chicks want the side chick wants equal treatment
• 56:47
  Speaker 9: as his wife.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: His wife wants it all.
• 56:50
  Speaker 9: If he wants to go back home, she wants a
• 56:52
  Speaker 9: new ring and a recommitment ceremony with a big, fancy honeymoon.
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: The side chick said, if she's going to stay.
• 56:59
  Speaker 9: With him, wants a commitment ring and a big vacation
• 57:02
  Speaker 9: to a romantic island to prove he's all hers. I
• 57:06
  Speaker 9: told him he's in way too deep and he needs
• 57:09
  Speaker 9: to get his affairs in order. I've been living with
• 57:12
  Speaker 9: this guilt for almost a year. My therapist said I
• 57:15
  Speaker 9: should come clean and be honest with both women. Should
• 57:18
  Speaker 9: I do this to my brother?
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: Okay? No, no, don't do this to your brother, okay,
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: but you.
• 57:25
  Speaker 9: Got to look at what it's doing to you, and
• 57:28
  Speaker 9: way more importantly, you can't do this to yourself.
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: You just can't.
• 57:32
  Speaker 9: You got to get out of the middle of this.
• 57:34
  Speaker 9: This is a mess, and this has nothing to do
• 57:36
  Speaker 9: with you. You're not cheating on anyone. You innocently took
• 57:40
  Speaker 9: your nephew to see his grandparents, and now you're getting
• 57:43
  Speaker 9: it from all sides. Your brother's mad at you, your
• 57:46
  Speaker 9: bestie's mad at you, and the side chick even has
• 57:48
  Speaker 9: something to say, and she shouldn't have anything to say about.
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: Any of this.
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: It's amazing to me, though, that a six year old, a.
• 57:56
  Speaker 9: Six year old little boy and wait to tell his
• 58:01
  Speaker 9: mom about the side chick. I mean, he must be
• 58:03
  Speaker 9: really advanced, because when we were kids, you know, we
• 58:06
  Speaker 9: constantly heard the phrase stay out of grown folks us.
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: But his mom probably put him up to it. I
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 58:14
  Speaker 9: Listen, you've got to start blaming yourself in all of
• 58:17
  Speaker 9: this and stop letting your brother punk you, and his
• 58:21
  Speaker 9: side chick and his wife, your bestie, they're all using you.
• 58:24
  Speaker 9: You got to stand up for yourself, tell them all
• 58:28
  Speaker 9: to kiss your behind.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: You could have.
• 58:29
  Speaker 9: You had a choice, kiss your behind, tell them to
• 58:32
  Speaker 9: work it out, and tell them to leave it, leave
• 58:34
  Speaker 9: you out of it.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: You can tell one, You could tell them one of
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: those or all of those.
• 58:38
  Speaker 9: All it is is misplaced anger on the wife's part
• 58:42
  Speaker 9: and trying to place blame on the brother's part, and
• 58:45
  Speaker 9: trying to get something out of it on the side
• 58:47
  Speaker 9: chicks part. I mean, your brother's manage you, yet he's
• 58:50
  Speaker 9: the one cheating. Your best friend is managed you, although
• 58:52
  Speaker 9: it's her husband that's a fault here. I mean, I
• 58:56
  Speaker 9: think you should get you some business immediately, because clearly
• 58:59
  Speaker 9: you have none because you're in this. You gotta stop
• 59:02
  Speaker 9: feeling guilty and thinking you cause this and get on
• 59:05
  Speaker 9: with your life. I mean, you've been going through this
• 59:07
  Speaker 9: for a whole year now, feeling guilty. You're the one
• 59:10
  Speaker 9: that needs to get away. They need to all pay
• 59:12
  Speaker 9: for your trip, not them. They don't need to go anywhere.
• 59:16
  Speaker 9: And as far as your therapist goes, fire him. Whichever'
• 59:20
  Speaker 9: the one that gave you this bad advice about coming clean.
• 59:23
  Speaker 7: Steve excellent response. I think what you said is spot on.
• 59:30
  Speaker 7: I agree one thousand percent with everything you said. I
• 59:34
  Speaker 7: can't really add nothing to this except a very unique
• 59:39
  Speaker 7: perspective because there are.
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: Some lives being told any and that's where I come in.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: I love it. Now.
• 59:50
  Speaker 7: This woman that wrote the letters is writing because she's
• 59:54
  Speaker 7: stuck in the middle. Obviously, I'm in my late parties
• 59:58
  Speaker 7: and my sister in law is my best friend.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, there you go.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 7: My brother's cheating on her, and she found out from
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 7: their six year old son.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: So the aunt was keeping her nephew.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 7: Which is a six year old went by to visit
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 7: her mother with her nephew, which is the mother's grandson.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: Your dumb brother.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 7: Had his girlfriend over his mom and daddy house, having
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 7: a fish fry in the backyard. My mother was in
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 7: the house mad as heck, as most women would be,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 7: but my dad was outside with him because the woman had.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 2: A really nice body. I don't know if that's the beast.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 7: I think the daddy was out there because for her,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 7: the daddy was just being the daddy. See the problem
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 7: in this letter is now you say your nephew didn't
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 7: see the woman, but your mother was upset and was written,
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 7: and the boy overheard in the other room and he
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 7: couldn't wait to go tell his mom and She called
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 7: me and lit into you about it, and I told
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 7: her you was clueless, and she didn't believe me.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: Well, why would you take the boy, the nephew over to.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 7: Your mother's house if you knew your brother was over
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 7: there with another woman. That's no way you would have
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 7: done that. Because you're a nice aunt. You wouldn't have
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 7: done that to the boy. But your dumb brother over there.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 7: You know what the problem with your brother is, He
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 7: got too much support for his BS.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: That's what's wrong. And when we come back, I'll explain it.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 9: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 9: twenty three minutes after the hour.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 9: Subject of today's Strawberry letter. They want equal treatment. We'll
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 9: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 9: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 9: and finish up with your response the subjects they want
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 9: equal treatment.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, this is kind of crazy.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 7: This woman got a brother that's cheating, and she was
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 7: keeping the brother's son who is her nephews. Her best
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 7: friend is her brother's wife, which is her sister in law.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: Go over to the house.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 7: Her brother got a chick over there having a fish
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 7: fry in the mamma and daddy backyard.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: That's ignorant to begin with.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 7: Now, the mama in the house mad as heck, But
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 7: you say your daddy was outside with him because the
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 7: woman got a really nice body. My nephew didn't see
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 7: the woman, but your mama was so upset she unleashed
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 7: the ranch.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: The little boy heard it. He couldn't wait to go
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: back home and tell his mama.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 7: Your girlfriend, who is your best friend, the sister in
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 7: law to your brother's or brother's wife who was your
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 7: sister in law, and your best friend lit into you
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 7: because she thought you was in on her. You told
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 7: her you was clueless, and she didn't believe me. I
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 7: said before, why would you take the boy over to
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 7: the house and expose your nephew to some god? But
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 7: you had no idea. He was over here and you
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 7: didn't take the boy in the backyard. You he just
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 7: overheard the grandmother talking. So now what didn't happen? Because
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 7: it is your brother that ended up moving in with
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 7: your parents because he done got put out and he's
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 7: continued to date the side chick with the banging body,
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 7: even though he trying to work things out with his wife.
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: Now you say you're.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 7: Stuck in the middle because he got you counseling the
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 7: side chick, begging her to be patient while he figured out.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: How to leave his wife. Then you say he ain't
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 2: leaving his wife, And I want to tell the side
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: chick that, but that would be even messier.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 7: Your brother is the one that's a fault in this
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 7: whole thing, first of all, cheating on his wife. Second
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 7: of all, he took the side chick to his parents' house,
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 7: having a fish fry in the backyard, the daddy out
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 7: there supporting the son. And now he got you counseling
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 7: the side chick. The best way to do people who
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 7: bring BS to you is let them lay in.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: They b s get out of the support system business.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: You ain't.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 7: Don't ever help nobody do wrong unless you're a man.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 7: Unless you're a man, and this is your boy, it
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 7: is our obligation to help you.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: Whatever man, different rules.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 7: If because I got news for you, Okay, now here
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 7: what okay? Hold on now, let me help you understand this.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 7: If your girl gets in trouble, you gonna help her
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 7: because that's your cooling. Now, y'all don't ever talk about
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 7: that side of this. But y'all comes to each other's
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 7: rescue because.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 2: I've heard it. What does that have to do with
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: the letter nothing?
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 7: It's just don't get mad at me when I tell
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 7: you that the only way you're supposed to get involved
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 7: in this is if y'all was boys. You should stay
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 7: out of this because your best friend is your sister
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: in law. Right, so you definitely shouldn't be counseling the
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 7: side check because your brother got everybody involved in his BS.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 2: Now, the side chick wants equal treatment as your wife.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: Now listen to this.
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 7: His wife won't it all If he wants to go
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 7: back home, she want a new ring and a recommitment
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 7: ceremony and a big fancy honeymoon. That ain't just to
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 7: show re commitment. She just really wants some stuff. She
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 7: didn't want some stuff really, because you're gonna take a
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 7: man back and do that. Knows this is some themes.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 7: You're considering taking him back because you want him back,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 7: but you want some themes with it. Recommitment, big o' ring,
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 7: fancy honeymoon. Yeah, but now here the problem is the
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 7: side chick said. If she gonna stay with him, she
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 7: want a commitment ring, a big vacation to a romantic
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 7: hollary to prove that he's all hers. I told him
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 7: he in way too deep and to get his a
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 7: fans in order. Let me explain to you what's wrong here.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 7: Your brother is telling both women the same thing. That's
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 7: what's wrong, yep. Because if he was telling them the truth,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 7: both of them would might not be demanding the same thing.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 7: But he's telling both of them, I want to be
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 7: with you. Give me a minute to work this out.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 7: Getting the divorce's difficult. Give me a minute. I'm working
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 7: this out. I gotta get this chick out my life.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 7: She tripping this with or nothing This wasn't even about her, right, Baby,
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 7: I want you because here what Bruh can't do. He
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 7: don't have the money for an apartment. That's why he'd
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 7: have had to move back in with his mom and daddy.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 7: Ain't no way in the hell. He got two rings
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 7: and he can go on two vacations.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: A honeymoon and a romantic getaway.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 7: So as soon as y'all quit supporting this BS, it's
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 7: gonna all come to a head.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 8: Now.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 7: You say you've been living with this guilt almost a year.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 7: That's because he got too much help. Your therapist says,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 7: I should come clean and be honest with both women.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 2: Your therapist is a woman.
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: Because the man would never say that.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: Ain't no way.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 7: The only way a man would say that if he
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 7: wanted to sleep with you. Your therapist is a woman. Yeah,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 7: and this ain't the time for that.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, all right?
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: Steve hit us up on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM,
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 9: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast, Done
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 9: de Man.
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, Sports Talk right after.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 4: This, What I thought your boys, Big Snoop DOGG. And
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 4: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 13: Hey, is Carla Farrow kick that old mopping bucket aside?
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• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: Well, Tommy Junior is out today? Do you have any
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: sports for us?
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 10: No?
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: Well, what do you have, sir? Supposed to be watching for?
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 7: What?
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 9: Are you?
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 8: Well? Listen if you want to listen. Okay, let me
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 8: just tell you. I took what happened in the pair weekend.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 8: Me and my cousin Chris Jingen played dominoes. He won
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 8: six games. I want folk so that that's what happened
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 8: with boys. Yeah you care this sports girl?
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 8: Lie Jordan was outside with some friends. They played horse
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 8: and I brought I lowered the gold down because you
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 8: know they eighth grade. I lowered to go down, so
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 8: they were dunking. One little boys got his hand cut
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 8: on the rim when he was dunking.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 2: Jordan won.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 8: Okay, that was out there playing the horse. Any sports
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 8: you want to throw anything I got playing sports for
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 8: you went.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 7: I was fishing the other day and uh, I lost
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 7: two good ones, two good ones and the worst sports.
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 7: I couldn't believe it. Man, I saw it too, that
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 7: bad boy had rolled. I said, boy, this is a
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 7: nice one right here. Had to wait on it, you know,
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 7: and lost that at the bank. Then I caught three
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 7: in a row, and then I lost another one because
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 7: when I set the hook, I snatched. And Shirley is
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 7: snoring me because that's you, because you don't want to
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 7: know what something like that call it.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 2: Don't do that what.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 8: Sports?
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: This is sports? We don't.
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 7: We don't care if y'all know what we're talking about.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 7: Y'all don't know. Y'all don't know football basketball nowhere, so
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 7: we surely don't.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: In this past weekend preseason, I.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 8: Tell you, I'm gonna tell you that right now. I
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 8: played golf. Listen, if you're playing golf, use an orange
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 8: or a lime green ball so you can find your ball.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 2: If you're not a good player. These are things that
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: you need.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 7: To I think the Bengals beat the Commanders. I think
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 7: they did, and then the Browns beat the Eagles in preseason,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 7: which means absolutely nothing. Dan and Gabriel, who got his start,
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 7: was playing pretty well. Then he threw a pick six
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 7: last week?
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 2: What were y'all doing? Sports?
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: Sports?
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 7: I went fishing again yesterday and Nord it was hot
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 7: as hell, so you do.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 1: It's fish.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 7: But I got a new google aw straw hat that
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 7: has a big wide band on it, and I thought
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 7: it was pretty flashy till I went over on the
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 7: other side of the ranch and saw these workings and
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 7: all of them had the same head on.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 4: So you got mad.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, now I might looking like a worker. I thought.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 8: They got a new black hockey playoff. I forgot his
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 8: name though, but that's something y'all should know about it.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: That's good.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: You're hurry back here. Junior Boo coming up at the
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: top of the hour. Thank you guys. As an adult,
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: when should you move out of your parents' house? That
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: is the question.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 9: When you're in Jay and Roanoke. We'll get into it
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 9: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 9: All right, Steve, So this is from Jay in Roanoke.
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 9: Jay says, I'm almost thirty and I lived with my parents.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 9: My dad has a problem with me moving out, and
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 9: he also has a problem with my boyfriend staying with me.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 9: When he comes to town. My boyfriend has to get
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 9: a hotel room. So it's a waste of money because
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 9: we have two extra guest rooms. My boyfriend said, my
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 9: dad is controlling and he wants me to get my
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 9: own place. I'm comfortable with my living arrangements, but my
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 9: boyfriend is getting tired of it.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: What do you suggest I do well.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 7: First of all, your father and his house makes the
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 7: rules period. He's uncomfortable with you moving out now you're thirty,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 7: that you have an overprotected dad. Thirty, you should have
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 7: been gone unless you're in a certain culture where a
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 7: woman stays at the father's house until she marries. If
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 7: you're in a certain culture, then that's you're gonna have
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 7: to do that. Secondly, don't nobody give it what your
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 7: boyfriend thinks that your father is controlling because he can
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 7: see his way out the dough Because before your boyfriend
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 7: showed up, your father was holding it down.
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: For you and your family the entire time.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 7: So your boyfriend is ignorant for trying to say that
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 7: your father is controlling because he doesn't have a daughter yet,
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 7: so he can't possibly know what your father feels. So
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 7: now if he has to come and get a hotel,
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 7: if that's an expense he can't afford, then he can't
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 7: come visit. And your father has a rule that nobody
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 7: can come and sleep in his house unless you're married
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 7: to my daughter.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 2: And I'm pretty sure that's the rule.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 7: So now, yeah, I'm not mad at that. Yeah, so
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 7: you can get off the dad and you should have
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 7: been gone technically.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 9: Because she's thirty, but you know, a lot of thirty
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 9: for a lot of living with their parents. Now that's
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  Speaker 9: too much of it.
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  Speaker 8: But I think man gives a little bit more leeway
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  Speaker 8: to his daughter than his absolutely for you mean.
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  Speaker 1: As far as staying at home at home, Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: A little bit more.
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  Speaker 4: Lee.
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  Speaker 2: My youngest son is twenty eight. He can't he's not
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  Speaker 2: coming to my house.
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  Speaker 1: So when did you have to leave it?
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  Speaker 10: What?
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: Eighteen? When you turned eighteen?
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  Speaker 7: I left, seventeen, left I went to college when I
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  Speaker 7: was seventeen. He told me work it out because that's it.
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  Speaker 1: That's what you had to do.
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  Speaker 8: I think you realized after you come home a summer
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  Speaker 8: after being in college. Have you come home a summer
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  Speaker 8: and spend it with at your parents' house and your
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 8: daddy back in your in your face, saying you ain't
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 8: gonna be coming up in here, no middle, that's straight
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 8: right now. Once you once you hear that enough, you're like, okay,
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 8: I gotta get my host.
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  Speaker 1: And you're about that.
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  Speaker 2: Last weekend, I stayed out all night. I ain't even
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: making home.
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  Speaker 1: Well this weekend, that's not going to happen in this house.
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  Speaker 2: Not at this house.
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  Speaker 8: This is no no.
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  Speaker 7: When I flocked out of college, I had to stay
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 7: at home for six months when I flunked out of college.
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  Speaker 7: But I got a job immediately for a motor company.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 7: As soon as I had saved four checks, I was.
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  Speaker 1: Out, Oh okay, all right, comfortable in the.
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  Speaker 2: No no no, he just said, the time you just
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: start lifting for something.
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  Speaker 1: That makes you uncomfortable. Yeah, your digs are number so you.
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  Speaker 2: As soon as I got.
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  Speaker 7: My first check, I had to give my mom and
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 7: daddy one hundred and twenty five dollars.
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  Speaker 2: All right, A lot of words do that.
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  Speaker 8: And don't touch that last piece of chicken on the
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 8: stove that belonged to your dad.
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  Speaker 2: I don't. But he had deals at our house because
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 2: it was his house, his work.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: Wow, it's it is different now though.
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 7: Walk in the house and he said, fan just he
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 7: had a one of them fans that turn you just
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 7: have it on him in the heat of the summer,
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 7: you know that the fan that oscillates, you know, go
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 7: round the room, deeppress stop, it's just everybody else sitting
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 7: over to him and my mama coan the rest of us,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 7: everybody else.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: Without with our mouth open, panting like a doll.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: Coming up.
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  Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. So guys,
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  Speaker 9: this might inspire you to take a few more golfing lessons.
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  Speaker 9: A couple of weeks ago, champion golfer Scottie Scheffler won
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 9: the BMW Golf Tournament and he won a whopping at
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 9: three point six million dollars. Now his caddy, Yeah, that's
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 9: a lot of money.
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  Speaker 1: His cat.
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  Speaker 9: He took home three hundred and sixty thousand dollars and
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 9: a new Rolex is part of his prize package. I'd
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 9: say that's pretty good for a day's work. So does
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  Speaker 9: that excite you to maybe take a golf in a
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  Speaker 9: day's shirt.
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  Speaker 2: That's about photos, not a day. It's more than that.
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  Speaker 7: The caddies get there on Sunday before the tournament to
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 7: walk the course, we guide it, map it out. They
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 7: got to map it because everything got to go in
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 7: that little book. They can't use range finder, so he
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 7: got to mark all stuff. Then he got to walk
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 7: all the greens and know the modulations and everything. All
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 7: that stuff is in a book. And caddies get ten
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 7: percent of the purse when you win.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's why he got three hundred and sixty
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 7: And yeah, he come in a couple of days early
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 7: to get a practice round on the golf course. But
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 7: and then for all of that, he's weigh a lot
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 7: of money.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: Does it make you want to be a better golfer?
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 9: Take more lessons and step up your golfing game?
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not going to wear a quarter.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 7: You're fitter, you can try all you want. You're not
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 7: finna win a professional golf tournament. You're shooting under par.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 7: If I get a birdie, birdie, celebrate.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, congratulations to Scottie Scheffler and his caddy.
• 1:19:17
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  Speaker 9: coming up in thirty three minutes after we'll play around it.
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  Speaker 9: Would you rather right after this? You're listening to the
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  Speaker 1: Time now for a round? Would you rather?
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  Speaker 9: Would you rather smothered chicken and rice or fried liver
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  Speaker 9: and ONIONO?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, we know my too, all time favorite. Yes, oh,
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  Speaker 7: living onion is my absolute favorite practice.
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna do that smothered chicken.
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 9: Would you rather your partner is silent? During intimacy or
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 9: really really loud.
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 2: I don't care what you see. Let me have it.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 7: Ego me down, Yeah, make me think I'm all of
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 7: that ever long?
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 8: Girl.
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 2: Come on now, if they're silent bringing.
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 8: What is it?
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 9: How does it make you feel? If they're silent, if
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 9: they don't say anything, I don't care.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 2: I'm breef, I'm breath taking. That's all that is.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: That's what you got out. That's what I can speak.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: She can't speak, Okay, took.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: The sound.
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 2: I know I'm doing something?
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 1: Or she yeah it's or yeah, like watch looking at
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: her watch.
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 2: Text Yeah, if she texted with.
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: The other hand, No, it's not.
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 2: She got some nail polish on the night stand and
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 2: she threw in one of her nails. You ain't really doing.
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 8: So you want loud?
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: She fall asleep. You ain't really doing no all right?
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 9: Would you rather only eat one meal a day? Or
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 9: would you rather only bathe three days a week?
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 10: What?
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, come on, little come on, little man.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 2: Let's hear this right.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 8: I'm one meal today, I am one up and eat
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 8: all the hell I want to eat in that one.
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 2: Go ahead with your little nasty behind. They just stay
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 2: at the house down here.
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 7: You just cool. Just come in and get under this fan.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 7: Cool off every now and then. I'm gonna be no
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 7: barbecue and everything. Yeah, laying up in here, I might
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 7: not get into bed. I'm gonna sleep in his chair
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 7: out here.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: But I'm all right, all right? Would you moving on?
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 9: Would you rather have three wives that live with you?
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 9: Or would you rather live with ten small dogs?
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: Which one?
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 2: I'm with them three, but I can't do no of
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: them dogs. I can't scaling.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: You're a small dogs though.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: I can't.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna be in jail for abuse though, because I'm
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 7: not taking care of ten dogs.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, You'll be canceled.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I'm no, no, no, I'm just telling you truth.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 7: I'm not finn to watch no tendonni where you eating?
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 7: I don't give I'm not pty training you. I'm on
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 7: that doing that everybody out you.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 1: Think you can handle three wives though?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: Oh no, no, I can't have three wives. All right.
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 9: That's today's round of would you rather? Coming up next
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  Speaker 9: to It is our last break of the day, and
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  Speaker 1: Here we are, guys, our last break of the day,
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  Speaker 1: fun day crazy. Thank you guys for listening. We appreciate
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  Speaker 1: your business for sure.
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  Speaker 7: Steve Hey, here's my closing remarks today. I want to
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  Speaker 7: remind everybody of something that's really important.
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  Speaker 2: You have got to take a chance. Period.
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  Speaker 7: You have got to take risk. You have got to
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 7: put it on the line. You have got to step
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 7: out on faith. You cannot stand there and play it
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 7: safe your entire life. You cannot win playing safe. You
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 7: have got to step up to the plate and run
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 7: the risk of striking out. You've got to line up
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 7: on your mark and run the risk of getting beat
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 7: you have got to take a chance. Life has value
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 7: when it has chances in it. I know some people
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 7: who have played it safe their entire life. I went
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 7: to school with them. I know some people right now, man,
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 7: who stayed on the job that they did not enjoy,
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 7: to retire from it and now to be seeking part
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 7: time work because they can't make it on one third
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 7: of what they were already struggling on, because that's their
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 7: retirement pension. All because and he told me, hey man,
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 7: I just took the safe route. I wanted to be safe.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 7: Oh man, I cannot tell you, man, the value in
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 7: taking a chance. Now, here's why most people don't take chances.
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 7: It is the fear of failure that freezes people to
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 7: take chances. Well, here's a problem with that. Fear is
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 7: the number one cause of failure because if you don't
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 7: attempt it, it cannot happen. And in the failed attempt,
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 7: in the never attempting, you have conceded yourself to defeat.
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 7: You gotta take chances, man, It's okay. And don't worry
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 7: about what the haters saying. Then they sayers they always
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 7: got something to say. Anyway, Well, you started that business.
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 7: How I see that didn't work out for you. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 7: you did. You started a business, it didn't work out,
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 7: it failed. But now guess what you know something? You
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 7: know something that they don't know. You know two things.
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 2: You learned a valuable lesson of how to make a
• 1:26:51
  Speaker 2: business more successful because you failed at one. And secondly,
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: you know what it feels like to valiantly try. The
• 1:27:00
  Speaker 2: average person don't even know that.
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  Speaker 10: You know.
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  Speaker 7: I paraphrase this saying for a long time now, but
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 7: it's and I paraphrase it this way because it helps me.
• 1:27:09
  Speaker 2: When I say it this way, the.
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  Speaker 7: Credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena,
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 7: whose face is marred with dust, blood, sweat and tears,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 7: not to those cold, intimid souls in the stands who
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 7: know neither victory nor defeat. And it's kind of what
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 7: I heard Denzel online the other day talking about people.
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 7: It's too much talking nowadays. People just talking. People got opinions,
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 7: Those who do do, those who can't don't. It's just
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 7: people just talking. Man, but have never made an attempt.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 7: I would rather have attempted to be great than to
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 7: set there and settle for mediocrity. I promise you I will.
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 7: I will take the attempt to be great every single time.
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 7: Because here's the deal. If you aim for the moon
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 7: and you miss, you can still be amongst the stars.
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 7: But if you never shoot the shot, guess what that
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 7: bullet remains in your gun? You've hit nothing. How many
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 7: people do you know who are miserable right now in
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 7: their life, who have a go to a job that
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 7: they don't care for. And I'm not saying you have
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 7: to start a business to be successful, That's not what
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 7: I'm saying. But you should be doing what you were
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 7: born to do. You should make an attempt at living
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 7: in your gift before you leave this world.
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: You have got to try. Listen.
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 7: I know that all you can do for tomorrow is plan, hope,
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 7: and aspire, but you know what the goal is to
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 7: see tomorrow. So when tomorrow gets here, what have you
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 7: done to aspire to accomplish to make your tomorrow better?
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 7: Give us this day, this is the Lord's prayer. Now
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 7: give us this day our daily bread.
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  Speaker 2: Do you know what that means?
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 7: You're asking God to help you aller your steps and
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 7: do the things necessary today to make your day go well.
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  Speaker 7: But understand something, everything you do today will have an effect.
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  Speaker 2: On your tomorrow. If you do nothing today, what do
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 2: you think tomorrow has for you?
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  Speaker 7: You know, it's so many ways people take these sayings
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 7: and they use it to their advantage to justify some mediocracy.
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 2: The Bible says faith without works is dead. You know
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 2: what that means.
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 7: That means you can have all the faith in the world.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 7: I believe God can do this. I believe one day
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 7: I'll have this. I expire to become that. But if
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 7: you don't put no work behind it today, yo, tomorrow
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 7: ain't gonna have what you've been hoping for. You can
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 7: put all the faith in it you want to. If
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 7: you ain't gonna apply no work, man what you want,
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 7: but imply work. You gotta take a chance. You gotta
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 7: take ri You have got to take risks.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all. Life is valuable with risk.
• 1:30:05
  Speaker 7: There's learning, there's an experience gained in risk, but then
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 7: there's also the possibility that you will win and that
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 7: is worth the risk. All right, those are my closing
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 7: remarks today. Hope you got something from it. I hope
• 1:30:20
  Speaker 7: I touched somebody. If I didn't tune in tomorrow, God
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 7: Willie might have something.
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  Speaker 2: For you then.
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 7: But here's the big thing. Please talk to God today.
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 7: He would absolutely love to hear from me. And it
• 1:30:34
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