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Chrissy Teigen Cancelled, Whitney Family Feud, Delta Air Fight, A-Rod and more. · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on
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  Speaker 1: point that out to you. God is an absolute gentleman.
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  Speaker 1: He will not come in unless he's invited. He don't
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  Speaker 1: just barge into your life. He gives us the power
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  Speaker 1: of choice. You know. If you say you got it,
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  Speaker 1: I don't need you. He let you have it. If
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  Speaker 1: That's why I'm so adamant about it because I've gotten
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  Speaker 1: myself in some circumstances and positions in my life. But
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  Speaker 1: I've been I've I've had some low moments, man, I've
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  Speaker 1: had some moments where I did not know what to do.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't know what was next, I didn't know how
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  Speaker 1: to go about it. I didn't have no more ideas.
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  Speaker 1: I was stuck. I thought a couple of times, well,
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  Speaker 1: might not make it past this one. But then if
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  Speaker 1: I don't make it past it, what's gonna happen? And
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  Speaker 1: then I held on to this little thing that my
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  Speaker 1: mother kept talking to me about. She said, sometimes when
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  Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing else in you, just hope, she said,
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  Speaker 1: just hope it'll be all right, you know. And what
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  Speaker 1: I've learned in my life is that hope. It's the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of faith. Hope. It's just is there a possibility
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  Speaker 1: out there for me? Me? I sure hope something happened.
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  Speaker 1: See hope, hope it's okay, man, Because like I said,
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  Speaker 1: for me, the way I've lived my life, hope was
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  Speaker 1: the beginning of faith. It was just the idea. It's
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  Speaker 1: just the thought that something could change from me, that
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  Speaker 1: something could be a little bit different. From me that maybe, man,
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  Speaker 1: just maybe for some reason, I could be saved, I
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  Speaker 1: could be rescued. Things could turn around, it could head
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  Speaker 1: any other direction. Maybe I could quit messing up. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: somebody will forgive me. Maybe somebody will just say all right.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but I can't count the times I've
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  Speaker 1: been in that position. But then once I hope a
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  Speaker 1: little bit, and then I remember Also my mother, because
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  Speaker 1: she was a Sunday school teacher, she taught me the
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  Speaker 1: most valuable lesson I've ever learned in my life. Nothing
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  Speaker 1: has been greater in my life than my faith. She
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  Speaker 1: taught me to pray. Mamma used to say, when it
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  Speaker 1: get real, dog for your son, prayd changes things. She said,
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  Speaker 1: When you seem like you lost and you can't finding
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  Speaker 1: your way, stop and pray, she said, because prayd changes things.
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  Speaker 1: You know, when you get a point in your life
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  Speaker 1: when you've done all you can do and you can't
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  Speaker 1: do no more and you just don't know what to
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  Speaker 1: do next, she says, stop, So pray and combine that
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  Speaker 1: prayer with that hope that you got, she said, because
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  Speaker 1: that hope is the beginning of faith. She said. If
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  Speaker 1: you pray, just hoping. She's saying that God come through
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  Speaker 1: for you. That will give you confidence that he can
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  Speaker 1: do it again. And then after a while, you quit hoping,
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  Speaker 1: she's saying, you start believing. She saying, that's when you're
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  Speaker 1: on to something. If you can turn that hope into belief,
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  Speaker 1: that hope into faith, that's that's the ability to believe
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  Speaker 1: in something that you can't see. But the key though,
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  Speaker 1: the faith is you're believing in something that you can't see.
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  Speaker 1: See hoping a little bit different from me now, I'm
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  Speaker 1: pretty sure. Like I say, oftentimes to tell a lot
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  Speaker 1: of people who can explain this thing a lot better
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  Speaker 1: than I can to you, hope. It's just kind of
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how to I don't know how to
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  Speaker 1: say it. But I'm just telling you hope. You're just
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  Speaker 1: hoping it worked out right. You just have a thought
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  Speaker 1: in your mind that you know, man, whoever you are,
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  Speaker 1: or whoever you are, whatever you are, to me, God,
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  Speaker 1: I show hope something change. Hope helps. Man. If you
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  Speaker 1: ain't strong enough to have faith, have hope, hope, and
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  Speaker 1: then if you pray with some hope and God answers
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  Speaker 1: your prayer, then that hope gains a little confidence, and
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  Speaker 1: after a while that confidence becomes faith. Now they're just hoping,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm believing. I'm believing it's something that I cannot see.
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  Speaker 1: Faith has been the key to my entire existence, even
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  Speaker 1: when I didn't have any It was faith, as I
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  Speaker 1: look back on it, that has gotten me here, and
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  Speaker 1: not just faith, but my faith. See, you will only
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  Speaker 1: get to where you're going in your life based on
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  Speaker 1: your faith. See. A lot of people get the word
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  Speaker 1: faith confused, like what's your faith? And then they started
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  Speaker 1: going down this whole list of all these different religions
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  Speaker 1: out here. But really an essence, man, when I talk
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  Speaker 1: to people about faith, I'm talking to you about your
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  Speaker 1: your belief. How much do you believe in the unseen? See?
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  Speaker 1: Faith is the core of all that is happening to
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  Speaker 1: me today. It is the faith that I have in
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  Speaker 1: my relationship with God that enables me to just oftentimes,
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  Speaker 1: if I stay on the right course and believe a
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  Speaker 1: certain way and act a certain way, his blessings just poor.
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  Speaker 1: They just come. And it comes in a lot of
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  Speaker 1: little ways too. I've started to notice, See it ain't
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  Speaker 1: just a lot of people think blessings is money. And now, man,
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  Speaker 1: that ain't it. It's coverage. It's every time my plane
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  Speaker 1: lands safe. It's every time they predict bad weather and
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  Speaker 1: I get up in the sky and it don't be
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  Speaker 1: no bad weather. You know this, This is favor. These
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  Speaker 1: are blessings that get poured out to me. Somebody call
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  Speaker 1: me and offer me something, not money, but an opportunity. See,
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  Speaker 1: blessings come a lot of ways. But once you tie
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  Speaker 1: into God. Once you tie in and you start doing
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  Speaker 1: the best you can do, and you start asking for
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  Speaker 1: him to make you a better person, to help shape
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  Speaker 1: and mold you into the kind of man or person
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  Speaker 1: that he wants you to be. You be amazed what
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  Speaker 1: God can do with you. Man, if you just invite
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  Speaker 1: me in and allow him to be a part of
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  Speaker 1: your life. I mean, what you got to lose out there?
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  Speaker 1: Come on? Why why would you not change? Why would
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  Speaker 1: you not allow God to be a part of your life?
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  Speaker 1: God got some big plans for you. If he didn't,
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  Speaker 1: you wouldn't keep waking up. You're listening to ladies and gentlemen,
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  Speaker 1: we are here the beginning of a new day. Thank you, Lord,
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  Speaker 1: I shall appreciate it ever, grateful for this opportunity. That's
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  Speaker 1: how I look at it. I want us all to
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  Speaker 1: sharing that that if you walk up this morning or
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  Speaker 1: you're still here, that's an opportunity and a blessing and
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  Speaker 1: a whole lot of grace. So let's do that. Let's
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  Speaker 1: all say thank you, thank you, thank you, Lord. Appreciate it.
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  Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Let it begin. Shirley Strawberry, thank you
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  Speaker 1: Lord again. Good morning see Colin Farrell give him all
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  Speaker 1: the praise and glory. Amen, Good morning, Cure Spates slash
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  Speaker 1: Junior Lord. I can't do it without you. I tried
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  Speaker 1: it for a number of years. I really did. I said,
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  Speaker 1: let me gonna, let me gonna do this hill. See
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  Speaker 1: how far they get me? The short ride? Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: were doing you just stupid. Yes. Forgiveness. It's important to me,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. I came on there, you know, took
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  Speaker 1: the long way around. Wish I had nobody. Taking the
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  Speaker 1: long way around taught me. Taught me a lot like,
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  Speaker 1: don't do that no more. I mean I learned it
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  Speaker 1: for real. Don't do that, nomal you know that that
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  Speaker 1: or that, or do it by yourself. I'm fitting to
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  Speaker 1: figure this out. I didn't work out for me, y'all
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  Speaker 1: know I saw something. Man, you was online. You were
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  Speaker 1: talking about forgiveness, and man, you said something. Man that
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  Speaker 1: was I never thought about it. You said, once God
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  Speaker 1: forgive me, I'm through with you. Everybody else they don't
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  Speaker 1: even matter. I don't. I don't allow you to hold
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  Speaker 1: me to my past when God has allowed me to
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  Speaker 1: move past it. I don't do that anymore. I used to.
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  Speaker 1: I used to let people, you know, kind of hold
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  Speaker 1: me to stuff. I stopped doing that. And if you're
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  Speaker 1: that person, then right me and you through not guilt.
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  Speaker 1: Let me say something because I had this conversation the
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  Speaker 1: other day with some young people. Guilt I was learning
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  Speaker 1: is the most useless emotion we have as people, because
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  Speaker 1: guilt serves no purpose. Yeah yeah, well, and because guilt
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  Speaker 1: and see one of the young lady I was talking to,
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  Speaker 1: she said, well, guilt proves that you're human because you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to have more than somebody else said. You
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  Speaker 1: don't want no, no, no, no no. Guilt is useless
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  Speaker 1: and the guilt only happens when someone else doesn't want
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  Speaker 1: you to have more than they have, or someone else
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  Speaker 1: is using manipulation to make you feel some kind of
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  Speaker 1: way about their position versus your position and that's not fair. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: even your kids can do that. And that's what I
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  Speaker 1: had to learn as a mom. You know, that's expression
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  Speaker 1: mom guilt. I had that. But um, and you know
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  Speaker 1: I would buy things, you know, because I had guilt.
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  Speaker 1: So just buy my daughter whatever she wanted. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I guess straight from a very young age can manipulate you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: they're very manipulative, very you know. They know how to
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  Speaker 1: turn on those water works and all of that. You know,
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  Speaker 1: and if you've got that soft heart for your kids,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Anyway, thanks for that lesson, Steve. We're moving on.
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour of
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  Speaker 1: time for Ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey
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  Speaker 1: in the building right after this, you're listening to all right, guys,
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  Speaker 1: time now for Ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey.
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  Speaker 1: This one is from Cherry in New Orleans. Cherry says,
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  Speaker 1: my co worker has flirted with me for two years,
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  Speaker 1: and now that I'm single, I decided to go to
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  Speaker 1: dinner with him. I let him pick me up only
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  Speaker 1: because I know him well. He got to my house
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  Speaker 1: and his car was filthy and it smelled like feet.
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  Speaker 1: I told him how foul it smells, and he suggested
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  Speaker 1: we go in my car. I canceled the date and
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  Speaker 1: him all last week he called me a goody two
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  Speaker 1: shoes and I told him if his car was nasty,
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  Speaker 1: his house is probably nasty too. I didn't need to
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  Speaker 1: add insult to injury, but I did. Should I apologize
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  Speaker 1: or not? Clo Well, you know, if you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you should apologize, you shoot it. What's it gonna hurt you?
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  Speaker 1: But don't apologize in me and go out with him,
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  Speaker 1: because chances are you're probably correct. Now she's calling you
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  Speaker 1: goody two shoes. That's that's because you like clean stuff.
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  Speaker 1: That makes you goody two shoes. That's that's probably you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to be a stinky car. That sounds like
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  Speaker 1: Feebee's trif. And he said, well, let's go in your car.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if a man listen to this, If a
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  Speaker 1: man is picking you up for the first time, you
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  Speaker 1: expect him to just be on his best behavior, put
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  Speaker 1: his road. I trust me. If he won't clean his
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  Speaker 1: car up and knowing he's going on a date, okay,
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  Speaker 1: then what else is he not willing to do it?
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  Speaker 1: This is true. He'd been flirting with you. Just leave
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  Speaker 1: it at that, going about your business. You're absolutely correct,
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  Speaker 1: it's more behind it. First of all, he's not trying
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  Speaker 1: to impress you. That's a problem. Let's take your car.
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  Speaker 1: That's a problem. You goody to choose because you like
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  Speaker 1: clean stuff. That's a problem. Listen they please listen. No,
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  Speaker 1: I am all right, moving on. Sebastian and Los Angeles says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm at a beautiful woman, and she's got a roommate
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  Speaker 1: that's beautiful too. The other night, they had a small
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  Speaker 1: dinner party and invited me. There were several people there,
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  Speaker 1: but I was the only guy they invited. I thought
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  Speaker 1: I was dating the lady I met first, but her
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  Speaker 1: roommate was sitting in my lap and she even fixed
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  Speaker 1: a plate for me. I'm an old school type of guy,
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  Speaker 1: So should I ask the lady I met first if
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  Speaker 1: we're dating. I'm hearing more. He's so confused. I'm fifty
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  Speaker 1: four and she's thirty, So I need your help. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you probably need to go on and ask, just say
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  Speaker 1: hold on, wait a minute. Hold, I'm confused. I come
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  Speaker 1: over your house and then your roommate is sitting in
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  Speaker 1: my lap and makes me a plate. Now I need
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  Speaker 1: to know it's am I. Who am I dating? Here?
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  Speaker 1: All three of us, don't. I don't say that, start over,
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  Speaker 1: start over, keep that to yourself, but just say, hey, look,
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  Speaker 1: I want to ask you a question. I came here
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  Speaker 1: thinking it was you, but then your roommate is sitting
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  Speaker 1: in my lap and fixing me food. So I'm confused.
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  Speaker 1: Am I to date your roommate? Am I to date you?
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  Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I don't understand. Okay, all ye that yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm confused, But yeah, all right, Uh play attention
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  Speaker 1: to this one's Clo LaDonna and Valdosta, Georgia says mister c.
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  Speaker 1: L O. I'm sixty seven and I heard you say
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  Speaker 1: that old people need to stop referring to themselves as freaky.
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  Speaker 1: I beg your pardon because I'm still very freaky. And
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  Speaker 1: my husband is sixty eight and he is too. But
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  Speaker 1: here's the problem. He's starting to watch a lot of
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  Speaker 1: porn and he ends up handling his business all by
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  Speaker 1: himself a lot. Why does he choose that over actually
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  Speaker 1: having sex with me? Mister C Well, you know, thanks,
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  Speaker 1: since we're being honest with each other. If a man
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  Speaker 1: prefers porno and himself over you. Then let me ask
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  Speaker 1: you a question. Why do you think he prefers porn
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  Speaker 1: and himself over you? Miss? I still got it. I'm
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  Speaker 1: so freaky sixty seven freaky. Well, that's what she wants
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  Speaker 1: to know from you, Cella. Why does he choose porn
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  Speaker 1: over actually having sex with her? Freaky and good? Is
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  Speaker 1: two different than you know? Maybe you got feather dusters
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  Speaker 1: in the room and you don't look suitcase under the bed.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're working with. But maybe maybe
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  Speaker 1: he don't want all that father you know, yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: in here, you know you got French ticklers and you
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  Speaker 1: know he don't like he don't want all that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: but he watches porn. Make it makes sense? You can
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  Speaker 1: buy the poort a movie. You won't, you know, bol
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell. Huh. She the one
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  Speaker 1: in here thinking she all that freaky, but he don't
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  Speaker 1: want to be with her. You want to be with
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  Speaker 1: the point movie in himself. Now, obviously something you doing
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  Speaker 1: ain't all that freaking Well, Okay, you're the clo chief
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  Speaker 1: freaky officer. Okay, all right, I got yeah, I don't
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  Speaker 1: know what you you know what? Yeah, Okay, I got it.
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  Speaker 1: You know you come talking out with I got news
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  Speaker 1: for you. I'm freaking he freaking too? Oh really? But here? Okay,
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  Speaker 1: well he's freaking in the movie and he freaking with
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  Speaker 1: his self. Now, okay, I'm just saying no to that's
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  Speaker 1: that boy too. We're moving on. Angela in Manhattan says,
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  Speaker 1: I'm a forty two year old dancer and I do
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  Speaker 1: private bachelor and bachelorette parties. I was hired to dance
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  Speaker 1: for a guy's fortieth birthday party and his wife set
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  Speaker 1: it all up. When I got there, the birthday boy
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  Speaker 1: asked if I would fool around with his wife and
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  Speaker 1: let him watch. I told him it would be extra,
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  Speaker 1: and he paid me. His wife and I hooked up
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  Speaker 1: a few more times since then, and he found out.
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  Speaker 1: He got on social media and trashed me. Is there
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  Speaker 1: any way I can stop him? What that just ain't
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  Speaker 1: gonna do with love? So a lot of freaky stuff
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  Speaker 1: going on. He paid extra for you to do something
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  Speaker 1: extra with his wife, and he watched me, and y'all
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  Speaker 1: hooked up a few times after. Now he trashing you
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  Speaker 1: on social media? What you've dripping for? All right? No
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  Speaker 1: business ought to be going well? Next Junior's in for
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  Speaker 1: the nephew would run that prank back? Right after this,
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  Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up. At the
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  Speaker 1: top of the hour, Miss Anna's standing by with today's
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  Speaker 1: national news and an entertainment news Chrissy Teagan posts a
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  Speaker 1: lengthy apology for her past horrible tweets and bullying. She says,
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  Speaker 1: we'll talk about it at the top of the Hour
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  Speaker 1: of Courts, but right now, Junior is in for the
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  Speaker 1: nephew who's vacationing somewhere exotic. We heard on some island.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, Junior is then for the nephew with run
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  Speaker 1: that fightback. He's islanding. He's in Mehicol, what what you
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  Speaker 1: got for us? Junior? Well, you know, Shirley call it.
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  Speaker 1: You know you can't. You can't play with people when
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  Speaker 1: they get you start talking about the save you. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: they bad people. You seious about this. So this is
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  Speaker 1: me and my Jesus. Man man, man, Me and my Jesus.
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  Speaker 1: Come okay, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach his sister.
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  Speaker 1: How you doing. I'm giving you a call on behalf
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  Speaker 1: of Baptist Church. You are there? Am I right? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I am Okay, listen, I'm calling you. They are some
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  Speaker 1: of the members have gotten together and had a meeting
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  Speaker 1: and wanted me to give you a call. It seems
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  Speaker 1: that a lot of them are complaining about Sunday services
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  Speaker 1: that go on and wanted for me to give you
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  Speaker 1: a call on their behalf so that we can see
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  Speaker 1: if we can address the problem and talk to you
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  Speaker 1: diligently as possible and try to get the problem rectified.
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: What's going on, Well, it seems like that a lot
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: of members are complaining. I'm sorry, and what is your
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: name again? My name is Man. I'm not actually a
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: member of the church. I've just been the one that
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: they've been asked to give you a call and try
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: to talk on the members behalf, so maybe we can
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: get this problem rectified that you that they have as
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: far as you are concerned, now, okay, go ahead, I'm
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: just trying to see what this is in regards to
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: go ahead. Well, it seems like the members of the
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: church are complaining about that you're doing too much shouting
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: at church on Sunday, and it seems to be going
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: on every Sunday. You're running up and down the aisle
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  Speaker 1: and you're shouting all over the place, and me, I've
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: been singled out about my shouting. Is that what you're saying, well, ever,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Dinny is distracting, ma'am. You're distracting everyone from me getting
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: the word and listening to the word and being involved
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: in the service. And that's the purpose of the call
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: is to see if we can get you to tone
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: it down some. Okay, So the whole church is complaining
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: about me shouting the way people run up and down
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: them off every Sunday and almost saying cart wheels and flips,
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: and they're singling me out, complained about me. Well, ma'am,
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know how it is that you can see
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: everybody else doing cart wheels when you're the ones that
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: they say is the one that's doing them. Am I
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: being singled out? Man. All I'm saying is that they're
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: saying that you're doing too much shouting and too much
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: running at this church. Now I'm just the message. Okay. Well,
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: they can't tell me how to shout. They don't. They
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: can't tell me what's going on in my life, what's
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: gonna keep me from praising God? And they, I mean,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: they could just they could go somewhere else with that.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: But they're not gonna tell me that I can't praise
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: my God. They don't know how good God it's being
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: to me. And you know what, I understand that I
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: agree with you wholeheartedly, but it's becoming a distraction. I mean,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: they was at the point last night talking about should
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: we put some seatbelts on the pews so so you
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: can stay? Do we stay? We'll put some seat but high.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: They're gonna tell people they can't shout in church, embrace God.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: What do we come to church for? Well, you do
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: come to We need to be trying to praise God
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: and get they all shout on and stop looking at
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: me and everybody what I'm doing. We're gonna need you
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: to quit running up and down these aisles and doing
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: what you go. I'm sorry, you know, I'm trying to
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: stay calm. I'm trying my best. Who Jesus chief sir
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: that that's not happening. You can't tell me I gotta
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: stop shouting. Okay, man, but let me ask you. Are
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: you running now? Aren't you just standing still talking? Because
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: I don't have to run right now? Okay, what I'm
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: trying to get you to do the like if don't
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: want to run up and down the street right now,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I can run up and down the street and place God,
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: but they're not gonna tell me to stop shouting at church.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Can we get you to be a little bit more
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: reserved as what we see? Man, let me let me
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: go ahead and go further on what they do. The
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: spirit moves. Okay, well, let me move and tell you
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: what they've told me. Now, if we can't get to
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: the point where you can, you know, tone it down,
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: then we may have to ask you to leave. I
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: just want to let them ask me, Jesus, Jesus, Jesus,
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: you let them ask me. Why don't they want me
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: to leave the church. I've been at that church for
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: fifteen years. I'm not leaving the church. I'm gonna run
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: up and down. I'm not gonna run on the church.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I don't even turn me where I feel like it not. Now, listen,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: that's all. I'm okay, go ahead, but I'm gonna be there.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: I'm going to I'm going to be there on Sunday. Man,
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: and I have been the person that's been appointed to
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: make sure that you're not running up and down these
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: house and shotting like this. You got to keep yourself reserved.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: People can hear the word of God. You are standing
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: in people's word. That's what you're doing. You're in the whale.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: If they come trying to send me down, I'm gonna
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: get them a word and it ain't gonna be your God.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: So I let him put that hands up on me
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: here now listen, I'm telling you that. Now you could say,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I haven't been in that church fifteen years. If I
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: want to run, dad shout, jump quit. Whatever I want
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: to do, I'm gonna do it. Ain't nobody gonna stop me.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: You're gonna have to stop this. This past Sunday was
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: your last Sunday doing it, and you're not gonna do
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: with this Sunday. Like I said, just why let and
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you could tell the un sues the deacon void.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: The deacon asked the minister's wives or who all asked
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: you want to tell? Let him put their hands on
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: me and see if I don't sling on them, I'm
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: gonna come run about the spirit and sling on it.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you that now because he sell you can
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: really push me that on and tried and try. Let
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: me ask you this here where you're trying to show
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: that I'm saved and never but you make it you
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: if you're making me revert back to my own ways
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: and you you really to me off, that's what you're
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: gonna do. Okay, well, let me ask you this, what
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: is the God at right now in you? Where's the
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: one that say, yeah, it was? The God was in
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: me when I was trying to be called with you
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: at first to tell you don't me calling me with
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: this foolishness, but now you have to make the other
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: side of me rose up. Well, you wouldn't raise it up,
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: and you wouldn't raise it up in me too. Guess
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: what come signing You're gonna set y'all in that pew
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: and you ain't gonna you know when you call yourself
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: a mad because we can in the pew. Okay, all right,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: all right, We're gonna see how where I'm not sitting
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: a few matter fact, first thing, Sidne the morning, I'm
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: going the past. Oh yeah, Deacon you are whatever your
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: name is. I'm gonna telling about it, yad, matter how
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: long you need to lose, I would be talking to
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: pastor myself and letting him know about this situation. You
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: don't talk. You don't we can call pass right around.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: We just passed. Don't right. You don't talk to pastor.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: I talk to pastor. The pastor I don't at this church.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Fifteen Yes, Like I said, I'm telling you old Jesus.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Ge Oh you you feel old Jesus not not not not.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: See just like this here you see how you calling
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: on him and you standing yeah, because I'm talking on
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: him to Kidney, was just really going to cuss you
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: out right there because you didn't really hit my nerve.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to you, ladies.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: You say real quick because you're gonna talk to this
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: operator that's his nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: You just got a break by your girl. You're not
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I'm oh, I'm oh, I'm gonna kill lord up cursing
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: on the part. Okay, Jesus, I got one more thing, baby.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Let me ask you something. What is the baddest I'm
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land Harvey Morning.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: I told y'all she was gonna be seeing by HERR Jesus.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: She was not playing. She said, I can scream, yell, jump, flip,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: in this church out Who are you to tell me
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: how to see the send the pews for what I knew,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: what Jesus brought me out of. Yeah, I'll know my journey,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: don't testimony. I love it, that's true. All right, Well,
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Coming up at the top of the hour.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: We'll have some entertainment and national news right after this.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Chrissy Teagan released a lengthy apology
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: on Monday for her toxic tweets against Courtney Stodden, Lindsay Lohan,
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: and others. Chrissie posted, as you know, a bunch of
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: my old, awful, awful, awful tweets resurfaced. I'm truly ashamed
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: of them. As I look at them and understand the
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: hurt they caused, I have to stop and wonder how
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: could I have done that? There is simply no excuse
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: for my past horrible tweets. She also wrote, my targets
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: didn't deserve them, No one does. Many of them needed
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: empty empathy, kindness, understanding, and support, not my meanness masquerading
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: as a kind of casual edgy humor. I was a troll,
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: full stop, and I am so sorry. So this is
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: what happened. Maybe you don't know the backstory about this.
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: Chrissie is referring to. Yeah, Chrissie is referring to Courtney Stotten,
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: who married actor dutt Doug Hutchinson when he was fifty
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: and she was just sixteen years old. They divorced in
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: early twenty twenty after a tumultuous decade together. Stodden has
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: accused her ex husband of taking advantage of her and
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: verbally abusing her. Stotten also has publicly called out Teagan
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: in the past for her abusive tweets, some of which
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: were calls for her to kill herself quite frankly. Yeah.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Brands like Macy's and Target have distanced themselves from Chrissy Teagan.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: She publicly apologized via Twitter. Chrissie says she's continuing to
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: work on herself and making amends privately with others. So
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: she's working. It was a long time ago, but it
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: was harsh, it was mean, it was cold with the
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: stuff that she said, and so I guess it's good
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: that she's taking ownership of it now. But a lot
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: of people are saying that she's doing it because because
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: she's losing losing money. Well, it happened a long time ago.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: She apologized. You have to allow people to get up,
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: you know, you can't just hold people to their mistakes forever.
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: She apologized, and the old the old tweet surfaced again, right,
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: and she's she's going back to apologize again. She can't
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: do no more. Yeah, it may have been horrible at
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: the well, it may have been horrible at the time,
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: and I understand it, and she admitted it. But she's
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: she's asked for forgiveness and she said everything and I resurface.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: She's apologized again. She can't do nothing else. Yeah, she's apologized.
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: She made a mistake. It was horrible. She said, she
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: wished she had enough. She can't believe she did it.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: But it's done. Everybody survived it, let her up, so
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: she can move on. Now. Everybody that wants to keep
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: crushing her forward, why she doing it? And all this here?
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: She could be sincerely sorry, right, And you know that's
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: the thing. This is canceled culture, and everybody's ready to
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: just cancel you out like that. And it a heartbeat,
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: and I mean just you know, in a blink of
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: an eye, you're done. You know, there there's no room
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: for redemption and stuff like this, and we all have
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: to remember, you know, about our past. Yeah, and we've
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: all made mistakes and the things that we post live on.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: That's you know. And give us our trust, passion change.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those who
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: trust passing. That's right. That's the Lard's prayer I say
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: every day, and I try to remember that when people
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: are asking for forgiveness, because she was hard, all of
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: us are going to turn around and need it. Yeah, yeah,
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: and we want people to forgive us, so we have
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: to forgive. You're absolutely right, Steve. All right, it's time
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: for the news, ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne trip. President
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Biden scheduled to meet with Russian President Vladimir Putin and
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: Geneva tomorrow. The presidents already met with the leaders of Estonia, Latvia,
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: and Lithuania to discuss the threat that Russia posts to
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: NATO's eastern flank. A woman was killed in Minneapolis Sunday
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: night by a man who rammed his car into a
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: mixed race crowd protesting the killing June third of a
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: reportedly unarmed black man by sheriff's deputies. Seek me to
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: arrest him on a firearms warrn't. The cops said he
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: had a gun. People near him said he didn't. A
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: local activist named DJ Hooks was there. Court came out
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: of us going seventy or eighty miles an hour. It
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: hasn't got through the first street. It even set up
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: as it got to the car, and they hit the car.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: They hit the car. Protesters detained the apparent driver until
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: the police arrived and they turned him over to them.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: I guess not everybody saw or heard of the movie
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Hidden Figures about those three brilliant Black American women who
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: work for NASA. I say that because two other extremely
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: bright Southern girlstorian salutarian of their high school, West Point
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: in Mississippi, have now been forced to share those positions
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: with two white students whose families complain to the school
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: administrations when the black young ladies earned the honors over
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: their children. So now there are two valedictorians and two salutarians,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: even though the black children say they took harder and
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: more advanced classes which the two white students did not take.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Right wing media has twisted everything, claiming the black girl's
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: honors was supposed to a mistake from the beginning. No
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: one else is saying that, but right wing media is
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: saying that California is opening up today. As of today,
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: masks are no longer required in the Golden State. That's
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: right to say the ape. You do have to take
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: your mask with you because you may go to a
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: store that still prefers to require you with the mask that.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Don't fight about it, just carry with you. But generally speaking,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: today California opening up nasts no longer requiring. Fact today
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: is finally National Dairy Day. Milk in my coffee and
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: in my corn flakes. Now back to the Steve Harvey
• 35:24
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• 36:07
  Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, Happy Father's Day. Well, you know, June
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: is black music mom. And yesterday we kind of talked
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: about Soul to Soul. Remember the group sold to Soul
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: jazzyb and yeah, we were talking about it. Affair, Yeah,
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: off Air, what a what a great group and what
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: great music they had and Carlo you you even said
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: you were in college when that song came out. So yeah, Steve,
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: you're a music lover. June is black music mom. Uh,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: can we talk about music like for when you were
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: in college or back in your early early twenties? What
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: what kind of music did you love? How did it
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: make you feel? Where were you? And B? I've always
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: like contemporary jazz. But R and B one are the
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: questions on Family Feud yesterday, Yeah, and I little it
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: was named the top five all time best female singers.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: But almost lost my mind. You were so excited about
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: this question. Huh. Yeah, the number one answer was Whitney Houston. Yeah,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: number one. Now the first lady answered it. She said
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: Aretha Franklin. She was number two. And then the second
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: person came back and said Whitney Houston and she was
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: number one. After that, I was so hurt. Listen, wait
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: what I was so hurt on this list? Let me
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: tell you say didn't make it? They said Beyonce didn't
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: make it. And I was a little bit stunned. Beyonce
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: didn't make it the top five best female singers. No,
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: because in my estimation, Beyonce is the greatest living female
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: artist all around. Yeah, all around. Yeah, I've seen them
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: all around. Now, Whitney's the best voice. But we could
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: finally have a great point when I look at voices though,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: But here they had Barber streisand she could say to me, though, yeah,
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: I love yes. Celine Dion made the list, Yes, she did.
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: The last one on the was Dolly Park and she
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: wrote I will always love you. She didn't four Wing,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: not four Whitney. All right, coming up in thirty four
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk about that Delta
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: flight where the off duty flight attendant caused a stir
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show, all right, So did
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: you guys hear about this story? Um? And off duty
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Delta flight attendant disrupted a flight. They were going from
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: LA to Atlanta. This happened Friday night. Steve uh the
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: off duty flight attendant had to be restrained by crew
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: and passengers as the pilot was forced to divert to
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: Oklahoma City, where the man was taken into custody. So
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: he just got unruly, this off duty flight attendant. He
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: assaulted two crew members. I mean, it was just kind
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: of a mess. You know, It's like, what are you doing, sir?
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: And then the pilot asked he got a got on
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: the PA system and asked if there were any passengers
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: on board who could come and help them subdue this passenger.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: Now right there, that's my moment. What do you mean?
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? That's your moment? See, because I've
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: been willing to whoop somebody ask on a plane since
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: I started flying in eighty five that I've known you
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: a while about you know what I meant. Times I've
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: looked over across the al back behind me, us cross
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: from me and wanted to just whoop somebody. Do we
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: have any able body men in here who could come up? Oh,
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: heisty you on the way. No, he won't even finish this.
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: And do you have any able body men who could
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: come up to the front and help up? Sir? Yeah,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: I could help you. I'm here. Yeah, him forward? Is
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: this him right? As soon as he I'm sucker punching.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: As soon as I see him, I'm hauling off and
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: tagging his ass. Okay, okay, let me ask you, okay,
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: you didn't seat twenty five seat to the front of
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: the plane. How do you come out your seat when
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: they hear that announced? Excuse excuse you, man, excuse me,
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: excuse me talking about that. Excuse me. I didn't mean
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: to hold the hold you had on. Hold, Hey, baby,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I didn't mean that. Watch your babies, get your babies
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: out out held on man, my bad, talk about that
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: and hold of geta don't touch me, don't grab me.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: I'm going to the front. I'm right now here. I
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: come cap almost back up, back up, six broke. I
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: don't need no more death. I don't care how many
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: people have been sir, we have enough. You ain't got meat.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: Let me get them to the front. Back up. But
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: my guys didn't tell you this, Steve, that that the
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: man was wearing a helmet, he had an elbow pads
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: and knee pads, and he was acting strangely. They said, yeah,
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: I know what don't matter. We get all that. He
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: gonna need all that, Get your peanuts, get your TRIPPI
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: you know all this move back move excuse me, I
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: got this. Give me that five stingleish up that all
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: these knee pads and stuff. I got some for all helmet.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: He said. We got enough people now, but you ain't
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: got meat. Ain't got meat. I'm gonna show you how
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: to subdue y'all babies out the He got no bicyic
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: or hit him and all that exposed. Y'all just let
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: me get him dead dog. But I didn't know you
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: had wanted to do this for so long. That's what real.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: My life's dream is to win somebody ass on the
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: plane and be asked to do it by the captain. Yeah,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: you mean I follow orders to fulfill a bucket list dream.
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: And you're able bodied, right He asked for able bodied
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: men to step Able as hell can't keep you from
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: the front of that plane. How about more than able?
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: So that's no, no, no, no, Let me show you
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: a couple of things. Yeah, I love that's so what
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: are you doing so let's throw his ass off the
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: plane now. He wanted the door open. Yeah, he come
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: unteered the intercom and was telling passengers to get back
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: to their seats because oxygen masks were going to be
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: required of them. And uh, you know, of course that
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: created a stir amongst everyone and it became tense and crazy. Yeah,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: it's really frightening. Yeah, so thank you. I probably been
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: uphoto captain open. All right. Coming up next, Junior is
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: in for the nephew with the prank phone call for today.
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, the
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: subject what more does he want from me? Wait till
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: you hear this, and we will in just a few
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: But right now, Junior is in for the nephew. Junior,
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: what's your god? Well, the nephew love us a prank
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: even though he on vacation. Uh, today's prank is get
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: this what love etcetera. Oh okay, yeah, that kind of
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: goes with the strawberry letter. It doesn't love, etcetera. I
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: think I said it right, you know, I ain't never
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: knew how to say etc. That's why I wanted to
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: say love etc. I can't say etcetera. Love. There we go,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: let's run it can Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: out Kaylin. Kaylin, Uh no, she's not here right now.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Who's speaking? This is doctor Albert Listen. I was giving
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: a call. Are you able to leave a message for
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: it for me? Yeah? Yeah? Okay? Would you let her
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: know her sessions will be on Wednesdays at seventh third sessions.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: What session you're talking about? Session? Well, actually she signed
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: up for class. Uh, an eight week class and it's
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: every Wednesday night at seven thirty. Okay, what classes are
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: you talking about? What kind of class? This is? Love
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: et cetera? Have you heard of us? No? Okay, well
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: let me kind of give you a little briefing here.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: Kaylin actually came in and filled out to take some classes,
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: and um, we love et cetera. So we teach different things. Uh,
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: what is it like a seminar or something? Well, you
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: we teach four play intimacy, sensual massages and things like that.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: And she I was actually here when she came and
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: filled out the paperwork. She said she wanted to screwce
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: up her love life with her husband. Are you her husband? Yeah? Yeah,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm a husband. But what I'm saying is is
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: it's like a like a joint thing. Am I supposed
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: to be there or something? No? No, no, no, no,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: this is actually her wanting to Actually I'm if you
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: don't know about it, I'm assuming she wants to surprise
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: you and show you some different things. When when she
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: finishes her sessions? So when did uh? When when did
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: she come in? Like she came in? Where are y'all located?
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: First of all? Okay, well she actually came mean a
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, and she filled out the paperwork.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: We're in the downtown area. She filled it out. She
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: said she was very excited. She wanted to do some
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: different things for her husband. We just asked if she
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: gets here a little earlier, probably fifteen minutes earlier, so
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: she can shower and put a robe on, and then
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: we can we can start class. Who who whoa whoa
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: whoa shower? Shower and rose? What's that? What's that for?
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: I mean, you're not you're not upset about this all
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: right now? I mean I don't gonna follow with you
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: know us, We mean we know. I mean we married couple,
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So you know, anything the
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: spice spice up the marriage. But you know, as far
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: as me not being involved in her going out to
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: barself and you're talking about taking the bath and robe
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: and all the other stuff. Man, she don't need to
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: be there for no, for no meth like that. Man. Well, no, no, sir,
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: it's nothing like that. I mean, it's it's it's basically
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: a class what people get in touch with her with
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: their sensitive side and you get to actually, you know,
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: you learn about for a play, what takes you're talking
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: about eight weeks? Though eight weeks, sir, you must, you
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: must even how y'all even eight weeks? It's on one
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: night a week. It's only on Wednesday, so really only
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: have eight sessions eight sessions exactly. Okay, So why why
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: did she have to have a role though, I mean,
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: why she not? Why she just not showing up at
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: the work or whatever. Well, you have to bring your rope, sir.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Everyone showers and then they put their robe on and
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: we we actually coached them through. Here's how fourth play goes.
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: Here's the intimacy, here's sensual massaging. No, no, no, no
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: fan you get you getting it twisted. What I'm asking
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: you is you you You're really not explaining yourself enough,
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: Like what do y'all do? Like classroom said? If I'm
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: in the class, I'm taking a class. There's nobody touching me.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Ain't no, ain't no cold coming off, a nobody taking,
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: no group showers, caring on what you got? What you
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: sound like? Having nothing, nothing like that at all. But
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: we do come in contact with our sensual side. Now
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: we'll have a partner in class. She'll deal with that
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: one partner. It's not until the fourth session that we
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: really get into some strong physical contacts. Man, what are
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: you talking about? Are you talking about? You're talking about
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: a partner like you're talking about another woman, like some
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: of my teammate or something. What you're talking about you
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: had another dude? Everyone has the opposite sex partner. Man,
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: you gotta be out your mind. Surch even you called,
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: why are you even? Why are you even calling me
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: with this right here? And if you have to understand,
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I'm I wasn't calling you. I was trying to reach
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: miss Kaylin. I don't care who are you trying to reach? Man?
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: You call it my house talking about my wife or
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: some girl that some partners and they don't get physical
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: because the fourth session of Karenin will be no physical
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: at all. Sirt. Basically, your wife is trying to surprise
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: you with a good thing. No, no, no, no, no,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: hold on you just hold on, gonna get this straighten
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: down real quick. Hold on, wait wait wait, wait, what
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: are you what are you doing? I'm gonna call my wife,
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm at. What you don't understand she's trying.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: It's not good for you to call. She wants to
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: surprise you my wife. You let me handle my wife
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: the way I want to handle it. You hold on,
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: hold on this route. You called me back when you
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: get this message, called me back at the house as
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: soon as you get to sir. No, yeah, sirch she
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: wants to surprise you know. Well we got to eyes already,
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: y'all right, the first of all, she ain't gonna be
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: coming down to y'all little sessions. And where do y'all say,
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: y'all do located that? Again? Well, Love et cetera is
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: in the downtown area. How much this thing's supposed to
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: cost anyway? Well, like I said, she signed up for
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: eight sessions. It's it's uh one session per week, it's
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: one hundred dollars ese sessions. She's already played the eight
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: hundred dollars, sir. She what she's paid him full to
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: do all eight sessions. Man, I know, but she ain't
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: paid no eight hundred dollars to y'all. She's starting this
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: coming when she won't be there. I'm gonna tell you
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: that right now. And I and if you, if you
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: got any of that money, you got any of my
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: money down there, you better be coming back with it.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry downtown, y'all Downtown. I work downtown. So
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: guess what I don't will be there tomorrow to get
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: my money? You love, et cetera is non refundable when
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: people sign up for these classes. You can't change your
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: mind like that. Look, man, that's capawork. Don't don't tell
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: me about what's not refundable. What's refundable was not refundable.
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: If I show up, I'm having my money back right
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: in my am. Would it make it? Would you feel
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: a little bit more comfortable if I was her part?
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: They're doing the sessions? Are you married, sir? Yes, I am?
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: You are? Okay? So let me have a session with
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: your wife about I do a year with your wife?
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: My wife, My wife works with other men in the sessions.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: That that's fine. So I'm gonna knock your wife down
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: for about a good you know, year or whatever, and
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: then we're gonna see how you like about sir, sir,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back and forth. We didn't go
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: at the fourth. I'm gonna come down there. I don't
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: get my mom back, and I'm gonna go out forward.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: I'm with my business. And then don't call this I
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: was no more. Don't word about wife. Take a name
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: off the little Leger or whatever. Ain't gonna being no
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: classes player. We're none refundable. I keep telling you that. Man,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: who do you think? You're waighing your voice here? So
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. I keep telling you we're no,
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: I'm refundable. Don't tell me it's not refundable. He goes,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: ain'ty sessions yet? No, she has none? You ain't using
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: every year? Right, I'm being used the service there. Right,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: But we've already partnered her up. We already have a
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: partner for her. Can't about that partner? That's the partner.
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: Use your wife how about that, Hey, sir quip, bringing
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: my wife into bringing my wife into what I'm gonna
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: bring your wife into what? Maybe the problem is you,
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: Maybe you're not doing what you need to be doing
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: at all. Then do tumking toon. I'm coming down in
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: tomorrow to come get money. You better have my money.
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: It's gonna be your please. What am I supposed to tell?
• 51:09
  Speaker 1: I don't part of the he gonna get kick too.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Do you know who her partner is? Part I'm the
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: only partner she got. We partnered her up with nephew
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, y'all, y'all,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: y'all play some man. That's funny man, Tommy, Tommy? Is
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: this time? Is this? Timmy doesn't have your time to
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: time me? Look somebody you up? Man, y'all play y'all
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: playing it timely? Too much? Man? We got that's that's wrong. Man,
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Come on, Drew, talk to me.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio show in the lane? Man? Steve Harvey?
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: Burn it so bad? What Drew said? It ain't too much? Man,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: somebody gonna miss you uptime. We've been telling him that.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, dude not playing by his wife. Man,
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: eight hundred dollars. Man, we're about gonna come get my money.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: I work downtown, so I'll be around now. Yeah, yeah, okay,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: he tried. It's so hard to understand that food ship.
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: So if it's a class they're supposed to learning, ain't
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: nobody touching me? But Junior, you're not married, but you
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: could feel him right? Oh? Still what he was saying,
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: it's a class, ain't nobody touching me? What's all the learning?
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: You mean the teammate? Wow? Funny, Yeah, that's really crazy.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Junior. Coming up next Strawberry Letters
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: subject what more does he want from me? We'll get
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,
• 53:13
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• 53:17
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• 53:21
  Speaker 1: we could be reading your Strawberry letter. M just like
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: this one right here, right now? All right, lady the gentleman,
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: is time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friend
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: Shirley strawberry. Thank you, Junior, my good friend. Subject. What's
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: more does he want from me? Dear Stephen Shirley. I've
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: been with my fiance for three years and we've been
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: engaged for almost a year. We've had sex almost every
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: night since we met. Since he proposed, He's been wearing
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: me out physically. He has raised the bar so high
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: in the bedroom that I can't keep up. He's doing
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: all kinds of positions and tricks on men lee and
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: I'm exhausted. He knows I worked two jobs and we
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: have a small child to take care of. I am
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: trying to help him pay for our dream wedding and
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: then we could be as nasty as he wants to be.
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: And I've told him that he has read about Karmasutra
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: and the art of sensual touch, and he calls himself
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: a sexpert, which is a sex expert. The final straw
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: was on the other night when I was asleep and
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: he started rubbing hot oil all over my back and
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: it burned like hell. I was startled and I swung
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: my arm around, hitting him in the eye by a mistake.
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: He went and slept on the couch. The next morning,
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: I try to fix things by cuddling with him on
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: the couch, and that ended up in us having sex
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: on the couch and then in the kitchen and finally
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: in our bed. He literally walked me all around our
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: house while we had sex. And this has gotten to stop.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: It has gotten to the point where I am faking
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: it so he'll stop. And that's how I want my
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: That's not how I want my marriage to be. Then
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: he told his daddy, of all people, that I can't
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: keep up with him anymore in the bedroom, and his
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: daddy called me to say, if I can't please my man,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: then someone else will. I'm not supposed to do that.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: I'm not supposed to. Oh, I'm not opposed to Yeah,
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: thank you, Steve. I'm not opposed to that at this
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: point because I'm tired of having sex. We are both
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: in our late twenties, so maybe he's still immature and
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: I'm just seeing it. Should I rethink my wedding plans
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: if he doesn't stop acting out like this? The question
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: is to me, how have you spent a whole three
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: years with this guy? Not because of the sex, because
• 55:46
  Speaker 1: that's what twenty somethings do, But he sounds like, you know,
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: a very selfish daddy's boy to me, you said, you
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: have a baby and you're working two jobs to help
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: him pay for the wedding. Where's the love? Where the appreciation,
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: and where's a consideration from him that you might be
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: tired some of these days? Okay, you're not a machine.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: You have every right to be tired and worn out.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: And the hot burning oil that could have, you know,
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: virtue or something pretty badly. You haven't mentioned anything about
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: him having a job or anything like that. What does
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: he do besides have sex with you every single night
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: for three years? And then what is he calling his
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: dad to tell on you for that? Right there? And
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: Pops has no right to tell you to call you
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: and tell you that someone else can please his son
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: as you can't. If you can't, that's not his business, daddy,
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: that's not your business. Well, you say you don't want
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: your marriage to be like this, but it will because
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: this is who your fiance is. Get used to this.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: You've been doing this for three years. What makes you
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: think he's going to change when you get married. It's
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: only fun if both of you enjoy it. And you're
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: not enjoying it, you're no longer enjoying it. You're too tired.
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: You have every right to question your future with him,
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: because he doesn't care about what you want. He just
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: wants his needs fulfilled. The first thing I would do
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: is quit my second job. Then maybe you know you
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: won't be so tired, and you know, then you guys
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: can do it as often as you want or as
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: he wont, Steve, This is not my solution for her
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: to quit her second job. Yeah, so she won't be
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: as tired. What let me just start at the bottom
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: of the letter. We're both in our late twenties, okay, said,
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: So that means everybody pretty highly active. I mean late twenties,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: who it could be on and cracking. Oh but y'all
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: been together three years, and y'all been engaged for about
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: a year, and y'all have had sex almost every night
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: since we met. That's three years, almost every night now
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: since he proposed. He'd been wearing you out physical this
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: a year. He'd raise the boss so high in the
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  Speaker 1: bedroom that you can't keep up. He doing all kinds
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  Speaker 1: of positions and tricks, and I'm exhausted, and he knows
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  Speaker 1: I got to work two jobs, and I have a
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: small child and we have a small child to take
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  Speaker 1: care of. I'm trying to help him pay for our
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: dream wedding and then he can be as nasty as
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: he wants to. And I've told him that. Okay, now
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: let me tell you what all he heard was, you
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: can be as nasty as you want. That's all he heard. See,
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: you're dealing with the man with selective hearing, selective caring.
• 58:48
  Speaker 1: It's all about him. So when you said, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I've told him. You know that after we pay for
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: our dream wedding and then he can be as nasty
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: as he want to. That's all he heard. Now. The
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: other problem you got is he had read this book
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: about Calmon Calma Sutra and the art of sensual touch.
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: Now he a damn sexpert. Well, he hadn't read the book, Shirley.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: And in the book they didn't give instructions as the
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: high hot the ore pos to be. You and Hill
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: got got a couple lavel your ass, this double ass
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: the boy. All right, look he got a welding glove
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: on applying the oil. You ain't know that door, all right, Steve,
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: for today's strawberry letter, what more does he want from me?
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: What more does he want from me? Is the subject?
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: Well this letter, let me get to it. Been dating
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  Speaker 1: this board three years. They've been engaged one they've had
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: sex almost every night, and ever since they got engaged
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: a year ago, he'd been wearing how she tied. She
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: working two jobs because she's trying to pay for the
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 1: dream wed and help him pay for the dream wed.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: But they got a small child. Now, she told him,
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: after we get the dream wed, and you could be
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: as nasty as you want to. That's all he heard,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: be as nasty as you want to. So now now
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: he didn't read this book about Kama Sutra and he'd
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: ordered a sensual touch. Now he didn't. Somebody had told
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: him in his damn book that heat up some all.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: Now he didn't got a hot plate, plug get up
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: in the bathroom, out of sauce, paying out the kitchen,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: and had no tension. He didn't heated this damn all
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: up to this damn lava. He didn't actually, he didn't
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: actually turn this into a McDonald's apple pie bed. Yeah,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: you're in the bed, you sleep. He started rubbing this
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: hot ass pie over your back and it burned like hell.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: You swung your arm around, you hit him in the eye.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: So now he man, He goes sleep on the couch.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: So the next morning you try to fix things up,
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: you go down, you cut it with him on the couch.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: Well that he ended up. Y'all had sex on the couch,
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: then in the kitchen, roly in the bed whom he
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: walked your hands all around the house while we had sex.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: And this has got to stop, then, she says. And
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: it got to the point where I'm faking it, so
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: he'll stop. And that's how, not how I want my
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: marriage to be. Then he told his daddy, of all people,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: I can't keep up with him any more in the bedroom,
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: and his daddy called me to say, I can't please
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: my man as somebody else will to hear the dangerous part.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to that at this point because I'm
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: tired of having sex. Damn O, look look, little girl,
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 1: it can't get like this now. They both of the
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: late twenty so maybe he's still immature and I'm just
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: seeing it. Yeah, Yeah, should I rethink my wedding plans
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: he doesn't stop acting out like this. You have to
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: be you have to and you have to tell him
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: this is too much. His daddy called you and told
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: you if you can't please your man, and somebody else will,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: and you tired as hell appeasing him to the point
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: where you're faking it. It's too much for you. Now.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: It's this marriage based on love? Or was this marriage
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: based on the active sex? Because right now I haven't
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 1: heard you say I love him. He's the sweetest woman's
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: kindest man. I haven't heard, and it is. He's a
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: tremendous father and you're working two jobs to help it
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 1: pay for the job. So I think you need to
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: rethink these wedding plans and slowed us down a little
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: bit and get some type of little agreement worked out,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: because he just having his way. But the dangerous part
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: is if you don't do it his way. He seemed
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: like his dad and already thrown and he got to
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: go some raps to get it, and not even saying
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: in the letter that you don't really even oppose to
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: that well, that's a dangerous thing to say, because why
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: would you get married to a man that you know
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be outside of marriage doing what he want
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: to do. She's tired, she's not thinking clearly, st she's
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: too tired. Yes, she's working two jobs and they have
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: a small child. Quitting your job is not the answer
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: to this, because you see, because if you quit one
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 1: of your jobs, so you're not as tired, and you're
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: gonna be at the house most for him to have
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: some most sex. The problem is he wanted when he wanted,
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: how he wanted, and whenever he wants. That's your problem.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with you. You should have
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: a say so in that. And that's putio, That's what
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: it is. And so if you don't have a say so,
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: and if you get married going into it with this
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: after you told him, after y'all have the dream where
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: you can be as nasty as you want to be,
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: you don't think he's gonna pull that back up right
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: he getting married, See, it even picked up after he
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: got after he got engaged, it picked up. There are
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: a lot of people that thank you property. There are
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: some men who think women are their property. They don't
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: get it. Now. If this is what you all want
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: to do, then that's fine. But if it's just what
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: he want to do, then Houston, we have a problem.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: Yes we did. But see if you remember this letter
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: we had not too long ago. It was about this
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: man who didn't work and he was all about sex,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: and you said, remember that letter, and you said, he
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 1: has time to think about those things because he's not working.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: And that's kind of what this is reminding me of
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: because she never mentioned if he was working. She only
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: mentioned that she was not, even that he's helping her
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: out with the kids. So maybe that's why he has
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: time to read Karma Sutra and all of that because
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: he doesn't have a job. Well, this letter, he doesn't
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: have anything about love. And he's a great guy and
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: he's a wonderful provider. It's none of this. It's about
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: one thing and one thing only, And I'm starting to
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: be concerned. And that's what the relationship is based on.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: That's all you have is great sex and it's just
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: great sexx for him because it's too too much of
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: anything ain't good for you. Drank too much day and water, right,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: but three years of that all right, listen post your
• 1:06:07
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• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: hour of Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Junior, you ready,
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: Junior is here with Sports Talk. What you got, oh, Shirlette, Oh,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: we have to give a big shout out to the
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: Atlanta Hawks down into at l pulled off of victory
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: last night against the seventy six is one h three
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: to one hundred. Uh. You know, Trey young Man is bawling.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: You have to watch this, dude, in these playof man.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: He had a career high eighteen assists last night, twenty
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: five and eighteen got him a victory. Man. Everybody's like, well,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: you know, they're not probably gonna beat seven six. I
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: don't know. They gave a run for their money right now.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: Now the game the night though, and wait a minute,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: what's the count in the Hawks series? Oh? Two? One,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: two to two to two? Serious? Tis Oh my goodness, yes,
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: oh my goodness, tid y'all can't right, atl We're not
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: letting it. They're not gonna They're not going easy. Oh no,
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: you're not handing it to just the fill up because
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: they'd sent me six. Is now the game to night
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: up Milwalkee Bucks versus the Brooklyn Nets. They serious. Brooklyn
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: has a problem. They do. They have injury. They have
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: to have at least two of the big three on
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: that floor. And right now, I'm not sure Hardnes is
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: ready to come back. Kyrie is out. Man, that was
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: a horrible injury. Yeah, he won't be horrible. He is
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: in a compression boot and on clutches in game pivotal
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: game five. Now he's not playing the night and they
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: started treatment around the clock. He's getting twenty four hours
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: treatment around on his own his foot, but you know,
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: like ice bucket and stimulating it, you know, trying to
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: get it to get the most of the move. But
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: he now here's the problem. This is game ain't fine.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: If they lose tonight, then they have elimination game in
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 1: game six, and we don't know if he's gonna be
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: able to make it to that to force a game
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: set the injury that I saw, I don't see how
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: he can be ready. But he's young, and they got
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: some crazy stuff in the wombs many that can get
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: him out on the floor, but he won't be one
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: hundred percent. Not the injury. I saw he turned that ankle. Man,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: it was I couldn't even watch it. And I don't
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 1: want him to be injured. I don't want none of
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: these guys to be injured. Man. I want to see
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: him at day best. You do You know now? This
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: is how important Kyrie is to the Brooklyn Dets. Against Milwaukee.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: This boy's averaging twenty nine points a game. Now, you
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: gotta find a way to replace that. You just can't
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: replace Kyrie. No, Kyrie's superstar dog. Yeah he super did
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: y'all see the tweet. The one word that Lebron said
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: about Kyrie's injury with the up bamb that would fit.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 1: That would be appropriate, That would be appropriate if you
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: go down like Kyrie there, and you know what he means.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: That's pretty So Harden gonna be a game time decision. Off.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: He said, He's gonna be a game time decision. We
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 1: don't know if he's gonna play a night, so we
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: just have to wait for the game tonight to see
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: if he's gonna play in that. But they need two
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: or three k D can't do it all by a
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: sil that's what we can't do. All right, Junior, thank you.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, will one
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: night stands be a thing of the past? We'll talk
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: about it right after this. What you're listening to show
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: there's a question, will one night stands be a thing
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: of the past? Did you ever think you you to
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: hear that question in your life? Time? One night? Okay? Well, Junior,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: it's a new survey by dating app Plenty of Fish.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard of that, but it's
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: Plenty of Fish. It's a dating app. It found close
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: to fifty percent of single Americans between the ages of
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: eighteen and forty haven't been physically intimate with someone since
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: the beginning of the pandemic. So that's what a year
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: and a half? Almost a year and a half? Yeah, um,
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: why what if they've been doing instead? Is the question? Well?
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: Virtual intimacy? Okay, this includes video chat, sexting, and phone sex.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: All right, and well huh yeah, I've tried all this
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: and you're in the what are you gonna do? By myself?
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: I mean, I gotta do something, but you know what
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: the the video chat. You have to make sure you
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: buy outlets. Just want you to do that, Okay, yeah,
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: because I've I've been talking real good and the phone dad,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: that was I got to do this. Yeah, you gotta
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: keep your phone charge of all right. So and while
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: forty two percent of the respondent are ready, they're ready
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: for some physical intimacy after the pandemic, they're exciting to
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: start excited to start dating again. Excuse me. Nearly the
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: majority of them planned to continue being virtually intimate as well.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: So they're gonna mix it up now, they're gonna be
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: virtually intimate and you know, they're gonna start dating again.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: And they're saying maybe that's because some of the participants
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 1: said the pandemic changed their idea. I love this of
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: what intimacy was, putting a higher value on things like
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: emotions and intelligence. So, which is a good thing. They're
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: just not jumping into bed. But you're older, Steed, you're
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: you know, you're a mature man. Yeah, and I can't
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: have men and virtual you need that one on one,
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: no virtual, But this is for people between the ages
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: of eighteen and forty. Yeah, so this is good. You know,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: they're getting to know each other on on a more
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: intimate level, you know, And that's good. I mean that
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: you give it vice Steve ninety day Rules and Women.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: So this is this is one is a step in
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 1: the right direction, getting to know something. Yeah, you know,
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: you don't believe it. No, I just don't believe it.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: You don't believe it. Normal, Yeah, but the pandemic changed
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: a lot of things though. This could just during the pandemic.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: But these people acting like it's open. It's a round. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: like the world is open again, right, yeah, it really is.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: I don't see young people reverting back to the pandemic way.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: That's just not the young people that are produced today.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: It's a different time and culture. Well not according to
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: plenty of fish. Well, all I can tell you that
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 1: video chat, sex and falls that require power out. You
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: need to have that. That's what you're not getting that first, Shirley,
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: I've done all of this and I'm taking me It
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: got good. I said, good, you know I'm going and
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: I'll be damn phone that Now. Now I got to
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: find a power out of bloodback up. But now she
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: had to move. Now, So Junior, you're kind of in
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: this age range. So are you put Are you because
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: of the video chats and pandemic and all that, are
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: you putting higher value on emotions and intelligence? Hell no,
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: I'm going right back out here. I need I need
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: a date. I need to see touch. I'm not Yeah,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: I'm not looking at you through the screen for the
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: rest of my life, the rest of your life. Now,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: I want a date. I want them kissing, hook in,
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: touch in person, not for this screen. I can't that.
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: But but that's what they're saying. They're gonna date and
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: do that. No, once we start dating, you can put
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: this computer up. We're not doing that. No, No, you
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 1: don't call me come over. Don't call me come over.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: So then what's the first thing you're gonna do? Kiss? Okay,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: all right, ladies, you heard it. We'll have more of
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 1: today's trending stories coming up, and twenty minutes after, right
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: All right. So Alex Roderiguez must be saying right now
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 1: that when it comes to hanging out with X's Jennifer
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: Lopez doesn't have the market cornered. Okay, He's like, so
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: that's what we're doing, that's what we're doing. He recently
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 1: posted photos of his ex wife and the mother of
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: his children, Cynthia Skurtis. They were married from two thousand
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: and two to two thousand and eight. They share two daughters,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: sixteen year old Natasha and thirteen year old Ella. A
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: Rod and Cynthia recently participated in a fifty four day
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 1: fitness challenge, and Alex took to his i G stories
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: on Saturday to praise his ex and make jokes. He said,
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: Cynthia is a world class mommy to our girls. Wrapping
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: ice though, lol, He shared alongside footage of her helping
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: him ice his leg at the gym. So people are saying,
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 1: because you see j Loo and Ben Affleck out and
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: about and they're posting, and you know the paparazzi is there,
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: that's why a Rod is doing that? What you think, Stuke,
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 1: if this is what's happening. Too old and too rich
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: to be doing that, Why would you do it? I
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: don't understand that, But you know, I think people are
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: so consumed with how they look in their image. Oh
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: she left me for being I can go back and
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: get my ex too. I don't even know why he's
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: posting that. That's why people are saying what they're saying,
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 1: that he's only doing it because j Loo did it.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 1: But I mean, you know, to break up with them.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 1: You know, she was back over there with being you know, quickly.
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  Speaker 1: Cherry in New Orleans. Cherry says, my coworker has flirted
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  Speaker 1: with me for two years and now that I'm sayle,
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  Speaker 1: I decided to go to dinner with him. I let
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  Speaker 1: him pick me up only because I know him well.
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  Speaker 1: He got to my house and his car was filthy
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  Speaker 1: and it smelled like feet. I told him how foul
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  Speaker 1: it smelled, and he suggested we go in my car.
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  Speaker 1: I canceled the date and him all last week he
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  Speaker 1: called me a goody two shoes and I told him
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  Speaker 1: if his car was nasty, his house is probably nasty too.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't need to add insult to injury, but I did.
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  Speaker 1: Should I apologize or not clo Well, you know, if
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  Speaker 1: you feel like you should apologize, you shoot, what's it
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  Speaker 1: gonna hurt you? But don't apologize at me and go
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  Speaker 1: out with him, because chances are you're probably correct. Now.
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  Speaker 1: She's calling you goody two shoes. That's that's because you
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  Speaker 1: like clean stuff. That makes you goody two shoes. That's
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  Speaker 1: that's problem. You don't want to be in a steaky
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  Speaker 1: car that smells like feet. That's trifle. And he said, well,
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  Speaker 1: let's go in your car. I mean, if a man
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  Speaker 1: is picking you up for the first time, you expect
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  Speaker 1: him to just be on his best behavior, put his
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  Speaker 1: bat for trust me. If he won't clean his car
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  Speaker 1: up and knowing he's going on a date, then what
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  Speaker 1: else is he not willing to do? This is true,
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  Speaker 1: he'd been flirting with you. Just leave it at that,
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  Speaker 1: going about your business. You're absolutely correct, it's more behind it.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, he's not trying to impress you. That's
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  Speaker 1: a problem. Let's take your car. That's a problem. You
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  Speaker 1: goody too tooos because you like clean stuff. That's a problem. Listen, laties, listen, No,
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  Speaker 1: I am all right. Moving on, Sebastian and Los Angeles, says,
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  Speaker 1: I met a beautiful woman, and she's got a roommate
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  Speaker 1: that's beautiful too. The other night, they had a small
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  Speaker 1: dinner party and invited me. There were several people there,
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  Speaker 1: but I was the only guy they invited. I thought
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  Speaker 1: I was dating the lady I met first, but her
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  Speaker 1: roommate was sitting in my lap and she even fixed
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  Speaker 1: a plate for me. I'm an old school type of guy,
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  Speaker 1: So should I ask the lady I met first? If
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  Speaker 1: weird day? I'm fifty four. He's so confused. I'm fifty
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  Speaker 1: four and she's thirty. So I need your help. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you probably need to go in and ask just say,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, wait a minute, Hold, I'm confused. I come
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  Speaker 1: over your house and then your roommate is sitting in
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  Speaker 1: my lap and makes me a plate. Now I need
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  Speaker 1: to know, is am I? Who am I dating? Here?
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  Speaker 1: All three of us don't. I don't say that. Start over,
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  Speaker 1: start over, keep that to yourself, but just say, hey, look,
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  Speaker 1: I want to ask you a question. I came here
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  Speaker 1: thinking it was you, but then your roommate is sitting
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  Speaker 1: in my lap and fixing me food. So I'm confused.
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  Speaker 1: Am I to date your roommate? Am I to date you?
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  Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I don't understand. Coming up, it is
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  Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and and at forty
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  Speaker 1: You're listening to all right, guys, here we are our
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  Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday. It's been
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  Speaker 1: a fun day. Where's Tommy's out? Yeah? Caboing all week islanding, islanding. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know something else? It's really interesting. I was listening
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  Speaker 1: to Joel ostein oh I think over the weekend, and
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  Speaker 1: of course I can't remember verbating what he said, But
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  Speaker 1: I got the gist of what he was saying, and
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  Speaker 1: I kind of gave us some thought over the past
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  Speaker 1: couple of days, and the message kind of really really
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  Speaker 1: resignating with me. And he was advising people not to
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  Speaker 1: listen to the roar. Our, Oa are the roar. Don't
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  Speaker 1: listen to the roar. And what he was referring to
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  Speaker 1: was the roar was naysayers, haters, outside chatter. When you
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  Speaker 1: are in agreement with God about your plan, when you're
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  Speaker 1: in agreement with your creator about your future, what you're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do, you've got to learn. And all of us
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  Speaker 1: have to learn this, myself included, to block out and
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  Speaker 1: ignore the roar, the things that people say about you,
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  Speaker 1: the naysayers, the haters, the family members, your so called
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  Speaker 1: love ones, your friends, blogs, the IG page, the comments section,
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  Speaker 1: your coworkers. You have to ignore the roar. And so
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  Speaker 1: he was equating it to the roar of a lion.
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  Speaker 1: You know, and I've been to Africa and I've heard
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  Speaker 1: that I've heard lions in the wild, I mean really
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  Speaker 1: really raw, and boyd, they's something else, man. That guttural
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  Speaker 1: roar of a lion is to intimidate other lions and
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  Speaker 1: other prey. I mean, not pray, but other cats. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: this is my territory. Don't come over here, And so
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  Speaker 1: they row to signify. If you can hear me, I'm
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  Speaker 1: telling you, this is my territory. Don't come over here. Now.
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  Speaker 1: Most animals get intimidated by that, you know, especially animals
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  Speaker 1: of prey. They head the other way when they hear that. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: we're getting too close to this, dude. But a lot
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  Speaker 1: of times it's to keep keep other lions out of
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  Speaker 1: their territory. Now, this raw is to intimidate you. The
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  Speaker 1: lion uses it to intimidate, but the row is used
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  Speaker 1: to intimidate you and to block you from your blessings
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  Speaker 1: from God. So, now, if you're in agreement with God
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  Speaker 1: and you're on your way to a certain destiny in
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  Speaker 1: your life, and all of a sudden you hear this
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  Speaker 1: roar from the haters, the blogs, the internet, the co workers,
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  Speaker 1: the rumor meal, the whatever you have, the family members
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  Speaker 1: that don't believe, You've got to learn how to block
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  Speaker 1: out the roar, because the roar is a trick by
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  Speaker 1: the devil, and the devil has no new tricks. He's
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  Speaker 1: been doing the same thing since the beginning of time.
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  Speaker 1: Now he may have some technology attached to it right now,
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  Speaker 1: but the devil ain't got no new tricks. He the
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  Speaker 1: same dude. He the same low down, no good, trying
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  Speaker 1: to rob you of your destiny dude that he's always been,
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  Speaker 1: and he uses the roar to block you. So now
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  Speaker 1: he was using the example of he was saying he
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  Speaker 1: was on the safari once and he was talking to
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  Speaker 1: one of the guides and they were talking about if
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  Speaker 1: you're ever out on a safar and a lion charges,
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  Speaker 1: they tell you not to break out and run because,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, the lion can run at fifty miles
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  Speaker 1: an hour, so you can't do that, so he said,
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  Speaker 1: and if you break and run, you're just gonna die scared.
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  Speaker 1: But he say the best way to handle it is
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  Speaker 1: to turn and make eye contact with the lion. Now
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  Speaker 1: that's hard to do. I mean, we all know that
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  Speaker 1: you got a lion charge and everything, and you says
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  Speaker 1: turned and run. But the guide was saying, ninety percent
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  Speaker 1: of all lion charges he stops because he just does
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  Speaker 1: it to see what you're gonna do. Ninety percent of
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  Speaker 1: all charges the lion stops short of attacking because he
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  Speaker 1: just wants to see what you're gonna do. Now, there's
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  Speaker 1: ten percent where you know you're a goner, but it's
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  Speaker 1: ninety percent he stops. If you turn and run one,
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  Speaker 1: he keeps coming. So you have to muster up the
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  Speaker 1: strength to stand and face the lion and the charging
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  Speaker 1: attack with the roar, to turn around and face him.
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  Speaker 1: And that's how you have to deal with the roar
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  Speaker 1: of people in your life. You have to turn around
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  Speaker 1: and face him. See, look y'all, you got somewhere to
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  Speaker 1: go in life, and God has a plan for you.
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  Speaker 1: But in order for you to get there, you're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to stay focused, and you have to get on track,
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  Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to learn, man, that you have
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  Speaker 1: the ability to get there. You just got to stop
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  Speaker 1: paying attention to the roar. You are equipped to be
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  Speaker 1: on the battlefield. You are equipped to be in rough water.
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  Speaker 1: All of us are ships. There's a saying that says
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  Speaker 1: ships are safe important, But ships ain't built to stay
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  Speaker 1: in port. You were built to be out in the water.
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  Speaker 1: Get your focus on God and going about your business
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  Speaker 1: and get the life to God has for you. But everybody,
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  Speaker 1: you have to learn to ignore the roar real quick.
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  Speaker 1: A bully was at the school one day and he
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  Speaker 1: made a list of everybody at the school that he
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  Speaker 1: could whoop. And he showed this little bitty boys listing.
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  Speaker 1: He said, look at this list right here. Little boy said,
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  Speaker 1: let me see the list. He looked on any saw
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  Speaker 1: his name. He said, hey man, you got my name
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  Speaker 1: on the list. He said, yeah, I know. He said,
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  Speaker 1: you know you can't whip me. He said, you ain't
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  Speaker 1: never jumped on me before. You ain't never whipped me.
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  Speaker 1: You've never jumped on me. You can't whip me. What
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  Speaker 1: you got my name on the list? Fault? The bulley said,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, man, I'm sorry. I take it off. You
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  Speaker 1: know what he did. He turned around and he faced
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  Speaker 1: the row. He was just a lion charging. He took
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  Speaker 1: his little took a little boy name off the list.
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  Speaker 1: Little boys said, you ain't never whipped me before. Take
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  Speaker 1: my name off your list. Sometimes that's just how you
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  Speaker 1: have to be. Y'all have a great day. Ignore the roar,
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  Speaker 1: make him take your name off the list. Y'all have
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