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- 0:00Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
- 0:04Speaker 2: Y'all know what time.
- 0:05Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all.
- 0:09Speaker 1: All at all, So.
- 0:12Speaker 3: Don't given them.
- 0:15Speaker 4: Black the Milican Buza listening.
- 0:24Speaker 3: To show, I don't joy yah yah joy.
- 0:59Speaker 5: You gotta do that.
- 1:01Speaker 3: Turn turn I can't.
- 1:40Speaker 1: I got to turn the mouth the turn.
- 1:43Speaker 3: You probably got to turn the mouth out the water
- 1:47Speaker 3: then a.
- 1:49Speaker 6: Look, come on, come on, you'll think, uh, I sure will.
- 2:03Speaker 2: Good morning everybody.
- 2:04Speaker 7: You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
- 2:08Speaker 7: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. You know,
- 2:11Speaker 7: I think I ought to explain something to y'all. You
- 2:14Speaker 7: know when I wake up in the morning and I say,
- 2:17Speaker 7: dig me, now, what I'm asking you to do is
- 2:20Speaker 7: it's old school, you know, man, And you know you
- 2:22Speaker 7: said old people say I dig you know, da da da.
- 2:25Speaker 7: Never stop saying that. I'm sorry, but dig me now.
- 2:29Speaker 7: It's just I want you to I won't you really
- 2:32Speaker 7: feel me. I won't you to understand what I'm saying,
- 2:34Speaker 7: because really, this morning inspiration is all given in the
- 2:38Speaker 7: spirit of sharing and love. It ain't about to expose
- 2:42Speaker 7: me in any way. That's not the purpose of it.
- 2:45Speaker 7: But I found that in my morning inspiration that is
- 2:49Speaker 7: best that I use some things about myself, because I mean,
- 2:52Speaker 7: what better example can I use? Because I know me,
- 2:55Speaker 7: I know what's happened to me. I know exactly how
- 2:58Speaker 7: I felt all along the way, almost everything, every aspect
- 3:02Speaker 7: of my life, I now fully do really understand why
- 3:06Speaker 7: God had my life spend the way it spun. And
- 3:10Speaker 7: here's the part that I want to give to you
- 3:12Speaker 7: this morning, that first of all, whatever position you find
- 3:16Speaker 7: yourself in today, we kind of come to one realization
- 3:20Speaker 7: that we got ourselves there. We put ourselves there by
- 3:23Speaker 7: a series of thoughts and actions. Thoughts turn into things.
- 3:29Speaker 7: That's very important to know. So let's look at both
- 3:33Speaker 7: sides of it. For people who think negative thoughts, it
- 3:39Speaker 7: turns into negative things, and the direct opposite is true.
- 3:44Speaker 7: For those who think positive thoughts, it turns into positive things.
- 3:51Speaker 2: That's the deal. It's it's as simple as that, folks.
- 3:56Speaker 7: I cannot break it down any cleaner, I can not
- 4:00Speaker 7: make it any clearer. Thoughts become things. So the one
- 4:06Speaker 7: glaring question for all of us always is on a
- 4:10Speaker 7: daily basis, what are you thinking? What are your thoughts?
- 4:14Speaker 7: What are you thinking? What are your thoughts? Because I
- 4:20Speaker 7: can assure you, and is not by a promise of mind.
- 4:24Speaker 7: This is not a theory that Steve Harveyden came up with.
- 4:28Speaker 7: This is a fact of life. This is biblical, This
- 4:33Speaker 7: is spiritual, this is written, This is philosophical.
- 4:38Speaker 2: This is the law of the universe.
- 4:40Speaker 7: However, you need to drink this medicine to take to
- 4:43Speaker 7: get it down and feel what I'm saying to you.
- 4:46Speaker 7: This is just the way it is now and here
- 4:49Speaker 7: the cold part, folks. It don't matter if you believe
- 4:53Speaker 7: me or not. It does not matter if you have
- 4:57Speaker 7: never been explained this or not. And it does not
- 5:02Speaker 7: matter if you think it works in your life or not.
- 5:05Speaker 7: It don't matter.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Listen to me. It is the way it is.
- 5:10Speaker 7: It is a scriptural, it is a spiritual, it is philosophical.
- 5:15Speaker 2: It's just whatever is the law of the universe. You
- 5:17Speaker 2: call whatever you want call it.
- 5:19Speaker 7: However, you got to dress this thing up to put
- 5:22Speaker 7: it in a phase that you can feel me.
- 5:24Speaker 2: I want you to feel me now, because this is
- 5:26Speaker 2: all it is.
- 5:28Speaker 7: So when I say that you are where we are
- 5:31Speaker 7: today because we thought ourselves here, are you best to
- 5:34Speaker 7: believe that's true?
- 5:36Speaker 2: You thought yourself here? No one else see. Let me
- 5:40Speaker 2: explain something.
- 5:41Speaker 7: I got people around me who so badly want to
- 5:44Speaker 7: take credit for it, but I don't allow it.
- 5:49Speaker 2: But because I keep pointing to the heavens, I.
- 5:53Speaker 7: Keep pointing and trying to say it out loud as
- 5:57Speaker 7: many times as I can without being so offensive, that
- 6:02Speaker 7: my life is by design, by grace and mercy, by
- 6:06Speaker 7: blessings from God.
- 6:07Speaker 2: My life is because God has seen it to be so.
- 6:11Speaker 7: Oh, but I got plenty of people around me want
- 6:14Speaker 7: credit for it and want you to not give credit
- 6:17Speaker 7: to God and give it to them.
- 6:19Speaker 2: I got that.
- 6:20Speaker 7: I got that, But I understand that. See, I understand
- 6:23Speaker 7: what that is. That's a person whose design is.
- 6:27Speaker 2: To get the credit. But it's okay.
- 6:30Speaker 7: It's so clear to me what my father was saying
- 6:33Speaker 7: to me. Man, I get it. As I get older
- 6:35Speaker 7: and older. He always said to me, son, everybody come
- 6:38Speaker 7: with you can't go with you. See.
- 6:42Speaker 2: You know, I don't know how people say it in church.
- 6:44Speaker 7: You know, sometime they go, well, people come into your
- 6:47Speaker 7: life for seasons, and I guess that's same thing. You
- 6:49Speaker 7: know they seizing up. They gone well, you know, and
- 6:52Speaker 7: then but then hi, the way they try to hold
- 6:55Speaker 7: you though, Oh, you're gonna forget where you come from. Oh,
- 6:59Speaker 7: you ain't going to keep it real no more. I
- 7:02Speaker 7: don't want to go back where I come from. I
- 7:05Speaker 7: don't want to keep it that real no more. It
- 7:07Speaker 7: was real enough for me living in a car. I
- 7:10Speaker 7: had enough of that real. I don't gonna keep it
- 7:12Speaker 7: real now. I don't keep it real. I wanna go
- 7:14Speaker 7: keep it dreamy. I want to go keep it fantasized.
- 7:18Speaker 2: I want I want to.
- 7:19Speaker 7: I want to keep it out of this world. I
- 7:20Speaker 7: want to keep it off the chain. I want to
- 7:23Speaker 7: keep it moving. I want to keep it ball and
- 7:25Speaker 7: I want to see what that's like. So nah, I
- 7:27Speaker 7: ain't gonna forget where I come from, But you ain't
- 7:30Speaker 7: gonna hold me to that though See, thoughts become things
- 7:35Speaker 7: all day long? Where is your vision board? Where are
- 7:39Speaker 7: the things that you want written down? What do you
- 7:43Speaker 7: think about the most? How grateful are you for what
- 7:47Speaker 7: all God has done for you? Where you at with that?
- 7:50Speaker 7: See here hear another law? If thoughts become things, Let
- 7:57Speaker 7: me ask you this. If all you thinking about is
- 8:00Speaker 7: your debt, if all you're thinking about is what you
- 8:04Speaker 7: ain't God, If all you thinking.
- 8:06Speaker 2: About or is all woe is me?
- 8:08Speaker 7: If all you thinking about is every time I turn around,
- 8:11Speaker 7: I'm sick. If all you thinking about it's the things
- 8:16Speaker 7: in life that you're lacking. If that's all you thinking about,
- 8:22Speaker 7: and if thoughts become things, how much debt you think
- 8:27Speaker 7: you're gonna stay in, how much, how much how much
- 8:30Speaker 7: lacking you think you're finn to fill your life with?
- 8:34Speaker 7: How much most stuff you fin to not have because
- 8:38Speaker 7: you keep thinking about it all the time. When you're
- 8:42Speaker 7: gonna be grateful, when you're gonna say thank you, when
- 8:47Speaker 7: it's gonna come out your mouth, Man, that I may
- 8:50Speaker 7: not be where I want to be, but I show
- 8:52Speaker 7: am grateful for what you've given me so far, for
- 8:56Speaker 7: the things I have today, because I don't have to
- 8:59Speaker 7: have these things?
- 9:00Speaker 2: You know what that does?
- 9:01Speaker 7: That then opens up room for more stuff to come
- 9:04Speaker 7: your way. To be grateful fall. But if you're gonna
- 9:07Speaker 7: be ungrateful, ah, man, let me ask you something. I
- 9:10Speaker 7: ain't God, I don't claim to be. But let me
- 9:12Speaker 7: ask you something man. If you ungrateful for the things
- 9:16Speaker 7: we got, if we can't show no gratitude for what
- 9:19Speaker 7: we have, why would God give.
- 9:22Speaker 2: Us some most stuff to be ungrateful for?
- 9:25Speaker 7: What would he do that for tada. Anybody feel me
- 9:30Speaker 7: right now? So when I say come on, y'all, dig
- 9:33Speaker 7: me now, do you understand why I say dig me
- 9:35Speaker 7: because I want you to feel me. I want you
- 9:36Speaker 7: to understand and come to the understanding, not saying you ain't.
- 9:40Speaker 7: Because it's so many people got a deeper understanding than
- 9:42Speaker 7: me about this whole thing.
- 9:43Speaker 2: I promise you they do, but they listen to me.
- 9:46Speaker 7: I'm just trying to get you to walk up in
- 9:48Speaker 7: this light, man, so you can go on with your
- 9:50Speaker 7: life and quit tripping yourself out with your thoughts because
- 9:53Speaker 7: thoughts become things all all day.
- 9:56Speaker 8: You're listening.
- 9:58Speaker 2: Morning show, Wake Up, Wake Up, Wake up.
- 10:02Speaker 9: It's that show. It's that radio show. It's that Steve
- 10:05Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show, the baddest show in the land. You've
- 10:08Speaker 9: been hearing about it. You've been riding with us for years.
- 10:10Speaker 9: We are that show. Ignorant, inspirational, uplifting, educational. We all
- 10:17Speaker 9: of that wrapped up and wanted in back to ignorant again.
- 10:20Speaker 9: I'm gonna go ahead and let you know a little
- 10:21Speaker 9: something something. I'm Steve ain't here right now, me and
- 10:24Speaker 9: the crew holding it down. That's sure that that's called
- 10:26Speaker 9: Mississippi Monica kill Junior Boyd space and right now, I'm
- 10:29Speaker 9: just gonna let y'all know I'm a little greasy this moment. Okay,
- 10:33Speaker 9: just a little greasy, all right. I shaved and I
- 10:36Speaker 9: put a little some something. I don't got a little
- 10:38Speaker 9: coco but on that, and then I'm the ladies let
- 10:40Speaker 9: me know that you real greasy up in here. So
- 10:43Speaker 9: I'm trying to tone it down. I ain't normally greasy,
- 10:46Speaker 9: like I don't like to be called greasy. That just
- 10:48Speaker 9: don't feel right. It just feel I don't know it,
- 10:51Speaker 9: just feel greasy.
- 10:52Speaker 2: I don't like it. I feel I feel greasy.
- 10:57Speaker 8: Why do you have a grease on your face?
- 11:01Speaker 1: You know, Black people, that's our word to.
- 11:04Speaker 2: So greasy. Time and toning it down. Okay, I'm toning
- 11:10Speaker 2: it down.
- 11:10Speaker 1: I mean, I know you've got a lot of money.
- 11:12Speaker 1: Tell me, but that greasy part, I can't. I can't come.
- 11:15Speaker 3: I't come.
- 11:16Speaker 2: I'm trying to go. Is it better not? Am I good?
- 11:20Speaker 3: Now?
- 11:21Speaker 1: I don't know you greasy at your black Joe.
- 11:24Speaker 2: You don't know your grease when you see it? Your
- 11:26Speaker 2: do I look greasy at that? Boy? I'm asking you.
- 11:28Speaker 4: I can't look at you and say I can't comment
- 11:31Speaker 4: about you being greed, just just as a man, I
- 11:33Speaker 4: can't do it.
- 11:36Speaker 9: Well, good morning, this great Tuesday morning, Good morning. Good
- 11:41Speaker 9: it's greasy Tuesday is what it is. Okay, okay, what's better?
- 11:48Speaker 9: Greasy as come on.
- 11:52Speaker 2: Better? Yeah, yeah, freezy bet all right, at least I'm not.
- 11:57Speaker 10: Don't do it?
- 11:58Speaker 2: All right? I shave then I hit it with that cocoa.
- 12:03Speaker 2: But I can't. I think I got a little too
- 12:05Speaker 2: out of control with that cocoa. But I did.
- 12:07Speaker 8: I thought it was coconut oil or castor oil.
- 12:10Speaker 2: Is something oil?
- 12:12Speaker 8: The way he was shining, Yeah.
- 12:15Speaker 1: It was always just its Crisco.
- 12:20Speaker 8: I go to Crisco.
- 12:24Speaker 9: I'm toning it down, all right, I got some I
- 12:26Speaker 9: got some clinics. I'm toning it down though.
- 12:29Speaker 8: You look moisturized.
- 12:31Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you. Yeah, there you go.
- 12:34Speaker 9: So But but let me go a little further on.
- 12:37Speaker 9: I mean, and my sex, you know, because greasy kind of.
- 12:43Speaker 1: You was like, don't ask me, sure, I can't come.
- 12:47Speaker 1: I can't comment on none of this.
- 12:48Speaker 9: No, you're very very kind of makes you look sexy,
- 12:52Speaker 9: like naked glitten A little bit that ain't.
- 12:55Speaker 8: It's like in the movie. Yeah right, it's different.
- 13:00Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what call it?
- 13:01Speaker 2: I don't really like that.
- 13:02Speaker 11: I don't like what is what is I I thought
- 13:06Speaker 11: we were. I thought we were work husband and wife.
- 13:08Speaker 11: I'm not getting ready to do all that.
- 13:11Speaker 9: You could at least say you a nice old sexy
- 13:13Speaker 9: grees or something, you know, something a nice sex agrees.
- 13:20Speaker 2: Oh, sex agrees itself?
- 13:21Speaker 10: What with it?
- 13:29Speaker 8: All?
- 13:29Speaker 2: Right?
- 13:30Speaker 8: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we're
- 13:33Speaker 8: gonna run that prank back with mister Greasey himself. Shiny
- 13:37Speaker 8: nephew just shining over.
- 13:40Speaker 2: There right after this, let me find a greasy prank.
- 13:43Speaker 8: You're listening.
- 13:45Speaker 5: Morning show.
- 13:46Speaker 8: It is time now for the nephew to run that prank.
- 13:49Speaker 8: Bag What you got for his nest?
- 13:51Speaker 9: Well, you know, Shirley, every now and then people fall
- 13:53Speaker 9: for somebody, You meet somebody that you like, and you know,
- 13:56Speaker 9: everybody's gonna have a father, a mother child, and you know,
- 14:01Speaker 9: at this point right here, you know, I got to
- 14:03Speaker 9: call this young man and let him know I want
- 14:05Speaker 9: to date your mama. You understand, Yeah, I want to
- 14:09Speaker 9: date your mama. Okay, it is what it is. It
- 14:13Speaker 9: is what it is, me and your mama talking about
- 14:16Speaker 9: do you know what? You know what the problem with
- 14:17Speaker 9: your young brothers.
- 14:18Speaker 2: Is, baby boy bing rains. I think y'all know everything.
- 14:25Speaker 2: Two different people in this world, people guns and people
- 14:27Speaker 2: with butter.
- 14:28Speaker 9: All right, let's go. I want to date your mama.
- 14:31Speaker 9: I want to date your mama. Let's go catch doctor.
- 14:34Speaker 12: Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach I'm trying to reach
- 14:37Speaker 12: Miss Burns. This is Jesus her Son. How you doing man?
- 14:40Speaker 12: My name is Gordon Gordon. I just recently joined the church,
- 14:44Speaker 12: man within the last month, and I was trying to
- 14:46Speaker 12: get in touch with Mss Burns. I wanted the members
- 14:48Speaker 12: gave me a number, but I guess they must have
- 14:50Speaker 12: gave me the wrong number. I guess it's it's a
- 14:52Speaker 12: home number or what is this? Who is this again?
- 14:57Speaker 12: My name is Gordon Gordon. I'm a new member at
- 15:00Speaker 12: the church. Yeah, this is this your number? Yeah? Man,
- 15:04Speaker 12: this is my phone number. I'm James. I'm a son.
- 15:07Speaker 12: Oh that's your mom. Okay, that's your mother?
- 15:09Speaker 2: Right? All right?
- 15:09Speaker 10: Well yeah, my bad man.
- 15:10Speaker 12: I was trying to get in touch with Ms Barnes. Now,
- 15:12Speaker 12: is do you ever a cell or a home number?
- 15:15Speaker 12: Somethinghe I can get in touch with Ms Barnes. Wait time,
- 15:18Speaker 12: I tell me your name is what Gordon? Gordon? Gordon
- 15:22Speaker 12: not just joined the church, man, so I might not
- 15:24Speaker 12: have met you yet.
- 15:24Speaker 10: James.
- 15:25Speaker 12: Okay, Well, God bless you man, Thank you man.
- 15:27Speaker 10: I appreciate it.
- 15:29Speaker 12: Anyway, I could get your mom's home number from me.
- 15:33Speaker 12: I mean you just joined the church. I mean I
- 15:35Speaker 12: don't I don't see why you wouldn't be able to
- 15:37Speaker 12: talk to her. I mean is there anything that is
- 15:39Speaker 12: there a message I could pass on to it? Though? Well, yeah,
- 15:43Speaker 12: I mean I'm trying to see if it's all right
- 15:46Speaker 12: for uh for me to take her out. I've been
- 15:49Speaker 12: seeing her for the last Hold up, hold up, hold up,
- 15:51Speaker 12: hold up, holdo hold tell about that. You You were
- 15:54Speaker 12: just sending you a new member to the church, and
- 15:57Speaker 12: somebody gave you my mother number and you're asking me
- 16:01Speaker 12: if you could take an out.
- 16:02Speaker 4: Man.
- 16:02Speaker 12: Well, I wasn't asking you. I thought I had her
- 16:05Speaker 12: phone number. I guess they get even your number by mistake.
- 16:08Speaker 12: You know that's my reason for car. I thought I
- 16:09Speaker 12: was gonna get her. I want to take her out,
- 16:11Speaker 12: you know, maybe to dinner or something. Well, I'll be
- 16:14Speaker 12: quite honest, man, I just came back on from overseas,
- 16:16Speaker 12: from fighting and everything.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Man.
- 16:17Speaker 12: And uh, I mean, you know my pops just passed
- 16:20Speaker 12: away not too long ago. And I ain't you know,
- 16:23Speaker 12: I ain't too keen on my mama going out with somebody.
- 16:27Speaker 12: And besides, you don't even sound like you, ay, she
- 16:30Speaker 12: in the sixties. Man, old are you? Man? I'm thirty six?
- 16:33Speaker 12: The hell out of yours?
- 16:34Speaker 10: You?
- 16:34Speaker 12: How old man, I'm thirty six, I'm thirty four. What
- 16:38Speaker 12: is you doing? You do realize my mom is pushing
- 16:41Speaker 12: sixty right?
- 16:42Speaker 10: Well?
- 16:42Speaker 12: You know what, man, I look at it like James, Right, James,
- 16:45Speaker 12: I look at it like it's you know heyes, ain't
- 16:48Speaker 12: number but the number. Man, This wasn't in your heart. Man,
- 16:50Speaker 12: And how you carry yourself?
- 16:51Speaker 10: You know?
- 16:52Speaker 12: Yeah? But a hey, but my mom ain't no cougar
- 16:55Speaker 12: like that. And I know she ain't coming after you
- 16:58Speaker 12: right now. I remember telling me that she tried some
- 17:00Speaker 12: new things at this church. But going out with some
- 17:03Speaker 12: thirty thirty.
- 17:05Speaker 13: How old are you?
- 17:06Speaker 10: You?
- 17:06Speaker 12: A baby man like I'm thirty. I'm thirty six. Dude, Man,
- 17:10Speaker 12: you like my brother or something. Man, ain't nowhere in
- 17:12Speaker 12: the world. My mama gonna be danged to say, Okay, okay, dame,
- 17:16Speaker 12: let me tell this man. First of I ain't even
- 17:17Speaker 12: know off calling you. Second of all, I'm calling to
- 17:20Speaker 12: speak with her. I'm not calling trying to get permission
- 17:22Speaker 12: from you. Miss Burns is a grown woman, missed whoa, whoa,
- 17:27Speaker 12: whoa talking about that. I don't think you here of me. Man,
- 17:29Speaker 12: I just came back from fighting over see. My pops
- 17:31Speaker 12: passed away not too long ago. I am the man
- 17:34Speaker 12: of the house. Let's get that straight right now, all right.
- 17:37Speaker 12: I don't care if I'm still living at home or not.
- 17:39Speaker 12: I'm the man of this house, all right. You calling
- 17:42Speaker 12: to ask my mama on a date? Yeah, you might
- 17:45Speaker 12: as well just stick to church, though, because you know,
- 17:47Speaker 12: as I said, be blessed. But it ain't gonna be
- 17:49Speaker 12: no blessing from me to you. I tell you that
- 17:52Speaker 12: right now. Okay, I'm not looking for a blessing from
- 17:56Speaker 12: you at all.
- 17:56Speaker 10: Bro.
- 17:57Speaker 12: You might know I'm blessed seconds and I respect the
- 18:00Speaker 12: fact that you've been overseas and you've been fighting for
- 18:03Speaker 12: this country. Okay, But if I decide I want to
- 18:06Speaker 12: speak to Miss Birds about going out, I think Miss
- 18:08Speaker 12: Burns has every right to decide if she would like
- 18:10Speaker 12: to go out with Gordon or not, and Gordon wants
- 18:13Speaker 12: to take her out. I took her up. Holder up, Look, brother,
- 18:17Speaker 12: I don't care how old you say you are, all right,
- 18:20Speaker 12: number one, you're too young, as I already mentioned. All right,
- 18:23Speaker 12: this ain't going down.
- 18:24Speaker 13: With you and my mom.
- 18:25Speaker 12: I'm straight up, hey, man, that's for your mama to decide. No, No,
- 18:30Speaker 12: you bringing up my mama. You letting the word your
- 18:32Speaker 12: mama come out your mouth again, that's gonna get you up,
- 18:35Speaker 12: all right. I don't know where you're from. I don't
- 18:38Speaker 12: give how old you are. I'm pretty thick. I know
- 18:41Speaker 12: what church my mama go to, and it ain't gonna
- 18:44Speaker 12: be her and you. You ain't gonna be asking her out,
- 18:46Speaker 12: all right. I don't give what it takes. I would
- 18:49Speaker 12: show up on Sunday, catch up in the pul pit
- 18:53Speaker 12: or wherever you're gonna be sitting in the back in
- 18:55Speaker 12: the choir. It don't matter. Something is going down. You
- 18:57Speaker 12: would not gonna get with my mama like that. You
- 19:00Speaker 12: got that. That's up for your mama to decide. If
- 19:02Speaker 12: your mama want to go out with me to have dinner.
- 19:04Speaker 12: I ain't nothing wrong with that, man, I'm I'm deciding
- 19:07Speaker 12: it right now. It ain't gonna happen. I told you
- 19:10Speaker 12: before deep blessed or get your whoop. You got two choices,
- 19:14Speaker 12: all right, I didn't fight. Let's see this three years
- 19:18Speaker 12: to come back and also deal with my daddy died
- 19:21Speaker 12: and then come back. Man, I'm suffering from PSD. Dog,
- 19:24Speaker 12: I don't know what I'm gonna do unless you want
- 19:26Speaker 12: to get it like that something from what a PSD
- 19:30Speaker 12: post traumatic stress syndrome, and I will release all that
- 19:34Speaker 12: on you got that one? I don't play. Hey, man, listen,
- 19:37Speaker 12: I don't want no trouble. It don't matter to me.
- 19:39Speaker 12: You can qult you. Okay, Look man, listen, I ain't
- 19:43Speaker 12: trying to have no trouble out you. Man. All I'm
- 19:44Speaker 12: finna say is this right here? I'ma I talk to
- 19:47Speaker 12: you mam on Sunday. Okay, you ain't gonna.
- 19:49Speaker 10: Talk to me?
- 19:50Speaker 1: Are you not hearing me?
- 19:51Speaker 9: Man?
- 19:52Speaker 12: Go I'm crazy right now?
- 19:54Speaker 13: Okay?
- 19:54Speaker 12: Can I say this? Can I say one more thing
- 19:56Speaker 12: for your man?
- 19:57Speaker 2: Oh?
- 19:57Speaker 13: You exploded?
- 19:58Speaker 12: You ain't got nothing else to say? I got one
- 20:00Speaker 12: before you explode?
- 20:01Speaker 7: Man?
- 20:02Speaker 12: Did you listening?
- 20:03Speaker 8: Yeah?
- 20:03Speaker 12: Man?
- 20:04Speaker 2: James?
- 20:04Speaker 12: What hey?
- 20:05Speaker 2: Man?
- 20:05Speaker 12: I want to tell you this, man, This is nephew
- 20:08Speaker 12: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your mama got
- 20:13Speaker 12: me the brank phone call. You hit out of here.
- 20:17Speaker 12: Your mama told me she said, my son been overseas.
- 20:20Speaker 12: I'm glad to have him home. Man, are you are
- 20:23Speaker 12: you kidding?
- 20:24Speaker 3: Be made?
- 20:24Speaker 13: We got you good.
- 20:25Speaker 12: We listened to this show overseas. Man. First of all,
- 20:29Speaker 12: I got to say thank you for fighting for this country.
- 20:32Speaker 12: I want to ask you one more thing. What is
- 20:34Speaker 12: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in
- 20:37Speaker 12: the lane to Steve Harvey more than this show?
- 20:44Speaker 8: Thank you, nephew. Coming up next, it is as the
- 20:47Speaker 8: Riddlo and Junior. You know what the riddlo stands for.
- 20:50Speaker 8: A ready love officer. We'll hear from them. You're listening
- 20:54Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of
- 20:57Speaker 8: the hour and entertainment News. We're sending love out to
- 21:01Speaker 8: and condolences out to Mariah Carey after she faces the
- 21:05Speaker 8: imaginable grief losing her mom and her sister on the
- 21:10Speaker 8: very same day. Yeah yeah, wow yeah. Plus Election twenty
- 21:18Speaker 8: twenty four debates are up in the air now because
- 21:21Speaker 8: Donald Trump, I don't know is he running a little
- 21:23Speaker 8: scared or something? He's talking about?
- 21:29Speaker 1: What's wrong?
- 21:30Speaker 2: Donnie?
- 21:30Speaker 9: Y'all want to talk, y'all want you've been talking? Come home, Donny.
- 21:38Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know. These stories. We'll talk about at
- 21:42Speaker 8: the top of the hour. But right now it is
- 21:44Speaker 8: time to ask the really low and a junior.
- 21:48Speaker 2: This is from.
- 21:48Speaker 8: Sassia in Kalamazoo. Sassia writes, I heard you talk about celibacy,
- 21:52Speaker 8: and I have a question. I told my fiance that
- 21:55Speaker 8: we shouldn't have sex again until our wedding night on
- 21:58Speaker 8: New Year's Eve. He said he can't do that after
- 22:02Speaker 8: three years of dating and having sex. Why can't he
- 22:05Speaker 8: do this for me?
- 22:06Speaker 2: Why?
- 22:07Speaker 8: Why can't he?
- 22:08Speaker 2: Ain't nobody waiting the next year to do it?
- 22:11Speaker 12: Who do that?
- 22:14Speaker 9: That's that's next year? That is next year. By the
- 22:17Speaker 9: time we get to it, it's gonna be midnight. Ain't
- 22:19Speaker 9: nobody doing that? Ain't nobody waiting around to do all that?
- 22:21Speaker 9: We've been doing it for all this time? Now you
- 22:24Speaker 9: want to wait that? What in AUGUSTA? You're trying to
- 22:30Speaker 9: wait Christmas to New Year's Eve? You can do it, okay, okay,
- 22:37Speaker 9: but let me ask our somethings.
- 22:38Speaker 1: Why why?
- 22:40Speaker 8: She asked him, his wife is his beyond future soon
- 22:45Speaker 8: to be white, She asked, we're.
- 22:46Speaker 2: Going into this marriage wrong. We really are.
- 22:52Speaker 8: Her though we talked about celibacy before.
- 22:54Speaker 1: It's mental clarity, it's discipline, it's.
- 22:58Speaker 11: Some things that she wants to go through before they
- 23:00Speaker 11: become husband and wife, and else.
- 23:02Speaker 8: Controlled.
- 23:03Speaker 9: You could go through some other things if you want
- 23:05Speaker 9: to take yourself through some other things, take yourself through
- 23:08Speaker 9: something else.
- 23:09Speaker 2: But you want we can be Look, three days, we
- 23:11Speaker 2: can do three days. How about that?
- 23:14Speaker 4: No, don't say no, It don't make no sense. First
- 23:20Speaker 4: of all, you should have gave it to me in
- 23:21Speaker 4: the first place.
- 23:22Speaker 1: Now you're bad. You should have gave it to him.
- 23:28Speaker 1: Now you want to wait too? You even ain't that special?
- 23:31Speaker 1: Not not, not if it belongs to me. No, now,
- 23:34Speaker 1: not waiting.
- 23:36Speaker 8: Waiting for I mean the rules change, Tommy.
- 23:39Speaker 3: It's three years.
- 23:40Speaker 2: Matter of fact, Now that I think about it, I
- 23:42Speaker 2: think I'm going through something right now? What whatever?
- 23:49Speaker 5: In real time?
- 23:50Speaker 2: Yeah, because I can't remember.
- 23:52Speaker 1: The last man. You're oversharing.
- 23:56Speaker 2: I ain't oversharing. I'm explaining my issues.
- 24:00Speaker 8: She's calling out for him, crying out for help.
- 24:03Speaker 2: I'm crying out for help. You're all right, I'm.
- 24:07Speaker 8: Sorry about that.
- 24:08Speaker 1: Moving on, Kyle.
- 24:10Speaker 8: In Orlando, my wife and I gave her parents a
- 24:14Speaker 8: pizza oven for their outdoor kitchen. Okay, he said that
- 24:17Speaker 8: we bought the cheapest one in the store. My wife
- 24:20Speaker 8: told him to return it and get a better one.
- 24:23Speaker 8: I don't like his reaction or my wife's sons. Should
- 24:26Speaker 8: I take it.
- 24:27Speaker 9: Back your father in law? Yeah, oh no, I ain't
- 24:31Speaker 9: get your damn oven back to hell with him. Matter
- 24:34Speaker 9: of fact, every time I steal pizza, I'm slapping it
- 24:37Speaker 9: out of his hand every time. You don't get when
- 24:41Speaker 9: I when I passed by Papa John's, I'm calling him
- 24:43Speaker 9: and cussing him out.
- 24:44Speaker 2: That's just ungrateful. That's just ungrateful. And that's true. But
- 24:50Speaker 2: I beat the meat lovers out here.
- 24:52Speaker 4: They that's ungrateful. First of all, how do you know
- 24:57Speaker 4: what's the cheapest one? If you ain't never had one,
- 25:01Speaker 4: it's the first one you ever had.
- 25:03Speaker 8: You don't know if it's cheap, but you knew if
- 25:04Speaker 8: something is cheap or not. Don't you a pizza of it?
- 25:09Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 25:09Speaker 2: Yeah, you know talking about a pizza of it?
- 25:11Speaker 1: A pizza? Yeah, yeah, it's the first one. I never
- 25:18Speaker 1: had one.
- 25:19Speaker 2: I don't like that daddy. I don't like daddy law him.
- 25:23Speaker 2: I don't like him.
- 25:25Speaker 8: Well, the wife wants him to return it and get
- 25:27Speaker 8: a better one.
- 25:29Speaker 2: We ain't getting on. No, we're not getting no more.
- 25:31Speaker 2: He said, it's the first one.
- 25:33Speaker 1: Sure, ain't a pizza of you're talking about a pizza
- 25:36Speaker 1: of it and it's cheap. It's outside, that's a.
- 25:39Speaker 8: But you don't want to cheap of it? What if
- 25:41Speaker 8: it breaks that?
- 25:42Speaker 10: You know?
- 25:43Speaker 1: Sure that we never had one.
- 25:45Speaker 2: Black people ain't grew up with no pizza of it,
- 25:49Speaker 2: had of it, no pizza in front of it, pizza.
- 25:56Speaker 1: Come on, now, we're doing too much here.
- 25:59Speaker 8: He doesn't want a sheep of it. He doesn't like stuffs.
- 26:04Speaker 1: The father in law to me, he was born in
- 26:06Speaker 1: the fifties. He ain't never had nothing.
- 26:08Speaker 9: Nothing in the up and he had They left the
- 26:11Speaker 9: door open so we can get some warm in the.
- 26:13Speaker 8: House, heat up the house, all right, so you aren't
- 26:19Speaker 8: having it?
- 26:21Speaker 2: Got brand new now.
- 26:23Speaker 1: He had a piece of his whole life.
- 26:27Speaker 4: Show up till ninety two. They they ain't start piece
- 26:34Speaker 4: of ups in the simpness. They just showed up in
- 26:36Speaker 4: ninety two, not ninety two though now.
- 26:40Speaker 1: He don't like that is the cheap one.
- 26:44Speaker 2: You don't know how to make the dough. No no way.
- 26:51Speaker 9: Up in when you see the black person throw that
- 26:53Speaker 9: door up in there went up and seeing that.
- 26:55Speaker 8: I've never seen whirling the ryme.
- 26:57Speaker 1: Never never seen that rolling pin. Tommy. We used to
- 27:05Speaker 1: get beat with a roll.
- 27:06Speaker 8: But I know that's right, all right, So don't take
- 27:10Speaker 8: it back. Just let them keep what they have, all right.
- 27:12Speaker 8: Moving on to Dorothea in Richmond, did writes, I have
- 27:17Speaker 8: a friend named Mooney that I had sex with in
- 27:20Speaker 8: high school. He's been doing our lawn work for over
- 27:23Speaker 8: five years. My husband found out about us and slipped out.
- 27:28Speaker 8: How is he threatened about a high school lover that
- 27:30Speaker 8: cuts our yard?
- 27:31Speaker 9: Now?
- 27:32Speaker 2: Uh uh no, you out of line.
- 27:34Speaker 9: You're way out of line. Matter of fact, we ain't
- 27:36Speaker 9: he ain't Moody, ain't cutting this yard. No damn mood
- 27:39Speaker 9: I don't care Mooney, Moody, Dorothea, all these old ass
- 27:43Speaker 9: people that whoever it is, listen, we were like, we're
- 27:48Speaker 9: not getting matter of fact, we pulling up all this
- 27:50Speaker 9: grants and putting on a rock guard.
- 27:52Speaker 2: We ain't. We don't even need a yard man. Now,
- 27:55Speaker 2: it was five years ago.
- 27:57Speaker 8: I mean it was in high school. He's been cutting the.
- 27:59Speaker 9: Lawn form sure, no man, No man wants another man
- 28:04Speaker 9: on his property that's been with his woman and he
- 28:07Speaker 9: don't know nothing about it.
- 28:08Speaker 2: He don't. That cannot happen.
- 28:10Speaker 8: So if only he had known about it, then it'd
- 28:12Speaker 8: be cool.
- 28:14Speaker 2: He got the right to decide if he want him
- 28:15Speaker 2: as a yard man.
- 28:16Speaker 9: Oh, every time I see a weed, cussing about this here,
- 28:20Speaker 9: when I see a weed eat a lawnmow edge, just
- 28:23Speaker 9: anything we're cussing about this, Junior.
- 28:29Speaker 4: That's the absolute truth. Because Dorothea Dorothea over there with Moses. Okay,
- 28:35Speaker 4: they all her name Dorothea, his name got to.
- 28:40Speaker 1: Be most.
- 28:42Speaker 2: They're all born, and they all born and farted.
- 28:44Speaker 8: Something happened in high school.
- 28:47Speaker 3: Guys.
- 28:48Speaker 9: No, no, we're not doing that because if I come home,
- 28:52Speaker 9: no do it over it Is it all right for
- 28:55Speaker 9: us to have a female at the house when we
- 28:57Speaker 9: went to Oh, thank you, she cleans up the house.
- 29:03Speaker 9: Dorothea cleans up the house. Now, that's what she did.
- 29:07Speaker 8: Coming up at the top of the hour. Thank you, rittelo,
- 29:09Speaker 8: thank you, junior, coming up at the top of the hour,
- 29:12Speaker 8: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this.
- 29:15Speaker 8: You're listening Morning show, and guys, we are sending our
- 29:21Speaker 8: love to Mariah Carey. Mariah Carey's facing some tough times
- 29:25Speaker 8: right now, unimaginable grief as she lost her mother, Miss Patricia,
- 29:30Speaker 8: and her sister Allison on the same day. Mariah released
- 29:35Speaker 8: a statement and expressed her heartbreak. She said, quote, my
- 29:38Speaker 8: heart is broken that I've lost my mother this past weekend. Sadly,
- 29:42Speaker 8: in a tragic turn of event, my sister lost her
- 29:45Speaker 8: life on the same day, according to People magazine, No
- 29:49Speaker 8: other details about Patricia and Allison's causes of death were released.
- 29:53Speaker 8: Mariah did say that she was happy that she got
- 29:56Speaker 8: to spend last weekend with her mom. And I mean,
- 30:00Speaker 8: this is just tragic.
- 30:03Speaker 11: YEA one is a lot, so I know this is
- 30:08Speaker 11: on the same day. Yeah, that is just too much
- 30:12Speaker 11: that grief. So like it's just like you said, it's unimagined.
- 30:16Speaker 8: Yeah, the stylar, I say, yeah, our condolence is going
- 30:20Speaker 8: out and our love going out for Mariah Carey and
- 30:22Speaker 8: her family. Yes, yeah, all right, so yeah, switching gears.
- 30:29Speaker 8: The first presidential event is the debate is slated for
- 30:33Speaker 8: September tenth on ABC, but Donald Trump now is casting
- 30:39Speaker 8: some serious doubt about whether he'll participate. He's putting little,
- 30:42Speaker 8: you know, nuggets out there about you know, he doesn't
- 30:45Speaker 8: want it to be on ABC and all of that.
- 30:47Speaker 8: Vice President Kamala Harris's campaign has expressed doubt about Trump's
- 30:51Speaker 8: willingness to attend the debate, and last night on Truth Social,
- 30:55Speaker 8: Trump posted why would I do the debate against Kamala Harris?
- 31:01Speaker 8: On that network? He went on to criticize the network,
- 31:04Speaker 8: saying I watched ABC fake news this morning, both lightweight
- 31:08Speaker 8: reporter Jonason Carl's a ridiculous and biased interview of Senator
- 31:13Speaker 8: to Tom Cotton, who was fantastic, and their so called
- 31:16Speaker 8: panel of Trump haters. So far, the September tenth debate
- 31:20Speaker 8: on ABC is the only one both sides have agreed to.
- 31:24Speaker 8: There was another debate proposed on September fourth on Fox News,
- 31:28Speaker 8: which the Harris campaign never agreed to. A vice presidential
- 31:31Speaker 8: debate between jd Vance and Tim Waltz is confirmed for
- 31:35Speaker 8: October first on CBS. Want to see that one as well?
- 31:39Speaker 9: Okay, then then if you don't want to do anything look,
- 31:42Speaker 9: come on over to own. We'll do it over there.
- 31:44Speaker 8: Come on this network.
- 31:47Speaker 2: Yeah, over to open network. We're doing over to Monter.
- 31:49Speaker 2: Fact we're doing on BT Where you want to do it?
- 31:50Speaker 2: That done? What's we're doing on PBS. What you want
- 31:55Speaker 2: to do?
- 31:55Speaker 8: We'll do it on Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right here.
- 31:58Speaker 2: I hear how you want to do?
- 32:00Speaker 12: Do what?
- 32:00Speaker 2: Donald? We just want you on your podium and she
- 32:02Speaker 2: on her That's all we want. Where you want to
- 32:04Speaker 2: do it?
- 32:07Speaker 8: Yep, that's what they're saying that.
- 32:09Speaker 2: We do it on Showtime. You want to do it
- 32:10Speaker 2: on Showtime?
- 32:11Speaker 3: We want to do that Netflix?
- 32:14Speaker 2: What you got on Netflix? Let's do it on Netflix.
- 32:16Speaker 1: Dont do that? That's ABC so bad.
- 32:21Speaker 2: Matter of fact, kid was talking. Don't even telling me
- 32:23Speaker 2: about this. We do it on Toby.
- 32:25Speaker 1: You wont do it on Tooby Movies. Is amazing. I
- 32:29Speaker 1: am hooked on Tooby Movies. We can do it over there.
- 32:31Speaker 2: We're to debate. Come on, let's go.
- 32:34Speaker 1: You know what, it don't even matter.
- 32:36Speaker 4: The question is gonna be the questions no matter what
- 32:38Speaker 4: the network you own, it's the same questions.
- 32:41Speaker 11: Yeah, but what's all this You've been insulting her, You've
- 32:43Speaker 11: been talking all this noise, talking all this game, and
- 32:47Speaker 11: now you whining about the network hosting that debate.
- 32:51Speaker 9: Come on, now, I'm back from Yes, how about the
- 32:56Speaker 9: Lifetime Movie network.
- 32:57Speaker 2: Let's do it on now.
- 32:58Speaker 1: You know it's gonna be to It's gonna be good.
- 33:04Speaker 1: They might film it in Canada though it's okay, okay,
- 33:09Speaker 1: matter of fact, we can go to Canada and have
- 33:10Speaker 1: the debate. It don't matter.
- 33:14Speaker 2: Where you have.
- 33:14Speaker 1: It's the same as it didn't matter.
- 33:18Speaker 8: We've been saying all the debate over it.
- 33:21Speaker 1: You know, you know what, you know what, you know what.
- 33:22Speaker 4: The crazy part about it this time, this is the
- 33:24Speaker 4: problem he gonna have because his vocabulary is not as
- 33:27Speaker 4: expensive as Comba Harris.
- 33:29Speaker 1: That's why he don't want to do it.
- 33:30Speaker 4: Because really really, really good and't gonna work against her
- 33:34Speaker 4: doing beautiful, beautiful.
- 33:36Speaker 1: That's not gonna work. Huge, major, huge, major major.
- 33:41Speaker 4: The little the little hands saying this here, it's not
- 33:43Speaker 4: gonna work. The inside outside, that's not working.
- 33:47Speaker 9: I'm willing to give up Hairy Mason in the Twilight Zone.
- 33:50Speaker 2: We can do it on Me t Me TV.
- 33:52Speaker 7: We can do it on that.
- 33:53Speaker 12: Man.
- 33:54Speaker 8: Wait a minute, you know, one night, just one night,
- 33:58Speaker 8: one night.
- 34:01Speaker 14: You should do it on NPR, tiny desk, let it go,
- 34:11Speaker 14: whatever you need.
- 34:12Speaker 8: But you know, originally he was thinking he was gonna
- 34:15Speaker 8: debate Biden, so that's why he agreed to September tenth.
- 34:19Speaker 8: But come on, I mean, this is craziness. And they're
- 34:23Speaker 8: also talking about they won his mic open. Remember last
- 34:27Speaker 8: time the mics were closed during when the other person
- 34:29Speaker 8: was talking speaks.
- 34:31Speaker 1: He wouldn't cut people off, right, Yeah. Respect.
- 34:34Speaker 8: Yeah, and remember what he did with Hillary. He stood up,
- 34:38Speaker 8: he was walking around the podium and all that kind Yeah,
- 34:41Speaker 8: it was so trude.
- 34:43Speaker 1: Convicts can't get demands now you a convict.
- 34:51Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 34:52Speaker 8: Hopefully they can work it out though, because I think
- 34:55Speaker 8: we definitely want to see this debate debate. Finally, in
- 34:58Speaker 8: entertainment news, Beyond Say launch a Sir Davis Whiskey brand
- 35:02Speaker 8: honoring her late great grandfather. Sir Davis Whiskey is named
- 35:05Speaker 8: after Davis Hoag Beyonce's great grandfather, who stashed whiskey bottles
- 35:10Speaker 8: as a farmer during prohibition in the South. According to
- 35:13Speaker 8: the brand's press release, Queen Bee is partnering with Moet
- 35:16Speaker 8: Hennessy to craft her very own flavor of whiskey that
- 35:19Speaker 8: has a harmony of spice with sublime hints of fruit.
- 35:23Speaker 8: Sir Davis is currently only available for pre order, but
- 35:26Speaker 8: will hit stores in the US, London, Paris, and Tokyo
- 35:29Speaker 8: starting next month, starting in September. So here's a question, guys,
- 35:33Speaker 8: if you could launch your own liquor brand, what would
- 35:37Speaker 8: you name it? And what kind of liquor?
- 35:39Speaker 2: Spirit?
- 35:39Speaker 8: Wine?
- 35:40Speaker 5: Beer?
- 35:40Speaker 2: What would it be? I do wine?
- 35:42Speaker 1: What would you call it?
- 35:44Speaker 2: I don't know what to call it.
- 35:46Speaker 9: It's gonna be to you know what, greasy, shiny whiney.
- 35:55Speaker 8: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we're going
- 35:58Speaker 8: to talk about sports. Parents, right, you're this, you're listening
- 36:03Speaker 8: Hard Morning Show. The city of Lake Mary, Florida, is
- 36:06Speaker 8: celebrating its Little League World Series champions following the team's
- 36:10Speaker 8: dramatic win over Chinese Taipei. The game was tied one
- 36:15Speaker 8: one and went into extra innings when Lake Mary's hunter
- 36:18Speaker 8: Alexander laid down a bunch intended to advance the runner
- 36:22Speaker 8: from second base, but the ball was thrown away and
- 36:25Speaker 8: the runner came around to score. Congratulations to these young athletes.
- 36:29Speaker 8: Congratulations Tommy, Yeah, you are a baseball dad. Tommy, Charlie,
- 36:34Speaker 8: you're cheer in track.
- 36:35Speaker 3: Mom.
- 36:36Speaker 8: There are a lot of parents out there listening who
- 36:38Speaker 8: have student athletes. What kind of advice can you give,
- 36:41Speaker 8: like to sports parents. Oh, Tommy, Carla, you know what
- 36:44Speaker 8: to sports parents.
- 36:45Speaker 2: You gotta let your keyd play.
- 36:47Speaker 9: Let your keyd play, and trying not to be so
- 36:50Speaker 9: into it to where is you know, that's some parents in.
- 36:53Speaker 2: The in the stands that lose their mind.
- 36:55Speaker 9: Man, It's some parents that just you know, a lot
- 36:58Speaker 9: of y'all are living trying live of what you didn't
- 37:02Speaker 9: do through your child, and that's not good. So just
- 37:06Speaker 9: let your kid have fun. I'll go out there. I'll
- 37:07Speaker 9: let my cut my son have fun. Long as ain't
- 37:10Speaker 9: nobody screaming and no coach tripping, I ain't have a
- 37:14Speaker 9: good time. My boy makes some incredible he does some
- 37:18Speaker 9: incredible things, and then he make a lot of mistakes
- 37:20Speaker 9: out there at the same time. I just sit back watch.
- 37:24Speaker 9: If you come out of there crying, Daddy there for you.
- 37:26Speaker 9: If you come out of there doing cartwheels, Daddy for you.
- 37:29Speaker 9: Whatever it is, Daddy got you. But Daddy just don't want.
- 37:32Speaker 9: I just don't like when I see parents that just
- 37:34Speaker 9: lose it. I've seen some parents get into your pumps
- 37:37Speaker 9: with referees. Let your kid have fun, enjoy the game,
- 37:41Speaker 9: enjoy the sport. You're gonna have the kid not even
- 37:43Speaker 9: want to play.
- 37:43Speaker 2: No, damn right.
- 37:46Speaker 11: So let me ask you this, Tommy, because that's that's
- 37:48Speaker 11: kind of the thing, especially with traveling, because this was
- 37:51Speaker 11: this is kind of aau the traveling traveling.
- 37:54Speaker 1: Sports because it gets pricey.
- 37:55Speaker 11: So at what point when your child says, I don't
- 37:59Speaker 11: want to go to practic this anymore.
- 38:00Speaker 1: I don't want to do this anymore. Are you through?
- 38:04Speaker 2: Let me say this.
- 38:05Speaker 9: Let me say this, cause I built that boy a
- 38:08Speaker 9: bandon cage in his backyard. That boy gonna play this game, right.
- 38:16Speaker 9: We ain't got a t out for that money out
- 38:18Speaker 9: of that cage yet. No, no, no, he got a
- 38:20Speaker 9: badon cage.
- 38:21Speaker 1: You pitch in there.
- 38:22Speaker 9: You got the baton machine? No no, no, no oh
- 38:24Speaker 9: you're playing? Yes, yes, yes, he got that. Dad didn't
- 38:28Speaker 9: give you all the tools, you know. Plus, I don't
- 38:31Speaker 9: mind I get out there with you.
- 38:32Speaker 2: Let's do it.
- 38:33Speaker 9: Let's make it happen. I try to catch the ball
- 38:35Speaker 9: from him to me, I'll be like, whoa, hey, look
- 38:36Speaker 9: a hire tom My.
- 38:38Speaker 4: Mama didn't watch me play from my junior year to
- 38:41Speaker 4: my senior She couldn't come to the more games because
- 38:44Speaker 4: she that parent.
- 38:44Speaker 1: Call she's that parent. The game is called football. They
- 38:48Speaker 1: gonna tackle me.
- 38:48Speaker 2: I'm the running back.
- 38:49Speaker 4: I got the ball was too big to be tackling
- 38:52Speaker 4: my son. Mama this year out there trying to roll
- 38:54Speaker 4: off the field. Listen, this is not what you folk
- 38:57Speaker 4: be doing.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Why Daddy keep picking up up by the way, tear
- 39:00Speaker 1: it it back on the stands. It's too much. She
- 39:03Speaker 1: want to fight their whole family.
- 39:07Speaker 2: I love you your helmet, all yeah, all right.
- 39:13Speaker 8: Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour. Thank you, guys.
- 39:16Speaker 8: Don't man don't micro manage me when I'm grilling. We'll
- 39:20Speaker 8: talk about it right after this. You're listening, Hardy Morning Show,
- 39:29Speaker 8: Labor Day Weekend kicks off this Friday, and Jerry on
- 39:32Speaker 8: Facebook rights, don't micro manage me when I'm grilling. Okay, hey,
- 39:36Speaker 8: morning crew. My brother won't grill for large family events anymore.
- 39:40Speaker 8: He won't do it. He feels too many people have
- 39:43Speaker 8: nitpicky requests. He can't handle complaints of cheese or no
- 39:46Speaker 8: cheese or on my burgers. Or well done or medium
- 39:51Speaker 8: sauce or no sauce on the wings, brisket request lean
- 39:54Speaker 8: or moist. He said, we need to find somebody else
- 39:57Speaker 8: to barbecue this Labor Day holiday weekend because as he
- 40:00Speaker 8: is sick of being micromanaged. So Tommy and Junior, he
- 40:04Speaker 8: is the best smoker and pitmaster in our family.
- 40:09Speaker 1: What should we do?
- 40:10Speaker 8: We got all side dishes, we got the potato salad,
- 40:13Speaker 8: the beans, white bread, but we have no barbecue. We
- 40:16Speaker 8: have no man. What are we doing? No star of
- 40:20Speaker 8: the meal?
- 40:22Speaker 9: Listen, listen, And I understand about people being particular. I
- 40:26Speaker 9: don't like it, So listen this brisket and lean of moisse.
- 40:30Speaker 9: When I get through with this brisket, uh huh, you
- 40:32Speaker 9: figure out where a lean part at and what a
- 40:34Speaker 9: moist party at, and you figured out and get the
- 40:36Speaker 9: cutting around it. That's how you're gonna get to what
- 40:38Speaker 9: you want. But all this we want sauce. We don't
- 40:41Speaker 9: want the sauce over there on the table. That's where
- 40:44Speaker 9: the sauce at. If you want some sauce, you can
- 40:47Speaker 9: put it on your wings. I prefer wing with out sauce, okay,
- 40:50Speaker 9: because if it's season, the right way it's.
- 40:52Speaker 2: Gonna be good without it. Okay, I ain't got time
- 40:56Speaker 2: for all that. All this.
- 40:57Speaker 9: We want cheese on my burger, I don't want Hey,
- 41:00Speaker 9: hold your cheese in your hand till I get through
- 41:02Speaker 9: flipping the burger. When I get through flipping, put your
- 41:05Speaker 9: damn cheese on that. I'm not finish city and go
- 41:07Speaker 9: through this with you, dog, I'm not doing.
- 41:08Speaker 8: That angry long time right because Jerry, we're not taking barbecue.
- 41:17Speaker 1: Got on his brother's nerves.
- 41:19Speaker 2: That's what it is.
- 41:20Speaker 1: Yeah, it happened a ready. Matter of fact, y'all, labor,
- 41:23Speaker 1: they're finna be just vegan.
- 41:24Speaker 8: Because y'all potato salad, beans.
- 41:30Speaker 1: What did you say, potato salad everything.
- 41:32Speaker 4: Y'all finna be vegan because Jered, you made your brother, man,
- 41:35Speaker 4: that's what the problem is right now, and your brother
- 41:37Speaker 4: got writing.
- 41:38Speaker 2: Man.
- 41:38Speaker 1: First of all, you are staying to make a briskey.
- 41:40Speaker 1: You gotta be up all night to make the biscuit.
- 41:42Speaker 2: Yeah, a long time.
- 41:44Speaker 1: It's a long time they talking about it.
- 41:47Speaker 3: Lean.
- 41:47Speaker 12: What what.
- 41:50Speaker 9: Everybody gonna be lean? Because they only eating side. Everybody
- 41:53Speaker 9: gonna be right now.
- 41:54Speaker 1: You better washed it.
- 41:55Speaker 4: You better watched the game, because everybody's stomach everybody's stomach
- 41:58Speaker 4: gonna be empty.
- 41:59Speaker 8: That's what potato selling. The beans and white bread, that's
- 42:02Speaker 8: all the same.
- 42:04Speaker 1: Pow it up, because I'm telling you right now, what
- 42:05Speaker 1: ain't happening is a brisket. That's not happening.
- 42:09Speaker 8: Just make a potato sound.
- 42:10Speaker 2: A labor day side cookout, that's what.
- 42:16Speaker 11: Okay, So what can they do to fix this? They
- 42:19Speaker 11: got time labor days this weekend. They gotta make up
- 42:23Speaker 11: with the brother.
- 42:26Speaker 2: What we can do this, what we can do?
- 42:28Speaker 9: Come on, I'm gonna pass out some containers, got sauce
- 42:32Speaker 9: in it. Okay, I'm gonna pass out there with them
- 42:36Speaker 9: little craft cheese slices. I'm gonna pass you know they
- 42:39Speaker 9: in plasts. Gonna pass them out. When you see what
- 42:42Speaker 9: you want, put that sauce on there, put that cheese
- 42:45Speaker 9: on them. But that's how you're gonna do it. Go
- 42:46Speaker 9: down the Symby line and get your own. You making
- 42:49Speaker 9: your your food the way you want to make it.
- 42:51Speaker 2: That's it. But when I lay it out there, that's it.
- 42:53Speaker 2: Don't come asking me about nothing.
- 42:54Speaker 8: This is gonna be like Junior's last barbecue, a disaster.
- 42:59Speaker 2: Might it might be.
- 43:02Speaker 11: Okay, you're telling me to put my own cheese on
- 43:04Speaker 11: my burger. But what if you didn't grill my burger
- 43:07Speaker 11: the way I want it?
- 43:08Speaker 2: And it's not right.
- 43:10Speaker 1: I want to look.
- 43:12Speaker 9: You want a little pink, don't just like you won't it.
- 43:19Speaker 9: Black people don't do nothing lip pink. Black people don't
- 43:22Speaker 9: do no lipping. That burger is gonna be meeting well
- 43:25Speaker 9: to well done. You know we're nothing to do no
- 43:27Speaker 9: lip pink.
- 43:29Speaker 1: But that's the way I like it.
- 43:31Speaker 5: I like it medium well, so I like a.
- 43:33Speaker 8: Little When you go to McDonald's knowing this here, this
- 43:38Speaker 8: is a disaster.
- 43:39Speaker 1: Let me tell you when you go to.
- 43:40Speaker 2: Burger King and the tar brown that ain't no pink.
- 43:42Speaker 2: And now.
- 43:44Speaker 1: Telling me, I say before we get out here, but
- 43:45Speaker 1: this is nothing. This is why you're mad too. He
- 43:48Speaker 1: tried a cooking for old people to old people get
- 43:50Speaker 1: your nerves about their food. That's what.
- 43:55Speaker 10: Here.
- 43:55Speaker 1: You ain't we pushed you.
- 43:59Speaker 2: In no way.
- 44:01Speaker 1: We'll push you up the driveway. You ain't in here.
- 44:05Speaker 8: All this talk about barbecue, Junior, Did you get your fence?
- 44:09Speaker 8: Not in your backyard?
- 44:11Speaker 5: Not yet?
- 44:12Speaker 12: Boo.
- 44:12Speaker 2: We don't have to be ad this bolish.
- 44:14Speaker 8: That sounds like it coming up next to the nephew
- 44:18Speaker 8: and the prank phone call for today. Right after this,
- 44:22Speaker 8: you're listening Hard Morning Show coming up at the top
- 44:27Speaker 8: of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's my
- 44:29Speaker 8: Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is what does
- 44:32Speaker 8: I need space mean? Okay, we're gonna find out when
- 44:37Speaker 8: we get into this letter in just a few what
- 44:40Speaker 8: does I need space mean? We'll find out because right
- 44:43Speaker 8: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call,
- 44:47Speaker 8: and nephew, what do you have for us? Please?
- 44:50Speaker 9: All right, listen, don't don't don't judge me by by
- 44:52Speaker 9: the title. Don't don't judge me by this prank and
- 44:55Speaker 9: what I have done. Don't don't do that to me.
- 44:57Speaker 2: Don't do that. Okay, don't do that? All right?
- 44:59Speaker 9: Today his title is I love your wife more than
- 45:03Speaker 9: you do. Man, Hey, hey, y'all, it can happen. Okay,
- 45:08Speaker 9: it can happen. All right, it can happen. I love
- 45:11Speaker 9: your wife more than you do.
- 45:14Speaker 2: All right, it's post it can happen, all right.
- 45:16Speaker 1: That's wrong with this time?
- 45:17Speaker 12: You don't what what?
- 45:18Speaker 10: What?
- 45:18Speaker 12: What do you you know?
- 45:20Speaker 9: You know what I say the things that a lot
- 45:22Speaker 9: of people want to say that they can't say that
- 45:25Speaker 9: that's what you do.
- 45:26Speaker 2: That's all it is.
- 45:27Speaker 9: Okay, I love your wife more than you do. You
- 45:30Speaker 9: know much you love her, and I know how much
- 45:32Speaker 9: you love her, and I know that I love them
- 45:33Speaker 9: more than you love. So hey, that is I love
- 45:35Speaker 9: your wife more than you do. Let's go catch up.
- 45:37Speaker 10: Hello. Hey, I'm trying to I'm trying to reach tree.
- 45:40Speaker 2: That's right.
- 45:41Speaker 10: Who is this, hey, Trey? How you doing? Man? This
- 45:43Speaker 10: is Milton. Work at your wife Terese Milton. Yeah, yeah,
- 45:48Speaker 10: you probably heard of me before. I've been been at
- 45:50Speaker 10: the job probably about five years now. She ever mentioned me.
- 45:53Speaker 13: No, I don't know, Milton. What's going on?
- 45:56Speaker 10: Everything cool, everything's good, Everything is good. Hey, listen, I
- 46:00Speaker 10: wanted to have a conversation with you.
- 46:03Speaker 9: Man.
- 46:05Speaker 10: I don't really know how to spring this on you
- 46:07Speaker 10: or whatever. But like I said, I've been working at
- 46:10Speaker 10: the spot for five years and been on to Recha
- 46:13Speaker 10: probably like around three. And I guess what I really
- 46:18Speaker 10: want to say is that I didn't I didn't gain
- 46:20Speaker 10: some feelings for Tuikha and oh yeah, whoa whoa whoa
- 46:24Speaker 10: whoa whoa wah wh whoa whoa holo, hold on man, holo.
- 46:27Speaker 2: Holo.
- 46:28Speaker 13: You calling me and you're telling me right now you
- 46:31Speaker 13: have feelings for my wife who you work with, and
- 46:34Speaker 13: you like Teresa because that is my wife. You have
- 46:37Speaker 13: feelings for my wife?
- 46:38Speaker 10: Is that correct?
- 46:39Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 46:39Speaker 10: You know it took me a while to come forward
- 46:41Speaker 10: and say this, but you know I'm man enough now
- 46:45Speaker 10: and I feel like me and you need to talk
- 46:46Speaker 10: about it, right.
- 46:47Speaker 12: Have you know your mand?
- 46:49Speaker 10: No? No, I haven't. Have you got your mind now? Listen,
- 46:52Speaker 10: I'm just letting you know today the day that I
- 46:54Speaker 10: decided I'm not caring this weight on my shoulders no more.
- 46:57Speaker 10: I'm getting it off of me, all right. And at
- 46:59Speaker 10: the end of the day day, I love your wife
- 47:02Speaker 10: more than you do.
- 47:03Speaker 6: What I.
- 47:06Speaker 10: I love your wife more than you do.
- 47:09Speaker 2: Bruh.
- 47:10Speaker 13: So you how long you've been loving my wife? You
- 47:14Speaker 13: tell me how long you've been loving mom?
- 47:15Speaker 12: How long?
- 47:15Speaker 10: How long you feel that you have been in love
- 47:17Speaker 10: with my wife? I mean I'm looking at I know,
- 47:20Speaker 10: I know, I know at least two years.
- 47:23Speaker 13: Does my wife even know this?
- 47:25Speaker 10: I mean, I'm sure she's aware of to a certain extent,
- 47:29Speaker 10: to a certain.
- 47:29Speaker 13: Extent, what what? How how certain of the extent are
- 47:31Speaker 13: we talking?
- 47:32Speaker 10: I mean, you know when we go to lunch together.
- 47:34Speaker 2: She you know.
- 47:35Speaker 10: I mean, I'm sure you know y'all y'all be going
- 47:37Speaker 10: to lunch together.
- 47:38Speaker 13: How long y'all been going to lunch together?
- 47:40Speaker 10: Bro, We've been going to lunch together at least at
- 47:41Speaker 10: least two and a half years. I mean, we go
- 47:43Speaker 10: to lunch together almost every day. I mean we might
- 47:45Speaker 10: miss the day if she go with the girls and
- 47:47Speaker 10: I go with the fellows, so be it. But for
- 47:49Speaker 10: the most part, me and her, me and her pretty
- 47:51Speaker 10: much at lunch together.
- 47:52Speaker 13: God, I need that, bro, bet hell away from my wife.
- 47:58Speaker 10: Bro.
- 47:58Speaker 13: I needed to back up. Ain't no money, no bro,
- 48:02Speaker 13: because you didn't talk enough that you didn't talk to enough.
- 48:05Speaker 13: Ain't no more in love, ain't no more state. You
- 48:07Speaker 13: need to stay this back period, stay the back, man.
- 48:11Speaker 13: I don't want to hear none of that, nothing, nothing,
- 48:13Speaker 13: nothing at all, because come on.
- 48:16Speaker 10: We don't listen.
- 48:18Speaker 2: Listen.
- 48:18Speaker 10: I know all about you, trade everything about it, all right.
- 48:23Speaker 10: I already know how you treat her.
- 48:24Speaker 2: All right.
- 48:26Speaker 13: I'm hot. I'm feeling like a strong sensation right now
- 48:29Speaker 13: because I really want to rechove the phone and just
- 48:31Speaker 13: some break through net right now. That's what I really
- 48:33Speaker 13: want to do. That's what I really want to do.
- 48:36Speaker 13: And why is my wife talking about business outside of
- 48:38Speaker 13: my road hole?
- 48:39Speaker 10: That's what I'm trying to figure out. Hey, all I'm
- 48:41Speaker 10: saying is when we go over to lunch, she let
- 48:42Speaker 10: me know how she's feeling. She let me know what
- 48:44Speaker 10: she's going through.
- 48:45Speaker 12: Let me know.
- 48:46Speaker 13: All stops start with that lunch.
- 48:47Speaker 2: Bro.
- 48:48Speaker 13: I don't want to hear another damn thing about lunch. Bro,
- 48:50Speaker 13: ain't no more lunch. It's from here on out. Bro,
- 48:52Speaker 13: I'm calling me talking about you in love with my wife.
- 48:54Speaker 13: People taking it's a.
- 48:58Speaker 10: Missing I'm milson you at bro?
- 49:01Speaker 2: What do you.
- 49:04Speaker 9: Man?
- 49:04Speaker 10: Man? Listen, calm down with all that energy you got
- 49:07Speaker 10: going on like you're gonna do something, You'm You're.
- 49:09Speaker 13: Not down where you found nothing to work?
- 49:12Speaker 10: You're not You're not finna do nothing. Come right right now,
- 49:15Speaker 10: brom My teams right now.
- 49:16Speaker 13: Something where you are right right now?
- 49:18Speaker 12: Bro?
- 49:18Speaker 13: Right now?
- 49:19Speaker 10: So how about how about when you got laid off,
- 49:22Speaker 10: when you was off for six months and she was
- 49:23Speaker 10: carrying all the all the waiting, saying all the fields
- 49:26Speaker 10: you ain't jump.
- 49:29Speaker 13: All right that you know you know everything? I bet
- 49:33Speaker 13: you know I got to too. So All you need
- 49:35Speaker 13: to know is all you need to know is right.
- 49:37Speaker 13: You're done, Bro, You're done. Bro, Come down, bro?
- 49:42Speaker 2: You know what?
- 49:42Speaker 13: What what milks folk talking about that? He would the
- 49:47Speaker 13: wife saying that he'll love it, talking about lunches, So
- 49:51Speaker 13: the hell up.
- 49:52Speaker 10: While we're in you can thank me for the t
- 49:54Speaker 10: for the suit that you got for Christmas. You can
- 49:56Speaker 10: thank me for that. I picked it out and I
- 49:59Speaker 10: paid for it.
- 50:00Speaker 13: Okay, work, okay, cool cool cool? All right, cool? Well
- 50:04Speaker 13: let'm go in the project right now.
- 50:06Speaker 12: Right now? All right?
- 50:08Speaker 13: You talking about the great sister stuff.
- 50:10Speaker 10: Just thought about it.
- 50:12Speaker 9: Great boot right.
- 50:13Speaker 13: Here with this boot anyway.
- 50:16Speaker 10: I don't like this now, you don't like the suit.
- 50:19Speaker 10: You don't want to sue? Three times now you don't
- 50:21Speaker 10: like it? Told me at lunch when you don't want
- 50:23Speaker 10: to sue. Dude, I'm swear to God, I'm swear to god.
- 50:28Speaker 10: I need to talk to my wife, man, I need
- 50:30Speaker 10: to talk to my wife.
- 50:31Speaker 13: I need to talk to my wife because I.
- 50:34Speaker 10: Man, listen, you know what, I just couldn't hold this back.
- 50:37Speaker 10: No more me living behind in the shadows, and but
- 50:40Speaker 10: I'm over here kicking money out to Teresa when she
- 50:43Speaker 10: needed while you was laid off. I'm helping out. I'm
- 50:46Speaker 10: going you know I'm doing I'm doing too much on money.
- 50:50Speaker 13: So you was getting the money. You kicking the money
- 50:52Speaker 13: when I was laid off.
- 50:53Speaker 10: You're kicking the money, dude. Somebody had to step up
- 50:56Speaker 10: man to me and Teresa's tight, so you know, I
- 50:58Speaker 10: just try to step in and help. So you give
- 51:02Speaker 10: them my wife money?
- 51:03Speaker 13: Is what you're saying.
- 51:04Speaker 10: Do you want me to make you feel better about
- 51:06Speaker 10: the whole time? You want to make you feel better.
- 51:08Speaker 13: You ain't need to make me feel better about. Man
- 51:13Speaker 13: talking about wife that all I got to do is
- 51:15Speaker 13: talk to my wife.
- 51:16Speaker 10: That's that's fine. But can I say something that will
- 51:18Speaker 10: make you feel better? What I'm gonna say this to you, Tray,
- 51:23Speaker 10: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 51:26Speaker 10: Your wife Teresa gotten me the break phone? Calle you
- 51:30Speaker 10: wait what?
- 51:33Speaker 2: Hey? This is Tommy Man.
- 51:34Speaker 10: This nephew tom Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 51:36Speaker 13: You'll want to Steve Harvey Show.
- 51:41Speaker 2: Br BR.
- 51:44Speaker 10: You got.
- 51:49Speaker 12: Ome on? Now?
- 51:50Speaker 10: Hey, I gotta ask you this. You gotta tell me
- 51:52Speaker 10: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio.
- 51:54Speaker 2: Show in the lane.
- 51:57Speaker 13: It's a Steve Harvey Morning Show.
- 51:58Speaker 10: Got it be.
- 52:03Speaker 2: Man, y'all better come on up in here and talk
- 52:05Speaker 2: about how stupid I am.
- 52:06Speaker 8: You better come on, you're stupid. We're all in agreement.
- 52:10Speaker 9: Okay, all right, stupid continues, It continues Saturday night.
- 52:15Speaker 2: The Nephew is going to be in Buffalo, New York.
- 52:19Speaker 9: You know that Nephew Thomas House party comedy Jam Saturday night,
- 52:22Speaker 9: and you don't want to miss its. Shane's Performing Art Center.
- 52:25Speaker 9: Tickets on sale ritten now. Laying in the cut Augusta,
- 52:30Speaker 9: Augusta George Friday, September sixth, The Nephew is coming to town.
- 52:33Speaker 9: That's the Miller Theater. The Miller Theater, tickets on sale
- 52:38Speaker 9: right now. And then I got that what September twenty
- 52:41Speaker 9: eight It is the Women's Empowerment House Party Comedy Jam, Nephew,
- 52:44Speaker 9: Tommy and Friends.
- 52:45Speaker 2: You don't want to miss it.
- 52:46Speaker 9: That's in Columbia, Stop Caca Lackey a big d M Baby,
- 52:50Speaker 9: The Nephew is coming. Tickets on sale right now, you
- 52:54Speaker 9: don't want to miss it. And then it's that lia Fayette.
- 52:56Speaker 9: Oh yeah, oh yeah yeah. We're gonna leave Houston, go
- 53:00Speaker 9: through Beaumont, go through Port at the Beaumont and then
- 53:05Speaker 9: Lake Charles come on about a Lake Choles stop at
- 53:07Speaker 9: to stop at the casino, roll on through.
- 53:09Speaker 2: We hit in Lafayette.
- 53:10Speaker 9: October twenty six, it is Nephew, Tommy and Friends at
- 53:13Speaker 9: the Hyman Center and it is.
- 53:15Speaker 2: Going down Saturday night. Tickets are on sale right now.
- 53:18Speaker 9: That is BMT Productions Presents Iphew, Tommy and Friends.
- 53:24Speaker 8: Okaymor I'm gonna.
- 53:26Speaker 9: Tell y'all about Chicago. I'm coming to Chicago. I'm gonna
- 53:28Speaker 9: tell y'allbout that tomorrow. Okay, all right, Sweetes Steak, I'm
- 53:31Speaker 9: gonna tell y'all about that.
- 53:32Speaker 1: Lady, Yeah, Okay.
- 53:34Speaker 8: Coming up next, it is my Strawberry Letter and the
- 53:36Speaker 8: subject is what does ign need space mean. We'll get
- 53:39Speaker 8: into it find out what she means or he means
- 53:42Speaker 8: about space.
- 53:43Speaker 2: Right after this, you know what the hell that means.
- 53:45Speaker 5: You're listening hard Morning Show.
- 53:49Speaker 8: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
- 53:52Speaker 8: you need advice and relationships, work, dating, sex, parenting, and more,
- 53:57Speaker 8: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and
- 54:00Speaker 8: click Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
- 54:03Speaker 8: live on the air, just like We're gonna read this
- 54:06Speaker 8: one right here, right now, and you never know it
- 54:09Speaker 8: could be yours. So rights.
- 54:12Speaker 2: You heard it, muggel up and hold on tight. We
- 54:14Speaker 2: got it for you. Here. It is Strawberry letter.
- 54:17Speaker 8: Thank you, nephew. Subject, What does I need space mean?
- 54:22Speaker 1: All right?
- 54:22Speaker 8: If you have to ask? Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been
- 54:25Speaker 8: with my boyfriend for seven going on eight years, off
- 54:29Speaker 8: and on. He's broken up with me three times because
- 54:32Speaker 8: he says I'm not domestic enough, or I say the
- 54:34Speaker 8: wrong things when he asked me to do things. Then
- 54:39Speaker 8: he'll call so we can get back together. Just recently,
- 54:42Speaker 8: I moved back in with him, and he got upset
- 54:44Speaker 8: that men were speaking to me at a motorcycle event
- 54:47Speaker 8: when he left me alone for hours at a time.
- 54:50Speaker 8: Mind you, these men were not hitting on me at all,
- 54:53Speaker 8: and he knew one of the guys, and a guy
- 54:55Speaker 8: told him we were all just hanging around and talking.
- 54:58Speaker 8: But the whole time he was over with a group
- 55:01Speaker 8: of women showing off his bike. He said that biking
- 55:04Speaker 8: is a different world and he is allowed to do
- 55:06Speaker 8: anything he wants while he's out riding, he said, because
- 55:10Speaker 8: it's his thing and I'm new to it. I have
- 55:13Speaker 8: to respect him and stop talking to other men when
- 55:16Speaker 8: we're out. He decided to pay me back by staying
- 55:19Speaker 8: out the next night until four am. He wouldn't tell
- 55:22Speaker 8: me where.
- 55:23Speaker 1: He went or who he was with.
- 55:24Speaker 8: After two weeks of not speaking, I decided to approach him.
- 55:28Speaker 8: I told him we have a lot of unresolved issues
- 55:31Speaker 8: and he doesn't value me as his woman. He didn't
- 55:34Speaker 8: say a word. He just stared at me. So I
- 55:37Speaker 8: left the house for a few hours. When I got back,
- 55:39Speaker 8: he told me that he needs space. What does that mean?
- 55:42Speaker 8: He is fifty five years old. I am forty five.
- 55:45Speaker 8: I have no idea what space is for a fifty
- 55:48Speaker 8: five year old man. To make it worse, he tried
- 55:51Speaker 8: to be all lovey dovey with me that night. I
- 55:53Speaker 8: went to sleep in the other room. I have been
- 55:55Speaker 8: rather cold since then, and he hasn't said much to
- 55:58Speaker 8: me either. Do I need to move out for good?
- 56:00Speaker 8: Or should I wait to see if this blows over
- 56:03Speaker 8: like it always does? Please advise, Okay, you don't have
- 56:07Speaker 8: to wait to do anything. Okay, Please please, while you're
- 56:11Speaker 8: listening to our response to this letter, please get your
- 56:14Speaker 8: suitcases out. This is what I need you to do
- 56:17Speaker 8: and start packing right now. Okay, I'm assuming you do
- 56:21Speaker 8: have some place to go, because you asked us. Should
- 56:23Speaker 8: you move, You can pick, you can pack whatever you
- 56:26Speaker 8: need now. You can come back with a friend or relative,
- 56:29Speaker 8: not by yourself, to get the rest of your stuff later,
- 56:32Speaker 8: or you can pack everything now and just be out. Okay,
- 56:36Speaker 8: this man means.
- 56:38Speaker 1: You no good.
- 56:38Speaker 8: How dare he say he doesn't have to tell you
- 56:40Speaker 8: where he's been or who he was out with? How
- 56:43Speaker 8: dare he come in at four in the morning? How
- 56:47Speaker 8: dare he say you know?
- 56:50Speaker 9: Uh?
- 56:50Speaker 1: Whatever he says, you.
- 56:52Speaker 8: Know, just staring at you when you try to approach him. No, no, no,
- 56:56Speaker 8: he doesn't respect you. He treats you horribly. It's time
- 56:59Speaker 8: for you to stand up for yourself. Stop taking this mess.
- 57:02Speaker 8: So go now, get away from him. Don't think about it,
- 57:06Speaker 8: Just get away from him. Then maybe you can see
- 57:09Speaker 8: from the outside looking in who this man really is. Okay,
- 57:14Speaker 8: he's too controlling, Tommy, all right?
- 57:18Speaker 2: What does our need space mean? That means he is
- 57:23Speaker 2: tired of you again and again? All right?
- 57:28Speaker 9: So forty five years old versus fifty five years old?
- 57:32Speaker 9: All right, y'all been doing this for how long, seven
- 57:34Speaker 9: eight years, all right, been doing the seven eight years,
- 57:37Speaker 9: and then we got we done, broke up three times
- 57:40Speaker 9: because what I'm not domestic enough?
- 57:42Speaker 2: What does that mean? You ain't cooking and cleaning? All right?
- 57:45Speaker 9: This house probably just nasty as all get out. You
- 57:47Speaker 9: ain't cooking and cleaning. He can't stand it, but he
- 57:50Speaker 9: thinks he can do whatever he wants to do. This
- 57:52Speaker 9: is nothing but a man being able to say, you
- 57:56Speaker 9: know what, we're gonna take a break. I'm gonna go
- 57:58Speaker 9: do what I want to do, and then we'll come
- 58:01Speaker 9: back get together. Be Here's what I don't understand. When
- 58:04Speaker 9: he tell you he wants a break, then later on
- 58:07Speaker 9: that night we gonna be love it, dubby. He's these
- 58:14Speaker 9: are mixed signals. He ready for you to go, but
- 58:17Speaker 9: he wanted to be love it, dubb it. Before you
- 58:18Speaker 9: leave this?
- 58:20Speaker 2: Does this make sense to you? Have you done the ma'am?
- 58:23Speaker 9: When I look at this, When you say y'all been
- 58:24Speaker 9: together seven eight years, y'all been doing this forever. Ever
- 58:28Speaker 9: since y'all been together, y'all been breaking up, getting back together,
- 58:31Speaker 9: breaking up, getting back together.
- 58:33Speaker 2: That's it.
- 58:33Speaker 9: That's y'all system. That's what y'all got y'all have absolutely nothing.
- 58:38Speaker 9: This is not a This is not a relationship. It
- 58:40Speaker 9: ain't seven eight years epidentally, we ain't talking about getting married.
- 58:44Speaker 9: All he care about is that bike. That bike clean.
- 58:47Speaker 9: That bike is clean, it's outstanding. The bike pulling the
- 58:51Speaker 9: ladies and what he told you you can't get in
- 58:53Speaker 9: my motorcycle world. This ain't got nothing to do with you.
- 58:55Speaker 9: That's how I roll.
- 58:55Speaker 2: When I roll.
- 58:56Speaker 9: You know, you know you can't. Don't, don't, don't, don't
- 58:59Speaker 9: mess this up. I get to talk to the ladies
- 59:01Speaker 9: when you're rolling with me. You stand over there by yourself.
- 59:03Speaker 9: You don't get to talk to nobody else.
- 59:04Speaker 2: You don't. You're gonna You're gonna You're gonna do what
- 59:06Speaker 2: I tear you to do. Get out of this. Come on, lady,
- 59:09Speaker 2: why are you sitting around with this?
- 59:11Speaker 10: Now?
- 59:11Speaker 9: You you you should want more for yourself. Y'all forty five,
- 59:14Speaker 9: fifty five years old, so you you're way too grown
- 59:16Speaker 9: for this. But this makes no sense to me. Then
- 59:19Speaker 9: let me just go and see it like this. Y'all
- 59:21Speaker 9: are not ready to love.
- 59:22Speaker 2: Y'all not.
- 59:23Speaker 8: You better say that.
- 59:25Speaker 2: Y'all are just not You are not ready to love. Baby.
- 59:29Speaker 2: That's not what this show me.
- 59:31Speaker 9: Show me where anywhere in this letter where it looked
- 59:35Speaker 9: like you love this man, I don't see it. I
- 59:38Speaker 9: don't see no love nowhere. All I see is argument.
- 59:41Speaker 9: Love it, dubby, break up for about three four months,
- 59:45Speaker 9: get back together. Argument because you don't do domestic work.
- 59:48Speaker 9: All right, love it, dubb it, we split up again.
- 59:51Speaker 9: That's all this is. It's a cycle. So until you
- 59:54Speaker 9: until you start wanting more for yourself, you are going
- 59:56Speaker 9: to continue to get this. You're going to continue. You're
- 1:00:00Speaker 9: moving around in this cycle, and you're gonna go from
- 1:00:02Speaker 9: forty five to fifty five, and you're gonna look up
- 1:00:04Speaker 9: and you're.
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: Gonna put eighteen years in this mess. Stop.
- 1:00:08Speaker 9: Matter of fact, when you pack up this time, make
- 1:00:10Speaker 9: up your mind and say, you know what, I ain't
- 1:00:12Speaker 9: coming back.
- 1:00:13Speaker 2: This is it.
- 1:00:14Speaker 9: Let me find me a man that is compatible to me.
- 1:00:16Speaker 9: Let me find me a man. And when I ride
- 1:00:17Speaker 9: on his bike, when we rolled in together, we roll
- 1:00:20Speaker 9: in hall, we together, matter of fact, find you and
- 1:00:22Speaker 9: Bichael over there with a minute, and that's that's what.
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: We really met. Yeah, I don't get you on the bike.
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: It due, I like it. That's out there right, all right,
- 1:00:28Speaker 2: we'll have.
- 1:00:28Speaker 8: Part two of our responses to this letter coming up
- 1:00:32Speaker 8: at twenty three minutes after the hour, we'll hear from
- 1:00:34Speaker 8: Junior today's strawberry letter, subject what does I Need Space Mean?
- 1:00:39Speaker 8: We'll get back into it right after this.
- 1:00:41Speaker 5: You're listening Hard Morning Show, and it's.
- 1:00:44Speaker 8: Time now to recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is
- 1:00:47Speaker 8: what does I Need space mean? A forty five year
- 1:00:50Speaker 8: old woman who's dating a fifty five year old man
- 1:00:54Speaker 8: wrote in they've been together for seven going on eight years.
- 1:00:58Speaker 8: But here's the deal. They've been off and on for
- 1:01:01Speaker 8: seven or eight years. So you know what that means.
- 1:01:04Speaker 8: When he's off, he's with someone else. He's just not
- 1:01:07Speaker 8: on with her, right then? Yeah, huh, yeah, that's what
- 1:01:13Speaker 8: off is. Off is off with you, not with someone else.
- 1:01:18Speaker 8: Then he'll call to get back together, and she does
- 1:01:20Speaker 8: what take him back? She take him back? She takes
- 1:01:24Speaker 8: him back. She just recently moved back in the house.
- 1:01:27Speaker 8: He took her to a motorcycle event. He got upset
- 1:01:30Speaker 8: because other men were talking to her, But meanwhile he
- 1:01:33Speaker 8: was over leaving her by herself for hours while he
- 1:01:36Speaker 8: was over showing off his bike to some other women.
- 1:01:39Speaker 8: And he told her that was his world and he
- 1:01:41Speaker 8: could do whatever he wanted to do. She didn't like it,
- 1:01:44Speaker 8: so he stayed out all night, came back in the
- 1:01:46Speaker 8: house at four a m. She confronted him in a
- 1:01:51Speaker 8: nice way. She says she decided to approach him because
- 1:01:54Speaker 8: they stopped speaking for two weeks. She told him he
- 1:01:56Speaker 8: didn't value her as a woman. He stopped speaking to her,
- 1:01:59Speaker 8: so she left the house for a few hours. When
- 1:02:02Speaker 8: he got back, he told her. When she got back,
- 1:02:05Speaker 8: he told her that he needed space. So she wants
- 1:02:07Speaker 8: to know what that means. We all know what I
- 1:02:09Speaker 8: need space means. It means you're off again. That's what
- 1:02:14Speaker 8: that means. That's what that means. And then he wanted
- 1:02:18Speaker 8: to be lovey dovey that night with her, so she
- 1:02:21Speaker 8: said she slept in the other room. She's been rather
- 1:02:23Speaker 8: cold since then. She's asking the question does she need
- 1:02:28Speaker 8: to move out for good? Or should she wait to
- 1:02:29Speaker 8: see if this blows over like it always does. Tommy
- 1:02:33Speaker 8: and I both said she needs to leave, and she's
- 1:02:35Speaker 8: absolutely right. He does not value her. Junior.
- 1:02:38Speaker 4: What you got, you know, Shirley, Once again, I'm diving
- 1:02:42Speaker 4: my brain because I have experienced in this area too.
- 1:02:45Speaker 4: My mom and my stepdad they blown to a motorcyclub.
- 1:02:48Speaker 4: I've seen these people.
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: I know how it goes.
- 1:02:52Speaker 4: Lisia, Carol got a Harley, my stepdad have a Harley.
- 1:02:55Speaker 4: They got a motorcyc club. I know when they pull
- 1:02:57Speaker 4: up the Galuxy Motorcycle Week. I seen it, been there,
- 1:03:01Speaker 4: seen all this.
- 1:03:03Speaker 12: Now.
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: I hear what you said, Tommy and Sureley, y'all is right,
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: But that's nothing my take on it. Now, y'all are right.
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: Here's the thing. You're in a motorcycle club. Do your part.
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: You know what you're supposed to do.
- 1:03:16Speaker 4: What exactly what the man said. You know you're in
- 1:03:20Speaker 4: the mozyc club. We ain't talking about a country club.
- 1:03:22Speaker 4: Were talking about a motorcycle club. You know exactly what's
- 1:03:26Speaker 4: supposed to happen over here. That man can talk to
- 1:03:29Speaker 4: all the women see his motorcycle. Like Thomas said, his
- 1:03:32Speaker 4: bike is nice. That's why all the women come around.
- 1:03:34Speaker 4: But you're just gonna stand there and sit behind him.
- 1:03:36Speaker 4: He got a vest on with no shirt, got a
- 1:03:41Speaker 4: belly too.
- 1:03:42Speaker 8: And you're speaking of from experience.
- 1:03:44Speaker 2: Oh, I've seen it.
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: I seen all of this.
- 1:03:46Speaker 4: You've seen it now, So if you don't want to
- 1:03:48Speaker 4: be in the motorcycle club since you like these type
- 1:03:50Speaker 4: of men, this type of environment. Your next thing, trail
- 1:03:54Speaker 4: rides your asses out there. You're going for mostc clubs
- 1:03:59Speaker 4: to trail rides for to be out there. You just
- 1:04:03Speaker 4: both of y'all read horses on motorcycles. Everybody got some chaps.
- 1:04:07Speaker 4: You could be out there.
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: Either you want to build a back of a motorcycle
- 1:04:11Speaker 1: or would be back of a horse. Pick yourrs.
- 1:04:14Speaker 8: Respect her, he doesn't.
- 1:04:15Speaker 1: He keep faving. That's what I just take that. That's
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: how they do it. That's still now.
- 1:04:22Speaker 4: If you like not being respected, stay stay stay over there. Okay,
- 1:04:26Speaker 4: motorcycle club trail ride? Which one you want? Either you
- 1:04:30Speaker 4: want to either you want to stay out on a
- 1:04:34Speaker 4: motorcycle or you want to stay out on the horse.
- 1:04:36Speaker 1: Which one?
- 1:04:37Speaker 2: Pick one lot your crowd. Either way it's a rough
- 1:04:42Speaker 2: ride your ride.
- 1:04:44Speaker 8: Sure, Wow, she just does better for herself.
- 1:04:50Speaker 4: Yeah, like Tommy said, you need to go find another group,
- 1:04:53Speaker 4: respect yourself.
- 1:04:54Speaker 1: Have you tried a tennis club, golf club? Okay, have
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: you found something, but no pickle ball, pickle.
- 1:05:02Speaker 4: Pickle ball club anything, Because these are the men that
- 1:05:05Speaker 4: are out there, all of us.
- 1:05:08Speaker 8: How they treat you in a motorcycle club.
- 1:05:10Speaker 4: Though, what sure worse than that? What which is you
- 1:05:15Speaker 4: want to be out there and you don't even know
- 1:05:18Speaker 4: that that you you already know that you you deserve more.
- 1:05:21Speaker 4: But this has been going on for seven.
- 1:05:23Speaker 1: Going on eight years.
- 1:05:24Speaker 12: Eight years.
- 1:05:25Speaker 1: That's you've been in a motorcycle club when you was
- 1:05:27Speaker 1: in your thirties. Wow, now yeah, you've still.
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: You you have allowed this?
- 1:05:34Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, she definitely like allowed it. But yeah, she
- 1:05:38Speaker 8: obviously doesn't know better, because if she knew better, I
- 1:05:40Speaker 8: think she would do better. She's starting to now, she
- 1:05:43Speaker 8: started and getting it. She told him he didn't value her,
- 1:05:45Speaker 8: She did say that, but I hope she values it.
- 1:05:48Speaker 1: Get your hammet off that back seat, put it on
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: and going back and ride off. That's what you're doing
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: on his bike?
- 1:05:54Speaker 8: Steal his body?
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: Yeah, right up under his pectorials and hold, could we
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: fin to make a left turn?
- 1:06:01Speaker 4: It's ride, that's you ride? Please will get to our destination.
- 1:06:09Speaker 4: Get off the bike because you can't go but one
- 1:06:11Speaker 4: hundred and fifty miles that time. We get to the
- 1:06:12Speaker 4: gas station, go in there and get him something to
- 1:06:14Speaker 4: drink and let him fill up the motorcycle, because that's
- 1:06:17Speaker 4: what it is, one hundred and fifty miles, that's all you.
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: You chose this life, you know what this was. Now
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: you don't like motorcycles, but then go ahead the trail rise.
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: At least they got a band for you out there.
- 1:06:31Speaker 9: Maybe somebody joining us in the Corvette Club. You know,
- 1:06:33Speaker 9: they got a bunch of cord.
- 1:06:36Speaker 1: God, you ain't gonna take.
- 1:06:38Speaker 8: It out now, please, yes, you don't want to spend
- 1:06:41Speaker 8: another seven or eight years with this life.
- 1:06:44Speaker 4: Uh uh?
- 1:06:45Speaker 8: All right, guys, thank you.
- 1:06:47Speaker 5: Well.
- 1:06:48Speaker 8: You can post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at
- 1:06:50Speaker 8: Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out
- 1:06:54Speaker 8: the check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free
- 1:06:57Speaker 8: iHeartRadio app for it never sounded so good. Coming up
- 1:07:00Speaker 8: in forty six minutes after the hour, Junior and Sports Talk.
- 1:07:04Speaker 8: Right after this you're listening.
- 1:07:07Speaker 5: Morning show.
- 1:07:08Speaker 8: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What
- 1:07:11Speaker 8: you got Junior?
- 1:07:12Speaker 4: Okay, well you know what we're getting close, Shirly, Okay,
- 1:07:14Speaker 4: not this Saturday, but the following Saturday, September seventh, at
- 1:07:18Speaker 4: the Battery in Atlanta. I told you it's happened. My
- 1:07:21Speaker 4: five k run and fun walk here in Atlanta, curious
- 1:07:24Speaker 4: Hope is doing it. Man, I'm excited. I got Dunkin Donuts,
- 1:07:27Speaker 4: giving your coffee in the morning. When you leave pizza from.
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: Papa John's, you can pat your fault. You're all free pizza.
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: It's not even gonna charge nothing. But you're gonna have
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: a great time.
- 1:07:36Speaker 2: It's gonna be wild.
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: We got we got, we got a slash. You can
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: take the pizza. That's all time.
- 1:07:42Speaker 2: Okay, at the battery, you can do this this home
- 1:07:44Speaker 2: in Atlanta. Braidze.
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: We walking around the stadium. It's gonna beautiful.
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: All them donuts and run that five k Now, you
- 1:07:50Speaker 2: gotta eat just a half of doughnut time.
- 1:07:52Speaker 4: I don't know how this is gonnaffect they body because
- 1:07:54Speaker 4: I'm not running, you're not sitting.
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do nothing that. I'm just there.
- 1:08:00Speaker 2: Thing that matter.
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: I paid for the stadium just for your time. Got
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: a splash pad for the kids. They can play in
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: the ward and everything got ploted, classes burn one thousand classes,
- 1:08:10Speaker 1: got all this stuff.
- 1:08:11Speaker 2: But I'm not running.
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: Don't look for me.
- 1:08:12Speaker 4: When you see me, I'm gonna say on your mark,
- 1:08:14Speaker 4: get said go. When you take off, you ain't gonna
- 1:08:17Speaker 4: see me till.
- 1:08:17Speaker 1: You come back. But they're so you get back. Doesn't matter.
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: That had nothing to do with me in sports.
- 1:08:24Speaker 4: But we got to talk about college football is back.
- 1:08:27Speaker 4: It is happening week zeros last week. Matter of fact,
- 1:08:30Speaker 4: that this is crazy already in college football. Now it's changed.
- 1:08:35Speaker 4: It's changed, college football change.
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: Did you say week zero?
- 1:08:38Speaker 4: Yeah, they had Week zero in college football. They call
- 1:08:41Speaker 4: it week zero week zero. The first game was in
- 1:08:44Speaker 4: It was in Dublin, Ireland. Florida State, Georgia Tech, Georgia
- 1:08:48Speaker 4: Tech meet Florida State, twenty four to twenty one.
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: Oh, I got a boy on that for Georgia Tech.
- 1:08:54Speaker 4: Ye, yes, they won twenty four to twenty one. Well,
- 1:08:56Speaker 4: here's the crazy thing about it. This year in college
- 1:08:58Speaker 4: football there is is no longer four teams. It is
- 1:09:02Speaker 4: twelve teams now for the college football playoffs. Twelve for
- 1:09:05Speaker 4: the playoffs twelve. Yes, there was no it's not four.
- 1:09:11Speaker 4: It's twelve teams now this year, this first year. So
- 1:09:14Speaker 4: what does that mean from for that means to play
- 1:09:17Speaker 4: for the national championship. Twelve teams now instead of four teams, right,
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: I got that's twelve. It used to be just four, right,
- 1:09:25Speaker 4: But now we take the top twelve teams such as Now, yeah,
- 1:09:29Speaker 4: it was a big controversy about this because now you
- 1:09:31Speaker 4: got twelve teams, So how do you pick the twelve
- 1:09:34Speaker 4: that's gonna play.
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: The national championship.
- 1:09:36Speaker 2: That's gonna be a mess too, It's gonna be a mess.
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: That's crazy.
- 1:09:40Speaker 8: Surely they've worked it out or they wouldn't have expanded.
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: They don't know they're doing it. This is the first year.
- 1:09:45Speaker 1: But I'm telling you too many. It's too many. Who wins,
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: who loses, who don't know.
- 1:09:52Speaker 4: We're just gonna see what happens. But this is the
- 1:09:53Speaker 4: first team here. We have twelve teams in the college
- 1:09:57Speaker 4: football playoffs. We won't have to see what happens.
- 1:10:00Speaker 9: I want from Texas Annial, Baby, let's I'll bet.
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: You Lias, y'all in the CC y'all in the hardest conference.
- 1:10:05Speaker 9: I know it.
- 1:10:06Speaker 8: I know it all right, Junior, thank you. Coming up
- 1:10:09Speaker 8: at the top of the hour, a man on social
- 1:10:11Speaker 8: media guys needs some advice. He says, I'm drawing a
- 1:10:13Speaker 8: line when it comes to babysitting. We'll talk about it
- 1:10:16Speaker 8: right after this.
- 1:10:17Speaker 2: What might be drawing these lines? And I don't know.
- 1:10:21Speaker 5: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
- 1:10:26Speaker 8: All right, guys, so Donnie on Steve Harvey FM. Right,
- 1:10:29Speaker 8: My wife and are a b thing when it comes
- 1:10:31Speaker 8: to babysitting her sister's kids, otherwise known as our niece
- 1:10:35Speaker 8: and nephew. They're great kids, don't get me wrong, but
- 1:10:38Speaker 8: my wife's sister is, in my opinion, clearly taking advantage
- 1:10:42Speaker 8: of us. The sisters recently divorced and rediscovering herself, so
- 1:10:47Speaker 8: she's out partying all of the time. It's to the
- 1:10:51Speaker 8: point now where she doesn't even call us and asks.
- 1:10:54Speaker 8: She just drops the kids off to spend the night
- 1:10:56Speaker 8: while she goes off and goes out and does her thing.
- 1:10:59Speaker 8: We've even cancel our plans on occasion because it wasn't
- 1:11:02Speaker 8: fair to the kids to put them in the middle
- 1:11:03Speaker 8: of this. A talk with sis needs to be had,
- 1:11:06Speaker 8: but my wife doesn't want to do it because she'll
- 1:11:09Speaker 8: be the bad guy. The way I said, Miss in
- 1:11:12Speaker 8: the club needs to be put in check and her
- 1:11:14Speaker 8: kids should be more of a priority than her newly
- 1:11:16Speaker 8: discovered party and kicking it lifestyle. Is there a middle
- 1:11:20Speaker 8: ground to this? That's what they want to know.
- 1:11:23Speaker 2: What do you think she got it. She got a call.
- 1:11:26Speaker 9: She out of control. Yeah, she's out of control, but
- 1:11:29Speaker 9: we gotta we gotta give her some understanding on this
- 1:11:31Speaker 9: is what you gotta do. Listen, when you want us
- 1:11:33Speaker 9: to take care of these kids, and you're gonna have to, uh,
- 1:11:35Speaker 9: you're going to call and ask us if we wanted to.
- 1:11:38Speaker 2: But what I'm not doing is messing up plans.
- 1:11:41Speaker 9: And I'm supposed to me and my wife supposed to
- 1:11:43Speaker 9: go do something because you just want to drop your
- 1:11:45Speaker 9: kids off and we've going to change these locks.
- 1:11:46Speaker 2: You're going to be walking in and out.
- 1:11:47Speaker 9: Of house when you want to drop your kids out
- 1:11:50Speaker 9: whenever you kids, Yeah, you're just dropping your kids out.
- 1:11:53Speaker 9: Turning around, I didnet, came out to shower and I
- 1:11:55Speaker 9: done got dressed them. I walked through the kitchen and
- 1:11:57Speaker 9: hid these kids. Howe hey, y'all get here. When y'all
- 1:11:59Speaker 9: came in, he no, no, no, we're not doing that.
- 1:12:01Speaker 9: I need to know when you're bringing your kids to
- 1:12:03Speaker 9: my house. That's not that's not that you can't roll
- 1:12:06Speaker 9: like that baby girl. I'm sorry. Y'all got to check that.
- 1:12:09Speaker 9: She must be in her twenties or early early mid
- 1:12:12Speaker 9: mid twenties or something, that's what it sounds like.
- 1:12:13Speaker 2: We all been in our twenties. We know we had
- 1:12:15Speaker 2: a great time, Okay, but no.
- 1:12:18Speaker 8: Just trying to get these kids a stepdaddy.
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: We got the but you're not going to get it
- 1:12:22Speaker 2: while they at my house. Okay, Junior, I don't, don't.
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: I don't.
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: I don't like this question because you know, first of all,
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: there are no great kids.
- 1:12:32Speaker 2: I was one of them. I was.
- 1:12:33Speaker 1: I'm not a great kid, that's what they said.
- 1:12:35Speaker 4: And then you know, my parents are only twenty years
- 1:12:37Speaker 4: older than me, so my mom had me when she
- 1:12:40Speaker 4: was twenty twent My mom was twenty seven. She was
- 1:12:41Speaker 4: out there in the streets too, juice club and everything.
- 1:12:43Speaker 4: I've been a kid getting dropped off everywhere.
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: I've seen about you. I have been over these people house.
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: I've been to my offle house, my Ain't house. Everything.
- 1:12:54Speaker 1: I started drinking beer five to ask you what that's why,
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: this is why y'all need to have.
- 1:13:02Speaker 2: You need to have.
- 1:13:03Speaker 1: Y'all need to look out for these kids. They need
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: a place to go. I'll be that, glad as the
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: house I've been ald my cousin glad, I've been there.
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to know the eyes of brothers at Fine.
- 1:13:17Speaker 14: Why do I know?
- 1:13:17Speaker 1: Breeding fast? No pants? I got a pepper home with
- 1:13:24Speaker 1: no pants. I just got a shirt. They dropped me off.
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: They dropped me off, just like that. I just got
- 1:13:35Speaker 1: a Polo shirt on, no pants, typer socks. I'm one
- 1:13:39Speaker 1: of the PIDs.
- 1:13:40Speaker 4: I wanted the kids, the kid. I wanted the kids.
- 1:13:44Speaker 4: Carlor Shrilon, tell me I was one of the kids.
- 1:13:47Speaker 4: Oh god, y'all, y'all that for the kids. Don't bring
- 1:13:50Speaker 4: the kids. Please let me go somewhere. I go everywhere
- 1:13:53Speaker 4: but to bed.
- 1:13:54Speaker 1: That's what I do. I go everywhere but to bed.
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: This is what should be up at two in the
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: morning watching games.
- 1:14:00Speaker 7: Why?
- 1:14:02Speaker 2: This is why I always start?
- 1:14:03Speaker 11: Why?
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: Why drinking?
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: Why am I drinking?
- 1:14:05Speaker 5: Old Milwaukee?
- 1:14:06Speaker 4: Why do I have an old mill walker at five?
- 1:14:10Speaker 4: My mama not gonna pick me up till tomorrow?
- 1:14:12Speaker 14: What you said, Tommy?
- 1:14:14Speaker 2: Can he hearn?
- 1:14:18Speaker 12: Want?
- 1:14:19Speaker 3: Yes?
- 1:14:20Speaker 9: I'm This is why I always the late night daycare
- 1:14:23Speaker 9: would be a great business. So you got somewhere to
- 1:14:25Speaker 9: drop your kids?
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: Oh my god, why do I know?
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: Johnny Taylor, Lady Johnny, why do they dropped off over here?
- 1:14:39Speaker 1: They dropped me off. They dropped me.
- 1:14:42Speaker 4: I asked to be here, they dropped me off. I'm seven,
- 1:14:45Speaker 4: my mama twenty seven, Oh my daddy going all night.
- 1:14:48Speaker 8: Judy's got your girl and gun.
- 1:14:50Speaker 4: All of it is gone, and I got an old
- 1:14:54Speaker 4: Milwaukee though. Why y'all give me the old Milwaukee because
- 1:14:56Speaker 4: you got to get me to go to sleep?
- 1:14:58Speaker 1: I walk?
- 1:14:58Speaker 8: It's good, all right, Well more, This Ignorance Show coming
- 1:15:03Speaker 8: up in twenty minutes after, right after the Junior Your Life.
- 1:15:09Speaker 5: You're listening hard morning show.
- 1:15:14Speaker 8: All right, guys, this story is so crazy. NASA leaders
- 1:15:18Speaker 8: announced Saturday that the two Boeing Starliner NASA astronauts Barry
- 1:15:22Speaker 8: Butch Wilmore and Sanita Sonny Williams, they're going to remain
- 1:15:26Speaker 8: stuck in space for about a lengthy eight months stay
- 1:15:29Speaker 8: aboard the International Space Station. Wilmore and Williams will have
- 1:15:34Speaker 8: to wait it out until February of next year, twenty
- 1:15:37Speaker 8: twenty five, after a flight readiness review determined that it's
- 1:15:41Speaker 8: too risky right now for them to return to Earth
- 1:15:44Speaker 8: on the Boeing aircraft on the Boeing spacecraft. NASA leaders
- 1:15:48Speaker 8: said that on Saturday, now, this is when they got
- 1:15:51Speaker 8: to space.
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: June sixth of this year.
- 1:15:54Speaker 8: Okay, they were supposed to only be there for a week.
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: A week, yes, it's August. We've been there since June.
- 1:16:03Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, it's a lot of things going on. What
- 1:16:05Speaker 8: are they eating while they're up there?
- 1:16:07Speaker 2: I don't care what they're eating, but I'm going to
- 1:16:09Speaker 2: tell you this my labor day. We're doing it. We're
- 1:16:12Speaker 2: doing it.
- 1:16:13Speaker 1: I'm just telling you.
- 1:16:15Speaker 2: We're doing it.
- 1:16:16Speaker 1: I'm telling you I'm doing it.
- 1:16:17Speaker 2: Ain't no gravity you come. Look, I'm finna float right
- 1:16:21Speaker 2: into you. I'm telling you right now my labor day.
- 1:16:27Speaker 9: Matter of fact, when we come back, it's gonna be
- 1:16:29Speaker 9: three people coming back. I'm just telling you.
- 1:16:32Speaker 2: Somebody you are in the baby, somebody pregnant on the
- 1:16:35Speaker 2: way back.
- 1:16:35Speaker 9: When I'm just telling it's gonna be we're bringing another
- 1:16:37Speaker 9: person back with us.
- 1:16:39Speaker 8: Well, I did want to tell you what they were
- 1:16:41Speaker 8: eating up there.
- 1:16:42Speaker 2: They're eating. I don't care. What happens in space stays
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: in space.
- 1:16:45Speaker 8: Okay, if you're pregnant, Oh wow, I hope they come
- 1:16:51Speaker 8: back soon, coming up in thirty three minutes after we'll
- 1:16:53Speaker 8: play around it. Would you rather right after this you're listening.
- 1:16:58Speaker 5: Morning show, It's.
- 1:17:00Speaker 8: Time now for a round it. Would you rather would
- 1:17:02Speaker 8: you rather be a moderator at the next debate, if
- 1:17:06Speaker 8: there is one, or would you rather moderate your family's
- 1:17:09Speaker 8: next holiday meal? Argument?
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: Which one?
- 1:17:12Speaker 9: Oh?
- 1:17:13Speaker 2: No, I want that debate?
- 1:17:14Speaker 7: You talk?
- 1:17:17Speaker 1: Yes, debate?
- 1:17:18Speaker 2: Oh no, give it all right? Okay?
- 1:17:21Speaker 8: Would you rather eat cold Chinese food or cold fried
- 1:17:25Speaker 8: chicken for breakfast?
- 1:17:26Speaker 2: Fried chicken?
- 1:17:27Speaker 1: Fried chicken?
- 1:17:28Speaker 10: Oh?
- 1:17:28Speaker 9: You ever seen cold Chinese food? All that stuff that's
- 1:17:32Speaker 9: stuck together, that's too much going on.
- 1:17:34Speaker 2: That's what you got.
- 1:17:36Speaker 9: I got the noodles in there, you got the broccoli
- 1:17:38Speaker 9: in there, you got you got something in there and
- 1:17:40Speaker 9: look like garlic. But it ain't golic?
- 1:17:41Speaker 2: What is that?
- 1:17:42Speaker 10: What is that?
- 1:17:43Speaker 7: What is that?
- 1:17:45Speaker 2: I don't never knowd like?
- 1:17:46Speaker 10: Is it?
- 1:17:50Speaker 8: Okay? Would you rather be in jail for five years
- 1:17:53Speaker 8: or would you rather be in a coma for ten years?
- 1:17:56Speaker 12: Oh?
- 1:17:56Speaker 2: No, no, I'm going in that comall.
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: Goodnight.
- 1:18:01Speaker 2: I'm not on the D block. I'm not on D
- 1:18:03Speaker 2: block at all or thinking about it.
- 1:18:06Speaker 1: Sure, I'm gonna talk.
- 1:18:07Speaker 4: I think I have to take this com I mean,
- 1:18:09Speaker 4: I'm forty six now, wake up in fifty six. It
- 1:18:11Speaker 4: was a good sleep, that's I know.
- 1:18:13Speaker 9: Sleep well, Risky yeah, other than other than getting other
- 1:18:18Speaker 9: than getting shanked and got my head whooped them.
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: Yeah, we ain't doing it.
- 1:18:23Speaker 8: Would you rather have a terrible boss but a great job,
- 1:18:27Speaker 8: or would you rather have a great boss but a
- 1:18:29Speaker 8: terrible job?
- 1:18:30Speaker 2: But we got the first one? Tell me we got
- 1:18:37Speaker 2: what step it?
- 1:18:38Speaker 9: Steve is a terrible ball, y'all got that, y'all ain't
- 1:18:42Speaker 9: gonna I can say what I want to say. Y'all know,
- 1:18:43Speaker 9: damn well, I'll tell him the truth. Y'all know I'm
- 1:18:46Speaker 9: telling the truth. Y'all know Steve ain't worth for damn man.
- 1:18:48Speaker 9: Y'all know that, y'all.
- 1:18:49Speaker 8: He's the worst.
- 1:18:51Speaker 2: He is the worst boss ever.
- 1:18:53Speaker 1: But we got good jobs, don't great great.
- 1:18:55Speaker 2: Uncle, terrible boss?
- 1:19:01Speaker 9: He can worst anthics is worse than our for sure,
- 1:19:11Speaker 9: Oh regged ass mall, Steve boy.
- 1:19:13Speaker 2: I'll tell y'all topic.
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: But we got great jobs though, right, we got great job?
- 1:19:19Speaker 8: Said, come to work when you're sick, take off.
- 1:19:24Speaker 13: When you're feeling good.
- 1:19:26Speaker 5: It's terrible.
- 1:19:29Speaker 2: Why would you take off on Tuesday? Why would you
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: do it on Thursday? Make it a big WEEKI And
- 1:19:33Speaker 2: that doesn't make the worst CEO ever ever?
- 1:19:41Speaker 8: All right, would you rather live a long life in
- 1:19:45Speaker 8: poverty or a short life as a billionaire.
- 1:19:48Speaker 2: Like tomorrow, y'all. I mean, what is we talking about?
- 1:19:51Speaker 8: Okay, just say you'll die young as opposed to living
- 1:19:54Speaker 8: out a long life into your eighties and nineties.
- 1:19:57Speaker 2: Man, we just live a long, poe ass life.
- 1:20:00Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that. No, I'm gonna here
- 1:20:02Speaker 1: for a short life.
- 1:20:03Speaker 9: He give me, and so I'm gonna get that billion.
- 1:20:05Speaker 9: I'm gonna make it work. I'll make that billion pop
- 1:20:07Speaker 9: in five. I ain't gonna lot that.
- 1:20:09Speaker 2: I'll be ready to go.
- 1:20:10Speaker 8: Thanks, guys, coming up in forty nine minutes after. It's
- 1:20:14Speaker 8: our last break of the day and we'll close out
- 1:20:15Speaker 8: the show right after this.
- 1:20:18Speaker 5: You're listening hard morning show.
- 1:20:20Speaker 8: All right here we are our last break of the day. Wow,
- 1:20:24Speaker 8: it's been a good day, a fun day, and Steve,
- 1:20:28Speaker 8: you can take it away.
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: Here it is.
- 1:20:30Speaker 7: You know, I was thinking and something that's helped me
- 1:20:35Speaker 7: in my lifetime, and it was a difficult lesson to
- 1:20:38Speaker 7: learn for me. But I finally got it together years ago.
- 1:20:43Speaker 2: But it took me some time.
- 1:20:45Speaker 7: I must admit I spent all of my twenties and
- 1:20:48Speaker 7: thirties not understanding this, and even a little bit now,
- 1:20:55Speaker 7: just mostly twenties and thirties. So I'm gonna share it
- 1:20:59Speaker 7: with you, and I want you to understand that I'm saying.
- 1:21:02Speaker 7: I'm saying all this in love. You can't share everything
- 1:21:10Speaker 7: with everybody. You know that that that really seems so simple.
- 1:21:18Speaker 7: But I can't tell you how many times you inadvertently
- 1:21:22Speaker 7: damage yourself, your opportunity, and your journey by not understanding
- 1:21:27Speaker 7: this real simple rule.
- 1:21:29Speaker 2: You cannot. You cannot share everything with everybody. You can't.
- 1:21:36Speaker 7: You can't share your visions with everybody because they don't
- 1:21:41Speaker 7: really care. They then everybody is not genuinely interested in
- 1:21:49Speaker 7: your career, goals, your visions.
- 1:21:51Speaker 2: Your hopes for tomorrow.
- 1:21:54Speaker 7: A lot of people you share stuff with don't even
- 1:21:58Speaker 7: understand the thing that you telling this in your imagination.
- 1:22:03Speaker 2: They don't even get it.
- 1:22:04Speaker 7: And I understand they don't get what's in your imagination
- 1:22:07Speaker 7: because it's something they could never ever possibly imagine. And basically,
- 1:22:14Speaker 7: the number one reason you can't share everything with everybody
- 1:22:17Speaker 7: is just real simple. Most people don't care, you know,
- 1:22:21Speaker 7: They'll just sit up and listen to you and look
- 1:22:23Speaker 7: just as concerned as soon as you walk away. Don't
- 1:22:27Speaker 7: give you the idea, the thought you had another moment
- 1:22:31Speaker 7: of consideration. They don't care, But do you understand something
- 1:22:37Speaker 7: they don't have to. It's perfectly okay that they don't
- 1:22:42Speaker 7: see your vision, share your vision. That it's okay that
- 1:22:45Speaker 7: they're not genuinely interested. It's okay to they don't understand
- 1:22:48Speaker 7: what's coming out of your imagination. It's perfectly fine that
- 1:22:52Speaker 7: they don't care, because there is really no one else
- 1:22:57Speaker 7: more critical to your journey or your success than God. Nobody.
- 1:23:04Speaker 2: There is no one.
- 1:23:05Speaker 7: Living that's more critical to your journey or your success
- 1:23:09Speaker 7: than God.
- 1:23:09Speaker 2: Period.
- 1:23:10Speaker 7: Now, if you're blessed and you got to support a
- 1:23:14Speaker 7: spouse jackpot, that's bonus. Or you found someone in your
- 1:23:19Speaker 7: life that's your ride or die, that's bonus.
- 1:23:23Speaker 2: Or you got one of your.
- 1:23:24Speaker 7: Friends that's with you through thick and thin and it's
- 1:23:28Speaker 7: hard to find them but they exist, then that's a bonus.
- 1:23:32Speaker 7: The rest of the people, really listen to me, they
- 1:23:36Speaker 7: don't matter. They don't matter because they don't matter. It
- 1:23:44Speaker 7: doesn't matter what they think, say, feel, or give you
- 1:23:48Speaker 7: back because it's irrelevant, non important, significant to your journey
- 1:23:54Speaker 7: or your success. You've got to get this through your
- 1:23:57Speaker 7: head because I spent two much time sharing everything with everybody,
- 1:24:04Speaker 7: thinking I was sharing it in hopes that they might
- 1:24:07Speaker 7: have a piece of information for me. The majority of
- 1:24:09Speaker 7: people I shared it with didn't have nothing from me.
- 1:24:12Speaker 7: I wasted time sitting up there, and then I tell
- 1:24:15Speaker 7: you something else that happened. You can tell your big
- 1:24:18Speaker 7: dreams to small minded people if you want to. And
- 1:24:23Speaker 7: now you've given one of the devil's imps the information
- 1:24:26Speaker 7: that he needs to provide obstruction. That's a sad thing, man,
- 1:24:34Speaker 7: But I want you all to be aware because sometimes
- 1:24:38Speaker 7: we seek the wrong people's approval and you end up
- 1:24:45Speaker 7: wasting time. Why does it matter to you what they
- 1:24:50Speaker 7: think of you when they don't even care about you?
- 1:24:54Speaker 7: What does it matter what they think of you and
- 1:24:56Speaker 7: they don't even know you?
- 1:24:59Speaker 12: Do? You know?
- 1:25:00Speaker 7: Some people post stuff on social media and be just
- 1:25:03Speaker 7: as happy with they picture, they little caption, and you
- 1:25:06Speaker 7: put it online and you're just saying, man, I'm having
- 1:25:09Speaker 7: a great day, or man I just want to show
- 1:25:11Speaker 7: y'all something that God has blessed me to share with
- 1:25:15Speaker 7: you all. And if you mess around and read your comments,
- 1:25:20Speaker 7: here comes somebody on your comment page that then took
- 1:25:23Speaker 7: your perfectly well intentioned caption and your picture that you
- 1:25:29Speaker 7: meant no harm to anybody posted, and here they come
- 1:25:35Speaker 7: with a bunch of negativity, And now all of a sudden,
- 1:25:39Speaker 7: your day is off course because somebody says something about
- 1:25:44Speaker 7: you that don't.
- 1:25:46Speaker 2: Even know you.
- 1:25:50Speaker 7: People's opinion of you is none of your business, nor
- 1:25:57Speaker 7: should you make it yours. That negative comment that they
- 1:26:01Speaker 7: put on your timeline in your comment section. If you
- 1:26:06Speaker 7: had never read that, do you know you would have
- 1:26:10Speaker 7: went right on about your marry day? Do you know
- 1:26:13Speaker 7: that that blessing you posted would have still been your blessing?
- 1:26:17Speaker 7: Do you know the intent that you posted it with
- 1:26:19Speaker 7: all goodwill to share something with somebody to put a
- 1:26:22Speaker 7: positive spin on their day. It would have still been there.
- 1:26:26Speaker 7: But oh no, no, no, no, you allowed somebody to
- 1:26:29Speaker 7: matter who don't even matter. Stop telling everybody everything because
- 1:26:36Speaker 7: everybody don't care. Get that through your head. I don't
- 1:26:41Speaker 7: care how fine you are. Somebody don't like you.
- 1:26:45Speaker 2: Wow, and it's okay.
- 1:26:48Speaker 7: And those closing remarks are dedicated to the girl who
- 1:26:52Speaker 7: turned me down at the junior prom because she didn't
- 1:26:56Speaker 7: like my facial features.
- 1:27:00Speaker 2: Fine at the bank, y'all have a great day today. Y'all.
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