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Father's Day Edition - 06.16.17 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Y'all know what time it is. I don't know. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: all soon long looking back to back down, giving them
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  Speaker 1: bung just like the milan buck things. And it's tub y'all,
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  Speaker 1: do me true good? Its the hearty this one to
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  Speaker 1: move to each other for stout, Honey. Why don't you join? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Joining me? Honey? Say you gotta turn yeah? Do you
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  Speaker 1: you gotta turn't to turn love? Turn you love? You
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  Speaker 1: got to turn out to turn the water the watery comy,
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  Speaker 1: Come on your things, got it? Uh huh, I sure will.
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  Speaker 1: I good morning everybody you're listening to the voice, come
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  Speaker 1: on dig me now or one and only. Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: got a radio show, got a radio show and got
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  Speaker 1: something to say to man. I thank God for it.
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  Speaker 1: I thank God for my life. I thank God for
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  Speaker 1: her in the midst of storms, he calms me. You know,
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  Speaker 1: I was going through another trial in my life. You
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  Speaker 1: know which is life is going to always be that?
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's a it's a I think the things
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  Speaker 1: that I say on the radio, I want you all
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  Speaker 1: understand that I do. So have to put him into
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  Speaker 1: practice all the time. And uh, I was going through
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  Speaker 1: something yesterday and I don't know how long I'll be
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  Speaker 1: going through it, but I'll be fine however long it takes,
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  Speaker 1: because I have something, man, I'm gonna share it with you.
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  Speaker 1: A lot of you got it, but I don't. I
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  Speaker 1: don't think some times we appreciate it until we have
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  Speaker 1: to use it. And and the thing that we got
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  Speaker 1: is prayer. Prayers available to every single person. Prayer is
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  Speaker 1: so important, man, it's so important. I'm not afraid to
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  Speaker 1: say it though. It's so so important to you because
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  Speaker 1: it's such a comfort, it's such an island that you
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  Speaker 1: can go to. I was going through something yesterday and
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  Speaker 1: somebody close to me knew about it, and they sent
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  Speaker 1: me something in the middle of it, and it said
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  Speaker 1: simply that God does not guarantee us a life free
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  Speaker 1: from trouble, but he does promise to be our refuge
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  Speaker 1: in the midst of the storm. See. And that was
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  Speaker 1: so cool for me, because you know, oftentimes I'm on
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  Speaker 1: the radio and I'm talking, and I know you all
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  Speaker 1: think I'm talking to you, but like I said, oftentimes
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  Speaker 1: because I'm just talking to myself, man, because I'm just
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  Speaker 1: like you. I'm just a human being trying to get through.
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  Speaker 1: I happen to come under attack, as does everybody else.
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  Speaker 1: I got trials and tribulations just like everybody else. So
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  Speaker 1: when I'm talking, I'm talking to myself a lot of time,
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  Speaker 1: and all of us are faced with things. But the
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  Speaker 1: beautiful thing. And one of the things I've always said
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  Speaker 1: that on your way to success, that's going to be
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  Speaker 1: our position. I've always said that the road to success
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  Speaker 1: is always under construction. I have always said these things,
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  Speaker 1: but I also have to hear these things. And I,
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  Speaker 1: even whoever I am, and all of us have to
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  Speaker 1: apply these things. And see what I was sitting there
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  Speaker 1: going through it. Man, somebody Texas to me to just
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  Speaker 1: simply said that God does not guarantee us a life
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  Speaker 1: free from trouble, but he does promise to be our
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  Speaker 1: refuge in the midst of the storm. And you know, man,
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  Speaker 1: what prayer enables you to do is have just a
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  Speaker 1: little closer relationship with God. It allows you to form
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  Speaker 1: a barricade when necessary. It allows you to have a
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  Speaker 1: place to go when necessary. It provides you a place
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  Speaker 1: of shelter when it gets real, real windy and real
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  Speaker 1: real funky for you, when the bullets and arrows is flying.
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  Speaker 1: There's a place that you can tuck yourself. I always
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  Speaker 1: like to refer to it as under his wings. I
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  Speaker 1: like to get tucked under his wings when the bullets
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  Speaker 1: and arrows is flying. You know, I do realize Man
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  Speaker 1: through my life, and I've been taught this over and
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  Speaker 1: over and over. Isaiah forty three one and two. That's
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  Speaker 1: someone to the effect that you can walk through the
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  Speaker 1: fire and you will not get burned, normal kindling set
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  Speaker 1: upon your clothing. And what I learned from that scripture, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: what simply is that if you do have this relationship
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  Speaker 1: with God, if you are making an attempt to be righteous,
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  Speaker 1: trying to live your life to the best of you,
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  Speaker 1: ain't stepping on No they're trying to hurt nobody. You're
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  Speaker 1: giving God some glory. You're talking with him. You know
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  Speaker 1: you're making some mistakes along the way. But you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, You ain't. You ain't just mailing it in.
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  Speaker 1: You are consciously trying to be a righteous person. Then
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  Speaker 1: there's a promise that he gives to you that he
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  Speaker 1: would be there for you. Now here's the promise. The
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  Speaker 1: promise says something just like this, that you will be
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  Speaker 1: able to walk through the fire and not get burned.
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  Speaker 1: Normal kindling set upon your clothing. Now what that means
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  Speaker 1: to me, my interpretation of it real simple. Some things
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  Speaker 1: are going to happen to you, and when they happen
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  Speaker 1: to you, it's not his doing. When when you come
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  Speaker 1: under attack, when you when when when the haters come
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  Speaker 1: from me, it's never his doing. But he gonna walk
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  Speaker 1: with you though, and allow you to walk through the fire,
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  Speaker 1: and you will not get burned. That's amazing, man, because
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  Speaker 1: I got a little fire going on right now. But
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  Speaker 1: guess what, they can't consume me with it, because in
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  Speaker 1: their attempts to do what they do to you, to me,
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  Speaker 1: to anybody is trying to go somewhere, mind your business,
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  Speaker 1: in their attempts to do what they're setting out to do.
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  Speaker 1: Here's a problem with that. Now, if you've got God,
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  Speaker 1: if you use this little weapon of prayer that he
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  Speaker 1: gives you, he'll provides you a refuge, but he'll let
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  Speaker 1: you walk through the fire. You will not get burned. Now,
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  Speaker 1: a part where it talks about won't know kindling set
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  Speaker 1: upon your clothing. That's kind of like if if you've
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  Speaker 1: been in the house that's been on fire before you
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  Speaker 1: know you can walk in and sit on the walls.
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  Speaker 1: It's a smell in the air. You can see the damage.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, the house has been on fire until the
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  Speaker 1: repairs come, the restoration. You can walk in there and
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  Speaker 1: know that there's been a fire. Weeks later, after the
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  Speaker 1: house has been on fire, you can walk in because
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  Speaker 1: you can smell it, you can see the seinge marks.
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  Speaker 1: But here's different houses. You know, I'm talking about just
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  Speaker 1: structural buildings that they don't have ongoing relationship with Gods.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't talking about your temple at church or nothing,
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  Speaker 1: so please don't go there. I'm just telling you a fact.
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  Speaker 1: A house does not possess a soul. A person possesses
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  Speaker 1: a soul. So your relationship with God is it's where
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  Speaker 1: your refugees. So now here we go. When you have
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  Speaker 1: a little walk with God, when you got some faith
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  Speaker 1: in him. Hear what happens to you, y'all when they
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  Speaker 1: come for you, when they attack you. The part that
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  Speaker 1: it says you won't get burned, but the no kindling
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  Speaker 1: that means when it's over, no kindling was set upon
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  Speaker 1: you that are being there won't be no sit on you,
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  Speaker 1: there won't be no seinge marks on you. You won't
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  Speaker 1: smell like you've been on fire. You won't even look
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  Speaker 1: like you've been nowhere near a fire. But the whole
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  Speaker 1: time the fire was raging all around you. But there's
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  Speaker 1: a place that you can go when your life is
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  Speaker 1: on fire, when you come under attack. There's a spot.
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  Speaker 1: There's a spot if you know God, if you if
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  Speaker 1: you're just trying to be righteous, if you just go
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  Speaker 1: over there and get over that, buy him just a
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  Speaker 1: little bit, y'all, if you just send up some earnest
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  Speaker 1: prayers and and pray it and mean what you say,
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  Speaker 1: there's a spot you can go that you can tuck
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  Speaker 1: under his wings, and you will walk through the fire
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  Speaker 1: and you won't get burned. Now he is DEPARTO. I
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  Speaker 1: want you to feel me. Now. It did not say
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  Speaker 1: in there that it would not get unggodly hot. That's
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  Speaker 1: the cold partner. Come on, y'all, because what did I
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  Speaker 1: tell you that to do or text me the other thing?
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  Speaker 1: What did I just tell you? I just simply said
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  Speaker 1: that God does not guarantee us a life free from trouble,
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  Speaker 1: but he does promise to be our refuge in the
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  Speaker 1: midst of the storm. Now I'm in one right now.
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  Speaker 1: But I want you to understand something. When you come
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  Speaker 1: for me, you don't come from somebody that's standing over
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  Speaker 1: there by himself. I have a relationship with him, and
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  Speaker 1: um I use continually on a daily basis, more than
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  Speaker 1: three times a day, that beautiful little gift, that weapon
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  Speaker 1: of prayer that he's given to me. So while a
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  Speaker 1: storm is raging, I want everybody to know I'm just fine.
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  Speaker 1: I'm now, I'm uncomfortable. I don't like it. I do
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  Speaker 1: not like what happens to me, no more than you
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  Speaker 1: like what happens to you. But I got news for
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  Speaker 1: you though I'm so covered, and I stand there in
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  Speaker 1: that place for refuge, man, and I drank that up
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  Speaker 1: and man, today I'm telling you, man, God's promises are true,
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  Speaker 1: that he'll be with you in the midst of a storm,
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  Speaker 1: that he'll hold your hand. God's promises are true. All
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  Speaker 1: you gotta do is lean on him. You feel me,
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  Speaker 1: check it out. You're to save my Good Morning Show.
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  Speaker 1: Twenty one minutes after the hour, Good morning, Sherley Strawberry, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: good morning, Steve Harvey, Happy Friday, calling for Hello, good morning,
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  Speaker 1: It's Friday, Steve Mentoring kicking things off what's going on? Shoot,
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  Speaker 1: morning up, morning everybody and the food watch out then
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  Speaker 1: that Steve, what is going on? Which ya Friday? You
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  Speaker 1: know about the mother? Yeah, mother's dying. There many mothers. Good.
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  Speaker 1: We got our challenges uh um man. We gonna talk
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  Speaker 1: about that later when we have more time. The challenge
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  Speaker 1: it is, but it's going really really good. You know,
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  Speaker 1: boys are here, the mothers are here. All my soldiers
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  Speaker 1: are here from the United States on me. My fraternity
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  Speaker 1: is here, all the fraternities are here, the capitals are here,
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  Speaker 1: to alphas are here. Uh no, no sicking, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Alex, there's on these two segments. Everywhere there's
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  Speaker 1: only one that can camp. You were in here. You're
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  Speaker 1: all the same too, and y'all just show up everything
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  Speaker 1: just everywhere. We represent baby, but you know, from and
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  Speaker 1: so you know, we're doing really good. My favorite mentor
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  Speaker 1: camp story is a young man uh named Reese who's
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  Speaker 1: eighteen and from the moment he got off the bus,
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  Speaker 1: man this he's been my most difficult, difficult boy to
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  Speaker 1: date to date because yeah, because yeah, this little dude
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  Speaker 1: man yoh yeah, well, Dmitri were nowhere near trouble. He
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  Speaker 1: just had some other But anyway, Um, he was past up,
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  Speaker 1: leaving at all his stuff on the porch, waiting on
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  Speaker 1: a van to come give him. The soldiers already Harvey,
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  Speaker 1: Mr Harvey. We can not get him to conform. And
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  Speaker 1: so he was out there. He was just gonna leave.
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  Speaker 1: They took all the shirts back and I said where
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  Speaker 1: is He said, he's on the porch. I went out
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  Speaker 1: to the porch, said I wait him for one hour.
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  Speaker 1: Reese's back in the camp. Yeah. I do not lose boys.
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  Speaker 1: I don't lose young men. When if a mother entrusts
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  Speaker 1: a son with me, I can't put him on the
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  Speaker 1: bus and send him back like we we can't fix him.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody's fixable, everybody's redeemable. We don't give up on no
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  Speaker 1: boys at this camp. Not a one. We is back
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  Speaker 1: at the camp participate. What was troubling him though, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's plethora of things. But he was convinced in his
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  Speaker 1: life that if he controls all of his decisions and
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  Speaker 1: he can have the power to say no, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to do nothing, that that empowers him and enables
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  Speaker 1: him to control his life. But what I had to
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  Speaker 1: teach him was you have to do a series of
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  Speaker 1: things that you're uncomfortable doing in order to be able
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  Speaker 1: to one day do what you wanna do. Come on,
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  Speaker 1: they're not by not by not participating, or you gotta
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  Speaker 1: get real comfortable being uncomfortable. I want to be like you.
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  Speaker 1: Well boy, you guys to get busy. And so that's it.
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  Speaker 1: We're saving boys. Top of the hours, seven o'clock. I
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  Speaker 1: got announcement to make about the Flint situation. Stay tuned, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: coming up next something fun. You're listening, Steve Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 1: welcome back uh with j Anthony Brown has come up
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  Speaker 1: with a series of things that he don't want for
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  Speaker 1: farther day. It's the most forgotten day, forgotten what you see,
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  Speaker 1: people don't even take it careless. They could really, I'm saying,
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  Speaker 1: it's not up on me. And I've seen I've seen
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  Speaker 1: some things that they all that they have for dad,
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  Speaker 1: that people will buy that Dad just don't want. They
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  Speaker 1: have a candle that you can buy that smells like fun.
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  Speaker 1: Who wants that? Why would you? Why would you want it?
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  Speaker 1: Why would you want to give your dad? How about
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  Speaker 1: your work? But your dad? If if your dad is baldhead.
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  Speaker 1: You've seen these hats that have hair on them to calls.
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  Speaker 1: He can't grow hair, and why would you give him
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  Speaker 1: a hat with hair on it? That's stupid. There's another one.
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  Speaker 1: It's another one. They have an underwear repaired kid. A
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  Speaker 1: kid a look what the fathers of Father's Day? But
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  Speaker 1: I know your drawings have been a little rain. But
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  Speaker 1: instead of buying new drugs. That's a chilling kid. Never
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  Speaker 1: heard of it? Yes, okay, by your daddy, No damn drawn.
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  Speaker 1: That's say. They have cologne, Steve everybody. They got cologne
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  Speaker 1: that smells like bacon. What why do you want to
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  Speaker 1: smell like bacon? Yeah? Every day? It's like from the world.
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  Speaker 1: Is that bacon that smell? Huh? Daddy already fat? We
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  Speaker 1: know he God. They got this cup that's shaped like
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  Speaker 1: a comoe. Have you seen this slick at the hi
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  Speaker 1: it's a coffee mom. Yeah, why would you? Why do
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  Speaker 1: you want your daddy to have day? You drink coffee? Ye? That? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: You don't want daddy, don't want no damn ties. Daddy
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  Speaker 1: don't want ties. You got the best gift of all.
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  Speaker 1: You really got a good gift. You really do, man.
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  Speaker 1: You got the best your body was the body wash? Hey, man,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta tie one year with a fish on it.
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  Speaker 1: We know you'd like to fit you even notice your
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  Speaker 1: daddy throw the fish back? You ever noticed that wanted
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  Speaker 1: on my top? Have you gotten like really bad gift? Lime?
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  Speaker 1: Bring shocks before lime was in? Yes, I got lime
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  Speaker 1: is popular now, but back in the day they have
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  Speaker 1: this other thing. It's a shaped like a gun. You
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  Speaker 1: can get a gun. One's yellow, ones red, and it's
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  Speaker 1: a gun that you put mustard in one and catch
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  Speaker 1: up in the other. So come said okay, and they're
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  Speaker 1: selling the problem. Keep enough of a man, right, that's
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  Speaker 1: not so bad for your burgers and the logic logic, logic, Yo, yo,
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  Speaker 1: what you got man? Daddy? I know you don't like
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  Speaker 1: bees out there when you bob killing, So I bought
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  Speaker 1: you a can of wasp and hornets. You brought me
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  Speaker 1: you can use it. Boy. You bought me hunt man
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  Speaker 1: washing hunt game. You know you gotta bike. You got
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  Speaker 1: a computer and iPhone. I got a can of wasp
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  Speaker 1: and horny killing. You work for your bugs. There's a
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  Speaker 1: cologne out there that says it's shaped like a bomber, right,
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  Speaker 1: and so the tagg is dy on the don't even
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  Speaker 1: say that here's the deal. It's Father's Day. Go to
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  Speaker 1: Walmart and give your dad the entire new collection of
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  Speaker 1: built soaps. They come in a bar and they come
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  Speaker 1: in and wash a body wash. And you got frequances
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  Speaker 1: like Big Surf, Big scot Atlantic Surf, you got Prohibition,
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  Speaker 1: you got Havana Bay, you got all types of stuff, man,
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  Speaker 1: all designed by your boy Steve Harvey with the man
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  Speaker 1: in mind. None of that, none of that body wash
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  Speaker 1: that's sound like he's made for girls. For your daddy.
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  Speaker 1: This is called built b I LT. Because it's built
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  Speaker 1: for me. Get your sexy owned ladies. Have your man
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  Speaker 1: smelling like you won't even smell, so you could spend
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  Speaker 1: more enjoyable time with him. Wink wink. Yeah, Walmart, go
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  Speaker 1: to day to Walmart, and I promise you he'll love it.
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  Speaker 1: I promise you will. Father's Building. Yeah, I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 1: to my husband's son. Hey, y'all, I'm telling myself something,
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  Speaker 1: because ain't nobody gonna get me nothing. So Father's Day, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: in Carl, I'm sure you can can attest to this
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  Speaker 1: in some way. But I didn't have a dad, so
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  Speaker 1: Father's Day didn't mean anything to me. It wasn't top
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  Speaker 1: of mind. Yeah, it wasn't. I mean, Mother's Day was
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  Speaker 1: everything to me, So I'm talking about camp. Yeah. Now
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  Speaker 1: I feel what you guys are saying. Dads and you
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  Speaker 1: have children. Yeah, I'm getting nothing. Yeah, I get texts
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  Speaker 1: Happy Father's Day, not even hey dad, you're getting some
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  Speaker 1: build soap. Let me go ahead and just do flight
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  Speaker 1: your hopes. Right now, I'm gonna get some soap and
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  Speaker 1: send it to myself and be surprised when I'm looking
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  Speaker 1: for here, looking for my dad, looking for a car.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna get it. Yeah. The light came on last week,
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  Speaker 1: Well it's gonna be on this week too. You're gonna
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  Speaker 1: smell good looking at it that much. Okay, So what's
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  Speaker 1: the best gift you've ever gotten? Left alone? We see
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  Speaker 1: we can't win, you know what. Happy Father's Day to
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  Speaker 1: all your father and coming up, coming up next, Tommy's
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back right after this year. You're listening
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  Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, y'all be back.
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  Speaker 1: We're back. Tommy's out on vacation again, but we got
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  Speaker 1: his pranks, so we don't need him vacation. We got
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  Speaker 1: enough of your stuff on tample Man, I ain't got
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  Speaker 1: to sit here and here no attitude, he ain't got
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  Speaker 1: shut down, he ain't got the one. I ain't got
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  Speaker 1: to figure out if I'm talking to Eugene old Man
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  Speaker 1: Thomas or you tim me, you're gonna be about to
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  Speaker 1: run that prank back. And then at the top of
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  Speaker 1: the hour, I have my statement about the Flint Flint,
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  Speaker 1: Michigan situation, which is really, man, I mean really this
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  Speaker 1: You know, normally I don't address things, but this right
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: here really really kind of ticked me off because you
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: took me completely out of context, and I think it's
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: so completely unfair. After after all I've you know, attempted
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: to do and stood for with the Flint water crisis.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: For you to even not even here all out that
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: what happened? Did you just start just just I mean, man,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: just trying to roast me. Man, just just that one. Folks. Really, okay,
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: come on see because you know how you get. We'll
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: talk about it. Yeah, we will, We'll talk about it. Seven.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: All right, here's the prank. Bring me some paper paper. Hello, Hello,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to Charles. I'm looking for Charle. Yeah, this Shalotte,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I'm una. This Sholotte. How can I help you? Hey, listen, um,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm a my speaking with I'm sorry this scotty man.
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm out sitting for reader. She's y'all okay, okay, yeah, yeah,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: she told me she was going outtown. What can I
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: do for you? Brother? I pought y'all on the way man, Yeah,
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: I mean the house bolth our house. Yeah, I think
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: let's see, yeah, we're full houses down. Okay. Now, she
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: loved me a number man, love me, y'all know me?
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: And then she loved miss Darks. No, I try to
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: call me Darts, but then nobody answer the phone. Yes,
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: she know. I'mly in church around this time, readA said
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: she was gonna be gone for a minute. So you
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: say you're doing there right right right there? She told
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: me if I got any emergency anything, that I could
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: reach out to y'all a call y'all right, right, right, okay?
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Are you are you busy right now? Man? Well? Actually
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I'm in the middle of cooking my wife from dinner
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: and uh got some meat on the grill. But other
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: than that, you know, okay, I mean you you you
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: are you able to help me out with something? Right quick?
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Or you got you got time for that. But like
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: I said, I'm in the middle of cooking. If there's
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: something I can help you with, I you know, I
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: don't mind coming down there and and uh showing you
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: doing whatever it is that we need to do. Okay, Charlie,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: with you out in the how any paper, man, any paper? Yeah?
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I think I got some newspaper. What you're trying to
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no, no news, But I
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: mean some paper? You have some paper? What notebook paper? No?
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: See man, listen, Charlie, I, like I said, my name
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: is Scotty. Man. I know you don't know, man, I
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: didn't got myself in a a little situation here down here
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: read the house man, and I I didn't. Man, I'm
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: in a situation I actually and in the bathroom man,
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: and it ain't no paper in here. Dog. So you're
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: saying you won't be to bring use the toilet papers,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, if you're on mind, I'm sitting here my
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: legs and got no my my cane, feel up my
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: my whole little body, man from buck down, I can't
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: feel nothing in my feet everything and went to sleep
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: on him. Hold up by this dude down here at
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: read the house saying he wants me to bring his
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: hey because he didn't got numb sitting on the truck. Man,
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: look at here, bro, I'm in the middle of cooking.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I wish I could help you, but you know what
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I mean, I can't tell you here about four hours
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: the time can usual to run down here right quickly.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: I'm at the back door. I say, Man, I understand
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: all that you're saying, but like I said, I'm in
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: the middle of cooking for my wife. We're having a
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: little special occasion because our kids and stuff going, and
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: I can't delive like that just to come bring you know, papers. Now,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: what I can't tell need to do is if Reida
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: got one of them tis or something down. Man, I'm
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: not using nobody town like. That's disrespectful. Man. Okay, hey,
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: but loryer your voice. Man, you called me to help you,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: and you acting like I caused you to not have
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: no guys in the bathroom. All I'm asking for just
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: and they're gonna take you no more for two or
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: three minute. Run down here right quick and bring the
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: paper man and then you get on back to your tuner. Well,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: what you were saying, like what you need to do.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: But you said you had emergence, that's out the house
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: or the dogs had got out of uh, you didn't
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: locked yourself out the house. But I'm not gonna come
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: down there bring you know, take me because that don't
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: sound like emergencies. That's not like some personal And furthermore,
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: because you're in the bathroom just jump sun your clone
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: getting the shower like so I'm nothing the dog. That's
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: like I said, I'm norm right now, man, I need
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: some help, and so you want me to come down,
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: then bring you some toilet papers and pick your number.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: You can't get up out the call. If I want
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: to help you things just then that's why I'm trying
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: to tell you I'm in any money, you see. Man. Okay,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Well that like I said, Man, that don't sound like commergent,
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: like a little quick fix to get your drawings in
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: and like your drawings there, go get you some moth.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saying to walk full houses down
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: there to bring you some toilet papers your legs, No,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: I'm high. How are you gonna get up and over
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: the stought? The backdoor is open. All you gotta do
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: is come in here and reaching here and pass me
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: a roll of paper. Man, That's all I'm asking you
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: to do. Mr. Child I understand that, but I'm not
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: gonna come down and bring you no papers. I'm not
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: going to bring you and bring me some paper down here, man,
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: don't you man say? Man, who the hell you thank you?
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Hiling that you need me? I don't need you. Well,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: won't you do something? Man? You see I'm sitting in
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: a situation the reader left y'all number that y'alla helped
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: me while I'm down to your house watching man. Just
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: you're crazy, baby, Man? What wrong with you? You're gonna
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: call me asking me to bring you some new paper.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I told you that I was in the middle of
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: fixing me and my wife from dinner, and you come
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: calling me talking about some paper. Man. I don't want
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: to hear no I know, and I ain't coming down
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: there to bring you know paper man. Hello, childie, you're
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: gonna bring this paper? Man? Then, look like I told
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: you before, I ain't going to bring you know paper
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: down there were don't waiting on on this street like
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: old on man. I can't just you can't just leave
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: me here and I'm numb like this, but not to
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: come bring no brown man, no toilet paper because he
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: is responsible when he going into the restroom. That sounds
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: like a personal problem. You you too wrong for that
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: that this is set your wat though this is an emergency. Man.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: Man that don't sal in the emergency. That sounds like
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: a personal problem that you got going on. Come on
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: the door when I get off of here, man, you
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: know me off with. I don't give them about you
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: being man not a saying. As soon as you get
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: your coop out of there, you so that you come
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: on down here. I'm coming down that I'm gonna trick.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: I'm coming down there the way I am just like this,
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: and I'm a wolf for not helping me while I'm
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: gonna sit your weight load. Bring you don't. I got
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say to you that
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna do, is you're listening? Bring your so I
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: got two snake skin shoes and fit right up, clean
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: up on it. I got one more thing. Is you listening? Man?
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: What man like I said? What you got to say? Man?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: That's this nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: You just got franked by your neighbor reader. Ain't this
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: bank kept up from the radio stage, and it is
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: this comming from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yeah, I'm
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: anna whoop reading got you coling mom? Man, you had me.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I was gonna come down there man and bow down,
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: and you better be glad I'm eating. I can't leading.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Hey man, I gotta ask you man, one more thing.
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: What is what is the baddest I'm talking about the
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Show.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Y'all played practical jokes. So folks man, all right, uh
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: my cups finally has squashed the beet between he and
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: Kevin Hart. Finally it's done it. Yeah. We don't even
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: know how it all start. Did you know how a
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: beef just gets out of hand? Know what happened? Yeah?
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: But you know they were exchange jabs at each other
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: on social media over the past few years. Now the rivalry.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Rivalry is officially over. Glad to report that Mike posted
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: a video of him and Kevin on The Graham After that.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Kevin jokingly said in the clip that FEDS admitted that
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: he's bipolar. He said, face to face, man to man,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: we are where we're supposed to be. You're listening to
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, we're back everybody. Hey listen, um.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Two days ago, we were cracking jokes about the You know,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: I was playing the broken hearted biddle of another Cleveland.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: You wouldn't plays paying no, okay yea to the Golden
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: State War because a little bit. I'm a huge Calves fan.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: A man and I we're talking trash about our teams
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: and our cities. That just so happened that the man
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: was from Flint. We got to talk in trash. He said,
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Cleveland don't deserve nothing. Wait a minute, hold on, where
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: are you from, partner? So he said, Flint. Now in
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: the in the business of trash talking. I don't know
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: if you've ever been around sports trash talking, but once
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: you start talking trash, everything is a goal. So I
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: got the Calves lost. But Cleveland don't deserve nothing. So
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I made a joke directed at him. It's he and
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I would talk. So he's from Flint, but this is
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: a city from which I got great affection and respect
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: and so much so you know that I've devoted a
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: full hour on my daytime talk show to raise awareness
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: about to Flint water crisis. I also had Hillary Clinton
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: on my show shortly after that when she was running
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: for president, and I pressed her to offer solutions over
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: what I called on TV and I quote one of
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: the great catastrophes of modern time. That's what I really felt,
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: that's in my heart of heart. And I met with
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: a lot of the people from Flint and we talked
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: it all out. Well. The caller laughed at my joke
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: because I told him this was your trash. I talked.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: The two things I said about him because he from Flint,
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: was when last time you took a lead free baar.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: But what I'm getting hung up about and what they're
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: trying to kill me over is I told him go
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: drinking glass brown water. And I said that, but in
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: the context of trash talking, I did not say that
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: is no fresh water in the city of Flint. That
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: I wish the people are flinting e or harm. I
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: never said the city of Flint. I was talking to
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: this one guy that I was trash talking with, and
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: that was the context. The caller laughed at the joke,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: and and it was taken into context that it was offered. Now, folks,
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: any attempts to craft this into anything else, anything more
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: than that it serves nobody, no one. Now, if you
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: just want to make a news story about me, how
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: about this right here, how about Steve Harvey again, it's
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: down at the boys camp with two hundred boys with
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: two hundred mothers. But no, no, no, no, no, no,
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: no no. That that ain't the news story. The narrative becomes,
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: this is what he said about our city. That's the city, folks, Flint.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: That's what I said about the man that I was
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: talking trash with. We was talking trash about a sports game.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: That's it. That's it. Don't take this no where. This
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: has got to be And I normally don't address stuff,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: but I actually called and you can ask him. His
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: name is Mike. I called the news director of the
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Flint TV station because they started running stories people talking
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: about boycotting the station. I said, wait a minute. Last
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: night from the camp, I called him directly, and what
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I just said to you, I put it in an
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: email and send it to him, the news director from
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: the Flint uh NBC affiliate. M I sent it to him.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: I can't do anything more. And in the context of
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: trash talking, I was talking to this one guy. I
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: never said the city of Flint can miss me. I
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: hope all y'all suffer. Ain't what I said, So come on,
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: y'all really your dude, man, Well, since you a I
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: sing it, I'd like to point out that, um, we
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: did try to stop you. You were in the throes
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: of trash talking with this guy and uh, the guy
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: I think his name was Kenneth, if I'm not mistaken,
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: but he did call in and he was talking trash
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: and you guys just got into it and and and
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: that's all the trash talking thing o Monday morning. And
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: we did try to stop. Yeah, we just trying to
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: stop me, but were talking trash. Yes, you can't stop me. Steve.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: We were like, Steve, too far, We're talking trash, right, Yeah,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: that's all it was. And it was about sports man.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: I just really, hey, you know what if Kenneth he this, Kenneth,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: can you call in to the station at seven seven
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: the dude that called from Flip somebody get kided phone
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: the phone and Kenneth, did you take court? I said
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: that await or was it in the context of trash talker.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I just won't know how he felt now, if he
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: felt bad about how to apologize to it. But I
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: want him I wanted him to hurt like right, That's
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: where trash talking is it is. You get you get
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: carried away with it. You just get caught up in.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: I get you in an argument with you and you said,
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: shut up. Well that's not good when you when you
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: when you put that out there like that to go
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: off into he can go off, you can get away
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: from you. He can't get it. Comedians right, because we're
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: a comedian. We cannot lose the trash controllers. That's what
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: it is. You can't out crack me. My crack has
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: to cut deeper, and you're crack when you gotta draw
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: a line. He's dring it now, he's running Now is
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: the problem? Don't the problem? Problem? And I've said it
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: a hundred times. Problem with the line is eye line
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: is way further waiting y'all. So when y'all say y'all
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: cross the line, we need know we was over there, yeah,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: because then we're looking at his way way field. Alright, alright,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: coming up, we're gonna do. We'll talk about Bill Cosby
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: when we can. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: Are you guys concerned about Bill Cosby? I mean really
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: concerned did you see Bill, I didn't see it. What happened? Okay,
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: he channeled, bizarrely, I might add some of his past
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: magic as he left the courthouse. This was Tuesday night.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: This is after a lengthy day of deliberation in a
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: sexual assault trial. Because we shouted the catchphrase from fat
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Albert remember that as reporters shouted questions at him. Here
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: it is, take a listen, okay, keep Mr Cosby. We
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: ain't need you, don't need hey, hey, hey, Steve, your thoughts.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Excuse me. I know it's tough for you. See, that's
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: your friend after the Flint christ I mean maybe he
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: was calling somebody Hi, Hi, I don't know. He's he
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: can't say nothing. That's your friend. No, that's your buddy. Man.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: That's like me going into court for something. Seriously watch that.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: No stop it stop don't because everyone I'm coming out
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: of court. And they said, Mrs Harber ms hug do
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: you have a comment, and I go show you look,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: show you a little you little to now no not
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: righting everybody, everybody, no hold of out wolk Be reported
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: asked me, So it's your hearty, that's your heart. How
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: do you feel about the verdict? How do you feel
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: about the verdict? Survey says, this is not the time
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: for that. How about this come into the stage. Yeah, no, no, no,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: it doesn't work, does not work. Not right there, don't know,
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: not right there? No, don't don't Can we hear that
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: one more time? Just shock again? No, no, no, no.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: And it was a fool one too. It was from
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: the hit one more ten. No. No, like my grandmother
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: used to say, no, ma'am. No, man who was who
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: was standing next to security and police officers and he's
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: regular entourage. Yeah that normally that would have been a
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: good time to trackolate. Yeah, I say, somebody shouldn't form tackle.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: All right, Hey, should we play one month? Ja, let
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: me go on. You know what, when you call me
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: from now, that's gonna be on my phone. All right,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: coming up, j Anthony Brown will be here to murder
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: another hit that's coming up at thirty or four after
• 40:56
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• 41:01
  Speaker 1: we're back. It's time to get down the business. You know,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: we've tried to make this show just a lot more entertaining,
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: which I think it is, And so folks, thank you
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: all for riding with us. We got a new theme
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  Speaker 1: song coming shortly. We've adjusted the clock. You all have
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: responded very well to it, and ladies, gentleman just allows
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: us to be a lot more ignorant for you so
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: we can keep you laughing throughout the day. One of
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: the additions has been this food right here that mixed
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: reviews about whether we should have bought him on because
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: he's too damn much at times. But it is now
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: time to murder another hit. All right this Stevens, We're
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: gonna go back in the past and get one. It's
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: about the Census. It's almost that time. This is a
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• 41:47
  Speaker 1: have whatever you like. So that's what my song is about.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: The census sign. You can vote for whoever you like,
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  Speaker 1: so check it out on Steve Harping Morning Show. Here
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: we go, all right, here it is. It's a sensus.
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  Speaker 1: What a creed, one of a color, one of a tribe,
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  Speaker 1: of a group, one of a gathering, whatever association you
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  Speaker 1: belong to. Mark it down, get it done. C in
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  Speaker 1: a night here a dog? Yeah, what's your sex and
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  Speaker 1: race or type? Mark whatever makes you feel right. It's
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  Speaker 1: a sense of me wherever you lie. Yeah, you can
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  Speaker 1: be whoever you lie. Gain't on straight rain, dark or
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  Speaker 1: light and negro with the touch of hell buying the people.
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  Speaker 1: You can be wherever you lie. It's a sense of
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  Speaker 1: me wherever you lie. Yeah, mark what you want to
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  Speaker 1: tell him? You belong to the driver of lavor flavor
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: plus you get and live belong to. You can put
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: whatever on There be a Christian mixed with musslim I
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: swear yeah right, big live brother on check coming, tell
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: him you were training, but you gotta straight love a
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: bi sex, no right and no need to deny. It's
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: a sensus. Feel that out and be quiet. What's your ex,
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: race or type mark whatever makes you feel right. It's
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: a sense of me wherever you lie. Yeah, you can
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: be wherever you lie. Ain't all straight rate longer, light thing,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: negro with a touch of albino people. You can be
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: wherever you lie. It's the sense of me wherever you lie.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: What's your sex and race or type time mark whatever
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: makes you feel right. It's the sense of me wherever
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: you lie. Yeah, you can be wherever you lie. Yeah,
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: ain't all straight rate dark or light thing negro with
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: a touch of albino p meteor with the touch of
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: albino don. Yes the hell I've wanted the name thing,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: I got youse, damn pranks, Now I got you hit.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: Where the hell is wrong with me eating many foods?
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: You ain't. You can be whatever you like and touch
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: up albino. You can something trending with a straight gay level. Yeah,
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: you can be that. It could be whatever, do whatever
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: you like. You're just you're just filling out stuff on
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: the sisse once it makes sense, it's not good anymore,
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Stuff to make sense? Oh
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: my goodness, Thank you sir. It's not allowing me to
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: do that. Thank you's paying me to do that. Thank
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: you so much, man, to get it off your tail.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Good about feel good about myself. Your comedians are growing crazy.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: This is how we eat. This is how we eat, man.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: But I gotta tell you, man, that's a real thing
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: going on in this country where like a sign fail
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: said it, he said, political correctness is killing comedy. You can't,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: I mean because of the internet. Now anyways, you fan,
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: it's almost can't tell jokes almost frank phone calls coming
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: up right here. We'll be back. You just wait, you're
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: listening string show. Hey, y'all coming up at the top
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: of our we got strawberry letter. Uh, gonna be a
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: good one to day. But right now it's time for
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Tommy's pranks. But check this out. He he's what we play.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: What we want? My boat, my daddy's boat. Yeah, they
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: like Tommy dude, my Daddy's both. Hello, I'm trying to
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: reach a Mr. Wilson, Please, Mr Wilson, how are you today?
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Who is My name is Williams. Well, listen, we've been
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: getting a few complaints are about some things on your
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: property there. Uh. Actually I'm with the homeowners Association. Wanted
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: to reach out and give you a call today. Oh, well,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: how are you doing? Pretty good? Listen. UM, got a
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: few things I kind of want to discuss with you
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: here that seemed to be uh a problem that's taken
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: place in the neighborhood there. Um, it's been brought to
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: our attention down here at headquarters that you have, um
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: a few things on your property that are are not
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: functioning that really shouldn't be on the property. Uh. You
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: have two cars supposedly in your dry five way there
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  Speaker 1: that are not being used, been sitting there for quite
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: some time. Well, yeah, what what one of them I'm
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: currently working on. I'm almost I should have it repaired.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: I'm just waiting on get wait, wait and get a
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: little extra money to get to take care of the
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: other cars just function and I just don't drive. But
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: I have more than one car. Okay. Now, you you
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: also have a a a camper that seems to be
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: has been there for at least eight months now, that's
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: that's sitting there? Is that correct as well? Yeah? Yeah,
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm working on getting some storage for that is,
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: but it ain't really been there eight months, just maybe
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: around about six seven. You're not in sixth and uh,
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm looking at our past records and stuff.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: It seems like there was a complaint before about the
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: you know, keeping the yard, uh, pretty cutting all of
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. And I'm just looking at past
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: complaints that I have here. Now the biggest one that
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I have that that's concerning your property, sir, is um
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: supposedly in your backyard. Now there's a you have an
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: old boat that's in your backyard. Yeah, yeah, but I
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: don't see that nobody Well, well, I mean it's it's
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: it's kind of a sore eye for the people. I think.
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  Speaker 1: I think you guys backyards actually bump up against each other,
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: and you guys have a chain link fence between the
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: two of you all, and I think the boat is
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: must be just a sore eye for the family that's
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: behind you all. Well, you know, I don't see myself
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: getting rid of that boat. So I got a cover
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: on it. Everybody else got a boat. I don't see.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: What's the problem is. Well, okay, here's here's what's actually happening.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: Mr Wilson. What's gonna take place is this. Now, we're
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: gonna give you a fourteen day uh extension uh fourteen
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: days actually to to move the car that is not functioning,
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: the camper as well, and definitely the boat we need.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: We're gonna need those three items. I ain't got. No
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: we moved boat. I just told you I was working
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: on so well for stores. Do you know how my
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: stories called no boat? Now care, I'll get that, take care.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: But the boat. The boat, the boat my daddy gave me,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: and my daddy gave me that that that's the only
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: thing my daddy gave me before he died. Now now
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  Speaker 1: I'm not moving that boat nowhere. The boat won't just fun.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: If I take you down that to the water, it works, sir,
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  Speaker 1: and I understand it wholeheartedly. You know, I'm basically I'm
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: just a messenger I have. I'm gonna have to get
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: the non functioning car that's not working properly. I'm gonna
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: have to get that out within a two weeks notice,
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: as well as the camper and definitely the boat. Now,
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I gotta get that out. That's gotta be gone. I'll
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: tell you what I ain't moving. I'll tell you that
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. You gotta either move the boat.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have somebody come over and haul all of
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: these things away. Well, i'll tell you what. I got
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: thirteen reasons why you won't go over and touch that boat,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: and I got to moan or two to two. I
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: got thirteen, and then I got another twenty six added
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: on to that. Why you won't bring now want me
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: to touch my daddy boat because my daddy gave me that. Well,
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I'll be damn any of you. You know, I'm tired
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: of you with me that cross street because I'm not
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: at liberty to give you the name who's reported give
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: me something? Because I know that you eight months and
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: ain't nobody say so. Why hell y'all me about how
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: to vote in the backyard of my daddy gave me, sir.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: The language is not necessary. The bottom line is I
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: want to camper out. I want to vote out, and
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: I want the car that's not functioning moved with them
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: two weeks or I'm towing it out. I'll tell you
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: when I give you a personal invitation to come over him,
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: put the vote, the camp and the car, and I
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: will beat you like that's what beat you, sir. U Wow,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna allow one car to stay. I just want
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: to make sure that you know that I've given you
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: the statement over the phone, letting you know that what
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: what has taken place here will take it. But I
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: ain't moving my boat. You're gonna move your dad's thinking vote.
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  Speaker 1: I don't bring the loan somebody, sir, trust me, Trust me.
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  Speaker 1: If we come there, we're definitely gonna be bringing authorities
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: with us. Would go to because I love my daddy,
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: ain't now want you. I'm gonna touch my daddy boat
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: that's left me. I got one one thing I need
• 51:22
  Speaker 1: to say to you, sir about this in situation excuse me.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: All I have to say is this. This is nephew
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: pranked by your brother. I got to pull up, all right.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: Man's your brother told me and he said, Man, he'd
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: be going eddie with the homeowner socier. He said, Man,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: just call him and tell him he got to move
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: all this thing, he said, but most of all, tell
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: him y'all gonna all off that boat. He said, he
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: had that dog on boat. But I love that they
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: know that. I got one more question for you, don't, baby,
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: Tell me is what is the baddest radio show in
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: the land? All right? He's crazy? Yeah, it is Father's
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Day weekend though, Happy Father's Day. Uh, Steve, you're at
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: the mentoring camp with the boys and any camp having
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: a great time. Man changing these boys lives, which this
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: is all about. Man. I wish if the reporters want
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: to come and report something, you know, they could come
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: down here and report this. You need some headlines, you
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: got it? Yeah, this is life changing. This is Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: this is the real work that's being done. This isn't
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: a joke. And uh, Father's Day is here and I'm
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I'm you know what I'm grateful about Father's Day, that
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: I am a father, that being a father has changed,
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: you know, on my closing remarks and the I'm gonna
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: talk about father. What speaking of Father's Day, a great
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: Father's Day gift, ladies, go to Walmart and by your
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: husband the brand new built soap collection, by him the
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: bars and the body wash in all fragrances. You won't
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: spend forty dollars and it will be absolutely fabulous. Just
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: go by the whole collection. It would be a great gift.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: Get him the Prohibition, get him the Havana Bay Old Havannah,
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: get him the Big Surf, get him the Big Skies, Mountain.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: African Black. What's that African Black about? It just smells
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: so delicious. And all of these soaps are natural too,
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: so if you have allergies, you don't have to worry
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: about it. They're all natural, and it's just a great
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: brand and it's so affordable, So get at it. Go
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: at it, man. You know what, I've never heard a
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: woman say. I've heard men say this before on Mother's Day,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Well why do I have to get her something? She
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: ain't my mama? But I've never heard never say. I've
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: never heard women say they always get their their husband.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: Lady will call you daddy. It's right, ja. I mean
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: I ain't even yeah, yeah, he's right, because I ain't
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: even a father. You've been called daddy yes time. But
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I'm working it right though all day, Daddy, big daddy.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: You can't even get it out, Marjorie, daddy. Oh my
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: girl call me daddy. Okay, okay, So since we're here,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: what's the thrill in that for a guy to be
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: called daddy? It's a yes. The room though, Yeah, hunty,
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: what you say? What you call me? Really? You will
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: be in the mill and do or something. You go hustle.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: All right, Uh, we'll be back with the Strawberry Letter
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: All right, the crazy Strawberry Letter is up next. But first, Steve,
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: you're at the mentoring camp. Let's talk about your your
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: Steve and Marjorie Harvey mentoring camp this weekend foundation, and
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: let's thank our wonderful sponsors who care about our children.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: We do want to say thank you for mentoring and
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: uh for our community you know as a whole, just
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: giving back. We want to thank Choice Hotels International Steve
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: Joyce of course every year. Just thank you, Yes, the
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: U S. Army, thank you, U S Army. Yeah, US
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: Fish and Wildlife thank you. We want to thank the
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: Academy Sports and Outdoors and see W. Matthews. Thank you
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: to our great sponsors. Al right, ma'am. Yeah, who just
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: gives you know. Yeah, And the camp is great for
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: these boys. Man, it's such a life changing event. We
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: haven't lost a single boy this week, not a single boy. Uh,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: you know that. It's a funny thing. They come here
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: with the attitude if they've seen scared straight and they
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: know how I go, and so they come here with you.
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: You can't touch me, you can't do nothing. But we're
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: not trying to do that, man, We're actually trying to
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: change your life. And if you allow us to allow
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: you to participate in the program, the disciplinary action activities
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: that we have, the team building activities that we have,
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: which are the things that boys have to learn how
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: to do, you know. And we're teaching a lot of
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: African American boys. We have whites of Latinos down here,
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: we got Asian kids down here. But we got to
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: teach these kids that you really are responsible for your
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: other brother, that this is not a video game. You
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: can't shoot these people get a pellet and you get
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: to keep going. Now, when you shoot somebody, it changes
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: everything for a lot of people. And when you teach
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: them teamworking and make them responsible for one another, it's
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: some of the first times that they've understood it. Wow,
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: I'm actually nected to this guy that he is not
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: just another body over there. He's my brother. And for
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: them to learn it's really really gratified. It really is,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: you know. And I'm gonna also thank Choice Hotels because
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: Choice Hotels helps me on so many levels. Not only
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: do they provide all the rooms for the mothers and
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: a lot of the volunteers, they are also have an
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: awards program where they helped me with the flights. That's incredible, man,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: this is the hotel Choice Hopes. Just Steve Jobs, man,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: that's my buddy, the U S. Army. But I say
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: Steve Jobs yead he well, you know, but once again,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: let me let me correct that. You know you're talking
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: about apple hold on tight Strawberry letter, subject so angry
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: I'm seeing red. Dear Stephen Shirley. I begin this letter
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: by saying I hate my husband of twelve years. I
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: feel as though he has made a fool of me,
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: and I feel stupid. The thought of him makes me
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: sick to my stomach. When he says I love you,
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: I want to say, kiss my butt. I'm at the
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: point in which I don't even care to confront him
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: for what reason? Another stupid lie? Okay, you can tell
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: me that he lies to me because I am the
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: one he doesn't want to hurt. But when he lies,
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: at which point does a man realize that he is
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: hurting me? He's still hurting me at this moment. It
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: is not Uh do I leave him? But how do
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: I lead? And this is why I am writing you.
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: I know getting even is not the right choice, but
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: it would make me feel better. I would like your opinion.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Here's what I came up with so far. Set him up.
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: I know he is meeting a woman in person that
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: he meets online. He doesn't even know one of the
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: women he's talking to is me. Do I talk to
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: him first, ask him what I am lacking that makes
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: him look elsewhere? Do I just get my ducks in
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: a row and walk by the way. I would rather
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: put a knife in a print of his profile and
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: put it over his side of the bed while he
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: is sleeping. What do you think, uh? I say, get
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: some billboards. That's what we were talking about earlier, anyway,
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: the latest trend. Right anyway, if you got an extra
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: two dollars laying around. But my favorite line in this
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: whole letter is when he says I love you, I
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: want to say kiss my butt. Wow, that says a
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: lot about your relationship. You're that angry, You're you're very,
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: very angry and emotional. You want to get him back,
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: you want revenge, you want to feel better, you said.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: But I gotta ask you, really, is it worth all
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: of that? Is he worth this? Do you still love
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: this man? Do you still want a relationship with him?
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: Can he be trusted? Those are the kinds of question
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: you need to be asking yourself once you calm down,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: and I get that you're upset right now, I understand this, Uh,
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: I kind of think you are still feeling him because
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: you asked the question do you talk to him first?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: And do you you want to ask him? What are
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 1: you lacking in all of that? So if you if
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: there's still some feelings there that you have for this man,
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: go ahead and talk to him. But you gotta ask
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: yourself is he worth all of this? First? Steve Man, Uh,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: thank you, Shirley nice response to all that. YadA YadA YadA.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: He go a deal. But I ain't got nothing to
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: say to this, won'tan My notes is all for the man. Oh.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 1: First of all, when a woman in a letter opens
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: up by open, let me begin this letter by saying,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 1: I hate my hope man. He has no idea the
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: hell he I hate my us. But then she says
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: when he says I love you, I want to say,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: kiss my boy. That's my favorite plays something to y'all.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Let me say this to you right here, right now.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: The word hate and but cannot go in and sit things.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: And if a woman hates you, I can assure you,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: but it's not the word she's using. I hate my husband.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: When he says I love you, I really want to
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: say kiss my whole all of it, put it in
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  Speaker 1: a box, and don't miss a corner. My favorite parts.
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  Speaker 1: Twelve years she's been made a fool of. She hate
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  Speaker 1: him so much you don't even know what he did
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  Speaker 1: into three A force of the letter is over. The
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  Speaker 1: whole first is about hating hate. She is on fire.
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  Speaker 1: I know, getting even ain't right. It's not the right choice,
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  Speaker 1: but it would make me feel better when a woman
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  Speaker 1: says that you find to get something done to you
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  Speaker 1: because it's fending to make her feel better. Because right
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  Speaker 1: now listen this message. Is anybody out there who may
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  Speaker 1: know this guy, if you even think you know him,
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  Speaker 1: if you have a Christian bone in your body, please
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  Speaker 1: notify him and tell him. Steve Harvey said, get out,
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  Speaker 1: well you can getting out trying to escape because you
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: online talking and one of the women you're talking to
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  Speaker 1: is her boy checkmate girl two of Steves. It's coming
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  Speaker 1: up at twenty three after the hour you're listening Steve
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  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, finish up
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  Speaker 1: with your response to part two of today's Strawberry Letter.
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  Speaker 1: So Angry I'm seeing red, Steve, I have no nothing
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  Speaker 1: to say to this woman because I'm afraid of Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want her to turn none of this on me.
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  Speaker 1: This is for the dude that's doing his girl wrong.
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  Speaker 1: Listen to me. Hell hath no fury like a woman
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  Speaker 1: school at the top of the letter when she said
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  Speaker 1: I hate my hood. This is not good for no man.
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  Speaker 1: Once a woman utters them words. Here, come the billboards,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: come the internet. Last, but Steve, she's fed up. I
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  Speaker 1: got all that once again, shert. I'm not saying anything
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  Speaker 1: to this woman. Just want the fellas. I'll need this
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  Speaker 1: in my life. But listen, and I'm serious, No, I'm
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  Speaker 1: very serious about this. If you think you know who
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  Speaker 1: this guy is, if you have even considered Christianity, please
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  Speaker 1: call his brother and let him know. Because see, let
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  Speaker 1: me show something. The Strawberry Letter is meant to help
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  Speaker 1: people to solve problems. Sometimes we laugh with the Strawberry Letter.
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  Speaker 1: This is the first time we've ever had a Strawberry
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  Speaker 1: Letter that is exposing a murder plot. This is not
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  Speaker 1: what the Strawberry Letter is supposed to be about. It's
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  Speaker 1: over here, by the way. I would rather put a
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  Speaker 1: knife in a print of his profile and put it
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  Speaker 1: over its side of the bed. Why he's sleeping What
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  Speaker 1: do you think? Yeah? I take it literally, knife and
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  Speaker 1: a print of his profile in his profile. Oh you
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  Speaker 1: don't hear it. Hum, she's blowing up some steam, Steve.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: Come on, blowing off, Steve with a knife in a
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  Speaker 1: sheet that you're sleeping under on your side of the bed.
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  Speaker 1: The knife is in the print blow all, Steve, take
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: a drink for a walk. That's not how we do it. Steve,
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  Speaker 1: Are you scared? Yes, this woman here, I don't want
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: her coming after me. She's fed up with his lies.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: She sped up with his mess. That's why he somebody noticed. Man. Please,
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  Speaker 1: for the love of God, tell him there is a
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  Speaker 1: murder plot out for his death. I don't know what
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  Speaker 1: y'all think it is, but she set him up though
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: she wanted all. Steve, we gotta go. Thank you, Thank you, sir,
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  Speaker 1: email or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's strawberry letter
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  Speaker 1: at my girls, surely, and don't forget. If you have
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• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: letters to Steve Harvey dot com. Switching gears now, Steve,
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: please tell us a funny Father's Day story about your dad.
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  Speaker 1: You have so many Father's Day Yes, just a regular day. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to fabulous things that my father taught
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: me well so much about yo, But this was the
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  Speaker 1: one that I've used with my sons and has helped me. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I was. My father says something, and I answered, you know,
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  Speaker 1: because if he asked you something, you know, you're supposed
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  Speaker 1: to answer, right. But he made a statement after that,
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  Speaker 1: and so I made a statement after that. My father
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: stopped and looked at me. He said, what did you say?
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: I said, uh, I don't like that either, because my
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: daddy said he didn't like something, and I said, I
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: don't like that is He said that ain't the way
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: to work. At him, he said, you don't understand. He said,
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: you're going back and forth with me, and I'm sitting
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  Speaker 1: that to myself. I said to myself, yeah, because we're talking.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: I just said it to myself right, very low, very
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: low in my mind and without of fact, like it
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't even have registered if my brain was connected to
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: a machine. He said, boy, you you you're going back
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 1: and forth with me. I said yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's what I'm doing because we're talking. That's what talking is.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: He said to me. He said, let me help you
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  Speaker 1: understand how it's work in this house. Right here. We
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  Speaker 1: don't do back in foth. We just do foth. And
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: you know, I looked at him like that little dog
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  Speaker 1: on ain't commercial hand he said, we don't do back
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  Speaker 1: in forth in this house. We just do foth ain't
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  Speaker 1: no back, and I went, I'll be damned this dude,
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: right him, it's stillogical. I said that to myself too. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: he's unfair that you ever said this one under your
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  Speaker 1: breath and they heard it. Oh you make me so sick.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: Uh can run away? Mama told me take her came
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: sick to you somebody, Mickey, Mama, don't do that. Oh Shelly,
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: what we got? All right, Steve, here we go. We
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: want you to call our audience call us and asked Steve.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: This is asked Steve. Asked Steve about some parenting or
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  Speaker 1: Father's Day advice. Okay, if you have some uh questions,
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: you want to ask Steve about Father's Day, about parenting,
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: any advice you want from him? Right now is the
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  Speaker 1: time eight seven, in seven twenty nine, Steve, we'll be back.
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  Speaker 1: All women like for their man to be well grown.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: So here's what I did. Like, I created this soap
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: called Built. You can get it at Walmart and they're
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: very very affordable. But I made them especially for men,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: and I wanted to create a men's lines with fragrances
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: and a word that sounded like a man would want
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: a y that a built soap comes in different fragrances,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: So I created a big sky fragrance. I got African Black,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: then I got Atlantic Surf. I got South Beach. But
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: my two favorites is Havana Bay and then it's prohibition.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: Get it. Go to built on Facebook, everybody and ladies
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: go to Walmart. Get him. The whole collection is very cheap.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show. All right, Steve. Let's go
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  Speaker 1: to the phone. People want to ask you some parenting questions.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: You're a good dad and everything. They want to ask
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  Speaker 1: your advice. Let's go to line one and talk to
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  Speaker 1: Ron out of Virginia. Ron, Hey, man, what's the situation?
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  Speaker 1: What you got? My mother been with the same man
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  Speaker 1: for forty years since I was eight. I want to
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  Speaker 1: give him some special right and I wanted to make uh.
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  Speaker 1: I can't give him your dope. I can't. You can't
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  Speaker 1: give a man I wanted to get you, but I
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  Speaker 1: can't give me. Okay, all right, I rememb We'll get
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  Speaker 1: soaked for yourself. Tell me who are you trying to
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: get this phone? Now? My stepdad, who have been in
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  Speaker 1: my life. Just I was eight, been with my mother's
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  Speaker 1: forty years. Yeah. Now you notice I didn't say me
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  Speaker 1: and this is a good gift to give to other men.
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  Speaker 1: I said women, you could get this to a man.
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  Speaker 1: So how much you want to spend? And tell me
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: that man? Let me help you out about about one?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Let me think. Let me ask you a
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: couple of questions from it. Does he work with his
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: hands and see a carpenter? Does he work on cars?
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: Does he have a insurance job? What do he do? No?
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  Speaker 1: He works for Bank of American Security? Okay security? Does
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: he play golf? He? Okay? Does he smoke cigars? Does
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  Speaker 1: he drink? Okay? Man? Does he drink? Okay? Cool? Here's
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  Speaker 1: a great idea for you. Hundred and fifty dollars. Uh,
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: I want I want him to smoke a really mild cigar.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: What city you live in? Hampton, Virginia? Okay? Cool? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they got him over there. Just what I want you
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  Speaker 1: to buy your father? I want you to buy your
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: father four acid cigars, acid by him? Four acid cigars.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: Acid cigars have a flavor tip on them, and they're
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: very very smooth smoke ascid cigars. Story, do they have
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: Acid cigars, the Couber Cooba, the Blondie, the Ascid for
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  Speaker 1: teen hundred and an extraordinary. They're all good by him
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: four cigars and then buy him a bottle of zakappa
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  Speaker 1: Za copper rum comes in real pretty bottle. Man. It's
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: not that expensive if you can get the ex So
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: that's the that's a really really nice rum. That wrong
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: with them foul cigars is a real nice manly gift
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  Speaker 1: and bottle is gorgeous. So when he's sitting out, it's
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: a pretty bottles like pyramid shaped bottle with a big
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: wooden top on it, and it ain't that expensive. So
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: you get that in them foul cigars you bought at
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: the one mark. He gonna go, Man, that's a nice
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: gift Sony to get hi, uh Steve, because you put
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: me on hole so I can tell you. I need
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: to give Tommy a message. Man, it's important. Man. Okay,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: well what's her name? And get the board opper take
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: that message for you, all right? Right, all right, well
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: we'll get to you. Run back to you. Let's go
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: to line too and talk to Aaron out of California. Aaron, Yes, ma'am, Hey, Aaron,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning. Okay, good man. Uh what gonta
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  Speaker 1: do for you? Yes, sir, I actually have have a question.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: It's uh regarded the path of the day. You know.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 1: Just just before I get into that, I want to
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: say no Jafany Brown and definitely get addition to the show.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 1: You guys got a bunch of stars over there, kind
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: of like the Warriors. You know, I wasn't thought of that,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: but in the real quick kind of like the war Yes,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: oh no, you don't know the you don't know who
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: the NBA world. Come on, don't get it right now
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: up there in the stage. But I do have a question, sir.
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: You know, I do know that you know you aren't
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: your father and your mother, you know, and um, my
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: father hasn't necessarily been a father. You know. I'm a
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 1: father of my daughter, and I'm a stand up guy.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 1: I'm there a ntember cent at the time, mine less
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: when I was eleven. Try to come back when I
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 1: was like twenty eight, and we're on and off, and
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 1: he would show up and try to be entitled as
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: a father, and I feel like he just a dad.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: So should I still get him a Father's Day gift
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: and honor him as a father? Even though he don't sell. Well,
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Let me ask you
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: this question right here. Does it serve either of you
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: to not have a relationship with one another? Does it
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: benefit either one of you? No, it doesn't, Okay, And
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: you seem like a good dude, because what you've done
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: is you've instilled of the fatherhood roll in your daughter
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 1: because you've seen a picture of what it looks like
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: and what it doesn't look like. So you've done the
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: direct opposite of what your father did in your life.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 1: That's a true statement. Okay. So with that in mind,
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: he's a man with that has a shortcoming. He has
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: a character flaw when a man doesn't do his daddy duties.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: And he anybody can be a father. That takes a
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: special man to be a dad. Somebody call you daddy.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: That's a different thing. So he has a character flaw.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 1: But because he has his character flaw and you, now,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 1: being a full blown man father and her daddy, you
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 1: could teach him. You're old enough to teach him. And
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: forgiveness is not for the other person, brother, forgiveness is
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: for you. So if I were you, instead of spending
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: money on it, just send him a card and write
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: down what you feel in the car and give him
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: that for father this day. You ain't gotta buy him
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: a tie, no colo, you haven't spend no money. Get
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: a card and write down how you really feel and
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: what you would hope that the two of you could
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: have before something happened to one of y'all, before y'all
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 1: leave this earth. That may serve you far better than
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: figuring out what not to get him. Just give him
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: that and it helps. Should I worry about the repercussion,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: meaning like you know, it'll be like an argument or
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: something like that. I really don't have the energy, you know,
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: check this out. He can't argue with you when you
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: write let him ark. But an argument takes two people.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 1: And once he started argument, you could say, look, bro,
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: I said what I had to say that if you
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: don't want to move forward from here, I'm okay with
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 1: that too, because I'd have made it this far. H
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: hown do your business man. You'll be all thank you,
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: so I appreciate it. Thank you. Happy Father's Day, alright, Steve,
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 1: great advice. As always. Coming up of the top of
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: the hour, we'll share with you some highlights on Steve's
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: father's Day celebration from his Emmy Award winning daytime talk show.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: It airs today. We'll be back. You're listening to the
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, you have something
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: really special on your talk show today. Uh, You're gonna
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: highlight some men who play the incredibly important role of
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: being a father figure two young kids, starring your son
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: in law, Ben Raymond, who is married, of course, to Carly.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 1: Ben will share his personal stories of his journey as
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: it is detailed in his new book. He's got a
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: new book. It's called Playing the Game Without a Coach.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: Take a listen. This is my son in law. He
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: just finished his first book all about his life call
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: Playing the Game Without a Coach. Please welcome Ben Raymond. Look,
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: I mean, you know we've had many talks about all
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 1: of this, but I didn't know someone that I saw
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: on the tape. Man, it was pretty powerful. How how
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 1: did you? How did you find the strift to not
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 1: give up? I think for me, ultimately, uh, many dark days,
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 1: many days where I always asked myself and was wishing
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 1: for a better life. You got to find the opportunity
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: within the opportunity, and I think sometimes the biggest opportunities
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: are are those in those darkest moments, And I think
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: that's that that was the charge and ultimately through my
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: life learning forgiveness. You know, always ask myself, you know,
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 1: why me? You know, my mother bipolar schizophrenic, lost me
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: in foster care at six months and then gets me
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 1: back and I go house to house and my father
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: is nowhere to be found, and my stepdad goes to jail.
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 1: And I think for me, I had to ultimately forgive
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: those closest to me, but more importantly forgive myself, quit
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: blaming myself, and ultimately use that as a stratos for
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 1: stratosphere to reach greater heights. Some of your hardest days
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: though as an adult happened a few years ago. What happened?
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: You know, um, A lot of folks know my journey
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: finding my father. So I'm at seven years old and
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: didn't see him again for twenty years, find found him
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: in federal prison on the internet search and during that journey, UM,
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 1: where some of the greatest days when he got released.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 1: He got released two years after the day that I
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: found him, after doing you know, fifteen years in prison
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 1: and got to take you know, game go and take
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 1: him to the Cowboys game, spending a lot of time,
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: but ultimately my father went back into the system. You
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: got sentenced for twenty five years in um at one
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: of the biggest moments of my life. I had just
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: recently got engaged and I was looking forward to him
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: being at my wedding, and for me, I went through
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 1: a period of time. I was just angry. You know,
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 1: why did I go through this journey? You know, why
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: me again? You know, I find this man who I
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 1: love and now he's gone. But in that journey, I
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: found out that I had a sister. I never knew
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: I had. You know, for twenty seven years I was
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 1: walking on this earth. I never knew I had a sister.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: She knew about me, but I never knew about her.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 1: And if I didn't find my father and go through
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 1: that journey, ultimately forgiving my father and I love my
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: father today. In fact, my sister and I we're gonna
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: visit my father right around Father's Day every year and
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: we'll be we'll be seeing him again and continue that
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: that relationship because you know, ultimately, you know that is
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: my father and I love him. Well. Your sister, uh
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: Devita is here, where's the Vita Heyvia, when when did
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: you being connected me and been connected ten eleven years ago.
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 1: He actually drove down to Tennessee to come see me. Um,
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: just seeing I always knew about being my whole life.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: My dad always told me about him, So actually getting
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: the chance to meet him, I was super excited just
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: seeing him, tall, light, bright, big lips. I was like, Yeah,
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: that's my brother. Even though we were apart that long,
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: I felt like I knew him forever, like we to
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: this day. We have like a great connect and I
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm called Ben, you know for anything. I'm
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 1: sure he feels like you can call me for the same. Wow.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 1: That's that's that's such a you know, and it's it's
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: a lot of stories around the world like that, especially
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: in this country, you know. But it's it's it's sort
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: of it's really crazy. When you hear it though, and
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: you see somebody, you go wild. I've had a I've
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: had a sibling somewhere my whole life that I never
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 1: knew about, you know, and then you find them. All
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: of that's compelling to finding your dad. Okay, tell everybody
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: why you decided to write the book, Well, you know,
• 1:22:34
  Speaker 1: for me, the journey, Um, was some of the darkest days,
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 1: and I found myself for so many years, you know,
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out if I made it. You know,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: I wanted to help somebody. I always will be that
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: guy that was mentoring kids, are working with people, and
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: people will come to me for advice. I never knew
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: my story was powerful. I mean I was the person
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: that was ashamed of my story for so many years.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 1: You know who's gonna walk up and say, hey, my mom,
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: is my polars gets in front of my dad's you know,
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: in order to be found. You know, your stepdad's in jail.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: You you're embarrassed. For so many years, I was a
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: star athlete, but on the inside is broken and I
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: always wanted somebody who looked like me, you know, who
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: could mentor me. And I didn't have that. And I
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: feel that playing the game without the coaches that book
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 1: that can help anyone. Doesn't matter where you come from,
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter who you are um but ultimately your opportunity
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: is the one you find and the one you sees
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: he's got a great story. I wanted everybody to stick
• 1:23:26
  Speaker 1: around because being is gonna be revealing. How having a
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: son of his own who happens to be my grandson.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: A little b J has changed his life and that's
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 1: not all. B J has turned in one. This is
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: his birthday and so we're gonna be celebrating and everybody's invited,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 1: so don't go away. Uh you know. I think that
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 1: his story in the book. I think it's a great
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: book for single mothers that's raising boys without a father
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: in their life. You can go to Amazon dot com.
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 1: You can go online. I think to Being Raymond dot com.
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 1: How do you how do you find it? I think
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 1: that's it. I am Being Raymond dot com. Go to
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: I am Ben Raymond dot com and order the book.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: It could be a great reading for your son to
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: understand what that's like. So, you know, and I think
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 1: that him sharing his story can help other single mothers
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 1: who had these boys who are feeling all these different
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 1: emotions about not having a father in the life. And
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 1: that's what this whole manory and campus about being is
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 1: down here with me this week. My daughter is here,
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: serving both of my daughters, my son works, uh Junior,
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: and all these cats. Man. I mean, it's a great program.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 1: We're down here working changing boys lives, not giving up
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 1: on anybody not giving up on anybody. And that's that's
• 1:24:49
  Speaker 1: what it's all about. And so you know, I love
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 1: Ben saying how much he loved his dad. That that
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 1: just warmed my heart. Was he still loves his dad.
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 1: You know that that means something. But um, anyway, Happy
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: Father's Day, you know, because for the fathers who are
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 1: there for their kids. You know, Happy Father's Day to
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 1: you to the father's who are taking care of kids.
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 1: And to those mothers man who raised their sons without
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: the dad's thank you for being able to bring him
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: to the kid. You know, you know what I mean.
• 1:25:24
  Speaker 1: They intrust their kids destinate. They're hoping that we can
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: help them. And that's all the program is about. You know,
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: tough love down here, but it's mostly love and uh,
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: it's been very very effective. So that's it. We've got
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: a great camp. Happy Father's date man, you're listening to
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, gee, thanks dad, this
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 1: is just in time for Father's Day. Matthew Knowles says
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 1: Beyonce's weakness is public speaking. Uh. Matthew Knowles recently spoke
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 1: at Howard University. He's Beyonce's father, of course, and form
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 1: a manager. He explained to a young group of students
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 1: the portins of knowing your artists weaknesses. According to Knows,
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: knowing his artist strengths helped him as a manager, and
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: he used his daughters as examples. Everyone thinks that they're
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 1: the greatest, and and they should, he explains. As label executives,
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: we have to know the limitations of the artists. See,
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 1: I would never have Beyonce up here public speaking. She's
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 1: not good at it. Meanwhile, Solange, Yeah, that's what he said.
• 1:26:24
  Speaker 1: That's what he said about his own daughter. You know
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 1: that she's not good at it. Um. I mean, but
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 1: there are a lot of people. I mean, you ask
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 1: people what's the number one thing that they're afraid to do,
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 1: and so many people say that they're afraid public speak
• 1:26:38
  Speaker 1: public They don't like to get up in front of
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 1: a crowd and speak. That's one of their biggest fears,
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 1: the biggest fears. She's probably one of the, if not
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 1: the greatest living performer of our time right now. That
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 1: girl's show is amazing. But I don't I don't. I
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 1: don't know if he meante the way it's coming across,
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I do there's no benefit to use her,
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 1: I guess because she's famous. Used her as an example.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 1: But once you started talking about other people's shortcoming, you
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 1: didn't have to turn around and talk about Hill. Yeah.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 1: I don't know that. I'm not sure. Maybe he didn't
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 1: mean it like that. He came out, yeah, like what.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: But you know, she's been a star since she's been
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: a child too, so she's you know, been fifteen years old,
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 1: so she's probably had not you know, didn't have a
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 1: lot of but you know what, sopic speaking may not
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 1: be strong. She's a problem. And that's when how many
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: people can't speak. I don't want to do that, and
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 1: how many people are afraid to do it? And don't
• 1:27:47
  Speaker 1: I mean you remember when she was with the group,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 1: Kelly would do most of the public speaking, but when
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: Beyonce would say something, it would be good. I mean,
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 1: it wasn't. It wasn't. I don't like it. I don't
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 1: like you know, I mean comedy doing comedy and then speaking,
• 1:28:01
  Speaker 1: it's just for me, it's totally different, different. And I
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 1: watched Steve doing it over and over, I because I
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: know I'm gonna cuss. So he's brilliant at it. Though,
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: is Steve really is he really has that in factor
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 1: because he can do and he's a good listener to
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 1: so even in interviews sometimes he's a good listener. Sometimes
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 1: he's a good listen sometimes yeah, well he's out standing
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: on a TV sit right now that is my real life.
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 1: But sometimes you can listen like he's listening now to
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 1: say something right, listen to speak. But I think it
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 1: does sound like Matthew Knows was talking about himself as
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 1: a manager. As a manager, you have to know what
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: your weaknesses are. You know, he didn't have to like
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: you know out there like that about Beyonce. Turn that
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 1: music on and watch what happened? Baby. He's probably speaking
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 1: when you got all this, you know you can hire
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: some well she spoke well when she said, you're not
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 1: gonna be my manager anymore, dad father. But anyway, I
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: mean everybody has weekends. Everybody has stuff that they don't
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 1: like to do, or that they as a family said
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 1: anything about to comment or because I don't think they're
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 1: just baby watch right now, Steve, Yeah, I think they
• 1:29:28
  Speaker 1: really ain't got time for that. But Matthew is not
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 1: a mean guy towards his key now, you know he
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 1: said anything. I don't think Matthew knows or say anything
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 1: mean or nasty about children. I've never seen him do
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: that before. So baby was just taking the wrong away,
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: you know. All yeah, he still heard daddy. You're listening
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 1: Morning show. All right, we're back, We're back. Hey, Father's
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: Father's Day weekend is this weekend. Don't forget your Dad's
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 1: I know it's not as big as Eastern Christmas, Thanksgiving,
• 1:30:02
  Speaker 1: fourth of July, More Day, Labor Day, Valentine's dayDay, another's
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: day's right, you know, gunho holiday groundholiday as big as
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 1: any of those days, like dad, not, it's not. It's
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 1: not great, not to my husband or nets though. Too
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 1: happy with your Father's Day, Father's Day. I'm saying right there,
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 1: you'd rather have his birthday to get his man a
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: damn Father's Day, Father's Day every year every year. But
• 1:30:45
  Speaker 1: surely okay, happy Father's Day to my husband. Times throw out.
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 1: That's the shame. And ladies, a great gift for your
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 1: husband is Built soap this year. It's a new soap
• 1:31:00
  Speaker 1: line is out in all walmarts. Go get Built Soap built.
• 1:31:04
  Speaker 1: It's built for men. It's comes in wonderful fragrances. Get
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 1: the body washed and the bar of bars are huge.
• 1:31:11
  Speaker 1: The bars are huge. I made him so Tommy, couldn't you?
• 1:31:14
  Speaker 1: You know it's so crazy. What is the thing that
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 1: guys can't give other guys soap? That's just not cool. Well,
• 1:31:25
  Speaker 1: you know you're not supposed to care about how smell? Man?
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: Have me? Hey man, when you're washing up, thank the
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: meres certain gifts men don't give men. Here's some nice
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 1: wash clouds. No you don't, you just do. There's for
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 1: a set of linens. Hey man, Hey hey, hey, hey man,
• 1:31:51
  Speaker 1: bought you a scarf? Hey man, A bunch of some pajamas.
• 1:31:57
  Speaker 1: Just don't know another guy, Jake, Hi, looking these jeans?
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: Jay say none of that? What can you do? I
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 1: got your nice peaky ring. No, no, the you know,
• 1:32:16
  Speaker 1: the fishing equipment, Nickels, cigars, you know, tools, stuff that
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 1: tare him down. No clothing item, your ball playing? You
• 1:32:32
  Speaker 1: buy him a pair of Nikes, you can, yeah, basketball
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: sporting equipment, golf clubs, you know some golf ball? What
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: what did you look worried about my jaw? Dude? A
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 1: bunch of some sunscreen? Hey hey, no, nothing came by
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 1: a man, nothing would care? No, come on now, no,
• 1:32:59
  Speaker 1: you can give him some off glove. You can get
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: my baseball glove. You can buy the baseball yeah bad, yeah, yeah,
• 1:33:06
  Speaker 1: you can get his ass a pack of hot dogs.
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah before you got him a skincare product. What about
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 1: like if his eyes are going bad like some glasses.
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 1: I don't don't know my prescription dogs in my eyes.
• 1:33:23
  Speaker 1: It's gonna take it with my eyes fall. It's gonna
• 1:33:26
  Speaker 1: take you away to jokes right there, blind as I
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 1: got one. Here's we give this to each other all
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 1: the time, ladies. How about this a coupon to the spa.
• 1:33:39
  Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back to close out this show.
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, y'all
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: be back time for just one more thing. I've been
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 1: a great week, man, great week. Oh yeah, it really
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 1: really has. It's been a great week. Tommy's been great.
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 1: You know what. We got him, We got a breaks,
• 1:33:58
  Speaker 1: We got him good. We're good sending pictures zip like
• 1:34:06
  Speaker 1: I wish Tommy was zip lining and the zip line
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 1: fake like it to break this is you know, don't break,
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 1: you know, like snap, I am doing it. Tommy's father's
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: her father, Quiet Jrs. Going in fatherhood. Thank you? Hey,
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: you know so I'm gonna tell you something I feel
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: about fatherhood I'm thinking of. I don't know that I
• 1:34:34
  Speaker 1: speak to all men, but I do think that I
• 1:34:36
  Speaker 1: can speak for a great deal of me, and I
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: think that fatherhood for me and a lot of men,
• 1:34:47
  Speaker 1: it's challenging, it's daunting, but it's rewarding. And I think
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: those of us that have taken the time out to
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 1: attempt to be not only good fathers, but good dad's,
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 1: it takes a lot. It takes a lot, especially when
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: you count yourself as one of those fathers who are
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: responsible for the welfare of your family. And that's a
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 1: big challenge for a man, and especially for men who
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: have grown up without seeing that as an example in
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 1: their life. It's a lot tougher for these guys when
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 1: they haven't had a close up view from a man
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 1: on how to be. And most of them turn out
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 1: to be great fathers because they do the direct opposite
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: of what their father did to them. They just do
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 1: the opposite, and that's a blessing. It's kind of like
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 1: similar to what my father always told me. My father
• 1:35:51
  Speaker 1: always says, son, listen to me. Knowing what not to
• 1:35:55
  Speaker 1: do is just as good as knowing what to do
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 1: because it can save you a lot of pain. But
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 1: there are so many great fathers out there. Like we say,
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 1: Father's Day is not as big as Mother's Day, and
• 1:36:08
  Speaker 1: we understand why, of course, and I don't think it
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 1: should be. A mother is totally different. Man. She gave
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 1: us life, she bore us, she brought us into this well,
• 1:36:16
  Speaker 1: she carried us, she nurtured us, she helps us. But
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 1: my hat goes off to the fathers out there that
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 1: is doing the right thing, those fathers out there that's
• 1:36:25
  Speaker 1: going to work, that's making it happen for their fund,
• 1:36:28
  Speaker 1: for their family, and being a great father and a
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 1: great dad. Ain't got nothing to do with how much
• 1:36:32
  Speaker 1: money you make. It's how much time you put in,
• 1:36:36
  Speaker 1: what percentage of yourself you give to others. Often teach
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 1: my sons that you will not know what manhood truly
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: is until you love somebody more than you love yourself.
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 1: You'll know what manhood is all about when you love
• 1:36:52
  Speaker 1: somebody more than you love yourself, When you would lay
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 1: down your life for the life of your children, your family,
• 1:36:58
  Speaker 1: your wife, that's manhood. Now I'm not saying you're not
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 1: a man because you don't have those things, but the
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 1: epitome of manhood, the totality of the totality of it all,
• 1:37:10
  Speaker 1: it's when you love someone more than you love yourself,
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 1: when you are responsible and the caretaker of them all.
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 1: My hat also goes out to the fathers out there
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 1: that's being daddy's to children that ain't yours. I said.
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 1: My hat also goes out to the fathers out there
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: that's being daddy's to children that ain't yours. And you
• 1:37:34
  Speaker 1: women out there who are fortunate enough to have found
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: a man who loves yours, who loves yours like they're his. Man. Man,
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 1: oh man, oh man, what a blessing is that? Because
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 1: the father that's supposed to be being a daddy ain't
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 1: being a daddy. And this man to stepped in and said, hey,
• 1:37:54
  Speaker 1: put that weight on my shoulders too. I got you,
• 1:37:58
  Speaker 1: and I got everybody connect it to you. That's a
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 1: hell of a dude right there. And it's a bunch
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 1: of them out there, man, it's a bunch of them
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 1: out there who just put that thing called manhood on
• 1:38:11
  Speaker 1: and fatherhood and daddy hood and wear it and no
• 1:38:15
  Speaker 1: matter what come with it, they wear it. My hat
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 1: goes off to father's everywhere. Man. God bless all of you.
• 1:38:22
  Speaker 1: Man that may I offer just a personal piece of advice.
• 1:38:28
  Speaker 1: Whether it's going good for you or it's going tough
• 1:38:30
  Speaker 1: for you, if you include God in it, it'll go
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 1: better for you. That's for show. You need God to
• 1:38:39
  Speaker 1: be a great father. You mean God to be a
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 1: great dad. You need God to be the man that
• 1:38:46
  Speaker 1: you want to be. It's tough out there, but y'all
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 1: do keep your head up. It's uh this Sunday. Happy
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 1: Father's Day, Jay, Happy Father's Day, Tommy at Father's Day,
• 1:38:58
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Happy Father's Day to all the men out there, man.
• 1:39:05
  Speaker 1: And one last day. If you are a father but
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 1: you are not being a dad, this would be a
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 1: good time to step up. It's okay to say to
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 1: your children, I'm sorry, you know what. I made the
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 1: mistakes at my daughter's wedding after the dance, and I
• 1:39:24
  Speaker 1: couldn't let her go, and we were standing in that crime,
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 1: and it was time for me to give a speech.
• 1:39:28
  Speaker 1: Part of my speech was I had to apologize to
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 1: my daughter Brandy and call it for not being there
• 1:39:35
  Speaker 1: when they were small. I said, I made a lot
• 1:39:38
  Speaker 1: of mistakes as a young man, but I spent all
• 1:39:41
  Speaker 1: my life trying to make up for that. Sometimes you
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 1: get it wrong and God wakes you up and gives
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 1: you a chance to get it right. So for those
• 1:39:50
  Speaker 1: of you out there that ain't been doing it right,
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