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FULL SHOW: Don't Procrastinate, Strawberry Letter- I Wear The Pants In The Family - 10.15.25 · The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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  Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded, y'all know what time.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all don't know y'all.
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  Speaker 3: At all at all, So.
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  Speaker 4: Given them.
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  Speaker 1: Back a million bush. Yeah, listening to show, I want
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  Speaker 1: to join.
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  Speaker 2: Ye joy.
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  Speaker 5: They show.
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  Speaker 6: You got to do that.
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  Speaker 4: You love you turn turn, I got to turn the
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  Speaker 4: mouth turn you probably got to turn the mouth. The
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  Speaker 4: mound the money up. Look, come.
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  Speaker 2: Come on, you'll think that.
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  Speaker 5: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are
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  Speaker 5: listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now what
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  Speaker 5: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show?
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  Speaker 2: Man or man?
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  Speaker 5: Almost forgot I had one this morning. But I'm okay.
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  Speaker 5: I'll tell you who I am in a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I get around. Man, it's so much. But man,
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  Speaker 5: good morning everybody.
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  Speaker 2: You know today.
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  Speaker 5: I was having a conversation with my wife last night
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  Speaker 5: and we were talking about our plans. You know, we
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  Speaker 5: often sit down, you know, just like a married couple.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, you know, you know we're married. You know,
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  Speaker 5: we have children, we have aspirations, we have hopes, we
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  Speaker 5: will I mean know, we have things we want. You know,
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  Speaker 5: when you're married, you know, I mean it's important to
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  Speaker 5: sit with your partner. I'm not telling you anything. You
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  Speaker 5: don't know, it's common sense.
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  Speaker 2: Really.
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  Speaker 5: It's important to sit down with the person that you've
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  Speaker 5: chosen and decided to share your life with it and
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  Speaker 5: have multiple conversations on a lot of things.
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  Speaker 2: And we try to make sure that all of our.
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  Speaker 5: Conversations aren't always just business related and always kid related,
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  Speaker 5: you know, because that that that becomes it's a part
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  Speaker 5: of it. But it weighs so much on the marriage
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  Speaker 5: that because that's the grunt work of being married. You know,
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  Speaker 5: your children, your family, your bills, your your mortgage, your
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  Speaker 5: your car notes, you know the what's due, what's coming up,
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  Speaker 5: and if you're not careful, you'll you'll start that becomes
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  Speaker 5: the focal point of you all's conversation. And this woman
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  Speaker 5: or man or person that you've decided to have this
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  Speaker 5: life with, all of a sudden, they're an extension of
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  Speaker 5: your business and you guys become business partners or whatever,
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  Speaker 5: and it just gets so anywhere. I'm just saying that
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  Speaker 5: that is important to sit down and have these conversations,
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  Speaker 5: but it's even more important to have the other conversation.
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  Speaker 5: You know, it's important with the person that you're planning
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  Speaker 5: on making the run with to sit down and talk
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  Speaker 5: about other.
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  Speaker 2: Things, you know, on a more upbeat note.
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  Speaker 5: You know, we were having a conversation that she was
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  Speaker 5: reminding me of what she loved about me, and then I,
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  Speaker 5: in turn, was turned around telling her the things that
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  Speaker 5: I admired about her and loved about her. And we
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  Speaker 5: kind of have these all the time, you know, when
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  Speaker 5: we sit down and we talk about the things that
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  Speaker 5: we still enjoy about one another, or we may talk
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  Speaker 5: about some of the things that we miss in one another,
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  Speaker 5: but we constantly have these conversations about appreciation. You know,
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  Speaker 5: it's so important, man, that the other person feels appreciated.
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  Speaker 5: So these things important. But we got into the conversation
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  Speaker 5: deeper last night, and I was telling her about this
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  Speaker 5: idea that I had and that I wanted her to
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  Speaker 5: help me with and make a phone ca all for
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  Speaker 5: me because she knows these people and I was going
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  Speaker 5: to be doing this, and then my wife reminded me
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  Speaker 5: of something not once again, you know, as always, you know,
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  Speaker 5: when I'm talking to you, I just keep it as
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  Speaker 5: real as I can. I don't know the Bible inside out.
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  Speaker 5: I can't quote to you scriptures and tell you exactly
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  Speaker 5: where it is. I just, you know, I heard her
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  Speaker 5: say it, but it kind of blew by me. I
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  Speaker 5: was I was telling her about something I wanted to
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  Speaker 5: make happen, and she reminded me that there's a scripture somewhere,
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  Speaker 5: and somebody emailed it to me today.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sure.
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  Speaker 5: Well, the Bible reminds us not to be anxious for anything.
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  Speaker 5: Don't be anxious for something. And you know, it really
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  Speaker 5: mattered to me at that point yesterday that she brought
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  Speaker 5: this to my attention, because how many times I've been
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  Speaker 5: guilty of that in my past and I've learned better now,
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  Speaker 5: but every now and then I need to be reminded,
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  Speaker 5: you know. And I think that what she was saying
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  Speaker 5: to me was, you know, I've gotten to a point
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  Speaker 5: in my life, and we all should get to a
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  Speaker 5: point where. You know, you've heard old people say this.
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  Speaker 5: If you're gonna pray about something, then don't worry about it,
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  Speaker 5: And if you're gonna worry about it, don't pray about it.
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  Speaker 5: Back to this, be anxious for nothing, don't. If you're
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  Speaker 5: going to trust in God, then't do that. And trusting
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  Speaker 5: in him means sometimes you got to be patient. God
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  Speaker 5: has never been too late. You don't know the plan
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  Speaker 5: he has you don't know. You don't really always know
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  Speaker 5: his will. You definitely don't know his route, his way
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  Speaker 5: of doing anything. So he's always on time. He's always
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  Speaker 5: been there on time for me. He's always been there
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  Speaker 5: on time for you. How many times have you thought
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  Speaker 5: it was over only to find out it's really just begun.
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  Speaker 5: How many times have people wrote you off? Are those
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  Speaker 5: of you who have lost jobs but you are still maintaining?
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  Speaker 5: But man, God has already began to turn around process
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  Speaker 5: for many of us. Some of us lost jobs and
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  Speaker 5: now have better jobs. Some of us lost jobs and
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  Speaker 5: now has forced us to rekindle that dream and that
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  Speaker 5: vision for business we had. Sometimes the mishap is the
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  Speaker 5: thing you need to make something good happen. See a
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  Speaker 5: lot of times we get so comfortable in our life
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  Speaker 5: where we just we get complacent. We just settled in
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  Speaker 5: and when this is it and this is what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 5: But in actuality, God has a tremendous amount of abundance
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  Speaker 5: for you. He has an amazing amount of things. He
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  Speaker 5: has all these boxes packaged up with your name on
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  Speaker 5: him that he's willing to ship if you would just
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  Speaker 5: align yourself with some of his wills so you could
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  Speaker 5: get some of these things. How many times have you
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  Speaker 5: thought it was over and it didn't really go over.
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  Speaker 5: How many times have you thought well, this is it
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  Speaker 5: and it wasn't it at all. Well, how many times
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  Speaker 5: have you thought, well, it don't look like this gonna
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  Speaker 5: work out, and it didn't work out, but then something
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  Speaker 5: better came along. How many times has that happened? You've
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  Speaker 5: got to realize this, Man. I was talking to a
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  Speaker 5: family who had got displaced from the Katrina thing that
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  Speaker 5: happened down there in New Orleans. And Man, when they said, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: we got a displaced from Katrina, and I braced myself because,
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  Speaker 5: oh woe is me? Here comes this story. I gotta
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  Speaker 5: hear this, and I gotta be encouraged and think of something.
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  Speaker 5: It was totally different. They totally totally blew me away.
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  Speaker 7: Man.
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  Speaker 5: The brother said, Man, is actually the best thing that
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  Speaker 5: ever happened to my family. And I went whoa And
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  Speaker 5: he said, yeah, man, he said, because what happened was
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  Speaker 5: he said, I got settled in. He said, Plus, I
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  Speaker 5: was doing some things outside of my marriage down there,
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  Speaker 5: He said, I was doing some stuff in the streets.
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  Speaker 5: I ain't need to be doing he said, Man, it
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  Speaker 5: all got washed away. We thought our life would never
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  Speaker 5: be the same. But he said, man, my life ain't
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  Speaker 5: need to be the same. He said, Man. Now we
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  Speaker 5: live up here in Texas. We got a house, don't
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  Speaker 5: know nobody, he said, I ain't got nobody I know
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  Speaker 5: to get into trouble with. He said, man, I done
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  Speaker 5: rediscovered my wife, how beautiful she really is, how much
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  Speaker 5: my family really was counting on me. And he said, man,
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  Speaker 5: it straightened me up. Man, he said, so, I gotta
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  Speaker 5: tell you, Steve, it was the best thing that ever
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  Speaker 5: happened to me. Now that's not always the case, but
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  Speaker 5: it's how you look at a situation. But just don't
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  Speaker 5: be anxious for anything, because God got a fix for
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  Speaker 5: you if you just let him work. So just stay
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  Speaker 5: on course, stay focused, don't lose faith, don't be anxious. Man,
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  Speaker 5: just stay in the wheel. Let God work with you.
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  Speaker 5: He got some great stuff in store for you.
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  Speaker 1: You're listening, he said, The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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  Speaker 2: You were given another day. Now we've got news.
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  Speaker 5: this morning. Man.
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  Speaker 1: I always talk about it, procrastination, Man, procrastination.
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  Speaker 2: I get it.
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  Speaker 8: Next time I'll see what I can do about it.
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  Speaker 8: You know, maybe that was supposed to be. What's the
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  Speaker 8: problem with procrastination.
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  Speaker 5: When it comes to well, it becomes habitual. It's habit
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  Speaker 5: for me, it becomes a pattern. And people who procrastinate,
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  Speaker 5: if you look at their life, their life is full
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  Speaker 5: of procrastination.
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  Speaker 2: It's a bad thing to do.
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  Speaker 5: Always do today what you can whatever you can do today,
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  Speaker 5: get it done today because tomorrow presents another set of
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  Speaker 5: opportunities for you. But if you keep delaying, putting it off, procrastinating,
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  Speaker 5: you can't progress that way.
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  Speaker 2: You just can't. Man, it's impossible.
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  Speaker 5: It's impossible because at one point in time, you're gonna
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  Speaker 5: have to put your one foot in front of the other.
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  Speaker 2: You're going to have to take a step.
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  Speaker 5: In order to accomplish anything, or in order to finish anything,
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  Speaker 5: you got to start.
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  Speaker 2: You have to start.
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  Speaker 5: There ain't no way around this one. Now, this one
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  Speaker 5: with if you want to accomplish anything, you have got
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  Speaker 5: to start. We ain't even gonna talk about finishing. You
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  Speaker 5: can't finish if you ain't starting. But you have got
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  Speaker 5: to get started. And it's imperative to your future. It's
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  Speaker 5: imperative to your day, it's imperative to your well being,
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  Speaker 5: it's imperative.
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  Speaker 2: To your mental psyche that you start.
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  Speaker 5: It's an amazing thing, and just starting you will find
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  Speaker 5: out that it's not as difficult as you made it
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  Speaker 5: out to be if you simply start and then don't
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  Speaker 5: try to look at the whole thing. Man, where the
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  Speaker 5: finish line at no, no, no, no, Start. Where's the
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  Speaker 5: next step. Don't worry about the finish line. Finish line coming,
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  Speaker 5: but you got to make the next step. Inch by inch.
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  Speaker 5: Anything's a cinch. Stop looking at the finish line. You
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  Speaker 5: can walk to have a finish line. You can make
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  Speaker 5: a finish line your goal. But all I got news
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  Speaker 5: for you, even when you get to your finish line,
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  Speaker 5: you're gonna get another one. All you gonna do is
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  Speaker 5: get another You can help to finish so you can
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  Speaker 5: start again.
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  Speaker 2: What is life?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, buddy, all right, all right. Coming up at thirty
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  Speaker 9: two minutes after the hour, we'll hear from the nephew
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  Speaker 9: as he runs that brink back.
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  Speaker 1: Right after this.
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  Speaker 1: The nephew is here. That is nephew Tommy here to
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  Speaker 1: run the Frank back what you got for his neph
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  Speaker 1: Let's run.
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  Speaker 2: It, Shirley. This right here is the conference call. The
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  Speaker 2: conference call.
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  Speaker 7: If you're gonna file somebody, if you're gonna fire a
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  Speaker 7: bunch of people at one time, just do it all
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  Speaker 7: at one time.
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  Speaker 2: Do it on the conference call.
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  Speaker 1: Just oh wow, says the person it gets to keep
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  Speaker 1: his job.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, cat dog. If you watch what you speak,
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  Speaker 2: got to be careful what you.
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  Speaker 6: Hello.
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  Speaker 11: This is Hannah.
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  Speaker 6: Hi, This is Frank checking in.
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  Speaker 11: Hey, do it here on the line. Hey, guys, how's
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  Speaker 11: it going fine?
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  Speaker 6: What's that?
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  Speaker 11: I think? I think we're waiting for one other person?
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  Speaker 11: This was that one in a second?
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  Speaker 7: Hello Sherman. Sherman Davis, general manager's assistant. How you guys
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  Speaker 7: doing everybody here?
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  Speaker 11: Hey Sherman, Yeah, Hi, ain't doing fine?
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  Speaker 2: Hello Sherman. All right, all right, guys, we got let
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  Speaker 2: me make sure we got everybody here.
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  Speaker 11: Is Hannah here, yep, Hannah's here. How's it going all right?
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  Speaker 12: Frank, yep, I'm on the line.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you all.
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  Speaker 7: Right, good, good good, and David, I'm here, all right,
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  Speaker 7: my man. Good deal, good deal. All right, got some
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  Speaker 7: news for you guys. I need you guys to just
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  Speaker 7: bear with me for a second. I'm getting all the
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  Speaker 7: paperwork in. My assistant Cynthia is here, so you guys
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  Speaker 7: just give me a second. I'm gonna put you guys
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  Speaker 7: on whole for a second and I'll be back probably
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  Speaker 7: less than thirty seconds.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, okay, we'll do. Thank you, Cynthia. Can
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  Speaker 2: you bring me all of the stuff on these three guys.
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  Speaker 2: I mean to day is supposed to be.
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  Speaker 7: Uh, they're on hole right now, but today's day that
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  Speaker 7: we're giving them their severance packages and letting them go,
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  Speaker 7: and uh, they'll be out of here probably by tomorrow morning.
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  Speaker 2: They're clearing their things out.
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  Speaker 7: They don't know it yet, but we're gonna at least
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  Speaker 7: give them their severance packages today.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 7: You know, they put it on my shoulders to break
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  Speaker 7: the bad news, and somebody's got to do it. So
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  Speaker 7: it's my job today, all right, So bring it to
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  Speaker 7: me and get it here here as soon as possible
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  Speaker 7: so I can hurt him get past this conference call?
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  Speaker 1: All right, Hello, all right, guys.
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  Speaker 11: Sherman, Hello, yeah, I'm here.
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  Speaker 2: Guys.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, you never put us on hold? No, so are
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  Speaker 11: you about to fight right now?
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  Speaker 2: What are you talking? Wait a minute? Okay, hang on,
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  Speaker 2: hang on, hang on, guys, what what?
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  Speaker 10: What?
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  Speaker 2: What's going on? What are you guys talking about?
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  Speaker 1: We're asking you what's going on?
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  Speaker 11: We just you didn't put us on hold.
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  Speaker 2: We just heard all that.
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  Speaker 6: Yes, Separence packages what I heard?
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  Speaker 5: I heard?
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  Speaker 6: You're letting us go.
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  Speaker 11: Up, Sherman, you were talking about some other people.
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  Speaker 7: Hey, guys, do hang on, everybody just calm down. Just
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  Speaker 7: give me, give me a second here, hang on, just
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  Speaker 7: let me let me. I'll be right back.
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  Speaker 1: Hang on, What is going on?
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  Speaker 6: Did you we heard that?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you all heard the same thing. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: what I heard that.
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  Speaker 2: I was talking about, Cynthia. How do I up?
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  Speaker 9: Is this?
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  Speaker 2: Is this the whole button? Here?
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  Speaker 7: This is it?
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  Speaker 2: There we go?
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  Speaker 7: They can hurt everything. No, they just they said, can't
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  Speaker 7: asking me right now. I'm doing what he's telling me
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  Speaker 7: to do this. These three are supposed to be let
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  Speaker 7: go by the end of the day. I mean, I
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  Speaker 7: gotta do it. But it looks like the severances nobody
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  Speaker 7: can live off of this for even three freaking months.
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  Speaker 7: I already know that this this is really dumb. Oh
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  Speaker 7: all right, so look, bring me everybody's stuff. Let me
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  Speaker 7: at least after lunch. They all come in here and
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  Speaker 7: pick up their things. That's all I can do. Okay,
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  Speaker 7: is this the right button here? Okay, hello, it's not.
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  Speaker 11: The right button.
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  Speaker 2: We keep.
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  Speaker 12: What I'm hearing, so we might have to be kidding me.
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  Speaker 2: I've been with us, I've been with us for five years,
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  Speaker 2: all right, I'm not I'm not let you down for
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  Speaker 2: a quarter, the company down for a quarter.
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  Speaker 9: This is this is ridiculous.
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  Speaker 4: I cannot believe this.
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  Speaker 11: And I'm on travel right now, so how am I
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  Speaker 11: going to come and get my things?
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  Speaker 1: But this is ridiculous. This is how you're gonna let
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  Speaker 1: us know that this is unprofessional, This is trash.
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  Speaker 11: I cannot believe you.
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  Speaker 6: If you only need a lawyer, I have someone, I
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  Speaker 6: have contact.
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  Speaker 11: We can talk.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: But honestly, sureman, this.
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  Speaker 11: Is this is this is unaccessible.
• 18:48
  Speaker 7: Let's not do the whole law your thing, guys. Okay,
• 18:51
  Speaker 7: let's not do that, all right now. People get let
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: go from companies. People get let go all the.
• 18:56
  Speaker 6: Time, and you guys, know this is let go on
• 18:59
  Speaker 6: a conference with other people.
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  Speaker 2: What are you This is ridiculous.
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  Speaker 6: You're giving a personal business.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Yes, yes, that's true.
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: You're giving a personal business to another. Uh exactly, it's
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: not a whole yet.
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  Speaker 12: You cannot be doing this.
• 19:11
  Speaker 11: Yeah, email me that lawyer number for sure.
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: Yes, I will.
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  Speaker 11: I guess you want to to David, thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't.
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  Speaker 7: I didn't try to for you guys to learn it
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  Speaker 7: this way? All right, I'm okay. Let's just say I'm
• 19:23
  Speaker 7: not good at the conference.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: But I don't know how to put any in a
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: goss call.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: This is not a good message. It's not It is
• 19:31
  Speaker 6: not appropriate professional messaging.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: In fact, this is.
• 19:36
  Speaker 12: I'm mortified.
• 19:36
  Speaker 6: I cannot believe this in my life.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: Is this company?
• 19:39
  Speaker 7: This is decided employees?
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: So it is.
• 19:43
  Speaker 5: It is.
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: It's absolutely right. It is illegal. This is illegal.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Yep, yep, I will.
• 19:47
  Speaker 6: I'm writing this story.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: Wait wait, come on, what do you mean you're recording it?
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: What did you recording for?
• 19:54
  Speaker 9: What?
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: Yes, I'm not I'm recording this call.
• 19:58
  Speaker 11: Can't tell me about recording, David.
• 20:00
  Speaker 7: Listen, I don't consent on being recorded. I want that
• 20:03
  Speaker 7: known man. Okay, okay, can I can I ask you
• 20:09
  Speaker 7: guys something do you guys? Are you familiar with your
• 20:12
  Speaker 7: coworker named Barry Dillard.
• 20:14
  Speaker 11: Yes, you don't have to answer that. Very tired too.
• 20:17
  Speaker 11: How are you gonna tell him?
• 20:18
  Speaker 7: Let me tell you what's going on. Barry told me
• 20:22
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• 20:24
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  Speaker 2: All three of.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: Y'all just got pranked by your co worker Barry Dylan.
• 20:36
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• 20:47
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• 20:50
  Speaker 7: Nobody has lost their job, Hannah, Frank, David, nobody has
• 20:54
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• 20:58
  Speaker 7: me the prank phone call. Y'all right, so everybody's got
• 21:01
  Speaker 7: the job we could.
• 21:02
  Speaker 6: Oh, we're gonna have to get very bad. Wow.
• 21:07
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• 21:10
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• 21:10
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• 21:13
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• 21:16
  Speaker 6: Let me hear it clearly, Steve Harvey Show.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you.
• 21:29
  Speaker 9: Coming up next to this, ask the clo our chief
• 21:32
  Speaker 9: love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Right after this.
• 21:35
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  Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour.
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  Speaker 9: And entertainment news, iconic singer and pioneer of the neo
• 22:18
  Speaker 9: soul Era DiAngelo has died after a private band battle
• 22:24
  Speaker 9: with cancer, and actress Nia Long has not only made
• 22:28
  Speaker 9: peace with her ex fiance Ime Uduka, they went on
• 22:32
  Speaker 9: a summer vacation together.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: That's all coming up. Yeah, at the top of the hour.
• 22:37
  Speaker 9: Here Junior, right now, though, it is time to ask
• 22:42
  Speaker 9: the CLO or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is
• 22:46
  Speaker 9: from Juwan and Freeport. Juwan writes, I work two jobs
• 22:51
  Speaker 9: so my wife can stay home with our three year
• 22:53
  Speaker 9: old twins. I get home around eight pm and my
• 22:56
  Speaker 9: wife expects me to bathe the boys and read them
• 22:58
  Speaker 9: a bedtime story. I'm tired and grumpy by then, and
• 23:02
  Speaker 9: she is too. Am I a bad dad for not
• 23:05
  Speaker 9: wanting to?
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: No, man, you just got to find a way to
• 23:09
  Speaker 5: do it them bass. You can shorten them, bass, shorten them?
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: What do you mean? Just don't do the full bath? Dog?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: That's all right?
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Do they even get to sit in the tub?
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: How?
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: Cad?
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: She say her three? So they not partly trained completely
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: yet right on the way.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: Up.
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, all you got to do is just make
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: sure you clean their little bottoms. Get their little bottoms clean,
• 23:40
  Speaker 5: because that's chapping and all that right there. It's another problem.
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: And then the bed time stories. You know, you just
• 23:48
  Speaker 5: you know, bro, Look, you got to participate in your kids' life.
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you just have to participate in hit child's life.
• 23:55
  Speaker 5: I got your working and you're provider and we as
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: me and we hang our hat on that all the time.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: I do it all the time. But it's more to it.
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: They still see being a father's a really thankless job.
• 24:06
  Speaker 13: Bro.
• 24:06
  Speaker 5: I don't know if you're gonna understand this or not
• 24:08
  Speaker 5: because you only got three years in, but it's an
• 24:12
  Speaker 5: endless fountain of giving. Now you cannot outgive that mother
• 24:17
  Speaker 5: and that woman, So you can stop trying that. Now
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: you've been at work all day. But what she been
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: doing at the house with them two three year old boys,
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: it's unthinkable, It really is unthinkable.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: Man, full time job.
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: And she looking for some type of break when you
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: get in. So you gotta participate in the boy's life.
• 24:36
  Speaker 5: Shorten up them baths, sprinkle offs and them bedtime stories.
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: You know, can hey listen, kids, Jack being number Jack,
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: be quick. We got to go and go to sleep
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: so we can get beyond this. A lot of times
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: in life, things will go swell, but then next thing,
• 24:58
  Speaker 5: you know, look a here, I ain't doing nothing but
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: catching hell. Now, I want you to understand that all
• 25:03
  Speaker 5: this is coming your way, so go on and go
• 25:05
  Speaker 5: to sleep. So I got to go to work on
• 25:07
  Speaker 5: another day. I'm your father and I'm doing the best
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: I can. But you need to care your little to
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: sleep so I can d en.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say it sounded like her junior poem,
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: that's all it is. But the tone is so harsh.
• 25:24
  Speaker 5: Well you know that'll make them not want war on tomorrow. Yeah, well,
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: scam go to sleep.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Then.
• 25:33
  Speaker 7: All right.
• 25:34
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Blow in Syracuse, Uh Blow says I
• 25:39
  Speaker 9: was having sex with a neighbor after flirting with her
• 25:43
  Speaker 9: for weeks. She was very aggressive and expected me to
• 25:46
  Speaker 9: be rough with her. I couldn't do it, so she left.
• 25:49
  Speaker 9: She told one of our female neighbors that I'm a
• 25:52
  Speaker 9: lame lover. How do I clear my name?
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: No, you don't, man, you don't just go on and
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: be lame.
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: Don't go back trying to prove nothing, because you're gonna
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: get gangster.
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: This is what she do. No'll take your al It
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: ain't ain't.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: No problem with lame the loser. Yeah, you you couldn't do.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: All that rough stuff. That ain't what you do. Here's
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: what you need to first thing.
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: First, go to apartment Locato and start looking for some
• 26:21
  Speaker 5: new neighborhoods.
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you got to get out of there.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 26:29
  Speaker 9: Moving on to Demetria and Lake, Charles Dimitria writes, my
• 26:34
  Speaker 9: husband loves to have sex in the tub, but we're
• 26:36
  Speaker 9: out growing our tub. I asked if we can finally
• 26:39
  Speaker 9: get our bathroom upgraded with a bigger tub. He said
• 26:43
  Speaker 9: we can lose weight instead.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: That was so unnecessary. Why did he have to go there?
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: Well, you said the key words in this letter. Y'all
• 26:55
  Speaker 5: have outgrown your bathtub. Now how you get bigger than
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: a bath tub? I don't know two people, but y'all
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: got bigger than the bath tub. I think your husband
• 27:09
  Speaker 5: is on to something. Somebody got to lose weight, because
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you right now, I'll grow in that
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: bath tub is one thing. But if you outgrow that toilet,
• 27:20
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you right now, the whole another problem, whole,
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: another problem. Y'all up in there outgrowing items in the bathroom.
• 27:30
  Speaker 5: You got to be killed. You can't outgrow that toilet.
• 27:34
  Speaker 5: I'm just telling you some things you can't out grow.
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: You can't can't out grow that toilet tissue roll can't
• 27:39
  Speaker 5: out grow that. I don't know, but it's hard to
• 27:44
  Speaker 5: have more than one roll in the most most most
• 27:46
  Speaker 5: houses just got one role that you're gonna have to
• 27:49
  Speaker 5: buy that stand where you stack them on top of each.
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: Other way too much, you know, like a ring toss.
• 27:56
  Speaker 5: You're gonna have to have the one where the four
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: five stacked on top of each other. Cause I don't
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: know what y'all doing. All you're gonna have to run
• 28:02
  Speaker 5: a garden holes up through that window in the bathroom.
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: But you're gonna have to do something. All this growing
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: y'all doing in him, so somebody need to get.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: To the gym.
• 28:13
  Speaker 9: Okay, just to suggest that's the message, all right, last one, Steve,
• 28:17
  Speaker 9: this is from Mecca and Decatur.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Mecca.
• 28:20
  Speaker 5: Right now, if you keep grain and weight on that toilet,
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: you're gonna need help getting up. You reach for that
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: gest tie wreck in front of you're gonna tear that
• 28:27
  Speaker 5: whole wreck after.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Walk you point, yes, clearly, we get it.
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: Now you're reaching all over there trying to helpe grab
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: onto the shower curtain, not as in the flow.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: You gotta lose some weight, Go ahead, shot it all right.
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: This is from me Ka and Decatur.
• 28:44
  Speaker 9: Mika writes, My husband has an outside son that was
• 28:46
  Speaker 9: born the day after our wedding. I treat the boy
• 28:49
  Speaker 9: like he's my son, but he's twelve now and rebellious.
• 28:53
  Speaker 9: He told me I'm not his mama. My husband said,
• 28:55
  Speaker 9: it's a faith. Why isn't my husband willing to reprimand him?
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: Well, you know, since we passing our information, you know
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: I have helped several children. Yeah, I'm gonna give you.
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna give you the perfect comeback. You ain't my daddy. Okay,
• 29:13
  Speaker 5: where is he?
• 29:14
  Speaker 9: It?
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I like it.
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: I like it right now at what you're not gonna
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: do to me.
• 29:21
  Speaker 5: You're not finna shade me because I'm in here doing
• 29:24
  Speaker 5: the best I can for somebody out here.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: You ain't my daddy. Where is he?
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 29:33
  Speaker 5: Show on that piece of fat, little boy, so one
• 29:39
  Speaker 5: more time, you ain't my daddy?
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Where he is at?
• 29:49
  Speaker 7: Now?
• 29:49
  Speaker 5: You all to appreciate the one that's standing in as
• 29:52
  Speaker 5: your daddy, because if I leave, you ain't gonna have none.
• 29:58
  Speaker 6: Boy.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: I really like that response.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: I really like it. Yeah, you know you know, you
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: know you need to help them with information.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, the mom, but you know that's gonna crush him though.
• 30:12
  Speaker 6: You do know that.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: What you think you tried to crushing each other.
• 30:27
  Speaker 9: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
• 30:29
  Speaker 9: some entertainment news for you right after this.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
• 30:39
  Speaker 9: Well, we're all saddened, I mean really saddened by the
• 30:42
  Speaker 9: news we got on yesterday about four time Grammy winner
• 30:46
  Speaker 9: and r and B icon di'angelo. DiAngelo passed away at
• 30:50
  Speaker 9: the age of fifty one from pancreatic cancer. The Angelo
• 30:54
  Speaker 9: created his own form of soul music, with a timeless
• 30:57
  Speaker 9: mix of gospel, funk, jazz, and hip that helped usher
• 31:01
  Speaker 9: in the neo soul movement in the nineteen nineties. His
• 31:05
  Speaker 9: debut album, Brown Sugar, helped redefine R and B and
• 31:08
  Speaker 9: inspired numerous artists over the years.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: But what did it for? The ladies? And all the ladies?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Remember this was DeAngelo's how does It Feel?
• 31:18
  Speaker 12: Video?
• 31:19
  Speaker 10: Come on Carla, untitled baby, It's called untitled how does
• 31:25
  Speaker 10: it Feel?
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: We all looked at that screen and said, what is.
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: What is going on?
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: I actually tried to do it. I thought I could
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: He tried to do what baby?
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: What did you say? Then turn like he would turn it.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: I tried it.
• 31:40
  Speaker 9: He was completely nude, remember that, completely nude showing off
• 31:44
  Speaker 9: his chest. Ab.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Now you know something, man, I never saw the video.
• 31:49
  Speaker 6: What what?
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: I heard the song a million times, never saw the video.
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: Oh man, you don't know what you're missing. That's all
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: we can say.
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: I probably do share, but.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Listening to us right now, Yeah, And that's who he
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: did it for.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: But as an artist, a soul forul singer he's back.
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: See, And I sent that to my frat brothers too.
• 32:18
  Speaker 5: I sent him, Uh, the D'Angelo passing and he's sanging,
• 32:22
  Speaker 5: how does it feel? And I sent it to him
• 32:24
  Speaker 5: and I said, this young brother was born on the
• 32:27
  Speaker 5: day that most of us was met, that most of
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: us met because I met most of my boys fifty
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: one years ago.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: He was born on the day. But he was a throwback.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: This cat was cold throwback. Oh yeah, yes, he was
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: that voice. He was at Motown Sound. He was that dude.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Man was special.
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 32:45
  Speaker 9: Never had it been done quite like that before di'angelo.
• 32:49
  Speaker 9: He is survived by his children and close family, who
• 32:53
  Speaker 9: have asked for privacy at this time. He shares a
• 32:55
  Speaker 9: son with the late icon Angie Stone, who passed away
• 32:59
  Speaker 9: in March of this year.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: How crazy is that? Hip hop and his parents.
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 33:07
  Speaker 9: The hip hop and R and B community express condolences
• 33:10
  Speaker 9: online with notable posts from Jamie Fox, Jill Scott, Maxwell,
• 33:13
  Speaker 9: Tank Uh, and DiAngelo's former label RCA Records, just to
• 33:17
  Speaker 9: name a few. We send our prayers and our condolences
• 33:21
  Speaker 9: out to DiAngelo's family.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Wow. He will be missed, yes and all morning long.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: On the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: We played di'angelo.
• 33:30
  Speaker 10: Lady Yeah Crews Brown Sugar untitled.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: On Girl Boy, Steve, you need to see that video.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: See the video of the songs that boy special man.
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: I'm not gonna really enjoy looking at no man's abs
• 33:49
  Speaker 5: and stomaching. I have that and it's been gone for
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: quite some time.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, that's where the hate is coming from.
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: It's not really hate, it's it's a realization. Do not
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: really hate. I don't hate on nobody got apps. I
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: just realized, Nah, I have them. You just got to
• 34:07
  Speaker 5: dig for them.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: Nothing even matters with Laurence. Oh yes, yes, yes, yeah, D'Angelo,
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: you will do all right well.
• 34:25
  Speaker 9: In a recent interview with The Cut, actress Nia long
• 34:29
  Speaker 9: Junior Listen carefully revealed that.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: She and her ex.
• 34:34
  Speaker 9: Are now at peace with each other, just three weeks
• 34:39
  Speaker 9: after Uduka's cheating scandal three years, I should say, after
• 34:42
  Speaker 9: Duca's cheating scandal went viral.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Three yeah, I know, I know, I met three years.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I know I met three years. Of course.
• 34:53
  Speaker 9: Nia said that she and her ex fiancee Uduka took
• 34:57
  Speaker 9: their son on summer vacation recently and they had a time.
• 35:01
  Speaker 9: She said quote It was really beautiful because we've had
• 35:04
  Speaker 9: a very public journey that has found its way to
• 35:07
  Speaker 9: peace and understanding, and uh, there's a lot of mutual
• 35:11
  Speaker 9: respect that we had for each other. Nia did admit
• 35:14
  Speaker 9: that she had a lot of negative feelings to overcome,
• 35:17
  Speaker 9: and she's in a good place now.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: She wishes nothing but the best for.
• 35:23
  Speaker 6: Now.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: They did it.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: They did it on vacation.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: They did it.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: They did Why don't you tell jor that, Tommy knowing
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: how you need.
• 35:32
  Speaker 5: To do that.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: You need to know that. So she just gonna publicly
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: cheat on me like this in your face, celebrity crush.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: He crushed you vacation, that's what you're doing. Yeah, But
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: but the point is you take it nowhere. I'm not
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: your daddy.
• 35:54
  Speaker 12: Where is he.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Tell you right now? You bet bet not.
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna tell you right now. You better not pull
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: up with no vacation money. You bet not, because until
• 36:12
  Speaker 5: he bilt that fence, you bet not.
• 36:17
  Speaker 6: Here.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: It's forgiveness, Steve, it's forgiveness.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Forgive that.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, forgiving your ex.
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: That's not for everybody. That's for this. No, No, I'm
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: not forgiving.
• 36:31
  Speaker 6: No.
• 36:32
  Speaker 10: He cheated publicly and embarrassed her and she said they
• 36:36
  Speaker 10: had a great time.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: They did it.
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  Speaker 4: They did it.
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: I don't care what I've done. Don't forgive me because
• 36:45
  Speaker 5: I ain't finna forgive you. Also, it would be confused
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: with if you really want to know, that's how I Yeah, wow,
• 37:02
  Speaker 5: so I didn't now ask for forgiveness.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Well, she's putting her son needs first. Yeah, that's all.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: That's cool for them, that's great. All right.
• 37:11
  Speaker 9: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, our president
• 37:14
  Speaker 9: took some time to throw a temper tantrum over his
• 37:16
  Speaker 9: Time magazine cover photo. We'll talk about it right after this.
• 37:20
  Speaker 9: You're listening Hardy Morning Show. Hey, everyone, quick health question.
• 37:30
  Speaker 9: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did
• 37:34
  Speaker 9: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where
• 37:37
  Speaker 9: vaccines come in. They helped train and strengthen your immune
• 37:40
  Speaker 9: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, new macacle, pneumonia, RSV,
• 37:45
  Speaker 9: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines
• 37:49
  Speaker 9: you need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot
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  Speaker 9: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer.
• 37:58
  Speaker 9: Well with everything that currently going on in the world.
• 38:01
  Speaker 9: Donald Trump, our President, took to the truth social to
• 38:06
  Speaker 9: criticize Time Magazine for his cover photo. In a late
• 38:11
  Speaker 9: night post, Trump complained about the photo that was used
• 38:14
  Speaker 9: by Time magazine for the cover. He said the photo
• 38:17
  Speaker 9: was taken from a low angle, which shows his neck
• 38:21
  Speaker 9: and makes his hair over his forehead appear almost transparent
• 38:24
  Speaker 9: in the sunlight.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Trump called the picture the worst of all time.
• 38:29
  Speaker 9: He added, I never liked taking pictures from underneath angles, but.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: This is a super bad picture and deserved to be
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: called out. What are they doing and why?
• 38:40
  Speaker 9: In regards to the article about him in Time, he
• 38:43
  Speaker 9: said it was a relatively good article. He did say
• 38:46
  Speaker 9: that it was a relatively good article. He just hated
• 38:48
  Speaker 9: the cover picture and.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: In your hair, in your neck.
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: They just I mean, I understand how you feel.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: But hey, bro, so you've taken you've had a magazine cover.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: No, my pictures is bad, No all of them. My pictures.
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: You don't like any of it? Don't they have to
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: get your approval? Your approval.
• 39:14
  Speaker 6: For a cover.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: You think they got his? I guess not. If they
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: ain't gonna ask the president, didn't hell what they asked
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: you for?
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: What if they do pick out the one they like
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: best or they think it well.
• 39:29
  Speaker 5: See, but what it is, if you don't ask for
• 39:32
  Speaker 5: creative control, then they just take it upon themselves. Now,
• 39:35
  Speaker 5: if you're gonna do it, then you can ask for
• 39:37
  Speaker 5: creative control.
• 39:39
  Speaker 7: Okay, But if all your pictures is ugly, they just
• 39:42
  Speaker 7: got the picture, then you must.
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Be bucket, must be. Now I'm looking at the picture.
• 39:53
  Speaker 10: Uh huh.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: And it's just a clear shot up through his hair.
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: He got a lot of but he got a lot
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: of ankle too, so he got a lot going on.
• 40:02
  Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, he's got those cankles. Okay, Well, he said
• 40:06
  Speaker 9: it was a good article. Though he did say that
• 40:09
  Speaker 9: he should have gave a.
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: Picture when he was twenty or thirty. He should have
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: got one of them picture.
• 40:13
  Speaker 10: The White House would ask for total would you say,
• 40:16
  Speaker 10: Steve pre control.
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: They don't care what he do. No matter what you do,
• 40:20
  Speaker 5: he ain't gonna like it. They just got used to him.
• 40:23
  Speaker 5: Now just print the picture.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Picture.
• 40:24
  Speaker 5: He gonna say something anyway. But everybody in the White
• 40:28
  Speaker 5: House ain't lapping it up. It's some people over there
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: doing some underhanded stuff because they don't like it. So
• 40:35
  Speaker 5: you better believe they was going, Oh, this picture's gonna
• 40:38
  Speaker 5: really take him off.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: Print it.
• 40:44
  Speaker 5: Oh my god, look at this picture. Print it like, oh,
• 40:48
  Speaker 5: it's gonna be great. Oh I'm telling you, man, I'm
• 40:52
  Speaker 5: telling you.
• 40:53
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: So yeah, so he's a little vain. He wants to
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: look good.
• 41:00
  Speaker 9: Still yeah, we all yeah, all right, coming up with
• 41:06
  Speaker 9: thirty four minutes after the hour, the Nephew has a
• 41:10
  Speaker 9: huge announcement.
• 41:11
  Speaker 12: On the way.
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this.
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: What is it, nef.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, nephew, we
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: promise that you have a huge announcement. Do we need
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: a drum roll for this?
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: We can do a drum roll. We can do however
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: you want to do. But I've been wanting to.
• 41:36
  Speaker 7: Give two people on this there's two people on this show.
• 41:40
  Speaker 7: I've been wanting to give something to. Oh and I
• 41:44
  Speaker 7: really haven't had the right gift to give them, you know,
• 41:48
  Speaker 7: so you know my co work to kill Junior Boy
• 41:53
  Speaker 7: space to call a Farrell. I want to give them something. Okay,
• 41:59
  Speaker 7: this is the guy.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Both of you.
• 42:02
  Speaker 7: I am going to be giving you four tickets a
• 42:05
  Speaker 7: piece to come see the Nephew as our host.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: A pray of you Homecoming Comedy Show October twenty fifth.
• 42:14
  Speaker 7: I to pray if you can't, y'all good to come
• 42:16
  Speaker 7: here out with me at your Ama Mata and we
• 42:19
  Speaker 7: get to get down and have a good time.
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: Me and Bill Bella. Me gonna bring the money and
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: have a whole good time. Y'all.
• 42:25
  Speaker 7: Oh, welcome to call you always asking for ticket. I
• 42:27
  Speaker 7: need tickets with his cousin kicks with that cousin. Now
• 42:31
  Speaker 7: you got tickets at your own homecoming. The nephew will
• 42:33
  Speaker 7: be hosting the comedy show, So come hang out with
• 42:36
  Speaker 7: your boy.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: I will be there.
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: I have a question, Yes, can I get two more?
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: Can?
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: I see right there?
• 42:45
  Speaker 6: Right right?
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: Did I get six?
• 42:53
  Speaker 6: I need some more?
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: Full enough? What's a homecoming song?
• 43:01
  Speaker 5: On to the homecoming question, Well, we'll talk about the
• 43:09
  Speaker 5: figure full tickets. It's gonna be here enough for me.
• 43:17
  Speaker 5: I gotta bring Butcher, he's always plus two, and you
• 43:26
  Speaker 5: won't give me four tickets?
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: The hell am I supposed to do? I'm at the
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: home coming blow within got these holes on me from
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: going to home coming.
• 43:46
  Speaker 10: To get on stage. You have to say, this is
• 43:49
  Speaker 10: what you say to people that went to praise you.
• 43:52
  Speaker 10: You gonnas, You think you're gonna mess it up.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: Dream gonna come out, take they gonna run it right
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: out of there.
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: Come on, JR.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: We gotta tell them what he has for what the
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: and them gonna come out wrong crowd, temmy wrong crowd.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: Let me let me hear.
• 44:12
  Speaker 10: You have to say set your home coming out, and
• 44:16
  Speaker 10: then the crowd is gonna repeat it back to you.
• 44:19
  Speaker 10: Set it out, Set it out, Set it out. Okay,
• 44:23
  Speaker 10: you get on stage and you say that in PV, then.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: Then they know I'm good, supposed to be that. Come
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: in there with that A and M.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: You're gonna get okay.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: There's nothing I can do to help you. I will
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: act like I don't know you. I got nothing here.
• 44:40
  Speaker 7: You do this.
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: Here, I bring you something of the bald head dudes
• 44:52
  Speaker 5: with you with their uniforms on, little skinhead hair.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: Did you really say that? Go too far and them
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: all the way?
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: Baby, I can't wait till I'm excited.
• 45:06
  Speaker 7: Bu October twenty fifth, Saturday night on PV's campus, Me
• 45:09
  Speaker 7: and Bill Bella, Me bringing the comedy man. I got
• 45:11
  Speaker 7: a few other comics on there, but all you need
• 45:13
  Speaker 7: to understand is me and Bill is coming.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: So to make sure you get Carlo's extra ticket.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: I ain't for a standard or it's good.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: I hell, Mack, I need eight.
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: Why don't you just take Junior Folk? But he he
• 45:32
  Speaker 5: made the announcement like it was just something real. But
• 45:34
  Speaker 5: I'm giving each one of y'all phut tickets.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: Oh it was outstanding. It was greatness. I got to
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: show out at homecoming. Man, I can't have folks.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I need tea. We got a stun. We gotta all
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: my partners.
• 45:45
  Speaker 6: We gotta come in.
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: Dog. I'm trying to figure out Junior High. You ain't
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: on the show PV. Keep doing this to me.
• 45:52
  Speaker 5: It's Texas A and them because Texas A is Oh
• 45:55
  Speaker 5: my god, but hold up, so let me tell you something. Yeah, man,
• 45:58
  Speaker 5: but don't they take got something to do with PEV?
• 46:01
  Speaker 5: They said, yeah, they sister school. Yeah yeah, yeah, So
• 46:07
  Speaker 5: they just bought to Texas. They just bought to Texas A.
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: And m Alumna.
• 46:11
  Speaker 9: Coming up next to the Nephew and drank phone call
• 46:14
  Speaker 9: for today right after you're listening to the Steve Harvey
• 46:20
  Speaker 9: Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes after the hour,
• 46:27
  Speaker 9: It's my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is
• 46:30
  Speaker 9: I wear the pants and the family. We'll get into
• 46:33
  Speaker 9: that find out what that's all about just a few
• 46:35
  Speaker 9: because right now it is the nephew with today's prank
• 46:40
  Speaker 9: phone called what you got for his nept that's right.
• 46:42
  Speaker 7: Here, Shirley is this is mister Wiggins. Mister Wiggins is
• 46:48
  Speaker 7: when you cut the wrong y'all. Mister Wigan, it's mister Wiggans.
• 46:51
  Speaker 7: So you got to be real. Check out, mister Wigans,
• 46:54
  Speaker 7: how you talking about? Mister Wiggins is real? He legit,
• 46:57
  Speaker 7: he straight up and he ain't putting them nuncy not
• 47:00
  Speaker 7: paying me. Basically, gotta cut the wrong, y'all. Mister yeah, quick,
• 47:09
  Speaker 7: let me do my exercise real quick.
• 47:11
  Speaker 12: Whether quell the weather be cold or whether the weather
• 47:16
  Speaker 12: behind whatever? The queen this together, whether we like it
• 47:24
  Speaker 12: or not?
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: How would that's exciting?
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: Fail I like?
• 47:29
  Speaker 9: I like that?
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: Week? What do you say we.
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Weather?
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: The weather be cold?
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: It ain't two letters in week whether if you can't
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: get them to one, you can't say we.
• 47:49
  Speaker 12: Whether the weather be hot, whatever the weather?
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: We in this together? Why you got your hour?
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: Not tether we well?
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: If we like it enough?
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: Not say Wiggins?
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: Say we quick? Say queen, what about the weather man?
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: All you gotta do is put a tea on it
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: and we can eat it.
• 48:21
  Speaker 12: Week he one.
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: That's why we bread because.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: Oh you could say white bread, chicken.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: Just bread, not that just bread. Getting mad at the
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: server though, get mad? I like some bread? Please? Would
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: you like white or wheat? Just bread? So all right, man,
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: one more time we quick hold your painters.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: In your bang queen.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: We we we we we.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Now say the frank mister Wiggins, mister.
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: Hard to have personal radio with speeching hard.
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: We've been working.
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: Remember how to day Nick year Juanda Washington.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Jan That was her mom, right, Mama Juana.
• 49:34
  Speaker 2: Her daddy.
• 49:34
  Speaker 7: Will William said, mister mister William quirk quirk as the
• 49:42
  Speaker 7: way we're working.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Terrible, terribly embarrassing. Guess it time for frank with mister.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: Can't tell you what I've been doing for five minutes.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: I've been looking for my phone.
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: Why what's that to do with the w What are
• 50:04
  Speaker 3: you saying?
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: Well, I'm on the zoom on my phone. Man, here
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: go to plank.
• 50:13
  Speaker 5: Let's go, mister, just.
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: Phone, let's go.
• 50:24
  Speaker 6: Hello.
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, my name is George. I'm with Green Lawn Services.
• 50:28
  Speaker 7: We came out and cut your yard yesterday and uh
• 50:31
  Speaker 7: We're trying to make sure that you liked everything thoroughly.
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: That we cut the front, the back.
• 50:35
  Speaker 7: We also did your hedges, put some mulch in the
• 50:38
  Speaker 7: fly beds, the weed eating in the whole nine yards,
• 50:40
  Speaker 7: and we also left an invoice on your doorstep.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: Want to make sure you got that as well.
• 50:44
  Speaker 6: YO cut on yards man? I around, man, Look, I
• 50:49
  Speaker 6: was trying to forgot who cut.
• 50:50
  Speaker 5: It, sir.
• 50:52
  Speaker 7: Yeah, we cut it as if yesterday you were actually
• 50:54
  Speaker 7: on our schedule and we did everything thoroughly. We I'm
• 50:57
  Speaker 7: actually just calling as a follow up.
• 50:59
  Speaker 6: Hi, Hell I get on the schedules, sir.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: Are you mister Malone at fifty Zimmerman?
• 51:05
  Speaker 6: Hell no, man, I'm wiggings for fifty Man. You cut
• 51:08
  Speaker 6: the wrong house that nick door man. I guess you
• 51:11
  Speaker 6: need to put your inwards.
• 51:12
  Speaker 7: On their door, so you're not mister Malone at fifty Zimmerman.
• 51:17
  Speaker 6: Say man, I'll just tell you I'm fifty three and
• 51:20
  Speaker 6: I'm missed the wiggers. You don't cut the wrong Know
• 51:23
  Speaker 6: what y'all need to go? Miss miss long how to
• 51:25
  Speaker 6: get your because you ain't cut you got the wrong No, sir,
• 51:30
  Speaker 6: y'all coming over here trying to collect money.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: Well, sir, hold on this second. Here you're saying we
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: don't you don't.
• 51:36
  Speaker 6: Cut the wrong yard. No, no schedule, I ain't tell
• 51:40
  Speaker 6: you come over here and cut and you go over
• 51:42
  Speaker 6: there talking Malone get your money. You can't.
• 51:45
  Speaker 7: So there's no way we can charge mister Malone if
• 51:48
  Speaker 7: we haven't cut his yard. Now, let's let's just.
• 51:50
  Speaker 6: You need to take it over there cutting mister malone yard.
• 51:53
  Speaker 6: Lets put the memory wasn't his? You know you ain't
• 51:56
  Speaker 6: cut and sir sing at this now, sir, won't cut
• 52:02
  Speaker 6: the wrong yord. You go cut the right yard and
• 52:05
  Speaker 6: get right that. Every boy, you ain't got. You ain't
• 52:08
  Speaker 6: getting this out.
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, sir, I say this now, I ain't.
• 52:12
  Speaker 6: Call no s out of the tomb. Cut over here,
• 52:15
  Speaker 6: you go over that, cut his right and get him real.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: Boy, you ain't get I understand that, Sir.
• 52:22
  Speaker 7: Listen, what I want to say is, uh, well, we'll
• 52:25
  Speaker 7: go over and we'll take care of mister Malone's yard.
• 52:27
  Speaker 7: I understand that we've made a mistake, but I understand.
• 52:29
  Speaker 7: I understood. You say that you did like the services,
• 52:32
  Speaker 7: So wouldn't it be even right for you to actually
• 52:37
  Speaker 7: go ahead and send the invoice in along with the checks.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: Since you did like the services.
• 52:41
  Speaker 6: Wellever did listening like yo tarted, because then I just
• 52:44
  Speaker 6: tell you you cut the wrong your You know, cut
• 52:49
  Speaker 6: the right yard and get your money. You ain't got
• 52:51
  Speaker 6: nothing but practice here.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: I understand that we cut the wrong yard, sir, I
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: understand that, But you got the services, and you like
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: the services.
• 53:01
  Speaker 7: I don't want to have to come out there and
• 53:03
  Speaker 7: get the money from you.
• 53:04
  Speaker 6: Well, come on and determined, Come on a determining. I
• 53:08
  Speaker 6: got something face, Come on over here and get you.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: But you said you like that.
• 53:12
  Speaker 6: I wouldn't give it if I said the moon was green.
• 53:15
  Speaker 6: You cut the wrong yard. You go get your money
• 53:18
  Speaker 6: from the right.
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: You ain't getting.
• 53:21
  Speaker 6: I got some face. You come on over here and
• 53:23
  Speaker 6: see what you get. Cut the wrong yea, trying to
• 53:28
  Speaker 6: get money money you ain't getting. Now you you can
• 53:32
  Speaker 6: go get you from the right either right next door,
• 53:35
  Speaker 6: go cut that and leave that paper over there.
• 53:38
  Speaker 2: I'm coming over there.
• 53:39
  Speaker 6: You want me to start, I start them. I ain't
• 53:43
  Speaker 6: gonna come around there and do and be charging me
• 53:46
  Speaker 6: no money. Now, yeah, I got more heat in help
• 53:49
  Speaker 6: get money. If you want to come get it.
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: You got your yard cut and we deserve to get
• 53:55
  Speaker 3: I don't want money back.
• 53:57
  Speaker 6: Get you would be coming around here trying to get some.
• 54:00
  Speaker 6: Now I tell you don't cut.
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: And I'm gonna tell you.
• 54:03
  Speaker 3: Don't make me whoop y'all behind this yard.
• 54:06
  Speaker 6: You come, you'll come home.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: So I will whoop you behind in the front yard.
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: That just got caught you.
• 54:16
  Speaker 6: Man, man and your hand and you come trying to
• 54:18
  Speaker 6: get this money. I'm suching. Held on, don't you I jack?
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: I got one more thing to tell you. What you're listening?
• 54:26
  Speaker 6: I don't now you'm standing up now I'm you cut
• 54:31
  Speaker 6: the wrong yo.
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: I've got one more thing to tell you.
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: And you listening, mister Wickins.
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: Look, this is Lefhew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: You just got pranked.
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: Hello, what.
• 54:50
  Speaker 6: I get William listening? This living only around that? Look
• 55:00
  Speaker 6: at you?
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: Your poor Gary just pranked you.
• 55:03
  Speaker 7: Man.
• 55:09
  Speaker 6: Hey, we're laughing.
• 55:10
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 55:13
  Speaker 7: Let me ask you something though, man, what is the
• 55:16
  Speaker 7: baddest radio show in the land.
• 55:20
  Speaker 6: Man, It's the Steve hob Morning.
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: Mister All right, thank you, nep you're coming up next.
• 55:35
  Speaker 9: It is my Strawberry letter for today and the subject
• 55:37
  Speaker 9: is I wear the pants and the family.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: We'll get into that right after this. Queen it welcome. Hi.
• 55:45
  Speaker 9: This is Shirley Strawberry and I'm partnering with the lead.
• 55:47
  Speaker 9: Let me tell you it couldn't have come at a
• 55:49
  Speaker 9: better time. I'm o some furniture around last weekend in
• 55:53
  Speaker 9: my new place. It turns out that was a really
• 55:55
  Speaker 9: bad idea because all that bending and lifting and pretending
• 55:58
  Speaker 9: I'm still twenty five, I didn't agree with my knees.
• 56:01
  Speaker 9: So I grab a lead because when my body pain
• 56:04
  Speaker 9: shows up, I need something that less. With just one
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  Speaker 9: Subject I wear the pants in the family here Stephen Shirley,
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  Speaker 9: I'm thirty two and I married a man that's never
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  Speaker 9: done any kind of physical work. He sells insurance like
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  Speaker 9: his daddy, and his parents bought us the house we
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  Speaker 9: live in because he pays all of the bills.
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  Speaker 1: He likes to throw it in my face that we
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  Speaker 1: don't have a house.
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  Speaker 2: Note.
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  Speaker 9: I work part time, so I have more time on
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  Speaker 9: my hands to take care of our three sons and
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  Speaker 9: things that need to be done around the house. I
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  Speaker 9: am writing this letter because I do some things that
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  Speaker 9: women shouldn't have to do. Just recently, I had to
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  Speaker 9: get a wasp ness off the porch and hose down
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  Speaker 9: our driveway after we had a heavy rain.
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  Speaker 1: He saw me doing the work and thought it was funny.
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  Speaker 9: He won't pick up the vacuum a mop, mowed the lawn,
• 57:35
  Speaker 9: or put his clothes in the washing machine. I also
• 57:38
  Speaker 9: get the boy's haircuts once a month, and I buy
• 57:40
  Speaker 9: all of their clothes, which they often hate. My husband
• 57:44
  Speaker 9: even expects me to initiate sex. He said we can
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  Speaker 9: do it whenever I want it, because he knows I'm
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  Speaker 9: usually tired from a full day.
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  Speaker 1: Of moving around with the kids. I hate that for me.
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  Speaker 9: I've asked him to participate in this marriage, and he
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  Speaker 9: thinks that his financial contribution is adequate. The ongoing joke
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  Speaker 9: with our friends is that I wear the pants in
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  Speaker 9: the family. It's no longer funny to me. I can
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  Speaker 9: go back to teaching full time and take care of
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  Speaker 9: my boys without him. I can leave him in his
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  Speaker 9: house that his parents got him and see how long
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  Speaker 9: he can take care of it without me. His mom
• 58:20
  Speaker 9: is still living, and she agrees that her son can
• 58:23
  Speaker 9: do more to help me out, but she won't dare
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  Speaker 9: mention it to him. I resent my husband more than ever.
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  Speaker 9: Can I give my husband an ultimatum? Or is he
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  Speaker 9: a lost cause? Please help?
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  Speaker 2: All right?
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  Speaker 9: You're married to a very selfish, very arrogant, very lazy
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  Speaker 9: man period.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what does he think this is?
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  Speaker 9: You literally do everything in the family and he thinks
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  Speaker 9: it's okay because he pays all the bills. No, I
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  Speaker 9: don't what man would be happy to see his wife,
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  Speaker 9: the mother of his sons, doing all that you do,
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  Speaker 9: getting wasp messed down, powerwashing the driveway. Come on, now,
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  Speaker 9: I think You've let his behavior go on way too long,
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  Speaker 9: and now you're ready to leave because you've had enough.
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  Speaker 9: But your husband checked out of this marriage years ago.
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  Speaker 9: He's got a couple of dollars that he can hang
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  Speaker 9: over your head so he feels like he can do
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  Speaker 9: whatever he wants to do. I mean, money does not
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  Speaker 9: make a marriage. It can break one, though, for sure.
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  Speaker 9: It is either too much money people don't know how
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  Speaker 9: to act, or is not enough money and it's just
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  Speaker 9: too hard to make the marriage work because you don't
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  Speaker 9: have enough.
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  Speaker 1: But your husband doesn't seem to be interested in you
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  Speaker 1: or the marriage.
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  Speaker 9: I don't think you need to give him an ultimatum.
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  Speaker 9: I think you need to give yourself an ultimatum because
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  Speaker 9: either he starts pulling his weight at home with the boys,
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  Speaker 9: or you just do what you said you were gonna do,
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  Speaker 9: go back to work full time and raise the boys
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  Speaker 9: without him. You've been doing it by yourself this long.
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  Speaker 2: Anyway, Steve, one question, why did you marry him?
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  Speaker 5: You know, whenever I get these letters, I try to
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  Speaker 5: find some redeeming quality in the person that the letter
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  Speaker 5: is about. Usually in all of these letters, you have
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  Speaker 5: someone that has a complaint towards another person. That's usually
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  Speaker 5: what these letters are about. So what I try to
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 5: find when I get these letters is some redeeming quality
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  Speaker 5: inside of the person that the letter is about. You've
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  Speaker 5: married a man that's never done any kind of physical work. Now,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if he's older than you. You thirty two,
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 5: but y'all have already had these three boys. He sells
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  Speaker 5: insurance like his daddy did, and his parents bought us
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  Speaker 5: the house we live in now. Because he pays all
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  Speaker 5: the bills. He likes to throw it in my face
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  Speaker 5: that we don't have a house. Note now, let me
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  Speaker 5: stop right here. The house note is usually our large
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  Speaker 5: This bill, am I right? That's usually the largest bill.
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  Speaker 5: So if your daddy and mama brought you the house,
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  Speaker 5: what bill is you bragging about?
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  Speaker 2: Girl?
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  Speaker 5: Did you see that water bill came in here at
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  Speaker 5: forty dollars? You see me pay that water bill?
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  Speaker 2: Huh?
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  Speaker 5: Did you see the electricity bill that came in this
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  Speaker 5: month one hundred and ten?
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  Speaker 2: You see that?
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  Speaker 5: What's Let me ask you, guys something, what's the average
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  Speaker 5: electric bill at a at a house?
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  Speaker 2: What do you think? Just get me down? Five sixty
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  Speaker 2: five hundred.
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  Speaker 1: That's just electric.
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  Speaker 2: Are you talking about water too?
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  Speaker 5: That's yeah for the electric, about five hundred and sixty
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  Speaker 5: for electricity.
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  Speaker 1: This is a regular house, not a mansion. Get right
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  Speaker 1: over here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, y'all, y'all running on generator was honey anyway, So
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  Speaker 5: he's paying, he's paying these regular deals. I'm assuming, idiot.
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  Speaker 5: That's why I have to ask.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but now he paying these bills.
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  Speaker 5: And he wanted to throw that in your face, but
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 5: his mama and them gave him the house note. And
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 5: then you're writing this letter because you say you're doing
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  Speaker 5: some stuff that women shouldn't have to do. You're getting
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 5: hornets nests down out and washing down the driveway.
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  Speaker 2: He saw you doing the work, and he thought it
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  Speaker 2: was funny. Ah ha ha he he hel.
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  Speaker 5: He don't pick up a vacuum, mop, motor lawn, put
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  Speaker 5: his clothing.
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  Speaker 2: He don't motor lawn. He don't what he do? What
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  Speaker 2: what does he do? And now you done got tired
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  Speaker 2: of it?
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  Speaker 1: All right? Hang on?
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  Speaker 2: He been trifling for a long time, though he ain't
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  Speaker 2: just last week.
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  Speaker 9: We'll have part two of your response coming up to
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  Speaker 9: Steve at twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subjects
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  Speaker 9: I wear the pants and the family. We'll get back
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  Speaker 9: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hi,
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  Speaker 9: this is Shirley's Strawberry and I'm partnering with the leave.
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  Speaker 9: Let me tell you it couldn't have come at a
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  Speaker 9: better time. I'm ow with some furniture around last weekend
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  Speaker 9: in my new place. It turns out that was a
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 9: really bad idea because all that bending and lifting and
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 9: pretending I'm still twenty five didn't agree with my knees.
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  Speaker 9: So I grabbed a leave because when my body pain
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 9: shows up, I need something that lasts. With just one pill.
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  Speaker 9: A leave lasts up to twelve hours. Don't let those
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  Speaker 9: aches and pains hold you back from doing what's important
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  Speaker 9: to you. Use as directed, all right, Steve, Come on,
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  Speaker 9: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject I wear the
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  Speaker 9: pants in the family.
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  Speaker 5: Well, you know that's not cute for a woman to
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  Speaker 5: have to say that she's thirty two. She married to
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  Speaker 5: a man that has never done or doesn't do any
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  Speaker 5: physical work at all. He's selling insurance like his daddy.
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  Speaker 5: His mother and father bought them the house, gave it
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  Speaker 5: to him, so they don't have a house. No, And
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  Speaker 5: he throws it up in her face all the time
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  Speaker 5: that he pays all the bills. She works part time
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  Speaker 5: so she can spend more time at home doing things
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  Speaker 5: around the house and taking care of the three sons.
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  Speaker 5: She writing a letter because she feels that she's doing
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  Speaker 5: some stuff that women shouldn't have to do. She evene
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 5: got the hornets and nets down off the porch, holds
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  Speaker 5: down the driveway out of heavy rain.
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  Speaker 2: He saw her doing the work and he started laughing.
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  Speaker 5: He won't pick up a vacuum a mop, he don't
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  Speaker 5: mow the lawn, He don't put his clothes in the
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 5: washing machine. I get the boy's haircuts once a month
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 5: and buy all their clothes. Now that one troublesover me
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  Speaker 5: right in there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know that's a.
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  Speaker 5: Ritual or father taking his son to the barber shop. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: that's a rite of passage.
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  Speaker 2: Man.
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  Speaker 5: So this dude right here, I mean, he's just he's
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  Speaker 5: missing out on really some great moments. But he feels
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  Speaker 5: as though since he's paying all the bills, that's all
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  Speaker 5: he gotta do. And she buys all they clothes, which
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  Speaker 5: they often hate. My husband even expects me to initiate sex.
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  Speaker 5: He says we can do it whenever I want, because
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  Speaker 5: he knows I'm usually tired from before day of moving
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  Speaker 5: around with the kids.
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  Speaker 2: I hate that for me. Well, okay, you will do
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  Speaker 2: it whenever you want.
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  Speaker 5: M Okay, just sound like something else is happening here,
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  Speaker 5: But that ain't what's in the letter, So don't throw
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  Speaker 5: that out there. I've asked him to participate in this marriage,
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  Speaker 5: and he thinks that this financial contribution is adequate.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what a lot of men think.
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  Speaker 5: I've been accused of that before in my house, you know, Steve,
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  Speaker 5: it's not just about taking care of everybody. Taking care
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 5: means a lot of other things, and I've had to
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  Speaker 5: have that bought to my attention. So there are men
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  Speaker 5: who think that their financial contribution is adequate. Don't go
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  Speaker 5: and joke with our friends. Is that I wear the
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  Speaker 5: pants in this family? Well, it ain't no longer funny
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  Speaker 5: to me. She said, I can go back to teaching
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  Speaker 5: full time, take care of my boys without him. I
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  Speaker 5: can leave him in his house that his parents got him,
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  Speaker 5: and see how long he can take care of it
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  Speaker 5: without me. His mom is still living and she agrees
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 5: that her son can do more to help me out,
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  Speaker 5: but she won't dare mention it to him. I resent
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  Speaker 5: my husband more than ever. This is what this letter
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 5: is all about. I resent my husband more than ever.
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  Speaker 5: Can I give my husband an ultimatum?
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  Speaker 2: Or is he a lost cause?
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  Speaker 5: Please help me? Now you have no choice and to
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  Speaker 5: issue the ultimatum. And I think your ultimatum is in
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  Speaker 5: the letter. You can say, I'm gonna go back to
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  Speaker 5: teaching full time, take care of my boys without you,
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  Speaker 5: because you don't do nothing anyway. And I can leave
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  Speaker 5: you with this house that your parents bought you and
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  Speaker 5: see how long you can get along without me. Now
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  Speaker 5: that's the ultimatum, because I'm tired of doing everything and
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  Speaker 5: you do nothing.
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  Speaker 2: I'm tired of you laughing at me, wash down the
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  Speaker 2: driveway and get hornets, and that's down. I'm tired of it.
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  Speaker 5: I'm tired of you thinking that all you got to
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  Speaker 5: do is pay some bills and you've made your contribution.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's more than that. Your boys don't even know you.
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  Speaker 5: I take him to get haircuts, and the reason I
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 5: take them to get haircuts is because the barber is
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  Speaker 5: really cute and they've often asked me where you were,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 5: and I told him I don't know, but the barber
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 5: did come to the football game. So I think you
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 5: got I need. I think you need to get into
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 5: the ultimatum bills is now. The part about that he
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 5: don't want sex unless you want it out, that's a
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 5: whole nother conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna throw that out there because that ain't nothing.
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  Speaker 5: But that you have to your husband towards your husband
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 5: is real and it's justified because you are doing the most.
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  Speaker 5: Let me just say this to the men out there,
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  Speaker 5: just because you pay the bills, that's not all too.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 5: Being a father and a husband is hard work and
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 5: it's a constant pull and tug. And I'm not saying
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 5: that being a mother is not because I can't imagine
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 5: what that is. They manufactured children, so and to that,
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 5: I there's nothing we can do to top that. But
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 5: this thing that you think because you bought some money
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 5: to the table, that's it. Well, she bought three lives
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  Speaker 5: into this world, and she manufactured and produced them, and
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 5: she takes care of everything. You got to issue ultimatum, lady,
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  Speaker 5: That's all I'm saying to You got to get something
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 5: going in your direction, because the resentment is not going
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 5: to end unless you get some help. Because like as
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 5: women oftentimes say, I could be miserable all by myself.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 5: That one thing about being miserable, You don't need a
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  Speaker 5: lot of help. You just don't need a lot of
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 5: help to be miserable. You do that by yourself, though.
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  Speaker 5: But what's crazy is when you got somebody adding to
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 5: the misery.
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  Speaker 2: Oh man, But what this.
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  Speaker 9: Is troubling to me? Steve this line in this letter
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 9: where he says where she says that he doesn't want
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 9: sex unless she initiates it. So if she does nothing,
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  Speaker 9: he'll do nothing.
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  Speaker 2: He'll do nothing with her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, whatever man or the marriage.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's called something else has happened. But that ain't
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 5: what the letter about. So I don't want to throw
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 5: that out there.
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: But it's troubling though that it just really is what's
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: going on? Why does she have to initiate it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 7: All right?
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  Speaker 9: Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talk right
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  Speaker 8: You know it took years of saving, planning, and hard
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  Speaker 1: It's time now for Junior and sports talk. You okay, Junior,
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready, Shirley, I'm good, good, Just go ahead.
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  Speaker 2: Surely he don't have a fence, Just go ahead.
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  Speaker 1: I have to do with sports talk.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know, but that seems to be the running
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  Speaker 2: theme on Just go all right your people just walk
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  Speaker 2: across your property like that.
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  Speaker 1: He's fine, Chirley, Thank you for clearing it up for me.
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  Speaker 2: All right, here we go, Chirley.
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  Speaker 8: Let's give it to a congratulations to the Las Vegas Aces.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 8: They are the w NBA champions. Man interesting thing about
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 8: it is the viewership for the playoffs has been up.
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 8: It was averaged about a one point two million viewers
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 8: per playoff game.
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  Speaker 2: So that's up.
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  Speaker 1: They said, uh, you know, it's up five percent.
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  Speaker 8: So Agan Wilson, you know, MVP again. That girl just
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 8: one of the coldest to the Hall of Fame.
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: Gee, I watched it.
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  Speaker 2: I watched the game.
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  Speaker 8: Yes, yes, straight sweep for the Mercury too, four games
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  Speaker 8: to nothing, nothing nothing. That was so so congratulations to
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 8: the Las Vegas Aces. Also, man, let's go ahead just
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  Speaker 8: do this, man, Cam Newton, I don't know if y'all
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 8: saw the uncle Cam Newton had his jersey retired at
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 8: Auburn on Saturday. Man, very big. The number two will
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 8: never be one again. Cam Newton had an awesome twenty
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  Speaker 8: ten season. Do you see remember that season he had
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 8: on Man went undefeated for auburns, got the national championship,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 8: then was drafted number one overall by Carolina.
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  Speaker 1: That is how you get your jersey retired.
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  Speaker 5: That boy that was a bad boy. He don't get
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 5: enough credit. And the way the officials treated it was
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 5: just like crazy man. That brother don't get enough credit.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 5: He was a bad boy. Man, Cam Newton was a
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 5: bad boy.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 8: NFL MVP, went to the Super Bowl, changed the quarterback
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 8: position for Carolina in the NFL, just by him.
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  Speaker 1: Just the the size of Cam Newton. Man, how big
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: is Cam? Were standing there to some signs on him?
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 5: Way bigger than me. Me standing next to Cam Newton
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 5: is like y'all standing next to me?
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: Say that again, town, You say.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 5: Y'all standing me standing next to Cam Newton is like,
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 5: y'all standing next to me?
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  Speaker 2: You feel that small to you? No, I don't really
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: consider y'all small. I just know size. Have you seen
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: y'all standing next to Shack y'all mean yeah, y'all mean
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: standing next to k Last time I was y'all size.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 2: That's what I didn't want to do right now he's
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 2: going to be. But on the real dog, it was
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: junior high from eighth grade.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: You can't say, go ahead, all right.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 5: I'm just telling you real, I'm getting high school. I
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 5: was six feet already last time I was day side
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 5: in high I just remember, right I was junior.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: You asked him how big Cam was?
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 9: Thank you, j your coming up at the top of
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 9: the hour. A man wants to know how to change
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 9: his in laws impression of him. Right after this, you're
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 9: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: All right, Stee, this is.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 9: From Landon in Kansas City. He says, my in law
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 9: stayed with us last weekend. I went out Friday and
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 9: had a lot of tequila. When the uber dropped me off,
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 9: I sat in the garage for a few minutes to
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 9: get myself together. I urinated in the bushes on the
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 9: side of the house. I got urine on my jogging pans,
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 9: so then I had to wait for them to dry.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 9: I went inside when the lights went off in the
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 9: living room. When I got in the bed, my wife
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 9: said that she and her parents saw everything on the
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 9: garage cameras. Now her parents think I'm a drunk. How
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 9: do I fix this with my wife and my in laws?
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  Speaker 2: Fick that doll? You do like I did?
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 4: What what'd you do?
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 2: Just the way I changed my image of my in law.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 5: I just got it divorced, yeah, relationship, yeah, I just
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 5: got a divorce.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: And then it didn't matter what you felt about.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 1: I don't care what you think of me now, yeah,
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: So go ahead, people, I want to pee, you tell
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 2: me where to peek. I peed on my jog and suit.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 5: Not your.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: You and you and you're judging me? Wow, I said
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: the car.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 5: I try to get myself together, so I come in
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 5: here and be respectful. Uh huh, I renated on my
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 5: jog and suit. I was outside peeing in my bushes.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 5: Y'all sitting up in here in my house.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: Couldn't he he was right at home. Couldn't he wait
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: till he got inside making sure?
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 5: He couldn't get sure? That's not how men do we.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 5: We don't have what y'all have. Y'all can cut y'all
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 5: bladder off?
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 2: We can't do.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 9: Yes, Yes, I don't understand how you can't hold it
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 9: all right, Yeah, we can.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 2: Hold it, but it's gonna be a little drizzled.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 1: It's okay, okay, you know.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 5: It's like right foid rain. You know how you get
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 5: a few specs for warning, Get on in the house.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 4: Now.
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: Do you understand the concept of too far? That's too far?
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: That's too far?
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 9: No?
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: No, I don't really why I think. I don't think
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: you do. I really don't.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: I mean you asked me.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 1: We have time for another one.
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: Jesus.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: This is from Sheila and Richmond.
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 9: Sheila says, I had a date with a guy and
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 9: I told him I wasn't looking for anything serious, and
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 9: he asked if I just wanted to be a sex buddy.
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 9: I tried it, and for the first time in my
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 9: sixty one years, it's so refreshing to be able to
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 9: have sex with nose strings attached. I was married for
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 9: eighteen years? So is there something wrong with me because
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 9: I enjoy casual sex?
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 2: I don't? Will you asking Austin? Yeah? She is who
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 2: she asked of. Is too shoe.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 9: For you?
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, so the bottom line question is what is
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: it something wrong with having casual sex?
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: Is it something wrong with her? Specifically? She's sixty one,
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: she was married for Okay.
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 2: See, I don't take your age out of this.
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 5: I don't really know how to answer this based on
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 5: your age, because by sixty one I was through having
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 5: casual sex. But prior to that, though, it has been
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 5: some of the most rewarding moments of my life.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 1: I got sixty one.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I was out of casual sect. I stopped having
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 5: casual sex at forty nine.
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 1: Uh, when you got married.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 2: Right at forty nine? Yeah, but prior to that though.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: Okay, so you're just right now, cash, I'm ready to
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: go too far.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 5: Okay, Well, I was just saying, you know it's just
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 5: cash you well, it just you know, it's on casual.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: You know this is it? Okay.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: I just want you to be aware of what you're doing.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 5: If you're gonna do that there, you're gonna need more
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 5: than one telephone. I'm gonna tell you that question.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 2: What you got.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 5: You got to know which ones to pick up and
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 5: which ones not too cussin. All them casual people had
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 5: a different number.
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: I remember when you had about three or four phones.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 5: Yeah, hell, yeah, yeah, and surely yes, I was living
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 5: my best life. It was the roughest point of my life.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 9: But oh, okay, right here, right, don't say anything else.
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 1: Just keep you right here.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 2: It's hard to juggle that much though.
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 1: Coming we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 9: Skims, owned by Kim Kardashian, of course, has just launched
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 9: its most jaw dropping project product yet. It's the fow
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 9: Hair micro string thong, which feature Yeah, it features fake
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 9: hair on the front of the thong. You can choose
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 9: between curly and straight hair, and they come in twelve
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 9: different shades. The thongs sell for thirty two dollars each
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 9: and are described as Skim's most daring panty yet. The
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 9: Hairy Thongs launched yesterday, and yes, they're probably sold out
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 9: online by now.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: So here's a question for the men on the show.
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: Would you let answer this first? And the animal can
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: y'all just tell us about a two page they had
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: land week, wasn't it?
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah?
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, sweeping the world wide? But that was yeah, this
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: is a thong with that. The other was just play.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 2: You asked that question?
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: You have none?
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 2: All right?
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: As men? Would you like to see a woman wearing
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 1: these skims the faux.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 2: Hair more hanging in the front. No, I don't know
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: if we can ask any question?
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: Yes you can, No, I don't.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 5: I don't really see the purpose of it. It's not
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 5: nothing I'm interested in. The purpose is to get the
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 5: throng off. That's the purpose. Quick time, worth much quickly?
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 2: Well, y'all do one brought up? Y'all gonna quit? Bring
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 2: these drawn and the two pages and stuff, y'all gonna quit.
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 9: We'll have more of the Sea Harvey Morning Show coming
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 9: up at thirty three minutes after.
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: Uh, we'll play around it.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 9: Would you rather right after this you're listening to the
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show.
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 10: Hey, it's Carla Farrell. Kick that old mop and bucket aside?
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• 1:21:11
  Speaker 9: It's time now for a rounded Would you rather? Would
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 9: you rather no sex for a whole year or no cell.
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 1: Phone for a whole year? Which one be?
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 6: Man?
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: The hell with that phone? No cell phone?
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 11: Oh?
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: Cell phone?
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 9: Would you rather be wealthy and lonely or broke and
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 9: just madly in love?
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: Madly lonely?
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: By my n I'm telling you right now, get over
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 2: here by.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: Yourself, all right?
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 2: Would you rather be a y'all gonna be talking about?
• 1:21:50
  Speaker 2: Is what you're gonna eat? I don't know where we
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: going we ain't going nowhere. I won't see how long
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 2: you stay in love?
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 9: Wow? Okay, listen carefully to this one, especially one person
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 9: on the show. Would you rather be sexy and stupid
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 9: or super smart and ugly?
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't do it for you.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 1: Part of part A and put it with part B.
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: You can't rewrite the question.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 2: What's the first one, Shirley sex being stupid? Well, we
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 2: know who think he's that. But what's the other option?
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: Or super smart and ugly?
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: Well he's not super smart.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: Pick your own?
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 2: Which one can he be? Can he be stupid and
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: odd looking?
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Just too super and sexy?
• 1:23:02
  Speaker 13: Or that's what you think you are right now anyway?
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 13: And the other option is super smart and ugly?
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: You want that?
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna go with that, because if I'm super smart,
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 5: I'm gonna figure out how to make some money, and
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 5: then once I make the money, I'm gonna be cute
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 5: to somebody.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 2: So especially I can promise you that.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 5: I can promise you that you could be super smart
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 5: and ugly, and if you make enough money, somebody go
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 5: thank you cute?
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 9: Okay, Okay? Would you rather lose your facial hair for
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 9: two years? Or lose your sex drive.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: Right now, I'm not.
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 2: Filling lose.
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 5: Well now I'm going to use a sex drive because
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 5: you take this hair off my face. I'm not in
• 1:23:58
  Speaker 5: hair sex with nobody anyway. Ain't nobody, Ain't nobody gonna
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 5: look at me or go God, don't. But I can't
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 5: do is be answering the question all day? What happened
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 5: to Steve? Where's his eyelash?
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 1: His ask coming up?
• 1:24:20
  Speaker 2: Mustache? Where's his well? Where's his eyebrows?
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 9: Last brig of the day. And we'll close out the
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 9: show with the one and only just have face me.
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  Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of
• 1:25:17
  Speaker 1: the day. It's been a great day. It's been a
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: fun day. Hump day.
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 2: Yep.
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 9: Yeah again, our condolences go out to DiAngelo's family.
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what a loss. He will be missed in the
• 1:25:33
  Speaker 1: music industry for sure. I don't know anyone who didn't
• 1:25:37
  Speaker 1: love DiAngelo's music.
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 2: So good. Yeah. Oh hey.
• 1:25:45
  Speaker 5: In closing, you know we were talking earlier. Junior proposed
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 5: a question to me about procrastination and the role that
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 5: it plays in a person's life, and I just wanted
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 5: to warn everybody against procrastination. Be very careful out there,
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 5: folks of putting off tomorrow what you can do today,
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 5: Be very careful of that. Be very conscious of the
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 5: gift of now. Be very appreciative of the gift called
• 1:26:18
  Speaker 5: the present, because they call it the present because it
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 5: is a gift to exist in the present. The past
• 1:26:27
  Speaker 5: belongs to history, The future belongs to God, not you.
• 1:26:32
  Speaker 5: So when you put off today, you throw it into tomorrow.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 5: You throw it into something that you have no idea
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 5: of what's going on. See right now, you have a
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 5: conscious idea of what's going on. So when you have
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 5: the opportunity to do something, do it in the moment
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 5: that you have the control over, which is now. When
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 5: you put something off and cast it into tomorrow, do
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 5: you know that tomorrow comes with a whole new set
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 5: of challenges, a whole new set of what IFFs. Do
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 5: you know that tomorrow can completely reshape your day, your thinking,
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 5: your life. Do you know that you could receive some
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 5: tragic news tomorrow? Do you know that it can all
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 5: turn around for you tomorrow? Do you know the stuff
• 1:27:23
  Speaker 5: that can be added on your life tomorrow?
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: What tomorrow don't.
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 5: Need is today's problems. So address them today, get it
• 1:27:36
  Speaker 5: done today. What you do today can affect your tomorrow.
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 5: If you've put another building block on your letter of success,
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 5: if you put another wrong on your letter of success,
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 5: if you put another brick on your wall of your future,
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 5: when tomorrow gets here, it'll be that much stronger, that
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 5: much sturdier.
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 2: But if you keep.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 5: Delaying the building of the wall, the building of the structure,
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 5: the building of your dreams, when do you think those
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 5: dreams are going to come true? Because guess what, tomorrow
• 1:28:10
  Speaker 5: just may get here. And if it gets here, and
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 5: if you've made no preparation for it or done nothing
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 5: to secure it, or or or participate in it. Wow, procrastination.
• 1:28:23
  Speaker 5: The other danger of procrastination is its habit for me.
• 1:28:28
  Speaker 5: I think you all know a person like that too.
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 5: Think about it in your circle of people that you've
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 5: ever known. Don't you know somebody that always puts something off?
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 5: But can't you look at their life and it explains everything,
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 5: don't it. Most people I know that practice procrastination they
• 1:28:50
  Speaker 5: lacking in a lot of areas of their life because
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 5: it's habit for me. Get in the habit of getting
• 1:28:57
  Speaker 5: it done now, habit of proactive, Get in the habit
• 1:29:05
  Speaker 5: of making steps, Get in the habit of understanding that
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 5: inch by inch anythings is cinch. Get in the habit
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 5: of producing something today for your tomorrow. Don't put off
• 1:29:20
  Speaker 5: today into tomorrow, because tomorrow is gonna come with a
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 5: whole other set of circumstances. You may not get this
• 1:29:27
  Speaker 5: opportunity to do what you had a chance to do
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 5: today because of the circumstances of tomorrow. You gotta stop procrastinating, y'all.
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 5: You gotta start building that future. You gotta start building
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 5: that life. You gotta start putting them building blocks together
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 5: for your dreams. Everybody wants to be happy and everybody
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 5: wants to be successful, but you gotta do something towards it.
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 5: You make one step, he'll make two. Faith is the
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 5: belief in things that you cannot see. You ain't got
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 5: to see how it's gonna turn out. You got to
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 5: keep putting one foot in front of the other, and
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 5: then ask God to auder your steps. See if you
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 5: ask God to audio steps, knowing how the outcome, it
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 5: takes that away from you because now you've done the
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 5: simple thing. If you're doing you're doing what God wants
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 5: you to do. You've asked him to audio steps. And
• 1:30:18
  Speaker 5: when has God ever led you wrong? That's the crazy
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 5: part about asking God to auder your steps? When has
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 5: God ever led you down the wrong path? But you
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  Speaker 5: know how many times you have though, You know how
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  Speaker 5: many times we have picked the wrong way to go.
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  Speaker 5: Had we just asked God, God would have told us,
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  Speaker 5: don't do that. But since we don't ask, we just go.
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  Speaker 5: And then we got to undiscovered ourselves because God gave
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  Speaker 5: us the power of choice. Choose not to procrastinate, choose
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  Speaker 5: to get it done today, choose to ask God to
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  Speaker 5: audio steps choose the right way. I was doing a
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  Speaker 5: podcast recently. One of my partners asked me to say, Love,
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  Speaker 5: why you always pick the hard road?
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  Speaker 2: Man?
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  Speaker 5: You always go to hard way? Why you always pick
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  Speaker 5: the hard road? You know what I told my partner?
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  Speaker 5: I said, what makes you think? I see two roads?
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  Speaker 5: That's just the way to go. That's the way to it.
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  Speaker 5: In order to get to it, you gotta go through it.
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  Speaker 5: There is no other way for me. And I asked
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  Speaker 5: God to order my steps, and I get to step in.
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  Speaker 5: Y'all do the same. Have yourself a great day. Stop procrastinating,
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  Speaker 5: y'all do something for your future tomorrow. And lastly, but
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  Speaker 5: not have all. The last thing I want to say,
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  Speaker 5: talk to God. He was absolutely.
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