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Shedeur Sanders and the NFL Draft, Shannon Sharpe Takes A Temporary Break, Strawberry Letter - My 3-Way Love Affair - 04.28.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 2: I don't Joy?
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  Speaker 5: I was somewhere, you know, and I was driving on
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  Speaker 5: the freeway somewhere, and I saw a billboard and there
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  Speaker 5: was a guy in a field on his knees. And
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  Speaker 5: you've run out of answers, try prayer. And I was
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  Speaker 5: going somewhere, and I don't even remember I go so much. Man,
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  Speaker 5: I was just going somewhere and I saw this billboarding
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  Speaker 5: and I thought about that, And man, I cannot tell
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  Speaker 5: you how true of a statement that is. When you've
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  Speaker 5: run out of answers, when you don't know what to do,
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  Speaker 5: when you feel weak, when you are at a low point,
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  Speaker 5: when things just seem to keep happening to you, and
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  Speaker 5: you don't understand why. Prayer is an amazing weapon. Prayer
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  Speaker 5: is available to all of us. Here's a deal. You
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  Speaker 5: don't have to go through the all of that you're
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  Speaker 5: going through alone. See, I'm talking to men, women, boys, girls, students, leaders, bosses, employees.
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  Speaker 5: I don't care what's happening. I don't care what your
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  Speaker 5: situation is. I don't care if your relationship is all
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  Speaker 5: jacked up. I don't care if your kids and your
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  Speaker 5: relationship is jacked up. I don't care if your relationship
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  Speaker 5: at work is shot. Your coworkers seem to always make
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  Speaker 5: you the buddy end of the joke. You always somebody
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  Speaker 5: always talking about you behind your back. You're finding it
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  Speaker 5: more and more necessary to try to hold your head
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  Speaker 5: up and walk past these people. When some days you
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  Speaker 5: can't even get your chin up off your chest. If
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  Speaker 5: you're a woman out there and you've been alone by
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  Speaker 5: yourself for so long and you just tired of being alone.
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  Speaker 5: You really want a relationship, you really want to be
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  Speaker 5: have a mate, you want to meet your soul mate,
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  Speaker 5: whatever it is, whatever it is, prayer.
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  Speaker 1: Is the answer.
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  Speaker 5: You are listening to a guy who is a direct
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  Speaker 5: recipient of prayer. I can't tell you anything that I've
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  Speaker 5: gotten out of that I didn't pray about.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, now, there are a lot of things. Hold on,
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  Speaker 1: let me backtrack a little bit. There are a lot
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  Speaker 1: of things that have happened in my life that I've
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  Speaker 1: gotten past without praying, because.
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  Speaker 5: I think my mama was praying for me. And then
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  Speaker 5: there's this thing that God has called grace and mercy
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  Speaker 5: that he just somehow keeps us all waking up every
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  Speaker 5: day without foot on some form of solid ground because
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  Speaker 5: He's just waiting on us to come to him. But y'all,
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  Speaker 5: if you can implement prayer into your day every single day,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm talking about put it in there at the
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  Speaker 5: top of your day, put it in there in the
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  Speaker 5: middle of your day, put it in there when you
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  Speaker 5: close your day out. When you're sitting at your desk
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  Speaker 5: and ain't nobody bothering you, that's a good time.
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  Speaker 1: Now. Look, you don't have to make no sing.
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  Speaker 5: You ain't got to let everybody know, Oh I'm spiritual,
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  Speaker 5: I love God, look at me, Oh I'm down, or
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  Speaker 5: you ain't got to do none of that. Matter of fact,
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  Speaker 5: don't do it for that reason, because if that's your
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  Speaker 5: reason for doing it, that's gonna be your reward.
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  Speaker 1: If you want.
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  Speaker 5: Somebody to just say, oh, they pray every you know,
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  Speaker 5: they pray at lunch and they have a Bible on
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  Speaker 5: their desk and they have a bunch of highlights in it.
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  Speaker 5: If you sitting it out there so people can see
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  Speaker 5: that that's what you do, then that's gonna be your reward.
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  Speaker 5: Please know that's gonna be your reward. What I want
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  Speaker 5: you to do is pray. Ask God for the things
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  Speaker 5: the desires of your heart, have a faith, believe in them.
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  Speaker 5: But pray earnestly.
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  Speaker 6: Man.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, actually go at it with saying, hey, God,
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  Speaker 5: listen to me. I can't do this without you. I
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  Speaker 5: need your help. Listen, man, I know a lot of
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  Speaker 5: people that pray. I know a lot of it if
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  Speaker 5: I told you the rich and famous that I talk
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  Speaker 5: to that pray constantly, it would have made you go
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  Speaker 5: talk to God about it.
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  Speaker 4: Man.
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  Speaker 5: Matter of fact, you done already got yourself into trouble.
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  Speaker 5: Go talk to God about it. You can't see no
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  Speaker 5: way out. You're in a situation. You're thinking about doing
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  Speaker 5: something straight crazy. Pump your brakes, partner, Slow down a
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  Speaker 5: little bit, my man, Slow down. Don't all you're gonna
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  Speaker 5: do is make situation worse. Go over there today and
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  Speaker 5: talk to God. Talk to God for real. Just and look, man,
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  Speaker 5: you know what. Man, Sometimes I've gone to God and
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  Speaker 5: I've just said, Hey, God, I don't have a clue.
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  Speaker 5: Matter of fact, I'm so jacked up right now. God,
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  Speaker 5: I don't even really know what to ask you for.
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  Speaker 5: I just need some help. I'm so deep is some
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  Speaker 5: mess right now. Not only can I not see the
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  Speaker 5: way out, I can't see my way round. There's a
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  Speaker 5: there's a poem called Invictis, and the opening line says,
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  Speaker 5: out of the night that covers me black as a
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  Speaker 5: pit from pole to pole, I thank God's for whatever
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  Speaker 5: be for my unconquerable soul. That this line is so deep.
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  Speaker 5: It starts off saying, I am in deep trouble. I'm
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  Speaker 5: in a pit, black as a pit.
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  Speaker 1: From pole to pole.
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  Speaker 5: I'm talking about man. From over there to over there,
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  Speaker 5: it's pitch black and and and man, that man. You've
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  Speaker 5: been in that situation before, y'all, because I have. I'm
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  Speaker 5: talking about black as a pit from pole to pole.
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  Speaker 5: God is there, God is available. God is always standing by.
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  Speaker 5: He just wants you to come to him. See he
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  Speaker 5: been coming to you a whole lot of times. He's
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  Speaker 5: presented himself. I can't tell you how many times he's
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  Speaker 5: shown you how good a god he is. He's given
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  Speaker 5: us all grace and mercy without us asking for it.
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  Speaker 5: He's gotten you through some things. And you look at him, going, oh, man,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know how the hell. Okay, that's cool, I'm cool.
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  Speaker 5: No no, no, no, no, that wasn't cool.
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  Speaker 1: That was God.
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  Speaker 5: Pray man, when you out of answers and you don't
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  Speaker 5: know what to do, pray. If you see some trouble,
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  Speaker 5: come and pray. If you already got into it, pray
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  Speaker 5: if you don't know the answers, Pray. If you can't
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  Speaker 5: see no way out, pray, Pray man, talk to God.
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  Speaker 1: Don't make a scene. Just talk to God, all right,
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  Speaker 1: very important.
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  Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen, you know another it just keeps happening.
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  Speaker 5: I'm I'm gonna keep being in awe of it because.
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  Speaker 1: I want you to. Because what God.
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  Speaker 8: Because I know a lot of us struggle with this man,
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  Speaker 8: But it's how did you learn patience?
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  Speaker 5: On the patience part, that's one of my struggles patients.
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  Speaker 1: I've gotten better at it, you know.
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  Speaker 5: The hardest part of patience for me to understand was
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  Speaker 5: to trust in God's timing.
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  Speaker 1: That one has been.
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  Speaker 5: A struggle because God's timing I've discovered in my life,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know about yours. You don't ever match up
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  Speaker 5: with mine. It never matches up with mine. I'd be
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  Speaker 5: going like, how about today? Then I wake up tomorrow, Hey,
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  Speaker 5: you know today, be a good day for it to happen,
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  Speaker 5: you know, and then still believing that it's gonna happen,
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  Speaker 5: but trusting in God's timing.
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  Speaker 1: It's just been a rough one.
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  Speaker 5: But then what happened is when it happens, it was
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  Speaker 5: better than the way you had said.
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  Speaker 1: And it happened my way, it would have been messed up.
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  Speaker 5: So that's been a tough part to just that part
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  Speaker 5: of patience is trusted. Now the rest are patients like
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  Speaker 5: my own patience and other people I still I still
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  Speaker 5: don't have it, Like I have no patience for excuses
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  Speaker 5: and I don't have any and I can't not stand laziness.
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  Speaker 5: And you know what, man, like another thing that I
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  Speaker 5: don't have patience for. Like I'll give you an example.
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  Speaker 5: And somebody works for me told me they wasn't feeling good,
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  Speaker 5: and I said, okay, So they said they weren't gonna
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  Speaker 5: probably gonna need like three more days.
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  Speaker 1: I went like, well, really sick, sick?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, so what what'd you have a problem with about that?
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  Speaker 5: Well, because I was with you, why you oh.
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  Speaker 1: I saw it.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know why you came up with three more
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  Speaker 5: days for that. Yeah, but the doctor didn't tell him
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  Speaker 5: three more days, you know. But no, hold up, listen
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  Speaker 5: to this right here. I'm gonna need you about three
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  Speaker 5: more days, see that right there, because that don't sound
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  Speaker 5: like three days.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need a deeper cough. I'm gonna have to hear.
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  Speaker 9: Something near death day for real.
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  Speaker 4: I know.
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  Speaker 7: All right, thank you guys. Coming up at thirty two
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  Speaker 7: minutes after the hour, we'll hear from the pastors as
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  Speaker 7: they deliver a word right after this. You're listening Harvey
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  Speaker 7: Morning Show, folks.
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  Speaker 1: There are a lot of reasons to like days.
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  Speaker 10: two three one four four six zero three for more details.
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  Speaker 1: It is time now for the pastors with a word.
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  Speaker 5: We we are here to pontificate to annihilation or duration
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  Speaker 5: for the congregation. We we gavel in the most by
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  Speaker 5: curious way. Yeah, h knowing that you can wonder about this,
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  Speaker 5: but you still wonder about that, dell.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: We gather now for word from Deacon Or. We will
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  Speaker 5: be preaching from a book. Deacon go ahead.
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  Speaker 10: Yes, Pastor, we got the book lined up for you.
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  Speaker 1: Listen.
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  Speaker 10: So this is what's going on, pastor. Brother Ernest Banks,
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  Speaker 10: it has heard that his girl is leaving him. So
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  Speaker 10: I took the liberty and we're gonna go from the
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  Speaker 10: book of Marvin yay.
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  Speaker 1: The Book of Marvin Gay.
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  Speaker 10: If you go down to chapter three, verse two, it
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  Speaker 10: is I heard it through the great vibe. I heard
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  Speaker 10: it through the great vibe. Let me know when you
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  Speaker 10: like for me to read. Oh, I bet you're wondering
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  Speaker 10: how I knew.
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  Speaker 1: I'm assuming I ain't sposed to notice here.
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  Speaker 10: About your plans he'll make me blue.
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  Speaker 5: Stop right there. You obviously do conjured up some thoughts about.
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  Speaker 1: Making me blue. Hurree with some other guy you knew before?
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  Speaker 1: Stop right there? Or in the words of or Bill
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  Speaker 1: Willen or who is he? And what is he to you?
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  Speaker 4: A read.
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  Speaker 10: Between the two of us, guys, you know I love
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  Speaker 10: you more?
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  Speaker 5: Stop right there. He can't love you the way I
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  Speaker 5: do him. It took me by surprise. I must say,
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  Speaker 5: stop right now, shock.
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  Speaker 2: Cut off, God go wield it.
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  Speaker 4: Just may.
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  Speaker 11: Oh no, look at hill, Look at that read when
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  Speaker 11: I found out yesterday.
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  Speaker 5: Stop right over there? All right, this just come to me.
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  Speaker 5: There wasn't a while ago, just oh yesterday. I mean
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  Speaker 5: your phrase today over something I heard yesterday read.
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  Speaker 10: Don't you know that I heard it through the grape vine?
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  Speaker 5: Stop right there, grapevine talking, Come on, grapevine got lips
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  Speaker 5: you have to die, loose lips, sank ships or read.
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  Speaker 10: Next line said, not much longer would you be mine?
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  Speaker 1: Stop right there. I don't know what plan it is.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what you thought.
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  Speaker 5: It was, but the grapevine got the word out come
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  Speaker 5: to me that not much longer will you be mine?
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  Speaker 5: And where is coming to read?
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  Speaker 7: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: I'm just about to lose my mind. Stop right there,
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  Speaker 5: they've already lost it. Read all right right here?
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  Speaker 10: Passed it says, I know a man ain't supposed to cry,
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  Speaker 10: stop right there.
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  Speaker 5: Come on, I know a man they't supposed to cry? Yeah, lord, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: but I got news for you.
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  Speaker 1: Come on now. It's some men's crying somewhere, Yes it is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Say there's some men's crying somewhere. Come on now.
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  Speaker 10: Read but these tears I can't hold inside?
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  Speaker 1: Stop right there is obvious. Did you tell that I'm crying?
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  Speaker 1: Call you c D T.
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  Speaker 6: I.
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  Speaker 5: If I held him inside, I wouldn't be crying now
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  Speaker 5: would now free?
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  Speaker 1: Losing you would in my life? You see? Stop right there.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta lose you ain't it ain't gonna be worth living.
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  Speaker 5: Read because you mean that much to stop right there
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  Speaker 5: and heard the song heard it through the grief.
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  Speaker 1: Not much longer? Would you be none?
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  Speaker 5: And he tears, I can't hold hisself now, about to
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  Speaker 5: lose my mind.
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  Speaker 1: Ree, You could have told me, stop right there, talk
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  Speaker 1: on it.
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  Speaker 5: You could have told me yourself, but I had heard
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  Speaker 5: it through the grape vine, Ree, that you the love
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  Speaker 5: someone else?
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  Speaker 1: Stop right down? Who is he? And what is he
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  Speaker 1: that you'm gonna ask?
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  Speaker 6: You?
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  Speaker 1: Get free? Instead? I heard it through the great stop
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  Speaker 1: right there.
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  Speaker 5: You'd have told me yourself that you love somebody else.
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  Speaker 5: I wouldn't have had heard it through the grape vine.
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  Speaker 5: I just told you the grapevine got lips.
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  Speaker 1: Preach past ship sank ships read not much longer?
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  Speaker 2: Would you be mine?
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  Speaker 1: You read?
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  Speaker 10: Okay, I heard that through the grayviron and I'm just
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  Speaker 10: about to lose my mind.
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  Speaker 1: Stop right there, not gonna finish that. Finished that.
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  Speaker 5: You can go ahead, honey, honey, well heard it through
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  Speaker 5: the gray vine.
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  Speaker 1: Stop right there.
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  Speaker 5: I want you to know, come on now, that's the
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  Speaker 5: problem we had today is because of something I heard yesterday.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't hear it from anybody. I heard it through
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  Speaker 5: the grapevine.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, you did that not much long ago? Would you
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  Speaker 1: be mine? Now?
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  Speaker 5: Was somebody else involved that you think between the two
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  Speaker 5: of us you could make a better choice. But god on,
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  Speaker 5: if you want to and pick somebody else, you're gonna
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  Speaker 5: find out like they find out everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: You need a unit self.
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  Speaker 5: You're gonna be needing grain drop from an air plane.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna be needing some soup in a soup line.
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  Speaker 1: You gonna need to check.
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  Speaker 5: It to a shelter because I'm gonna take everything back
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  Speaker 5: I ever gave you.
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  Speaker 1: You you think you gonna you don't need you like
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  Speaker 1: I promise you. They made her the last of Melo
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  Speaker 1: right after that whole word.
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  Speaker 7: top of the hour and Entertainment news. We will recap
• 22:15
  Speaker 7: this weekend's trending topics and top news stories, of course,
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  Speaker 7: and that is all coming up at the top of
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  Speaker 7: the hour. But right now it is time to ask
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  Speaker 7: the COLO, our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: from Shell in Kansas City. Shell says, I'm forty four
• 22:30
  Speaker 7: years old. My husband just bought a new car and
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  Speaker 7: he doesn't want me to drive it. I don't value
• 22:35
  Speaker 7: material things like he does, so I don't mind if
• 22:38
  Speaker 7: he drives my binds. He said, I drive badly, Well,
• 22:43
  Speaker 7: so does he? Why is he tripping like this over
• 22:45
  Speaker 7: his car?
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  Speaker 4: Roll?
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  Speaker 1: First of all, let's deal with what you said.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, you said you don't value material.
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: Things like he does, but like he does, but you
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  Speaker 1: let him dry your binds.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, think that was necessary in this conversation because really
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: what we're talking about is he don't want you to
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: drive his car, but you all materialist because if you
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: wasn't you winn the bough of bens. You the bought
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: to PreO you buy business so you could flex well
• 23:16
  Speaker 5: because he know you are not the X part the
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  Speaker 5: second part, he don't want you to drive his car
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: cause you drive bad. See when he said because you
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: drive bad. You didn't say no, I don't. You said
• 23:27
  Speaker 5: he does too. What means the rims on that bens
• 23:33
  Speaker 5: is scarred up? You got little dings and dits all
• 23:36
  Speaker 5: over your bins because you drive badly. What you need
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: to get one of them cars with that automatic park
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: thing on it.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: That's what you need to do.
• 23:47
  Speaker 5: And he not gonna let you ding up his new
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: rims and put all the little beings on his car.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: You drive bad, No, we're not gonna. We done.
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: Gotta get him out of they ain't on that. Why
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: when you drive your car, always something gotta happen.
• 24:01
  Speaker 7: So I'm a little close to the car.
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  Speaker 1: Next, you ain't not close? You too close? You hit it?
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  Speaker 2: You try bad?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't hit.
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  Speaker 7: Nothing driver because you have a driver.
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  Speaker 1: You don't even drive.
• 24:17
  Speaker 7: Next question A to Nita and Madison says, a good
• 24:22
  Speaker 7: friend of mine has gained weight, and she goes to
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  Speaker 7: eat with our group, and we all feel like we're
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: doing her a disservice by not saying anything to her.
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  Speaker 7: Should I pull her to the side and risk hurting
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  Speaker 7: her feelings? Or should I mind my business to.
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  Speaker 1: The side.
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: Out now called fat shamming? So to avoid that, I
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: must answer this question different. Okay, let me just use
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: me and my friends as an example.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm not even talking to this letter.
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  Speaker 5: We have friends in our group that have gained weight,
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: and right now it's a health issue, so we have
• 25:09
  Speaker 5: to talk to them different. They don't take hints, they eat.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: They eat.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, so like when the bill come, we just hand
• 25:19
  Speaker 5: the bill to them. Because you are the the most,
• 25:24
  Speaker 5: and if we split this even it don't work out
• 25:26
  Speaker 5: because you had the most. You ordered full appetizers because
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: you couldn't make up your mind which one you wanted,
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: so you.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: Wanted to taste everything.
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: You split two on trees because you couldn't figure out
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  Speaker 5: which one you want. So you are that both of
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: them and dessert. Now them sides you got. The lady
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: told us these are share plates. How you eat all
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: the coin mash all of them? You ain't all other
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  Speaker 5: skillet potatoes all of them? And we love you and
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: we want you here. You have got to scoot your
• 26:11
  Speaker 5: big behind. I'm under this table. That's just how I
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: know you finna eat a lot? Will you take your
• 26:19
  Speaker 5: shoes off to eat?
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: You find something rest? This is way past unsnapping your pants.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: You have took your shoes off so you could dig
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: your toes into the hard wood so when you chewing
• 26:32
  Speaker 5: you can get extra grip.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: That's a big person. Those are big people tactics. When they.
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: Are you quite done, you insist that they bring you
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: a chair with arms on it so you can lean
• 26:48
  Speaker 5: to the side while you chewing. See, that's that's big
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: people do stuff like that as a desk chair. You
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: excuse me, excuse me because I did two extra naps.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: Who does that?
• 27:08
  Speaker 7: You didn't mind your own business?
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: You really you.
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: Put one up round your shirt collar. You gotta lay
• 27:13
  Speaker 5: one in your lap and one for your mouth because
• 27:16
  Speaker 5: it's too much food.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on right here, we're moving on.
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: This is from Caleb.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: We are done. I said, excuse me, I'm gonna need full.
• 27:28
  Speaker 7: Fox check please check me, please check please, because you're crazy.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need fox.
• 27:38
  Speaker 7: We're moving on. Caleb in Albany writes, my wife called
• 27:44
  Speaker 7: me and I was in the bathroom at work, and
• 27:47
  Speaker 7: she kept asking me questions after I told her I
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: would call it right back. I'm sick of her not
• 27:53
  Speaker 7: respecting me when I tell her I can't talk. But
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: if I start hanging up on her. Will she understand that, Well, you.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Was in the bathroom because of what you ordered yesterday.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: Technic, this is the same person, because when you're in
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: that bathroom you have to focus. You can't take phone
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: calls because when you're done eight the all the coin
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: mash by yourself and had that extra broccolini with that
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: cheese on it, and you ordered them for Fox. This
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: is what's happening now. Now you're in the bathroom and
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: you need total.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Privacy, then go together. He had weren't using the bathroom.
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: Now he got the time and waiting on people to
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: leave out so he could flush.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Stop the other the letter was from Tanita.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: This is from Calum.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: And is a different party.
• 28:44
  Speaker 5: Caleb is flushing, flushing faux five times.
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: You in here too much. I'm just telling.
• 28:51
  Speaker 7: You, Okay, all right, we're moving on because you obviously
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: have new help for this person.
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: Okay, don't worry about that. It's just from what you
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: ate yesterday. Caleb, say that name, Caleb. You ever seen
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: a skinny Caleb?
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: Caleb? Just we're moving on. This is the last one.
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  Speaker 7: Demetria in Charleston, I know, right at church on Easter Sunday,
• 29:21
  Speaker 7: the pastor asked the pastors asked the visitors to stand,
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: and he couldn't.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: I guess because huh say it again?
• 29:30
  Speaker 12: Stand?
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I know, cause you couldn't because of what you ate
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: the other day.
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: Now you're in church and they didn't asked you to stand,
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: and you're big behind, can't get up because you pulled
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: the pew last time and total and total total book
• 29:45
  Speaker 5: rack off of it.
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: But they had the little hymn books.
• 29:48
  Speaker 5: You tried to pull that and you told that him
• 29:50
  Speaker 5: book racked off the back of a pew. So not
• 29:53
  Speaker 5: asking you to stand, and you can't stand because of
• 29:56
  Speaker 5: what you ate the whole order corn mash.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Now you've been in the bathroom mash.
• 30:04
  Speaker 5: Now you are at the church, Oh Euston, you can't
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: stand what it calls.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: Your master suiting.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: There you bought two weeks ago. Don't snap in the front,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: all right, fellow, you have really you have got to.
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: Help these people with these weight problems. And quick, where
• 30:25
  Speaker 5: about hurting a feelings?
• 30:27
  Speaker 7: Entertainment coming up next? Right after this. You're listening hard
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  Speaker 7: morning show. All right, guys, let's just get right to it.
• 30:40
  Speaker 7: The weekend's NFL draft. I know you guys were watching it.
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  Speaker 7: Group text, we're flying, Well, what do you think let's
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  Speaker 7: want to.
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  Speaker 4: See to it.
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  Speaker 1: I won't want to say thank you, thank you, my law.
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  Speaker 5: I was happy for him because I know what they
• 31:06
  Speaker 5: did to him, and I was happy that he did
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: get drafted.
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, the conversation is the truth.
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: I don't know why people think black people just be
• 31:17
  Speaker 5: sitting around making up theories about collusion and racism. And
• 31:21
  Speaker 5: I don't know why you think we just got time
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: for that. It's just that we recognize it instantly because
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: we've seen it so many times in so many forms,
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: So for us, it's easy to recognize. What has amazed
• 31:37
  Speaker 5: me is the number of people who aren't black who
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: recognized it. Also made it even more The president, Yeah,
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: he said, yeah, he was on this side too.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was what what I'm here for? What did
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: he say?
• 32:02
  Speaker 7: He said the coaches were stupid for not hiring him,
• 32:05
  Speaker 7: for not picking him.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: Here's what I think.
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: I think the owners got together and said we're gonna
• 32:10
  Speaker 5: make an example out of him because this is not
• 32:13
  Speaker 5: what we want in the NFL. We don't want these
• 32:15
  Speaker 5: guys coming in and show bolting thinking they have control
• 32:17
  Speaker 5: of power.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: He comes in already a millionaire.
• 32:20
  Speaker 5: He's wearing NFL jewelry, NFL watches already, he's coming there
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: talking about where he might not play, where he might play,
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: and we're gonna make an example. So they agreed for
• 32:32
  Speaker 5: four rounds, nobody chooses him. So when the Browns in
• 32:36
  Speaker 5: round three chose the quarterback from Oregon, I knew something
• 32:41
  Speaker 5: was up. So then round five comes along and they
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: picked your door because they the owners would not let
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: the GM or the coaches do what they wanted to do.
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: That's not a GM or coach who would set that
• 32:54
  Speaker 5: at long and let that happen unless the owners said,
• 32:59
  Speaker 5: leave him alone four rounds. We're gonna teach them a lesson.
• 33:02
  Speaker 5: And then after that the Browns traded up to get him.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Here.
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  Speaker 5: Of course it is, of course, it's no other explanation
• 33:13
  Speaker 5: for it. Now here's the thing. And I may do
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: this and I don't know, but here's the thing. Every
• 33:21
  Speaker 5: time a black father is active in their son's life,
• 33:26
  Speaker 5: that here comes they a villain. So the first villain
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: was Tiger Woods daddy, he's interfering with what.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Earl Woods was the villain.
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: Then it was the Venus, and Serena's daddy, Richard, he
• 33:45
  Speaker 5: was the villain. It wasn't for either one of them
• 33:49
  Speaker 5: guys doing what they did in the beginning, you would
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: have none of.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: These people that were speaking about the greatness.
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: And then the LeVar Ball's Naim daddy got villainized. But
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: he was in their boys life from the get going.
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: You see where all three of them are. And now
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: it's prime time. But well, Lebron and Lebron right, But now,
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: when Archie Manning did it with Eli, what nothing said.
• 34:21
  Speaker 5: He even told them, don't trade me. I'm not playing
• 34:23
  Speaker 5: for y'all. But it goes deeper than that. When the
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: Kennedys do it, they all in the White House, they steal.
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: They got another Kennedy in the White House right now.
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: The Bushes made sure they boys became president. Come on,
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: Jerry Jones turned over the operation of the Cowboys to
• 34:48
  Speaker 5: his kids, and ain't nothing wrong with none of this.
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: Jerry Busten died and left his daughter, who don't know
• 34:56
  Speaker 5: deadly about basketball, to the Lakers. I could just go on,
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: the Rockefellers do it.
• 35:04
  Speaker 9: It's a problem when we do it, the highest family
• 35:07
  Speaker 9: does it.
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: But the moment we do it he does anything making
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: the mockery of the system.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Who does he think he is. I'm proud of the
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Sanders family.
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: I'm proud that you doer got hurt drafted, Silo signed
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: as a free agent down in Tampa.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: It's on the cracker. But see now, let me take
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: what handle now.
• 35:30
  Speaker 5: The yeah, oh and the celebration they had, man, which
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: shows he just wants to play football. Yeah, that's that
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: reaction that should do it them had was not the
• 35:40
  Speaker 5: reaction of an arrogant person.
• 35:43
  Speaker 9: Yeah, he said he was grateful for the opportunity, like
• 35:46
  Speaker 9: all the players that.
• 35:52
  Speaker 7: I love, legendary.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah right.
• 35:58
  Speaker 7: I'm so glad you brought that up out, Steve, about
• 36:00
  Speaker 7: the black fathers, because that is not the narrative they
• 36:03
  Speaker 7: want out there that black fathers care about their families
• 36:06
  Speaker 7: and their children and they're there for them. You know,
• 36:09
  Speaker 7: that's not the narrative they want. They want the regular
• 36:12
  Speaker 7: stereotype that black fathers all we're doing their family.
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: It's what every other father wants to do for his family,
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: is to give your children a better life than the
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: one you had. Lebron James, and anybody mad at Lebron James,
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: you a sucker and a fool, And I don't care
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: who you are, especially the black people that's got a
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: problem with that. Quit lock these sportscasts. Man, what is
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: the matter with y'all?
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: True? That's right, that's absolutely well. So I just.
• 36:47
  Speaker 5: Appreciate the non blacks who got on board and understood
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: that also because it was two in your face.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: Well, now what you're gonna do? Because now he's fit
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: to play?
• 36:57
  Speaker 5: And I'm telling you right now, it ain't four quarterback
• 37:00
  Speaker 5: on Cleveland team better than this boy.
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: I'll pay you that right now. Y'all got five of them? Bro,
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: you got fine? We need all five over too.
• 37:09
  Speaker 7: Coming up home after the hour more sports news. Junior
• 37:14
  Speaker 7: Shennon Sharp has stepped away from first take.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: We'll talk about it after this.
• 37:19
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  Speaker 7: Shed and Sharpen's chosen to take a leave of absence
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: from his co hosting job at ESPN's First Take in
• 38:05
  Speaker 7: light of his sexual assault and battery lawsuit by a
• 38:08
  Speaker 7: twenty two year old female that he said he is
• 38:11
  Speaker 7: said to have had a rocky two year consensual relationship with.
• 38:16
  Speaker 7: Last Thursday, Shannon issued this statement on Instagram. He said, quote,
• 38:21
  Speaker 7: my statement is found here, and this is the truth.
• 38:24
  Speaker 7: The relationship in question was one hundred percent consensual. At
• 38:29
  Speaker 7: this juncture, I'm electing to step aside temporarily from my
• 38:34
  Speaker 7: ESPN duties. I will be devoting this time to my
• 38:37
  Speaker 7: family and responding to and dealing with these false and
• 38:42
  Speaker 7: disruptive allegations set against me. I planned a return to
• 38:46
  Speaker 7: ESPN at the start of the NFL preseason.
• 38:50
  Speaker 5: That was his statement, Steve, you know, I hope for
• 38:53
  Speaker 5: his sake it works out exactly that way. Now, he
• 38:57
  Speaker 5: didn't step away just to handle this. That That wasn't volunteer.
• 39:02
  Speaker 8: Yeah, it was necessary.
• 39:06
  Speaker 5: Oh no, they went to him and said, we're gonna
• 39:08
  Speaker 5: give you a chance to step away. Just step away, right,
• 39:11
  Speaker 5: now or we're gonna have to, you know, because that's
• 39:13
  Speaker 5: the normal procedure.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: Thing it is.
• 39:16
  Speaker 5: I have not cared the way man Stephen a man.
• 39:20
  Speaker 5: He did another take on this where he got up
• 39:22
  Speaker 5: from behind the desk and walked out to the front
• 39:25
  Speaker 5: to talk about this. And you know, I just wish
• 39:31
  Speaker 5: he would run some of his statements by somebody.
• 39:39
  Speaker 7: Person or no one or just himself.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: But he needs some other counsel.
• 39:45
  Speaker 5: I can't explain it because he didn't really say anything
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: except now I'm talking about this. I'm not talking about
• 39:51
  Speaker 5: Shannon Shop, but you were talking exactly about Shannon Sharp
• 39:54
  Speaker 5: in your statement because you were talking about you don't
• 39:57
  Speaker 5: understand why these players are not understanding what's going on.
• 40:01
  Speaker 5: Then he's self absorbed. You know why you never see
• 40:05
  Speaker 5: anything like this going on about me. Careful, brother, careful.
• 40:10
  Speaker 5: You have to be careful because false accusations can happen
• 40:14
  Speaker 5: to anybody, and they can tie to some form of truth.
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: Now do I believe that Shannon Shop had a consensual
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: relationship with this person.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: The problem is this consensual relationship has a claim in
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: it of some force happening.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: That's where his problem is.
• 40:36
  Speaker 5: It ain't the consensual and then a new little dude
• 40:39
  Speaker 5: or somebody coming out and that ain't what person's preference,
• 40:43
  Speaker 5: and all that is is not against the law. What's
• 40:46
  Speaker 5: against the law's force of any kind? You know, the
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: me too, that's the problem. And so I just wish
• 40:53
  Speaker 5: that date rape.
• 40:55
  Speaker 9: You could go out with somebody on a date and
• 40:57
  Speaker 9: you consented to have a date with them, but if
• 41:00
  Speaker 9: they poced themselves on you, then that's right. So just
• 41:04
  Speaker 9: because they had a consensual relationship that particular day, she
• 41:07
  Speaker 9: may have said no.
• 41:08
  Speaker 7: All right, Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears here.
• 41:13
  Speaker 7: Coming up next, we'll switch gears. We'll have more of
• 41:16
  Speaker 7: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening
• 41:20
  Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, ladies and gentlemen, as promised,
• 41:28
  Speaker 7: she is here.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: The one is happening to me?
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: Whoa what in the world.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: Is happening to me? He lives. Hey, good mornings everyone, morning,
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Good morning. What's going on today?
• 41:51
  Speaker 7: Well, I mean, we just of course celebrated Resurrection Day, Easter,
• 41:57
  Speaker 7: and of course wedding season. Sister O'Dell is around the corner,
• 42:01
  Speaker 7: and we wanted to talk to you about that because
• 42:03
  Speaker 7: you have had a few weddings. And how many times
• 42:05
  Speaker 7: exactly were you married? Le woo wow eleven e?
• 42:12
  Speaker 5: Well only two resulted in all? Just acycled I both differences?
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Yes, the other one Cisterdell. They died. Oh you had
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: nine husband, it wasn't in shape. Well, can I tee
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: take care of you?
• 42:36
  Speaker 7: So were you cooking healthy meals for them at the
• 42:41
  Speaker 7: time when you were married?
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: How many all we all ate?
• 42:45
  Speaker 4: Say?
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: Thanks? Fried chicken, poak chops.
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: Mother?
• 42:48
  Speaker 5: You know grease, macaroni, cheese, corn bread.
• 42:53
  Speaker 7: Not considered healthy.
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: I'm still here. Know what I've been eating? Yes, you
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: still eat fried? Poor girl? I had I had a
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: kale salad New Year's Day?
• 43:06
  Speaker 7: Oh did you now that's healthy? That's healthy?
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: But I has one every quarter because it's April. Now
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: you're talking about jay. Well, let's time for another one.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I have them quarterly. You eat healthy quarterly? Okay? Oh no,
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: say that. I said I have a kale salad quarter.
• 43:23
  Speaker 7: Yes, ma'am. Well, kel is supposed to be healthy.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: But it ain't.
• 43:27
  Speaker 5: It don't taste good though. You need square teeth to
• 43:29
  Speaker 5: eat kale and full leave chale is really a full
• 43:35
  Speaker 5: legged animal. Oh yeah, they had a kale saln. They
• 43:39
  Speaker 5: don't chop it up.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: You can't do anything rough, that's right? Yeah? Yeah.
• 43:45
  Speaker 7: Well how long was your longest marriage, Sister Odell?
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Twenty years? Oh he was good. Yeah for the history books, right,
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: three of them were six months. One of them he.
• 43:58
  Speaker 9: Died on.
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: Wedding night.
• 44:05
  Speaker 7: What happened?
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know.
• 44:07
  Speaker 5: I'm a Christian, so we was practicing abstinist.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: Uh absolute, yeah.
• 44:14
  Speaker 5: And then well it wasn't absentee wed night when I
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: showed up, I brung it.
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: That's had an at Wow, sister Hotel, what was down?
• 44:27
  Speaker 7: Huh?
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Ray Olphus?
• 44:30
  Speaker 9: Oh okay, ray Opus.
• 44:34
  Speaker 7: So you're you're always in usherboard white, Sister Odell, always.
• 44:39
  Speaker 5: The missionary white. Missionary board wears blue.
• 44:44
  Speaker 7: Oh yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: So did you wear houses in white? Gloves?
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: Blood?
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: You ain't been in the churchen in a while? Hell
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: you sweeping?
• 44:51
  Speaker 7: No, no, ma'am. Did you wear white dresses to all
• 44:53
  Speaker 7: of your weddings? What as you're saying they don't wear
• 44:57
  Speaker 7: white if they've been married more than once or twice,
• 44:59
  Speaker 7: You know that.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Nobody said that. No, I won't white every single time
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: I was three? As you driven snow eleven times.
• 45:07
  Speaker 7: You were pure as the driven snow each time I.
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: Hunted my vile Sidney share and health good Richard Poe,
• 45:14
  Speaker 5: Yes to death to your partner. You you died, we parted,
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: I started, so hope a baby.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I don't bring the baggage with me.
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: The only thing I do is I've been married ninety
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: seven years.
• 45:30
  Speaker 7: Ninety seven years old but not old person.
• 45:33
  Speaker 9: You said, I'll keep a running total it guess, ma'am,
• 45:38
  Speaker 9: So you're single?
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: Now, won't you say? Tommy single and read it and mingle?
• 45:43
  Speaker 5: Oh, one hundred and thirteen is how old I mean
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: is if you really want to know?
• 45:48
  Speaker 7: Oh all right, okay, well thank you sister.
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: Listen Tommy, do I sign one hundred and thirteen?
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Nope? Oh so good?
• 45:57
  Speaker 7: Thank you answered one.
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: Hundred and thirteen. You know, okay.
• 46:03
  Speaker 7: Coming up next to it is the Wait.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: A minute, I'm changed. I'm not al I changed it now?
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: What are you now? I'm a shaver of two time.
• 46:15
  Speaker 7: Bring phone call with the nephew. You're listening to the
• 46:19
  Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of
• 46:26
  Speaker 7: the hour, right about four minutes after it's my strawberry
• 46:29
  Speaker 7: letter for today. It's one of our favorites, and the
• 46:31
  Speaker 7: subject is my three way love affair. We'll get into
• 46:35
  Speaker 7: that and find out what that's all about just a
• 46:37
  Speaker 7: few but it's pretty self explanatory, right, My three way
• 46:41
  Speaker 7: love works.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: If y'all weren't at it, you know it can work.
• 46:45
  Speaker 10: Ni Yo, Wait happened and he ain't taken here, ain't
• 46:52
  Speaker 10: taking now applications, so don't don't wow phone might be.
• 46:57
  Speaker 7: Finn't care one well and then talk to me. Okay,
• 47:00
  Speaker 7: all right, right now, the nephew is here. You're here
• 47:02
  Speaker 7: with today's prank phone. Call what you got for us?
• 47:05
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: Early.
• 47:06
  Speaker 10: You know, at these jobs, some of these ladies, you know,
• 47:09
  Speaker 10: come in there looking like this and looking like that,
• 47:11
  Speaker 10: and you know sometimes you just got to put them
• 47:13
  Speaker 10: to the side. So you know, this is this is
• 47:15
  Speaker 10: one of those situations. The title of this one is Mona,
• 47:19
  Speaker 10: you need to fix your appearance? Mona, are you okay?
• 47:24
  Speaker 10: I'm like what yeah? First of all, I'm a I'm
• 47:28
  Speaker 10: a I'm human resources. And second of all, I'm in
• 47:31
  Speaker 10: the prankster, so that gives me. Yeah, that overrides everything.
• 47:37
  Speaker 10: I'm the price. Oh yeah, Mona, you need to fix
• 47:42
  Speaker 10: your appearance.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying.
• 47:44
  Speaker 10: See, some of y'all come up in these offices and
• 47:46
  Speaker 10: you too, you're too top heavy.
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: You understand I'm saying, what your top here? Have you lost?
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: Okay?
• 47:52
  Speaker 7: Your borderline?
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: Now? Yeah?
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: Real?
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: Hrre that age all?
• 48:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 48:01
  Speaker 10: Tell me some of y'all too top heavy and it's listen, listen.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: It's a distraction.
• 48:07
  Speaker 7: But you got a high butt. So now what o.
• 48:15
  Speaker 10: Y'all must like it? Ain't nobody anybody saying nothing about it.
• 48:17
  Speaker 10: Y'all must like it. It's evidently not. It's not bothering you.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: It's bothering U. Well, Mona, are jobs? Mona is bothering us?
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: So let's address moment right now.
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: She's bothering you, Mona.
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: You need to fix your pearance.
• 48:37
  Speaker 6: Let's go cat dog Helloa. Hello, I'm trying to reach
• 48:41
  Speaker 6: a Mona. Please jesus her, Hi, how you doing? My
• 48:46
  Speaker 6: name is James over with the corporation. I'm with your
• 48:50
  Speaker 6: corporate wardrobe. You've been with the company for about eight
• 48:52
  Speaker 6: years now, Am I correct? Mona?
• 48:55
  Speaker 5: Yes?
• 48:55
  Speaker 6: Sir, okay, correct? Like I said, I'm from a corporate wardrobe.
• 49:00
  Speaker 6: Need to kind of give you a call. There's been
• 49:02
  Speaker 6: some conversation about it, but wanted to give you a
• 49:04
  Speaker 6: call about your appearance in the office. Okay, okay, now
• 49:10
  Speaker 6: your your your appearance seems to be pretty much intact
• 49:13
  Speaker 6: as far as your clothing is concerned. So it's nothing
• 49:16
  Speaker 6: that has nothing to do with that.
• 49:17
  Speaker 7: Okay.
• 49:18
  Speaker 12: Now, first of all, what are my parents have to
• 49:22
  Speaker 12: do with your corporation?
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: Well? What's going on? Like I said, you you've been
• 49:27
  Speaker 6: with court for about what eight years? Now? Am I right?
• 49:30
  Speaker 12: Yes, sir?
• 49:31
  Speaker 6: I have okay?
• 49:32
  Speaker 12: And you calling me telling me something by my kids?
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: Right? What I what I wanted to talk to you
• 49:39
  Speaker 6: about is that what what what some of the workers
• 49:43
  Speaker 6: in the office are having a problem with. And what
• 49:45
  Speaker 6: we want to do is get you an actual doctor's
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: appointment because we want to see about helping you get
• 49:52
  Speaker 6: a breast reduction.
• 49:54
  Speaker 12: Oh what reduction?
• 49:58
  Speaker 6: Okay?
• 49:58
  Speaker 5: Now?
• 49:58
  Speaker 4: You you?
• 49:59
  Speaker 6: You you mean from from my understanding that your your
• 50:02
  Speaker 6: breasts are too large?
• 50:04
  Speaker 12: Hold up, hold on, now who is this friend? Who was?
• 50:07
  Speaker 6: My name is James? Like I said, I'm with corporate
• 50:09
  Speaker 6: Wardrobe and I'm calling you actually pretty much from human
• 50:13
  Speaker 6: resources of corporation.
• 50:15
  Speaker 12: Okay, Now, if you ain't kind of hear by something
• 50:17
  Speaker 12: else certainly what we do here. So you calling me
• 50:21
  Speaker 12: telling me somebody giving me a breast reduction, what you
• 50:24
  Speaker 12: need to do is try and dig up slow, because
• 50:26
  Speaker 12: what I'm doing over in here, I'm gonna wear them.
• 50:28
  Speaker 12: They was over here and I'm gonna were them they
• 50:31
  Speaker 12: came out, I wear them.
• 50:32
  Speaker 6: Problem, Lona. All we want to do is we want
• 50:34
  Speaker 6: to get you a doctor's appointment so we can help
• 50:36
  Speaker 6: you get your get your breast reduced. So you know
• 50:39
  Speaker 6: you you'll feel a lot more comfortable and the people
• 50:41
  Speaker 6: in the office will be a lot more comfortable.
• 50:43
  Speaker 12: Okay, I'm not You ain't gonna do it. Man. You
• 50:46
  Speaker 12: ain't gonna come in and tell me some what y'all
• 50:48
  Speaker 12: gonna do to me? What you talking about? I'm even
• 50:51
  Speaker 12: just being this foremost eight years and I ain't never
• 50:54
  Speaker 12: had no problem when nobody's telling me something about my friends.
• 50:57
  Speaker 12: So what you need to do is find out who's
• 50:59
  Speaker 12: going around here making these rumors. And first of all,
• 51:02
  Speaker 12: I'm gonna dig up because if everyone's up in here
• 51:04
  Speaker 12: talking about me and you know, jealous because I'm on
• 51:06
  Speaker 12: top of my and they jealous of me, I'm on
• 51:09
  Speaker 12: you know, I'm on my ass and they round here
• 51:11
  Speaker 12: got top of my brain.
• 51:12
  Speaker 6: Look, ma'am, my job is to get your breast reduced.
• 51:14
  Speaker 6: I gotta get I gotta bring them down.
• 51:17
  Speaker 12: Big too. Can you reduce that? Excuse me, my big
• 51:21
  Speaker 12: Can you reduce that?
• 51:22
  Speaker 6: Ma'am? Listen, I gotta get your breast down to it.
• 51:25
  Speaker 6: I gotta get a death. I gotta bring them down.
• 51:28
  Speaker 12: What you're gonna get downe is that's what you're gonna
• 51:31
  Speaker 12: get done and start worrying about my break. So you
• 51:35
  Speaker 12: and whoever whoever calling you are telling you something about
• 51:38
  Speaker 12: what I'm doing at this desk, tell him, I said,
• 51:41
  Speaker 12: the kids mind to why do you do I'm gonna
• 51:43
  Speaker 12: do me? So they don't like that, then hey, how
• 51:46
  Speaker 12: at them? Because I'm ana find whoever doing it because
• 51:48
  Speaker 12: they jealous. I'm a bad They don't understand it, and
• 51:51
  Speaker 12: the man's come in.
• 51:52
  Speaker 6: What woo whoop?
• 51:53
  Speaker 12: When they come to who they come to my desk
• 51:55
  Speaker 12: and ask for who, they ask for me.
• 51:57
  Speaker 6: Mona mana, I understand that. But what I'm saying is
• 51:59
  Speaker 6: your brain started distraction in the office, and I gotta
• 52:02
  Speaker 6: get your breast brought down first.
• 52:04
  Speaker 12: While whoever you are you might need to come see
• 52:06
  Speaker 12: you sit up in the front of my head and
• 52:08
  Speaker 12: see how it look. You might want to come back
• 52:10
  Speaker 12: and bring.
• 52:10
  Speaker 6: Out your crew, Lona. I can't. I can't. I don't
• 52:15
  Speaker 6: want to come set your desk and see your your
• 52:18
  Speaker 6: your I gotta get you to a doctor and get
• 52:21
  Speaker 6: your breast reduced. Now to when you wanted a point.
• 52:23
  Speaker 12: I ain't gonna see No, I'm going.
• 52:25
  Speaker 4: To a dorty.
• 52:26
  Speaker 6: No, Mona, you're going to a doctor.
• 52:28
  Speaker 12: You bringing so he is? I ain't going no doctors.
• 52:31
  Speaker 12: What you talking about? The doctor whoever you mean to
• 52:34
  Speaker 12: go see? I ain't trying to hear yeh.
• 52:38
  Speaker 6: What I'm gonna do is they said you would act
• 52:41
  Speaker 6: like this, Mona. They said you would react just this way.
• 52:43
  Speaker 6: This is what the people in the office are talking about.
• 52:45
  Speaker 12: I don't give it what they I'll be in this company,
• 52:48
  Speaker 12: so I'm gonna pay years. I ain't no hand, nobody
• 52:50
  Speaker 12: counting me telling me something? My friend, what you need
• 52:53
  Speaker 12: to do. First of all, you need to come in
• 52:55
  Speaker 12: and see me because it might like what you see.
• 52:57
  Speaker 12: Because I'm a big bad bowl woman. You better year. Well,
• 53:02
  Speaker 12: what's your name? And now what's your what's your name?
• 53:05
  Speaker 6: Why do you need my name?
• 53:06
  Speaker 12: I don't need your names because I ain't never had
• 53:08
  Speaker 12: somebody to call my job to tell me some my bras.
• 53:11
  Speaker 12: I need to know your name because IM gonna get
• 53:13
  Speaker 12: some lobdy in this because I don't play this shit
• 53:15
  Speaker 12: I need. I don't play that. So whoever you is
• 53:18
  Speaker 12: and your carpet or whoever kind of by my breast,
• 53:21
  Speaker 12: I don't play that. I need your name, I really do,
• 53:23
  Speaker 12: because you don't. I'm gonna find out who this is.
• 53:27
  Speaker 6: Who do you want to know my name?
• 53:29
  Speaker 12: I want to know your name? Hell, y'all, I want
• 53:31
  Speaker 12: to know your name. What is it?
• 53:33
  Speaker 6: Are you listening? What is this? Is? Mess you Tommy
• 53:37
  Speaker 6: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked
• 53:40
  Speaker 6: by your girlfriend?
• 53:42
  Speaker 12: You what pres bigger than mine?
• 53:47
  Speaker 6: You know?
• 53:48
  Speaker 12: I try a limp? Me and y'all need to clean. Boy,
• 53:52
  Speaker 12: you're gonna make me go.
• 53:56
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 53:57
  Speaker 12: I can't believe it's in her breast bigger than mass.
• 54:02
  Speaker 12: And then she got a limp. I listened to this
• 54:07
  Speaker 12: show every morning, and I just can't believe I got
• 54:12
  Speaker 12: he said she did it, She got me, got me.
• 54:15
  Speaker 12: But I'm gonna catch her lips. I'm gonna catch the watching.
• 54:18
  Speaker 12: It's okay.
• 54:19
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna get him, all right, Baby, I got one
• 54:21
  Speaker 6: more thing for you, baby, what is what is the baddest?
• 54:24
  Speaker 6: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land.
• 54:27
  Speaker 12: Maybe you already know that one and only Steve Harvey
• 54:30
  Speaker 12: Morning Show and Tom and guess what play on this
• 54:34
  Speaker 12: head phone. I just want to let you know. I'm
• 54:37
  Speaker 12: a side sixteen with a low cut.
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: And there you have it.
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: What is supposed to be for no reason though, but
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: mona yeah, yeah, big ups, big ups. Louisville, Kentucky. The
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Nephew coming to town.
• 55:04
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• 55:12
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• 55:20
  Speaker 10: hang out with friends and family. It's a great day
• 55:22
  Speaker 10: to laugh, all right, great day to laugh. Come laugh
• 55:25
  Speaker 10: with the Nephew. I will be there all weekend long
• 55:27
  Speaker 10: at the Louisville Comedy Club. I think it's on sale
• 55:31
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• 55:32
  Speaker 7: All right, And if you thank you? Coming up next, Strawberry.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, bugle up, hold on tight, we got it
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• 56:49
  Speaker 7: Thank you, nephew. Subject my three way love affair. Dear
• 56:52
  Speaker 7: Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty year old married woman and
• 56:55
  Speaker 7: my husband and I have a sister friend that has
• 56:59
  Speaker 7: been a major part of my life since I was
• 57:01
  Speaker 7: seven years old. We did everything together, even went to
• 57:05
  Speaker 7: college the same college and graduated at the same time.
• 57:09
  Speaker 7: When I got engaged, she got engaged. Our fiancees didn't
• 57:12
  Speaker 7: get along, so my man would always take my bestie
• 57:16
  Speaker 7: side when she was having an issue with her fiance.
• 57:19
  Speaker 7: A few weeks after we got engaged, my man told
• 57:22
  Speaker 7: me that my besties man was cheating on her. I
• 57:25
  Speaker 7: was shocked and hurt when I saw the video of
• 57:27
  Speaker 7: her fiance asleep naked over his side chick's house. My
• 57:32
  Speaker 7: man and I decided not to tell her anything, but
• 57:35
  Speaker 7: then my man got really upset with the dude and
• 57:37
  Speaker 7: went out and went and told my bestie about the cheating.
• 57:41
  Speaker 7: She was so devastated she stayed with us for two
• 57:45
  Speaker 7: weeks and called off their engagement. So now that we're married,
• 57:48
  Speaker 7: she's part of our family. She travels with my husband, hubby,
• 57:52
  Speaker 7: and I, and she comes for weekly movie nights at
• 57:56
  Speaker 7: our house. She's dating again, and when she meets men,
• 58:00
  Speaker 7: she brings them to meet us so we can pass
• 58:02
  Speaker 7: judgment on them. I've been noticing lately that my husband
• 58:06
  Speaker 7: is more opinionated than usual, and none of the guys
• 58:09
  Speaker 7: have been good enough for my bestie. That's a red
• 58:12
  Speaker 7: flag for me. So I jokingly asked him if he'd
• 58:15
  Speaker 7: like to clone himself so my bestie could be with
• 58:18
  Speaker 7: a man just like him. He got very irritated with me,
• 58:21
  Speaker 7: So I have been wondering if something is going on
• 58:23
  Speaker 7: with him and my bestie. As a test, I told
• 58:27
  Speaker 7: him that we're going on on an anniversary trip alone.
• 58:30
  Speaker 7: He said it would be weird to leave my bestie out.
• 58:34
  Speaker 7: I asked him if we are in a three way
• 58:36
  Speaker 7: love affair. He laughed it off and said no, But
• 58:39
  Speaker 7: does he really care about her feelings? What's going on here? Well, yeah,
• 58:47
  Speaker 7: he does care about her feelings, as do you. I
• 58:50
  Speaker 7: mean you called her your sister friend. You guys have
• 58:52
  Speaker 7: been together since seven years old, So yeah, he cares
• 58:57
  Speaker 7: about her for sure, and if you ask me, he's
• 59:01
  Speaker 7: certainly acting like a guilty, jealous man when she brings
• 59:05
  Speaker 7: other men around. I'm very surprised it took you so
• 59:09
  Speaker 7: long to notice the red flag. I think there have
• 59:12
  Speaker 7: been several First, and most importantly, when you guys agreed
• 59:16
  Speaker 7: when you and your husband agreed not to tell your bestie.
• 59:19
  Speaker 7: He's the one who told about the cheating. That's a
• 59:23
  Speaker 7: major red flag. That's not really what men do. They
• 59:27
  Speaker 7: don't snitch on each other. Now, he's so concerned about
• 59:32
  Speaker 7: her and who she dates. You guys have movie nights
• 59:35
  Speaker 7: together and she travels with you. What your feeling is right?
• 59:39
  Speaker 7: You know it is a three way love affair. Who
• 59:42
  Speaker 7: or what couple do you know whose husband can behave?
• 59:46
  Speaker 7: How your husband is behaving about her and that there's
• 59:49
  Speaker 7: nothing going on. Just think about that. He's doing way
• 59:53
  Speaker 7: too much when it comes to her, and you need
• 59:55
  Speaker 7: to check them both. You don't have to catch them
• 59:57
  Speaker 7: in the act or anything like that to know what
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 7: going on. You already suspect them anyway. So I say
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 7: you confront them and get it over with.
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  Speaker 10: Steve.
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  Speaker 5: Wow, Well, it's interesting. It's an interesting letter. I will
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 5: say this about women. Most of the time what you
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 5: feel is real. Most of the time, it's because God
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 5: gifted you all with this thing called intuition.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: He gave it to you more than he gave it
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: to me. Women are born with it. You should trust
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: it and lean on it. So usually what you think
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: or feel is usually real. You're a forty year old
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: married women. Your husband and I have a sister, Fred.
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: That's interesting. That's been a major part of my life
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: since I was seven.
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  Speaker 5: We did everything together. This is very important in this
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 5: whole letter. We did everything together. Now pay attention to y'all.
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 5: Even when to the same college, graduated at the same time.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 5: When I got engaged, she got engaged. That's everything dies. Everything.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 5: Our fiances didn't get along, so my man would always
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 5: take my best dee side when she was having an
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 5: issue with her fiance. A few weeks after we got engaged,
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 5: my man told me that my besties man was cheating
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 5: on her. I was shocked and hurt when I saw
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 5: the video of her fiance asleep naked over his side
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 5: chick's house.
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  Speaker 1: Stop, wait a minute, what? Wait a minute.
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 5: You're saying that your man told you that your besties
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 5: man was cheating on her, and then right after that
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 5: you said, I'm shocked and hurt when I saw the
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 5: video of her fiance a sleep naked over his side
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: chick's house. Where your man get the video from? What
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 5: did your man get the video from? Now, let's just
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 5: do some hood logicill.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: One of two things was happening.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 5: Either the fiance who don't get along, Hello, the fiances
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 5: that don't get along. He gave your husband the video, like, hey,
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 5: check me out all your husband made the video. Maybe
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 5: two things can happen. Maybe two things can happen. Hello, Hello, y'all,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 5: do everything young?
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: Hello, Bobby, all that thought.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 7: We'll have part two of your response coming up at
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 7: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 7: my three way love affair. We'll get back into it
• 1:03:12
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  Speaker 7: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
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  Speaker 7: The subject is my three way love affair.
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  Speaker 5: Forty you old marywoman and husband. They have a sister
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  Speaker 5: free what is a husband now? But we're gonna take
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: you on this journey and the sister friend have been
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 5: a major part of this woman's life.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: And tell your seven they do everything together. Keep that
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: in mind.
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  Speaker 5: Even went to the same college, graduated at the same time.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 5: When I got engaged, she got engaged. Our fiances didn't
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 5: get along, so my man, which is her fiance the
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 5: writer of this letter, would always take my bestie side
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 5: when she was having an issue with her fiance. Now,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 5: a few weeks after everybody got engaged, my man told.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: Me that my besties man was cheating on her.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 5: I was shocking hurt when I saw the video of
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 5: her fiance asleep naked over his side chick's house. I'm confused,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 5: where did your man get this video from? Because they
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 5: don't get along, the two fiances don't get along, and
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 5: the two fiances don't.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: Like each other. He always siding with the girl. Where
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: did he get the video?
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 5: Because of if I don't like a dude that we
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 5: ain't cool, why would I show him a video of
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 5: me or sleep over another chick's house?
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  Speaker 1: What purpose did that, sir, unless your man was there
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: and took you hit him? Crick Did you hit him? Crickets?
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  Speaker 1: Just nothing?
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  Speaker 5: I got you thinking, ain't nothing. My man and I
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 5: decided not to tell her anything. But then my man
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: got really upset with the dude and went and told
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 5: my bestie about the cheats.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: Like Shirley said, what man do that? What man does that?
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  Speaker 5: She was so devastated she stayed with us for two
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 5: weeks and called off her engagement. So now that we're married,
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 5: now y'all married. Now she's part of our family. She
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: travels with my husband and our husband and I. She
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 5: comes for weekly movie nights in our house. She's dating again,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 5: which means that she ain't got no probably meeting men.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 5: But check this out, and when she meets me, and
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 5: she brings them to meet us, so we can pass
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 5: judgment on her. So it don't take this chick long
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 5: to meet men, because she ain't got no problem meeting men.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 5: So I'm assuming that your girl is attractive, and I
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 5: think your girl is attractive to your husband, so attractive
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 5: that he wants her around everywhere. So now y'all traveling together,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 5: y'all doing movie nights at the house. I've been noticing,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 5: lady that my husband is more opinionated than usual, and
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 5: none of the guys have been good enough for my besties.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: That's a red flag for me.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 5: I had a lady on my talk show one time
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 5: said women should stop collecting red flags. It's a red
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 5: flag for a reason. Stop collecting them. But you don't
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 5: put this one in the backseat of the car. So
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 5: I jokingly asked him, I'm joke, you know, would you
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 5: like to on yourself so your bessie could be with
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 5: a man just like him? He got irritated with me,
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 5: So I've been wondering if something is going on with
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 5: him and my bestie. As a test, I told him
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 5: that we're going on our anniversary trip alone. He said
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 5: it'd be weird to leave your bestie out. I asked
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 5: him if we were in a three way love affair.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: He laughed at off and said no, but he does
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 5: really care about her feeling. What's going on here? Okay, okay, okay,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 5: you ready?
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: You ready?
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 5: What you think going on? Because that's what you wrote
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 5: the letter for. Usually what women think and feel is
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 5: the deal. I've said that.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 5: The fact that this whole letter took you this long
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 5: to write, and then your last question is what's going
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 5: on here? It's really amazing to me now when he said,
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  Speaker 5: when you told him y'all was going on anniversary trip alone,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 5: and he said it'd be weird to leave my bestie out, ask.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: Him if we are in a three way love affairs. Yeah,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: that's what. Yeah, that's what you're wan. That's what you wan.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 1: But you know you got to be careful what you
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: say and let come out your mouth. You did say,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: y'all do everything to Kevin Day, that's what you said.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: Didn't y'all invite this third party into y'all's life and home?
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 1: Don't she go on all the trips with y'all and
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: she eager to go.
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  Speaker 5: She don'll never say, girl, y'all do y'all y'all need
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 5: some boot time. I ain't even to go up there
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 5: and be no third wheel, because that's what most people say. Girl.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 5: Let me sitting up and having no dinner with y'all
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 5: and everything, and I'm the only one. I ain't got
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: no man. Well, she ain't saying that because she got
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 5: a man. Yeah, because when he go down there to
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 5: get the coffee, where do you think he stopped.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: When he go to the gym and the spa on
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: the trip.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 5: Well, who you think at the gym in the spa
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 5: his gym work getting done in that other room. Let
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: me ask you another question. You ever noticed that the
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 5: two of y'all ain't ever alone together. I'm talking about you.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: And your girlfriend. You ever noticed that? Oh? Wow, uh huh?
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: You have you picked that game?
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 5: When y'all go on the trips, it ain't ever you
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 5: and your girl going down for coffee or tea. He
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 5: always going somewhere by hisself. But you don't see her.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: She don't cause girl says he's going to the gym.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna come on up now because the gym work
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: getting done in her room. Push up, push ups, sit ups,
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: pull ups, jumping jacks, longing climbers.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know a lot of cardio, Yeah, a lot
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: of cardio. Knee beings right, big overs, a lot of
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: downward dogs. We're doing Yoga's.
• 1:09:57
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• 1:10:05
  Speaker 7: up at forty six minutes after the hour. It's Junior
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 7: and Sports talk right after this you're listening to the
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Hyundais.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 5: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 5: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 5: the United States over the next three years that will
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 5: expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans.
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  Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising
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  Speaker 10: MSRP through June second, no matter what, call five six
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  Speaker 10: two three one four forty six zero three for more details.
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  Speaker 7: It is time now for junior and sports talk. What
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 7: you got junior?
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  Speaker 8: Well, Hirlott, let's just talk about shador Standers was the
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 8: one hundred and forty fourth pick of the Cleveland.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: Browns in the fifth round. All right, let's go, come
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 1: on Cleveland, and let's let's just talk about it. Fifth round.
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: He slid four rounds drafted on Saturday.
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  Speaker 8: Was this a message not just for him, but was
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 8: this a message that the NFL was sending to you
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 8: have to be humble or your attitude or everything else?
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: How it looked for everybody.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 8: Else to say, Okay, come on, now, he's arrogant, he's this,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 8: he's that you know, we don't we don't want that
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 8: type of attitude. But you use his name all the
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 8: way up to the draft, you put him in all
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 8: the commercials for the draft, you use him all the way.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: Up till the draft day. To let him sit to
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: the fifth day, I mean to the third day.
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  Speaker 5: There. Have you ever seen anybody watch round three, never
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 5: say four five of the draft.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: I've never seen that. I've never seen ratings. I never watched.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: But you know it was it was obvious collusion. There
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: is no other way to look at this.
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  Speaker 5: It's no way thirty one teams passed on him full times.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 5: That's just doesn't make any sense. He was too high
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 5: on the on the depth chart in everybody's pre draft.
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  Speaker 5: That was nothing on his field or off the field
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 5: actions that should have caused ulde. This was the owners
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 5: got together and did what the owners do to show
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 5: that they're powerful. And you know, stop thinking that we're
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 5: sitting up in there creating some another theory.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: No, we just recognize that we've seen it before. So that's.
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  Speaker 5: But thet But the blessing is he has a deal
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 5: in place already. You know, he made money in college,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 5: you know, and and so he has a deal and
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 5: he'll be fine. But he finished, he finish show. These people,
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  Speaker 5: so Lord, no, I couldn't figure out.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 10: I couldn't figure out if they if they were targeting
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 10: the door or what they're targeting.
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  Speaker 1: His fought. It's the same thing. Yeah, it's the same thing.
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  Speaker 7: And shout out to good fathers, black fathers everywhere.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: Shout out to them. It's the exact same thing what
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: they did, and and and and shout out to good uncles.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: Because when I get this show and it's man, don't
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: get upset. That is my show. You know what I'm saying.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: You don't get man, Timmy the show. Yeah, he left
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: Tommy the Show. You're not gonna have a draft anything.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: Ain't no draft with this radio. But that's not happening now.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 2: First round, second round, right away.
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: It's immediate, you know what. I think that may be
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: some potential there, but I just want you to know
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: that will be a fee attached.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 7: Coming over to the top of the hour, my wife
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 7: thinks her husband is less affectionate now because she makes
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 7: more money than him. We'll talk about it. She needs
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 7: some advice. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this one is from
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 7: Shiva in Tallahassee. Shiva says, I'm a nurse and I'm
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 7: on my feet all day. My husband used to rub
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 7: my feet and run my backwater when we first got married,
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 7: but now he barely kisses me when I walk in.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 7: He's been demoted at work, and I think he's resentful
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 7: of me because I make more money. Do I need
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 7: to address this or should I let him work through
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 7: this on his own?
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: Well you should address it, but not in the what
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: can you do for me lately?
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 5: Thing. Just find out what's going on with him and
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 5: then he may come around back to what he used
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 5: to be. But obviously something is going on with him,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 5: and he's picked it up as a wife, so you
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 5: know he's got it demoted. You know it might affected
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 5: him some kind of way. So why don't you talk
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 5: about that. You know you're getting your feet love and
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 5: when your bathwater rent. If you make that the issue,
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 5: you're gonna throw him on the defense, and in his mind,
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 5: he gonna go, it's always about her. She don't never
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 5: know what's going on with me, So you gotta be
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 5: careful right here. So that's my suggestion.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 7: All right, we have time for another one. This one
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 7: is from Clark and Richmond. I'm dating two women, Clark says,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 7: and I want to get married, but I don't know
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 7: if I can make the best choice. What should I
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 7: look for in a wife? What characteristics are the most
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 7: important when I make my decisions?
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: Hey, br you know that you don't need to be married.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that right now.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 7: He's not ready.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you won't even know what you won't and I
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: can't give it to you in a phone call. You're
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: not ready to get married because you I mean in
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 5: this this radio show. I mean, you know I can't.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 5: What should I be looking for in a wife? Bru
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 5: You're not ready to get married.
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: He should already know that if he's thinking about getting married.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: Bruh.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 5: It ain't about choosing between these two either. One you
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 5: don't know what you want, and then marriage ain't just
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 5: about what you want. What can you offer these two women? See,
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 5: that's the other part that some people leave out. So, brother,
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 5: you know what you should be looking for in a
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 5: woman is somebody that seems to care about you, deeply
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 5: concerned about your welfare and your being supportive, loyal, you know,
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 5: willing to help you build your dreams. But at the
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 5: same time, you got to offer all of that to
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 5: a woman. Now, if you're not offering that to a woman,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 5: what is she getting out the deal.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 7: There's still good questions from him. If he's considering getting
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 7: married characteristic I think he should be The question what
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 7: should he look for in a wife is a very
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 7: good question. I think that's a good question. People need
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 7: to know what they what they should look for in
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 7: a wife. He doesn't, he's not ready, but I think
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 7: it's a good question. And what are the most important
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 7: characteristics when he makes a decision about marriage.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 5: Maybe he wants what Leo wants, you know, maybe he
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: won't see where we go. That's why, Hey, Tommy, they see.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 5: That's why we don't have something that Hey Tommy's sake,
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 5: why what do you think?
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: What do you say.
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 6: That?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 7: But that's why I said they were good questions because
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 7: at least he's asking questions. Some people just go get
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 7: married and then it turns out to be terrible because
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  Speaker 7: they don't ask questions before.
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  Speaker 5: Because you know, look, he might have come from a
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  Speaker 5: single parent home and he's never had a bird's our
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  Speaker 5: view of it. He might not know what it is Okay,
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  Speaker 5: I respect that young brother. Yeah, that's why I just
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  Speaker 5: but I'm telling you what you should look for. But
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  Speaker 5: now you have to be ready to reciprocate that. Are
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  Speaker 5: you willing to be a provider? Are you willing to
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  Speaker 5: put her in front of you at all times? Do
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  Speaker 5: you have the ability to love someone else more than
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  Speaker 5: you love yourself? That's what a man needs to start researching.
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  Speaker 5: And the sad part of our society has changed and
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  Speaker 5: there are a lot of men who are not looking
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  Speaker 5: at it this way anymore. And that's the sad truth
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  Speaker 5: of it. You're right, that's the sad truth of it.
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  Speaker 5: Are you willing to love somebody more than you love yourself?
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  Speaker 5: Are you willing to put somebody in front of you
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  Speaker 5: all times? And are you willing to provide and protect
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  Speaker 5: a family? If you ain't willing to do that, man,
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  Speaker 5: we will take your slower somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 7: Morning Show on Inside the NBA. Last Monday, I should say,
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  Speaker 7: shot guy up and bolted off the set while the
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  Speaker 7: cameras were rolling because he had to go to the
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  Speaker 7: bathroom now, Kenny Smith teased Shaq, saying, yeah, that's that
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  Speaker 7: olive oil you've been drinking. Charles Barkley said, hey, take
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  Speaker 7: some matches with you, leaving no question that Shaq was
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  Speaker 7: making a run for the toilet.
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  Speaker 1: Well just everywhere, right.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I saw it, Yeah, I saw it. Take some
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  Speaker 5: matches with you. Asked that olive oil you drink, then
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  Speaker 5: go harder.
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  Speaker 1: That's just.
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  Speaker 6: So.
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  Speaker 7: So, where's the worst place you've ever been? When the
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  Speaker 1: Home Depot live remote Atlanta, Georgia, we didn't even know.
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  Speaker 2: Did you guys know it? There were there?
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  Speaker 1: What happened?
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  Speaker 2: Boy?
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  Speaker 1: I had Now I'm in home depot.
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  Speaker 5: So what I did it was, and this is a
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  Speaker 5: true statement, if bathroom was back there by the wood.
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  Speaker 5: I got two sheet supply wood and put them in
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  Speaker 5: the stalls so I could have a door all the
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  Speaker 5: way down to the floor on the sides, because I
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  Speaker 5: got to take my pants off and hang them on
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  Speaker 5: the hook on the back of the door.
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  Speaker 1: We did not know this. We didn't. Oh, I have to.
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  Speaker 5: I can't ball my pants around my ankle. I gotta
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  Speaker 5: hang my pants about the back of the dope, all.
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  Speaker 7: Right, listen coming up next? Would you rather right after this?
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  Speaker 1: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Dais.
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  Speaker 5: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in
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  Speaker 5: the United States over the next three years that will
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  Speaker 5: spread manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans.
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  Speaker 7: All right, guys, it's time now for a round of
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  Speaker 7: would you rather? Would you rather have sex on a
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  Speaker 7: bed of hay or sex on a bed of gravel?
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  Speaker 5: Hey?
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  Speaker 7: Hey, only wear white? Would you rather only wear white
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  Speaker 7: after Memorial Day? Or whenever you want?
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  Speaker 1: I won't yeah? Right around again, tickets on when when
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  Speaker 1: you wear white? Whenever? I won't yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Their rules to it, well, they don't have the moves,
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  Speaker 5: no more than la overseas.
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  Speaker 7: They don't, you know, they don't know?
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  Speaker 6: All right?
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  Speaker 7: Would you rather steal water or sparkling water?
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  Speaker 1: Steal steal?
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  Speaker 6: Like?
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  Speaker 1: Just still? Okay?
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  Speaker 7: Would you rather get two teeth pulls? Or would you
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  Speaker 7: rather have a bunion removed?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, Steve, okay't I can't do nothing else in my
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  Speaker 1: mouth it It'd be five years before I go back to.
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  Speaker 7: Get your clean.
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  Speaker 1: Ain't gonta get him clean?
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  Speaker 9: For what?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Brush inby five year before I go back
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  Speaker 1: to a die. Promise you twenty thirty?
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  Speaker 4: All right?
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  Speaker 7: Would you rather have a six pack or have six stacks?
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  Speaker 7: Six thousand dollars?
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  Speaker 4: Okay?
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  Speaker 7: Would you rather have a six pack or six stacks?
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather have a six pack? Oh pack?
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  Speaker 2: Six thousand?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 13: Yeah, give me the six pack, Junior? Yes, okay, right
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  Speaker 13: now for a six pack? Yeah, okay, all right, I'll give.
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  Speaker 5: You sixty thousand if you give me a six pack? Dang,
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  Speaker 5: yeah without surgery?
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  Speaker 1: Hell yeah, all right?
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  Speaker 7: Would you rather have a mustache like Junior? Or mustache
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  Speaker 7: like Steve Harvey? You know?
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  Speaker 1: Sorry? Sorry, Junior? Would rather have man? Start there? You
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  Speaker 1: can't you don't start here? Hey, you don't. You don't
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  Speaker 1: downgrade my much dange talking about I start there? Finished?
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  Speaker 1: Prop up? You got to go years to get this, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: and that little thing you growing right there?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, if I if I want one, I wanted to
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  Speaker 8: be like that, you know, how fool it is.
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  Speaker 1: You know you still see my skin in the mind,
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  Speaker 1: you know, Yeah.
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  Speaker 9: The thickness of Steve. Yeah, what you're saying, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 9: pay you a compliment.
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  Speaker 1: I would rather have your mustache than Steven A. Smith's.
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  Speaker 1: You just say, man, you finna get a phone call? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: what is gonna say?
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  Speaker 7: This is your friend?
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  Speaker 1: What is Stephen A. Smith won't say to me?
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  Speaker 7: All Right, guys, that's today's round of would you rather?
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  Speaker 5: Hey, you know what I had to come to the
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  Speaker 5: realization kind of want to share this with people, but
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  Speaker 5: you know, I want to talk about there's a cost.
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  Speaker 1: There is a cost. You know, when you make the
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: decision to be successful comes with a cost.
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  Speaker 5: And as as much as I've tried to negate the cost,
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  Speaker 5: as much as I've tried to alleviate the cost, as
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  Speaker 5: much as I've oftentimes just tried to.
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  Speaker 1: Not talk up the cost, the cost is real.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I got in trouble, not really trouble, but
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  Speaker 5: I got a bunch of haters that came online one
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  Speaker 5: time when they saw me give a speech about if
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 5: you want to be successful and really really successful as something,
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  Speaker 5: you can't sleep eight hours. And I believe that, you know,
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  Speaker 5: somebody counted it with Oprah says she gets eight hours sleep.
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  Speaker 1: Well.
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  Speaker 5: Oprah's wealthy, though, But if you go back on her
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  Speaker 5: journey and asked her when she was hustling trying to
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  Speaker 5: make it what she getting eate, I don't think the
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  Speaker 5: answer would be yes. Everybody I know that's grinding, that's
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  Speaker 5: in the hustle, trying to really really have more than normal.
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  Speaker 5: If you want above average, it comes at a cost.
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  Speaker 5: And I've tried not to talk about it because I
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  Speaker 5: don't want to, you know, knock anybody down about it.
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  Speaker 5: But man, there's a cost for everything. And you know,
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  Speaker 5: I know a lot of successful people who have health issues.
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  Speaker 5: I've had my share of myself. Tommy can tell you
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  Speaker 5: about his, Junior can tell you about his. All of
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  Speaker 5: us can tell you about health issues. It's sometimes, you know,
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  Speaker 5: it just it's a part of it. I don't know
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  Speaker 5: how to explain it. Now. You don't want to sacrifice
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  Speaker 5: one for the other, but sometimes it's unavoidable because there
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  Speaker 5: is a cost, and a lot of times you end
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  Speaker 5: up sometimes you have health issues because you just don't
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  Speaker 5: know any better. You know, and that's why knowledge is
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  Speaker 5: so important, because when you know better you can do better.
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  Speaker 5: You know, had I known a long long time ago
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  Speaker 5: that everything I put into my body was gonna have
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  Speaker 5: an effect on me, I would have made some.
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  Speaker 1: Changes a long long time ago.
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  Speaker 5: I just really started understanding this in the last fifteen
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  Speaker 5: twenty years of my life. You know, the how important
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  Speaker 5: eating the right thing is, how important it is to
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 5: take supplements, how important it is to take regular visits
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  Speaker 5: to your doctor. And as black men, I'm talking especially
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  Speaker 5: to black men, we find it so hard to go
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  Speaker 5: to these doctors. I got a partner right now, man
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  Speaker 5: that's trying to get out the hospital right now because
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 5: he ain't been to the doctor in eight years. But
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 5: he's seventy and it ain't been to the doctor in
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 5: eight years. We can't do that because we've been grinding.
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  Speaker 5: And I understood something about grinding recently. When you're grinding,
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  Speaker 5: grinding means actually to wear down. But in order to
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  Speaker 5: have something, you got to get in to wear down process,
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  Speaker 5: and the thing you end up wearing down is your body. Now,
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  Speaker 5: I'm not saying you should exchange your health for wealth.
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  Speaker 5: I wish that wasn't the cost, but oftentimes that's the
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  Speaker 5: cost factor. And people who don't want it, you don't
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  Speaker 5: have to do it. But then there's a cost with
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  Speaker 5: being poor. To see, there's a cost factor when you
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  Speaker 5: decide not to be anything. It's a cost factor when
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  Speaker 5: you decide I'm just gonna ride it out, I'm just
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  Speaker 5: gonna mail it in. There's a cost factor for that.
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  Speaker 5: I notice when old people who've been working their whole
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  Speaker 5: life finally retire and they don't and they able to
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  Speaker 5: stop being active. I watch them wear down, dissipate, just
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 5: wither away because that work, that thing called the grind
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  Speaker 5: of getting up going to work every day. It gave
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  Speaker 5: them something to live for. It gave them something to
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  Speaker 5: do and made them active. It's just a cost, man.
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  Speaker 5: But you have to decide which one of the costs
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  Speaker 5: you want to pay. Do you want to pay the
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  Speaker 5: the cost of being successful or do you want to
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  Speaker 5: be the cost you want to pay the cost of
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  Speaker 5: being poor. Now, when I say poor, I mean really poor.
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  Speaker 5: I don't mean like if you make a hundred thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't talking about like that. You're doing great, man,
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  Speaker 5: your life is good. I think people are that that
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  Speaker 5: make one hundred thousand dollars doing fine with your life
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  Speaker 5: that's not what I'm saying, so please don't misunderstand me.
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  Speaker 5: I'm talking about when you don't have enough to eat,
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  Speaker 5: you can't put a roof over your family's head, you
• 1:30:27
  Speaker 5: can't get them to the store. And then you got
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 5: to do more. Man, you got to do more. But
• 1:30:33
  Speaker 5: it's a cost for it, one way or the other.
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 5: I suggest, though, if I look back on it, all,
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  Speaker 5: you have to find a way to create a balance.
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  Speaker 5: But the balance ain't gonna be even even, it's just
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  Speaker 5: gotta be. You got to grind, you got to rest,
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  Speaker 5: You got to grind, You got to rest. You got
• 1:30:56
  Speaker 5: to grind, you got to rest. If you just grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind,
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  Speaker 5: then try to rest, the cost factor's gonna be greater.
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  Speaker 5: So find the balance for yourself. I can't tell anybody
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  Speaker 5: what that is, but there is a cost to being successful.
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 5: But there is a cost to not being successful. And
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 5: you have to decide which one of the costs you
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 5: have to pay. Now that's just real talk. You can
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 5: say it ain't so, but yes, it is not being
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 5: able to provide for your family. That's a cost being
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 5: able to provide for your family. There is a cost.
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 5: You have to decide which cost you're willing to pay
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 5: and then find a balance in there. That's what I
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  Speaker 5: had to discover. So those are my clothes remarks. That's
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