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Is Sharing A Man Better ThanBeing Single, Steve Harvey's Tax Tips, Escaped Monkey Update, and more! - 01.29.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded.
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  Speaker 3: Soon given them back.
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  Speaker 1: A million bus busy, Yeah, listening to.
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  Speaker 4: To I don't joy Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Joy you you you gotta turn I.
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  Speaker 1: Got to turn the mouth. Turn you probably got to
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  Speaker 1: turn the mouth.
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  Speaker 3: Turn out a wad of the morning up looking me
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  Speaker 3: come come out?
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  Speaker 2: You think that, Uh hush, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 2: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now,
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  Speaker 2: one and only Steve Harton got a radio show. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: today is simple. I want to tell you. I want
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  Speaker 2: to just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort.
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  Speaker 2: You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people
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  Speaker 2: use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out
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  Speaker 2: about trying is trying is just a noble way of
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  Speaker 2: saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and
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  Speaker 2: then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best.
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  Speaker 2: Well that's that's not exactly true though, that that's that's
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  Speaker 2: not exactly true. You are and I want to talk
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  Speaker 2: to you about that because I don't want you to
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  Speaker 2: be one of the people who just tried. See trying,
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  Speaker 2: I mean I gotta tell you to attempt something. You're
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  Speaker 2: gonna have to first try, but I want you to
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  Speaker 2: change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See,
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  Speaker 2: that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen
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  Speaker 2: to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 2: it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it
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  Speaker 2: allows you to fail. It's the person that has the
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  Speaker 2: mindset that I'm gonna get it done. It's the person
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  Speaker 2: who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done.
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  Speaker 2: It's very different than I'm gonna try.
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  Speaker 6: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Look, man, I know this sounds a little harsh, but
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  Speaker 2: you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings
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  Speaker 2: that ain't It was a valiant trial. Hey man, you
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  Speaker 2: talk to anybody that took second place in the super
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  Speaker 2: Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try.
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  Speaker 2: The only way to gain God's real blessings is you
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  Speaker 2: have to try something. Stevee backpeddling, Now, listen to me close.
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  Speaker 2: You have to put forth an effort to allow God
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  Speaker 2: to put his finger on something to bless on your behalf.
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  Speaker 2: You must start to attempt now insaying getting it done,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna try. That's a different of two different
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  Speaker 2: faiths to me that I'm just talking about me. Now,
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  Speaker 2: you may be different, so I can't say this about you,
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  Speaker 2: but I can say this about me. If I say
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna get it done, I have a lot of
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  Speaker 2: faith in it. I am going to get it done
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  Speaker 2: because I just don't see failure as an option. A
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  Speaker 2: lot of times now if somebody says to me, like
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  Speaker 2: the Olympic team invited me out to curl one day,
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  Speaker 2: which is throw these stones on the ice, if you're
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  Speaker 2: not familiar with this very simple thing, and so I said, man,
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  Speaker 2: I'd like to give that a try. I went in
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  Speaker 2: full well knowing I may not come away from this
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  Speaker 2: little curling lesson as a person who could make the
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  Speaker 2: Olympic team. I just wanted to try it because I
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  Speaker 2: thought it looked cool and always wanted to get it done. Well.
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  Speaker 2: I failed twice. I threw a stone completely into the
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  Speaker 2: other lane. I lost that little ice shoe it shot
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  Speaker 2: out under me. But you know what, I kept trying though.
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  Speaker 2: I kept trying until I got four of them stones
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  Speaker 2: in that circle right where I aim. But now had
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  Speaker 2: I given up? After I failed? After I threw that
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  Speaker 2: stone in the other lane after I shot my shoe
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  Speaker 2: down all the way to the bottom side, the little
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  Speaker 2: ice shoe they give you. I never did it, but
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  Speaker 2: because I was trying, something got me together a little
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  Speaker 2: bit because of my effort, and it caused me not
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  Speaker 2: to fall the next time, not to throw it in
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  Speaker 2: the other lane, not to shoot my shoe to the
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  Speaker 2: back of the wall. All of a sudden, my trying
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  Speaker 2: became something. Now had I stayed out there and it
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  Speaker 2: wasn't so cold, and I went back week after week
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  Speaker 2: after week after week, I promise you I could get
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  Speaker 2: it done. I could at least know how to compete
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  Speaker 2: in a game of curling. Might not be the best.
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  Speaker 2: I might not win the championship, but I could have
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  Speaker 2: got it done to the point where I could have
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  Speaker 2: competed in a game of curling. So sometimes if you're
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  Speaker 2: scared to say I'm gonna get it done, just go
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  Speaker 2: out there and get started. You know, learn from every
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  Speaker 2: attempt that you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off
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  Speaker 2: as a failure every time. So don't go right. And
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  Speaker 2: when I fail on that ice, I could have said, man,
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  Speaker 2: I can't curl, but hold up, man, I'm watching four
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  Speaker 2: other women out here curl, four of the dudes out here,
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  Speaker 2: curl the little kids out here curling. Hold up, Pardner,
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  Speaker 2: You know, man, So I learned when I threw that
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  Speaker 2: stone on the other ice, when I failed, when when
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  Speaker 2: my shoe shot off, I learned from every attempt a
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  Speaker 2: little bit more about it. And then I said to
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  Speaker 2: myself one point in time, man, I'm gonna get this
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  Speaker 2: stone in that circle. I'm gonna get this stone in
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  Speaker 2: this circle. And guess what I got it done. Now
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  Speaker 2: what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to you
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  Speaker 2: that you gotta get started. That you got to put
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  Speaker 2: forth an effort. Give God something to bless. Oh God,
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  Speaker 2: bless me, Oh God, bless me. Bless you? What? Bless you? Where?
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  Speaker 2: Bless you?
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  Speaker 1: How?
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  Speaker 2: Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta
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  Speaker 2: think higher. You get God in your life, man, He
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  Speaker 2: allows you to think bigger, better more. I was sitting
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  Speaker 2: up in my debt. I came up with a plan
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  Speaker 2: to get out of debt in five years. I came
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  Speaker 2: up with this plan right, I was sitting up and
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  Speaker 2: I was tripping on it. Now. I said, wait a minute, man,
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  Speaker 2: hold up, This is what I came up with. I said,
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  Speaker 2: God created heaven in earth, all of it, the mountains,
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  Speaker 2: the sky, the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, the
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  Speaker 2: Indian Ocean, all of it, made all of it in
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  Speaker 2: six days, and then he rested on the seven. So
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  Speaker 2: why am I taking to God the five year plan?
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  Speaker 2: If he can create heaven and earth in six days,
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  Speaker 2: why am I walking in there talking about help me
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  Speaker 2: in five years? How is it gonna take God five
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  Speaker 2: years to getting me out of debt? And he made
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  Speaker 2: heaven and earth in six days? Math Hell, man, I
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  Speaker 2: ain't that big. You ain't that big. You ain't in
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  Speaker 2: that much trouble. I ain't in that much trouble. See,
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  Speaker 2: God got a way of showing you some things, man,
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  Speaker 2: but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take
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  Speaker 2: some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man,
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  Speaker 2: you God bless you a little bit, and he give
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  Speaker 2: you a little bit more courage. And then all them
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  Speaker 2: attempts you making is gonna and all this Oh, I'll
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  Speaker 2: try you know what that turned into. I'm gonna get
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  Speaker 2: it done. And at the end of the day, that's
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  Speaker 2: what you have to do, because trying to pay your
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  Speaker 2: rent and not paying your rent is two different things.
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  Speaker 2: You can you can try to play your pay your rent,
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  Speaker 2: or you can get it done. Now how long you
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  Speaker 2: think you gonna stay in that house trying? You got
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  Speaker 2: to go with the mindset of getting it done. And
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  Speaker 2: if you can put some stuff out there and give
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  Speaker 2: God a chance to put his finger on and bless
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  Speaker 2: it for you the most stuff he can do for you,
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  Speaker 2: quit looking around at what everybody else got and gonna
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  Speaker 2: get some of it for yourself. Okay, all right.
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  Speaker 1: Here listening to the Steve.
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  Speaker 2: Shall, ladies and gentlemen, you know what, the time has
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  Speaker 2: come to give thanks ananna to Almighty God again for
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  Speaker 2: doing what he does like nobody else can. He made
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  Speaker 2: another day and he allowed us to be in it. Man, man,
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  Speaker 2: oh man, oh man.
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  Speaker 7: You know.
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  Speaker 2: Look, I know sometimes you're in as close to God
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  Speaker 2: as you should be. I fall short oftentimes in that department.
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  Speaker 2: I know sometimes you forget to show gratitude. I forget
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  Speaker 2: that too. Sometimes Sometimes I get caught up, get up
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  Speaker 2: in the morning, get a little bit busy like I
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  Speaker 2: did today. But I'm gonna stop right now. Say hold up,
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  Speaker 2: Steve Harvey in front of all my listeners. Thank you God.
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  Speaker 2: I show appreciate it. Man, it wasn't for you. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know what I do. At least I got somebody
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  Speaker 2: and take all my troubles too. Had an interesting day yesterday,
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  Speaker 2: but I've survived that too, Ladies and gentlemen. This is
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  Speaker 2: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry calling for real Mississippi,
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  Speaker 2: Monica Junior and the legend Nephew Tommy Jr. What's on
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  Speaker 2: your mind today?
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  Speaker 6: Well?
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  Speaker 2: More thing, more than everybody or you know. What's a
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  Speaker 2: funny man?
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  Speaker 8: How we be so focused on pushing our planing through
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  Speaker 8: if it ain't working, Ain't it okay to throw that
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  Speaker 8: plan out? And let's say, hey man, let me try
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  Speaker 8: something out, let me ask out what we really should
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  Speaker 8: be doing.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'll be trying to force a plan.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta be careful now. You got to be careful
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  Speaker 2: because sometimes you can give up too early. You gotta
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  Speaker 2: be careful. Now. Here's what I try to do. I
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  Speaker 2: try to make sure that the plan I have is
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  Speaker 2: in alignment with God's plan. Now that's hard to do
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  Speaker 2: sometimes because we as people, we want what we want,
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  Speaker 2: and sometimes we want what we want without checking with
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  Speaker 2: the Creator, which oftentimes happens to all of us, myself included.
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  Speaker 2: So what I try to do is when I get
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  Speaker 2: with moments like this, before I give up on anything,
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  Speaker 2: I go to God about it, and usually I have
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  Speaker 2: to turn around to keep going. So you got to
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  Speaker 2: be careful about quitting, because that's what happens to most people.
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  Speaker 2: They give up a little bit too soon. Yeah, it
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  Speaker 2: always looked like it ain't gonna work. I got about
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  Speaker 2: three things happening right now that started off very promising
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  Speaker 2: and all of a sudden with dog. But I can't
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  Speaker 2: give up. You know, I can't give up because you
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  Speaker 2: never know what the turn gonna be. You see what
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying. Yep, Well where you at now? I mean
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  Speaker 2: what was well? You know I'm not saying I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: give up.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't I gave up?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I mean now that you said that, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: what like we could continue going with the playing. It's right.
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  Speaker 8: It do feel like sometimes you do give up early,
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  Speaker 8: Like you do feel like, hey, man, I don't know
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  Speaker 8: what I was thinking, Or you listen to somebody to
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  Speaker 8: say you like, man.
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  Speaker 1: You show that's the right way.
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  Speaker 2: There's a stanza in a poem called don't quit. The
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  Speaker 2: Stanza says often the struggler has given up when he
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  Speaker 2: might have captured the victor's cup, and he learns too late,
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  Speaker 2: when the night came down how close he was to
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  Speaker 2: the golden crown. Success is failure turned inside out. It's
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  Speaker 2: your silver tent of your clouds of doubt, and you
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  Speaker 2: never can tell how close you are. It may be
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  Speaker 2: near when it seems so far, so stick to the
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  Speaker 2: fight when your heart is hit. It's when things seem
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  Speaker 2: worse that you mustn't quit. Yeah, I learned that poem
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  Speaker 2: at nineteen. The whole poem is really really almost scripture almost.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thank you, Stephen Junior're coming up at
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  Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour. We will hear from
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  Speaker 1: the nephew as he runs a rank back right after this.
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  Speaker 1: And if you is here to run that prank back?
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  Speaker 1: What you got for his nest?
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  Speaker 7: You sent my wife pictures? And I'm almost certain iss you.
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  Speaker 7: I'm sry, I'm almost certain issue and you know what
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  Speaker 7: you said? Yes it got It's got real serious up
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  Speaker 7: in here. Cat dog, if you would you sent my
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  Speaker 7: wife for pictures, now speak the trouble. Hey man, you've
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  Speaker 7: been sending pictures of are your damn stomach?
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  Speaker 2: To my wife?
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  Speaker 6: Phone?
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  Speaker 1: Hey man?
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  Speaker 7: Have y'all been sending pictures of your muscles on your
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  Speaker 7: stomach to my wife phone?
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  Speaker 2: This fish right here? This fish man?
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  Speaker 7: My name is Fisher, but they call me fish. What
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  Speaker 7: I want to know from you? Have you been sending
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  Speaker 7: pictures of your stomach to my wife?
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  Speaker 2: Phone?
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  Speaker 6: Man? I don't know, dad, you're talking about plate boy?
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  Speaker 6: Don't calling me with just about am I? If I
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  Speaker 6: am sting pictures, ain't none of yours?
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  Speaker 2: It is my business. That's my wife.
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  Speaker 6: Then you say this, you do it? You must ain't
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  Speaker 6: got You must ain't ripped up like me or something
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  Speaker 6: you worried about it sending fishes because hey, man, get
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  Speaker 6: you some bitiness. I'm coming.
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  Speaker 7: I got some business. My business is my wife. Man,
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  Speaker 7: And if you said it, let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you right now. I want to find you.
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  Speaker 7: If the same muscles that's on her phone is up
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  Speaker 7: underneath your shape, I'm whooping your.
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  Speaker 6: I ain't hard to find, play boy, you can find me.
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  Speaker 6: And if I am sitting to your wife, she must
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  Speaker 6: like it.
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  Speaker 7: Plate boy, Hey man, he let me tell you no,
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  Speaker 7: you been disrespectful is what you're doing.
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  Speaker 2: You understand you've been.
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  Speaker 6: You've been a little calling me on the on with this.
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  Speaker 6: You better check somebody else about this here, for I
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  Speaker 6: had your wife rusting on my stomach.
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  Speaker 2: Hey man, who you hey?
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  Speaker 9: See?
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  Speaker 2: Who you calling up?
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  Speaker 1: Man?
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  Speaker 2: Who do you think you are? Hey?
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  Speaker 6: Hey?
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  Speaker 2: Who you think you talk? Let me tell you something?
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  Speaker 9: Okay?
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  Speaker 6: Tell us take time my phone about a picture that's
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  Speaker 6: because them?
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  Speaker 7: If I find out them your muscle on my what what?
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  Speaker 6: I just let you found my phone number, so I
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  Speaker 6: guess you can find me. Oh boy, hein you know
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  Speaker 6: how about this? Here?
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  Speaker 2: Where are you?
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  Speaker 6: Let's get I'm hey, ask your wife where I'm at.
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  Speaker 6: Where she at?
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  Speaker 2: My wife is at work right now.
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  Speaker 6: If you you think so, how you think she got on? Boy?
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  Speaker 7: Hey man, I tell you what when I find when
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  Speaker 7: I find you a little disrespectful.
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  Speaker 6: As your wife where I'm at? Yeah, that was the
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  Speaker 6: new boy.
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  Speaker 2: Open.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, it's security. You must not be ripped up like me.
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  Speaker 2: Hey man, Hey, hey, hey, I got I got muscles
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  Speaker 2: on my stomach.
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  Speaker 6: Right now to get these get this summer right for
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  Speaker 6: your wife.
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  Speaker 7: Hey man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right,
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  Speaker 7: that's all right. How about this here?
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  Speaker 2: I know who your wife feels now, that's all right.
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  Speaker 6: I know who she here too.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, that's all right, and I'll be calling her.
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  Speaker 2: I'm calling her, letting her know what's going on.
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  Speaker 6: Take this out. She liked my summer too? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: you like that?
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  Speaker 2: No, No, I'll tell you what. I tell you what.
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  Speaker 2: She gonna like it.
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  Speaker 7: When I get to hugle, I'm gonna let your wife
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  Speaker 7: know what's going on round here.
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  Speaker 6: Say, man, you don't know nothing about my wife. Me,
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  Speaker 6: my wife and your wife might be rubbing together home white.
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  Speaker 6: You don't know nothing about my business.
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  Speaker 2: Ain't man, you ain't finna be disrespectful to me.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 2: I done told you.
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  Speaker 6: Once see come see me on what I will see you.
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  Speaker 2: I already asked you once. Where are you?
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see
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  Speaker 6: this ripped up six pact that's your wife like yeah,
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  Speaker 6: all right.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, it's just a matter of time.
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  Speaker 6: Then you better go check your wife and don't be
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  Speaker 6: calling across man.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, Well, I tell you what. I'm gonna call
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  Speaker 7: a Yanna. That's that's what I'm going to call a Yana.
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  Speaker 7: Baby say yeah, yeah and slows you down. Night.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm calling your wife calling here.
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  Speaker 6: We can get it on the freeway and then and
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  Speaker 6: then I call your wife and get on my way.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you this here right now.
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  Speaker 6: What I need is tell me whatever you want to
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  Speaker 6: tell me. Play.
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  Speaker 2: I'm telling you right now, pump, where you at?
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  Speaker 6: How much fuller? Going home? Boy? That's where I'm at. Now,
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  Speaker 6: you got my wife name? I want to know your name.
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  Speaker 6: They called your fish or chicken or where they call you.
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  Speaker 6: You can meet me wherever you want to on boy,
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  Speaker 6: and we can say this ain't no.
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: Fi steel to me.
• 18:40
  Speaker 6: I deal with punk like you every day.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, not a problem, not a problem. I'll be right.
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: How long you gonna be that, I'm gonna be that
• 18:49
  Speaker 6: to your pump? Get it up?
• 18:50
  Speaker 7: Okay, Look, I want you to take my name down
• 18:53
  Speaker 7: so you'll know who you're waiting on.
• 18:54
  Speaker 6: You got your uh you said your name was kicking
• 18:57
  Speaker 6: or something like.
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: Do you have a pin?
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: I don't need no pi?
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: Punk? Okay? Do you want to know who this is?
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: Are you gonna tell me who you was? Homeboy?
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: I ain't told you my full name, chump.
• 19:10
  Speaker 6: I don't need to know your name. You got my
• 19:12
  Speaker 6: number of calling me about a tattoo of stomach or something.
• 19:17
  Speaker 7: It's muscles, its muscles of your stomach on my wife?
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: Thum?
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: How many sit ups do you be doing?
• 19:27
  Speaker 6: Did you look at the other pictures?
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: What other? Well?
• 19:30
  Speaker 7: Okay, hey, hey man, hey man, I'm not finna be
• 19:32
  Speaker 7: playing with you a boy. My wife now, I ain't
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: playble to I'm play with your why okay, Okay, I'm
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: gonna tell you something about your wife.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something about your wife that you
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 19:42
  Speaker 6: If I don't know it, don't nobody else know it.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Oh, I know it.
• 19:45
  Speaker 7: Me and her know it when I just got off
• 19:47
  Speaker 7: the phone with her. You want to know you want
• 19:49
  Speaker 7: me tell you what your wife told me?
• 19:51
  Speaker 6: Man, say what you have to say.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this right here.
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna say this punk This his nephew Tommy from
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife are y'all no,
• 20:00
  Speaker 7: got me the prank phone? Your ignorant man? How stupid
• 20:06
  Speaker 7: are you? Hello this nephew Tommy, man from the Steve
• 20:15
  Speaker 7: Abby Morning Show.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Your wife got me the prank phone call?
• 20:17
  Speaker 7: You do you? Damn you? You are more ignorant than't me?
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Say this?
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: Boy, got so.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Hey trouble.
• 20:37
  Speaker 7: I got to ask you this man, answer this question
• 20:39
  Speaker 7: for me? What is what is the baddest that I mean,
• 20:42
  Speaker 7: the baddest radio show in the last the only one
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: with nephew one.
• 20:46
  Speaker 6: Imagine, boy, I'll tell you that.
• 20:51
  Speaker 7: Oh man, a trail man. You be easy, man, go
• 20:54
  Speaker 7: light on the y'all all.
• 20:55
  Speaker 6: Right, I'm a shore. We will tell Steve harm I say.
• 21:00
  Speaker 7: Let's put this idea. Don't try this at home? Okay,
• 21:03
  Speaker 7: don't do that. Don't be saying nobody to wire. Some pictures,
• 21:06
  Speaker 7: don't don't don't do that. Don't you go get yourself hurt.
• 21:10
  Speaker 7: You're gonna get yourself hurt. What you want to do,
• 21:12
  Speaker 7: what you want to do, I can call it allow
• 21:15
  Speaker 7: what you want?
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: All right, nev. Coming up next, it is ask the
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. Hey, this is your girl,
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• 22:05
  Speaker 1: top of the hour. In entertainment news, well, the price
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: of eggs and other groceries listen carefully, will be going up. Okay,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: you heard this is all despite the predictions of the
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: new administration. All right, we'll get into that. And doctor
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: Phil has joined ICE to arrest alleged immigrants that pose
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: a threat to America. We'll get into all these stories
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, but right now it
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Here we go and Noel and Danberry says,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I met my husband when I was just nineteen, and
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: he when he was nineteen and I was twenty eight.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: We've been married for four years. His mom just found
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: out about our age gap, and she said I should
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: have told her my age before I got with her son.
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: Was I supposed to check and ask for her permission
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: or what?
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: No? Nope, nope, and her boy, her son didn't tell
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: her that either. Yeah, well, I mean, what was you
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: gonna do?
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Check her?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Stop her? They've been married four years now. You should
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: have told me so I could, so you could have
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: what stop? The marriage has been going on for four years.
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: They might be happy. I'll tell you what though, Mamma,
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: it was what nothing you could do. She was putting
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: that twenty eight year old thing together, and you know,
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: and and and parking it and putting it. That boy
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: right there, he had no choice. He had to marry her.
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: He asked her to marry her the first night they
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: slept together. Oh yeah, I want this the rest of
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: my life. I want to marry you.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: All right. Moving on to Katrice and Jothan, Katrice writes,
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: to my associate's husband DMed me for a year, means
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: and telling me I'm beautiful. I blocked him finally, and
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: I jokingly told his wife to keep an eye on him.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: She said it was cool because I'd never be his type.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: Should I show her.
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  Speaker 10: The d M s.
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  Speaker 7: H.
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  Speaker 2: See. First of all, you didn't jokingly tell his wife nothing,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: ha ha ha ha he hell see, see you didn't
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: jokingly tell his wife nothing. Yeah. Yeah. Then his wife said,
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: you ain't gonna worry about that. You wouldn't even be
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: his type. No way. That was a slap in your face. Nah,
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: you want to slap her back. See. Ain't neither one
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: of y'all need to be talking to each other? Yeah,
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: neither one of y'all. Yeah, but you was jokingly, you know,
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: maybe she jokingly told you. Maybe she was joking too,
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: how she laugh?
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Moving on to Pony.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: You're still chuckling over there.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: Moving on to Pony and Durham, Uh, Pony writes, I
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: drink the expensive stuff.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: First of all, First of all, let me, ain't nobody
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: named pony. Ain't nobody nicknamed pony. I've been alive a
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: long time. I ain't never called nobody pony.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Well, this one is pony pony, And Durham says, is
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: pony a girl?
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no no, pony is
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: a guy, pony A pony is a guy. Yeah, pony
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: is a guy. Yeah, like Philip, that's Tony is his name.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I drink the expensive stuff, and so does my girl.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: That's what he writes. She has a habit of inviting
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: her friends over to drink our top shelf bourbon that
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: they can't afford. So I locked the liquor cabinet. She said,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: it's her liquor too. If that is the case, should
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I make her buy it?
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: It is her liquor too, And you know you don't
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: want to share your little top shelf. But how much
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: it costs? Tell this?
• 26:26
  Speaker 7: Let's just say a good one, A good a good
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: real bottle by too something.
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: What's what's what's the top shelf bourbon? What is that Woodford?
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: But what's the one with that horse on it?
• 26:38
  Speaker 7: Uh?
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Blinded? The one with the horse on it? Yeah, you've
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: seen it before. That's all that's like coming like in
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: like three D in the bottle. Yeah, yeah, the horse head,
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know, Junior, he don't know. He can't dreade.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: He drans here crisis so he can't. I know he
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: can't drink what No, I take that. I take that
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: bat My bad, wrong person.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Sorry, okay, anyway, give ponies some advice.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: I don't know what the tail pony may. Man, it's
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: her bourbon too. You done locked it up. You don't
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: want to give it. Hey, look man, here's what you do.
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: Friends by two different bourbons, one for you and your
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: girl and one for company. And that's all you do. Yeah,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: and now y'all want this is out when the company
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: come over, the other one going up under.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, makers.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Marketed they need to, No makers. That's what the red
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: that ain't buy nothing. I don't even drink blanting blanterns.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah drink, I know, I don't, but I just I
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: just wanted to, you.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: Know, getting some mess.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: No really, you know, but if I drink, I'm gonna
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: drink top chef. I'm not gonna drink nothing. You know,
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: your head just dying and it because.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: No that's not his issue. Well, let the friends come
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: over and drink.
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: He should buy two different bottles. You got company bourbon
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: and y'all bourbon if they want to keep coming over
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: and drink some of this. Uh you know boone farm did.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: That's what we.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Drink, said the non drinker booth.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that'll stop him from coming. Right. There were out
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: of bourbon, but we got this wine in the box.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: What y'all want to do? What's the next with shaw? All?
• 28:46
  Speaker 11: Right?
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: Last one? Anit and dearborn. Anita writes, my husband things
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: that's arguing is a sign of a healthy marriage. I
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: hate arguing. To protect my peace, I wear air pods
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: and listen to news when he's upset. I love this,
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: he said, I need to pay attention to him when
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: he's angry. Do I have to listen to him?
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: Not really? I mean, look, men, men have a device
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: in our head that we have our built in ear parts.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: When y'all talking, we know how to shut y'all out
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: and don't hear nothing. Don't hear nothing. And I'm gonna
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: tell you what's really a waste of time for you
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: to be talking to me in a serious discussion about
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: something I don't want to hear over the phone. Are
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: you wasting your time? I set the phone.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Down and walk away.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: No, I'll walk away. I leave it there. I just
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: leave you back the keep watching TV.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, and then just periodically pick it up
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: and go uh huh No.
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: I don't even pick it up. Just yeap, yeah, I
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: see it. Yeah, I see where you're going. Yeah. I said,
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: I know, I show concern, you know, but I really
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: I know what you said. You said it thirteen times. Hell,
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: I got it, and that's your problem. Y'all. Keep repeating stuff.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: Make sure we got it. We got it, We will
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: do it. No, damn wait, we got it.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: some entertainment news where you thank you Colo. Right after this.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, in an interview
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: on CBS Has Faced the Nation that aired Sunday, our
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: new Vice President JD. Van said that grocery prices will
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: come down at some point. Van said. Van said, quote,
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: prices are going to come down, but it's going to
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: take a little bit of time. The president has been
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: president for all of five days. I think that in
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: those five days, he's accomplished more than Joe Biden did
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: in four years. Well, we all know both of those
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: statements are false. According to the US Department of Agriculture,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: egg prices are takes it to increase about twenty percent
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: this year because of the recent outbreak of the bird flew. Also,
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: there will be an increase in the cost of beef, coffee,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: and orange juice in the near future.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: All that and everything. We yeah, yeah, we do.
• 31:22
  Speaker 7: We do better go into a farm and picking these
• 31:24
  Speaker 7: eggs and saving them.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: Is that gonna cut it back? Lipping? Yeah, that will
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: till me now now, yeah, yeah, yeah, that'll work time me. Now,
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: what what farm you going to? I don't know where,
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: No farm, man, I just ta.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: Oh, you're just humoring him.
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: Do we need to go to flood and pick these
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: oranges to get this juice? I mean, how can we
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: vote for Trump?
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Exactly?
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: That's vote Trump, Latinos for Trump, blocks for Trump. Now
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: he picking up Latinos and they killing all DEI programs.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I don't understand, man, because I kept I kept asking
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: though doing the election process, if you are black for Trump,
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: and I'm gonna allow you to be that. I opened
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: up the phone line four times please call in and
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: tell me how Trump is for blacks, so I can
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: understand blacks for Trump, I'm for anybody that's for me. See,
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: that's why he parted those That's why he pardoned everybody
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: on January sixth, because they was for him. That resurrection
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: was fighting what he said. Yet whatever, well yourrections right,
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: get your direction right. I know one thing, if it
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: had been black people climbing up over that wall, it
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: would have been a massacre down in there. But you
• 32:53
  Speaker 2: let all of them out because they was for Trump.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: It was more Trump flags than it was American flags
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: on that and he knew they were down now on
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: behalf of him. That's why he pardoned them. So let's
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: get back to what I was saying. If you are
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: a black for Trump, just show me how Trump is
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: for blacks. The only thing I saw him do for
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: blacks was he put that preacher on at the inauguration
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: and if you look at his face behind the preacher,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: he couldn't believe him. And Sammy was out there just
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: giving it to him. And you know what, you know what, man,
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: if he would have just recited the speech on the
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Washington Monument that I have a dream speech if he
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: had just repeated it, it would have been a lot
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: more effective. But his acting out of it, that the
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: dramatization of it, the buffoonery of it. I was just
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: sitting there going, Yo, I'm a man. Where you going?
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: Because if you would have done that rendition in front
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: of any black people, they would have told you, hey, man,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: what are you going with this?
• 34:05
  Speaker 7: Hire?
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: Because first of all, you can't do it better than
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: Doctor King did it. I mean, you know, if you
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: do that speech, come on, man, and you're trying to
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: add to what was one of the greatest speeches of
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: all time, Come on bro.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well, grocery prices are going up anyway.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Moving on to doctor Phil, Doctor Phil. Doctor Phil has
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: joined in with Tom Homan, who of course is Donald
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Trump's only appointed borders are with ICE, that's Immigration and
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Customs Enforcement to round up and arrest people in Chicago
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: that are allegedly dangerous illegal immigrants. On his ex account,
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: doctor Phil posted quote just in the first arrest in
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Chicago with Tom Holman was a convicted sex offender and
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: internet predator from Thailand. Under the caption is a video
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: of a male alleged sex offender who is handcuffed as
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Doctor Phil and Tom Homan stand beside him. Doctor Phil
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: repeatedly asked the man if he has ever been deported,
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: and the guy says no and says he needs to
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: talk to his attorney. Doctor Phil is live streaming these
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: arrests for his network. That's why he's so involved.
• 35:17
  Speaker 2: With friend Fields. Get his ass. You're gonna run up
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: on somebody there, ain't gonna be I don't even know
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: why he in that though. That what we do his network,
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: and I got a radio show.
• 35:39
  Speaker 7: I don't care about doctor Phils long as my uncle
• 35:41
  Speaker 7: ain't got his ass there with.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: I'm no, I'm not going not picking up nobody. Welcome
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: to America here, Well, we ain't even want to come
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: over here, so don't ask us about no papers or nothing.
• 35:57
  Speaker 12: We mad.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: We're not the immigrants. Let's get clarity on what.
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: Man we will all bought over against our will. Now
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: we didn't just try to make the best of the tree.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: And y'all already getting rid of DEI programs and everything else.
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: Clearly you don't want us to have nothing. Whatever we had,
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: you want to take you know, my father told no,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: I can't repeat that on Redia if it was my
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: last day. I'll tell you something my father told me.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: But you know, I mean it also been blends into
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: where I'm from. You know, people don't understand I grew
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: up in segregation. Yeah, I saw colored under water fountains,
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: colored rest I saw that. So you know, it's kind
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: of hard to wipe that out your head when you
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: were a kid. They don't have it, no mobile. They
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: try to make America great again.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll keep your posted. Coming up in twenty minutes
• 36:51
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  Speaker 1: it is every year. Yeah, so Steve a subject you're
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: well aware of. Can you share a few tax filing
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: tips with on?
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: First of all, just ask me questions because I ain't
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: got but one tip. Ask me whatever you want to
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: ask me about it?
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: All right? So when the W two forms come, how soon?
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: How quickly should you fill them out and return them?
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: I would suggest immediately if you are expecting a return, Okay,
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: So I would say immediately. No, but only people wait
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: the eight fifteenth. If people are, oh, why would I
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: pay you early?
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: Well, when you owe the IRS, do you have to
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: pay the whole amount at one time? Or can you
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: ask for installment plans?
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: You can get an extallment plan and you don't have
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: to file on April fifteenth. You can get an extension
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: to October first. But the penalties that you are going
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: to pay is going to be substantial, okay, And any
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: payment plan they get you will have interest penalties attached
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: to it. You are going to pay more if you
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: don't pay on time, what's the most art and claim
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: without getting in trouble. Now off into some stuff. Now
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: you need to look at seven people. You can you
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: know without it explaining stuff with just seven people?
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Well, okay, can I claim my kids and they're grown
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: and everything? Can I complaim my daughter.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: In certain ways? You can, you know, like if they
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: Indeliza or something, you know, but if they got pictures
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: of her walking around shopping and stuff, you probably don't
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: have bual do.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: The worst.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: But I think if she if you can get some
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: pictures of her in the bed and you can make
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: it look she'd have lost a lot of weight, Yeah,
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: and put some eats on the make it look like
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: she flat.
• 39:53
  Speaker 10: Then you know, all right, Okay, what about that's a
• 39:57
  Speaker 10: go ahead call? Okay, what about working from home?
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, everywhere you go as an office. Your bathroom is
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: an office. If you make a phone call in there,
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: if you down there where the pool table, like, that's office.
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: Just take a note pad in down at the carny garage.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: That's how off the whole damn house is Offor if
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: you open up that refrigerator, leave a notebook in there,
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: get it out. That's the damn office. What else anybody else? Tax?
• 40:26
  Speaker 9: Mary?
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: If you're married, can you file together or separately? What's best?
• 40:30
  Speaker 2: You need to file together, get as much as you can.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: If you got any grandkids that you done gave a
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: damn quarter two d ass is a dependent?
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you for those irs. Tips.
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: We'll be over more I got. I'll give them to
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: you all year, loan all right.
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: All right, coming up with thirty four minutes after the hour.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Cam Newton got a few side eyes after his interview
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: with Royce Reid, Dwight Howard's X. We'll get into it
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. On
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: a recent episode of Cam Newton's Funky Friday Show, Cam
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: interviewed Royce Reid. We all know her as the ex
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: girlfriend of former NBA player Dwight Howard. Dwight Howard and
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: Royce Reid have fought publicly and social media for years now,
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: and now she's resurfacing, seemingly because Howard has a new fiance.
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: In the interview, Cam pressed reed to talk about Howard's
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: sexual preference, specifically asking Reid if Dwight is attracted to men.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: Red alleged that she watched Howard take psychedelic drugs with
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: other men before engaging in intimate encounters with the men.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: But the chakra was not what Reed said. What Reid said,
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: it was the fact that Cam had pressed her for
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: that information. Cam caught some backlash for prying into another
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: man's sex life, and many commoner commenters said that Cam
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: violated man code. So is this the thing now to
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: go for the shock value, you know, the shock value,
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: get ratings on podcasts and all.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: These Well, I think that's what everybody is doing. You know,
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: it's a lot of valuables that's doing that shock value,
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: you know, and there's people try to get it. You know,
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: you look at and I don' won't say no names,
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: but you know, you look at some people that do podcasts.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: They have somebody on that that say it's controversial, They
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: get one of the highest ratings of all time, and
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: then right after that bring on another super controversial person. Yeah,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: because I think that they got it addicted. So like now,
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: I think the love of clicks and likes, it's more
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: valuable than man code. It's more valuable than friendship and honor.
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: You know, I give you an example. We have a
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: radio show here, we have a real platform. Yeah, if
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: you come on my show and you talk about any
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: one of my friends that I'm friendly with, if you
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: say something about Kevin Jay or Said or d l
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: or Tyler Perry, somebody I'm cool with, dog I'm gonna
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: shut you down. I'm gonna shut you down because you're
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: not coming on here and dogging out somebody that I
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: consider myself cool with. I'm not gonna give you that platform.
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: That's the cold I live by. I have discovered that
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: there are a lot of people who don't live by
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: that cold. You can go on they show and they
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: appear to be friendly, you can exchange numbers with them,
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: they can call you for help, you give it to them,
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: and then they turn around right behind your back and
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: put somebody on their show and allow them to talk
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: about you and lie and it ain't no check that right.
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: There is the society we live in today.
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: There is a saying fame is the new drug, regardless over.
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: Anything, and the cost and expense doesn't matter anymore. Go ahead,
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: if you're broken up. If you're a couple that's broken up,
• 44:04
  Speaker 2: y'all not together no more. What's what's the purpose of
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: getting out there? And at your dirty line. If it's over,
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: it's over. What why does the.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Whole world have to bring a child together?
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: So that's even worse. You good here talking about your
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: man who is somebody's father, your son's father, and you
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: got a son and you're saying this about his daddy. Yeah,
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: that's foul on so many levels.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: I think it was horrible for him to ask her that,
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: for him to cry, and for her to come out
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: and say that about this.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, look like.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Like you said the story though.
• 44:44
  Speaker 10: They have been beating on the media in public for
• 44:47
  Speaker 10: a very long time, and she's been throwing out stuff,
• 44:50
  Speaker 10: he's been saying stuff, So it's been ugly. But at
• 44:53
  Speaker 10: some point when y'all gonna grow up and understand that
• 44:56
  Speaker 10: y'all share a child together and stop this.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: This And you know, look like I'm a fan of
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: Cam cam Newton's I really am. I think it's a
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: good brother because I defended I defend him well to
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: other people when when Jason Whitlock attacks him, or when
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: Jason Whitlock attacks Dion Sanders. Uh, you know, I defend it,
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: But you're not like I wouldn't have a Jason Whitlock
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: come on this show and talk about Cam or Dion.
• 45:26
  Speaker 2: You're just not gonna do it because I'm cool with them,
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: not my Prime, you know, because Cam has come to
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: the camp for me a couple of times, spoke to
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: the boys. No charge, Prime is a friend of mine.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: We go back. I just I'm that dude. I'm not
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: gonna be that way man. Not on the Steve Harvey
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: Morning Show. We're not doing it.
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: No, not here, no all right?
• 45:50
  Speaker 7: Uh.
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: Coming up next it is the Nephew and Today's Prank
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: Phone Call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: the hour, it's my Strawberry letter for today. The subject
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: is is sharing a man better than being single? You
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: gotta ask that. Okay, we'll get into it and find
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: out what that's all about. But right now, Yeah, it's
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: time for the Nephew and Today's Prank Phone Call.
• 46:23
  Speaker 7: What you got for us, new, Well, we headed to
• 46:25
  Speaker 7: the cemetery, Shirley, that's where we're going. Well, we got
• 46:29
  Speaker 7: a problem down there at the cemetery. You gave wrong
• 46:33
  Speaker 7: directions to my sister's grade. You gave wrong directions to
• 46:40
  Speaker 7: my sister's grade. We had the wrong grade, praying over
• 46:45
  Speaker 7: the wrong person, lowering the wrong person into the graund
• 46:52
  Speaker 7: everybody there, the ten is up. We all sitting up
• 46:54
  Speaker 7: under the tent. We had the wrong grade. Good Goutamn,
• 46:59
  Speaker 7: Well is my sister all right? You get wrong direction
• 47:03
  Speaker 7: to my sisters? Greg cat dog, if you would, yes,
• 47:07
  Speaker 7: these things, These things do happen, people, These things do happen.
• 47:13
  Speaker 12: Thank you for calling.
• 47:16
  Speaker 7: My name is Fredrick Stemming down there, Tamera, let me
• 47:20
  Speaker 7: see she's in the office.
• 47:21
  Speaker 12: One moment, please, thank you.
• 47:23
  Speaker 11: Just don't you don't make sense for all to go
• 47:26
  Speaker 11: out there like we did it and they're running into
• 47:28
  Speaker 11: these type of problems that don't have Hello, Hello, listen,
• 47:32
  Speaker 11: my name is Fredrick Stimmens.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 47:35
  Speaker 9: Now my sister's system is buried out there.
• 47:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, And we come out there last.
• 47:41
  Speaker 9: Week on Monday to come out there and pray over
• 47:44
  Speaker 9: the space.
• 47:45
  Speaker 11: Was now you as the one that told us that
• 47:49
  Speaker 11: it was a few spaces away from the masoleum. Now
• 47:52
  Speaker 11: we got out there and prayed over my sister friends
• 47:55
  Speaker 11: of this barrel and find out that we were in
• 47:58
  Speaker 11: the wrong space.
• 48:00
  Speaker 9: They say you was the one that told it to us.
• 48:02
  Speaker 12: So I don't even know what you're talking about.
• 48:04
  Speaker 9: You was the one that told us that myselfing from I.
• 48:07
  Speaker 12: Don't give out spaces. I'm in the administrative office.
• 48:10
  Speaker 11: I don't know why you're worked out. I don't know
• 48:12
  Speaker 11: as you was the one that told us this, No
• 48:15
  Speaker 11: I did, Yes, you're dead. You was the one that
• 48:18
  Speaker 11: my grandbaby said that she talked to the woman named Tampa.
• 48:21
  Speaker 11: And you had us out there standing over something white
• 48:24
  Speaker 11: man's about.
• 48:24
  Speaker 12: It and what out a councerort. So I can't tell
• 48:27
  Speaker 12: you where space is. So your granddor to last to you.
• 48:30
  Speaker 6: Ain't nobody knowed man.
• 48:32
  Speaker 9: You had us out there in the wrong space.
• 48:34
  Speaker 12: I couldn't have had you in the wrong space because
• 48:36
  Speaker 12: I don't even know the semeterary.
• 48:37
  Speaker 7: You know what.
• 48:38
  Speaker 9: I'm gonna send my grand baby up there to talk
• 48:41
  Speaker 9: to you.
• 48:41
  Speaker 12: Okay, I'll be here to five.
• 48:43
  Speaker 9: You're very mischievs.
• 48:44
  Speaker 12: You know that I'll be here at five o'clock. You
• 48:47
  Speaker 12: have a good day, No, you don't.
• 48:48
  Speaker 9: You hang up this phone on me.
• 48:50
  Speaker 12: You have a good day.
• 48:51
  Speaker 9: No, I'm not gonna have a good day. You had
• 48:53
  Speaker 9: me praying over the president's about it.
• 48:56
  Speaker 11: That was the wrong what And we're sitting there praying
• 48:59
  Speaker 11: over there white man's body?
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: That what right?
• 49:04
  Speaker 12: Hello, I'm listening to you. You don't have an apology
• 49:08
  Speaker 12: or nothing, because I know I didn't tell your granddaughter
• 49:11
  Speaker 12: where a faith was?
• 49:12
  Speaker 9: Then what did you tell him?
• 49:14
  Speaker 12: I don't even know who your granddaughter is.
• 49:16
  Speaker 9: What you mean the Stamens family, We.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: Would not that.
• 49:19
  Speaker 12: I don't know who the Simons family is.
• 49:21
  Speaker 9: Now Simon, that's demens des.
• 49:24
  Speaker 12: I don't know a Simon's family. That's what I'm telling you.
• 49:27
  Speaker 12: I'm not a counselor. I don't even deal with family.
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: Hen what I need you to do? Can you go
• 49:32
  Speaker 9: out there and pray over myself about it?
• 49:35
  Speaker 12: I don't know where your sister is very supposed to
• 49:37
  Speaker 12: have been.
• 49:38
  Speaker 9: Six faith is away from the mother limb.
• 49:40
  Speaker 12: I don't are there any faces?
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 49:43
  Speaker 6: Where is it?
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: Where is it?
• 49:44
  Speaker 12: At section two?
• 49:47
  Speaker 9: We was in section two, but there was some white
• 49:49
  Speaker 9: man we was that That wasn't my s Okay.
• 49:53
  Speaker 12: I don't even know who your sister Francis is. I
• 49:57
  Speaker 12: do not even know where section two is. Whoever came
• 50:01
  Speaker 12: into the cemetery and said that they spoke to me,
• 50:04
  Speaker 12: They probably did speak to me, and I probably got
• 50:07
  Speaker 12: the information from a counselor. But I never told them
• 50:10
  Speaker 12: exactly where the spot was. So if they were out
• 50:12
  Speaker 12: there praying over your sister and they were in the
• 50:15
  Speaker 12: wrong spot, that's not my problem. Praying over some white man,
• 50:19
  Speaker 12: that's not my problem, sir.
• 50:21
  Speaker 6: If the wrong spot, if you gain the wrong information,
• 50:25
  Speaker 6: it is I don't.
• 50:27
  Speaker 12: Give the wrong information. Tell them, yes, she's in section two.
• 50:31
  Speaker 12: That did not physically go out there and point to
• 50:33
  Speaker 12: the spot to tell them to pray over that spot.
• 50:35
  Speaker 9: Let me explain what I'm trying to stop from happening.
• 50:39
  Speaker 11: If my people come out there, there's gonna be some
• 50:41
  Speaker 11: nobody getting married, and I don't want nobody to get hurt.
• 50:44
  Speaker 12: I mean, your family can come up here. It's not
• 50:46
  Speaker 12: gonna be no more bodies being buried that. What they
• 50:48
  Speaker 12: can do is come up here, right and we can
• 50:50
  Speaker 12: conversate about this. But it's not going to be an
• 50:53
  Speaker 12: ug world here.
• 50:54
  Speaker 9: I want you to go out there and you pray
• 50:56
  Speaker 9: over friends of the body.
• 50:57
  Speaker 12: I'm not going on to pray over nobody, these bodies.
• 51:01
  Speaker 12: It's not famly member. I didn't tell them the wrong information.
• 51:05
  Speaker 9: Do you love the Lord?
• 51:08
  Speaker 12: I dearly do?
• 51:10
  Speaker 9: Then you ought to have some sympathy. I want you
• 51:13
  Speaker 9: to bow your head right now.
• 51:15
  Speaker 12: No, I'm going to end this conversation because all the
• 51:18
  Speaker 12: work to do. Now they come in and talk to me.
• 51:22
  Speaker 12: I will be here until five o'clock.
• 51:23
  Speaker 9: Can I say one more thingful?
• 51:25
  Speaker 12: You go say one more thing and I'm the car.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, this Nephew tom Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: You just got prank.
• 51:39
  Speaker 9: You are crazy.
• 51:43
  Speaker 2: Your sister to me could set.
• 51:45
  Speaker 9: You up purpose and you just got it.
• 51:48
  Speaker 7: Baby from nephew Tommy, Why are you standing your ground?
• 51:55
  Speaker 7: This guy wasn't praying over the wrong body. That don't
• 51:57
  Speaker 7: mean nothing.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: I ain't all right.
• 52:03
  Speaker 7: Check it out. You got to tell me one thing.
• 52:05
  Speaker 7: What's the baddest radio show in the land?
• 52:10
  Speaker 9: What's cute?
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: And now you have it.
• 52:19
  Speaker 7: I encourage all of y'all to get out there and
• 52:21
  Speaker 7: find out where you're gonna be buried at No way
• 52:23
  Speaker 7: it's gonna be. Let people know exactly where it is
• 52:26
  Speaker 7: in the cemetery.
• 52:27
  Speaker 9: These things you need to know.
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: You want to know this. You want to know this.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: You don't have these these problems like this. You know
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: what you need.
• 52:34
  Speaker 7: No way you're gonna be buried there. Calling know that
• 52:37
  Speaker 7: you leave here, Know what tree it is? What plots
• 52:41
  Speaker 7: you next to? Know what's going on? You lad?
• 52:49
  Speaker 9: You need to know.
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: I'm between these two people.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: That's that's uh.
• 52:57
  Speaker 7: That's brother Marcus over here on my left, all right,
• 53:01
  Speaker 7: And that is Marcus's wife, sister Brenda.
• 53:04
  Speaker 2: That's that's the two. I'm right there by them. Got
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: to know where you're gonna be got.
• 53:12
  Speaker 7: With you.
• 53:14
  Speaker 8: Because you know, somebody go out there. You be talking
• 53:18
  Speaker 8: to the grave like we miss you and all the
• 53:20
  Speaker 8: type of stuff. But that ain't the grave you're supposed
• 53:22
  Speaker 8: to be at. That's the wrong person. You've been talking
• 53:24
  Speaker 8: to you.
• 53:24
  Speaker 7: At the wrong one, and you standing on somebody else?
• 53:28
  Speaker 7: Who is you standing on? You got you got to
• 53:30
  Speaker 7: pay attention. I got to pay it.
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: I appreciate that time bit of information that you need.
• 53:39
  Speaker 7: Enough about that, all right, No graves going on February
• 53:47
  Speaker 7: the eighth, All right, this is all fun right here.
• 53:49
  Speaker 7: February the eighth, the nephew will be at Memphis to
• 53:53
  Speaker 7: the see that's great Sland sound stage, great Sland sound
• 53:56
  Speaker 7: slads right out there. Well y'all come on out and
• 53:59
  Speaker 7: take a look, nephews, kevil to tell all right, Uh,
• 54:03
  Speaker 7: Graceland soundstage. That is the that's the weekend of the
• 54:06
  Speaker 7: Big Game. So Saturday night is a nephew in Memphis,
• 54:11
  Speaker 7: Tenna say all right, they ain't been there for a
• 54:14
  Speaker 7: minute in a while. Ain't in Memphis. It really has Memphis.
• 54:17
  Speaker 7: What's been going on down there? Peabody's still there? Mayfferent
• 54:20
  Speaker 7: barbecue got by five six different barbecue spies down there.
• 54:23
  Speaker 7: That's still jumping? Is them ducks still crossing the street
• 54:26
  Speaker 7: down there?
• 54:27
  Speaker 2: That still happened.
• 54:28
  Speaker 8: We was up there the Peabody last week, and you're
• 54:30
  Speaker 8: telling me for Saint ju if I tell you them
• 54:33
  Speaker 8: ducks live better than people at the Peabody very well.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: Every fact they got a whole show. Yeah, I know it.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: I know it, And you better not do nothing on
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: them ducks.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Strawberry Letter. The subject
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: is you get a load of this subject that's sharing
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: a man better than being single. We will delve into
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: this one right after this.
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: No, there ain't no duck saying what you eat? Hi.
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: This is Shirley Strawberry. And I don't know if you
• 55:08
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subjects is sharing a man. Listen to
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  Speaker 1: the subject now. Is sharing a man better than being single.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna ask tom We're gonna ask Tommy not to
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  Speaker 2: say nothing, Tommy whole damn letter. I'm gonna try. No,
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  Speaker 2: it's gonna be hard. Yeah, it's gonna see if you
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  Speaker 2: can go ahead, shut.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, Steve. Dear Stephen Shirley. I had
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: an extramarital affair with a man for nine years, and
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: it was the most significant relationship that I have ever had.
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  Speaker 1: It lasted from the time I was thirty until I
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  Speaker 1: was thirty nine, although he was married. We vacationed together
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  Speaker 1: and he treated me well. We also spent Christmas and
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: New Year's Eaves together. Every year. I would fly in first,
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: and then his wife and family would come a day
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: or two later. They would come in a day or
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: two later, just so we could have our time and
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  Speaker 1: space to be together. He and I are both athletes,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: and we enjoyed working out and watching sports together. But
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: I got tired of being number two in his life,
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: so I ended the relationship five years ago. We remain
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: friends and occasionally we meet up for coffee or lunch.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: I have to try to keep my feelings in check
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: when I see him, because I do still love him. Recently,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: he told me that he misses the time that he
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: and I spent together, and he said he needs me
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: back in his life. He has asked me to be
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: his second wife in a polygamous marriage, which is allowed
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: here in South Africa. This is the third time he's
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: asked me. The first two times I was younger and
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: I thought I would meet a man and start a
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: family of my own. Now that I am older and
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: I can no longer have children, I am considering his proposal.
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  Speaker 1: Steven Shirley, this is the greatest man I've ever known
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: and the only man I've ever loved. I don't think
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: I can find this type of connection with anyone else.
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  Speaker 1: So I ask you, is it better for me to
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: share him with his first wife or wait for love
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: of my own and remain single for now? Okay? I
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: mean the obvious question to say, we have asked you
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  Speaker 1: not to say anything. I told you yes. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: obviously you have questions about all of this, or you
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: wouldn't be writing Steve and I first. Why would you
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: consciously choose to be second? That's not how a person
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: really thinks, especially a person in their right mind. You
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: will never be first, if you already are settling for second,
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  Speaker 1: and he has no incentive to do anything other than
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: what he's doing. He wants his cake and he wants
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: to eat it too. In other words, he's not leaving
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  Speaker 1: his wife, but he still wants you. He's asked you
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  Speaker 1: to be his second wife because you are considering and
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  Speaker 1: allowing it. I just say, don't do this to yourself.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what about you. You've been with him when
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: you were thirty till thirty nine. You want nine more
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  Speaker 1: years to go by in your life being with this
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  Speaker 1: man and having no man of your own?
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: What do you want?
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  Speaker 9: What about you?
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: I know you want a man of your own. You
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: want Christmas Day right instead of Christmas Eve? Don't you
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: think you deserve that? I mean anything else should be
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: unacceptable to you. You've got to get out of this
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: place you're in. There are other good men out there.
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: You said this is the best man you've ever known.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: He was cheating on his wife. That doesn't make him
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: a good man. Put yourself first instead of loving him
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: and being so sprung on him. You got to love yourself.
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: You got to choose you.
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: You got to get your self esteem, your self confidence up.
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: Stop thinking like one of these, like a desperate woman.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: There's no you would be thinking about being his number
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  Speaker 1: two if you were your own self number one. You
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying. You got to start today remembering
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: and realizing who you really are. Tell this married man
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: to kick rocks, work on yourself. Okay, this is not
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: the man for you, Steve.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: I have so many questions in this letter, and I travel,
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: so let's start. I'm in an extra marital fair with
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: a man for nine years, and it's been the most
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: significant relationship I've ever had. It lasted from the time
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 2: I was thirty until I was thirty nine, prime time.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: Although he was married. We vacation together and he treated me. Well. Wait,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: let me say, wow, how y'all going on vacations together.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out how what married man can
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: go somewhere for a week taking a vacation and your
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: wife don't know or ain't there. I don't know how
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: this happened. So I have that question. You ready for
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: the next one. We also spent Christmas and New Year's
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: Eve together every year. What these are major holidays? You
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: can't get Christmas? It tests ain't no way to explain
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: Christmas to the wife and them kids.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: It's how.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 2: New Year's Eve and Christmas Eve or Christmas Day you
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: cannot explain those away? And okay, but he ain't through though,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 2: he said I. Then she said I would fly in first,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 2: then his wife and family would come in a day
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: or two later, come in.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: Well, fly well the vacation spot.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 2: And then he fly the family in New Year's Day
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: or the day after. What who let their husband go
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: in early? I'm I don't understand here.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, they she didn't say. Well, we'll get into
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: it when we get back.
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  Speaker 2: Say what break right here?
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: We got to take a break right here. I'll tell you.
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  Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
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  Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Is sharing a man
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  Speaker 1: better than being single? Is the subject of today's Strawberry Letter.
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  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this.
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  Speaker 2: was giving my explanation that but you said you could
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  Speaker 2: explain this because I was struggling with the part in
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  Speaker 2: the letter where they said they were married, we vacation together.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 2: He treated me, well, we also spent Christmas and New
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 2: Year's Eve together every year. I would fly in first,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: then his wife and family would come in a day
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: or two later.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: What that's for the vacation part. That's just for the
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: vacation part. Yeah, sure, that's all.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 2: Did you sure? Did you read the letter?
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 9: Yeah?
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: I did read. I would also spent Christmas in New
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: Year's Eve together. Every year. I would fly in first,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: then his wife and family would come in a day
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: or two later. Uh huh. That that's in reference to
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: Christmas and New Year's Eve.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: But she said we also spent Christmas and New Year's
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: e together. She didn't say that they vacationed Christmas even
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: New Year's Eve. That's all I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, fine, I'll accept that. Yeah, let me ask
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: you a question. Okay, as a woman, you and Carl,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 2: you already know what did he say that he ain't
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: there for Christmas? Even Christmas? Where you? What is your
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 2: telling these t I'm so bad for Okay now, okay,
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: so now let me go on through the letter. He
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 2: and I both athletes, and we enjoy working out and
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: watching sports together. But I got tired of being number two,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: so I ended the relationship five years ago. Main friends
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: and occasionally metal for coffee or lunch. I had to
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: keep my feelings in check when I see him because
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 2: I do still love him. Recently, he told me that
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: he misses the time that he and I spent together
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: and he needs me back in his life. Okay, cool,
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: listen to this. He had asked me to be his
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: second wife in.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: A politic in a polygamous You know what that means.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: Polygamisis to what I'm looking at. You know, polygamous marriage,
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: which is allowed here in South Africa. I've been to
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: South many times. Tape shows that and everything. I ain't
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: heard this I have not now I know in Africa
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: there are multiple wives. It's also allowed in the Arab
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: culture in some places, multiple wives, multiple no you ain't
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: you ain't that now? See you am as want to
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: get somebody kid because me here don't know how to
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 2: play in the sand box together. Y'all the only ones
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: that know how to play in the sandbox together, ain't. No, man,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 2: you can't have multiple husbands. No, it's because you can't.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: You can't do that because what you have.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 2: No, because what you have to give away, Because what
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: you have to give away is far more precious. And
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: every man knows that.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: But he can have all the wife he wants.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: He just I'm This is the third time he's asked
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: me this, and the first two times was young, and
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 2: I thought I would meet a man and start a
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: family on my own. Why you gonna meet a man
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: and start a family own? And you see in this
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: other guy that ain't gonna happen. Now I'm older and
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 2: I can no longer have children. I'm considering his proposal.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: Stephen Sherley, this is the greatest man I've ever known
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 2: and the only man I've ever loved. I don't think
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 2: I can find this type of connection with anybody else.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: So I asked you, is it better for me to
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: share him with his first wife or wait for love
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: on my own and remain single for now. I can't
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: answer that for you because obviously you have a proposal
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 2: that I've never been able to give to anybody. You know,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: I couldn't even get two women my girlfriend at the
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: same time, so what I've never been able to convince
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 2: it just to be my girlfriend at the same time.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: I've always had to manage some type of lie to
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: even maintain that. I think is what he doing right now.
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 2: I think he lined up into max. Now, if you
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 2: want to do that and you want to sign up
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: for that, go ahead. If that's what you want to.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: Do it, go ahead. Don't do that the best nine
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: years of her life.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: That's the best nine years because she.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: Doesn't know any better.
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: Well, if you when you know better, you can do better. Yeah,
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: But if you don't know better, you ain't gonna do better.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: So that's where she at right now. Or wait for
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: love on my own, or remain single for now? You
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: can wait, wait for love, wait for love, don't get
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: the chance to love. Wait for love. Yeah, No, we
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: love the way. I don't say sad that it is true.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: Chance for years? Yeah, hold on tie, Yeah, I think
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 2: you're right. Nothing hurts as bad as when you see
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: you gave up. Yeah, but how much worse? Ain't gone
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 2: the same? In the Arab culture, if you have a
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: second wife, that wife has to live in the exact
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: same love. Tree asked at first, that could be no differential,
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: Like she can't have a big palace, and then you
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 2: got the little studio apartment.
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: I'd like to be able to afford her. Yeah, the
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: exact same gone over there.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: I'm in my palace. But I know everybody. I know
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: all my friends over there, they got one wife and
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: know they can't take that into the house.
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• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: let's say shout out to Pete Carroll Man.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 8: Pete Carroll is now the new head coach of the
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 8: Las Vegas Raiders. At seven three years old, peak good coach.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: Good coach made the dumbest college on history. But other
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: than that, he is great coach.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's it.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 2: When the Seahawks through that past playing against the New
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 2: England Patriots, I was so happy we finished beat the
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 2: Patriots through that interception. I said, you smow baby one yard.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: That's all they need is now.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 5: Ye.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 8: But the Dallas Cowboys have a new head coach also.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 8: It is Brian Schottenheim. Brian Schotthaimer is now the head
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 8: coach of the world famous Dallas Cowboys. And why if
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 8: everybody's quittun that's always.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: The offensive coordinator, why would you make him the head
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 2: coach That don't make no system, man, you need a
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: new system. Absolutely. Hey man, here's a stat that I
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: heard somebody say, an interesting stat about the Dallas Cowboys.
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 2: Daniels who was to coach for the Commanders, James d
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: and Jalen Hurts all they were born, went to college,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: won a championship, yes, before the Cowboys could play for
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: defision championship. Since nineteen ninety five, they have the longest
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: streak of any team in the NFL, including the Browns,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: to play for the championship, a shot at going to
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 2: the Super Bowl.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 8: But that was Mike McCarthy's. That was Mike McCarthy's officer coordinator.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 8: Means you're gonna have the same offense. You need a
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 8: whole new regime, you need you need to start all
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 8: the way over.
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: Clear the whole. Jerry Jones is not gonna hire somebody
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: that he can't control.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: And that's what everybody's thinking of. He could control him.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he can't go get prime, No, because it's too
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: big of a personality. And I don't know why y'all
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: thought he was going there anyway. Brian didn't want to
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: come now, he didn't want to go there. Not the
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 2: Cowboys Jerry Jones. Man is a hell of a nice guy.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: Met him personally, hell of a nice guy. But he's
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 2: a billionaire. He's not fit to change. He too old.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: He bought that team so he could actively play in
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: the NFL. He the coach, he the GM, he the
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: scouting team. He cut the deals. Oh man, he do
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: all the drafting. The best hobby he ever had. He
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: don't do it. You don't hear him talking about nothing else.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: That's it, all that all and all that stuff he got.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 2: Hi'll give down.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: Just a cowboy, that's all just because.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: This made him famous. Until he bought the Cowboys, you
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: didn't know who his rich are.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: He just a person old. Thank you, Junior. Coming up
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, and Steve, a lady
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: needs advice on how to handle her eighty year old
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: mama's boyfriend. We'll talk about that right into it. Yes,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: get her a man. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, So Steve, this is from Paris
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: on Staten Island. Paris says, I went to my eighty
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: year old mama's home and she had changed the locks.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: She told me that she is a new quote friend.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: That's a man, and she was worried about telling me
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: because she didn't want me to judge her. She said
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: that her friend that's a man spends a night with her,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: so he told her to change the locks so I
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: can't sneak in on them. I told her that was
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: all fine and dandy with me, but I need a key.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 1: She said, no, I need to talk to her friend
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: that's a man, because he isolating my mama from me.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: How do I convince her to let me meet him?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, way, yeah, he ain'ty Where are you going? He
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  Speaker 2: over there? How you gonna meet him? Go over there?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: But she can't knock on the door, ring the door bell?
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 2: Where you gonna take a while? You gotta get to
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: the door, but rain dooe bill knock on them. He
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  Speaker 2: gotta come. And if he drives, just go out there
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  Speaker 2: and put your.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: Car behind his.
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  Speaker 2: Where are you going? When he come outside? You can
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: talk to him. You gotta talk to him. You need
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: to keep to your mama's house. Case something happened right exactly,
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 2: because either one of them, one of them could fall,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: the other one gonna need help getting them up. You know,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: ain't all in here like he running stuff? You know right. Look,
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  Speaker 2: he got some type of apparatus. I promise you that
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 2: you got to see what he got. He got, Oh,
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 2: he got apparadi, he gotta walker, he gotta gotta he
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 2: got a van with a lyph on it. He got something.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: He got something, he got the teeth in the glass something. Yeah,
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: that portable. He got something. Well, I get cutting cords
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: threatening her eighty year old mom happy though, Well, because
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: he down when you ate it. If they just there,
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: that's a good look. He came over, didn't he here here?
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  Speaker 1: That's that's how.
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  Speaker 2: He here?
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  Speaker 1: She just her mom didn't want to be judged, Steve.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: That's why she changed.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: You can't judge her. Let her live her life. She
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 2: eighty something. He don't want you to walk in on us, Steve.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: And they doing something. That's because they not gonna be
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 2: able to dress quick. That's not They ain't gonna be
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 2: able to jump up. Ain't nobody gonna be get behind
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 2: the door. They just gonna have to. They're gonna slowly
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: roll all over and there they are.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 1: What are their clothes?
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 2: What do they what do they put him on? Just
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 2: regular clothes? No, I ain't they gotta be naked, surely
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: you can't eighty. You can't have nothing in the way.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: Stand leg on one off. She ain't doing that that.
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 2: You got to get all this stuff out the way, clear,
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: We got that right.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: He does have sign.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: He got them socks off. Really, if you don't even
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: needs socks, he got them old feet look like gator
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: look like alligator shoes.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 7: Yo.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 2: If he got something you don't need him. You hear
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 2: you calling husky lushing and nohing. He probably ain't even
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: done his feet till he started dating this woman. Wow,
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: that's roughs.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, so she needs to get
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 1: that key though, just saying that. So she checked art,
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, all right, We have time for another one.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: This one is from loss in Oklahoma City. Law says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a beginner at golf, and I'm eager to learn
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  Speaker 1: the sport because i want to compete with the fellas
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: at my job. I have a pro, a golf pro,
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: helping me with my swing, and I'm definitely falling for her.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: She is married, but she is always bending over in
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: front of me and looking back to get my reaction.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 1: Today she said she can make herself available for private lessons,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: and she kissed me on the cheek right by my lips.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 1: Would I be too forward to come out and ask
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: her if she's interested in me? Or should I wait
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: to see if she makes the first move?
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 2: Did he say she was married?
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's married.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 2: She's no, that's off limits. Yeah, no, kiss a dog, dude.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 2: Not mess with nobody's wife. That's off limits. There's too
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: many women out here, man, don't do that. Yeah, don't
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: mess with nobody's wife. Man, you can get yourself hurt.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 7: Do that.
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: Bro, way too many women out here. Don't mess with
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 2: nobody's wife. I'm just I'm telling you, bro, don't mess
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: with nobody's wife. Man.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: Good advice?
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 2: All right, that ain't good? Pardon all right?
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty minutes after, we'll have more of
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  Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. So do you guys
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: remember this was I think back in November we talked
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: about the forty three monkeys that escaped from a research
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: center in South Carolina. Yeah, we talked about it in
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 1: November of last year. Well, as of Friday, all of
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 1: the monkeys, You'll be happy, all of the monkeys are
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: back in custody. Of the facility.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: You may not be happy.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 1: After almost three months on the loose, last on the run.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 2: They wasn't over loose day was on the run.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: The last four missing monkeys were captured on Friday, not
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  Speaker 1: too far actually from the facility. All forty three monkeys
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: are reportedly in good condition. So here's a question. How
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 1: do you think the monkeys got captured?
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  Speaker 2: One monkey run snitch? One monkey? Yeah, one monkey snitch,
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 2: that's for sure.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 1: Oh what's going down?
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't find out who snitched somebody, cause
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you what, Man, they're all in that
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 2: cave with their arms folded down. I'll beat it. Who
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 2: told who snitched? Who step out here talking about?
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 7: Man?
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 2: What the fun they had?
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: I was out man, hollering the snitch ain't taking the
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: medicine no more.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 2: That's him.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 1: He snitched, He ain't taking the medication. That's him.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: Well, it was hard out there because you can't meet
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 2: no more because they weren't. They ain't in monkey country,
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: so they couldn't meet no more monkeys monkey, all the
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 2: moneys in the lamb, well more than.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: The Steve Harby Morning Show coming up at thirty three
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: minutes after we'll play around him. Would you rather right
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  Speaker 2: Let me?
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  Speaker 1: It's time now for a round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 1: Would you rather ride a motorcycle on the four five
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: in La or would you rather ride in a driverless car?
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 6: Me?
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 1: Motorcycle on the four five?
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 7: Me?
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 2: Okay, you know my motorcycle?
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 13: No, yeah, they ain't no body sides nothing, huh No,
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 13: I got would be I'm gonna be in that driverless
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 13: carn be going slow as hell, fall right lane?
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right? Would you rather no
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 1: bath or shower for three days or no brushing of
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: your teeth for three days.
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: No bath for shower.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you got to brush.
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't care if you can't stand me.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: But what I can't not stand myself? My mouth? I'm
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 2: drinking coffee, smoking sick.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 1: All boys, you.
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 2: Can go three days, three days bathing. Come on, you
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: ain't done that before, five been homeless? Shut up? Three days.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: That's that's your option. Three days without bathing or brushing.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: Easy Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: But Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. I'm taking that bath. I'm taking
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: that bath.
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: Your teeth.
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: I'm putting that soap in my mouth.
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: I just said, you can't brush your teeth taking a shower, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all right, and heaven.
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna talk to nobody for three days though.
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 1: You're not coming to work.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: In fact, don't even don't even get on this zoom.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 1: We can't smell his breath of the zoo.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: After three days, you will, all right.
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: Would you rather an enormous booty with no hips or
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: a flat booty with big hips with hips, flat booty,
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: no hipps, that's it's a terrible sight.
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 14: But one of them, yeah, one of them, Greg with
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 14: no narrow, narrow arrow straight out in the back, straight out. Yeah,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 14: take them shout out chick jeans back in the day.
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  Speaker 1: Yes that okay, Junior.
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  Speaker 11: No, I won't.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 1: I want no hips in the booty, That's what I want.
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I got to see something that. What I
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 2: can't do is be on your side and I back
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 2: there I can see the next person. I can't do that.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna do is look past your ass
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 1: and see the next person. It's not a clear view, clearly,
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: all right?
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: Would you rather get up a second to me? Or
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: would you rather sit in a hot tub for hours
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 1: with your ex.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 2: The hotel for hours? What with your hotb Yeah, I'm
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: getting Yeah, it's the same thing I'm gonna I'm gonna
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 2: sit in this hot tub. Yeah, all right? Either way,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 2: hack like she ain't dead.
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  Speaker 1: All right, that's today's rounded. Would you rather coming up next,
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  Speaker 1: we'll close out the show with the one and only
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are last breakup of the
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  Speaker 1: day on this Wednesday, hop day. It's been a good day,
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  Speaker 1: good show. Thank you guys for listening. We appreciate your business, yes, sir,
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  Speaker 1: we do.
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  Speaker 2: I got some closing remarks for you. I've thought about
• 1:24:44
  Speaker 2: this and so in this new year, I want to
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  Speaker 2: remind people because we were you know, most of us
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 2: are good people, are trying to become better people are
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 2: you know, doing the best we can and we have
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 2: to be considerate of others. But this year I want
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: you to be careful in your consideration of others. Don't
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 2: ignore yourself. And I'm talking especially to women because women
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: are you are about the nurturing of so many people.
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 2: To true you're the fixer when it comes to feelings, emotions,
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 2: and you make sure everybody is okay, and sometimes you
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 2: ignore yourself. I want you to beware of that. But
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 2: I'm talking to men too, because I do so much
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 2: for other people, but sometimes I forget to take out
• 1:25:42
  Speaker 2: time for myself. So this is for everybody, but I'm
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 2: especially talking to women. Be very very aware in this
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 2: upcoming year of people who lay the most useless emotion
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 2: of them all on you, which is guilt. If you
• 1:26:02
  Speaker 2: think about the emotion of guilt, it's the most useless
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 2: emotion that we have because it only serves one person,
• 1:26:10
  Speaker 2: and that's the person applying the guilt, who's using it
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 2: as a form of manipulation. Oh so you don't forgot
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 2: where you come from. I remember when you used to
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 2: help me. You know, I know you got it. Man,
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 2: you sit over the man God then bless you with everything,
• 1:26:30
  Speaker 2: and you just don't. You don't remember us. Man, Man,
• 1:26:34
  Speaker 2: stop stop. You really are not my obligation. You're really not.
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 2: You're really really not.
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 7: You know.
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 2: A funny thing happened recently. I had to release somebody,
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 2: and the conversation I had i had to release them.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: It was a very fair. I had given this person
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 2: ample opportunity and many chances, but in releasing the person,
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 2: I still gave him a wonderful out, But you know
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: what the person told me. What am I gonna do now?
• 1:27:07
  Speaker 2: He said, mister Harvey, you don't understand what it's like.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 2: And I'm just looking at him, and I'm trying to
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 2: figure out what it is that's happening in your life
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 2: that you think I have no awareness of a new
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: experience in And he said to me, even with this
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 2: severance package you're giving me and the ability to work
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 2: in other areas of your company, I would not have
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: signed my new lease had I known this. I said,
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 2: wait a minute, man, Hold oh, I don't know when
• 1:27:39
  Speaker 2: your lease is up. I don't know when your lease.
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 2: But you still have work, you still have opportunities, you
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 2: still have jobs. And so he just continued to try
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 2: to make me feel guilty about a decision I had
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 2: made when clearly you were no longer servicing your end
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 2: of the bargain the way you could. But now, all
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: of a sudden, what am I gonna do?
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 6: Well?
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: I got to think it too. What do I do
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: when they cancel my TV shows?
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 7: Now?
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 2: Nobody give me no notice. I just come to work
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 2: one day and they tell me show gone. I got
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 2: to deal with it. I came to work one day
• 1:28:15
  Speaker 2: and they told me Little Big Shots is gone and
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: your talk show gone, and just walked away out of
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 2: my face, no warning, know nothing. I remember in two
• 1:28:25
  Speaker 2: thousand and five, Shirley and Tommy was with me when
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 2: they told me I lost my TV show and then
• 1:28:32
  Speaker 2: my radio show in the same month. I had no
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 2: entertainment contracts at all, and they just told me it's
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 2: a rap. So what am I gonna do? I don't know.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 2: I don't know what you're gonna do, but you better
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 2: go to work and fix it. And I still gave
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 2: him out, but they were trying to make me feel guilty.
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 2: No more, no, no, no, no, that's not how this
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 2: works anymore. Listen, be considerate of others, others, but don't
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 2: ignore yourself. Remember now what you do. See I tell
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: people all the time, if you didn't have my number,
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 2: what would you do? Well get to doing that. Then, See,
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: you ain't got to feel guilty because somebody got access
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 2: to you. Having access to you don't mean they should
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 2: have total access to you. Just because you know my number.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: Don't give you an end with me. In every aspect
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 2: of your life, you are not responsible for the life
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 2: of other people. Because when you get in trouble. When
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 2: you and your husband or your family get in the situation,
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 2: who you got to call probably nobody. So stop being
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 2: the one that's always made to feel like you owe them,
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 2: you owe somebody because you don't. You don't people. Take
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 2: some time out for yourself in twenty twenty five. Get
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 2: yourself a hobby that you enjoy doing. You want to
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 2: go down there and take a spin class. You want
• 1:29:53
  Speaker 2: to go down there and take yoga. You want to
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 2: go down there and do breath work, Go down there
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 2: and do it. You want to go sit in therapy,
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 2: Go down there and do it. You want to set
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 2: up a tea with your girlfriends every Wednesday evening, go
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 2: do it. You want to have a card night on Saturdays,
• 1:30:10
  Speaker 2: go do it. Man, Go enjoy your life and stop
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 2: allowing people to make you feel as though you owe
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 2: them when clearly they have made a conscious decision not
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 2: to owe you anything. You ever gave somebody some money
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 2: and they ain't give it back, and then they come
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 2: back for some more that ever happened to you, I
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 2: bet it has gave them some money, they didn't pay
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 2: it back and came back for some more. That what
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 2: man like I saw this dude on Instagram. He said,
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 2: you must think I'm some new kind of stupid where
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 2: you can do something to me. Let some time go by,
• 1:30:52
  Speaker 2: think I'm gonna forget it, and you come back to
• 1:30:54
  Speaker 2: me like a nothing happened. You must think I'm some
• 1:30:58
  Speaker 2: new kind of stupid. Well twenty five, stop being that way.
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  Speaker 2: Long. Have a great with today, y'all. Talk to God.
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